The Breakfast Club - Marques Houston Explains Why He Didn’t Like Dating Women His Own Age

Episode Date: April 19, 2023

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Morning everybody, it's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining us, we're talking about Marcus Houston. Now, you know, Marcus Houston was in the news recently because it came out that he married a 19-year-old woman, and he was talking about why he wanted to marry a younger woman opposed to women his age, and this is what he said. You know, a lot of women my age are very independent. They are very like, you know, I don't need a man to do this with me because I could do this for myself. And I also, I come from a generation that I'm very, very, you know, love to provide for my wife. I love to provide for my woman. And, and I'm very in that generation, like the old days,

you know, um, I would never want to be with a woman that felt like, oh, I don't need you. You know what I'm saying? Like that. So, that felt like, oh, I don't need you. You know what I'm saying? Like that. So, you know, there's a lot of women my age. I've dated women my age and, you know, they may have baggage. They may have kids. They may have not. You know, it's just there's there's so many different women that I've dated throughout my life. And this just so happened to be the one that caught my heart. I could be wrong, but I didn't hear Marcus Houston say, I don't date older women, you know, because they come with baggage. That's why I'm dating a younger woman because they don't have any baggage. I didn't, I didn't get that from what he said just now. The

internet might feel like he said that, but I didn't hear him say that. Yeah. He said women that are my age, like a lot of women, my age, very independent. He says they, they are like, I don't need a man to do this for me because I can do it for myself. He said sometimes dating older women, they come with baggage, they have kids. And yeah, he did say that. But he didn't say that's why he didn't say I'm dating an older, I'm dating

a younger woman because they don't have no baggage. No, he didn't say that. I didn't get that from that what he said. But everybody has baggage at a certain age. I think so. You know what I mean? Like if you, you-plus years old, you're going to have traumas that you might come into a situation with. That's why we always tell people to go do the work. That's why we encourage people to go to therapy, you know what I mean,

so they can deal with their traumas before their traumas deal with them. And if they don't deal with their traumas, they'll bring those traumas into a relationship, and then those traumas will be projected onto the person that they're in a relationship with. You know what I mean? And how many older men we know over 40 that got kids as well? So what does he mean when he says baggage?

If you're of a certain age, you're going to have some baggage. Baggage. I'm putting baggage in parentheses, by the way. Well, I do feel like a lot of older men date younger women for one reason, because they feel like a younger woman possibly can be controlled easier or more because they haven't lived their life. They don't really know as much as an older woman. They haven't lived, as people would say. I also feel like a lot of men would date young women because they feel like younger women, their body hasn't met gravity yet.

Right. Boy. What? A lot of men feel that way. I thought Marcus Houston chose violence. What? Wow. I thought Marcus Houston chose violence. What? Wow. I thought Marcus Houston chose violence.

That's not me. Rashawn Casey, DJ Envy just chose violence. Tell me, Envy, explain more. What do you mean their bodies haven't met gravity yet? What are you saying? I mean, our bodies all meet gravity. Your balls don't sit the same way. Yes, they do, actually.

Okay, well, let's go to that. No, no, no. I want you to know, you have to explain this. You shouldn't just get out of this one what did you mean by that statement when people are older their ass starts to drop sometimes their breasts start to drop it's gravity you're lying let me tell you something these 40 year old women these 50 something year old women are killing these young girls nowadays every woman that i think is beautiful is way over the age of 40 i don't care if they in entertainment are just walking around in everyday life.

These 40-year-old women know how to take care of themselves way better than a lot of these young girls do. But that's the reason why a lot of older men choose young women. I'm married, bro. So don't even look at me. I'm married. My wife is- You're not making no sense.

I'm saying that the older women are killing these young girls in the look department, and you're saying that's why older men choose younger women? No, I'm saying a lot of times the reason why older men choose younger women... It's okay to moonwalk. You just keep fighting. You are just trying to prove this stupid ass point. You just told all these women that when they get old,

everything drops. That's what you just said. Mike, good morning. You said these older women is out here saggy, flabby, and sick. That's what you just said. Mike, good morning. You said these older women are out here saggy, flabby, and sick. That's what you just said. You just chose big violence. Why? Hello? Mike.

Yeah, what's up? Mike, you're 50 years old and you're dating younger women. Why, Mike? Why? I mean, like my man said, these older women, they come with a lot of baggage and a lot of weight. Mike, you ain't got no baggage, Mike. Mike, you ain't got no baggage. Can? Mike, you ain't got no baggage?

Can you let Mike finish talking? Because this is just a silly conversation. Mike, you 50 years old. You a black man in America. You ain't got no baggage? You ain't got no trauma? Nah, not really. You're a liar.

You been to therapy? Nah. Okay, yeah. Nothing's ever happened to you in your life. I'm just saying. I'm just saying. You got kids? I mean, a man likes to feel special.

Yo, Mike, do you have kids? Mike, do you have kids? Yes, four. Okay, so you got mad baggage, according to Marcus Houston. Because if you was a 50-year-old woman with four kids, you'd be having mad baggage, Mike. Come on, let's stop being hypocrites. My kids are over 30. All my kids are grown. They should be.

You 50. My kids are grown, so they're not really baggage. Mike is saying what mark is used to saying and not that i agree but i'm saying that a young a lot of older men choose younger women because one they feel like they can mold them and make them do what they want and two a lot of people feel that younger women uh their bodies are not reaching Man, you don't stop saying that. I'm not. It's not me. What is wrong with you? It's not me. That is definitely you. I'm telling you what people say.

Who is people? You got to stop this, bro. This is crazy. This is crazy talk you're talking this morning. This guy is crazy. This guy is out here telling all the older women, y'all flabby and sick. Did I say that? Older women looking like Larry Holmes, flabby and sick.

That's what you're saying. I did not say that. But listen, this is also a good point, too, Marcus May. They don't need a man. That's how they talk. Men need to feel needed and wanted. They don't need to be with a woman. I don't need no man to do this.

I don't need no man for this. I mean, what do they need you for? Y'all act like older women don't do that. By the way, Envy knows. I love older women.'t do that. By the way, Envy knows. I'm a, you know, I love older women. You like them over 50. I do. I love older women.

60, 60. So? That's what you like. I like them seasoned. Okay. That's what I like. All right. But me and my wife have a great relationship,

and we protect and provide for each other. Like, we need each other. Like, what is this thing that y'all have where y'all need a woman to, like, want y'all? When y'all say, I need to mold a woman, like, what does that mean? I don't know. I'm just telling you what they say. I don't know.

I don't agree. I need to feel wanted. I don't need, I need a woman to want me and need me. What is that? What is that? Kevin, good morning. What are these insecurities y'all haven't dealt with? Kevin.

Good morning, good morning. We're talking Marcus Houston. What's your thoughts? I think he's crazy, but I think her parents are crazy. Talk to me, brother. I want a woman to want me too, but I want an independent woman at the same time. Huh? I want an independent

woman at the same time. Yo, I get what you're saying. You're saying you want a woman that still needs you, but can also do her own thing. Yeah, I mean, like he said, and I don't know how long they've been talking, how long they've been speaking, but for myself, the fact that they married at 19 or whatever it was,

means they had to know each other, right? And I don't think I would allow, and I'm going to say allow, but allow my 18-year-old daughter to be around somebody that old. That's just me. Listen, first of all, I got four daughters. You got four daughters. Imagine a man, a grown-ass man like that saying, I can mold her.

What does that even mean? You didn't do your job as a father. I didn't do my job as a father. If it's an old man out here talking about it, I'm going to mold her. Alright, well, 800-585-1051. Let's have this discussion some more. We're taking your calls when we come back. You still want to choose more violence?

I don't know who caused more violence this morning, you or Marcus Houston. What are you talking about? Envy say everything drops after 40. This guy is crazy. Let's talk about it at the Breakfast Club. Good morning.