The Breakfast Club - The Breakfast Club BEST OF - Dr. Cheyenne Interview, Plus Caller Topic (Can Men be Golddiggers)

Episode Date: July 1, 2026

Best of 2026 - Dr. Cheyenne Interview, Plus Caller Topic (Can Men be Golddiggers). Recorded 2026. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakfastClubPower1051FMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Hey, Bridget. How are you guys doing today? What's up, Brooke? Why you sound like that, Bridget? You sound like Brad. She is tired. Bridget is right. The only reason I sound like this is because I had to stop and get donuts for my employees.

So I came through the door carrying a lot of stuff. Oh, okay, okay. You have a lot of employees of size? No, just 41. I'm the safety manager. So I like to bring donuts, and, you know, we celebrate eight years safe. Oh, congrats. I work, thank you.

I work for a company that manufactures the catalysts for all the gasoline vehicles. Okay. So we do some good work over here in Taylor, Michigan, which is really Detroit. Absolutely. What up, though? All right, Bridget. So my reason for calling is I love y'all show. I called in last week, and when I said you, Gil King is amazing for her.

her relationship with her ex and all that good stuff. I love that. But companies, right? I've been working for about 46 years now. And I've been a grunt worker. I got a master's degree in HR. I worked at Ford, Chrysler, supervisor, safety, doing all that stuff.

And I say grunt worker, because we keep on the bottom keep the people up top rich. So having this conversation over the last six months, rich people are getting richer, us grunt workers, 37, 42 years ago, my first job out of college, they started me off at 55,000. 42 years ago today, they are still starting people off at 50 and 60,000, where the economy has increased, increased, increased, in order to make a decent living out here, okay, $100,000. They may not start everybody off in college, coming out of college at $100,000, but at least a decent

livable wage. And then another thing that goes along with that, right? is the wage increases. And I don't know, you know, in you guys' career where you've been, but, you know, a lot of times I'll come in. Oh, well, Bridget, you got to get 1% this time, even though you're a star worker, but we had to bring the person on the bottom up,

so they had to get the 3%. So this template of giving people raises, it's 50 years old. So the template needs to be increased from 1% to 4% from 1 to 10%. So just say, for instance, I make $100,000 and my employer says, Bridget, you did a great job this year. We're giving you a 1% raise. What's 1% of $100,000? That's nothing, right?

That's $1,000. I can spend that going to get a washing, and dryer. But if you tell me I did such a great job and you're getting 10%, I can do more with $10,000 a year than I can, $1,000 a year. So one of these rich, ultra-rich companies are going to change the template for us grunt workers so we can try to at least have a decent limit. Just more incentive. More incentive is what you say. Exactly.

So nobody's talked about that. And I have a meeting this Friday with our big boss here. And that's some of the things I'm going to talk about. Because even though our country is from the UK, we do so much stuff that people don't even know that we do. And they don't pay us like they pay the big three in this area. So because our company is UK, they say, oh, well, we're going to. don't pay y'all like this but y'all stockholders and y'all board of directors they said he's getting

rich beyond rich and we in here on saturdays and sunda's keeping people safe for eight years doing this and doing that they don't have a darn about us you're absolutely right so the middle the middle class will never come back up and you know like somebody said bridget you should get a podcast i am i run my mouth no because you can talk boy you can talk i mean you can talk you might need to do that that might help you get some extra income because you can talk that's right for administration you're going. We don't say, yeah, you're right. You're right three times and you're still going. But Bridget, no. We got to go in a second. Now, I will say that Bridget, if you go in there with your boss and you have this and you lay it down quite clear and plain, you probably just going to wear him down and he might just go ahead and give you the increase.

Yeah, he might just give an increase. That's if he has the power to do it. If he has the power to do it. But you all right, I was reading, I was reading this story the other day, you know, I'm from South Carolina and I was reading this story and one of the local people down there called the Post and Coria. and it was saying how $60,000 is officially classified as low income, depending on your household size, in Charleston and, like, Berkeley County and, you know, the areas around there. And I was like, damn, $6,000, that was, that used to be a lot of money. I know, and $60,000 used to be a lot of money. And like I said, I make over 100.

I drive good. You know, I take care of my granddaughters and stuff good and things of that nature. But I'm also in the stores, you know, in the dollar stores. and then Crobers and stuff like that. And you see, you see seniors counting pennies and stuff like that. So what do I do? I pay for their stuff.

And then they want to give me their pennies. And I tell them, I said, no, you guys keep it. You are good. You know, like when all these big companies. Yep. Well, I love you guys too. And, you know, they want us to donate, right? Like these charities and stuff, all these charities.

My charity is I take care of people in person. I don't know what my money is going. I'm talking about Bridgett. We appreciate you calling it. We appreciate you, Bridgett. Thank you so much. But y'all, the reason why I called y'all, because this is and so many people listen to y'all.

Yes, ma'am. I work in a facility where everybody is Trumpers, but when I tell you, they listen to y'all on the radio, so this conversation needs to be had. Y'all need to somehow working into y'all show and ask the question. They just heard the reason. Everything right here.

I don't think that's a conversation that needs to be worked in that people need more money and these corporations need to be paying people a livable wage. I think that's a pretty common conversation nowadays, Bridget. But thank you. We appreciate you, Bridgett. Absolutely. Okay, love you guys. I love you, black girls.

I love you. Love you too, babe. Thank you. Y'all have a great safe day, okay? Yes, ma'am. How come people that talk for a long time, when they finally finish, then they want to try to rush you? I have on the phone phone.

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800585-105-105.1. I guess the question we're asking, can men be gold diggers? Now, this conversation comes from Mimi, who's doing front-page news, is saying that a new study is showing that more and more men are dating for money. Yeah. I mean, it's broke. Y'all was hard on here.

Yeah, and there's a huge difference between a gold digger and a person who wants somebody financially well off. I don't fault anyone for wanting someone who's financially well off, but I'm also a person who still believes people are with folks because they actually love them. You know what I mean? But there's a difference between a gold digger and just somebody who wants somebody who's financially well off. So the answer to the question, can men be gold diggers?

Yes. All of these men that's out here dating, you know, these fat white women or these old, these old, you know, 70-year-old. old, 80 year old white women, you know what I mean? They're doing it for the check. They're doing it for room and board. Yeah, I think it's... Room and board is crazy. I think people have been doing it for a long

time. More people are doing it now, probably because of the situation with the economy. But yeah, I think people can. I don't think it's right. What is that relationship? Because it's built off of nothing. It's built off of finances, right? And if I lose my job or I lose the finances, then you out. What's the transaction?

Wow. And that old person or that fat woman will just pay for somebody else? You did something for Some chicken wings one time, right? I didn't do nothing for no goddamn chicken wings. Chicken wings is crazy. Then you said that the lady left chicken wings on the counter? First of all. We are.

Okay, in my much, much, much, much younger years. Okay, when I was in my 20s, it was a 40-something, damn near 50-something. And yes, she gave me $3,000 and some fried chicken wings and some Twinkies. Oh, my God. And a car service. And a car service home. And a car service home.

Respect that little, P.B. Hey, man. Hey, yo. I made it feel young again when I was younger. I'm shaking your ass for chicken You know what I'm like It's like I don't know about the rest of y'all

I came up I don't know about the rest of y'all You know what I'm saying One day I might tell that story Maybe not But she put in a paper towel What she gave it to you No she put in a bag

It was a zip lock bag So it was like a sandwich bag So the Twinkies and the fried chicken In the sandwich bag And the $3,000 And she was like Oh and I got you a car service I was like okay

Yeah she was older I like it Well there's a lot of people on the line that want to discuss 800, 585, 105. You didn't feel away like, oh my gosh. $3,000 to tweety me some chicken wings, man. She wanted him out the house.

I don't know if you realize that. Like, get him now. And? And? Damn. He's trying to be crying on Instagram. Hello, who's this? Hello?

This is Courtney. Hey, Courtney. Good morning. Courtney. What are you calling from Courtney? Good morning. Please, Courtney. I'm calling from George, I'm suffering a lot.

Hey, 843. What's happening, Georgetown? So we talk about can men be gold diggers, Mama? Yes, they can. So I am 32 years old, and I am single in dating. I've had several guys ask me for money. Did you give it to them? No.

I am a single mother. I'm not giving them anything. And it was only within, like, several months of me knowing them. But did they supply the penis? No, we're not. We're not doing that. What do you do for a living, ma'am? How do you know you got money?

I work at the doctor's office. Oh, that's true. And I don't know why they assume that I would just randomly send them money, where that's just knowing each other. That's weird, and I've heard it's very calming now for men. I mean, listen, times are hard out here, you know, men got to do what they got to do. Times are hard for us, too. That is true.

Why would we just send them random money? That is very true. He picked the wrong one. He probably should have picked somebody that would have no problem giving it to them. That's what he should have did then. Yeah, maybe, yeah, he needs to go pick them one that's making that type of salary. Respectfully, how much do you weigh, respectful? Oh, boy.

Oh, my God. Oh, boy. How much do you have, I weigh like $1.65. How tall are you? I am five eight. Oh, yeah. That's not bad. I don't know why they're asking you from one.

That's not bad. That's not that bad. Hello, who's this? Oh, hell. Who? What's your name? That. Yeah.

Steph from P.A. I went in. Talk to us. What's your thoughts, brother? Hold on, hold on, hold up. Drop the crew bomb, Furby. This is my first time

getting through. Let's drop the Clude Bomb Forby. That's not Clue Bomb, sir. Yeah, we don't even know what you're saying yet. Yo, this. Just drop a clues bomb for me. Yeah, because that's my first time through.

No, that's not Clues bomb over me, sir. You a gold digger, sir? No. No. No. But I believe men could be gold digger, though. 100%. Especially in this,

this era that we living in. Yes. I feel like That's another reason why I'm aware of people like Every Peder line, you know? I'm not saying he was But you know how he got back?

Absolutely Well, he was a dancer for Brittany I think they actually liked each other I think that, you know, a gold dig is a person who's literally strictly with a person For financial gain and nothing else Kevin was big playing with Brittany though

So I get what you're saying But even the day once They got married I know but like he just Yeah. I think they was married. What about Jaylo's dancer? Because Jaylo's dancer, it feels like he was never going to be a husband.

He was just always going to be... Jaylo married a dancer? One of her dancer? No, but she was with the dancer at one time. Oh, I don't know. What's the guy's name? Well, she married. First of all, if you got...

Let's talk about J-Lo for a second. If you're getting with J-Lo, it don't matter about no goddamn money. That's J-Lo. That's a winner. She's beautiful. The money, please. Hello, who's this? Hello, good morning.

This is Paula Wright star. Hey, good morning. He's all the rock star. I ain't heard from you in a minute. I mean, I see you on Instagram. I'm up. How are you doing? Good morning, Charlotte.

Jeff. What's up, y'all? What's happening? Talk to us. What's your thoughts? You don't know. Nothing about no men being gold diggers. You're a whole stud.

Yes, I do. Hold on. But let me tell y'all something real quick. Men can absolutely be stud. And I'm going to tell y'all why. Men ask me all the time to hook them up with women, specifically women. that have money knowing that they don't got it.

Got you, God. You said men can be studs. You meant gold dick. I was confused. I was like, making be studs. Gosh, don't tell them that. Gold dick is, yes. As a matter of fact, y'all,

let me tell you all at a concert, right? Shout out to Jess, because I saw Jess and her husband, me and my cousin was standing next to you in the front row. My cousin had on the oil wife. Where at? Where were we?

Taree's concert? The R&B concert. Oh, yes, yes. Absolutely. Absolutely. So during the intermission, I'm going to the bathroom. This dude stops me. He's like, yo, this is late.

I'm having a good time. So I'm like, yeah, okay. He's like, yeah, sure he paid for everything. I'm only here because she'd be paying for everything. So I'm like, okay, that's what stuff. Damn. But, yes, men can absolutely be go diggers. And I feel like men be more go diggers than the women.

What was you doing in the men's bathroom talking to him, though? No, no. See, Jess, I ain't saying. I was in the men's bathroom. I thought she was on her way to the bathroom. You just heard she was in the bathroom. See, how about you got to be there? Don't do me like that.

He'll stand up with P.O. She thought she'd think you'd be walking around with your scrappling on and that's what she's thinking. No, I'm not one of those. I'm not one of those. But he's a clown, he's a clown. All right? But that nigga was a clown because he didn't even know her.

And he just straight up told her that out of nowhere. There's two dudes talking. Like he felt the dude energy. Still, though, like, you know what it is. I wish you didn't hang up on her. I guarantee you she looked at them and they probably looked like a couple that don't need to be together.

You know what I'm saying? You can always tell. You can always tell. It's usually a fat white girl okay, with a pretty decent looking black guy. He's like, hey, what's going on that? A really older white woman, like really older, like 70-something.

Yo, you know what's crazy? With a younger black man and you're like, what the hell is going on here? It was definitely a little bit of everybody in that show too, like the bus running everywhere. You know what? Because I tell. At the comedy show, sitting front row, there was a younger brother. He looked like he was like 24, 25, and he had like a 70 year, 65 year old white woman.

And it just didn't look right. To the point that we put him on the screen and was like, what's up? And he said it. He was like, yo, this is my sugar mom. He was like, she takes care of me and I take care of her. You see what I'm saying? He said that clearly. But no, she was right.

It was a lot of them little couples in the front, on VIPC, like right there at the front of the stage. And you're going to see a lot more of that, man. Grand Def Auto is coming out this year. That's a lot of these concert tickets. These young boys are trying to come up, man. If you're just joining us, we're talking about, can guys be gold diggers, right? That means guys dating for money, not for love for money, because it's so effed up out there. Have you ever looked up the definition of what a gold digger is?

Or do we just know what it is? Because I looked it up this morning, and I just thought it was interesting. A person typically described in popular culture as a one, woman who forms romantic relationships with a wealthy person, usually a man solely for money, gifts are financial gain rather than affection. Men can absolutely be gold diggers. And as I've been saying all morning, you see them all the time, especially those fat white women that be with them young, you know, black brothers, or sometimes, you know, even grown

black brothers, are the older white women with the younger black brothers. It's getting bad out there. Those guys are gold dame. It's getting bad out there. People need to pay their bills. They need to pay their mortgage. They need to pay their... Grand The auto six coming out this fall, bro.

We don't talk about the guys. There's a whole bunch of guys that like the handicapped girls, too. I never seen that. I ain't never seen that. Because they get a check for real. What you found out of a matter? You did that. Yeah, you did that.

You dated a handicapped guy. Don't try to put that on, no, man. You did that. No, they do, yo. But do you think it'll ever get bad with people but like, you know what? I'm just going to be gay for money. Like, you know what I mean?

You did that in the 90s. Well, at least he did it in the 90s and not now, because everybody would know now. I didn't do that. You were the sorrogam. You know what? Yes, you were. What are you talking about? Hello, who's this?

Bad, bad, bad boy. Oh, man. You make me feel so good. Go ahead. Reminis. Reminis. Riminis. Hello, who's this?

Chuck, help me, man. This Chuck from Detroit, man. Chuck, now, you're behind that the sugar mamas? You're a gold digger, Chuck? I was down my gold digger, man. I just like sugar mommas, man. ever since they changed the rate of pay and it's equal for women, why not?

I've been pumping in money for years the women taking the women on trips for what place to change up and get something else. So let me... That's why I got a sugar mama. Now, gold digging. I don't think I'd say it's gold digging. I think gold digging is somebody just looking for money.

Are you? That's the way he's doing. That's what you just did. Do you like your sugar mama? Do you actually like her? Do you have feelings for her? I actually do. Oh, okay.

Okay. How old is you? I'm 30. I'm sorry. I'm 41. How old is she? She's 50. 57. Okay, yeah.

Yeah, you're out here. You're out here with an older woman for sure. So what's the most, what's the biggest? But do she look good, though? No. She's, she together. What's the biggest thing she bought you, man? She's about to put money in herself to get her body done.

I ain't in all that. Nah, tell her don't do that. Tell her, don't do that. Tell her keep that old school Chevy the way it is, man. What's the biggest thing she bought you, brother? What's the biggest thing she bought you, Chuck? Ah, hey, vacations. Jamaica, the Bahamas, and Paris.

Bro, you see it. In the Caribbean, you see it all the time. Yes, you do. That's what the young boys try to go duck off with their older sugar mamas. Is she white? No, she's black. Oh, you're a legend.

Scott called him a legend. No, because when you, 57-year-old black woman is, that's amazing. That's why I know she still look good. Yeah. You already know, black don't crack, baby. See, yeah, this is different. I'm not mad at you.

Because you said you like her too, so I can't say that you gold digger. He got to own it, though. He is a gold digger. He's a gold digger. He's a gold digger. He's a gold digger. Yeah. Thank you, man.

I don't know if this gold diggin' if you like her. I'm about the guy with no arms and legs. No, all that went away, right, if all that went away, right, she lost whatever all the money she had, she wasn't able to do for you anymore. Would you still like her? No. Would you be with him?

Just like if the same thing with a man, things will change, you feel me? Damn, exactly. If I lost all his money and can provide the same way, things will change. Yeah, you go to. Yeah, go there. You go a gold digger. Hello, who's this? I'm trying to get the body done for him and all that.

Good morning to all of you. I am Michelle. Hello, beautiful people. Thank you. Michelle. Thank you. Michelle, we talk about can men be gold diggers?

We're talking about opportunities or go diggers, right? Correct, ma'am. As women in this day and age, then y'all, I'm 55. You have to really pay attention to the spine, and they're there. So I dated the men where all my car's in the shop,

neglect you never had a car. I dated the men that came over. I don't have any money for this, can you give me money for that? And I'm not going to say I've never paid for anything because I absolutely did. You know, I'm one of those independent women. You pay one day. I pay the next.

But when it gets to the point where that's all you're doing is paying, I'm over the potential men. Either we're going to be equally yoked and where you need to be in life or just keep walking. There's no reason for us to even have anything to talk about. I do have a 23-year-old daughter that I'm trying to get to understand. the same thing. She is an amazing job, but the Negro that she's with is just, oh my God, like, I don't know where she found him.

I think she went to the swamp or something. Damn. But you just have to be careful about what you're doing. And I'm not going to bash the men and be like all men is out looking for something. But at my age, men are looking for cougars. And at my daughter's age, men are looking for somebody to take care of them. And it's just unfortunate, but this is the day. age that we live in.

Yeah. So I've been there during that and I'm not going about being. Okay. So I'm not bad for these men, but you got, you got two hands,

you got two feet, get your butt up and go get a job and work for it. Okay. On that note, can I get my amazing son a shout out real quick? Go ahead.

He's about to be a senior next year. His name is Christopher Beckett. He goes to Kip High School in St. Louis, Missouri. And y'all, when I tell you, this young man is just,

Nothing short of amazing. My son is just amazing. 4.2 GPA. I'm looking for the Moorhouse and him. Amazing. Come out on top of that child. He is autistic. So you're not, parents, if you're hearing me,

do not let nobody tell you what your baby can't do. Because my son, since elementary, all he's ever had is A's. He's super smart. He knows what he wants in life. And y'all, I'm just a proud mama right now. What a legend, man. Congratulations.

You raise him. You're raising a young legend, man. Congratulations, Mama. You got me. Thank you. And I appreciate all of you. Continue doing what you're doing. We need you and we need your voice.

Thank you so much. What's the moral of the story, guys? Well, the moral of the story, this whole conversation reminds me of this quote that I always hear. And it's like, we were made to love people and use things. But the reason the world is in chaos is because things are being loved and people are being used. So you remember that this morning when you tongue kissing your fat white woman. Damn. Oh, you're 70-year-old.

the white sugar mama, young black men. All right, well, the breakfast club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. J.N.V. J. Salari. Charlamine Nagar. We are the Breakfast Club. Lawn the Roses here as well. We got a special guest in the building. Her new book is out right now. Live your promise. Ladies and gentlemen, Dr. Cheyne and Brian.

Welcome back. Listen, Breakfast Club, fam. I love, I love being here. I'd be seeing you out at the Diddy Trial. Seeing you out at the Boosey GZ concert. Let me tell you. There was music playing. And then there was music playing. Can you tell to people he really be DJing?

No. No. I go out. When he go places, I go because I always have a good time. But they'd be trying to play with him up here. Like, he don't be knowing what he's doing. Envy, did I not come behind that stage? Yes, you did.

Listen, the entire party concert was jumping because he was on fire at the DJ booth. Thank you. At the DJ room. I looked up. I was like, oh, that's DJ. Yeah, you killed. And I think you need a new name, right? You're Dr. Shyam Brian here.

But you need like a shy shy. because she was shy shy that weekend. No, no, you don't understand. Every boozy verse and record she knew from head to the end. You're talking too much. Every jeezy. Every, yo, you understand.

I'm going to just start off mess with her own words in there. Right, so you know, Jeezy, I'm the real as shit. She'd be like, I'm the real doctor in here. You're already. You know, I'm like the head, shah, shy. That's why you got to have everybody sign of NDA. Everybody got to sign a NDA. You know?

I love that for you know. hybrid. I got to be able to have a good time. I'm mad at you. I got to be able to be relatable to people. Why do the people be mad when you are out having a good time? Because that made me think of when you went to Jeezie's concert and it was a whole discourse about your outfit at the concert. So Jeezey, they weren't mad because

the doc was having a good time. They were mad because of what I wore. It was black tied to me. It wasn't black tied to some other people. And you know, this is the thing. I have agency over a couple things. One of those happened to be me and what I wear. And so I'm a

always wear what I want to wear. And again, you know, my clients, my doc squad, my fan base, those are my people, those are my village. My goal is not to sit up here and try to convince folks who have already made up their mind to either misunderstand me or dislike me to like me. I would spend my entire life having to continuously convince them to like, understand. And that's just a responsibility that I'm not going to take on. I don't think anybody should do that.

We all have our village and our job is to cater to love and nurture our village. Once you start going outside of that, then you have to spend your whole life trying to make sure these people continuously like you. And then you live in Dogma, and Dogma would eat your ass up alive. And it's just not worth it. It's just it's a bill that you don't want to ever have to pay. Does it bother it all? Which part? The way that people attack you, because you get attacked a lot.

It doesn't bother me. It comes with the territory. And I think that any of us who are either in the industry, in media, a celebrity, who has a certain level of fame, or even just came from the inner city, right? And knows what it is to be an attractive woman in the hood, in the inner city. You get a lot of rhetoric, and you understand that the outside chatter is a part of being successful. And then I said this with humility, but it's the truth. And you add on beauty, you add on being articulated or educated.

And, you know, beating a lot of the statistics and the odds that come from being, an inner city, you know, little girl, boy, it comes with the territory. So I always say that, you know, Jesus served the church, died for the church. And the church, Judas, his disciple, set him up. The people he loved and he served set him up to be crucified. So why do we personalize when people, i.e. our disciples, our folks who are never our disciples and our people, have an issue with us, try to take us down or set us up for failure? That is a a part of being great. That is a part of people witnessing you be in your lane and do what you do. And them saying, I either don't have the capacity to do so. I will love to do it. And what I've

learned, y'all, is that people don't always want to occupy your space. They want your territory. And if you understand that, then you occupy the territory that God has given you because no one can take what God is giving you. You can't miss what's yours. And if your faith, which is an action word, stands on that, then what are you personalizing when people have an issue with you? Number two, people literally pay for the kind of internet attention that I get. They create storylines for the headlines and the blog attention and the virality that I get. I don't pay for any of it. I just show up and be me.

And so, no, it doesn't bother me. What I will say is there's times where Dr. Brian has to check Cheyenne on some of my clapbacks. Because some of my clapbacks be like, you know, well, your mama. And I said, you can't say that. But then I'm like, you can't. But I'm like, don't. So it has stretched my bandwidth. It has really shown me how emotionally intelligent I am.

And it also has shown me where I have some growth in the emotional maturity space when I'm thinking of clapping back or saying something that could really gut people. A lot of the backlash come from people in your field, right? Come on. Other doctors, therapists, life coaches. And what I say is they say the reason that you don't get questioned or tested as much is because of your quote-unquote looks. You know, Evie, I said this last time I was on, you might be my alter ego brother. Because some of the stuff you say is just right up the alley of what needs to be addressed.

So there's pretty privilege. And I've learned that there's pretty punishment. And I didn't really understand that term until I got into my field. And I want to say this. didn't get it. I've been in my field for 18 years. I didn't get into this field to become famous, to become a celebrity. I got in this field because I was a little girl from the inner city who was tenacious determined to make it out. And I had a lot of broken pieces and abandonment. And when God provided me tools that helped me take my broken pieces and make

peace from it, go from my wilderness into my promise land, which I talk about in my book, Live Your Promise, I thought, wait a minute, I got to make sure I get everybody I come in contact with these principles because everyone deserves that freedom and that healing that I'm experiencing what I call God's peace. All right. And so with that, people got a whiff of it. And, you know, the found base, the folks made me famous, made me a celebrity. I did not grow up and say, hey, I want to just, listen, I'm a good looking woman.

I've had access to the industry for my entire life. If I wanted to be famous, I would have went maybe the actress route or the modeling route. Easy call for me. It would have been so easy. I've never had an agent. I've never had a manager. So what I'm saying is this came to me, and I had to continuously remind people,

I'm in a field where I am taking on people's luggage. I am unpacking it, and I am helping them process through their stuff so they can have a better quality of life, they can have mental health, and they can actually have tools to sustain their well-being. So none of that. No one goes to college and gets multiple degrees

to say I want to be famous. Now, do I love it here? Yeah, I love it. I'm grateful for it. I appreciate it. And the other thing is, you know, I created my own lane as a psychology expert life coach. So when people see that they went into a group that wasn't a lane,

they just felt into being a part of a group. And they're looking at this other woman who they're like, wait a minute, you know, she created her own lane and she's totally killing it. It's like, yo, there's only room. for me in the lane that I created. And I would like if y'all put your blink around when you're trying to get over. Because a lot of times they're trying to just get over in my lane. It's like, but it doesn't work like that.

If folks would concentrate on either asking, buying books, looking at my videos, booking a session to say, Doc, how did you do it? I'm not a gatekeeper. I love putting people on. The quickest way to wealth is through serving people. I'm in a service position. As a psychology expert life coach, I am serving people all day long as president of NAACP, the biggest civil rights organization in Los Angeles for 14 years,

that is a service position. We don't get paid to run a civil rights organization. That is volunteer work I've done for 14 years. And so if folks would focus on Doc, how did you create your own lane? I would give them the tools like I'm doing in my book, Live Your Promise, about how I did it, how I went from the hood to the hills. Was it hard? Yeah.

Is it possible? Absolutely. Am I the only one that can do it? Hell no. The tools I use, if you apply it, you would get the same result. Just like baking a cake. The thing I see online is she doesn't do this under her license. She's not a quote-unquote real doctor.

She has an honorary degree. She didn't earn it. So let's talk about what you do as far as being a life coach and a doctor. Do you have a license for what you do? And is a license needed? I love that. What I do, a license is. not required one number two when I was in my undergrad which is a degree in

psychology my master's is a degree in marriage family and child therapy my doctor is in counseling psychology those are all academic I have four academic degrees the other one is in Pan African Studies there's two honorary doctorates one is in behavioral science so you have an earned doctorate yes okay and the other ones is in Humanitaries honorary doctorates are to praise you and give you your flowers for for your body of work. Okay?

They're not academic, but it shows your body of work is effective enough for them to honor you with an honorary doctorate. Now, going back, when I said I worked under a license, see, all of this is terminology.

People would open up their ears and do what school teaches therapists to do. I'm not a therapist, but the group of licensed professionals who have an issue with this, they teach you all something called active listening.

None of y'all seem to be actively listening. working under a license means I'm working under a supervisor's license. If anyone went to school for therapy, psychiatrist, psychologist, you have to accumulate practicum. You have to accumulate hours before you can graduate. It's not an option. So I accumulated thousands of hours underneath the supervisor's license, working as a marriage, family, and child therapists.

So an MFT is what I was, not an LMFT. LMFT is licensed marriage and family therapist. MFT is marriage and family therapist. As I worked under that license, I did diagnose. I did treatment plans and I seen clients regularly. My goal was never, ever to obtain licensing, ever. I did not go to college and say, I want to become a licensed therapist. Let me put a disclaimer out there.

A licensed therapist, there's nothing wrong with that. There are absolutely effective, amazing therapist, counselor, psychiatrist, psychologist, and life coaches. Absolutely amazing. It's all subjective. What works for where you are in your life? What works best for the season you're in? What is it that you need? And what clinician or coach is best fit for what you have going on, the season you're in,

and whose tools and principles will most be effective for where you're trying to be and for your healing? That's what it boils down to. Neither is better. One's license and one's not. For me, I have all of the training and I have the academia and I have the education. I'm going to say it one last time. I had zero desire to ever become licensed. As a young girl, I've always created my own lane.

I'm a disruptor. Y'all can't see that by now? I've always been the woman that said, hey, if everyone's doing left, then I want to go create right. If everyone's doing black, I want to go create white. I'm doing it now. It works for me. So my goal was to be able to create a huge platform and be able to heal people, bless people at a large level,

not to be licensed or bill insurance, diagnose, or treat or have patients. I don't do or have any of those. I provide effective tools, principles, and I have clients, and I have sessions. And that is exactly what I do. Why did you start off not wanting to be licensed where most people would be licensed and I have friends who've gotten licensed have experienced some things with what you have to do once your license and have said I'm okay with not renewing you're not going forward or whatever right but wait say that again run that back so I have friends who've been licensed that have said you know

what I'd rather do it the other way because their battle with insurances and how they're paid is a conversation but most people start off wanting to be licensed why did you start off not wanting to be licensed because I knew that it would create barriers for me in the way that I want to be able to approach my clients. I knew that, for example, when I was working under a license, a supervision license as an MFT, not an LMFT, I had a client they came in, a young woman who experienced sexual abuse. And because I'm working under a license, I had to make sure that I followed those licenses ethics and laws. In the sense of of, not confidentiality. I do that now as a life coach and not as boundaries, but there were

moments where she needed a hug because she was having a lot of triggers and she was experiencing a lot of her sexual abuse in a way that she needed to be supported. And of course, I ask, you know, is it okay if I hug you in this moment? Is that okay? I would ask my clients now. and she said, I'm not ready for that hug. No problem. A few months went on and I asked her again, hey, you know, is it okay if I hug you was our last session? We were actually ending our term together.

And she was like, yeah, like I'm actually ready for that hug. Now, as a license clinician, you are taught in school ethically that you do not hug embrace your clients at all. If y'all have ever experienced therapy, I have, that's something. That's a no-no. is just something you don't do. Unless you, of course, asks, but it's a very, very thin line. My approach as a life coach, I'm very loving.

I'm very nurturing. I hug. I say, I love you, have a good day at the end of our sessions. And those small things that I'm able to do as a life coach have been life changing from my clients. I've had clients after giving them a hug, stay in my office for 20 minutes, just crying and bawling their eyes out, saying, you have no idea how much I knew that hug, doc. I've had clients that I've said, I love you, I'm proud of you, who have said my mother, my father has never said those words to me. And that has been the catalyst to their healing.

Some folks don't need to just come and just talk. Some people do. Some people that talk therapy is their breakthrough. And I completely advocate for that, if that's what you need. For some people, they do just need to be nurtured in love through their pain. Some folks, trauma has completely broken them and has calloused them to where only love is what can break down those barriers of callous, of their heart being hardened because they've never experienced that type of nurturing and love. And so again, everybody has different things that

they mean. It's about us not focusing on who is better or worse or titled or not titled. It's how can we serve the people that we all are collectively trying to make sure it gets tools, gets healing, gets therapy if you're a therapist, gets coaching if you're a coach. how can we make sure those people get what they need? And let's take the focus away from the practitioners or the coaches. Are you effective? Are you changing and healing lives? If so, run those plays.

If not, get more training, get more practice, or get up under somebody who can teach you how to do it effectively. Because really, at the end of the day, that's all that we all are trying to do. And I want people to know, I want them to choose what works best for you, not just only as the patient or the client, but as the clinician or the coach. Which lane works best for you? I don't want my hands tied behind my back.

I'll land on this. As a little girl, I didn't need to just talk, y'all. I needed love. I needed someone to see me. I needed someone to hold my hand. I needed someone to pat me on the back. I wanted someone to sit with me,

grab my little cheeks and say, listen, I love you. With your hurt self, with your pain self, with your trauma self, with your abandoned self. I got you. So I,

can provide those same principles that worked for me. I'm able to do in my lane that I've created and in my capacity. And I've been doing it 18 years and I'm effective. And it has made me the most out-out psychology expert life coach in the world today. What do you say to those people? Like you told us what you studied and what you did and the schooling that you got and the classes that you take. But, you know, when I said I did a deep dive.

Some people were like, well, how can she tell me about my marriage when she hasn't been married? How can she tell me about my family or my kids when she hasn't been through that? Even though you studied it and you got your degree in it So what do you say to those people? So you're just going to cook the whole interview Just going to cut all your questions is going to be Because you know what?

I'll be honest Tell them that we talked about this pre pre-re interview But what I say with like you know And I looked at it wasn't like you know two years ago This is like a week ago I'm like Jesus Christ Y'all trying to stomp out the Shia and Brian Like my next did the Phillie sixes

But God Yeah and we know that's a shot at the Philadelphia 7th And we know that's not going to happen You know, that's just not going to have. You can't have what God has given me. It don't work like that. And you can't be in my lane. You couldn't ride in this lane if I gave you the opportunity to.

So whatever star you wishing on baby, wish a little bigger, because that's not going to happen. But your question was, what do I think about people who say, I'm not married, so how can I teach folks? So this is the thing. I do not teach people how to be married. Marriage is between you and your partner. That's your agreement. That's your covenant. And however you to decide to create.

and curate your marriage. I can't teach you that. What I teach people is how to get out of their own way because happy, healed people make happy, healed marriages. Miserable, unhappy people create miserable marriages. Trauma doubt folks create trauma bonds. Healed people create healed bonds. I teach you envy.

How do you process through your trauma so you don't bleed on your wife? I teach you, Lauren, how do you get out of your daddy issues? Not saying you have them, your daddy issues, your parental issues. Okay, well, you're on my point today. out of your daddy issues, right, so that you don't point and project your pain onto this man who is loving the hell out of you and doesn't deserve that.

If I could teach you how to heal those and how to get out of your way with that, then I have helped you become a better woman for yourself, which in return is going to do what? Benefit the collective of that marriage. No one can teach people how to be married. We teach you how to get out of your own way so you and your partner can be healthy.

That's it because no matter how much we teach you the proper tools of marriage, if you are traumatized out and you're abandoned and sabotaging this thing, those tools will not be effective until I help you get out of your way. There another conversation in your community of work is, with people feeling like you don't have the educational background that they're like out here searching for or whatever, right? The biggest thing is, is like in a normal situation, if, because I've heard you say that you're dealing with your own, like, wounds of, like, being abandoned and, like, how you'll self-sabotage in certain situations.

how I have. I used to. I used to pass tense, yes. Yeah, so a lot of people who are in your lane, they're like, okay, if I know that personally about myself, I depend on my education to be able to put that to the side and give you the tools. And I know some people are upset because they're like, well, they're trying to say you don't have the education, but then you also have your own issues in your real life. So how are you separating the two of one thing is their legend is not there? Yeah, I got you.

I hear the question. So the work that I've done on my abandonment that has created a hill. in me and really allow me to identify my pain pockets, right? So to where I don't sabotage anymore, I'm able to have emotional intelligence, high functionality, and communicate with you, even as a friend to say, look, you know, how you show up in this relationship, Lauren, it's triggering me. And in the past, I would have sabotaged or just left or not even had a conversation. But I want to talk about this because I honor and I love our friendship.

And so when you do X, Y, Z, this is how it makes me. fail, I'm identifying my emotion. And these are the things that I need from you as my best friend. Can you commit to those things? That's a healing person who's talking. That is where I am now. Okay, sabotaging was something I did as a young girl because I didn't even understand that I was sabotaging because I was still trying to get in contact with my pain.

I was still trying to figure out how abandon it was impacting me. So the tools that I used to be able to get myself from self-sabotaging to communicating and being high functioning and having emotional telemeting. and mending this relationship and letting you know what I need because now I have awareness of who I am as a woman. I'm aware of my pain pockets. I'm aware of my triggers. Those are all the tools that I teach. Those are all the tools that are in my book. Live your promise. And so I'm teaching folks how to get out of their own way because there was a time where I was in my way. And what made it challenging for me to heal y'all was I was in relationships with people who enabled it because they weren't leaving me. they were still putting a rings on my finger

they were still wanting to marry me they were still loving the hell out of me and that enabling mechanism doesn't give folks an excuse to still show up trauma out to still show up in your dysfunction you still have a responsibility to love yourself enough respect yourself enough to say let me

identify what is going on in me even though this person is allowing it that I know is not effective for the collective of the relationship or myself you think that that was like them still coming back was that their ego of like, you know, men want to be able to conquer to be able to change and sit you down and, you know, all those things that come with like when you're a strong woman. Or could it be because he was just trying to love you through your problems?

I mean, I was going to say, or was it the opposite? Like, what did you discover more? You know what? I think that God just really blessed me with amazing people in my life. Like, I've had some amazing parents. I've had amazing partners who I've been in relationship with. I've had friends that just love me down. And I like to say that that's a reflection of who I am and how I love.

I love deep. I love hard. I will love you out of your shit. I will love you out of your shit. I'm like that with my clients. And so I just had men who they just had the bandwidth to love me through my shit. And that taught me that you can have all the tools. You can have the best therapist, the best coach.

But if you don't have love, healing is nearly impossible. I don't care what anyone says. You'll be a highly functioning transactional person with like an encyclopedia with all the tools and the effectiveness and this is how it works and the principles. But internally homeless is hell because you won't have the ability to attach, to love, to securely attach, not anxiously attached or avoidantly attached. You would be a mansion that's homeless. And so, you know, people just really loved me through my trauma. And that was amazing. How were they enabling you?

Like, what were you doing? Because the first time, they weren't setting boundaries. You know, folks, some people, bless you, some people fall so deep in love, envy that they start loving the person more than themselves. Which puts an eclipse up from them realizing that there needs to be a boundary set right now. Don't most women want that? Don't most women want somebody that's going to love them damn than more than themselves? Absolutely. I do.

I do. So let me speak for myself. I do. But as that man is loving me more than he loves himself, I want there to be a healthy balance of him loving himself enough to say, baby, I'm not going to leave you. But this shit right here, there's going to be a boundary put up here. Because, see, I do respect myself, even though I love you. I love myself too as a man. And you just can't talk to me like that.

because that emasculates me and I'm vertical and who I am. And the reason why you love me so much and the reason why I can carry you is because of the fact that I respect myself and that I'm vertical. And so you cannot emasculate me, meaning shrink me and expect me to be big enough to carry you. That is a man who has boundaries. He's not sabotaging you. He's not abandoning you. But it takes a healed of woman to say, you know what? You're right.

let me work on this. Show me how to work on this. Teach me what that looks like. Because maybe I've never done that. Maybe I've never had a father. It takes a certain woman. Women who don't have the bandwidth, the awareness of healing,

to respect that kind of man, should have enough respect for themselves to leave, not sabotage, but leave that relationship. Because she will emasculate him. But a man who was functioning at that high level won't tolerate that. At least for a number.

long. There you have it. New book is out right now. Live your promise. We appreciate you for joining us being so open. Of course. Show us so much,

like any time you see you up here or out and about, we appreciate love. Definitely do. You know I'm going to come here and bring the truth. Yeah, congratulations on the book. It's a good week.

I appreciate it. Thank you. All right. It's Dr. Cheyenne Bryant. She's coming back at all you f***es out there. All it wants. It's the Reckons Club.

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He's 62 years old, and he's going to prison for. up to six years. Why? What do men usually risk it all for? That poom-pum, okay, that kitty, that undercarriage, that cookie, that penis fly trap. Yes, Brian McKenna is being accused of stealing $4.4 million intended for COVID protective gear. Allegedly, the fund a romance with his den girlfriend. Oh, the power of the P-U-S, I can't spell the rest. Now, there are so many things that disgust me about this story. Number one, you stole all this money from people who needed. Okay, folks needed that COVID protective gear during COVID and you just stole it. Okay, you just stole the money for it, all right?

A man who didn't need it? Okay, you're a lawyer. You're 62 years old, Brian, so you were in your 50s when you came up with this game because what? Kobe was COVID was six years ago? Okay, I don't understand people who literally have the world in their hand. You have worked hard to become an attorney in this country, okay? You, more than a lot of people, understand the process of life. You understand life is a process, okay?

becoming a lawyer takes at least seven years of full-time higher education in this country, all right? Four years for a bachelor's degree, three years of law school, you have to pass the bar exam, they got a baby bar and the big bar. My point is, it's not easy. And nothing in life worth having ever is, but for some reason, you thought you could cut the line. You thought you could take a $4.4 million shortcut, all to impress a woman who already has her own money. He was dating the then CEO of Aston's group. Her name was Duny Zenae. Okay, that's according

to the New York Post. I don't know how much she was making, but if she was the CEO of a company, she was touching some paper. So I don't know why you went out of your way, Brian, to impress her. And I don't even like that phrase, fund a romance. You don't fund a romance. Romance

happens because of physical attraction, emotional connection, situational factors, okay? Y'all might just match energies, all right? You like the same things, share the same beliefs, and let's not forget the most important part, reciprocal liking. Okay, you like me, I like you. Romance can't be funded. Now, you can go buy some pink taco with some money.

All right, go to Nevada, pull up in certain counties at a brothel, and you can purchase as much as that Harry Potter as you want. But funding a romance? Nah, no, no, no. I don't even want a romance that's funded because there's no such thing. You can't buy a love, fool. Now, Brian was in the courtroom crying his ass off. I want you all to hear this again, man. Just listen.

I did these crimes. I deserve to go to jail. I don't know what else to say myself. All right. Mr. McKenna, I understand. I really appreciate you taking full responsibility. But ultimately, sir. I know.

All right? Ultimately what? Ultimately what? He is going to jail for six years. I respected he's holding himself accountable. Okay, he said he did these crimes. He said he deserves. go to jail. Now his defense lawyer,

Eric Franz, claimed to the court that Brian had run into financial struggles and that he was just trying to help his family with the stolen funds. But assistant DA Jonathan Borrell alleged that Brian stole the money to spend on himself and his gal pal, duny's in a. Listen, neither one of those are valid reasons.

So many people are having financial struggles and sadly, they don't have the luxury of resorting the crime to get it. Okay? And you, Brian, were in a privileged position already. Not just a privileged position to get money because you were a lawyer. You know what I'm saying? But also a Manhattan real estate attorney should be able to get his hands on some happy clam.

But nope. Instead, you got to guard your balloon knot for the next six years in somebody's prison. Okay? Probably get ass wards. And for what? The moral of the story is life is a matter of choices. And every choice you make makes you. Please get a sweet sound of the hamletones.

Oh, now you are the donkey. Damn. of the day Everybody is DJ NVJ Just hilarious Sholomey Naga We are the Breakfast Club Now if you're just joining us

Sholomane gave donkey Of the day to who? There's a landlord In Westland, Michigan Who owned the house Got called over to do some repair But decided to bring some cheeks over And was smashing this young woman

I don't even know if she was young Was smashing a girl on the floor And he got recorded by the The house of his ring camera or whatever it was Right so the question is 8005-85-105-1 is this against the law? That's what you're asking?

Yeah, because they're saying that they don't know if it is against the law. They're saying they don't know if he committed a crime because they said it's possible it could be trespassing, but it's probably more likely a civil issue for violating portions of the leasing ring. Yeah, because it wasn't really trespassing because they invited him in to fix something.

No, it's his house. He owns the property. Yeah, but I'm still leasing it from you. You just can't walk in my house. But I own the property. Can you really trespass on something you on property you own? Yes. If I'm renting it out, yes. somebody if you have tenants Charlemagne. Are you not sure about this?

Yes, you just can't walk in somebody's house if I'm renting it, if I'm leasing it. I don't know about that. You can't just walk in. You can't do that. He didn't just walk in. He didn't just walk in the house. He was invited to do repairs. And he owns the property.

Right. So how is that truck passing? Well, it's not trespassing because he was invited in. But what about that girl? That girl could be trusted. Yeah. Like, he just bought her in there and just started smashing her for an hour. That's crazy, y'all.

And then it was probably all funky in there when it came back. That's what he said. That's what Javon, who owns the house said. He had, you know, they had to do the prebrize and all of that. Yeah. It felt like the kitchen at Red Lobster. I was a long time on the floor. Your knees be hurting.

But anyway, let's go to the phone lines. 800-585-105-1. Hello, who's this? He's on the floor. Like the rug burn. Yeah, this is actually from between. What's your name? Ashley.

Talk to us. Ashley. Do you know who this landlord was? No, I don't. But the initial reaction that, I had was that man was cheating because why couldn't he just take the chick to his house? His own house. That's true?

Right. So why he has to take her to somewhere else as if, oh, babe, I'm working. I'm about to go work on the resident house and you have a whole lady in there and smashing her. I think he was cheating. I think he was cheating too, but technically that is his house too, though. Yeah, but he's right. Integrity all messed up. I agree.

Thank you, Mama. Hello, who's this? What's up? What's up? Good morning. It is Amp. Hey, what's up, I'm talking to his amp. What's good. Man, on that stuff, that happens all the time.

I got a famous friend for Miami, you know, entertainer. And, you know, after the show, you know, grueby is 4'5 in the morning and a dude part of his management team, you know what I mean? He was there and the groupie was there

and make a long story short, he owned property on South Beach somewhere. So after the club, you know, it's late early in the morning. And, you know, okay, let's go over here. So we're going over here I'm looking at this type of dude with this statue

and the place we were going and I'm like, man, what are you doing over here? He said, oh, I bring this out. This is my property. I'm a defendant's out of town. So everybody went inside, handed their thing.

He locked up, cleaned up, and walked out like nothing happened. But that was back then when it wasn't too many cameras around and stuff like that. Damn. Okay. Yeah.

I stood on the family. I said, I have a blessed morning, man. Thank you, sir. So what did he just say? He said, the guy would be taking people to other people places? Yeah.

Oh, okay. Yeah, that's what he said. But that's not what happened here. This man owns this house. He's the landlord. It doesn't matter. You rent it out. Just because you own it and you rent it out, you're not supposed to be back in this house. It's like Airbnb. If I rent your Airbnb, you just can't pull up on me

on Saturday. Hey, what's up? This is normal behavior for him. He'd be smashing and cheating on his wife or girlfriend in all of his properties, I bet. Charlemagne gave Duncan the day to who? There's a Michigan and there's a landlord in Westland, Michigan who was called over to a house

that he owns to do some repairs. He was supposed to remove some dead birds. But But he ended up bringing a chick over and smashing, and the cameras in the house, you know, got him on camera. All right. So we're asking 800585-105-1. Is this criminal? I think it has to be some type of criminal.

You just can't do what you want in my house. What they're saying is not because, number one, he owns the place. And then I show up what he did is illegal because, like I said, he owns the house. And it's probably more of a civil issue for violating portions of his lease agreement. They're saying they don't even know if it's trespassing. Because it's his house. But what about the girl?

He got called over? She ain't got nothing to do with it? Yeah. She trespasses. She came with him. He brought in there. Don't nobody care about who. You can watch the video.

You see them legs up in there. You don't even care who that is. It's all about the landlord. I'm more impressed that he went for an hour. That's a long time. And how he built. Is he white? Yeah, he's definitely white.

Cheeks was pink. I didn't see his cheeks. They had it blurred. You want to see the video? Yeah, I ain't see the video. Hello, who's this? Phil. Phil, what's up?

Talk to us. What's your thoughts, Phil? Yo, buddy in the wrong. They don't know you're wrong. What's crazy is they don't know what the crime is. I know what the crime is. What's the crime? The crime is solicitation.

Oh, that's solicitation. He's trying to go to go down to find out how much he paid for that. He ain't having it way like that. Oh, you take it as a prostitute. He just got wiggled in. What's God of me? How you figure he ain't having his way? That man owned property.

That man got some money in his pocket. Come on. Exactly. That's how he got it. Yeah, but that don't mean it. It might be, though. You might be right. That might be prostitution. I am right. But he felt, man, he felt like a letter B. Oh, you've seen the video? Yeah.

Hold on, look. See him right there, Jess? Look. Thank you, brother. Look. Hello, who's this? Breakfast club. Good morning. It's Tony. Hey, what's up, Tony? Talk to us. What's your thoughts, Sony? Hey, look, obviously dudes, like, crazy, unethical.

and I'm not arguing that. All I need to know is, bro, but his bare ass in my furniture. You got to replace that, bro. Well, yeah, yeah. Now, he's in the furniture. He's in the furniture. Well, no, no, he was actually...

I don't know what they is. He looks like you on the couch. It's a couch. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. My couch got crashed. He's talking about dude built like the mucus creature from the commercials. He is built like the mucin next man.

Nasty and sweaty all over my furniture. Now, you got to replace that, bro, completely. I don't think there's no prostitute either because she had a bonnet on. She had a bonnet on. Oh, my God. Yeah, that's different. Now, it might have been a prostitute with the bonnet.

There ain't no better than that. I mean, he's doing something if he's going outside of his house to do it. He might be hiding something. I'm going to tell you what I think. He might be a cracket. It might be a cracket. Now, the more I put together these little context clues, I'm figuring this out. She had a bonnet on.

Okay. She must live in that neighborhood. Yes. She's living in that neighborhood. That's what it is from before. She know them. Yeah. This happened.

I'm telling you, this is the first, this ain't the first time they got together. So he probably married and she probably married. No, don't come to my house to knock down some old thing. I don't care if you on it. Get off my couch like that. I bet you he probably married and she probably married. He hit her up real quick. Like, I'm over here doing some repairs.

She came out the house in the bonnet real quick. The name relief. He tossed up. Hell, yo. That is so nasty. Damn. All right. Well, thank you, brother.

Yes, sir. We're going to take some more calls. 800-585-105-1. Shal-1. Charlemagne gave Donkey of the day to this landlord. And we're trying to figure out is a criminal. I think it's criminal. You just can't be just doing whatever you want in the house that I'm renting from you,

especially if my rents on time. I tell you, though, this landlord walked like he down with OPP, bro. For real. Yes, other people's property for real. You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? Arms out to the side, binging. He act like it was his crib.

He acted like he was his crib. It is. It is. It is. You're right. Hello, who's this? Hi, this is Stacy. How ya doing?

What's up, Stacy? Stacy, I know where our back door needs to be installed. Cholovee, I'm thinking you're a little. jealous of me and Envy's relationship, even though we don't even have a relationship. But no, technically, morally... That was crazy. That was a whole other time.

That was crazy. That was crazy. I'm jealous of you and NB.'s relationship. Oh, I'm sorry, we're on the radio live, but we don't have a relationship. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Clear that up, Stacey. There ain't nothing to clear up.

Cocaine. No, no. Just like, yo, just like just like just said, Charlemagne has gay in. I think Charlemagne wants to, Like, yes. You'd be pressure washing Envy's deck. Oh, my God.

No, stop playing. Envy is just a very cool dude who just supports a black-owned business. Stop doing that. Listen, if anybody's working on your foundation, I ain't got nothing to do with that, brother. I don't know. Okay. It sounds like you're a little jealous. He definitely got jealous.

He's definitely jealous. Okay, okay. What is what you were saying? No, morally, I think it's very wrong. Especially when you built like that. You understand? Now, technically, I don't know if, I don't know if he can get in trouble, but morally, that is not right.

You should not just be slinging your meat wherever you want because you own the property. It doesn't, yeah. Yeah, right. Yeah, that's the crazy part about this story, the fact that he's built the way that he's built and he was hitting it for an hour. I still need to see. You need to see this. You should at least be a little sacked.

Like, come on now. But, I mean, I guess. Is he why he's anything? Morally, you're wrong? I don't know if he can get in trouble, though. That's true. Morally, he's wrong. That's true.

Stacey, N. Okay, y'all have a good day. Stacey, Nvys said come over later. He wants you to help him reduce him. Reduce him right. Wait a minute. Let me just make a point real quick. And I make it in trouble for this.

Uh-oh. Yeah, Stacey. You are trapped at each other's number. Me and N. That's what I talk about. Yeah, that's what I'm talking about. That's what I'm talking about. Yes.

Yeah. It should just be business when you are married man, Envy. No, he said, man, and the business is that you a trap. You got each other. But numbers, y'all more personal. You're right. Man drive actually for business. People be asking, yo.

People be asking me, yo. Have you get me in contact with Charlemy? I'm like, you got to call a radio. I don't got their numbers. You got damn right. Better call a radio station. Hey, Stacy, I'll see you at the car show, Stacy. I know you will.

You sure will. I hate this. Boom, broom, baby. Oh, my goodness. It's okay, Envy? Damn. The moral of the story is landlords, don't abuse your power, please. Oh, my goodness.

That's crazy. All right. Well, the breakfast club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy. Just hilarious. Salomey and the guy.

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