The Breakfast Club - What's The Worst Response You've Gotten From Sending A Nude?

Episode Date: August 18, 2023

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get your podcast it's freaky friday it's freaky call in now 800-585-1051 We want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club Morning everybody It's DJ Envy Charlamagne Tha Guy We are The Breakfast Club We got our guest co-host Laura LaRosa with us this morning And it's Friday so you know what that means

It's freaky freaky freaky Friday Freaky freaky Friday And the freaky freaky Friday question comes from our producer. Now, our producer is a little overweight. A little. Now, listen, I don't want nobody to think that we're shaming our coworkers the way Lizzo is being accused of shaming her coworkers. Lizzo again. I'm just saying.

We're not doing that. He calls himself the president of the Fat Lives Matter committee. And his name also reflects the fact he's overweight we're just not allowed to put him on camera now you know what i'm saying because we don't have any cameras big enough yet as soon as we now we need a wider shot we need a wider that's messed up we need you see him you see him but he said he sent a nude picture to his girlfriend, and his girlfriend sent back the emoji that when you think something is disgusting, when it's green and, like, the mouth is, like, blown up with air in it. That's messed up because she's seen you in person nude.

Well, maybe she felt like that in person, too, but it's different when you see a picture. How are y'all in a relationship, then? Maybe she closes her eyes. No. Yo. No. So let's open up the phone. He work at the radio station. He ain't got that much then? Maybe she closes her eyes. No. Yo. No. So let's open up the phone. He work at the radio station.

He ain't got that much money for her to close her eyes. 800-585-1051. Let's start with you, Lauren. Has this happened to you? I've never gotten a response to a pic that was bad. But the fact that I sent it in the person. So this is when I was in my like I cheat back days. Uh-oh.

I sent a nude to somebody it was a great one and then the person i was with at the time found out that i sent the nude his response wasn't the best you think lauren yeah it was it was pretty bad you think but other than that i've never had a bad experience in news i always i i take pride in what i send just in case i ever hit the internet like talk about this so nonchalantly that's that's your that's your generation that's your era i mean cause it's the the truth of the matter is like with the internet

anything can make it anywhere so when you send it you gotta know what you send it so I'm always making sure the material is like A1 why send it?

like don't you realize nudes can come back to haunt you in life? mine won't that's what I'm telling you my nudes you could publish them in a book of art

you know what I also believe that in this era that we're in I don't think like jobs and stuff will hold that against people anymore just because it's become so norm. But also, too, if you publicly post my nude, you're a criminal at that point. That is like... It's not mine to post? No. I mean, it depends on how you're posting it.

If you send it to me? If you... So, say, for instance, if you and your person separate and you post it out of spite and you're upset yeah that's revenge yeah i could get a lawyer play me if you want to no matter how good they look okay so what if i posted and say look at this work of art i'm gonna miss her you know what i mean we're not together no more but man i'm gonna miss her doesn't my reaction to it matter like if i say i'd he we talked about this not ever supposed to be hosted right yeah? Yeah, get that in writing. I'm not really tripping because, like I said, I make sure, and I think most girls,

make sure that what you're sending is quality work and piece of art. If not, you don't know what you're doing. Well, let's go to the phone lines. Yeah, because there's no need for me and Envy to answer this question because I was born in 1978. We were born in the 1900s. You don't do that in your marriage? No Why?

For what? I FaceTime I don't even do that Okay, alright FaceTime, Mark Live and in action I don't even do that That's right

For what? We grew up in a time Where we didn't have those kind of devices You saw what you saw And you saw it when you saw it You see this right here? That's sticky fingers Last night, me and the wife

Let's go to the phone line Hello, who's this'm calling me i didn't need that no no no we me on lauren didn't need it you want you want father suit i watched you be traumatized i'm so sorry carla i was disgusting man why would he do that lauren i don't know it hit you differently too lord have mercy he was a little jealous i think so i think so i'm sorry sir how how are you so i'm disgusted i feel like i feel like our producer's girlfriend i'm blessed brother all right what's up bro so i had a situation where uh i had a side chick for a little while and she basically asked me for a nude one day so i sent her the nude and i'm a pretty skinny dude and she uh she replied with the weirdest thing ever she goes my mom said that the only reason why your personality

is so big is because you're skinny can i ask you a question you're you're caucasian right nah oh okay uh can i ask you a question puerto rican okay sleuth dog i knew you weren't black because you said that you had a side chick and black men don't cheat okay we'll continue on what okay i just when i'm ready to say i'm right i was right on what is always gonna be my response but can i ask you a question when she was saying that was she saying that everything she saw in the photo was skinny that's why she went to your personality no no what she said was she goes my mom said that the only reason why you're so big is because it's an optical illusion talking about your penis yeah bruh okay okay because you said personality yeah yeah yep i don't know if y'all you know so why you mean words are accepted on uh so what you

were supposed to do is try your mama. What? Because clearly she showed mom. I went back to the house the next day and I took care of her mom. In real life, is this a lie? I explained to her. I explained to her the situation. Yeah, this is a lie.

Goodbye, sir. See, black men, Puerto Rican men cheat. They lie. You hear this? Puerto Ricans, y'all need better representation this morning. You the one that led him to the mom, black man. Hello. Hello.

Who's this? God, it's RJ. Hey, RJ. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning, Charlamagne. Peace, RJ. How are you, queen?

I am blessed, black, and beautiful. There you go. There you go. There you go. So we're asking, have you ever sent a picture to somebody and you didn't get the reaction you wanted? So, no, I have not. But my husband, I got to the tournament stuff and sent me a pic last week. Oh.

And I responded, he's going to ask you. Mm-mm. He asked, baby. He need lotion. Go to work with him or something. And what did he reply back? He just sent back the whole laughing face across the screen.

And you should have told him, ain't nothing funny, go eat you some goddamn jerky. Or some goddamn blow bar. He was dry. He looked dehydrated or something. He had just got out of the shower.

Dang. He thought he got out and moisturized. It was doing you a favor. I know. You know, you first get out of the shower, you feel your best.

He thought he was fresh Damn Well I just want to Take a moment Say I love y'all I listen to y'all Every morning Keep doing what you're doing

And keep pushing forward We appreciate you Queen Thank you mama 800-585-1051 We're asking One of our producers He's a little overweight Could you stop saying

A little A naked picture To his girlfriend Could you stop saying A little What's sent a naked picture to his girlfriend. Could you stop saying a little? What's the correct term? A lot overweight. All right. Okay.

He's a lot overweight. Yes. He sent a naked to his girl, and his girl didn't give him the reply that he wanted. He was kind of embarrassed. So we're asking, has that ever happened to you? Have you ever sent your significant other a picture, and it didn't hit like it was supposed to? And let the record show. Let the record show, though,

he came in this room and wanted to do this topic. And when he said what he said to us, when he said, yo, I sent the nude, first thing I said was, why would you ever do that? I mean, if the person's already seen you naked in person, like, it doesn't matter. Yeah. Yeah.

I feel like a horrible person sitting next to you today. You don't got no word of Polly's stuff. Let's discuss. We'll take your calls when we come back. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Power 105.1

Big ol' priest. A little tough, my sh- Tell her! Tell her! Maybe. It's Freaky Friday. Hey, look, where are my priests at? Call in now. 800-585-1051. It's Freaky Friday. Call in now.

800-585-1051. We want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining us, we're talking about one of our overweight producers. There you go. He sent a naked picture to his girlfriend, and he didn't hit like he was supposed to. I guess he expected

flowers, hearts, and he got the throw up emoji. Yeah, the green emoji where the person is like they got something in their mouth. Y'all do have it hard though because men can't send the photo to the group chat and be like, y'all look at this first. Girls can do that. Y'all do that?

I mean, it depends on how crazy the photo is, but girls can do that y'all do that i mean it depends on it depends on how crazy the photo is but girls can do that i just thought about that because why would he do why would he send that why would he send he didn't have no inner voice no friends no inner voice no friends man it's the same inner voice that tells him go to the fridge go to the fridge go to the fridge yo shut up man more more don't listen to that voice Let's go to the phone lines What's going on with you man 800-585-1051 Hello who's this

I'm Kaya I'm G I'm so excited Kaya Hey Kaya What's happening to you Good morning y'all I listen to y'all every morning Thank you Kaya

But so the worst response I've ever gotten was none Like I sent news to my baby daddy And and he was like, well, I see you every day. Like, it's not special. Damn. God damn. Damn. That's horrible.

Wait, so he responded, I see you every day, or he didn't say anything? He didn't say anything. So, when I seen him in person, he was like, eh, like, yeah, I seen him. I was like, did you see my pictures? And he was like, yeah, I seen them, but I was like, did you see my pictures? And he was like, yeah, I've seen them, but I see you every day. Girl, no. Did y'all stay together? No, no, no, no, no.

Not at all. Let me tell you something, Queen. I'm glad that you said y'all not together no more because what I was going to tell you is you just wasn't one of his favorites. I was about to say that. I've seen Avengers Endgame a million times. I've seen Boys in the Hood a million times. I've seen Lion King a million times.

Every time Ricky gets killed, I get the same feeling. Every time Mufasa gets killed, I get the same feeling. Every time Falcon says Cap on your left, I get the same feeling. I'm excited. I'm happy to see it. I'm like, ooh, if he ain't giving you that, he tired of that movie. You ain't winning. No, not at all.

He was over it. Okay, I'm so glad you made it out of that situation. Was it a good nude? Like, was it like the angles was hitting and all that? Because just in case. Yes, I thought it was good. I got that belly down. I'm proud of you.

I'm proud of you. After the baby's got the belly down, sent the nude. You know, sometimes these men don't know what they got. It's okay. Have you hired more? We send the same nude to somebody better true oh other people like other people love it so it's okay have you hired more security for your club you gotta hire more security for your club because you just can't have people shooting your club up you said no literally literally no one's no one's shooting up that club no more that's

right you need to be proper pat downs from now on before you let people in your club have a blessed day metal detectors in your laundry is crazy you gotta have them hello who's this who all right brother now you you sent a picture to somebody that you didn't get the reaction you wanted yeah man get the reaction i wanted man it, man. I didn't get the reaction I wanted, man. It was actually kind of weird for me. What'd you send, brother? What happened? Basically, you know what I'm saying? I'm like 225, you know what I'm saying?

Slim fat. You know what I'm saying? How tall are you? How tall are you? How tall are you? How tall are you? Oh, six. Six.

Oh, yeah. You ain't that big. No, you're not that big, brother. Exactly. But I ain't no same dude. Yeah, you like the new Tahoe. Like how the new Tahoe look. The new Tahoe.

You should make that your Instagram bio. It'll be old. The old region. Yes, sir. Now, what happened now? You sent the new... Yeah, I sent it. Her reaction was, oh, that's sexy.

I like it. What's the problem? Yeah. The problem is, I know you're lying. Like, we've been messing around with each other for a minute now. So for you to just lie to my face like that, I can't believe nothing you're going to tell me ever again. Oh, man, no, you're dealing with imposter syndrome, King, man. She clearly likes you.

You say y'all was messing around. So she clearly likes messing with you. And you sent her a news. She finds you sexy. She finds you attractive man she got more confidence in you so women like the bad boy

she might like yours what angle did you send her what did you like what was the angle oh you know I have my dark face fire for real good she got more confidence

in you than you got in yourself maybe I think she got more confidence in you than you got in yourself man you need to believe in yourself the way she believe in you man you sexy king

Charlamagne I want you to say that to him one more time tell him again he sexy king you you got in yourself, man. You need to believe in yourself the way she believe in you, man. You sexy, King. Charlamagne, I want you to say that to him one more time. Tell him again. He's sexy, King. You gotta believe in yourself. You gotta be jealous a little bit. And by the way, she likes what she sees. That's all that matters, brother. There you go. What is that for? I'm still rocking with him. Are y'all still together?

Charlamagne, tell me something. Shut up. I ain't talking to you. Y'all still together like Lauren just asked? We engaged. Oh, y'all engaged? How long y'all been engaged for a couple months okay man you winning man you winning where you where you at where you living at brother hey sir man oh you in houston yeah oh you winning man y'all got you a nice two bedroom somewhere you probably got you a hellcat you know i mean he got a backyard too y'all living life you got a backyard, too. Y'all live in life. You got a backyard. Mm-hmm. You got your fiance. Live, King. Well, yeah.

Live, King. All right, brother. Have a good weekend, man. Be crazy, man. All right. Your response. Charlamagne, tell me something, man. You just told that man he sexy.

Tell me something. Man, shut up. Lauren, what we got in the rumor report? Listening to this. Nope, nope, don't tell me something. I want to hear something. I want to hear something on this Friday. It was on my paper that I can't proceed until you tell Envy something.

Something. About how sexy he is. Lauren, look. Look, Lauren. Did you put your, did you gloss your lips? Call the police. What just happened here? Call the police.

Lauren, call the police, Lauren. The level of like. Lauren, call the police. Why am I calling the police? You see this man? What did he do? He made me feel uncomfortable. I'm sure. I'm sure.

I'm sure. We do. We're going to go to, speaking of uncomfortable situations, and sometimes comfortable, Usher's Las Vegas residency. Oh, no, you're lying. Hold up. We got past dogs coming up. Oh, we don't.

Oh, that's right. That's right. That's right. You know what threw you off? It's the sexy. It was not no sexy. Yeah, once you start calling people sexy. What threw me off is you don't have my back. And It was not no sexy. Yeah, once you start calling people sexy.

What threw me off is you don't have my back. That's right. And you seeing this man sexually harass me, Lauren, okay? Well, I had your back when he put up the five fingers and you were here for a moment traumatized. Yes. And now I think, you know, you're sending it back his way. That is not true. It's equal. Nope.

I'm an equal opportunity. Nope. Had enough of this country? Ever dreamt about starting your own? I planted the flag. This is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy.

55 gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete. Or maybe not. No country willingly gives up their territory. Oh my God. What is that? Bullets. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. That's Escape from Z-A-Q-A-Stan

on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey guys, I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going.

That's what my podcast Post Run High is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself. It's okay. Have grace for yourself. You're trying your best. And you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before.

Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey y'all, Nimany here. I'm the host of a brand new history podcast for kids and families called Historical Records. Executive produced by Questlove, The Story Pirates, and John Glickman, Historical Records brings history to life through hip-hop. Each episode is about a different inspiring figure from history. Like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15-year-old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing. Check it. Did you know, did you know I wouldn't give up my seat Nine months before Rosa

It was called a woman Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise. Listen to Historical Records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, what's up?

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