The Breakfast Club - Would You Want Someone To Treat Your Kids Like Their Own?

Episode Date: February 23, 2023

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Morning everybody, it's DJ Envy, Charlamagne Tha God We are the Breakfast Club We have uh, what's wrong with you? Oh no, I was singing just some Stephanie Mills He's singing Stephanie Mills That's all, but go ahead, continue Jess wrong with you? Oh, now we're singing Jess and Stephanie Mills. He's singing Stephanie Mills. That's all, but go ahead, continue.

Jess Hilarious is here, our co-host, and we're asking 800-585-1051. This comes from Tyler LaPlay. What's his name? Tyler LaPlay.

I used to call him Tyler LaPlay all the time. It's LaPlay. It's LaPlay, yo. Black people always want to fancy up their name. I know. Name be Johnson,

Reginald Val Johnson. Reginald Val Johnson. Tyler LaPlay. Tyler LaPlay. His name has not no LaPlay. It's La know. Name be Johnson. Reginald Val Johnson. Reginald Val Johnson. Tyler LaPlea. Tyler LaPlea. His name is not LaPlea. It's LaPlea. Tyler LaPlea. He was here earlier.

This is what he said. Miracle Watts had said something about, you know, like, she takes on your kids as her kids. Like, how is that situation now? Because I know that April got mad at that. She got mad at that. How is that now, though? You know, it's a process.

You know, it's like, it's definitely better than it was. Yeah. It's still got a little way to go. As much as I would not like it to be like that you know i can't rush anything because this is you know again the problems of the man in the arena it just it kind of happens like this the one thing i will say is that again that's that's the mother of two of my children you know i have nothing but love and respect for her so you know i give her grace and patience as she as she figures out what she gotta feel herself through you know, I give her grace and patience as she figures out what she got to feel herself through. But I would want for somebody to treat my kid like my kid is theirs. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, for sure. So we're asking 800-585-1051.

You know, if you buy your fiance something, are you supposed to take care of your baby moms the same way? And also, do you want your fiance to, you know, look at your other kids the same way as they look at your kids? That's the question we're asking, correct? Hello, who's this? This is Shaquana. Hey, Shaquana. Hey, guys. Good morning.

Yes! What? Right, she is! I know. I know. Y'all want to do that so bad, but she got me sounding like she mad. I ain't trying to play with Shaquana. Shaquana.

Good morning, Shaquana. It's Shaquana. I'm just messing with you. Don't play with her. Don't play with her. Don't play with her you Don't play with her Don't play with her Don't play with her What's your thoughts mama? Honestly I just want to weigh in and say

It depends on how long you've been with the person Because I have an ex who would take our kids around his girlfriend He just met like a week ago And I feel that's something you shouldn't do But if you're serious with the person And you know you feel like you got a future with them I mean I see nothing wrong with it But on a standstill it is a lot of crazy people in the world you got to be cautious a lot of people harming kids and doing crazy things to kids so

that's where i'm with it like if um you think you're gonna be with that person long term and you dating for a minute and you get to know each other you're talking about y'all kids okay but on your first date you're not taking the kids to Chuck E. Cheese to play together because y'all both got kids. I agree. I agree. I agree. You can't be bringing anybody around your chair. Yeah, that's what she's saying. That's what she's saying.

But I do believe that if I got kids and you got kids and we ain't got no babysitters, we want to see each other bad enough. Yeah, let's meet up at Chuck E. Cheese's. Hello. Who's this?

Hello. Hello. Hey, what's your name? Monica. Hey, Monica. Good morning. Good morning. What's your thoughts, mama?

My thoughts are I do not date with men. I don't date men for kids for that reason. If I can't let my kids go over to the other parents, I don't feel comfortable. Then it's not. Like, how am I going to feel comfortable with my kid going to see his other parent if I don't like or get along with the other person? Now, is that bitter? But let me ask you

this, Monica. Is that because you're bitter? Or is that because he's ever given you any type of, like, yo, I'm going to put my son in jeopardy or put my kid in jeopardy? Like, is he that you got to know the other parents, too? Are they ever going to bring somebody that you don't like around your kid? It's going to do something to your kid. Is that better or is that just how you feel? No, that's not better. I think it's just that as a mother, I'm going to speak it from the mother point of view.

As a mother, you have to feel comfortable. If you're not comfortable with the man choosing the right mate, it's not ever going to do. As a mother, you have to feel comfortable. If you're not comfortable with the man choosing the right mate, it's not ever going to work. So I would think that maybe me and the girl would have to talk. I would be mature enough to be like, let me talk to the girl, and if I'm feeling her and I like her, then yeah,

you can go with her. But listen, Jess, you must, and I'm talking about you, have to stay the permanent co-host on the show. I've been crying all week. Yo, this is the funniest show ever been in my life. Charlamagne is at his best with you. Thank you so much, girl.

I agree with everything you say. Why'd you just stand up to do that? Because I had to. And I think I dressed the best queen out of everybody that I saw y'all thank you so much baby I already told you she get the permanent role I guarantee you she won't be coming here like she's hosting the award show every day I guarantee you to be sweatsuits within two months it's all right so what's the moral of the story what is the moral of the story Jessica you've been co-parenting very well for a pretty long time now oh man the the moral of the story is all right so look uh what she said

which is also a part of the moral you still cannot say because she said uh if you don't if you don't trust the other parent to date somebody that you you can't really that's still in a sense controlling like you you don't know who they're gonna date date. They dated you. So if you're going off of their past, then you got to include yourself. Like, you can't just say. And that's not to you, Monica. But I'm just saying, like, it's just period. You can't control who are you to say, like, oh, I don't like the way he date. I don't.

You don't until you get to know somebody. But I like how she ended it. If we have a conversation, like, you're going to be around my child. This is who I am. This is, you know, whatever. So the moral of the story is you do not i don't think you have to you're not responsible for your ex you're responsible for your kids i think that's what that is no that makes sense you're not responsible for your ex you're responsible for your kids you're not yeah you're not you're not responsible like my like i, my son's dad has five kids with five different women.

After he moved on, he take care of his bomb father, take care of his kids. I don't try to support no more for none of them. No more. Yeah. But he is not responsible for their mothers. Right. None of that. It's different in a marriage because the divorce, you got to settle.

You get this. I get this. Whatever. But girlfriend, boyfriend, yo, if it's not about my child yo i'm in my relationship but let me ask you this jess what's good let's say you move on and now that one child lives a different life than those all those other four kids how do you think those other four kids will feel like you know i mean like yeah that one kid he gets you know he gets to to go to the football games he gets to go to this because he's with the father all day long in that house.

Don't you feel like all the kids should have that same love and that same feeling? But that's what I'm saying. What the ex got to do with that? I'm going to go pick my kid up, and I'm going to take you with the rest of my kids. But we're daddy. It ain't I'm going to pick you and the baby mother up. No, I'm picking my all. I'm going to get all my kids together just like Rome do it. Just like my son's dad does it.

He don't do nothing without his other kids. Or if he got his girls, it's girls day. And boys, boys day. Then he got days where he get all of them. So he does. I don't know how Nick Cannon do it, but my baby father do it, do it. Basically what Jess is saying, she only buying McDonald's for her son. She ain't buying McDonald's for the rest of Rome kids.