The Breakfast Club - We Talk Back: Daddy Issues

Episode Date: September 15, 2024

The Black Effect presents... We Talk Back! Tambam and AJ go over their S.I.N.S of the week but not before Tambam let us know about her recent injury due to catching the bouquet at a wedding. They then delve into the topic of daddy issues, discussing signs and triggers that may indicate someone has daddy issues. Moreover, they share personal experiences and explore the impact of absent or unreliable fathers. They unpack the importance of therapy and self-reflection in addressing and overcoming daddy issues and more. Lets discuss!  Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself. It's okay. Have grace with yourself. You're trying your best. And you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing.

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We've got chills, thrills, and stories that'll make you wish the lights stayed on. So join me, won't you? Let's dive into the eerie unknown together. Sleep tight, if you can. Listen to Haunting on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, y'all. Niminy here. I'm the host of a brand-new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records.

Executive produced by Questlove, The Story Pirates, and John Glickman, Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop. Flash, slam, another one gone. Bash, bam, another one gone. The crack of the bat and another one gone. The tip of the cap, there's another one gone. Each episode is about a different inspiring figure from history Like this one about Claudette Colvin A 15 year old girl in Alabama Who refused to give up her seat on the city bus Nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing

Check it. And it began with me. Did you know, did you know? I wouldn't give up my seat. Nine months before Rosa, it was called a moment. Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise. Listen to historical records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, guys. I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast, Post Run High, is all about.

It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Dani Shapiro, host of the hit podcast, Family Secrets. How would you feel if when you met your biological father for the first time, he didn't even say hello? And what if your

past itself was the secret and the time had suddenly come to share that past with your child. These are just a few of the powerful and profound questions we'll be asking on our 11th season of Family Secrets. Listen to season 11 of Family Secrets on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, a production of iHeartRadio and the Black Effect Network. We're just two unapologetically Black women with an opinion who talk back. What's up, y'all? It's your girl AJ. And it's 10 broke. As y'all can see, I'm broke up. Shame. Y'allall i went to my homegirls wedding i flew back from la because y'all know i moved to la kind of since i'm back this much yeah i was there two weeks came back

and now i'm gonna be back in charlotte for at least six weeks yay that's the second sign though after moving to la because the second day your ass was there what happened that was literally the first 24 hours there was an earthquake we on we were recording the intro for one of these episodes and this bitch computer starts shaking she's thinking a nigga fell in the back oh shit there's the earthquake i was ready to leave then i was like maybe i should go but then everybody in la was like girl that's, there's the earthquake. I was ready to leave then. I was like, maybe I should go. But then everybody in LA was like, girl, that's LA. You got that out the way. Welcome.

So I just got comfortable. I came back home from my friend's wedding. I was supposed to be flying out on Thursday to go back to LA. And we had a time. I mean, it was so much fun. We had a great time at the wedding. Everybody was drunk, open bar. Everybody's dancing.

I saw them looking like they was knocking and bucking, running out the bridesmaids. Yeah, it was so much fun. They lit. They started the energy off. It was lit. So it's almost time to go. And I was like, Kima, you didn't do the bouquet toss. You got to do the bouquet toss.

Not you initiated it. Yes. She was like, oh, I forgot. Okay, yeah, I'm going to do it. I'm about to do the bouquet not you initiated yes oh i forgot okay yeah i'm gonna do it i'm about to do it so i'm like all right y'all move out the way bitches because i'm getting this motherfucking bouquet like i was lit i was lit i was like stretching on the dance floor like just but you want the bouquet for a husband or you just being goddamn uh competitive yes very competitive you know me I just gotta be like bitch I'm winning at all times but I mean I also want the husband like don't get it twisted I want the husband

but it is about me just beating everybody beating these bitches yeah that's all and I'll be I'm the bitch that I beat because I landed on my ankle. I jumped up. Like, I really jumped 10 feet. If y'all go to my Instagram, y'all see the video. I jumped 10 feet in the air. I don't know who I thought I was. Obviously, you thought you was damn LeBron James.

I thought I was Odell Beckham, bitch. And I bent it like Beckham for real. So I landed on my right ankle and then I hit the floor because that I heard the pop y'all I heard that shit go I was like oh that don't sound good right there and I laid on the floor and I rolled and I laughed I was wincing and laughing at the same time because everybody at the wedding is looking so I didn't want to look like I'm in severe pain so then I my friend tried to help me up and she couldn't even get me up because I couldn't put no pressure on this foot for real so then she was like dang you heavy bitch I was like no I just can't help you right now so she finally got me up and I limped off the floor like y'all

so crazy like acting like I wasn't hurt but then I was like every time I tried to apply some pressure to his foot it just wasn't happening I was doing a little something, but that liquor had me thinking. You was all right? Yeah, I was like, it's okay. You got wings, bitch. Like, yeah, that liquor gave me wings, so I thought I was okay. I'm trying to see what time this text message came through, because, y'all, I'm trying to go to sleep, okay?

I had all intentions on getting up 4 o'clock in the morning, driving to Charlotte, so we're going to court. Labor Day, essentially. on getting up four o'clock in the morning driving to charlotte so we can record uh labor day essentially and i get a text message at 11 uh late late as fuck okay bitch i think i broke my foot because it hurt so bad like it was hurting it was throbbing or whatever i put ice on it and then i went to bed and I was like it's probably something a little sprain I'll be fine in the morning baby when I woke

up my foot was the size of a I knew that's how it was gonna be um because I the one time I sprained my fucking ankle in Atlanta boy I fell down that big ass hill by um what's the club um compound bitch and some niggas a nigga with a bunch of bitches

in the car drove by i was like stupid bitch when i woke up the next morning my fucking foot was so big and i could feel my heart beating my foot it was like oh yeah old to be breaking shit right girl that's what i was saying like why didn't this happen when I was 25? This shit is stupid. That shit fuck around come back at 60. But let me tell you what the problem was. I had on socks. Because I brought my heels.

I forgot my slides. One of my friends let me wear her slides until her feet started hurting. And I had socks in my pocketbook. And I was like, I just slide these on for uh the bouquet toss just so I'm not barefoot on the floor mistake I would have landed that shit if I had my bare feet you know how rough my feet are shame so I love y'all I be saying that shit but y'all need to know that I love y'all for real because this is less than 48 Hours after this shit happened

And I'm here recording I'm supposed to be just resting Let's not let these comments On social media lie One nigga was like dad she must be Single single And is Everybody kept on comparing me to different Quarterbacks and what football team I need to be on and shit.

I hate humans, man. Them motherfuckers is funny as hell, man. I be running to the comments. My DMs went hammer. It went crazy. Some niggas trying to carry you. Yeah, there's a lot of niggas in there. There's some bitches in there, too.

Like, you ain't even need no nigga. I'll come help you. Girl, please. So I got six weeks. I got six weeks. Six plus weeks. So the doctor said, like, because of where the break is, like, something about the blood supply to my foot. And I got to put no pressure on it.

And I'll go back to the orthopedic doctor in four weeks to see how it's healing and if I need a screw. Lord, so y'all pray for me that I don't need no screw in my foot. Yeah, because that's going to be six plus how many weeks? For that shit to heal.

So what you going to do now? You going back to LA? No, I can't. I mean, I'm'm eventually all my shit is in LA you know not a lot of my stuff I took a lot of things with me so I had my because I was you know I didn't pick an apartment yet that was what I was going to do when once I got back I was in an Airbnb which I had for another 30 days but I went and got my my homegirl is like as we speak going to take my stuff out of there and take it to her house so I don't pay for a month that I'm not going to be there

so I'm just going to be living out of the stuff that I brought with me for the wedding so if y'all see me recording in two weeks in a wedding dress you know the fuck why because I ain't got no clothes and yeah so i'm just gonna go um i'm just so grateful for my mom i'm just gonna go to her

house and luckily i know y'all pray for me no my mama love me down and she but you know it's been when the last time you lived there. Yeah, grown women in the house. She gonna be like, I don't give a fuck about that foot. You better wash that dish out the mother. And then I'll be like, all right. Bitch, where that voice be coming from that you be putting on? I know, because she don't even sound like that.

That's the sound of my head when she talking shit. I'm going to break the other one if you keep putting shit in my sink so you know i mean that'll be interesting yeah a lot y'all we want to talk about daddy issues today we need to talk about mommy because you about to experience this bitch i done been there and never ever ever them people different man you you see your parents uh as superheroes until you realize them niggas is humans they're regular people and they be having all their little bullshit with them so good luck my nigga this shit look like a transformer on the bottom of my foot i just hate this for me just putting on clothes like you never realize how important two feet are and losing limbs and

losing stuff yeah just washing my ass was just such an obstacle today and not having like like I'm staying at my homegirl Sean house y'all shout out to Sean Sean has been like an angel to me like really helping me out so much and i know she did not sign up for that and i know i was like starting to get annoying because i downloaded the bell app and i started no you didn't i'm just playing she's like bitch i will throw that phone over the motherfucking balcony i was like i just one more thing you brought me some crumpets at this point when i woke up she was like are you hungry why don't you get yourself up and make

yourself something to eat then Christina Christina's gone she gonna put your ass in the bathtub bitch and leave you so I'm gonna get up out of there tomorrow cause I never wore all my welcome but you lose a friend yeah exactly but that's when you know who's your friend when people come through in times like that when you got one foot yeah shout

out to sean shout out to sean for real how was your weekend let's talk about your weekend in the intro um what did i do this weekend i don't think i did much of anything for real real. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia Keys opens up about conquering doubt, learning to trust herself and leaning into her dreams. I think a lot of times we are built to doubt the possibilities for ourselves. For self-preservation and protection, it was literally that step by step. And so I discovered that that is how we get where we're going. This increment of small, determined moments.

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And I was on the road Labor Day. I didn't do much. I didn't do shit. You didn't hang out over the weekend prior to Monday? Hell no. Y'all, AJ be lying. AJ do not want y'all to know her business i was on amazon buying a whole bunch of cat baby things that was about it she got a new kitty y'all it's

cute it's so cute that's all um i ain't do shit this weekend for real money oh i'm lying okay i do be lies i maybe i just be forgetting like I do Things and so my homegirl my Best friend Priscilla her birthday Was on the 28th Of August so we did have a little Shending celebration on Saturday crabs we had Some blue crab I made my little stuff

Vegan Stuff shells for The people I be having to take my Own food places just to make sure I got something to eat. Cause I don't eat chicken and all that bullshit. So I brought a big ass pan of stuffed shells. We had all just drunk bitch.

I was on shrooms. This is probably why I be forgetting. Cause y'all, I can't wait till Fridays to take shrooms. Every Friday I be on shrooms, bitch. I be in here looking in the mirror. And I realized that. looking in the mirror. And I realize that-

Not in the mirror. I realize that I'm never still. So when I'm on shrooms, it's just weird, bitch. I be writing a bunch of shit and I be looking in the mirror a lot. Like doing some real shadow work type shit. You know what I'm saying? Scribing. It's a scribe.

Happy birthday, Priscilla. Happy birthday. My friend, she went to... Where did she go out? St. Croix with her little boo. She posting niggas on social media now. I was like, oh, you locked in on social media now. I see that. I hear that, girl. Oh, you locked in, locked in. She's serious, ain't it?

He was there, too. She got a little New York little ting. I hear that. Nice guy. I'm so happy for my friend. She deserves all the nice things. Amen. Amen.

Yeah, so that's what I did. We celebrated her this weekend on Saturday, and then Sunday is just a big blur. Let's get into stupid internet news though all right i want to start on a very great note you see these tsr zaddies that the shade room posted with this uh she want a big dog she don't want no puppy she want a big dog um boss boss man dilo song girl girl y'all series of black men okay yes a black man's back is how i know god is fucking real okay these men these i was smiling the whole time and one of my friends who got no business sending me this and this shit to me, because she's very, very fucking married.

And she was like, I got to share this with somebody. Girl, I'm looking at it right now. And it's just nothing but beautiful black men. Oh, my God. My vagina thumping. The last nigga, though, I'm mad you was standing on a stool or something. Why your knees that far up the damn mirror? Boy, you standing on something.

But these some nice looking men. I need a redo. We need to see. What's the next group of men? Yeah, they need to do this every month. Gorgeous black men. Y'all know black men got swag. That's why everybody loves black men.

Because it's just something with their aura that everybody want to touch. I'm about to go follow all these niggas. Every last one of them. I like them. I'm going to tell you. I like that first nigga. The first and the second. Yes.

Just gorgeous. Like, why are you the second. Yes. Just gorgeous. Like, why are you shaped like that? How you look like that? If y'all man go to go to the shade room. What day was that posted? That was all right. When this come out, it'll be seven days ago. Look for seven days ago, ladies.

It gives you an eyeful of God's goodness. The Lord is my shepherd. He know what I want. Amen. Mr. Sean Wells underscore number one. Yes. Let's shout these niggas out. Bam cam underscore visuals.

Go ahead. Say that again. Bam. Bam cam underscore visuals. I feel like that one for me bam i'm tam bam and he bam cam but i want to be bodied by brandon underscore yes yes follow him follow him Cause he fine too Dominator4266 He need to be Terminator 4266

Girl we just sound like some thirsty aunties right now This sound like them phone calls from prison Yeah, what's up This your girl, AJ. I'm number 4526. Just looking for a friend. Looking for one of these niggas.

Let me stop if I get beat up, girl. You're right. On the mic. I'm just playing, baby. Anyway anyway i'm a fraternizer nigga better know that fucker with me okay don't touch my phone and i won't touch yours okay all right so oh look at this so i saw this over the weekend a woman paid a man back with a foursome for buying her and her two friends VIP tickets to Usher concert. And they went 11 rounds.

Sounds like a good time. Sounds like drugs. What kind of drugs y'all was on? It wasn't really 11 rounds or just 11 condoms. Oh, perhaps. Because that's how it reads a little bit. That makes sense to me. Like, like nigga you swapping condoms out you ain't you ain't went no 11 rounds with three bitches i don't believe it oh no she shared a photo of 11 open skin condoms so it's just like he was switching up for each girl i guess they were like keeping it safe i don't want to see usher that bad

i want to see usher but not that bad and i want to did she feel like she had that's like that's all you had to pay back with like you just cheated they just wanted to do a threesome yeah because he didn't request that because it's saying as a token of appreciation for his consideration, his considerate gift to her and her friends, she planned to surprise him with a special experience that all the girls agreed upon. So he didn't say, hey, you hoes want to see Usher. Y'all got to pay him pussy. Right. No, he didn't say that. He just was able to receive that as a gift for these Usher tickets.

Damn. I couldn't imagine they just some freaky freaky frogs and they just needed a reason hell yeah it says she described this as one of her top three most uh best experiences giving it a perfect 10 out of 10 she does recommend she provided provided additional crucial information that was omitted in her first statements. She says there was one man and three women. Yes, we ran a train on him. Yes, it was consensual. Yes, he enjoyed it. Condoms were switched between partners. Skin condoms don't smell like rubber if they're lubricated naturally or otherwise. I like skin condoms.

Is it a train though? Because men would consider that a threesome. If you eating all these coochies, we ride a train on you. Yeah, if you ate everybody out. But then everybody kissing and shit. That's a lot of... But if it was one woman and three men it would be a choo choo

we had an episode about that yeah it's a train why is that a double standard yeah because remember AJ Johnson who played Tyrese mama in Baby Boy she said for her 50th birthday, she had a threesome

with two of her good guy friends, and she loved it. She had a train ran on her with two of her good guy friends. I know women that enjoy that. I say it often. I have a client who goes to Jamaica annually to get trained. What is the psychology of that? She'd be like, oh yeah, one dick in my mouth and one dick in my pussy. Yes. You remember that? It was a girl on social media once on a podcast saying how most women fantasize about that

or have done it. Most women have had a train ran on them. That's not true. That's not true. My closest friends have never had a train ran on them. Never. That don't even sound appealing to me. I do not subscribe to that. That sounds like hard work. Right. I barely can suck one dick. Imagine me trying to do the backhand bumps on two.

Absolutely not. can suck one dick imagine me trying to do the backhand bumps on two absolutely not yeah but to each their own you know whatever gets you off hey more power to you but and to be in my house no yeah so stop putting bodies in our coochie okay we like to accumulate our shit one by one yeah nobody doing two at a time three at a time that math is wild girl bye oh goodness but shout out to uh old girl and her crew okay that's what i want to know right he probably he probably was accusing usher having a body double come out. That did not look like Usher. It did not. That didn't look like great body double. Beyonce got a good one.

Beyonce got a good body double. Usher need to get a new one. Yeah, his body double look. Who the fuck was that? That nigga couldn't even sing. That's his uncle. That's his uncle. His face was too small.

His neck was too skinny. Something wasn't right what do you think his name is Nutcher alright Nutcher what other is ushers in the church and what else is there girl

I don't know you go to church you should know yeah that's pastor that's Pastor. That's the Pastor. That ain't the Usher at all. Girl, who was that? I don't know. But I hope that's not to show they gave they pussy up for us.

You didn't even see Usher, bitch. Y'all just wanted to be hoes so bad. You seen the Pastor. Oh, goodness. So fans are accusing Rashida and Kirk Frost. Y'all just wanted to be hoes so bad You seen the pastor Oh goodness So fans are accusing Rashida and Kirk Frost Of having a fake Cheating scandal After Jasmine Blue

Which is Kirk's baby mama Remember on one season of Love and Hip Hop He had a baby with this girl Jasmine Blue shares Labor Day posts They've been in cahoots the entire time so it says a 34 year old loving hip-hop star known for her affair with kirk frost that led to the birth of their son and recently posted a photo of a labor day meal barbecue chicken baked beans and mac and cheese prepared by kirk and his wife rashidaida. The caption read, she at them.

She at Kirk, she at Rashida and said, put they foot in this food. So Frost117 and at Rashida put they foot in this food. The post has sparked doubts about the ongoing storyline on the show where Jasmine Blue has been claiming that Kirk Frost is still attempting to cheat on Rashida with her, even providing a text message evidence to support her allegations. It says fans are now questioning if the drama is being staged for entertainment purposes with many voicing their concerns on X formerly Twitter, given the seemingly friendly interaction between jazz and blue Kirk Frost and Rashida behind the scenes one fan

commented and said it's the fake storyline for me why do they keep playing on their playing with their marriage like this they aren't embarrassed another added they've been in cahoots this entire time believe it or not why might as well make a bad situation good and keep getting the bag where she ain't going nowhere okay and first of all ain't this shit pre-recorded Y'all might see at the end of the season That they made up That part okay It ain't like they recording

Like we doing this show Last fucking minute No we actually been doing better Okay we be Yeah we do be like Like the body of the show. It's just the fans. We can't do them in advance. Right.

We don't know the future. So what I do know is that Kirk is an Aquarius and Rashida is the Gemini. Okay. She got a high tolerance with some bullshit. That's why she still with, with Kirk and Kirk was that nigga. You know what I'm saying? So she probably still like, that's her person. She ain't going nowhere. She not going nowhere, no matter

what. So fuck y'all. And yeah, we gonna be one big happy family because like it or not, this child exists. Right. Okay. I got a step churn. And them churn exist. I take some at this point. point yeah like i don't got no problem with the step chair i don't beat that nigga up a couple times you'll be all right

i don't know they life look nice okay they they doing whatever they want to do um i just know kirk is manipulative as a motherfucker boy I don't watch the show no more I stopped watching Love and Hip Hop many many years ago I don't think I'm the target audience anymore the only time I really watched it is like for this podcast

we had to talk about something this shit and Real Housewives of Atlanta I really don't watch reality TV like that I don't watch reality TV like that. I don't watch reality TV anymore either. I don't think. Because it's not reality. It should be so scripted.

I watch those shows on Netflix like The One or Love is Blind or that shit. Love at First Sight. I watch some of that. But then I don't really be getting into that like I used to. All that shit is weird to me. I like scripted shows. I like Sisters. Sisters got me in a chokehold right now.

You sound like my mama. Yeah. I like that. I watched that. Your Honor. That was really good. I got to find that series. So right now I am catching up.

I don't have Netflix. So I got to get in where I fit in. So right now I am catching up. It's on Netflix. I don't have Netflix. So I got to get in where I fit in. So right now I do have Disney Plus and Hulu through my Verizon cell phone. Oh, if you got Hulu, then you should watch Reasonable Doubt. That's good. I'm going to check it out. But I'm watching, I just got into The Handmaid's Tale. Bitch, you let it fall.

Did you watch that series? Yes. got into the hands-made tale. Bitch, you let it fall. Well, you know, I watch TV for educational purposes, not entertainment. This shit is deep as fuck. That TV show. And if anybody watched that shit and thought that was just like, oh, it's just entertainment. No, they showing you what could fucking be.

Yeah, the future. That shit is weird to me and it's actually really demonic to me but i've already committed i already started watching i gotta see you through but a lot of parts of it i'd be like okay i'm not watching this tomorrow it'd be making me feel some type of way like spiritually i got i got to step away from that shit like the when that bitch took her to see her daughter like for the first time when they raped her when she was pregnant i'm like yo this is very wild this tv show it's dark as fuck and then and then what also doesn't

sit right with me and this right quick you got this white lady who took this black lady fucking husband had a baby with him like that bob that that that part of the story bothers me right there yeah she left now that baby gonna have this woman daddy issues which brings me to her topic today we talking about having daddy issues and some of the signs and triggers and all those things so y'all stay tuned and listen and see if you got daddy issues like me and AJ. I don't got no daddy issues. Me neither. We'll be back.

Okay, y'all. We're back. And I couldn't really find a clear definition of what, I don't know, the scientists say daddy issues actually is but i guess people display you know certain type of behaviors when they may have daddy issues i feel like it's some scapegoat shit when a nigga playing with you automatically you got daddy issues well men can have daddy issues too right no absolutely yeah but i'm women so absolutely men actually have daddy issues over mommy issues i think they kind of blame mama for daddy not being

there but that's a whole nother episode anyway so the first thing it says dating older men oh that's how you know you oh yeah that might be one of the signs of having daddy issues yeah my daddy my daddy wife is like 45 46 that nigga is 73 same age as one of my daddies 70s right yes my daddy is 73 that nigga about to be 74 this year ain't no way He still smashing It ain't no fucking way My daddy

You don't know I don't know Viagra done fucked the game up Cause I probably would've had me A 70 year old If Viagra didn't exist Listen you would date A 70

You would date somebody That much For the bag They don't have to touch me For real Cause dick don't work But now like Viagra Make they dick work

They don't wanna just Hold your hand no more. Like they really want to smash. I'm not even playing that game. Because you know how when you watch a nigga walk away from, you know, y'all doing the dick. I need to see him do something decent walking away. I'm going to see that on the back. I'm going to be looking funny.

Nigga be melting walking off. All niggas look weird from the back walking away. You be like. But if you see some balls hanging real low walking away, oh my God. What am I doing here? I can't play like this. Your ancestors watch it too. I gotta wait till my shit hanging that low to be with someone hanging that low.

But then they don't want you. I can understand why older men want younger women but i don't understand why young women want older men like aside from money like uh they got that little gray line around their fucking eye around the pupil absolutely that's cataract no them niggas just going blind that's how you know somebody old i had an old man trying to tell me he was uh 40 40 at the time i'm like in my 20s he's trying to convince me that he just 40 something but you got that great line sir i know you like 60 right i remember when i was little and like it used to be old niggas in my family i'm like you know i was pretty and then you should do that great shit that ain't pretty bitch

I can't see gotta get that cat I just had to take my daddy a couple weeks ago like this why the fuck I had to take my daddy to get cataract surgery he got a fucking wife in her 40s I'm confused maybe she was busy that day and I had to take him four different times like

for the actual appointment for one eye then an actual appointment for one eye then an actual appointment for the other eye then the follow-up appointments what's she at take off and work for your husband yeah but you said she'd be showing up for yes she did i'm grateful because listen only i'm gonna have one parent to probably take care of hopefully she stay around amen thank you thank you girl so all right mom all right that's one one side that I don't have daddy issues Because I typically don't date older men

What do they say about dating younger men I don't know ask them bitches at the schoolyard Ask them teachers who keep getting arrested I don't go that young y'all For snatching on the high school boys I don't go that young It was two of them that got arrested for Planning a threesome with a high school boy

Yeah that's disgusting Yeah what is up with a high school boy yeah that's disgusting yeah what is up with y'all that is no that's that clue uh anxious attachment what does that mean anxious um it says you never knew what you expect from from your dad sometimes he was engaged other times distant he might have had a habit of venting to you i've seen that my my niece's dad does that i'm like man you be trying to treat you like you his old lady so like if they say they come in and not come and then don't don't show up things like that which men men do that without somebody having daddy issues right people so i do that you know i'm saying i have told somebody i'm gonna do some shit and just don't follow up

and don't answer the phone. That's not nice. You've never done that? No, I try to show up. If I make a plan with you, I'll at least be like, I can't. But you never change your mind? You said you was going to show up for a dude and then

you just don't feel like it no more? I ain't coming again but i'll say something oh no it may not be the truth i'm sick no definitely but i'll say something i don't like i hate when i don't ghost me because i don't like that because i'm coming back like that bitch on that new movie deliverance maybe you got anxious attachment maybe you not yet i want to see i just saw the movie before that part was hilarious not yet. I want to see it. I just saw the preview for it. That part was hilarious. She was like, I get to know your nappy pussy. I saw a meme with that on it.

I didn't know that was a movie, though. No, that shit took me out. I was like, let me stage my house in there. They were talking about your ass. You're stupid. But no, you said you don't like when people do that like i feel like not i don't i don't have to have an explanation every time from somebody you just don't feel like it no you need to tell me if no especially if i don't because if somebody does that you just not for me good thank you for showing me today before i suck your dick like it takes just a second to

communicate that you can't be available when you said you would that pisses me off so bad but what if the person like something like had an emergency something i'm telling you i've actually ghosted people but what if that person had an emergency i have seen you jump to conclusions, dog. Real fast. Sitting in niggas' paragraphs. So, that might be a daddy issue. Girl, fuck you. I will jump to conclusions, yeah. Because, what are you doing?

Are you in jail? Are you coming? Did someone die? Are you coming? I remember one time. Don't tell eight and then you it's something you're showing up at 10 or communicate that you're not coming at eight i don't have a problem but what if they died well then they can't communicate anything and then that's not a problem but you gotta have that died but you need to have that you need to be dead nigga okay got it uh

fear of abandonment could be daddy issues oh i got that i don't care ding ding ding ding but what does that look like for you because i mean i don't know the older i get i don't care a lot about something i think i'll be having trouble picking a person because i'm scared i'm gonna pick wrong and they're gonna leave me i said that out loud because you ain't never left somebody right i mean i don't think i've ever left anyone that i got serious with uh they always in like they'll break up with me but they always try to double back and then they'd be like nah nigga you thought the grass was greener over there stay over there uh uh your father is manipulative and controlling my daddy don't even talk my nigga my daddy's so cool man he really

don't even talk for real yeah i don't think which could be manipulative manipulation how because you don't really answer questions like i have been have been with men. You ask them something, they do not. You got to be real specific with the question. Do you have any kids? And do you have any kids on the way? Because a nigga have somebody pregnant because the baby doesn't exist yet. I ain't got no kids. I don't got no kids.

So I know people, men You gotta be real specific When you asking These questions And I feel like My daddy probably Used to gaslight my mom In that way Yeah that's what I think

I don't Like with my dad The manipulative And controlling part I can't speak to that With me Right But I imagine

He was like that With women You know that he was dead But our relationship Wasn't that like Yeah Do you think you have daddy issues uh in any of your relationships like anything like that stems from your relationship

with your father absolutely absolutely that what you were saying where i will jump off um jump off the gun even on that nigga i see you jumping your daddy quick too you're supposed to be here i don't like that but i just think it's uh about communication for me you know like just communicate it's not i'm gonna not be mad at you for not being here i'm gonna be mad at you because you didn't communicate that you weren't going to be here when you said right that'll be my issue um dating older man no that's not for me what's the other one I don't know what avoided attachment

and then the other one was oh low self esteem could be one of them difficulty trusting men oh I definitely have difficulty emotionally unavailable jealousy become easily attached and clingy if we have sex we we go together

period i'm confused why you think we don't yeah and especially depending on how we have sex bitches is not studying con dick but if you have sex with a woman without a condom please know that's your girlfriend it is even in the bible even kind of penis i'll be attached what do we do like once i allow you to go there with me we in love not me it just depends no but that's how i'll be feeling like these young girls they different how you get attached with that plastic in the middle like because i'll be so emotional off rubber no it don't just be like oh girl fuck you that's rubber we do the do i'm like i'm emotional i'm passionate like once we do that and now i'm locked in nah as long as there's a barrier there's a barrier yeah i'm good yeah that might be i can't fall in

love with no condom dick it's a daddy issue if i can't fall in love with condom dick yes no look at your list that's there don't have nothing to do with my goddamn daddy condom dick is wild as you call it that it is what it is um oh so okay this is it says you've never met your father i can see somebody having having daddy issues who never met their daddy. I mean, absolutely. I'm trying to think, like, what type of things, like, what my dad, that I avoid in men because of him. I don't know.

I don't really be liking ball head niggas I love ball head niggas My daddy got hair though But the older I get the less I can avoid them Niggas losing their hair Niggas going ball Niggas is in Turkey I got a homeboy right now in Turkey

And he said there's so many niggas over there Right now getting their hairline. I'll be like sending him all the Turkish places like this place. I'm going to send you this guy. Yeah, send it to me. And my friend, he's an MD so he picked this place based off and he got like 5 million followers on Instagram. The place in Turkey.

They does this. This is a lady runs in. Yeah, send it to me. Send it to my friend. And the pictures, the before and afters look pretty good i'm not against that like i'm against them goddamn lace friends i listen do that if it's done good i don't care you can get your lace front i had an old friend who went to benedict with us send me on instagram the other day he was like i got a surprise for you. So he sends me a recent picture of him and he cut his dreads off. But nigga, the last time I seen you, which was probably like 10 years ago.

You ain't have no hair, nigga. You was wearing hats. Where does fucking hair come from? I said, if I see your ass at homecoming, I am dumping a bottle of alcohol in your head. Why would you do that? You wouldn't want nobody to do that to your hair. I'm here for it. Because I know that shit about the people.

A lace front? If it look good. You dating a nigga with one? If it look nice. You need my guy to be? You need my guy to be, baby? He going to be trying to get you to do his damn hair. And I will.

It will. That's my man, my man, my man. That shit going to be lifting. I don't like it. It's thick as fuck it's like not blended in the back i'm like see it gotta be good you can't send it to somebody who do here and think i'm not gonna know that's my shit on your head listen as long as it look good i don't care i do not care i'm here for it whatever make you

feel confident and it look nice i'm here for it because i need you to feel the same way about me yeah but i you know that's a weave just tell me that's a weave like why are you trying to play and it look nice, I'm here for it. Because I need you to feel the same way about me. Yeah, but you know that's a weave. Just tell me that's a weave. Like, why are you trying to play with my intelligence? Oh, he ain't say it was a weave? No, he really want me to be like, this is hair. And I'm like, no, nigga, you was wearing a fitted cap for a minute. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions.

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or wherever you get your podcasts. A few years because your dreads was out in the middle. So now you got like waves, hairline, Chris, I mean, thick. Steve Harvey back when he was looking like,

uh, Marcus Houston. What was the show where you rubbed the log? Oh, um, Apollo. God damn. Oh man,

we be forgetting all this type of shit. He was the first one to do it. Yeah. So Cat Williams said that nigga had a wig on He stopped But it looked nice That box speed look nice to you? Back in 1993 that shit was fire

Anxiety in relationships Excessive friendliness Towards guys You always in that nigga face Smiling that's me but i'm but i'm like that with women too like i'm just friendly or gay people pleasing behaviors no what's another thing um afraid of being alone no i'll stay in my house for days it don't come out

yeah i think that um people use like the like i said they use that daddy issue shit to just to it's just another way to offend women i think do you think most strippers have daddy issues no because you know i can for my family as an example right so i don't know maybe my sister got daddy issues i don't know but you can be raised in the same house right same parents one of them fucking siblings gonna be a whole nother type of person like i'm i'm completely different from my family right but we are also alike in other ways and we have one that just can't fucking get right you know what i'm saying i'm pretty sure i'm the wild card in my family i know my mama's seeing me putting cat shit because I've been using her Amazon I know she's seen me

putting cat shit in that uh cart I know she want to call me and ask me what the fuck I'm doing I know it's itching her I know it's killing her not to call me because you don't even think you got a cat no she know I got a cat she probably pissed about it like bitch you don't need a cat oh but um i don't have daddy issues i don't think zoom in uh jorder i think aside from i aside from just not being trust i'm not trusting i remember one time my daddy um he would go to this place called the joint it was like oh i should go there no bitch not the chiropractor okay i'm talking about like

a little hole in the wall where you pick up some pussy like he was there my mom would put us in the car to get him out of there and they argue in the parking lot that type of shit oh like oh the joint little girls yeah away for my daddy tramp no i literally yelled out the window once and at that it was that day that i stopped calling my daddy daddy i started calling him by his first name like my sister that sounds like a daddy issue right there what that nigga not with the next nigga yeah i had an issue with him but not with the next person but you don't think that has manifested in any way leaving i'm gonna tell you the one day that i knew that i leaving not like breaking up

with me but leaving i remember one day i told my dad i wanted to go with him wherever he was going i just wanted to be where he had and i'm like all right I'm gonna with my shoes I'm finding to put my shoes and I know he's getting his keys he's leaving at the door bitch I got to the carport and he had pulled out my heart still hurt right now I'm talking about how that nigga drove off without me in that fucking ugly ass brown whatever car that was back then that's the first person to ever break your heart is your daddy but a nigga did that to me one morning like oh you told me you yes yes when we were supposed and and it took me back to that probably did something to him that morning because i'm still mad at my daddy from that one day you know what i'm saying yeah if we have been working out the whole week going to the gym

right i wake up. I don't even brush my teeth yet. I don't take a shower yet. I'm getting you and your son together, right? So the last step for me, I already took my shower, whatever. Now I finally pee up that I made y'all breakfast, all this shit. We going to the gym for the fifth day this week. It's routine.

We have been routinely doing this the whole week. So I'm sitting on the stairs. I put my shoes on and I walk over to the nightstand the uh nightstand to get my cell phone and i hear the fucking door lock like i'm bending down i hear so i run to the door like a kid i'm like are you leaving me he was like you need to hurry up did you like the fucking lost it no yeah absolutely not and that was the beginning of the end daddy right the fuck up out of here because that's disrespectful just say no though just say you're not going this morning or something like that i'll say i don't know he just wanted me to be on his time which is still different from a daddy just wanting to go cheat in peace and his five-year-old was like i want to come yeah but still it affected you in a similar way yeah so that's that's that might be

my daddy issue so don't pull out don't fucking leave me nowhere yeah that same nigga did that to me at the post office one day like he kept triggering that that is a daddy issue that's yeah that's a trigger don't go nowhere without telling me you're leaving. If I walk outside and you're not there, it's a problem. Yeah. But is that really a daddy issue or just somebody really disrespecting you? Both. Because maybe you get so upset because it triggers a pain that you knew from a childhood trauma.

But imagine, okay, your daddy never did that to you before, right? Imagine you walking outside and you were supposed to be going with your man and he imagine walking bitch shit go ahead yo you make me fucking sick but imagine like that happening you don't have that particular uh issue you didn't yeah you didn't have that experience, but that's disrespectful. Yeah, it is. As far as I'm concerned. But a man will say, well, why you acting like that? You got daddy issues. Because you left me because you disrespected me?

Yeah, but maybe you wouldn't have, like, blew up as much had you not had that experience. I would. You might have still been mad. I'm still disrespected. Yeah. I'm still blowing up. My daddy ain't never really disrespect me. I remember one time when I was little, you know that Church's Chicken by Benedict?

Well, it used to be Church's. I think it's like a... It was Church's. I remember there, yeah. But it was Church's with my mom and dad. When they put a Panda Express, I would have gained 100 pounds. Yeah, that's right. What was the Chinese restaurant over there?

China. China Inn? No. China Walk. China Walk. Yeah. I used to eat China Walk every day, bitch. Gained 50 pounds fresh from here.

That was me. So this was when I was a baby girl. And I can remember this. My parents were having, like, they came in separate cars and they met at churches to get lunch. Right. And they was arguing the whole time we was eating. And then my older sister was in school. I was too young to be in school. And they left. They were leaving. And I followed my mama storm, tried to storm off. Right. And I can't run it behind her. She said, go with your daddy. Right.

So then I went running toward my daddy car and. She said, go with your daddy. So then I went running toward my daddy's car. And he was like, go with your mama. So then I went running back toward my mama's car. She said, didn't I tell you to go with your daddy? So then I was running toward his car. He's like, go with your mama. So I just stopped in the parking lot. I was like, I don't know where to go.

And they both stopped. And they came together and they stopped arguing because they saw me in just standing in the middle of the church's parking lot like i don't know what to do that is so sad no ain't that sad these goddamn parents be terrorizing the kids man and maybe that's why nigga you need to be on time to pick me up and let me know where you at because follow through follow through so maybe that's my that's my trigger and i won't eat no motherfucking churches man them bitches will be cooking that chicken titties too big anyway in the fryer um i don't know i don't know where the fuck else I'm going at with this but um I love my dad

and if I have an issue with a man it is not because of some shit my daddy did to me at all I'm not sure I'm still going to therapy and maybe I need to unpack some things I don't know maybe that's why I'm not married yet because I'll be I'll be hard on these men sometime I feel like all right tell me all right I'm gonna tell you my daddy might be mad i'm telling y'all this but i'm mad at my daddy right now because he wouldn't come pick me up from the airport is that me being spoiled no why would he not my daddy would never not come get me yeah that's what i said like why wouldn't you and that's when you know people love you when they come get you from the airport on time it was i mean now granted he didn't know

that i was gonna be in the airport you know i was like i'm because it was a layover so i wasn't even supposed to be in chicago but i got stuck in chicago and now i'm stuck in chicago come get me and he would not come get me so i'm mad at him i'm still mad at him and that was like so you had to sit in the airport all day no i wouldn't got me a hotel room by the airport but he did not come pick me up girl you want to jump him i would like to yeah i would like to but i can't fight that that's a big grown man i can't fight that didn't have my feelings that he didn't come get me but then maybe not showing up for you yeah maybe it's far he was he did work late and he like he would have had to come from indiana he still had to go home though you know he lives in chicago but works in indiana i mean but it's right there though though. Like, Gary, I know Gary is a train ride away. Yeah, so, I'm mad at him

still. I love him, but I'm mad. And you probably feel like, nigga, whatever I ask you to do, you need to be doing it. That's how I feel. Yeah. And I don't ask for a lot. Yeah, that's probably how, I probably have some entitlement when it comes to my daddy, but even

though I don't ask people to do a whole bunch of shit for me, if I were to call my daddy and he told me no right now bitch i'll probably kick out i'll probably be on the floor kicking like no nigga you you owe me that's how i felt like no what you mean no you can't you said no you can't but you meant no you won't right so i'm well no maybe he didn't know he can't and you took it as no i won't well why you can't but you meant no you won't right so i'm well no maybe he didn't know he can't and you took it as no i won't well why you can't because it's too fucking far and i just got off from work and you're a grown woman no fuck that fuck that shit you talk about right now call your daddy bitch i still talk we still in the group chat and we say good morning every morning um me my mom my dad

and my sisters every morning we say good morning to each other and then he called me the other day he called me we talked once I broke my foot he called me and I ain't act like a bitch I was nice but the time when I moved to LA he called me see how I was uh moving in I was like you don't care he's like oh are you good or not that's how you do niggas yep you don't care guilt tripping so you be guilt tripping the men you be guilt tripping your daddy is that what we're gonna call it yes that is guilt tripping them yes absolutely define that guilt tripping somebody like you making them feel bad about some shit they shouldn't have to feel bad about why he's like you don't care yes he does care he wouldn't have called if he didn't

if he can he would have picked me up from the airport oh my life your daddy life not mine your daddy life i love my daddy but i still think he should have came and got me period i would come get it ain't nobody in my family that would call me and say hey i'm stuck at the airport in your city and i wouldn't show what time you would have had to been back to the airport early in the morning that's my daddy yeah be considerate you gotta be considerate sometimes even though it is your dad considerate yeah because i know how far the fucking airports the fucking airports are two airports in chicago like if he lives in a suburb somewhere an outskirts he gonna send me

uber yeah he could have done that but i was like that's okay i just give me a hotel yeah indeed doing myself like i always do okay so maybe i do have a little bit of things a little tiny bit areas of improvement a little tt i need i need to find me a new therapist i haven't had therapy since my last relationship basically i kind of stopped it and i i actually have i bought this cat emotional support. Cat? Yes. I've never heard of an emotional support cat. People have cats for emotional support, right?

I feel like cats give you, uh, emotional support. First of all, cats are more magical though. They'll fuck what they want to do. That's not true. They don't.

You got to raise them how you want them to be. They do. They live, they bounce to the beat of their own and they don't fuck with you they will fuck with you one second and then scratch you the neck I've seen it I've felt it alright like

I'm ready to be done with this fucking conversation I need to call my dandy well I ended on this I saw this post on Instagram and it was saying it basically said calculate how many times you see your or how often you see your parent. Right. So how many times you think how often do you see your daddy?

I don't get to see my dad a lot anymore because he lives. Well, my daddy lived in my city and I don't see my parents enough. I don't get to see my dad a lot anymore because he lives... Well, my daddy lives in my city and I don't see my parents enough. I don't think. So, like, calculate their age and things. Like, you literally probably got 20 more times to see them this lifetime. Damn, that's dark, AJ. No, it's just go see your people.

Oh, I see my... Go call your people. I would see my mama every week, but... How is that dark? What the fuck? 20 more times to see my daddy, girl. That hurt my people. I would see my mama every week. How is that dark? What the fuck? 20 more times to see my daddy, girl. That hurt my feelings. Yes, but, and it should.

It should. So now, make more effort to see your- To pick a bitch up from the airport. Maybe you need to not pop in. Maybe you actually schedule time with your daddy and fly to Chicago. Not just you happen to see me because I pull up at the airport. Well, I've done that. I do that.

You know, I will pull up. I've flown him to me too. That just happened to be one instance where I happened to be in your city, you know, in a layover going to Europe and my flight got canceled in Chicago. Well, I'm going to do better

and go see my daddy more. Yeah, your daddy right down the street talking about do better and fly to Chicago. I see that nigga's system cataract appointment. He can't see your ass. And my mama took her house key from me, so I don't go over there.

Girl, I'm not sitting in your driveway until you come home. I done had a kid in your house my whole life. Yeah. And you just trying to be nasty right quick. So now you ain't going over there? Absolutely not. No. You just take the advice you just gave me.

If I call her and she don't answer the phone, I'm not going to sit in her yard. So my mom like to act like she don't see you calling her. She busy. She is watching all them Korean shows on Netflix and playing this game on her phone. Shoot. I know she got her phone in her hand when I call. She get addicted to Korean soap operas. There's something in there that's programmed my mom at this point. She can't not not watch that shit.

That's funny. Anyway, call your people. your daddy call your daddy if you possibly got daddy issues or not work on them go to therapy episodes will never go high plan in my mind yeah it is what it is about our daddy we should bring them on again we had them on once we did let's do it for father's day next year and all them niggas there was lie not my daddy girl both of our daddies was lying my daddy was not lying my daddy lied my daddy was like ain't no woman never came between him and his marriage because in these men my in my i'm not i'm not gonna say in these men in daddy's mind, but I still think it's men, right? In his mind, if you were the one that left the marriage,

then what he was doing wasn't the cause of the marriage ending. So even though he was fucking on bitches, you chose to leave. So you ended the marriage. Well, the vow is for better or worse fuck that and this is why fuck y'all statistics and i always say this women just do the paperwork men leave the relationship and we do the paperwork just like everything else that's it but you you already left the relationship when you started violating and then i filed for divorce yeah but you smashing women and doing all type of wild shit.

Like he still to this day, 70 years old. Like that nigga don't think that it was women. That nigga used to come home with blonde hair on his clothes. Oh, wow. It's fucking on white bitches too. Well,

black girls be having blonde hair. Back then? You had blonde hair. Shut your damn mouth. You had blonde hair. Shut your damn mouth. You had blonde hair for four years. 27 inch. Yeah, long blonde hair. What club you did see?

Onyx. All right, y'all. Yeah. Call your people. All right. Get some therapy if you possibly have any of these issues. Right. Do you have anything?

If you want to say something to your daddy, say it now. Oh, I love my dad. My dad and I love him. I love just like him. I love you, daddy. I love my daddy a whole lot. I respect you. I'm not a stripper because I respect you.

So you would have been a stripper if he was absent, like, for real? Like, you didn't know him? You'd probably be stripping? I probably would have, like, in my, like, college. Back then, I had ass when you couldn't buy it like I probably could have gotten rich but I respected my father so much that I would never you know so you okay that's a whole nother episode what what about your respect respecting yourself you weren't about what the fuck i was trying to get that i would have been getting that bag in my 20s i would have got that bag in my 20s but you couldn't buy it back then you know what i'm saying

oh you know that my brain skipped but when you said maybe the strippers don't be having dads no you could be you could raise your people however and they end up doing what the fuck they want to do like two-parent household went to college probably flunked out your parents send you to college and now you stripping or now you do well today you know strippers are like very much more celebrated than like when we were in our 20s it was very taboo you know you wouldn't have like no instagram page and if you called a girl by her dad's name out in the street, it would be an issue. Yeah. Now the prisoners is running the prison. Now the girl be like, I'm candy drop liquor.

Well, everybody go by the Instagram name now, too. Yeah. Okay. So we all strippers at this point. I guess you're right. Stripping for the gram. One thing I might add, I probably would not have smashed as many people if my daddy was on my fucking neck you know I'm saying he just wasn't there and he don't say much and my mama always felt like he was cosigning bad behavior you know I'm saying because he ain't

trying to beat your ass like he's gonna have a conversation with you as opposed like her ass she just want to jump on you you know so it's too different bad cop good cop bad cop you know no i guess maybe he you parents be really they put themselves on pedestals they put the kids on pedestals sometimes so they act like they forgot like the type of shit they was on my daddy just was still on some bullshit. So he's like, damn, how can I reprimand you when I'm out here doing the same? Yeah. If not worse. Hold on.

Before we go, a bitch, my dad was smashing one time. My daddy had to be in his early sixties at the time. Listen, do he, he might be mad. You should be all right,

girl. Nigga don't be listening. They ain't listened to this show since last time he was on this bitch. That was two years ago. This this bitch she was a tall what's the girl on friday right girlfriend like imagine a bitch that look like that barrel curl updo swoop gold teeth long nails bats pretty though my daddy was smashing his young girl don't you know that bitch called myself because i was talking to an older nigga who done made me a grill telling me how she gonna tell my daddy on me because i'm talking to somebody she want to talk to well that is a mess i'm gonna tell your daddy ghetto yeah what you because she would have been in her 20s at the time. You know, I'm in high school.

And I got. You messing with this grown man that I like. Not messing. Just getting his car and gold teeth. Yeah. Okay. That's it. Yeah, she wanted that dude. And she was telling me she was going to.

She called my cell phone and told me she was going to tell my dad. I'm like, girl, you know, you fucking my daddy you said it yes because who who you who you how you calling me last to even be having a conversation like that you know anyway let's get the fuck about it yeah let's go y'all if you enjoyed this episode y''all tune in every Thursday on the Black Effect iHeartRadio app. Or wherever the fuck you get your podcasts at. This is your co-host AJ Holiday 2.0 on Instagram. Kick it, Tam.

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