The Brilliant Idiots - Ghost to Ghost (Ft. AJ & TamBam from We Talk Back Podcast)
Episode Date: April 15, 2021This week AJ and TamBam from the "We Talk Back" podcast joins the podcast to discuss cheating, what's a non monogamous relationship, hoeing doesn't heal, ghosting, the Kardashians and beauty standards..., and more!!! Follow AJ @AJholiday2.0 and TamBam @officialtambam on IG Listen to We Talk Back podcast on the Black Effect Podcast Network. https://www.iheart.com/podcast/1119-we-talk-back-76242559/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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It's so stupid.
It's positively brilliant.
Yep, Shaldemandigian.
Andrew Shultz.
We are the brilliant idiots.
Back for another week of brilliant idiotness.
Okay.
Hez is here.
Wax is here.
And we have two special guests from the We Talk Back podcast on the Black Effect IHard
Radio podcast network.
Their podcast names are A.J. and Tam Bam.
I don't know them as such.
Okay.
But that's their podcast.
names, AJ and Tam Bam from South Carolina, from Columbia and Charleston, respectively.
Okay, the 803 and the 843, what's happening?
How are y'all?
How's New York treating you?
Healthy.
Tell the truth, you don't like New York.
No, not at all.
I can visit you, but I can never fucking live here.
I could know, it's so dirty, man.
Yo, yo, yo, yo, chill, chill, chill.
This is my own, no.
No, so you can't defend New York from 400 miles away.
All right?
It's a thousand.
You left New York for the same reasons.
Comfortable.
You left New York for the same reasons, okay?
Knock it off.
You all there with his chest out and she'll look.
Chairs out of the day.
Come on.
Yo, why girls are the only ones to put their chest out, man?
I got nice to these, too.
Where are you Cuban at?
Look at us.
You need a cleavage, bro.
You said, where's my Cuban?
Yeah.
Got you.
Hey.
Hey.
Cajaro's on.
Nice.
Hey.
Hey.
Hey.
Hey.
Hey.
Show him the AP.
Show him the AP.
You got the AP on the day show?
Oh, this little thing?
Oh, this little thing out here.
This little thing.
Housie is here.
Got his ankle out.
Yeah.
I must say, uh,
AJ and Tam Bam have corrupted, uh, young Taylor already.
Uh-oh.
That's our job.
Taylor walks in the studio this morning and she's like,
fuck these names.
After hanging out with.
AJ and Tambam and Mandy, I realized that I'm doing this men thing all wrong.
I walked out.
I walked out.
I walked out.
Did I not walk out, Taylor?
I walked out because I already know what the conversation was.
What did y'all tell her at lunch yesterday?
He just needs to make sure that these men are making sure she feels special.
That's all we tell her.
What do you mean?
Like, treat her nice and don't let them get away with anything.
They do treat her nice.
Nicer.
Financially nicer.
If you got to get multiple to cheat, you know,
combined them.
You do that too.
Whoa, whoa, whoa.
I never knew.
A penis a year.
You don't got to smash everybody.
You're a liar.
That's the lie she said.
She said that later on.
They don't be fucking everybody.
We don't.
That's true.
But there's nobody that's just giving y'all money.
That's not true.
Yes, they are.
I don't believe it.
Hold on.
You ain't got to believe it.
Are you giving head?
No.
Huh?
You guys aren't giving head to the guys?
No.
No.
I have TMJ.
I have a doctor's excuse why I can't give head.
What's TMJ?
Too much jaw?
From dental work, not from suck and dick.
Really?
So your button's meat off?
I should be clicking and everything right.
That means you're doing it right.
Oh, lock jaw like that.
You know, like the pit bull.
Lock jaw is like a hold on.
But my mouth does not
a jar that much.
Yeah.
So it gets tired quick.
So I give out the doctor's excuse.
You give that the guys and they accept it?
No, she's lying.
That's my excuse, though.
I can't do it.
I refuse to believe that men are just giving out money
and not getting nothing in return.
Can I ask you a question?
Can I ask?
They are getting things in return.
It's just not safe.
What's the question?
I just have a question about TMJ
because I've heard girls say this excuse before.
Why is TMJ not stop girls
from talking so much?
Like they never have any problem
opening their mouth to tell you stories.
We need to hand out some more TMJ.
Yeah, yeah.
It's like TMJ is far and up to here.
Right?
Do I buy that shit?
Yeah.
It seems like TMJ only affects the amount of like opening
it takes for a penis to go.
go in, right? Like, no girl's like, oh, I can't go out to a fancy dinner. I got TMJ.
But you got your mouth open the whole time when you're talking to? No. Or when you're eating,
now she's trying to keep her mouth closed while she's talking to her team.
Y'all have to try it some dick before?
Whoa.
Whoa. Okay. Now you know the difference.
Whoa. Whoa. It's different.
As I said before, the podcast, the head is just hey.
Now, if a guy wants to take you to a fancy restaurant, do you say, no, I have TMJ is hard
for me to eat? Or can he take you out?
to a fancy restaurant.
Get the kids a mill.
You get the kids a mill now.
You know you can eat with TMJ.
Some old meal.
Yeah, what the hell?
Like,
why y'all act like eating pussy is easy too?
The fork is much smaller than the dick, obviously.
I've never said that.
If I was a guy, I probably wouldn't be eating pussy.
Yes, you get locked in, when you down there too long.
Eating pussy's hard.
It definitely is hard.
There's, uh, yeah, it's hard.
It's not built for eating.
Because it's just licking.
It's just non-stop licking.
You know what's so crazy.
I was having a discussion earlier with wax, right?
Because we were talking about like,
like if people are sitting around discussing you giving head,
that's just as like when guys do it with women.
Don't you think it's just a disgusting if multiple women can say you ate them out?
Yes.
You don't think that's crazy?
So if a guy goes down on a bunch of women,
you think he's gross?
He's a whore.
Yes.
You're a hoar.
Yes.
I'm not like to eat that's pussy, though.
Are you going to talk about you.
You're nasty.
Nasty guy.
Do those conversations happen
amongst women?
Absolutely.
Yes.
Really?
Yes.
Group chat?
No.
That sucks.
But would you prefer God?
And I might pass the head to somebody else.
No, y'all don't talk like that.
Whoa.
You got me.
Y'all passed ahead along?
Yes.
Why do you pass the head along?
We didn't talk about that?
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
Explain that.
So if a guy is good at going down on you,
you'll say,
yo, you got to meet my friend, AJ.
Right.
Yes.
I thought you would keep it for yourself.
We've created monsters, fellas.
I'm not selfish.
We created monsters.
I can share with my friends.
Wow.
Yeah.
And maybe if my friend, he's like a stress release.
And I know the guy.
That's crazy.
I can send the guy.
I don't know these people.
Me neither.
This is crazy.
Chuck, you do not do.
that.
Why?
You spanking me,
nigger?
I charged for that too.
No.
I charged for that.
Listen, we've known
AJ and Tam Bam.
Do I got to call y'all that
the whole time?
No.
No.
Okay.
I've known Ashley and Tammy
for, I call Ashley Poopoo.
I've known,
we've known them for a long time.
I've known Ashley for 20 years.
I've known Tammy for about 18, I think.
Mm-hmm.
About 18 years.
So we knowing them for a long, long, long, long, long, long, long.
So can I ask some Charlemagne questions?
Sure, shoot.
Is it true that Charlemagne's penis is longer in the summer months?
What?
I don't know.
I would have not.
Jesus Christ.
You might know.
Jesus Christ, man.
What the hell is wrong with you?
I'm just saying maybe you pass them over to one of your friends or some shit.
Who knows what happened down there in the
Gichi streets of Charleston, South Carolina?
It's Charleston and Columbia.
The Metro is different than Charleston.
No, I never passed, my friend.
The 803 is different than the 843.
Okay.
Well, shit.
It's a total different place.
Anything else?
You want to ask anything about wax before we move on?
Oh, yes.
I would like to ask something about wax.
Okay.
It's always been a church guy and you like to pray.
Don't y'all be afraid?
Y'all say whatever you feel like y'all need to say.
Wax and your church?
guy and he liked the prank.
Is it true that wax has trouble
achieving orgasms?
Why has all this sex stuff?
Well, because that's what's funny.
Hey, look.
This guy is so crazy.
Tammy is the person who chased waxed out the club.
Yeah.
For what?
Many, many years ago.
Because Charlemagne, you call me.
I listened to that episode
and you said that I was a bartender there.
I was not. You called me.
It was like, yo, you want to wax up here
with some bitches with some red,
He drives me
I did not do that
I don't ask you what she did
You told me no
That would sound like some shit
This nigga
This dude is
What you mean?
You call on now
Yeah
We pulled into the parking lot
And I said
Yo she's there
And he said
Nah, no
She's not there
I said
I went in the bathroom
I came out
It was a mob
Of fucking six seven
fucking girls
Hey me some towels
Wait
You wasn't
Bartending at 360
No
I was but I wasn't
There then
Yes you was
I was not
You were behind the ball
No
I came up there
with my friends
Because you call me
be up there.
I don't remember.
I don't remember.
I know what he was lying, bro.
I can't confirm he's lying to his teeth right now.
I can't confirm him on to night.
I don't remember this one.
I thought you was working there at the time.
He's sweating, bro?
Really?
You called me.
I don't remember.
You even told me what the bitchies had on.
I don't remember that.
You even told me what the bitches had on.
You're like, there's two bitches and red dresses.
Wax with them.
Come up here.
What?
Hold on.
Don't.
Don't bitching me jumping over tables and fucking.
shit.
That's what he wanted to see.
That's not how I recall.
This is why stories are good because everybody got a different story.
I remember coming to 360.
No.
You was working there.
Nope.
Not that night.
Nope.
Really?
You know, you know what it was?
Let me tell you what it was.
That's what I'm saying.
That's the type of shit you do.
What you mean?
Let me tell you what it was.
Show me was probably trying to set wax up.
And then he went in there
and found out you weren't working.
He was like, fuck.
How can I get this girl here to create the drama
that I need in my life.
So then he called you to come
so that there could be a fight.
So was he in there talking to girls?
Y'all was with two girls.
No, I had nothing to do with.
Look, look, look.
I don't recall any of that.
Yes, y'all was with two red girls.
Two red girls.
Two red girls?
And red dresses?
And red dresses.
Red bitches and red dresses.
That's not like a hose.
And you told her I fucking bought the dress, bro.
And we ran the bitchies out of here, kids.
Did you buy a dress?
No, I don't buy the fucking girl a little dress.
I don't remember none of this.
He was like, come up here right now.
I can't believe this, nigga.
I don't remember none of it is.
Listen, Charlotte, we're unearthing our trauma from earlier parts of our life.
And this is how we're going to get through it.
That was definitely some trauma, man.
Yeah, you locked the door on me, yo.
I ran to the truck and he locked the fucking door, bro.
Yeah.
Why did you want him to go through that?
What you mean?
He deserved it.
Why?
Because I'm trying to get him to change his ways for a long time.
Oh, wow, man.
No, for real.
Oh, wow, 2016.
That was, no.
No.
No, I'm saying he's saying straight since 2016.
That's a long time.
Long time.
Five years faithful.
By the way, I'm happily faithful.
It's not, I'm not saying it like it's a problem.
But five years for a man, not to cheat.
That's not a long time.
But what make you think women don't want to do that?
Like, we have to.
to have like a thousand-time
Wolverine.
We literally get Dick thrown at us
on Al-Ni and I at Walmart.
Why do women say that?
Y'all don't really want to cheat.
Nobody really wants to cheat.
Nobody wants to cheat.
We might not want to cheat with everybody,
but we know who the fuck we want to cheat with.
Right.
Or we could.
What the fuck does that mean?
You know who you would fuck?
Who?
I don't.
I mean, you can tell.
Who are you next up?
What is going on in this house today?
Oh, I don't want to hear this.
This is terrible.
I don't want to hear this
A lot of conversation
Don't you guys in
Ash Schultz about
No I want to hear more about this
Because I love the way women think
Because I hate this
Oh God this
Go go go
Go Go
It sound like trouble
Even if you got a good man
And the man is
That's the love of your life
Women just don't
I mean you do have
Some women that just be
Out here
And for the most part
We need a reason
Men just need a time and a place
No that's not true
That is true
Every time I've ever done it
It's been for ego purposes
I thought you said
You did it for them because the girls look lonely and you wanted to help them out.
No, that was me.
See, now he'd just be telling on itself.
No, that's, that was back in the day, shit.
Not me now.
I never knew wax was such a nice guy.
Dan was like, oh, he's so charismatic.
Like, we used to be very charming.
No, no, I need more.
I love work, though.
I never understood why bitches is his own wax like that.
We were there in Gwilla in a random white bitch.
just fall of this man into the middle of the ocean.
She was going to do.
Was some blonde hair, Bimbo.
Nasty as hell.
Having sex in the middle of the ocean.
No, no, no, no.
With somebody he just met.
But where did this woman come from?
I have no idea.
She was the lifeguard.
She was a mermaid.
I was drowning.
I was drowning.
I was drowning.
I was drowning.
Stupid.
I really want to know the.
So.
women have a guy in the tuck that they think about?
Oh my God, don't tell me this.
I don't want to hear that, man.
Yeah, they do.
I'm learning, wait, but I'm learning to lie to them.
I'm learning now to lie to men because I notice that I just, you know, if I'm too honest,
men hold that against you.
So now I'm learning, no, that's not what we do.
We don't have a man in a cut.
No, that's not true.
I would rather the honest conversation.
Yeah, I want the person to tell me what it is.
Yeah, it's always one.
Yeah, you know.
You stop doing that.
You stop doing the bad behavior
so that you can be honest.
You can be honest if you stop doing the bad thing.
And what I don't understand is why would you just give
yourself to some dude who ain't invested no time in you?
No energy, no nothing.
He just gets the fuck because you want to?
How you know that?
How do you figure he's not doing that?
So y'all talking to the miss.
Y'all cheating.
Y'all cheating.
That's cheating.
Man, that next text is a cheating.
I might be a little fraternizer a little bit.
I like to flirt a little bit.
Whoa.
And it gets me in trouble.
Yes.
I like to talk.
Don't you got a man?
Jesus Christ.
Sometimes.
Sometimes.
I'm single, though.
It's the same shit.
You know what it is.
It's like you be in and then you out.
And then you're in and then you out.
I saw you leave a comment on Duval Post this morning and you say, can I be single in a relationship?
Yeah, because nowadays I'm leaning more towards being in a non-monogamous relationship.
Really?
What's that?
It's just hard.
We are being in a monogamous relationship
because I feel like a lot of people are in
fake-ass monogamous relationships.
What that mean?
Everybody cheating.
Exactly.
And people like the lie better.
Women cheat better.
People like the lie better.
Cats coveting shit up.
Dogs lead shit out for you to see.
Bro.
That's just the truth.
We're in a, like it's like we're in a bizarre world.
It's like an alternate reality, bro.
And we're in our alternate reality.
No, we're finally adjusting to what we've been going through.
Which are all, yeah.
Black men don't cheat.
We are not.
Not our grandmothers.
We work, we make money, so I don't have to sit at the house and wait for you while you're at your other family house.
I don't have to do that.
No way.
That's the triggering subject when people say that's not my grandmother because one of my grandmothers allegedly got kids from my daddy best friend.
You find that shit out too?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Especially in the country.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
That's my cousin, cousin, cousin, cousin.
Yeah, that's my cousin, cousin, cousin.
Yeah, double cousin.
Yeah, double cousin.
I do feel like we're in an alternate reality, though,
because I am a faithful black male.
Me too.
Andrew's a faithful black male.
Wax is a faithful black male.
Yeah, but how long did the women in your lives
have to wait for y'all to get to that point?
Like, I'm in that position, too.
I had to wait for the man to get to that point.
Now I'm tired.
You got to build them up a little bit.
Who builds me up?
Right.
The fuck.
If that guy's supposed to build you on too.
You lose your mind in the midst of building someone else.
Nah, you got the right partner.
Believe me, it's easy.
It's easy.
God.
See, that's the thing.
God builds you.
In the black community, they push God to black women.
Y'all just go through all the shit.
We all believe in God.
No.
No, yes.
But they push like, you know, just...
I'm supposed to just have Jesus in my life.
Y'all, you get all the bitches.
Y'all are all the person and I just get Jesus.
You got to find somebody that you're both on the same page.
Believe me.
You'll get it.
Don't worry about it.
I thought you did.
He told me that's what I'm surprised.
So you're just out here a whole cheating human being?
Let me see your head.
No, I'm doing nothing.
Let me see your ring fingers.
Let me see your ring.
A ring I purchased.
Oh, that's cute.
Yeah.
I'm with myself at the moment.
Things can change, though.
So wait a minute.
The engagement's off.
I don't want to talk about that.
Okay.
I want to talk about that.
Good for him.
Jesus, cool.
Because he's not.
But I'm not.
You don't got to endure this.
This poor sweet man getting cheated on left and left and right.
You want other guys just hanging around.
Eating your pussy.
passing them off to your friends?
This is terrifying.
I'm absolutely terrified.
I'm gonna be honest with you.
This ain't no way for y'all to live, man.
Y'all sound like men.
Yeah, don't do that.
Don't be like men.
Sometimes I am a grown-ass man.
Y'all sound like early 2000s, late 90s men.
Yeah.
You sound like Dixon.
Back alone, yo.
No, because at this point, I just rather just chill
with myself for a little while.
I have been in relationships a long time.
You know, like I'm tired of being in a relationship.
No, I'm ready for a serious relationship.
relationship. I don't sound like a man. And I do have men giving me money for nothing. No,
they're not giving it to you for nothing. They're giving it to you and hope of. That's what they're
given it to you. You let a man wait. That's the importance of letting a man wait before you have
sex to them. Because they'll either say or do something that's going to talk themselves out
the pussy in the first place. Or they'll, you know, money speeds things up. Really?
But don't the more you buy a woman stuff, the more you give a woman money, not. You know, money.
you expecting something?
Yeah, you got to cash that in.
You're just Bitcoin.
What's Bitcoin?
Yeah.
Y'all wouldn't talk to your daughters like that.
You know that's some bullshit.
Right. He's cashing that in eventually.
No, I would.
I would talk to them like that.
I would talk to them.
I would because you have to be straight up honest with your children nowadays because
life is coming after him fast.
Yeah.
Like, would you tell you, like, listen, just because a man takes you out on a nice dinner date,
that does not mean you should have sex for him.
I agree.
I agree.
I agree.
I agree, but it is an expect.
Men expect sex after dinner.
When we eat, shit, we was eating real good the other night.
Like, yeah, I mean, that's what men going to expect.
Anything they do.
But that's don't mean they're going to get it, though.
If a man open your door, he's going to want it.
No, I'm saying?
Open the door. Come on now.
Shit, man, get out here giving black and miles away.
What?
What?
Yeah, girl, Black and mild you get pussy.
Where at?
Everywhere.
Who want Black and mild pussy?
First of all, there ain't no quality pussy.
Right now.
That pussy smoked out.
If that's the trade off, I don't want none of that pussy.
Blackie miles and McDonald's.
But I would tell my daughters that, yo, a guy would be expecting something.
You know what I'm saying?
All guys are expecting something.
That's why we need to stop teaching girls and we need to start teaching men how to treat girls.
We're special.
So how should we treat you?
What's the best way to treat you?
Women are special.
Yeah.
We agree.
So we teach little girls.
We teach little girls, oh, keep your legs, clothes, whatever.
We shun the sexuality.
Like women, we're sexual beings too.
Nope.
And then the men can just, you're a man based on how many people you can.
run through.
And then you grow up
and you feel like then
you grow up and now you feel like...
I was wrong. I was wrong.
I was wrong. The piece of shit.
Word is born.
You feel like, okay, so you ran,
your whole life you've been running through
bitches and then you expect to get a woman
that's not going to run through.
Right.
I was running out of calling women bitches.
Stop.
We don't do that here.
I can't believe y'all.
How you know that?
We can call women bitches.
It's a term of endearment for us.
Who calls women bitches?
I don't be honest with you.
I do call women bitches from time to time.
I do.
I do.
I do it.
That is something I do still say.
It's adjectives that matter.
Like, don't do, don't say stupid bitch.
I'm not going to say stupid bitch unless that stupid bitch is acting like a stupid bitch.
And then I'll call her that.
But outside of that, I would never really say it, to be honest with you.
Aditives matter.
This is like really eye-opening.
What do you mean?
Because I didn't know that women really thought like this in 2021.
Yeah, it's heartbreaking.
We aren't city girls, though.
No, we're not.
Yeah, you're country girls, but it's the same thing.
The city girls ain't city girls.
First of all.
Country is how up.
It's southern.
Suffering.
Right.
Country is a state of mind.
I'm southern.
What's the difference?
Country, you think about like, you know, country, moose corner.
That's the country.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
I'm southern.
You're southern.
I'm from the South.
Just because you further down on the map does not make you any more, any less country.
Because there's a lot of country people walk around New York.
Yeah, country girls can't cook.
Oh.
Southern girls could.
Oh, by the way.
Country girls can cook, too.
New York is the most country people.
Yes.
Like, I don't know why New York act like they're not country as hell.
And they all up.
everything. Go look at all. They match everything.
You know what I'm saying? They car.
They're timblins. They wear
odd color schemes. They eat more country
than so-called country folk. Yes.
Like, you clown and soldier buddy, go watch some old
dipset videos. Oh.
You know what I'm saying? Like, what he ain't
talking about? But you said something earlier,
Ashley, you said
that men, we quantified our manhood by the number
of women we slept with. That's not true.
That's what y'all are taught.
You got a little boozy, like, taking his
starting to have sex with a grown woman.
He ain't going to forget about that anyway.
I don't remember a lot of you.
A lot of y'all suffer from abuse. A lot of men
suffer from the abuse at the hands of women,
first of all. So I'll be the first to say that shit.
I was being abused for years. Yeah, and y'all think
it's okay because, you know, you just got this grown
woman, but then it kind of correlates into how
you then treat women when you get older.
Eight years old, I was getting head and sucking tities
from a 20-something year old woman. Yeah, that's not.
My cousin's ex-wife. She molested you.
Yeah. I mean, yeah, I know that now.
Yeah, I know it now. But in the most of the men, he just
I know have been lusted by growing.
What did you say, show?
I said in the moment, you just thought you were sucking them things.
Yeah, you thought you were a man.
I did that too.
Yeah.
And then when you're sitting around talking to all your homies,
that's around the same age and all of y'all talking about the same experiences,
you're like, damn, all of us was getting molested at that age.
So who ain't shit, women are men?
Both.
Because that's fucked up.
The ones who touching kids are your shit.
Yeah.
They should have their own name.
They do.
And it's crazy because it gave me so much confidence young,
and then she took all the confidence away from me,
And when I made her stop, she started telling me I had a big-ass nose.
See what I'm saying?
Why is it funny with men get a view?
It's not funny.
It's not funny.
It's not funny.
I thought about this.
And she actually has a point because you've told this story before and I've thought about this.
And you said, I told her to stop because the smell of her dairy curl gross me out.
So she was like, you probably smelling it so well because of your big ass nose.
was like, she was just coming back to you.
Right?
So imagine that weird of our head going up and down.
She thought the young were just dissing each other and it was an appropriate
dispatch.
Well, hey, yo boy dissing the fuck out of me.
I got something for his life.
And my goddamn grandma putting Neosparn on my nose thinking my shit's swollen.
Oh.
That's real drama.
That is real trauma.
She used to tell my grandma, like, how big his nose is.
It's a nose so big.
Grandma coming in with all kind of cream putting that in my fucking nose.
That's fucked up.
That's fucked up.
That's probably what my shit
Always shining now.
Yeah.
Lord have mercy, man.
Listen, I want y'all, I want better for y'all.
Please.
What you mean?
I want y'all to find a man and settle the fuck down.
We be trying.
Yeah.
What you mean?
No, you're not.
I had a very high tolerance of bullshit.
Really?
Very high tolerance of bullshit.
What do y'all call bullshit, though?
Because I think that we have a definition of...
Well, bitches.
That's like the number one lying
Not being accountable
Talking to you crazy
Like all of that stuff
A lot of men
Y'all are some bipolar-ass people
What's holding
Not holding ourselves accountable
What's that?
Like y'all will do shit
And then deflect everything
On to the woman
Like oh
I did this because
You did this
It's always something that the woman
Did wrong as far as I'm concerned
Now you got to find
The guy who owned up to his shit
Yeah but even when you own
That doesn't mean I have to accept it.
Yeah, you guys never want to own up to anything you do.
I hate saying sorry.
So I try not to do things I have to say sorry for.
I don't mind saying sorry if I'm wrong.
Nah.
Wrong that much.
I always get this apology.
Or if I suck your dick, that's sorry.
No, it's not.
Sucking your dick is not sorry.
Suck you and dig is how we get over the problem.
But it's not.
You can hear it.
Yeah.
You can hear it while you're doing it.
Gotta help out.
Yeah, but then you still be mad.
You might nut fall asleep and wake up, you know, wake up mad again.
Now, you can't let him nut.
If he don't nut, then he'll like you until you make him nuts.
If he's nut, then he's still mad at you.
Yeah, that confuses me.
So, if we arguing right and then we have sex, I feel like, shit, everything good.
Even if he was the one that caused the problem.
I'm good the next day.
Why are you still feeling like that type of way?
Keep him horny.
Keep him horny. Keep on looking at you as, like, being appetizing.
Yeah, but then I have to then be happy to have sex.
I want to know what the no monogamous relationship looks like.
I'm intrigued by that.
You know what I'm saying?
I listened to the episode y'all had the cheetahs never win,
winners never cheat,
where y'all interviewed all the men that live double lives.
Do you think that could work for you?
It wouldn't be a double life because he'd be telling you the truth.
Because you're being honest.
Exactly.
Then you give the woman a choice, what she wants to expose herself to.
Don't put my life in your hand.
Yeah, you're right.
So that's all it's about.
Right.
So if the guys being honest.
Really?
Just being open to talk about whatever the fuck it is.
So what does that look like?
Do I just get to bring any girl home I want to?
Do I got to tell you?
Bring no bitches in the house.
No, not home.
Keep them dogs outside.
It depends on the type of relationship, too,
because some women might want another woman
in the home with y'all sometimes.
Really?
Yeah.
O'Pere.
Man, shut up, man.
What?
I don't know.
I didn't know that word.
I was looking for something.
I need my clothes wash.
That's like the nanny.
Opaire's like a nanny, well, yeah, it's like a nanny, right?
But she actually lived there full time.
I don't want that.
So you fine with that?
If I, if I, if, if, if, I'm,
trying to figure out how that would work if I'm a guy.
But you wouldn't want your woman to have someone on the outside.
No, fuck.
No.
That is disgusting.
There's nothing like,
Oh, wow.
You can have someone.
Coming home with your beard smelling like pussy.
Right.
That's just disgusting.
Who eats me?
Who does that?
So when y'all were cheating,
y'all aren't eating other people pussy.
That's what you want to lie about?
No.
No.
No.
Get some hair with your eyes closed.
You know, if he taught somebody else man that ate my pussy?
Right.
I sent his asshole and that face glazed up.
He'll give you money too.
Can I watch your face first?
No.
Teach you a lesson for your bitch.
What?
That's a real story?
Listen,
Mitch,
I can't win a night school together, boy.
Jesus.
Night school.
No,
not night school.
He went to,
uh...
Been to hand of it.
We didn't have a night school.
My book said,
never had a class together.
Benadick was kind of like night school.
Don't do that.
Don't do that.
It was summer school.
We went to summer school again.
I didn't never go to summer school.
No?
No, it was just regular college.
No, it was just regular class.
Regular class.
All you all went to Benedict?
All of us.
I thought you went to Allen.
No.
No,
the Wax started at Allen.
He started at Allen.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Tammy was at Benedict.
You did college radio at Benedict.
I did.
No.
It was at USC.
Yeah.
This dude almost got me beat up one time.
What happened?
You know what I'm talking about.
What happened?
The butt story.
It's the butt story.
What happened?
You got to watch yourself.
So I was fucking with this dude, right?
And I didn't even want my.
roommates.
Oh, I remember.
I enjoyed fucking him.
I liked fucking him.
Something else?
To say what I'm thinking about?
Okay, okay, go ahead.
Yeah, I liked fucking him.
And I'm like, damn.
Wax, I'm on the side street.
What Oak Street, I think?
Wax, like, yo,
Chuck Kett.
Chuck Ed, what up?
He goes, fuck it, so.
So I'm like, what?
He told you that?
I'm embarrassed.
Like, why would you tell my friend that?
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
So I was like, damn, did he tell you I
fucked him?
Meaning you put something in his butt.
This dude takes into the damn football locker room, football, lockoom, both of them play football at school.
Because not only tippy toes, you can't come in a shower because then he can't come to shower no more eat.
Tipy toes.
It wasn't tippy toes.
No, you got to see Andrew eating whatever he eating and joined that shit.
He's just like popcorn.
Charlotte to drink your meat, bro, great turkey for my boiler round.
Keep going.
So hold on.
So you put something in the guy's butt?
No, just on her fingers.
Oh, Lord Jesus.
And then what happened when you told the dude?
He lied?
Like, he wanted to go to my garment to fight me.
I didn't know that, but I took care of that too.
Like, why would you want to fight me over the truth?
I didn't lie on you.
Yeah.
You should have just not told people we were stuck around.
And that's why I do that, too.
I shouldn't do the way I do that.
Especially when I was younger.
Yeah, for sure.
That's good.
Yes.
You make sure you tell the full story, sir.
Ooh.
But he came back, right?
Eventually, he was like, I miss you.
He wanted his butthole fingers.
Yeah, and you hit that goddamn G-spot.
He can't ask his current bitch to do it.
So he was like, damn.
That was so crazy because I stood on top of the bench at the locker room.
Like, yo, this nigga begins, uh, fucked up.
He's like, he like, you know, wax chill out.
You're like, hell on no, she told me that shit.
Tell the truth.
So that's why he wanted to fight.
I get it.
He couldn't fight wax.
He couldn't fight wax when he's like, I got to go fight somebody.
He was going to fight this girl.
Like, no.
He was to fight me, but.
And you actually loved me in the end.
Oh, he would have.
fight me.
You hit them up again.
You were like a bully in college, though.
You know, Wax used to get Riesie Cups and stick laxatives in it
and then pass them around campus for people.
I've seen all that stupid shit.
Reese's pieces.
I hadn't ever heard of Reese's pieces.
Boy, yeah, Reese's got your hand.
No, he would take the rapper off sticking back in and put the rapper back on top.
You know, the little mini tucks and pass them out.
Jesus.
That was different.
That wasn't a bully.
I just handled whatever need to be handled.
It was my school.
It was my, it's me.
is Wax.
There are people shitting up all over campus.
I used to get by with everything,
but I had to because I didn't know how to do nothing.
You want me to go because I'm not going to listen to nothing.
I remember when Wax graduated.
First of all, nobody could believe he actually graduated.
And literally, it was mad girls.
I didn't, and this dude did.
She didn't graduate you.
It was mad girls in the stand screaming mad different names
when wax they was like they didn't call Herman's name
they didn't call Logan's name
I'm sitting there like this motherfucker
and I skated up out of there
yo let's go be out
listen you also had you talked about how hoeing
doesn't heal oh yeah we got in trouble
for that yesterday in it
why in the hot seat the hot topic
with the girls from horrible decisions
oh we see and Mandy yeah oh yeah
because oh in the podcast is called horrible
decisions they believe in hoeing
yeah but I feel like
general consensus at the end of the day
was that it doesn't. If you're going through some
shit, like just having a lot
of different people, energies all
on you. Right. That's not going to solve
anything. You're going to still be fucked up.
Like, somebody's coming through, smash you and leave.
Like, you're going to be curled up.
Unless the healing that you need is sexual
healing. Right. You know? That'd be the only time.
Is there such thing as sexual healing now? Of course.
Yes, absolutely. Really.
That's an argument.
The hoeing does heal them.
That's not hoeing, though. I mean, that just
could just be sex. Hoeing, I'm talking
about like, I don't know.
More than one penis a year?
Yes.
Running through.
More than one penis a year.
Not a year?
A year.
A year.
A year.
What the fuck?
Why is that something?
What's wrong with you?
Shut up.
How many penises you need a year?
It depends.
Well, I've only had to say a penis for a lot of years.
Is it a high girl summer or not?
No.
I think COVID.
I think COVID is the best gauge.
How many, how many penises did you have during the pandemic?
That's the best gauge.
One.
That's all you need.
That's all you need.
The fuck.
That's not a hot girl summer.
What's a hot girl summer?
We ain't hot girls.
We like, yeah, warm, warm girls summers.
In 10 years, how many, how many penises in 10 years?
From 20 to 30.
It just depends.
If you're in a relationship, then it'll be that one.
But if you're not, it can be as many as you want.
Let's think about numbers.
Let's think about numbers.
In 10 years.
We ain't about to calculate my bodies now.
No, no, not yours.
Not yours.
I'm saying.
One of a year for 10 years a year is 10 penises.
Two in 10 years a year is,
fucking 20. You don't want no more. Come on. Let's think. Let's think about this.
What? I don't get that. Do it. Dick math again? What was that?
In 10 years, one a year. Okay. Ten years. That's 10 penises. Right?
Ten penises.
Ten penises. Yeah. Ten meat. Even if you have two a year for 10 years, that's 20 already.
I listen, I like experience.
Yeah. Why you want somebody? And, I mean, you know, y'all be wearing virgin holes.
Y'all want a bitch to suck y'all dick on a handstand.
But never did it with anybody else.
It's impossible.
I don't think a man should demand anything of a woman that he don't have himself.
Like, you can't say you want a girl to have a body count less than 20 if yours is well over 20.
I disagree.
So hold on.
So if you smoke and crack, you don't want your son not to smoke crack?
What's your son?
How's that comparable?
No.
Just know y'all are.
You could want your girl to have less bodies than you.
That's okay.
That's what I'm trying to tell you.
No guy wants that girl to have as many bodies.
I mean, listen, experience is experience.
I don't care.
Like, if you love somebody, you love somebody.
You know what I'm saying?
If you love that car, we got 400,000 miles on you're going to steal a body.
You just renovate it.
You know what I'm saying?
You know, the whole engine.
That's it.
Half the time you won't know.
You won't know how many miles are on that.
I try to tell you.
You get it.
You don't know.
And if you're somebody like me who tries to be honest, like men look at you crazy.
You need somebody honest.
No.
How many do you got?
Can't tell the truth about that.
When you got some women like that.
Like you think this is some nice, wholesome girl
because she told you she only fuck five guys in life
and she's 35 or whatever.
And then here I am like, shit, I lived.
That's right.
And I had a whole phase in my 20s.
That's right.
So that now I'm not, because I think the worst soul was a 30-year-old.
Yeah, she gets all the young boys.
Because I know some women who, you know, got married,
had children young.
And now on divorce probably.
And they're out here.
And they're out here.
Like, you look stupid.
Why?
Why do you feel like they look stupid?
That's like the drug dealers.
That's like the drug dealers right now.
We all got opposing views.
No, I'm just saying, why do they look stupid to you?
I mean, definitely stupid.
It's just...
Why, though?
Why is that stupid?
Let Chuck say it.
Because I'm a man.
I just feel like it's other things you should be concerned,
especially if you got children.
There's other things you should be concerned about.
And they still looking for love.
Like, you running through all these people looking for somebody to love you at this point.
You're still trying to find a man.
That's what it is.
There's no woman in their 30s.
If you had a whole phase in your 20s,
a lot of us are not proud of the...
Not proud of the whole phase,
but it was necessary.
You can't, yeah, you can't unfuck people,
so you don't need to feel bad about it.
I don't have any regrets.
And I just always tell young girls,
like when I talk to young women,
I feel like our podcast,
my target market would be for younger women
so that we can tell them, like,
listen, you don't have to go through this show.
We're telling you,
then that way you can live through us,
vicarious, so you don't have to necessarily experience yourself.
But if you want to have your whole phase
in your 30s, that's your prerogative,
as long as you're doing it responsibly.
And keep your aggressive.
That's stupid.
Stupid.
No, how?
I don't think it's stupid.
Yeah.
Not smart.
I don't think it's stupid
I want a virgin ho
I want a virgin
What's wrong with that
truthful but I just don't want somebody
with a lot of miles
You don't want no virgin
You don't want no virgin
No a virgin ho
That's impossible
What is a virgin ho
Huh
How does she know how to
Well y'all want a faithful millionaire
That's a
I is a virgin ho in your eyes
There you go Shult
Keep going to show
I just said, like, we both ask you for unrealistic things.
That's not true.
That is not true, bro.
What?
I'm faithful as fuck.
You can get a little as one with diabetes.
Two dick don't work.
Lord have mercy.
You could get a faithful millionaire.
Exactly.
Being faithful is not hard at all.
Being faithful is simply a choice.
It is.
That's it.
Cheating is a choice.
Eating?
This guy over here, bro.
Cheating.
Cheating is a choice.
When did Charleney become Captain Fidelity, bro?
This guy just started being faithful
Two days ago
October
2016
He was a Derek Jackson shit in it
Yeah
He didn't
Don't let them call you
Derek Jackson
No
He was a Derek Jackson
He knows everybody in his room
Know I'm clean
Wax know I'm clean
Man this nigga
You do me there
The day he got clean
Boy I was the piece of shit
Of every day
They were on heroin
Yeah
Remember that time in Vegas
You were ass crack
You remember
Remember that time
I got
With that girl in Vegas
Oh my God
And the cops came to the room.
Oh, my God.
Oh, yeah.
Mad as hell.
I'm like, look, I've always been doing this shit.
Now you fucking got mad.
No, because the shit was stupid.
No, that was stupid.
That situation was stupid as that.
The girl chased me to my room.
What the fuck I'm supposed to do?
That's what he said.
That was his story.
What happened?
No.
The girl was with another guy.
I know.
A white guy.
He walking through the hotel.
Looking like a big guy.
Exactly.
The girl mad at the dude.
And so somehow, somehow, another, she attaches the wax.
Wax takes the girl to the room, makes a little,
I run. I was running down.
Every time I turned the hole, I ran a little bit.
So how should you end up in your room naked in the tub?
I don't know what happened.
That's what I'm saying?
Come on, man.
You know what?
Straight pussy hole and watched it.
When the guards came to the door and was like, we watched her go through the room.
They watched her fucking chasing me and everything.
I wake up with 10 phone calls.
They're like, yo, wax, police, women.
I'm like, what the hell is going on, man?
I called you.
You just sent the police up my door.
I'm going for weed.
I'm like, I got you, man.
No, you kidnapped the girl.
I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
What are you talking about?
You know how bad that could have ended up?
Right.
Yeah, that could have been really bad, bro.
So all I'm saying, as a man, when you start getting to that point, everybody got to grow up.
Yeah, we get grown up.
That's all I'm saying.
That's just too much.
It was too much.
That's it.
But I'm in clean.
I'm not no Derek Jackson ass naked.
I wouldn't even say it if I was.
bullshit.
He's sickening.
I don't know.
I don't think you're lying.
Like, that I'll be damn if I listen to somebody else, man.
I don't understand why women wouldn't even follow that guy.
Right.
The fuck?
I know you're faithful.
Men cannot tell me.
I know you're faithful.
I know you're 100% faithful.
But, like, you act about your faithfulness the same way vegans act about their diet.
No, I don't.
I act the way heroin addicts and crack addicts act about being sober.
And I'maholics.
That's how I act.
Don't even go around that shit.
Five years.
I'm getting the coins this year.
Watch.
This year I'm getting the coins for brothers who have born and four.
You giving them chips?
Whoa, whoa, why four years?
You can say two years, that's hard.
No, no, no.
So pussy is like a drug.
Yes, it's worse than drug.
It's new pussy, right?
No, this pussy period.
It's not new.
Let your girl not give you no pussy.
You're going to be a fucking fiend out this motherfucker.
You go crazy.
You'll go crazy.
All that fucking porn.
Stupid.
You go crazy.
People have full knockdown, drag out arguments about that shit, because men egos is fragile, right?
Yeah.
So if all women is, just to say she's tired and she don't feel like having sex, we
automatically internalize that and think it's us.
Like, damn, it's me.
Or she's fucking somebody else.
No, I don't go that far.
Man stupid.
Not I don't go that far.
Like, women physically just can't have sex all the time.
Just because you want it.
Yeah, because your body.
And why she always smashing all these fucking girls?
I mean, these guys then.
How do prostitutes do it?
All these fucking...
Your girl is smashing a bunch of guys?
Who's smashing a bunch of guys?
No, cocaine.
It's up in the pocket.
A lot of girls who smash a lot of guys will be on cocaine.
And numbs them up.
I'm confused about this.
What?
What's going on?
You said, why do girls smash a lot of guys?
Yeah.
She said that the girls don't like to smash all the time.
They'd be having multiple guys a week and multiple guys a month and kind of crazy.
No, when you got in-house dick, y'all having sex a lot and then it slows up, right?
Mm-hmm.
All right.
I mean, you're not smashing.
I don't know.
I don't know.
I've never just smashed all these people in one week.
Right.
Multiple guys a week.
I don't know why I don't feel like it hurts so much, though.
Because you don't have a vagina.
What you mean?
What you mean?
What you mean?
What you mean?
What do you eat and rubbing and rubbing and rubbing and.
What the hell?
That don't hurt your feelings when your woman said I don't feel like it?
Oh.
Oh, yeah.
But the girl told me hurt worse.
And the guy saying it might hurt worse, though.
Bro, I mean, the other day.
The other day.
The other day, I was like, we were initiating some stuff, me and my girl.
And like, what do you mean initiating?
Yeah, we start, we're like starting to have sex, but not like.
Oh, okay, got you.
Yeah, we're just like making out getting intimate.
And, uh, and, uh, this shit crushed me, bro.
I pulled her close and I kind of like grabbed her back like you know like you're trying to get really sensual and she just went and she just laughed at me in that moment where I was where I was trying to be like romantic and sensual my dick got soft so fast bro it was unbelievable dude because she laughed that might have been a laugh of joy like oh my god no it was like you're making my back feel weird like it was that like
That shit killed my ego, bro.
My ego was so fragile.
I got something for you, Andrew.
I got something.
I got something after the show.
All right, Ben, what do you got?
What do you got?
Some who's wax something.
I got it, though.
All right, Ben.
This is the conversation men don't have enough of, man.
Like, we, our feelings get hurt when shit like that happens, man.
Like, I want my woman to want me all the time.
All the time.
And if you don't want me in this moment, just tell me, be like, I'm tired, whatever.
Something.
It got to be something more than just, I don't feel like it.
That's all.
Why?
Because it's just your ego is too frail.
Yes.
That's what we know.
That's supposed to have sex just because you want to have sex all the time.
I'm not.
I'm not saying that.
But it's just like,
yo,
tell me something other than I just don't feel like it.
What else would you like to hear?
Right.
I'm tired.
My pussy hurts for the last time.
Something, you know what I mean?
My pussy hurts for the last time.
That's a good excuse.
Oh, I like that.
See, that's eagle.
My pussy hurts from the last time.
That's what you put me.
You want us to lie.
My shit is all right.
You want us to lie anyway.
I'll lie anyway.
I don't be lying.
What do you tell you a man when you don't want to have sex?
I don't feel like it.
God.
You know, you know, sometimes I have been like, you know, I'm, I feel irritated or something like that.
I don't want to have sex.
I mean, I feel like.
What if he said that about you?
What if he say no to you?
That's weird.
That's what I'm saying.
Yeah, we're gay.
If we say no to you, we're gay.
Should I get it done?
Are we fucking somebody else?
I see what?
Or even that, that's hurtful.
I'll get it done myself.
And like, just stuff my titty while I did this.
You don't got to fuck.
If I don't feel like, dude, I suck your titty.
You know what I'm using a lot of me?
You suck your own titty while you're doing it?
No, I need him to do it while I used to survive.
I don't mind that, by the way.
Why you're using my teeth?
You may I say no, though?
To suck in my titty?
No, to fucking you, period.
Like, no, I don't feel like it.
No, but I mean, like you think it's going to happen and it doesn't.
That's kind of disappointing.
What you mean?
He go to sleep?
Nobody's ever said, no, I don't feel like it.
But, like, yeah, he might go to sleep.
No.
No.
I'm talking about it.
somebody's telling me like, no, they don't want to do it.
My brothers, take your power back, man.
Start telling girls you don't feel like it.
You know what I'm saying?
But that's a lie.
Y'all always feel like it.
Exactly.
No, no.
So if you don't feel like it, though.
But you do it anyway, though.
We have to do it.
If your girls sit there and say she wants something, you better figure it.
I go drink something, smoke something, figure it out.
No, man.
Sometimes you got a jerk off.
And so once you jerk off, you got your mind right,
and then you can tell your woman, I don't feel like it.
Just to get back for all the time,
she told you that's what she can feel how you feel.
Yeah, y'all are not doing it.
Hell no.
Don't fucking no one at home.
You talk with anybody else out of this street.
Don't fuck with that home, man.
So what, so are you ready to cheat now?
Because I said I don't feel like it?
No, that doesn't know.
No, you ain't going to get no food.
The clothes ain't going to be washed.
You're going to have attitude in our house.
Happy wife, happy life.
Right.
Beat it up real quick.
It'd be all right.
This is horrible, man.
We're going to pay some bills and we're going to come back and talk about why
Cuevo took the Bentley.
But after listening to y'all talk, I understand why he took it.
Yes.
First of all, he didn't take it.
Okay.
Listen, this episode is sponsored by Blue Chew.
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Now, do we have any church announcements?
Shultz. See, you got any church announcements?
Yes, shows.
Theandrussholts.com.
Second leg of the tour is up.
Few cities already sold out.
Go get them right now.
Theangles.com.
We got a bunch of new.
And then when this episode is out,
the song of the summer,
Open her up is officially out.
You go check it on my YouTube, Spotify.
Shit, hopefully it's up on Apple and all those other places as well.
But it's up on Spotify, YouTube.
Go check it out.
Open her up.
Myself, Jelly Roll.
I got the boys, Alex Media, Mark Gagnon.
Yeah, man.
Great porn name.
Great gay porn name.
Open her up?
Or Gagnon.
Yeah, Gagin on.
Yeah.
And listen, you should put this on.
You should put this song on this podcast.
Oh, I would love that.
Yeah, we'll drop it.
Al will put it in.
Yeah.
So,
Wax,
you got any
church announcements?
Oh, go ahead.
Go ahead,
show.
No,
we're literally
finishing up
the music video
right now.
So it's,
uh,
it's fire,
man.
It's fire.
I'm excited,
man.
Wax,
you got any church
announcements?
Um,
just going to say,
make sure I looks
into a bullying
the beast.
And I got a weekly
description
with my,
um,
my candy gifts,
my,
weekly description?
Subscription.
Subscription.
Subscription.
Subscription.
Yes.
The fuck did Wax just say?
I don't know.
Go to canaggift.com.net and you go ahead and get to a weekly description over there.
I don't know how to say that shit.
The description.
I don't know what the fuck that shit is.
You know, you're plugging it in.
I got you.
And I said it like 14 times.
In the mirror?
I don't know.
Go order canagifts.com.
And go out of celsius.
And I'm thinking anybody for come out to Philly was a really dope show.
Did T.K. kill it?
Hilt it.
Every night.
T.K. really a jersey.
No.
He's a beast.
He's a big
Jersey dude
just like
let him look at that wax
like old
I see how you roll
And TK is 60
years old
See to the motherfucking
He still got it
Out here killing it
Yeah
We did eight shows sold out
Man
It's really really dope man
Sponsored the whole show
So keep that up
Listen all I got is
Make sure you continue
To listen to the Black
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Of course we talk back
Podcasts with AJ
And Tam Bam is on there
Make sure you get
We've got
answers. It's available on
Audible right now. That's an audiobook that we put
out on Audible a couple weeks ago.
And Tamika Mallory, state of emergency.
Here we go. We'll be out May 11th,
2020. Let me tell you something. This is a special week,
right? I'm going to tell you why this is a special week. It's a special week
because my first book, Black Privilege, came out on April
17th of 2017.
Right? And this week,
Andrew will be talking shit.
The advanced copies of Tomeca Mallory's book, State of Emergency, came out this week.
And I didn't even, that's just, you know, coincidence.
So it's my first release on Black Privilege Publishing.
So Temeca Mallory, State of Emergency, How to Win in the Country We Built will be out May 11th,
but you can pre-order now.
But advanced copies are in the street for press and media.
I cannot believe I'm looking at an actual copy of the book.
That's right.
This is unbelievable.
You see it?
Okay.
I know we've been talking about this for much.
Excellent.
They can be any book, though.
No, it's not.
This is the goddamn book.
Cat and a half.
You're a liar.
You're a liar.
You're a liar.
Okay.
Look, Black Privilege Publishing.
This is the book, State of Emergency.
How do we see Tamika right there?
This is the book.
Okay.
It's out May 11th, everywhere you buy books.
My first release off Black Privilege Publishing.
So it's not a coincidence.
You say what?
I'm getting it.
No, it's not a coincidence because, you know, 2017, when Black Privilege came out,
and I feel like I graduated, right?
So it's four years later.
And now I just don't have a couple of New York Times bestsellers.
I have an actual book imprint.
And this is the first release off the imprint, State of Emergency.
Congratulations.
Yes.
Thank you.
I've been telling somebody that's sitting here and write a book for so goddamn long for years, okay?
I'm working on it.
You should.
She had a great idea for a book.
I don't want to say it because people will steal it, all right?
But how do y'all plug in God?
Guys, man.
This guy is crazy.
Plug in guys?
No, that would be a good chapter.
No, it's not.
No, that would be a good chapter.
I know a couple.
I know, well, now that I don't know a couple,
but I know that dude, and then there's another dude.
Another dude you went in his butt too.
I don't know that's true, man.
I don't know that.
How you know it?
I don't know.
No, you did.
We talked about that before.
We definitely talked about.
And that's our guy.
So I ain't going to put him.
out there, but...
You better knock it off.
No, mu your finger.
You get tapped up again.
You better stop that.
But hey, that might be a service.
A subscription.
That's subscription.
A subscription.
A subscription.
Hold on, hold on.
A weekly subscription.
He used to want it?
No, you better stop playing with this dumb shit, man.
Next.
I got time for the shit.
That's what he did.
Whenever he wanted it, he did like this.
Lord Jesus
No
Let's say just yes and no
What
A guy used to want it
This is my guy
Not wanted
No
What you were doing
Man can we go next
What happened
God
Quayvold and Sweet
That's my people's
That's my guy
That's our peoples
Who
Who?
Who?
Who?
Nobody.
How do you feel about
Quavo
allegedly taking the Bentley back?
He rapped about
He didn't on it
To get taken
in the first place
We talked about that.
Y'all are some haters.
How that's not his?
It's rented.
It's a lease.
So how could he, he just took the lease back?
Oops.
Yeah, it's a lease.
If he's paying the lease.
Yeah, he's paying the money for it.
That's some.
A $350,000 car I'm taking back too.
Yeah, like, she should have given it back.
So he should have let her keep it and just be like, look, it's the lease.
The lease up in a couple years, you can keep it, but you got to take care of lease.
Yeah.
Right.
He should just let her continue to pay.
Transfer the payments to her.
Or take the car back.
Or take the car back and let her get her on.
I just.
Let her get her own car.
Let her get her own fucking car.
Yeah, I'm pretty sure she has cars.
You think she got cars?
Yeah, I'm sure.
Cars are a waste of money, by the way.
I think leasing is the way to go.
Yeah, me too.
For brand new stuff, you definitely should lease.
Me too.
And then you can jump in and out of something every three, four years.
I don't have a problem with the lease.
But if he is paying the lease and he took it back, I'm not mad at him.
You know what I'm saying?
Because they're not together, no more.
Right?
So it's like, yo, the things that I gave them.
Right.
I'm going to be paying for a lease.
I can't wait to see her next man.
I can't wait to see who's sweetie hitting up next.
Me too.
Because I feel like, okay, to me, like you add money for instant swag.
Like, I feel like men should get the same type of bitches that they would get if they didn't have any money.
Like, could he get her if he didn't have any money?
Yes.
How?
In Woodworld?
Because she might not have no money.
We don't know what she looked like before money.
Why we act like money just girls are women?
She was the same face.
So girls might have thought.
Kweber was cute before money.
Nah, he was getting different women.
What you mean?
He was not getting that same caliber.
I don't believe that.
I think some, you know, guys just, you know, have a way with women.
It don't matter.
Look at, oh, come on, dog.
What you mean?
Look at these guys.
Boy, money do some.
Yeah, first picture.
Man, go to Suweedy.
See, I don't like, go to Swedey.
Money and do you know.
Watch.
Sweetie is the woman y'all would have won in high school.
You watch.
Exactly.
Who's the one all in a year?
in over here.
They need sleep.
Okay.
All right at the top.
Who the one
over to the right?
He's not an
unattractive man now.
He's not.
No, right there.
Go to the next one.
Right there.
Who is that?
I don't know who that is.
That's Cuavo in the middle?
That don't even look like that.
That's Quavo to the right.
That's Quavo right there.
Y'all being too judgmental,
like people don't grow.
Like, we don't evolve.
You know what I'm saying?
You know what I mean?
Some people get better with time.
Okay.
Let's see.
Go sweetie before fame.
She's been beautiful forever
And look at her
That's her right there
I don't see why they couldn't have been together
In high school
What's the problem?
Boom, boom, boom
This is judgmental for no reason
I want her to be with somebody else
That's just like I felt about Sierra when she was with Future
Like why you let him put a baby in you
Lord have mercy
Drop his DNA in you
What's the problem?
Yeah, Future's not good looking
Why do y'all
Why y'all so superficial?
Don't be so long.
You don't think.
No, first of all, men are way more shallow than women.
You do not see a fine-ass guy with regular attraction.
She's right.
But you can see a nice-looking woman with an ugly man all the time.
This is how women contradict themselves.
They say that we're shallow, but then they say we fuck anything.
It can't be both for it.
Y'all do both.
No, we do both.
We do both.
We're shallow, but we will fuck anything.
Guy Cole.
Right, thank you.
It's facts.
But here's the thing.
Women are shallow too, just about.
different shit. You're shallow about money.
You know, there's no such thing as an ugly billionaire.
Didn't Jay Z say that shit? First of all, men like men
with money too. Right. That's where the big
homie shit came to. Big homie.
What's up, big homie?
They'll call a baby big homie if you got more money.
Exactly. That's so true.
That's so true.
You know, men do like men with money. Me and Duvall was just
talking about this shit yesterday. Okay.
Hey, man, I'm going to wait till I'm 50.
And I'm just, we got to call out all the men
that like men with money.
Why don't you're going to wait, do it today?
Do it now.
No, my mind my business.
That shit is disgusting, bro.
You said they'll call a baby, big homie if they got more money than them?
That's hysterical, y'all.
You know what's so interesting about that dudes be hanging out with people that they would never hang out with if that person they had money?
That's a fact.
You'd been clowning that dude in high school, giving them wedges.
And these guys wouldn't get those women if they didn't have money.
No, I don't believe that.
What?
That's the true.
Only because I've seen, like, I mean, I've seen, like, you know, dudes, everybody, like, dudes can get a girl without no money.
Sure.
A quality woman?
Yes.
Women like conversation.
They like laugh to laugh.
They probably got a rich dude.
They can know what shit for.
Yeah.
That's what I'm saying?
You could be with a rich dude who ain't treating her right.
You know what I mean?
And then you just show her a good time.
The whole thing you know.
The hood nigga like something.
Guarantee.
Come on, man.
I've seen it a million times.
Like, nah, I don't think money is the end-all be all.
No, no, I don't.
Not even a little bit.
That's fair.
I don't think so.
Have y'all gotten the vaccine yet?
No.
No.
My mom got it on Saturday and she was sick with a 104 degree temperature on Sunday.
Which one she got?
She got the Johnson and Johnson.
No.
She did do the two shots.
So that's the Moderna, right?
Or Pfizer.
Yeah.
So whichever one, but they discontinued the Johnson and Johnson.
For what we understand.
He was guinea-picking people.
Y'all not getting it?
I'm not an anti-vaxia, but I'm not.
I'm not in no rush to get it.
Yeah, I'm away.
Me neither, I'm a wait.
I'm getting that shit today.
See you turn to a zombie?
No, you're not.
You're a fucking liar.
I am.
I'm getting a modern one.
Well, technically,
when this podcast comes out today,
but yeah, Thursday,
I'm going to get that shit.
Really?
Yeah.
Why, you are?
But what happened?
I want to know what changed Andrew Schultz's mind
because Andrew Schultz was the guy
who was like,
I got the antibodies.
What changed your mind?
My girl got the appointment.
We were in a fight
and I just didn't want to add
another thing to the fight,
so I was like,
fuck it.
give me, you know, give me the vaccine.
It happens every time just like that.
What was y'all fighting about?
Huh?
What was y'all fighting about?
Her laughing to me during sex.
Yeah, that's what I was thinking.
You got a double-pumped syndrome.
And how'd that turn it into the shot?
Yo, you know what it's not?
I didn't really, but you know what is funny is that like I literally for a living love it when people laugh.
Like that's what, and there is one time where I don't want to hear a single fucking chuckle.
And that is.
But yeah, I don't know.
I was super against it.
The only reason you don't let the jokes fly nor are sex.
Not sometimes in the beginning I will.
Sometimes like it'll be like little cutesy jokes, you know.
But then once it gets into like, it was like, you know, you can be cutesy and shit.
No smiles and laughs.
What's he said in here?
No smiles and laughs during sex?
You don't want her to smile at all.
No, of course, smile, laugh.
I don't even want your eyes open.
Your eyes open.
that what the fuck
it happened
your eyes opening for her?
You don't want her eyes
She can't look at you
during sex?
I don't know
I'm trying to think
What's that?
That means
that says
Black women always
close their eyes
during sex
because they can't stand
to see a nigga
happy
Yeah.
Whoever wrote that?
Why you don't want her eyes
open?
I don't know
I think if you
you're not enjoying it
like do you kiss
with your eyes open?
When you're trying
to enjoy something
like you close your eyes
right.
What about a vet?
Have you ever done this?
Have you ever been kissing somebody
and then you got your eyes open
and then you see their eyes open?
You're like,
what's your eyes open for?
Like,
crazy as hell.
Like praying with your eyes open.
You see what I'm saying?
That's kind of crazy as hell.
You don't do like,
so you don't want a woman to like stare at your eyes
intensely while she's sucking your dick?
That's some soul ties right there.
See, that's sucking your dick is different.
Am I meeting you and you got your eyes just open?
Like, imagine girl looking at the pillow
while you smash it.
Like, right?
That's kind of crazy.
Not the sucking the dick.
I don't think, I don't even know.
So what if what did the mirror in front of you?
And looking at me in the eyes.
We don't need you to suck.
Like just focus on a task of hands.
You know what I mean?
Like if I'm ordering a fucking subway sandwich,
I don't need the guy was making a sandwich
to be putting together the fucking sandwich
and staring me in the eyes.
Do what you got to do.
Focus on your craft.
What's the point of looking at the guy
when you're doing it?
To let you know you make shit.
It's like some intensity.
Really?
Some people will tell you like, look at me.
It's like some energy exchange when you're staring in their eyes.
Keep your energy on the thing that you got to keep it on.
Why you got all this extra energy, you know?
You know what I'm saying?
That's a lot of energy.
Jesus Christ.
Let's do some shit you won't care about next week, Taylor.
What is that right there?
What does that say?
Can you be too old to get a hicky?
Yes.
That's a great question.
Oh, Keisha Cole tweeted that.
Sheesh called tweeted, how can you be too old for a hickie?
You bitch is crazy.
Who whoever said it, fuck you.
I don't want to be out here with a hiki on my neck doing business.
Yeah.
Anybody know you having sex?
Like, chill out.
By the way, if the pussy good, you're going to get that hicky.
How good is, because if a guy's on top of you, he kissing on you, you know what I'm saying?
You can know better.
He's going to suck on your neck.
People do that when they're young because they want anybody to know you finally having sex.
Like, yo, look at a hickie.
Boy, let me smell your finger.
That's the same thing, smelling your finger.
Who the fuck?
Nobody does that.
Come on.
You're disgusting.
You're talking about back in the day, hickie and smelling your finger, the exact same thing.
Go to your boy, like, let me smell your finger.
Take a shower, bro.
Or fucking Hickey and say shit.
Yeah.
He's got their filthy ass hands.
Can you be too old for Hickey?
Tam Bamb.
No.
If you're having sex and it happens, it happens.
It happens.
Nah, you're too old.
I don't want Hickey.
You want to see a 40-year-old person.
You want your fucking...
I would be putting makeup on it.
Don't mind their business.
Like, why don't you give a fuck?
I would be trying to put makeup on it to cover.
It could happen.
but I would be trying to cover it up.
And you're not going to think it's a hicky
if a person is past a certain age.
You're like, that's a rash.
Is that a burst?
You know what I'm saying?
You're not going to think it's a hickie.
Yeah, you're not going to think it's a hickie.
Abuse.
You think, you think, you're too old to give hickie shows?
Am I too old to give a hickie?
Yeah.
Honestly, yeah.
Like, I don't want my, I don't think it looks nice.
Like your girl walking around a hickies all over her neck.
It just looks weird.
How many do you get it?
She fucking.
Like, what I'm in the look like.
Yeah, she fucking.
she's fucking
she just finished fucking
yeah
it's just too much
I agree
she called said fuck y'all
kisha koshkoz said fuck y'all
respectfully
hey kisha koha is a grown ass
three of us
like kind of crazy
do you only stop at one
yeah
Hickie's like
Hickie's like the poor people's
engagement ring
what
you know what I mean
it's like
that's mine
but I'm not enough
to claim it
I branded her
exactly
what else we got
I don't know
What the fuck Leslie Jones was talking about right here?
My sister.
What's she said?
Dudes and dude debts who ghost are cowards.
Maybe they think that if they don't respond, the whole thing just never happened.
They do not have the courage to be honest and their manners are poor.
I think ghosting is, oh, I get it.
I think ghosting is one of the cruelest things you can do.
Avoid someone because you don't want to tell them the truth.
Leave someone hanging.
It's so disrespectful of the other person's feelings.
The silence tells them.
I don't think that ghosting is that bad.
Like, I've ghosted.
and I've been semi-ghosted before.
You know what I think?
It's bad.
But it's never happened to you.
You think it's disrespectful to go?
It depends on how deep y'all are.
Exactly.
Like, you go out to dinner with somebody,
you wasn't feeling him after dinner.
Then you don't talk to him.
I owe you an explanation.
But what if you fuck?
But if y'all are fucking each other.
That's what I'm saying.
Okay.
The longer y'all have been together, ghosts.
If the dick was really bad, then it's okay to go.
Don't want to see her cry.
What about this, though?
What about this?
Is it worse to string someone on?
I think ghosting is way better than stringing someone on and say,
no, no, I do like you, but yeah, I can't hang out this week, let's hang out next week, blah, blah, blah.
That's the most cruel thing.
But don't you want a reason?
Fuck, who cares the reason?
Hey, your teeth, I didn't like how they look.
That's the problem is it.
It'd be like subtle shit with women a lot of times.
But listen, if a guy fucks you and doesn't call you no more, that don't piss you all off?
Yes, it does piss you off.
Yes, it does piss you off.
It's okay.
It would.
It would.
It's not illegal.
people off.
And y'all don't wonder why?
Because that's what really
is pissing you off about the whole situation.
Even if a girl does that to a guy
as to why.
Do you really owe them something?
Yes.
I mean, I don't want to know.
But at this age, it's just like, what?
I might want to improve.
It could be, okay, then if it's mutual,
y'all ghost each other.
Like, we just don't talk no more.
That's cool.
So it's cool.
So it's cool if it's a mutual ghost.
No, I need to know why.
Yeah, why don't know.
You got worried about the other person feeling.
Oh, my God.
Why?
That's why I say you don't ghost
I know you ain't talking
Listen
If I know for a real long time
I know you ain't talking about
Goet nobody
That's what I do
Oh okay
You ghosts
If I know you for a long time
I want to go ahead
Because I don't want to see you cry
That's cats
That's worse
If you know somebody for a long time
And then ghost them that's different
You don't want to see them cry
So that's when you ghost them
If you know somebody for a short period of time
You don't care
I've seen wax ghost girlfriends
Girls
That's different
That's not even ghosting
That's like
Women he told me he likes
Women, he's introduced me to.
That's weird.
That's not ghostly.
That's not ghosting.
That's something different.
Savage.
That's a bad behavior.
Yeah, bitchy-ass, nigger.
No, I agree.
I agree.
Should I go into detail?
Yes.
Should I go into detail?
No.
Tell us, Sholomey.
And the name of Jesus.
No.
What happened?
Shalman.
He's got nothing to do it.
I know a woman that he was really into.
He introduced me to her.
He introduced my wife to it.
I'm like,
oh man, you know what I'm saying?
It's a nice woman for you, yada, yada, yada.
All of a sudden, y'all had to stop fucking with her.
You had to stop talking to her because I don't want her to her feelings.
I'm like, so you just stopped talking to her?
I did that a lot, though.
Listen, let me tell you how much she didn't know.
Popping up on his ass.
Whoa.
Popping up.
Whoa.
Popping up on his ass.
Like, you just still go stop talking to me?
I don't know.
This guy goes crazy all the time.
She wasn't black.
No wax never gets into an intimate relationship with a black woman
So that did
That was bad
Damn wax
Look, I'm about to get a
That's coffee
I don't get a real ass off air
About that shit
I got an opinion about that
But that was bad
That was bad though
I told them that was fucked up
Don't do that to people man
No
That's not what happened
What happened?
What happened was
Tell them what happened
It's old
he liked her
no he just she just goes to it because she didn't want her to feelings
that's what he told me
I don't like her nobody feelings
and I got into something that I just was not supposed to get into
and when I realized I looked up and realized like
what the fuck is going on
and I was so who's the ultimate enemy to Puerto Ricans
the ultimate enemy to Puerto Ricans
yes who's that not enemy enemy
but like they got like a rivalry
diabetes
man shut
Oh my god
That's black people
That's black people
That's Puerto Rican
You don't eat a lot of rice
They're telling you
It does start with a D though
It does start with a deep
Yes
He had himself a Dominican
Whacked out of Civil War
Yes
Yes
And I told him that was so
Fubbed up
I said yo you just be playing
I'll be like, no, but I'd be like, yo, he got to play.
He always got to play the game filthy filthy.
Turning women in the hose.
But why?
That's what he'd be doing.
He's turning women in a house, man.
Like, why you got to play the game so filthy?
Huge boy.
What's up?
I'm going to tell you how something, man.
Charlemagne would throw out of all this whole fucking show.
What you mean?
But nobody's dunking in.
What are you mean, man?
I was swatting this shit every time he said.
That shit the fuck out of it.
I'm like, keep throwing
those shit.
I'm not listening.
Listen,
all I'm saying,
that was fucked up.
Nope.
That was a bad,
that was a terrible.
That was the worst ghost I ever seen.
I'm gonna tell you a while ago,
I apologize to everybody.
I'm sorry for everything I would did.
I'm saying?
And sometimes you've got to leave.
You just don't want to hurt nobody feelings.
But you ended up hurting her feelings anyway.
You're right,
but,
okay.
No accountability.
Right.
That's what I was talking about.
No accountability.
It's either stand there and watch or cry or.
Dump her and be all on Instagram.
And don't see her cry.
Let her cry by herself.
And pop up with a new bitch.
Right.
I don't know how we got here.
You have women crying in the mirror, man.
Is it me?
Is it me?
Yes, man.
And a lot of the body.
That's not you.
That's what I'm not in.
That's what I'm saying.
It's these men.
I'm not going to say it's my brother now.
It's just these men.
I was a piece of shit and I apologize.
We all were.
Yeah, yeah.
I apologize.
Jesus Christ,
you know.
See, that's why Ghosting is back.
That's all that.
That's the moral.
That's the moral.
We had a whole race war.
He talked about ghosting.
The moral of the story,
ghosting is horrible.
Okay.
Don't do it.
All right,
we still doing shit
you won't care about next week.
Did you see?
Now, this was,
I thought this was interesting.
Did you see 50 and,
and I liked how 50 handled it.
Diddy was spotted out
with 50's baby mama.
Yeah.
I can see that.
Yeah.
The industry is very,
like, it's like an ancestral place.
You know what I'm saying?
I don't even know why Diddy would
want that. You know what I'm saying? She's a beautiful woman
but I, like, that's, to me
it's like, don't, well, you know that's 50 baby
mama. Why would you want to hire that? Maybe that's
why. It's trouble. Nah, that's trouble,
bro.
Maybe that's why. Maybe you want a little excitement.
All right, well, that's what you're going to get.
Yeah. We got the kids involved.
Yeah. Men just want, men
like that. And I feel like that's,
that is in the, you know, an industry,
the entertainment industry. They want to, the same women.
Yeah, like they. You're going to get exactly what you
want. It's territory. You take a dog to a
new apartment, he's going to piss on it.
Right? You want to mark some territory.
So this is what they're doing.
It's more about how he feels about the man than how he feels about the woman.
He's supposed to give respect.
He's definitely fucking with 50 with that.
Yeah, that's all that is.
That's, yes.
And he's holds for everybody. So there's that part.
I just discern things you, I wouldn't do that to one of my boys.
Yeah.
You know what I'm saying?
But they're not boys.
They're enemies.
Clearly.
You know what I mean?
And she is super savage.
I ain't mad to her.
Me neither.
I'm not mad at her.
Me either.
I'm not mad at her.
I just think it's a...
They ain't friends.
Yes.
Right.
But I agree it's a respect thing.
Like, it's just...
That's respect right there.
You shake the man hands like that.
He ain't pounded?
You can't respect right.
That's a long time.
That was 20 years ago.
Hey, it don't matter.
There's certain things I just don't think you should do.
I know that the industry is incestuous, but come on, man.
So what 50 he had to say about it?
He was big about it, right?
He just said he don't care.
Yeah.
He's like, we fight over business, not women.
So do whatever you want
There's certain things you don't do
It's a respect thing man
You know what I'm saying
Like it's a respect thing
Like you at least got a call to dude
And let them give him a heads up
Can she be with somebody other than Diddy though
God damn
What's wrong with Diddy?
Next
I ain't touching it no more
Okay
But Shala what you think
When Jay Z did that to Nas's baby mom
he did that
it was he been spiteful
yeah was beef
yeah
and by the way
nobody knew that
right
you know what I'm saying
that was something
that happened
and then when he
no social media
yes
and then when he needed
to use it against
he did
or like
Biggie and Pock and Faye
same thing
he used it against him
exactly
Faith said she didn't
fuck Puck
and I believe her
yeah me too
I believe
yeah
me too
it's easy
that's a hundred
thousand years ago, she could say, yeah, I fucked her, man.
I want to know what that dick was like.
Me too.
Yes, prayers up for Black Rob.
I do want to say prayers up for Black Rob.
You know what I mean?
Because, you know, I don't, and that is a good conversation, too, because I see people
mad at Diddy for this.
What is Diddy's supposed to do in this situation?
I smash them by your mom.
Because at the end of the day, it's business, right?
After you and a person's business is done with each other and y'all haven't
done business in years,
am I supposed to always
show up for this individual?
It's not like we're friends
or family or anything like that.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, what do you want people to do
after a business relationship
has dissolved?
I'll give you an example.
Mark Cuban,
the owner of the Dallas Mavericks,
for a brief part of his career,
had a player that was on his team
named Delante West.
Very true.
Delante West is battling mental illness and drug use and was homeless.
That's right.
And Mark Cuban scooped him up, put him in a rehab center, is now, I think employing him.
I think he's actually part of the team.
He didn't have to do that.
That's my point, though.
I'm glad he did it.
And I salute Mark Cuban for doing that.
But he's not obligated.
No, no, did he's not obligated?
He's not obligated to do it.
But it is a cool thing to do for someone who needs something,
especially somebody that you've made money with.
And Diddy probably made way more money off of Black Rob
than Mark Cuban made off of Delante West.
Listen, I agree.
But once again, I don't think Did he's obligated to do that.
So what is he doing for him?
So who, did he?
Nothing that we know of.
Black Rob was on Bad Boy, right?
Yes.
I thought they were a family.
What's his illness?
Are they not a fan?
But see, Tammy brings up a good point.
I'm sorry.
What is the saying,
bad boy for...
Bad boy for the extent of the contract.
It's not bad boy for three years.
It's not bad boy for one in year.
It's bad boy for life.
And see, that's where the problems come.
The problems come with these record labels
because instead of just doing business,
they're all family.
You know what I'm saying?
When you know this ain't really your family,
this is just somebody that you're doing...
That's how you manipulate motherfuckers into doing shit
for less money.
Exactly.
Right.
Right.
Right.
We family.
We family.
We know that's his specialty.
That's true.
That's true.
But even, yeah, yeah.
All I'm saying is,
I'm saying it's completely,
it's, I think it's completely okay
to be critical of someone who has marketed it as a family
and then you see them actually not live in that life.
That,
that I agree with.
You know what I'm saying?
If you're saying that a person in his family,
you're saying this bad boy for life,
then you probably should show up for that person.
Right.
But in most situations,
especially when it comes to business,
that's not the case.
It's just,
Transactional.
100% I mean.
It's being a good human being.
I mean, look, there were other teams that Delante West played for.
Those owners didn't go help Delante West and nobody expected them to.
Mark Cuban did it and it was really cool that he did it.
Where's the family?
Respect to him.
Like, where are these people family on?
I mean, in most situations, well, in a situation like Delante West are black rob,
they probably was the first wealthy people in their family.
You know what I'm saying?
So now that they don't have it no more, who's going to be there for them?
What was he in the hospital for?
What's going on it?
They need the kidney.
Oh, man.
Yeah.
he'd say he needs a kidney.
Diddy got to cough that up, y'all?
What, a kidney?
Give a kidney.
I'm sure Diddy could find somebody who can do that?
Did he could put out a fucking post.
Give him a kidney, puff.
Give him a kidney puff.
Come on now.
Black market.
I'm sure he could get that.
Buy one right quick.
By the way, that's an Instagram post.
Seriously.
That's all did you guys do.
If Diddy or somebody posted about, you know, Black Robbeny to get, he'll get,
black robbery and he'll get flooded.
Yes, a bunch of kidneys.
With you're flooded with people that want to give up kidneys.
Kidneys.
So, help a big, um, black,
Rob, go give him a kidney one somebody.
Shit. All right. Shit you won't care about next
week. The game. The game said
maybe I'm old school, but my woman ain't paying
one damn bill. Not rent,
not mortgage, not a car note,
not nails, hair,
clothes, phone, our groceries.
If you're taking care of home,
cooking and fucking the shit out of me,
life on me,
period.
That's nice and traditional.
Just post a picture of your dick
looking big in the sweatpants,
bro, we don't want to hear this nonsense.
Right.
I'm going to show anyone they see the dick.
I'm saying it's like you're doing the same thing.
Like you're thirst trapping the girls.
All this is a thirst trap to girls, right?
I take care of you.
That's it.
Come on, bro.
Like, duh.
Wait, you're rich and you take care of the woman you're with?
Bravo, me.
That's all that I'm saying.
Holy shit.
Are you in the army and you fight for America?
Bravo.
Like, you could not be more obvious.
This is problematic for couples in the trenches together.
Right, who can't afford to do that.
Exactly.
So there's nothing wrong with splitting bills.
Yo, this is some Derek Jackson shit.
Okay.
All men should aspire to one day take care of their families.
That's it.
That's all we want you to do is aspire.
We want you to be working towards that.
But if you don't mind helping if he needs.
Absolutely.
That's how it's supposed to be.
Women are supposed to be to help me.
You respect her more anyway.
But if he.
got it. Y'all expect him to do
with the game of thing. Right. Absolutely.
But we do. Like, no man goes, no man is waking up that
morning and going like, I sure hope I don't have to pay for
anything for my girl today.
It's the stupidest post I've ever seen. Like, every man
wants to be able to provide for their girl. Every man wants
to be able to take care of their girl. That's not true.
That's not true. If they got it, they do. But if they don't got it,
they can't. Right. Well, then mentally they want to be there, but then
they project their issues on to you. Like, I can't do it.
today.
Because they're insecure.
Exactly.
So that's what the term gold digger came from.
It's just from some dude who ain't have to rent money.
He spent it on motherfucking, I don't know, weed in studio time instead.
So now I'm a gold digger because I got requirements.
And I'm asking something of you.
Why can't this flip then?
Because y'all, y'all doing well, right?
Why can't y'all take care of the man?
That's not how it goes.
What you mean?
Yes.
Why can't you all take care of the man?
What are you doing?
Men feel so insecure when a woman can.
take care of that.
Like, I'm not doing with you.
It all depends on who it is.
A lot of men are emasculated by that.
Bull shit.
I don't know what that mean.
Bull shit.
I have no problem letting the woman take care of me.
But she got it all day long.
I have no, I would have no problem with it.
The fuck I need to pay a bill for you.
You got it, got it.
Exactly.
That's my question.
Like, how do you look?
How do you hold your man at night?
Well, see, that's what it is.
Y'all don't respect men.
We're a big spoon.
Wow.
But that's what it is.
Y'all don't respect men who can't be honest with you.
I'll be honest with you.
respect men who can.
Ladies, I'll be honest with you, you're sounding a little broke.
Shate.
What do you think about?
How do you sound like that?
Sounded on a little bit broke right now.
If you had crazy money, all of a sudden, if you had crazy money, bills wouldn't be a big deal.
If you have crazy money, you just knock them out.
It's nothing.
It's a few hundred dollars.
Who cares?
Money isn't that big a deal when you got money.
I definitely would want a man who got money or more money.
Right.
You want a provider?
Yes.
But why does it have to be money
to the man provides?
Why a man can't provide
emotional support?
All of that.
You know what I'm saying?
Love.
Yeah, that too.
I ain't heard y'all talk about
none of that stuff this episode.
Respecting you to the fullest.
What?
What?
That's what a dick.
Love don't pay the bills.
Love do not pay the bills.
I'll make this.
I make this argument for women is
there's going to be,
if a woman wants to have a family with you,
there's going to be a time where she can't work.
Like she got to literally birth a kid and she got to raise the kid at least for a few months.
So there's going to be a section of that relationship.
And most women still go to work six months, six weeks later.
Absolutely.
They're back.
But there's a section for at least, let's say, bare minimum three months where a woman is not going to be able to work.
So she got to look at her man and go, yo, can you hold shit down for minimum three months?
And if she doesn't feel that way, I can totally understand why she's not secure being with that person.
Like, the reason I pay for all this shit is because I want my girl to know,
yo, it's good no matter what.
If you want to stay home with the kid, that's good too.
I think we put too much pressure on money, though, man.
I think we miss out on good people when we put everything on money.
You know how many times you probably didn't miss your blessing with men?
No, I have been with men in the trenches.
I have, you know, I got people doing well now because they were with me at some point.
Really?
Yes.
Okay.
Upgrade.
Yeah.
So if it's not financial.
It could be...
How does that make you feel?
But finances is the reasons why most relationships in.
Really?
Because, yeah, money.
It's not the love.
The love is there.
The money is not.
That's the problem.
So you would break up with a person
just because they ain't got no money
even if you love them to death and they love you?
No, no, I'm not saying that.
I'm just saying sometimes the finances
makes the relationship harder.
Tammy line. Tammy's a cancer.
Tammy loves love.
I do love love.
But money, if you're broke, you're not happy.
Most people aren't happy broke.
No, I know a lot of happy crackheads.
And they say together the long.
all these crackheads stay together the longest
I ain't never seen nobody
They don't want for shit though
They just want crap
They just want crap
That's miserable
That's love though
But why do y'all act like
Two broke people can't be happy
Like why do we equating money with happiness
Y'all know that shit's stressful
It's stressful
Like stop acting like
I see the broken
You don't have money for a long time
But if I'm saying
If you used to not having
That's when you used to really have fun
You broke
Yeah
All the nice stuff
No I'm not
No
I have better fun now
You got way more fun when you got money.
I mean to tell you all that lie.
I don't know.
You know, I'm trying to be relatable.
I don't know. Listen.
That's what you're talking about.
No, but listen, all the rich people I see breaking up all the time.
All the poor people, they stay together.
They try to work this thing out.
Because they don't got no choice.
Like, you got more money.
You have more option.
You need you.
I need you.
You need me.
Boom.
If I got a bunch of money, I don't need you.
I will say it's the best when you got money and you with the people you came up with.
Yes.
You know what I'm saying?
When you get to live that other life with your people that was in the trenches with you.
That's when this is, that's when we have fun.
We be having fun on the Miles.
You hear me?
You hear me?
You hear me?
Let's scroll it down, Taylor.
What else we got?
Who else we got?
Hold on.
You guys go.
I got to use the bathroom.
Yeah, rest in.
Shit, I got a P2, by the way.
Hold on.
Let's pause it then.
Listen, rest and peace to DMX.
Yes.
I was thinking about this other day.
Has there ever been a period where this many, like, icons were passing away?
It's it's
People gotta go though
People got to go
You gotta get the fuck up out of here
Now our peer age
But are we that old
The way we're watching people pass away
Yeah
NBA players are changing
Y'all that old
I'm not yeah
Y'all getting there
I think
I think
I think DMX is going to bring people
closer to God
Because I think we're at a point
In society
Where that's all we got
By the way it's
And I'm not saying that's all we got
Because that's really all we ever had
But he's going to bring people
back to what's really important.
The pandemic made everybody realize
what was really important last year, right?
Which is God, which is your family,
which is the essentials.
But watching a man that was that anointed,
right, who everywhere he went,
regardless of everything he was going through,
always give all glory to God.
I think the same way Nipsey,
God blessed the dead,
made people start thinking about the age-old
concept of, you know,
black entrepreneurship, black ownership,
you know,
the do for self model,
the way Kobe made people,
you know,
question their work ethic
and, you know,
embrace being a father of girls,
the girl dad thing.
I think X is going to
make people realize
multiple profits.
Yes.
X is going to make people realize
spirituality is all we got at the end.
And God is all we got at the end.
Why do you think that?
The only thing I've been doing is listening to his prayers over and go,
and his prayers is really,
really dope.
Off the don't.
A lot of them I ain't even know that he did that many.
Exactly.
I don't super hurt.
What do you say?
Shultz? Why do you think that?
What? For every reason, Wax just said? Because
if you notice all of the stuff that you see
online is him praying,
he would randomly just show up, be at
Waffle House and lead everybody in prayer,
or be at backstage at concerts
and lead everybody in prayer,
just praying for people on the street. So the things
you're seeing about him now is
that. You're seeing that part of his life, which
some people may have never noticed. That was
always the thing that stood out to X me.
Me too. I don't like some of them, but a lot of,
now he got a lot of dope prayers. Like, I'm seeing a bunch of
Everything online is going like this, so I enjoy that part.
Like this one woman, I saw this one woman post online how she randomly ran in the DMX at a hotel.
Oh, and she got her back with her father.
Got her back with her father because she couldn't forgive her father because I don't know if he was a drug addict.
It was something.
He had addiction problem.
Yeah, and X just had this whole long conversation with her about forgiveness and forgiving her dad and praying for her dad.
And she got a relationship with her father because of that.
Wow.
Like, he really was a prophet.
You know?
And once again, I keep telling people, if you did not recognize God in DMX,
it's because you're too busy looking for God in places where you believe God should be.
Absolutely.
And focusing on a negative, like, oh, he's on drugs, like, so what?
So what?
Everybody got trauma.
Everybody got addictions.
And vice is a drug.
Sex is definitely a drug.
Food is a drug.
Yes.
That's my fault.
What, food?
Yes.
Who's the drug?
Who are we eating after this?
God have mercy.
Rest and peace.
the DMX.
Shorts,
I loved your take on Chloe,
bro.
Oh,
thank you, man.
I did.
I thought that was
very well said.
Chloe,
uh,
what,
what was it?
She put out a tweet or it was something about,
what was it?
She,
she,
I guess accidentally,
or someone
on her team
accidentally posted an unfodoshopped image
and they were trying to wipe it
from the internet.
And when they try to wipe
some shit from the internet,
that shit is real because we use that picture
for the thumbnail,
the YouTube clip and then YouTube took that whole shit down.
Yeah.
So,
yeah,
they're not playing games.
But,
basically she said it's so hard keeping up with societal standards of body images,
so there's so much pressure to keep up with it.
And it was just like, dude, you and your fucking family created these unrealistic standards for women, dude.
You know, it's like you can't be the victim of the thing you create.
And I don't mind if you make blood money.
A lot of people make blood money.
But if you make blood money, you're not going to cry about how hard it is for you to make your blood money.
You know, if you choose to make your billions doing some fucked up shit, then shut your mouth and keep making your money.
But don't make me feel bad for you when you started this problem.
Yeah, I wish that maybe she will in the future.
It should be a deeper conversation, right?
Because, yeah, like those impossible beauty standards that you got to put 100 filters on and have surgery and all of this other stuff, that Kardashian family is responsible for a lot of that.
Oh, yeah.
You know what I mean?
But are they really, are they just another cog in the machine?
you know.
They had a big hog.
Yeah.
Because, you know,
Kylie went from zero to a hundred and didn't tell nobody nothing.
He's a different person.
You know what I'm saying?
You can't change your DNA though.
Yeah.
It's crazy because like, and I'm not saying that this is across like all cultures,
but like there are women that literally get their face change to look like Kardashians.
Like there's so many fake Kardashians out there.
Or their Instagram filter.
Yeah.
Actually want to look like their filters.
It's crazy.
So it's like.
they're dictating the beauty standards for the world in a lot of ways and they dictate the clothing standards for the world and when i posed that shit and i saw the reaction i realized that like women's relationship with the Kardashians is not what i thought it was like it's the same way as like people's relationship with royalty you know like people don't really like the king they don't like the queen they just like the cool shit the king and queen got but if something bad happens to the king or queen they're like bet finally that piece of shit got what they did
I'm never like that.
I'm not a hater.
I'm cool with people.
I like the Kardashians.
Do you, though?
For what?
I don't.
I like them because I feel like they make it okay for little white girls to date black guys.
Like, it's cool.
And that's okay?
But they're not really white, though.
I mean, they're white, but they're Armenian.
Yeah, but Kylie and her sister, they're white.
Oh, they're not Armenian?
I don't know.
They're dad, the Kardashians dad.
I think that there is growing resentment because,
they're an institution that dictates
the standards that women have to uphold, right?
So women are like, fuck, I don't want to shoot shit
into my lips and my cheeks and all this other stuff.
Fuck, I don't want to have to get ass implants.
Fuck, I don't want to have to buy all this expensive shit,
but this is what I got to do to keep up in the world.
So when they fall, if you notice,
anytime they stumble, the world rejoices.
Nobody's capping for them.
Nobody's going, but they're okay, but they're sweet.
They're nice people.
They're like, yeah, get them.
Get them.
Get them.
Blood in the water.
So they're right.
They definitely like the beauty staff.
though because look at what they're enhancing
their lips and their ass. Who's that?
Black women. Exactly. Yep.
And here's the thing. If they was to have that
conversation, people might respect them more.
Like if they were to tell people, they're not.
This is what I did. This is how we did it.
Yada yada. If they did that, I think people would
respect it. Did you imagine that?
I would like for them to do that.
They're not going to do that. No, they're not going to do that. Because truth be
told, you probably want this unedited
a picture down because you don't want to have to answer no
question about the surgery. Yes.
You know what I'm saying? Because now
we see this under the picture like, oh, she did get this done.
She did get that done.
Like, eh, yeah.
But I agree.
I do think that they created this unattainable standard of beauty that is just, I feel
sorry for women.
Y'all got too much pressure, man.
It is.
It is a lot of pressure.
And I feel like we do it to ourselves.
Like, bitches be getting ass to sit on it all day long in a call center.
I don't understand.
What are you doing?
Your ass ain't even working.
And only your things going against each other anyway.
Like, we don't care.
Men smash anything.
No, we don't.
Why do you keep saying it?
Man, man, he's smashing anything.
Stop it.
No, we don't.
That girl with that flat-ass can get no dick from nobody?
What girl with the flat-ass?
I'm just saying the girl, the girl who got to get her ass done.
She really don't have to do that.
She's going to get the same amount of dick.
It depends.
It depends.
Man.
He's going to smash her to her.
Or maybe her self-esteem would go out until you can't fuck at this point.
Right.
No, I've seen wax fuck some really ugly girls.
Nobody asks not about me.
Nobody asks not about me.
No, but she said self-esteem.
I was going to tell a story.
That's the picture?
Which one?
that's it right there
That's the reason
That is a hater
They need to be fucking fired
No
That's like equivalent
To your friend
Like posting a fucked up
picture y'all
Without confirming it with me
That's only a story
Because of how she looks now
That's it
Exactly
That's an old picture
That's an old picture
That's some people's dream body
You're right
No for real
For real
For real
Why did they do that
because of how she looks now
and by the way if she had owned
that somebody on her team did that though
you think so guys guys guys guys
think about this
they are
selling products
to people
based on a false reality
of what they look like
yeah the lip
the Kylie got the lip kit stuff
but you had your lips done
and not only have your lip thumbs
you're using Photoshop to manipulate
the way you work so it's false advertising
on even the products.
Like the whole thing is a charade.
It's all fake.
So it's like...
Yeah, but all brands do that.
Not just the Kardashians.
Explain, Tammy.
I'm just saying that every brand is photoshopping everybody.
You know, it's not just the Kardashians doing it.
You wait till I come out with my line of great sweatpants.
Uh-uh.
You're going to put some dicks in it?
That's right.
That's right.
It's going to have the print already in it.
You know what I'm saying?
Men have not cashed in on this the way we need to.
You know what I'm saying?
We can do the same exact thing.
Damn catfish dick.
Yeah.
That's it.
Y'all do it all the time
with your high-wasted jeans
and your apple-bottom jeans
and all that stuff like that.
Watch you're going to come out
with the great sweatpants
with the friend already in them.
That's got enough dick.
You know what?
That's true.
We will.
That's not going to be the ass.
That's not enough dick.
That's not enough dick.
Make it enough.
Listen, Chloe did this to herself.
If she was honest,
if she was honest,
that old picture would,
didn't even phase her.
She was honest, that old picture would have no impact on her whatsoever.
It'd be like whatever.
Yeah, that's, she mad at what she used to look like.
That's it.
That's it.
But you don't think those women feel pressure to be beautiful like everybody else?
Who gives a fuck?
But they did that.
Why not?
They still get fucked.
We could have loved them for their personality.
Listen, it's plenty of reality shows that ain't sexy that do well.
You know what I'm saying?
We watch.
That's a big women probably feel more pressure than anybody else.
There's a show about fat people we watch.
It's just about fat people.
600 pound life.
People watch it.
By the way, I never cared about the Kardashians' beauty.
You know what it got me about the Kardashians?
Their richness.
Yeah.
You know what I'm saying?
It was like how white people feel when they watch good times probably.
You know what I mean?
Like I was watching the Kardashians.
Like, damn, they live such a rich life.
They don't even realize that that's a real world going on.
Like they had their own ecosystem.
That's what I cared about.
I thought the sex tape.
What?
Let's do some asking idiots.
Hoan healed them.
the whole fucking fabric right
how in Devin he healed them
and by the way people like to give that sex tape credit
nah bro plenty people got sex tapes
they got business stocks they definitely got somebody
in that family got some business smart
the mama's the mama yeah
and I think Kim Kramkradassian too
yeah she's savvy
you got something smart to get that much
you got to you don't just become a billionaire
just because of no damn sex tape
no all right let's do some assuette
what you got for us girl
progression
what's uh you got some good ones Taylor
that's Jesus
asking me that's a good one I promise this ain't lucky says if you could ask Jesus one question what would it be
AJ?
Hmm
yeah damn
am I living a life that you see fit
Amen amy?
Yeah that's what I'm going to ask
Are you living a life that you see fit
Am I living life you want me to live?
What if you tell you I ain't give you that ass for you to get eaten then what you're going to say?
Okay Jesus I won't do it no more
I repent.
If Jesus told me not to get my ass, it's over.
Yeah.
You got to say.
You gave us choice.
Hold on.
Hold on.
But Jesus told you not to have sex outside of marriage.
Ooh.
Why you do that?
Also, Jesus told you not to covet thy neighbor's husband or wife and you'd be letting you.
But he didn't say none about that bitch around the corner.
And he told y'all to stop eating pork.
Annie told y'all no shellfish.
So you answer the question then, Shultz.
What?
Answer the question.
What was the question?
No, if you could ask you asked it.
If Jesus told me to stop being asked, would I stop?
No.
If you could ask Jesus one question, what would it be?
Oh, if I could ask Jesus one question, what would it be?
Yes.
Were you fron when you were carrying the cross to go get hung on it because you know you're the son of God?
you know you're just going to heaven anyway.
Like, were you, like, were you, like, faking tears
and where you were being like, ah, that hurts.
Like, but you know it doesn't hurt because you're God.
Like, you know what I mean?
And like, he was a man.
He was a son of God.
Yeah, but still he got magical powers.
Like, did he ever think about, like, turning that cross into, like, a pillow?
Did he just give niggas glasses?
I mean, he could see or did he just give me glasses.
He could walk on water.
What else?
He was surfing.
We don't know.
He feed a bunch of people.
He fed a bunch of people.
He fed a bunch of people with, like, two loaves of bread and two.
two fish or something like that.
What was it?
Yeah.
Two fish, two bread,
green eggs and ham?
What was the shit?
Yeah, red fish, blue fish.
It was redfish, blue fish.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And then some green eggs and ham.
It was no green eggs.
By the way, Jesus ain't coming back.
I want y'all to know that.
Whoa.
No, he's over.
It's other prophets that on came and went.
Yeah.
Jesus ain't fucking with earth no more.
God ain't even fucking with earth no more.
No.
Nah, we got about 100 more years.
There's still a lot of goodness out here.
It is.
That's about it.
It is.
I'm gonna be around until about 92.
That's all.
And then we're out.
You know what I'm telling you.
It's only going to get worse.
We're going to be old friends.
I'm going to be optimistic.
Chuck here.
I'm being.
I'm just being realistic.
I'm being realistic.
What else we got, Taylor, gang?
Where do you guys think you'd be if y'all never met each other?
Wow.
Where would Charlemagne and I'd be if we never met each other?
I'd be significantly poorer.
All of us.
I would have less joy.
Oh.
I mean, but I can't say that.
Like, I mean, me and Andrew get money together.
So, Brion Nid has bought a significant amount of income to both of our lives.
But I would have, I would have less joy because Andrew is, Andrew's more retarded than y'all know.
And I'm using that politically incorrect word because there's really no other way to describe it.
Him and Duval are absolutely the two most insane.
I mean, wax too, but wax ain't no comedian.
And these motherfuckers be trying shit out on me that I know that I haven't even heard them use on stage yet.
But the shit that Davey is really stupid.
But it makes sense, though.
No, it does, it does, it does, it does make sense.
It really does make sense.
That's the problem.
Everybody, I'm not, I mean, everybody here on this microphone right now,
I'm absolutely positively happy that I met.
I feel like we all were.
100%.
100%.
We all were soul tribe.
Yes.
In another life.
Actual family.
Actual family in another life.
Blood makes you related, but family.
What are you?
Huh?
I'm West African.
I'm sorry, I said West Columbia.
You're West Columbia.
You're not Guichi.
I'm Gucci, too.
I'm 97% West Africa.
Yeah, me too.
I'm 100% Gichi.
You ain't Gichi has got to be Africa or something, right?
No, it does not happen.
It's anybody from Africa, man.
I bet you, I guarantee you.
You did a DNA test yet?
I'm O'Gichi Indian.
No, you do that?
If you're around the area?
I'm O'Gichi Indian.
Oh, wow.
Because even when Ashley and Tandand
When Ashley told me her and Tammy was cool, I was like, that'd make too much sense.
You know what I'm saying?
Lacks.
It's just like, it's all the same energy.
It's all the same spirit.
When Tammy was chasing you, um, did she seem more of a long distance runner or short
distance speed?
No, it was some long distance speed.
You might be East African, Tammy.
It might be something from like New Yorkia, Kenya, something like that.
No, it was definitely long distance speed.
I definitely thought she's going to give up.
But listen, she had reinforcements.
She could have chills for a while.
I would just...
It was like five of us chasing him.
It was five of y'all?
Yeah, it was like me.
It was like five of us.
And as Charlemagne.
And Ashraud.
He was running the truck around.
I'm trying to catch the fucking trucks.
Yeah, he was like drive up a little bit,
waxing him gets to the car,
and then he drive up a little bit more.
Man, no, some good time, man.
No, that shit was fun, man.
There was good times.
It wasn't fun at the time.
Yes, it was.
Gotta go to the fucking roll with you.
And I find how many years later he called her up there?
I'm thinking who's that way.
I don't remember that.
That part I don't remember.
I don't remember calling Tammy.
I believe Tammy.
She didn't lie.
No, man.
I'm telling you Tammy was behind the bar.
That was a dude.
That was not.
That's amazing.
I don't believe it.
I don't believe it so much and then trying to convince you of what you were doing.
Yes.
Like she lost when she was working and she wasn't.
But he said who you were working.
And he called.
We all of y'all met at Benedict?
Yeah.
Yeah.
All classes.
Interesting.
I met Ashley when I used to do radio at Hot 989 in Charleston.
And we had a-
No, that was Hot 989.
Was it?
Yeah.
Yeah.
And we did a, we had a promo called Crush the Haters and the Nause Navigator.
And that's when Nause had hate.
me now out and we took a navigator
to the House of Blues
in Myrtle Beach to go watch Nause before him.
Yep.
That's how I met Ashley. And I met Tammy
I was doing
a remote somewhere and Tammy came
to the remote. It was Big Tease
barbecue right outside of the barbecue.
Big T's goddamn barbecue.
Yeah. Jesus Christ, man.
I know. I really does fly.
I remember both of them situations
vividly as a motherfucker. But you can't
remember the thing about the
How you met?
I don't know.
I know you.
I thought maybe you might have known so-and-so first.
And then you just...
Next, things we won't care about next week.
Through a woman.
Through another woman.
Yeah, it was her.
Things we don't care about next week.
It was her.
It was her.
Because I remember you telling me that Wax was messing with her.
I was like, yeah, Wax in love with her.
This nika is so crazy.
What?
Things you don't care about next month.
Tomorrow.
Tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow.
Okay, this is the last one.
Big MF, Mike.
Do y'all think everyone has a purpose
and do you think everyone's purpose
has a positive impact?
No.
Everybody does have a purpose
and everybody's purpose is not always positive.
At least you'll learn about it.
There's things that happen
that could possibly change the world
and that person was supposed to do that.
It could be a negative.
You think someone's life's purpose
is negative?
No, I think they don't align with their purpose
and that's why they're doing negative things.
So everybody, I don't think God puts anybody here to just be nying.
You got to have the positives and the negative.
I think there was some years God was just trying some shit, man.
And he was just making anybody.
You know what I'm saying?
Well, he did a good job with me.
I can't read, but I'd be all right the rest of the shit.
I really thought you can't read for a long time.
You'll be faking.
I really.
Yeah, he had me too.
In those social media, I was like, oh, okay, wax can't read and shit.
Like, niggas messager back.
I wasn't sure
He texts me back
That me right this shit
Does everybody have a purpose
I think so
Yeah me too
But is it always positive though
Everybody's purpose
Is it always positive?
But at least even when you learn off of it
Is it their purpose if it's not positive?
Yeah I don't yeah exactly
I don't think that's your purpose
If you purposely doing negative things to people
But then also too
Some people don't know they fucked up you know
Yeah it's normal for them
I actually will give a little pushback on that.
Okay.
A serial killer's purpose is to kill as many people as they can, but that's negative.
Yeah, but what if they have a dis...
It's negative in our world, but just think about the animal kingdom.
Humans are just like, you know...
Yeah, we create this morality on top of things.
Exactly.
So if you take away laws and religion, we just sophisticated animals.
But to that serial killer, that's normal, too, though.
That's what I think.
He's a predator.
But I hear what...
I hear what Tam is saying.
which is like, I think it's so easy to get caught up in a negative, quote unquote, purpose,
just because negative shit is so much easier to do.
Like, doing drugs is not your purpose, but it can be the driving force of every day of your life.
But that's not your purpose.
I don't think God puts you here to do drugs.
You just took the easier way out.
Or be a serial killer.
I don't think anybody was put here to be a serious killer.
I don't know, though.
Because that crack kid who got me to go to college, if he wasn't a crack kid, I probably wouldn't listen to him.
They probably may have been a crack kid.
But I don't think that was his purpose.
I think he made poor choices.
I think destiny's not a matter of chance.
It's a matter of choice.
Yeah.
I think people just make poor choices sometime and it leads them down the path.
But I don't think that's their purpose.
But he had the numbers going to meet the crack head that day.
Because, you know, God got everything lined up with everything his timing.
So I was going to meet that person at that day.
And I feel like a lot of times people say, oh, it's your time.
If that's the day to die, that person was aligned to kill you.
To kill you, right.
So his purpose was to hit your ass up.
You think life is scripted.
that way?
No, I don't think it is.
It's impossible.
We are, everybody in this room, we are all our own judges and executioners.
If I feel like I want you up out of here right now, I can do something.
You can do something.
You can do you fart.
I can get the fuck out of it.
I can get you up out of here.
The judicial system.
Yeah, bless.
That's the Bible.
He hit me.
That's God.
I had a convo that I think I'll put out in a couple weeks with the ayahuasca shaman.
You know the drug guy.
ayahuasca. I can't wait to do it.
He was the medicine.
He would refer to it as a medicine.
What he did is he spoke about it. He said,
ayahuasca brings you to
your purpose.
And I think a lot of people
end up doing the drug because they're in a kind of
desperate place in their lives where they are trying to seek that
and trying to find that. And who knows
maybe this experience does bring you close to it,
maybe it doesn't. I'm not necessarily advocating for it.
But that's what he was saying. Not only
did it help him find his purpose, that a lot
of other people that help
help them find their purpose.
And he kind of defined purpose
as the thing that you want to do
every single day
and you're not
trying to do it.
I'm going to butcher this.
But the thing that you want to do
every single day and you are grateful
that you have the opportunity
to do it.
Okay.
Well, with that said,
I know people who have done
ayahuasca,
whatever the shit is probably
pronounce it.
And they don't do,
they don't want to do nothing.
Like they,
literally their existence is just like
vibing every day. They're not
bums by any means. Yeah, yeah. But they're not
working. They don't, you know what I mean? Like, they're just
living. Now, mind you, they were rich before.
Yeah, right? They just bummed plug from the
Matrix. Exactly. And they were, I want to be that.
Yes. They were around. Their purpose literally
is going around finding more of what the
meaning to life is. Because they said they saw something
when they was on the Iowazca. They showed them
life in a different way. So now they just
they actually just live, which is a beautiful.
way to live. I would love to live that way on an island.
I mean, look at Duval, right? Like, Duval is
straddling both worlds. Like, Duval will go on tour, he'll go perform,
he'll go work, right? The essence of rich broke is
I'm broke, so I got to keep on working, but I'm also rich because I make
a lot of money when I work. But when he's not working, he's on an island,
just chilling and enjoying nature, enjoying the stars, enjoying the water.
He doesn't need much to keep him happy. What?
As Sharon lived that same life, bro.
There you go. It's freedom.
Rich is freedom.
That's right.
Ed Sharon or drop an album and he'll tour all year long and then disappear for two, three.
There you go.
That's what he's doing now.
And just be living.
Just be living his life, which I think is a great existence.
Great existence.
All right.
Is that all guys and gals?
A lot of people don't have that luxury to just disappear for.
That's true.
That's true.
I did a candy bar.
It was like a psychedelic.
Something.
It has shrooms in it.
Yeah.
And the first thing I thought was.
Are people like billionaires?
Are they more like religious than just regular people?
I mean, are regular people more religious?
Of course.
Of course.
Because the money then becomes a lot of money.
Of course.
Because the money then becomes the God.
You know what I'm saying?
People with less resources tend to be more.
Reliable.
More, no, more religious.
No, they are more like more Christians.
Exactly.
The worst.
That's the first thought I had.
The worst your life is.
The more you value what's after life.
I don't know, bro.
I need my paradise now.
Yeah, exactly.
I'm always searching for, like, the higher meaning of things.
Like, I want to know the real purpose.
Like, I believe in God.
And just chill and exist and be present.
That's what I'm into.
I'm always still want to be.
Doesn't the Bible say something like the rich man will enter heaven when the camel passes through the needle, the eye of a needle or something like that?
Yeah, because you've got to give away.
earthly possessions, right?
You couldn't be storing that wealth.
You should be sharing it with one another.
That's going to happen anyway.
Yeah, it is.
Whether you like it or not,
your shit ain't going to come with you
to the afterlife.
No.
Now, I'm going to tell you something.
What if, though?
What if that's some bullshit?
We all know.
What if you give away all your money
and then you get some whales?
And then you're like,
who the hell told you to give all your shit away?
Well, the Egyptians tried that and it's same here.
We take debt.
It costs $10 million to get in here.
I'm just saying.
What is it?
Damn.
You gave all your shit out.
All these wills is fucked up.
They want their money back.
It's amazing how we know so much about a place
none of us have ever been.
Now you're going to be a gin pop with the regular people.
Exactly.
You're dumb ass.
You got to build that wealth all over again.
Somebody bawling out with your money.
And then what if they give you peaks
into the life you used to live?
Wow.
You didn't give away all your money.
You know what I'm saying?
Some woman you didn't give you
money too out here just popping that pussy
and some other dude you're about.
Oh, yeah, yeah.
Probably smashing your boy.
Damn.
Damn.
What some ditty shit.
You don't see that movie soul?
Yes.
Yes.
Yeah.
I did.
That was good.
I did.
It was good.
It was good.
All right.
Make sure y'all listen to the We Talk Back podcast
on the Black Effect Iheart Radio
podcast network with A.J.
And Tam Bam.
That's right.
Okay.
The Carolina Zone.
Stop Carolina Zone.
Yeah.
And make sure you listen to bully
in the beast with Wax and L'Oreal.
Yep.
And make sure you listen to Flagrant 2
with Andrew and Akash and Mark
gagging on.
And Alex Media.
In Alex Media.
Do what?
Tammy, what?
Oh, if y'all want to hear
the true story of what happened with wax.
What story with wax?
Y'all tune into our next episode.
Let's go!
Tell me how what's the story?
That's how we create content, baby.
Yeah.
Tune in.
Content right there.
What's doing it, baby.
We're going to dedicate a whole episode to your ass, dog.
Yeah, we're going to clear the air.
Now leave it right there.
Leave it right there.
Leave it right there.
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