The Chris Voss Show - The Chris Voss Show Podcast – Money Locates You by Joan Ekobena and Paul N. Tembunde

Episode Date: April 30, 2025

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Starting point is 00:01:21 And today we have much of the usual same, but you know, we're just not a show that brings you stupid people that talk about their ass and don't know what they're talking about. We bring you smart people. Darn it. And sorry, we're not that kind of podcast that if that's what you're looking for. Anyway, he's the, he, we're going to be talking with, we're going to talk with, I've got two people here of different names and it's kind of throwing me here. We're going to be talking with Paul Tembande and we're going to be talking about their book that he shares with his wife. And it is called Money Locates You, out May 26, 2022 by his wife Joan Acobino. And we're going to get into it there. Welcome to the show. How are you, sir? Paul Tembande I'm doing very well, Chris. Thank you,
Starting point is 00:02:04 Chris. Thank you for having me on your show. It's an honor? I'm doing very well Chris. Thank you Chris Thank you for having me on your show It's an honor and I'm glad to be here and it's an honor to have you as well Paul Give us your dot-coms where you want people to find you on the interwebs I would say they can you know, they can check us out the premier destiny.com is our main Homepage for our company premier destiny.com or it's the easier one is ask John and Paul.com Ask John and Paul.com all spelled out. Yeah, so give us a overview What's inside this book money find you but it hasn't found my bank account yet. I Keep all these checks or something. I don't know what's going on
Starting point is 00:02:38 That's a good one Chris. No, Joan actually wrote that book and she dedicated me. I mean she I'm you know, I'm on there as a John actually wrote that book and she dedicated me. I mean, I'm on there as a dedication. John is the brains behind the book, Chris. I'm not going to take your credit. I was a small part of it, but she did it all. Essentially, it's based on biblical principles that help you attract money to yourself. And I think that it's a book that is written, was it was God inspired okay I mean I'm a person of faith Chris so John felt inspired by God to write this book and so the words in there I mean if you're reading you're gonna see a lot of biblical references in there Chris and I'll be sure to make sure John autographs a copy for you I'm getting off to have one yeah yeah so it was you know it's inspired by God it has and it has a lot of information and then how
Starting point is 00:03:25 to use biblical principles to attract wealth. Pete Slauson The proper application of certain laws, principles and practical steps to money manifestation, you learn how to position yourself physically, emotionally and spiritually to receive the abundance that is forever seeking to come to you and through you. Now I just need to get over to Bank of America. I'm just kidding. Because Chris, Jonah and I believe that the world is abundant. That's a good belief. The world is abundant. Because if you look at it, Chris, I mean,
Starting point is 00:03:56 when you plan a, you know, you plan a, you know, you know, say corn, you don't just get one, right? Yeah. Get heads of corn, right? I mean, you go fishing, you look at the seas, I mean, you don't see just one fish. You see this fish is all over get one, right? You get heads of coin, right? When you go fishing, you look at the seas, you don't see just one fish. You see this fish is all over the place, right? I mean, so, there's abundance in our universe, there's abundance in our world. So, we strongly believe that everyone has that potential to have an abundant life. And that's what we talk about. Pete Slauson The outlook of abundance over scarcity, you know, it segues through our society. And when, it seems like when a culture or people or individuals have an abundance mindset that there's plenty of wealth out there, there's,
Starting point is 00:04:36 and it's available to everybody, you know, there's people that struggle with, oh, I forget what the term is, but they feel like they're making, yeah, scarcity, yeah, the opposite of abundance. So there's people that out there, they operate in scarcity where, oh, there's not enough, you know, I must, you know, we must somehow, you know, make it so that I can excel because there's never enough. And, you know, usually in a society and people, there's plenty for everyone. So you can either have a go-getter mindset or a boo-hoo-I-can't-do-it mindset, which is kind of an excuse just to cop out really. 100%. Chris, you know, the thing is, is that I think a big part of it is that we don't know.
Starting point is 00:05:18 Ignorance is a big part of it. And ignorance, Chris, is not a bad thing. Matter of fact, I would say about seven, 80 years ago when I was, when I was running to the right, I got introduced to my first mentor, you know, he, he said it to me, he said, listen, what a lot of us, a lot of us, a lot of us are ignorant and ignorance is not knowing. Chris, I bet you there's some things you don't know about. Oh yeah. I mean, pretty much everything.
Starting point is 00:05:42 Same here. And I think the biggest problem Something you know Some folks feel like it's it's a put down. It's not What you know, we're ignorant about a lot of stuff what drives away ignorance knowledge and that that once we expose to our Potential we could be okay. What is enough how to bring it out? Then we'll off to the races. We can then be with that truck that abundance that is really ours. It's our birthright. It really is. I mean, that's our story. That's my story with John. Pete Slauson Yeah. Tell us about that story of you coming
Starting point is 00:06:19 to America and starting businesses and etc., etc. Tell us your… Chris Thank you, Chris. Thank you, Chris. I'd love and starting businesses and et cetera, et cetera. Tell us your... Oh yeah. Thank you, Chris. Thank you, Chris. I'd love to share with you. John and I are originally from Cameroon, West Africa, and we're high school sweethearts, so we've been there with you for a long time. Congratulations.
Starting point is 00:06:36 Thank you. Thank you. And after high school, I had a desire to come to America. I mean, I really, you know, you heard that movie, Coming to America? That was my movie. I really wanted to come here. Not as a person. I grew up in Cameroon, West Africa.
Starting point is 00:06:50 And I wanted to come to America. It was a dream of mine. I just, it was something about America that I just felt like if I came here, I would achieve it. That was me. So maybe you just really wanted an In-N-Out burger or something. That's right. That's right.
Starting point is 00:07:03 Only available on the west coast. And then just so I came here, and then Joan flew off to England, and she went to college there and I came here. And so when I came here, went to college and graduated with honors, and learned the college and everything. And once I got out of college, I wanted to look at something of what I could do. Graduate school was a good option, but it wasn't what I wanted at that time.
Starting point is 00:07:30 Because I saw friends who had graduated, started graduate school, and then would still do the same jobs they were doing when they were in undergrad. That's not fair. It doesn't make sense, right? It wouldn't add up for me. So I wanted to try my hand in entrepreneurial side of America because I believe that there was
Starting point is 00:07:47 something about capitalism to me. I just figured I had to be in control of something and just give it a shot. I got into Amway, Chris. That's kind of giving my age a little bit away, right? Hey, you and me, my dad used to take me to the Amway thing as a kid. Yeah, so I got into Amway, Chris, and started selling soap, right? And, you and me, my dad used to take me to the Amway things as a kid. Yeah. So I got into Amway, Chris, and started selling soap, right? And some other things. I didn't make much money, Chris. Did not make much money, but I learned something. I learned personal development. I started reading books. They told me I could be anything I wanted to be if I was willing to work for it. Ah, there's a catch. Yes sir, they told me that was a solution to my challenges.
Starting point is 00:08:28 They didn't call them problems, challenges. Challenge. All right, I started looking at things differently. They said don't talk about problems, talk about challenges. And I started reading some books, my mind expanded. And you know, Chris, it's a funny thing. Once your mind is expanded, you can't really go back to it
Starting point is 00:08:45 What's the point because I saw potential? I saw potential Chris and a few years later John came over move over from England to here Yeah, she had a master's at that point came over and yeah, she had and I told she's a smart part of the family You did make that known on you, yes, sir. Yes, sir. I married up. So she came over with some of our family, but then we found out pretty quickly that with the jobs we were doing at that time, we could not pay our rent on one person's check. In fact, Chris, we had to wait. I had to wait for Joan's check to come in for us to be able to pay our rent. That's how we started. We shopped in the poorest side of town,
Starting point is 00:09:26 and that's what we could afford. But we did not complain. We felt like, what could we do in this great country that has so much potential? How could we be a part of the solution? How could we get some of that abundance? And we got into, we got into some other things. We got some more education. John became a database administrator Oracle database
Starting point is 00:09:48 administrator you know with with the airport system she did that it was pretty good money I'll became also systems engineer with Microsoft it was good money well I had never made that kind of money before Chris now all right finally a competitor ran on one person's check. You know, that was a big deal for us. Okay. We generally like to say that we had moved into the American middle class at that point. You know, we got our little townhouse, started raising our kids. But then we started realizing, Chris, that there was a lot of a month left at the end of the money. A month left at the end of the money. I like that analogy, that's funny.
Starting point is 00:10:25 Yeah, and so dreaming again, how could we be part of this American prosperity? We felt that being in business for ourselves was the way to go. We were hard workers, we weren't scared to work hard, Chris. We love to work. I mean, because that's the only way you get money. You have to earn it.
Starting point is 00:10:41 We're not scared to work. But then what could we do? John thankfully had been introduced into Caring for Singers. She had done that a few years earlier. She had done that. And so she said, Honey, why don't we think about maybe purchasing our home care franchise? Now, this is in early 2002. We didn't have a lot of money. I'll tell you that. We're doing well. We didn't have a lot of money. I'll tell you that. We're doing well. We didn't have a lot of money saved.
Starting point is 00:11:08 But we had a credit card. Oh, that's all you need. Oh yeah. Welcome to America. Yeah, it was a maxed out at $13,000, I believe that. We did a credit card advance, bought on the credit card about $20,000, $12,000 and some change and then purchased a franchise and started working. credit card advance, bought on the credit card about $20,000, $12,000 and some change, and then purchased a franchise and started working.
Starting point is 00:11:29 Taking care of seniors, helping them out, helping them with things like making the meals, taking them out for grocery shopping, taking them out for walks, medical appointments, that's what we do. And it took off. It was a process. It took off. It was a process. It took off. Eventually, Chris, we bought another office, another one again, another one. So we now have four, employing north of 300 people and serving thousands of people out there that need our services. So that's how we did
Starting point is 00:11:58 it. We're very proud to be able to serve all these people. Congratulations. You took the risk. Some people that some people, some people I know they take the risk with, especially with credit cards and it doesn't work out so well. So, it sounds like you guys worked hard and you worked smart and got it put together. Chris, it was by the grace of God. We did the work, but we felt that God made it possible for us. And also it has a lot to do with the American system. I mean, we believe that, we believe that the system, the American system, the environment, which we are, uh, you know, made it possible for us. Of course we did it work. You know, work somewhere.
Starting point is 00:12:31 Right. Yeah. And if you're not, if you don't assist them, that supports what you do, it's not going to turn out so well. I don't think so. It was, it was our system and it speaks to the greatness of this country cause nowhere else could we have succeeded as well. And it speaks to the greatness of this country because nowhere else could we have succeeded as well America who knew it's still a land of the free and let's not push it. Anyway, I'm just doing jokes people Investor or imposter syndrome. That was the term I was a lot of people, you know if they have an issue with abundance and and they think from a Scarcity mindset. Yes, they usually have like imposter syndrome, like,
Starting point is 00:13:05 I can't be rich or I don't have the mindset or the training. I don't have the college degree to be successful. You know, they've got all sorts of excuses. And yeah, there is a difference in mindset between scarcity and abundance. And you have to sit down and ask yourself as, you know, how do I think? Do I think from abundance? Tony Robbins Yes, yes.
Starting point is 00:13:29 Peteus Do I, you know, because you don't, when you think in a victimhood sort of thing, you know, that you're an imposter syndrome or that, you know, there's not enough for everybody, we've all got to fight and scrap for, you know, the peanuts, then that's what you get. I mean, what you see is what you get. I remember Tony Robbins, you said this great thing where he talks about, you know, two people can go to a party and they can see two completely different experiences, one can go and they can be like, Oh, this is a great party. And, and look, people are having fun.
Starting point is 00:13:59 And the person, the other person might go to the same party and they see people kind of bore, not happy. Maybe someone's going to fight with their girlfriend or something. Oh, that's a bad party. That was really negative. No one had fun at that party. And two people come away with two different perspectives and that's that real difference between the two. Now, one of your things on your journey, you met Bob Proctor and got to know him. Tell us a little bit about that. Oh, absolutely. Chris, I'm going to just segue back on what you talked about.
Starting point is 00:14:28 Sure. I mean, the point of view or whatnot. You know, Dr. Wenday used to say that we change the way we look at things, the things should look at change. Ah! We change the way we look at things, the things should look at change. And you know, my contention, Chris, is that your attitude can it be a burden or your beacon? Your attitude could be your burden or your beacon of that Absolutely, because it depends how you look at it because we all I mean think about it Chris
Starting point is 00:14:55 I mean you have challenges have challenges. Sure. Yeah. Hey Everyone has challenges. In fact, everyone has 24 hours a day. But how come business is where it is, where we are? Mm-hmm. It's a mindset, isn't it? It's how you look at it. Yeah. Yes, I mean, so that's all of that. Yeah, Chris, I think I would say about 15 years into our home
Starting point is 00:15:18 care business, I became a bit restless. OK, I became restless. I was grateful for what we had done, but I thought there was a little bit those more we could do I felt it was more in me that could still do out there. So I felt a bit I was not comfortable But I just there was something I was antsy. Okay, I want to do more and being a person of faith. I prayed about it Thought about and prayed some more and all of that. I did some meditation and all of that. I was led to Mr. Proctor. One day I was going on my walks.
Starting point is 00:15:51 I always go out in the morning and walk. I was listening to his YouTube interviews, what he was doing. That's where he talked about darkness. He said, a lot of us don't make it in life, don't succeed in life. The world would laugh too because we're ignorant of our potential we don't know we don't know what we have inside of us you can do whatever you whatever you want but if you don't know that you have the potential nothing's gonna happen to you it's true ignorance is the issue and an
Starting point is 00:16:21 ignorance is taken soft by having knowledge Christian I often say that it's almost like, you know, you and I were invited to the White House for dinner or your wife would invite you to dinner for, you know, the president's coming down to invite you for dinner, but you never got an invitation. Oh, you don't know about if you don't know, you're not going to show up. Yeah, that's the same thing with our potential here, Chris. We don't know what we've got. And I contend that, you know, you don't know how successful you can be until you take a chance for yourself. So I'm all about betting on yourself. Forget victimhood.
Starting point is 00:16:56 We all have 24 hours in a day. But how come some of the folks use theirs and go through whatever challenges we may go in through and overcome another zone. It's how to look at it, how to approach it. So Bob showed me that I could do better, I could do whomever I wanted to be, but it had to do with how to work on me first. I had to work on me. It was the be, do that? Be, I had to be the best person that could be stuck or do what I did. So I could do, I could then do the things I needed to do. So I could have what I wanted to have. Oh, we do have.
Starting point is 00:17:34 Be do have. I love that. There's like a be no do that army uses for their leadership training. Yes. And it's very impressive. Oh, absolutely. But yeah, you, you have to, you know, know, you have to do have your, you have to do have your shit together and be prepared.
Starting point is 00:17:50 Oh yeah. For success. Oh, absolutely. I mean, I. Yeah. Because Chris, I mean, the, the fact that matters is that, you know, it's, it's about, it's about the changing. See, I always tell people that success is not really what you get.
Starting point is 00:18:03 It's who you become. I always tell people that success is not really what you get. It's who you become. It's the person that you become in the process of reaching that goal. Whatever goal it is, that makes a big difference. Because think about it. You see all these folks that win multi-million dollar lotteries, right? And then a few years later, they're broke. Come on.
Starting point is 00:18:23 How is that possible? Isn't that funny? Because it doesn't change them. They haven't changed who they are internally. And once you can change you and be the best version of who you can be, whatever that is to you, you go through a growth process, become a better version of who you are, then you attract whatever else you need to attract out there and then you can enjoy. That's the most you want? I love it.
Starting point is 00:18:47 It's definitely inspiring. Thank you. Thank you, Chris. Now, tell us what you do on your website here. You've got your website, PremierDestiny.com. You also have the other one, Ask Joan and Paul. Tell us about some of the offerings you have there. I know some stuff.
Starting point is 00:19:02 Chris, we provide, we help people. I like to say that what Joe and I do at Premier Destiny is that we help folks find out the God-given talents that they have buried in themselves that they don't know they have and bring it to the floor before so they can serve, they can benefit from it by serving others. Whatever that is, that's what we do. I also like to say that our premier destiny, what we do is that we enlighten people, we empower them, and we inspire them. We inspire them to bring out a greatness that's in themselves so they can lead and live a life of abundance and fulfillment. Because, you know, if you don't know what you've got you can't you can't take advantage of it that's true that's what
Starting point is 00:19:50 Bob did for me that's what Bob did for me that's what it affected impact the Joan to the folks who work with that's what we do for sit down and find out what they want because you see life is about for you finding your passion and being the best at it because once you find your passion Chris as you know it's a level of love yeah it really is yes sir you've time flash would have you realizing that you're doing it because you love what you that's what you cut out to do mm-hmm we all have it stop it same thing for everyone but we help folks find out what
Starting point is 00:20:25 it is for them and help them bring it out so they can then realize whatever dreams they want and be abundant, live an abundant life and be fulfilled. That's what we do. It's about making a difference, Chris. What we do is about making a difference because we believe in touching other people's lives and the a positive way, making a difference, serving. Serving, because that's what differences make. Tell us about some of the offerings you have here. I see there's success pathways you have. There's the Destiny Key, the Money Marathon, Pages of Pros.
Starting point is 00:20:58 Tell us about some of these things you do when you help other people. Chris, what we do is that we offer certain things. We do group coaching with folks, that business folks, folks who are in business or in home care space, we work with folks, home care space, we help them grow their business. We've been fortunate to build our business to multiple seven figures, right?
Starting point is 00:21:22 We're able to do that. So that's what we bring out that We help folks who are just getting started in their home care space and help them grow their business. We've been there, it's almost like, while we're using a mentor, someone's walked that path before you, kind of knows what's involved and can kind of hold your hands. That's what we do.
Starting point is 00:21:38 That's one way we do it. We'll do it in a group setting or personally. We'll do private coaching, we do that as well. We also work with the professionals in groups, in group setting or personally. We can do private coaching, we do that as well. Most work with the professionals who are looking to, you know, to get out there and make a difference. Whatever that difference is. They wanna identify what is holding them back.
Starting point is 00:21:55 You know, they wanna break out of that and get out there and be the best version of who they are, so they can earn more, touch more lives, and be fulfilled, that's what we do. And we do that through Destiny coaching is one of them. Money Marathon is another piece of it. And then again, like I talked about, you know, John wrote a book so we can help with that as well. But essentially, it's because at the end of the day, Chris, we find that it's about your mindset. It's about
Starting point is 00:22:19 your mindset. It comes down to how you look at things. Do you look at life as you like you talked about victimhood? Do you look at it? Boy it, boy, everything is against me or I have a chance here. We believe that we are, each and every one of us is a co-creator in their life, whatever that is. We have that power. But again, Chris, if you don't know you have the power, you're not going to be able to take advantage of it. I needed someone to help me realize that the power is in me. He had to help me unleash that power. That's what we do. Pete Slauson And so, you work with people, do you do it
Starting point is 00:22:56 on like a monthly basis, yearly? What are some of the ways that you help people? I notice there's a community on here too. Chris, our friends, we do, you know, we, we, when we set up, when we meet with folks, we have a three month period, six month period, nine month period, you know, that's how we do it. It's based on what the needs are. We, we, what we do, we have a free discovery call.
Starting point is 00:23:17 We'll meet with them, find out what they really want. And if a student wants, we'll set a game plan based on what they want, you know, and then we'll go from there. But it's three, six months set a game plan based on what they want. You know, and then we'll go from there. But it's three to six months, you know, period is what we do. Cause we believe that you really can't do much. You cannot really impact a life until, or impact those changes for at least six months, for at least three to six months, what we recommend. But again, it's based on what the needs are.
Starting point is 00:23:38 We'll meet with them on a free discovery call, find out what the needs, where they want to go, you know, in the business of personal life, and we'll go from there. Professional life, we'll do that. And there's a place where people can book a call on your website. There's testimonials. Absolutely, Chris. There's videos and stuff. Yes.
Starting point is 00:23:54 And we also have, like I said, we're on YouTube. You can check out the video website you've got on YouTube. We have affirmations that are there that are free. Because you see, it's all a matter of rewiring our brain, Chris. We have to change how we look at things, you know? And we have some free business that can help anyone who wants it.
Starting point is 00:24:14 We have YouTube videos, Jonah has some. We have interviews we've done with folks like yourselves out there. And we have one on there on display for folks to check it out. Awesome sauce, inspiring the world, making the world a better place. It's good to see Bob's work being passed around.
Starting point is 00:24:29 He's influenced a lot of great people. Yes. And then people, of course, sort of the book as well, Money Located. Yes. Anything we haven't missed or talked about that we should tease out to people so they get better? Chris, I think you've kind of covered just about everything. The book is on Amazon, John's book is on Amazon.
Starting point is 00:24:44 But again, I just want to share with people that the potential is in there in each and every one of us. If you're not happy where you are, you want to make a difference. You feel like you want to be able to be part of this American dream and do more. It's possible for you. It's possible.
Starting point is 00:25:03 If you work for John and I, it can work for you as well. And we're here to support you. Because the greatness of America is in what each and every one of us does. Pete You know, it's interesting. It's interesting to me how people come to this country as immigrants and they realize the potential, they realize the value of America, the freedom of democracy, the power to pursue their ideas and the power that if they work hard and smart, they can reap the rewards. You know, I mean, you know, I grew up with the USSR and Russia and communism and in communism, you know, they basically told you, you know, hey, and China, you know, you don't have to work hard because if you work hard, you're not going to get anything more. We pay the same to everybody.
Starting point is 00:25:47 Yeah, yeah. You're right, Chris. You're so right, Chris. I mean, but then the point is that, I mean, not everyone is cut out the same though. I mean, you know, you want to, if you want to be able to do things that we serve and help others, you know, one of the greatest about America is the fact that we're such a charitable country. We have some other people But you can't you can't now am I my contention is that you can't you cannot give someone from an anti-tank I cannot give you if my cop is in full. I can't give you anything Have something to give you What is that something? How do we get there?
Starting point is 00:26:22 It's by getting out there and making a difference, you know So we can be to help and serve and to me it comes on the service really comes down to service Yeah, one of the things you know that sometimes we we kind of struggle with a lot of us is this change Chris and I think that's one something that keeps a lot of us stop some that we don't want to give we don't want We don't want to change. We don't want where is this change? But as you know, but as Nap as Napoleon Hill said, he said that, your issue is not change. Your issue is a resistance to change. Change will come.
Starting point is 00:26:54 Change will come. The person who hangs on to yesterday gets crushed by tomorrow. We don't want that. Yeah. We don't want that. Make change your friend. We have to make change our friend. And how do we do that? By having we want that. Make change your friend. We have to make change our friend.
Starting point is 00:27:05 And how do we do that? By having mentors around us. Folks that can see things that we know maybe we haven't gotten there yet and help guide us. That's what we do. We're here to make a difference. That's what we do. I mean, think about it. If many more of us look at things, look at the brighter side of things and are more abundant and live more fulfilled lives. That makes the world a lot better. That's what I want to live with, Chris. Don't you? Yeah. I mean, this nation was built when it first started out as an abundance nation. There was plenty of land. There still is, I mean, if you're a traveler, nation, there was plenty of land, there still is, I mean, if you're a traveler, there's still plenty of land. It's a huge country. A lot of people that come to America, they go, damn, there's a lot of
Starting point is 00:27:52 space to move around. And so there's that aspect of it that also means you can move around to a lot of opportunity. And, you know, people come here and they can be successful. Sadly, you know, it seems like a lot of our society has encapsulated this mantra of scarcity. And it's like, oh, we don't have enough here. So we've got to get rid of people that might be taking what we're taking. You know, and the irony is of course those people are doing jobs that most Americans would never do in a million years. 100%, Chris. 100%. Again, I go back to say that I think that we, I think, I think we've been misinformed. You know, I think that's the way I look at it. And again, it goes back to, you know,
Starting point is 00:28:37 because you, you fear something that you don't know much about. And that's the whole thing. I think, I think that's where that comes in. Feel, trying trying to hang on to stuff But then there's a lot more than that available Like I said, we could just find out what we really are made of what the potential is in us How we can what you know what we can do? There was time it was surprising in us Yeah, and once we realize I will have the potential that you have you don't really have it You don't have to worry about who's getting what because guess what? If you're doing what you designed to do you will put on earth to do
Starting point is 00:29:08 Mm-hmm, and everyone is doing what they're supposed to do. Well, I'll be happy. Oh, yeah I mean people don't realize too you you really Thrive in your ability as a human being when you do something you love It's it's changed my world to do something I love as opposed to something that I don't love. It makes all the difference in the world. Absolutely. I mean, Chris, I'll echo that sentiment as well. I mean, I love reading. I love sharing. I love inspiring others. That's my gift. That's my gift. I mean, you know, it's not, it's something that, because it's my gift,
Starting point is 00:29:44 it's one something I love. I do it, especially I do it my way, just like you do. You do this your way. This is a Chris Foss show. It's not a part and butter show. For half an hour. That's the thing. And we have to we have to get off the fact that someone's taking something it's not it's not that. Yeah, we have to expose ourself. It comes onto awareness, Chris. It's awareness. Once you're aware, once you raise your awareness, to sort of understand how life really works,
Starting point is 00:30:14 and the fact that there's enough for everyone, in fact, there's more than enough for everyone. Once you get that in your mind, what is this gonna stop you? I believe that the issue is that we're in our own way because of our thinking. Yeah. And so you guys teach that, you help people with it. Give people, as we go out, your final pitch on how they can onboard with you, how they can reach out to you, how they
Starting point is 00:30:41 can get to know you guys better, etcetera, etcetera. Yes, thank you again, Chris. Thank you for this, for you to speak with your listeners here. Chris, like I said, Jonah and I believe that we're everyone here, everyone is, everyone has
Starting point is 00:30:56 the potential to really bring out the best in who they are. Everyone can have an abundant and fulfilled life and our permit us to do that. That's exactly what we do. Our permit us to not what we do. That's the permit us to that's exactly what we do. I permit us to we enlighten people, we empower them, and we inspire them to bring out the greatness that's in themselves. Everyone has potential, but again if you don't know you have it, you're not going to be able to take advantage of it. That's true. That's what we do there. We've been we've been through that process. Jonah and I, we came from humble backgrounds.
Starting point is 00:31:25 We were the build a dream, build up businesses, go through challenges and come on the other side. Folks, challenges shouldn't stop you. They should encourage you. They should teach you. It's a sign of life. In fact, I believe it's a sign of life when you have challenges.
Starting point is 00:31:42 You should welcome them. Yeah, means you're alive, means things are moving. Absolutely. And that's what we do. So I would encourage anyone who's looking to better their lives, better themselves, know themselves better, be a difference maker who wants to take advantage of the greatness of this country, US, to reach out to us because we can help them. If you're a business owner, especially if you're in home care, that's our space. But if you want to just better yourself, bring out the best of you as a professional, we can also help you. Reach out to us at AskJohnandPaul.com. We'll help you at PremierDestiny.com. We have videos
Starting point is 00:32:20 on YouTube, we're on Instagram, LinkedIn, all of that. Again, we're all about bringing the best in each and every one of ourselves. Pete There you go. It's been wonderful to have you on the show and definitely inspiring. We certainly appreciate it, man. Chris Thank you so much, Chris. Thanks. It's an honor. Thank you. Pete Thank you. And an honor to have you as well, sir. Inspiring people, making the world better. I love people like yourself that lift up the world. Chris Thank you, Chris. Pete We need more people like yourself that lift up the world. We need
Starting point is 00:32:45 more people like yourself that lead us and go, Hey, there's something better. Because this scarcity mindset is real bullshit. It's not a way at all. I mean, especially, I mean, if this were in Russia, it'd be fine or China, not in America. Not America. Let's not go there. All right. Thank you very much folks. Order up the book wherever fine books are sold. Money locates you out May 26th, 2022. Look for his wife's name on it, Joan Icabina and all that good stuff.
Starting point is 00:33:13 It's available on Amazon too, Chris. It's available on Amazon. So yeah. Thanks Sue. And there'll be a link to the Amazon book on the website as long as, as well as the other links to his websites. Thank you for coming by to my audience. Go to goodreadese.com,
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