The Breakfast Club - What's The Pettiest Argument You Got Into

Episode Date: November 16, 2018

Friday 11/16 - Today on the show we had David and Tamela Mann stop by where they spoke about finding out about a baby from another woman, their book "Us Against The World" arguing over a Tuna fish sandwhich and more. Also, Charlamagne gave "Donkey of the Day" to yet a another Florida person, this time for going to the doctors to test her meth. Moreover, we opened up the phone lines to see whats the pettiest argument our listeners had with their partner? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Man. But last night we raised so much debt. We raised over 200 grand. 200 grand last night. For Project 375. Yes. Organization founded by NFL player Brandon Marshall who plays for the New Orleans Saints. He was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder in 2011. So he started this organization called Project 375.

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It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Let's go. This is your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're mad or blessed. Say it with your chest. We want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. So if you've got something on your mind, let it out.

Hello, who's this? Tanisha from Norfolk. Hey, Tanisha, get it off your chest. I'm blessed this morning because every day I wake up to go to my job and I can take care of my two babies. So I'm blessed this morning. Congratulations, baby. Thank you.

I love y'all so much. I mean, let's be out every morning on my way to work. We love you, too. Thank you for having no taste. Hello, who's this? This is EJ. Hey, get it off your chest. Well, I just want to say that I'm thankful today.

I had been in and out of the nursing homes three times because I couldn't walk. I'm at my house now. I'm walking and I'm helping my family. And I am thankful. Okay, well, congratulations. That is truly a blessing. I feel gratitude this morning. There's a lot of people thankful this morning.

I like when gratitude is the attitude. Hello, who's this? Hi, how y'all doing today? This is T-Maddis, T-E-E-M-A-D-I-S. I got something to get off my chest. Go ahead, bro. I'm not mad or blessed today. Okay, waiting on you.

Yeah, my thing to get off my chest is two years ago when I was in New York, I hollered at Angelique's homegirl, and she told me ill to my face. It was all good. I didn't mind it. I kept butchering. But I will tell you this. I made an observation of you three collectively.

Every morning, you guys come off with some type of sexual innuendo off of another topic you were talking about, and you guys say, no, f***, stuff like that. Nobody says that ever again.

We don't play no. We grown men. We don't pause. Especially you two, Charlamagne and DJ Envy. Good morning, everybody. Hi, Angelique. We don't play no. We grown men. We don't pause. Especially you two, Charlotte Mayne and DJ Envy. Good morning, everybody. Hi, Angela Yee. I don't think me and Charlotte Mayne. We let the ****** openly fly.

You guys party around that ****** whole joke all day, every day. And I will tell you this. As a collective. We play around the rim. Above the rim, baby. Above the rim. But check it out, though. But check it out, though.

As a collective, if you have taken any psychology courses and you studied throughout the course of your life, you guys either suffer from one or two things. Either you all are homophobic or you're curious. What do you think it is from your assessment? Chocolate Dungeon. What do you think?

What's the situation of y'all? I don't know. I'm going to ponder that one. I've never thought about it. I never thought about it. I always tell y'all, man, there know. I'm going to ponder that one. I have never thought about it. Who do you think Charles is London? I never thought about it. I always tell y'all, man, there's nothing a man has told me yet to finesse me out

my boxing briefs. Not yet. But it could happen. I mean, I know. I'm married. Okay. But if you wasn't married. If I wasn't married,

I ain't thinking about it. I just can't get over the fact that my friend told him, ew. Why is there no gray hair, you know? Why we got to be either homophobic or gay?

I don't know. Why can't we just be having some fun? I love me, I love a good racist joke, and I love a good gay joke. Whoa. Alright? What do you mean, whoa? It's not whoa. A good racist joke. Yes, I love a good, I love a good joke about race, and I love a good joke about gayness. Well, keep your fingers away from me

because I don't like that type of funny. That's not your idea of a good time? That's not your idea of a good time? That's not my idea of a good time, all right? Get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. If you're upset, you need to vent, hit us up now.

It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Get it. Pick up the mother, mother phone and dial. This is your time to get it off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed. Say it with your chest.

We want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. So you better have the same energy. Hello, who's this? Hi, Ashley. Hey, Ashley. Good morning. Get it off your chest, mama. I just wanted to say I'm blessed to be able to wake up in the morning and go to work and get that coin.

That coin? I wish they'd start giving y'all coins for real, right? I wish everybody that always says that, get that coin. I really wish they'd start paying y'all in coins. See how y'all would like that. I am. All right. All right, mama.

Thank you. Shout out to Love for 638. Hello, who's this? What's up? This is Justin. Hey, Justin. Tell them why you mad. Man, I'm mad because the white people at my job keep messing with me to try to make me

lose my temper so they can get me fired. Oh, sure. I'm trying to bait you. What are they doing? Hiding your chicken lunch? No, they ain't having my chicken lunch. They go in my locker, take stuff off. They try to bump into me.

They run around and lie on me. They try to just, they're doing everything they can just to make me lose my temper, just to go off so I can get fired. I need help. Why are you letting them treat you like that, sir? You're a grown-ass man. I don't care if they're black, white, or green. You don't let nobody treat you like that.

You don't got a mouth to speak up for yourself? Well, if I were you, I would document... Hold up, hold up, hold up. Hold up, hold up. You said, nah, I do speak up for myself. But every time I speak up for myself, it's all about I turn into the angry black man. Man, y'all got to get out your own heads

and stop worrying about that. You know what I'm saying? You got to teach people how to treat you, sir. Well, if I were you, I would document everything and try to get things in email form and all of that. Just make sure you document everything just in case it turns into a situation later. Good luck. Why y'all so scared of white people? I don't know who this is. Jesus Christ.

Hello. Hey, tell them why you're mad. What's up, man? I just want to let you guys know you guys do an awesome job and I live in Miami? I just want to let you guys know you guys do an awesome job. And I live in Miami. And I'm going to let you guys know I'm Hispanic. And I just hate the way that all Hispanics here, they've already been living here in Miami. They already have built what they got. You know what I mean?

When you speak about the fact of Hispanic people that are coming into this country or new people that are coming in from other countries or period. Most of them Cubans, the way that they speak about themselves, they're already here. They already got what they needed. And now whoever comes and needs what they needed before, now they don't care. And they talk about it like they're big Americans. And when they're doing things that they're not even supposed to be doing, things that the real Americans don't do. You know what I mean?

What are you saying? You want to build a wall? Do I say that I want to build a wall? I know that's one of the things that could help. What? I'm just basically speaking about myself. Let's say you were Latino, right, and you came into this country, and this country gives you all these things that now you have to give to your family

and support your life with, you know what I mean mean i thought that's what you come to the country for i mean that's what i mean i mean so you're gonna be like that with somebody else that wants to for their family and talk like oh leave them all out kick them all out throw them all out like they're dogs you were in those shoes one day why Why are you going to be like that? That gets me so mad, especially a year from these Cubans, yo. They're like, oh, send all those Cubans back. Oh, you're not Cuban, right? You didn't get your papers that way, right?

I have no idea what you're talking about, but it sounds like you want to volunteer to go build the wall. It sounds like you might have started already. And the country doesn't give you anything. People have to come here and work for it. All right, well, get it off your chest. 800-585-1051.

If you're upset, you need to vent, call us. It's The Breakfast Club. All right. Well, get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. If you're upset, you need to vent, call us. It's The Breakfast Club. Come on. The Breakfast Club. Yes. Morning, everybody.

It's DJ, MV, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. What the hell are we doing back here after 18 hours, damn it? Hey, we work here.

We got to serve the people, brother. We served the people for 18 hours yesterday. We got a little nappy pool. Did I get a nap? I guess I got a nap. A little yesterday. We got a little nappy pool. Did I get a nap? I guess I got a nap. A little nappy pool.

A little nappy pool. The weather was disgusting in New York yesterday. It's still disgusting now. It's still disgusting now, but I'll tell you what's not disgusting. City Girls' new album, Drop On The Clues Bomb. You got to hear it? I didn't get to hear it. Lord have mercy.

I love JT and Young Miami. You heard me? All right. Well, let's get to these rumors. Let's talk Kim Porter. Listen up. It's just in. All the gossip. Gossip. The rumor Porter. Listen up. It's just in. All the gossip.

Gossip. The Rumor Report. Gossip. Gossip. With Angela Yee. It's the Rumor Report. The Breakfast Club. Well, we have to give another rest in peace to Kim Porter.

Her family, you know, this is an awful situation just out of nowhere. According to law enforcement, Kim Porter went to bed early last night. She wasn't feeling well. And when family members went to wake her, she was not responsive. They pronounced her dead at her home. So sad. Now, reports are saying that she was battling either the flu or pneumonia over the last few days. She was being treated.

They're also looking at a recent trip she took to Africa to see if she had contracted anything. There were no illegal drugs or anything like that. So they are going to do an autopsy. They are going to perform toxicology tests and find out what happened. Devastating news. Now, she's a model. She dated Diddy for 13 years. She also has three children with him, and she has another child, Quincy, from her previous relationship with Albie Shore.

They were together last for the holiday calendar, a movie supporting Quincy. And, you know, she was a model. She was an actress. She made appearances on Diddy's show, I Want to Work for Diddy. Now, according to Diddy's rep, Cindy Berger, she said, sadly, I can't confirm the passing of Kim Porter. I ask that you give the family's privacy at this time. A lot of people did weigh in on social media. Rihanna said this is heavy. Heartbroken about this. We lost a real one today. Beautiful inside and out. So many will be affected by this. Some won't even know why.

But the whole world was graced by the vibrance in your spirit. My deepest condolences to the ones that were blessed enough to know, meet and love her. Such a special show. This don't even feel real. May God comfort and protect her children and loved ones. Now, even 50 Cent sent his condolences. He said, RIP to Kim Porter. I send my condolences to her friends and family. She was loved and will be missed dearly. I know Puff is hit right now.

He loved her for real. Soulmate type-ish. Chin up, Puff. Positive vibes only. Man, this is a very tragic situation. Four kids lost their mother. It's nothing else to say. I have three beautiful daughters and those young girls need their mother. Princesses need queens to raise

them and that's all I can think about is those kids don't have their mom no more. And their sons as well. So hug your moms today and every day because you just never, never know. And you know, you think about your parents getting older and like sometimes we think about your parents getting older, and sometimes we think about our parents getting older. I want my

parents to get as old as possible. I want to get as old as possible. 47 is way too young. Way, way too young. Way too young to pass. Everybody was talking about what a great person and how nice she was. Do you guys know Kim Porter? I've met Kim a few times. And she's always been super nice. I remember the first time I met her

was at Tyrese's house house and I was sitting next to her at the bar he had outside and we talked for a long time and she didn't even really know me but she was so nice and sweet. That's what everybody was saying. Just even if they didn't know her that well, just how she had such great energy all the time. Yeah, I think the last time I saw her we were sitting by each other at the Dave

Chappelle comedy show at Radio City Music Hall. Yeah, so everybody, you know, again, rest in peace. Now, Amy Schumer has also been hospitalized, and that's for pregnancy issues. That's wrong, Amy. So she's had to cancel upcoming comedy shows. They said she had nausea, which is a

common issue during the second trimester of a pregnancy. She's healthy, she's okay, and so is the baby, but they just wanted to check with the doctor. So, you know, she had to cancel that. But she did send her apologies for having to cancel on some good news. Cam Newton is throwing a huge turkey dinner for twelve hundred kids. Now he is actually buying those for underprivileged children and their families. It's part of his seventh annual Cam's Thanksgiving Jam.

So it's like a whole big party with games, music, face painting, and balloon artists as well. He will be there personally and he's going to serve the kids. So there's going to be a lot going on with that. Is that in Charlotte? I don't know where this is. I'm sure it's going to be

in Charlotte if he's doing it. You know, that's where he plays. I would assume. Yeah, I don't know if it's where he's from or where he's in Charlotte. I don't know. Well, since we plug in

turkey drives, I'm doing my turkey drive tomorrow in Moncks Corner, South Carolina, at Berkeley High School from 12 p.m. to 3 p.m., okay? You know I do that every year, so pull up on me, all right? Yeah, I'm doing one in Civilized Nation out in Jersey, Patterson, New Jersey. You can just hit me up on Instagram, and you can come on out. We're giving away 200, 300 turkeys. We do what we can.

Absolutely. You know, we do what we can. That's why I shop at Target. That's why I shop at Target. That's why you shop at Target? Yes. Cut back on myself so I can, you know, be of service to others. There you go. Yes.

All right. Well, I am Angela Yee, and that is your rumor report. All right. Thank you, Ms. Yee. Now, when we come back, what are we doing? Are we doing front page news? Yes. What are we talking about in front page news?

I mean, let's talk about this pretty bad weather, and let's talk about your boy Carmelo. Okay. We'll get into that when we come back. Keep it locked. This is The Breakfast Club. Good morning. What are we talking about in front page news? I mean, let's talk about this pretty bad weather, and let's talk about your boy Carmelo. Okay. We'll get into that when we come back. Keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. J.N.V.

Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, don't forget, coming up in a little bit, we're going to kick it with Tamela and David Mann. Now, for people that don't know who they are, can we explain a little bit who they are? Well, they're a married couple. They started off doing Tyler Perry plays. If you ever watched the Tyler Perry movies, the two people who look like they could be brother and sister, but

they're really husband and wife. Right. But they started off doing the plays first. Remember Meet the Browns? They had their own show, Meet the Browns. You know who David and Tamela are. Just making sure people know. They're coming up in a little bit. But right now, you know who they are when you see them. Let's get into some front page news. What are we talking about with Melo, man?

What's going on with Melo, Yee? Well, he's not going to be with the Rockets anymore. There's been a lot of rumors and hearsay about what was going to happen, but they ended the suspense last night. They parted ways with Carmelo Anthony. Now, the general manager released a statement right before the team played the Warriors. They said, after much internal discussion, the Rockets will be parting ways with Carmelo and we are working toward a resolution. Carmelo had a tremendous approach much internal discussion, the Rockets will be parting ways with Carmelo and we are working toward a resolution.

Carmelo had a tremendous approach during his time with the Rockets and accepted every role head coach Mike D'Antoni gave him. Man, that's trash though, man. They doing Melo

very, very dirty. Melo ain't that washed up, okay? Well, they said, the fit we envisioned when Carmelo chose to sign with the Rockets has not materialized. Therefore, we thought

it was best to move on as any other outcome would have been unfair to him. What about all the other changes Houston made? They got rid of Trevor Ariza. They got rid of that other dude, Luka, some name I can't pronounce. The core of their team was defense. They probably thought they needed more offense to compete with the Golden State Warriors. But they got rid of their key defensive pieces.

So the dynamic of the team changed. But how many games? It was only, what, 10 games? He played 10 games. Yeah, he played 10 games. That's it. Now, for now, he's going to stay on the Rockets roster, but he's not going to rejoin the team.

If you're bringing in Carmelo Anthony in 2018, thinking that Carmelo's going to change your franchise or give you 20-plus a game, you're bugging. But he's not as trash as the Rockets are trying to make Carmelo seem. Like, let's just get rid of Carmelo after a month. No. Alright, now there was also a winter storm that affected a lot of people yesterday. Now that storm is

headed through New England as well. It started in New York City. So far, eight deaths have been attributed to the storm, including two people who died when a tour bus overturned in Mississippi on Wednesday. There were three deaths in Arkansas, one in Indiana, one in Ohio, and one in Maryland. So right now in New York City, it was pretty crippling just because they didn't anticipate

all of it. They didn't expect it at all. Right. So students were stuck in their schools and people just really couldn't get around. It was taking people hours just to get home yesterday. And so just be careful. There were a lot of flight delays. So if you were planning on traveling, the airports most impacted are Newark, LaGuardia,

Philadelphia, Baltimore, BWI, Ronald Reagan Airport, and JFK. So nearly 5,500 flights have been delayed and 1,300 canceled. I'm heading out today to Orlando for the Florida Classic, and my flight is pretty good so far. 87 flights today have been canceled already. Well, I hope my flight is good tomorrow because I'll be in Houston at the Barnes & Noble's Champions at 1 p.m., and then I'll be at Prairie View A&M at 5.45 p.m.,

so I need to get to Texas this weekend. All right, now, if you guys remember this story about a homeless vet who gave $20 to help a distressed driver get gas for her car in the middle of the night. And then they started a GoFundMe to try to actually raise money for this homeless vet. Well, it turns out the whole thing was a scam. They raised over $400,000 on GoFundMe.

And that money was blown on luxury items, gambling trips. They went to Vegas for New Year's, all kinds of things. But everything was predicated on a lie. None of this happened. She didn't run out of gas. And he didn't spend his last $20 to help her. What really happened was Mark D'Amico and Kate McClure

conspired with Johnny Bobbitt to fabricate and promote a feel-good story. They knew that people would be compelled to want to contribute to their cause. They did this whole Paying It Forward campaign and they told this whole big story about finding him panhandling during an underpass and

you know, they later on plotted this whole thing and then you know what happened? What happened? They got greedy. That's usually what happens to people. Yeah, so if they would have not done that, they probably would have got away with the whole entire thing. I mean, they were on Good Morning America, The Ellen Show.

Everybody was covering this whole story. But behind the scenes, there were issues. Even McClure said, my mother called me and said people go to jail for scamming others out of money. So there's that. That's what my own mother thinks of me. She texted that to one of her friends. And they actually kept, GoFundMe, they have like processing fees, so even though they raised over $400,000, they ended up with $360,000.

Now, Bobbitt, who was the quote-unquote homeless vet, said he only got about $75,000 of it while the rest of them actually, while the couple actually spent the rest of that money, so that's why. And that's what happened. They got greedy, so he told, now they all should get locked up. Yeah, they got greedy and... Can't scam people like that. Yeah, scam people and then scam each other.

What'd you think was going to happen? Y'all got this money as a scam. You think y'all not going to scam each other? That's crazy. All right. Well, that is your Front Page News. All right. Thank you, Miss E.

Now, when we come back, we're going to kick it with David and Tamela Mann. We're going to talk to them. They've been married for 30 years. Nice, healthy couple. That's right. So we'll talk to them when we come back. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning.

It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. We got some special guests in the building. Yes, sir. They've been married 30 years. What? Y'all don't look that old at all. We got married at five.

David and Tamela Mann, welcome, guys. Thank you. Thank y'all for having us. One of our young girls that works here, her name is Nyla. Nyla said, man, those two right there are my relationship goals. Man. She's 23. I was like, wow.

That is great. By the time we were 23, we were married two years already. Damn. And it's interesting. So you guys have this memoir out, David and Tamela, Man, Us Against the World, Our Secrets to Love, Marriage, and Family. And there's a lot of things that went on when you guys first met and first got married that the general public wouldn't know about

because it didn't start off so perfect. No. David had a second child. Yes, he did. Well, I wish it was that easy in that point, plain and dry. But in the chapter, we have what chapter called the knock at the door. And the knock at the door, imagine five years into your marriage, you going good, the career's getting off the ground, everybody cool. And then there's a knock at the door and it's the constable telling you, you have a child from a previous relationship.

And I was like, what the wait? How old was the child? Five. And you've been together how long? Five. Oh, my goodness. So it was right before we got married, you know, you had this relationship thing going on. And hello?

And imagine me trying to tell her when she came home from work. How did you tell her? It was not easy. So I'm going to tell you, like I literally sit and like came up with many different ways. Like maybe I'll just come out and just say, yo, hey, we got another child.

You know. Ain't no we. We ain't no we. It is a we. It is a we. It is a we. It turned out to be. It didn't have to be a we,

but go ahead. It didn't, no. And so I wind up just sitting there down and said, dude, you know, the situation, I got served today and we have another child.

And it didn't go too good. Talk to me, Tamela. I was upset. I was upset. But the thing is, is we started out friends. So I knew the girl and I knew that he had been with the girl. So it's like, man, I just hate it was this person. I hate to say it like that.

You didn't like her. I mean, it was like. She didn't like it, just we didn't want any drama. It wasn't a good. that. We didn't like her. I mean, it was like... It's not that she didn't like her, just we didn't want any drama. It wasn't a good... No, it wasn't good. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It wasn't good, honestly. So I just was like, okay. But the baby, I know the baby didn't have anything to do with it, but I just didn't know where we

were going to be standing. Because he was a friend he had already had. We was friends when the first baby was born. I was there when the baby was born. So it's like, we were just friends. We were homeboy, homegirl. Working together.

Yes, and it was like all that. And then for this other one to come up, I was a little upset. So she said, I'm not going to do it. I said, you're on your own. There wasn't no we, David. There was no we. I was like, you on your own.

Now, when she said that, we driving in the car, and she say, you on your own with this. And it just, it took the air out of me. So you can't leave me out here by myself. Don't do that, please. I was just sitting there. And I was just crying. I was like, you're just going to leave me by myself? And I was.

And so that's how the Us Against the World came about. And I sit her down and explain to her, like, look, I love my kids. I'm a stand-up guy. I'm going to take care of my kids. I'm going to do that. But at the end of the day, it's me and you against everything else. It's Us Against the World. And when he explained that to me, he did the old

Spock thing. He was like, it's us. He really did. It's us and everybody else. He was like, you know, because we was young. He was like, it's us. He really did. It's us and everybody else. He was like, you know, because we was young. He was like, it's us and then it's everybody else. Because it made me, he really gave me confidence. He gave me confidence that it was going to be us and then everything else. And that's what made you stay.

It made me stay. And Tamra, you were very open in communicating what your concerns were also as far as what your relationship would be like with David. Yeah, I was like, where am I standing? Because I didn't want this person to come in because her spirit was just like to come in and kind of like take over she don't want nobody else to be able to come in and dictate our relationship no that and then even with the you know with the baby it's like what am I gonna do and once he explained all that to me I was really cool I was very I was able to forgive honestly how did your relationship How did your relationship

with the baby mama pan out? It turned out we just, you know, worked together because of the baby. Honestly, I mean, it's like, I'm cordial. I'll speak to her because we were all like in church and like singing. So it's like I would see her. So it was like, how you doing?

But I didn't have no words. How many times you had to call on the Lord to not whip her ass? And she's not a fighter. She can't fight anyway. I wasn't going to have to fight her. People was willing to fight for me. I had people like,

you want me to get her? I was like, no, we're not going to get her. But the thing is, you would not know, you wouldn't even know that it's not. She my homegirl. That's her child. That's great.

That's her child. Our family is seamless. Why do you think she didn't tell you before that, like, wait until the child was five to actually bring this? Because she wasn't popping in. No, because somebody else was in the picture. I don't know if it wasn't. I don't know the circumstances.

You know what? To this day, we still hadn't sat down and had a conversation about why she didn't say anything. It wasn't, you know, it was just like, no, to this day, we still hadn't sat down and had a conversation about why she didn't say anything. It wasn't, you know, it was just like, look, I got to take care of my child. Let's get on with life. It was upsetting for the baby, you know, once she got older and we explained everything. You know, some things, it brought a, it was kind of thick. It brought a little division.

Was that the hardest thing that y'all had to face in your own marriage? Yeah. Is there something else? It was an early one. Well, David, we've been doing our research. When you research. I'm just saying, what else could be harder? I mean, like, besides another woman, what else could be hard?

Like, you got a child. Because I was so early on. You know, you got 25 years from there. So after that, it was a. It was good. I mean, it's like, you know, that's one of them things that. You got to get over that hump early. It almost broke us up.

So, and we were just thinking on the road, like, what if Sheeda just said, we're done? None of this would be possible. Right. Like, wow. We wouldn't be here. All right, we got more with Tamela and David Mann when we come back. Keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club.

Good morning. All right, morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got Tamla and David Mann in the building. Charlamagne. It don't seem like you should be doing all that in the church. You was getting it in, huh, David?

I wasn't getting it in. I was young. You're talking about getting it in. No, I was like 20. He didn't have a true commitment. He was around church. He was around church. A lot of us was around.

We don't try to throw me at the time. No, we all. We all. He was singing with Kirk Franklin, so you already know what it is. But he wasn't. Well, we wouldn't sing with him. Well, not like that. Not like that.

It was like we was local famous then. You know, when we was singing locally. But we all wasn't where we are now. We wasn't as grounded. We don't try to paint a perfect picture. We have ups and downs just like everybody else. But we just learned to work through them. And we took divorce off the table early.

That is not an option for us. Now, we took divorce off the table. But if somebody beating you upside the head, run. I'm saying that for everybody. Don't try to stay in something that you don't need to stay in. And you're very clear about this because you also talk in the book about getting married and feeling like, you know, Tamla was pregnant and you felt like it was a thing to do,

but you're very clear on don't get married just because of the child. Exactly. Because, I mean, because whatever, you know, if you do that and the child grow up,

you're going to be left just like looking, trying to figure out who each other, who are you, who are you? Only because a kid. I didn't want to get married because we had a kid and she was pregnant.

I said, no, I got married because I was in love with this woman and she was my best friend. That's what we based and we built our relationship on was friendship. I mean, you don't understand. She was at the hospital when my first child was born. Like she came, what you doing tomorrow? You don't have to go to work. Come to the hospital. We just chill.

21 hours she stayed at the hospital just chilling as my friend. I kissed her one time and she fell in love and we got married, but that's a whole other story. That's not how that story went. What about the women you dealt with before, though? Did the women you dealt with before say, how I always knew you and Tamela had that going on? It came up.

It came up. It did come up. But we were just friends. It did come up. She was the reason that I was even able to see my child. Because me and the mother fell out. Because they didn't get married. Yeah.

You know, Tam was like, hey, I'll get the child. You'll be able to see your baby. And everything. How'd you get the child? Because I knew the baby mama. I knew her actually before he did. She hated you. She, well, it wound up, she kind of, she didn't say she hated me, but she said

she knew that I was interested, but she didn't know. We were friends. He was my friend, and I thought it was wrong. You know, I feel like it's a wrong thing to do for a woman to keep the father from the baby. I mean, if y'all have misunderstandings, that's cool, but it has nothing to do with the child.

So I just stood in the middle and was like, I went actually, and she lived kind of a ways away. I would drive, go get her and say, I'll keep the baby the weekend. That's why I think she was trying to get me right there. No, I was actually being a friend because I felt sorry for the baby because he wanted to be involved

in his child's life. I mean, the baby was too young to speak up for herself. So it's like, I helped build a relationship. We had a lot going on. Even with his mom. It's like so the mom, his mother could be with the grandbaby. Well, David had his time running around.

Tamla, did you ever date anybody else before? I dated a little bit. And then in the book, I don't remember the title. I did date a little bit after we started talking. Tell the truth, shame the devil. We was friends. We was friends now. Okay, wait a minute.

Do you notice her tone change when she get in the hot seat? No, it's not that. I'm just trying to say it without spilling all the beans out of the book. Oh, but you done spilled on mine, so you don't want to spill on yours. Well, it's not that. Tamela was engaged right before you got here. Wow. You can't wait to throw your wife under the bus.

Wow. We were talking about me. Y'all about to be coming at me like I'm the only heathen in this situation. I had some heathen things, but you know what? The Lord, he had favor with God. I ain't going to lie. I did my third, but I didn't get caught. So what happened to your fiance?

We were staying together. The fiance had left and. I did my third, but I didn't get caught. So what happened to your fiance? We were singing together. The fiance had left and went away in the service, right? He went to the service, so while he was gone, we had really just started talking and we started dating and then he asked me to marry him. What did you say? I said, you're not doing the interview now.

So he asked me to marry him, but we were singing together. I said him, but we were singing together. I said yes, but we were singing together. And it's like all the time we were spending together, it's just like I start falling in love with David

because of all the time and seeing that he liked all the things that I liked. And by the guy being away, we really didn't get to connect like that. Now you were engaged to the man that went

to the military. His man's heart you broke. He came back. After him serving our country. I was his reaction. He served our country. After him serving our country and you breaking his heart. Well, he came back and they had some words. David and the man? David and the guy, yeah. You put them holy

hands on him, David? He was about to. We were at church, right? So when the guy came. The guy stepped to your church? I didn't know that he was going to be there. And then I showed up. And he showed up. So it's like, oh, man. Because I heard he was going to be there.

So they was outside about to have words. So they beckoned. We wasn't going to have no words. They beckoned for me to come out. You thought we were going to have words. I walked out. And I saw them two talking. I just turned around and went back inside. Oh, you ran? I'm out of here. I was like. You went to go get an usher to break it up. That's right. I'm like, I saw them two talking. I just turned around and went back inside.

Are you ready? I'm out of here. You went to go get an usher to break it up. No, she's going to go sit back up in the little choir stand. I said, you need to come out here so you can see this. I was like, I'm not going to be in the middle of this. We're going to beat your ass, baby. But the thing is, he had...

He didn't even know what was happening. He had a couple of his brothers. My brother was standing behind him and he was on the balcony. He was going to throw him off the balcony. Goodness gracious. Thank God for deliverance. He was. He was vicious.

I mean, David could be very vicious. The thing is, he's the nicest guy, but he could be very vicious. I'm just going to leave it like that. What's Godly about throwing him off the balcony? I was going to pray that the Lord didn't kill him. Thank God for deliverance, y'all. They out here delivering. When you walked in, y'all both got all camouflaged.

You were like, I'm ready for war. It's us against the world. I'm like, who they fighting? Now, there is a theme to us against the world. Us against the world, we're fighting against anything that will come against the family structure. That's what us against the world, the U is for all of us. Because I just feel like our families are in attack, are being attacked.

That's been going on since the beginning of time for black people. It has, but the thing is, I don't think we really understand the power that we have when we unify. And I just want us to unify to save our families. And I know y'all president keep talking about make America great again. It's not going to happen until we startify to save our families. And I know y'all president keep talking about make America great again.

It's not going to happen until we start at home. With families. With the families. Until we just get husband and wife on the same page and get family pulled together. It ain't going to happen, dude. All right, we got more with Tamela and David Mann. When we come back, keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club.

Good morning. Hey, it's DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. We got some special guests in the building, Tamela and David Mann. Charlamagne? How do y'all take breaks from each other?

I go get my hair done, get my nails done. But that's kind of like, that's my me time. You know, because I do need it. And I tell any woman... Why do you need a break from me? Well, I just need time just for myself. Am I too much? Yeah, you're a little much if you can't be much.

Now, I didn't used to need a break from her, but like in the last year and a half, this menopause stuff is killing us. You gonna put her business out there like that, David? It is. It is. I mean, but it was much for me. I'm like, this ain't me. This not

me, but I think that's what causes a lot of marriages, and I know we're not talking about that, to break up. Once you see people quit after 20, 30 years menopause, and if both spouses are not in tune with each other, it really can cause a breakup because we go

through this thing that really it's like it takes over our body that we can't control. But it's beautiful, though, because y'all are really growing old together. We are, but that's why I'm trying to encourage other people not to quit on each other. That's what this book is about. Because menopause is like erectile dysfunction. David, you don't know what's going to happen in the future.

There's ways, sir. There are ways. That's why it's such a big business. I'm not embarrassed. Oh, you've already gotten to that point? No, I haven't gotten to that point. Oh, no. No, he's not dead.

All right. Testify. Testify, sister. We A't okay. On camera. Why do you think couples divorce so fast? I think they people just don't want the commitment. And it's like you feel like, you know, like when they say the grass is greener,

sometimes people just want something new. And, you know, we have a chapter in the book called The Art of Arguing. Sometimes we argue to make sure you understand my point. And I want to get my point across, and that's all I'm concerned about. But that's not the way it should be. It should be to get an understanding. Early in the marriage, I'm quick with my words, and so I would just cut her up and feed her to the sharks and tear her up.

And I used to say, that's so piercing. I would talk about her family, the dog that she had. Yes. That's harsh. That was harsh. That's what I'm saying talk about her family, the dog that she had. Yes. That's harsh. That was harsh. That's what I'm saying. The dog? Why the dog got to catch a dog?

Everybody got to get some. Her family? Yeah, the mom of the day. It says whoever can be the quickest. But see, I was doing that not realizing that I was tearing her down. I was just, you know, the more I did that, the more, you know, respect that she lost for me. And then once I realized that, I was like, wait a minute. I'm killing her with my words.

I feel like when arguing with your wife, you got to ask yourself, do you want to be right or do you want to be happy? The roles don't switch. I just say whatever comes to mind. Now you're talking about his mama and his dog. I tell her, I say, dude, do you realize you're yelling? I'm not listening if you're going to be doing all this screaming. That's one thing I learned early on for a relationship to be successful.

Like with my boyfriend, I think you have to know how to argue effectively. Because you are going to argue. That's one thing I learned early on for a relationship to be successful. Like with my boyfriend, I think you have to know how to argue effectively. Because you are going to argue. That's right. It comes. But it's just knowing how to argue so that it doesn't spiral into something bigger. You don't keep things bottled up and get so mad you just go crazy. You have to learn how to talk to each other. You know the biggest issue that couples have when they argue?

We don't stick to the issue. Sounds so hard. I'm like, do you want to be right? Or you want to be happy? Writing this book, it made us go back. Even there was some stuff that we learned, I learned about her that I didn't know. I didn't know. There's a song we have

on the album called Mason Jar. I didn't realize that she considered herself as a shadow chick. What's a shadow chick? A shadow chick would be like some girls that you only want to talk to them at night or you go by their place at night. You didn't want nobody to see you with. That's how they used to treat you? No.

Oh. Why'd you feel that way? Well, I felt that way because growing up, I didn't have like boyfriend. Even like the time, even with people that I did kind of, I liked, but they didn't like me back. Would only come by like, stop by in the evening time. She thought that she was a thick girl. Because I was a thick girl, you know. Because you could cook. You had the snacks.

Well, this is what happened. We probably had that Jill Scott. We seen, you know, that Jill Scott thing. Well, yeah, you know. That's what I'm saying. But they only wanted to hang with me at nighttime. seen that Jill Scott thing. Well, yeah. That's what I'm saying. But they only wanted to hang with me at night time and I felt like, you know, to me,

I was really letting down my standards. Am I going to ever find anybody that loved me for me and a love that I could cherish for the rest of my life? And Mason Jar is talking about that, that I finally found a love that I can cherish and put like in a Mason Jar like you would to preserve.

Wow. Like we were really ride or die friends because I keep on laughing and laughter is like medicine to her. Did y'all bond over food initially? What you trying to say? Over food? What kind of dumb question is that?

I could, yes I could. Y'all keep referring to something as a stick. could, yes I could. I'm saying, y'all keep referring, you keep referring to something that's thick because I'm like, did y'all monitor food? No, it was me. I'm saying me.

He said she was thick. Oh, got you, got you, got you. Because I've always been a thick girl. Got you, got you, got you, got you. You got another question? You want to add any more food questions?

No, I'm not asking no more food questions. Was there ever a point when you guys thought it wasn't going to work? Our biggest argument was over a tuna fish sandwich. You just gave him

more ammunition. Oh my God You just gave him more ammunition. Oh, my God. You gave him more ammunition. I did. So tell us about this tuna fish sandwich. I'm going to push him. It wasn't actually

the tuna fish sandwich you just got to eat. But it was just, it was because I felt unappreciated. So I had, I had came home from work, put up the groceries

and everything, and I was like, since it's so late, I'm just going to make tuna. And, you know, I just made a groceries and everything, and I was like, since it's so late, I'm just going to make tuna. And, you know, I just made a sandwich with chips, and I served him. So when I bit the sandwich, I asked her, did you put any relish in this? And she lost it, like went off. You ungrateful.

She called me un-o. Why? Just because you said, did you ask her if she put relish in it? Because she brought it to me and she was tired. She took her time out and I wasn't grateful. I could have just got up and went and got the relish myself. Well, this started a big explosion. So she's like, I'm getting my keys and I'm leaving.

Wow. And so she was going to leave, but I got her keys so she wouldn't leave. So I got my keys and I was going to slam the door, get in my truck, spin out and, you know, make it really look good and dramatic. And I just forgot that my truck starter was messed up. So when I went to get in the truck, I'm just rocking my truck. I'm trying to get the starter. She runs out and opens the door like, get my keys.

And when she opens the door, she hit my foot. And the door hit her. I don't do no physical stuff at all. And when that door hit her, it just stopped everything. I was like, look, go in the house now because we got a problem. Because this door didn't hit you. She just looked at me like,

okay, and just walked in the house. But that could have... What happened to the tuna sandwich? He just left it, I guess. I didn't care if he ate it or choked on it that night. I was mad. He stormed out the house

without the sandwich? He did. I was just trying to prove that I was right, man. I was young. Silly. It was dumb. It was really dumb.

That was like our sixth year. Man, we empty nesters now. We just live in the life, live in the dream. Life is beautiful. Well, it's us against the world, our secrets to love, marriage, and family.

It's out right now. I enjoyed y'all, David. Make sure y'all pick it up. Thank you guys for joining us. When we come back, Rumors on the Way, it's The Breakfast Club. Good morning.

Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. Let's get to the rumors. Let's talk Tekashi 6ix9ine. This is The Rumor Report with Angela Yee.

Rumor has it. On The Breakfast Club. So listen up. This is the rumor report with Angela Yee Well, not exactly sure everything that's going on with Tekashi 6ix9ine But he has actually fired everybody in his crew He cleaned house and canceled his tour as well Now here is Tekashi 6ix9ine So I'm letting everybody know that I canceled my whole tour. The American dates is not happening. I fired everybody in my team. I got no manager, I got no booking agent,

no PR, no public. I don't got nobody on my team. It's just me. I want everybody to know if you're booking shows, do not book shows unless I say this show is going to be booked with this person. They will steal your money. They're not me. I'm not signing no f***ing contracts.

That don't got nothing to do with me. November 23rd, the album dropped. Well, that doesn't sound good. I wonder if he's going to still be doing interviews like Wednesday he's scheduled for up here. I'm sure. It sounds like somebody stole some money from him. Exactly. And he's trying to clear it up.

Sounds like he found out somebody was stealing money. Or he's tired of all the trouble that he's getting into. But you can't really blame your team for that, sir. Well, they also did get the suspect they believe pistol whipped and kidnapped him. And apparently somebody that is or used to be part of his crew, one of his disgruntled ex-crew members who wanted revenge. So they're saying the person is Anthony Jamel Ellison. He used to be part of the management crew.

He was fired after the incident that happened at LAX. Bro, I looked up. Yeah, we looked up at the video screen. It was like Howard Stern fart man costume. I was like, what? We're both not on today. I'm used to looking to see what the guy looked like.

And I'm like, what? That's the guy that did it? Wow. With a fart man costume? Now, Ellison felt he wasn't getting the amount of money that he should have been getting once his career took off. And they said he had been sitting on these feelings for a while.

And then finally this kidnapping ended up happening. And he was arrested and indicted last week. So they said it was just real beef. And they also feel like there's another suspect who they still are looking for who was also tied to Tekashi and might have had similar motives as well. That's why you got gotta keep your circle small. My circle's so small it's a dot. Okay. It's a period.

We'll have to widen up your circle. Alright, now, Nas has just put out a short movie to go with his album. His Nasir album. The album that he put out with Kanye? Yeah, so now he has a short film that is accompanied by music from the album, so if he has a short film that is accompanied by music

from the album so if you want to see it it's available right now. I mean that album wasn't received too well. I mean I thought it was a good album but I don't think

it was received well enough to put a movie with it. Nasir. You know sometimes you do that though and it gives the album new life and makes you look at, like has a video

ever makes you like a song more? Yeah. All the time. So maybe this might happen with that. Like if you watch the short film maybe it'll make you like a song more? Yeah. All the time. So maybe this might happen with that. Like if you watch the short film, maybe it'll make you like Nasir, the album more. Right.

All right, Beyonce, she owns Ivy Park again. Now, if you remember, she actually launched Ivy Park and Topshop had part of that company. But now she's bought it back from Philip Green, who is a British billionaire who actually owns Topshop. Now, apparently he's had all kinds of allegations of sexual harassment, bullying, racism. So now, Beyonce's company, Parkwood, has acquired 100% of the Ivy Park brand back from Topshop. So I don't know exactly what the numbers are because that's not released. But we don't know where you can get Ivy Park from because if you guys, I don't know if you all wear, well, I guess they don't have men's. I feel like I see people wearing Ivy Park all the time.

I like Ivy Park. And I used to always go to the Top Shop section in Nordstrom to look for it or to a Top Shop store. And I always looked at the Ivy Park stuff. Very comfortable. When it first dropped, I bought a whole bunch of it. So now don't look for that in Top Shop anymore. All right. I'm Angela Yee.

And that is your rumor report. All right. Thank you, Ms. Yee Charlemagne. Yes, sir. Who you giving that donkey to? Listen, man, four after the hour, Florida going Florida, okay? And I think we should play a great game of guess what race

it is! All right, we'll do that when we come back. Keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same. Continue the adventure with Newt Scamander as he teams up with Albus Dumbledore to stop the dark wizard Grindelwald's plans

to divide the wizarding world. Fantastic Beasts, The Crimes of Grindelwald. Now playing, rated PG-13. Make sure you tell them to watch out for Florida, man. The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. Yes, you are a donkey. A Florida Man attacked an ATM for a very strange reason. It gave him too much money.

Florida Man is arrested after deputies say he rigged the door to his home in an attempt to electrocute his pregnant wife. Police arrested an Orlando Man for attacking a flamingo. For the breakfast club, bitch. Donkey of an Orlando man for talking up Flamingo. The Breakfast Club, bitch. Donkey of the Day with Charlamagne Tha Guy. I don't know why y'all keep letting him get y'all like this. Yeah, that's me. Donkey of the Day for Friday, November 16th

goes to a 73-year-old woman from Polk County, Florida named Barbara Lee Ray. Now, what does your Uncle Charla always tell you people? The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. That is not an opinion. It's science. Okay, we have enough evidence over the years. Enough studies have been done that prove this theory absolutely correct.

And today, we have yet more evidence as to why Andrew Gillum did not win the governor's race by a landslide. People in Florida are just nuts and don't make good decisions. Okay? What's wrong to the rest of America is usually considered right in Florida. All right? What's bad in the rest of America is usually considered right in Florida, all right? What's bad in the rest of America is usually considered good in Florida. What's considered normal in Florida usually makes the rest of the country and sometimes the world say, what the Florida? But in the words of my favorite R&B singer of this generation, Miguel, what's normal anyway, all right? Well, this is what Barbara Lee Ray considers normal. See, Barbara Lee Ray smokes

meth, ladies and gentlemen, and when you do a narcotic like that, you gotta make sure the product is good, alright? People is out here selling genetically modified meth, and every meth head in Florida who cares about their health knows that you should be smoking organic, plant based, gluten free meth, but the genetically

modified meth is in these streets and Barbara Lee Ray being the type of meth head who clearly meditates the type of meth head who clearly keeps a journal of her meth use. Barbara Lee cares about what she puts in her body because she knows that often when you take care of your body it leads to a happy mind and I respect

it because it's gotta be stressful smoking genetically modified meth and none of us want to be stressed right? So Barbara Lee Ray from Florida according according to the Miami Herald, bought her meth to her doctor's office and asked for it to be tested because she was scared what smoking it would do to her, and she wanted the doctor to check it for her well-being. Round of applause for this healthy meth head.

You really got to take care of yourself nowadays, people. Okay? And watch what you put in your system. Now, according to the Polk County Sheriff's Office, Barbara Lee Ray went to the Complete Care Family Medicine Associate's Office in Fort Meade and pulled three items out of her green and orange-colored handbag. Let me find out. She a Miami Hurricanes fan.

All right? Drop one of the clues bombs for Barbara Ray, baby. Staying on brand. All right? Now, she pulled out a small, clear plastic bag containing a white crystal-like substance. A small plastic container also containing a white crystal-like substance. And an empty prescription bottle with the name Barbara Rae on it, which had a prescription label on it. Well, guess what?

The small bag and plastic container when tested, both tested for meth. Now when asked how long she's been on the ultra-low meth diet, she said she's been smoking for about a month. 73-year-old Barbara Ray was taken to the Polk County Jail and charged with two counts of possession of meth and two counts of drug paraphernalia, and she was

also under the influence of the raw meth diet at the time of her arrest. Now, some donkey of the days just sell themselves, but today I think we should play a game of Guess What Race It Is. Indy and Yee, are you ready to play? Yes. I'm ready.

This sounds easy. Now, let me give you three clues, okay? She was smoking meth. No, that's not the first clue. That's the second clue. The first clue is her name is Barbara Lee Ray, all right? The second clue is she was smoking meth. No, that's not the first clue. That's the second clue. The first clue is her name is Barbara Lee Ray. All right? The second clue is she was smoking meth.

Do you need a third clue or you think you got it? No, we got it. Give me a third clue. I'll give you a third clue just because. Okay. She felt so entitled and so privileged enough to go to the doctor to get her meth tested. This feels like an easy one, right? Now, you said entitled.

Let's go around the room. You said entitled. Let's go around the room. You said meth. Let's go around the room. You had me at meth. And then you said Barbara Lee. Angela, I'll start with you. What race is Barbara Lee, right? Clearly, she's white.

DJ Envy, what race is Barbara Lee, right? Breaking Bad. See, I have to go with Caucasian. Okay, Wagwan, come here. Wagwan, come here, Wagwan. Come here, Wagwan. Come here, come here. This is our Jamaican partner.

Yes. Let me ask her just for feces and giggles. What race do you think Barbara Lee Ray is? Melanin deficient. Melanin deficient. Let Kathy Griffin do the honors. Please give this giant jar of mail the biggest, hee-haw. It was no twist to that one.

No twist to that one. That was easy. That was easy? That was easy. Okay. I thought you were trying to trick me at first, but it was just too easy. Alright, well thank you for that donkey today. Now let's open up the phone lines. Let's have some fun with this. 800-585-1051. We're giving away crystal meth? No, no, no, no.

Now, earlier we had, who do you have on the show earlier? Let me look. David and Tamela May. David and Tamela May. And they were talking about an argument that they got into. Let's hear it. Our biggest argument was over a tuna fish sandwich. It was because I felt unappreciated.

So, I had came home from work, put up the groceries and everything, got into. Let's hear it. Our biggest argument was over a tuna fish sandwich. It was because I felt unappreciated. So I came home from work, put up the groceries and everything, and I was like, since it's so late, I'm just going to make tuna. And I served him. So when I bit the sandwich, I asked her, did you put any relish in this? And she lost it. Like, went off. You ungrateful.

She called me ungrateful. Why? Just because you said, did you ask her if she put relish in it? Because she brought it to me and she was tired. She took her time out. And I You ungrateful. Why though? Huh? Why? Just because you said, did you ask her if she put relish in it? Because she brought it to me and she was tired. She took her time out. And I was ungrateful. I could have just got up and went and got the relish myself. Well, this started a big explosion. So she's like, I'm getting my keys and I'm leaving.

Wow. That sounds like the fattest argument ever. Don't talk like that behind your back. I'm not. Don't talk like that behind your back. I'm just listening to it right now. Because you ain't have that energy when they was here. Just listen to it right now. That's not nice. You ain't have that energy when they was here. Just listen to it right now.

That's not nice. You ain't have that energy when they was here. That was not nice. To argue about food on Tuna Fish. You ain't have that energy when they was here. I'm just saying it. Clearly the argument wasn't just about food. It was about him not appreciating what she was doing after spending all that time out.

No, I heard something about relishing Tuna Fish. That clip just sounded funny. That clip just sounded crazy. Now let the record show when David and Tamela was here. And her being tired from all that work. When David and Tamela was here, I specifically asked them did they bond over food. And everybody in the room jumped on me like I was trying to be rude. That clip right there is foul.

That just sounds like they just argued over food. A lot of times arguments aren't about what you're just arguing over. If you have an argument over food, that means you bond over food as well. That's all I'm saying. All right, so let's open up the phone lines. 800-585-1051. What's the pettiest argument you ever got into? That's the question.

I'm not argumentally petty. I recently just got over an argument about a toilet seat. I'm a petty person. The toilet seat down. My wife hates when I don't put the toilet seat down. I don't know why that's so hard to do. What do you mean? Why can't?

What's so hard about putting the toilet seat down? You sit when you pee anyway. I do not sit when I pee, first of all. And second of all, you want me to lift the toilet seat up to pee and then to put it back down when I leave? Yeah. Actually, I always leave the toilet seats down in my house, like everything closed. That's disrespect. I don't know.

I really can't believe you don't put the toilet seat down. It's good feng shui, Envy. She's trying to help you. All right. Well, we're asking 805-85-1051. What's the pettiest argument you ever got into? Charlemagne? I got to think about this. I have a petty Rolodex. I got What's the pettiest argument you ever got into? Charlamagne? I got to think about this.

I have a petty Rolodex. I got a lot of pettiness. With your wife, though? No, I don't play with her. I don't even, but I am petty, but not with her. Guy? I don't know if these are petty, though, but I do get, we do get into arguments over things that I feel like show that he's not responsible.

All right. We'll talk about it when we come back and take your calls. 805-85-1051. It's The not responsible. All right. We'll talk about it when we come back and take your calls. 800-585-1051. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Morning, everybody.

It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you just joined us, we're talking about petty arguments. Now, earlier on the show, we had David and Tamela Mann here and they were talking about one of their arguments. Let's hear. Our biggest argument was over a tuna fish sandwich. It was because I felt unappreciated. So, I had came home from work, put up the

groceries and everything, and I was like, since it's so late, I'm just going to make tuna. And I served him. So, when I bit the sandwich, I asked her, did you put any relish in this? And she lost it. Like, went off. You ungrateful. Why though? Huh? Why? Just because you said, did you

ask her if she put relish in it? Because she brought it to me and she was tired. She took her time out. And I was ungrateful. I could have just got up and went and got the relish myself. Well, this started a big explosion. So she's like, I'm getting my keys and I'm leaving. Wow. That little clip just sounds crazy. They just arguing about tuna fish.

That sounds crazy. That's not what that argument is. It only sounds crazy because they're plump. What? That's the only reason. And that's why when they was here, I asked them, do they bond over food? And everybody in the room acted like I was being rude, but I wasn't. But if you have an argument over food, what's the opposite of argument? Bonding over food

as well. So we're asking 805-851-051. What's the pettiest argument? Mine is the toilet seat. You know, I leave the toilet seat up and Gia is pissed off all the time. But I don't understand. I got to go to the bathroom. I got to lift it up. Then when I leave, I got to put it back down.

Yes, you do. So she has no work to do in the toilet? No work to do in the bathroom? You're supposed to put the entire toilet seat down, and then you have to lift that up. So we have to lift it up, too, when we go to the bathroom. Well, she won because I ain't arguing with her about that. What's the pettiest argument you got in this, Charlamagne?

I'm going to be honest with you. I can't even remember. And the reason I can't even remember is because I am a petty individual. So being that I'm a petty individual, I feel like I'm always in a petty argument. Like, I'm petty, bro. Like, I'm the type of person that if I don't like you, when you sneeze,

I won't bless you. That's how petty I am. Okay? Yeah, he don't like me. Oh, I didn't know what Envy was doing. I want to see if he like me or not.

Damn it, man. I don't know. I really can't think. I'm a petty person. You got to give me a moment to think about this. Let me hear from some of our callers

and see if anything triggers in my memory. Hello. What about you, Yeet? Yeah. Well, for me, it's picking me up from the airport, right? I hate when my boyfriend's late to pick me up from the airport and knows what time I'm coming in.

I done left, got on a flight, landed, got my bag, whatever. And how are you late to come and get me? I think that's disrespectful. Yeah, that's how I look at it. No, I'm talking about wanting me to pick you up from the airport, especially if I live all the way in Jersey, which I do, and you're flying into JFK or LaGuardia. Uber.

Call an Uber. No matter what, call a car service. I'll call the car service for you. Why? You want to drive all the way from Jersey? You know how long it takes to get from Jersey to JFK? So you wouldn't pick your wife up from the airport? If she asked me to, but I just think that's petty when she can call a car service.

Well, we don't live together, so I would think that you'd be so excited you want to spend every single minute and make sure you're there waiting. think that's petty when she can call the car service. Well, we don't live together so I would think that you'd be so excited you want to spend every single minute and make sure you there waiting. And think about all the effort I went through. I had to go to the airport,

get on a plane, fly, land. You could at least be ready. I didn't ask you to come. All right, guys. You guys are not in a relationship. Misha! Yes?

What's a petty argument that you got into? About my shower curtain. I feel like once you get out the shower, you should close the shower curtain. I agree. My girlfriend insists on keeping it open.

Like, just close it back. So we always argue about the shower curtain. Yeah, I don't like when anybody leaves the shower curtain open. Maybe she wants to see you in the shower. Thank you. No, you're not in the shower. She gets out the shower.

I'm not in the shower. Oh, you said she? Yeah. Yes, when you get out the shower, close the shower curtain back. Don't leave it open. Why, though? What's the shower, close the shower curtain back. Don't leave it open. Why, though? What's the problem?

I don't know. It's just, it's annoying. Just close it back. Also, the look of it. Like, it's so easy to close the shower curtain, and my shower curtain has a design on it. I need the full design to show. I don't like that.

I don't think lesbians should be that anal. Shut up. Hello, who's this? Hey, this is Octavius. I'm from Savannah, Georgia. What's up, man? We're talking about petty arguments. You got one?

Yeah, I got one. I was dating my ex from like two years ago. She had made me a Hot Pocket while I was trying to fill out an Uber application. That's nice. And she put the Hot Pocket on the couch and I didn't eat it because I was so focused on doing the Uber application. And she started going off about the Hot Pockets, man, that, you know, she made it for me, and she put her hard work in. I'm like, dude, it's just a Hot Pocket. And the argument actually got to the point where she actually tried to stab me and flatten the tires on my car.

Oh, my God. Oh, for a Hot Pocket. Y'all were clearly having other issues. I think she was mad. I think she was mad that you didn't really have a job. And I think that she was mad that you didn't have a job for a while. And just you filling out that application just kind of set her off. Nah, Mr. Charlemagne.

I actually had a job. I drove school buses at the time. I was trying to do it for some side money. Oh, got you, got you. Okay. What happened? Did you eat the Hot Pocket? No, I didn't eat the Hot Pocket. The police came. They told me to get my stuff out of the house and pack up and go. The police had to come because you wouldn't eat the Hot Pocket? You should have just ate the Hot Pocket.

Did y'all get back together after that? He tried to stab me. Nah, we talked a little bit and it never really worked out. I can imagine. How do you feel when you hear the Hot Pocket? I get scared actually. It's triggered, right? You get anxiety. Hot Pocket

causes you trauma. You know what? This does trigger something because me and back in the day, right? Oh boy. But not back in the day, it was this weekend actually. I was watching Yvonne Orgy at Caroline's and we ordered

two things of french fries because it was like six of us at the table and I thought my wife ordered two things of french fries because she got me one but one was actually

for Taylor, our producer Taylor and one was for my wife. So I'm eating my wife's fries and my wife was like, yo, stop eating my fries. Back in the day, that would have caused an argument. Why? Because those are fries.

I can't have a couple of your French fries? No. Or to your own. That's so rude. She probably was really hungry. I'm not even going to eat a lot. I don't even eat fried food like that. Well, then don't eat fried food.

But you know what? What? When she looked at me and said, don't touch my fries, guess what I did? You didn't touch them fries? I didn't touch her fries. You're right. Or to your own fries. Back in the day, that would have been a petty argument.

All right. Well, 800-585-1051. We're talking petty arguments. Call us now. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God.

We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you just joined us, we're talking petty arguments. That comes from our conversation earlier with David and Tamela Mann when they talked about one of their petty arguments. Let's listen. Our biggest argument was over a tuna fish sandwich. It was because I felt unappreciated. So I had came home from work, put up the groceries and everything,

and I was like, since it's so late, I'm just going to make tuna. And I served him. So when I bit the sandwich, I asked her, did you put any relish in this? And she lost it, like went off. You ungrateful. She called me ungrateful. Why? Just because you said, did you ask her if she put relish in it? Because she brought it to me and she was tired.

She took her time out. And I was ungrateful. I could have just got up and went and got the relish myself. Well, this started a big explosion. So she's like, I'm getting my keys and I'm leaving. So 805-85-1051, what is some of your petty arguments? Mine is, of course, the toilet seat, man.

Me and my wife will argue about that toilet seat, but now I make sure I put them damn toilet seat down. And with my kids, I argue about the damn lights. You don't need every light on in the house. Like, every light. When I come home, every light is on. And I can't sleep with the TV on. You got to turn the TV off. Well, let's go to the phone lines.

Hello, who's this? Hello. Hey, we're talking petty arguments this morning. So I was pregnant and my child's father was making dinner and he gave me a plate, but it was full of food. Like, you know how men eat food and they have like a mound of like rags and beans and everything. So when I seen it, I was like, what the, like, what is this? So I got mad and threw it in the sink. And he didn't get why I was mad, but I'm like, I don't, I know I'm pregnant at all,

but like, I'm not going to eat all this damn food. Like, you know, it was just too much food. I felt insulted. You disrespectful. I was going to eat all that food. You disrespectful. People fight over food a lot, clearly. That man just trying to feed you.

No, it was too much food. I'm pregnant. I'm not fat. How do you know? How much did you weigh at the time? Stop it. You're wrong, Charlamagne. I'm just asking a question.

How much did you weigh at the time? No, at that time, I didn't even gain that much weight. I only gained like 10 pounds. How much did you weigh before those 10 pounds? I was like four months pregnant. I only gained like 10 pounds. How much did you weigh before those 10 pounds? I was like four months pregnant. I was not like nine months. Right. That's too much food.

I don't eat that much, period. We in this world where people starving. He was probably just trying to give you more than you needed rather than less than what you needed. He was trying to feed him and his child. But your hormones are probably out of control, so you got more irritated than normal. You right, you right. See what I'm saying?

Well, thank you, Mama. Bye. Don't give her too much food. Hello, who's this? Yolanda. Hey, Yolanda. We're talking petty arguments. You got one?

Yes. Me and my husband just the other day, he ate my salt and vinegar chips. Oh, hell no. Wow. I would be mad about that. No, the thing is, it's not even like the regular leaves because I'm a vegan. So I go way to Boca for school. So it's an hour drive for me from Miami.

I go to Whole Foods there, and he knows it's an hour drive. And I brought me one chip because it was a salt and vinegar, but it's a vegan kind. So I was like, okay, I'm going to try it. I come home. I leave it there. I come back. It's gone. But I see my peas.

I'm like, you could just eat the sriracha peas. He's like, he doesn't want the peas. He wanted the salt and vinegar. That's so rude. And he didn't even get you another bag. He didn't, because it's an hour drive. He ain't going to drive way to Boca to go get it for me. Girl, you better get Amazon Prime and get your whole food delivered for free. First of all, why not buy two bags of

chips since you know both of them? He wasn't supposed to eat them. I never tried it. I never tried it, so I wanted to taste it first because, you know, healthy food is expensive. Well, it looks like you still never tried it. First of all, that man was tried it. I never tried it. So I wanted to taste it first because, you know, healthy food is expensive. Well, it looks like you still never tried it. First of all, that man was trying it. He was trying it out for you to make sure that it don't do anything to you, like make you sick. That's what that man was doing.

No, but the thing is, after he tried it, he said it wasn't just him. It was like three-year-old too. I'm like, really? Damn it, man. Sorry for you, mama. You know, that's a big in my house too. Leftovers. Leftovers in the house.

Like if you have leftovers and you wake up in that morning Them leftovers are gone Oh there's a big fight In my house You don't take the leftovers But you also have like 15 kids It don't matter Somebody's eating the leftovers

They better know You don't touch daddy's leftovers You gotta put a lock on the fridge I thought about it What's the moral of the story I think a lot of times When it comes to being petty The moral of the story

Is people just be creating Their own little drama Out of pure insecurity. That's all. You ever get into a petty fight and then y'all both just start laughing at one point? Like, why are you arguing over this? We're laughing. I do that.

We fight to the edge. I bet you Taylor got a good petty story. Taylor, come here. What's your petty story? What's your petty story, Taylor? Taylor works up here at the Breakfast Club. She's one of our producers. What is my petty story?

I got into a fight with my ex one time because I don't think it's petty, though. I didn't like all the stuff. He had mad shoes, and I didn't like all the stuff he had. So we just got in a fight with that because he's like, well, these are my shoes. He used to have, like, maybe 200 shoes, and he didn't wear any of them. And I got into it with him because, like, you don't even know how to dress. You told him he doesn't know how to dress? Yeah, he doesn't. See, that's not even petty. That's just disrespectful. Bye. See, that's why I don't like talking to you because you don't even know how to dress. You told him he doesn't know how to dress? Yeah, he doesn't.

That's not even petty. That's disrespectful. Bye. See, that's why I don't like talking to you because you're just disrespectful, Taylor. You're just disrespectful

and that's why you're single. What if he said that to you? That's why you're single because you're disrespectful. You don't know how to treat men. That's the problem. You don't know how to dress. You're telling me

he don't know how to dress. You're supposed to do positive reinforcement. You know what you're looking at? And by the way, he's from Philly so all you got to do

is wear state property stuff all day long. Where was he from? South Carolina? Because Charlotte may have taken that personal. New York is not going to dress now. New York dudes do not know how to dress. He was tall, too, so you know how tall people, they're kind of like, they don't know. Oh, no, you said he's from New York?

He was awkward. He was awkward because he was tall? Listen, I understand now. You said he was from New York. I mean, he had 200 pair of Timberlands, and you did not understand why the hell he needed all the 200 pair of the same goddamn Constructors from Timberlands. I understand, Taylor. My gosh.

Now it makes sense. You should have led with the he was from New York. Where's Timberlands like Charlemagne's? My goodness. All right, when we come back, we got rumors. What are we talking about, Yee? Yes, let's talk about Snoop Dogg and an honor that he is getting. And, you know, he has a play right now, but something went a little left.

And we'll tell you what happened with one of the stars of his production. All right, we'll get into that when we come back. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same. Hey, continue the adventure with Newt Scamander. He's teaming up with Albus Dumbledore to stop the dark wizard Grindelwald's plans to divide the wizarding world. Fantastic Beasts, The Crimes of Grindelwald. Now playing, rated PG-13.

The Breakfast Club. DJ, MV, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God, we are The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Let's get to the rumors. Let's talk Louisiana. What? Let's talk Lil Xan. What? Rumor report. Rumor report. This is the rumor

report. Talk to him. With Angela Yee from The Breakfast Club. Oh, Lil Xan. What you gonna say? I thought you said Lil Xan. I was like, what? I said Lil Xan. You listening, man? Lil Xan. Alright, Lil Xan. He's not gonna be Lil Xan for much longer. Now, he did announce. He's not going to be Lil Xan for much longer. Now, he did announce that he's checking himself into rehab

and that he's looking forward to being clean. Here's what he had to say. I just feel like it's time to get, you know, better. What are you struggling with? Mostly hydrocodone, which is just like narcos, like an opioid. Yeah, basically a lot of opioids. Not like, I've been way worse in the past. Like, I've actually been 10 times worse than what I've been now.

But, like, I want to do rehab just so I can get over, like, this last little, like, hump, like, stretch. You know what I mean? So I can finally be just back to Diego. All right, and I think he's planning to change his name as well and not be Lil Xan anymore. That's smart. Mm-hmm. Yeah, you got to speak it into existence. You're trying to be what you pretend to be as well. You're attracting thean anymore. That's smart. Yeah, you got to speak it into existence. You turn out to be what you pretend to be as well.

You're attracting the wrong kind of energy to you. All right, on November 19th, Snoop Dogg is going to be honored. He's getting his own star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Long overdue. Drop on the clues bombs for the OG Snoop D-O-G-G. You know that this week was the 25th anniversary of Doggystyle, too, by the way. Well, congratulations to Snoop. Shout out to Snoop, Uncle Snoop. Snoop is

always, always booked and busy, okay? In addition to that, you know, he has this whole play going on that's his autobiographical production, Redemption of a Dog, and Tamar Braxton is starring in that, but apparently there were some issues in D.C. Now, what happened was

Tamar Braxton refused to take the stage to finish out the show. She was supposed to be getting some food. The friend that was bringing the food was not allowed backstage. Therefore, she would not get back on stage. Her intermission was supposed to be 15 minutes. It ended up being over an hour. Why didn't you just let her backstage with the food?

I don't know what happened exactly, but I guess she felt like she was disrespected because she didn't get her food. And audience members said there were different characters throughout the second act, so they had to have somebody step up to play her part and have somebody else sing a Toni Braxton song she was supposed to be singing from offstage.

So I guess you gotta do what you gotta do. How do I feel about that level of petty? Do I respect that or not? No, no. Just because they didn't bring you your food at intermission, people paid tickets to come see you, that is a little selfish. But you feel disrespected. You feel like you got a writer and there's certain things that you should have.

Yeah, but you're not there for the promoters. You're there for the people. You done gave them half of the show. It's going to look kind of crazy. You just don't show up for the rest of the show. You cool with Snoop. You know what I'm saying? That's what I'm saying. And it's his play, his of crazy. You just don't show up for the rest of the show. And if you cool with Snoop, you know what I'm saying? That's what I'm saying.

And it's his play, his autobiography. You just... We'll fix it next time. You know what I mean? They said she kept screaming, she's not here for this, and then saying, I'm so sick of this ish. And then she said, you can do this damn show without me. Well, I know one thing.

It could be a lot, though. It could be she was a private, she might have been underpaid, and she was doing it as a favor. And then it was like, you know what? I'm doing it as a favor, and I can't get my food. That's also what happens when you separate from your former fat husband, because the former fat husband would make sure that food order was right.

You stupid, you stupid. All right, now Jimmy Kimmel had Michelle Obama on the show, and what he did was he had her read some things that she was never able to say as First Lady. I've never eaten a vegetable. I knew it. I knew it.

I knew it. Here's another one. That's not true. The whole eight years we were in the White House, we used Laura Bush's Netflix password. The revelation. Laura, sorry. Send me the bill. I'm not sure which one's Sasha and which one's Malia.

Clooney is my freebie alright so I'm not sure which one is Sasha and which one's Malia yeah but that could have been racist if that was a white person who said it what's her own daughters that's why she can't tear her daughters apart

I'm just saying white writers wrote that you don't know saying white writers wrote that. You don't know that. White writers wrote that. It's just about her own daughters. I'm Angela Yee and that's your rumor report. It's amazing what y'all accept. We don't know. Alright, well, People's Choice Mix is up next. Get your request and let me know

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