The Breakfast Club - Ronnie and Shamari Interview and More

Episode Date: January 10, 2019

1/10/19- Today on the show we had marriage ambassadors Ronnie and Shamari Devoe stop by,  where they discussed their relationship, saving their marriage and counseling, advising against open marriage...s from their own experience, and how overcoming challenges strengthens your bond. Moreover, Charlamagne gave a double  "Donkey of the Day" one to a man August Williams who tried to kidnap a women, and the other one to man that attempted to rob a woman that happens to be a UFC Champ. Also Angela helped some listeners during "Ask Yee".  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:01:46 Shut the cameras, I'm out of here. What kind of show is this? Let's not listen to this show. The Breakfast Club. With DJ Envy. The captain of this bitch. With Angela Yee, the only one who can keep these guys in check. With Charlamagne Tha God.
Starting point is 00:01:59 I'm a lovable asshole. And this is The Breakfast Club, bitches! Good morning, USA! Good morning, Angelina. Oh, I thought Charlamagne would be on. No, he's running late. Oh. He's running late. He's out of town and he's running late.
Starting point is 00:02:22 Okay. Well, good morning, Angelina. Hey, good morning, DJ Envy. Charlamagne Tha God is not here. And it's Thursday! Yes, and what a Thursday. What a Thursday. Now, last night, I was running around the different high schools.
Starting point is 00:02:37 That sounded crazy, right? Look at you, all right. This is not the time for this. That sounded crazy. Actually, my son was looking at different high schools, so I was taking him to a bunch of different open houses. I don't know why, though. He was already in high school. No, the school that he goes to now is an eighth grade that's connected to a high school. So it's kind of like it's eighth, ninth, tenth, eleventh. So it's all together. So why
Starting point is 00:02:56 doesn't he go there? He might go there. It depends. He plays sports. So for him, it's education. And it's also how the teams are doing and how he would fit on that team. So he's just, you know, weighing his options. Just weighing his options. So that's what I was running around doing yesterday. What did you do yesterday? Anything? What did I do yesterday? I was at
Starting point is 00:03:17 Dumbo House, Soho House in Brooklyn. And that's really all I did. What is Dumbo House for people that don't know? It's like a lounge restaurant type of place. It's in Brooklyn. It's kind of new. I guess it's only been there maybe like a little over a year. Okay.
Starting point is 00:03:33 But yeah, that's what I did yesterday and I've been cleaning my house and trying to get rid of all, I have all these clothes I'm trying to get rid of. I was trying to do the same thing. I have a lot of sneakers and a lot of clothes and I've been trying to figure out what organization I should give it to.
Starting point is 00:03:46 So what I do is for some of the stuff that I know my friends can use and certain people, I try to be like, okay, this is nice because I've never worn this. And the rest of the stuff I donate. So I know some of my friends are like, oh, I need this, I need that. I would love to have one of those events where we all bring stuff that's like good condition, and then we swap. Girls of the Day, we all bring stuff that's like good you know, good condition and then we swap. Girls
Starting point is 00:04:07 we have these swap parties. Okay. But whatever. I was thinking about that too. I was thinking about, you know, I wanted to, some of the stuff is really fly. I just don't wear it anymore. It just, you know, maybe it just doesn't fit me anymore or it's not really in style. But there's a lot of kids and a lot of high school students that I think can really use
Starting point is 00:04:23 it and be fly in their school, whether it's a pair of Jordans or a pair of Pharrells or some Bape or some Balmain jeans. But I think students will be able to wear it better than if I just give it to the Salvation Army. I think they'll get a better use out of it. What is that you're wearing today? Is that a reindeer? This is not a reindeer. I thought it was a deer, but it's a— What are you wearing today? I don't remember. I don't know a deer, but it's a... What am I talking about? What are you wearing today?
Starting point is 00:04:46 I don't remember. I don't know. You don't even know what you're wearing? No, Toray. You know the stylist Toray that made Charlemagne's jean jacket like 10 years ago? I found it in my closet. This is like 10 years old. And I found it.
Starting point is 00:04:56 I was like, I'm going to wear it. I don't know. I don't know if it's a reindeer or if it's a... What is it? It's a deer in headlights. What? A gazelle? That's what it is. Is it really a gazelle?
Starting point is 00:05:04 I don't know. I don't know. I thought it was a moose. I am not even going to lie. You thought it was a mo A gazelle? That's what it is. Is it really a gazelle? I don't know. I don't know. I thought it was a moose. I am not even going to lie. You thought it was a moose? I don't know what it is. I don't know. It looks like a deer.
Starting point is 00:05:11 I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. Maybe an antelope. I don't know. But anyway, let's get the show cracking. Today, joining us from Housewives of Atlanta, also from BBD in new edition, Ronnie DeVoe and his wife, Shamari DeVoe.
Starting point is 00:05:25 Now, they were on Housewives of Atlanta. What's been going on with them? So, this season, well, first, this is their first season on the show. Mm-hmm. And they talk a lot about their open marriage. Open marriage? Well, they don't have it anymore,
Starting point is 00:05:37 but they did go through a rough period of their marriage where they decided to have an open marriage. So, I'm sure they're going to want to talk about that. So, she can smash dudes and he can smash chicks? I'll let them tell it, because I don't want to have an open marriage. So I'm sure they're going to want to talk about that. So she can smash dudes and he can smash chicks? I'll let them tell it because I don't want to say it that way. I ain't built for that. Well, that's good. Yeah, I can't do that.
Starting point is 00:05:52 But they've been together a long time and she was in the group Black and, of course, he was a new addition. Okay. All right, so we'll kick it with them in a little bit. And also we got front page news, what are we talking about? We're going to talk about a divorce that involves $137 billion. Wow. All right.
Starting point is 00:06:08 We'll get into all that when we come back. Keep it locked. This is The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. Let's get in some front page news.
Starting point is 00:06:19 What are we talking about, Yee? Well, let's talk about Jeff Bezos and his wife, Mackenzie. They are headed for divorce. And they have $137 billion on the line right now. Now, Bezos said on Twitter, after what they referred to as a trial separation, that they have now decided to end their marriage. They were married for 25 years. They said it is amicable. And they didn't have a prenup, FYI.
Starting point is 00:06:44 So we don't know what's going to happen when it's time to divide up those assets. But besides just the money, they also have 400,000 acres of property. So they are two of the biggest landholders in the country. And if you don't know who Jeff Bezos is, he's the CEO and founder and creator
Starting point is 00:07:00 of Amazon. But I'm not mad at her. She should get half. They've been married, what, 25 years? She was with him from the grind, helping start a business. Well, we don't know if she's getting half, but we just know
Starting point is 00:07:09 that they didn't have a prenup. They also have four kids together between the ages of 13 and 18. And he also was allegedly having an affair. Oh, whoa. A relationship with former So You Think You Can Dance
Starting point is 00:07:20 host Lauren Sanchez. And according to the National Enquirer, that's how their marriage ended. Wow. Well, she should get what she can have. Yeah. And according to the National Enquirer, that's how their marriage ended. Wow. Well, she should get what she can have. Yeah. And it's amicable.
Starting point is 00:07:29 So, you know, and even if she did get half, he'll still have quite a bit of money. He still can't spend all that money. He'll be OK. All right. Now let's talk about the government shutdown. This has been going on since December 22nd. What is going to happen? Well, they did have negotiations and it didn't end well.
Starting point is 00:07:46 Yesterday, Donald Trump stormed out of a meeting with congressional leaders and he tweeted, of course he tweeted, just left a meeting with Chuck and Nancy, a total waste of time.
Starting point is 00:07:55 I asked what is going to happen in 30 days. If I quickly open things up, are you going to approve border security, which includes a wall or still barrier? Nancy said no.
Starting point is 00:08:03 I said bye bye. Nothing else works. How is he president? He's just like a seven year old that just gets mad and then he just walks out. I don't understand. I guess he's allowed to.
Starting point is 00:08:13 There's so many people right now suffering because of this government shutdown that can't pay their bills. People have started GoFundMes. People are trying to find other means of how to get some money and it's a terrible time for people and he should care more about that than trying to get other means of how to get some money. And it's a terrible time for people, and he should care more about that
Starting point is 00:08:26 than trying to get this wall funded and all these promises that he wants to get. Because that's what's really holding everything up. What happened to compromise? And all the people that voted for him should really feel the way, because, I mean, I'm sure a lot of them are affected. It's been 20 days. Imagine 20 days of not making any money. And does it affect the food stamps and all that stuff as well?
Starting point is 00:08:46 I don't think it affects food stamps yet. But I did read something about the safety of our food because, you know, they have to check things to make sure, check the food. So nobody's checking the food. I think that's slowed down a lot. So it could potentially put people's health in danger. What about the edibles and stuff like that? Are they checking those and making sure those are good? Like weed edibles and stuff like that? Are they checking those and making sure those are good? Like weed edibles?
Starting point is 00:09:05 Yes. Because they're legal in some places and you got to make sure that they're, you know, following protocol, right? Okay, maybe not. What else we got you? What are you talking about?
Starting point is 00:09:16 All right, well, that's your front page news. The reason, well, I'm not even going to say it. What? All right, the reason I'm going to say that. You just took one this morning?
Starting point is 00:09:22 No, I didn't take one this morning, but a long time ago, I purchased one out in Vegas where it's legal. And when I looked at it the other day, it had all types of mold on it. And I was like, nobody checked this edible because it had mold. I didn't know you could grow mold on. Anyway, all right, that's front page news. So you had edibles with mold on it?
Starting point is 00:09:37 Yes. I didn't eat it, though. I threw it out, but it was weird. I just didn't think that could happen. Had you high. Yeah. Get it off your chest. 800-585-1051.
Starting point is 00:09:46 If you're upset, you need to hit us up right now. Maybe you had a bad day or bad morning or horrible night. Whatever it may be. Get it off your chest. Phone lines are wide open. 800-585-1051. Hit us up right now. It's The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 00:09:59 Good morning. The Breakfast Club. This is your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're mad or blessed. The Breakfast Club. Pick up the mother, mother phone and dial. This is your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're mad or blessed. Say it with your chest. We want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. So you better have the same energy.
Starting point is 00:10:17 Hello, who's this? Good morning, Evie. Good morning, Angela. Good morning. It's Rick. Rick from Brooklyn. Hey, Charlamagne's here too. He was just a little late. I'm pulling a Charlamagne right now. I'm running late myself, yo. Rick from Brooklyn. Hey, Charlamagne's here, too. He was just a little late.
Starting point is 00:10:26 I'm pulling a Charlamagne right now. I'm running late myself, yo. I woke up. I hit a snooze button this morning, and I put my head back down, and all of a sudden, I'm late. I did the same thing. Alarm clock went off, and you hit the snooze button, and it's going to get 10 more minutes, and nope. How long does it take you from when you set your alarm until you get out of bed?
Starting point is 00:10:42 I was looking at that this morning. So I usually get up at 5. Like, I get up at 5, like, on the dot. Angela, I was actually at Mango Tea last night. Oh, that's my spot. So I got up at 5. The alarm went off. And then I hit snooze.
Starting point is 00:10:55 And then when I look, it's 5.47. I'm like, I can't get to work by now. Now, that's a snooze. Yeah, but the difference between me and you is you had a couple of rum punches last night. Yeah, well, man, listen, them rum punches kicked in and now I'm... This is my way of telling everybody at work, yo, I'm on my way, man. All right, bro. Thanks a lot.
Starting point is 00:11:12 Yes. Happy, happy belated birthday, all right? Thank you so much. I'll probably go to Mango Seed this weekend. Paul. Yo. What's up, Paul? Get it off your chest.
Starting point is 00:11:20 I want to get it off my chest. I want to envy you. I'm disappointed in you, man. Why is that? You really out here thinking edibles last forever, man? I didn't think it lasts forever. But I didn't think edibles had an expiration date. It was only like two, three months.
Starting point is 00:11:32 Why? Edibles are food. Why wouldn't they have an expiration date? Because it was a gummy. It was a gummy, so I didn't think the gummy... Charlamagne, you just got here. I was saying I opened up an edible the other day, and it had mold on it, and I was surprised. I didn't know the gummies actually molded out, but it was all moldy and nasty. It's food, bro.
Starting point is 00:11:47 It's food. It's food. Why wouldn't food go bad? Because you ever see a box of gummies? A box of gummies could sit on that, I don't know,
Starting point is 00:11:54 it could sit in the closet. How do you know, Envy? There's nobody that's ever had a box of gummies for over a year. You're really disappointing me. You're right. I didn't know.
Starting point is 00:12:02 I can't believe these bananas are about to go bad. I didn't know. It's crazy because a hey, weed goes bad. So you think just because they drop a little bit of weed and some food is never supposed to go bad? All right. Now, when you say weed goes bad, does weed get stale or does it actually go bad? See, he didn't know.
Starting point is 00:12:17 It gets stale. And that's bad. All right. Good point. You're right. Thank you, bro. All right, man. Y'all have a good morning. You too now. Hello, who. All right, man. Y'all have a good morning.
Starting point is 00:12:25 You too now. Hello, who's this? Yo, Faheem. This is Envy. Good morning, y'all. Faheem, what's up, bro? You said you Envy? Get ahead, man.
Starting point is 00:12:34 Yeah, man. I need this big Hellman's flavored Cheeto chip Donald Trump to sit him and his toupee down somewhere, man. He's killing the hardworking people out here. Yeah. Yeah, I was coming to the airport yesterday talking to one of the TSA somewhere, man. He's killing the hard-working people out here. Yeah. Yeah, I was coming to the airport yesterday talking to one of the TSA agents, man, and she was like, yeah, I was like, how you doing? One dude goes, I'm here.
Starting point is 00:12:53 And another girl goes, I'm doing all right. We're not getting paid, though. I was like, damn, man. Man, that big Hellman-flavored Cheetos need to sit down, man. We ain't got no money for the wall. He the big, man. You pay for the wall. All right. Mayonnaise-fl flavor Cheetos need to sit down, man. We ain't got no money for no wall. He the big man. You pay for the wall. All right.
Starting point is 00:13:07 Mayonnaise flavored Cheetos. Yeah, like Eazy-E said, man, cocaine come from Columbia. Cocaine come from Columbia, AKs come from, whatchamacallit. We ain't got no boats or planes. Y'all do the math. I don't get it, but I get it. You got to learn to quote better next time, man. You got to learn.
Starting point is 00:13:21 You got to quote it right. I see where you at. He was almost there. Yeah, you in the range. Right, right. You know what I'm saying? We get where you were going with that. You gotta quote it right. I see where you're at. He was almost there. Yeah, you're in the range. You know what I'm saying? We get where you were going with that. Get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. If you need to vent, hit us up now. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning.
Starting point is 00:13:33 The Breakfast Club. Wake up, wake up. Wake your ass up. This is your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're mad or blessed, we want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Hey, this is a shell called Georgia. What's up, bro?
Starting point is 00:13:51 Get it off your chest. Hey, man, I just want to tell you guys real quick, I've been listening to y'all for years, man. Thank you guys for everything that you do. I'm a truck driver, and you guys keep me moving, man. So I just want to say thank you Keep up the good work Appreciate it Alright bro you in the truck now?
Starting point is 00:14:09 I'm in the truck right now Blow the horn bro Huh? Blow the horn Here we go I just did That horn sounds so bad man Alright bro
Starting point is 00:14:18 Hello who's this? Hey how you doing? What's up bro? This is Marcel Reed from Detroit, Michigan What's up Marcel? Get it off your chest from Detroit, Michigan. What's up, Marcel? Get it off your chest. What up, though? What up, what up?
Starting point is 00:14:27 I got one thing to get off my chest. I've been DMing Charlamagne to God my book for a long time, and he ain't responding. What's the name of your book, sir? It's called Little Noah Speaks Out. And I don't ever check my IG DMs, and I haven't been on Instagram or Twitter or anything since December 26 2018 and I'm proud of that. Okay, okay, my bad. But I'll check your book out. But yeah, it's on Amazon. It's called Little North Speaks Out.
Starting point is 00:14:52 Oh, you want me to buy it? Yeah, it's to encourage kids about you know, if somebody touch them and stuff like that, you know, it's encouraging them to speak out, you know. You should buy it, Charlamagne. How much is the book? I'll buy yours. You buy mine. It's $10.99.
Starting point is 00:15:07 Okay. I'm going to buy yours. You buy mine. I'll do that. Shook one. Anxiety playing tricks on me. That don't sound right when you're talking about a book about touching kids. You're like, you buy yours.
Starting point is 00:15:15 I'll buy mine. It's like you touch your... You know what I mean? How much is your book, Charlamagne? Huh? How much is your book? I don't remember. But it's available on Amazon.
Starting point is 00:15:23 Shook one. Anxiety playing tricks on me. It's all right now. All right, bro. He got you. Hello, who's this? This is Angela from Augusta. Hey, Angela. Good morning, guys. It is so good to hear you guys. It's so good. This is my first time calling
Starting point is 00:15:38 in and it's so good to hear you guys. I love you guys. We love you back. What's up, mama? I want to first make a comment. I want to respond to the guy that called in yesterday about get it off his chest about building that wall. He was saying that we should build a wall. It sounded
Starting point is 00:15:54 like it was a black guy. I don't know because I'm listening through the radio. He did sound black. He did sound black. He did. And he was saying that he was incarcerated and they build up the wall to keep these people wild and blah, blah, blah, yada, yada, yada. Now, he's saying that he was incarcerated and they build up the wall to keep these people wild and blah, blah, blah, yada, yada, yada. Now, he's saying those things now,
Starting point is 00:16:08 but let it show up on his paycheck as a tax deduction. And, you know, this is for building the wall. That negro would n*** up. He'd be a Democrat. Yeah, he's talking about building this wall and I think it's, personally, I think it's hogwash. You know, he wants to build this wall.
Starting point is 00:16:28 I don't know how that clown got into the president, but he's there. You know what I'm saying? Because 40 million people voted for him. And 40 million people voted for him. I didn't vote for him, but, you know, but it is what it is. So it's not really affecting me. And I don't know if it's affecting the teachers or not. But, you know, I'm a single parent and I drive trucks.
Starting point is 00:16:46 But what about the teachers that are teaching our kids? Right. I agree with you totally 100 percent, Charlamagne, that it should go to the teachers and to, you know, the economy that is needed. Health care and all that other stuff. There's so many things that need better than building a wall. Yes. So much things can be done for building a wall. And I just think it's crap.
Starting point is 00:17:08 And people, we ought to get together. We need to stand together on this guy. I don't know how he's still holding this presidency. But he's holding it. And it's just, it's sad. What's crazy is he only got like, he got 2020 as a wrap. Yeah, next year. Yeah, next year.
Starting point is 00:17:24 I mean, you know, unless he gets reelect rap. Yeah, next year. Yeah, next year. I mean, you know, unless he gets reelected. Well, thank you, Mama, for calling. Don't put that in the atmosphere. Thank you, guys. I love you so much. I just wanted to get that off my chest, and I'll continue to listen to you guys till the day I die. Thank you, Angela. Let me ask you a question, Angela.
Starting point is 00:17:39 Yes. You in your truck right now? Yes, I am. Blow that horn for me. That be sound like a creep. There you go. Thank you, Angela. Why does that sound nasty when you're talking to a female truck driver?
Starting point is 00:17:49 Let me ask you a question. Are you in your truck right now? Blow your horn for me. Get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. If you need to vent, you can hit us up at any time. Now, we got rumors on the way, Yee? Yes, and I'll tell you what question Kevin Hart does not want you to ask him anymore.
Starting point is 00:18:04 Also, Jemele Hill, find out what she has that's coming out next. All right, we'll get into all that when we come back. Keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. It's very, very, very, very big. It's very, very, very, very big.
Starting point is 00:18:15 Pause. This is The Rumor Report with Angela Yee. Rumor has it. On The Breakfast Club. So listen up. Well, first, Kevin Hart was saying that there was a slim chance that maybe he would host the Oscars. Very, very slim.
Starting point is 00:18:34 Now he's saying, let's not even discuss it. I'm over it. Here he is on Good Morning America. There's no more conversation about it. I'm literally, I'm over that. I'm over the moment. And I'm about today. So I'm done with it. I'm over it. That's that. I'm over the moment. And I'm about today. So, I'm done with it.
Starting point is 00:18:46 I'm over it. That's where I personally am. Absolute no. Yes, I'm not hosting the Oscars this year. And it has nothing to do with... In the future. It's hard to predict what can happen. And I don't want people to think that there's a thing between me and the Academy, because there isn't. He's absolutely right. There's no need
Starting point is 00:19:01 to talk to him about it. But when Kevin Hart comes to the Breakfast Club to promote his new movie, The Upside, that will be the first question I ask him. So are you hosting the Upside? We should ask several times throughout the interview. Are you sure? Just to be a jerk. Yeah, you know, just to be a jerk.
Starting point is 00:19:14 That's all. All right. Well, they are saying now that they have decided that that ceremony will be without a host. All right. As we've long suspected that no one's going to host at all. So what they are going to do is basically have a different group of A-list celebrities introducing different segments throughout the night and a lot of skits. They've done that before though, right?
Starting point is 00:19:34 Yes, but that was about 30 years ago, back in 1989. Oscar's been trashed for a while though. I mean, it's not like, Kevin Hart would have probably made me tune in. Other than Kevin Hart, I'm not really tuning in to Oscars. Well, Whoopi Goldberg said she was game to host the Oscars also. Did they invite her? Did they ask or she just said she wants to? Well, she said she would do it.
Starting point is 00:19:56 She's game for it. She said, now I realize I may not be anybody's first choice. And she said, I'm also problematic. But she does love films and all of that. It depends what day that the Oscars come on because depending on what else is on TV. February 24th. I gotta see what else is on TV. Is Power gonna be back then?
Starting point is 00:20:14 I don't know. February 24th. No. Power comes back in March I think. Oh no no no. That was Billions comes back in March. I don't know when Power comes back. Alright. In the meantime Jamil Hill is gonna be doing her new Unbothered podcast, and that's going to be on Spotify. Drop a close bond for Jameel Hill.
Starting point is 00:20:31 She posted, I'm ecstatic to announce I'll be launching a podcast called Unbothered. This is an incredible opportunity for me, and I'm thrilled to be partnering with a brand that's shown such a steadfast commitment to unique voices. I saw Jameel over the holidays. We was on a flight together, headed to the Caribbean. Did she just get engaged? Yes, she did. Congrats to her.
Starting point is 00:20:47 She looks very happy. Oh, she just got engaged? Mm-hmm. Oh, she must have got engaged in the Caribbean then, over the holidays. Mm-hmm. All right, Nick Young has been named a suspect in an alleged robbery. And what they are saying happened is a fan wanted to take a picture. Not the paparazzi, a fan.
Starting point is 00:21:04 Nick Young said he didn't want to be photographed, but the fan took a picture anyway. And that's when Nick Young went and actually kicked him in the testicles and stole his phone, according to her. Kicked him in the nuts? Yeah. Wow. So, I don't know. What do you do when someone takes a picture of you even though you told them no?
Starting point is 00:21:19 You don't kick them in the nuts, especially when you're an NBA player worth millions of dollars that everybody knows. There's nothing you can do, right? Nothing you can do. Yeah, man, you just walk off, curse the dude out, but you definitely don't kick him in the nuts and take his phone. That's going to cost him about a million. Exactly. Now, let's talk about Sin Santana.
Starting point is 00:21:34 Now, she was on lip service like two and a half years ago, and this part of the conversation resurfaced. Y'all can keep the Puerto Rican, man. I'm good. Yeah, I'm good on a Puerto Rican man, too. What does that mean, sis? I do black guys all day. I did the Spanish thing. It doesn't work out for me.
Starting point is 00:21:50 I'm good. Why? What's wrong with guys that are Hispanic? I don't know. I think they're too emotional. You don't think black guys are emotional? They're very overly possessive, Mina. They are.
Starting point is 00:21:58 The Puerto Ricans? And black guys cater to us Spanish girls, especially. Like, they... You know what? Let me not even get into that. Oh, she's gonna get herself in trouble now. The black girls, yeah. You know what? Let me not even get into that. She's going to get herself in trouble now. The black girls. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:22:07 I didn't mean it like that, but black girls are going to take it personal. All right. Now, let's be very clear because people were saying I don't identify as black. I've always identified as black, and that's why I know that black girls do get upset when people say that,
Starting point is 00:22:21 but I also know that San Santana is not the type of person to try to offend anybody. She's sweet girl she worded that however she worded it I don't think she meant any harm by it so I didn't feel like I should attack her for that but she was getting attacked online and people were going in and actually misquoting her and saying all kinds of things that she didn't really say and it was a quick snippet from the whole entire conversation and she went on Twitter to clear it up. She said, now I'm going to explain myself because these strangers are black women,
Starting point is 00:22:49 and I especially love the black woman. I've never in my life bashed one, never will, so I'm going to explain myself and shed some clarity. She said, if I've offended anyone, I do indeed apologize. I use the word especially in a way that changed the context of what I was trying to say for some. And while I was trying to be sensitive, I used the word personal because I know it's a sensitive topic. I'm not here to attack. So first of all, black men cater to any woman that we are in a relationship with because we are the best men to be in a relationship with. Because when
Starting point is 00:23:19 Destiny's Child wrote cater to you, us black men took that to heart more than the women did. We cater to all women and that's why everybody wants a black man. And you know what else I was looking up yesterday? I was looking up some stats on black demographics and 93% of black women have a black husband and 85% of black men have a black wife,
Starting point is 00:23:40 right? So that whole, you know, black women, black men love to be with other races. That's kind of, that's pretty pretty much BS where'd you get these stats from this I just saw on black demographics black demographics.com now I'll tell you who should be mad bro these are real stats okay you need to go look this stuff up I'm serious 93% of black women have a black husband 85% of black men have a black wife and 100% of all black men don't cheat. What are these other 15% of black men doing? I'm crazy.
Starting point is 00:24:08 No, I can tell you what they're doing. They're in Hollywood. They're in the NBA and the NFL. And y'all base that Hollywood and NBA life on all men. Those Negroes got other women. Us brothers is out here with the sisters. Wow, black demographic sisters. But anyway, Sin was definitely on social media explaining herself all day yesterday.
Starting point is 00:24:26 So just to clear things up, Sin has, I've never heard her say anything negative about black women. And to clear things up about myself, I've always identified as a black woman. That's why I know what makes us upset sometimes. So I know that podcast, what she was trying to say wasn't to upset or hurt anybody. So everybody relax. So Envy, you said that black demographic is a what? No, it's a real sight. I'm on it right now.
Starting point is 00:24:48 Duh. Okay, with real stats. Envy should be offended because they said they don't like Hispanic men. That is true, Envy. As a Puerto Rican man, how did you feel about that?
Starting point is 00:24:57 That's really who should be offended from that conversation. I'm black. I don't know what you're talking about. I identify as a black man. I don't know what you guys are talking about. I am black.
Starting point is 00:25:03 I saw you in Dominican Republic. I was in Dominican Republic. All right, I'm Angela Yee and that's your Rumor Replace. With my a black man. I don't know what you guys are talking about. I am black. I saw you in Dominican Republic. I was in Dominican Republic. All right, I'm Angela Yee, and that's your rumor report. With my people, man. With some white jeans on. Yo, I swear, everybody in the DR thought I was Dominican because of you guys. You did a whole interview in Spanish. I didn't speak, though.
Starting point is 00:25:16 They were asking me all types of- You didn't speak during the interview? I spoke in English. I didn't know what they were saying. Envy was like a dog in that situation. He was shaking his head to let them know he understood. That's what I was doing. Honestly, you know what?
Starting point is 00:25:27 Forget y'all. We got front page news next. Yes, we are going to talk about a really crazy situation. Two men found, two black men found dead at this Democratic donor's house. What happened? All right. And como estas? That's all my Dominicans out there as well.
Starting point is 00:25:42 How did you just say? Como estan ustedes? It's not like you said you want them to be in a coma. I did there as well. How did you just say? Como estan ustedes? It's not like you said you want them to be in a coma. I did not say that. How did you just say? I think I said hello, good morning, how are you doing? Who's comatose? Enve, cera la boca.
Starting point is 00:25:53 What? Wepa. Was that right? Oh, my God. I don't know. All right. Front page news is next at the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
Starting point is 00:26:02 Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Degas. We are the Breakfast Club. I want to apologize to the Latino community for DJ Envy's cultural appropriation of y'all situation. Why? Okay. What? This is disgusting.
Starting point is 00:26:17 What I heard behind the scenes is disgusting. If you want to pretend to be Dominican, get more Dominican parties, break into that market. Talking about doing a reality show on Univision. This is ridiculous. I did not say none of that. And his family's doing a telenovela. What is that?
Starting point is 00:26:34 Let's get into front page news. I'm black, by the way. What we talking about here? Now, there were two men that have been found dead in the past year in Democratic donor Edward Buck's home. And everybody's wondering what's going on now. The first man that was found dead in the past year in Democratic donor Edward Buck's home. And everybody's wondering what's going on now. The first man that was found dead was back in July of 2017. He was a 26 year old black man. And they said that the cause of death was an accidental
Starting point is 00:26:58 methamphetamine overdose. So not sure what that's what they're saying happened there. But now a second man has been found. and that man has been identified. This is in West Hollywood as 55 year old Timothy Dean, who worked at Saks Fifth Avenue in Beverly Hills. They said he was very well liked. So far, they have not figured out what the cause of death is. It will be determined by the coroner. So everybody's trying to figure out what's going on with this donor that these black men are dying at his house while he's present. By the way, he was there both times. Sound like they're doing drugs together to me.
Starting point is 00:27:29 That is what it sounds like. And dude got some bad stuff or some stuff that only he can handle. All right. Now let's talk about Jeff Bezos. He Jeff Bezos. Jeff Bezos. The founder and CEO of Amazon. Looks like he's getting a divorce.
Starting point is 00:27:47 Now, you know, last year they're saying that he took a hit on his fortune because he was worth $160 billion. But then it dropped down to $137 billion. But now he and his wife, Mackenzie Bezos, did not have a prenup. So they're going to have to potentially maybe split everything in half. Who knows? But they are going to have to divide up those assets. They own 400,000 acres of property. So they're two of the biggest landholders in the country.
Starting point is 00:28:12 Now, according to reports, Jeff Bezos was having a relationship with So You Think You Can Dance host Lauren Sanchez. And according to the National Enquirer, they're saying that's what ended his marriage. They must. Okay, well, he was cheating. But even still, they must really not like each other. Like, they're saying that's what ended his marriage. Okay, well, he was cheating, but even still, they must really not like each other. They must really be over each other.
Starting point is 00:28:31 They were together for 25 years. They have four children together. They're both really smart. But she's getting half his fortune. Well, we don't know that yet. She's entitled to. We don't know what's going to happen. She should. She should. They got four kids. She's been with him for 25 years. She helped build that company, I'm sure. Come on. Now, when I'm worth $160 billion or whatever it is, you don't need half of that. Yeah, but I'm sure she's been very helpful.
Starting point is 00:28:49 I mean, she's a novelist. She studied under Toni Morrison. You wouldn't give your wife half? Oh, so she don't need no money? She's the executive director of an anti-bullying organization. Yeah, you wouldn't give your wife half? He'll be fine. He'll be fine.
Starting point is 00:29:02 You wouldn't give her half? She don't need half of that. She can get paid and be fine. $137 billion. He'll still be rich. She has your her half? She don't need half of that. She can get 10 and be fine. $137 billion. He'll still be rich. She has your kids and raising your kids and helps you get to where you are. As Chris Rock says, when you're rich and your wife wants half, fine. But if you're making $30,000 and she wants half.
Starting point is 00:29:15 You want to give your wife half, Charlotte? I can't quote that. I mean, of course I would give my wife half. But still, $160 billion. $137 now. $137 billion. Do you really need half of that? Do you?
Starting point is 00:29:29 No. I take $10. You don't think he'll be fine with about $70 billion, though? He's going to be fine. He'll be great. He'll be fine. The point is it's cheaper to keep her, and they must really not like each other to be breaking up at this point in the game.
Starting point is 00:29:43 Look, at the end of the day, 25 years together, four children, they'll both be alright. Why shouldn't she be just as alright as he is? If I had to give up $70 billion, I'd be trying to work that out. If you had $70 billion, you would be like, alright, I still have $70 billion. You still have $70 billion? I don't know.
Starting point is 00:30:00 It's a lot of money. You'll make that again. Yeah, right. He's the only person that's made that. That much. All right. Well, that is your Front Page News. All right. Now, when we come back from Housewives of Atlanta,
Starting point is 00:30:12 Ronnie and Shamari DeVoe. You know Ronnie from Belle Bib DeVoe. You know him from New Edition. Now he's on Housewives of Atlanta, his wife Shamari. You might know her from the group Black. Baby, bring it all to me. What song is that? Black.
Starting point is 00:30:27 Oh. All right, but we're going to kick it with them next, so don't move. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Everybody, it's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 00:30:36 We got some special guests in the building. Yes, sir. From Real Housewives of Atlanta. You know them as a couple. Ronnie and Shamari DeVoe. Welcome, guys. Hey. Hey.
Starting point is 00:30:45 You guys are virgins on the show. It's your first time, the first season. Yes. Inaugural season. What made you do Housewives of Atlanta? How did you talk them into doing this? You know, they just kept reaching out to me. And last year when I was pregnant, I was like, no.
Starting point is 00:31:01 And then this year they reached out again. I'm like, okay, fine. And it was something that I had to take to my husband because we have to talk to each other about you know every decision that we're going to make so being the protective husband that he is at first he was like hell no you're not going to do this
Starting point is 00:31:18 we're not going to put our life out there like that but the more that we talked about it we realized that it was a huge platform for us and we were able to like share our testimony with the world so but y'all revealed so much of your life already yeah we did let's get to it right open relationships at one point open relationships that's right you know we all go through things and relationships everybody has their challenges that was just something that you know we went through and um it actually helped us and brung us closer together how Now, how open?
Starting point is 00:31:45 Like, how open, open? Like, he can smash who he want, you can smash who you want? Yeah. Really? That's exactly what it was. Don't try this at home, everybody. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Yo, yo, in every relationship, when it first jumps off, right?
Starting point is 00:31:58 Right. Fellas, yo, you think about the threesome, right? And we had talked about that a couple times earlier on in our relationship. I'm not going down the road with y'all if Charlamagne wants to, but I ain't. I didn't have that in the beginning. No, but you never had the conversation. You were like, yo, let's get that in. I've been with my woman 20 years.
Starting point is 00:32:13 That's what I'm saying. We had that conversation initially, but it never happened ultimately. So, boom, fast forward. We get married. Everything is locked in and loaded. We get to the seven-year itch. Okay. Right?
Starting point is 00:32:24 Shamari comes in and says, yo, what you think about opening our relationship? I'm like, okay. Bright idea. Word? That hurt your ego? Hold on. But no, no, it was delivered like,
Starting point is 00:32:35 yo, we finally going to have this menage a trois that we was talking about all this time? Okay. Okay, I might actually be open for that, you know, because we've been tasting the same saltine crackers for the last seven years, ultimately.
Starting point is 00:32:49 You guys are not saltine crackers. It might be cool to introduce a little, you know, tuna or something like that to the cracker or what have you. Y'all got a little more flavor
Starting point is 00:32:56 than crackers. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's how I started off, right? Definitely. You didn't have a problem if she had, you know, another man?
Starting point is 00:33:04 Because, you know, I've seen a clip that she was like. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That was a thing. That was a thing. I wasn't with another man. I was with other women. So no men at all? No.
Starting point is 00:33:12 No. No, he was my dick. Your penis. Did you say dick or date? Dick. Okay. Okay. I like that.
Starting point is 00:33:18 Your penis. Okay. So you had a couple other women. Yeah. Was he able to watch? Was he able to participate or? Nope. That's how I started off, but it didn't actually go that way.
Starting point is 00:33:28 What you mean? That was the plan. That was the plan. The plan was you wasn't supposed to be penetrating these other women, but you ended up doing it. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. No, no, no, no. No, the plan was for them to have a menage a trois.
Starting point is 00:33:38 It didn't end up happening. She ended up cheating another woman. Oh, she cheated on you with a whole another woman. It wasn't cheating. It was open. He knew about it. Were you in love another woman. Oh, she cheated on you with a whole another woman. It wasn't cheating. It was open. He knew about it. Were you in love? No.
Starting point is 00:33:48 I knew I was never going to leave my husband. So it was just for the vagina, just for the fun. Yeah. I mean, we started dating when I was 21 years old. So there were some things that I wanted to experience that I didn't get a chance to experience. So I decided to dip in the lady pond and explore my bicariousity at the time. What did you not experience? Orgasms?
Starting point is 00:34:04 No, I did experience orgasms. I'm saying with another woman. You see that? You throw the shot and see. I was about to say. Yo, yo, listen. She done experienced five or six of them motherf***ers in a night. Let's go. So did you like the Lady Pond?
Starting point is 00:34:20 Yeah, it was cool for the moment, but that's not something that I'm interested in continuously doing. We're in a monogamous relationship now. It's just all about me and my husband. This happened seven years ago. Our marriage has been restored for the past four years. Got you.
Starting point is 00:34:35 And you knew it was going to come up on the show because people did know about that already. Yeah. They had seen you guys out with other people. Oh, right, right, right. So you kind of have to put it out there because they knew it. Yeah, and it's our truth. It's our story, and we're not ashamed of it. You know, us being transparent can help somebody else
Starting point is 00:34:52 that may be going through challenges in their relationship. Now, what are the pros and cons? I need to know some pros and cons. Of what? The open relationship. Any benefits? I mean, the benefit for a certain amount of time is the fact that you get to taste different flavors, you know.
Starting point is 00:35:08 But ultimately, after tasting those flavors, you start, the jealousy starts to come in. You know, the envy starts to come in. Okay, maybe I'm at home and wifey is out. I'm like, what the hell is wifey doing right now? And then it's the reverse situation. Wifey's at the crib like, whoa, whoa, whoa, what the hell is my husband doing right
Starting point is 00:35:25 now? Now you're starting to think about all kind of other things. What were the rules, though? Like, was there no eating box? You know, you gotta eat, you gotta wear a condom. Like, what were the rules? Oh, definitely have to protect yourself. I don't need him bringing me home nothing. The rules, I mean, just be respectful at the end of the day.
Starting point is 00:35:41 Did you get to see the girls beforehand? Did you pick out the girls or it was just you didn't want to know nothing about it? No, I didn't want to know nothing about it. You do your thing and I do mine. Did you guys go out on actual dinner dates with other people or was it just a sexual thing? Nah, nah.
Starting point is 00:35:57 Yeah, we went out. That's why you were saying people heard about it and knew about it beforehand because I'm sure they seen us out. Oh, y'allall went on dates with separate people. He went out with a... Yeah. Yes. That's cheating.
Starting point is 00:36:12 That's cheating. That's cheating. No, we're not cheating. No, because we had the conversation initially that, yo, we're going to open this thing out. Cheating is deception. You can do your thing. I'm going to do my thing. Okay.
Starting point is 00:36:22 It is what it is. So could you take your wife to Ruth Chris and then take the other woman to Ruth Chris? I mean, we probably didn't visit the same restaurant. Nah, I don't know if I want you to take her to Ruth Chris. Take the other woman to McDonald's. Yeah, you're not lying. Did you ever meet any of the girls? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:36:38 So they came up to you in the club and was like, you know who we're with? Yeah. I mean, I seen them out at your birthday party. You invited them to the birthday party? What? Yeah, he invited the girl to the birthday party. You invited him to the birthday party? Yeah, he invited the girl to the birthday party. Well, who helped you blow out your camera? Well, it got to the point where it was, you know, a little gray. It was a whole lot of a gray area, ultimately.
Starting point is 00:36:57 And we were actually, it led to separation for us, you know. It wasn't good. Yeah, it's definitely. The birthday party's taking it a little too far that's crazy you can't have i mean we were basically separated at the time we were in our feelings ultimately this was fast forward probably a year later maybe even damn near two years later before we began to restore our relationship so i mean i you know at that point i was feeling a little some kind of way so hey, hey, you throw jabs.
Starting point is 00:37:26 All right, we got more with Ronnie and Shamari DeVoe from Housewives of Atlanta. So don't move. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club from Housewives of Atlanta. We have Ronnie and Shamari DeVoe.
Starting point is 00:37:41 Charlamagne? Now, Shamari, why don't you open Pandora's box like that? Because they always say women can't. I mean, a man cannot please a woman the way a woman can please another woman. Especially when it comes to eating vaginas. So was it hard to go back? No, it was not hard to go back because he pleases me just as well or better than a woman. It doesn't make a difference.
Starting point is 00:38:00 Yeah. There you go. Say what you got to say. Say what you got to say. Let's clap. No, seriously. Seriously. Like, he has go. Say what you got to say. Say what you got to say. Let's clap. No, seriously. Seriously.
Starting point is 00:38:06 Like, he does, he has everything, but he has more. Like, women don't have penis. Right. They just have a mouth. We have small penises, they say.
Starting point is 00:38:15 Yeah, we, yeah, right. Exactly. So he has a penis and he has a mouth. So, you know, I have the best of both worlds. I'm sorry? Women and men, who eats box better?
Starting point is 00:38:21 Men. My husband. There you go. True. You never was nervous about maybe a girl looking better than you or a girl taking you from your man? No, I wasn't nervous. I never was. I knew I had this guy on lockdown.
Starting point is 00:38:34 I knew he wasn't going nowhere. I put it on him when I was just turned 21, back in the day. So, he wasn't going nowhere. So, no menage a trois in the future? No. No menage a trois. We are so past that. While I wasn't going nowhere, it was going down for a good three years? No. No menage a trois in the future. We are so past that. While I wasn't going nowhere,
Starting point is 00:38:46 it was going down for a good three years. And you was going right back. Yes, indeed. What about you, Ronnie? Is it hard to go back after having that open relationship? Like, all of a sudden, you gotta be faithful again? Yeah, listen, man, it was tough. I mean, you know, I shut it all the way down at one point in our relationship.
Starting point is 00:39:01 It was like, I'm done. And, you know, when I think about marriage, to me, my parents got a divorce when I was like three years old, right? So I didn't have that example of longevity as far as marriage was concerned, not in my home, but I had the example through friends and a couple other people outside of me. So I always felt like when I did this thing, I wanted to do it once and I wanted to be able to say ultimately 25 years, 50 year anniversary.
Starting point is 00:39:30 So although it was tough, something in me made me feel like I still love my wife. Maybe we can get over this. And God first. And then as a black man, she would always come to me and say, yo, let's go to a marriage counselor, you know, so we can really figure out
Starting point is 00:39:47 how to bring this thing back together. And at first I was like, nah, hell nah. I'm not trying to, right. Nobody, you know, stepping into my world. You know, I know how to handle this ultimately. And I just had to bow down and we saw a couple different counselors and it wasn't until we really met up with Martez and Wadrina Layton,
Starting point is 00:40:07 a married couple, that they began to speak life into us, and our marriage was restored ultimately. But it took a minute. It took a long time. It took a good year. At least six months. Yeah, it took a good, well, she said six months. It took a good year.
Starting point is 00:40:20 Of hardcore education, like you were in college, like taking notes and really just learning about each other all over again and seeing what each other's love languages are and really practicing effective, active listening
Starting point is 00:40:33 and communication. Like it's some real, it's hard. If a couple comes to you guys and says, we're thinking about doing an open relationship, we know you guys did it,
Starting point is 00:40:40 what would you tell them? Hell no. Don't do it. So it wasn't worth opening Pandora's box? No, it wasn't. It was worth it because at the end of the day, I feel like it strengthened our bond. Like, everybody's going to go through challenges and
Starting point is 00:40:51 obstacles, but when you're able to overcome those challenges and then come out even better after that, like, I feel like it was, the experience was worth it to me. But everybody's not going to be able to make it through something like that. Yeah, a lot of people give up.
Starting point is 00:41:06 And that's why there's divorce. Right, right, right. Right. It's hard. And we were on the brink. I'm saying, like, we were sitting down at the kitchen table with the computer right in front of us
Starting point is 00:41:16 figuring out how we were going to divvy up the little bit of s*** that we did have, ultimately, so. What made y'all stop and say, you know what, we can make this work if y'all were that close of just doing it. What made you stop? God.
Starting point is 00:41:27 I mean, I'm telling you, like before, before all of this, we never really prayed together and we never, we never did that until maybe after us being together for like, what, 10 years, 11 years? You know, at the dinner table and all that kind of stuff, but just praying for each other and, and, and some of those kind of things, I think God definitely had a bigger purpose. Sometimes you don't really understand what it is that you have in front of you. Neither one of us would have thought that we could make it through an open relationship ultimately
Starting point is 00:41:58 and get to the point where we had the blessings that we have, our two baby boys, Ronald and Roman. But if we didn't go through some of the hardships, then you don't get to the ultimate blessing. It's funny that you say that. You know, I've been with my wife. We've been married 17 years, been together 24. But we didn't start praying with each other like that. Of course, you pray at the dinner table. We didn't really start praying with each other until about 10 years ago, 8 years ago.
Starting point is 00:42:21 It was 10 years ago. And the whole relationship has changed. Changed so much. I've been blessed and got more blessings and it's stronger. And I pray every morning before I leave to go to work, I wake my ass up and I pray every night. It's not just a thank you, we have a conversation with God and it works
Starting point is 00:42:36 so much. And then when you start to value the sanctity of marriage and really just honor the oath that you made under God, like till death do us part through sickness and health like you really those words mean a lot and you know so
Starting point is 00:42:49 yeah that's something I want to get into marriage counseling only because you know me and my wife have been together for like 20 plus years I don't feel
Starting point is 00:42:55 I don't think I don't think there's anything wrong with fine tuning what you have you have to find the right person though you have to find
Starting point is 00:43:01 the right person that you're comfortable with because I remember going with my wife at first and I just felt like it was an older white guy. And I just felt like he didn't relate. He didn't understand, you know. And it made us hate it at first.
Starting point is 00:43:12 You know what I mean? I just felt like he didn't understand. And sometimes they can be biased. They can lean towards the man or the woman. And we did go through probably, again, four or five different marriage counselors before we met Martez and Wadrina. And like my wife said, active listening was one of the main things that helped us. So often in an argument, you know, you're sitting there looking at your wife or your significant other, and there's this wall up,
Starting point is 00:43:37 and you're waiting for the moment and the opportunity to fire back, right? But when they talk to us about active listening, you actually have to listen to what the person is saying and repeat it back, right? But when they talk to us about active listening, you actually have to listen to what the person is saying and repeat it back, right? And then if you didn't say everything that she said to you, then she'll
Starting point is 00:43:56 tell you the things that you missed out on, right? So when you do it in that capacity, you can't help but hear the person out as opposed to waiting to fire back. So that was one of the main things. Listening with the intent to understand and not reply. That happens in my relationship too.
Starting point is 00:44:12 Where you're a right fighter, where you just want to win the argument. You just want to be right. You don't care what it takes. You just want to win and you don't necessarily listen. That's a good thing. I'm going to do that for now. Or when people sometimes just say they agree with you, but they don't really agree with you
Starting point is 00:44:26 they just say that to move on to kill the argument don't you hate when you say you agree with somebody and you really do but they're like
Starting point is 00:44:31 no you don't you're just saying I really do agree right like come on now so this whole time you didn't need a menage a trois you just needed
Starting point is 00:44:37 marriage counseling yeah we needed a firm foundation set in our relationship we went to marriage pre-marital counseling probably four or five times before we got married. Yeah, but that's really nothing.
Starting point is 00:44:48 You guys do have an album coming out together. Yes. So let's talk about that. I sent you the song, Envy. When? I didn't get it. Yeah. I got it this morning and I forwarded it to you. Oh, she said it this morning. That's why. That's when I got it. Yeah, yeah. Come on. You gotta play that, Joy. We don't play this morning. Yes, it's called
Starting point is 00:45:03 Love Comes Through. The album isn't titled yet. We're looking at releasing the album on our 13th anniversary, which is March 10th. But this is our first single. It's called Love Comes Through. Matter of fact, introduce it.
Starting point is 00:45:16 Yo, this is Love Comes Through for me and Mari, a.k.a. The Devotees. That's right. You're looking so beautiful over there. Oh, thank you. Just like this song. Play that joint, Envy.
Starting point is 00:45:24 Everybody, it's DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. We still got some special guests in the building. Ronnie DeVoe and Shamari DeVoe from Housewives of Atlanta. What's going on with you and Marlo? I seen you guys going back and forth. She's talking about how you dress.
Starting point is 00:45:40 You talking about all types of things. Her edible arrangements. She said don't send her edible arrangements. Send her the diver. I like edible arrangements. She said don't send her edible arrangements. Send her Godiva. I like edible arrangements. I do, too. And she tried to throw shade on edible arrangements. And tell me I need to send her some Godiva chocolate. Like, I'd rather have some fruit.
Starting point is 00:45:53 I have a choice I take to Godiva. You would? I like Godiva. I'm a health nut. But the edible arrangements is chocolate covered fruit, ain't it? Not always. And you can pick a different arrangement. Oh.
Starting point is 00:46:03 What's your problem? What's the beef come from? I mean, Marlo just, she is notorious. She's known for engaging in arguments with the cast for attention. She's gotten into it with Nene, Portia, Cynthia, everybody.
Starting point is 00:46:17 So now I guess it's my turn. And she really got upset because I went on Watch What Happens Live and they asked me who the shadiest housewife was. And I was like, oh, wait, Marlo's not a housewife. So she got really upset and she decided to address me on Twitter. You called her Marho. I called her Marho.
Starting point is 00:46:35 You said her credit was low. Yeah, because she boosts her bootleg fashions and scams people, sleeps with old men, all of that stuff. But she's trying to come for me for my fashions and I'm like, just because I don't wear the Fendi's and the Louboutins and all that, I have twins. I'm not trying to be dressed up and all of that. It's just not me. I dress how I want to dress, but it's like
Starting point is 00:46:58 the whole season she's just coming after me and I really think it's because I have something that she wants. She wants to be married. She wants children. She wants a peach. You know, all of that. Now, how do you deal with when your significant other's parents don't like you? You had some issues with his mom.
Starting point is 00:47:14 How do you get over that? My mom devoted like you? A lot of people do go through that. Yeah, she didn't. And actually, that was the first time that we talked about it when you saw it on that episode. It's just, it's really hard because you really want, you know, I love him so much and I want his mom to love me as well. And I respect that. I love her because she had him.
Starting point is 00:47:35 And it's just really hard when sometimes moms get a little bit too attached to their sons. And, you know, they look at it like they're the number one woman, you know, for their whole life. And sometimes you have to just, you know, you got to let your son go and realize that he's got to go out and make his family. So I think it's hard for her to have someone else come in and take a piece of, you know, the pie. That's crazy. You the only boy running? No, no, no. I have twin brothers.
Starting point is 00:48:04 Twins running a family. Yeah. And that's not easy, like, to get over that hump, because sometimes it's putting your ego to the side, and sometimes, as a husband, you have to step in, and you don't want to slight your mom or your wife. Exactly. Yeah, that's true. I mean, ultimately, I just had to have the conversation with my mom just to let
Starting point is 00:48:20 her know, like, you know, I love this woman. This is going to be the woman that I'm married to for the rest of my life, and there has to be a certain level of respect there, and she understood know, I love this woman. This is going to be the woman that I'm married to for the rest of my life. And there has to be a certain level of respect there. And she understood that, ultimately. She wants the best for me. And everybody has their certain perception of what they want for their children. But now they have a great relationship, you know,
Starting point is 00:48:37 after we were all able to basically damn near have some couple slash mom therapy, you know, to where now we all understand and respect each other. You know what I wanted to ask you, Ronnie? With everything going on in pop culture right now, like with the Surviving R. Kelly series, it's that line, I think, in Poison, where it says backstage, underage.
Starting point is 00:48:55 Adolescent. How you doing? That's on Do Me, yeah. How do y'all handle that line now? Do you still say it? Well, underage was 21 and under, down to 18. It was not 18 and under. Yes, exactly.
Starting point is 00:49:07 But it's an adolescent. No, I mean, come on. That's just terminology. Sometimes you just throw a jab on that level. But we're definitely not proponents of anything that's on that level. When you look at R. Kelly, Bill Cosby are just going through s*** in their life, man. I mean, for him to be molested as a child is kind of like the circles of life revolving. But ultimately, man, the cat needs to be put under the f***ing jail, if you ask me,
Starting point is 00:49:35 because it still continues to happen. And how's the group doing? Is the group speaking now? Is New Edition speaking now? She's laughing. Ronnie, Bobby, Ricky, and Mike, you know, we're still rocking, man. You know, we're on tour. As a matter of fact, in the spring,
Starting point is 00:49:50 late April, early May, they're just fixing the routing right now. So that's what it is, man. Ralph and Johnny over there handling their business. And at some point, I'm sure, you know, we'll smash this thing back together. But right now, we're doing
Starting point is 00:50:02 what we're supposed to do. Is Ralph still a problem? I know last time they said he was a little bit of a problem. Is he still a problem? It's a problem because, you know, when you reach out to a cat and he doesn't return your phone call or a text, it's like, okay, you know, maybe some more time has
Starting point is 00:50:16 to pass before, you know, he can jump back in the car. So you texted him Happy New Year and he didn't hit you back? I mean, s*** happens. That really happened? Not Happy new year, but happy birthday. When's his birthday? May 17th.
Starting point is 00:50:28 Oh, that was last year. That was a long time ago. Well, yeah. I texted these guys. Yo, yo,
Starting point is 00:50:34 I texted these guys. They didn't hit me back either. Yo, you see how she took that sweat out of my eye right, I mean, that eye booger out of my eye right there.
Starting point is 00:50:42 I just want to say, on the surface, she picked a booger out of his nose. I can't have my baby looking crazy now. Yo, what's crazy is sometimes you're holding your phone, right, and you make a phone call and then your phone is still open. I look down and I'm seeing Adam calling Ralph.
Starting point is 00:50:58 This was maybe in September. Oh, you butt-tiled him. Right, so I was about to hang up, but then I was like, nah, let me see if he answers. Boom, he didn't answer. Then I shot him a text. But I think at some point, we're going to get back to it. It's just the ebbs and flows of what New Edition is all about.
Starting point is 00:51:19 And it's almost like it's meant to be, because if Bobby wasn't kicked out of the group, you wouldn't have Don't Be Cruel, right? If Ralph and Johnny didn't feel like, okay, now it's the time for us to go solo, you wouldn't have Bell Biv DeVoe, right? And we spoke Ronnie, Bobby, Ricky, Mike, and Ricky and Mike into existence in 1984. So, I mean, you know. You think it's too sensitive? Shut up, man. He told you what it is. Shut up.
Starting point is 00:51:37 Sensitive. Well, we thank you guys for joining us. Thank you, guys. I'm about to put this dude in the headlock. Yo, yo, but before we leave, can we say, Thank you I'm about to put this dude In the headlock Yo yo But before we leave Can we say One of the reasons Why we accepted
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Starting point is 00:52:06 And we have like 500 couples that come out seriously dating Married couples, 500 plus couples That's what we had last year We walk a two mile walk, hold hands, we pray They reaffirm, we reaffirm our love for one another We have a balloon release where we let go of all of our challenges And it's just a really good time We speak, we have entertainment
Starting point is 00:52:24 And a lot of inspiration and encouragement to other like-minded couples. So that's dope. Congratulations on that. Thank you. Well, thank you guys for joining us. Word. All right.
Starting point is 00:52:34 It's Ronnie and Shamari DeVoe. Thank you. Love comes through. Available on all platforms right now. All right. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Hey everybody, it's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get to these rumors. Let's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. I think everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,
Starting point is 00:52:45 Charlamagne Tha Guy, we are The Breakfast Club. Let's get to these rumors. Let's talk R. Kelly. It's about time. What's going on? Rumor Report. Rumor Report. This is The Rumor Report. Talk to them. With Angela Yee on The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 00:53:00 Well, R. Kelly's studio was featured prominently on Surviving R. Kelly, and the cops have paid a visit to the studio. They didn't get any type of call or anything, but they just, I guess, felt like they wanted to go pay the visit. They said it looked like it was vacant, but he did have a birthday party there on Tuesday, by the way. So R. Kelly was celebrating his birthday, his 52nd birthday on Tuesday. Now, he's also currently being evicted from that music studio in Chicago on the west side. They said he has two weeks to settle up on the money that he owes.
Starting point is 00:53:30 He owes about $80,000. Wow. Yeah, he pays $22,000 a month. It's a 10-year lease that he has, and I guess he's fell behind in some payments. He rents it? Yeah. They're trying to sell the building now, too.
Starting point is 00:53:44 How the hell could R. Kelly celebrate a birthday at a time like this? I don't know. You know, it seems like he's not all there. So clearly something's off. How many candles do you think is on his birthday cake? I don't know. I don't want to know. All right.
Starting point is 00:53:57 I'm going to say 16. Now he's still getting booked for concerts after all of this. But right now the only place that's really booking him is in Germany. So they said the dates that he has booked there, they were sealed in after all of this. But right now, the only place that's really booking him is in Germany. So they said the dates that he has booked there, they were sealed in after Surviving R. Kelly aired. Now, what he's doing there is tickets for $115. And then if you want to do a meet and greet, that's going to cost you $355 in Germany. So what's the legal age of consent in Germany?
Starting point is 00:54:20 I have no idea. Somebody look that up. Producers, Google that. All right. Now, R. Kelly, they're saying, may also be planning to flee to Africa, according to reports. There's some tips now that investigators are getting that that's his plan to flee the country. So they want to make sure that they work really hard toward charging him with the crime to keep him here. They don't want you in Africa. You think you're just going to pull up to Johannesburg or Nigeria and be welcomed with open arms?
Starting point is 00:54:44 They got the Internet, too. They know what's going on. He don't want to go to jail. He's just probably going to pull up to Johannesburg or Nigeria and be welcomed with open arms? They got the internet, too. They know what's going on. He don't want to go to jail. He's just probably going to get out there and get low. He ain't even get his ass whipped. His brothers in Africa, too, they'll whip his ass. Absolutely. Does anybody think that R. Kelly is getting too much attention right now?
Starting point is 00:54:56 Oh, and 14 years old is the legal age in Germany. That's why he wants to be in Germany. That's crazy. Now it all makes sense. All right. All right. Well, Future is promoting his album, The Wizard, and here's what he had to say about
Starting point is 00:55:08 R. Kelly getting too much attention. Man, who was that? I thought we had forgotten about that. We're giving it too much attention, you know what I'm saying? Is that what it is? When you give things too much attention, they blow up. That's why he gonna blow up. That's why his music gonna do what it is, because y'all keep talking about it. It'll go away. Who cares what
Starting point is 00:55:23 Future has to say about R. Kelly at a time like this? I think people are wondering why his streams have gone up the way that they have. And it is because everyone's talking about him. But we kind of have to right now because we want to make sure that a justice is served and more victims are coming forward. And they wouldn't have if it wasn't for the documentary. And they pulled his music off of radio stations now. So, finally.
Starting point is 00:55:47 I mean, here's the thing. It's not about R. Kelly. I mean, it is about R. Kelly, but it's not really about R. Kelly. This is an entry point to a broader conversation. And that conversation should be about the abuse of women, the abuse of young black girls. That's the larger issue we should be talking about, even more so than R. Kelly.
Starting point is 00:56:01 Because long after the hype of this doc dies down and people go on about their business, even if R. Kelly ends up locked up, it's R. Kelly's in every community. So, yes, we need to speak up about this loudly to set a cultural standard that we won't stand for this. But it's about R. Kelly, too, because he needs to go to jail. He needs to pay a lot. There's a lot of victims out there that need some healing and they want revenge. He's just an entry point to a broader conversation. He's very cocky about having gotten away with it.
Starting point is 00:56:23 Absolutely. Need to lock his ass up. And then we need to start catching on everybody who's dating and sexually molesting these young girls. This is an entry point to a broader conversation. Stuff like this has been happening in every community, especially in
Starting point is 00:56:35 the black community for a long time, and we don't talk about it. Your uncle might be R. Kelly. Alright, well, Michael Jackson, there's the Leaving Neverland documentary, and that's going to premiere at the Sundance Film Festival this year. And in that documentary, it reportedly accuses Michael of sexually abusing two young boys. You knew this was coming. Michael Jackson's estate is saying that those allegations are basically an attempt to exploit Michael when it premieres at Sundance.
Starting point is 00:57:01 They said this is yet another lurid production and an outrageous and pathetic attempt to exploit and cash in on Michael Jackson. It's another rehash of dated and discredited allegations. According to his estate, they said it's baffling why any credible filmmaker wouldn't involve himself with this project. Oh, the answer to that is easy. I mean, you know, this is still business
Starting point is 00:57:21 at the end of the day. And that R. Kelly doc was great for business. And, you know, this might end up being a new lane. And they're going to target people like the Michael Jacksons because they know all the noise that these documentaries make on social media. They're good for ratings. I mean, this is still the TV business and the film business at the end of the day. And I'm not mad if it's as detailed as R. Kelly's story. If it's as detailed and they have the proof and they have the evidence with anybody that they do a documentary on,
Starting point is 00:57:44 at R. Kelly, they had people in R. Kelly's camp talking detailed and they have the proof and they have the evidence with anybody that they do a documentary on. At R. Kelly, they had people in R. Kelly's camp talking about what they did wrong. You know what I mean? If they have it that detailed and that much proof, then I'm all for it. Anybody. Y'all gonna keep that same energy with Michael Jackson? If it's the detail and he did the same thing, yeah, why not? Alright, now Wendy Williams, we thought
Starting point is 00:58:00 she was gonna be back on the air on Monday. Well, she has postponed for a second time when she's going to return to her show. Now she says a panel will host in her absence. She has to take some more time off. Who's that? Wendy Williams.
Starting point is 00:58:12 Who's going to host? A panel. Oh, a panel. Yeah, a panel. So I guess now it's coming back on the 21st. So that's the plan right now, according to the Jasmine brand. Okay, Armand. According to the Jasmine brand.
Starting point is 00:58:24 Yes. Armand. Huh? Oh, no, real quick. okay I'm and to the Jasmine brand yes I mean it huh oh no real quick if I'm not mistaken I think the two people that that Michael Jackson's documentary is about if I'm not mistaken I could be wrong but I thought that they pled under oath that none of the stuff that they said Michael did was true correct that was the Wade Robson Wade Robeson and James safe Chuck safe Chuck yes yes did testify under oath that Michael never did anything Inappropriate toward them And they are
Starting point is 00:58:48 They said it's unclear who is the focus of the documentary But that's who the estate believes are the two people That's what I said If it's proof like this all Kelly Like it's full proof evidence and all that Then I want to see any documentary But if it's not then I don't want to see it Yeah but they already pled on the oath that he didn't do anything
Starting point is 00:59:04 So can you really take their word seriously? Not at all. They pled on the oath. Then I don't want to see that. You know what I'm saying? Like, come on, man. This documentary right here, this is a money grab. But that's what the estate believes. We don't know for sure that that's the case. Well, if it is those two individuals, then this is just a clear money grab. That's all. All right. I'm Angela Yee
Starting point is 00:59:20 and that's your rumor report. Charlemagne. Yes. Who are you giving that down? Well, you know, since we're having a little discussion about Protect Our Women doing rumor report, you know, let's talk about that. Four after the hour. These are two cases of instant karma. Two moments that can be used to teach one lesson, which is protect our women. All right. We'll get into that next.
Starting point is 00:59:38 Keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Charlemagne, say the gang donkey under the shade. Charlemagne. You are a donkey. It's time for Donkey of the Day. Donkey of the Day does not discriminate.
Starting point is 00:59:52 I might not have the song of the day, but I got the donkey of the day. So if you ever feel I need to be a donkey, man, hit it with the heat. It's a breakfast club, bitches. Who's donkey of the day today? Well, donkey of the day for Thursday donkey of the day for thursday january 10th is a double donkey and the reason i'm giving out this double donkey is because these are two moments that can be used to teach one lesson and that one lesson is protect all women now he is going to a man named august williams and a hall is going to an unidentified man who tried to rob pollyanna
Starting point is 01:00:23 bianna now i often ask myself as a man, am I doing enough to protect women? That's a question that all men should ask themselves because a lot of us have daughters, sisters, aunts, mothers, of course, and friends that are women that we care about. But we also must remember that other women are also someone's daughters, sister, aunt, mother, friends, et cetera, et cetera. Basically, it takes a village not just to raise a child, but to look after one another.
Starting point is 01:00:47 If we all followed the golden rule rule if we all treated each other the way we wanted to be treated if all men treated all women the way we wanted people to treat the women in our life and we would truly be making the ecosystem a better place right now I truly believe that whatever you don't know the universe will teach you and the universe can either learn you the easy way or the hard way well these two, August Williams and this other man whose name we don't have yet, learned the hard way. Let's start with August Williams. This happened in Charlotte, North Carolina, when August Williams attempted to kidnap a woman by forcing her into his car. Thank God this woman broke free.
Starting point is 01:01:18 Not only did she break free, but she ran into a nearby establishment for help. And there was a group of men in this establishment who were ready, willing, and able to protect our women. Would you like to know what this establishment was? Would you like to know who these people are who came to this woman's aid? Let's go to WSOC 9 for the report, please. Karate instructor who fought off a man who chased a woman into his karate school is speaking out for the first time about the chaos.
Starting point is 01:01:45 He said he was just punching at everything from walls to cars to everything. A man tried to force a woman into a car and then she ran. They say he followed her into the karate school. Well, that's when police say the instructor confronted August Williams to keep his students safe. He also said because last night was traumatic for the young students who were there, his lesson for them tomorrow will be centered around what happened. Williams
Starting point is 01:02:12 has been arrested. Fatality. August Williams attempted to kidnap a woman. She got away and ran into a karate studio. Look at God. Okay. And this is just further proof that karma has no menu. You get served what you deserve.
Starting point is 01:02:27 Can I get an amen? I said, can I get an amen? Amen. Amen. Heathens. Now, let's move on to the second teachable moment. At least he didn't run into a gun range. That would have been bad. That would have been classic.
Starting point is 01:02:36 Why didn't he let the students practice on the guy, too? I guess you couldn't, though, because it's self-defense. So, you could, again, okay. Now, let's move on to the second teachable moment. this one was in rio de janeiro and this idea unidentified man i keep calling him unidentified because we don't have his name his name isn't isn't in any of the news articles but he's also unidentified because his face right now looks like he's getting an early start on a halloween costume this man looks like something out of michael jackson's thriller video this man looks like one of the Whisperers from The Walking Dead.
Starting point is 01:03:06 And trust me when I tell you, he earned every knot on his face. See, this man was waiting outside the apartment of a female UFC fighter named Pollyanna Viana. And he was threatening harm to her so he could rob her. And this happened. Let's go to ESPN for the report, please. There is a young lady in Brazil, and her name's Pollyanna, and she's sitting on a bench, just minding her own business. She's looking at her cell phone, like we all do.
Starting point is 01:03:30 And while Pollyanna was sitting on that bench, there was a gentleman that went and sat down next to her. And he just kind of sat a little too close and made her a little uncomfortable. And Pollyanna just felt a certain way about it. So she took that cell phone, and she started to put it in her pocket. It was at that moment when the gentleman sitting next to her gestured to something that was shaped like a gun in his pocket
Starting point is 01:03:49 and demanded that she hand over the cell phone little did this man who attempted to rob pollyanna know pollyanna is a professional mma artist that fights in the ufc so pollyanna stood up punched him in the face kicked him in the face, kicked him in the face, and put him in a choke lock, and then called the authorities and held him in the lock until the authorities came. Now you got a black eye for an iPhone, okay? See, he thought he had an easy lick because she was a woman, all right? Some women are fragile as glass, but some women, in the case of Pollyanna, are fragile like bombs. So you got to be careful how you handle both because are fragile as glass, but some women, in the case of Pollyanna, are fragile like bombs. So you gotta be careful how you handle both, because one you might break,
Starting point is 01:04:28 but one might break you. By the way, this is one of my worst nightmares. Getting into a random fight with someone, and they end up being an MMA fighter, and you end up in a red-necked chokehold on a random Tuesday. This story of Pollyanna Vianna putting the beats on this man who attempted to rob her reminds me of a quote that they say,
Starting point is 01:04:44 and by they, I mean me. How people treat you is their karma. How you react is yours. How that UFC fighter reacts to you trying to rob them, well, that's your ass. All right, these are two examples of karma being both swift and hilarious, and nothing I love more than instant karma. And if you don't believe in karma, these two stories should change your mind. I ask myself often, am I doing enough to protect our women? Yes, but I need to do a lot more. But clearly, what we won't do as men,
Starting point is 01:05:12 the universe will. Please give August Williams and the unidentified man who tried to rob Pollyanna the biggest hee-haw. Alright. Also a great reason to let your daughter teach Get some self defense classes as well Absolutely
Starting point is 01:05:28 My kids in karate Taekwondo Itch knee son she go Rock a itchy achi kuju Might be time to get back Into boxing again What the hell did you just say? I counted to ten I believe
Starting point is 01:05:39 You believe You believe Now you don't even know What you did for real You might have just insulted The whole Asian community No but I did I took Taekwondo and I remember being like
Starting point is 01:05:47 Itch, knee, son, she, go, rocker Itchy, itchy, coo It sounded like you said itch twice Itch, itchy And then you said itchy knee I want to apologize to the Asian community Because I don't know if anybody's offending y'all or not No forget it
Starting point is 01:06:03 Up next is ask Yee 800-5't need you to believe. 800-585-1051 if you need relationship advice or any type of advice, you can ask Yee right now. 800-585-1051. It's The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 01:06:15 Good morning. Come on, mom. Need relationship advice? Need personal advice? Just need real advice. Call up now for Ask Yee. Keep it real. Everybody, it's DJ Envy Angela Ye.
Starting point is 01:06:29 Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. It's time for Ask Ye. Hello, who's this? Hey, my name is... Oh, I'm not going to say my name because I don't want nobody to know. You're anonymous. Okay, I have a man.
Starting point is 01:06:40 And he has a 20-year-old, a 17-year-old, a 6-year-old, and a 3-year-old. Okay. But I don't have any kids. Okay. My man, like, every day he doesn't call me and say,
Starting point is 01:06:51 how your day doing or did you eat or anything like that. But he calls his daughter, which is acceptable. I don't mind him doing that. I'm not jealous or anything like that.
Starting point is 01:06:59 But he calls his daughter and he makes sure, okay, did you eat today or what did you do? Did this and that. But is it wrong for me to think like, okay, did you eat today? Or what did you do? Did this and that. But is it wrong for me to think like, okay, why can't he do that for me? So you want him to treat you like his daughter? No, I don't want him to treat me like his daughter.
Starting point is 01:07:14 What I want him to do is I want some of the attention that, I'm not saying I want the attention that he's giving his daughter, but I'm saying that as a woman, shouldn't he ask me how my day is going and stuff like that too? Like, I understand that's his daughter. He got to make sure that his daughter's okay, but how about me? Because it seems like the attention
Starting point is 01:07:34 always drips to her, but... Well, it sounds like he has four kids and a lot going on that he has to check up on, and you don't have any kids, and your attention's always on him, but his attention is more divided because he has a lot more things to be concerned about and a lot more people.
Starting point is 01:07:49 Oh, yeah, you're right. Do you call him and check on him and ask how he's doing? Yes, all the time. I text him at work and make sure he's okay and stuff like that, but he doesn't seem to get the drift to do it with me. I don't know if it's because I don't ask for it or if I don't. Well, why don't you ask for it? I don't know, because I feel like he's hard-headed.
Starting point is 01:08:10 Like, he don't listen. And if I ask for it, it won't make no sense. Well, Ms. Anonymous, why would you talk yourself out of something that you haven't even tried yet? This is what you do. And it's all about how you ask for things, too, and how we communicate with each other. So if you say it in a way like, you know what I love?
Starting point is 01:08:26 I love when you call me and check on me. And I appreciate that. That's why I always call and check on you, baby. Yeah, you're right. I should be more engaged. Yeah, I should do things like that. Give him the opportunity to do what you want him to do instead of saying to yourself, he's not going to do it anyway.
Starting point is 01:08:44 He don't want to do this. Why he don't treat me like this? You got to show people how to treat you sometimes. Yeah, you're right. You're right about that. I never thought of it like that. I just thought of, because I'm more quiet than to push. As a matter of fact, I'm more of a man coming on to me than me coming on to a man.
Starting point is 01:09:03 All right. So that's how I am. Well, he's a little older, so he's probably not playing those games with you. But go ahead and let him know what you want and do it in a nice way. And perhaps he'll do it, and then you guys will be a whole lot happier. Yeah. You're right. Thank you very much for the advice.
Starting point is 01:09:17 Thank you. I appreciate you for calling and checking in on me, boo. All right. I will. Thank you. You're welcome. All right. Good luck.
Starting point is 01:09:24 Ask Yee. 800-585-1051. If you need relationship advice or any type of advice, hit Yee now. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now it's time.
Starting point is 01:09:36 We're in the middle of Ask Yee. Hello, who's this? Hi, it's Cece from Brooklyn. Hey, what's your question for Yee? Okay, Yee. So me and my fiance, we've been engaged for a year and together for a year and a half. And our sex life is trash. We try toys.
Starting point is 01:09:50 We try going to a sex therapist. Everything. And it's just so boring. Like, what else can we do? So explain trash. Like, what's trash about it? Is it his equipment? I'm not attracted to him
Starting point is 01:10:06 like that. So why are you guys getting married? Because I love him. He's a great guy. You don't give up the 80 for the 20. So I'm trying to fix the sex. You love his personality, but you're not attracted to him. So how can sex be good with somebody you're not attracted to?
Starting point is 01:10:21 Because it used to be in the beginning. So I don't understand what happened or how we could get it back. Well, what changed? Time, I guess. Just living together. Once we moved in, our sex life declined.
Starting point is 01:10:33 And y'all both look the same. Everything else is the same. He's still a powerful man to you. Yes. And you're just bored. I just want to say this. I understand what you're saying is that settling down doesn't
Starting point is 01:10:48 have to mean settling. Could you forever for the rest of your life be with somebody that you're not sexually attracted to? You called your sex life trash. I wouldn't give up a really great guy though because of one aspect of the relationship. I wouldn't see this any other way.
Starting point is 01:11:04 It seems like it's really affecting you though. It is. because of one aspect of the relationship. I wouldn't see this any other way. It seems like it's really affecting you, though. It is. It is. Sometimes you have to respond to what your needs are and be a little selfish and stop trying to talk yourself into something that's good on paper. It might be time for you to just, and I'm not saying y'all have to break up, but maybe it is time for you to spend some time without him
Starting point is 01:11:22 so you can figure it out, because marriage is a huge deal, and you shouldn't go into it already with an issue like that. So maybe it is, you said since y'all moved in together, maybe it is time for you to like just spend some time apart. And that's how you guys will reconnect. Okay, I'll try that. Thank you so much. Okay. All right. Ask Yee, 805-85-1051.
Starting point is 01:11:42 If you got a question for Yee, you can call her anytime. Now, we got rumors on the way. I'm sorry, but imagine being with somebody who you just don't like having sex with at all, and you said it's trash. Could you do it? Nope. I think it's important. I don't think it's everything, but I think you do have to be attracted to somebody.
Starting point is 01:12:02 I guess that's when you got to have an open relationship like Ronnie DeVoe and his wife, Shamari. And they said they wouldn't recommend that to anybody. Well, that's probably because they have sex life popping, though. But if your sex life trash, you know what I'm saying? All right, well, let's talk about the iHeartRadio Music Award nominations. You know, those are coming up. And we'll tell you who is leading the pack. All right, we'll get into all that next. Keep it locked.
Starting point is 01:12:19 This is The Breakfast Club. Good morning. It's time. She's spilling the tea. This is The Rumor Report with Angela Yee on The Breakfast Club. Well, let's talk about the iHeartRadio Music Award nominations. Now, Cardi is up for more than a dozen trophies. So congratulations to her. Shout out to Cardi.
Starting point is 01:12:41 Invasion of Privacy deserves it. Yeah, so we'll see what happens. You guys can also vote. You can check out the nominees and vote as well. Go to iHeartRadio.com slash awards to start that voting process. And trust me, there's somebody out there right now that's slow that's saying, how's she up for all these awards and she ain't put no music out yet this year? Oh, like they don't know it's from last year? Yes. Okay. Well, let's see what you guys think about some of these nominations. What is the hip-hop song of the year?
Starting point is 01:13:11 All right. Is it Drake with God's Plan? Is it Cardi B? I like it. Drake and My Feelings. Drake, Nice For What? Or Post Malone featuring Ty Dolla $ign, Psycho. Lil Duvall, Smile Bitch. And I can't believe Lil Duvall, Smile Bitch is not nominated.
Starting point is 01:13:25 I Heart, y'all are slacking. Which out of those would you say is the number one hip-hop song of the year? None of them. I told you what the hip-hop song of the year was. Actually, the hip-hop song of the year would be Travis Scott and Drake's Sickle Mode. But I Heart is probably basing it off Airplay. Now for hip-hop artists of the year.
Starting point is 01:13:44 Who do you have? Cardi B, Drake, Kendrick, Post Malone, or Travis Scott? Gotta go between Drake and Cardi to me. You know, I'm picking Bardi all day. All right, all right. Well, make sure you guys go ahead and vote. Who is this Post guy you keep talking about? What songs does he sing?
Starting point is 01:14:03 I like Post Malone songs. Oh, Post Malone. Shut up. He's already going through things and doesn't want to be picked on in the new year. Alright, now let's discuss a potential movie that you might want to see.
Starting point is 01:14:19 I know you guys are going to be scared about this, but Amazon did greenlight a Jordan Peele produced documentary series. Guess who was on? Who? Lorena Bobbitt. If you don't remember who she is, well, here's a little snippet for you. This was a modern love story.
Starting point is 01:14:36 Boy meets girl. Boy falls in love with girl. Boy marries girl. Girl cuts off boy's penis. What did he do to make her do something like that? That was a snippet. A little snippet. Listen, Jordan, he sent out big old scissors for the Us promo.
Starting point is 01:14:56 What you going to send out for Lorena Bobbitt promo, Jordan, Bill? Those same scissors. The same scissors. Yeah, he sent us big golden scissors for the Us movie. I thought they were rusty. This should be very interesting because there was so much media coverage at the time. They're going to have some clips of new interviews that touch on the alleged abuse that she suffered within the relationship, the trial, and how it still impacts media today, and how she was discussed in the media.
Starting point is 01:15:23 So, you know, should be, I think, really interesting. I think these people are doing documentaries on things that they know would have gone super viral back in the day. Like if there was social media around when Lorena Bobbitt cut off that dude's penis, it would have been everywhere. I think they're just going back just to see how Twitter reacts to this stuff. All right. Now, I know y'all want to hear
Starting point is 01:15:45 about this. Oprah Winfrey and Gayle King, they're talking about what it is that they do. They give some dating advice on how to keep things spicy in the bedroom. I would say...
Starting point is 01:15:55 Do you do costumes? Once I tried... Do you play nurse and he plays bad doctor? No, no, no. Once I tried, once I tried this, this is so many years ago,
Starting point is 01:16:02 and I got the whole negligee thing and I'm standing at the stairs when he comes in, and he literally comes in, Stedman walks right past me and says, what are you doing? I got one better. Wrap myself up with saran wrap. No, you didn't. Yes, I did.
Starting point is 01:16:15 Put on the trench coat. He came home and went, ta-da! He went, what is that? So that's not good for your ego. So I would say ask him what would be spicy. I can totally understand why you would walk by your girl if she was wrapped in saran wrap and say, what is that? You wasted the whole roll of saran wrap. It has nothing to do with you.
Starting point is 01:16:36 It has to do with the fact you're covered in saran wrap. I'm always running out of saran wrap at home and I would be so mad. Why saran wrap? Why is that sexy? What happens after you're wrapped in saran wrap at home, and I would be so mad. Why saran wrap? Why is that sexy? Like, what happens after you're wrapped in saran wrap? Do I bake you? Like, what do I do to you? Put it in the fridge.
Starting point is 01:16:51 Cut a little hole. Cut a little hole? So you can breathe. Oh. What were you thinking of? I was trying to figure this out. I'm like, cut a little hole. Like, where are you cutting a hole?
Starting point is 01:17:04 I'm just curious. I was trying to figure out why that would be pleasurable. So she's covered in saran wrap. I cut a hole figure this out. I'm like, cut a little hole. Like, where are you cutting a hole? I'm just curious. I was trying to figure out why that would be pleasurable. So she's covered in saran wrap. I cut a hole in the vagina. I don't know. That's. It is a weird thing. I don't know what the.
Starting point is 01:17:14 Let me. Why not just be naked under the trench coat? Why saran wrap? Yeah, that would be like humping your grandma's couch that had the plastic on it when you was growing up. And the couch, you know, you know, everybody had that grandma house you go to and she don't want you to sit on this furniture. She had plastic all over it.
Starting point is 01:17:27 That's like humping that. Look, now, I'm looking on Glamour.com and they said this is a nice kinky sex move that he'll love if you wrap your man up in saran wrap. And she said, I cut holes to let his nipples out and the sensation was amazing when I rubbed my fingers across his skin. Plus, when the saran wrap
Starting point is 01:17:45 was peeled off, his skin was ultra sensitive. At least it's not aluminum foil. It could have been aluminum foil. So you guys should try that. Wrap him up like a mummy. Nah. Nah, I'm cool on that.
Starting point is 01:17:56 I'll pass. That's just a waste of saran wrap. How are we going to be telling people to go green and recycle and all kinds of stuff when you're just wasting saran wrap, wrapping your body all in it? I'm sure some people have tried it out, so if you have, tweet me and I'll kinds of stuff. But you're just wasting saran wrap, wrapping your body all in it. I'm sure some people have tried it out.
Starting point is 01:18:07 So if you have, tweet me and I'll retweet you. Dropping the clues bombs for Gayle King. No, Gayle fine. Don't let nobody tell you different. And Oprah. Oprah fine too, but Gayle fine. All right. Now Shaq was discussing what really touched him about making him feel like he should pay
Starting point is 01:18:23 for a Jasmine Barnes funeral? Now, he's not the only one who made sure that everything got taken care of. And we've been talking about Jasmine Barnes a lot during Front Page News, a seven-year-old who was killed in a shooting that they feel like was a mistaken identity. Here's what he had to say about why he felt like he wanted to make sure that he actually contributed. The pain that the mom had to go through, and I saw at the end that they were raising money for the funeral, and, you know, it was something that terrible to have happen. I don't want people to have to worry about
Starting point is 01:18:52 trying to raise a few thousand to pay for a funeral. So I'm always in Houston. I've been living in Houston for 20 years, so I just thought it was the right thing to do. All right. Dropping the clues bonds for Shaq, damn it. Well, I'm Angela Yee, and that is your rumor report. Saran Wrap costs $26.28.
Starting point is 01:19:11 Where? You must be thinking about doing it. Why'd you look at the price? Saran Wrap does not cost that much. Why'd you look at the price? I just Googled Saran Wrap, and that's the first thing. Amazon.com, Saran Premium Wrap, 100 square foot rolls, pack of 12, $26.28. I see.
Starting point is 01:19:27 You about to have some fun tonight, huh? Hell no, I'm not. First of all, that's retrieval problems. $26.28 for some Saran Wrap? Absolutely not. That can't be right. My goodness. Is that right?
Starting point is 01:19:37 I don't know. That's not right. Saran Wrap is not that expensive. All right. I don't know what Saran Wrap is. Maybe you're looking at some like industrial size. Okay. On CVS it says $2.99.
Starting point is 01:19:49 What were you looking at? I don't know where you would get it ripped off. That was on Amazon. Jeff Bezos must be jacking everything up because he know he about to lose half his fortune.
Starting point is 01:19:55 My goodness. All right. Well, Revolt, we'll see you tomorrow. Everybody else, the People's Choice mixes up next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
Starting point is 01:20:02 Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, Charlamagne, you got a positive note for the people? I do, man. The positive note of the day is something to remember on this fine Thursday. Weak people revenge. Strong people forgive.
Starting point is 01:20:17 But intelligent people, we ignore. Had enough of this country? Ever dreamt about starting your own? I planted the flag. This is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy. 55 gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete.
Starting point is 01:20:31 Or maybe not. No country willingly gives up their territory. Oh my God. What is that? Bullets. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. Need help! That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan
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