The Breakfast Club - How Long Until You Post Your Bae On Social Media?

Episode Date: July 18, 2023

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Let's talk about it. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlemagne the Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. We have a special guest host this morning, Chris Kalen from South Carolina. Good morning. Now, if you're just joining us, we're asking 800-585-1051, how long until you can post your boo or your bae on social media?

All right, that is the question. And Chris, you said we check your social media. We don't see no pictures of no boo, no bae, nothing. No, you will not. Only thing you're going to see is my man and my dog. Not my man, my daddy and my dog. Your daddy and your dog. Jesus Christ.

All right, so we're asking how long until you can post your bae or your boo? Listen, I am dating for a year. I realize you don't know somebody until you date them for a full year. And then after that. But honestly, like, I'm not posting no man until you propose to me. Then I know it's real. Proposal. Yes.

That could take three years. Well, we'll wait three years until he shows up. Jesus Christ. I actually think you should go with that father and say not even proposal. Maybe you might propose, post when he proposes to you, but the marriage. Even with Issa Rae, she popped up and she still didn't confirm. She was like, me and my

friends showed up, wore a white dress. All my friends had on the same bridesmaid's dress. Like, she never confirmed. She just posted that she was married. We still don't know who her man is. That's real. So, I want to be like Issa. So, let's say you've been dating this guy for two, three years. Y go on vacation it's just you're gonna crop him out yes i don't see the problem with that though because when things don't work out you know what i'm

saying now you feel like you got egg on your face because you done blew this man up and got this man literally and at this point i mean let's be real i feel like if you're a public figure and you're doing things like that like you just don't want to give someone that much clout off of you. And that may sound really bad and really shady, but it's just kind of like where I'm at right now. If I'm dating someone like one, I feel like you should have more going on than me. So that's the first thing. But it's just kind of like, OK, if I post you whatever business you have going on, like I've had a thing of talking to guys and they'll be like, oh, well, my business is this. Could you share it for me? I don't like that so like they're using you yeah like don't use me

for my followers and like the access i have but if you do post that gentleman you could also find out information that you might not know that's true and that's it i mean that man family pop his wife really it's a lot of married men who are real friendly. Jesus Christ. Yeah. All right, well, let's go to the phone lines. We got Mary on the line. Mary, good morning. Good morning, good morning, good morning.

How are you? I'm good, Mary. Now, how long till you post your booyah bae? I don't believe that he should be posted unless he's my husband. Come on, Mary. All right, go, Mary. Listen, go a step further. If I start dating someone who's on my social media, they're coming off.

If you start dating somebody who does what? If they're already on my social media, if they were already friends and we start dating. She's taking them off. They're now off of my social media. Oh, you're going to unfollow them? Yeah. Gotcha. And that's on Mary Had a Little Lamb.

I can't control social media. I can't control nobody else's comments on my posts. I can't control social media I can't control nobody else's comments on my posts I can't control nothing else And sometimes you might post things and stuff And then it be like, oh, that's how you feel? Like, no I don't need to be getting phone calls About what I posted

They thinking I'm making subliminals against them Like, I just can't deal with that A hit dog will holler, boy You know what that mean about you Hello, who's this? those against them. That's right. I just can't deal with that. Okay. A hit dog will holler, boy. Yes, they will. You know what that mean about you. Hello, who's this? Hello, this is Lauren. Hey, Lauren, good morning.

How long until you can post your boo, your bae on social? I'll say six months, but also I say not until you're married. Just in case. Now, you got to make up your mind. That's a gap.

Six months to marry? Yes. Listen, just in case. You got to make up your mind. That's a gap. Six months to marry? Yes. Listen, just in case it don't work out and then you're like, oh, isn't that your man over there with that girl in the bar? You know, just to avoid public embarrassment. Okay. But, yeah, like Cardi B said, don't post them until you got a ring on the finger. Post them, Cardi. Okay. I agree. Hello, who's this? Tashika.

Hey, Tashika. Hey. I'm with her. If I don't have a ring, you ain't going on the gram. That happened. Oh, you quoting Cardi too? I definitely am because it's true. We met until we're married. I'm still single Okay

That's a great way To look at it man What's that? Because I feel like Until a person Makes a commitment to you You shouldn't make A commitment to them

Absolutely not And I just feel like Now with social media It's just kind of like That is a thing It's just kind of like Permanent Granted you can delete it

But it's just kind of like You know when someone Posts it like Oh you did a pop out Or what they call it The reveal The grand reveal of your boo And I'm just like Yeah no but you know you also live life and there's so many things and experiences that you take in right that you want to post on social media whether you're traveling

or you're enjoying something and a lot of times that might be with your boo or your baby and guess what he can take my picture what i post and i'll even do you one better you know that when the instagram when you like reaching the hand i will let his hand be in the picture Because it's just kind of like okay say this man is treating me well taking me out just as a woman like they're gonna click On that man's page and be like, oh he fine. Let me like his pictures Let me go in his DMS and women are just like that So you cannot have what I have if you want to have a punch in the back your head You don't know what these men actually want for you. If I was a woman, I would be leery of any man who constantly want to be up in the pictures.

You close. Why do you want to pop up in all these pictures all the time? Why do you want to just put your head in when I'm posting my selfies? Why do you want me to tag you? Right. This is my thing. Let's say you've never been to Dubai. I take you to Dubai.

I save and I take you to Dubai. We on a beach in Dubai or we at the mall and we skiing or we shopping. You can't even say thank you, daddy, and post a picture of me. I'll thank you in a caption, but no. Hand, feet, that's it, Envy. That's right. And most of these women ain't going to post these old white men that be taking them to places like Dubai anyway. Y'all ashamed of them old sugar daddies.

Them old Caucasian sugar daddies y'all got. 800-585-1051. How long into dating someone before you post them on social media? Let's discuss. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. It's topic time. Call 800-585-1051 to join in to the discussion with The Breakfast Club.

Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining us, Chris Kalen is joining us. She's from South Carolina. She's our guest co-host. And we're asking how long until you can post somebody on social media? So, your boo, your bae.

That is the question. Chris Kalen said she ain't posting y'all until she get a ring. Exactly. Only man you'll see on my page right now if y'all go is my daddy and my dog. Charlamagne, are you posting your daddy and your dog? No. No.

I don't do that now when I'm married. You know what I'm saying? That's true. I don't showcase my family in that way. And things that you love and you want to keep

close to you. That's right. Because people evil, man. That's right. Hello, who's this? Hey, what up? It's your boy Dingo. What's going on, baby?

What's up? What up, Dingo? Dingo, what's up? Hey, how up? It's your boy, Dingo. What's going on, baby? What's up? What up, Dingo? Dingo, what's up? Hey. Hey, how you doing? Wait, I'm sorry. Who's the guest host today? Chris Kalen from Charleston, South Carolina with T-Boo.

Chris Kalen, how you doing? You have a real lovely voice. How you doing? I'm great. How are you? That's that Geechee energy. You got to respect that Geechee, Dingo. That's what I'm talking about.

I like it. Okay, I'm going to have to go down to the South real quick. Okay, go ahead. Follow me on Instagram. Let me see some real quick. Woo! Hey, look. Put that pressure on your dingo.

I'm going to put it on there. No, I ain't scared. Mr. Dingo. D-N-G-O. So, Mr. D-N-G-O. Go ahead and look me up, mama. All right, I'll do that. Now, we're talking about how long until you can post somebody on social media.

Oh, no. That's not happening. Not at all. I actually lost relationships because of this. Because I am a firm believer in not posting. I don't, people be putting all that bad juju out there. They be wanting what you got. I don't like my business out there in the street.

So I would like to keep my stuff under wraps. And then also just in case something happens, I don't really got to worry about the whole taking down pictures and hey, what happened and all the homies. Because nah, I only got to worry about the whole taking down pictures and, hey, what happened? And all the homies, because, nah, I'm good. I like my stuff private. Yeah. So you reach out to Chris Kalen.

She gives you a shot. Y'all start dating three, four months in. You ain't going to post him like, yeah, that's my bae? No. No, not at all, because I want it to actually work. So, you know, once we get, like, married, then I'm comfortable enough to post you. And then when we get the tattoos and all that, that's like 30 years down. That means I know you ain't going nowhere.

Tattoos. Jesus Christ. Hold on. That's a great point we ain't brought up. Chris, if you dating a guy and the guy wants to post you, do you let him? Because if you're not posting him but he wants to post you, do you let him? He can post me. That's fine.

I mean, but I'm not posting you. If you want to post me, that's fine. But I just don't want you to feel a way because I'm not wants to post you do you let him he can post me that's fine i mean but i'm not posting you if you want to post me that's fine but i just don't want you to feel away because i'm not going to post like you got some criminal activity out there you don't want to be a nobody you don't be a liar you're like a spy or something don't post me i have no social security number nothing no he can post me because i mean you But I, like, you're not, I'm not posting you. Can he post you with the hashtag, like, bae, mine, wifey? Ugh. Jesus Christ. Chris got hosed. I'm sorry, mama.

I'm sorry, mama. Jesus Christ. Troy. She listens to my podcast. She shouldn't, though. Troy. What's up? What's up?

What's up, bro? We're talking about posting your girl. You post your girl? Talk to us. So, I'm actually getting ready to post her this week. What's up, what's up? What's up, bro? We're talking about posting your girl. You post your girl? Talk to us. So I'm actually getting ready to post her this week because I'm flying her out to Puerto Rico for her birthday. And we've been talking about this our whole relationship. What, posting your girl?

I'm sorry. Yeah. Now let me ask you a question. You said flying her up from Puerto Rico. I know a lot of people do this. Like, she speaks English and you know her, right? Yeah, I've been knowing her for 14 years. Okay, all right. Wait, she lives in Puerto Rico? No, she speaks English and you know her, right? Yeah, I've been knowing her for 14 years. Okay, all right.

Wait, she lives in Puerto Rico? No, she lives here. Oh, y'all flying out to Puerto Rico. Yeah. Oh, birthday trip. Okay, all right. So you about to post her. She doesn't want you to post her?

Well, she was reluctant about it because it's my reputation in our city. But I didn't pass the sniff test, so she know I'm legit. What, you got a reputation for being musty? But she smelled you and you don't stink? What do you mean? What'm I'm legit What you got a reputation Of being musty But she smells you And you don't stink What you mean What you talking about Are you a

Are you community peeing I have Yeah Nah I see See You trying to lie Talking about Yeah

I was a whore You was a whore How long y'all been together Huh How long y'all been together Since March That man ain't change I'm sorry sir You could be working On yourself though I'm sorry was a whore how long y'all been together huh how long y'all been together since march oh that man ain't change i'm sorry sir you could be working on yourself though i'm sorry i mean i got a divorce

and i was single for over a year and a half so i've healed wait now wait you were you're divorced yeah and you've been single for a year and how how long were you married? For four years. Sir, I think you need to heal some more. Are you healing? Are you healing? Are you healing or are you hoeing? I'm healed. Like, I have a good relationship with my ex-co-parent. I don't care what she got going on.

I don't stalk her Facebook, her Instagram. I hear hoeing. I think he's hoeing. He's in between hoeing and healing. That's what I hear. But I think he's holing. He's in between holing and healing. That's what I hear. But have fun. Sorry, Troy. I love her.

I don't believe you. I think you should let that woman trust her instincts. A woman's instincts are never really wrong. She don't want to be posted. She don't want to be posted.

You should go to Puerto Rico. You know why? She wants to trip and a trip includes being posted, but she's going to tell him to archive that picture later.

Damn it, man. Mona. Archive that. Good morning. Hey, Mona. You know what? She wants to trip, and the trip includes being posted, but she's going to tell them to archive that picture later. Damn it, man. Mona. Archive that. Good morning. Hey, Mona. Now, you posting your booyah bae on social media? I am not.

Not no more. I actually recently just went through this. Hi, this is Cole Festival. Good morning. I'm a big fan. Good morning. I'm so surprised I got this. I feel like we're re-triggering some trauma You hear me?

I am here for you girl Alright so let me tell you guys I dated a guy We were just dating for a year And then after a year We called official He posted me first and that's why I felt Kind of obligated

because I didn't want to not post him. And at this time, he was good. So, all right, I posted him. Now, we had a whole full-blown relationship. I don't want to say full-blown. We were over social media. Anybody who was fun, they happy. All kind of good.

Is this man there cheating on me? I don't know. You're funny. With his baby mother. Damn. He cheated on you with his baby mother? He cheated on me with his baby mother me? I don't know. Your phone is... With his baby mother. Damn. He cheated on you with his baby mother? Cheated on me with his baby mother, and I don't play no games. That's why I don't play any games.

So now it's like embarrassing. I take all them pictures down, all them videos down, and it's a wrap. Well, we'll say this. If you didn't post him, you probably would have never found out. So that's your fault. No, no, that's not true. That's not true. I would have found out anyway, but I really wish I didn't post him.

Because I just feel like, dang, man. I'm not somebody who posts people. So, I really went out on a limb. And, yeah. You should have trusted your gut. You ruined your own relationship. Damn it, man. Well, he still had a baby she didn't know about.

What do you mean? She still wouldn't know? What? And this is why you don't date baby daddies. All right. Well, what's the moral of the story? Don't post that man. until you get a ring i agree with chris and everybody else calling up don't post that man until you get a ring until he makes a real commitment to you don't make a real commitment

to him because both of us go on instagram official is a real commitment that is a real commitment and everyone's gonna know like when you're when you go out or something like that they'll be like yeah i saw your man that was always a thing i saw yeah, I saw your man. That was always a thing. I saw your man. I saw your man. Nobody wants all that. Jesus. All right. Well, when we come back, we got your rumor report. JT, she wilded out on somebody on social media.

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Listen to Escape from Zakistan. That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, guys. I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going.

That's what my podcast, Run High is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself. It's okay. Have grace with yourself.

You're trying your best, and you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, y'all. Nimminy here. I'm the host of a brand new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records.

Executive produced by Questlove, The Story Pirates, and John Glickman, Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop. Flash, slam, another one gone. Bash, bam, another one gone. The crack of the bat and another one gone. The tip of the cap, there's another one gone.

Each episode is about a different, inspiring figure from history. Like this one about Claudette Col colvin a 15 year old girl in alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before rosa parks did the same thing check it and it began with me did you know did you know i wouldn't give up my seat nine months before rosa it was claudette colvin get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise. Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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