The Breakfast Club - REWIND: 2021

Episode Date: October 1, 2022

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Listen to Chess Peace, the Elian Gonzalez story, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you just joined us, we're talking the word bitch, the B word. Who you calling a bitch? All right, now, this conversation comes from our conversation we had with academics yesterday where people were upset and believe he referred to Lil Wayne's daughter, Regine Carter, Lil Wayne and Toya's daughter, and people were upset and believe he referred to Lil Wayne's daughter, Regine Carter,

Lil Wayne and Toya's daughter, and people were upset about it. So we're asking, let's talk about the word bitch. Yeah, I think this is bigger than academics. That's where the conversation started. Yeah, this is a, that word has been a cultural staple for a long time. All right, so we're asking, let's start with you.

What's your thought? Well, I think for women, we talk to each other like that in a positive way. Like, sis, we be like, bitch, like, you know. And so I feel like that's not going anywhere. You know, the problem is that a lot of times, like, say Missy Elliott, she's a bitch or Trina's the baddest bitch. But like the reason why I remember when Missy Elliott was talking about that song, she was saying that's because a lot of times men try to use that word for women who are being authoritative and in a position of power. And sometimes you have to, quote, be a bitch, even though you're just doing the same thing that men do.

And so I feel like it's used as a put down in some ways. So I think it's just a matter of context. Like a lot of times women will say that they're taking their power back by using a word that has been commonly used to try to talk about all women and you know it has been used that way so I think for women using it for each other and Donnell him and I had a conversation about him using that word too much so we've both agreed that he can only use it if he's saying the baddest bitch and here's the thing we all know better in regards to that word we know damn well we shouldn't be using that word in any context but we do and it's actually a staple in hip-hop vernacular has been for years and every elder we've ever had from c dolores tuck hood or malcolm x the minister francon every elder has told us not

to use the word period in regards to women but we haven't listened so here we are and it's hilarious to me to watch people twist themselves into pretzels trying to justify who can use the word and who can't and getting mad at people for using the word as if they haven't been using it in reference to women for years. Personally, it's not my thing. You know, not saying bitch in reference to women is way easier for me than, you know, not saying nigga in reference to niggas. Let's go to the phone lines. What about your opinion? Beige bitch?

See, there you go. I think once you get to a point where, especially when you have daughters and you start to evolve, I don't use that word anymore. I know when we did lip service in Oakland, they kept using it during lip service live. And we were like, yo, stop. And they're like, we just use that word all the time. Oakland uses it a lot.

I mean, too short that it's all. What's my favorite word? Bitch. That don't make it right, though. No, it doesn't make it right. I mean, see? I don't. I don't have to. I though. No, it doesn't make it right. I mean, see? I don't. I don't have to.

I just, like you said, I got four daughters. So, you know what I mean? I just don't. But let's go to the phone lines. Michelle, good morning. Hello. Hey, good morning. What's your thought on the word bitch?

And especially men using it. Everybody use the word bitch. So, I don't get, I don't know what to do. So, you're not offended by when people use the word bitch? They use it so much, they took the power out of it. Where you from? The Bronx. Hold on.

So you said they use it so much they took the power out of it. So what people mad about then? That's what she's saying. She said everybody uses it. Everybody uses it. It doesn't bother her. So for her, she's used it. I don't believe that.

You say that and tell somebody. If my friends are calling me a bitch, if my friends are calling me a bitch, why are we offended by anybody else calling us a bitch so you mean to tell me if a random stranger walk up to you and say you musty ass bitch you ain't gonna be mad because you said you broke ass bitch i'm probably gonna laugh really maybe she musty so it don't offend her i don't believe you i just don't believe you but if you say so okay she's unbothered so you mean to tell me not even musty going to bother you?

You're not even going to smell into your arms or nothing? Not even musty because I know I'm not a musty ass bitch. Most musty ass bitches can't smell themselves. Hello, who's this? Male or female, okay? Hello? Hello? Hey, good morning.

What's your thought on the word, bitch? You know, my 14-year-old listens to a lot of rap music, and I just started listening to your sticks a couple of weeks ago to be able to embrace it. And I don't know how I feel about it when it comes to me compared to my son compared to a man saying it. So I'm actually, I don't really know. A man saying it, I understand it's generalizing.

A woman saying it, that should really mean bitch. And then can my son say it? So I really, I'm very perplexed about it. It is a conundrum, but I know if your son called you to B-word, I don't know if you'd have a son. I think you'd be planning a funeral or something. If you're able to use it in conversation and if it's okay to use it in conversation,

I don't understand how that's possible. I just don't. I don't, I'm 51 years old so I grew up in the 80s and there's words back then we used that we can't use now.

That is facts. But now there's words coming in, now there's words coming up that I couldn't use before that it's okay to use now. I'm a little confused. So the question, I mean, are you Caucasian?

Because you said you're still listening to rap music and you don't really listen. So what are you, man? What do you mean, what am I? He's asking what's your race is what he's asking. Are you black? Are you white? Asian? I'm white. You're white? I'm white.

So you listen to pop music? I live in a very white town. Everything is white. Okay. So in your style of music, they don't say bitch in country songs? They don't say bitch or nothing like that? listen to pop music. It's a very white town. Everything is white. Okay. So, yeah. So, in your style of music, they don't say bitch in country songs? They don't say bitch

or nothing like that? You know, I don't listen to country. I listen to rock. So, for me, it's everything from the 70s and they didn't use words like that,

at least the songs that I use. I got you. But the word bitch and hoe and the N-word and, you know, like it's really, when you listen to that music

and I don't mind him listening to it. That's why I'm trying to embrace it. What N-word. And, you know, like it's really when you listen to that music. And I don't mind him listening to it. That's why I'm trying to embrace it. What N-word are you talking about? Oh, the N-word that's in like every rap song. What, naughty? Neighbor? I can't say it. I'm not allowed to say it.

He knows that. He knows that. But I don't know about the B-word. I know the rule about the N-word, but I don't know the rule about the N word, but I don't know the rule about the B word. I don't know the rule about none of them. I'm not going to lie to you. That's what we're trying to figure out. That's what we're trying to figure out.

Well, you have a good morning. Thank you. Have a great day. All right. This is sad. 800-585-1051. We're talking about the B word, bitch. When can we use it?

When can we not use it? What's your thoughts on it? All right. Let's talk about it. 800-585-1051. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The free iHeartRadio app has over 250,000 podcasts to explore. Yes. This is The Breakfast Club 30, part of Sunday Night Podcast on iHeartRadio.

Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining us, we're talking about the B word. This conversation sparked from Academic Stopping Through yesterday. People were upset with him because he used the B-word when he was kind of not really referring to Regine Carter. And people were hot about it. Yeah, they were saying he shouldn't talk to Lil Wayne's daughter like that, which actually, you know. Shouldn't talk to anybody.

That's still reinforcing patriarchy because, you know, you're not saying, you know, don't call her to be worried because you shouldn't call women to be worried. You're saying don't call her to be worried because that's little Wayne's daughter. So you're still respecting the man more in that situation than you are the woman. So we're asking 800-585-1051, the word, bitch. Is it okay to use? When is it okay to use? Let's go to the phone lines. Hello, who's this?

Yes, good morning. This is Ken from Tampa Bay. Hey, Ken from Tampa Bay. Good morning. How you feeling out there? Is the weather okay there? It's holding now. It's going to get a little worse later on, but I'm just grateful.

Just grateful. I'm especially honored to be on the show. You got your toilet paper and water and all that stuff? And food, canned food and goods? I'm all prepared here in a safe location. Okay, perfect. So what's your opinion on the B word? Yeah, so basically, in short,

I believe that the only exception for using the B word is when you are threatened or you're in a bad position, like domestic violence or something like that. What do you mean threatened? Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. What do you mean if you're being threatened? Yeah, please explain. Like, if your life is threatened.

It's like a defense mechanism. Like, don't kill me, bitch! Oh, bitch, get away from me! So, that would probably be the only exception. Otherwise, it's really insulting. I would never call a woman that. That's just ridiculous. Okay.

I agree. So, what term would you use? So, can you explain, like, when you say threatened? Like, how would you use it in a sentence? Go. Well, let's say someone comes after you with a weapon or something like that. Then you could probably say, B,

please do not approach me, otherwise... Nope. Nope. Now you're really gonna get it because you called me a bitch. Now you're really gonna get it. Now you're really really gonna get it You should have washed your mouth He said bitch please don't approach me with this name That ain't gonna work You can't be polite and slanderous at the same time

Bitch please don't shoot me Don't shoot me bitch please What What's up man What are we doing That would be That would be my only Exception for that rule

Otherwise it's the wrong Work to use Yes sir I understand Thank you kid Goodness gracious man Let me just go to one more line Hello who's this

Hello Hey it's um Whitney LaDawn I actually was calling earlier To speak about the academics Bitch word I'm the girl that they Accused of pulling the

Dunn out on him On the podcast Oh that's right. I remember that. You said you were reaching in your bag so he felt threatened, but you said you didn't have a gun. Well, you know, he's a bitch.

He's a bitch. So when a bitch is speaking on females or he's speaking on calling girls out their name, like, you can't really expect much more from a bitch. That's just what he is. That's his character. So I feel like all the people that, you know, hold him accountable for that is, like, doing the right thing because we got to start calling these a**holes.

They are a b******. What about other men calling you the B-word, man? Well, it's all about the press. Like, it's all about the setup. Like, how you're doing it, I guess. The intention. Yeah, the intent. Basically, if you're like, you broke b****, you had a, you know yeah the intent basically if you're like

you broke bitch you had a you know whatever it is you got ill intent then obviously I'm gonna get offended but if you coming at me like bitch you fly

bitch you silly bitch you funny as hell bitch you stupid things like that it's the context what about this bitch you got a gun in your pocketbook

huh yeah ma bitch don't kill me bitch don't shoot me I heard that earlier. Bitch, don't kill me. Bitch, don't kill me. Bitch, don't shoot me. I heard that earlier. He said, bitch, don't shoot me. I was going to shoot you with that knife. Well, thank you for calling, ma'am.

That was so silly. Y'all got to invite me up here. Y'all seem like so much fun. No, you got guns. How are we going to bring you up here to pull guns out on us? You didn't have a gun, right? She said she did. No, I didn't pull no gun out over no verbal argument. It's not that serious. You didn't have a gun, right? She said she did. No, I didn't pull my gun out over

no verbal argument. But did you have a gun in your pocketbook? No. See, you can't even lie. See? You can't even lie. You should say no. That's why we're not inviting you. No, I don't have no gun. See? She don't have a gun. Where you from, ma'am? No.

You from Florida, right? I'm from Cleveland. Oh, Cleveland. But I live in Florida. I have a juice bar. Y'all let me know Cleveland, but I live in Florida. Oh, Lord. I have a juice bar. Y'all let me know when y'all come in town. Let me host y'all events. Let me do some catering for y'all. I got all natural juices.

What about security? I got all natural juices. You're talking about security. Are you doing security anytime? What? You need security? Man, I love black people so much, man. Have a good morning, man.

She went from pulling a gun on a bitch to saying I got all natural juices. And I hope y'all are, man. We are the most well-rounded people on this planet. You hear me? Can't nobody do it black people do. And as the guy called earlier, next time I come to the floor, bitch don't shoot me. Oh, my God, man. Oh, Lord. What's the moral of the story? I don't shoot me. Oh my God, man. Oh Lord.

What's the moral of the story? I don't know. I forgot what we were talking about. Ah, man. I guess, you know, for me, it's just like this is why you can't attempt to stand on a moral high ground in regards to the B word

because clearly in hip hop, that moral high ground is shaky. Not even just in hip hop. In American culture, that moral high ground is shaky and folks do not keep the same energy on who should use it and who shouldn't. It's based on a person by person basis and that's not right if something's wrong it should be wrong all across the board all right well thank you my bitch it don't that didn't even

hit right no i didn't right i ain't even hit right i can't throw it to you when i say when i say bend over beige bitch so i took that thing up mommy make it roll so if you call me beige bitch, what can I call you? High class black bitch. Okay. All right. How do you like that? Yeah, we got rumors all the way. Oh, just thick bitch. Thick bitch.

You like that? You like that? You like that? You like that? You like that? Thick bitch is better. Thick bitch is better. Thick bitch is better.

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Yes, Donkey. The day for Tuesday, September 27th, goes to a man whose name has not been released yet because he has not been charged with anything. But, oh, it's just a matter of time. Now, I'm a cancer. 629, we out here dropping the clues bombs for all the cancers out there.

What's happening? One thing about us cancers, we hold grudges. Okay, it is an astrological fact that Cancers who are ruled by the moon have a common problem of holding a grudge against someone for a long time. I called it a common problem for a reason because it is. Okay, we cannot easily forget things. Cancers are by far one of the most emotional zodiac signs, so it is very common for us Cancers to get caught up in how we are feeling,

okay, rather than trying to be logical about it so when we hold a grudge against someone we can do it for years that's why therapy is so important okay so we can learn to let that hurt go because if we don't we will end up like this man whose name has not been released but apparently he's been holding a grudge for 48 years now i don't know his astrological sign but i would bet some money that it's cancer. And I don't even gamble, okay? See, there's a woman named Linda Torello. She died of cancer in 2017.

She was 66 years old. God bless the dead. Rest in peace to her. And she is buried just over the state line in Orange Sound, New York. And in the 1970s, she was briefly married to this man. Now, I don't know what the hell happened in this brief marriage but this man is clearly holding a grudge against this woman. Matter of fact holding a grudge is an understatement. We will discuss after we go to News 12 for the report

please. And we begin tonight with the charge a man is now facing for continuously urinating on a grave in Japan. Let's get right to News 12's Darius Radzias with the details on why. And Darius, what have you been learning tonight? The family says that they shared the video with police that showed a man urinating on the grave here at the Tappan Reform Church Cemetery. The family says they believe it's the ex-husband of the woman buried here. Their daughter, Renee Berrigan, told me that they started to find bags of feces at the grave as early as April. At first, she thought it was trash, but then noticed that the feces was being left here regularly.

And that's when she decided to put up the camera. Every morning for 48 years, this man has been waking up to go see the sunset, and on the way to go see the sunset, he urinates on the grave of his ex-wife. Not just peeing on the grave, but leaving bags of poop at her final resting place. Whoever this person is, is absolutely taking let that go out of context.

Okay, for years, someone has been telling him to let that go, so he's decided to not just let that go, but bag it up and place it on the gravesite of his ex-wife. Not just letting this go, but his P2. One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go. Whether it's guilt, anger, love, loss or betrayal. I don't understand people who hold on to resentment towards other people, especially for nothing. Okay. I wish I would wake up every day and have someone else on my mind so much that I think about ways to hurt them. Even in death. Do you realize you only hurting yourself? Folks say it may hurt to let go, but sometimes it hurts

more to hold on. This dude is clearly hurting. This is one of those times where it's clearly hurting this man to hold on. I mean, on a scale of one to 50 cent, this is petty levels we have never seen before. All right. This dude needs deep psychotherapy and his ass beat. We keep acting like violence isn't an option, but if you caught a man peeing on your mother's grave, how would you react? How? How am I supposed to not beat your ass when I see you peeing on someone's grave? And if the marriage was brief, your grudge can't be longer than the marriage lasted. Okay. 48 years of waking up, making sure someone resting piss. Nah, man. Nah. If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart,

then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind. Please believe it. Believe it. Please. Please give this man whose name has not been released yet because he's not been charged with anything the biggest he-ha. What you looking at me for? I gotta hear both sides. I know. I know you do. How you gonna hear the other side?

I gotta hear both sides. I mean, you're only hearing from one side. You don't know what happened in that relationship. I don't think you'll're only hearing from one side. You don't know what happened in that relationship. I don't think you'll be able to get her side. We don't know what she did to him. She's dead. Well. Envy. You can't hear her side.

That doesn't end the beef. She's deceased. Well. Okay, she's no longer with us. She's in a whole other dimension. All right, just her remains are here. Okay? I mean.

I don't care what it is. To get up every day because of a brief marriage and pee on her grave for 48 years and leave doo-doo. Come on, man. You ain't going to tell me that shit. I don't know. The doo-doo thing is a little far. I ain't putting doo-doo on my bag. Oh, the doo-doo's too far?

Not peeing on the grave? I mean, that's... Think about the work that goes into this. 48 years of bagging up doo-doo. Okay? I mean, it was... And peeing on graves. It's on the way to the sunset.

Man, shut up, man. There's some people's grave that, you know. You got to let these grudges go. I might piss on. No, you won't. Oh, yes, I will. Yes, I will. You got to let these grudges go, man.

No. This is a hell of a grudge. I got to use the bathroom. My mom will use it on somebody I don't like. There's nobody's grave you would pee on? Yo, shut up, man. You a wild boy. What?

You hear me? You a wild boy, man. I don't know. See, y'all people think that y'all people, when y'all got beef. First of all, I don't like when Dominicans

look at black people and say y'all people. The person dies, the beef is over. I still have beef with you. I still have that resentment. It ain't, oh, he died. I think game over when someone's dead. Yeah right what if you killed him uh you think he killed his wife

i didn't say that you you you why you say that nothing what have you killed them in what if i what if envy killed someone if i killed him then then this game over that's right you should be you you won right on all levels i would think i think you i just think this is a ridiculous grudge to hold on to for 48 years there's i i can't think of nobody who would have me mad for 48 years no especially if i'm winning in life well first of all what race is this person do you know he looks caucasian from the camera okay let's go from the camera that's set up he looks caucasian but you know everybody looks caucasian Caucasian at nighttime on them wildlife cameras. You're right.

They do. You're right. You're absolutely right. They do. So what's the question? What are we asking people right now? What's the longest you ever held on to a grudge? And at what point do you realize it's unhealthy?

Well, if you're still holding on to the grudge, how do you determine time? Well, that's true, too. Are you still holding on to a long-time grudge? Maybe that's the question. Maybe we should start show prepping before the show. You know what I mean. I just said it. 800-

What did I just say? 585-1051. How long do you hold on to a grudge? Are you still holding on to a grudge? There you go. Are you still holding on to a longtime grudge? I'm not mad at you. I got to hear both sides.

You don't know what she did to me. Man, she's dead. So what? You can't hear both sides. So what? She did it. She still hurt that man. And that man is releasing on her. Allegedly. I don't know. B did to him. Man, she's dead. So what? You can't hear both sides. So what? She did it. She still hurt that man. And that man is releasing on her.

Allegedly. I don't know. Bage rage. Bage rage. Let's talk about it. 800-585-1051. That's Trap Guy and Cheek Shit. Oh, here you go.

Here you go. But let's talk about it. 800-585-1051. Somebody did you dirty. Oh, God. They did your family dirty. This guy trying to sell the kids. Then they die.

Are you supposed to forget about all the dirt they did to you? Yes. No. Well, only to move on with your life. Let's **** on you all day long. Oh, my gosh. This guy is wild. What?

Let's **** on you. What? Who is you? Whoever. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. The free iHeartRadio app has over 250,000 podcasts to explore.

Yes. This is The Breakfast Club 30, part of Sunday Night Podcast on iHeartRadio. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining us, we're talking about somebody, Charlamagne gave donkey of the day, too. Yes, this man

has been holding a grudge for 48 years against his ex-wife. So he wakes up every day and pees on his ex-wife's grave. So he's peeing and he leaves bags of poop. The mother, the kids of the mother set up a camera

and have caught him. So he's been doing it for 48 years. Yeah. And I got to hear both sides of the story. I got to hear both sides. The woman is dead, man. I mean, we don't know what happened. We don't know what she did to him allegedly or how he feels. We got to hear both sides.

Jesus Christ. And that's what you people always have a problem with. First of all, Dominican, don't be saying you people. No, because people think, hey, if you have beef or you did something to me or my family, when you die, I just don't get over it. It's not like, okay, you're dead. No, I still feel the weight. And if I want to drive by your grave every day on my way to IHOP to get my free pancakes at 65 years old or 70 years old, I'm going to pee on your grave.

First of all, at 65 years old, you're going to be peeing on yourself. That's number one. Number two, I feel like, I personally feel like, you know, you're going to be peeing on yourself. That's number one. Number two, I feel like, um, I personally feel like, you know, you got to respect, there has to be some respect for the dead. Regardless of how you felt about the person in life, forget him. I'm just talking about the deaf, deceased. There has to

be some respect for deceased people. Why am I going to respect you when you didn't respect me or my family? I ain't talking about the person. I'm just talking about the dead in general. The dead is the person. Like, if you was walking through a graveyard right now for whatever reason, and you had to pee, you wouldn't just go pee on somebody's grave. No, because I don't know them. But if there's somebody that's in the graveyard, I would pee right on them.

What's wrong with it? Listen, here's the thing about grudges, right? This is why therapy is so important. Grudges are a part of healing. And we know healing is not linear. So some days I may think I'm over a grudge. And then some days I may be triggered. Correct.

And I still be like, damn, I'm really not over it. So it's the times when, you know, I can see a person, hear a person. You know, a person still tries to do something to me and it don't bother me. That lets me know I'm over said grudge. You know what I'm saying? But I'm just not going to go out of my way to put myself in harm's way because this dude is going to end up going to jail. I'm not going to do something to hurt myself still trying to hurt you,

even in death. What do you think, E? I mean, there's just certain people that I don't like, I don't mess with, but I don't think I would ever actively go out of my way to do anything. I just mind my business. What about you, Envy? Me? We already know. It depends. I mean mind my business. What about you, Envy? Me? We already know.

It depends. I mean, yes, if somebody did me dirty, yes, I will pee on your grave every day. Man, shut up, man. That's just too much time and energy devoted to somebody. On a scale of one to Curtis Jackson, what level of petty is this? Is this a Queens thing? This is off the charts. I'm just kidding.

I mean, it is what it is. Let's go to the phone line. Hello, who's this? Hello? Hello. Hey, what's up? What's up? What's your name, bro?

Big. Ben? Or Big? Big. Big. Say Big, Envy. Big what? Just Big, man.

Okay. Okay. Wait, what's your thoughts, Big? Man, to be honest, man, it goes too far with the holding grudges. Okay Okay Wait what's your thoughts Big Man Be honest man It goes too far With the With the holding grudges And fighting man

I'm better than I used to be I used to be to the point Where I hold a grudge For so long And I see somebody And I know I'm mad Out in the double

Who with them And I get even madder Cause I can't remember Why I'm mad at them You have too many grudges That's when it's time To let the grudge go King Like what am I mad for I get even madder because I can't remember why I'm mad at her. You have too many grudges. That's when it's time to let the grudge go, King. Like, what am I mad for?

It's hard, I know. Or if you have a grudge and the person don't even know you have a grudge. You don't know why you mad at her. Hello, who's this? Hey, this is Tamika from Atlanta.

Hey, Tamika from Atlanta. Talk to us. How long you holding grudges for? She mad right now, somebody. No, it's been since 2010 but i'm not really holding a grudge it's just that i refuse to be friends with this person who's still trying to this day and i'm in my messenger inbox and all my mentions trying to get back into my life what'd they do to you show me we were a group of work friends that turned into like family but she was really two-faced and talked

about my you know behind my back and i'm the kind of person if i'm your friend your face i'm your friend behind your back if i'm your friend today i'm your friend tomorrow and she wasn't that so when you show you're not for me you show me who you are i believe you and so i don't need friends like that you know you don't need enemies when you got friends like that so i'm good on this end that's real i'm done i'm good on this end. That's real. I'm done. I'm good. She's still friends with mutual friends.

And from what I heard, she's still the same. Okay. That's real. All right. Thank you. 800-585-1051. We're asking, how long do you hold a grudge? Now, Charlamagne gave a man donkey today who pisses on his ex-wife's grave every day.

For 48 years. Not just pee. He puts bags of poop. They're not sure if it's dog poop or human poop, but he puts bags of poop on the grave every day, too. 800-585-1051. How long you holding the grudge? It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning.

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Now, if you just joined us, Charlamagne gave Donkey the day to who? This man whose name has not been released yet because he has not been charged. But for the past 48 years, he has been waking up to go pee on his ex-wife's grave. Not just pee, but leaving bags of poops therefore he is holding a grudge i think we also should be asking how long does he have to hold his pee like what is that ride like in the morning like how far away does he live from said gravesite because according to these uh the what they're saying is he gets up to go see the sunset with his now new wife and stops at that grave every day and pees on it. Hey, let me ask you guys a question.

If somebody hurt one of your family members, you wouldn't want to pee on their grave every day? No. I don't have time. No, I would not, actually. Okay. Make time for everything else. You make time for shopping.

I don't have to make time to go pee on someone's grave. Make time to go on a little pee-pee. Hello, who's this? Yo, yo, yo, this is Dre again. This is crazy. I mean, my bad. This is crazy. Dre, why are you calling back in?

We already got your opinion, Dre. This is the one I should have called for, though. Okay, Dre. Uh-oh. Okay. So, it kind of intertwines with, like, daddy issues and then that topic. Like, I don't wish death on him, but, man, I'm a father. I got a four-year-old son.

I couldn't imagine not being there. So, if he comes before me, yeah, I'm going to go there. I'm going to drink a Modelo, and I'm going to piss on his grave. I'm going to be like, look, I'm going to piss my f***ing butt. What is he talking about? What is happening? Whose grave would you be peeing on? I guess somebody who did something to his son.

My father. Oh, his father. Oh, your father? Oh, okay, okay. That's what I was saying. That shit kind of does that intertwine with, like, daddy. But I don't give a **** about that, bro. Hey, my brother. Hey, Dre, Dre, Dre.

That's all the time, though. I got one word, three syllables. Fa-ra-pee. Oh, no, no doubt. Hey, I'm going to the expo, too. I'm glad you even said that. I'm going to get on that, but. Yes. glad you even said that. I'm going to get on that, but I feel envy because... No, don't feel envy.

Don't, no, don't feel envy. You said you're coming to the expo. You're coming to the expo October 8th, the Mental Wealth Expo, my second annual Mental Wealth Expo at the Marriott Marquis Times Square. It's a day of mental health education and healing, and you need it, Dre. Dre, just know that this bathroom's there, so if you have to go to this, go to the bathroom there.

Hello, this. Hey, it's Whitney LaGone. I actually was calling earlier to speak about the academics. Bitch, word. I'm the girl that they accused of pulling the gun out on him on the podcast. Oh, that's right.

I remember that. Oh, you were? You said you were reaching in your bag, so he felt threatened, but you said you didn't have a gun. Well, you know, he's a bitch. He's a bitch. When a bitch is speaking on females

or he's speaking on calling girls out their name, like, you can't really expect much more from a bitch. That's just what he is. That's his character. So I feel like all the people that, you know, hold him accountable for that is, like, doing the right thing because we got to start calling these a bitch. It's his character. So I feel like all the people that, you know, holding him accountable for that is like doing the right thing because we got to start calling these. They are.

Let me ask you a question. Yeah. If he died, would you pee on his grave every day? Okay. So now this is my thing about the Greg. I ain't got to speak to it. Oh,

sorry. I ain't got to speak to a bitch ever again, like ever again in life. But if he dies and I go to piss on his grave, I don't think I'm going to sleep good that night. So you wouldn't do that. You wouldn't piss on the grave. What about other men calling you to B-word, ma'am?

Well, it's all about the press. Like, it's all about the setup. Like, how you're doing it, I guess. The intention. Yeah, the intent. Basically, if you're like, you broke bench, you had it, you know yeah the intent basically if you're like you broke bitch

you had you know whatever it is you got ill intent then obviously I'm gonna get offended but if you coming at me like bitch you

lie bitch you silly bitch you funny as hell bitch you stupid it's the context okay what about this bitch you got a

gun in your pocketbook huh yeah ma bitch don't kill me bitch don't shoot me I heard that earlier. Bitch, don't kill me. Bitch, don't kill me. Bitch, don't shoot me. I heard that earlier. He said, bitch, don't shoot me. I was connected with that knife.

Well, thank you for calling, ma'am. That was so silly. Y'all got to invite me up here. Y'all seen how much fun. No, you got guns. You got guns. How are we going to bring you up here to pull guns out on us? You didn't have a gun, right?

She said she did. No, I didn't pull no gun out over no verbal argument. It's not that serious. But didn't have a gun, right? She said she did. No, I didn't pull no gun out over no verbal argument. But did you have a gun in your pocketbook? No. See, you can't even lie. See? You can't even lie. You should say no. That's why we're not inviting you. No, I don't have no gun.

You don't have a gun. Where you from, ma'am? You're from Florida, right? I'm from Cleveland. Oh, Cleveland. But I live in Florida. Oh, Cleveland. I'm from Cleveland, but I live in Florida. Oh, Lord. I sure have a juice bar. Y'all let me know when y'all come in town. Let me host y'all events.

Let me do some catering for y'all. I got all natural juices. What about security? I got all natural juices. You're talking about security. Are you doing security anytime? I got all natural juices. What? You need security?

Man, I love black people so much, man. Have a good morning, man. She went from peeing on somebody's grave, pulling a gun on a bitch, to saying I got all natural juices. And I hope y'all are, man. We are the most well-rounded people on this planet. You hear me? Can't nobody do it black people do. And as the guy called earlier, next time I come to the floor, bitch, don't shoot me.

Oh, my God, man. Oh, Lord. What's the moral of the story? I come to Florida. Bitch, don't shoot me. Oh my God, man. Oh Lord. What's the moral of the story? I don't know. I forgot what we were talking about. Ah, man. Hey! iHeart Radio Sunday Night Podcast.

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