The Breakfast Club - Your Thoughts Become Things: Doechi at the Met Gala and Tom Brady Roast Regret

Episode Date: May 8, 2025

Today on the show Loren and Brandon cover the Met Gala, particularly focusing on Doechii's incident at the Met Gala of her yelling at her team. They also discuss Tom Brady's recent comments on his roast and feeling bad his kids did had to experience it.YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakfastClubPower1051FMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You're listening to an iHeart podcast. I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about everything and everybody. You don't feel alive about that, right? Lauren came in hot. Hey, guys, it's Lauren LaRosa, and this is the latest with Lauren LaRosa. This is your daily dig on all things pop culture and the conversations that are going gonna shake the room, baby. Today, I got Brandon in here with me.

Yep, I'm back. And we are gonna get into some topics, get into some things, but as you guys know, we always check in, so let's get behind the scenes of the grind and check on in real quick. Back on the grind. Brandon, how you feeling? I'm feeling good.

I'm tired. I want to go to sleep. I am too, yo. But I've been, you know, I've been trying to change my sleep schedule because my sleep schedule is trash. Like I'll take a nap maybe an hour or two during the day and then maybe my nighttime is like three to four hours. And like it's just my whole sleep schedule has has been off for many years ever since more working these hours I was about to say one of the things I realized with this show is like you got knockout everything you need to do You're gonna relax for a second nothing is happening after that if you work an early morning job

Once you take it that is over You need to take your nap Once you're ready to just be in the house because you can take your nap is over. You need to take your nap once you're ready to just be in the house. Cause you can take your nap, wake up, maybe make some dinner, do things that's gonna put you back to sleep and then you go back to sleep and it's time to go to sleep. And then them naps where it's like, you dumb tired. Sometimes I wake up, I don't even know where I'm at.

I'd be waking up confused. Like those naps is like. I am so tired right now. I was in the airport until three, no, that's not true. I was in the airport until three, no that's not true. I was in the airport until, I think, I went to the airport at like, what like 5, 5.30 was my flight, or maybe my flight was at 6.30, so I arrived there around like 5, 5.30.

I did not leave the airport, never flew to my destination and decided, not even decided, but the airport decided for me that our flight was not gonna take off. When we finally got on the flight, my flight flight I was supposed to be flying to Texas for Something that I'm working on a brand campaign for the radio station Did not happen. Yes, all the all the airports in the tri-state area that are been been wild and New York Airport is been wild and now Jeff case man having some issues. So man, I'm good We're just lucky we didn't fall out of the sky,

honestly. I've flown recently too and had some major delays, but you know, I'm just glad, I guess less planes are falling out of the sky from what I'm seeing in the news. Why when I said tweaking, I thought of tweaker. Yeah, you started singing the song. I'm a swerve in that underwoo. And a, and a, and a, and a, okay.

Well, let's get on into the latest y'all, so we can get on outta of here because I am tired today Alright, so in the latest up first we have dochi now y'all know we've been doing the Met Gala talk We've been talking about the fine fabrics and the dandy ism and the stylist and the designers and the celebrities who wore the Met Museum all of the above but still going viral from the Met Gala evening It's dochi dochi is currently going viral because there is a video clip circulating of Dochi. This is rapper, singer, new fire artist, Dochi,

of her instructing her team around, they were trying to basically hide her outfit until she got to the museum, which a lot of celebrities do. I know Cardi, I know Cardi does that every time. She did that this year too. Cardi B had Burberry umbrellas up all around her. You can kind of still see her from the side, but I believe they do that because they don't want

photos of themselves in their outfits surfacing before they hit the red carpet. Media finds out where these celebrities are staying before they can hit the Met Gala red carpet. So it's like a game of cat and mouse of you trying to get out, make it to your car, and make it to the Met Gala carpet carpet So it's like it's like a game of cat and mouse of you trying to get out Make it to your car and make it to the Met Gala carpet and no one see your dress whatsoever So let's take a listen to this video The people are really pissed off for Dochi's team. They're like, yo, why is she talking to her team like this?

If that is her, if confirmed that that is her voice, just, you know, to be safe, you hear the voice say, I need two FM more umbrellas. Do not let that FM umbrella go because they're going to try to sneak in pictures, you know, just barking out some commands very aggressively I'm not gonna lie the way that people are positioning this as if she's just a horrible person on her staff and blah blah blah blah blah blah I ain't going. It seemed like more like she was in panic mode like and just making sure like you said I didn't know the aspect of it where it's like they definitely don't want pictures taken before they

hit the carpet. Hell no. So it seemed like they definitely don't want pictures taken before they hit the carpet So it seemed like she was in panic mode like people they're gonna try and catch her and what she was saying was right I could definitely see people trying to Put their cameras over the protective shield so they could get pictures of her So I mean I kind of see where she was coming from it didn't seem like it was direct at them like they're incompetent Or right she's like get it now like she she feels like she sees the flashes she doesn't know if There's like little creases in the protective shield to get pictures from so I didn't see The nights like this are really really really competitive Very much like it's just a lot going on like it's a ton going on

and I think you're feeling the pressure of that and I'm not excusing it because I've worked at some pretty And I think you're feeling the pressure of that and I'm not excusing it because I've worked at some pretty crazy insane places where people would do things and talk to you certain ways and you'd like to be back and forth with you know your leadership and Everything was always blamed on like the pressure of the newsroom that we worked in all of those things must've messed together on one Of the biggest nights in fashion entertainment pop culture history and you are you know what I mean? Like there's a lot of pressure now. I don't fear that these people are being treated like this every single day.

However, it doesn't look good. Like we're in a day and age where, even if there's radical common sense behind what you're doing, like putting the umbrellas up so that no one can see your outfit, so there's a big reveal on the carpet, that is a point of the Met Gala.

Literally, it doesn't matter. People will still find a way to be upset. And that's exactly what's happening right now with Dolce. I personally didn't think it was that crazy. People were coming at her crazy. I saw some comments when they finally saw her outfit, they were like, all that to cover this? They were saying her outfit was really lackluster

for her to be acting like that. But I didn't think it was crazy. I feel like once you start putting hands on people, they'll start yelling for her to be acting like that, but I didn't I think it was crazy You know I feel like once you start putting hands on people start yelling in their face or something like that but she's literally just trying to get through and and you know to the to the carpet and The added context adds more to it that way and I think tone is everything I don't know You got to take a lot of things into account now I do think it's good that this went viral mm-hmm And I only think that because I feel like even in a pressure-filled moment in an intense moment one thing she is not going to do though

She will not do again is yell at that team like this not not in the public arena Yeah, she's she's learning a lot right now today probably as we speak Like we see the divas do it like Well, okay, I won't say I've seen Mariah Carey or whatever, but like, I don't think this is such a big deal in the realm of who she is. Like I could see Nikki doing something like this, I could see the Mariahs, anybody who's considered

like a diva, like I don't think this is wild behavior. Or am I drippin'? No, I mean, I don't think it's common. I think I live by- Oh, so it's not common. I felt like it was common for me And then I think and if it is I think people doing a better job at hat hiding it in 2025 because now laws are made To protect you know people in their work environments and stuff like that for me

I've never been a person I once have to deal with and talk to somebody like that at all So I should not another grown person So if I have to talk to you too many times or if I'm not satisfied with something too many times, I just have to learn to like step back and let you go because that's not one of the things I wanna do in my life. I worked really, I worked real hard to get to where I'm at and to not even just career wise,

but just like me as a person, like Lauren in middle school and my freshman year of high school and some of high school versus who I am today, you will be like Lauren, yo, bro, I'm glad you made it out. Things were so different, but I think I've had to learn, I've just had to learn how to deal with people

and dealing with people in a way that I can set boundaries. Boundaries are important here. Boundaries are very important. I can set boundaries, but also to, just not completely destroying a person or putting a person on defense because I've been in that position where, okay, now you feel like you being put in on defense and what you gonna do?

Defend yourself. You gonna defend yourself. If I'm putting you on defense, you're gonna defend yourself. So I think that this is something that, with this going viral now, I'm sure Dochi has learned her lesson lesson about publicly even if her intention was well And again, you gotta always just remember intention even if her intention was well

She gonna tighten up Cuz I know I would like I would have been like, oh even though I didn't mean it like that or like low-key These my homegirls or whatever. It just looks so bad But again, the Met Gala is all about your premiere on that carpet. You cannot premiere on that carpet if the people didn't got you before you walked out to the hotel room. So Logan Paul sat down with Tom Brady, one of the goats of this NFL thing. I don't know much about sports, but I do always know like the bigger names and what people are saying about them and stuff like that. Yeah, he's known as definitely the best football player

of all time. Some people say he's even the greatest athlete of any sport of all time. Yo, like that is insane. Can you imagine just being like a regular kid outside playing curve ball and then boom, you the greatest athlete to ever walk the earth. What you say?

What? Of any sport of all time. Oh. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And if you know his upbringing, like he wasn't supposed to be that great. He talked about in the interview, like he wasn't athletic. He wasn't fast. He wasn't strong He also talked about getting picked up like super late in the draft as well. Yeah Crazy. Yeah, he named other 199. I think sorry. He talked a bit about on this podcast his decision

To do the Tom Brady Rose. Let's take a listen. I love laughing at myself. It felt like I was in the locker room, but I do understand like for my kids, that was really hard. Yeah. It was a massive show. Yeah, you said it was a massive hit. Yeah. And you said that right after the show too,

that you felt like you were in the locker room. Yeah, and I didn't realize, you know, like there's some things that parent you f**k up and you don't realize until after like. Were they mad, sad? They're protective of their mom, of their dad, you know, of everybody, you know, they're just, why do you, what was the point of that?

Why did you do that? So it's just you live and you learn. So the greatest rest of all time, Tom Brady aired live on May, 2024. You had Kevin Hart that was a part of it, Nikki Glaser, Kim Kardashian, and you know, the way that, in true Rose fashion, the way that it went down was everybody took a chance

like going at Tom Brady. So when he appeared on this podcast and he revealed that, he just regretted it because of how it affected his kids. Well, I mean, it seemed more of like she was embarrassed of the things they were saying because it wasn't necessarily like they was lying on her. She is Gisele Bunchkin, his ex-wife. So I think the main part of the jokes was that They were saying because it wasn't necessarily like they was lying on his Giselle bunchkin his yes So I think the main part of the jokes was that she left him for their personal jujitsu trainer

so that was um And there's always been some type of disdain between like Tom Brady fans and his wife because always seems like she was trying to Get him to leave the game too early because yeah, I'm trying to be great Yeah, there's so there's that there's always been that disdain. So and I can see from the kid's point of view, I don't know if I'm rushing, do you want to talk more if we talk about the kid? So I can see from the kid's point of view

that like them seeing their mom be embarrassed on one of the big, because that, it was like the biggest thing that night. That was the biggest thing like airing that night, the live roast. But their mom is Giselle Bunchkin. You know who Giselle Bunchkin is? Yeah, she's like a super famous model. Super model, right? Like this is, the live roast. But their mom is Giselle Bunchkin. You know who Giselle Bunchkin is? Yeah, she's like a super famous model.

Supermodel, right? Like, this is not the first time. My only pushback on this is, and I know the kids are young and were young at that time anyway, or young enough to, like, I mean, any parent at any age gonna feel like they're gonna have to protect you, but they were kids. My only pushback is like, your dad is Tom Brady,

your dad is, I mean, your mom is Giselle Bunchkin. Like, there's no, it's not like you're new to this platforming of conversation around your parents and their relationship and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, all that stuff, right? I don't want to sound like a mean person because these are kids, but it's like your parents have been famous your whole life. So y'all have to have gotten used to that whole, no, it's my parents. They're still regular people, but like some

of the most famous people in the world. But at the same time, as far as them and how they felt when he talked to him, like he had said when his kids said, yo, what was the point of that? And that it really hurt their feelings. I can understand that because it was like, he didn't have to do that. I think one of the jokes that might have hurt them was when Kim Har said, oh win seven rings and all you have to lose is your wife and your family and then the whole crowd laughing at your broken home You know, I mean so that's I guess I can see how that Exactly and the divorce was so public because leading up into the Tom Brady divorce

I remember this oh my god leading up into the Tom Brady divorce the way that people in NFL fans would come for Giselle because there will be stories that came out where she talked about, or not, source stories where there were reported things and rumors that she wanted him to spend more time with the family. She hated the fact that he wasn't able to be home on a lot of the holidays and that football basically was his life and that she was essentially asking him to choose between football and the family. Now, things and reports changed after she began to be able to speak for herself, but that was a sentiment and on top of that There was this whole

Very public very major the day she filed for divorce I was in a newsroom and every story that you had to work on or think about had to relate to them Because it was one of the biggest stories in the world for probably the first two to three months And then and then their divorce story kind of calmed down a little bit, and then she started being spotted with the Jizitsu trainer in whatever country she was in. And one of the times it was with the kids. That's rough, yo.

That's rough. That's a common story even with like, not to bring up his name, but Diddy and Cassie. I was thinking, Cassie's with the trainer now, right? Yeah. Dang, you invite somebody into your home to like help you something And then they leave with you don't sleep

Don't let your girl show her to cry on cuz she gonna cry on the shoulder and ain't gonna be yours But it was a public very very public divorce. So I think his kids are looking at it Like we finally got over this one Sort of kind of cuz even at the time of the roast it was still very prevalent because she began being spotted with the trainer and all Those things at a certain point. But they're like, yo, we just got past this and you bring it up again? Yeah.

Like why? And have everybody laughing at us at that. Yeah, Kevin Hart, one of the biggest, you know what I mean? Like these are huge names coming for them. So it's like why? I mean, after that, she went on to have a baby with the Jizzet Shoop trainer.

That's rough. And you know, they're together, it's a whole thing. But I can understand them being like, did you have to do that though? Yeah I don't know maybe growing up it did feel like he had to choose like to be that great at what he does he had to choose between his family and his marriage you know and he chose football I could understand why they would feel like that like dang my dad probably chose football over me but I don't know he's retiring soon, I feel like she should have she's gonna suck it out a little A lot of people say it's like for her. It's like, okay, she's retiring soon. But at the same time, it's like

She what she wants her husband in her house now And once you once your girls like turned off by something or turn off by you. It's like it's hard to get them back So I'm really glad you know, like we don't just I mean, I don't know about I'm gonna say wait Yeah, I'm gonna say wait. We don't just get there for no reason, but once we there it's hard to get them back It's it's that Jay-Z song once a good girl's gone bad. She's gone forever. Mm-hmm more forever You got to deal with the fact. I did you wrong forever. Yes Even if you didn't do it wrong if she's just to a point where she's outgrown it or whatever It's hard to do that because I think you know as women we pour everything we have into relationships because we have to we're nurturers

We're you know what? I mean like our role in a relationship is to be very emotionally tied and connected That is a lot of soul ties. That's a lot of energy. So when we take it away I'm not revisiting it if it's not worth it, especially if I don't trust it. Once you lose the trust too, that's a whole other thing as well. But I mean, shout out to Tom Brady for taking accountability in that moment. I know he's talked about this before, but you know, him sitting and talking about it again definitely began to cause conversations around like, you know, people in the public

eye making right decisions. In Tom Brady's last year of his career, I know that everything he's done is legendary and legendary comebacks are like, you know, he made it over a hill with his career. People didn't think he was going to do like crazy amounts of things and he still did that. At that point though, what did he have to prove? He could have walked away and been with his family. There was something to prove. I guess it's miniscule in the grand scheme of things, but he needed to prove that it was him and not the Patriots.

Like everybody says it's Coach Belichick and it's the organization is what made him great, but he left and he did the same thing with a team that wasn't supposed to do it necessarily. I mean, they had good players on the team, but they weren't the Patriots. I said, I mean they had good players on the team, but they weren't the Patriots, you know I mean, so I think that's that ring with that second team Kind of like took him over the edge of like the greatest ever and I'm that what that's a as a man. That's a great

Feet to have you know, I know it is And it's nothing wrong with having ego but I feel like when you're an athlete that ego of like that the competitive and Competitiveness and the ego combined are insane and it gets in the way of a lot of you know good things but that's why it's sad yo you choosing between those two things is like I Don't know I feel like either one would eat would eat him up forever like Him knowing like he didn't put his on to football would eat him up forever. Like him knowing like he didn't put his all into football would probably eat him up.

And then yo, this is something all these people know like since there was kids their whole life, all they know is sports. So it was like for them to say like, just get that up is like, yo, since I was three years old, I've had this football in my hands is all I know. And it's about to be over. He would have been fine.

He would have found a little club to join. He could drive a golf cart to and fro or something like that. He would have been and it's about to be over. He would have been fine He would have found a little club to join Drive a golf cart to Florida or something like that. He would have been fine. All right, I'm sure he was he they're both rich as fuck They would have been good exactly and attached to them kids and I'm baby. He learning now though You could tell that the parental instinct is kicking in Overtime as he talks about this because he you can just tell he really regrets this like really really records And the full interview is available on YouTube I've watched up until like the middle point of it and I will say watching this interview made me like Tom Brady I've always known who he was and talked about him just in reporting

But watching this made me feel so inspired and motivated to go do something. That's the latest We're gonna wrap it up here because we take it anywhere else. We'll be talking about for three hours about how it's men's egos Yes, and how Giselle should go back to Tom you deserve all that Giselle got her man her man her man and her new baby. She ain't worried about nothing. And her man could probably be Tom Brady ass She ain't worried about nothing. Ain't worried about nothing. Giselle ain't worried about nothing Hey, ain't worried about nothing. You be sad with me. don't leave me for the jujitsu fighter that's fucked up Person and what they do and you know, I'm saying he could be my feeling Oh, yeah, the girl always I guess make me feel protected. All right, y'all we are gonna rap here

I'm gonna take it really quick to the streets cuz y'all know it's not really the streets. It's the tweets. Let's take it outside. You for the tweets. We outside, we outside, we outside. Outside in the tweets. Every other page our goal. Now I tweeted earlier this morning that I was running off for two hours of sleep and

I told you guys in the beginning of this about my flight being canceled and me having to be in the airport or whatever. And then I was listening to praise and worship this morning on my way into work just trying to wake myself up. And one of my songs came on. It's happening for me live by Ke'er Sheard. And the song talks about go listen to the song guys. The song talks about for all the low riders who might need this, how things are happening

in your life and they're blessed and you just got to sit still and sit in it and allow it to happen to you or for you, not to you. Just how you begin to manifest things and put things out there. In that moment, I was listening to the song and I was like, you know what? I'm tired. I got in late last night from the airport and all these things but God I'm just grateful that every single day I'm waking up to do something that I love to do that doesn't feel like work Because it wasn't always like this and I wanted to put that out there because that was such a quick because I was like

Oh my god, I wish I could call out of work. I can't call out a breakfast club I feel like I can't because who's gonna do the latest with Lauren LaRosa Mind shift energy shift shift, energy shift. So that's what I want to put out there. And that's what I hope you guys get from that tweet. At Lauren LaRosa on Twitter is that when things are, you know, going left or when things are not going right and you want them to go right wherever it may be, wherever it may lie, a lot of times it's not even just about changing your

surroundings or your people. Sometimes it's just as simple as changing your thoughts. Literally changing your thoughts to, you know, just think better. And like, instead of thinking what I had to do today, I was thinking, God, for what I am blessed to be able to do. Came here, was a little tired, got myself together, finished the day.

Now we're here finishing the latest with Lauren LaRosa. Brandon, thank you for joining me today. Thank you, thank you. I like the words of wisdom you gave us. Your thoughts become things. So be careful about what you don't do on the bad things. But yes, thank you for having me again. Don't ignore me.

What? Stop thinking about those mic women. Y'all, I've never thought about mic women. They become little things running around your house. That's crazy. Y'all anyway. All right, y'all, this is the latest with Lauren LaRosa. I'm the homegirl that knows a bit

about everybody and everything. I'll see you guys in my next episode.