The Breakfast Club - Who is your First Priority

Episode Date: January 29, 2020

Today on the show we opened up the phone lines to see who comes as first priority in your family after Terry Crews put out a tweet expressing how his wife comes first before anybody else. Also, Charla...mgne, gave "Donkey of the Day" to yet another Florida mother was the getaway driver fro her 15 year old son in an armed robbery and Angela helped some listeners out during "Ask Yee" with one listener that was seeing if it was okay or not to not invite her husband's grandmother to his birthday party. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Had enough of this country? Ever dreamt about starting your own? I planted the flag. This is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy. 55 gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete. Or maybe not. No country willingly gives up their territory. Oh my God.
Starting point is 00:00:16 What is that? Bullets. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. We need help! That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey guys, I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast
Starting point is 00:00:46 Post Run High is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself. It's okay.
Starting point is 00:01:21 Have grace with yourself. You're trying your best. And you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I can't believe you guys are the best.
Starting point is 00:02:00 Collectively known as Breakfast Club, bitches. Good morning, USA. Yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo feel blessed, black, and highly favored this morning, man. Another day above ground is a great day. Yeah, but it's your mom's birthday today, too. Yeah, that I heard. Oprah Winfrey today. She's 66. That's right. Oh, I was like, how do you know his mom's birthday?
Starting point is 00:02:56 No, you know he said his mom's always Oprah Winfrey. I'm a Pinkett Smith, Winfrey knows Carter. That's what I am. Did you call your mom for her birthday yet? No. I might add her later. All right. Our relationship isn't that of a relationship. We're talking eye-to-eye, face-to-face, more of an ad thing.
Starting point is 00:03:19 Now, when she sees me out, she acknowledges me, but I don't have her number. Okay. All right. At least you're being honest. All right. What did you guys do yesterday? I know you're out in Miami for Super Bowl. Yes. I actually hosted the Giving Gracefully Awards yesterday that Kimberly Haynes started 11 years ago. She does it every year before the Super Bowl weekend activities kick off. So last night they were honoring DJ Irie.
Starting point is 00:03:39 Sabrina Fulton, who was Trayvon Martin's mother, was there also. She was getting a huge honor. Mike and Rachel McKenzie, John Moody, who's an artist and athlete, Nat Moore, Tracy Wilson Morning, and LaChyna Robinson. And I'll tell you, man, it was a lot of tears in that room last night. Tracy Wilson Morning, when she got up to speak, she said the wives, the NBA wives, they all have this prayer phone call that they're on. It's a prayer chat.
Starting point is 00:04:06 So they're just basically on there praying for Vanessa Bryant and for the Bryant family. And she was in tears just basically talking about her philanthropy and the girls that she works with and the program that she started with young girls. And, of course, Sabrina Fulton, Trayvon Martin's mother. People were teary-eyed when she got up to the stage also. So shout-out to everybody for giving gracefully awards. Okay. What are you doing, Charlamagne? Right now, I'm here with y'all waiting to start this show.
Starting point is 00:04:38 Just sitting here, vibing. You know what I'm saying? What kind of answer is that? I'm telling you, you're asking me. I'm just sitting here vibing, waiting to start the show. You know how sometimes you get to What kind of answers that morning? I'm telling you, you're asking me what I'm up on. I'm just sitting here vibing, waiting to start the show. You know how sometimes you get to work
Starting point is 00:04:47 and you're just, you know, waiting to see what happens? You know, your shoulder might hurt a little bit. You know what I mean? You're still a little tired,
Starting point is 00:04:52 especially when you're waking up on an early shift and I haven't had my green tea yet. I'm just waiting to see what happens. That's all. Okay.
Starting point is 00:04:58 I'm going to get in the swing of things in a second. All right. You know, I'm in Miami and their studio is way nicer than ours.
Starting point is 00:05:04 Duh. Every studio is way nicer than theirs. Duh. Every studio is way nicer than theirs. Not everyone. I would definitely not say that. Not all of them, but I definitely love Miami. Miami is one of my favorite studios. I love that big open space they got out there. They redid everything too.
Starting point is 00:05:18 Oh, they did? Yeah. They put in brand new carpeting. It looks amazing in here. It smells new. We definitely sound like we at work. I don't know what I'm doing. I'm tired just getting here. Angelique complaining about another workplace looking better than ours.
Starting point is 00:05:34 It looks so much better. Envy, go ahead and say you want to leave early. Logic is in here laughing. He's excited. Yeah, you know, I'm not mad if we get to leave early today. I'm not mad. Let's get the show cracking, man. Front page news is what we talk about. You know,
Starting point is 00:05:47 we just can't stop talking about Kobe Bryant at all, and we're going to talk to you more about this alleged pact that they're saying that Kobe Bryant and his wife Vanessa had. Also, the memorial for Kobe Bryant. We have some details on what could be happening. All right, we'll get into that next. Keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's
Starting point is 00:06:03 DJ MV, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ MV, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. Let's get in some front page news. Where we starting, Yee? Well, let's start with Girl Dad. That was trending yesterday, and it all started with ESPN anchor Elle Duncan. Now she talks about meeting Kobe
Starting point is 00:06:19 Bryant and approaching him while she was pregnant with her daughter and asking for advice because she was also expecting a girl. I asked him for advice on raising girls, seeing as though he quite famously had three at the time. And he said, just be grateful that you've been given that gift because girls are amazing. I asked if he wanted more children. And he said that his wife, Vanessa, really wanted to try again for a boy, but was sort of jokingly concerned that it would be another girl. And I was like, four girls?
Starting point is 00:06:48 Are you joking? Like, what would you think? How would you feel? And without hesitation, he said, I would have five more girls if I could. I'm a girl dad. Yeah, shout out to all the girls. I'm a proud girl dad, too, damn it. I got three girls at the house. I'm a proud girl dad. Love it. Yeah, so
Starting point is 00:07:03 that was trending yesterday. A lot of people were posting their daughters and the hashtag Girl Dad. So, that was a beautiful story to share and it ended up going viral. I wonder why Kobe and Vanessa never wanted to do In Vitro, though. Can In Vitro pick the sex of the baby?
Starting point is 00:07:19 I think if you can. You can. I think also if you can conceive naturally, people would prefer to do that. It's still natural. A lot of women. You just pick You can. I think also if you can conceive naturally, people would prefer to do that. It's still natural. A lot of women. You just pick the egg. It's still natural.
Starting point is 00:07:30 You're just picking the egg to put a sex on the baby. Don't you have to do shots and everything? Yeah. You got to do a bunch of shots. I just know a lot of women who've done it and they've tried to get pregnant before. It's not an easy process. It's very painful. I think that if you can.
Starting point is 00:07:43 And it's a long process. Yeah. I mean, A lot of people just don't feel comfortable doing it either. They don't like customizing their baby. They want to take what God or the universe gives them. I understand that too. It's a choice. Whatever you decide to do is what you decide to do. Now, let's talk about the
Starting point is 00:07:59 Kobe gear. Yesterday they were saying that Nike pulled all of the Kobe Bryant shoes and apparel off of their website online. But they're saying that Nike pulled all of the Kobe Bryant shoes and apparel off of their website online. But they're saying what really happened was everything sold out. So apparently that's the real reason that when you do a search, you can't find anything. Yeah, that makes
Starting point is 00:08:15 more sense because even yesterday when it was like people were buying stuff and reselling it, I'm like they don't care about that no other time. Right. And according to other reports, now I don't know how true this is, but a source told People magazine that Kobe Bryant and his wife, Vanessa Bryant, had a pact to never fly on a helicopter together. And that story actually got a lot of traction yesterday,
Starting point is 00:08:35 but I don't know how verified that really is, because people said they did travel together on the helicopter. So I don't know if that's the truth, but somehow this made it onto a lot of different websites. Yeah, well, I'll tell you that one of my neighbors who is has a lot of money. He has a private jet. And he told me the same thing. He said
Starting point is 00:08:53 him and his wife never travel together if they don't have the kids with them. If the whole family goes, they'll travel together, but they'll never, you know, fly together if maybe the kids are at home with the grandparents. They never will do that. They always have to fly together or apart. 99% of the time
Starting point is 00:09:10 somebody says a source is probably a lie. People just say they like to hide behind a source. What is a source? All right, and the Kobe Bryant Memorial they said could be held at the Coliseum, the L.A. Coliseum instead of the Staples Center because the Staples Center just is not big enough.
Starting point is 00:09:27 There's so many people that want to come out and honor Kobe. They said it only holds around 20,000 people, but the Coliseum holds about 80,000 people. And they also have the parks that surround it. So that can hold a lot more. And that's where the Rose Bowl, they said, also was brought up as a possible venue. It holds nearly 91,000. But they said Pasadena up as a possible venue. It holds nearly 91,000, but they said Pasadena is just too far away. So
Starting point is 00:09:47 as those details come in, we'll let you know. Yeah, I thought about that because I thought about how packed it was for Nipsey Hussle's funeral, even for Michael Jackson's funeral. And I said to myself, Kobe Bryant's funeral is going to be three times
Starting point is 00:10:03 both of those, especially because it's L.A. I mean, I know Michael Jackson was a huge, huge, huge superstar, but for what Kobe Bryant's funeral is going to be three times both of those, especially because it's L.A. I mean, I know Michael Jackson was a huge, huge, huge superstar. But for what Kobe Bryant meant to the city of Los Angeles, man, California period? Nah, they're going to have to. I don't know where they can hold that funeral, to be honest. All right. Well, I'm Angela Yee, and that is your Front Page News. All right.
Starting point is 00:10:21 Get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. If you're upset, you need to vent. Hit us up right now. Phone lines are wide open. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 00:10:32 Is your country falling apart? Feeling tired? Depressed? A little bit revolutionary? Consider this. Start your own country. I planted the flag. I just kind of looked out of like, this is mine.
Starting point is 00:10:44 I own this. It's surprisingly easy. There are kind of looked out of like, this is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy. There's 55 gallons of water for 500 pounds of concrete. Everybody's doing it. I am King Ernest Emmanuel. I am the Queen of Ladonia. I'm Jackson the First, King of Kaperburg. I am the Supreme Leader of the Grand Republic of Mentonia. Be part of a great colonial tradition. Why can't I trade my own country? My forefathers did that themselves. What could go wrong? No country willingly gives up their territory. I was making a rocket with a black powder, you know, with explosive warhead. Oh my God. What is that? Bullets. Bullets. We need help! We still have the off-road portion to go. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. And we're losing daylight fast. That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan
Starting point is 00:11:27 on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey guys, I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast, Post Run High, is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. You know that rush of endorphins you feel after a great workout?
Starting point is 00:12:04 Well, that's when the real magic happens. the pavement together. You know that rush of endorphins you feel after a great workout? Well, that's when the real magic happens. So if you love hearing real, inspiring stories from the people you know, follow, and admire, join me every week for Post Run High. It's where we take the conversation beyond the run and get into the heart of it all. It's lighthearted, pretty crazy, and very fun. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia Keys opens up about conquering doubt,
Starting point is 00:12:46 learning to trust herself, and leaning into her dreams. I think a lot of times we are built to doubt the possibilities for ourselves. For self-preservation and protection, it was literally that step by step. And so I discovered that that is how we get where we're going. This increment of small, determined moments. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself.
Starting point is 00:13:16 It's okay. Like grace. Have grace with yourself. You're trying your best and you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app,
Starting point is 00:13:30 Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is your time to get it off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed. You better have the same energy. We want to hear from you on The Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Yo, this is Ben from the Bronx, man. Jackson at finest, man. What's going on, MV?
Starting point is 00:13:50 What's up, Ben? Get off your chest, bro. Hey, yo, listen, man. First and foremost, man, R.P. Kobe Bryant. I just wanted to say I wasn't a Lakers fan, but he's still a f***ing legend. He's my friend. Okay, bro.
Starting point is 00:14:01 And what people need to realize is that life is too f***ing short, man. Stop cursing. Yeah, please. You feel me? Hug your mother, brother. I don't care you had a fight with son down the block. Make men's men. Life is too short, man. And we need to start living, putting the guns down, and work together, man.
Starting point is 00:14:19 This is why people in the world is winning because they working together. And people like us are going to work together and make men. So this is why we so f***ed up with our mindset. Bye. Sir. Everything he's saying is correct. But once again, I want everybody to feel like that next month and the month after that.
Starting point is 00:14:37 You know what I mean? We always do this when somebody that we love passes. You know, we get on our kumbaya, hakuna matata stuff. Hello, who's this? What's up, Evie? What's up, Evie? What's up, Trav? Hey, Trav. Hey, boo.
Starting point is 00:14:50 I'm so glad your voice is sounding better, babe. Me too. You sound a lot better. It's not all the way there, but, you know, I'm on the way. Yeah, you definitely sounding better. What's up, Char? Trav, what up, sis? Oh, what's up with the delay?
Starting point is 00:15:02 Don't be delaying when I say what's up to you, girl. First of all, the delay has nothing to do with me. That is a mechanical error. Oh, okay, okay, okay, okay. Listen, I want to start off by saying, one, drop one of those bombs for Kobe Bryant for being such a legend that he is and still is and will forever be a legend. I think the only thing that's bothering me is the way that he passed away. But, you know, I'm keeping his family and everything in my prayers.
Starting point is 00:15:31 And, yeah, prayers up to him and his family, man. It's like a terrible situation. Terrible is an understatement. Any word you use for this situation is an understatement. I totally agree with you. I totally agree with you, but in this type of situation, it's really not... You kind of don't know what to say, to be quite honest
Starting point is 00:15:49 with you. But just to kind of bring it on a lighter note, also dropped one of Clues' bombs for J. Cole. Oh. He had a birthday. Yeah, he had a birthday yesterday. The Grammy Award winning J. Cole finally got his first Grammy.
Starting point is 00:16:06 And I know that doesn't matter. Thanks to 21 Savage. Come on, thanks to 21 Savage. Give it up for 21. Come on now. Okay, hold on. Drop a cool bomb for 21 Savage also. But we all know that J. Cole was the one that slid that beat.
Starting point is 00:16:18 So definitely thank you to J. Cole. You can give both of them their props. Exactly. I thought it was an equal performance. A lot is a great record. I love a lot. You sound like two petty girls arguing about your favorite Barbie doll. That's what y'all sound like right there.
Starting point is 00:16:30 Did you just call 21 Savage and J. Cole Barbie dolls? Yeah, you did. I did. I'm not going to discredit 21. I'm not going to discredit. I'm not going to dim 21 shine just because J. Cole's light is bright too. Like, they both shined on that record. That's a good record.
Starting point is 00:16:44 Great record. I'm not dimming 21. Just, you know, Cole's my favorite artist 2. Like, they both shined on that record. That's a good record. Great record. I'm not dimming 21. Just, you know, Cole's my favorite artist. All right, y'all. Bye. Goodness gracious. Both of you girls sit in the corner, man, and play with your own dolls.
Starting point is 00:16:54 Get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. If you need to vent, hit us up now. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Is your country falling apart? Feeling tired?
Starting point is 00:17:06 Depressed? A little bit revolutionary? Consider this. Start your own country. I planted the flag. I just kind of looked out of like, this is mine. I own this. It's surprisingly easy.
Starting point is 00:17:16 There are 55 gallons of water for 500 pounds of concrete. Everybody's doing it. I am King Ernest Emmanuel. I am the Queen of Laudonia. I'm Jackson I, King of Kaperburg. I am the Supreme Leader of the Grand Republic of Mentonia. Be part of a great colonial tradition. Why can't I trade my own country? My forefathers did that themselves.
Starting point is 00:17:34 What could go wrong? No country willingly gives up their territory. I was making a rocket with a black powder, you know, with explosive warheads. Oh my God. What is that? Bullets. Bullets. We need help! We need help!
Starting point is 00:17:48 We still have the off-road portion to go. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. And we're losing daylight fast. That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, guys. I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast,
Starting point is 00:18:19 Post Run High, is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. You know that rush of endorphins you feel after a great workout? Well, that's when the real magic happens. So if you love hearing real, inspiring stories from the people you know, follow, and admire? Join me every week for Post Run High. It's where we take the conversation beyond the run and get into the heart of it all. It's lighthearted, pretty crazy, and very fun. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions,
Starting point is 00:19:09 but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia Keys opens up about conquering doubt, learning to trust herself, and leaning into her dreams. I think a lot of times we are built to doubt the possibilities for ourselves. For self-preservation and protection, it was literally that step by step. And so I discovered that that is how we get where we're going. This increment of small, determined moments. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive
Starting point is 00:19:46 myself. It's okay. Like grace. Have grace with yourself. You're trying your best and you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Yo, this is Jimmy. This is DJ Envy. Yo, what's up, bro? Yo, what's up, y'all? I'm Charlamagne, the guy, Angelique. How y'all doing this morning? Hey, good morning. Why you got the drug dealer, yo?
Starting point is 00:20:30 Like, when you pulling up to buy a pack or something, you're like, yo. You know what? I probably used to be when I was staying in St. Louis. I done moved out here to Fayetteville, North Carolina, and now we're in our country yet. Yo, what's up? But the only thing, like, just to get quick off my chest, I be listening to y'all show every damn morning. I swear to God, it be hella funny.
Starting point is 00:20:50 Like, y'all be having so many moments. Thank you, King. And, like, when I stop, no problem. When I call, I'm thinking DJ Envy picking up the phone. I'm like, hey, baby, look, they finna put me on the radio. It's like, for real? I'm like, yeah. So, you know, that kind of boosts up a man's ego. Probably give him some little yeah, yeah. So, I'm sitting there waiting 40 minutes. All of a sudden, phone call in. I'm like, yeah. So, you know, that kind of boosts up a man's ego. Probably give him some little yeah, yeah. So I'm sitting there waiting 40 minutes.
Starting point is 00:21:07 All of a sudden, phone call in. I'm like, what the hell? Then I call back the next day. 25 minutes, phone call in. I'm like, what the hell? What is going on? So the lady picked up. She all like, well, our people pick certain people.
Starting point is 00:21:20 It ain't like generated like that. We put you on hold, and then they only select so many people. I never knew that. Well, that's whack. If that's what they do, they need to do a better job, because they damn sure be letting the same people through every morning. Thank you for that bit of information. I really appreciate y'all, man. Seriously. Like, y'all,
Starting point is 00:21:37 this is, like, so much of a big inspiration. Like, I know, like, sometimes y'all don't know who envy y'all so much or whatever, but I really do, because I really want to get to that position in life. I've had like 30 some jobs, man. And like, I know what my potential is. And God don't have me set to be clocking in on a nine to five. Okay.
Starting point is 00:21:57 Well, we wish you the best, man. You sound like a very inspirational person and we appreciate you for holding all those times for such long periods of time. You saying God don't want you to clock in on a 9 to 5, but he might want you to clock in on a 6 a.m. to 10 a.m. is what you're saying. I mean, if this is 6 a.m. to 10 a.m., I wouldn't go to sleep and wake up with money in
Starting point is 00:22:16 my account, bro. Like, I got so much in my head. I'm a talented freestyler. Like, not to really put... Alright, let's hear something right now. Here's your shot. Alright. I'm chilling right now with Angela Lee and DJ Envy kind of crazy Charlamagne why the hell they want to steal me they kill me wonder why these other haters
Starting point is 00:22:32 don't steal me but it's cool though I'm chilling money rising to the ceiling nah man I got a 30 dirty like a Stephen Curry I was born in the winter time month of February if you think I'm worried nah that mother look like Stephen Curry's with a 30 extension 30 pippins you know I'm worried, no, that mother look like Stephanie Terry's with a 30 extension 30 pippets, you know I'm in. I'm just talking.
Starting point is 00:22:47 I don't know if you quit your job good, but you decent, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, that sounded like a real freestyle. Yeah, I don't know if it's a quit your job freestyle. What I be doing, y'all, like real quick before y'all let me go, they got this site called Live Me, and I've been on this site since 2017, and I just
Starting point is 00:23:03 freestyle. People put words in the comments and when I'm in my zone, I can go for hours and hours. I got 141,000 fans, right? Let me try one more. You ready? One more. I got a word for you, okay? Go ahead. D***. You say D***. D***. Did you say D***
Starting point is 00:23:19 or D***? I think you said D***. You know what I said. He's good. Oh, what the hell this man saying know what I said. He's good. What the hell this man saying, y'all? He's good. Oh, he couldn't do that one, huh? Couldn't pull that one off, huh, bro? Couldn't find the words. You guys aren't connecting. Couldn't find the words for
Starting point is 00:23:35 ding, huh? Oh, for dig. Okay, I sent back the dude say he wanna come and dig. I'm chillin', smokin' that shit. Whoa, whoa, whoa. No, that's not the word I said, but the first line of your bar definitely correlates with the word I said. Bro. He wants to come over and dig.
Starting point is 00:23:52 Bro. I'm dead. Bye, bro. You freaking on, yo. It's crazy. He didn't even understand what I said, but his first line was, he wants to come over and drink some Duce and dig. Get it off your chest. 800-585-1051.
Starting point is 00:24:08 If you need to vent, hit us up now. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Yee, we got rooms on the way? Yes, we are going to talk about the show Friends. Now, actor David Schwimmer was really going viral yesterday about some comments that he made. Because, you know, Friends was a very white show. There's not a lot of black people that you can remember being on that show.
Starting point is 00:24:24 So we'll tell you what he had to say about diversity and friends. All right, we'll get into that next. Keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. Hey. Morning, everybody.
Starting point is 00:24:38 It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Hey, can I give you a little fun fact? I was reading this article about, because the Super Bowl is coming up, right? And they were saying, what do you think is the number one food
Starting point is 00:24:51 that people eat during the Super Bowl? Nachos. I mean, chicken wings. You know what? It's not chicken wings. That's what I thought, too. What is it? It is nachos.
Starting point is 00:24:59 Nope. It's actually those little mini wieners, like the little pigs in blankets type of thing. I'm sure that's what Charlamagne eats for Super Bowl. mini wieners, like the little pigs in blankets type of thing. I'm sure that's what Charlamagne eats for Super Bowl mini wieners. Anyway, let's get to the rumors. Let's talk the Grammys. Let's see. She's spilling the tea.
Starting point is 00:25:17 This is the Rumor Report with Angela Yee on The Breakfast Club. Somebody wants to play. Oh, man. On The Breakfast Club, somebody wants to play. Lou. Oh, man. All right. So this year's Grammys hit a record low in ratings. That's the lowest in ratings in the production's history.
Starting point is 00:25:36 So don't know what's going on here, but they did say that it was the most watched television show on all of Sunday night, but it still did have record low numbers and ratings, the lowest ever. I mean, people aren't watching linear TV like that. They're probably watching it through their devices, you know, their smartphones and laptops and everything else. Yeah, and I didn't want to see the full Grammys.
Starting point is 00:25:57 I just see, you know, I wait for after to see the clips that I really want to see. I don't want to watch the full. How long was the Grammys? Two hours? Three hours? I didn't want to see the full How long was it going to be? Two hours? Three hours? I didn't want to see the full three hours. I just watched the clips. But then people also found out about
Starting point is 00:26:09 Kobe that day and I'm sure maybe that had some type of effect of people just not feeling like doing any. I don't know. True. Yeah, and they started off with a dedication to Kobe, so probably people saw that and they were like I'm cool. I'm going to watch Power now.
Starting point is 00:26:24 Alright, but the Oscars by the way, has a very low number of black nominees this year. It's a three year low. So according to different numbers, only five black people were nominated for Oscars this year. The number was its highest in 2017
Starting point is 00:26:39 when 18 black people were nominated. This year it's only five. But y'all, the black people are still going to keep running to where they're tolerated and not where they're celebrated. Did you see that video on Madame Noir where all the black artists kept passing by the black outlets at the Grammys? And they're going to do the same thing with the Oscars? Even though it's only three black people nominated,
Starting point is 00:26:59 they're going to flood the Oscars. They're going to be right out there on them red carpets in their night suits and dresses. All right, now let's discuss Allen Iverson and what happened there. 20-year-old man has surrendered to the police. He stole $500,000 in jewelry from Allen Iverson. He was at a hotel in Philadelphia. And I guess Allen Iverson must have put his bag down on a chair in the lobby,
Starting point is 00:27:19 and the guy just grabbed the bag and got out of there. But there was video footage, surveillance footage, and you could see him very clearly. So he ended up having to turn himself in. He's 20 years old. Bad idea. Christopher Daniel is his name. That's two places you don't want to mess with AI. Philly and Virginia.
Starting point is 00:27:37 AI, they love him so much out there. He was going to get that back some way or another. Well, he got it right back. Not to mention, you can't steal from a cultural icon. If you're a black person, regardless of what age you are, some way or another. Well, he got it right back. Not to mention, you can't steal from a coach or a like-on. If you're a black person, regardless of what age you are, if it's a coach or a like-on and you find out
Starting point is 00:27:49 you stole from a coach or a like-on, you got to go give them their stuff back. You got to get that back. Would you forgive the person if you were AI and he stole your backpack from the lobby
Starting point is 00:27:57 and then returned it? Yeah. Yeah. I mean, AI, because I mean, everybody's going, they're looking for a come up and I mean, AI left it there.
Starting point is 00:28:03 But when you realize it's AI, you got to send that back. You got to get back. Sorry, sir, I didn't know it was you. All right. It was nothing personal. David Schwimmer was talking to The Guardian, and he talked about diversity on the show Friends. And he said that he actually pushed for diversity. He said, I was well aware of the lack of diversity, and I campaigned for years to have Ross date women of color.
Starting point is 00:28:22 One of the first girlfriends I had on the show was an Asian-American woman, and later I dated African-American women. And he said it was a very conscious push on his part. He also says that he feels like there should be some type of all-black version of the show, Friends, and this caused an uproar because guess what? Friends was based on Living Single, and so Living Single was there first.
Starting point is 00:28:45 And when Erica Alexander was on The Breakfast Club, here's what she said. It wasn't true that Living Single was supposed to be named Friends? Yes. Well, we were called My Girl. And one of the executives had a whole list of names, three or four or five of them. And he read them out. Living Single, Friends, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And they chose Living Single for us.
Starting point is 00:29:02 And then the next year, they created Friends. Oh, the same people that had the same names. The same people were Warner Brothers. They both were Warner Brothers. We were on the ranch lot, and they were on the big lot. We called the ranch the ghetto lot. We had nothing on that lot. That's what's happened with Friends.
Starting point is 00:29:15 And at the end of our run, we were being paid a lot less. And people would say, well, you had a smaller market share. I said, compared to what? All right. And she also tweeted out, and I love Erica Alexander, man. Hey, David Schwimmer at Friends, are you seriously telling me you've never heard of Living Single? We invented the template. You're welcome, bro.
Starting point is 00:29:34 David Schwimmer to The Guardian. Maybe there should be, and she posted the article. And here was Queen Latifah on Watch What Happens Live speaking on Friends. I thought Friends was the reboot. Oh, you thought that too? That's really funny. I like you. I like the way you think. I'm panicking. I thought Friends was the reboot. Oh, you knew about that too? That's really funny. I like you. I like the way you think.
Starting point is 00:29:48 I'm panicking. I like the way you think. When Friends came out, did you think, wait a minute, we've already been doing this? No, we knew we had already been doing that.
Starting point is 00:29:56 You know? It was one of those things where there was a guy called Warren Littlefield that you saw on NBC and he said, you know, they asked him when all the new shows came out, he said, they said, if there's any show you could have, which one would it be?
Starting point is 00:30:09 And he said, live in single. Wow. And he did the white. They created friends. This is what colonizers do. This is what colonizers do. Colonizers, colonizers, colonizers. They steal from you and act like they were the first.
Starting point is 00:30:20 OK, salute to Christopher Columbus. Well, not salute to Christopher Columbus, but, you know. Wow. Yeah, not salute to him, but, you know. Wow. Yeah, not salute to him, but you know, acknowledge Christopher Columbus for being a colonizer. Alright, I'm Angela Yee, and that's your rumor report. Alright, thank you, Ms. Yee. Now we got front page news.
Starting point is 00:30:33 Next, what are we talking about? Yes, and we are going to be talking about this earthquake. I'm in Miami and a lot of people hit me up yesterday, like, did you feel the earthquake? So we'll give you some updates. Alright, we'll get into that next. Keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Yeah, yeah. Morning, everybody. Shalami. Is your country falling apart? Feeling tired, depressed, a little bit revolutionary? Consider this. Start your own country. I planted the flag. I just kind of looked out of like, this is mine.
Starting point is 00:30:58 I own this. It's surprisingly easy. There are 55 gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete. Everybody's doing it. I am King Ernest Emmanuel. I am the Queen of Ladonia. I'm Jackson I, King of Kaperburg. I am the Supreme Leader of the Grand Republic of Mentonia. Be part of a great colonial tradition. The Waikana tried my country.
Starting point is 00:31:16 My forefathers did that themselves. What could go wrong? No country willingly gives up their territory. I was making a rocket with a black powder, you know, with explosive warhead. Oh, my God. What is that? Bullets. Bullets.
Starting point is 00:31:30 We need help! We still have the off-road portion to go. Listen to Escape from Zakistan. And we're losing daylight fast. That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast Post Run High is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. You know that rush of endorphins you feel after a great workout? Well, that's when the real magic happens. So if you love hearing real inspiring stories from the people,
Starting point is 00:32:26 you know, follow and admire join me every week for post run high. It's where we take the conversation beyond the run and get into the heart of it all. It's lighthearted, pretty crazy, and very fun. Listen to post run high on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions, but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia Keys opens up about conquering doubt, learning to trust herself, and leaning into her dreams. I think a lot of times we are built to doubt the possibilities for ourselves. For self-preservation and protection, it was literally that step by step. And so I discovered that that is how we get where we're going. This increment of small, determined moments.
Starting point is 00:33:25 Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself. It's okay. Like, grace. Have grace with yourself. You're trying your best. And you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before.
Starting point is 00:33:41 Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get older and older, you snort more, bro. I do. What's your problem? That's some good hearty laugh. What's wrong with you? What are we starting, man? Well, let's talk about this earthquake.
Starting point is 00:34:18 And there was a magnitude 7.7 earthquake that actually struck about 80 miles from Jamaica. And people felt it as far away as in Miami. Now, I'm in Miami. Yesterday, a few of my friends hit me like, yo, did you feel the earthquake? Is everything good? Are you all right? And Logic, you said your dad felt it, right? Yeah, my pops felt it.
Starting point is 00:34:31 He works out there at Opelika, at the tower out there, and he felt it. Lights were flickering and the windows were shaking and everything. I heard they actually made
Starting point is 00:34:39 some people get out of the buildings, like in Brickell. Yeah, they had to evacuate some buildings, too. Really? Yeah, so just so y'all know, because I know everybody's in town.
Starting point is 00:34:48 Yeah, my mom called me and all that. You okay, baby? Yeah. Alright, now. For everybody in town for the Super Bowl, there's nothing you can do if an earthquake happens. Like nothing. When the earth decided to press reset, you're going to know God not playing. There's nothing you can do. What you going to do? Nothing. I think in
Starting point is 00:35:03 New York, they don't really have earthquakes, right? I'm not going to say that I think we experienced one last year Not a lot No, we experienced one last year, I believe It wasn't last year It was an earthquake that happened somewhere down south And we kind of felt it in New York, New Jersey area
Starting point is 00:35:18 I'm sure it's a fault line in New York somewhere Because I remember The only time I've ever felt an earthquake Was when I was in L.A. And I was at a restaurant And it was my first time experiencing it. I thought I was just drunk. I was like, for some reason, I feel like the room moving. You probably were drunk too, yeah.
Starting point is 00:35:32 Yes. All right. Now let's talk about ESPN anchor Elle Duncan. She shared a great memory of meeting Kobe Bryant for the first time and she was pregnant with her daughter when she met him. And here's what happened. I asked him for advice on raising girls, seeing as though he quite famously had three at the time, and he said, just be grateful that you've been given that gift because girls are amazing. I asked if he wanted more children and he said that his wife Vanessa really wanted to try again for a boy but was sort of jokingly concerned that it would be another girl. And I was like, four girls, are you joking?
Starting point is 00:36:05 Like, what would you think? How would you feel? And without hesitation, he said, I would have five more girls if I could. I'm a girl dad. That's right, proud girl dad over here. Shout out to my dad, he's a girl dad. You know, I got two sons and three daughters,
Starting point is 00:36:19 and, you know, I love all my kids, but that special bond with you and your daughter is something, it just can't be repaired between a father and his daughter. It's like, not repaired, but it just can't be duplicated. It's different levels of love. Yeah, the way my daughters kiss me, hug me, like, it's just different. Your daughters take care of you. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:36:37 Like, you know, I got an 11-year-old, a 4-year-old, and a 1-year-old. And it seems like all three of them are very nurturing towards me. Very loving. It's wild. I love all my babies, but my daughters, they just do something special to me. I don't know what it is. I can't tell them no. Like, my son, I'm like, no.
Starting point is 00:36:53 My daughter, dad, yes, do whatever. I don't know. And they're a blessing. I remember one of my homies, Hassan Tarei, when I was having my first daughter years ago, he said to me, he was like, yo, you watch how the blessings just start falling in your life. And I'm not going to lie. Ever since I had three daughters, I didn't came up. I love my little bookie chew.
Starting point is 00:37:13 Can't lie to you at all. Sometimes I notice men treat women better when they have daughters. That is a fact. It changes your whole perspective on women. Absolutely. A hundred percent. All right. Now there's this whole challenge that people have been doing on TikTok and it's
Starting point is 00:37:25 pretty gross. I don't know if you guys have seen this. Are y'all on TikTok? I'm a grown ass 41 year old man. What the hell would I be doing on TikTok? I have a TikTok. Yeah, I have a TikTok account because I got to see what everybody's doing. You know, it's part of our job. No, it's not. Yes, it is. I keep trying to keep up.
Starting point is 00:37:41 I like to create waves. Now you know why I have a TikTok? I'll tell you the truth. Because my kids be on TikToks. I want to see what they're doing. There you go. Now you say, now you tell me you just got a TikTok for recreational purposes. Nah, I've never posted a video. And my kids' TikTok is, they try to hide it from me, is Madison's brother and it's Logan's sister.
Starting point is 00:38:00 They try to hide it from me. Oh, that's cute. But I caught it anyway, though. I caught it. I'm watching y'all. Well, I had a super call challenge on TikTok. And you said it's gross. So put us up on something gross.
Starting point is 00:38:09 In the world of technology, you know, you gotta just know what's going on. So with TikTok, they have this cereal mouth bowl challenge. And what they've been doing is you eat some cereal and milk out of someone else's mouth. Yeah, I'm really missing out on TikTok.
Starting point is 00:38:25 Real highbrow stuff going on over there. That's going to keep me ahead of the curve, baby. That is disgusting. Okay? Who does that? White people on TikTok. A flu that's ready to happen. You better check out Logan's sister and Madison's brother
Starting point is 00:38:41 and make sure they're not doing the cereal mouth bowl challenge. I'm definitely going to check that now. That's disgusting. Yeah, don't spit no milk in my mouth. All right. Well, I'm Angelique. And that is your Front Page News.
Starting point is 00:38:54 Okay. Okay. Okay. All right. Where are we going? Oh, Terry Crews. All right. Let's talk Terry Crews.
Starting point is 00:39:00 Let's open up the phone lines. So that's what you got from that? 800-585-1051. Terry Crews. Now, what are we asking about Terry Crews? Yesterday, Terry Crews said what So that's what you got from that? 800-585-1051. Terry Crews. Now, what are we asking about Terry Crews? Yesterday, Terry Crews said what, Yee? You got the clip? No, that's a tweet.
Starting point is 00:39:11 There's no clip, dude. It's a tweet. It's a tweet, Dramos. What's going on over there? I'm sorry. The audio is from my camera. How are you going to keep up with what's going on on TikTok? You don't even know what's going on on Twitter. He said, is there audio?
Starting point is 00:39:19 No, there's no audio. Goodness gracious. You have the tweet, Yee? Does it have to do with spitting milk in his mouth? You have it or no? You want me to read it spitting milk in his mouth? You have it or no? You want me to read it? No, I don't. You read it.
Starting point is 00:39:26 All right, here it goes. He said, there's only one woman, one earth I have to please. Her name is Rebecca. Not my mother, not my sister, not my daughters or coworkers. I will let their husbands, boyfriends, partners take care of that. Rebecca gives me wings. All right, so we will open up the phone lines and, you know, kind of break it down a little bit.
Starting point is 00:39:45 800-585-1051. Go ahead. Yeah, I gave him donkey of the day for that. You know, I'm not going to give him flack for, you know, how he feels about his mother or sister or coworkers because all of those are complicated situations. But your daughters, bro. Yes, it is your job as a father to please your daughters. You know what I mean? You have to protect and provide and please your daughters.
Starting point is 00:40:07 Right. You have to. So a lot of people were hitting me on DM like, no, he was talking about please as far as sexually. No, no, no, no, no, no. That's not what I took out of it. So why would you say your mom? Yeah, that's not what I took out of it. When he was saying please, he was basically saying I ain't got to take care of nobody but my wife.
Starting point is 00:40:21 That's how I took it. He was not talking sexual because that tweet was in reference to Gabrielle Union. Absolutely. So, like, no, he wasn't talking about sex. Yes, it was a subliminal, though, because he didn't say. We knew what it was about, but it wasn't like he directed it toward her. But we knew that's what he was responding to, all the backlash he got for what he said about Gabrielle Union and America's Got Talent.
Starting point is 00:40:42 So we're asking 805-85-1051. In your relationship, who comes first? Your wife, your mother, or your kids? Let's talk about it. How does that break down? I don't have a way of playing this game with y'all. Let's break it down. 805-85-1051.
Starting point is 00:40:56 You could give your opinion, but who comes first in a relationship? Wife, mom, or your kids? Call us up right now. Let's talk about it. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Pull out your phone. Call in right now. Call us up right now. Let's talk about it. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Pull out your phone. Call in right now. Call me.
Starting point is 00:41:09 Add your opinion to The Breakfast Club topic. Break it down. 800-585-1051. The Breakfast Club. Morning everybody. It's DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us
Starting point is 00:41:24 we're talking about Terry Crews and a tweet he put out yesterday. Yee, do you have Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Now, if you just joined us, we're talking about Terry Crews and a tweet he put out yesterday. Yee, do you have the tweet now? I sure do. He said, there is only one woman on earth I have to please. Her name is Rebecca. Not my mother, my sister, my daughters, or coworkers. I will let their husbands, boyfriends, partners take care of them. Rebecca gives me wings.
Starting point is 00:41:40 Alright, so we're asking who comes first in your relationship? Your wife, your mother, your kids, and for relationship? Your wife, your mother, your kids? And for women, your husband, your mother, or your father. I should say your husband, your father, or your kids. What's the, I should say, in what order does it go? Start with you, Charlamagne. I mean, there's no order.
Starting point is 00:41:58 Like, you know what I'm saying? If you have to say, for argument's sake, you have to pick an order. No, it's not about I have to say. I'm telling you, you're asking me a question, and I'm telling you, there is no order. They're on the same level. Hypothetically speaking. There's no need to do hypotheticals in real life situations. I'm just telling you how I feel. I think at this point in my life, those are all my hearts,
Starting point is 00:42:16 and it's not about who comes first in that situation. I will say my wife and kids are the immediate because that's your everyday unit. That's who you see all the time. So, of course, they get, you know, first dibs on everything. But it's not a who comes first scenario. Like, you know, love is something that you have an overabundance of, especially when it's unconditional. And those three entities you named, your mom, your wife, and your kids,
Starting point is 00:42:41 at least in my life, that's just unconditional love. I got enough to go around. It's not a matter of who's first. Three women hanging off a cliff. Your mom, your wife, and your kids, at least in my life, that's just unconditional love. I got enough to go around. It's not a matter of who's first. Three women hanging off a cliff. Your mom, your wife, and your daughter. You can only grab one. Which one you grabbing? I got two arms.
Starting point is 00:42:52 Oh, come on, man. Come on. I got two arms. And we can figure it out. I got two arms, so I can grab two. Somebody else can grab somebody. We can do a little centipede and get each other up. You know what?
Starting point is 00:43:03 We'll figure it out. Yee. And guess what? If they fall, I'm jumping with them. I have nothing to live for after that. Your wife and kids and mom? What am I hanging around for with y'all? Well, I would think that, in my opinion, and you know, I don't have kids, nor do I have a wife.
Starting point is 00:43:16 But I would always think kids come first. But that just would be my thought. But the problem I have is him saying there's only one woman on earth I have to please. That's not true. And it's not about putting things in order but as a father as a husband as a son you should feel some type of responsibility to all of these women in your life and there were so many people that came to your defense when you were having issues when you said that you were being sexually assaulted that actually stood up for you, including Gabrielle Union, and for you to then turn your back and act like you have
Starting point is 00:43:47 no type of... What's going to happen when something happens to you and people say, well, I don't care about Terry Crews because all I care about is my own husband. Let his wife take care of that. That's not true. You need people, and people need your support, and black women need your support more than anybody. Well, see, I feel it's your kids first, and
Starting point is 00:44:03 I look at the same cliff, you know, scenario And the reason I look at it is Sorry, Gia, damn No, I'm going to tell you the truth Because if I'm hanging from a cliff I'm not going to let my wife take me first I'm going to tell her to take the kids first And my wife is going to do the same thing
Starting point is 00:44:16 She's going to say, take the kids first Make sure the kids are safe first And then come back for me and your mom That's really what it is I got to make sure my kids are safe first Me and my wife Yeah, but how you put yourself in the scenario and then come back for me and your mom. That's really what it is. I got to make sure my kids are safe first. Me and my wife. Yeah, but how you put yourself in the scenario? You said the wife and the kids and the mom.
Starting point is 00:44:30 Now you all of a sudden hanging off the cliff with your pants sagging. Where you come from? You know what? You said it wasn't about you. It was about the wife. Then you talk about eating this morning. It was about the wife and the kids. And I'm telling you, if the situation happened,
Starting point is 00:44:44 my wife would tell me to take the kids first. Yeah, but when you get married, aren't you a unit? So technically, you and your wife are one. So I don't see how she could even be put into the equation of the kids. You're right. I would just jump off the cliff. I'm going. If they go, I'm going too. I'm letting you know right now.
Starting point is 00:44:58 If they jump it, I'm jumping. I'm going to stay on this planet with y'all and be going to therapy every day instead of just once a week. I ain't got time for that type of trauma in my life. We every day instead of just once a week. You know what I mean? I ain't got time for that type of trauma in my life. We all going. Yeah, we all out. Hello, who's this? This is Arne Triss.
Starting point is 00:45:11 Hey, Arne Triss. Hi. I think the wife should come first because once she leaves the nest, then it's technically the man's responsibility to make sure that her basic needs are met. Then it should be daughter then mom. You're not sleeping with your mom, and you're not seeing your mom every day, so I feel like the wife should definitely
Starting point is 00:45:30 come first in any situation. You got kids? I do, and I'm a wife. Okay, so you want to come first. Let the kids be your office. Let the kids be done. Plenty of foster care homes to raise your kids, huh? Pretty much. A lot of fire.
Starting point is 00:45:44 Thank you, mama. 800 A lot of fire safety around. Lord have mercy. Oh, my gosh. All right. Thank you, mama. 800-585-1051. Lord have mercy. My God. That's a hard knock life for us. We're asking who comes first, your wife, your mother, or your kids.
Starting point is 00:46:00 Call us up right now. This is from Terry Crews. This tweet is to Breakfast Club. Good morning. It's topic time. Call 800-585-1051 to join in to the discussion with the Breakfast Club. Talk about it.
Starting point is 00:46:15 Morning, everybody. It's DJ N.V. Angela Yee, Charlamagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now, if you just join us, we're talking Terry Cruz. He put out a tweet yesterday. You got the tweet, E? Yes, he said, there's only one woman on earth I have to please. Her name is Rebecca.
Starting point is 00:46:29 Not my mother, my sister, my daughters or coworkers. I will let their husbands, boyfriends, partners take care of them. Rebecca gives me wings. He said it like that? That's how I interpreted it. Okay. Well, we're asking, who comes first, your wife, your mom, or your kids? I don't respect it.
Starting point is 00:46:46 And, you know, I gave him donkey of the day for that yesterday. And, you know, I can't even knock him for how he feels about his mother or sister or coworkers. Because that can all be complicated situations. But your daughters, bro. Like, come on, man. Like, you supposed to love your daughters the exact same way that you love your wife. You know what somebody told me a long time ago? Her name was Daria Alexander.
Starting point is 00:47:05 Daria Alexander said, when you love your significant other the way you love your kids, that's when you really have a soulmate. Because, you know, a lot of us don't really experience love until we have children. We don't know what real love actually is.
Starting point is 00:47:19 So if you love your significant other in that way, then you really got something. All right, well, 800-585-1051. That's what we're asking. Hello, who's this? Hey, hey, hey, what's going on, Breakfast Club? This is Jay from VA. What's going on? Jay from VA. We're asking, if you had to pick
Starting point is 00:47:34 one, who would come first, your wife, your mother, or your kids? Yeah, I'm definitely going to ride with my wife. You're going up to Terry Crews. If I'm not mistaken, he said the only one he has to please is his wife. Yes. Yeah, I mean, that makes sense to me.
Starting point is 00:47:49 I mean, I'm going off the verb, but I'm not here to please my kids. I'm here to raise my kids. You know, I'm not here to, a lot of kids be too friendly, or a lot of parents be too friendly with their kids. And, you know, that's how kids grow up. You can't be friendly? No, you can't be friendly with your kids, man. No, I'm not.
Starting point is 00:48:09 I'm not. What's that movie? What's that movie with Terrence J? Not Why Did I Get Married. Think Like a Man? Yeah. Think Like a Man. His mama was all in his business.
Starting point is 00:48:22 And he was trying to please his mama when he needed to be trying to please his wife. And what happened at the end? He bucked on his mama. You know that's just a movie. I bet it's based off real stuff. You can't be like that. I've seen stuff like that in real life. I'm here to please my girl, my wife, my mom.
Starting point is 00:48:37 I'm not really here to please her. I base a lot of my man based on how he treats his mom. And that matters to me a lot as far as who I decide, you know, deciding to be with him. I love his relationship with his mom. And that's important. And you should definitely help him based on how he treat his kids, too. You should judge a man based on how he treat his children. Let me see now.
Starting point is 00:48:57 You're going to raise your kids right. And you're going to help your mom out when she needs you. But when you're grown, you know, you're here to raise a family as your mom raised you to do. Now, my brother, have you ever looked up the definition of please? You know what please means? Please means to cause
Starting point is 00:49:10 to feel happy and satisfied, to take only one's own wishes into consideration in deciding how to act or proceed. So that's when you say, like, this is the first time in ages that I can just please myself.
Starting point is 00:49:21 When you're talking about pleasing somebody else, it's to cause them to feel happy and satisfied. He arranged a fishing trip to please his son. He arranged an activity to please his daughter. So, yes, you should please your kids, King. Well, you know, I'm going with the wifey first.
Starting point is 00:49:37 For example, with the love thing. Like, when you say you love somebody or, you know, you love your mom, you love your kids, but you're in love with your wife or your significant other. It's a lot of things that come with being in love with somebody that you just can't put on the same terms as loving somebody. Like, you love your friends,
Starting point is 00:49:56 you love your mom, but you're not in love. You're not having sexual things with those type of people. You're only doing that with your significant other. There's some people out there that don't love their wives, by the way. Well, you know, I'm going off doing what I can do.
Starting point is 00:50:11 But I'd just rather please my wife because that's who I stay with. That's who I'm going to build my family with. And when your parents die, you know, you still have to please your woman that's still there. Which is what your dad or your mom raised you to do. It's crazy that y'all don't care about
Starting point is 00:50:26 y'all kids. See, I'm looking at like, in love, right? Now, in love has nothing to do with sexual, right? In love says, I'm just looking at it and it says you can't stop staring at them. You feel like you're high. You're always thinking about them. You want to be happy. You don't want them to feel pain. You don't want them to feel stress. I'm in love with my kids.
Starting point is 00:50:42 I'm in love with my daughters. Yeah, me too. I don't know what he's talking about. I'm in love with my kids. Yeah, I don't feel stressed. I'm in love with my kids. I'm in love with my daughters. Yeah, me too. I don't know what he's talking about. I'm in love with my kids. Yeah, I don't get it. I'm in love with my daughters. I want to please my daughters. But, you know, and of course, you know, your wife, that's a different level of love. That's something else.
Starting point is 00:50:55 You know what I mean? Like, I don't know. What's the moral of the story? The moral of the story is, boy, I'm surprised the orphanages ain't more packed. I'm surprised these foster homes ain't more packed. Because y'all don't give a damn about y'all kids. But guess what?
Starting point is 00:51:07 Guess what? Tax time right around the corner. I bet you you're going to be so happy to see them little churrin' in. You're going to want to claim all of them on your taxes. Mm-mm-mm. All right.
Starting point is 00:51:16 Well, we got rumors on the way. Oh, my goodness. I got some news yesterday. 90-day fiance. Guess who finally got married. You excited too, Logic? Okay, all right. So we'll tell you.
Starting point is 00:51:27 I know y'all don't really watch it, but this couple right here is one of the most infamous couples on 90 Day Fiance. You ain't got no news on Bachelor or Bachelorette? That's all you got? That's all I got. All right. Rumors when we come back is The Breakfast Club. Good morning.
Starting point is 00:51:41 It's DJ MV, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are The Breakfast Club. Good morning. It's DJ, MV, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha God. We are the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Good morning. Charlamagne? Is he there? I guess not. Oh, my bad. I forgot to turn the on button on. Good morning. How are you? How are you doing? Fine. Good. All right.
Starting point is 00:51:57 We got rumors on the way. What are we talking about, Yeezy? Yes, we are going to be talking about 90 Day Fiance. Now, I know y'all don't really watch the show, but one of the couples on that show that always goes viral and they've had this long extended relationship. She hasn't been able to get their K-1. He hasn't been able to come to the United States and she wants to marry him.
Starting point is 00:52:17 Looks like they finally got married. Okay. All right, we'll get into that next. Also, you know, with the tragedy that happened with Kobe, I can't get excited about the Super Bowl, which is, you know, with the tragedy that happened with Kobe, I can't get excited about the Super Bowl. You know what I mean? It's just like it doesn't feel right. And then All-Star is coming up, too.
Starting point is 00:52:31 I know they have to be doing some amazing things. Like, you know, Super Bowl's this Sunday, and I'm taking my son for his birthday, and I just don't feel excited. There's no excitement for me. Well, you need to go back and listen to Bishop T.D. Jakes yesterday on The Breakfast Club. And, you know, when I asked Bishop T.D. Jakes, I said, you know, Bishop T.D. Jakes has this The Breakfast Club. And when I asked Bishop T.D. Jakes, I said,
Starting point is 00:52:45 Bishop T.D. Jakes has this sermon called Keep It Moving. And I said, you know, it always seems insensitive to keep it moving when somebody dies. And he was like, you have to because the world keeps moving. Super Bowl is still going to be this weekend. I know it's still going to be there. I'm just saying I'm just not excited. You better get excited. You got to enjoy your life while you still have it.
Starting point is 00:53:05 And make it fun for Logan. And I'm sure once you guys get there, you'll feel you'll be excited for it because you have your son coming. And it's okay to feel what you feel. You can feel a multitude of emotions. People act like they can't be happy and they can't laugh and simultaneously be sad at times like
Starting point is 00:53:21 this. That's how emotions work. They're very complicated and they're very nuanced. So you might be crying one minute, you might be laughing the next. That's just the way the world is. Okay. Alright, well we got rumors coming up, so don't move. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. Let's get to
Starting point is 00:53:38 the rumors. Let's talk 90 Day Fiance. Listen up. It's just in. All the gossip. The rumor report. The rumor report. With Angela Yee. It's the in. All it got. Gossip. The Rumor Report. Gossip. With Angela Yee. It's the Rumor Report. The Breakfast Club.
Starting point is 00:53:49 Well, one of our favorite couples to watch from 90 Day Fiancé, and their saga's been continuing, what, for some years now, Michael and Angela. Now, Michael is from Nigeria, and he's dating Angela. She's older than him. And I remember in one of the first episodes, you got to see him wearing a MAGA hat. He was wearing all this Donald Trump gear
Starting point is 00:54:09 and saying how much he loves Donald Trump. Clearly, he was trying to get over to the United States by making these statements. The two of them have had some issues, though, with being able to get married. So she actually went over to Nigeria and got married. And if y'all don't watch the show, here's just some of the controversy they had between the two of them
Starting point is 00:54:26 and their relationship. In Nigeria, couples will put on a matchmaking outfit, you know? I'm not Nigerian, though, Michael. Baby, are you denying me now? No, no, no. I'm just saying I'm American and you knew that when I
Starting point is 00:54:42 come here, right? Just look at the prints. Don't bring out the prints. It's real. Don't bring out the dress. You can maybe bring it out, but don't wear it. Don't wear it. It looks embarrassing to her because she's fat. Not fat.
Starting point is 00:54:55 I'm fat, Michael. Really? I didn't mean it. So he would talk to her and he called her fat. He would refer to her as an elder because she is older than him. And his friends didn't like her. But somehow they managed to stick it through. She also accused him of stealing money out of her bank account from her debit card.
Starting point is 00:55:15 A lot of controversy there with this couple. But they stuck through and they ended up getting married. So that's 90 Day Fiance. And interestingly enough, our camera guy from Revolt, a young woman hit him up asking, does he want to be on the show with her? So I guess she's from another country trying to get on the show. And Logic, who works on our show here in Miami, also had the opportunity to be on 90 Day Fiance, right? Yeah, you know, I was trying to get on the Miami edition. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:55:41 Oh, you wanted to get on. I mean, they wanted me to get on. So, you know, I was like, I checked my schedule. Why? Why were you thinking about that, Logic? Why? It's some hot girls. Why 90 Day Fiancé? My friends tried to get me on.
Starting point is 00:55:53 I wasn't like, yo, I'm trying to get on. He was with it. No, I wasn't. He said he started a profile. No, they started a profile. Why not the Bachelor? A Bachelorette. Well.
Starting point is 00:56:03 Well, they started it. Logic, let me find out you're the guy in your crew, Logic. Why not the Bachelor? A Bachelorette. Well, they started it. Let me find out you're the guy in your crew, Logic. Let me find out you're the guy in your crew who can't get no girls. And all your homeboys know it. Nah, son. Your boy got a squad, son. Your boy got a squad.
Starting point is 00:56:17 All right. Now, speaking of television, let's talk about the show Good Girls. They're coming back for season three. And they said that is going to also on the premiere feature Meg the Stallion so you guys get to see her acting skills I don't know if you all watch that show but that show is a comedy with three moms who decided to rob a grocery store and that's
Starting point is 00:56:36 kind of how the whole thing got set off as they try to figure out how to cover up everything other television stories Wu-Tang, an American saga, has been renewed for season two. I was waiting for this news to happen. So that's official.
Starting point is 00:56:52 And everybody loved that show on Hulu. Did you guys watch it? I feel bad because, you know, I'm a diehard Wu-Tang Clan fan, but I did not get a chance to watch it. So I'm sitting here thinking, like, how did it end? Like, I want to know how it ends
Starting point is 00:57:04 to where it's going to be a season two. Did they get a record deal in the first season or not? I didn't see it. So I'm sitting here thinking like how did it end? Like I want to know how it ends to where it's going to be a season two. Did they get a record deal in the first season or not? I didn't see it. I seen a couple a little bit of it and like I said I didn't have time but I definitely got to check it out. I got to check it out. Somebody send us your Hulu account so we can log on. Alright. Oh so none of us saw it. No. I don't have Hulu.
Starting point is 00:57:19 Dramos said he seen it. Dramos. Did they get a record deal in the first season? Nah. It ends when they kind of just put together Wu-Tang Clan and started recording. And after RZA got dropped by his label. So it ends right before that. So that's good. Okay. All right.
Starting point is 00:57:32 Boom. All right. And Kodak Black is working on new music from prison, according to his lawyer. They said he's doing well since he's transferred prisons. And his attorney, Bradford Cohen, shared the news in an Instagram post. Flew up for the day to Oklahoma to see Kodak Black. He he's doing well as I have done for many of my clients that I want to check on the FTC Oklahoma counselors and managers went out of their way to accommodate a visit on an off day and with short notice we will address the issues in FTC Miami in good time it was good
Starting point is 00:57:58 to see him and he was in good spirits he's working on new projects and reading he wants to thank all of you for the support so you, he had those allegations against the Miami Federal Detention Center where he was being held. He accused them of denying him visitation from his girlfriend, from his mother. Also, he accused them of withholding medical attention from him and from other inmates as well. And he said they tampered with
Starting point is 00:58:18 his mail, gave him an empty tray for New Year's Day for breakfast. They basically were abusive toward him. And that's when his mother hired an attorney and said she's going to be suing the Federal Bureau of Prisons. Alright, I'm Angela Yee and that is your rumor report. Alright, thank you Miss Yee.
Starting point is 00:58:34 Charlemagne. Yes. Who you giving that donkey to? You know, yesterday Girl Dad was trending on social media. Today I want to introduce you to Boy Mom courtesy of Florida. Alright. Boy Mom. Boy Mom from Florida. We need you to Boy Mom, courtesy of Florida. Boy Mom from Florida. We need you to come to the front of the congregation. We'd like to have a word
Starting point is 00:58:50 with you. Alright, we'll get into that next. Keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Make sure you tell them to watch out for Florida, man. The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. Yes, you are a donkey. A Florida man attacked an ATM for a very strange reason.
Starting point is 00:59:09 It gave him too much money. Florida man is arrested after deputies say he rigged the door to his home in an attempt to electrocute his pregnant wife. Police arrested an Orlando man for attacking a flamingo. It's a breakfast club, bitchy. Donkey of the day with Charlemagne the guy. I don't know why y'all keep letting him get y'all like this. Well, donkey of the day with Charlemagne the guy. I don't know why y'all keep letting him get y'all like this. Well, donkey of the day for Wednesday, January 29th goes to a mother in Seminole County named Amanda Meter.
Starting point is 00:59:32 You know what Seminole County is, right? It's in Florida. Okay, I'll never forget in the now classic record, my president, when Jeezy says he cheated in Florida. Would that make him a Seminole? It has nothing to do with nothing. It's just a bar I like about Florida and Seminoles. Now, for the record, what does your Uncle Sharla always say about the great state of Florida?
Starting point is 00:59:50 The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. There is no debate. There's things you hear in the news and before you even know where it happened, you just know it's Florida. And this is one of those stories. See, yesterday, Girl Dat was trending on social media thanks to ESPN's Elle Duncan.
Starting point is 01:00:08 Drop on the clues box for Elle Duncan. Okay, I'm a proud girl, Dad. I have three beautiful princesses at the house, so I love to see the energy of men showcasing their love for their daughters because a wise man named Hassan Tarei told me once, daughters are a blessing. Every time you have a daughter, the quality of your life greatly improves they just make you better humans and he was correct but florida didn't want to get down with the girl dad trend nope florida decided to introduce us to boy mom this is a mother who goes above and beyond for their son this mother loves her son in a way i bet you don't okay now we all take our kids to do extracurricular activities but what if your child's extracurricular activity is crime?
Starting point is 01:00:48 Would you encourage or try to discourage him from that? Well, let's go to WFTV 9 ABC for the report to see what Amanda Meador did. All right. Here's only in Florida story. New at 6 in Seminole County, a 15-year-old boy is accused of robbing a Winter Springs convenience store at gunpoint. And because he doesn't even have a driver's license, yes, police say his mother had to drive the getaway car. She also acted as the lookout during that heist. Amanda Meter is charged with robbery with a firearm and neglect of a child.
Starting point is 01:01:17 When Meter and her 15-year-old son and two others drove to this Circle K at the intersection of Red Bug Lake Road and Tuscawilla Road. According to the arrest report, Meader's teenage son allegedly entered the store donning a mask and produced a firearm and then demanded money from a fearful cashier. While the robbery was going down, Meader allegedly backed up her minivan to the store. Surveillance cameras from the Circle K captured everything, including Meader's face, but that wasn't what led investigators to her and her son. That note contained the juvenile's fingerprints,
Starting point is 01:01:50 and when they searched Meter's home in unincorporated Winter Park, they found a mask and clothing that matched what the robber wore during the robbery. Meter is being held without bond here at the jail until her arraignment in March. Her son is being held across the street of the Juvenile Justice Center. He is charged with armed robbery. Amanda Meter. What was the other plan? There was nothing else you could do,
Starting point is 01:02:16 you could think to do with your son. Like, I have a whole list of activities I could think of, but first of all, drop one of Clues' bombs for Marfa Chagowski. She was the news anchor who reported that story. She started it off with this very accurate statement. Just press play on the clip one more time, please. Just the first line.
Starting point is 01:02:32 Here's only a Florida story. New at 6. That's it. That's it. It's only a Florida story, okay? Marfa, that's what a good news anchor does, all right? I saw you trying to remain objective, you know, trying to be a good news anchor. But the fact you acknowledged the crazy of Florida lets me know you're not crazy.
Starting point is 01:02:50 And you're probably not from Florida. People from Florida rarely can step outside themselves and see they're crazy. So salute to you, Marfa Shigalsky. Now, Amanda Meador, I Googled a list of mother-son activities for you to do with your son. You could have had a picnic at a park. You could have went to fly a kite. You could have went miniature golfing. You could have had a picnic at a park. You could have went to fly a kite. You could have went miniature golfing. You could have binge-watched Power.
Starting point is 01:03:09 You could have went fishing for the day. You could have created a Finsta account on social media and, you know, troll your siblings. It is several ways to bond with your son. It is several ways to spend time with your son that don't involve you being an accessory to a crime. Now, I have to say, I am impressed because when I was 15, I can't remember my mom taking me anywhere I wanted to go. I remember vividly trying to coax her into dropping me off at one of my little girlfriend's
Starting point is 01:03:33 houses and she wasn't with it. She might have dropped me off to a football game or two, but I don't recall that either. Father did, definitely. Mom, I don't remember. But that's also because I was the second oldest of five, so she didn't feel like leaving the house with all them kids. So I understand. Now, it's layers to the stupid oldest of five. So she didn't feel like leaving the house with all them kids. So I understand. Now, it's layers to the stupidity of a man to meet it, okay?
Starting point is 01:03:49 It's layers of the stupidity in this story. Number one, the young man wasn't wearing gloves. So the note he gave to the cashier is what led to his arrest because his DNA was all over it. It's a part of me that feels like he simply didn't know any better, okay? He had a mask. I can see him getting dressed at the house asking his mom mom do i need to wear gloves with this mask and his mom replying no son just make sure you bring the gun back with you and you know you'll be fine so being that he had no gloves his dna was all over the note and i'm gonna tell you something else i think amanda
Starting point is 01:04:20 actually wrote the note for her son. It only makes sense. That 15-year-old walked into a Circle K with a note from his mom. The note probably said, to whom it may concern. This is a note to say thank you in advance for the money you are about to put in my kid's bag. Don't make this difficult. Don't get shot. Sincerely, Amanda Meada. I can see it.
Starting point is 01:04:42 Moms write notes for stuff all the time. When you forget your homework, they write notes. When you miss the bus, they write notes for you. When you late, they write notes for you. When you got medicine to take at school, they write notes for you. But in Florida, they write notes for their sons who want to rob Circle Case. Please give Amanda
Starting point is 01:04:57 Meador the biggest hee-haw. None of this would have happened if she would have been being a mother and not an accomplice. Because even the clothes back at the house, he probably just came home, took them clothes off, and threw them on the floor. If she'd have made that boy pick them clothes up and throw them in the hamper, they probably would have never found them. Uh-uh. All right. Oh, but you know what?
Starting point is 01:05:17 What? We got to play a game of Guess What? Rice It Is! Okay? Okay? Guess what race it is. Okay. Now, Florida mom, 15-year-old son. She's an accomplice in him robbing a Circle K, drove him to the Circle K, and was the getaway driver. DJ Envy, guess what race she is.
Starting point is 01:05:41 White. White. Okay. Angela Yee. Circle K got robbed by a 15-year-old man. His 15-year-old boy. His mother was the getaway driver. She was an accomplice in the crime.
Starting point is 01:05:59 Her name is Martha Chigowski. Guess what? Ray, she is. Definitely Caucasian. Why are y'all so sure that y'all white? I mean, right. What's her last name? Martha Chagowski.
Starting point is 01:06:16 Okay. I've never heard of a Chagowski that was black. What else? Anything else that makes you feel like you just know she's Caucasian? You know, I look at my mom and there's no way in hell my mom would be a getaway driver for a crime. You get slapped. And especially from a circle K. Like, if she's going to do it, she's going to go big.
Starting point is 01:06:35 We got to go to a big, not no circle K. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Because she probably saw Set It Off. That's right. Absolutely. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Got inspired by those black women in Set It Off. I understand.
Starting point is 01:06:50 Well, I will say that DJ Envy, Angel E, you both are correct. Amanda Meador is Caucasian. Yes. So let Kathy Griffin give her the biggest hee-haw. Please give this giant jar of mayo the biggest hee-haw. All right. All right. All right. Well, thank you for that donkey today.
Starting point is 01:07:08 Now, when we come back, 800-585-1051, it's time for Ask E. If you got relationship advice or need relationship advice, I should say, call her right now. Or any other kind of advice, too. Yeah, with all your problems.
Starting point is 01:07:18 Hit up right now. It's The Breakfast Club. Come on. The Breakfast Club. Come on. Need relationship advice? Need personal advice? Just need real advice.
Starting point is 01:07:30 Call up now for Ask Ye. Keep it real. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Ye, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are The Breakfast Club. It's time for Ask Ye, 800-585-1051. Let's go to line five. Hello,
Starting point is 01:07:48 who's this? This is Anonymous. Hey, Anonymous, what's your question for Yee? So, I just my son's birthday is coming up and me and my son's mom does not get along right now and I was just wondering, should I invite her to his first birthday party?
Starting point is 01:08:04 Wait, you and your, wait, who doesn't get along? Me and my son's grandmother. Oh, you said your son's mom. I was like, wait, I'm confused. Yeah, I was confused too. You are your son's mom. So should you invite her to the party even though y'all not getting along right now?
Starting point is 01:08:18 Yeah. Why aren't y'all getting along? Just because like the one time I say no, it's like I never say yes. So I just, yeah. Sounds kind of petty because wouldn't your son want his grandmother at his party? Yeah, I think so, too. Like, I don't want to be petty, but I don't want the drama either.
Starting point is 01:08:35 Isn't it his party? It is. So it's a party for her grandson who would want his grandmother there. Okay. You, like, answered my own question. And you know, when y'all make up later after this petty disagreement, then you'll regret having done that
Starting point is 01:08:53 and regret having caused more harm. Okay, perfect. I'm not gonna be petty but I'm like, geez. Remember, this day is not about you, girl. It's not about you this day. Okay. I know.
Starting point is 01:09:06 Okay, cool. All right. She's like, not the answer I wanted, but, you know, sometimes it's not always smooth and easy. All right. All right, well, thank you. No problem. All right. Ask Yee, 800-585-1051.
Starting point is 01:09:18 If you need relationship advice or any type of advice, call her now. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Get some real advice with Angela Yee. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. Get some real advice with Angela Yee. It's Ask Yee. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy.
Starting point is 01:09:33 We are The Breakfast Club. We're in the middle of Ask Yee. Hello, who's this? This is T. Hey, T, what's your question for Yee? So I have four kids with my kid's father. We're separated. And I don't get no financial support, no physical support.
Starting point is 01:09:52 I can't put him on child support because he doesn't work. I just want to know how can I plead to him to help me more with these kids? Well, a couple of things. Just because it doesn't work, does that mean that he won't have to pay child support? Because I assume you still have to pay something, right? Well, I mean, he won't pay it. Like, he'll just dodge the law to prevent. So it's like no point to put him on and he's not going to pay it because he don't work. He barely works.
Starting point is 01:10:15 Here's the thing, right? You're asking how can you get him to help? And it seems like he's not planning to do anything. He would even dodge paying child support if ordered that. And I don't know how you can force somebody to handle their responsibilities. It's just, there's no physical way to do that. Now, do I feel like you should put him on child support? Yes, that's what child support is for. So that when he does start working,
Starting point is 01:10:34 you know, he'll know that you're serious about this. Because at the end of the day, these are his kids too. Does he see them? Barely. We live in different states though, so, you know. So how does he maintain himself if he doesn't work and makes no money? He in the streets, pretty much.
Starting point is 01:10:52 What about his family? Are they involved, like his mom, other family members? Oh, yeah, yeah. And that's the thing. Like, his family's very involved. His mother's very involved. So he got the mindset, the mindset okay well so since the mother does then he don't have to do but you know that's not fair that she has to do what he should
Starting point is 01:11:12 be doing you get what i'm saying right and that's something they have to talk to each other about but at the end of the day these kids need support it's not fair to you to have to handle everything so you know if that's her child and she can't even get him to commit to what he has to do and she has to step up to the plate, it's good that the family is at least doing that because it would be worse if they weren't involved at all. And, of course, you don't want your kids to feel unloved and wonder where is my father,
Starting point is 01:11:35 where is my father's side of the family. So I think that's something. But, you know, you can't force people to handle responsibilities or to be good people. You just can't do that. So I would say, however, that I would want to put him on child support because it's not fair to you. He got to get his life together. At the same time, child support, you know, I feel like child support is not really for the kids sometimes.
Starting point is 01:11:57 It don't really, you know, yeah, they get the child support from the men, but then sometimes, like, it's not for the kids. Like, kids need more than money. They need. Well, yeah, absolutely. You get what I'm trying to say? No, they need it all. But look, if he's not even stepping up to the plate as a father, like do you bring your kids over there to where he lives? Like into his state? Sometimes,
Starting point is 01:12:16 yeah, I do. I mean, you're doing all you can, honestly. And thank God for you. You're doing everything that you can possibly do to make sure your kids know that they're loved and protecting them and making sure that they grow up knowing that they have a loving mother
Starting point is 01:12:32 at least and protecting them from the fact that their father is an ish and maybe one day he'll come around. All you can do is be consistent in your actions. That's all you can do. I was just hoping that maybe it was something I could say to, you know, maybe plead to him
Starting point is 01:12:47 to, like, do better, but, you know, like you said, if he don't want to, he ain't going to. And I'm sure you tried it all. I have. Almost, yeah. So, if he's just not being... And, honestly, there's some men out there that just run from responsibility and have their own issues, and I think
Starting point is 01:13:03 that's the issue. You have to let the kids know it's not because of them, it's because of him. He, you know, at some point in life, when they question that and affects them later, just make sure you stay in constant communication
Starting point is 01:13:12 with your kids. Make sure they express how they feel about it. If you have to get them in therapy, whatever it is that you have to do to make sure that they're OK and that they're addressing whatever issues
Starting point is 01:13:22 they might have from this. Make sure that they're able to communicate that with you. And sometimes they might not even know that they're addressing whatever issues they might have from this, make sure that they're able to communicate that with you. And sometimes they might not even know that they have these issues from their dad not being in their life the way that he should be. And that's when you have to really step up to the plate and make sure that they're expressing themselves.
Starting point is 01:13:38 But we love you for being a great mom. It's not easy raising four kids by myself, but I'm doing it. I ain't got no choice. That's right. You doing it. And that's great. We commend you for that.
Starting point is 01:13:48 All right. Thank you. All right. No problem, honey. All right. Have a good one. How could you not want to take care of your kids? Well, that goes back to people not wanting to please their kids too.
Starting point is 01:13:59 Like people are really on my Instagram arguing with me about the, like the definition of pleasing kids. The please your kids means they leave them happy and satisfied. So yes, that's what happens when you take care of them. You gotta do more than take care of your kids too, buddy.
Starting point is 01:14:15 I agree. You know what I'm saying? Clearly, just like she's saying right there. It's not even just about finances. They want to see you. They want to feel loved. They want to be taken care of. And you don't even know sometimes the effects of what it's like to not have Not even just about finances. They want to see you. They want to feel loved. They want to be taken care of. Yes. And you don't even know sometimes the effects of what it's like to not have a parent in your life and how that makes you feel about your own self-worth.
Starting point is 01:14:33 Absolutely. Well, ASCII, 805-85-1051. Now, we got rumors on the way, E? Yes, let's talk about Justin Bieber. You know, he's married. And what made him so scared to finally get married? Well, we'll tell you what he had to say on Ellen DeGeneres. All right, we'll get into that next.
Starting point is 01:14:49 Keep it locked. It's The Breakfast Club. Good morning. The Breakfast Club. This is The Rumor Report with Angela Yee. On The Breakfast Club. Yes, it was Alicia Keys' birthday. She celebrated on Sunday,
Starting point is 01:15:07 and that's also the day she hosted the 2020 Grammy Awards. And it was also her birthday weekend. And after the show, she had an after party with Swizzy, of course. And he gave her her own line of teas, Alicia's teas. So that's a pretty exciting thing. Listen to this. Happy birthday, Swizzy. We got endless amount of teas and everybody in Starbucks all around the world.
Starting point is 01:15:30 Y'all going to see Alicia Teas. Blessings. Happy birthday, baby. Alicia's teas will be distributed in Starbucks. That's amazing. Very thoughtful gift. That's really thoughtful gift. Like if you know that you're a significant under the T's, that's a very, very thoughtful gift.
Starting point is 01:15:45 Salute to Swizzy on that. And also just building wealth, too, and establishing a brand. It's going to be in Starbucks. So you already know that distribution is amazing. And that's how you know you're getting older when you got a whole bunch of tea at a party instead of alcohol. And she's a singer, too, so I'm sure the tea is particularly important for her, for her voice and all of that. Yep. All right.
Starting point is 01:16:05 Taraji P. Henson. She has launched her own natural hair care line at Target since we're talking about black women and wealth. And she's venturing into that arena. And Hello Beautiful has reported that she has launched TPH by Taraji, a natural hair collection with a wide range of 18 products that includes a scalp scrub, hair milk, co-wash, gel mask, and more. So you know I'm going to try that because I love trying new hair products to see how they work on my hair. Now Taraji said, I've always been into healthy hair and knew that a healthy scalp would lead to healthier hair. There were no hair care lines that truly focused on scalp care. Early on in my career, I was doing my own hair for the red carpet.
Starting point is 01:16:42 I needed to have an interest in product formulas. Since I was always changing my looks, I've done them all. I learned quickly what formulas were my favorites and the failures as well. So congratulations. Now, Justin Bieber was on Ellen DeGeneres and he discussed his marriage and also what made him finally decide to settle down because he had some fears. And this was his number one fear. I felt like in the past we talked about, you know, me asking the question and I felt like
Starting point is 01:17:09 she would say yes. So I wasn't really nervous about saying yes, but I think I was more nervous about am I able to make this commitment as a man and be able to honor, you know, what I say, you know, because that's a serious commitment when you say you're going to love someone for better or for worse and like be faithful. That's a huge, am I able to do that? And so I think that was really what I was battling with. That's understandable. I get it. I mean, I think that's something that every man deals with, you know, when they decide to be committed to one woman for the rest of their life, you know, like this one for the rest of my life. Yeah, but it's not, it's not not it's not hard at
Starting point is 01:17:45 all man it's just all about intention and it's just all about making good choices that's all i don't know why people act like cheating is breathing you know what i'm saying and it's also timing you can't do it if you're not ready and you just have to be honest with yourself if this is not what i'm ready for then don't do it yeah but but cheating is not breathing cheating is not drinking water like those are things that you have to do. Your body naturally craves those things. I don't think it's the same with cheating. Okay, I agree.
Starting point is 01:18:12 And Oscars 2020, they have announced the Kobe Bryant Dear Basketball tribute. So that's going to be happening for the Oscars, and that has been confirmed. He wrote, executive producer narrated that five-minute autobiographical project, and narrated that five-minute autobiographical project. And he won an Oscar for Best Animated Short Film back in 2018. So they are going to have a tribute for him also.
Starting point is 01:18:33 Okay. All right. Hey, I'm going to tell you something real quick. We got to drop one of Clues Bond's for Swiss Beats again. That's a hell of a gift, bro. He got his wife her own business. Yeah, he bought her own business. For her birthday. That's already being distributed. gift, bro. He got his wife her own business for her birthday. That's already being distributed.
Starting point is 01:18:48 Yes, man. That means that he already connected all the dots. He set her up nice. Alicia Tease. That is dope. That's different. That's a different type of gift. That seems like that's years of planning, too. That wasn't just a weak thought, though. That was years of planning.
Starting point is 01:19:04 Yes, man. You don't just get distributed by Starbucks. Like, that's a different type of gift. I'm not going to lie, Swiss. I like the time you're on. That's different. Salute to that. Salute to that type of energy. All right.
Starting point is 01:19:15 Well, I'm Angela Yee, and that is your rumor report. All right. Well, the People's Choice Mix is up next. Get your request in. Don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning, everybody.
Starting point is 01:19:23 It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Super Bowl is this week, and I'm heading out to Miami tomorrow. I'm doing Snoop's party at the Cleavender. Shout out to Clue. I'm doing that with Clue. Then after that, we're hitting up the Strip Club. Okay.
Starting point is 01:19:42 Well, not Logan. Logan's not coming to the Strip Club. I was like, wow, Logan's not coming to the strip club I was like wow Logan No it's gala Thursday At Cabaret Miami so I'll be doing that Are you going to be on your TikTok In the strip club? No Oh no I'm not
Starting point is 01:19:56 And then Sunday I'm doing something for Pepsi So we're going to have a great weekend man What are you doing? What are you doing in Miami now? You just chilling? What you doing? Well I have a few different events. I have an event, a ladies night on Friday night. It's going to actually be me and Lala.
Starting point is 01:20:10 Ooh. What was that? Nothing. Okay. Like I was saying, it's going to be me and Lala in the building. And that is at Studio 183 Lounge. I'll also be there on Sunday.
Starting point is 01:20:23 We have a day party and that's where Flo Rida implies. Okay. Alright, Charlamagne? I'ma be home on club couch. You know what I'm saying? Minding my business, doing my favorite thing to do, which is absolutely nothing. And readers! Question, when you're in the script club nowadays,
Starting point is 01:20:40 because I haven't been to the script club in years, is it fun? Do people have their phones out in the script club all the time? I would seem like the strip club, we live in such an age of transparency. I don't see how strippers could actually do their job without being recorded all the time. Well, you're not supposed to have your phone out in the strip club. There's not too many phones in the strip club anymore.
Starting point is 01:20:55 They will actually come over to you and tell you you can't do that. I would hope so. I would hope that they have security. It's supposed to be a no, you know, you gotta be there to experience it. You gotta be a safe zone. Yeah, there you go. Do they have like. It's supposed to be a no, you know, you got to be there to experience it. You got to be a safe zone. Yeah, there you go. All right.
Starting point is 01:21:07 Do they have like a section for people over 40 in the strip clubs? No. Or does everybody mingle around each other? That's usually, the section over 40 is usually outside the parking lot. Usually they sleep in the car and then everybody else parties and come back and get them. And a place like Miami, people just go to the strip club all the time. Some people go there, like I know in Detroit, they love the food in the strip club. There you go.
Starting point is 01:21:27 They have real chefs that come in there and cook really great food. So it's more than just going to see dancers. It's the ambiance, it's the atmosphere, it's the food. Yeah, it's like that in Atlanta, too. It's definitely like that in Atlanta. Okay. But it's not going to be like that this weekend. No, it's going to be crazy in Miami.
Starting point is 01:21:42 Y'all just trying to keep up with the kids. I'm working. But anyway, when we come back, we got the positive notes. So don't move. It's The going to be like that this weekend. No, it's going to be crazy in Miami. Y'all just trying to keep up with the kids. I'm working. But anyway, when we come back, we got the positive notes. So don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlamagne Tha Guy.
Starting point is 01:21:54 We are the Breakfast Club. It's time to get out of here. Charlamagne, you got a positive note for the people? Yes, man. I just want to tell everybody out there, and I saw this on Bishop T.D. Jake's page. I love it. It's a quote that I actually often use. It's very simple, but just know that
Starting point is 01:22:09 association brings about assimilation. Be careful who you hang around. Breakfast club, bitches! Y'all finished or y'all done? Had enough of this country? Ever dreamt about starting your own? I planted the flag. This is mine. I own this.
Starting point is 01:22:25 It's surprisingly easy. 55 gallons of water, 500 pounds of concrete. Or maybe not. No country willingly gives up their territory. Oh my God. What is that? Bullets. Listen to Escape from Zakistan.
Starting point is 01:22:39 That's Escape from Z-A-Q-istan. On the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, guys, I'm Kate Max. You might know me from my popular online series, The Running Interview Show, where I run with celebrities, athletes, entrepreneurs, and more. After those runs, the conversations keep going. That's what my podcast, Post Run High, is all about. It's a chance to sit down with my guests and dive even deeper into their stories, their journeys, and the thoughts that arise once we've hit the pavement together. Listen to Post Run High on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. As a kid, I really do remember having these dreams and visions,
Starting point is 01:23:30 but you just don't know what is going to come for you. Alicia shares her wisdom on growth, gratitude, and the power of love. I forgive myself. It's okay. Have grace with yourself. You're trying your best, and you're going to figure out the rhythm of this thing. Alicia Keys, like you've never heard her before. Listen to On Purpose with Jay Shetty
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