The Breakfast Club - Tammy Rivera Interview and more

Episode Date: May 14, 2018

Monday 5/14 - Today on the show we had Tammy Rivera stop by where she spoke about her platinum selling song, her singing career, and how she dogged out her husband Waka Flocka after finding out that h...e cheated. Moreover, Charlamagne gave "Donkey of the Day" to a woman who wants parents to ask their babies for 'consent' before changing diapers and when we opened up the phone lines to see what our listeners thought about it, lets just say you will be surprised by the responses.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:01:46 Got the cameras, I'm out of here. I agree. What kind of show is this? My son listens to this show. The Breakfast Club. With DJ Envy. The captain of this bitch. With Angela Yee, the only one who can keep these guys in check.
Starting point is 00:01:58 With Charlamagne Tha God. I'm a lovable asshole. And this is The Breakfast Club, bitches! Good morning, Angela Yee. Good morning, DJ Envy. Charlamagne Tha God. Peace to the planet. It's Monday. Yes, it's Monday.
Starting point is 00:02:32 Back to the work week. And it feel like a Monday. You know how you wake up and like all your joints be a little stiff. And then it's like dreary outside. It is dreary. Oh, my God, man. New York just said F spring, huh? I know we nationally syndicated, but we ain't got a liquor spring.
Starting point is 00:02:47 Nah, we had it for a little bit. It felt like a little summer springish vibe, and then it's just gone. I'm talking to my mom this weekend. I'm like, yeah, it's like 55 degrees. She's like, oh, it's 90 here in South Carolina. Wow, 90 already? Damn it, man. It's supposed to be 80 all weekend after this little nasty day today. We'll see.
Starting point is 00:03:01 Hopefully it stays. Again, hopefully everybody had a great Mother's Day. I know I did. Moms came over to the house. I actually did a majority of the cooking, and we had a great time. What'd you make? We made chicken, I made mushrooms, I made
Starting point is 00:03:13 string beans, broccoli, I made scallops, and what else did I make? And macaroni and cheese. Oh, look at you. Yeah, so we had a great, great, great, great dinner. I mean, Gia helped me season it and all that, but I was the one that put it in and took it out. I feel like Gia actually made it. She didn't make it.
Starting point is 00:03:28 I actually put it in and took it out. So you put it in the oven, so therefore you did the cooking. And I sauteed it, so I did that. She seasoned it and all that other stuff, but I'm the one that actually cooked it. I definitely ordered dinner last night. You better than me. What'd you order from?
Starting point is 00:03:41 What'd you order from? This spot in Jersey. I don't want to say what it's called, but order from? This spot in Jersey. Mm-hmm. I don't want to say what it's called, but it's a steakhouse in Jersey. Mm-hmm. I made breakfast, though. I did get up and make breakfast and had breakfast in bed for my wife. Me and my daughter got up and did that. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:03:53 I didn't do nothing for my mom because we grew up Jehovah's Witnesses. Oh, see, you foul. On Mother's Day, we need to keep that same energy. That same energy. That same energy we had growing up as Jehovah's Witnesses, okay? We don't celebrate holidays, Mom. I keep that same energy on Mother's Day. What about you, Yee?
Starting point is 00:04:06 I took my mom out on Friday because she actually had to work yesterday. So we went out Friday. We went out to eat. I gave her her present and that was it. Okay.
Starting point is 00:04:14 Had a great weekend. All right, well, Tammy Rivera will be joining us this morning. Of course, she's not on Love & Hip Hop no more, right? No, they're not on anymore.
Starting point is 00:04:22 I think they're getting their own show. Okay, and of course, that's Waka Flocka's wife, so we'll be kicking with her a little bit later. And what else we got in front page news? What are we talking about? Oh, well, we are going to be talking about... This story's going to make you mad. So, imagine if you're just having a barbecue and somebody calls the police on you.
Starting point is 00:04:38 It's a black family. A white woman calls the police. And then when the police come, she acts like she's the one being harassed. What? All right, well, we'll like she's the one being harassed. What? All right, well, we'll talk about it next. Keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 00:04:48 Good morning. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. Let's get in some front page news. Now, NBA recap. The Celtics beat the Cavs yesterday, 108-83. Blew them out yesterday. Yeah, man.
Starting point is 00:05:03 Drop one of the clues bombs with Boston. Highly impressed by Boston, especially being that they don't have Kyrie Irving or Gordon Haywood. And they got a lottery pick this year, I believe. And they got cap room. Boston going to be a beast for a few years. LeBron only had, I believe, 15 to 18 points. He didn't score that much. So we'll see what happens in game two. Now, let's talk about this woman that called the police on a black family barbecuing.
Starting point is 00:05:22 Yes, this happened in Oakland, California last month. A white woman called the police on a black family barbecuing. Yes, this happened in Oakland, California last month. A white woman called the police on a black family. Now, she was pretty much hanging around them and harassing them. She had a nasty look on her face the whole time. And fortunately, a witness named Michelle Snyder actually filmed everything. Now, she said that she
Starting point is 00:05:39 could tell something was going on, and she said it was just the reasons why she said she stayed to observe the situation. She wasn't part of the people who were barbecuing. she said it was just the reasons why she said she stayed to observe the situation she wasn't part of the people who were barbecuing she said one the man that was barbecuing on seo was alone two this white woman was being aggressive with him and three i felt that if the police came the facts could be misconstrued so she said she does feel that the woman unfairly targeted them it was a public park a public park. And so what her reason was for calling the police was she was saying they were using a charcoal grill instead of a non-charcoal grill in an area that was not designated for
Starting point is 00:06:13 charcoal grills. Now, here's what happened. I hear you have a problem with these gentlemen having a barbecue here at the lake. What's going on? It's illegal to have a charcoal grill in the park here. No, it's not, actually. I just looked at the map. It says this is a designated barbecue area.
Starting point is 00:06:28 No, not for a charcoal grill. No charcoal grills are allowed. Do you want to see it? You must not have looked up. What kind of grill are you not allowed in? Why are you so bent out of shape over them being here? Because it causes extra money. Well, first of all, I love when white people use their privilege to combat prejudice.
Starting point is 00:06:45 So salute to that young lady. And that human jar of Hellman's that was out there calling the police on those black people, she just wanted a slab of ribs. That's all. Them ribs smell so good. Look at her face. Look how fashy. I'm glad that Michelle Snyder stayed as a witness because she was hungry. When the police came, here is how the woman then reacted.
Starting point is 00:07:02 Can I have my card back? Can I have my card back? Can I have my card back? I'm being harassed. Okay. Can you back off? I would like her to give me the card that she stole from me. Can you back off? So now she was crying.
Starting point is 00:07:13 So the woman started crying when the police came in saying that they were harassing her when indeed she was the one that was standing there harassing them. I tell you though, nothing more terrifying than white woman's tears, boy. White woman start crying nine times out of ten a black man going to jail for something he didn't do. My goodness. So what happened?
Starting point is 00:07:28 They didn't charge the people who barbecued her? Well, nobody got issued any citations, but fortunately all this was caught on video and this could have went terribly wrong.
Starting point is 00:07:34 Imagine the police came and this woman's crying and saying they were harassing her. Somebody could have gotten arrested. This is in Oakland, right? Yeah, this is in Oakland.
Starting point is 00:07:42 Oh, what they did was they called more black people to come through and they had a bigger barbecue in the same spot. Drop one of Clues bombs for those people in Oakland. That is a fact. You didn't see the video? The next day they were doing an electric slide, right? Oh, yes. That's right. That's what you gotta do. When people turn up on their racism, you turn
Starting point is 00:07:57 up on your blackness. They had a huge barbecue. I seen them do an electric slide. I've been trying to tell y'all this, man. Whenever people turn up on their racism or turn up on their bigotry, you turn up on your goddamn blackness, okay? You invite more black people over and you start milly rocking and electric sliding. Electric sliding, yes. Okay? Just take it back old school and do the goddamn running, man.
Starting point is 00:08:13 There you go. There you go. What else we got here? Now, let's talk about a New York Times did a study and they found that at least 28 people have been killed since 2006 and 45 others have suffered injuries. And that's because they have those keyless cars, not knowing that they hadn't turned their vehicles off. Yeah. You said how many people? At least 28 people have died and 45 others have suffered injuries since 2006.
Starting point is 00:08:38 So, you know, a lot of times people who have these keyless cars, there's no extra regulations that can happen if you leave your car running and don't know it. And so people have died from carbon monoxide poisoning because they did not shut off the keyless ignition on their vehicles. That's two people a year. That ain't too bad. That ain't bad. I was thinking the same thing. Listen, one death is one death too many.
Starting point is 00:08:59 At least 28 people dead and 45 others injured. So it's something to think about. I don't know, man. That just sounds like some people that ain't paying attention the way they need to be paying attention. Yeah, they didn't really care. But it could be something like a beeping that happens if you get out of the car and you haven't turned it off. There's some type of regulation that should be put into place.
Starting point is 00:09:17 I got to compare it. I got to know how many people that's not happening to. You know what I'm saying? How many people own those keyless cars and that's not happening to them? If it's thousands compared to 28, I have to tell the other 28 to smarten up. But the thing is, is most of the cars cut off after certain, after about maybe five to ten minutes, they cut off if you don't drive it. I thought. Mine does.
Starting point is 00:09:35 I would never get me a keyless car. You know why I would never get me a keyless car? What you mean? Yeah, you don't have a choice. Yeah, it comes with it. Okay, explain what keyless is to me. That means you don't have to put the key in the ignition to turn it off. Oh, yeah, that happens to me all the time, by the way.
Starting point is 00:09:46 No, no, no, no, no, no, no. I stay jumping out the car, then the car be going backwards, and I got to jump back in and hit the brake. That stay happens to my dumb ass. I'm one of them dumb people. That's me. I ain't got injured yet. All right, well, good to know.
Starting point is 00:10:00 All right, it ain't no one here. That is my dumb ass. All right, that's front page news. Get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. If you're upset, you need to vent. Hit us up now. It's The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 00:10:11 Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Hey. Get it. Pick up the mother, mother phone and dial. This is your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're mad or blessed. Say it with your chest.
Starting point is 00:10:23 We want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. So you better have the same energy. Yeah. Hello, is brandon brandon what's up get it off your chest bro yo i just want to say that i really look up to charlamagne and you like um when you had that dj thing on revolt i really that made me want to be a dj and um when i read charlamagne's book that made me like want to do better in life and I want to shout out my girlfriend Talisa and I really love y'all like I'm really nervous right now
Starting point is 00:10:49 because I've never It's all good but you gotta remember but two things in his book in that documentary it was always hard work so stay with it.
Starting point is 00:10:57 Thank you man thank you. Love you my brother keep going man. I got a new book dropping in October too it's called Shook One
Starting point is 00:11:02 Anxiety Playing Tricks on me. Yeah I know I pre-ordered it and I wrote you in the DM because I'll be having like mad anxiety and I'll be getting I got a new book dropping in October, too. It's called Shook One, Anxiety Playing Tricks on Me. Yeah, I know. I pre-ordered it. And I wrote you in the DMs because I'll be having, like, mad anxiety, and I'll be getting, like, mad, like, mental things going on in my head. I don't know if you, like, want to – I heard you never, like, look at your Instagram DMs,
Starting point is 00:11:16 but I just want to let you know that, like, I want to go to therapy and stuff. I really want to go to therapy, but, like, my friends, like, they always be laughing at me and stuff, and I don't be knowing what to do. Nah, don't talk to your friends about it. Go to therapy. Get help, man. If that's what you need, man, don't worry about your friends. What do you want to do?
Starting point is 00:11:31 You said a DJ? Yeah, I work at FedEx Express right now. I get a lot of money, like, but I really want to be a DJ. I always work at FedEx. My dad works there, and I always do it because I don't want to let him down. Don't quit that FedEx job. Remember what I said in Black Privilege. You can deal with your reality while still chasing your dreams.
Starting point is 00:11:48 There you go. $168 in a week. Don't quit that good FedEx job. I was definitely going to say that. Stay with FedEx. And if you want to DJ, DJ on the side. But don't quit FedEx. You got benefits.
Starting point is 00:11:56 And the fact that you got FedEx, you can go see a therapist through your insurance. Yeah, you right. All right, brother. Have a good day. Have a good week. Hello, who's this? What's up, Envy? What's up, Trev?
Starting point is 00:12:07 Hey, Trev. Hey. How you been? What's up, Charlamagne? What up, sis? How was your weekend? You suck anything? Oh, stop it.
Starting point is 00:12:14 Oh, goodness. I had a good weekend. It was cute. And I killed a little cutie on Saturday. Wait, hold up. Hold up, Trev. Who's this cutie? This boy I met in the club Wednesday night.
Starting point is 00:12:25 Oh. You know, we was just texting and stuff, and we decided to hang out Saturday. Damn. It started out kind of bad, though. It actually started out kind of bad. Why? What happened?
Starting point is 00:12:36 Because, like, we went over there. We was, like, watching a movie and smoking and, like, talking. And while I'm doing that, I started getting, like, a lot of messages on my Grindr app. And, Envy, you know what Grindr is, right? Now I know what it is.
Starting point is 00:12:48 You know he knows. You done told us. I know Envy know what Grindr is. Isn't Grindr, okay, so online dating, right, or using these apps and whatever to date, does that ever make you nervous? Well, it didn't make me nervous. Because I actually met him inside the club. I actually have the app on my phone.
Starting point is 00:13:05 And it's basically a gay app. And it gives you like, it's kind of like a Tinder for like gay people. Why was you worried about an app when you had a real live ass in front of your face? You had a whole penis right there and you want an app? I wasn't even like worried about the app. That's the thing. I was just like, basically, if you click on the app and you're in somebody's like area and people see you in the area, they send you like a bunch of messages. Grindr is popping on these streets. So you was in a high penis area is and you're in somebody's, like, area. And people see you in the area. They send you, like, a bunch of messages.
Starting point is 00:13:25 Grindr is popping on these streets. So you was in a high penis area is what you're telling us. That's what you want to say. But, yeah, so anyway, I'm on my phone. And I'm getting all these messages. I click on the app. And I'm getting some. Basically, when I click on the app, one of these little North Philly hoes sent me a picture of their booty cheeks.
Starting point is 00:13:44 And the boy that I was with saw it. I know. Yeah, I would be mad, too. He was messaging other dudes, why you with me? You disrespectful. That is foul. That is disrespectful. I agree with you.
Starting point is 00:13:55 No, no, no. I wasn't messaging anybody. I just clicked on the app because I kept getting these messages. Nope. You shouldn't even have been on that app when you had a penis right there in your face. You a messy thot, Trav. And I'm glad you ain't getting no action this weekend. No, he told me, he was like, well, you can leave if you're going to be over there messaging other people.
Starting point is 00:14:10 That's right. So I just looked at him, and I was like, first of all, I wasn't messaging nobody. Two, you shouldn't be on my phone. And three, say less. I was like, I'm out. That's right. I would have told you, beat your feet and your cheeks. So did you leave?
Starting point is 00:14:22 Yeah, well, I did leave. Then he texted me, and he's like shaking my head. All y'all s*** is the same. And blah, blah, blah. Oh my gosh. I didn't even call to talk about this. I called to talk about
Starting point is 00:14:34 Azalea Banks, but y'all don't make me talk about this. All right, now go ahead. What do you want to say? Go ahead, Trav. What happened to Azalea Banks? I'm going to call back later
Starting point is 00:14:40 because I got to talk about Azalea Banks. And I got to talk about the bar. He said I'll call back later. Go ahead. You want to talk about it now, Trav? I'll talk about it later. Bye. Alright, bye. Bye, Trav. You pissed Trav off. See that?
Starting point is 00:14:51 Get it off your chest. 805-85-1051. If you're upset, you need to vent. Hit us now. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Wake up. Wake up. Wake your ass up. This is your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're mad or blessed, we want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this?
Starting point is 00:15:10 Oh, hey. Good morning, guys. Hi, Angela. How are you? Hey, what's up? Who do you think it is, Charlamagne? It's Snack Man. Snack Man.
Starting point is 00:15:18 Your phone sounds actually decent. You got rid of that booze mobile? What's up, Snack Man? What's poppin', yo? Uh-oh. Oh, boy. This is too much fun, guys. You guys are great. Oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:15:30 Let's hear your joke this morning, Snack Man. All right, I forgot to tell you, Angela, when I was visiting my grandfather in Florida, in St. Augustine, Florida, yo, they built me a stage. Okay, they did? Yeah, because every morning, I had my iHeart on and I had you guys
Starting point is 00:15:46 I had the show on. I called in and I walked around with you on speaker and after a while I started getting a crowd. I was at a bus stop doing my set at a bus stop. Yeah, so the next day I went to go check it out because they said they built me a stage.
Starting point is 00:16:01 It was the perfect size for a one-man show. No lie. Can't make this stuff up. But looking out, there was no chairs. Snag man, get to the point, sir. You're pissing me off already. I can't. Get to the point.
Starting point is 00:16:12 I can't. So, you're pissing me off. It's Monday, bro. I can't. I can't. I can't. I can't. Why'd you hang up?
Starting point is 00:16:19 We didn't get to the punchline. That was the punchline. That was a joke? He was setting up for you? He couldn't have been setting up for a joke. There's no way. Hello, who's this? Yo, what's up, man?
Starting point is 00:16:27 Yo, what's up? What's up? Yo, it's Kaz. Yo, I'm upset, man, with this dude, Safari, man. I've been trying to call and tell y'all this, man. Safari ain't no real Jamaican, man. He only making Jamaicans look bad out here. All right?
Starting point is 00:16:40 I want to hear him say, you know, that Rara joined no more. You know what I'm saying? I'm really upset with him, man, running around talking about he's Jamaican, man, making us look bad, making real Jamaicans like me look bad. Well, if the man is Jamaican, how are you going to tell him not to be Jamaican? There ain't no Jamaican, man. Listen, man, I got robbed before, man. I got robbed before in the Bronx, man, by Enel World Project on Bayton Avenue.
Starting point is 00:17:03 Ain't nobody running around crying. Let me ask you a question. How much did you lose when you got robbed? How much did I lose? It's not about how much I lost. The fact of the matter is it still remains the fact that I was robbed with a gun. Listen, we're not going to sit here and act like
Starting point is 00:17:19 being robbed is a normal experience. We're not going to act like that's not going to traumatize you. I'm not saying it's normal. I'm not saying it's normal. I'm not saying it's normal. But if you're going to make songs and portray an image to these young kids up here that are really going out here
Starting point is 00:17:33 doing these things, like, you got to live with yourself. I never took safaris acting tough. I don't know. And also, his uncle had just gotten killed the same way his uncle got robbed. And he got killed. And I'm going to tell you this, sir.
Starting point is 00:17:45 Let me tell you this. Let me ask you a question. When those guys robbed you, did they take the butt of the gun and poke your shaft with it? The shaft of your penis? Stop it, man. That's what they did to Safaree. No, they didn't. But listen, listen, listen.
Starting point is 00:17:57 Listen to Safaree lyrics, man. All right? No. Who does that? Who got time to be listening to Safaree lyrics? Y'all really trying to scratch me out on a Monday. Y'all a record. I ain't even had breakfast yet, and y'all recommending that I listen to some of Safari lyrics?
Starting point is 00:18:09 Get it off your chest. Come on, man. 800-585-1051. If you need to vent, you can hit us up at any time. You got rumors on the way? Yes, let's talk about performances over the weekend. You know, it was rolling loud, and we'll tell you who performed there for the first time since he got out of prison.
Starting point is 00:18:23 Also, we'll talk about Young Dolph's performance, something that he did on stage. All right, we'll get into all that when we come back. And don't forget, next hour from Love & Hip Hop Atlanta, Tammy Rivera will be joining us. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. All right, morning, everybody.
Starting point is 00:18:40 It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. What's up to Miguel? Wasn't them two guys having sex to Miguel's music on Dead White People? Am I tripping? Everybody, it's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God, We Are The Breakfast Club. Sleuth and Miguel. Wasn't them two guys having sex to Miguel's music on Dear White People? Am I tripping? I can't remember. Wasn't it Miguel in the background? I got to go back and look at it again.
Starting point is 00:18:53 All right, well. I was distracted by the grunting and the lube, so I couldn't hear what the music was. Okay. All right, well, let's get to the rumors. Let's talk Andre 3000. Listen up. It's just in. All the gossip.
Starting point is 00:19:04 Gossip. The rumor report. Gossip. Angela Yee. It's the Andre 3000. Listen up. It's just in. All the gossip. Gossip. The Rumor Report. Gossip. With Angela Yee. It's the Rumor Report. The Breakfast Club. Well, Andre 3000 put out two new songs for Mother's Day. How nice is that?
Starting point is 00:19:15 Because that's a rarity. Now, the first song is called Me and My to Bury Your Parents. He dedicated that to his mom who passed away in 2013. Check it out. Me and my mother driving to the grocery store. parents. He dedicated that to his mom who are all the Santa nightgowns. He wrote, Happy Mother's Day. I'm sure all the cards, dinners, flowers, and last-minute gifts are appreciated, but I've learned the best gift a parent could get is to simply know their child is okay.
Starting point is 00:19:59 Way to depress everybody on Mother's Day, Andre 3000. You're already sitting around upset and depressed because your parents aren't here, and here you come putting out songs that make you feel exactly how a person is feeling in that moment. And there's other people, I'm sure, that can relate to Andre 3000. I'm sure. That appreciate it.
Starting point is 00:20:14 The other song has actually no vocals. It's called Look Mine, No Hands. So it's instrumental? Yeah, it's 17 minutes long, by the way. And Andre 3000's playing the bass and the clarinet. Listen, we love you, Andre 3000, but ain't nobody got time for that. You barely put out music as it is, but you're going to give us 17 minutes of just instrumental? And call it one of your records?
Starting point is 00:20:43 How do we know that's you playing the horn? It's him. We don't know. We don't know that's him playing the instrumentation or nothing. I don't want that. Keep that. All right, now, Rihanna was not invited to the royal wedding, which, by the way, is going down this weekend. I don't know why she would have been invited,
Starting point is 00:20:55 and neither does she. Here's what happened when a reporter asked her about whether or not she was going. Why would you think I'm invited? I don't know. You met him. Okay, you met me. You think you're coming to my wedding?
Starting point is 00:21:06 Me? Am I coming to yours? I mean, you'll get the invite. Oh, girl. Okay. Well, then maybe I should feel a way then. Oh, that's what happens when your star's croaking young. I ain't nothing better to say, okay? Now, the real wedding is going to be 600 people, and then there'll be other people watching on the grounds
Starting point is 00:21:22 of Windsor Castle. There's going to be about 2,600 people watching from there. The bride didn't even invite her brother and sister. Meghan Markle? Yeah, she didn't invite her. The reporter was starstruck. They had nothing else to say. I've been there before.
Starting point is 00:21:33 It's only happened to me once in my life, and that's when I met Prince. And the only thing I could think to tell Prince was I grew up Jehovah Witness too. Yeah, that was pretty bad. Well, Rihanna did have pictures, in all fairness, of Prince Harry before. They've met each other, so maybe she felt like she would have been invited, right? No. All right, Meek Mill, he performed at the Rolling Loud Festival in Miami over the weekend. That was his first performance since he got out of prison.
Starting point is 00:21:54 Was he scheduled to perform that, or he just went out? Because I didn't see him on the schedule. Well, Khaled was out first, and then Meek came out and did songs and said that it was good to be back and free in front of people. Oh, so Khaled brought Meek out because Khaled doesn't really perform. Khaled just comes out there and screams and brings out other people. Now, Young Dolph was also at the Rolling Loud Festival. And I don't know if you guys heard this story, but two baristas at Duke University were fired.
Starting point is 00:22:18 They were playing Get Paid by Young Dolph while they were working. And I guess somebody from Human Resources fired them. The vice president of student affairs heard the lyrics to get paid playing over the coffee shop speaker. And, you know, I like that song a lot, but I don't know if that's appropriate. Yeah, I can see why they got fired. It was a clean version. It clearly wasn't.
Starting point is 00:22:40 It was not the clean version. Why would they have clean versions? They don't DJ. They're not on the radio. Why the hell would they have a clean version? Right. So some people were screaming out discrimination. Well, Young Dolph brought out the two people who were fired, Brittany Brown and Kevin Simmons, and here's what happened on stage.
Starting point is 00:22:57 I know y'all familiar with this situation that happened at Duke University a couple days ago, right? You know what I'm saying? They fired two workers from a coffee shop for bumping my shit in the stove. I brought them out here and flew them out here with me, man. So check this out. Until y'all get y'all a new job, until y'all find y'all a new job, I got $20,000 for y'all right now. Oh, that's good.
Starting point is 00:23:16 That was dope. They did get paid. I'm going to close bombs for Young Dolph, okay? Now, don't everybody go to their job and try to play get paid. It was a white person, a black person that got fired, right? Oh, I don't know. I just know it was... Oh, I'm definitely firing a white person if you in there saying Get Paid, young nigga,
Starting point is 00:23:30 Get Paid. Get the hell out of here. It looked like a white person to a black person. They weren't saying the lyrics. It was just playing. Nope. Nope. Don't even look like you're enjoying it if you're white.
Starting point is 00:23:37 Stop it. Nope. Stop it. Nope. You got to go. What if it's a clean version? I doubt it was. You know it was.
Starting point is 00:23:42 Oh, yeah. It looked like one white guy, one black guy. Or one black lady. Okay. Yeah, she's not a black guy. Well, he just paid a man $10,. You know it was. Oh, yeah, it looked like one white guy, one black guy, or one black lady. Yeah, she's not a black guy. Well, he just paid a man $10,000 for saying the N-word. Well, you know what? We got to do better as a people.
Starting point is 00:23:51 You just said he did good for doing it. Nah, F that. I didn't know he was white. I can't pay a white man to say the N-word. Is anybody, none of us thinking anymore? He didn't say he said it,
Starting point is 00:23:58 he just said he was listening to it. The song was playing. The song, the hook of the song is get paid, young nigga, get paid. You know he didn't say get paid, young ninja, get paid. But he wasn didn't say get paid, young ninja, get paid. But he wasn't singing. All right, I'm Angela Yee, and that is your rumor report.
Starting point is 00:24:11 All right, thank you, Miss Yee. We got front page news next year. Yes, we do. We are going to be talking about people dying from leaving their keyless cars running. Okay, we'll get into that when we come back. Keep it locked. This is The Breakfast Club. Good morning.
Starting point is 00:24:22 All right, morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. Let's get some front page news. Now, in the NBA, of course, recap. Celtics beat the Cavs 108-83. They blew the Cavs out. Yeah, drop on the clues bombs for Boston, man.
Starting point is 00:24:37 I'm highly impressed by Boston. I don't think people realize how good Boston going to be for the next few years. Absolutely. Because Kyrie Irving and Gordon Hayward not even playing right now. They're both injured. They got a lottery pick this year. They got a lot of cap space. Boston going to be for the next few years. Absolutely. Because Kyrie Irving and Gordon Haywood not even playing right now. They're both injured. They got a lottery pick this year. They got a lot of cap space. Boston going to be tough.
Starting point is 00:24:49 LeBron had an O of games. They don't think it's going to be that easy the next couple of games. LeBron had 15 points. I saw there was a whole Twitter thing going on about Kobe Bryant being more skilled than LeBron. Did you guys see that? First of all, I mean, I'm on record always as saying that LeBron is one of the greatest players of all time, but he's not better than Michael Jordan. He's not better than Kobe Bryant.
Starting point is 00:25:08 I don't think he's better than Magic Johnson, but those are gods. So, whatever. All right. Well, tonight the Warriors played a ruckus. Now, let's talk about these cars. What's going on with these cars, these keyless entry cars? Yes, they're saying that people are dying from carbon monoxide poisoning after leaving on their keyless cars. Since 2006, at least 28 people have died
Starting point is 00:25:27 and 45 other people have suffered injuries. They thought they turned off their vehicles and it turns out that their car was still running. Oh, see, that little part of the story was left out before. It's the carbon monoxide that's killing people. No, what's it? What did you think it was?
Starting point is 00:25:40 You just, I thought it was people like jumping out the car. No, carbon monoxide. And the car keeps rolling. No, they have it in their garage and sometimes they don't car and leaving the car running and the car keeps rolling. Nah, they have it in their garage and sometimes they don't turn the car off. They think the car is off. But why would you still be
Starting point is 00:25:50 sitting in your car that long? It could be because it's in your garage and then the... Goes in your house. Yeah. Goes into your house. Not that you're sitting
Starting point is 00:25:56 in the car the whole time. But most of the keyless entry cars that people have and even that I own, after about five minutes it cuts off on its own regardless.
Starting point is 00:26:03 Or ten minutes the longest. I don't know if mine does or not because my car is parked outside so I'm not going to die from carbon monoxide poisoning anyway. But I do know that I can't lock the doors if my car is still running from outside. That did happen to me yesterday too though because I pulled up
Starting point is 00:26:17 in the gym parking lot and I knew I turned my car off but I kept hearing a car running but it was the car next to me. So I had to stand there for a second to make sure it wasn't my car. You know, bro. Hey, so what? Age is a blessing. You know what they do?
Starting point is 00:26:30 They should have some type of thing, though. Like if you get out of the car that it like beeps or something. It beeps. Mine beeps. After a while, it starts beep, beep, beep, beep, beep. The alarm goes off in one of my cars if it's on too long. Yeah, that doesn't happen to me. All right.
Starting point is 00:26:42 Now, a white woman called the police on a black family. This was at Lake Merritt. A human jar of helmets. Now, the reason why, first of all, if you watch the video, because there was a witness named Michelle Snyder who was filming the whole entire incident because she saw the women just looking mean-faced, snarling, basically looking at the... Fat, hungry, wanting a rib. Yeah, looking at this black man
Starting point is 00:27:05 on Sayo Abram who was cooking out and she felt like something wasn't going to be right. So she was like, let me go ahead and pay attention.
Starting point is 00:27:12 You know why she trashed? Look at that picture. Look at the picture. Why she got her charger on her phone in the middle of a park? Maybe she has a portable charger.
Starting point is 00:27:22 She probably had a portable charger there. You know how much you're going to call the police on somebody when you gotta charge your phone to do it? Michelle Snyder said
Starting point is 00:27:28 there was three reasons she felt like she had to stay and observe the whole situation and film it. She said, one, Anseo was alone, the black man who was barbecuing.
Starting point is 00:27:36 Two, this white woman was being aggressive with him. And three, I felt that if the police came, then facts could be misconstrued. So she actually went and approached the woman, Michelle Snyder went and approached the woman, Michelle Snyder,
Starting point is 00:27:45 went and approached the woman just because she wanted to engage with her and kind of see what was going on. I hear you have a problem with these gentlemen having a barbecue here at the lake. What's going on? It's illegal to have a charcoal grill in the park here. No, it's not, actually. I just looked at the map. It says this is a designated barbecue area.
Starting point is 00:28:03 No, not for a charcoal grill. No charcoal grills are allowed. Do you want to see it? You must not have looked up. What kind of grill are you not allowed in? Why are you so bent out of shape over them being here? Because it causes extra money. She was upset they didn't offer her a rib.
Starting point is 00:28:18 And she was highly upset that they were using barbecue sauce instead of mayonnaise. All right, so she tried to tell them that they were trespassing, that they were not welcome. And she told them they were going to go to jail. Yeah, right. How about that? So when the cops came, the woman who called the police on them actually broke down crying. Can I have my card back?
Starting point is 00:28:37 Can I have my card back? I'm being harassed. Okay. Can you back off? I would like her to give me the card that she stole from me. Can you back off? Boy, nothing scares a black man like a white woman crying for no goddamn reason. Because when a white woman starts crying for no damn reason, nine times out of ten, a black man is going to jail for no damn reason.
Starting point is 00:28:53 Okay? All right. Well, thank goodness for Michelle Snyder actually observing the situation and filming it. Because who knows what could have happened. Yes. Salute to Michelle Snyder for using her privilege to combat prejudice. And a salute to those beautiful black people in Oakland who came back to the same spot the next day and called all their cousins and all their uncles and all their aunties and had a bigger barbecue.
Starting point is 00:29:12 Did the electric slide. That's right. The Millie Rock. They was getting it in. Okay? Salute to them. All right? Drop one of Clues bombs for that.
Starting point is 00:29:19 That's what you're doing. Somebody turns up on their racism, you turn up on your blackness, goddammit. All right. Well, that's front page news. Now, when we come back from Lovin' Hip Hop Atlanta, Tammy Rivera will be joining us. So we'll kick it with her when we come back. She has a new project
Starting point is 00:29:33 that's out now. So don't move. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy and the Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building. Tammy Rivera. Good morning, Tammy. Welcome. Give her the proper introduction. Platinum artist. Thank you. Tammy Rivera. Really? Wow. Congratulations.
Starting point is 00:29:58 Thank you. I feel like that song just came out on my trip. It was actually like it was a while ago. Mm hmm. OK, Okay, okay, okay. I remember watching Waka sing it. Yeah, that was a long time ago. You said everything's independent. No, everything's independent. Wow, well congratulations on that. Were you shocked by that?
Starting point is 00:30:15 Were you shocked? Yeah, I was. I really was. Even for the EP that just dropped, it's still in top five. I'm just more thankful. All right. But, yeah, it is shocking for someone who never knew I could sing and then to come out and people really accepting it.
Starting point is 00:30:32 Now, how did you learn you could sing? What got you into singing? I've been singing since I was a kid. Like, everybody from high school and everyone from, like, my hometown, they know I can sing. Like singing, like, show singing or singing at home in like shows? Yeah, like I did talent shows. No, I've did talent shows. I've had people try to sign me before and I just never
Starting point is 00:30:49 did it. So people at home, when they see me on Love & Hip Hop, they're like, why are you here on that show singing? I'm like, no, I'm just trying to, I'm good. But I feel like everything is in its timing. And then people on Love & Hip Hop, so you start singing, they're like, why didn't you sing on Love & Hip Hop? Because most people that go on that show would say, okay, okay i'm gonna use this show to promote whatever it is
Starting point is 00:31:09 that i'm doing and you didn't even give us an inkling that yeah this was a goal of yours it was because it was it was something that i kind of put all the way in the back it's always been something i want to do since i was a kid like growing up you guys knew what i wanted to be was a singer but um i used to show the showcase likeuit line, which has been doing amazing. Right. And then it was just like, it was time. I feel like I had a story behind it. It was something like, it was like an epiphany.
Starting point is 00:31:32 Like, I was on a plane. I was like, God, Candy Mike sounds crazy. Almost like God, Candy Mike. It was like, if you don't do it now, you're never going to do it. And I just called my friend Robin, who's Rico's wife. She's from Baltimore as well. And I was like, hey, you think Rico will work for me? And she laughed at me. She was like, what. And I was like, hey, you think Rico will work for me? And she laughed at me.
Starting point is 00:31:45 She was like, what? And I was like, no, I can sing. So I sent her a video of me singing in Vogue and she sent it to Rico
Starting point is 00:31:52 and he was like, yeah, if she's serious. And he was like, she got to book the studio and I was like, that'd be nice. I didn't even tell Waka,
Starting point is 00:31:59 I just did it. Yep, you did it all. And you shot on coins. No, he was like, sharp. I mean, he was kind of like, low key like, you ain't never say what I told your own coins. Was he all upset about that? No, he was, like, shocked. I mean, he was kind of, like, low-key, like,
Starting point is 00:32:07 you know what I'm saying? That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. But he was, like, you know, afterwards, he was, like, yo, this sound crazy. It's fire. Like, you know? Now he's at a point where he's, like,
Starting point is 00:32:16 super behind everything I got going on. What was your reason for not telling him at first? I didn't want nobody to think I was with him just because I wanted to be, like, a singer or trying to get on. But, I mean, even when you went in the studio when y'all were together and you didn't tell him. I would just support him. Like watch him.
Starting point is 00:32:32 Kisses was the actually first time me ever recording in a studio. It was my second song that I recorded that night with Rico. Wow. Yeah, I've never been in a studio before. Really? What did Rico say when you came in the studio and he heard you singing in front of him for the first time? He was like, he was, you know, he's such a genius.
Starting point is 00:32:48 Like, I was so scared. So he started joking with me, got me super comfortable, and he was like, all right, get in the studio. And I was like, oh, okay. And he just was like, you got it, just go in there. And he will make you sing it over and over and over. So I was in there like, he was like, nope, again, again. And after a while, I got comfortable, and it just, it came out. And then after the there like, he was like, nope, again, again. And I thought why I got comfortable and it just, it came out. And then after the first song, he was
Starting point is 00:33:08 like, listen, I'll do this project. He's like, but you gotta let me executive produce it. And I was like, hell yeah. You're like, oh yeah. Is that a question? And so your whole EP, Fate, is out and there is somewhat of a theme on those songs. So how involved were you in the whole process of writing and choosing the songs and all of that um i'm very involved when it comes like writing i'm still you know get my niche in it um but pretty much every song on fate was something that i experienced
Starting point is 00:33:37 i went through i felt you know what i'm saying because i felt that when i listened to it that you know the topics in the songs yeah a lot of it does have to do with, you know, not being treated the way that you felt you deserved to be treated, but being with somebody and knowing you don't want to leave them. You had to put some records on there to scare Flocka? I mean, he was already scared before Fate came out.
Starting point is 00:33:58 He know he is on his last limb. But, no, yeah, we it's just, and actually that was recorded like almost a year ago. So, no, yeah, we, it's just, and actually that was recorded, like, almost a year ago. Like, so it's like the music is, oh, so I'm in a whole nother space now. And I've been recording since then, so I have a lot more music and content that I'm ready to get out. Why are people so involved with your relationship? I always see you clapping back at Chick-fil-A.
Starting point is 00:34:18 You got something to say. Like, you stayed with him. Like, I'm like, why do people care so much? You clap back. Like, you got time. Sometimes I be like, Tammy, just leave. Just let him go. No, I stop.
Starting point is 00:34:26 I just told him this. My clap back season is over. But it is. I promise you. Like, I don't. Because it's really, like, even though people be thinking that it's something like, oh, she's bothered because she's clapping back. No, sometimes I could be on the flight or I could just be chilling.
Starting point is 00:34:38 I'm like, you got me. But I'm like, it takes energy. You know what I'm saying? Like, I realize that it does take some of your energy to do that. The crazy part is, is, like, I get more backlash for working it out with my husband than I did for leaving him. And it's crazy, like, the type of, like, where we are now. Yeah, the vows don't say, tell death to his part, through sickness and in health. Like, you know, you post to work things out.
Starting point is 00:35:04 Yeah, and I'm not perfect. You know what I'm'm saying i'm not saying that he's uh i'm not justifying him but like when people ask me and i kind of break it down i tell people all the time and i don't really talk about it because people won't understand it on the level that i speak on it like it was a spiritual battle with my husband like i was sent to him like i know that i was sent for a mission and for a reason and And people are not going to understand that. So for me to try to break that down, it doesn't make sense. Like, the first day I met my husband, he told me, he was like, you're going to be my wife. He's like, it's like God told me I got to be with you.
Starting point is 00:35:34 Wow. And for years, I didn't understand. Like, bro, what's the point? And I was like, God, why did you send me here? These people are crazy. Like, I don't want to be a part of this. I was so green and gullible. And a guy came to fix my house one day.
Starting point is 00:35:46 He came to fix my heating unit. And before he left, I swear I never seen this guy again. He was like, you think you're here for yourself. But I sent you here for a reason. He was like, it's not about you. You came here to deliver. And I never understood that until 30 years later. Like, that's who I met now at the age of 30.
Starting point is 00:36:01 What do you think it is? What do you think you're here to deliver? I came to deliver my husband. Y'all remember how Walker was before? Yeah, yeah, yeah. It wasn't like, I'm not trying to say I'm at now at the age of 30. What do you think it is? What do you think you're here to deliver? I came to deliver my husband. Y'all remember how Walker was before? Yeah, yeah, yeah. It wasn't like, I'm not trying to say I delivered him like, oh, I'm the almighty, but. You glowed him up.
Starting point is 00:36:13 No, it's not that I, it's like sometimes, like you say, when a man finds a wife, they find a good thing. More so like, there was things in our relationship that I know that if, like, I remember my husband used to tell me years ago when we first met, he was like, you're going to save my life.
Starting point is 00:36:28 He's always saying that. And I'm like, yo, why? Like, I'm thinking I had to strap up. Like, what do you mean? I would shoot somebody for you? Like, I would say. Which you would. Yeah, right.
Starting point is 00:36:35 But I'm like, I don't get it. And now I get it. You know what I'm saying? Like, he's a different person. He's growing. He's learning. And we both are growing and learning together. And your daughter was an integral part
Starting point is 00:36:44 of you staying with Waka as well. She wasn't an integral part of it, but she's like the glue. Right, because she loves him so much, and you said you could see that. Yeah, he loves her. Even when we were separated, he would always call and say, hey, can I get Charlie? And I'd meet up with Charlie. Even when I went and answered the phone, he would text me,
Starting point is 00:37:01 like, please, can I just pick her up from school? He's got a tattoo of her and everything. Yeah, and people were actually bashing about that, too. People are bashing about anything, especially when they don't understand it. Most people are miserable, and their relationship is horrible, and they don't know how to figure it out, you know? But when you figure it out in your relationship, it makes it better. That's why I love to see relationships and couples who go through problems
Starting point is 00:37:19 and work it out, because it gives people who are going through that problem, they don't know who to talk to. It shows them that, oh, this can work. I don't have to take the way of everybody's telling me to do this. No, you do what's best for you. I mean, what was I supposed to do? Go jump to the next rapper? Or jump to the next NFL player?
Starting point is 00:37:33 Like, I don't know what y'all want me to do. You know what I'm saying? Like, is this somebody I've grown with that I'm learning with? He ain't perfect. I'm not perfect. But it's still always your decision, ultimately. Even if you wouldn't do that, that's still your decision. Beyonce made it cool to forgive. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. your decision, ultimately. Even if you would have been that, that's still your decision. Beyonce made it cool to forgive.
Starting point is 00:37:46 You know what I'm saying? Yeah. I mean, shoot. All right, well, let's get into her new single. It's called Lose. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. That was Lose.
Starting point is 00:37:54 Good morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. We have Tammy Rivera in the building. Yee? So in the song that we just played called Lose, it sounds like you're talking all about your relationship with Waka.
Starting point is 00:38:07 It was very emotional for me. Yeah, it's just, that's exactly how I feel, honestly. Like, I ain't coming for her to lose. Like, I really did. You think I'm a, I mean, certain times you know when it's time to walk away. You know when it's worth fighting for and you know when it's not.
Starting point is 00:38:19 And I felt like my marriage was worth fighting for. I knew, I know the potential of where he had to be. Like, when I made that list, there was only one thing on the bad list, and that was he cheated. And, I mean, I'm not saying, like, that's a small thing. That's definitely a major part. It is.
Starting point is 00:38:35 No, it's not. Slight. But. A little roadkill on the road, you know what I'm saying? You're a rapper. Just shut your mouth. Right, right. I don't do it no more.
Starting point is 00:38:45 Oh, okay. It's a small thing. Right. I don't do it no more. Oh, okay. It's a small thing. Right. I don't live that life anymore. It's a small thing to have you by yourself. That's a fact. That's the big thing.
Starting point is 00:38:52 Shut your ass up. Getting caught is the big thing. It's in the court. Cheating is like... But you got to put the fear in God in y'all. Oh, yeah. That's how it is.
Starting point is 00:39:01 I have to put the fear in God. I'm like... You know, now you know. And he has to work hard to get back. Girl, and when I say y'all have no idea. Love and hip-hop didn't catch me for a second. What do you mean we have no idea? Charlamagne and I have a great idea.
Starting point is 00:39:13 Oh, yeah, y'all should know. We have a great idea. Like, oh, I was so mean. Like, oh, my God, for a month. My friends were like, Tammy, oh, my God. That's why the best feeling in the world is when you walk in the house and, like, your wife may look upset. When you was doing your dirt,
Starting point is 00:39:28 your heart drop immediately. Like, what did you find out? But then you realize like, I ain't doing nothing. I'm good. I'm good. It's funny because he still has flashbacks because I had a few nights of me like just waking him up out of sleep. So now I'm like, like now I'm like, baby, he's like, what? has flashbacks because I had a few nights of me just waking him up out of sleep. Just punching him in the face.
Starting point is 00:39:47 Now I'm like, baby, he's like, what? He's like, man, come on, bro. I'm scarred, bro. You got him. Well trained. Every time you post something, people think it's about your relationship. So you post it. Sometimes when you think everything is going wrong, it just means you're about to embark on something great
Starting point is 00:40:03 and everybody ain't meant to go to that level with you no matter how much you want them to trust the process. Oh boy, you posted that, they thought it was over. They thought, yeah. Oh my goodness. Actually, I'm growing in my career. I'm growing, you know, and I have people around me, like I've had people who work with me and I just realized, like I'm a type,
Starting point is 00:40:20 I'm a Leo, so I'm just loyal by default and I keep my circle real small and I like people around me that go hard for me. I don't care who you've worked with in the past, but if you go hard for me, you believe me, I want you around me. And I'll fight for people to go with me, and they're just not supposed to. Like, it'll just be some fluke stuff that they'll do or some flaws. And I'll keep ignoring it.
Starting point is 00:40:38 And then to the point that it's just like, you know your mama always know. So my mama always tell me from the beginning. But then it's like, it just gets to your face. You're just like, okay, I got to let it go. What did your mama say about it? Did your mama tell you to stick around, stick with Walker? My mama had her whole, like, ups and downs with Walker. But she's like, at the end of the day, after a while, she was like, okay, he can't keep doing the same thing.
Starting point is 00:40:59 But then, and even when he got to the point where he was trying to get back, he was calling his mama, my mama. None of them trying to hear nothing he was having to say. His mom was like, Deb was like, boy, get off my phone. He couldn't even call her no more. He had to call my mom. And she was just like, my mom always told me, she said, baby, you always got to factor in everything in a relationship. She said, no, man, I'm not perfect.
Starting point is 00:41:19 She's like, it's all in what you can take. Only you know when you're tired. So I always took that with me. And when I knew I was tired, I was tired. But when I wanted to, like, give up, it was like, when I did give up, and I was like, when I say I was gone, I was gone. Like, it was nothing that man could say to get me back. I even let him move in the house so I could just dog him out so that he could leave.
Starting point is 00:41:39 And he stayed there. I was just so tired. And, I mean, just being mean, just, like, ignoring mean just being mean just like ignoring just being real nasty and I'm like this is my plan I'm gonna get rid of him I'm gonna let him move in
Starting point is 00:41:49 and then I'm gonna just be real nasty and he's gonna give up girl he was after a while I felt like I was just bullying he was just like man look I ain't going away short
Starting point is 00:41:56 like I could say something so evil he's like you right I'm like what you mean I'm right like get mad like say something I'm just happy to be in the house
Starting point is 00:42:03 what's the most evil thing you think you said oh my I can't say that all I can say all kinds of shit like oh my god I mean, I'm right. Get mad. Say something. I'm just happy to be in the house. What's the most evil thing you think you said? Oh, my. I can't say that. I can say all kinds of shit. Oh, my God. I was so evil to him. You was just trying to break him down, like, mentally?
Starting point is 00:42:16 I would walk through the house like I was talking to a whole number of people. It wouldn't be nobody in the phone. I did. I would lock the door. That's hilarious. I was like, yeah, baby. I was like, okay. I was like, I'm baby. I was like, okay. I thought he was like, I want to kill his bitch. So hold on.
Starting point is 00:42:27 He thought you was involved with somebody else? I had him thinking that. Yeah. I just, I mean, I was like just mean for no reason. That ain't funny. That man have a heart attack in the house, man. Oh, okay. That's kind of like the song, You Did This.
Starting point is 00:42:38 Yeah. It's like, you did this. Like, I wanted to be me. Because I couldn't go back out and, what am I going to do? I can't go sleep with somebody. I can't go get you back the way you got me back. So the only way I can do is try to hurt you. But then after a while, it started hurting me to just keep hurting him.
Starting point is 00:42:53 And that's true love. That's what most people don't understand. The fact that he hurt you, but you still care about his feelings. That's the type of love people don't have. Because after a while, he's like, okay, this don't feel good. It's like he's beating up on a bully. It's like a bully. Like, okay, this don't feel good.
Starting point is 00:43:04 How long did that last? Like the whole summer. God. Did you ever really date anybody else? No. Did you ever get dressed and leave the house? You ever get dressed and leave the house? All the time.
Starting point is 00:43:15 Oh, I was on the ground doing the thigh pictures. I was big. I was like, yeah. How many people popped up in your DMs? Oh, my God. It was a lot. A lot of celebrities? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:43:28 I remember when we were out there, BT Weekend, it was like, man, coming to my session, like, I didn't even, I don't watch sports. I don't know who no sports players is. So they was coming up, like, introducing themselves. Like, hey. And I'm like, hi. And my friend, like, my manager at the time, he was like, that's such and such. That's such and such.
Starting point is 00:43:43 And I was like, why are they all coming to say hi to me? You know what? You posting them pictures. I know, but I didn't know at the point that people, everybody knew that we were, like, separated. You know what I'm saying? Like, everybody, it was like, it had got, it was like Love & Hip Hop episode aired,
Starting point is 00:43:55 and it was like the BET weekend, and everybody was like, oh. BET weekend, I seen Tammy, and we had you. You started. It was a celebrity basketball game. I was the assistant coach. I'm not going to say who it is, but one of the players on the team was like, yo, if you introduce, can you introduce me to Tammy? And I was like, if we win this game.
Starting point is 00:44:13 Yes, you do. Then yes. And we didn't end up winning the game. But I told Tammy, I said, you got to just go along with it because we're trying to win this game right here. Oh, my God. He was playing, too. He was trying to get them shot.
Starting point is 00:44:23 I was like, God, please. And at the end, I was like, sorry, you didn't win. Y'all playing loving basketball, BG Wiggins? She pipped me out. I was like, just saying. Listen, we must win by all means necessary. She came on. She was like, just, I was like, man, why are we working on this?
Starting point is 00:44:36 Just wave. Like, just, man. I'm like, all right. Did you let Flock know any of the dudes that were trying to holler at you? He knew. He knew. But he can't blame them. No. Because y'all wasn't together. You can still shoot them. But, see, and that's why I was of the dudes that were trying to holler at you? He knew. He knew. But he can't blame them. No.
Starting point is 00:44:46 Because y'all wasn't together. You can still shoot them. See, and that's why I was like, I'm not trying to. Any of you was Waka's friends, though, or people that Waka knew? It was a lot of industry people. See, yeah, you got to give them five minutes. No, I mean, of course, I will always tell. I had to tell him because at the end of the day, I'm not going to have my husband shaking hands with me.
Starting point is 00:45:02 Trying to holler behind me. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? Like, I'm not going to. Even when we weren't together, like, I would, like, literally, if it was somebody I knew that I seen where I was screenshot,
Starting point is 00:45:09 I'm like, even though you're a f***er, but here. Like, you're a f***er. You had a breast reduction, too, right? Yes. Oh, my God. Was that when your back was hurting?
Starting point is 00:45:19 Man, I was at a 32. That just sounded so funny coming from you. Look ahead. I'm sorry. Yeah, it was killing me. Like, it was like, I had a 32G and I'm so small framed. Like, but I'm, I'll be 32 this year, found it so funny coming from you. Look ahead. I'm sorry. Yeah, it was killing me. Like, it was like I had a 32G and I'm so small framed.
Starting point is 00:45:27 Like, but I'll be 32 this year. So it's like I just started gaining weight and my mom is top heavy. So I'm starting to see if I don't start working out. Right. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, like I'm going to be heavy in places I don't want to be. So I chopped them drinks up. All right, all right.
Starting point is 00:45:43 What did it feel? Did it feel different? Oh, my God. I feel so much better. And I can say you feel free. I feel free. Are you thinking about doing the same? No, I've always been interested in that because girls be like, yo, my back hurts. I'm like, damn, for real?
Starting point is 00:45:54 It's really a lot. Like, it's me. I'm trying to tell you. It's no joke. All right, all right. So if someone tells you they want to brush your teeth, don't be like, nah, I like big teeth. Boom, right. It's not good.
Starting point is 00:46:03 Yeah. It's not good. And no more loving hip-hop? No, there's no more loving hip-hop. I did a few appearances this season. Have they asked or you just don't want to do it anymore? They tried. You know, my contract was over after that last season that y'all saw me on. That was like the ending of
Starting point is 00:46:18 my contract. Of course, they wanted to resign. And, you know, I was just like, you know, it's just not what I wanted. You know, I have respect. People can say what they want to say about Mono. resign and you know i was just like you know it's just not you know what i wanted you know it is no i have respect people can say what they want to say about mono say oh the show make you look crazy you make yourself look crazy like when you go on there you got to display yourself a certain way like be true to yourself like when you go up there trying to act like somebody else you want to be this you're gonna get it's gonna show through camera you know i'm saying so when you want to
Starting point is 00:46:40 go turn up yeah you know i'm saying like it is what it is. But I, you know what I'm saying? Like, I told one of his business, I respect, you know what I'm saying, your decision. And if you sign a messed up contract and you feel like you're getting ate up, then, I mean, that's the game. You got to learn, you know? So I'm super grateful for my platform, Love & Hip Hop. It's just, what more can I give y'all? After this, like, what we have in our family dynamic and where we are right now, that's not what Love & Hip Hop want.
Starting point is 00:47:06 Right. You know what I'm saying? Like, it's not trying to say that, but that's not, what more can I give y'all? I gave y'all everything else. Like, it's no more growth from there, so I feel like
Starting point is 00:47:14 it's time to move forward, but we are working on our own show right now. Yeah, y'all got Meet the Flockers coming, right? Yeah. When are they dropping? We actually started filming
Starting point is 00:47:21 in May, May 10th and 11th. That's tomorrow, too? No. It's through our own production company. We actually signed filming in May, May 10th and 11th. That's from the morning too? No. It's through our own production company. We actually signed a partnership. Oh, but no network yet? Well, we have a few networks. It depends on, you know, who gets the most money.
Starting point is 00:47:34 Got you, got you, got you. Go ahead, Tammy Rivera. They're not playing no games. Not at all. We appreciate you for joining us. Thank you for having me. Pick up the new EP. It's called Fate.
Starting point is 00:47:43 Stream it, download it. And it's Miss Tammy Rivera. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Good morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy Angelique. Charlamagne the guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Happy Monday. Back to the work week. No such thing as a happy Monday. Actually, I'm back.
Starting point is 00:47:59 We alive. That's true. I'm happy. I'm happy to be alive. There you go. That's what you was on Monday. Alright, let's get to the rumors to talk Cardi B. This is the Rumor Report with Angela Yee. Rumor has it. On The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 00:48:14 So listen up. Well, Azealia Banks was on The Breakfast Club and she had some things to say about Cardi B. I wasn't here that day but obviously this interview in particular has been, for many reasons, for many different things that were said in this interview,
Starting point is 00:48:32 really gone viral. Now here's what Azealia Banks had to say about Cardi B. I just don't understand how we go from like, or just not female rap thing, this black women's culture thing. I just don't understand how we go from Beyonce and Lemonade and Solange and all of these like great conversations, Black Lives Matter,
Starting point is 00:48:49 all these conversations to like this. I've never seen that at the forefront of female rap. I didn't know that the standards, that the bar would be lowered so much. I just feel like it's unfair to the real institution of female rap. You know, me and Azea have had these conversations before. Like I told her,
Starting point is 00:49:10 women of color aren't monolithic. You either like Cardi or you don't. It's not that difficult. And clearly a lot of people love Cardi, including me. So if that's Azea's opinion, that's her opinion.
Starting point is 00:49:17 But Cardi not bothering nobody except for people bothered by her success. All right, well, Cardi B responded, every week it seems like I'm in somebody's mouth. Why was nobody talking about me when I was on Love & Hip Hop?
Starting point is 00:49:26 All of a sudden, I'm the reason why the world is such a terrible place. I be minding my business. Why is it that male rappers can speak how they want, act how they want, but people constantly bash me for it?
Starting point is 00:49:35 Why do I feel like I have to apologize for being who I am? Talking how I talk and being what y'all call ghetto. Leave me alone. And she said, I speak how I speak. My mom speaks broken English, my dad speaks Spanish,
Starting point is 00:49:46 and I use a lot of hood slang. That's that. I don't see nothing wrong with Cardi B. She's very successful. She did her damn thing. She came from the gutter, and she's doing fine. I don't even know why she responded. And guess what?
Starting point is 00:49:54 There's space for everything. There's space for conscious music, and there's space for ratchet, fun music. It is what it is. Yeah, and the reason I've always liked Cardi is because she always delivers a positive message in a ratchet way. So that's what I've always dug about her. Now, and the reason I've always liked Cardi is because she always delivers a positive message in a ratchet way. So that's what I've always dug about her.
Starting point is 00:50:07 She goes on to say, Beyonce, wasn't Beyonce the same woman she was talking ish about and dragging all over the media? I'm from the hood. I speak how I speak. I am how I am. I did not choose to be famous.
Starting point is 00:50:15 People choose me. People follow me on Instagram and the people gave me a platform to introduce my talent. I never asked to be a role model. She goes on and then she posted another post. She said, I reread this a couple of times for the Akilas and the bees out there.
Starting point is 00:50:30 A woman who constantly finds joy in belittling black women, Beyonce, Rihanna, Skai Jackson, Remy Ma, can't try and stand for them because it's convenient. The difference between me and you, I've never pretended to be or represent someone I'm not. I've made it where I am for being myself and staying true to that. I'm not trying to represent nobody but myself. You busy trying to be a voice of reason and a representative for women of color when you can't even reason with
Starting point is 00:50:52 yourself. You can't understand where your insecurities come from and why you're not happy in your own skin. There were a lot of pictures posted, a lot of memes posted during this time. And Azealia Banks of course responded and she actually did a post where she said Belcalis sis give it up you have a fever and are leaking breast milk everywhere trying to come up with a refutable comeback sis spent 12 hours proofreading
Starting point is 00:51:16 a message while still completely missing the point you and whoever wrote this reply for you don't have the intelligence to engage in this not so complex discussion I spoke about it for all of two minutes in an interview and you respond by calling me unattractive, mentioning my bleaching my skin, and telling me to suck your ass.
Starting point is 00:51:31 Immediately proving yourself to be exactly who I thought you were, a bird. Sis, let us not forget that you look like a big toe with a hammer nail without all of that contour on your face. Goodness gracious. Yeah, it got really nasty. And the thing is that Cardi B is pregnant right now, about to have a baby,
Starting point is 00:51:47 and it's very stressful for her. And after all this back and forth, she has since locked out her Instagram account and also her Twitter. So I guess she's taking a break from all of that. People close to her are saying
Starting point is 00:51:58 the doctor has actually advised that this is all getting too stressful for her. So that's what's going on right now with Cardi B and Azealia. And we did see a video of Cardi B. She got into an altercation at the Louis Vuitton store. She's inside and somebody's outside yelling at her.
Starting point is 00:52:12 I don't know exactly what happened with that. Well, we wish the best for Cardi. Sending her nothing but love and light. Yeah, she's doing a couple of months, guys. I don't even know why you'd be asking Azealia about Cardi. What? How could he not? How could I not ask her?
Starting point is 00:52:23 She called her whatever the name she called her. I asked everybody everything. You didn't have to bring it up, but whatever could he not? How could I not ask her? She called her Whatever the name she called her I asked everybody everything You didn't have to bring it up But whatever Why not? Then if I didn't bring it up They'd be like Oh y'all corny
Starting point is 00:52:30 Cause you didn't ask No we ask people everything I will say this though I thought Azalea Used to like Cardi B She did She talked about that too But Azalea says it all the time
Starting point is 00:52:38 Why do y'all care what she says? Who cares what she got to say? Let her talk Like just ignore it Cause when you don't ignore it When you put more fuel on the fire. No, you can't ignore it sometimes. And you bring somebody on the breakfast club, you don't want people to ignore what they say.
Starting point is 00:52:50 Absolutely. You can't ignore it sometimes. That's the whole point of the show. All right. Oh, no, no. By the way, what she said on the breakfast club didn't start all that, though. What she said on social media after the fact is what's really caused the jump off. All right.
Starting point is 00:53:01 Well, I'm Angela Yee, and that is your rumor report. All right. Thank you, Miss Yee. Child of mine. Who you giving your donkey to? Listen, man. Donkey of the Day is a segment that I use to give people the credit
Starting point is 00:53:13 they deserve for being stupid. It's a sexuality expert named Dion Carson who needs to come to the front of the congregation because this is by far the stupidest thing I've heard probably this year. And that's saying a lot. Okay. That's saying a lot.
Starting point is 00:53:27 All right, we'll talk about it when we come back. Keep it locked. This is The Breakfast Club. Good morning. It's time for Donkey of the Day. Donkeys of the Day, I'm Charlamagne. I'm a Democrat, so being Donkey of the Day is a little bit of a mixed up.
Starting point is 00:53:42 So like a donkey. Donkey of the Day. The Breakfast Club, bitches. Now, I've been called a lot in my 23 years that Donkey of the Day is a new one. Yes, Donkey of the Day for Monday, May 14th goes to a sexuality expert named Deanne Carson. Now, Donkey of the Day is a segment
Starting point is 00:53:59 that is designed to give people the credit they deserve for being stupid. And let me tell you something. This story right here is by far the stupidest thing I have seen in a long time. And we live in an era of highly stupid things. So that's saying a lot. Okay, now I have no idea what qualifies Deanne to be a sexuality expert. Hell, who am I fooling?
Starting point is 00:54:17 I don't even know what a sexuality expert does. Okay, I'm assuming she's an expert on other people's sexualities. I don't know, sexual behaviors. Like she can just look at someone and tell if they're gay or straight or bi or pan or stir fry sexual, whatever. Whatever your sexuality is. Deanne is an expert at it all, I guess. I don't know what a sexuality expert is. And after this hot take that Deanne is presenting to the planet,
Starting point is 00:54:39 I don't care what a sexuality expert is because I hate PC culture. PC culture is destroying the world. Everyone is trying to be so politically correct to the point that we are all lying to ourselves and we are all telling each other what we think we want to hear instead of what we need to hear. And sexuality expert Deanne has percentage something
Starting point is 00:54:58 to us that we don't want nor do we need. See, Deanne is giving us parents tips on how to raise our children. Specifically, how to raise them to know that consent matters. Okay, Deanne is stupidly suggesting that parents ask their infant children for consent to change their diapers. What? I repeat, Deanne is stupidly suggesting that parents ask their infant children for consent to change their diapers.
Starting point is 00:55:28 I can't even make this kind of ignorance up. Let's go to the Today Show Australia for the report, please. A sexuality expert claims parents must ask permission before changing their child's nappy. Deanne Carson believes consent must be given by the child before their dirty nappy is removed. Here she is on the ABC suggesting how to go about it. Anne Carson believes consent must be given by the child before their dirty nappy is removed. Here she is on the ABC suggesting how to go about it. I'm going to change your nappy now, is that okay? Of course the baby's not going to respond.
Starting point is 00:55:54 Yes, mum, that's awesome, I'd love to have my nappy changed. But if you leave a space and wait for body language and wait to make eye contact, then you're letting that child know that their response matters. Ms Carson has defended her comments saying, the idea around consent is about empowering children with their rights and protecting them from sexual abuse. This sounds ridiculous. This is stupid. So what if the baby says no? And you can't change it?
Starting point is 00:56:19 Then they have to sit there. The baby can't say no because it's an infant. Let the record show this woman, Deanne, looks like she has never got her club shot up. She looks like she has zero children and she sounds like she has zero children. I guarantee this woman has never changed a diaper before in her life because no one who has kids who has watched a child and changed a diaper would ever fix their mouth to say you have to ask the baby for consent to change their diapers. And this is where the logic is so flawed.
Starting point is 00:56:44 Listen to what she told Australia's Nine Network again. Listen. I'm going to change your nappy now. Is that okay? Of course, the baby's not going to respond. Yes, mom, that's awesome. I'd love to have my nappy changed. But if you leave a space and wait for body language
Starting point is 00:56:58 and wait to make eye contact, then you're letting that child know that their response matters. So body language and eye contact is consent now? You say you're teaching your child about consent and you're telling us as parents, hey, of course the baby's not going to respond. But if you leave a space and wait for body language and wait to make eye contact, then you're letting that child know that their response matters.
Starting point is 00:57:17 Well, let me tell you why that logic is flawed, because what you're essentially saying is that body language and eye contact is what constitutes consent. Can I, as an adult, use body language and eye contact to justify consent when I'm with another adult? Huh? This is a slippery slope, Deanne. All right? Think about what you're saying. Does this just apply to infants?
Starting point is 00:57:34 Because as an adult, I know yes means yes, no means no, and not getting an answer means no as well. Consent is yes. Our clear-cut body language, like the young lady takes my clothes off grabs my penis and puts it in her okay all you adults out there don't follow deanne's definition of consent all right okay don't follow deanne's definition of consent okay well you ask somebody based on body language and eye contact no okay you make a move no all right it sounds stupid for adults and it damn sure sounds stupid to ask a child. Now, Mariah Mendez, a Ph.D. and licensed psychotherapist, says babies really can't understand the concept of consent. Duh. She goes on to say consent requires being able to understand a cause and effect relationship that comes with cognitive development.
Starting point is 00:58:18 And she says consent is even a little vague for children between the ages of one and two. But by the time children are two years old, they can better process what they do and don't like when they say no. You can absolutely trust they mean it. My response to that is so. Okay, my youngest daughter is two right now, and if I say to her, come on, let's go change your diaper, you know what she says to me most of the time? No.
Starting point is 00:58:39 But guess what? She don't know any better. You're going to jail. So I'm supposed to let the urine and feces pile up simply because her cognitive development skills haven't fully developed yet? Deanne, there's only three things to discuss here, okay? And that's A, should you shut up?
Starting point is 00:58:54 Oh, no, no, no. Yeah, yeah. A, should you shut up, okay? Or B, should you shut the F up? Or C, should you shut the F up forever, okay? Please give Deanne Carson the sweet sounds and the hammer tones, please. Oh, now you are the donkey of the day. You are the donkey of the day.
Starting point is 00:59:21 Yeehaw. That sounds so stupid. Yeah, I don't know if it's Monday or this story, but I really hate people right now. People? Yeah, I just hate people. When I hear stuff like that, it just makes me hate people. All right, well, thank you for that donkey of the day.
Starting point is 00:59:36 Are you going to ask your kids for consent to change their diapers now, Envy? What's your youngest? Envy would have been in jail a billion times. My youngest is almost two, and no way in hell am I going to ask because like you said, as a kid, if I say, come here, let me change your pamper nine times out of ten, they're like, no. That's why I don't ask. I just grab them and say, okay,
Starting point is 00:59:54 change the pamper. We're the adults, okay? Kids will walk around with urine and feces in their diaper all day long if you let them. Absolutely. So what are we asking the people? What do you want to ask the people this morning? Oh, I just want to ask, now that you got this little bit of information, are you going to start asking your kids for consent to change their diapers?
Starting point is 01:00:09 I just want to throw it out there. Throw it up against the wall. Throw it out there and see if it sticks? Yeah, I just want to throw it up against the wall and see if it sticks. We're going to throw the pamper against the wall and see if it sticks. 800-585-1051 if you have a kid. Are you going to ask the child,
Starting point is 01:00:25 hey, do you mind if I change your pamper right now, you know, to get consent? Yeah, and if you're just joining us, the young person, Deanne Carson, says that eye contact and body language is what justifies consent. All right, don't you fall for that one, adult. 800-585-1051. Do you ask for consent Before you change your pamper Call us now It's The Breakfast Club
Starting point is 01:00:46 Come on The Breakfast Club Morning everybody It's DJ Envy Angela Yee Charlamagne Tha Guy We are The Breakfast Club Now if you're just joining us
Starting point is 01:00:58 Charlamagne gave Donkey Of the Day to who Charlamagne? Deanne Carson She's a sexuality expert She says that Parents should be asking their kids for consent to change their diapers. Okay, well let's talk about it.
Starting point is 01:01:10 800-585-1051. Call us now. Now, I'm not asking that. Let's play the clip first. Okay, let's play the clip. I'm going to change your nappy now. Is that okay? Of course, the baby's not going to respond. Yes, mom, that's awesome. I'd love to have my nappy changed. But if you leave a space and wait for body language and wait to make eye contact,
Starting point is 01:01:30 then you're letting that child know that their response matters. Now, I ain't asking any child for consent. If you got an ishy pamper or a pissy pamper, I'm changing it. Matter of fact, if you're old enough, my daughter's almost two. I make her go get the pamper and the wipes. Well, first of all, my daughter is two. When she needs her diaper changed, I can be like, yo, come on, let's go change your diaper. She'll say no. So therefore, kids don't know what's best for them, especially when it comes to dirty diapers. All right. Number two. No,
Starting point is 01:01:58 I'm not asking for consent. And Deanne sounds like somebody who's never had her club shot up. She sounds like somebody who's never changed a diaper. She has no idea what it takes to raise a child. And when you're telling somebody that consent is eye contact and body language, isn't that sending the wrong definition of consent to adults? I can't use that. If a girl's with me and, you know, she's, you know, drunk or something, and we're kissing and she made eye contact with me in her body language, I can use that as an excuse
Starting point is 01:02:26 to have sex with her? No, you can't use that. Should I feel awkward now when I'm babysitting and have to change a diaper? Yes, you should feel funny. PC Coaches is growing the world, man. Let's go to the phone lines.
Starting point is 01:02:35 Hello, who's this? This is Tejal from Dayton, Ohio. What's up, y'all? What's up, mama? You gotta ask for consent to change your pampers now. You know that, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 01:02:44 I'm gonna do that and save some money on diapers. You know that, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm going to do that. And save some money on diapers. You know what I'm saying? I'm going to let my kid decide. True. You're getting more trouble for leaving. I said you're getting more trouble for leaving your kid unattended with a dirty diaper for a long time. Yeah, and you get arrested for child neglect.
Starting point is 01:03:00 And he's like, no, I was asking for consent. I was just waiting for consent. A professional just said I got to ask. So that's what I'm going to do. You know what I'm saying? Teach my kid about consent. I don't want nobody touching my kid. They got to know it's up to you if you want somebody to touch you.
Starting point is 01:03:12 You know what I'm saying? Now you know. Consent is important. You want to leave that diaper on? You better not. Your kid will be the stinky kid in school. That's cool, man. He's going to know not to, you know, listen to anybody else.
Starting point is 01:03:23 He's going to have his own opinions about himself. And when you get arrested for neglect, you're going to learn not to listen to white people. No, my goodness. Dee Dee. Hello. Hey, good morning. Now, Dee Dee, you got a two-year-old. We're good.
Starting point is 01:03:33 You have a two-year-old. Do you ask for consent to change the pamphlet? I don't know. My two-year-old, she's very advanced, and she knows whatever, right? However, I'm not going to allow a two-year-old to tell me when you need to be changed. That's how it all starts you're allowing your child to give you consent of stuff that they don't really know about so i'm not gonna wait till my child is damp with like pee and poop and then just feel like
Starting point is 01:03:56 okay it's time to change her pull-ups if i feel like i have to change it i'm gonna change i'm not gonna wait until she tells me mommy no i don't want to be changed. It's opening up a can of disaster. And that's how it all starts. Because now they're going to feel like they have control of you. These kids nowadays, they're advanced. They know a lot. And now they're going to feel like, all right, I can tell Mommy
Starting point is 01:04:17 what to do now. And that's so long. You can't do nothing about it. They're not too advanced, though, because they don't know how to change their own goddamn diapers. You know what? Change your own goddamn diapers. My goodness. All right? I wish I... You know what? Change your own
Starting point is 01:04:27 damn diaper, then. But you know what that's first, and then you know what's next? Eat these vegetables. No. Yep.
Starting point is 01:04:32 Yep. You have to get consent to eat vegetables. You have to get consent to eat vegetables. You got to get consent to make your child eat.
Starting point is 01:04:37 800-585-1051. Are you going to get consent to change your baby's pamper? Call us now. It's The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 01:04:43 Good morning. Hey, it's DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you just joined us, Charlamagne gave Donkey the day to who, Charlamagne? Deanne Carson. She is a sexuality expert who is stupidly suggesting that parents ask their infant children for consent to change their diapers. You should go to line one because I heard something.
Starting point is 01:05:03 Let's hear what she said first. Let's hear what she said. Let's play her audio first. I'm going to change your nappy now. Is that okay? Of course the baby's not going to respond. Yes, mom, that's awesome. I'd love to have my nappy changed. But if you leave a space and wait for
Starting point is 01:05:15 body language and wait to make eye contact, then you're letting that child know that their response matters. Now, hello, ma'am. Who's this? What's your name? Janine. Hey, Janine. Now, you agree with this lady says? I don't really agree with it.
Starting point is 01:05:29 I think I'm a little confused. I got to read more up on it. But I think what she's trying to convey is that rape victims, it usually occurs within the family. Nine times out of ten, it occurs within the family. And if we put it in a child's mind that, you know, this is something you need to ask consent for, maybe the child will get this understanding.
Starting point is 01:05:49 Okay, well, he's not supposed to be doing this, or she's not supposed to be doing this. So it's opening up a lot of communication maybe. I'm changing a diaper, though. Let me ask you a question. Do you remember ever getting your diaper changed? Look at that. Go change your baby right now.
Starting point is 01:06:03 Ask that baby for consent right now. Ask him. Say, can I change your diaper? Well, she's three, so, I mean, that's different. What I'm saying is, I'm not saying she's saying, okay, ask my baby for consent. Because, of course, the baby's not going to respond. But we all learn. Like, you know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 01:06:20 Learning starts from a young age. Baby, your baby crying because she said, my mama on the radio sounding stupid just now. Oh, mama on the radio sounding dumb, agreeing with this crazy-ass white woman. Oh, mama, no. I'm listening to what she has to say. I'm trying to understand. There's no understanding.
Starting point is 01:06:38 But all right, mama. I mean, everybody has, you know what I'm saying, ways that they teach their children. Maybe in white world, that's how she wants to. White world? No, you're absolutely right. It's definitely a white world. Thank you, mama.
Starting point is 01:06:51 Thank you, mama. Have a good day. Well, we got to stop letting our worlds collide. And white condoms. White world. White world. Hello? Hello?
Starting point is 01:07:02 Hey, you calling from white world? Say what? Never mind. We're talking about taking your baby's pamper, you calling from white world? Say what? Never mind. We're talking about changing your baby's paper, bro. You get consent? What consent is there to get? You know, and to the point, as they get older, it's more damaging, I think, to ask them about something
Starting point is 01:07:16 that is not optional to begin with. So, like, if they are old enough to say no to something, you don't ask if you're going to change your diaper. I say, let's change your diaper. They can say no and be upset, but we started off with, this is what's going to happen. Let me tell you something.
Starting point is 01:07:29 If your kid is old enough to tell you no, they don't want their diaper changed, then they probably don't need to be wearing diapers no more. Okay, my daughter is two. You're absolutely right. I 100% agree. My daughter's two, and she tells me no all the time,
Starting point is 01:07:41 and I say, let's go change your diaper. But I know this much now. I know from now on, if my wife asked me to change the diaper, I'm going to be like, I tried, but she told me no, so time, and I say, let's go change your diaper. But I know this much now. I know from now on, if my wife asked me to change the pamp, I'm going to be like, I tried, but she told me no, so you got to do it. She won't give me consent. Maybe she'll give you consent. She won't give me consent. You better try.
Starting point is 01:07:52 All right, what's the moral of this stupid story? There is no moral to this story. The moral to this story is Deanne Carson needs to either A, shut up, B, shut the F up, or C, shut the F up forever and let those of us with kids change our kids' diapers when they need to be changed. Yee, we got rumors on the way. Yes, let's talk about counseling. Find out what famous siblings had to go to counseling just to deal with the stardom.
Starting point is 01:08:15 All right, we'll get into all that when we come back. Keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Good morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. It's Monday.
Starting point is 01:08:24 It is Monday. It is Monday. Mondays suck. This Monday sucks. I'm tired. I mean, it's happy to be alive. I think it's the weather, man. No, it's Monday. It's incredible, man.
Starting point is 01:08:31 I'm happy we got another week ahead of us for success. I think it's the weather. All right. Well, let's get to the rumors. Let's talk Tina Knowles. It's about time. We're starting now. Rumor Report.
Starting point is 01:08:43 Rumor Report. This is The Rumor Report. Talk to them. With Angela Ye Noel. Rumor report. Rumor report. This is the rumor report. With Angela Yee on The Breakfast Club. Well, Tina Noel sat down and talked with Maria Shriver on Friday to discuss Beyonce and Solange and her parenting skills. And
Starting point is 01:08:57 here's what she had to say about dealing with Beyonce's stardom. I had days that I devoted to. On Wednesdays, I took off from work and that was Solange's day and she was a lot younger than Beyonce and it was tough because she was five years older and Beyonce was this little superstar in our in our city and so I took them to counseling so that very early so that the counselor could help Beyonce be more sensitive to Solange
Starting point is 01:09:24 because she couldn't stand her for a minute. You know, when they were little, she was live. She was all in her stuff. She was trying to hang around her and her friends. Talk about vision. Right. Jesus Christ. That's great.
Starting point is 01:09:35 That's excellent that she had the foresight to say, hey, let me make sure that my youngest is dealing with this okay because it can't be easy for a child. That she had the foresight to name her kids Beyonce and Solange. What are the origins of those names? You know what I mean? Never heard of Beyonce or Solange before Beyonce and Solange. All right, now Chance the Rapper delivered the commencement speech
Starting point is 01:09:55 at Dillard University, and he talked about Beyonce in the commencement speech. Here's what he said. All of us have a responsibility to be greater than the people who came before us. We have a responsibility to be greater than the people who came before us. We have a responsibility to be not as good as them or live up to their example, but to actually surpass them. Even when it seems scary, we have to overcome that fear and be greater than our role models. Beyonce's performance was better than any performance Michael Jackson ever did.
Starting point is 01:10:23 That woman better than Mike. Black woman better than Mike performance Michael Jackson ever did. That woman, better than Mike. Black woman, better than Mike. I said it. Oh, you know, listen. First of all, Chance panders a lot. But he really thought that I was about to get that applause. He probably thought everybody was about to go crazy when he made those comments. That's why he came back and he was like, oh, that didn't get him?
Starting point is 01:10:41 Let me hit him with this one. A black woman. I clapped for him. Was better than Michael Jackson. Nobody clapped. Nobody applauded. I do agree with Chance, though. He said Beyonce is an inspiration. Why was that necessary to say at a commencement speech?
Starting point is 01:10:53 He was giving an example. He was trying to talk about surpassing those people that you admire. He was talking about a black woman actually being the greatest performer. So he's saying that the goal should be to be better than those that came before him. Absolutely. That's what he said. And he was shouting out the black women, too, in the audience, clearly.
Starting point is 01:11:10 Well, they wasn't feeling that because they didn't clap for him. All right, now let's talk about Kylie Jenner. There's been all kinds of disrespectful rumors that her bodyguard, Tim Chung, is the person who is Stormi's father, her daughter's father. And he actually had to release a statement denying it. He said, I'm a very private person and would normally never answer to gossip and stories that are so ridiculous
Starting point is 01:11:30 that they are laughable out of deep respect for Kylie, Travis, their daughter together, and their families. I would like to set the record straight and say that my interactions with Kylie and her family have been limited in strictly a professional capacity only. There is no story here, and I ask the media
Starting point is 01:11:45 no longer include me in any narrative that is incredibly disrespectful to their family. First of all, who knows what Kylie Jenner's security looks like? Everybody. He's always with her. Yeah, and everybody's been posting pictures. Very good looking man, by the way. So he's like Julius? Yeah. I never heard of him. Very good looking guy, too.
Starting point is 01:12:01 And so there's been a lot of people posting side by sides with him and the baby and saying that the baby has his features and all of that. So, look, good looking guy, too. And so there's been a lot of people posting side by sides with him and the baby and saying that the baby has his features and all of that. So, oh, look, good looking guy. If you ever vote TV, you can take a look. All right. Drake and the Migos are going to be going on tour together this summer. They're doing a 41 date outing. It all kicks off in Salt Lake City on July 6th.
Starting point is 01:12:22 So if you want to see the Aubrey and the Three Amigos tour, make sure you guys go ahead and pick up. That's the name of the tour? Yes. Aubrey and the Three Amigos. Now tickets are going on sale on May 18th. I thought the Amigos were doing their own tour. I thought QC was doing their own tour with all their artists.
Starting point is 01:12:40 Amigos, Yachty, Baby. Maybe this is happening. This starts July 6th. So maybe it's before that. Who knows? After that. And if you have an Amex card, you get early access starting on Tuesday tomorrow. Aubrey and the Three Amigos? Yes.
Starting point is 01:12:52 That sounds like a horrible boy band name. Maybe that's the point. Aubrey and the Three Amigos. Because they did the video like that. Maybe that is the point. All right. Well, I'm Angela Yee, and that is your Rumor Report. All right.
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