The Breakfast Club - The Breakfast Club REWIND (Luenell, Kehlani, Ask C&E and More!)

Episode Date: December 21, 2022

Today on the show we flashed back to when Luenell stopped by to speak on her upcoming Netflix special.  Also, we flashed back to when Kehlani came on the show to discuss her new music. We also bring back some of the best calls from Ask C&E.  In today's Donkey Of The Day, we learn why a woman set a man's house on fire.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're here in spirit. Yeah. Yeah. And we're going to be playing some of our top interviews and some throwbacks. So, keep it locked. Red is going to be running the boards, and we'll see y'all in the new year. Happy holidays. It's The Breakfast Club.

Good morning. Wake up, wake up. Wake your ass up. This is your time to get it off your chest. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Whether you're mad or blessed, we want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Yo, what it is, man?

It's your boy, Block 80 from V8757, man. What's up, bro? Get off your chest. What's going on, DJ Envy, man? I had a car job probably like last year around November, man, and busting freestyle for y'all. And probably like two months later, somebody had hit me up from a scam account for Fat Joe, man. Y'all need to let Fat Joe know somebody around here using his face card scamming young up-and-coming artists, man. What'd they say? What'd they scam you out of?

They ain't scam me out of nothing. They tried to. What it was, he hit me up talking about some man I heard you on the Breakfast Club. You know what I'm saying? He like like i think you got it man so he hit me with an id call that's what messed me up i'm thinking my life about to change he called me on the ig i see fat joe face i say yo he say yo and then the car then i take a picture real quick and put the sock ahead for my ig and then the call in he like i'm in the studio i'm gonna call you i'm gonna call you back i'm busy right now so we we conversating over like two days and he'll never video me back and stuff started getting a little sketchy he started asking me he like yeah so i want to see

if you serious so i want you to put up a little money to get your record on Breakfast Club for about a week and we're going to see what the people say. And if the people like it, then we're going to take you to the labels. Oh, boy.

We're going to talk to the labels or something. How much did he ask for? How much? It was like, it was probably like a hundred and something dollars. So that's what made me

even more skeptical. I'm like, come on, man. If he'se trying to if he really trying to help me change my life i know he ain't gonna ask me for the 150 but it's like maybe they want to see if you know i'm saying you willing to put something to work boy you know your career you believe in yourself well let's hear this freestyle let's hear a new one it's almost a year later oh yeah i got one for y'all this This is off my song called Need Me. It's available on all platforms.

On the Block 80. B-L-O-K-DOT 80. Come on, rap. Go. I want my shorty back. I love that bitch more than rap. Gave her my all on the track. Left her a message.

She never called me back. Guess what goes around? Don't always come back around. Like a cul-de-sac. She was f***ing with rappers like Lil Yachty. Letting them call the shots. Is that why you ain't call me back? But don't, baby, if you call

that rap, now she f***ing with 6ix9ine. Alright, alright. Okay, whoa, whoa, whoa. First of all, you know you can't curse on the radio. I think Jay-Z might call you now. Oh, my fault, my fault. But wait, wait, wait. Hold on. So your shorty was messing with Lil Yachty. Whoa, whoa.

Nope, nope, no, no. I love the fact I've never heard anybody use cul-de-sac in a rap. Cul-de-sac? Well, I want to tell a cul-de-sac. But I want to tell everybody

if somebody hits you on Instagram and they're not verified, meaning that blue check, that's not them. All right? I just want to tell you because people tell me,

yo, Envy, you hit me up with, no, it wasn't me. If you don't see that blue check, it's not me. And I'm not going to create a different page to hit you. Envy out there hit me up with, no, it wasn't me. If you don't see that blue check, it's not me. And I'm not going to create a different page to hit you. Envy out there getting them $150 and people trying to act like it's not him. Hello, who's this?

This is Dre. Dre, what up? Get it off your chest, bro. Yeah, I was listening to you, I'm mad. I'm talking about the school shooting. And Sean asked that question, like, why don't you see schools, like, airports and all that? And it's crazy, man, because these people got to this thing like, oh, the inmates, it'll make the school not look safe.

And it's like, bruh, people go to courthouses and airports, like you say, every day. You think people say, I'm not going to work because it's not safe? No, they're safe in there because they go through the metal detectors. They know that, all right, these people was checked. I wouldn't mind if a parent of my school or my kid's school had metal detectors that had to put their bags through those little machines. Now I

know that you took every precaution to make sure the school was safe. A lot of people they don't, what is that? They like to react or whatever it is. They don't put things in motion until something happens. Nope, nope, nope. No prevent defense. And I agree with you, man. Like, it would really, like, decrease my parental

paranoia if i knew that my my child's school had like metal detectors and i mean really really like make them go through it when they come in that school check their bags you know warn them down all of that yeah like like listen i feel safe as a parent my eye boom i like that now i'm telling my kids these schools all four years we're not transferring nothing. Because you guys are making sure nothing happens. Like, most of the people wait until something happens, then they want to put stuff in place. Like, oh, we sorry for the families. We didn't know this was going to happen in our neighborhood.

Man, please, it can happen anytime, anywhere. I agree, my brother. Well, thank you. Be safe out there. Get it off your chest. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Looking to turn a small bet into a big payday? With DraftKings Sportsbook Same Game Parleys,

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Whether you're mad or blessed. We want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Hey, this is Trey calling from 97.9 Macon, Georgia. Just want to say to the infamous Charlemagne, the GZ, and DJ Emeritus, DJ Envy, my get it off the chest is a brief song to Lady Lili, a farewell song, if possible. Who is Lili? Lili is in SWV. We got Angela Yee. Who's Lili? Angela Yee. Who's Lily?

Angela Yee. She's trying to be funny, guys. Come on. I know, I know. Gosh, come on, stop. Charlamagne the Jeezy. Go ahead, brother. Hey, beautiful black lady. I sure would like to get to know you.

Good luck, my lady. Oh, love. I love that, Kim. Thank you. Yeah, that's amazing. Was it? All right. Hello, who's this?

Hi, it's your name's Dianne. What up? Oh, I'm sorry. Well, y'all usually give me a well good morning. Where my well good morning at? Good morning, mama. How are you? Good morning. Peace to the queen at. I mean, it's been a minute.

What's happening, queen? How are you? Sending you positive energy love and light. What's happening? All of y'all, Solomon the God, DJ Evie, my girl, Angela Yee. Good morning, boo. I want toe. My first thing, I want to shout you out, baby, because I had to get on here before you left.

You know, it's been a minute since y'all heard me, and I want to say congratulations on your future endeavors. You know, you will miss, and I'm going to miss listening to everything you do, giving out the great, I'm sorry, I was about to cuss, giving out those great, you know, opinions,

voicing your comments, everything. And my second thing I want to get off my chest is Charlamagne. I have not gotten my book. I ain't get my book. Alright, we're going to try this again. Eddie. Eddie! Where you at, Eddie?

Eddie, send her a Black Effect snapback too. Send her a Black Effect snapback, too. Send her a Black Effect snapback, courtesy of Mitchell and Ness, too, please. We're going to make that up to you before the holidays. There you go. And, DJ, if y'all love you, too, man. Your car shows was jumping. I followed your story throughout your whole car shows.

You really did it big this year, giving back to each community. And I'm really proud of you as well. Like, y'all really do it big. And y'all going to, with or without Angelique, even though it's going to probably suck without her, y'all going to do big. What was that? Well, thank you, Mama. It was just a little joke. I'll be on right after the Breakfast Club, too.

Yes, you will. Okay, great. So I can still listen to you, but like I said, it's not going to be the same without the three of y'all, the three amigos. Oh, well, thank you, mama. Where you from?

Thank you. I'm from Dayton. Y'all know y'all. Y'all should see Shanice from Dayton. Remember, y'all love my smile. That's right. I didn't like that song. Shanice, yep.

You always said that. Yes, see, easily you remember me Oh, Shanice, I love your smile. Word, okay, yeah. No, I'm not Shanice. Y'all always mess my name up. See, I love your smile. Word. Okay. Yeah.

Y'all always mess my name up. It's Chinese. Not Chinese. Chinese. Yes. Chinese. Well, thank you.

Chinese. Happy holidays. I love y'all. I'm going to say, I love you back. Right. Senator, Senator black effects. Snap back.

All right, we'll get it off your chest. Mr. Breakfast club. Good morning. Power. One Oh five. One.

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Listen to Civic Cipher every Saturday on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Marie. And I'm Sydney. And we're mess. Well, not a mess, but on our podcast called Mess, we celebrate all things messy. But the gag is, not everything not a mess, but on our podcast called Mess, we celebrate all things messy. But the gag is not everything is a mess.

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Mess. Wait, what flavor was the cake though okay that's a good question hooking up with someone in accounting and then getting a promotion living breaking up with your girlfriend while on instagram live living it's kind of mess yeah well you get it got it live love mess listen to mess with sydney washington and marie faustin on iheart radio app apple podcast or wherever you get your podcasts. First time that she's here in person. Yeah, I know. Ladies and gentlemen, Kalani. Hey. Hey, welcome. Thank you. How's your spirit?

It's awesome. Okay. It's incredible. How's yours? It feels good. I feel good today. Good. You seem so happy, so positive.

I love to see that. I am. When you came in, you were just jumping. You were happy. You were excited. Was I jumping? Yes. So what's so happy in your life?

What's so positive? It's good to see you. What do you mean, what's so positive? Why do we do that to humans? Like, why are you so happy in your life? What's so positive? It's good to see you. What do you mean, what's so positive? Why do we do that to humans? Like, why are you so happy? Exactly. Positivity should be the norm. No, but maybe she could make somebody else happy knowing about her positivity.

So tell us. I'm blessed. My family's taken care of. We all have our health. My daughter is extremely genius. I just got back from two weeks of, like, different fashion weeks that I've never experienced. Italy? No, because I want to see my child.

So I was like, that's cool to stay another week, but I want to go see my baby. So I'm going home. But did it take some adjusting being outside again? I got a new perspective of like now I appreciate being outside more. So now I'm just taking advantage of every time that I'm outside. So what's the perspective? I mean, I think I was so nervous all the time and just shook consistently being outside. And just like, okay, it's one thing being super present online. You can do that from anywhere and you can still completely be yourself behind the scenes.

But when you're outside, you have to meet people and all things like touch people and hug people and all those things. But my new perspective is just like enjoy every moment like i can create the experience that i want to create when i'm outside and i have a good time as a person myself who suffers from like really bad anxiety i enjoyed it because like you know it's all uh external stuff that you can't control that really makes your anxiety go through the roof. So it was something about being in the house every day, knowing where the kids at, knowing where the wife at. It gives you a different sense of comfort. I can't lie.

I haven't quite adjusted to being outside. But your kids, though, the problem is not you. It's the kids, though. You want your kids to be able to play and meet new kids. I feel so bad because I feel like they're suffering. I mean, I don't want to say I don't want to play like who's suffering the most, but children right now must be really awkward because they're not socializing and they're not getting those like, like my kid mostly knows adults. She has like two baby friends and we're really safe about it.

But like she mostly knows adults and it's probably shouldn't be the case right now. How does your parenting style differ from the way you were raised? I think my mom was very she just didn't have as much support as she should have i mean i think most of our generation's parents didn't have the support that they should have had my mom was you know three kids single mom crazy nine to five like i have friends and i'm like if they want to help me i'm like i will let you help me you know what i mean and i think that that alone changed the game and you're rich you know I can afford a babysitter I truly can and my babysitter is the best now how's it gonna be when you go on tour

because you know you release a new single album's coming out yeah you're going on tour yeah how is that gonna be with the baby I mean her dad's awesome's super, like, fluid when it comes to my career. So he's like, you want me to come with her? And just, like, we all hang out, and, like, we'll go back and forth. And we just have a great system, and we're a great co-parenting team, and we just, we'll take it as it comes. Is that relationship always like that, where y'all were great co-parenters, and y'all could? Yeah, pretty much. We're both, like, team baby.

So it's like we don't view each other in any other way than like we're teammates and family. So I wonder how rare that is because when you hear it, it sounds rare. But I don't I don't have any facts to back it up. But, you know, you always hear about baby daddy drama and baby mama drama. Like you don't ever hear about like healthy co-parenting too much. I mean, I think I mean, I can't apply it necessarily to my situation, but I think people have a bad habit of viewing each other as exes instead of viewing each other as co-parents. Or enemies. Right.

That's a bar. They apply ex-drama and ex-attention and ex-chaos when really at the moment you guys become parents, you guys need to view each other as literally whoever this baby is parents. That's it. Like you need to all the ex thing needs to go out the window. So it's almost like you got to take the person a lot of it and deal with the business yeah literally and then your team baby and if you're if you guys aren't functioning as a proper team then the only one it really comes down on hard like super hard is the baby so absolutely what did you do different during the pandemic like i applied myself um to learning how to edit and direct videos. And me and my photographer, who doesn't shoot videos or edit videos, decided to start a production company so that the videos we would drop at least looked like they came from something professional.

So what started out as kind of like a let's do like a make your production company actually became a real one. And we just bought equipment and like literally sat in my garage every day and learned on YouTube. And now we're directing videos for other artists. So that alone was its own, like completely own thing. Is that a different passion for you now? Like you want to be an art director and a video director. So you're looking at scenes, you're looking at sets. Yeah, I've always done that, though.

I didn't even know that what I was doing up until this point was technically co-directing all my stuff. Because I come up with an idea and i would give it to a director like this is exactly what i want to do now you take it and flush it out and i'm not knowing that the whole time i can technically call myself a co-director at that point all right we have more with kalani when we come back don't move it's the breakfast club good morning the breakfast club morning everybody it's dj envy angela yee, Charlamagne Tha God, we are The Breakfast Club, we're still kicking it with Kehlani Charlamagne, what did you learn about yourself last year during the pandemic? Yourself, specifically So many things, so many things I learned that I'm super limitless I learned that that's all I aspire to be

And it's funny because I just did a sit down with Alicia Keys. And when she said that, I was like, man, you put it all into words. Like, it's one thing to like be limitless. And it's another thing to like know that it's possible to be, you know, because we are all limitless. But it takes a long time to unlock that feeling of like, oh, I can really do whatever the fuck I want around this bitch. Like if I'm taking care of myself and I'm doing it the right way, like the world is mine type shit. And I don't know. I just I went to run this bitch. Like, if I'm taking care of myself and I'm doing it the right way, like, the world is mine type shit. And I don't know. I just, I went to therapy.

I started, I love my therapist. Same. There's a lot of things that I learned. I don't know. I could go forever. What made you go to therapy? Well, I was, I used to be in therapy. And then I think I got really hard-headed with it because I was just like, you know, I'm at that point where, like, I know what my therapist is going to say.

And, like, I know what she's gonna tell me and like I can apply it myself but you truly realize like you never actually graduate out of therapy that's right I was just at that point where I was like you know what I'm a mom now I'm two years into motherhood like I'm experiencing a new set of things that I need to get the tools to work through so that's why I went back now what inspired the song altar um the song altar is about being able to maintain the relationship with people when they've passed on because of the work that you put in you know on this side um I had a lot of people that passed away in the last couple years a lot of friends really really young I also really got really close to my father who passed away when I was one

um in this last year just like doing proper ancestor work and like making sure that you know they were always venerated and fed and had things to light them and guide them and just taking care of and through putting the time in and like little by little by little and really developing like a discipline with it just the way i was able to transform my understanding of grief i think i lost maybe five friends that were probably all under the age of 28 27 in the last couple years to like random freak drug situations and i had gotten to the point where i was like i have to understand like why i feel you guys so much. And how can I help you guys? And the people I'd become surrounded with in my spiritual community were just like,

look, this is how we can help you grapple with that. And through that, I feel like I'm a lot closer to everyone. So that's what this song is about. Isn't that amazingly normal? When you start doing that spiritual work and that healing work and that energy work on yourself, and you got your altar set up at the crib, you really do be talking to your people on the other side yeah and then you then you start having to differentiate like did i just make that up or did i see that did i make that up or did i feel that i didn't think of that that was that was somebody there and it's comforting so

what's the title blue water road about well there's a surface level title definition, and then there's like a deeper one. But we had started the what was the deluxe for It Was Good Until It Wasn't My Last Album in this house that I did a writing camp at on a street called Blue Water Road. And I left after the first week and went into like a couple of ceremony processes. I came back and I just like was completely different and heard the music differently and was like this doesn't sound like it's a deluxe for my last album this sounds like it's a completely new project and when I think of blue water road to me it's a river and a river super spiritually significant to me and to be discreet but like still give explanation like a river just it just keeps flowing it's it's a lot it's a life source and then on the flip side of thinking about it as a location it gave me an ability to put people into my world because it gave it a literal location

i performed a lot of my old music and been on stage and almost had laughing moments from like i can't believe i was there or i can't believe I was there. Or I can't believe that was me. Or I can't believe I thought that. Or like, oh, wow, look how far I've come since I thought that. And like, I don't realize it's doing things for people in the audience. But for me, I'm like, that's hilarious, you know? But when I hear my perspective as a 19-year-old or 20-year-old girl, I'm like, oh, baby, you need somebody to sit you down and tell you, leave it alone and go get it together and now i'm i'm 26 and i'm dropping

songs that are just about like i don't really like i don't need anybody and i think i was coming from such a place of like need in the past you can hear it you can hear it in the lyrics and now i'm just like whoa thank god i grew up you know but we all we all go through it you know i wonder what role did nick cannon play in your career weren't you signed again at one point i wasn't signed to nick okay kind of not really so when i first met nick cannon i was on america's got talent i was 15 16 years old time had passed my band had broke up i was like working two jobs and in high school and he called and he was like i see the vision I get it like you're meant to be a solo artist like come back to LA let's try it again I want to support and when I came back to LA he had surprised me with my first apartment I had never slept in a bed by myself I never had

my own room at the time I was couch hopping between a bunch of friends working two jobs like I just fell on the floor and couldn't believe it. He made sure that if I needed anything, that I had it as long as I was not out here bullshitting. And he changed my life forever. Like, that's family to me. He silently has changed the lives of so many people. And we don't know until someone sees, like, an interview of mine. And they'll come grab me and be like, you know, Nick Cannon did the same thing for me. Wow.

And he don't get his flowers for that. He doesn't. But you got to salute him. Yeah. Well, we appreciate you for joining us did the same thing for me. Wow. And he don't get his flowers for that. But. He doesn't. You got to salute him. Yeah. Well, we appreciate you for joining us. Thank you for having me. Thank you so much. A pleasure meeting you.

It's the first time you've been up here. Yeah. Nice to meet y'all in real life. All right. It's Kalani. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. It's topic time.

Call 800-585-1051 to join into the discussion with the breakfast club talk about it morning everybody it's dj envy angela yee charlamagne the guy we are the breakfast club now if you're just joining us we're asking if social media ruined relationships now this conversation comes from drink champs and boozy boozy was on drink drink camps and this is what he had to say. is getting on instagram that she ain't getting so all that time you didn't put in but no money it's up everything's up youtube all you had to look at was your side at work you're at home and come back now you hypnotized yeah you look at your and you see a thousand just look better it made us whole 805-85-1051 let's go to the phone lines hello who's this hey yo this is Rizzarelli what's up DJ have you what's up my g what's going on Rizzarelli you sound like a cheater

yes I am I'm sorry I apologize who are you sorry to listen listen I'm a cheater and I feel like and um I feel honest with you so that doesn't make you a good person for me how old are you I'm not saying it make me a good person but it just makes me an good person for me how old are you how old are you Rizzarelli I'm 30 Oh 30 so damn all you know with social media social media relationship without social media you would have ruined every relationship tell us how though I want to hear how. Why? You got to understand. I learned that.

People got to learn how to conduct themselves over social media. Okay. As people, as in you. Well, of course me, but I'm just saying as a human race and all, you know, everybody.

I think social media is just over-centralized everything. You know? Hey, I don't think you should blame social media on the fact that you're prone to cheat. It also depends on who you follow, right? Well, no, no, not really.

It don't depend on who you follow and who's following you. It's just what it's put out there for. Like, social media is... Everybody go out there just to show themselves off. They're going to show off what they're doing. They're going to show off what they're doing. They're going to show off how their body looks. And it's just over-sexualized everything.

It suits me as over-sexualized. So what are you going to do now moving forward to change things for yourself so you're not a cheater? I learned from my situation. Okay. I learned from the situation. You know what I'm saying? But I want to, as a people, as a group, as everybody,

you know, as a human race, you know, I want them to be able to do the same thing. I can admit to my wrongs, you know. You know, that's just what it be. Everybody ain't cheating, Rizzarelli. Some of us are members of the faithful black male community, okay? Amen. Hello, who's this? Aisha.

Aisha, good morning. Talk to us. Aisha, you are the girl that i never had and i want to get to know you better leave uncle on what's going to talk to us mama i was saying that social media has definitely messed it up for um you know being in a relationship you really a cheater huh not at all so why why is So why is it messing up your relationship then? No, it didn't mess it up, thank God. It almost did, but... What happened?

Oh, gosh. You almost cheated. It's on social media, like we're talking about. But, like, what happened? It's easier to cheat with social media. All right, so somebody reached out to you, you responded even though you have a man or what? No, actually, I saw it on social media.

I snuck the phone and read, you know. All right. You caught him doing some things. Yes. Okay. Well, listen, it's easier to cheat when you a cheater. If you're not a cheater, then it's not hard to not cheat at all. Right. Period.

It's easier to get caught on social media. I'll say that. So you still with your cheater? Definitely. You still with your cheater now? Yes. No longer a cheater. No longer a cheater. That's right.

Okay, that's good. That's good. I respect that. I'm a reformed cheater as well. Ain't nobody here judging, right? Not at all. Not at all. Not at all. How long you been clean? How long you been sober?

Sober? How long has he not cheated, man? I've been a cheater. I've been cheated on. That's what I'm talking about. The man. How long has the man not cheated? About two years now.

And I'm going to tell you something. Just like women know when their man is cheating, they know when their man is not cheating. So she can say that two years with confidence. There you go. Yes. Okay. Period.

Well, thank you, Mama. Thank you. Yes, ma'am. Goodbye. 800-585-1051. Now, what's the moral of the story, if there is a moral? The moral of the story is exactly what I said. You can literally see a million people on Instagram, but if you only have eyes for one person, then that's all it's going to be.

You know what I mean? What Boosie is saying is real, but it only applies to people who are prone to cheat. Me, I am a member of the, a proud member of the faithful black male community. I am a reformed infidel. Keep talking, bro. Black men don't cheat.

I've been clean for October 2016. I felt that in my soul, bro. I've been clean for over six years I felt that in my soul, bro. I've been clean for over six years now. Okay. That's right. All right. This is The Breakfast Club.

Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with Luenell. Charlamagne. Now, how do you prepare to do shows when you don't, like, are you ever in the mood not to be funny? Sometimes.

Okay. But rarely. Mm-hmm. and you don't like are you ever in the mood not to be funny sometimes okay but rarely like they say like nip said it's in you not on you so it's in me to be funny um i you know our brains comics brains are wired different like i even had things to laugh at at my own mother's funeral. You know what I'm saying? So, well, yeah, if you'd have heard her friend sing. Oh, boy. Oh, boy. Exactly. They thought I was crying, but I wasn't crying. You laughed at your friend's mama singing at your mama's funeral?

Yes, because she did like five verses. I'm like, yo, this funeral's supposed to be over at like 1 o'clock. What are you doing? what was the song i don't know i'm trying to block it out my mind but i do remember that situation happening for sure did you want the funeral to be over just because you didn't want to be there because you know grief is hard or did you have another gig no it was it was terrible you know it was terrible yeah i was gonna ask you know what you're doing so much so many shows and on the tour for nine months yeah how often do you get a chance to refresh

material and talk about new things oh every day uh i don't i'm not scripted type comic then like i don't write my material down i just like uh write bullet points down and things might happen. Because for me, for me, I feel that I need to leave myself open to change. Like if I say I'm going to do this, this, this, this and this and that's it. But on the way to the show, this and this might happen. Now I want to talk about that and change the whole thing so i just kind of flow with it but i do have of course standard stuff that i talk about per every show and i'm also you know preparing to do my first netflix special hey dave chappelle producer nice and um i'm i'm ready to shoot tonight you know i don't i don't i don't i don't have any anxiety about doing it.

I already got my fit. I already got my shoes. We just got a locked down location. I want to shoot it in Oakland. You got to. Where I spent so much time in my life. And, you know, work out some details and then we'll do it. You feel like you get the credit you deserve for all that you've done and opening doors for so many different people and women i don't

really think i've opened that many doors for anybody number one you don't think so no why not because there's nobody that's actually like me walking through them oh yeah and then also um do i feel like i get i think i get all the credit from the people. The people give me my props constantly. I think I'm the people's, you know, comic type chick. But the industry, I think, is still a little scared of me because, you know, I have been known to pop off. And I know a good contract when I see one. I know a trash one when I see one. It's so much easier for them to work with a young, ambitious, eager, quasi-naive person than it is for them to get an old bat like me that's coming with my attorney,

coming with my manager. And then my team is black. It's not white. A lot of times people in the industry, whether it's a musician or a comic, they get to a certain level, then their whole team turns into this Caucasian committee. Yeah, and you know, I Already got my team with me my agency. I work for is multicultural. My main agent is black female my manager is black my lawyer is black and from Oakland my

Accountant is Latina. You know, my house people are Latino. Y Latinas. So I just, I think I come with a lot for the average white male to be intimidated with. So I think that, you know, my talent is, you know, certifiable, obviously. But, you know, I've never been a regular on any kind of show like, you know, like a family, you know, like. Yeah. Like, like.

A sitcom. Yeah, I've never worked with like Sad and one of those things. I've never done that. And I've never had like a lot of specials or anything like that. Because I'm trying to be you know the next black woman in late night that's my goal because every night you know like I grew up in the Carson

era okay but it's still white man after white man after white man after white man after white man after white man in late night and they got two named Jimmy so you know it's time to break that up that is my goal and I think i mean i've been trained for that since before i left oakland so what do you think about uh i'm gonna talk to you about some trending

topics you know we saw vivica fox say that you know she doesn't like the fact that nick cannon has all of those kids she don't think he can properly spend time with all of them and you know they need black families need a strong black figure what do you think about that well i'm the eighth of eight children myself oh yes i have seven brothers and sisters it's all on my instagram at lunel l-u-e-n-e-l-l you can see my whole family oh you just had a family you and i got a niece sitting right there that's my sister's daughter um i don't think it's a problem that you have so many kids i think it's a problem that you have so many kids. I think it's a problem that you have so many mamas. Big mamas. Yeah.

That makes a lot of sense. That's going to be a problem. Yeah. You know, you can't be everywhere all the time. And everybody's not going to get along. I talked to Nick about this on his show on television. I don't know what his goal is. And anytime you have two women pregnant at the same time that's problematic you

think it's reckless i think it's problematic yeah and but the women they have to take some accountability too yeah obviously they want to have these children you know what do you tell yourself when your baby mama number eight or baby mama number nine. Nick can live his life and do what he want, but, you know, I wouldn't have a baby for him. I'd just be a side chick. That has its benefits, too. All right, we got more with Lou now.

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Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with Luenell. Charlamagne? I wonder why Nick's situation is so loud, though, because I think Eddie Murphy got 10 kids. You don't have nine baby mamas, how many you got just two really five of those kids are from nicole okay and then he's got page but then it's uh the spice girl oh yeah her so oh yeah i think he got more than three baby mom really he got three there's three google that i think baby mama's eddie got three. He has three? Google that. How many baby mommas Eddie got?

Three. I don't know, but that's a good perspective. I never thought about it like that. It's not the kids. It's the amount of baby mommas. It's not the kids. Correct. The kids will adapt. You know, they'll play with their brothers and sisters and all that.

But let's say he wants to get all the kids together. Yeah. Now all the moms are together. Yeah. Whose ring is bigger than whose?'s got one who don't have one now Eddie Murphy has 10 children with 5 women oh lord Eddie

I was trying to have your back Eddie there's Paige, Nicole, Paulette Tamara and Mel B I don't know Paulette and Tamara but you know it's not for me to know I don't know what would happen if I had 10 kids with six different guys? They'd be calling me a hoe.

So it's double standard. It definitely is. I guess the only thing I disagreed with when she said that he can't be a strong black male figure for the kids. I disagree with that part. He's still a good dude. I think she meant like in the household. Yeah, I agree with that. I agree he's not going to be able to spend the time.

What if you got three kids sick at the same time? Yeah. And three different houses. Yeah, that's wild. You know, kids get sick. I have six and it's difficult for me and they're all in my same house. Yeah, I saw that. I got six.

EnvyUV's shooting them down. But you know what? They're all in my same house yeah yeah i saw that yeah i got six envy you be shooting them down but you know what but they're all in the same house so it's not like i gotta go to you know imagine you're fertile yeah that's right well right us us eight are same parents so you're the youngest yeah i'm the Okay. All your siblings still alive and everything? No. Oh, okay. I have one sister that got murdered. Oh, man. Yeah, it is. So how was that growing up, you being the youngest? Did you get picked on or were you the one that they always protected?

No, I got picked on. That's why you're so funny. You had to learn to snap. That's why I'm so strong. Yeah. Yeah. And like I said, we just had a family reunion in Arkansas. It was only four days.

It's usually Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday. And that's enough. So during the family reunion, are you the one that has to do comedy? Do you do comedy during your family reunion? I absolutely do not. But I have. I have. And they always try to get me.

You know, you're going to be in Arkansas. Come to Little Rock can you come to Texcannon I'm like I didn't come here for that you know I came to spend time with my

with my sibs that's what it is now what's the hardest part about being a comedian that people don't talk about um relationship and

parenting ooh very difficult what makes it so difficult that you're on the road yeah and that's why one of the reasons why i want to be the next black woman in late night because i want to be stable but when i have a grandchild i don't want to be on the road for that gotcha my daughter's

gonna need me i need to be around i can't be doing this and leaving her alone with a first, you know, it's a first time mother. And I know how difficult that was because I got my mother passed away. The next month I got pregnant. And so I had to have my child without my mom. I don't want my daughter to have to do that. So I want to get stable and not be on the road so much. The road is the audiences is my that's where my heart lies. You know, the instant gratification, the meeting of the people.

That's why it's not like a bummer for me to be back in the clubs as opposed to the arena. The arena is a big machine. That's a big monstrosity of machine. But in the club, I can talk to somebody right there. I can talk to somebody right there. They can smell me. They can feel me and all that kind of stuff and i really like the clubs and stuff but i just do not i want to even if i got my show when i get my show when you get speaking into existence when i get my late night show i will still want to do stand up somewhere around

the country maybe twice a month. But not every week like I'm doing. Gotcha. Well, they can see you this weekend. You're going to be at Caroline's. I am starting tonight and then tomorrow on Saturday and one on Sunday. That's right. So two shows tonight, two shows

Saturday, one show on Sunday. Make sure you head out to Caroline's and shout out to the good people at Caroline's that always holds great what up great you're going out of time but are you gonna Charlamagne I feel like you haven't sat and watched me I wanted to go I'm gonna come this weekend I really need you I want you to I feel like people that see me is one thing but if you don't see me on stage you really don't know anything no I'm gonna come this weekend I'm here this weekend okay would you do that I'm coming this weekend I'm gonna text Greg

today I'm coming all right oh that's I don't know which day yet but I'm coming that's okay yeah all right well it's Lou now check out of Caroline's this weekend it's the Breakfast Club good morning and your picture still up there you see we know it's never coming down about well I mean it might come down from in here and put up somewhere else else I'm very excited good morning this man to throw them blows man they wait for Charlamagne to tap these gloves. Let's go. They had to make a judgment of who was going to be on the donkey of the day.

They chose you. Yeah, man. Let's talk. Donkey of the day. Go to a young woman named Taja Russell. Taja is 29 years old, and she's from the great state of New Jersey. Dropping the clues, boss, for New Jersey, damn it. Now, before we talk about Taja

Let me ask y'all a question out there When the last time you got stood up? When was the last time you told someone You wanted to take them out and didn't show up, huh? When was the last time you told someone To come over and you fell asleep on their ass? I have homeboys now Who are not married

Not in a committed relationship Not part of this faithful black male community, and they tell me stories like this all the time, especially when we out of town. Women come to the hotel and be downstairs in the lobby for hours because said individual has fallen asleep on their ass. Every time I hear stories like this, I feel for those women because to me this is a different level of disrespect.

If a man calls you over and tells you that he fell asleep on you he's either a lying because he was going through his phone and decided to call a couple different chicks and whoever got there first is who he's with hence why he is not answering for you or b you just don't excite him like that okay you're not falling asleep on a woman you are really excited to see in fact that adrenaline rush you get from seeing or being around a woman you're into is going to wake your ass up. You got a woman coming over. You get excited. You think you're going to get some ass.

So you go hop your ass in the shower and that shower is going to wake you up. Then you're going to lotion up, throw on some basketball shorts and a fresh t-shirt, spray some cologne on, roll up something, smoke, pour you a glass of something, and wait for the young lady you called over to arrive. i fell asleep you fell asleep how boring was your box that the thought of you coming over puts a man to sleep all right so yes ladies you should feel extremely disrespected

when you come to see a man and he tells you i fell asleep that you wouldn't feel disrespected if that happened to you um yeah i'd be annoyed that I came out of my way. And that's exactly what happened to Taja M. Russell. Now, according to the New York Daily News, Taja was the side chick. All right, that's the New York Daily News words, not mine. All right, Taja was this young man. She was visiting side chick,

and the young man told authorities that he asked Russell to come to his house for sex. But he fell asleep before she arrived. Disrespectful. When Taja got to the to his house for sex but he fell asleep before she arrived, disrespectful when Taja got to the man's house she called him 8 times 8 times, but he didn't pick up after 8 phone calls she allegedly texted the man

I see you wanna die followed by you wasted my money to come out of here and then around 4am security cameras saw Maja knocking on this young man's door. And he still didn't answer. Ladies, when this is over, rewind and listen to what I said about a man disrespecting you. The level of disrespect this young woman, Taja, received is four in the morning.

You got there and called eight times. You knocked on his door and he igging the hell out of you. Not to mention you already his side chick what else is there to do especially after you sent him the i see you want to die text well you got to attempt to kill him let's go to news 12 new jersey to see how taja and russell handled this situation a woman is accused of setting a man's home on fire after she was invited over for a late night rendezvous. Police say this month, 29-year-old Tasia Russell went to the home on Barber Avenue. NorthJersey.com reports the man fell asleep, did not answer the door.

They say that's when Russell set the home on fire. The man was taken to the hospital with burns and smoke inhalation. Tasia was determined to have a hot date. All right. Remember when I told you that if a man falls asleep on you before you get there, that means the thought of your poom poom makes him sleepy? You out there giving out that boring ass box? Well, I think Taja realized that in her mind, and she was not leaving that house that night without the word fire coming out of that man's mouth.

She wanted that word to be used to describe her vagina, but she didn't get that opportunity, so she decided to set his crib ablaze. OK, I'm going to be honest with you. Other than her having an arson charge and an attempted murder charge and being held without bail. I kind of feel. All right. See, let this be a lesson to you fools. All right. Stop standing women up like that after you done wasted their time, energy and money to come see you. All right. it's disrespectful and just not right but ladies don't be like taja when a man doesn't value you doesn't appreciate

you stands you up don't do what taja did even though it hurts not to react all right don't do what taja did see i know you really want to work this out but i don't think this man is ever going to change all right when you do but they don't i just think it's best you go your separate ways all right sometimes you have to ask yourself why should i stay in this relationship when you're hurting baby you ain't happy baby plus there's just so many other things you got to deal with so i just think that you you should let it burn i might might just put just buy some M&M's or something. Some peanut M&M's or something.

My goodness. I feel her pain a little bit. All right. Well, thank you for that donkey of the day. Now. She was very literal and true to her words. She was. That's what she gets for having her hot ass out at four in the morning.

All right. We got more coming up next. We're The Breakfast Club. The Breakfast Club. club the breakfast club if she has an issue respecting what you need from her then it feels like you know i don't know how a relationship can work if you're telling somebody that certain things aren't acceptable and they're not in agreeance with you or they're not saying okay i'm gonna let him know not to call me anymore i won't take his calls anymore is she still speaking to him well according to her she hasn't spoken to him.

And I believe her. Okay. My deeper concern is the fact that there's this reoccurring theme of selfishness that she doesn't seem to get. But you said she's not talking to him at all. So she did listen to you. Right. So the problem is like Chris Rock described described like the penis in the glass case.

Like if you allow people to hang around, you know, one day maybe we have an argument when he calls. Maybe she decides to take the call. But you said she's not she's not talking to him anymore. And look, you believe her. She says she doesn't speak to him. And that's it. And you believe her. I do believe her. But so you're telling me that you think this is acceptable to allow. I thought you just said she's not talking. I don't think it's acceptable. You told her something.

She told you she doesn't speak to him. You believe her. So that issue feels like it should be a closed issue because she's not speaking to him, right? All I asked her to do was to tell the guy, listen, I'm in a relationship. I need you to stop doing this. Okay, so you want her to be more confrontational. Absolutely. So it's not acceptable for you if she's just like, I'm not talking to him anymore and just fades out and doesn't respond to his messages or calls.

Right. You don't block the guy. You don't let him know to stop calling. It sounds like to me that, you know, you don't want to. Okay. She doesn't address it. Right. She doesn't want to stop him.

I do feel like because I'm also that type. I don't really block people like that And like Some of my exes Might sometimes hit me up But I just Am not responsive to it To me

That's good enough But you know For you it's not And she told you about it So she's being open And honest with you In that way And she's not speaking

To him anymore I think You know You want her to do things The way that you want her To do them And she's doing them The way that Is her behavior I'm not a confrontational, like,

don't speak to me. Leave me alone. Don't call me and block you type of person. I'm more of a, if you hit me and do these things, I just won't respond. But you don't like the way that she's handling it. No, but I mean, but to hear you, to hear your expression like that allows me to look at it from a different perspective. Mm-hmm. Because the main thing is that you don't want her speaking to him and you want that respect, right?

Now, the way that she does it is maybe more in line with her personality. And when you say it that way, that is. Right. Some people are not harsh like that or brutally honest.

I'm more of a, I'ma just, you know, I'm not trying to have this conversation and do all that. I'm going to just fade out. Right, so instead of me calling her selfish, maybe I have to look at it as me attempting to put the way I deal with things on her. Yeah, she doesn't have to handle it. But I do feel like if the result is what you guys want, like that's the result that you wanted.

Do not communicate with him. You're still getting that result. Okay, cool. Thanks, Sheen. And so I just want to say to all three of you guys, I really sincerely appreciate the way this show has evolved into a voice of the community. Like, I really appreciate that. I just want to let you guys know that. I think you're dope.

Thank you, brother. Thank you. We appreciate you listening. You're the best. But yeah, so I wish you luck with your relationship. And, you know, keep those lines of communication open. She should be able to tell you anything. I think it's good that she comes to you and lets you know what's going on.

But you don't want her to not tell you. Right, right. All right. Thanks, guys. No problem. Take care. All right. Ask Yee.

800-585-1051. If you need relationship advice or any type of advice, call Yee now. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Get some real advice with Angela Yee. It's Ask Yee. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy.

We are The Breakfast Club. We're in the middle of Ask Yee. Hello, who's this? Hi, this is Yee. Hey, what's your question for Yee? Hi, Yee. Okay, so long story short, who's this? Hi, this is C. Hey, what's your question for Ye? Hi, Ye. Okay, so long story short, I wanted to ask you if you're seeing this guy and you're all in with him, which I was, and he wanted to test you to see how you would react in a situation, like given I was all in and he wasn't just yet,

so he wanted to do a little test. Is he there right now? Yes, he is. Okay, so what did he wanted to do a little test is he there right now yes he is okay so what did he do to you uh he basically told me to get out at one o'clock in the morning and her loyalty to me and he did situation and he did situation so he wanted to tell me to get out at 12 o'clock at night and had a dead straight face and let me go ahead and do so but i was like i was all in with you and are you serious right now and he was like yes i'm like really like like f you i was all in like i wasn't holding anything back and like everything was like would you let her talk it was self-inflicted i told him because like if you want to test somebody why would you test them that way and yes i was upset yes i

touched you out because you make me feel like everything I did was a facade. It was all a lie. And you just look at me dead in my eyes every time I get out. He's like, well, you know I would never do that for real. You should have laughed it off and been like, oh, you're joking. Why would someone think that that is a joke? Yeah, that's not funny, especially in the middle. That's actually dangerous.

What if something could happen to you? What if you left the house? He said that it was a test, and I should have laughed it off. I should have known better or whatever. If it's a hotline, you should ask those kinds of stories. And at this big, grown age, why are we testing people in relationships? Big, grown age. He said because he's been hurt in the past in every relationship.

So haven't I. I've had my devastating experience. Can we speak to him? I don't understand what's going on here. Yeah, period. We'll talk. Because he wanted to talk.

So what happened? Why would you kick her out of the house? I'm an honest and loyal and honest guy to every relationship I've been in. And I've been up

my steps on the curb. Well, my wife asked me where's the lingerie one time. I didn't want to do it. So I did it. What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What? What I didn't want to do it. So I did it. What?

What? What? I mean, I'm into different things. I actually like guys who wear lingerie. And I enjoy bisexual men. And I enjoy watching gay porn. You're not allowed to touch that. We could have been superstars.

OK, so he's bisexual. Remember, we was gay Yes, I am. Okay. Now I am. He said, now I am. So I don't understand the test of kicking someone out. What does that prove? I just wanted to see how the situation would go if we was into one.

It was a simple little question. We never kicked her out of my house at one in the morning. But you shouldn't even threaten somebody to do that. How do you think that makes her feel? I didn't say I was going to. I said I wanted to. What's wrong with that? That sounds sexy.

So I texted her earlier. I'm glad I did because I found out how she really is. Yeah, but what about how you are? I don't understand this. You don't know how he is anymore, B. I was so disgusted. I was so angry. I can't remember because my baby blacked out.

Who wouldn't get mad if someone kicked them out of the house at midnight? You act like I broke stuff. I would never let you. He's really mad because I said that I wanted to spit in his face. What's man lingerie?

How did you turn bisexual? Now we asking the real questions. Okay, I'm glad. Now you asking the real questions. We'll talk about this one. So, like, it's not man lingerie. It's, like, lingerie that I would wear. Oh, he wearing your lingerie.

Okay. Yeah, sometimes we match. We both walk around wearing heels. And that's why he thinks he's bi now? He thinks he's bi just because he wore your panties? First of all, it sounds... You don't let me tell you guys. His wife extorted him and had him wear lingerie

and snuck into pictures and put him on social media. My kids seen it. Pretending like it was into it. Well, I will say this. That sounds very traumatic for you, sir. That sounds like a traumatic thing when you trust somebody and they betray your trust in that way. But if you can find somebody, right, who accepts you for who you are, why would you cause issues in your relationship unnecessarily? He's not bisexual, just because he wore a woman's lingerie. Why would you cause issues in your relationship unnecessarily?

He's not bisexual, Yee, just because he wore a woman's lingerie. No, he's bisexual maybe because he has sex with a man. I didn't hear that part. He hasn't said that. That's what I'm trying to get to. His wife was making him feel ashamed of it, but he finally found his match, which was me, because I am into bisexual men who wear lingerie and watching that type of thing. Has he slept with a man before? Has he slept with a man before? Has he slept with a man before?

Who, me? The guy? No, the guy. Your boyfriend. That's what makes him bisexual. We will do oral on a man together, like have a three-way with two guys, and he will receive and might be giving me oral and getting back shots. I mean, I enjoy that stuff.

Like, there's some, listen. Okay. Whatever y'all like to do in your relationship is your guy's business. But I do want to say in reference to the question, okay, don't sabotage your relationship because something previously didn't work out. You got to start from zero. I yelled at her to get out. It don't matter if you wrote it down on a piece of paper. You shouldn't do that.

You guys have to learn how to communicate in a better, more responsible way. And every relationship is a risk. Are you willing to take that risk? Because no matter what, no matter what type of test you put somebody through, you don't know what's going to happen when a real thing comes up. So don't create drama because you've been traumatized before. Yeah, that is like a real. That's why I think with guys, it's no drama with it.

It's no drama. You stand out, there's no out fifth book without they're gone a woman comes in your house you spend 60 bucks no okay i don't think she respect you because you're a bottom just stop it but i will say this i just listening to this conversation i realized that you guys don't listen to each other you guys continually talk over each other there's no possible there's too many people in the room there's only two people that you can possibly understand each other if y'all don't get each other's thoughts out. Every time she talks,

he talks over him and every time he talks, she talks over him. How could y'all possibly understand each other and listen to each other if y'all not allowing each other to speak?

And he'd rather be with a man. He just told her that. He was like, that's why I'd rather deal with a man because men, you know, don't do all of this.

See, he said that. All right, well look, maybe you guys aren't a match then. If that's what he said. All right. Well, look, maybe you guys aren't a match then. If that's what you're saying, your preferences.

That's why I did what I did. No, you doing what you did. I'm glad you did what you did. All right. Well, look, guys,

it feels like he doesn't. This is, you know, you're not for him. He wants to go through life. I was all in, you know, willing to take that risk for, you know, taking another go on through life. I was all in. Willing to take that risk for taking another chance on being

hurt again by being all in with one I felt like was a match. I didn't feel like I needed to test him. I never did test him. I made a promise to myself that I couldn't be. That wasn't the only test. First of all, it's too early in the morning. Have y'all had breakfast? At least now you know what it is, right? Yeah.

Now I got to get an opinion. I told you that that was, anybody would be angry doing that. And you're saying that anybody wouldn't be angry. They would have, I didn't react the way that I was supposed to react. I didn't think you'd be belligerent. It sounds to me like you need a power top in your life, man. I'm wasting my time. Ma'am, would you respect him if he was a power top and not a messy bottom?

Hey, listen, man. It didn't matter if he was. I was only giving her a chance because she had me falling. I wasn't even going to date women again. That was a promise top and not a messy bottom? Hey, listen, man. I didn't... I didn't even want to marry her. I was only giving her a chance because she had me falling. I wasn't even going to date women again. I was a promise I made. Okay, well...

What, did you see? Did you hear what he said? He said he wasn't going to date women again. Yes, he doesn't want to be with you. It looks like this is not what he wants.

And maybe... I've moved on. We could be friends. Well, let's move on. Maybe him doing this was his way of trying to break up with you in a passive way. I probably shouldn't have put

both titty lips on him. I probably should have put just one of them on him because he couldn't handle it. He don't want that no more, boo. He want cheeks. Okay? You don't have what he want no more. It's over. That's what it sounds like. Alright? It's not going to work if he goes through, like, testing them. Like, because we were testing and that's like playing a game, like, with people's

emotions. You ever hear of crime of passion? I just f*** guys. I don't deal. Whoa. Whoa. Alright. She threatened the That's like playing a game with people's emotions. You ever hear of Crime of Passion? I just f*** guys. I don't date them. Whoa. Whoa. All right. All right, guys. She threatened the Crime of Passion. He said he only f***s guys if he don't date them.

Wow. Good luck, guys. Thank you. Go your separate ways, please. Man, drop one of Clues' bombs for Tyler Perry, because I know he executive produced that phone call. Right. Well, that was Ask E, guys.

We answer any question. 800-585-105-1. like a tyler perry movie we got rumors on the way um tonight on bt plus wow that was incredible that call gave me everything i need i'm taking that home with me i'm gonna listen to that later on the podcast it's great i'm available i'm gonna listen to that later on the breakfast club podcast that was an He's available. I'm going to listen to that later on the Breakfast Club podcast. That was an incredible phone call. All right, well, Diddy says he is uncanceling the canceled. We'll tell you what he's talking about. What size do you think his feet is to have to wear women's high heels?

I don't know. We ain't offering him no expert advice either. What kind of advice could you give him? She threatened a man with murder. She said, you ever heard of a crime of passion? We just let that go on there. Well, he responded. He said, that's why I only f*** with you. She said, you ever heard of a crime of passion? We just let that go on there. It's like. Well, he responded.

He said, that's why I don't. That's the only. He's the only F guy. I don't date him. There you go. Wow. The hell? You go too far.

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If you need relationship advice or any type of advice, you can call us. Hello, who's this? Yo, yo, this is Anonymous. Anonymous. You do not have to be anonymous on the radio. All you got to do is say another name, bro. Yeah, you could have made up a name. But what's your question for C&E, bro?

It was still a first name. Either way. But look, I was delivering food, right? And I knew the person I was delivering food to, but it was old co-workers and stuff. And the dude, the boyfriend, came out and started like, what's up with you staying with my girl? And he stole on me. I'm literally delivering food. Like, door dash and all that.

Dude stole on me. You know what I'm saying? I'm trying to figure out, should I get restrained on her? Should I retaliate the hood way? Man, shut up. That man punched you in your face right then and there. You ain't did nothing. You ain't going to do nothing after the fact.

Leave it alone. Why you still go back to that house, bro? That word is born. You better stay away from that man. Hey, that punch hurt? Hey, did that punch hurt? Nah. Don't lie.

Tell the truth. Tell the truth. So why you ain't hit him back then if the punch ain't hurt? Because it was like Lily stole on me, then Lily just put me in the joke hole. And then... He put you in the dope feed. So he beat you up then. He beat you up.

It's okay. So when you got back up, what happened? Literally, he was gone. Like, you know what I'm saying? So when you woke up, he was gone. Yeah, after you woke up, he was gone. He ain't going to stick around when you've been asleep for 10 minutes. Yeah, he left me alone, man. In. He ain't going to stick around when you've been asleep for 10 minutes. He's that man alone, man.

In the words of Craig's daddy on Friday, okay, you win some, you lose some, but you live to fight another day. Huh? That's up. I retaliate. No, don't retaliate. You ain't going to do nothing. Stop. Why do you want to retaliate?

Leave him alone. He beat you up. Exactly. He's got people on his head. What you saying? How old are you? How old are you? How old are you?

How old are you? That's anonymous, too How old are you? How old are you? That's anonymous too. Well, listen, I was born in 1978. I turned 44 yesterday. We come from an era where if you lose a fist fight, you just lose a fist fight.

He lost. Leave it at that. Just leave it alone, bro. I ain't that old. I ain't that old. Okay, well, listen, if you want to retaliate, ask him for a fair one then.

Oh, that's a bet. That's a bet. He better not do that. Nah, don't do that fair one, then. Oh, that's a bet. That's a bet. He better not do that. Nah, don't do that, because he, bro. It's like he's cheating for me. Bro, trust me, bro. He whooped your ass one time. That's right.

It ain't worth it, because think about it like this, right? Think about it like this. You retaliate. You do something. Now you go into jail. If it's a fair one, I'm cool with that, though. As long as it ain't no, like. He lost this one, and dude put him in a dope fiend.

And he just going to get put in a dope fiend again. He lost, man. He lost. You going to train before the next fight? Now, look. It ain't no training for this. It ain't no training for this. You need training.

It's okay, man. You need training. Listen, I done got punched on camera, bro. You done seen the can I get a drop. I ain't got no time for retaliation. Who cares? We too old. Let it go, bro.

Yeah, let it go. People already know who you is. That's even worse. Exactly. I got punched in the head and got seen by millions of people.

You think I'm sitting around with these regular people out here, you know what I'm saying? Let it go. All the more reason for you to let it go, sir. All the more reason for me to retaliate.

No, why? You're going to go to jail. You're going to retaliate. You're going to hurt them. You're going to go to jail. Is it worth it? No, we don't know if you're going to. I doubt you're going to hurt him. You're going to go to jail. Is it worth it? No, we don't know if you're going to. I doubt you're going to hurt him.

Okay, so let me ask you a question. If you go get a fair one, you and him just fight straight up. If he beat you again, then what? Then he's going to go for a third time. I'm going to call it a fair fight. You're going to what? That's honest. I'm going to call it a fair fight.

Dude snuck. All right, I'm going to tell you what to do then. Because you said you either want to fight again or you want to press charges, right? You just said you want to get a restraining order against him. Oh, **** that, then. I want you to press charges. No, no, no, no. I'd rather you press charges, bro.

I'd rather you get a restraining order. You're about to lose your job and you're about to go to jail for doing something stupid. Leave it alone. That man done beat you up so bad that you wanted to get a restraining order. So I don't know why you acting all tough now. Let it go, bro. Have a good one, man. No, don't hang up on this man yet.

You're going to let it go? Maybe. Do you have kids, bro? Nah. Man, let it... Your mom and daddy are going to have to visit you in jail because you're going to do something stupid. Leave it alone. We win some, we lose some.

Let it go. Did your girl see you? Did you girl see you get beat up? Nah, I didn't so let it go. Nobody saw nobody even know that's what and you anonymous Nobody knows this happened, bro. If it's not on video Nobody saw it. Let it go change the narrative tell everybody you beat him up. Nobody seen it She for it up up you could have caught up here and lied to us yes I know we'll see don't do nothing stupid bro god bless you man goodness grace any healing energy man he got knocked out the man and hit you and choked you out and then you talk but you want the first thing he did when he caught up here was said should I get a restraining order or retaliate then you know bad somebody got to do you you want to get a restraining order? Just get the restraining order. Just relax, man.

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Boosie was on Drink Champs, and this is what he had to say. Social media f***ed up everything. Marriages. At first, your bitch used to just see the n***a at work. he was on during camps and this is what he had to say. Instagram. That shit ain't getting. So all that time you didn't put in but no money, it f***ed up everything. It f***ed up you too. All you had to look at was your side b****es. Your b****es at work. Your b****es at home and come back.

Now you hypnotized. You look at your b****es and you see a thousand b****es look better. It made us whole. 800-585-1051. Let's go to the phone lines. Hello, who's this? Hey yo, this is Rizzarelli What's good DJ? What's up my G?

Rizzarelli, you sound like a cheater Yes I am, I'm sorry I apologize Who are you sorry to? Listen, listen I'm a cheater or every woman I've been with And I can't honestly admit that That doesn't make you a good person for me

How old are you? I'm not saying it makes me a good person But it just makes me an honest person You right How old are you? I'm not saying it makes me a good person, but it just makes me an honest person. You right. How old are you, Rizzarelli? I'm 30. Oh, 30. So, damn, all you know is social media.

Listen, social media doesn't ruin every relationship that I've been in. Wow. No, without social media, you would have ruined every relationship, Rizzarelli. Tell us how, though. I want to hear how. Why? You got to understand I learned that

People got Learn how to conduct themselves Over social media Okay As people As in you Well of course me But I'm just saying

As a human race And all You know Everybody I think social media Just over sexualized Everything You know

Hey I don't think You should blame social media On the fact that you're prone To cheat regardless It also depends on who you follow, right? Well, no, no, not really. It don't depend on who you follow

and who's following you. It's just what it's put out there for. Social media is everybody go out there just to show themselves off. They're going to show off what they're doing. They're going to show off how their body looks. I learned from my situation.

Okay. I learned from the situation. You know what I'm saying? But I want to, as a people, as a group, as everybody, you know, as a human race, you know, I want them to be able to do the same thing. I can admit to my wrongs, you know. You know, that's what it's going to be. Everybody ain't cheating, Rizzarelli.

Some of us are members of the faithful black male community, okay? Amen. Hello, who's this? Aisha. Aisha, good morning. Talk to us. Aisha, you are the girl that I never had, and I want to get to know you better. Leave Uncle on.

What's going on? Talk to us, mama. I was saying that social media has definitely messed it up for being in a relationship. You really a cheater, huh? Not at all. So why is it messing up your relationship then? No, it didn't mess it up, thank God. It almost did, but... What happened?

Oh, gosh. You almost cheated. It's social media, like we were talking about. But, like, what happened? Oh, gosh. You almost cheated. Social media, like we were talking about. But, like, what happened? It's easier to cheat with social media. All right, so somebody reached out to you. You responded even though you have a man or what? No, actually, I saw it on social media.

I snuck the phone and read, you know. All right, you caught him doing some things. Yes. Okay. Well, listen, it's easier to cheat when you a cheater. If you not a cheater, then it's not hard to not cheat at all. Right. Period. It's easier to get caught on social media. I'll say that. So you still with your cheater?

Definitely. You still with your cheater now? Yes. No longer a cheater. That's right. Okay, that's good that's good i respect that we all like i'm a reformed cheater as well ain't nobody here judging right nobody not at all not at all how long you've been clean how long you've been sober sober but how long has he not cheated man i was in the cheater i've been cheated on that's what i'm talking about the man how long is the man not cheated uh about two years now and i'm gonna tell you something just like women know when they man is cheating they know when they man is not cheating so she can say that two years with confidence there you go yeah okay well thank you mama thank you yes ma'am 800-585-1051 now what's

the moral of the story if there is a moral the moral of the story, if there is a moral? The moral of the story is exactly what I said. You can literally see a million people on Instagram, but if you only have eyes for one person, then that's all it's going to be. You know what I mean? What Boosie is saying is real, but it only applies to people who are prone to cheat. Me, I am a member of the, a proud member of the faithful black male community. I am a reformed infidel. Keep talking, brother.

Okay? Black men don't cheat. All right? I've been clean for October 2016. I felt that in my soul, bro. I've been clean for over six years now. Okay. That's right.

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