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First of all, good morning, Jess. Good morning, Charlotte, man. Good morning. Good morning, man. All right. First thing, I just want to get this up. I can't say this to my girl, so I'm going to just say it to y'all. I hate my girl dogs.

Okay. What kind of dogs are they, bro? She got some kind of little poodle dog and American pit. Okay. I am a dog guy. Don't get me wrong. I love dogs. I just didn't grow up with dogs in my house, okay?

But these dogs are about to run. He's crazy. I don't know how, okay, to all the dog people out there, I don't know how y'all deal with dogs running all around your house and dog everywhere. But this is about to make me say, hey, I can't do this no more. He's going to be used to near the dog. So you got you cleaning up poop?

Br, I don't, I just refuse. Like, I don't even walk these dogs. Y'all got kids? I don't do nothing for these. Yeah. Lord, have my shit. Damn. He's about to walk away because of the dogs.

You got kids? What are they doing to you? Man. Listen, the dogs ain't doing nothing to them. They just, they're just stupid dogs, and I hate dogs everywhere. I don't, I don't like going to work with dog here all over me. Oh, yeah. That's crazy.

Man, look. These dogs don't even be in my car and I got dog here in my car. I'm vacuum in my car and my old lady with every day. Because I'm sick of these dogs. It sounds like y'all need more space, like more space than where, when your residence. Yeah, we got a nice sign, huh? Ain't no space. You need to get rid of these damn dirty dogs.

All right, well, make one of them come up missing. No, no, don't do that, man. What's your thing? Listen, this is what made me call this morning. I listen to this show every more. I'm gonna go out of our way to words just like I'm doing now. Brow had a dream about poisoning them dogs last night. I said, boy, I might need to talk.

I might need to call Charlie May to talk to him, but there's something going on with a mental. Did you have a... Did you and your wife have a conversation? Did you tell her how you feel? Yeah, we had one few months ago, and that turned into a bigger argument. So I ain't trying to go there no more. So why don't you buy one of them kid gate?

You know, little kitty gates, and buy with them little kitty gates and put the dogs in the kitty gates. Got one Charlotte, I don't want the dogs in the house I don't care what kind of solution You're trying to kill you Alright man So let me

I don't want the dogs in the house So let me tell you something That was all When you heard that they was When you heard the lie That they was eating Catching dogs in Ohio Did you

Did you smile a little bit Did you think about taking a little trip A little bit A little bit You have a good one man Have a good one Yeah I have a good one Get it off your chest

8005A4 15105. Did you grow up with dogs? No, I didn't grow up with dogs, but I have dogs now. Salomey? A couple. Not like that, though. I had a couple Rottweilers when I was young.

I had a bad experience because somebody poisoned my dog. Somebody got tired of my dad. Damn. I had two Rydwallers named Banned Tara, and somebody got tired of Tara and they poisoned. The neighbor was poisoned them. I can't prove this the day was poisoning them, but I feel like the neighbors poison them. And poor, no, which one died?

One of them died because they got poisoned. One of them got picked up by the dog people. The dog people. The dog pen. Yeah, you know. Jesus Christ. I had shepherds all in my life. My dad didn't believe in having a dog as a pet.

If you had a dog, the dog need to have a job. Oh, wow. So you got to protect the house. We ain't got to protect the house. We don't got to have a job. We don't want no little dog. No, we want a dog. I want a dog now.

My wife won't let me get one. Oh. Yep. I want to South African boy, boy, boy. Well, get it off your chest. 800-585-105.1. If you need to vent, hit us up now. It's the breakfast club.

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Not just me. I'm with the coach of feeling. Hello, who's this? This JV from Jersey City. JV from Jersey City. What up? Get it off your chest, brother. What's up, man?

I want to talk about the IRS, man. Okay. Hey, hey, hey, be respectful. Oh, I'm definitely going to be respectful. Okay. Okay. You ready? Yep.

Okay, so what happened was I was working for coming in, Joe, you city, right? And what happened to be doing, not taking my taxes for me. They started parking my money every week for five years. So when I went to the IRS, IRS told me that I owe them $28,000. Dang.

And I said, and I said, why? Why do I owe $28? They said, because you wasn't paying your tax. So I said, how? turns the screaming around, they said you ain't paid since 2020. What you want us to say, sir? I don't know what you wanted to tell you. Yeah, if the company, if the company was doing that, you should, you should look at

sue in the company because if they would, if they took the taxes still out your check and they kept it and didn't give it to the IRS and you could prove that, that's not, that's not your problem. That's their problem. Well, there's always two sides to the story. And when it comes to the IRS, I tend to believe their side. But IRS is worth of their money. They don't care.

We're going to give it to them. That's what. I've been working for that company to 2012, and I say every last paid stuff from 2012, and I did show that. And guess what happened? What? Nothing.

They said, okay, we eat them. You don't owe us, and that's it. And so what I did was, I went to a lawyer, and I got a lawyer on him to try to get my money back, and at the end of the day, you've got to wait. So you don't owe to IRS anymore? No, I don't owe them more, but they're dirty,

because if I was Wednesday, Skype, You know what I'm saying? They'll lock me up. No, it's totally two different situations. To my knowledge, I don't think Wesley Stimes wanted to pay them and was going to pay them. Your situation is your business was paying the IRS and just stopped paying the IRS and they were still taking that money out your check. It's totally two different things.

It's definitely, well, well, guess what? What? I'm going to get mine and I'm going to take sides something, too. If you come to Jersey City and you can park in shop right or wherever you park at for like two seconds, they're going to take your car. And guess what? They're hiring people. from on the street,

then pick your car and break your axe and all that. So don't, don't, you know, don't leave the car outside. They hire a fresh working for the street. All right, brother. Have a good day, bro. All right.

Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Hey, man, respect to you, man, because, you know, I'm bored just like you. You know what I mean? That's right. How old do you cut your hand?

Are they bound to? No, no, no. I do like twice a week. I do at the top of the week. and then at the end of the week. Oh, yeah, because you know, once that head starts throwing that, for those spots coming in, oh, man. Man, because, you know what I always be thinking about?

I'd be like, damn, yo. You know, what if I get locked up for something silly? You know, just anything, like driving, even though my license and everything is good. But I just be thinking that. And then that mug shot come out and they see you without a haircut. He looks at rock. Oh, my God. Oh, J-J-J-Bobby Johnson, but what it?

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what are some hustles you did as a kid that kids these days don't do. Now, this came from, of course, we got a little blizzard, and I ain't too many kids out there shoveling snow. I'm telling you, man. Where y'all kids ain't shoveling no snow?

You got four of them, you got six. You got four daughters. My four daughters ain't shoveling no snow. And Logan and they ain't shoveling no snow. Logan should be out there shoveling snow. His big dives are last. But he ain't in Miami. He ain't got no damn snow.

Yeah. But I really was thinking about that yesterday because I'm like, man, this is a day to come up. It was like 16, 17 inches of snow where we live at in New Jersey, New York City area. It's like, yo, go out there, get a shovel. And these kids, you can get the electric shovel that when you hit the snow, it just damn near disappears. You can go get, you know, snow blowers for the cheap. There's all type of ways that you can go out here and make some money. I don't know why these kids ain't out here getting it.

And by the way, y'all want to complain about, you know, You know, people from other countries taking jobs. Their Mexicans was on it yesterday. They pulled up. Now, I got scared when they pulled up. Why did you get scared? Because I don't know. I'm like, you know, y'all pulled up in ice come follows.

But clearly they were legal. But they pulled up in the plow trucks and they had the shovels and they got busy. Yeah. And I was like, damn, I ain't, you know. And they made some bread too. They made some bread. Yeah, that's right. But one of the things I would do as a kid,

especially when my grandmother went to the grocery store and went shopping, I would help people carry their groceries to the car. That would pay me a lot of money That would give me $5 here $4 here $10 here Helping people Pump gas All of that

Like mowing lawns W washing cars Yep Rake leaves I'll tell you all one What Collecting cans See

Oh yeah I was ready On the dirt road In Montescona South Carolina We would walk up and down that dirt road Picking up them In the plastic bag And taking them

You know Wherever you took them That I ain't go that far I need to go to trash cans And go through the trash cans To where you get cans from Like I would just if I went to school, I went

Grandma's house, my house, but I wasn't going to You went in the garbage can to get cans? I just said we was walking down the dirt road and we would find a little can On the ground. All the cans of Budweiser and cords and all of that. I tell you, another hustle people ain't doing no more. Selling crack. What? I'm telling you.

And look, I was raised in boosting. He went to drugs. I was someone stealing. Crack cocaine is still sold in a lot of parts of America, but it's not the booming business it once was. You got Fins and Ruin. You got heroin. You got meth. You got cocaine. Those are big drugs now. But the crack. But the crack. crack is not like it used to be because the crackheads changed.

When you can see the crackhead behavior these days, it doesn't compare to the, we used to have some really, really good crack kids. Oh, yeah. And the drugs changed. That's why the behavior changed. You know what else you could get a crackhead to do? Shovel the damn snow. These crack kids are lazy.

They're very entitled these days, no. Because they're not on crack. They want these pills and these pills just make them zombies. Yes. Them opioids and that heroin, they just out. No, you're right. You're right. The Water Boys.

You see them in Atlanta. Waterboys are candy. You want of a cheap. Flipping candy as well, too. Let's clean the trash cans. Y'all kids just don't know how to hustle no more because all your hustle is on social media. Y'all too busy trying to get likes and engagement.

And their social media make it seem like anything like that is corny. Like, they don't want you to do that now. That's not cool to do now. Hello, who's this? Hello, my name is Joy, and I'm calling from Houston. Hey, Joy, good morning and talk to us. What's some hustles you did as a kid that these kids don't do anymore? As a kid, I remember going to school to sell candy.

We used to sell, whatever it is we need to sell, just to make a little money, But just yesterday, though, my daughter watching the teacop, came up with this cheesecake recipe, and she sent me everything she needed. And today she made little packages of those cheesecake, stills very no date, and she's taking it to school to sell. Oh, that's dope. Oh, yeah. She made her a little cheesecake last night.

She made some discob, which of strawberries, and she has about 10 of each this morning. And I'm like, you know, that's a little. Just yesterday, actually, she posted on Instagram and made some sales before she would take it to school this morning. Yeah, selling bait goods, yeah. People used to do that too. You know what? My daughters did these beads, right? They did these wristbees.

And I bought them up here to try to sell a Charleston. They wouldn't even buy one. The little bracelets? Really? You could have bought something for your daughters. He told them they're too privileged or something like that. Oh, my God. Yeah, I would rather spend some money with some kids that need it.

Right, yeah, yeah. That's true. My dad came up paying was like I'm going to sell some bees. Literally. Literally, yes. He wouldn't even buy some bees from my daughters. That's all. Hello, who's this?

Talk of the morning. That's all you all doing this morning. What's up, DeAngelo, talk to us. What some hustles you did as a kid that you did? Man, you were talking about some accidents dealing with that snow. Man, I ain't got no fingers on my hand being told to go outside as, get that snow removed in a snow blower. Been dealing with no fingers on my hand for 40 years ago.

Damn! You ain't got no fingers? Man, no fingers, man. The one hand bandit. You know what I mean? How you call us? Man, shut up. Oh, I thought he was saying him.

No fingers. Oh, Jess, you got choke him. Nah, nah, man, I just thought you're gonna... That's one of them, I know you're laughing. No, yo, no, no, no, please. Say it up, I'm all in the same, Jeff. Listen, don't do that. You're a stupid boy.

Hi, right, right. Hey, look. I'm real, though. We can't really in that snow, holler. If you're just joining us, we're talking about some of the hustles you did as a kid that these kids don't do. Like, I reported a little, a couple of minutes ago

about people having heart attacks shoveling snow. I don't know why you keep telling that stuff. It does. It happens. That was one 667-year-old man who died mid-shovel. But they found that he had to shovel in his hand. I know. I mean, shoveling slow is screnuous.

I was out there yesterday, and I'm like, God, damn, man, anybody got time for this. I did make two good paths, though. That's good. I made two good paths. Which are covered right now, probably. No, well, actually, the Mexicans came through and finished the job.

Oh, nice. So salute to them. But once again, they out here getting the money that these kids in these neighborhoods should be getting with these kids are too busy on social media. When these kids are too busy, you know, trying to make a dollar virtually that they don't know how to pick up a shovel. I'll go get a snowblower.

I'll go get the electric shovel and go out here and make some money. There was so many things to do as a kid. We talked about washing cars. We talked about if kids could swim, they would be lifeguards. Flipping candy. Selling crack. See, you keep people swimming. Cutting grass, right?

Cutting grass. Yeah. Mooring. Collecting cams. Hello, who's this? Hey, what's up, Bradford, Claw. What's up, y'all boys? This is a mall.

It's from Charleston, South Carolina. 8-4-3. What's happening? What's up, brother? Talk to us. Man, I just want to say, man, these kids none of these. Some boy ain't like guys. Some boy lazy. I used to, we used to meet my homeboy, matter of fact, we used to go around the neighborhood,

knocking door-to-door, cotton grass, shaking, and leaves, and all that. You know, the boy, nine of these, all they want to do is stay in the house. He ain't want to get out. You got to force them boy to get out the house. Some boy ain't want. Some boy ain't want. Like, how we were growing up. So, yeah, man, that's all I want to see.

And a household than them boy. And it's a lack of real. respect for elders, right? And what I mean by that is sometimes we don't even see our elders because those are the ones who actually need help. When you talk about rigging people's leaves, you talk about cutting people's grass, even simple things like, you know, taking somebody's

trash out maybe. It's usually older people who need that number because you don't see the older people in your neighborhood. You don't even know where to go. Yeah, but that was the thing, that was big for us. The grocery store was huge. Like, we go to the grocery store, sit out there for a couple hours. It just helped people get their groceries to their cars. And we didn't really, we didn't care. At that time,

we got $1, $2. It didn't really matter. They just gave us a little bit of, you know, whatever they had in their pocket. And you know, the biggest thing that we're forgetting, why a lot of this stuff is stop, the lack of trust. You can't just walk up to somebody's door and knock on it and ask the help. You're right. Because people aren't going to believe you're really there to help. Imagine walking up to somebody in the grocery store and be like, hey, yo, you need help with them bags. Like, if you don't get the money.

I'm not even coming out of the market now. I don't even know what you got playing. But if it was, yeah, you're right. You're right. Because even if a young kid coming to me, I'm like, if you don't get out of it going to take him and run. But as a kid, that's what we did. And even when you pull up to the stoplights and the kids, they'll be trying to wash your windows and you ain't asked them to. They get mad and throw something at your car when you don't pay them for cleaning your windows.

Hello, who's this? Good morning, good morning. This is trying, man. What's up? Good morning. What's up to talk to us? Good morning. Peace.

Hey, real quick, I remember growing up, man. I used to go to neighbors each door, ask the lady or the old head. Man, can I take a trash out for a few dollars? You get me $5.10, man. By the end of the week, I have enough to go give me a video game, man. Nice. We're a thousander, man. That's true.

Yo, what about burning CDs? I made a living, stealing and burning CDs. So you's bootlegging. Yeah, it's bootlegging and boosting. That's why they used to call me Boo Boo. You just showing me with crack and then you, like, I think of that legal. Like legal things. Yeah, no, no, no, but drugs is way worse than stealing.

No for real, because somebody can die. Right. What about Tim services? Remember Tim services? You all you'd never used to go to Tim Services? What's that? Well, you would go and they would have, like, work for the day. They'll send you places.

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. They'll send you somewhere to go somewhere every day and every day and every day. be a different job. You have to go one day it might be cleaning up stuff at the park. Oh, like the little temp agencies? Yeah.

Okay, yeah. I never did that. Hello, who's this? My name, Johnson. I'm from Florida. What are some else that you did as a kid that these kids don't do anymore?

The first thing, it was a couple of them, but the first thing I'm going to say is shoveling snow when I used to live up north when I used to live in Philly. And it ain't nobody out there cell in snow.

These kids don't got no hustle in them because they want to sit around and play video games every time they get day off. You right? We organized football games. We got out on these streets. Man.

Right. Like, it was fun from the morning, from the time we did to go out the house to the end of the day, it was fun. But real quick, I wanted to shout out my wife's business. That's cool. Go ahead. All right. It's called www. The website is www.wildpetals.com.

Petals are spelled P-E-T-A-L-Z. Once again, it's www.wildepel. She sells custom phone grips. She makes them all by hand. She ship them out from down here in Florida to anywhere in the world. She's been selling them for about a year and now. Business has been going great. But I just wanted to shout them out this morning.

I appreciate everything you all too. I appreciate your job. Let me get on this phone call shout her out. All right, brother. Yeah, I mean, my biggest probably job was telemarketing. I did telemarketing. I worked at the U.S. Open. I definitely worked at the U.S. Open.

I definitely did telemarketing. I was the person that would call your house and try to sell you 20 CDs for a penny or 10 CDs for a penny. Yeah, I would try to sell you home heating oil. Hi, this is Sean from Pelko. How are you doing today? Yo, I used to do the knives. Like, remember the little companies that they would have you selling knives.

I was like in groups. Yes, I never saw any, but I literally was doing that for like two years. Really? And it would teach you how to listen, though, because I would listen to background out here, baby. I'd be like, oh, is that a baby in the background? Would you like to save money on this college coming out 18 years? If you start saving right now and I can help you, like that's what it's talking about. Do you want to die of a heart attack because you're shoveling snow?

You know, listen, you know what else? I do want to say something to these kids, though. These kids do have new hustles. So, like, you might have a kid that, like, that'll make candles. You know what I'm saying? Like, these kids do different things that may not necessarily be the blue collar work we used to do. But some of them is out here, you know, being creative with their hustle. Yes, absolutely.

No, that's true. But you're not going to tell me you didn't burn CDs. No, I didn't burn CDs. You didn't line wire. Come on. No, I was a DJ. I made my own CDs. Oh, I definitely did that.

I'm doing my guy, DJ Chuck T, man. DJ Chuck T had like 20 CD burners. And Chuck T used to make so much money off selling CDs. I'm like, I want in on that. So I used to do the same thing. I had every mixtape, the G units, the big mics, the Who Kids, all of them, D-Blocked dip set. Yes, we made a lot of money y'all selling mixtapes back in the day. This guy, DJ Chuck Tee.

Jesus Christ. This was after the crack, sir. Oh, after crack, sir. Yes. It's the breakfast club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ NV.

Just hilarious. This is Charlemagne de Guy. We are the breakfast club. Lola Rose is here as well. We got a special guest in the building. Guy Code alumni. I affectionately call him counsel. Counsel. Because of our days on Guy court. Jordan Carlos is here. Good to be here, Shaw. Good morning. Hold on. Let me go show up. Sure, sure. We put Chor play up there to where people can see it. It's right there. It's right there. I love the name of the book. Yeah, I do too. Oh, thank you very much. I appreciate that. I thought it was genius for what the book is actually about. Yeah. Chor played a marriage-saving magic of getting your head out your ass. Yeah, firmly, out your ass, squarely, out your ass.

This was saved my marriage. And it's funny because, I don't know, I mean, like, this is a very, like, it's challenging for men, but I'm going to tell you, what I found out was the bar is in hell for men when it comes to just, like, cleaning up around the house. And we trip over it all the time. So I thought, I mean, I'm not telling anybody how to live, but I'm just telling people, like, have you considered this? I'm not an expert or anything like that.

I'm just a veteran of the wars out here. And I'm lucky to be married still. And I just want to share that information with everybody. I think it's hilarious that you said your own book saved your marriage. Yeah, for real. Like, like, that's what it did. It's, um, I mean, it's crazy. When I, when I sat down because writing a book, as you know, as you know, like takes deep,

meditative thought. Yeah. And you really self-reflect and you see yourself in the mirror and there's no getting away from it. So that's what it, that's what it really was. It just, oh, man, I had to think deeply. I looked up like invisible work. Let me just man explain. of work to y'all real quick i'm just kidding uh but like people don't know what it is it's that work

that my mom put in that my grandmother put in like taking care my mom taking care of my grandmother while she um held down a job and you know like my dad great guy but didn't contribute in the ways that he maybe could have and stepped up and that's i mean that kind of thing like learning about that learning about executive function and what women go through all the time was so like my eyes are open. Women are better cleaners than men. Okay. That's not all the question.

No. No. My brother is so much. I clean, but my brother is so much more organized. It depends on the man. He read the whole book and that's, yes,

you take it away. That's exactly. That one thing you can never conquer is men, like, the brains and how small they be so much. It's true. He's a perfect example of it. He read the whole book.

I'm sure front the back and look, he's going to still see and say it. I'm not saying that we shouldn't participate. I'm just saying women are better cleaners than men. They are left to do these things. They're left to do these things, right? So, I mean, for instance, like, when I have Thanksgiving back in Texas, like, I noticed my baby cousins, the male ones do not have to watch the dishes,

but the teenage girls, they're like, okay, baby, let's go to work now. You know, and it's like the boys are always, the game is on, right? So it's like. They're hunting. Did they hunt the food? Hey, yo. They didn't go shopping. Those teenage boys did not go shopping at all.

And they use Instacart now, so you ain't even having to carry the groceries no more. Yes, I use Instacart. There's no better time to be a slot. than right now because technology is caught up with you. I'm sorry. But no, no, you're fine. But no, that's not all men, though, because my dad, when I grew up, I grew up in a house, my dad was the one who cleaned. You know, my mom cooked. She didn't. You know, they both made the home. You know, but my dad, OCD, like, anything out of place, he's fixing it. He's like wiping down countertimes, you know,

so that doesn't go for, you know, all men. It does not. No. I heard you say that this book saved your marriage where you, was she on the way out the door, like you were about to lose her? It's also like a testament to knowing what you got before it's gone. Yes, yes. Before you lose it. I mean, this is what happened, right? So COVID happened. We were busy before COVID. Before COVID, Guy Coe was popping. Everything was going on. And then everything stopped. And when the tide goes out, you see the rocks, right? And that's, that's what happened. I was at home. I was not working, but I also was a stranger in my own house because I was not contributing. I was mad that I wasn't working. And that was like, I was like given into like

man-child vibes and things like that. And my, my wife was no longer. having it, right? Because I was not contributing to the household. And so like, with that said, I, there was also another divorce that happened in our family. And I was like front row to, like front row seats to that. And I did not want that at all. And it was not because of infidelity. As I wrote in the book, it's because, I mean, studies showed that it's commitment. So it was like, he wasn't doing anything. And if you're just like an overraised child, you're going to get kicked out of the nest. And that's what happened to him. And I was like, I don't want that at all.

What can I do? I was listening to. So it's like there was nothing dramatic. You know, and that's what really kills a lot of marriages. It's like it's nothing dramatic. It's just, it's just this kind of meh situation. A woman complaining that you're staying in the house and doing nothing during COVID is so selfish. What did you think?

What are you talking about? You brought me up. You brought me here in good faith, bro. You're making us look bad. Let me tell you. Yeah, yeah. No, no, no, no. Let me.

Council, let me cover his mic. No, I'm just saying this. I mean, it was, yes, in part it was COVID, but at the same time, I could have translated that into helping out. I was watching my wife pick up laundry, take it upstairs, take it downstairs,

watching her do the dishes and everything like that, you know, watching her take care of the dog, dust in the corners, watching, watching, and just like doing nothing. And after a while, that repetition erodes the integrity of a relationship, man. Like little by little.

Did it? Were you emotionally disconnected, mentally disconnected? Like, how could you just sit, you know, and watch her do that? Like, where you're going through your own funk of not working and you were just like in a miserable state where you couldn't even help yourself? So how could you help her? Right. I think I was definitely there. But I was also, I stay on ready mode.

And that's something I write about in the book is like guys are always, like, we're always, we have like John Wick fantasies. I'm ready to fight. If she asked me to take the trash out, I'll do it. No problem. it's nothing. Yeah, you got to do trash out. That's us. That's us.

But to be reminded of the thing, I was always being reminded of the thing. So I started reminding myself. It was just a small switch. I saw that divorce. I said, this is what the guy was not doing and not bringing to the table. I was like, okay, let me flip this.

And just, I know when trash night is. It's Tuesday night. So let me just go do it. You know, like bring the receptacles back on Wednesday morning. Like, that's, I knew to do that because I've seen her do it. So just do it. And like, I can. cannot tell you.

Like, there's that Maslow's pyramid of needs, right? And, like, the basic needs are taken care of, and then you can get to self-actualization. But if your basic needs aren't taken care of, then you can't feel safe, right? So that's what I was like, I was ignoring that about her. So when, like, I mean, another part of the book is smashing. So, William, which is very, I'm sorry to look at you during that. Why did I? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So, anyway, Smashy's a big part of the book, but like, but she wasn't, she wasn't down to clown as much when the house wasn't in order, right? So I was looking at that, studying that, and that's people need safety. They need security deep down. It's that caveman part of you.

And so when that happened, it was like, yeah. To get in the mood. To get in the mood. Chorplay. Chorplay. Chorplay is for play. He said down the clown, no. I was just like, uh-uh.

I mean, I was trying. I was trying. You can't say. He can't say having, well, he can't say having... Well, we make love, but like, you know, I got you. I'm messing, I'm messing, I'm messing. He's like fumbling over your words. This nerd.

All right, so, um, that we can. The book is really good, though, man. I just, I just don't want you to be too hard on yourself. Like, when you talk about how you used to see her cleaning and, you know, you felt like you didn't help, it's like, yo, when you saw Leonado da Vinci doing the Mona Lisa, when you say, hey, let me get a brushing. No, you would let a, let a master do work.

No. It's the same thing. Hold on. You're saying let her cook. If she's doing what she's doing. Charlemagne, you, but how are you? Okay, but you're married too. This is wild. All right, so I feel like, thank you, Charlemagne.

That's called, I mean, that is called, like, when you pretend to be incompetent at something, right? So it's like Tom Sawyer, right? Like, I can't do that. I can't let her whitewash the fence. I got to jump in there if I know what I'm doing. because what's cute in your 20s is not cute in your 40s.

Like, I watch football every Sunday. I watch my Cowboys for no good reason every Sunday. And she was fine with that in my 20s. But then in my 40s, she's like, why don't you take the kids to this or that? You know, they got practice. There's the evolution.

No, no. What happened? You know I'm a cowboy fan too. They've got to give off the Cowboy game. Now, Jordan, this is a bit crazy. You know, the game, Lord. I know. He's like, why about coming here?

So I did all my chores all during the week. I did everything I'm supposed to do during the week and I can't watch the game. I'm so sad. I don't want to sound like Stephen A. But like, what have the Cowboys done for you lately? What have the Cowboys done for you lately? I mean, I'm talking to, okay, we can leave the Cowboys out.

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And I know you talk about kind of like the giving takes in the book, but there aren't like giving takes. It's like, all right. Like I can understand Sunday is the day that you want for that. As well, as much as you can understand cleaning the bathroom. I know you have your list in this book and you talk about cleaning just the tub out after you use it. That helps me a lot. It's give or take.

So do you guys, what was your give or take in your marriage after writing this book? If you couldn't have football on Sunday, what was she willing to be like, all right, but I'm going to let you have that. And let me just say this. My situation was unique. I had to quit, like, that was like a tourniquet. I had to fix this so I could fix a bigger thing. I'm not saying like everybody's got to quit watching football. You could stand to watch home games.

You could stand to watch away games. Like, you could pick, you know, or like, just take a weekend off. That's all I'm saying. I would say that my give and take is this. I have a lot time for myself now, because this book is about time management as well. And I lot time for myself. I wake up at 5 a.m. I've already been up for hours today.

So like you can tell, I'm feeling hype. So this, that time I have for myself is mine and mine alone. I usually go to the gym, work out whatever it is. But if I don't, if I, on a rest day, I'll watch like a series I haven't watched yet because I can't watch it around my kids. Maybe it's just like cursing it or something like that. So it's like I have my time to do what I want to do. I get to read.

That's my hour, you know? So that's my give and take. And yeah, I mean, look, sometimes, of course I watch the Cowboys. you have to do to earn your hour it's it's about but it's like you have a techno futileous household so once you how much work do you have to put in to earn your hour it's a vibe it's a vibe it's a vibe it's survive we don't that's what the book's about to survive i mean i i i like a lot of books out there that tell you what to do i was inspired by eve rotsky's fair play right but i was like that's too rigid that's too rigid and at the end of the book i'll just point this out and say at the end

of that book she's like all right ladies now get out there and save your marriage. I was like, damn, this wasn't even written for me. This is written for somebody else. So what's what would a male do, right? I'm like, I'm going to change my vibe. That's what I'm going to do. Okay. So I can't have, I don't get by with charts in the wall and things like that and gold stars because that's for somebody else's approval.

What's my approval matrix? What do I believe in? What's my standard? So that's kind of where it is for me. Like, she, I mean, like, I could watch football if I wanted to. But I'm like, I want to take my kid to Governor's Island. I want to go hiking one Sunday. I don't want to give it more money to Jerry Jones. Like Jerry's fine. You know what I'm saying? So it's like, you know,

he's fine. What am I doing for me? You know? So that's really what it is. It's like, yeah. How long did it take you to save your marriage? You said it saved your marriage, but like, what was that process like and how long was it? To be honest, I would say like it took about six months to write things. Right?

So there was this guy that was famous in the mom's group in Brooklyn. So he's Canadian. So it's suspect anyway, but he's So that's why. But we learn a lot from Connecticut. Universal healthcare, you know, all that kind of stuff. So anyway, he was famous among the moms.

They're like, oh, he was a good guy. He, oh, he was the best. Like, he makes coffee every morning for his wife. He makes coffee. That's it. One cup. That's it. So I asked him, like, what do you do?

You grind the beans. Do you make like a latte, cappuccino, whatever? The foam designs. He's like, man, Fulgers crystals. Folders crystals. And that's it. The bar is in hell, right? So for that, the man.

is famous. So I was like, I'm gonna do the same thing. So I did that. It's low-hanging fruit. I did the same thing. It was hard to wake up in the morning before my wife, but I did it. And I kept doing it. I did it like one day, three days, seven days. I do it. Like, this is the only morning I couldn't do it. It took a man from Canada to tell you that the best part of waking up is full. Oh, Jordan. Jordan. A man from Canada after Ted to come say that about it. Yeah, yeah. For I mean, he showed me, he gave me the, like, Prometheus fire. Like, I was like, I was in the dark about it, you know? And it was, we, the guys were dwindling down in that group. We have, like, a Friday kind of like, hangout. And it was just me and him left. I was like, damn, I had to know

the secret after that. I'd seen so many, we lost so many good men out here, Sean. But what did you think when you, like, be enough? That was the secret. Just full just crystals. Like, even with this whole process, when you think back on it, right, things that you weren't doing versus now, things that you are doing it. Do you ever say like, damn, it really wasn't that hard all this time? And I don't know, did you ever think also, like, why do guys expect extra credit for doing the bare minimum anyway? Oh, because, I mean, that's, I want my ticket tape parade. You know what I'm saying? Like, I really do. Like, like, I mean, I did the dishes before I left this morning and I had to fight. It was like

fighting for my life not to be like, babe, did you appreciate those dishes was done this morning? She didn't care. You know, like, or you got to give yourself an add-a-boy. Yeah. I gamify everything. And I'm like, okay, let me see if I can get a load in before, like, a laundry in before I hit the, you know, like leave the house, go to the office, whatever it is. So it's just like, what is the vibe for you? I mean, I had to also stop being and stop wanting to be mothered, you know, like, because that's someone getting mad at you for not straightening up feels like that's me just like reliving the dynamic I had with my mom. And I love my mom, you know?

Absolutely. But I don't, but marrying somebody is not substituting your mother. You know what I'm saying? It's like, it's, it's a partnership. It's, yeah, so. Morturing for you. Yeah, absolutely. But just like, how do you nurture yourself?

What do you want? Do you see yourself? You know, like, for instance, like I had to get a fade yesterday, but I did it. Not my wife always being like, you're wolfing, like you need your edges, you this and that. You know, like, stop. What do you want? Right. You know when it's time.

to do something. And do you feel like that came from your father not contributing as much or not being around? Oh, was he? Yeah. I know he did. My dad, my dad. You're just going to call this man dad. No, no, no. My dad, my dad actually was not around. Okay. He was, he's a doctor. He's at the hospital all the time. So it's actually like a positive reason. You know what I'm saying? So, but he, he was, he was taking care of women for so long and like as an OBGYN. And it's crazy. He was also like instrumental planned parenthood in Dallas, Fort Worth. where I'm from and then he come home and it's like you can be an ally in the streets but not in the sheets you know like my dad would just be watching ESPN 2 watching boxing and just like having a

state and and like not giving a damn about what um the state of the house was so he was yeah cliff cliff huxdable uh heathcliff huxdable outside the house yes yes uh well we could pick another doctor uh i said no cause me i said he's cleftable got you i got you jess i was like jess i knew it I knew just was shoot at me here. No. Okay. I don't think that's fair to your father, George. This man is in Dallas, Texas, taking care of vaginas all over Dallas.

And he comes home and just wants to relax for a second. And he's getting flag about not taking out the trash for five minutes. No, no, no, no. I'm just saying I love my dad. He's the most generous guy out there. But, like, that's what was modeled for me. Like, you could have what I detail in the book as a greedy job. The greedy job is just a job that eats up your time.

It's not about money. So my dad had a greedy job as a doctor. He was a public servant. He's a doctor. God ordained your father to keep a vagina. We love my dad. Joseph Carlos. I love you.

MD. I love you. No, no, no. I'm not saying that. I'm just saying that you become what you behold. So that was modeled for me. So that's what I did. And it was repeated.

And my wife is a professor too. And she holds down her job and does. all these things, but I was still like, just like, okay, what did that do? That was it. That's, yeah. So, yeah. If somebody read show a plan only applied one habit, one habit, what's the one small action that could, you think could change the relationship before?

Have a plan. Just have a plan. Get, I mean, this is not an endorsement for the Resi app, but get an app like that. Because you deserve, like, your partner deserves, like, dinner plans, whatever it is. keep that, I say keep that candle burning and make sure that you got a backup because we're so expecting, you know, her to want to do something. What about you? You got to research things. Like, I'm a very fun dad. I will take my kids to like, you name it, whatever. We'll go to like, let's go to Yankee Stadium. Then we'll go to get ice cream and, you know, like, we're going to go see dolphins. You know, like, that's me. But I just needed to divert some of that back to my wife.

You said you didn't want to just be the fun dad. You wanted to be the responsible partner. Yes, yes. But my wife wanted that fun too. And I was leaving that out and playing like a game against her. I saw you talk to the New York Times about this too. You were telling them that being a fun dad, I almost ruined your marriage. Yesterday I was watching Sterling K. Brown and Ryan Michelle Bath, his wife, on Michelle Obama's podcast.

And they were having a conversation about preparing to be empty nesters and how you have to like figure out being together again. Can you talk about kind of what? Now your dynamic is with your wife because your kids are still in the house, but you realize you've got to be with your partner. Absolutely. So most weekends, like if she's not going to go out with her girls, then we will go out together. I love that. You know, we look forward to like having a night out. Like my mother-in-law lives real close to us, so we just drop up the kids.

I got babysitters on dead. Yeah, yeah, you got to have, you got to have that. Yeah, but she's, again, the Brooklyn, get you a Brooklyn person, you know what I'm saying? They got the connect. They got the hookup. So we just do that and then we go out. And then like during the week we try to play hooky. So like because I write from home, work from home.

And she like only she has three nights a week of teaching. Like during the day, we can be around. So like we'll go to like what's the place? Bathhouse, which is really great. Oh, the spa. Yeah, the spa. Yeah, get lunch on a Wednesday. Don't like because we both are home and we have, I mean,

I'm very fortunate and very blessed. that I can just be like, you want to do the spot tomorrow. She's like, yeah, let's do it. You know, or get lunch or whatever it is. So you got to keep it spicy and chop it up all the time. And if you, and that's, we're preparing ourselves for that. I mean, like, our kids are 13 and 9, so we got a couple more years. It goes by the past, man.

It does. How old are your kids? My oldest is 17 years. Damn. Leave me for college this fall. Wow. But then I have a 10-year-old, 7-year-old, and 4-year-old. So, you know, I get time.

It goes by fast. It does go by so fast. It goes by real fast. But just keeping that spirit alive and keeping, like, the fun that you have for your kids, even if you divert a little bit, you know what I'm saying? For her, that's what's up, because we just get resentments. And I'm like, you don't deserve that fun. I'm going to put it over here.

She didn't let you watch the game. She didn't let me watch the game. I mean, in peace. You know what I mean? But it wasn't, it wasn't about like, the game is, it's not that. It's just the Cowboys have, it's been a one-sided relationship, abusive relationship for so long that I've, I was like, I got to listen.

I got to do something. I got to get out. I got to get out. You know? And I just want you to check on them. I don't believe in roles, right? Okay. I believe in everybody doing what they're the best at.

Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Women are the best at cleaning. Women are the best. Oh my God. Like, we've come. No, let us.

Don't stop. Let them keep going. I'm not saying that we can learn. So no roles. Just what your best at. What are women are the best at? Women are the best at organizing. Like, they hold that down.

Oh, don't patronize it. I'm better as a worker. You're better as a worker. Okay. Were they not working in that example? You said they were holding it down and doing everything. I'm better off working for them. You know what I mean? Okay, okay.

So I'm there for like moral support. I'll get you to brook. You know what I mean? Yeah. I'm glad you're doing. Salomey. I will open a house for your wife. I will open a window when you clean in the bathroom.

Wow. You will open the window. You don't do too much in the crowd. I don't know if somebody is supervised of a cleaning company. You just help. What are you doing? No, no, no, no, no, no. I love everything you do.

Wow. She's mad. She's got it better than all of us, George. How do I put... Thank you. Thank you for your service. Thank you for Joe. Don't do all.

He's Mexican and blacks. Oh, okay. Like me. Okay, Carlos. Yeah. No, no, no. I'm African-American. I'm like Latin.

Nope. Like, people think I'm last... They think about... Because your name is Carlos. I'm like Tina, son. Thank you for your service. In these times. In the atmosphere, that's all.

I'm just saying, I mean, I'm the same way. No, Chauplay is good. The most important thing about Cholply to be is it will help you with your emotional labor. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes, your empathy, emotional labor. I got very lucky.

Like, my grandmother had Alzheimer's when I was a kid, so I learned what it was like to take care of somebody that. maybe like um is with with with respect respectfully you know like their their faculties are going away right so i had that was put on me early so i was like empathetic to that so so learning that is is definitely um yeah it's a certain kind of intelligent you know and and and and i think we need to up that men need to up that completely we're always told to be cold and stoic and things like that but you got to you got to go back that way back when you had like you feel for your person.

You know, you don't have to feel for everybody. But if you feel for your person, what they're going through, even on little things. I wrote this book because I read a book about a guy that just didn't put his glass in the sink when his wife would ask him for years. And she divorced him because of that. So just like taking in what people want from you. And if you know what makes people upset, then you know what makes them happy. And just doing that thing and putting your arms around it instead of your hands. head around it. I think like you'll be much better off, you know.

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I like to play the game. Come on now, let's be fair here. Because there's a difference. I get it, I get it. Okay. I'm a big fan, man. I just want to call it. I think y'all are amazing what y'all do, man.

I listen to y'all every single morning, too. I appreciate you, brother. What are you calling from again? His white side was offended. Then we always played a game with that. It was offended. It was. The white side was like, hold on.

Wait a second, man. Like, this is fair. You know what I mean? but I'm from Jersey. Oh, okay. Well, thank you for calling, brother. All right, thank you. Yes, sir.

Good morning. Who's this? Natasha. Hey, Natasha. Who you want to get the biggest he hard to? My job. What's your job? You don't want to say the name of your job?

You have to say your name of your job. At least tell us what you do. What do you do? I work at a granite company. A granite company. In West Columbia, South Carolina. Okay, 803, Metro all day. Who you want?

Okay, go ahead. The floor is yours. Vint. Oh, my gosh. My co-workers. Spanager, just the way they ostracized me in the office. They leave me out of everything. You talk and right in front of me in each other ears, like, I'm not there.

And then on top of that, I'm the only black lady in the office with two other Caucasians and a Hispanic. And it's just like, I'm totally ignored. Fly on the wall. Make some noise. And on top of that, I clean the bathroom every Friday. Nobody offers to help. Real s-b-h-ha-oh.

The bathroom shouldn't be like that. You should call the custodians to come clean it up, okay? They don't even have one. Damn. Well, that's why the bathroom's shty, man. What the Latino be doing? Just sitting there while you do that? Basically, and just like every day I initiate to get the trash.

I've been there a year. Three times they got out to help get the trash. Damn. So the Latino is in with the Caucasian people? I'm sorry? So the Latino girl is in with the Caucasian people? Well, he and she is the owner of the company, so I don't expect them to do too much.

Oh, okay, okay. Damn. So, but I also deserve the donkey because I put myself in this situation. Okay. There's nobody that you can complain to, no higher up, no HR, no nothing. Like, no. No, they got eyes. They see this.

They're not deaf. They're not blind. They know what they're doing. Damn. Well, thank you for calling. I hope things get better. It will. I'm doing the steps to make it better.

I appreciate y'all. Y'all do an awesome job. Make my day great. Thank you very much. We appreciate you. Y'all be blessed. Thank you. Good morning.

Who's this? Good morning. This is Nikki. Mom, good morning. Breakfast Club family. Good morning. What you calling from? Harlem.

Hey, Nikki from Harlem. Who you want to get the biggest e-haught to? Emeritus airline. Ooh, now I love Emirates. What happened with Emirates? So I booked a family vacation to go for spring break to Dubai. This is back in August. I woke up when bright and sunny Saturday morning

and we're on the precipice of World War III. So why are you mad at Emory? Because they won't refunding my money without penalty. Oh, now that's crazy. Yeah, yeah, okay, now that's insane. That's insane. Right. So I want to take an 80% hit.

No, they should be refunding you. They should be refunding you your money, period. Yes. Like, clear and delivered. And so right now they're saying they're giving full refunds for if they're traveling suddenly two hours from the current dates, you can get a full refund. My schedule travel date is April 1st.

I'm looking at something right now that says, according to the Department of Transportation, passengers with flights canceled are significantly delayed due to war. Our airspace closers in the Middle East are entitled to full prompt refunds, even on non-refundable tickets. And it says major carriers like Emirates, Qatar, and ETIHD, which I can't pronounce, are offering these along with flexible rebooking options for affected travelers. So I don't know why they're doing you like that. Well, I need to write enough.

When I tell you the emails I wrote were like dissertations, quoting the consulate, the embassy, and everything, they're telling us to get the hell out of the Middle East. If you don't get out of the Middle East now, you're on your own. Damn. They're still supposed to be giving you, according to what I'm reading here on CNN, they're still supposed to be giving you a non-refundable ticket. And that's according to the Department of Transportation website as well. Well, I will definitely have to cite that source when I contact them again. But every email I send is giving me the same information. 72 hours we're giving refunds right now your travel date is too far in advance.

Things may change. I don't care if that one ends right now. I am I going over there. Damn. This is going to be the wholesale I would get up to stay at down the block from there. Another hotel to take. I would think you're a damn fool if you were going to Dubai right now. I totally agree

I just want my money back That's $2,000 for just Airlines An airline cheese But I think Now trying to find Something else for A last minute

When break vacation It's almost impossible Yeah We're not going to where You're going to be sitting right home It's okay Listen I think we should be happy

When God makes us be still He's making us be still for a reason I totally agree That's why I'm not planning to go anywhere else I just want my money back Without the fantasy. Absolutely.

Well, thank you for calling. At least I can make something fun at home, but thank you for hearing me. I just need to say, hopefully somebody can contact Emirates or ever change this and says, let's give these U.S. citizens their money back. Yes, man. I mean, like I said, the Department of Transportation and CNN are both saying that Middle East, if your flight was canceled, significantly delayed due to war, airspace closes in the Middle East, you're entitled to full prompt.

refunds, even on non-refundable tickets. I will look that up, sir. Thank you so much, everybody. I have a blessed day. Peace. We do that every Friday. It's the people's donkey. You can call in and give somebody the credit they deserve for being stupid, okay? Every Friday. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.

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We are the Breakfast Club. Now, salute to Jordan Call us. Hold on. Back up, brother. Oh, I'm sorry. It's your favorite part right here. Back it up, brother. It's Friday.

So you know what that means? It's freaking, freaking, freaking Friday! And the question is, does Chorplay turn you on? All right. Now, this conversation comes from Jordan Carlos, who stopped through earlier, and he wrote a book called Chorplay, The Marriage-Saving Magic of Getting Your Head Out of Your Ass. Yes, and he's basically saying that, you know,

putting in the effort in small ways will yield big results. So, you know, you do things like, you know, wash your dishes, or vacuum when your wife, you know, doesn't expect it, or make up to bed, you know, doing things like learning the names of your children's doctors and what medicines they take. Teachers, everything. I can't go that far because I don't know my kid's teachers.

You know your kid's teachers there? Well, you got six of me, envy. Do you know your kid's teachers then? Absolutely. I know my kids' teachers' names. I'm the mother. I don't know if Jerome. Well, yeah, Jerome is heavily involved.

And my husband is heavily involved. Yeah, we all know. We all know. We all know Ashley's teachers' names. Yeah. Dang, that's great, actually. What's their names? What?

Good question. She don't know. She don't know. She don't know. She don't know. She don't know. She don't know. She don't know.

She don't know. She don't know. Good question, Shala. She don't know. Well, Jamar Bryant told you to stop line, didn't? He need to stop line, too. I'm sorry. Let's go tell you to stop lines.

Let's go to the phone lines. Hello, who's this? This is Jay from Charleston. Hey, Jay from Charleston. Hey, 4.3. What's happening, Jay? Hey, how are you all? Do you like Chore play, Jay?

I do. I agree 100%. I think you have to keep in mind. that your wives are not machines can't expect us to do all the things and work full time and have time to play with you that night. That's right. Take something off her plate without

being told. Don't ask, what can I do? You see what's dirty. You see these kids ain't clean. That's right. And when you handle it, you have a good time that night. There you go. I agree. All right, Jay. Talk, baby. Thank you, Mama. She said, you know these kids ain't clean. How old are the kids? She's seven months. Oh, seven months.

Okay, I'm just saying. Oh, not you, Dave. I'm just tired because at some point, they cleaning this is their responsibility, okay? Oh, for sure. Yeah, no, she's a baby. Now, Des, go to, now, this chill play turn you on, Des.

Absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah, I got a dog. When I see him taking my dog out, when I see him wiping down the counters, anything. That's right. Because I also am a nanny for work.

So I do that during the day all the time. So when I get home and he does that, I'm definitely like, yeah, this is, let me kick my feet up for, the longer. Now, you know what's interesting? I meant to ask Jordan that what happens when somebody does have a nanny.

You know what I mean? Because then I'm hiring somebody to do the chores for us, basically. It depends. It depends. Sometimes there's a nanny, like, just for the kids. Right. But if you talk about their duties,

it can kind of turn into like a household manager, a nanny person. I am like a nanny personal assistant. So I'll do extra things like scheduling appointments and dry cleaners and all sorts of things. Do you like an assistant as well as a nanny? Uh-huh.

Yeah, so the kids, they're at school during the daytime. So during that time, I'm doing whatever. I'm currently organizing their closet. So I'm going through that stuff. Yeah. All right. There's different levels. Yeah, it's different levels to nannies.

800-585-105.1. We're asking does Chore Play turn you on? And Chor Play is... Chor Play is basically, you know, when you put in the effort in small ways that yield big results. You do things around the house for your wife. You know what I mean? Like the young lady said you wipe down counters.

You know what I mean? Like you know your children's teachers' names or their doctor's names. You know what medicines they take. You know, you give the kids a bath. Or even if you see something is low like milk, eggs, anything like that in the refrigerator, go and get it. I don't even wait for me to go get it. You go and get it. Go to the grocery store.

Stock it up when waters are running low. Stock more water's in the refrigerator. All of that is like for play. I mean, that's what Jordan's saying. Why are you calling it, it's your place? Help. Y'all grabbing bottles of wine. I need to be grabbing bottles of windex.

Well, do you feel the same call us up right now? When we come back, we got a brother on the line that said he's done all that. He still can't get none. He can't get none. Abdul, good morning. Good morning. How are you, sir? Pretty good.

But the common on y'all talk, it's pretty much, like, I did it for years and years out. And I had first year, you know, Turner on, got them draw as a shit. Cook, clean, pay bills, still make time for the gym, play with the kids. After a while, they's got accustomed to it. Like, it was something regular. I'm doing this, so I can get something out of that at the end of the night. You think I'm sweeping and mopping and all this at 7, 3 o'clock at night, watching butts, putting people in bed?

Are you working? Abdub, what are you calling from Philly or Newark? Baltimore. Nah, no, cut it out. Baltimore, heck no. Jersey. Damn. Don't say that.

No, I know. I know. No, Philly and Newark. What part of Jersey? You all the same. South Jersey. South Jersey. Okay.

Front City, sticking it up. All right. How much do you wish? Hey. Got to be two-sumety-two. Two-70-seven. Two-70.

And how tall are you? No, I'm 200, but I'm 5-11. 5-11. 5-11, 272. Let me see if you're obese. Nah, he's obese. You're 100. I said, 200.

Oh, 200. Oh, okay. Yeah, you're not obese. You're not obese. You're not obese. I'm just trying to find other reasons why you don't want to sleep with you. Do you work, though? You're doing all that.

Yeah. I'm working right now. Do y'all have... On TV, I cut grass. I'm a chemical specialist. I do a lot of careers. Damn, and you work around the house? Are you part Mexican?

Everything. Damn. Shut up. Nah, I'm all black. So listen, what? Have you, have y'all had conversations about it? Maybe it's something she's going through. How old is she?

Right. We're around the same age, 30, 3,000, you know, 33. She's not even like no perimenopause or nothing. It's him. It's him. I don't know. I don't want to put that on you. Just said it's you.

Something about you. Because if you're doing all that and you still ain't getting it is you. It's something that you need. I can get it. I can get it. But it's just not like, I got it. I got to want to get it. But I want somebody to get something to do them.

You want somebody to want you back? Like take the initiative. Yeah, yeah. Exactly. Sorry, you know how that's tired to come out. Yeah, I think you need, y'all need to have a conversation with a specialist. Not the breakfast club. It's something else is going on there.

It could be the other way around. She might not feel sexy, but she might, you know what I mean? Yeah. Or she can be feeling sexy with somebody else. Yeah, I don't do it. Why you do that? Sorry, hello, who's this? Good morning. Hi, my name is Shakira.

I'm just, Aquarius. You know, all that I love you. I love you guys. I love you, too. I love you too. I love you too. I love you to see y'all all the time. Thank you, Shikario.

Do you like Chorplay? Yes. Oh, my God. It's exactly what I'm going through right now. I feel like me and my boyfriend have been beating for like three years. Our son just turned three. It's a lot of, he doesn't want to feel

he feels like I'm his mom he wants to do things when he wants to do them and not when it's convenient for the house our son was diagnosed with autism he's three but he's talking a lot more now but I handle everything the schools the therapist feet therapy O.C. ABA

changing my hours at work I have a massive social work and my career is like everything is dictated by our child, you know, and I'm the one that does all of that. I feel like he's trying to punish me because I guess I'm unpleasant because I am overwhelmed. So literally everything that was said this morning is what I'm going through. Does he work? Like, did he lose a job?

Was he going through a funk or something like that that, you know, warranted him not to be there as much? I think he's a man child. Damn. I make his doctor's appointment. Like, but look, but look. But look. Did you, did you, did you. Did you start doing that or were you always doing that?

Was he always a man-child? No, I just started. Hell, no. So you drive out there when you see him. So it had to be something that happened, though, because she said he wasn't always like that. No, no, no, no, no. He never went to the doctor.

Like, I'm seeing now that we have a child, he's not as responsible as I would like him to be. He's not, he don't take our son nowhere. I'm the one finding all the things, going on events, bright, taking our son to the park. That's me. I do all of that.

Well, can I ask a question, how often does this brother work? Oh, no, you work. And that's my point. We both work. We both time jobs. No doubt. And I don't think we factor that in enough, man. Men are trying to keep food on the table.

We're trying to keep a roof over our family's heads. Like, I don't think people realize how stressful that is. But she's doing the same thing. But I'm doing the same thing. Parents are an autistic child. That's a lot of labor. It is. She just wants a little help, but she's saying that, you know, because she's dry down there

because he's not doing what you can say this woman dry you don't know this woman got whopping out. Yo, stop letting them disrespect your poo-pum like that. She said it don't turn on. Listen, listen, listen, you got to be turned on though. Yeah, you got to want it. I got a child like another child. Like, you're a 36-year-old man.

You should be going to the doctor. You should be doing that stuff. How can I trust you do that stuff for us when you won't do it for you? So you just admitted you got daff on the radio. You just admitted you got dry that. But it's because of him. But that's what the author of the book was saying. That's what Jordan even was saying.

Thank you, Mama. He was subconsciously like that. He didn't even realize that, you know, he had good intentions. It just was no structure. Listen, I said this while Jordan was here, and I really mean this. There's actual research that shows that women excel at household and family needs better. Like, they just have higher levels of organization. They're better planners.

They just are. But that's not a reason to put all of it on us and totally neglect that we need help. I didn't say all of it. I'm just saying I just feel like the. best person for the job should be the person that gets the job. That's crazy. Well, her a answer to be able to stay home then, especially that

lady taking care of that autistic baby, man. They need a whole lot of patients and especially. I agree with that, they do. I agree with that too. I mean, if you are a man that is able to provide and your woman can stay home, that is technically her job. That's her

job. That's her duty. She's the CEO of the house. That's what she does. Well, is there a moral of the story. The moral of the story is, I better try some chocolate. By the way, all jokes aside, just naturally you should do those type of things. Like if you, you know, you see something, you know, dirty around the house and you can clean it up,

you should clean it up. We can all be better in those areas, you know what I mean? All right. All right, now you got a positive note? I do. I want to salute everybody, you know, that's been going to Crystal in South Carolina man, the Orangeburg location, 1486 Chestnut Street, and the Walterboro location,

1222 Bells Highway. My wife and I truly thank you all for the support, man. Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. Now, the positive note is simply this, I heard when you stop chasing what you want, you walk right into what you need. You heard what I said? When you stop chasing what you want, you walk right into what you need. Your grandmother told you that? No. That's not like something right out of good truth mouth. I'm telling you, that sounds like a good, good grandma quote. I like it. Breakfast club, bitches. You don't finish or y'all done?

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