The Breakfast Club - Is ‘Liking’ Another Woman’s Pics A Form Of Cheating?

Episode Date: July 12, 2023

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It's topic time call 800-585-1051 to join into the discussion with the breakfast club let's talk about it morning everybody it's dj nv charlamagne the guy we are the breakfast club now if you're just joining us of course we're celebrating the 20th anniversary of while and out so we have a cast member up here uh each and every morning this morning we have emmanuel and philip hudson they're joining us and we're talking about something that kerry hilson posted yesterday now she said a man will brag about not being in the streets but be on social media habitually tossing out and returning subliminal bait so i guess that's likes and leaving comments and doing things to stroke a man's ego. So we're asking 800-585-1051.

When a man or woman goes on somebody's Instagram and they like pictures and leave comments, is that a form of cheating? Is that a form of disrespect to your spouse? I wish Carrie would have just added whoever she was talking about and didn't generalize all men because black men don't cheat. It's the metaverse. It's not real. That's cheat. It's the metaverse. It's not real. That's you. It's the metaverse. She probably just complained about stuff.

Women complain about stuff that they do on the low that men do on the high. So it's like she probably doing it mentally but because he being up front with it and saying it, she probably thinking it when she on Instagram. But she mad that he actually, you know, leaving the comments.

And it depends on the comments. Like, what kind of comments is he leaving? All right, well, that's right. And as I said, she probably generalizing all men based off something that one person did to her. And like E-Man just said, you know, it depends what kind of comments he's leaving it depends what kind of pics he's liking if he's liking sexy pics of a woman that's wrong but what if he's just liking pics of something a woman cooked uh what if he's just liking pics of a woman because you know she left some she did some good commentary like what if i you can't like like a like a video from like amanda seals or angela rye or somebody

let me ask you a question, man. You know. Now, let's say your spouse, right? Whatever your spouse is, sees a picture of me with my shirt off and puts a like and puts a fire emoji and goes sexy. That'll never happen. But how would y'all feel? That'll never happen. I feel like she's just trying to boost you. Like, it's charity. I feel like she just told you something nice.

Ain't no reason to be fire, fire emojis because the enemy got his shirt off. He talking like he's Jonathan Majors or somebody. I ain't no reason to be five five emojis because Envy got his shirt he talking like he's Jonathan Majors or something but now that when you put it that way fellas we gotta ask ourselves fellas

how would you feel fellas exactly if your girl did something like that exactly oh no by the way I agree with Carrie Hilson

I just don't agree with her generalizing all men right well yeah because it's simple anything that's gonna embarrass your significant other anything that's gonna disrespect your significant other anything you can't embarrass your significant other, anything that's going to disrespect your significant other,

anything you can't tell your significant other you did, then, you know, you shouldn't do it. It's really that simple for me. I think it's crazy. But I'm a faithful black man. I'm a man that literally takes it very serious because, you know, I have publicly embarrassed, you know, my wife in the past.

Burn your stick. Burn your stick. No, no, he's speaking facts. I have publicly embarrassed my wife in the past. So, like I take it seriously. No, no. He's speaking facts. I have publicly embarrassed my wife in the past. So like I take it I'm not liking no pictures. I'm very intentional.

No, that's a form of cheating for me. That's right. And I got four daughters. Why you got your mouth open like that? Pause. That's what I'm saying.

I got four daughters. My oldest is 15. So I'm getting judged by a lot of different people if I ever embarrass my wife like that in any way, shape, or form. I don't play about that.

Wait, so y'all don't like no pictures of... No, I don't so y'all don't like no pictures of no i don't no i don't like pictures period i've never so let me get this straight all women are now unattractive to y'all now that y'all are in a relationship i'm not saying that that's crazy what you're saying i know i'm asking but if a woman is in a bikini or a woman is is sexy i'm not gonna like that picture or leave a comment. You're going to like it mentally. You're going to like it mentally. The disrespect is not what women feel. The disrespect is not liking

the picture like, oh, they see it. They just don't want to see it. No, that's not true. That's not true. Because you and your wife, my wife can talk about another man being attractive. I can talk about another woman being attractive. You just can't like the picture of another woman that's attractive. I would never embarrass my wife. How is that embarrassing? I like a picture of a woman in a bikini? That's disrespectful was that embarrassing in a bikini that's disrespectful bro yeah people can see that oh my god if you like a pic in the

middle of the forest and nobody's around to see it is it a like yes it's a like so manuel let's say your girl girl or man i'm not on the suit don't do that don't do that. Let's go to the phone line. Why would you go to no phone line? Jazz. Good morning, Jazz. Good morning, y'all. What's up, Jazz? I love you. I love women.

And you better because I love all y'all. But hey, name me on the man like an old baddie picture. I'm punching you in the face. Because next, if you like in the picture, you in the DM. That's not true. Yes, that's true. What you liking that picture for? Because they look good.

Okay, I look good. So like the picture if you want to. I'm Farrah Foster and Bernie in bed. So you don't be liking all the guys' pictures? And no. Cal! I'm a troll.

I'm like Salamang. I'm a troll. I'm gonna troll your ass. You a troll. Man, that's Cal, bro. That's Cal. Y'all be up here capping. I believe her.

No. I believe her, too. Jamie! Yes, what's up, Salamang? Peace, Jamie. What you think, Jamie? What? Honestly,

I don't think he's cheating because he's not physically touching her. I don't think you old enough to be on social media. You got to be over 17 years old. She's 40. Minutes. 40 with the Michelle Amos. So, Jamie, you don't mind if your man or your woman. You know what, Charlamagne?

I actually was a shot victim at 13 years old. I'm totally blind. Oh, damn. Now how you feeling now, man? She said she was. She was shot. I am totally blind. And now she's legally blind.

So she can't get mad because she don't see her man like enough. But they like it in real life. Also, by the way, her getting shot and her being blind have nothing to do with her voice. I can't even see her. How do you know? You don't know where she was shot She was shot in her voice Why you hung up on her though

That was accident That is so disrespectful 800 Could you call back sweetie Let's have somebody Call back for you So we can I can't believe that man

Have somebody call back for you He's a patron 800-585-1051 We're talking about Kerry Hosen A tweet she put up yesterday Why y'all don't like Why y'all think that is okay

you just liking the picture why don't y'all like the picture if there's a woman in a bikini and i like that picture man that's disrespectful it is 800-585-1051 kerry hosen said a man will brag about not being in the streets anymore but on social media he's eventually tossing out and returning subliminal bait that's you know like i guess doing likes and leaving comments and just having methods of having his ego stroke is that a form of cheating that's what we're asking like i said this conversation comes from kerry hilson it's the breakfast club good morning call me and your opinions to the Breakfast Club top.

Come on. 800-585-1051. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It is the 20th season of Wild N' Out. So each and every morning, we got a different cast member up here and cast members. And today, we have Emmanuel and Phillip Hudson up here.

And even though BET did not promote the Breakfast Club at the BET Awards, we are helping them to promote the programming that they have out. That's what good partners do. Correct. BET. So we're talking. Follow our lead, BET, and be good partners, okay? Jesus.

We're talking about Kerry Hill since she put out something yesterday on Instagram and Twitter. She said, a man will brag about not being in the streets, but be on social media habitually tossing out and returning subliminal bait. But women he finds attractive, I guess, likes and leaving comments. And is that a form of cheating? Now, you said, how do you know? What did you just say behind the scenes? I said, how do you know that's what I'm liking the picture for?

She's in a bikini. So a woman in a bikini, you like the beach in the background. She got the tight dress on and she's like this. That's not a pause? It's the scene. That's not a pause? He just turned around and put his ass in the background. She got the tight dress on and she like this. That's not a pause? It's the singer, though. That's not a pause like this? He just turned around and put his ass in your face. That's not a pause?

Man, see, y'all need to stop because you assuming crap and then he turned around putting the donkey in my face. Like, y'all need to chill out up here, man. I was just giving you a description. No, you don't do that. Let me out of it. She can do it. Nah, but I'm saying how do you know that's what I'm liking the picture for? If there's a woman in a bikini, so you're liking the beach in the background, not the woman in the bikini.

Why can't I like the woman in the bikini and just like her in the bikini? Maybe I'm trying to get that same bikini for my girl. Do you remember that era of Instagram when women would post and then people would post stuff like, yo, I love those curtains you got in the background. Yeah, I love the beach. Yo, you at the beach? That's fire. You know what I mean?

People would comment on everything except for- That's actually being smart. I just think she'd be insecure you know how she just been insecure you know how women just be standing every time a man feels inside the way oh he just being insecure and it's the same thing though they did that to Kiki Palmer baby daddy the other day yeah if he shouldn't have felt the way I don't care if it was usher Raymond or the usher at the church I don't want to see you my beautiful baby mama know, looking like she all into another man. Now that I think about it, I was in the relationship.

And this chick, she kept, my girl, she kept, my ex kept liking. I wasn't mad. Uh-oh. I wasn't mad because when I saw, this is when Instagram had what you can see the activity with whoever you're following is doing. I went mad that she was liking the picture, but it was the type of picture she kept liking. See? Guy with his shirt off. Guy with his shirt off. Working out.

That was just a sign. She was trying to give you a hint to start working out. You spot on. So you just said it wasn't a problem, but now you said it's a problem. It wasn't a problem, but if you're going to continuously do it, it it it's like come on now you're trying to what are you trying to say if you if she like a guy pictures like i don't care about that but it was the type of pictures yeah i know i agree with carrie hilton i just don't like her generalizing all men i don't think you should do anything that's going to embarrass your significant other anything that you wouldn't

do in front of your significant other anything you can't tell your significant other. Anything that you wouldn't do in front of your significant other, anything you can't tell your significant other you did, you should not do. Just like in real life. Just like the person in real life. Bro, women don't like when men do anything. So that's what I'm saying. Like, bro, we can't...

Y'all got wives, so maybe it's different with having a wife and a girlfriend. I think so. That's very true. But I don't... And plus, I'm 45 years old. I have definitely

publicly embarrassed my wife. The way I used to act on this damn radio. Of course. Flirting with all these women that used to come up here. You are forgiven. Sniffing seats and stuff like that. Oh, I know I'm forgiven. But my point is, I do not want to publicly embarrass my wife ever again.

Or set that tone for your daughters. Or set that tone for my daughters. And I got four daughters. But 15-year-old daughters judging me too. Y'all are equating sniffing seats to liking a picture. Depends what kind of picture it is. Once again, what if she like this, bro? Thong out.

Cheeks. Look. Look. Look at me, King. This is my first time on this show, though. You got to understand, this is my first time here. What that mean? Why you doing all that?

Let's go to the phone. Now, we got Jamie on the line. Jamie was the young lady that... Yes. Jamie, I'm sorry, Jamie. I got disconnected by accident. No, they didn't. They hung up on you, Jamie, and I think that was disrespectful.

Now, talk to us. We see you. Shut up. Okay. All right. What happened was I was actually a white female in the hood, and I got shot by a Ku Klux Klan member when I was 13. I was 14 years old, and I am totally blind from the shot.

What does that have to do with you liking pictures? Shut up, man. I can't even see you, baby. What? She can't even see the likes. That's what she just said. So you don't care, right? No, I can't. Your opinion really don't count. You don't count.

Everybody talking this morning. Jamie, hold on. You said you was white and you got shot by a Ku Klux Klan member? Yes. Yes. You were black. Yes. You can't see

that you were black. I'm white and actually, I could see when I got shot, it took both of my eyes. I am with a black man today. It did not stop me.

It just made my love for black men stronger. How do you know he's black? Penis size. My old man's got dreads all the way down his waist, darling. What? Ask her.

Jamie, I respect you. I'm going to buy you lunch, Jamie. Give me your cash app, Jamie. I don't know what this is. My cash app is the 49ers group. The 49ers group? Yep. The 49ers group?

Yep, the 49ers group. 49ers group. Go ahead, E-Man. What is you trying to say, E-Man? Envy said you could... Envy? Hmm? Pause, man.

What? How do you spell 49ers? Nah, it's... You good, Jamie. It's 49ers. 49ers, like the football team. T-H-E-4-9-E-R-S? Yep, T-H-E-4-9-E-R-S.

Group. Now, let me ask you a question, Jamie. This is going to sound a little crazy, but I'm just curious. I don't see it. You can read books through Braille and all that, right? Yes, sir. I can. We're going to send you.

We're going to send you. I'm going to send you my book. Charlamagne is going to send you his. My book's ain't in Braille? What are you talking about? He also got burning sticks. I got something called an OrCam that'll read it to me. Yeah, it got to read it to him.

Absolutely. Hold on. Your man named Thomas Ross? Yes, it is. He's really black with dreads. He look blind, too. Yes, you got to read it to him. Absolutely. Hold on, is your man named Thomas Ross? Yes, it is. He's really black with dreads. He look blind, too. Yes, he is. He's blind, too?

Yes, he is. Yes, he is. Oh, my God. I'm not messing with y'all. Put Jamie on hold, Jamie. This is a reality show. Hollywood needs some unscripted content. I see what you're saying, Jamie.

Hold on, Jamie. BET, y'all want a new show? Yeah. Love is blind. Love is blind. That's who... Y'all want a new show? Let's go to one more caller. Dre, we got Dre on the line. Dre, y'all want a new show? Yeah. Love is blind. Love is blind. That's who. Y'all want a new show? Let's go to one more caller.

Dre, we got Dre on the line. Dre, good morning. Hey, good morning, y'all. Dre, do you think it's cheating, Dre? I think it's a form of cheating to a certain extent. Mm-hmm. If your lady under somebody's comments, her eyes, I mean, that's doing a little bit too much. That's right.

We all going to be, the guys going to be honest over here. That's doing a little bit too much. That's right. We all going to be, the guys going to be honest over here. That's doing a little bit too much. That's right. Okay. Brooklyn, good morning, Brooklyn. Good morning. Hey, what's your thoughts, Brooklyn? Okay, for one, I don't think it's that big of a deal because women do the same thing.

Honestly, if you ask me. Exactly, man. I just feel like, okay, women be on there and like and comment and post it. Oh, he's so fine, bro. I put you in a homegirl. But if they can't stay made doing it, it's an issue. I don't see how that's an issue. Now, to a certain extent, I can say that.

Don't be on there, gaga, Googling over somebody's picture. Oh, I want you, I want you, I want you. Or doing extra stuff that you would say to your girl, slash, whatever she is. Like, if you're liking pictures, okay, like the pictures. Keep on moving. Don't be extra weird about it. That's all I'm saying. By the way, I don't know if it's cheating.

I just know that it's disrespectful. It's just a form of disrespect. I mean, it depends on what you're doing for it to be disrespectful. Exactly. If you're just liking a picture, men like celebrity pictures, so is there a difference to that

come on now i don't i don't i don't it depends what kind of picture it is like there is certain women that i see on social media and i'm like damn but honestly me and my wife usually be like damn together so can y'all like the picture together it depends what it is like if me and my husband is out in public and I see somebody walk past, I'm like, oh, she's pretty. And I look at my husband, he's like,

yeah, okay, he won't imply too much because he know I'll clap the hell out of his ass. But if her ass is something this big and I'm like, okay, well, damn.

And he might say something, but I don't expect to walk up, hey, my girl said that you want to do, oh, no, because now we got a problem. You about to get

WWE Smackdown. Me and my wife do stuff like that all the time. Me and my wife compliment beautiful women online all the time. You know what I'm saying? Like, women might have on a fire outfit, like, oh, this is fire. Me and my wife do stuff like that all the time. Me and my wife compliment beautiful women online all the time. You know what I'm saying? Like women might have

on a fire outfit like, oh, this is fire. You and your wife complimented me before. Yeah, absolutely. All the time. Can you be a fire bikini? I mean, we do.

But I'm not liking the picture. I'm not going to just like the picture. I just feel like that's just a form of disrespect. I don't think you should do anything that might embarrass your significant other.

Would you be upset if your wife liked a picture of a guy with his shirt off? Is that embarrassing? Yes, and you were when your ex-girlfriend did be upset if your wife liked a picture of a guy with his shirt off? Is that embarrassing? Yes, and you were when your ex-girlfriend did it. I didn't feel no kind of way. She just kept doing it. So you did feel a way.

No. You said when he was working out and he was doing the pull-ups and his back was all muscular and sexy, flexy, and she was liking that, you didn't like that. I didn't say nothing. No, I just didn't like the continuation. But what's the moral of the story

I think it's more about forgiveness than it is about cheating you feel what I'm saying because if you do see that it's more so about you know what I ain't even sweating that

because you know what we got we good unless you keep doing it then you can sweat that because forever is a long time man you ain't supposed

to be sweating this little stuff for real man it's little stuff it's minuscule I agree with that to a certain extent but just don't do anything

that's going to publicly embarrass your significant other don't do anything that's going to disrespect your significant other don't do anything that you can't tell your significant other

you did I'm with you that's it bro but all that stuff if you got girls in your DM's and you can't tell your girl you DM'ing this girl you don't need to be

DM'ing that girl don't side eye me you got a confession you want to say something just don't buy me a confession? I ain't got no confession. You want to say something? I ain't got no confession, man. I ain't got no confession. I just said that stuff is subjective, bro.

Subjective, man. That stuff is subjective, bro. When we come back... Phillip said he just wanted to be forgiven. He just wanted to be forgiven. He know he's going to have to have this conversation.

They don't bring me no STD. Jesus Christ. When we come back, we got to talk a rumor report. Akon, it seems like he's doing better when it comes to French Montana. We know he gave French seems like he's doing better when it comes to French Montana. We know he gave French Montana.

Is he doing better when it comes to his toupees? That's what we want. We'll talk about it when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Had enough of this country? Ever dreamt about starting your own? I planted the flag.

This is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy. 55 gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete. Or maybe not. No country willingly gives up their territory. Oh my God. What is that?

Bullets. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan. On the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey guys, I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey guys, I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show,

where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast, Post Run High, is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Muhammad Ali, George Foreman, 1974.

George Foreman was champion of the world. Ali was smart and he was handsome. The story behind The Rumble in the Jungle is like a Hollywood movie. But that is only half the story. There's also James Brown, Bill Withers, B.B. King, Miriam Akiba. All the biggest black artists on the planet. Together in Africa. It was a big deal.

Listen to Rumble, Ali, Foreman, and the Soul of 74 on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hello, my undeadly darlings. It's Teresa, your resident ghost host. And do I have a treat for you. Haunting is crawling out from the shadows, and it's going to be devilishly good. We've got chills, thrills and stories that will make you wish the lights stayed on. So join me, won't you? Let's dive into the eerie unknown together. Sleep tight, if you can.

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