The Breakfast Club - How Do You Handle Your Child's Bullies?

Episode Date: August 31, 2022

TODAYS TOPIC! Your child gets bullied at school and the staff nor the bullies parents have done a thing... is it time to post up to the bullies themselves?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Had enough of this country? Ever dreamt about starting your own? I planted the flag. This is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy. 55 gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete. Or maybe not. No country willingly gives up their territory. Oh my God.

What is that? Bullets. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. We need help! That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey guys, I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast

Post Run High is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself. It's okay.

Have grace with yourself. You're trying your best. And you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Lauren Smith, Laura Layton, and Daphne Zuniga. On July 8th, 1992, apartment buildings with pools were never quite the same as Melrose Place was introduced to the world. We are going to be reliving every hookup, every scandal, and every single wig removal together. So listen to Still the Place on the iHeartRadio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Hi, I'm Dani Shapiro, host of the hit podcast, Family Secrets. How would you feel if when you met your biological father for the first time, he didn't even say hello? And what if your past itself was the secret, and the time had suddenly come to share that past with your child? These are just a few of the powerful and profound questions we'll be asking on our 11th season of Family Secrets. Listen to season 11 of Family Secrets on the iHeartRadio app, just join us, we're talking about this Louisville, Kentucky father who cursed out an entire elementary school bus because his daughter was reported being bullied. We're asking 805-85-1051, how would you handle it? Here's audio of the dad actually going off in the school bus.

I mean that. I mean that. I ain't going for everybody over. Touch my daughter's dick. I don't fuck the school bus. I mean that. I mean that. I ain't going for everybody over. Touch my door like this, and I'm going to flip the school bus. Now here's the dad apologizing for the things that he did. I'm hurt with myself for how I did that. I am hurt with myself for how I did that. I want to apologize to everybody that was involved in the situation.

So we're asking, 800-585-1051, how would you handle that situation? I've handled the situation not as bad as the father, but I've been there before. Especially when Madison first started school and Logan first started school, I felt like they were getting bullied

and picked on, and I felt like the teachers weren't doing anything or weren't doing enough at the time. So, you know, when I picked her up, I seen a little girl, a little boy that was, I felt like, bullying my daughter, and I told him a thing or two. And I told him, if you touch my daughter, I'm going to beat your ass. How old was the little boy? Huh?

How old was the little boy? They were in, I believe, probably first grade. Yeah. Listen, man, I'm not mad at it. You know, that's our kids. When it comes to our kids, there's nothing not mad at it you know that's our kids when it comes to our kids there's nothing to talk about you know and anyone who doesn't understand that doesn't have kids you know dude said he spoke to the school they did nothing you know from what i've seen the daughter came home she had a lump on her head she said she got jumped that's the final straw i'm trying to

figure out what parent you know is going to be thinking logically in that moment. I'm not above talking sternly to some churn. You know what I mean? And I'm definitely going to threaten to beat somebody's parents up. I actually would like to check the father first, but I love to threaten to beat somebody's daddy up. You know that little boy Ryan that play with them toys on TV?

I tell my seven-year-old all the time I'm going to beat his daddy up. Why are you going to beat his daddy up? Just because they're annoying. I'm tired of seeing them on my damn TV. You know, we regulate the TV time, of course, but when they watch television, that's what they be wanting to watch, YouTube and watch Ryan on YouTube. And I just want to beat his daddy up.

I don't know why. I just be saying that for no reason. Goodness gracious. I don't know. But I definitely would threaten to beat somebody's daddy up. I would rather check the parent, though, especially depending on what kind of community it is, what kind of town it is. Like, you go to the parents. But I definitely would threaten to beat somebody there. I would rather check the parent, though. Especially depending on what kind of community it is, what kind of town it is.

Like, you go to the parents. If the school ain't doing nothing about it, you go to the parents and be like, yo, man, you better tell your kids, keep your hands off my child, or I'm going to whip your ass. You know what I mean? Or better yet, I'm going to send my kid to school with this weapon, this bat or something, and they're going to go upside your child. I'm serious.

But, you know, also, too, that's why I also put my kids in, you know, karate. Self-defense class? Boxing. And, yeah, that's why they train. I'm not mad at that. Their daddy's a tired boy. What? What's wrong with you, man? Let's go to the phone lines.

Hello, who's this? Hey, this is Cherie. Cherie, good morning. What would you do if you were in a similar situation? I definitely think it could have been handled maybe between the parents. And y'all said they didn't even go to the school, so I don't know about the school. But definitely between the parents, maybe wait at the bus stop ordeal. Because I'm going to definitely need to have an interaction with the parents,

but I don't think that was handled. That was not handled good at all. Yeah, I see both sides. I mean, you know, it's the fact that they're elementary school kids, and it doesn't seem like he knew who actually did it. You know what I mean? So he's just yelling at a whole bus, so you traumatize a whole bus, and now you got other parents mad at you

because if my kids come home and say, man, this dude came out here and cursed all of us out, now you got to see all the parents. So that's why you got to measure twice to cut once. I need to know exactly who kid I'm talking to or I need to know exactly what parent I need to check. But I see a lot of these people that's calling,

their kids are the bullies. They just don't know their kids are the bullies. Yeah. They didn't see you argue with your girl at the crib or argue with your hubby at the crib. Yeah. And your kids is the bully. Your kids is the problem.

Yeah. Bully-ass kids. Bully-ass kids. Hello, who's this? Hello? Hi, good morning. How are you guys? Hey, what's your name?

Hey, D, what's your thoughts, D? Listen, you have to leave people's kids alone. Listen, nothing made me more proud than walking around with my head held high last year for being banned off my kids' school property for running up on one of the chicks trying to fight my daughter. You got to leave people's kids alone. My kids are not bullies. I don't tolerate bullying. My kids are not going to start anything. Leave people's kids alone. My kids are not bullies. I don't tolerate bullying. My kids are not going to start anything.

Leave people's kids alone. I have no problem blacking out. How old was the little girl you ran up on? She was 14. It was a group of Spanish children trying to jump my daughter, and my daughter doesn't even bother anybody. Why you got to put Spanish children out? She letting us know what time it was.

I'm just telling you what it was. That's who it was. So what'd you say? You ran down on them and say, Vamanos, stay away from my children. It's Vamanos, man. Listen, I am proud. I will black out at any given time about my children.

Leave people, kids alone. People have to talk to their kids because, you know, it gets serious. There are kids that are committing suicide behind bullying. This is serious. And before I let one of mine go out like that, I'm about to beat some ass. I'm with you. I'm not bad at you. I'm with you. Listen, I don't want the parents. I heard

Charlamagne said that he'll run up on the parents or, listen, I want the children. What's wrong with you? No, you gotta threaten to beat the mom up in a situation like that, too. You gotta threaten to beat the mom up in a situation like that too. You gotta threaten both of them. What's wrong with you? Dee, what is wrong?

Where you from, Dee? I'm from Miami. Oh, Lord. The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. See what I'm talking about? That's right, and we proud of that, too. All right, D. Goodness gracious.

I'm not mad at it. Listen, I'm not... You can't beat up the kids. I ain't say beat up the kids. She said she checked the kids. She said she want the kids. I don't know what that means. I'm not mad at any of it. You know what I mean? Because once again, you're talking about our churn, bro. Hello, who's this?

Just love you from the Bronx Bronx living hard for CT now. What's up, everything? What up, the God? Peace, King. What's up, Lovey? What would you do in that situation, Lovey? Being a single father, I've been putting this predicament. So I have, like, this dude, like, I have empathy for King.

Respectfully, I have empathy for him, but I don't respect what he did. Because as a single father, as my son was on that bus, you got to smoke with me, too. So it's just, it's the way we go about it. It's just because when I was putting that predicament, I did exactly what Charlamagne Tha God said. Like, I'm running down on her parents.

So I ran down on her parents, like, yo, where your mom, where your father? Boom, boom, boom. I come, I pull up in a radio station, I'm like, bro, this love of you, yeah, you know me. We're not doing this. We're not doing this, bro.

I feel you. I don't care. I will lose all of mine. I will put everything because our first job, you got to realize, King's instinct kicked in. Our first job as a man is to protect him. That's right. Protect and provide.

Protect and provide. And to provide, right? So our instincts kick in. And like you said, I might have, you know, I ain't gonna curse no kids out, but I'm gonna tell you,

like, bro, how I have the whole borough at your step. Like, you know what I mean? You can't threaten a five-year-old with the whole Bronx at the stoop. The whole South Bronx. But we gotta be mindful because our kids watch our actions too.

Now, Lovey, I ain't going to lie. I'd probably be more scared if you said you had a whole South Bronx come to my stoop than you saying you're going to flip the bus over. I ain't messing with the South Bronx. I just want you all to hear how the Bronx in Florida would respond to this situation. D wanted the kids. Lovey wanted to bring the whole borough of the Bronx to the person's stoop. Lord, have mercy. Hello, who's this? It's Amon from the world. What you. Want to bring the whole borough of the Bronx to the person's stoop. Lord, have mercy.

Hello, who's this? It's Samar from Newark. What's good? What's good? Top of the morning, fellas. Samar from Newark. Peace, King. Oh, boy.

So, all right. What you doing, Samar? All I'm talking right now, man. You know what I'm saying? I'm at work. No, I'm talking about the kids, man. I'm talking about in that situation. You was in that situation, Samar.

Oh, no. No, it happened to my daughter. You know what I'm saying? I went to the school and stabbed her. Straight up, it is what it nah, nah. It happened to my daughter. You know what I'm saying? I went to the school and stabbed her. Straight up, it is what it is, man. You went to the school and told who what it is? Who, the kids or the faculty?

Yeah, the kids. What'd you tell the kids? You mess with mine, you gotta end for me. You feel me? Straight up. How old was the kid? Six? My daughter, she 14 now, but she was 13 at the time last year.

Okay. All right, thank you. You mess with mine, you mess with my age. You gotta see me. I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm not gonna lie to you. She's 14 now, but she was 13 at the time last year. Okay. All right, thank you.

You're not so mad. You're not so mad. Hey, you got to see me. I'm not mad at any of it. You see this trend, right? You see Miami. You see the South Bronx. You see Newark.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Let's go to one more. Hello, who's this? Hi, this is Allison. Where you calling from? I'm calling from South Carolina. Hey, 803, what's happening? Now, what would you do in this situation, Mama?

In this situation, I would get on that bus. I would come for every child that jumped my child and hope for them to go get their parents to come to me. Goodness. Well, you got to tell the kids. You gotta say, and tell your parents I'm looking for them. Okay? Yes. Tell your punk-ass parents I'm looking for them. Oh, yeah.

Because they raised a bunch of little punk bullies. Whatever happened to the, let's talk it out. Maybe you're going through something in your life. There's maybe some issues at home that we need to discuss. Whatever happened to that? Why y'all going to violence? I didn't say violence. Listen, here's the thing. When your kid gets jumped.

I got a rhyme for mine. Yes, your kid got jumped, bro. Your kid got jumped. After we even the score, then we can talk about it. After we even the score, we can bring it back down to a level of peaceful resolution. Okay? The moral of the story is, man, leave people's churn alone. Okay?

You messing with someone's kids, no telling how they're going to react. But that's why I wouldn't have cursed the kids out on the bus, but I would tell the kids sternly, leave my children alone. And when I see the parents, I'm definitely pressing the parents. And the reason I wouldn't have cursed the kids out on the bus, because now I'm just as bad as, you know, the kids that, yeah, because I don't want nobody messing with my kids, so now I'm going

to traumatize somebody else's kids. But I will let them kids know, don't you put your hands on my churn and tell your punk-ass daddy I'm looking for him. When I catch your daddy, I'm going to beat him up. That's what you do. You make it all the smoke for the parents. So now that kid got to go home and, you know, deliver that message to daddy.

And the daddy come back around and daddy look like Deebo. He a like 6'6", ex-football player. That's right. Or ex-Marine. No, we get him taken out. Taken out. And here's the thing. When you beat up somebody's parent, right, now the parent really mad.

At home with a black eye telling their children, leave them people kids alone. Remember on Friday when Red Daddy said, you're bothering this man about your bike? Leave that man alone. Leave that man alone. He stole your bike. Leave that man alone. That's right.

That's right. That's right. Oh, my goodness. All right. Well, when we come back, we got your rumor report. We got to talk about Vivica Fox. She has some choice words for Nick Cannon. We'll talk about it when we come back.

It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Hey guys, I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs,

the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast, Post Run High, is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Had enough of this country? Ever dreamt about starting your own?

I planted the flag. This is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy. 55 gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete. Or maybe not. No country willingly gives up their territory. Oh my God. What is that? Bullets.

Listen to Escape from Zakistan. We need help! That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself. It's okay. Have grace with yourself. You're trying your best.

And you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. hey everyone this is Courtney Thorne-Smith, Laura Layton, and Daphne Zuniga on July 8th 1992 apartment buildings with pools were never quite the same as Melrose Place was introduced to the world we are going to be reliving every hookup every scandal and every single wig removal together so listen to Still the Place on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

Hi, I'm Dani Shapiro, host of the hit podcast, Family Secrets. How would you feel if when you met your biological father for the first time, he didn't even say hello? And what if your past itself was a secret and the time had suddenly come to share that past with your child. These are just a few of the powerful and profound questions we'll be asking on our 11th season of Family Secrets. Listen to season 11 of Family Secrets on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.