The Catechism in a Year (with Fr. Mike Schmitz) - Day 321: Offenses Against Truth (2024)
Episode Date: November 16, 2024What does it mean to live out the truth? This theme carries over as we continue our evaluation of the eighth commandment. We learn the Catechism’s teachings on ways we violate truth, degrees of grav...ity based on circumstances, and the duty of reparation. Fr. Mike discusses each offense and offers resonating examples to reflect on. Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 2475-2487. This episode has been found to be in conformity with the Catechism by the Institute on the Catechism, under the Subcommittee on the Catechism, USCCB. For the complete reading plan, visit ascensionpress.com/ciy Please note: The Catechism of the Catholic Church contains adult themes that may not be suitable for children - parental discretion is advised.
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Hi, my name is Father Mike Schmitz and you're listening to the Catechism in a Year podcast
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This is day 321, we're reading paragraphs 2475 to 2487.
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we're reading paragraph 2475 to 2487.
So yesterday we started talking about
what the truth is, right?
There's a subjective truth that's true for you
but not necessarily true for me.
There's also objective truth and truth.
Of course we defined it as truth is simply what is right?
So a statement is either true or false
to the degree that it conforms to reality and we're made for the truth
In fact our nature tends towards the truth because we have an intellect in our intellect is meant to grasp the truth
Therefore all human beings but especially Christians are called to live the truth and to bear witness to the truth
Okay, that was a very quick summary of yesterday today. We're looking at what are some offenses against truth
And so you have false witness, we have perjury,
we have things like rash judgment and detraction, calumny, some of those aspects.
Also, but even looking at things like boasting or bragging, you know,
we usually think immediately about lying as the offense against truth.
And that is we're talking about that today,
but all these other ways in which we just, what are the ways that
we are called to live the truth, bear witness to the truth, and what are some of the offenses
or some of the ways we can violate the call that we have to live the truth and bear witness
to it?
We're looking at those today.
So let's buckle in and pray.
Let's ask our heavenly father to be with us right now as he continues to guide us, as
he continues to guard us.
Father in heaven, in the name of your son, Jesus Christ, we thank
you and praise your name.
May you be honored and glorified.
May you be known by every human being.
The truth of what you are, the truth of who you are.
May you be known and may you be known in the depths of our hearts and the
depths of our intellect, Lord God.
And not only help us to know the truth of who you are, help us to live that truth. And our intellect, Lord God. And not only help us to know
the truth of who you are, help us to live that truth. And always, Lord God, we
ask you to help us to live in humility. And humility is nothing more than telling
the truth. The truth of who you are, the truth of who we are, and the truth of
reality. That was to walk in humility before you this day and every day. That
was to walk the truth this day and
every day. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen. In the name of the Father, and of the Son,
and of the Holy Spirit, Amen. Once again, it is day 321. These are paragraphs 2475 to
2487.
Offenses Against Truth Christ's disciples have put on the new man,
created after the likeness of God in true
righteousness and holiness.
By putting away falsehood, they are to put away all malice and all guile and insincerity
and envy and all slander.
False witness and perjury.
When it is made publicly, a statement contrary to the truth takes on a particular gravity.
In court, it becomes false
witness. When it is under oath, it is perjury. Acts such as these contribute to condemnation
of the innocent, exoneration of the guilty, or the increased punishment of the accused.
They gravely compromise the exercise of justice and the fairness of judicial decisions.
Respect for the reputation of persons forbids every attitude and word likely to cause them
unjust injury.
He becomes guilty of rash judgment, who even tacitly assumes as true, without sufficient
foundation, the moral fault of a neighbor.
Of detraction, who, without objectively valid reason, discloses another's faults and failings
to persons who did not know them,
of Calumni, who by remarks contrary to the truth harms the reputation of others and gives
occasion for false judgments concerning them.
To avoid rash judgment, everyone should be careful to interpret insofar as possible his
neighbor's thoughts, words, and deeds in a favorable way.
As St. Ignatius of Aeolus stated, every good Christian ought to be more ready to give a
favorable interpretation to another's statement than to condemn it.
But if he cannot do so, let him ask how the other understands it, and if the latter understands
it badly, let the former correct him with love.
If that does not suffice, let the Christian try all suitable ways to bring the other to
a correct interpretation so that he may be saved.
Detraction and calumny destroy the reputation and honor of one's neighbor.
Honor is the social witness given to human dignity, and everyone enjoys a natural right
to the honor of his name and reputation and to respect.
Thus, detraction and calumny offend against the virtues of justice and charity.
Every word or attitude is forbidden which by flattery, adulation, or complacence, encourages
and confirms another in malicious acts and perverse conduct.
Adulation is a grave fault if it makes one an accomplice in another's vices or grave
sins.
Neither the desire to be of service nor friendship justifies duplicitous speech.
Agilation is a venial sin when it only seeks to be agreeable, to avoid evil, to meet a need, or to obtain legitimate advantages.
Boasting or bragging is an offense against truth.
So is irony aimed at disparaging someone by maliciously caricaturing some aspect of his behavior.
A lie consists in speaking a falsehood with the
intention of deceiving. The Lord denounces lying as the work of the devil. As he states in John's
Gospel, You are of your father the devil. There is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks according
to his own nature, for he is a liar and the father of lies. Lying is the most direct offense against
the truth. To lie is to most direct offense against the truth.
To lie is to speak or act against the truth in order to lead someone into error.
By injuring man's relation to truth and to his neighbor, a lie offends against the fundamental
relation of man and of his word to the Lord.
The gravity of a lie is measured against the nature of the truth it deforms, the circumstances,
the intentions of the one who lies, and the
harm suffered by its victims.
If a lie in itself only constitutes a venial sin, it becomes mortal when it does grave
injury to the virtues of justice and charity.
By its very nature, lying is to be condemned.
It is a profanation of speech, whereas the purpose of speech is to communicate known
truth to others.
The deliberate intention of leading a neighbor into error by saying things contrary to the
truth constitutes a failure in justice and charity.
The culpability is greater when the intention of deceiving entails the risk of deadly consequences
for those who are led astray.
Since it violates the virtue of truthfulness, a lie does real violence to another.
It affects his ability to know, which
is a condition of every judgment and decision. It contains the seat of discord and all consequent
evils. Lying is destructive of society. It undermines trust among men and tears apart
the fabric of social relationships. Every offense committed against justice and truth
entails the duty of reparation, even if its author has been forgiven.
When it is impossible publicly to make reparation for a wrong, it must be made secretly.
If someone who has suffered harm cannot be directly compensated, he must be given moral
satisfaction in the name of charity.
This duty of reparation also concerns offenses against another's reputation.
This reparation, moral and sometimes immaterial,
must be evaluated in terms of the extent of the damage inflicted it obliges in conscience.
Right, there we have it, paragraphs 2475 to 2487. Just, I think this is fascinating. I
think that to look at all the ways we can offend truth, this is important for all of
us. Because there's some things like, oh yeah, yeah, of course, like at the end We're talking about lying like no no no I totally know that that's not good
But let's word all the ways that we can offend against truth. So let's kind of do a little quick review
Paragraph 2476 says false witness and perjury there
It can be grave grave sin when it comes to when made publicly a statement contrary to truth takes on a particular gravity in court
It's false witness when it's under oath it is perjury. And that is remarkable because the Church is saying that
there are real consequences to our speech. That our speech can even, in court here,
it can lead to the condemnation of the innocent, the exoneration of the guilty,
or the increased punishment of the accused. That also compromises the juridical process.
All of these things have consequences.
All of our sins have consequences.
They have eternal consequences, right?
They cut us off from the Lord
and they lead us to spiritual death,
but they also have temporal or earthly consequences.
And it's just, it's just so powerful
to be able to highlight this.
Now, the very next paragraph, 2477,
talks about respect for the reputation of persons. That we must have respect for the reputation of persons That we must have respect for the reputation of persons and what that does is forbids every attitude and word
Likely to cause them unjust injury and highlights three ways that we can be guilty of this
No, first is a rash judgment. What's rash judgment?
It means it even tacitly like even just kind of like oh, I kind of sort of without even thinking it through
I assume is true without sufficient foundation the moral fault of a neighbor. No one's proven this to me. I just
Assume it's true someone's fault. Second one is detraction
So rash judgment is it happens more or less, you know in my mind that I just kind of like yep
I see that person and this is what I think I assume their moral fault
Detraction is I don't have a an objectively valid reason
But I disclose another's faults and failings to someone who did not know them
So basically gossip is is one example
But it's a particular kind of gossip where I'm revealing the actual faults of another person to someone that didn't need to know them
So they're true, but I did not have a good reason for this and then calumny is
By remarks contrary to the truth,
I harm the reputation of others and give occasion for false judgments concerning them. So calumny is
the kind of gossip that's not true. So in this case, you look at this like this gossip, the
traction would be I'm telling something that's true about another person to someone who doesn't
need to know that calumny is it's not even true. And so to recognize I think this is just so powerful.
And now I look at one, I look at two things one is is all
Talking about another person gossip. Well, I remember in seminary talking about there. There were some Jewish documents
They were discussing that all speech about another is to be avoided
I can't remember what book all I know is that we had a teacher for a couple classes who was a local rabbi in
The Twin Cities and he taught some of these classes and he had pointed out that in some Jewish
tradition, maybe not all across the board, but one he was familiar with that he
that he related to us, he said that when it came to all speech in order to avoid
sinning against the eighth commandment, one did not even talk about another, even
in positive things, because they would say that to speak about another person at
all, even if it's positive
Opens the door for the possibility of there being detraction or of calumny, you know, and this happens to us a lot
Now I'm not saying this is the church rule. It's not in fact the rule here. We just we're talking about those
But you realize how this could be the case and this might be a rule for you
Or maybe it could be a guideline for you because we know this happens where like, oh Jill, Jill is the best, isn't she?
Oh yeah, Jill's wonderful.
She came over to the house and we really needed help
and she brought over a meal for the family.
It was so good about Jill.
And I actually, it's kind of funny though,
because when she dropped it off,
she kind of made a note like that she wanted us
to really, really, really thank her.
I'm like, yeah, no, I'm grateful for it, but I don't know.
She's kind of seemed kind of full of herself that she was doing such a nice
thing, right? So it started off talking about Jill and how great Jill is and she
did this nice thing. And then I insert this, you know, gossip.
I say something that I don't need to say about Jill. Does that make sense?
So sometimes when it comes to guarding our speech,
we even guard the beginnings of speech. Does that make sense? Hopefully it does.
I'm not saying you can't ever talk about someone else.
I'm just saying that it pays to be guarded.
Now, before we even speak, there's this thing,
rash judgment, and I love paragraph 2478
because there's this quote from St. Ignatius of Loyola,
the founder of the Jesuits,
and I remember coming across this years and years ago
and thinking, this is just brilliant.
It is so powerful. And I wonder how many lives, how many relationships, how many more people that
would still be in relation with each other if this is what we did. So paragraph 2478 says,
to avoid rash judgment, everyone should be careful to interpret in so far as possible
his neighbors' thoughts, words, and deeds in a favorable way.
You know, someone might say, well, that sounds really naive. That's what someone from a small town would say. Like, okay, maybe, but not from the big city. Well, I'm not from the big city.
And I also realize that a lot of people are strangers. And yet at the same time, there is
a call to accept the people who we are in relationship with at face value and also to not
only accept them at face value,
but to assume the best, to assume the best.
So here's this quote from St. Ignatius.
He says, every good Christian ought to be more ready
to give a favorable interpretation to another statement
than to condemn it.
But if he cannot do so,
let him ask how the other understands it.
Again, maybe he's like, no, there's no good way
to say what you just said. But what do you mean by that? Okay, good, and if the latter understands it. Again, maybe, he's like, no, there's no good way to say what you just said, but what do you mean by that?
Okay, good, and if the latter understands it badly,
like, no, I said the mean thing and I meant the mean thing,
okay, well, then let the former correct him with love.
And if that does not suffice,
let the Christian try all suitable ways
to bring the other to a correct interpretation
so that he may be saved.
So it's not being stupid, right?
It's not being naive.
It's not being innocent as doves
without also being as clever as serpents.
We need to do both. Detraction and calumny,
they destroy the reputation and honor of one's neighbor. And honor is a good thing.
It's the social witness given to human dignity.
And so that offends against the virtue of justice and charity.
Now if we think about what are some of the ways we give ourselves a pass on detraction and calumny?
Like what are some of the ways we give ourselves a pass
when it comes to assuming the worst about someone else
or pulling down someone else's reputation?
And I think a lot of times, it's when we don't know them.
It's someone who's in the public eye, right?
So whether that be a famous celebrity or actor,
actress, athlete, politician, we say, well, no, no,
that's the price.
That's the price of being in the public eye
that people will have an opinion about you
and they're gonna talk about your faults
and talk about your relationships that have failed
or all these kinds of things.
And we realized that, no,
unless it's my job to talk about this,
unless it's actually part of my responsibility
and part of my role to talk about these things, then I don't have
a responsibility to do that.
In fact, my responsibility is to not be involved in the detraction or the calumny of someone
else.
Now I remember talking about this with a, with a man who was, he was in a management
position, kind of a co-manager position with, with another person.
And he said it was really hard for him because he was trying to process, trying to understand,
okay, I'm meeting with this other manager,
we're joint managing, Michael and Jim were talking there.
And in this case, Michael's talking to Jim and saying,
okay, we have to talk about Phyllis.
Like, is there something wrong with Phyllis
because she's doing X, Y, and Z?
And here's Michael, the whole time he feels really badly,
he's like, are we gossiping about Phyllis?
Is that what's happening right now?
The reality of course is like,
no, that's actually your role. I mean, yes, if you're talking about Phyllis? Is that what's happening right now? The reality of course is like, no, that's actually your role.
I mean, yes, if you're talking about Phyllis's home life,
if you're talking about Phyllis's character faults,
they have nothing to do with her work,
then yes, that is gossip.
But if you're talking about Phyllis in a way that says,
okay, this is what we need.
Our job is to assess the productivity,
to assess the work of our employees,
the people that we're managing.
It's therefore we need to talk about them.
We also have to keep in mind,
we're using wise language and honest language.
And so keep that in mind.
So there are times when you might have to talk about someone.
You might have to even talk about someone's faults,
but that's very different than talking about
those other person's faults
to someone who does not need to know them.
Paragraph 2480, it says something just something just like wow this is remarkable because this is what
easily can happen. It says every word or attitude is forbidden by which flattery,
adulation or complacence encourages and confirms another in malicious acts and
perverse conduct. So adulation is a grave fault if it makes one an accomplice and
another's vices are grave sins. So if someone else is going to do a grave sin, grave crime, grave vice, and I praise
them for that, then I am now an accomplice in that grave sin.
And I love this next sentence is just like, wow, because it highlights the motivation.
And sometimes this is the motivation we find ourselves when it comes to flattery, or adulation,
or even complacence It says neither the desire to be of service nor friendship
Justifies duplicitous speech
Think about that. I just want to help I just want to help so here is the encouragement
I'm gonna give to this person or you know, hey, I'm a true friend and a true friend is gonna
You know, so I'm gonna support you no matter what you do
Now that the desire to be of service nor friendship justifies duplicitous speech.
It says adulation is a venial sin when it only seeks to be agreeable, to avoid evil,
to meet a need, or to obtain legitimate advantages.
But that adulation can still be a venial sin.
It seeks to be agreeable.
I mean, think about this.
When was the last time you thought, oh, being agreeable could be a sin.
But when it comes to someone else's acts of vice,
someone else's sins to be agreeable could be a sin
to meet a need or to obtain legitimate advantages.
I'm just going to praise this person. You know, someone who's a,
we know all the phrases Brown noser kiss up, suck up,
all those kinds of people that I'm just here to obtain the legitimate advantages.
Well, that is duplicitous, right?
That is manipulative of another person.
Paragraph 2481, boasting or bragging
is an offense against truth.
Now, one of those old-timey actors
who was also a cowboy kind of a person,
and I think he said something like,
it ain't bragging if you can do it.
And so there's a sense of how is boasting or how is bragging an
offense against truth well if we keep in mind it thinks something like this
boasting or bragging is not just saying that you can do something that is
impressive that's not boasting or bragging boasting or bragging would be
something along the lines of a violation of humility and humility remember we go
back to this humility is not saying aw shucks
I'm no good
Humility is not looking down on yourself
Humility is not thinking less of yourself. Humility is thinking of yourself less sure, but it really humility is living the truth
It's acknowledging the truth of reality. So someone who say here's I don't hear what the task is
The task is who can cut down this tree. This tree needs to get cut down
We need someone who's strong enough to cut down this tree.
I don't know. I'm just coming up with an example, right?
For someone to come up and say, I can cut down that tree and I could cut down that tree probably in the next 20 minutes.
That's not boasting. That's not bragging. That's simply speaking the truth.
Boasting or bragging would be not living the truth, but extolling or vaunting one's abilities beyond those abilities.
That makes sense?
Okay, next then it says,
so is irony aimed at disparaging someone
by maliciously caricaturing some aspect of his behavior?
Now irony as humor is,
I would say this is not what this is talking about.
Irony as humor is quite funny.
Now at the same time,
keep in mind that like irony as humor
oftentimes comes across as sarcasm
and sarcasm can be wounding, right? So can irony be wounding. Sarcasm itself, in fact, comes from
two Latin words, which mean rending flesh or tearing flesh, right? Sarx is flesh and that chasm,
making a chasm is rending the flesh. And so irony as sarcasm can come across in a way that is malicious,
the way that hurts another person.
Now, not all irony is like that.
Not all irony is hurtful.
Some irony is just comical.
Some irony is funny.
We're not talking about that kind.
We're talking about the irony aimed at disparaging someone
by maliciously caricaturing some aspect of their behavior.
Now think about this. How often does someone say something?
Let's say someone in the public eye,
but you also could say, here is an argument
or a discussion you had with someone you love
or someone you're related to.
And what we might be tempted to do
is take something that they said and put it out of context.
So here's one aspect, one thing that they're like,
you know, making a caricature, you know what a caricature is, obviously, you know,
you could walk by at the fair and there's someone who's drawing a picture of
this, this couple who's sitting in front of them and they're picking on one
aspect of their features and over-emphasizing it.
So someone has a slightly larger than normal nose in the caricature has this
giant nose, someone with a slightly larger smile has this giant smile, that kind of thing.
So the caricature that is meant to be malicious is taking some aspect of a
person's behavior, some aspect of a person's character and overemphasizing it
to the point where now it's no longer true.
That that's the key.
That's the key.
That's why we're looking at this in the context of the eighth commandment.
It's taking this one aspect that, okay, on its own might have some merit, might have
some, we need to pay attention to this, but overblowing it so much or caricaturing it
so much that it's no longer true.
So again, here's a celebrity, here's a politician, and the politician or celebrity says X.
And everyone's like, oh, dogpiling on them because I can't believe they said this thing
Well, what did that mean in the context of everything that they said?
Not just this one thing we have a tendency to do that
especially if they belong to the say the other political party or especially if that's a person that we we don't particularly like
This also happens in our relationships
As I said the people that we love how often have you been kind of backed against the wall
in some kind of argument or discussion
with someone you loved, and they say one thing
and you take that and overblow it?
That would be another example.
You're not hearing everything they're saying.
You're taking one thing they said and saying,
I'm not gonna let go of this,
and essentially you're maliciously caricaturing
some aspect of what they said or of their behavior.
Hopefully that makes sense.
Now, the last number of paragraphs have to do with lying
and that's the most direct defense against truth.
It says this in paragraph 2483,
to lie is to speak or act against the truth
in order to lead someone into error.
And that is a great definition of what it is to lie.
To speak or act against the truth
in order to lead someone into error.
Now, the gravity of a lie in paragraph 2484 says it's measured against a couple things. One is the
nature of the truth that deforms, the circumstances, the intentions of the one who lies, and the harm
suffered by its victims. So whether that lie is a venial sin or that lie could be a grave sin
is measured against the nature of the truth it deforms. So as an example,
if I am lying about something related to God, that's going to have a greater gravity to
it because I'm distorting the nature of the truth of God himself. Now the circumstances
and intentions also affect the gravity of this lie. So the intentions to look at that
and realize yet
There are times where here's a person who know I don't mean anything malicious by this
My intention here is I want to spare your feelings and so I'm not gonna tell you the truth about reality now again
It's still a lie
It's still a lie at the same time the gravity of that lie might be mitigated and the last one is the harm suffered by its victims
if there is a grave harm harm suffered by its victims if
There is a grave harm that suffered by the person
Who is the the topic of the lie or the one receiving the lie?
Then of course that increases in gravity now all of this it says by its very nature lying is to be condemned
And the deliberate intention of leading a neighbor into error by saying things contrary to the truth
constitutes a failure in justice and charity. Now, the big question that comes up
almost every time we talk about this is,
let's go back in time to World War II
and say you and your family are hiding Jews
in your basement and the Nazis come to your door
and they ask you, do you have any Jews
here so here's the question is lying and saying no in that moment is that a
violation of truth is that a sin is a Christian obligated to say okay I can't
tell lie yes they're in the basement what is a person to do right because you
have in this case you have you have two competing things, two competing goods.
One is the good of the truthful speech.
The other is the good of keeping
innocent human beings alive.
Now, I've heard this answered in a couple different ways,
and this would be, I'm not gonna answer it completely,
because they're actually, I've come across some places
that have an ongoing argument, ongoing debate,
when it comes to this in Catholics coming at this very question
from the perspective of wanting to know what is the right thing to do and still disagreeing.
Many agree that we're only bound to tell the truth to those who deserve the truth. In this case,
the Gestapo are not owed the truth and saying no, there are no Jews here wouldn't be an issue
because they're gonna do something evil with that knowledge. Others say that in this case saying no, there are no Jews here wouldn't be an issue because they're gonna do something evil with that knowledge.
Others say that in this case saying no,
there are no Jews here would be lying.
But since the Gestapo are not owed the truth,
other things could be said that are not lies,
which would hopefully satisfy the Gestapo
so that they move on without discovering the Jews
in the house.
And so if you're like, ah, I don't know if that still
doesn't resolve it in my mind or my heart, that's okay.
There's an ongoing debate about how do we understand this when we have these two competing goods the good of truth and the good of charity
It's it's a good question to ask. I think though and in many ways there is some merit when it comes to this question of I am only
obliged to tell the truth to those who deserve to know the truth
Deserve to hear the truth because those who deserve to know the truth, deserve to hear the truth. Because remember, as we said before,
we're always telling that line between honesty and discretion,
between truthfulness and discretion.
What is that line?
And we need to walk that.
We need to walk it every single day.
Now the last little note here is paragraph 2486 and 2487,
where it talks about the fact that there's consequences
to our lives.
There's consequences to our gossiping.
There's consequences to our speech. And it says in 2487,
every offense committed against justice and truth entails the duty of reparation, even if its author has been forgiven.
And so there's this reality that, okay, if I've lied, do I have a duty to tell the truth at some point?
And there are many people who have recognized this. I remember hearing a story of a man. He was driving drunk
years before this he and he hit someone and
Was hit and run he drove away at the person died
It plagued him it obviously
Weighed on him heavily. He got away with it. Essentially years later. He became a Christian and was moved by this exact teaching and
So after a lot of prayer after a lot. And so after a lot of prayer,
after a lot of discernment, after a lot of talking with his family, he went down and
turned himself in. And he said, this is the truth. And this family deserves to know, the
family of the victim, that I was the one who in the middle of the night, I was drunk. It
was my fault. I chose actions that led to the death of this family member.
And it could be that Christians are called to this. It could be that Christians are called to
live in this much radical honesty in the course of our lives, this much radical reparation.
And that's the big question that we have to be willing to wrestle with, which is,
okay, I know I'm forgiven. In Jesus Christ Jesus Christ, I'm forgiven in sacrament of reconciliation. I've been forgiven. Is there anything more that is required of
me? And there can be times when one must do what they can to make reparation for their
sins. And so this is the moment today where I'm like, okay, do I need to go back? Now,
will it do more damage than it will do help? And that's one of the questions that we need to also pray through.
We need to also discern.
Will it do more damage to tell the truth than it would to remain silent?
That is an important question that every one of us needs to continue also,
continue to discern.
Because there can be times when,
okay, I'm going to tell you the truth,
but it's not going to help you. In fact, it's going to hurt you, but it'll make me feel
better. In those cases, maybe, maybe not. And this is, this is my editorial comments.
So well, we're all going to keep discerning this. This is just simply editorial comments,
but it could be the case that I need to discern the whole situation. And if it's just to make
me feel better, then maybe it's best to let sleeping dogs lie.
In those cases, if it's going to make someone else's life worse, then maybe it's best to let
sleeping dogs lie. That's probably not every situation, but I think it's worth discerning
our own situation and say, okay, am I called to do what that man did and turn himself in
And say okay am I called to do what that man did and turn himself in?
So that a family can have healing they can know okay. This is the person who who took the life of our loved one
Or would it be another situation where it's like actually if I were to bring this to another person this truth to another person
It would do more harm than good It would hurt them in a way that they do not deserve to be hurt. And so in that case, I can discern to remain silent.
Either way, discernment is necessary, courage is necessary, humility is necessary,
walking and living the truth is necessary.
And so we pray for God's grace to help us do those things.
I'm praying for you.
Please pray for me.
My name is Father Mike.
I cannot wait to see you tomorrow.
God bless.