The Breakfast Club - The Breakfast Club REWIND ( Jasmine Guy and Kadeem Hardison, Ask Yee + More)

Episode Date: November 24, 2022

Today on the show we flashed back to when Jasmine Guy and Kadeem Hardison stopped by for the first time and spoke about being on a  Different World, character chemistry, black love and so much more.��See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My name, my name. WWPR-FM, HD1 New York. And iHeartRadio Station. 50% righteousness. You're Angela Yee, I love you. 50% righteousness. I don't like ratchets, just sit down. I don't like 95% ratchets.

This is becoming the most prominent forum for me. Wake your ass up. It's early in the morning, but they tell me it was y'all. I say, oh hell yeah, I'm getting up. The world's most dangerous morning show. DJ Envy. Your people's choice. Angela Yee.

I'm a sweetheart, but I'll cut you. Charlamagne Tha God. Principals and people of the world. I can't believe you guys are the best, kid. Collectively known as Breakfast Club, bitches. I'm telling. I'm telling. Hey, what you doing, man?

I'm telling. I'm calling. I'm calling, yo. This is your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're mad or blessed. 800-585-1051. We want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this?

Hello, good morning. This is Envy. Shout out to my guy, Andre. My guy. What's up? My guy. Sing them numbers for me, King. One, two, three, four.

Now, I have a new single out. It's called Isabella. I just wanted to give it a shout out. If you guys can check it out. Man, don't just shout it out. I want to hear it. Give me a little a new single out. It's called Isabella. I just wanted to give it a shout out if you guys can check it out man Don't just shout it out. I want to hear it. Give me a little acapella version, bro. Okay, so it's more French Lingala English So there you are down left right in the middle Baby

Hey I can't even explain now Hey. 45, 46, 47, 48, 49. Can I say something right quick? Yes, sir. Yes, DJ Envy, you're a DJ. I'm begging you right now. I'm listening right now if you can. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Uncle Johnny made my dress that cheap spandex. She looks a mess. We didn't hear what you said, brother, but email the record. Party on. Taylor, what's your email? Yeah, DJ Envy, I've been sending you a bunch of emails. I know you're a busy guy. He can't wait.

I am right now. I'm just trying to make my shot. Oh, okay. You can look at Archie on Archie Me Platform. Blessings, brother. Blessings. All right, brother. All right.

Hello, who's this? Yo, this is Dominique from Duval. Dominique from Duval. Duval. What's up, brother? Good morning. Good morning. Good morning.

Y'all want to get off my chest, give a shout out to my wife, man. She be busting her ass all week on cooking, man. Y'all follow her on Instagram at DA underscore Freddie Brown underscore show. Okay. Why is she busting her ass cooking this week? You know, she's a personal show, private show. Okay. That's correct.

Congrats to her, man. Appreciate it. Appreciate it. Y'all have a good morning. All right, brother. Hello, who's this? Hey, good morning. This is Clay calling from North Carolina.

Clay, good morning. Get it off your chest. Yes, I would really like to thank y'all. Well, first of all, I'd like to say good morning, DJ Envy. Good morning, Charlamagne Tha God. And good morning, Miss Yee. Good morning. Good morning, sir.

Peace, my guy. How are you? I'm doing great. Blessed and highly favored. There you go. But I would like to say thank you to you guys because you guys don't really know the impact of what you guys say

and the way people listen to you because I just recently bought a house here and every morning I used to listen to you because I just recently bought a house here. And every morning I used to listen to you guys. And when DJ Envy used to talk about buying a house, I used to listen. I used to tell everybody in the car, shut up, shut up,

shut up. I need to hear this and everything. And I never took one of your classes, but I used to listen. And one thing that you used to say about that credit, you got to get that credit right. You know, and I recently bought a house back in October

and I'm so happy. I'm so happy. Well, congratulations, brother. Congratulations, brother. That's what we try to do, man. We try to encourage things that we learn outside in this world. We try to, you know, make sure that we teach our people and try to explain to our people. We don't know all the answers all the time,

but we just try to point people in the right direction, brother. But you guys really got an impact. And Miss Yee, you know, a lot of these young girls are really listening to y'all, you know what I'm saying? You. So just keep doing this, y'all. And me personally, I thank you. Thank you.

We appreciate you. Love, brother. Hello, who's this? Hey, this is Aisha Collin from Virginia, but always ripping Dallas 214. Okay, Dallas, are you a Cowboys fan? I am. Let's go. I am.

Let's go. Good morning, Mama. Good morning, good morning. I just wanted to get off my chest. My car is in the shop right now. And I feel like these dealerships just be fixing piece by piece just to get you back in there to spend more money. They're talking about now I got to pay $2,000 because something is wrong with the inside of my engine. But I just feel like I'm fixing some up for those.

Damn. Well, don't worry because them dealerships are about to be hitting the minute. All those cars that they purchased overpriced, those cars are coming down in price. They're going to be upside down. So they're going to feel it in a little bit. And that's what they're probably feeling it now. So they're probably charging people for extra-ish. Tell them, M.D., you feel them, but they ain't got nothing to do with your engine right now.

I know, right? And then they said the parts was only like $500, and the label was $1,500. I can do it myself. You can't do it yourself. How do you know what this woman can do? She might have went to trade 1500. I can do it myself. You can't do it yourself. How you know what this woman can do? She might have went to trade school. I can get on YouTube. I can get on YouTube and figure out exactly what to do. That's right. Alright. Figure it out,

boo. Sometimes you might have to do that to save some money. It's going to take you probably three weeks to do that. What's wrong with the call? I mean, but that's okay. That's okay because right now my boyfriend helped me out with his call. Can I shout him out real quick? Yes, please. Okay, I want to shout out my boyfriend

76. He also has a podcast called Port Stories on all major platforms, YouTube as well and TikTok and Instagram. Alright, well thank you. Good luck, mama. Thank y'all so much. If I was y'all, I'd put my Cash App out there just in case somebody feels, you know, want to help y'all so much if I was y'all I'd put my cash app out there

just in case somebody feels you know want to help y'all a little bit okay so my cash app is 880-2717 if anybody want to help me because my car is literally in a shop right now

alright mama have a good one thank you you too now mama get it off your chest 800-585-1051 if you need to vent hit us up now

it's The Breakfast Club good morning The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. This is your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're mad or blessed, we want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. So if you got something on your mind, let it out. Hello, who's this?

Yo, what up, what up? This is Matt from Atlanta. What's up? Matt from Atlanta. Get it off your chest. You say heavy hands and yeet. Man, I got to tell you, a beat and brown lips don't mix. I'm trying to tell you.

Uh-oh, what you was drinking? Man, I was drinking. I started off with some Jack Daniels. Then I had Hennessy. I done messed around and messed on myself. You poured it on yourself? That's because you mixed Jack Daniels and Hennessy, fool. That ain't even broke.

That's a whiskey and a cognac. Two dark licks. That's going to be straight. You can't mix white and dark. And where'd you pee on yourself? Dude, I was sitting in the parking lot. I was asleep when it happened. Did you poo or did you pee?

Did you poo or pee? Nah, I peed. Okay. On yourself in your own car? In my own car. No cap. Bro, you mixed whiskey with cognac. What you thought was going to happen?

Man, you shouldn't tell nobody that story. You should have just cleaned up. Hey, hey, hey. It was a messed up night, man. I had to get it off the chest. And that's the problem. Y'all looking at it and thinking it's all brown. It's not all brown. Jack Daniels is a whiskey. Hennessy is a cognac. You don't mix whiskeys and cognacs, bro, bro. So you walked in the house with pee-pee pants?

Oh, yeah. It was nighttime, though. Didn't nobody know. Congratulations. Now, what's in a Long Island iced tea? I don't know. I don't even drink, though. I feel like they mix all kind of liquor in that. Like five different ones. Hey, man.

Y'all four be good, man. He's like, I gotta go. I don't know what a Long Island iced tea is. Grow up. What? Hold on. Let me see what a Long Island iced tea is. Now I want to know.

Vodka, tequila, light rum, triple sec, gin, and a splash of cola. You shouldn't be drinking that either. That's what I said, grow up. The hell you drink vodka and tequila, rum, gin. Why? Ugh. Hello, who's this?

What up? This is Linnea from Columbus. Y'all good? We good. How you feeling, mama? Listen, I'm low-key mad for a screw. What happened? So last night, right?

Me and my husband chill. We watch a TV. On accident, I fell asleep at 8 o'clock. I woke up at 4 a.m. looking stupid this morning. And then he sleep. And I don't like that. Well, it was 4 o'clock. I mean, look, because I don't go to work till about 7.38.

And so it's unnecessary for me to be awake that early. I could have got two more hours in, but I'm like, oh, look at my house. I could have done a lot of clothing. Now I got all the lights on, candles popping, whole house smelling like bleach at 4 a.m. in the morning. I'm looking stupid right now. Why don't you wake your husband up and give him some? Hey, let him sleep, man. Sleep is more important.

You're right, though, but I do got a question for Envy. Yes, ma'am. Why are you always lying to us every morning talking about the mix is live? It ain't live. I'm glad you finally got on. I'm glad you finally figured this out. She up early thinking. Hey, you need to play some Bootsy, some Set It Off,

Loose As A Goose. Play some old Goose, you wouldn't even be. Play the photo shoot, lemonade. Photo shoot. All right, I'm going to start the mix off of Bootsy. What about my shirt off? My shirt off, my shirt off, my shirt. I take my shirt off and all the hoes are breathing.

All right, well, get your. Leonardo. Go wake. Leonardo, don't start now. Leonardo. Well, go wake your husband up. Give him something right fast before you go to work. And don't be adding the O at the end of my name.

I ain't no Ninja Turtle, and you ain't Dominican. Leonardo. Dominican's got an O at the end of everything. You know how to wake him up? Well, how I'm gonna wake him up, see? Hold on the line. I'm gonna tell you what to do. All right, all right.

Don't put nothing in that man's... Have a good morning. That is not what I said. Play that Boosie and we stop playing. She said playing is boonky. That's what she said. And you said aight. Boosie. B-O-O-S-I.

Oh, she said Boosie. I thought she said playing is boonky, fool. And you was like, aight. Shut up. She up so early today and she is hype. She got too much energy. She's going to be tired around three. Hello, who's this? She calls all the time. What's up, today, and she is hyped. She got too much energy. She going to be tired around 3. Hello, who's this? She calls all the time. What's up, Evie?

Hey, you. What up, Trav? Hey, Trav. Salamayne. Hey, you. Hey, sis. How you? I'm doing good.

Let me tell you, can I say something? No means no, right? Uh-oh. I just want to say that. No means no. What happened, Trav? I went and I've been talking to this guy for a little bit. We've been chilling, right?

So I went and chilled with him yesterday. And for some reason, when the guy's more masculine than me, they feel like they can just try to get my butt. So we messing around. He just kept trying to touch my butt. And I politely moved his hand. And he just kept trying to do it. Whoa.

So no means no. Well, can I ask you a question, Trav? Are you going to let him hit eventually? No, I don't. Well, I don't like to get my butt touched. And I was trying to explain that to him. And he just was not listening. Well.

You like to do the butt touching. You just don't like your butt touching. Hey, hey, hey. Don't ask him like that. What? You don't ask him like that. How do I ask him? Trav, what do you.

That's very sorry. You don't have to ask a man that. Trav, what do you like to get touched since you don't like it to be your butt? Not my butt. Not your butt. So don't even make that effort to try. I said no, leave it alone, keep it moving. I would like for you to explain this gay thing to me then

because that's what I thought it was all about, Trav. You like to touch butts, but you don't want your butt touched. I was fine that he tried, but once I move your hand and tell you I don't like that and then you say okay and then you try to do it again like five minutes later, now it's a turnoff. I get it. I get what you're saying. So don't touch Travis' butt. How many times are you going to say that? The man already said that. I just want to make it clear.

Jesus Christ. Anybody listening, don't touch Travis' butt. Jesus Christ. Alright, Travis, you have a good one. Alright, The Breakfast Club, good morning. The Breakfast Club. Hey guys, I'm Kate Max. You might know All right. The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. That's what my podcast, Post Run High, is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. You know that rush of endorphins you feel after a great workout?

Well, that's when the real magic happens. So if you love hearing real, inspiring stories from the people you know, follow, and admire, join me every week for Post Run High. It's where we take the conversation beyond the run and get into the heart of it all. It's lighthearted, pretty crazy, and very fun. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. So y'all, this is Questlove, and I'm here to tell you about a new podcast I've been working on with the Story Pirates and John Glickman called Historical Records. It's a family-friendly

podcast. Yeah, you heard that right. A podcast for all ages. One you can listen to and enjoy with your kids starting on September 27th. I'm going to toss it over to the host of Historical Records, Nimany, to tell you all about it. Make sure you check it out. Hey, y'all. Nimany here. I'm the host of a brand-new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop.

Flash, slam, another one gone. Bash, bam, another one gone. Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop. Each episode is about a different inspiring figure from history. Like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing. Check it. Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records because in order to make history, you have to make some noise. Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Dani Shapiro,

host of the hit podcast, Family Secrets. How would you feel if when you met your biological father for the first time, he didn't even say hello? And how would you feel if your doctor advised you to keep your life-altering medical procedure a secret from everyone? And what if your past itself was a secret and the time had suddenly come to share that past with your child? These are just a few of the powerful and profound questions we'll be asking on our 11th season of Family Secrets. Some of you have been with us since season one, and others are just tuning in. Whatever the case, and wherever you are, thank you for being part of our Family Secrets family, where every week we explore the secrets that are kept from us,

the secrets we keep from others, and the secrets we keep from ourselves. Listen to Season 11 of Family Secrets on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, what's up? This is Ramses Jha. And I go by the name Q Ward. And we'd like you to join us each week for our show, Civic Cipher. That's right. We're going to discuss social issues, especially those that affect Black and Brown people, but in a way that informs and empowers all people to hopefully create better allies. Think of it as

a Black show for non-Black people. We discuss everything from prejudice to politics to police violence, and we try to give you the tools to create positive change in your home, workplace, and social circle. Exactly. Whether you're Black, Asian, White, Latinx, Indigenous, LGBTQIA+, you name it.

If you stand with us, then we stand with you. Let's discuss the stories and conduct the interviews that will help us create a more empathetic, accountable, and equitable America. You are all our brothers and sisters, and we're inviting you to join us for Civic Cipher each and every Saturday with myself, Ramses Jha, Q Ward, and some of the greatest

minds in America. Listen to Civic Cipher every Saturday on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey there, my little creeps. It's your favorite ghost host, Teresa. And guess what? Haunting is back, dropping just in time for

spooky season. Now, I know you've probably been wandering the mortal plane, wondering when I'd be back to fill your ears with deliciously unsettling stories. Well, wonder no more, because we've got a ghoulishly good lineup ready for you. Let's just say things get a bit extra. We're talking spirits, demons, and the kind of supernatural chaos that'll make your spooky season complete. You know how much I love this time of year. It's the one time I'm actually on trend.

So grab your pumpkin spice, dust off that Ouija board. Just don't call me unless it's urgent. And tune in for new episodes every week. Remember, the veils are thin, the stories are spooky, and your favorite ghost host is back and badder than ever. Listen to Haunting on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angel Lee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. We got a special guest be the same. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy Angelique. Charlamagne Tha Guy.

We are The Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building. She done got so much money. And, you know, she about to be on season three of her talk show. Emmy nominated. Miss Pat is here. Yay. So glad to be back.

Good morning, Miss Pat. How are you? I'm fine. How do you feel? How does success feel? It feels damn good. Well, first of all, congratulations on the Emmy nomination. Thank you. Thank you. That came out of nowhere. You know, that's the first season.

BET has never had a nomination for an Emmy before, so that really came out. They've never been nominated. They don't even put themselves... I don't even think they get out there like that, I guess. But it was the first one for B.E.T. Damn. I was listening to your Pat Down podcast, and you were saying how you fall asleep when you go out all the time.

And you fell asleep at whose party was it? Norman? Norman Lear's birthday party. And he turned 100. I'm like, how the hell are you still awake? It's 930 here, man. Man, I was so sleepy. Jordan kept waking me up. He was like, Pat, the TV. I said, man, I don't give a damn. I'm like, how the hell are you still awake? It's 930 here, man. Man, I was so sleepy. Jordan kept waking me up.

He was like, Pat, the TV. I said, man, I don't give a damn. I'm sleeping. Well, I love to see all the success. I heard you talking about going to Emmy parties and actually going to the Emmys and how incredible that was for you. I was just excited. You little old girl from the west end of Atlanta, and I'm sitting here at the damn Emmy.

But you know, they was talking about me. I gotta say something about you. Some bitches talking about me. They said I look like the Game of Thrones cook in my dress. I've never seen it so I don't know what that means. That sounds funny. You know those big gals on the Game of Thrones. They're like, you look like a cook. I said, you're a bald head

mammy. The Miss Pat show had received 100% rating on Rotten Tomatoes. Yes, yes. Damn. People finally has a mama that's not perfect. Ain't nobody mama perfect. You know, your mama go home.

You remember back in the day, did your mama ever tell you to unbuckle her bra? No. What? Your mama ain't got no tits like me? No. No, she don't. People who mama got big old tits boy take my bra off i'm hot

i've been trying to get out this today all my kids i'm butting my bra okay i can't get in my bra by myself i'm on 44h but you know what about your show though i will say this you know what? About your show, though, I will say this. You know, while it is a comedy, it is some real issues on there. And I know for you, it's semi-autobiographical. And so what are some things that you learned about yourself? Because sometimes you reflect on, you know, things that happened when you were younger and your childhood and you didn't realize how much of an impact it has on your life now. That show made me do a lot of forgiving. There was a lot of stories that I wanted to tell. I thought i wanted to tell that i thought i didn't have feelings

behind it like the black hair episode i don't know if you saw that don't touch my hair on that one i had my natural hair out and it took a lot because i was like john i don't know what if i got them that bad as hell but that was the whole point of saying how is so much pain behind black women hair because the first person tell your hair is up for a lot of us is our mama shut your never had ass down and it's that it was just what was done to them so you get in between they lay and they pull your hair and it's painful and then they braid it and the hot comb the hot comb and a lot of pain was came through that black hair so i wanted to do do that. And we did it. And so many women thanked me for it.

Do you feel like you'll wear your natural hair more often now? Hell no. I'm tender-headed. I ain't been wearing that shit. And I got a coma. Can you imagine me picking out afro? And I be pissing on myself. F*** me.

You be peeing on yourself. That idiot ain't that old, Miss Pat. F*** you, Maya. I had a lot of children. I told you. I told my company, I tell you, mind your goddamn business. You don't know nothing about no 50-year-old. If you do got one at home, she ain't going to tell you the truth about it.

Now, look. You know you could get that vaginal rejuvenation. I don't want no vaginal rejuvenation. I've been f***ing since sixth grade. This vagina is closed. I don't need no tight vagina. That's for you. Not for you. That's for these hoes out here that don't need no tight vagina. That's for you, not for you.

That's for these hoes out here that ain't got no man. My husband take my slot and we go to bed together. So hold on, do you tell him that it's pee or does he think he really getting you this excited? The pee doing the day. What the wrong with you, Charlotte? You're pissed a little bit during the day when you cough and sneeze and your eyes run. And you laugh a lot. Yeah, so yeah.

I got on panty line enough. You laughing at lot. So I know. Yeah, so yeah. I got on the panty line enough. You laughing at me. You want to help me change it? You need it. I don't know. You need it. I'm going to f*** like a championship belt buckle. Like the big s*** after Troy. I refuse to get in them f***ing depends.

So I'm going to use panty. I don't give a f***. I got to keep adding to them so I'm gonna use I don't give a I gotta keep adding to them I saw I also know you said certain episodes you would get in your car and cry because it was very emotional for you to unpack some things what do you think was the most emotional episode for you so it was the black hair

episode well you know the first season the whole fight with me and Tammy at the end that was very tough but they have one where I did this year about my mama's boyfriend molested me and to say his name and to relive those moments that was the night

I rode home and I kind of felt like I won like I did with the baby daddy episode and just to let the world get to see that people and I kind of felt like I won, like I did with the Baby Daddy episode. And just to let the world get to see that, people really appreciate it. You know, I never seen that episode. Wow.

But a lot of people write to me about that episode. That and the black hair episode, two of the most episodes I get wrote about. Not the abortion episode? Oh, God, I forgot about the abortion episode. You had an abortion and you didn't tell your husband? The abortion episode is because that was true to me, too. Not quite to me, but

I've known women my age get an abortion. I've had a few abortions. And people get abortion while they're married. Because it was before the Roe vs. Wade, too. To let you know, just because I say I do, don't mean you own my f***ing body. If I get I do, don't mean you own my body. If I get pregnant and I don't want to have a baby, you should respect me.

Especially at an age of 50. You know, you older, you just can't. When I had my first child, you know, my pop down like a can good. I was at school the next day. I can't have no baby like that. You can't even hold pee, you said. Shut the fuck up. It's a big difference.

Well, you about right. So, my f***ing baby walking down the street with me with an umbilical cord. Like a doll. But you right about that. All right, we got more with comedian Miss Pat. When we come back, don't move. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning.

The Breakfast Club. Hey, guys. I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast, Post Run High, is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories,

their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. You know that rush of endorphins you feel after a great workout? Well, that's when the real magic happens. So if you love hearing real, inspiring stories from the people you know, follow and admire, join me every week for post run high. It's where we take the conversation

beyond the run and get into the heart of it all. It's lighthearted, pretty crazy and very fun. Listen to post run high on the I heart radio Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. So, y'all, this is Questlove, and I'm here to tell you about a new podcast I've been working on with the Story Pirates and John Glickman called Historical Records. It's a family-friendly podcast. Yeah, you heard that right. A podcast for all ages. One you can listen to and enjoy with your kids starting on September 27th. I'm going to toss it over to the host of Historical Records,

Nimany, to tell you all about it. Make sure you check it out. Hey, y'all. Nimany here. I'm the host of a brand new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop. Flash, slam, another one gone. Bash, bam, another one gone.

The crack of the bat and another one gone. The tip of the cap, there's another one gone. Each episode is about a different, inspiring figure from history, like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing. Check it.

And it began with me Did you know, did you know I wouldn't give up my seat Nine months before Rosa It was Claudette Colvin Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise.

Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Dani Shapiro, host of the hit podcast, Family Secrets. How would you feel if when you met your biological father for the first time, he didn't even say hello? And how would you feel if your doctor advised you to keep your life-altering medical procedure a secret from everyone? And what if your past itself was a secret and the time had suddenly come to share that past with your child? These are just a few of the powerful and profound questions we'll be asking on our 11th season of Family Secrets. Some of you have been with us since season one, and others are just tuning in. Whatever the case, and wherever you are,

thank you for being part of our Family Secrets family, where every week we explore the secrets that are kept from us the secrets we keep from others and the secrets we keep from ourselves listen to season 11 of family secrets on the iHeartRadio app apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts hey what's up this is Ramses Jha and I go by the name Q Ward and we'd like you to join us each week for our show Civic Cipher that's right right. We're going to discuss social issues, especially those that affect black and brown people, but in a way that informs and empowers all people to hopefully create better allies. Think of it as a black show for non-black people. We discuss everything from prejudice to politics to police violence,

and we try to give you the tools to create positive change in your home, workplace, and social circle. Exactly. Whether you're Black, Asian, White, Latinx, Indigenous, LGBTQIA+, you name it. If you stand with us, then we stand with you. Let's discuss the stories and conduct the interviews that will help us create a more empathetic, accountable, and equitable America. You are all our brothers and sisters, and we're inviting you to join us for Civic Cipher each and every Saturday with myself, Ramses Jha, Q Ward, and some of the greatest minds in America. Listen to Civic Cipher every Saturday on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey there, my little creeps. It's your favorite ghost host, Teresa. And guess what? Haunting is back, dropping just in time for spooky season. Now, I know you've probably been wandering the mortal plane, wondering when I'd be back to fill your ears with deliciously unsettling stories.

Well, wonder no more, because we've got a ghoulishly good lineup ready for you. Let's just say things get a bit extra. We're talking spirits, demons And the kind of supernatural chaos That'll make your spooky season complete You know how much I love this time of year It's the one time I'm actually on trend So grab your pumpkin spice

Dust off that Ouija board Just don't call me unless it's urgent And tune in for new episodes every week Remember The veils are thin The stories are spooky, and your favorite ghost host is back and badder than ever.

Listen to Haunting on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with Miss Pat, Charlamagne. See, that's a whole episode.

And that's funny. Yeah. And it's real. Yes. We can't run from what's funny and what's real, man. You cannot run. And I think it's good when people feel uncomfortable. And we're not here to preach.

You know how you get a black show and people want to show white America how shit is? No, we just a black show and people want to show white America is no we just a black family I'm showing you what we went through and hopefully you can relate to what we were what we went when we going through I never grew up around a perfect person in my life And I never understood where we got to this point in society where everybody got to pretend to be perfect That's not real ain't nobody perfect Like I tell people all time babies come out ugly if it were If it were perfect, them motherfuckers would be born beautiful. That's right. How many of your kids

was ugly? Well, don't say that because you got to go home. I'll say a couple came out looking like me and I was concerned at first. I got two grandkids. One of them motherfuckers ugly as fuck. He look like he smoke weed. He look like a drug dealer. He ugly as fuck. Five now? Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

I mean, when they was born, they was the type of f*** that you did not hang up they baby pictures. It's still in the drawer. Man, you gotta stop, Ms. Fat. But you, I'm lying. I don't know. I ain't never seen him. Well, I'm telling you. You go on my Facebook page like, damn, he look like he 45. He's five.

Who child that is? That's my son. Okay, okay. And I tell him all the time, but my son was ugly. My son was so f***ing ugly, his hairline started behind his ears, so I would just keep the little s*** in his face. Yeah, no,

you ain't got no hair. Damn. You need that. Don't look so disgusted and shocked, Ms. Pat. Why you letting the s*** grow back? I'm not.

I'm getting a haircut tomorrow. I'm f***ing his haircut. S***. S***. You got that LeBron back. I'm not. I'm getting a haircut tomorrow. He needs a haircut. S***. S***. You got that LeBron James change. James change. And you know, you get a haircut.

During the pandemic, he was putting Monistat 7 on his head trying to grow his hair back. Charlamagne had this whole plan. No, I did. Tiffany Haddish had me doing the damn Monistat 7. What the f*** is Monistat 7?

I don't know. She said it was Monistat and something else. That's discharge medication. Yeah, for yeast infections. He was putting s*** in it. It was Monistat 7. What the f*** is Monistat 7? I don't know. She said if you use Monistat and something melts. That's discharge medication. Yeah, for yeast infections. He was putting s*** in it. It was Monistat and something melts. You would rub on your head.

Castor oil. Did you believe that s***? It was during COVID. I ain't had nothing else to do. Did it work? No. No. I'm surprised you didn't get an itch.

I ain't Monistat 7 for you f***ing doing your lips, is it? F***, you can't believe all that old s***. That's just like ginger ale cured gonorrhea. No people feeling, dude. Ginger ale ain't never cured no gonorrhea. Well, that's what old people tell you.

Oh, okay. Well, dip your d*** in ginger ale. Ginger ale is for stomach aches. Yeah. Ginger ale and crackers. And that's what gonorrhea gives you, your stomach ache. Yeah.

And they be telling you, go just dip your d*** in some ginger ale. What? You remember walking in the bathroom taking a bath with some bleach made your vagina tight? I never had that. What? You see somebody putting their d*** in the gingerbread they can't find a sock that's what that is

but you never heard of taking a bath with bleach clean your vagina you heard of anybody say put used vinegar I heard vinegar bleach did the same thing fabuloso oh no I'm kidding let's get Miss Pat out of here because she don't get a season 4 Fabuloso. Damn. Fabuloso. Oh, no, I'm kidding. Oh, like, tied too.

Let's get Miss Pat out of here for she don't get a season four. Okay? I don't get a season four. You damn right you are. I don't get a season four. I got shit to do. And you back on the road. I think I saw you gonna be at Caroline's.

I'm gonna be at Caroline's here next month. You know, Jordan is going to Broadway with his play. I saw that, yeah. Yeah, and no more is going to Broadway. Y'all gotta go see it. I went to go see the Michael Jackson last night. That shit was so goddamn good. I saw that. That was amazing. I did not going to Broadway. Y'all got to go see it. I went to go see the Michael Jackson last night. That was so goddamn good. I saw that.

That was amazing. I did not want to go. I'm going to stay in your bitch. I don't pay no goddamn three on the number to play. I was like, wait a minute. I'm coming back with everybody tomorrow. This is good. That's why you didn't want to go because of the price?

Yeah. Now, come on. Look. I'm a movie ticket bitch. Okay? They're Broadway for a whole type of different versus $8 and you sneak your snacks in. You're $300 and you ain't gonna want to eat.

I've seen a bad play too. For $200 and I didn't want to eat. I was mad at him. I was joking. Give me my goddamn money back. What play was it? I ain't gonna say. It's the Jordan play. That's the one where he sent all the black people on the plane. I saw that back in the day. It's the Jordan play. That's the one where he sent all the black people on the plane. Yeah, he sent them on the plane. I saw that back in the day. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

But it's on Broadway. Wow. It's going to Broadway. That's a huge deal. Damn, Jordan coming up. That's good, man. I'm happy for both of y'all, man. Thank you.

That's my ride or die. Word. Give me your website, Ms. Pat, so they can buy tickets for your tour. MsPatComedy.com. That's MsPatComedy.com. And also, you can pick up some merch. And I want to shout out my crack babies, because I'm throwing my fans an appreciation party in Atlanta.

It's called the Crackdown with the Pat Down. OK. So I want to shout them out on the breakfast. What is that party like? Oh, I pay for everything. I just invited 450 fans, and we're going to have a party in Atlanta, Georgia. That's dope, man. We didn't pay for everything, but she was complaining about $300 for a ticket.

Look at that. I'm going to have a good time at my party. I don't know what this play going to be, but y'all going to see Michael Jackson because it was awesome.

It was amazing. When it was over last night, the cast was like, hey, Ms. Pat. I said, who the f*** are they talking to? He's like, they talking to you. I said,

these niggas don't know me. The whole cast knew who I was. They watched the show. Wow. And make sure y'all watch the Ms. Pat show on BET+. Make sure you check out Ms. Pat on tour. I'm going to come see you watch the show. Wow. And make sure y'all watch the Miss Pat show on BET+. Make sure you check out Miss Pat on tour. I'm going to come see you at Caroline's.

You said that last time. I did come. No, you ain't never came to see me. Yes, I have come to see you at Caroline. You come to see all the other black female comedians. And I'm going to put you on the spot. You ain't never came to see me. But you're welcome to come see me.

And I appreciate that. I swear I came to one of your shows. You came to another fat bitch. What other fat bitch? No, it wasn't. Because I knew. Because I don't know if she's still your agent from UTA, Jackie. That was Tiffany Haddish you saw. She wasn't Jackie yours too, though?

Jackie is not my agent. She was before I got. So that was wrong. And Tiffany is skinny. So that was not me. That was not me. Well, I'm coming this time. Well, I'm going to hold you to it.

I'm coming. And if you don't, I'm going to. I'm coming. I promise. You got my word. Word is born coming and if you don't I'm coming I promise you got my word word is born I'll be there what's the date so people know Caroline she don't know that's why you

misspat.com misspat.com I don't know but it's in November come see me when is it the 10th let me look it up real quick when is it

November 10th November the 10th I'm at Caroline's so make sure y'all get y'all tickets now cause this is selling fast November 10th it feels so good to be selling out so make sure y'all get y'all tickets now cause it's selling fast November 10th and it feels so good

to be selling out so make sure y'all get y'all tickets and come see me at Caroline's you hear that weekend it look like it's just a show no I'm here that weekend okay well starting Thursday

November 10th 7pm Miss Pat will be at Caroline's on Broadway I'll be at one of them shows I don't wait till Saturday cause I don't work on Sunday cause I gotta see my family

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Talk about it. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. We're talking about what's your love language. Mine is acts of service. Charlamagne said his is acts of service. Angela Yee, you said yours is?

I said physical touch and acts of service. And they say, like, the caller called last time. That's what we were talking about last night at dinner. Zuri was saying how it goes both ways. So acts of service would be my love language, but that's also what I like to receive from other people. Same thing, you know, words of affirmation. I need words of affirmation from my family,

especially my wife, my daughters. I need those words of affirmation. And I like to give those as well, because that's something I didn't receive, I feel like, enough when I was a child. Yeah, but acts of service, like I said, for me, I like to do for people. Like I like to do for my wife, for my family, for my friends. Like I said, even with my daughter, today's her birthday.

I like to do the things that I just want to see them smile. But when it turns around, I don't like acts of service. Oh, no, I do. I do it for everybody. So sometimes I feel like I'll handle that. That's one thing I can handle. The reason I do is because I feel like acts of service should be contagious. You know what I'm saying?

So I like to see other people doing acts of service for other people. To me, that's how you like when I always have these conversations about how we rely on each other to keep each other safe. Like the only thing we can rely on is human behavior. If all of us were approached the world as if we were in service to each other, oh my god the world would be a better place. And now, he likes touch. Yes, I like physical touch. I'm affectionate only with my man though. Hello, who's this?

Hey y'all, this is Lady T. How y'all doing this morning? Hey Lady T. How you feeling? I'm feeling great honey, I'm awake. What's your love language mama? My love language is touching and feeling. Okay. Okay?

And it's very important that you have to learn yours and your partner's love language. Because, okay, for example, the person I'm dating now, his is gifting. His emotional status is dead. Right. So, it's hard for him to, like, he doesn't like to be touched, nor does he like to give it. So, it's just like a conflict. So if you don't know your love language and your partner's, it could be a big deal breaker, and people don't realize that.

Some people do think that, like, in place of affection and time and all of that, they can give you gifts. Nah. Right. Yes. That's exactly how he is, too, because he's always saying, there's a time and a place for that. The best gifts are the thoughtful ones.

Correct. You know what I'm saying? When a person remembers, you know, what your favorite color is, or when a person remembers, you know, what your favorite Marvel character is, like little things like that is what makes those gifts extra special. Absolutely. You know what, you're right, and he is like that. He is very, very thoughtful, and I think that's why we're still going.

Because I try to reframe myself back from touching him when he doesn't. You know, I respect his time and place aspect of things. But when he gifts me or whatever, it's very thoughtful. So I'm like, okay. All right. I can still deal with you. All right. Now, let me ask you a question, Yee.

Now, what is it? Like, I'm looking at this. Like, my love language is right. I love to ask for service language is right now i love to to access service that's what i love to do but receive i like i like kind of all of them i like words of affirmation i like quality time i like receiving gifts that's that's the one that's and i love access service and i like physical touch you know i will say this though and this nick hannon had a point about this he was saying time, that's a difficult one for him to be able to do.

Why? And because he's really busy with all his different jobs, and then he does have a lot of different children and mothers of his kids, and his time is divided all over the place. But it's still quality time. And they did say, according to the psychotherapist, that's the hardest one. So for him, I guess that's the lowest on his list of his love languages. But you got to think

a lot of, quality time to one person might be different to another person. That's what I'm saying. I don't even know what quality time means because I know

I'm going to be, when I'm laying on the couch with my kids, that's quality time. You know what I'm saying? But some people might feel like, well, we need to go somewhere. We need to do something.

We need to plan things. That's my biggest quality time. It just depends on how you guys are aligned when it comes to that. That's my favorite thing to do. Lay in bed with my wife and watch this nonsense on television, just cuddling and talking.

That's my favorite. That's how I got into Bachelor and Bachelorette and all them stupid shows. You lay in bed and watch together. I know some people who feel like, well, I'm home all day taking care of this with the kids.

And then you come home and you're exhausted from working or haven't been traveling or doing those things and now you don't want to do anything. I don't want to just lay in the house. And so for them, that might not be quality time. That's why sometimes things aren't aligned. That's the best thing ever. There's nothing better

than laying on the couch with your family watching Encanto for the thousandth time. For me and you. That's for me and you. That's for you guys, but not for everybody. I love it. You talk about what's a great weekend. Yeah, I do my shows and I DJ, but laying on the couch or laying in that bed with the kids

and they telling me stories about whatever. Being at home doing nothing. I love planning a trip. I don't get a lot of vacation time or time to do things other than work. And so for me, it's like, okay, if we know we going somewhere in July, that's really exciting for me, it's like, okay, if we know we're going somewhere in July, that's really exciting for me.

That's like real quality time for me because now we can leave everything behind. I don't have to work. I don't have to answer those emails. That's exciting. Everybody's version of quality is different. That's all. All right, well, what's the moral of the story,

if there is a moral? The moral of the story is you should find your love language. I found this conversation very fascinating last night because, I mean, I've always heard about love languages, but we had a really in-depth conversation about it at dinner last night, man. And, you know, happy born day to the homies Zuri Hall once again. The Breakfast Club. The Breakfast Club.

Your mornings will never be the same. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. We got some special guests in the building. Come on. You got to do better than that. There you go.

Come on now. Come on. Come on now. Come on now. Come on now. Come on now. Turn it up. It's Jasmine God.

Word up. I got to start like this. Okay. now. Turn it up. It's Jasmine Giles. Word. I'm going to start like this. Okay. This is a fun fact. Okay. The reason I went to Hampton University was because of me watching A Different World. Wow. How many times did y'all hear that?

At least half a dozen, dozen a week. Word. Did you graduate? I sure did. You can go. That's not many years. Five years. That's all right.

That's okay, baby. I'm proud of you. Consistence overcomes resistance. My first celebrity picture I ever took with was with Kadeem Hardison. Wow. I'm going to host it tomorrow. We were in the airport tomorrow. That's awesome.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Glad to be here. I know this might be an odd question, but do y'all know what y'all mean to just people? The culture.

Black people. It's becoming more and more apparent as we get older. At first, no. It's very moving to me now. But at the time, both of us were, you know, we were from New York. We used to hustling. We had just done school days.

We were kind of like, now what? Now what? And I don't know that we knew how the show was resonating with our people because we were not. I wasn't around my people. I was in L.A. and I went from Melrose to the Valley and back to Melrose and the only people I hung out with were them. Wow. You had to know the impact.

You know, so I wasn't hearing it. I wasn't seeing it and coming from theater, you know when you hit, when you land, you know when you are having a communication. And what has been amazing to me is that, you know, we were always trying to make things better, make things more believable, have more depth or content.

So we weren't really looking at what was landing. I wasn't, you know, because when we talked actor to actor, Kadeem and I really worked hard on that relationship. Because if you look at the first season and the second season, I was like, I don't know why Whitley would like Dwayne. I was older. They had him playing the goofy guy. And now she's dreaming about him

I would have been dreaming about some seniors or a teacher or two that I would like to cast How much input did you both have in some of the topics and themes that were on A Different World because you guys did cover a lot of real life things

that you didn't see anywhere else The first season I was there to be the snotty bitch and he was there to be the goofy dude. We were very clear. You know, what Debbie did was she made our characters deeper and more realistic. She snatched all the weaves out of my hair, even though I have one on.

Come on, girl. Okay. She was like, she came into the pitch, snatched all the weaves out of my hair even though I have one on. Come on, girl. She was like, she came into the pit, she was like, oh darling, where's the hot sauce? She made it because she went to Howard. And what is the difference of going to a black college or

a big university? Because you are loved, you are nurtured, you are part of a neighborhood. Mm-hmm. They don't want you to fail. They not gonna let you fail. Right. And that came through

in the way she worked with us, you know, and she gave us a voice. We couldn't give notes that first year. No, no. We were just worried about, are they gonna call us back?

They were firing people. Left and right. Also, the show shifted, though, because it wasn't the show sitting around Lisa Bonet the first season, but then she didn't come back for the second season. So I'm sure that made all of y'all have to be the stars now, basically.

Yeah, well, I thought that the show just wasn't going to come back because she is and was the star of that show, you know? And our characters, at least mine, was based on her. And I didn't understand that structural change in putting us together when we really didn't have even that much to do. But we knew each other.

And I said, you know, first of all, I'm like his big sister. So it felt a little incestuous. Although he did say he had a crush on you back then when he first met you. You don't have to. You know, I was young. I was grown. My men were like 30 years old. You know what I'm saying?

She wasn't checking for me. You don't see that as a possibility. But the thing was, we were friends. And we did have good communication. We could talk. I had better communication with him than most of my relationships. Yeah.

Yeah, yeah. There was no pressure. Yeah, it's honest. Yeah, it's honest. I was going to ask, was it difficult to stay on TV? Because at the time, there was nothing like this on television. I thought the first season was difficult.

I really took the job expecting maybe we'd get six or eight episodes, and then they'd go back to New York. Wow. I'd become a movie star. Why did the show end, though? I remember it had so much impact. Oh, I remember that.

In 93, y'all went on hiatus and it just never came back. I was like, what? That's what happened, man. I think it was once we had Jesse on, we were doing a lot of controversial stuff. The Riot show. Yeah, there was some stuff

that maybe the network wasn't as thrilled about. It was a lot of battles back and forth with Debbie and trying to make it current and relevant. And it was like, yeah, let's just have the romance and the chase and the that kind of stuff. Every deep show that we did, she fought for. It was a battle.

It was a battle with the network. Them white boys did not care about date rape, apartheid, riot, HIV, okay? They were like, just put Whitley and Dwayne and be funny. So y'all didn't even see it coming then? I saw it coming. We saw it coming because you know, you treating us like monkeys and we not monkeys.

We not doing your word, we doing our word. And the power that we had, they diminished. I felt diminished because they always said, but you come between Cosby and Cheers. I said, but people can change the channel. They don't have to watch this show. Yeah. I just felt like we were always on our own. I never felt a part of that Hollywood system. Like, I would watch Roseanne Bard singing the anthem at a Padre game. We got five singers in our cast. Wow. And we number two.

Wow. That's crazy. So I always felt the exclusion. And I never felt a part of that whole, you get Emmys and awards. Y'all never got nominated or nothing? Never invited to the show. Wow. That's okay.

You can't put too much clout into that shit anyway. You got to know who you are and where you belong. And that was my family. That was my company. But, you know, they used to ask me to do stuff for NBC, like parades and shit, and say happy birthday to Cheers. I said, why am I saying happy birthday to them? They don't even have no black people on their show.

Were y'all ever scared that y'all were going to be stuck in character, like that everybody always looked at you as Dwayne or, you know, always looked at you as Whitley? You know, were y'all ever scared of that? Getting typecast. That typecast, yeah. 100%. I knew that as soon as it was over, well, I thought that I should have did four years and graduated, and maybe a fifth year

to transition into new cast members, new freshmen. And then they should have did four, five, and transit. So in my eyes, the show should have never ended. It should still be on now, not reruns. Oh, yeah, because it could be, yeah, like how it could be, like grown-ups could have been in a different world. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It could just always go on because there'll always be kids in college

and there'll always be something to talk about. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with Kadeem Hardison and Jasmine Guy. Of course, a different world alumni, Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy, We Are The Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with Kadeem Hardison and Jasmine Guy. Of course, a different world alumni, Yee. What about Marissa Tomei, right, as the one white character on the show? Yeah.

Was that something that you feel like they said, we got to put a white person, you know, on the show? Well, we came on after that, and I never understood it not being addressed. And I actually wrote an episode, and I brought it to Susan and it was addressing. Well, she goes to a dance and she asked this boy to, you know, dance with her. And he was like, you know, I ain't dancing with no white girl. You trying to, you know, she comes back and she says, I never thought about it. She said, well, why did you why did you come to Hellman?

Because they have the best journalism department in Virginia. And they told me they're not addressing the white person at the black school issue. Wow. Why? You know something? I don't know why

because it was so obvious. It's the weirdest thing to this day. When I went to Hampton and it was white kids walking around campus, it was just weird. I wanted to be like, why? It would be interesting to see what that experience for them was like, though, like you said, to this point. Way more interesting.

Especially when we carrying eggs around. We carrying eggs around like they're babies. I'm like, what? Are we getting ready to drink? Yeah, listen, we are celebrating, y'all. You see we got the balloons in the back that say Hillman. I'm sorry. I'm embarrassed by the champagne they got, but we

not on no damn budget. You sure got the eggs. I like this Hillman. Oh, look at that. Oh, yes. I really went to Hampton. I really went to Hampton. That's why that says Hampton up there.

I really went to Hampton. Congratulations. We got Hillman up there. You know, flowers for you. Oh, my goodness I really went to Hampton. I really went to Hampton. That's why that says Hampton up there. I really went to Hampton. Congratulations. We got Hilman up there. You know, flowers for you. Oh, my goodness. There you go. Thank you, Charlamagne. Kadeem, my brother, flowers for you.

That's so awesome. You got to give people their flowers, right? Yeah, while they're still in school. So why not give them to them literally? Thank you. My flowers. That is so nice. I'm very embarrassed by the champagne.

I'm sorry. I can't believe they would do that. Well, let me try it. I'll let you know. That is so nice I'm very embarrassed By the champagne I'm sorry I can't believe They would do that Well let me try it I'll let you know So Jasmine Back to you though

When you said You wrote that episode You also directed Some episodes right Did you direct Episodes too Yeah yeah yeah I directed

The Tupac episode Wow So did they come to you Or were you Did you guys We want to direct I think it's cause I brushed my teeth?

It's trash. It's trash. It's trash. Right now, I'm a drinker, though. Oh, I would. Y'all do that. Give her some tequila. It's a spades. All I need to be called made sure that it doesn't need to be cold. I'm sorry. He's trying to talk. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. You guys are concerned about champagne.

They drunk already. Jesus Christ. I'm going to have one sip. It's going to upset us. Charlamagne, people have me nervous about being on this show. I was like, is he like Howard Stern? Like, what is the problem? Yeah, he was the boogeyman.

Because I have seen you. Really? I thought he was the boogeyman. I've seen you interviewed. Mm-hmm. But I haven't seen you. I hadn't seen the show. So I go on YouTube, and I'm watching it.

And I'm friends with Amanda Seales. Oh, that's family. Yes, you know. And I was like, okay, what's the problem? Like, what can we talk about that's going to be so horrible? Nothing. Nothing. That's all.

I was talking about directing and Debbie Allen. So directing, when it came to directing and writing, Debbie made us put it in our contracts that we had. We got to direct an episode or two. Wow. Or write per season. How does she know that? How does she know that's something that y'all would want to do?

The more you do, the less they can tell you you can't do. Wow. How much of Whitley Gilbert was really you? I know what wasn't me. I know politically I had a lot of issues with what I had to say, but I knew that there was somebody on this show that was going to say the right thing. When you're the only black person in a white cast, you have to say all the right things. But when I was Whitley and I have him and Charlie and Craig and Daryl,

you know, I was like, well, somebody, somebody because this what I'm about to say, when I said to Sharnell, Kimberly Reese, it was our apartheid show and she was going to give up her scholarship because they were divesting. I said, but I only know you. I don't even know those people. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. My first scene with Lisa Bonet in the

room, she's like, are you saying you parked in the handicap? I said, why should I be punished because I can walk? I was like, oh, this bitch. As long as it's funny. You mentioned a Tupac episode.

I know both of you guys were close with Tupac or cool with Tupac. So how did those relationships happen? For me, I was just directing them that week. Jasmine. Oh, see, there you go. That's the better one. Oh, yeah. That's 50s.

Okay, cool. All right. Thank you. I'll throw that other shit out, Miss Guy. Don't worry about it. That's 50s. Okay, cool. All right. I'm great. Thank you. I'll throw that other shit out, Miss God. Don't worry about it. I don't know. Cold duck.

I don't know what the fuck that is. The cold duck. Come on, Whitney. That merlot. I'm not really a champagne person. We upgrade a little bit. Oh, God. Back to mine.

Yeah. Yeah, I just got to direct them. I was fortunate. Jada said he wanted to do this show, and he was excited. And I know emcees, rappers, and I know how they can f*** off some time. So I was real nervous. Like, this is my first week directing. I was like, is he going to show?

Because I've messed around trying to do a video with Dirty, and showed got your money yes I remember that because yes and then actually because I was working with them at the time he actually came and did a video that he was on for jizza and they wouldn't let it come out the label went clear dirty because he didn't show up to his own video. Yes. I was down there waiting six, seven hours. So, yeah, so I was just nervous as my first directing gig. Just like, okay, I just hope he's... And once he came, he was... I always thought, it's not a hot take, but I always thought he was probably going to be a better actor.

Than rapper? Than rapper, yeah. I wanted to ask y'all, man, you know, I often feel spoiled because I'm 44 so you know like in the mid 80s we saw black sitcoms like the Jeffersons

and different strokes but then you know the Cosby's came and 227's and different worlds but I feel like all of that just came to an abrupt end

like towards the end of the 90s number one do you think that was the renaissance for black TV and do you think there was something

bigger at play to stop all of those positive images of black people on TV? It only seems that. Like, if it walks like a duck and it quacks like a duck, I don't have any evidence to support it, except for the optics.

So, yeah, I do think it was... Come on with it. Go, this guy. Come on with it. Our last season, number two, number one sometimes. Yep. Cause me a different world. For five, six, seven years.

Okay. Why would you change our time slot? And why would you put us against Martin? Wow. I definitely took that personally. You ain't got but two black shows

on the networks and you put us at the same time against each other. And what have we done? What have we done to deserve this kind of disservice? You know, we're not competing with Martin. We come on at 830. They come on at eight.

Why did you move us? That was detriment. Was that because Cosby show ended? And then they put y'all up at 8 because Cosby was the lead in? Yep. Okay. So that could have been it. Just put another 8 o'clock show in. It probably wasn't anything strong enough.

We weren't strong enough to hold another time slot. And not against Martin. I feel like we have the same audience. And so what do white people do? Divide. That's right. So yes, I do feel like we have the same audience. And so what do white people do? Divide. That's right.

That's right. So, yes, I do feel like it was deliberate. I feel like it was racist. I know who was running NBC at the time. And I don't feel we were respected. They always said y'all came between Cosby and Cheers. And that's why you're number two. They said that to my face. They said it'all came between Cosby and Cheers, and that's why you're number two. They said that to my face.

They said it to mine. So they thought it was because of the network that these shows were having all the success. Because of the time slot. That time slot. Because between one and three, we got to be two. Got you. All right, we got more with Kadeem Hardison and Jasmine Guy when we come back.

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DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy, we are The Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with Kadeem Hardison and Jasmine Guy. Of course, a different world alumni. Did they pay y'all like y'all wanted to? Did y'all get paid or did y'all have to fight for that? We had to fight for that. I went and did

White Man Can't Jump. Can I have another champagne? Here we go. Give us some of the good stuff. I went and did White Man Can't Jump. We'll have to call Doug. And met Woody Harrelson. And he was doing cheers. And, you know, he kind of let me in on what he was making.

I was like, and y'all number three. What? Damn. But I'm confused about that because you had Bill Cosby who already had so much success. Why wouldn't he give that game to the spinoff show, the cast of the spinoff show? He purposely had us shoot in California away from him. I don't think he wanted to have to shoulder it. Run to the show. Yeah, he was running this.

This was it. Boom, y'all go over here and work that out. And then when it wasn't working to the way I think we all wanted, called with Debbie and said, Miss Thang, get in there and put your broom and clean that up. It seemed like she was a blessing, though. Absolutely. No, no, she was the best thing

that could have happened to us. Let me show you, that show was dead. That show was dead. I thought it was going to get canceled. I really thought it was going to get canceled. Debbie came on that show. You know, she said, where are the dark-skinned people

at this school? I don't know. I just thought that first season, I already had called my parents. I was like, well, I've made $30,000, and I paid off Greg, and I'm paying off my Amex, and I'm going back to my apartment because I thought that was booty. What's the most that you guys got paid during that time? When y'all were number one and number two, what was the most that they paid y'all? back to my apartment because I thought that was booty $250 at the Village game. What? I was a bike messenger. I didn't have any

games. We only had contracts for seven episodes. You didn't know how long it was going to last. They were firing people. You had to sign for six years before you finished your audition. I know, but I went into the producers

and I tried to get my two-week notice. That's right. You tried to quit? I said, I'm very grateful for this opportunity. Because that first season, I'm telling you, it was whack. And I didn't like the way they were

treating Lisa Bonet. Just do it. Just say it. The way they were talking. Pointing all up in her face. And you know, I'm like, that's a sweet girl because you're not getting up on me like that. I didn't interfere on set, but I was like, oh no. Oh no.

You're not treating her like that. She had to have her security. Really? Yeah. So that's why she quit probably. oh no you're not treating her like that she had to hire security really yeah so that's why she quit probably nah because wanted her

to be on cause she was pregnant he didn't want to show black girl pregnant in college what do you think about that I thought it would

have been a great tool it could inspire cause it was all inspiring so why not you know cause that's a real thing you can still go get your education absolutely i've heard so many rumors that i don't know

where what comes from i've heard that he wanted to incorporate it on the show on on our show i've also heard that jesse wanted to um have a single mom because he's from a single mom that went through school. And then I've also heard that it was a network that didn't want to incorporate her wholesome whatever. But first of all, it would have given her something to play. Absolutely. Because I felt like they were always looking for Denise Huxtable. You're not using the meat that she comes from.

You don't know what you're looking at. Because you haven't seen a little black girl like this before. And to give her a baby? There you go. How'd y'all end up getting the money after the conversation with Woody Howson? It was holdout time for me. We held out. Yeah.

As a team or y'all did separately? No, we should have done it together, but we did it separately. But y'all eventually got the money, though. Yeah, yeah. Okay. Yeah, I mean, got some. We got the money. I mean.

I got what Woody was making when I talked to him. Damn. We ended up there. I want to ask y'all about Black Love, right? Because Dwayne and Whitley set the tone for Black Love for what seems like a whole generation. Oh, I thought you meant the show. No.

Have you seen the show, Black Love? Envy was on it. Oh, Envy was on it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Me and my wife was on it. You were? Yeah. I love that show.

See, same joint. Oh, I wish I had seen that show before I got married. See, I want to ask about that, though. Did playing those roles of Dwayne and Whitley teach y'all anything about your own relationships outside of the show? Wow. Ooh-wee.

Good question, Charlamagne. There was some crossover. Sometimes I was having a better relationship that was scripted than in my real life. You know, I got famous during the relationship too and I felt like he was good with me as a dancer in the ensemble but not so good with me being a star and then I again was like well you weren't listening to me you didn't know who I was there's insecurities. So when Dwayne and Whitley got married,

I was breaking up with my boyfriend of five years. Wow. They got to go, guys. I know y'all got to go, but I got to ask this. When you crashed the wedding, you looked very sincere. That's why people feel like what we was watching was real. It was real. You know what I mean?

What did you do to motivate yourself to get into that space to do that? I didn't agree with the whole, like we had done so many real things on the show, so many things that felt real. For me to crash this wedding like this felt like a complete leap. And I read it two weeks before. It was a two-part episode. So I knew for two weeks that I was going to have to get to that place where I had to break up this wedding.

And it was really hard. And one thing I gave myself was, as I'm coming down the aisle, there's a dude on my left. I told him, I said, when you grab me, make sure you get a good grip on my left arm because I'm going to struggle and try to get away. Wow. And as soon as I felt him go to grab me

I gave him a swim move and got out of it and that propelled me forward and and I lost the lyrics like I was so nervous about if I don't get it right the first time it's gonna degrade it's gonna get worse and it's gonna get worse because I'm really having a hard time committing to all of these words. Wow. So once I was getting dragged out and lost the lyric, I panicked and just yelled out, baby, please. Just because I was drowning. I was like, that was an ad-lib. Yeah. And it will never be like that.

That was the first and only take in front of that audience. That audience lost it. Were you aware that he was drowning in the time? No, I was standing there because the audience was screaming too. You know, and I was like, hold it, hold it. I said, baby, please. And then the second, please, was like jazz. Yeah, I knew that was jazz. Because please, baby, it's from school days.

So I was like, oh, okay. I got you, help me. And we are not doing this shit again, okay? Because nothing was like that first day. Nothing. Well, I got to go, guys. Well, 35 years and TV One Uncensored. That's right. Congratulations.

TV One Uncensored on Saturday. On Saturday the 24th. Oh, and I'm on Amazon. There you go. Harlem. Harlem. Oh, I love that show. Yeah, I play Grace Byers' mom. Okay. I'm a Jamaican bitch, so it's funny. You had to learn the pathos?

I played Jamaican many times. Okay, okay, okay. I've been a dance house girl, too. Okay, And then... You had to learn the patois? I played in Jamaica many times. Okay, okay, okay. I've been a dance house girl, too. Okay, hey. I can't make my booty do one at a time. I can't do... I can't do ding, ding, ding. Ding, ding, ding, ding.

I can't do that yet. The Whitney Wine. The Whitney Wine. The Whitney Wine. The Whitney Wine. The Whitney Wine. Yeah, come on. And then I have a movie called The Lady Makers.

It's on Amazon, too. We love y'all and we value y'all. I feel stronger when I'm here. We ain't talking no hip hop, yo. I know. Next time. Please let me come back. Please.

Absolutely. Well, it's the Breakfast Club. Hey, we love y'all. We value y'all. We appreciate y'all. We celebrate y'all always, man. Thank you for every contribution to the culture that y'all have ever made. And it was a pleasure to meet both of you this morning.

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New York. And iHeart Radio Station. Let me put a little bit of the breakfast club up in your lifestyle. DJ Envy. Angela Yee. Charlamagne Tha God. and iHeart Radio Station. It's time for Donkey of the Day. Donkey of the Day does not discriminate. I might not have the song of the day, but I got the Donkey of the Day. So if you ever feel I need to be a donkey, man, hit it with the heat. It's a breakfast club, bitch. Who's Donkey of the Day today? Well, Ed Sheeran, Donkey of the Day goes to the over 40 people who got to scrapping in a Golden Corral last Friday in Bensalem.

That's how you pronounce it, Eddie? Bensalem? Bensalem. Bensalem is right outside of Philadelphia. First things first, though. Dropping the clues bombs for Golden Corral. Okay. I was talking to our producer, Taylor. Taylor this morning.

He's one of our producers. She's from Philly. I believe she was involved in this situation. I was watching the video. What? Listen, I was watching the video, and I really think I saw her. And when I asked her about it, she didn't deny being there. She just tried to throw me off by saying I don't like Golden Corral.

You a damn lie. First of all, women from Philly love buffets. Okay, love them. All right? Second of all, how can you not love Golden Corral? Drop another clues bomb for Golden Corral. It's people listening to me right now headed to Golden Corral for that buffet breakfast. Okay, might be the best buffet breakfast in the business as far as chain restaurants are concerned. Okay, I'm 43 years old.

I done ate at them all, baby. All right, some of them don't even exist no more. From Ryan's, the Shoney's, the Western Sizzlin', the Sizzler's, Old Country Buffet, all slapped. Oh, Old Country Buffet. Come on now. Come on now. Sizzler, there's no more Sizzler? I don't know. But they all slapped at one point or another, but none of them touching Golden Corral. Okay, right now

Golden Corral Omelette Station still slaps. Alright, the waffles, the cinnamon rolls, the biscuits, the pancakes, the french toast, the grilled corn beef hash. Nigga, what is you talking about? Okay? Assorted yogurts, donuts. It's an elderly couple headed to Golden Corral right now hearing

me talk and they saying, right on! Okay? They got what you want at Golden Corral. From healthy to man, I'm high as hell. How much meatloaf and mashed potatoes can I eat? Okay? My fat ass done jumped at dinner. You know I'm trans fat. i'm about 178 pounds right

now but i identify as someone on my 600 pound life but let me stick to the story there was a fight okay at golden corral a fight an all-out brawl i'm talking about 40 people it really looked like the royal rumba in there chairs were flying big bodies banging into each other i swear i saw mark henry going head up with rakishih in Golden Corral in this video. Vince McMahon would be proud. But what would make a brawl of 40 people break out at a Golden Corral? You probably already know the answer. Let's go to CBS 3 News for the report, please.

Well, I talked to a man who posted that video online. He says he was told that fight broke out after the buffet here ran out of steak. THE BALL RAN OUT OF STAKE. VIDEO SHARED WITH EYEWITNESS NEWS SHOWS PUNCHES BEING THROWN AND HIGH CHAIRS FLYING AS A FIGHT BREAKS OUT INSIDE THE GOLDEN CORRAL IN BEN SALEM FRIDAY EVENING. BEN SALEM POLICE CONFIRMED THE BRAWL MAY HAVE INVOLVED MORE THAN 40 PEOPLE AND HAPPENED FOLLOWING AN ARGUMENT AMONG

SOME CUSTOMERS. THIS MAN WHO USED TO WORK AT THE BEN SALEM GOLDEN CORRAL SAYS HE'S NOT SURE WHAT THE BALL WAS ABOUT. HE SAYS HE'S NOT SURE WHAT THE BALL WAS ABOUT. HE SAYS HE'S NOT SURE WHAT THE

BALL WAS ABOUT. HE SAYS HE'S NOT SURE WHAT THE BALL WAS ABOUT. HE SAYS HE'S NOT SURE WHAT THE BALL WAS ABOUT. HE SAYS HE'S NOT SURE WHAT THE BALL WAS ABOUT. HE SAYS HE'S NOT SURE WHAT THE the Ben Salem Golden Corral may have involved more than 40 people and happened following an argument among some customers. This man who used to work at the Ben Salem Golden Corral says he was told by a current employee about the initial altercation. From what

I heard it was over steak. Apparently somebody cut in line. His friend heard the same details. There was a shortage of steak. Take a close listen and a man can be heard saying all I wanted was some steak. All I wanted shortage of steak. Take a close listen and a man can be heard saying, all I wanted was some steak. All he wanted was some steak, man.

That's all he wanted. Listen. All he wanted was some steak. Listen, we got more eyewitnesses. Alexis Rios was an eyewitness. He was on the line. Go. 6 ABC News.

Alexis Rios says it started over a misunderstanding regarding a piece of steak. Come on. Rio says the person in front of him became angry with the cook because Rios received his steak first. He's trying to understand what you want. He's trying to give you what you want. I had a rare steak, which is a lot faster to cook than a well-done steak. That's why I got my steak first. Next thing you know, he says, that misunderstanding erupted into an all-out brawl. I grabbed a chair to defend myself, and then sooner or later, that was it. Punches were getting thrown, chairs were getting thrown, you name it. You can call it cups, glasses, everything.

You name it. These folks got to fighting because the buffet ran out of steak. Now, let me tell y'all something. This isn't no Golden Corral commercial. I don't know anyone who works there. This is something I'm saying out of the goodness of my heart and the fatness of my thoughts. There might not have been no steak left, but I can't sit here and say I go to Golden Corral for the steak.

There's a lot of other proteins in that dinner buffet that I thoroughly enjoy. Number one on that list, I mentioned it before, that tasty earth meatloaf. Okay, with some mashed potatoes and corn. Now we eating. Okay? There might not have been no steak left, but what about those golden fried shrimps? Huh? Come on now. Y'all fighting over one protein at a buffet? A buffet? Golden Corral.

There's unlimited options for everybody. They got bourbon street chicken. They got fried chicken. They got fried fish, baked fish, pot roast. They got carved bone-in turkey. They got pot pies. Golden Corral has pot pies. All right? There's too much there for y'all to choose from for y'all to be fighting over steaks.

See, the problem is y'all didn't eat enough yeast rolls before you went to work on the buffet. You have to eat at least one, no more than two yeast rolls at the buffet and drink it with a glass of water because when you eat the yeast roll and drink the water, it expands in your stomach and keeps things like steak shortages from ruining your experience. OK, it keeps things like that from happening because when your stomach is full, OK, you won't eat as much. Now, I know y'all might think I'm joking 95 percent of the time. OK, but you have to understand what places like Golden Corral mean to some individuals. Right now, I feel pure innocence thinking of Golden Corral. It makes me feel warm inside because those are moments I remember as a child with my family.

Okay? Golden Corral offers a sense of comfort, a sense of peace that I don't want to see disturbed by a group of individuals fighting over steak. I heard pain in that man's voice during that fight. Listen, man. All he wanted was some steak. OK, play it one more time, Red. You know what I heard when he said that? I heard all my life I had to fight.

Okay, that is a brother that is tired, exhausted, life kicking his monkey ass, and all he wanted was some steak. And yet he comes to this place of comfort called Golden Corral and ends up in a buffet-fueled brawl. For what? For what? He didn't even get the opportunity to get to the soft serve. Okay?

We ain't even talking about the soft serve. The ice cream cones with the vanilla and chocolate soft serve. Okay? They got all kind of candy toppings and hot fudge. Oh, my God, man. The carrot cake, the assortment of cookies, the cupcakes, the banana pudding, the fudge brownies. Man, stop playing with Golden Corral and stop playing in Golden Corral.

Okay? Learn the rules next time or stay your ass home. When you get there, eat a damn yeast roll, okay? Depending on your size, eat three or four. Drink some water, okay? So you don't eat up all the food, all right? And every Golden Corral vet knows the point of the buffet is variety, okay? Assortments. You don't go eating up, okay, one thing. You try everything to save something for the next man. All right? The reality is they probably didn't have no steak because beef is in short supply in a lot of places. Okay?

Supply chain disruptions are real. But the moral of the story is this. You know who's going through a lot right now? Literally everybody. So just be kind. Please give those 40 folks who got the banging in the Golden Corral the biggest e-haw. I got a feeling Taylor was there. The Breakfast Club. Come on.

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It's time for Ask Yee. Hello, who's this? Hi, this is Nicole. Hey, Nicole, what's your question Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. It's time for Ask Yee. Hello, who's this? Hi, this is Nicole. Hey, Nicole, what's your question for Yeezy? So the situation is I've been in a relationship for maybe like 17 years. And during my relationship, we had like different sexual interests. And I thought I'm like a do doctor natrix i really i like control in the bedroom and um he seemed like he was into it i'd like to turn them out but i don't really

like when they're into it so i've been noticing more and more where they are um he is like tooking his booty out or it's like hanging and I'm kind of not interested in it no more so I want to know how do I bring up the conversation with him without hurting his feelings or emasculating him so so wait let me so the problem is that you're a dominatrix, right? But he's enjoying it too much? I want to say yes, that is the problem. Okay, you want him to be like... It's like, are you really now interested in that? Okay, so in the beginning, he wasn't enjoying it. No, I like to turn him out.

So he was like, heck no, stay away from that area. What do you think this is? Kind of like. Okay, so you mean with anal, like putting something in his. Yeah. Okay. All right. Well, first of all, you said the goal is to turn someone out.

It worked. Yeah, it did. So now that you turned him out, you're bored. But the thing is, we are like partners. And I don't know if this is going to mess up our actual relationship. Well, as a dominatrix, maybe you need to find something else to do to him next to turn him out on. Collaborate. I mean, okay, look, what other things do you do as a dominatrix in this relationship? Because I guess the dynamic now is messed up, right?

As a dominatrix, he's supposed to I guess the dynamic now is messed up, right? As a dominatrix, he's supposed to be like, no, I don't want that. I don't like that. He's resistant. But now he's like, yes, bring it. Do it to me. Peg me. Yes.

And I guess that's the dad. Do it to me. I noticed that he peed his booty out before I'm ready to actually take it. And I'm like, hmm. Right. Now this feels like something we both enjoy. And it wasn't ready to actually take it. And I'm like, mmm. Right, now this is now this feels like something we both enjoy and it wasn't supposed to be like that. So are there other things that you do to him in that situation, that relationship to,

you know, maybe there's something else you could do where you're stepping on him with the high heels, maybe a little light whooping, anything like that? Yeah, we do a little role play, you like that? Yeah, we do a little role play of, you know, I want to stay asleep or patient. We do like a little role play. But like I said, it's just more of now.

Like if we're doing regular sex, he's ready to chew his sushi out. This is so wrong, man. What if you use a bigger dildo? What are we talking about? This is so wrong. Why is it wrong? Men, do not let women play on your butt unless they're willing to make a real commitment to you.

Okay? Yeah, I mean, he gave you the butt and now all of a sudden it's too far. This is bad. This is bad. Okay. They're not married, right? Actually, we are married.

What? He gave you his butt and now you're saying it's too much? You mad because you turned me out because I like it? You know, but the problem is that you did turn him out and got him to like something that he was resistant to at first, and now you don't like it anymore. So, I mean, what can you do? It works.

Check that man, mama. Give some suggestions. If not, I really feel like I'm in a hard place because I don't want to say to him, I don't want to do it anymore. And like I said, I'm the one that started this whole... But...

Maybe you could do the opposite now, right? And torture him by not doing it. Oh, man. What you don't do to another man's butt, somebody else will. Somebody else will. I mean, is it that you don't want to peg him anymore?

At all? Correct. What if he acted like he doesn't like it now, moving forward, and you let him... Should I ask him to resist a little bit more? Yeah, tell him. Tell him, look, the dynamics of what this was is not what it is now,

and this is what I need you to do for me to feel turned on. He might actually enjoy that, too. That's not fair, Mama. If he likes something, and now all of a sudden, y'all supposed to be a couple, y'all supposed to enjoy each other. Well, she's not enjoying it but he is right but he might enjoy also doing the role playing of acting like this is his first time doing it he didn't want to do it in the first place he broke down for her to do it and now when he actually likes it if he wants it

he might have to play along you know why a lot of men don't like butt play because they feel like it makes them feel like less of a man right it? It makes them feel like a sucker, right? So now I've been vulnerable with you. You turned me out. And now you're telling me to stop acting like a bitch. Well, guess who turned me into one? Tell us how you feel. I'm just saying.

Anyway, have you communicated any of this to him? Slight hints. But not very direct saying you know this isn't how I feel at this current moment how can we make a change well be direct you're a dominatrix be direct okay and tell him look this ain't fun for me

no more before it was a resistance situation you ain't want it now you tooting it up toot that thing up daddy make it roll what if I'm not seeing it, like, in our regular household situation? Like, it seems like I have to take control of everything. And it's like, is that from the way of our bedroom action is? And now it's like, I don't want to call him bitching out,

because I don't want to downplay who he is, because he's far from a female dog but like he's very now soft or he's not taking control as I think a man in the household can be. He might think this is what you want and if you haven't communicated that you don't

like it, he might think this is the dynamic that you wanted. Charlamagne did say something real true. What you don't do, somebody else will do. Stop it, guys. It's the truth. You turned him on to it so he likes it, he enjoys it. Listen, you need to let him know that this is not working for you and this is not what

your intention was so he can take charge in certain situations again. This is why men don't open up our hearts or our butts to people. Because of situations like this. All right? But the main thing is that you're not telling him what it is that you need. You got to let him know. But she wanted it at first and he didn't want to do it at first. And then he finally opened up and did it.

It got turned out. And now she's treating me like a bitch. Be quiet. Why are you doing that? That's foul. All right. So listen, talk to him. Okay.

I'm soft now. You got to work through this. You begged to play in my butt. I let you play in my butt. Now you're looking at me like I'm soft. Let's just keep that. This begged to play in my butt. I let you play in my butt. Now you're looking at me like I'm soft. Let's just keep that. This is crazy. This is crazy.

This is toxic femininity. What's his number? We need to call him. No, stop it. This is toxic femininity. I don't think I want to put him on the spot. Yeah, don't do it. All right.

This is toxic femininity. Ashley, we have no problem answering any questions. That's foul. This is foul. He opened up for her. He finally enjoys it now, and now she's just going to take it back. This sounded too personal, guys. Y'all say y'all can't get men to communicate.

Right. We open up. Then y'all tell us y'all don't like what we say. You say we don't share our emotions. We open up our hearts. Y'all break our hearts. Y'all say y'all we don't want butt play. We open our butts.

Now, look. Take it back. You guys have been too into Asky these past couple of days. This is crazy. This is foul. Yee, this is crazy. Now, look. Take it back. You guys have been too into ASCII these past couple of days. This is crazy. This is foul. Yee, this is crazy. This is foul. These toxic women that call this radio station.

We need to protest. ASCII. I'm going to get a butt hat. I'm going to get a butt cheek hat. 800-585-1051. It's the breakfast club. Good work. Ask Charlamagne and DJ Envy anything. Pick it up. Pick it up. Pick it up. 855-805-1051. It's the Breakfast Club. Come on. It's that time again.

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It's time for Ask C&E. If you need relationship advice or any type of advice, you can call us. Hello, who's this? Yo, yo, this is Anonymous. Anonymous. You do not have to be anonymous on the radio. All you got to do is say another name, bro. Yeah, you could have made up a name. But what's your question for C&E, bro?

He was still searching names. Either way. But look, I was delivering food, right? And I knew the person I was delivering food to. But it was old co-workers and stuff. And the dude, the boyfriend, came out and started like, what's up with you staying with my girl? And he stole on me.

I'm literally delivering food for my door dash and all that. That dude stole on me. You know what I'm saying? I'm trying to figure out, should I get restrained on her? Should I retaliate the hood way? Man, shut up. That man punched you in your face right then and there. You ain't did nothing.

You ain't going to do nothing after the fact. Leave it alone. Why you still go back to that house, bro? Hey, where this born? You better stay away from that man hey that point hey that punch hurt everything about him hey did that punch hurt nah don't lie tell the truth tell the truth so why you ain't hit him back then if the punch ain't hurt because it was like lily stole on me then lily just put me in the joke hole and then he put you in the dope feed.

So he beat you up then. He beat you up. It's okay. So when you got back up, what happened? Literally, he was gone. You know what I'm saying? When you woke up, he was gone. Yeah, after you woke up, he was gone.

He ain't going to stick around when you've been asleep for 10 minutes. He left me alone, man. In the words of Craig's daddy on Friday, okay, you win some, you lose some, but you live to fight another day. Huh? No, don't retaliate. You ain't going to do nothing. lose some, but you live to fight another day. Huh? No, don't retaliate. Man, you ain't going to do nothing. Stop.

Why do you want to retaliate? Leave it alone. He beat you up. Exactly. He's got people on his head. What you saying? How old are you? How old are you?

How old are you? How old are you? That's anonymous, too. Well, listen, I was born in 1978. I turned 44 yesterday. We come from an era where if you lose a fist fight, you just lose a fist fight. He's lost. Leave it at that.

Just leave it alone, bro. I ain't that old. I ain't that old. Okay, well, listen. If you want to retaliate, ask him for a fair one then. Oh, that's a bet. That's a bet. You better not do that.

Nah, don't do that. Because he, bro. It's like you didn't do anything for me. Bro, trust me, bro. He whooped your ass one time. That's right. It ain't worth it. Because think about it like this, right? Think your ass one time. That's right. It ain't worth it because think about it

like this, right? Think about it like this. You retaliate. You do something. Now you go into jail. If it's a fair one, I'm cool with that, though. As long as it ain't no...

He lost this one and dude put him in a dope fiend. And he just gonna get put in a dope fiend again. He lost, man. You gonna train before the next fight?

Now look, it ain't no training for this. It ain't no training for this. You need training. It's okay for this. You need training. It's okay, man. You need training.

Listen, I done got punched on camera, bro. You done seen the can I get a drop. I ain't got no time for retaliation. Who cares? We too old. Let it go. Let it go. People already know who you is.

That's even worse. Exactly. I got punched in the head and got seen by millions of people. You think I'm sitting around? Let it go. All the more reason for you to let it go, sir. All the more reason for me to retaliate. No, why?

You're going to go to jail. You're going to retaliate. You're going to hurt him. You're going to go to jail. Is it worth it? No, we don't know if you're going to. I doubt you're going to hurt him. You're going to see.

Okay, so let me ask you a question. If you go get a fair one, you and him just fight straight up. If he beat you again, then what? Then he's going to go for a third time. I'm going to call it a fair fight. You're going to what? That's honest. I'm going to call it a fair fight.

Dude, snuck. All right, I'm going to tell you what to do then. Because you said you either want to fight again or you want to press charges, right? Oh, ain't no pressing charges. You just said you want to get a restraining order against him. So to get a restraining order, you got to press charges. Oh, that bad. I want you to press charges. Oh, f*** that, man. I want you to press charges.

No, no, no, no. I'd rather you press charges, bro. We'll get a restraining order. Yeah, I'd rather you get a restraining order. Nah. You're about to lose your job, and you're about to go to jail for doing something stupid. Leave it alone. That man done beat you up so bad that you wanted to get a restraining order.

So I don't know why you're acting all tough now. Let it go, bro. Have a good one, man. No, don't hang up on this man yet. You going to let it go? Maybe. Do you have kids, bro? Nah.

Man, let it go. Your mom and daddy going to have to visit you in jail because you're going to do something stupid. Leave it alone. We win some, we lose some. Let it go. Did your girl see you? Did your girl see you get beat up? Nah.

All right, then. So let it go. Nobody saw it. Nobody even know it. And you anonymous. Nobody knows this happened, bro. If it's let it go. Nobody saw it. Nobody even know it. And you anonymous. Nobody knows this happened, bro. If it's not on video, nobody saw it. Let it go.

Change the narrative. Tell everybody you beat him up. Nobody seen it. Word up. You could have caught up here and lied to us. Yes. All right, we'll see. There ain't no we'll see.

Don't do nothing stupid, bro. God bless you, man. Goodness gracious. Sending you healing energy, man. He got knocked the fuck out. The man done hit you and choked you out, man. You talk about what you want. The first thing he did when he caught up here was say, should I get a restraining order or retaliate?

You know how bad somebody got to do you if you want to get a restraining order? Just get the restraining order. Just relax, man. Come on, let it go. Breakfast Club, good morning. The Breakfast Club. It's Ask Yee. Morning, everybody. It's D-J-N-V-A-N-G-E-L-E-E. Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club.

It's time for Ask Yee. Hello, who's this? Hello. We're getting the bill and bump. How you feeling? Good morning, Breakfast Club. What's up? What's up?

Good morning. What's your question for Ask Yee? Yeah, basically, this happened recently. I got scammed by someone close to me that I could call my family because we grew up together. And she got a whole kid or whatever that's like two years old and he's living with us. But she basically went back to the baby father who came out of jail and ghosted us. Ghosted me and my mom and everybody.

And then hit me up and somehow scammed me because I just had her money. And I got scammed for like 1.2. Wait, wait, wait. Hold on. 1.2 what? K scammed for like $1.2. Wait, wait, wait. I'm holding it for me. Hold on. $1.2 what? K. Okay, so $1,200.

Now explain how this scam worked. She asked you for money, and you sent it? Yeah, I was working, and then she said, Hey, I just zelled you some money to give you cash after. I said, Sure, no problem. I wasn't suspicious of anything, so I said, Sure. And I sent it. And because I sent it, the people that they scanned pulled the money back

and Chase said they couldn't do anything for me. So I took the out. Right. Okay, so you want to know what you should do. Well, I don't think that she'll get arrested over $1,200. But, you know, is that somebody that you want to continue to have in your life? I mean, I don't know. I don't know.

Honestly, I still have love for her. I got a family member. I don't have any negative feelings towards her. I already forgave her. But in my mind, I forgave her. She still has yet to pick up my phone calls. But I forgave her in my mind. I don't have any bad love for her.

I just want to know what to do. I don't want to take her to the cops and then something happens to the kid because I don't want her to grow up without a mom or nothing. Yeah, well, $1,200 is not going to make her get taken away from her children and all of those things. But the way that I am,

I don't know that I would press charges against somebody. Sometimes those are expensive lessons in life where that person can never come to you again for anything. And that's how I look at it, where you give somebody money, they do something foul like that, and you're like, okay, well now you just don't have access to me anymore.

And you also don't know what type of dire situation she was in to make her do something like that. It feels like it's out of character. That's what I was thinking, too. Maybe she was going through something immediate for the kid or whatever. I got in contact with her through her sister. And basically over the phone

she said she don't know F basically and that really hurt. Right. Well I promise you it's the type of thing that's going to hurt her more than it hurts you. Because now she can't ever come around you or anybody in your circle and get anything. And this is the type of thing that you let everybody know that she did this.

Okay. So that they all know not to let her scam them either. And she'll learn her lesson. But, you know, I, like I said, she's, I'm sure she's going through something. If you've been friends with her, like family for a long time, we can't explain why people do the things that we do, but what you can do is let her know I've forgiven you for this. I already know that you have no intention on paying me back. I hope that everything is okay and good in your life.

And you know what? You are blessed that you even had that money to be able to give somebody and keep it moving. And God will bless you a thousand times over. That sounds cool. I hope. But I really just wanted to contact her to let her know I forgave her. But I just don't know why. Like, why me?

Yeah, it's hurtful. It's hurtful, but that has nothing to do with you. That has everything to do with her and the type of person that she is and whatever it is that she's going through, you know, and you got to disconnect from things like that. And look, this is a lesson for in the future. When somebody asks you for something like that, you know, you got to be more careful.

And like you said, there was no reason that you should have thought anything was suspicious. This is asks you for something like that, you know, you got to be more careful. And like you said, there was no reason that you should have thought anything was suspicious. This is somebody you looked at like family and sometimes that makes us change the way that we move, you know. But listen, there's people I've, you know, given money to, lent money, they promised to pay me back, they've never done it. And I'll just never lend

those people money again and they can't have that same type of privilege. Definitely. Yeah. Yeah. And God will bless you and continue to bless you for same type of privilege. Definitely. Yeah. Yeah. And God will bless you and continue to bless you for being a great person. You never want to let somebody like that

not, not, discourage, you never let somebody like that discourage you from being an amazing person who you are. I appreciate that.

All right. I appreciate that so much. Thank you. All right. No problem. Breakfast Club, good morning. The Breakfast Club. Your mornings will right. No problem. Breakfast Club, good morning. The Breakfast Club.

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