The Breakfast Club - If Somebody Unfollows You On Social Media, Will Your Real Life Relationship Be In Question?

Episode Date: August 29, 2023

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it's topic time call 800-585-1051 to join into the discussion with the breakfast club morning everybody it's dj envy charlamagne the guy we are the breakfast club we got our guest co-host don't call me white girl here hello people and we're asking some questions 800-585-1051 this comes from bobby lights now bobby lights is calling out his uh so-called friends let's listen um attention let me tell y'all something if you ever want to unfollow me and i'm following you please tell me you're unfollowing me so that i know so that i can unfollow you back it's no pressure but i'm not going to be sitting around following somebody that don't follow me you back. It's no pressure. But I'm not going to be sitting around following somebody that don't follow me back then

when it's like we're supposed to be cool, is what I'm saying. So that's just a heads up. Y'all people are weird as f***, but please give me a heads up. Please, because I have no problem unfollowing you motherf***ers back. I follow too many people anyways.

All right, so the question is 800-585-1051. If somebody unfollows you on social media does that put your real life friendship in question that is the question let's start with you insanity that is crazy i hate that we're in those days and times you want to follow somebody and you can't get no gravy at thanksgiving everybody acting all funny it's ridiculous i told my own story i wanted to focus a little more on social media. I tried to unflower everybody.

I made it halfway through, and I was getting FaceTimes 3 a.m. Oh, I didn't know we had beef. Just because you don't follow somebody. Just people take that as a sign of, like, the relationship. People take that as a way to figure out how do you feel about a person. Instead of just texting saying, yo, are you good? Is everything okay? It's the strangest thing in the world, but that's the world we live in nowadays charlamagne i could care less

if you unfollowed me right now i wouldn't even notice you know what i mean and the reality is there's a lot of people we follow and they're not even our friends you know what i mean so it don't matter to me either way it's just social media at the end of the day i i personally don't don't care yeah i'm with you i don't care like charlamagne said there's people that i follow that it's not my friends i just find things interesting like i like cars so i mean i follow people that own cars or talk about cars that's things that i'm into i you know so i i really don't care if you unfollow me i'm not following you because you follow me i'm following you because you know something that you put up is of some kind of interest to me yo you know what just

occurred to me yes ma'am the people that know when you unfollow them right away, it's because they have the app that watches that. So they're freaks. Isn't that? Yeah, I didn't even know there was an app. There isn't. Why would you know? How would you know that somebody unfollowed you? I don't have no clue.

Honestly, if I'm telling you I unfollow people at about 3 a.m., I'm not joking about that they were calling me. It's because they have that app. So the fact that you even downloaded it shows that you're a freak. I haven't even, I don't know if I've ever unfollowed a person because there's people that I don't even deal with anymore

that I still follow. Why? I don't know. Maybe, you know what? That's a good question. Let's go. I don't deal with you no more.

I unfollow you. I never thought about it. That's not something I think to do. I'm heavy on the mute button. Do y'all use the mute? I use block. I use block.

I'm heavy on the block. I do block. Okay, I'm more of a muter. If you're constant selfies, ashy face, too many memes, I'll mute you, right? But I cannot stand the, like, over-sexual post. Like, you know those guys that just, every meme is just kinky. Punch your ass. And it's 9 a.m.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know what I mean? Or the cartoon kinky stuff. I mute those kind of people. Yeah. Okay. I don't even follow, you know what? I don't follow people. I'm Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know what I mean? Or the cartoon kinky stuff. I mute those kind of people. Yeah. Okay. I don't follow, you know what? I don't follow people.

I'm not that kind of person. Like, if I don't rock with you no more, that's not the first thing I think of. Oh, I got to go and follow this person. Right, right. No, I don't think of it. But if you pop up on my... I don't want to see you. I don't want to see you.

Yeah, I'm with that. I'm with that envy. I'm with that. Especially when you accidentally go on somebody's story you don't rock with no more. Oh, my God. Oh, I hate that. They think you look it and you're just like, damn, I made a mistake. Again, if you check your story views, I think you're a freak. I think that's strange to me. That's true, too. What are you looking for? If I check no more? Oh, my God. Oh, I hate that. They think you're looking and you're just like, damn, I made a mistake. Again, if you check your story views,

I think you're a freak. I think that's strange to me. What are you looking for? If I check your story? If you check your story views, especially us, you know how many story views we get? You know how hard it is

to find out who's who? That's kinky. Kinky. You ever watch my story and they call you? It's because they're watching. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Veronica.

Yeah. Hey, good morning, mama. Good morning, y'all. Good morning. Now, if somebody unfollows you on social media, does that mean that they're not your friends in real life? Of course. Of course.

Social media is how we connect and support each other these days. Like, you want to accept it or not, it's like a main point of communication. If you don't want to follow me or support me or like what I have going on, there's no way you mess with me in real life. Well, what if this person supports you in real life? Like, what if this person comes to your birthday parties and they text you and they call you just because they don't follow you on social media?

You going dead to real life situation? Yeah, they like you, but maybe they don't want to see you and your kids. Well, if somebody unfollows, if I unfollow somebody, it's because I don't support what they got going. I don't like what they post on my timeline. So we got to wrap that first. Like, why am I so irritating to you where you got to unfollow me?

Well, that's the thing, too, right? If I'm somebody's friend in real life and I see you on social media and I know that's not you, I'm going to unfollow you. I'm going to say something to you. Like, why are you acting like that on social media? That ain't even how you act in real life. You know what I mean? I may not like you on social media, but I might like you in real life. But I will say this. Like I said, when we first started The Breakfast Club, I used to DJ

probably six nights a week, right? So every night I'm posting a party flyer. And people be like, look, no disrespect, Envy. I don't want to see them flyers. Especially I used to do the strip clubs all the time. I don't want to see all the strip clubs. I get it. I understand. I never took things personal. Isabella hey how are you guys good morning everyone good morning so somebody unfollows you on social media does that mean you're not friends in real life um a little bit because social media is not something to be taken

seriously but if we are friends on social media and then you unfollow me, it's obviously for a reason. And if you don't have, if you're able to tell me that reason in person, then obviously we're not friends. Now, Isabel, maybe you got, maybe you post some pictures with your man and your friend just lost a man. She ain't got no man. She's single. She lonely. And every time she sees you, it brings back bad memories. That's her problem.

But that's her problem but that's her problem she should be happy for me you know at the end of the day we're friends so you should be like clapping for me or happy for me that i'm doing good in life y'all take social media way too serious man if you my people's in real life i don't care how we get down on social media there's people that i love genuinely consider family and they do what mona was trying to do don't follow nobody i don't take that personal or they might follow two or three people i don't take it personal i don't either 800-585-105 i'm talking about jess alaris too by the way i just want to throw that out there just for last five people oh i'm gonna follow

her now i'm f that i've been a follow just for that i've been aed just for that. I've been unfollowed just for that. You dig? Why do y'all do that? I meant to ask just why she do that. Well, for Jess, if I'm not mistaken, Jess follows her businesses. So in that way, it's a way to promote because people want to know who you're following. So when you press that following for Jess, you get to see everything she has. Glasses, tours, you know, her podcast, whatever.

Shout out to my girl, Jess. My Aquarius sister. Yo, Jess, why you don't follow me? She follow eight people, but she's been like that for years. My point is, that don't bother me. I'm following you now, Jess. That don't bother me is what I'm saying. All right, 800-585-1051.

We'll take your calls. Let's discuss. This is The Breakfast Club. Good morning. It's topic time. Call 800-585-1051 to join in the discussion with the breakfast club let's talk about it morning everybody it's dj nv charlamagne guy we are the breakfast club now if you're just joining us uh we're talking about bobby lights and we got our guest co-host don't call me white girl

now bobby lights said this on social media yesterday. Attention, let me tell y'all something. If you ever want to unfollow me and I'm following you, please tell me you're unfollowing me so that I know, so that I can unfollow you back. It's no pressure. But I'm not going to be sitting around following somebody that don't follow me back then when it's like we're supposed to be cool, is what I'm saying.

So that's just a heads up. Y'all people are weird as f*****, but please give me a heads up. Please, because I have no problem unfollowing you motherf***ers back. I follow too many people anyways. And we're asking 800-585-1051. If somebody unfollows you on social media, does that put your real-life friendship in question? I don't care. Well, there you have it.

Well, there you have it, right? There you have it. I think it's an age thing. question i don't care well there you have it well there you have it right there you have it i think it's an age thing i think for the young people they grew up on social media a lot of us are introduced to social media in our 20s that's right so it's like with them it's a different kind of pressure for them i mean for the love of god all the young criminals their crime doesn't even count unless they post it so that's right that's fact you know what i mean so they think differently so maybe that is the reason but it was grown people calling me about unfollowing them.

And I'm not going to say any names, Jason. But people call me at 3 in the morning. Like, I didn't know we had beef. You got beef with Jason? No, I love Jason. I unfollowed him. Did you follow him back? I had to.

He FaceTimed at 3 a.m. He had to? Crazy. It was on the wire, baby. That's crazy. That's real. Hello, who's this? Hi, this is Vnie hey bonnie now it

says this happened to you yesterday you unfollow somebody no he unfollowed me he hit already like he literally unfollowed me and it's not funny no it's not you're right they heard her feeling so he smashed and he unfollowed you? No. We've been friends quite some time. You say you what? Quite some time? Yeah, we've been friends for quite some time. Oh, y'all been hunting. But y'all broke up.

But y'all broke up. It's my friend, obviously. But y'all broke up, correct? He said that we are on a break. Oh, God. Oh, he wanted to go sleep with other people. Yeah, him, he was right in the beginning. He had to quit it.

We're right across the street. How long was y'all together Um We've been best friends For what For nine months He probably unfollowed you Cause your phone is trash So he probably got tired

Of even trying to have These conversations with you While the phone Keeps going in and out Yeah If he unfollowed you He probably moved on mama He just didn't tell you

They were best friends For years They've been dating for months Yes Yeah he moved on His new girl No he didn't move on He's just doing that for years. They've been dating for months. Yes. Yeah, he moved on to his new girl. No, he didn't move on. He's just doing that

to make you mad. He's just doing that to see if you still feel something for him. He absolutely did that. That's all. He knew me. That's all.

But he might have a new girl and his new girl said, I don't know what you're talking about. How do you know? He don't got no new girl. He's just doing that to piss you off.

And it probably just happened yesterday. KC. Hey. So, just on the topic of you off. And it probably just happened yesterday. KC! Hey! So, um, just on the topic of the day. Nah, I don't think it means that somebody's not your friend because you don't, because you unfollow them. I mean, I got a homegirl. She posts

nothing but news. She's still my homegirl. I love her the same, but I don't want to see all her lady parts when I log into IG. You know, it's kind of like what Don't Call Me White Girl said. The cool people don't follow anybody. It's like an energy

you see when you log on social media. It's certain things you just don't want to see. You can be naked on Instagram? That's the first thing I thought.

I know Kim K can. Oh my God, that's the only person I know that can do that. Well, Brandon, one of our producers up here said, if she's posting news,

what's her IG page? Man, please, y'all going on with that if she's posting news, what's her IG page? Man, please. Y'all going on with that. Log on Twitter. Y'all got it. I wouldn't know where to look, man. There's a lot of people on Twitter and Instagram. No, but Twitter is the place for all the salacious stuff.

Twitter is porn. There's porn on Twitter? What? Somebody else told you that? Soon as you get on Twitter, you're going to see some kind of sex scene or something. I haven't been on Twitter since like 2019. You're just missing porn. That's it.

That's about it. Well, X. It's now X. I'm on my Twitter and I never see porn. So they say it's usually what you watch. So if you're a porn watcher. What you trying to say? I'm saying if you're a porn watcher.

Not me. But a suggested ad is sometimes an orgy. I don't know, Mona. No. So why is it suggesting in your other porn feed? I couldn't figure it out myself. It's crazy. Now look, you see this?

You see rumors. You see rumors. Is that X? No, that was Britney. Oh, is this Twitter right now? It's Twitter right here. Yeah, it's X. See, look, no porn.

No porn. No porn. No porn. He's skimming past porn. We're just pretending that we're not. I don't got no reason to be on Twitter. Now pull yours up. It's porn, porn, porn, porn. Let's skimming past porn. We're just pretending that we're not. I don't got no reason to be on Twitter. Now pull yours up. Porn, porn, porn, porn.

Twitter is not good for my mental health. I ain't been on Twitter since 2019. Twitter is rough. It's usually what you watch. I go on to Twitter and I try to like talk to my people, but I'm off immediately because Twitter's rough. Twitter's rough. Especially Elon Musk's Twitter because it's a totally different thing.

Elon Musk's Twitter musky. Exactly. He's stupid, man. Look at that. Porn. Porn Twitter musky. Exactly. He's stupid, man. Look at that. Porn. Porn. Nah, shut up. He's lying.

What's the moral of the story, y'all? The moral of the story is, man, if you know that that's your people in real life, you shouldn't care about what happens online.

You know what I'm saying? If I can pick up the phone and call you, text you, if you showing up for me in real life, I could care less, you know, what you do on

social media. Personally. All right. Well, when we come back, we got your rumor report. We got to talk Young Miami. People are hollering at her dad, and she ain't really feeling it. We'll discuss when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club.

Good morning.