The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant - Brené with Erika James and Lynn Perry Wooten on The Prepared Leader, Part 2 of 2

Episode Date: September 26, 2022

We’re back with the second part of a two-part series with Erika James, PhD, and Lynn Perry Wooten, PhD, about their new book, The Prepared Leader: Emerge from Any Crisis More Resilient Than Before. ...In Part 1, we talked about what leaders can do today to prepare for what’s next, and in this episode, we dig into more tactical strategies. I have to say that I have lived this work, and this is real. It is not theoretical. This is about what it means to be human and look for grace and make very tough decisions while leading through a crisis. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:07 Hi, everyone. I am Brne Brown, and this is Dare to Lead. We are back with part two of our podcast with Dr. Erica James and Lynn Perry Wooten. And we are talking about their new book, The Prepared Leader, Emerged from Any Crisis, More Resilient Than Before. I love the first part of this conversation, did you? I loved it. And now we're going to get into some nitty-gritty. Yeah. It's not easy. I mean, this whole idea that being a prepared leader is almost impossible. if you're a protecting ego leader. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:00:40 You can pick prepared or protected ego, but you just really can't have both. They're mutually exclusive. If you listen to the first episode, which you really should listen to the first episode of this before the second one, you'll know I love this book. You'll know that we're going to read it here. It's tactical.
Starting point is 00:00:55 It's practical. It's based on such great research. I mean, they spent decades studying crisis management, what to do and what not to do and how it works. It's great relatable stories. And then you just things that I love, like chapter recaps at the end and tables that show everything that they're talking about. It's just so good.
Starting point is 00:01:17 So quick bio. If you are just joining us, we're talking with Dr. Erica James, who became the dean of the Wharton School on July 1st, 2020. She's trained as an organizational psychologist. She is an expert on crisis leadership, workplace diversity, and management strategy. Before being at Wharton, she was the dean at Emory University's Guizetta Business School for six years. She is an educator. She is an academic.
Starting point is 00:01:45 She's a scholar. She's a theorist. It's just so much to share with us. Joining us is Dr. Lynn Perry Wooten, who is a seasoned academic, an expert on organizational development and transformation, and is the ninth president of Simmons University and the first African-American to lead the institution.
Starting point is 00:02:03 Before she was at Simmons, she was the dean at the Dyson School of Applied Economics and Management, and before that, she served on the faculty of the University of Michigan Raw School of Business. Interestingly, Lynn and Erica met each other in their PhD programs at Michigan and have been friends since and co-conspirators and collaborators and truth-tellers and friends and backup and all the good stuff that we all need. Let's jump in. So just a quick welcome back to Erica James, Lynn Perry Wooten.
Starting point is 00:02:36 We are talking about the prepared leader emerge from any crisis more resilient than before. the book has just come out from Wharton School Press. I'm having my leaders read it. It is the real deal in terms of, you know, I thought about this a lot when I was reading this book. Very early, my first non-academic speaking event. So this wasn't Grand Rounds or this wasn't at a university. This was like some people asked me to come speak.
Starting point is 00:03:03 And I don't know how this person got the recommendation, but right before I went on, she was practicing reading the bio and she said, oh my God, you're a shame researcher? I thought you were a happiness researcher. And my real response was, I don't know much about that. But I, you know, and I said, well, I talk about the things that really get in the way, not just what we should be doing. I just think it's such a fool's errand.
Starting point is 00:03:26 Even when I read articles that are just like, here's what you should do and don't address the real humanity that gets in the way sometimes of doing it. And every time you give a strategy here in this book, you prepare us for the gremlins that are going to get in the way, for those little voices that say, this is scary, what if I'm wrong? Should I ask someone else? So it's so tactical this book.
Starting point is 00:03:53 Did you want it to be more of a handbook than a theoretical overview? Our last book was the heavy theory. We wanted this time someone going from Chicago to L.A. To pick up the book and say, how can I be a prepared leader? and have all the sticky notes like you have, take notes, and then go into their C-suite and have everybody else read the book and discuss it.
Starting point is 00:04:15 What's the next crisis on the horizon? And what are the tips and tools I can use from this book? I want to start with a quote that's at the top of Chapter 7. I'm on page 85 in the book. It's a quote from Marion K. Pinsdorf that says all crises are global. Unpack that for me. I'm an American. I admit it, and I think all crises are in the United States. I'm an optic and I had this viewpoint. But the more and more we study crisis, it's just not isolated to one community, one geographical region. It's all a global crisis. What happens in the United States is going to impact the other parts of the world and vice versa. And so we want leaders to lead after they read our book to understand you need a global mindset. And part of having a global mindset is being able to frame them.
Starting point is 00:05:06 crisis and to think about the culture context and the greater mega community you need to get back to business recovery. The intersections that exist, we are too deeply embedded in every facet of society to think that what happens in one region of the world isn't somehow going to manifest and affect people in another part of the world. The pandemic is an extreme example of that for sure. One of the things that I think it's important to highlight is we've gotten very comfortable prior to the pandemic. We got very comfortable with describing every inconvenience as a crisis. Even our language, we say things like, oh, got to spend all my day fighting fires, got to put out a crisis a month or a crisis of the day. So we just began to assume that
Starting point is 00:05:54 anything that was inconvenient or troublesome was in fact a crisis. And I think the pandemic actually helped us realize what a true crisis is. So when this, phrase, this quote, all crises are global, we're not talking about the day-to-day problems that you find inconvenient and that you describe as a crisis. We're really talking about things of such significance that the likelihood of them happening has implications around the globe. Wow, you know, as a language person, I'm really struck by something here when I was doing the research for Atlas of the Heart and I got into the academic literature around stress and overwhelm and how these are two very different constructs.
Starting point is 00:06:45 And how often I thought about, you know, for myself, language doesn't just communicate emotion. It actually shapes our neurobiology, our physiology. And I thought how many times a day sometimes I use the term overwhelmed. When really I'm not overwhelmed, life is not actually unfolding faster than my, you know, than my system can handle. I'm actually stressed. It's more whackable than it is complete overwhelm.
Starting point is 00:07:18 And just changing my language. So now I say to myself, we know from the research there's one antidote to overwhelm. And it is nothingness. You literally have to get up, walk around, take a break, walk the parking lot. meditate, you've got to do nothing in order for your system to reset. So now I say to myself Bray, unless you're prepared to get up and do nothing,
Starting point is 00:07:42 unless it's that bad, call it stressed. Don't call it overwhelmed. We completely are hyperbolic around the term crisis. So what is a better way? Should I just be saying, wow, this feels like a serious challenge, I've got to deal with some problems today
Starting point is 00:07:59 or I've got to deal with some sticky stuff or like, do you have a good word for us? I use challenge. lot. And challenge means it can be overcome, right? Right. So to me, the distinction that I make when I'm working and talking with people is a problem is something that you've likely experienced before. There's a solution for it. You have the resources to address it, resources being the human capital, the financial capital, the know-how, right? And if those characteristics exist, then whatever threat you're facing is something that you can address, right?
Starting point is 00:08:38 It's inconvenient. You'd rather not have to devote your resources to that. But the reality is you know that you're going to be able to overcome this. And when we refer to problems as crises, when something does happen that is significant, we're not equipped. And we've never put the time and the willpower into understanding what it actually means to equip ourselves and our organizations for things
Starting point is 00:09:08 that we've never experienced before. And then that's where the competencies in the book comes about, Renee. Yeah, I mean, this is such a profound moment because language is so important not only in our personal lives, but also in our work lives. In mental health, when we talk about a crisis, we think we're outside of the normal distribution of behaviors that are predictable, knowledge we can draw on. And it's almost the same in a business crisis. And so I think this is really important. Let's talk about in a crisis, what role and what level of importance does communication play? I say communication is everything.
Starting point is 00:09:53 You know, communicate, communicate, communicate. In the book, when we talk about trust, we talk about communicating being one of the three Cs, right? If you're going to build trust among your various stakeholders, one, you have to communicate, two, you have to demonstrate that you're competent. And you have to think about the psychological contract that you have with your employers, my students, for example, my alum, they could be your shareholders. And we know that communication has gotten very complex since Erica and I first started studying crisis. Right?
Starting point is 00:10:26 You know, you have social media, you have newspaper, you have television, you have internal communication, you have external communication. So every phase of that crisis, you have to think about what is the message that I want to communicate? How will the receiver receive it? And am I listening and incorporating feedback? A lot of the time, in fact, most of the crisis management research started in the communication field. And we wanted to expand it beyond communication to really what leadership looks like. communication is a necessary but insufficient aspect of leadership during a crisis. Drill down.
Starting point is 00:11:03 So you cannot expect your organization to come through the crisis if you're not transparent and sharing information. It's important to realize it's not always the CEO who's the best, most effective communicator, right? So identifying who in your organization should be that person that's doing the communicating is key. But if that's all you do and you don't do, some of the other competencies that we describe in the book, you're not willing to be creative, you're not able to take risks,
Starting point is 00:11:31 you're not willing to make sense of information around you. Those are other aspects of leadership during times of crisis that will allow the communication to be more effective. I think the other thing important about communication goes to something you say and dare to lead. The organization and the individuals have to know their values. And those values have to be consistent in the, communication and they have to speak to them and walk the talk. People have to feel your values
Starting point is 00:11:59 and what you're saying. Right. You got to fill your values or your communication. I'm not going to believe you. Let's talk about CrossFit. Bell, let's talk about CrossFit as an example. So tell us the story. So, you know, this notion of CrossFit and the CEO using technology to communicate and maybe not communicate things that were the norm during the George Floyd. So if you look at, I think it's page 87 because I wanted to read, I had Mark after you say, let's see, what page it was there. It's 87. Yep, it's 87.
Starting point is 00:12:30 I know you have this notion. A post of the comment on social media that made light of COVID-19 and the Floyd motor. I mean, all of us can remember what we were going through. I think that that had to be about June of 2020. You know, we realized we weren't going back to work two weeks now. We were stuck in our houses. And Eric and I definitely remember, we had George.
Starting point is 00:12:55 Floyd, and our two kids were graduating from high school. So it was a junior remember they weren't getting their normal high school graduation. And, you know, so we had this notion of that this racism as a public health issue. And he tweeted, it's Floyd 19, this and a slew of remarks leading to the press about Floyd's death that had a public backlash. He was insensitive to what's going on. He was not using the right platform. And what happens is, in less than a month, they lost thousands of the affiliated gems and people who believed in this CrossFit program. More importantly, we talk about in this book as just as important is he failed to understand the global dimension. The George Floyd incident and Black Life Matters, it wasn't only here in the United States.
Starting point is 00:13:39 You could turn on your TV and you saw the entire world feeling the pain of what was going on here in America. And so this is someone where we needed a more emotional intelligence. We needed the sensitivity. We needed a respect for diversity of what was happening in the world. I have friends today all over the world that said George Floyd's murder changed the way they work, changed the way they think, changed their offices, changed their businesses. I mean, long overdue and still ongoing racial reckoning. It's the biggest change I've seen in my life because I'm too young to remember King.
Starting point is 00:14:16 But I had not seen anything relating to race relations that we've seen. in the last two years since George Floyd. Right. And in the CrossFit example, he was literally tone deaf to what was happening and insensitive to the cares of his consumer base and his gym owners and just didn't see what the rest of the world saw
Starting point is 00:14:40 or didn't care. Great consequence. There's something I say, and I don't know if it's true or not, but I say it a lot when I'm working with companies. And I'm open to hearing that it's off or not nuanced enough, I want to learn. It seems to me that if you wait to try to build trust as a leader
Starting point is 00:14:58 until you're in a crisis, you're too late. So this is my hot button issue. Oh, I love it. I got a hot button issue. I did see Erica leaning in a little bit. I read something, and I completely agree, when you talk about soft skills. And we always put soft skills in air clips.
Starting point is 00:15:20 Right? What I say is that the soft skills are the hardest thing that we ever do. Yeah. And we've got to start treating them accordingly, which means practice. Skills building. Skill building. Right. And so part of those soft skills are building really high quality effective relationships, relationships that are based on mutual trust. And if you wait until you need something from your people or from your team or from your customers, if you haven't done the pre-work
Starting point is 00:15:50 to build that set of trusting relationships with those stakeholders, what on earth makes you think they're going to be there for you in your time as need? Right? But if you've done that work in advance, most times people will walk through fire to help you.
Starting point is 00:16:06 Right. God, it's true, right? Or give you grace. And so Eric likes to call this the trust bank. Yeah. Right. We call trust the marble jar. Right.
Starting point is 00:16:14 It's like it's a collection. of small moments collected over time. Right. And moments from, you know, acknowledging that you're being overlooked in a meeting and saying, let's work on this together. I'm not going to swoop in and rescue you. But let's come up with a strategy so you can be heard to how's your mom's chemotherapy going, to, I mean, a collection of small moments that, you know, add up to something that in a crisis,
Starting point is 00:16:38 people will. If the jar is full, I've seen people do extraordinary things. Right. For other people. Yeah. And it takes lots of time and energy to make the jarful. God. It takes so much time. And especially, you know, we were new leaders. So we talk about in the book, we started our job in the middle of the pandemic. Many of the people on our leadership team, we never got to meet in person until six months or a year later. And so we had to think of creative ways to build up the trust jar. There were times when I was dean at Emory University at the Guizuela Business School, and I had an incredible team that I was working with. And it was not uncommon for me to talk about my team and use the word love.
Starting point is 00:17:22 Like I loved that team. And there were times when I would get emotional, not, you know, woman crying in the office, but women so either so happy about something that we've done together as a team. And I remember early in my two years now at the Wharton School, year being completely online, we didn't really have those, I hadn't been able to build the same quality relationships yet. And something happened. And I was telling my former colleagues, and they said, oh, did you cry? And I said, no. And they said, oh, that's because you don't love them yet. And I love my team now. But, you know, in those early days, when it was really difficult as a new
Starting point is 00:18:03 person coming into the organization to try to build relationships over Zoom, it was hard to feel that connection, that interpersonal, emotional connection to form those relationships. Now that we've been back in person, I, of course, can look and see so much about what I love about the people that I work with and the people that I'm doing work for, which are our students and our faculty. And I think that's so critical because people feel that and they want to reciprocate and they want to support you and they want to help you through really difficult decisions. God, it's true. I mean, I mean, we are just neurobiologically hardwired for connection. We are.
Starting point is 00:18:43 You know, and when we make those connections, it's pretty incredible what we can do together. And we need connections to be prepared leaders. And like I said, we moved to new cities and new jobs in the middle of a crisis and had to think about ways to build connections. Well, this goes back to where I wanted to start. Were y'all scared, respectively? I mean, like, you know, going into these positions, these are hard jobs that you have. I mean, Simmons is just, I make up, it's a hard school to lead. Right.
Starting point is 00:19:12 Because with the social justice, impact, commitment to the world, I make up it has to feel like a minefield sometimes. And then I think of Wharton as tough and hard and competitive. And you eat what you kill is what I really think of. I mean, it's going to be honest with you. So those are some stereotypes that I'm bringing into your jobs, which may or may not be true. So I'm curious in the middle of a crisis
Starting point is 00:19:38 when you take over leadership of something that is complex and challenging, what was it like? Let's start with Lynn. And that were personal beings too. So I said we had to move. We had to start new jobs. Erica and I both had children that were starting college.
Starting point is 00:19:54 I was selling a house in Ithaca, New York. Imagine trying to sell a house in Ithaca, New York, in the middle of the pandemic. And my oldest was starting his first job as an attorney. So a new job and, yes, lots of things. My mom was transitioned out of her house, and so it was lots of different things. Geez. Was it hard?
Starting point is 00:20:12 Was I scared, you know, leading a university that's grounded in social justice? And one of the few women colleges left that identifies as women-centered and thinking about that trajectory. And then being in Boston, the Uber College town where I've Harvard and MIT in my background in BU and B.U. And, you know, as I'm leading the small women's center college and we co-ed for grad schools, I have to think about, you know, what's a new model for two. tuition-dependent business school. How do we bring front and center the importance of women education?
Starting point is 00:20:41 How do we keep our social justice mission? We educate nurses and social works who are burned out. Yeah, oh God, we're tired. Yeah, they're tired. All of those were types of things for leading a small tuition-dependent university. So yeah. But I went back to the principals we talked about, the principals you talk about it, and I get up every day and try to be the best leader that I can. What's one thing, and this is not fair because Erica will be able to prepare, what's one thing that you like more than you thought you would like and what's one thing that is so much more challenging than you thought? So I can start with the challenging. When you're a dean, you get to really be more on the ground. So I got to spend more time with students and faculty and staff. You know, the president, half of my day is outside of the organization doing advancement work or talking to other presidents or travel.
Starting point is 00:21:32 You know, you kind of miss that intimate time that, you know, I don't get to go to a volleyball game as much or have lunch with students. What I can say, though, is that both Boston and Simmons has been a welcoming community. They, yeah, you know, people don't think about Boston that way. But it has been an extremely welcoming community and supportive of my leadership journey, my strategy, and Simmons. And getting to know my team and a pandemic era has been a wonderful experience. I love that. Okay, Erica. Tell me what it was like for you.
Starting point is 00:22:04 And then you have to answer my questions, if you will. So much of the same experience, I relocated from Atlanta to Philadelphia, left my family because my daughter was graduating high school, left. So it was just me sitting in an apartment in Center City, Philadelphia, where I knew no one. The city was boarded up because it was just the week after all the racial protest from George Floyd. Right. The city was shut down because of COVID. Those were dark, dark days.
Starting point is 00:22:32 You asked whether or not I was scared. Scared, no. I think because things were happening so rapidly, the decisions that we had to make were so immediate, that there was no time to be scared. Yeah. But I do remember over time feeling lonely and feeling isolated. And because I'm such a person very much invested in the personal relationships with people that I work, not having any of those personal relationships.
Starting point is 00:23:00 It was six or eight months before I met a single person in person, really, in this job. So I was making decisions around, you know, whether to close different aspects of the campus when I'd never been on the campus. Right. We had to imagine. Whoa. Yeah. I hadn't even seen the house I moved in Boston.
Starting point is 00:23:17 Had you seen your apartment before or just video? I had to get it sight unseen. We both moved into places in Boston and Philly's sight unseen because people weren't letting you in. Yeah. So those were rough, rough days. I will say that to answer your second question, and what surprised me? What was a challenge that was more difficult that you anticipated and what was something that was surprisingly better than you thought it would be?
Starting point is 00:23:40 So the surprisingly better than I thought it would be is actually a counter to your stereotype of the Wharton School. I'll laugh for a second. Set it straight. Dr. James, set us straight. I'm laughing with you, Brune. So prior to spending time and getting to know that. this Wharton community, I too thought it was like you described, that it was competitive, that it was
Starting point is 00:24:05 cutthroat, that it was cold, that it was impersonal, that it was, you know, all of these things. And I was stunned to find out it was not that. And so your warden examples like my Boston example. Yes, exactly. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Fuelled on nothing but bullshit, but still in real in my mind. And the way I found this out was because I started, we were just living through all the racial protest and racial reckoning and whatnot, I was a little anxious about how I as a black woman was going to come into the Wharton School and what we were going to do around diversity. And would people within the Wharton community think, oh, she just has a personal agenda that she wants to, you know, get pushed forward. So I was pretty reticent to do anything around the diversity front. And it was our faculty and our
Starting point is 00:24:52 students that set the expectation that Wharton was going to do something. Warton was going to go out front. Wharton had a commitment and a responsibility to be a part of the narrative when it came to diversity, equity and inclusion, for example. And that was my indication that this is a school that's very different from what I thought it would be. And the level of support that I saw, our faculty, how can we help you, what do you need from us? It was really tremendous.
Starting point is 00:25:18 So I do want to just clarify for your listeners that we do have the stereotype that you described, but the reality of what this community is like is very, very, very different. So that was my biggest pleasant surprise. I believe that. And I've done that thing, too, where I know several of your faculty members and I'm, you know, good friends with Adam, Grant. And I'm always like, oh, they must be the exception. And Adam's like, you need to read, think again. Yes, think again. Yeah. And I've been there and done talks there. And it was like one of the most fun places I've ever been. But I just, I'm holding on to it for some reason. Yeah, I don't know why. but I love to hear that that was a delightful surprise.
Starting point is 00:26:00 It was a delightful surprise, yes. And then the biggest challenge that I did not anticipate was I knew Wharton was big and I knew Wharton was a prominent business school. I didn't realize how influential it was in the world and how visible it is in the world. So when a decision is made from the Wharton School or when we're launching something or choosing not to do something, it gets known. And I wasn't fully appreciative at how visible the school is and how therefore visible I was going to be.
Starting point is 00:26:35 So I think that's been the challenge to recognize people want to know what we're doing and people will have some evaluation or critique. And I've got to be okay with that. Yeah, I want to know what you're doing and I pay attention to what y'all are doing. And the same with Simmons. And even before, that's why
Starting point is 00:26:53 I said yes to the event there during the middle of the pandemic because I'm curious about what y'all are doing. And you're one of the only few institutions that are still really social justice first focused. We are. And so is it hard for y'all that people are watching with criticism balled up and ready to toss? It is constantly. And we're constantly texting each other saying, did you see Simmons in the paper? Did you see warden in the paper? And our kids are texting us saying, did you see us?
Starting point is 00:27:19 And so you're constantly under this microscope. Oh, yeah. And it spilled out to our family and our friends, too. And so, you know, it goes back to get into we're always having to show up and daring to lead and making sure we're representing our organizations and their values. That is it. And sometimes I'll get a text from one of my kids. I've got a 23-year-old and a 17-year-old.
Starting point is 00:27:42 So a junior in high school and then a daughter in graduate school that'll just say, oh, hey, mom, I was on social media. You okay? I'm like, shit. I know. to see that. I know. Somehow it feels worse
Starting point is 00:27:56 when your kids see it because you're like, don't forget I'm awesome. Hashtag, right. Exactly. Hashtag awesome mom. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:28:08 I don't want the people that know me outside of like, I always think, I wish there could be like a professional geographic bubble. So like the other moms I hang out with or my friends from the neighborhood don't see the work takedowns
Starting point is 00:28:22 because I always feel like You know, I go to a water polo game or something, they're like, hmm, you okay? I'm like, that was a bot. Leave me alone. And my daughter's a dancer, so I go to a dance event. Oh, yes. That's tough. Right.
Starting point is 00:28:38 The dance mom started asking the question. The dance mom's like, hey, have you read your Instagram comments? I love y'all's friendship. I just love it. It's so wonderful to see just two. powerful women making the world a better place who are texting each other like, what the heck just happened? Right. You know? Yeah. Daily. Daily. Yeah. It's, we need it, right? Oh, we definitely do. We're each other's support team. Cheerleader. Yeah. You name it. Yep. That's it. Truth teller.
Starting point is 00:29:13 Yeah, truth teller for sure. Yeah. All right, y'all ready for the rapid fire? Yes. Sure. Okay. I know y'all well enough to know that you all, prepares. So if I ask Erica first, Lynn's going to be like, okay, I'm going to have an answer. And I ask Lynn, so I'm going to go back and forth on who gets to go first. Erica, first one. Yes. Fill in the blank for me. Vulnerability is part of life. Len? Putting your ego aside. Lynn, what is something that people often get wrong about you? They forget I'm an introvert. Hashtag same. Okay, yes. Erica, what's something people often get wrong about you? They think because I'm kind and nice that I'm not tough. Not a mistake I would make. Okay.
Starting point is 00:30:03 Yeah. She's tough. So both of you, and I'm going to have Erica answer first, what's a piece of leadership advice that you were given that was so great you need to share it with us are so shitty that you need to warn us? Ooh. So great was a colleague when I was at the University of Virginia said leadership is about managing energy first in yourself and then in others. And I thought that was profound. Whoa. Managing energy first in yourself and then in others. That's a good.
Starting point is 00:30:40 I'm not good at the first one. Okay. Most of us are. Okay. Len. So I got the advice that women often say no because they don't have the confidence. And so they'll say, I can't do this because this is a stretch assignment. not going to take that promotion, but instead and say yes, and what do I need to do the job?
Starting point is 00:31:02 Who do I need and what do I need to do the job? So are we less confident or this is so profound for me, Lynn, because are we less confident or have we been socialized not to ask for what we need to be successful? Ask for what we need and to take that risk. A man may only do 50% of the job, but he'll say, okay, I'll take the promotion. The woman wants to be prepared and have 90% of the skills. But instead say yes, and this is what I need to do the job well. I love it.
Starting point is 00:31:32 Okay. Lynn first. What's one thing you're grateful for right now? My family and my village. Beautiful. Erica? I would say my health. Oh.
Starting point is 00:31:42 None of us look the same way at that again. Okay. I love this. So we'll go Erica first. You gave us five songs you can't live without. Right. What a wonderful world. by Louis Armstrong, happy by Farrell Williams, hello by Adele, Celebrate by Earth, Wind, and Fire,
Starting point is 00:32:00 and Uptown Funk by Bruno Mars. In one sentence, and I have to add this caveat every time I'm talking to academics, that has no semicolones or m-dashes and is not a paragraph long. In one succinct short sentence, what does this mixtape say about you? I desire to see the positivity in life. Beautiful. Okay, Lynn, your songs. Golden by Jill Scott.
Starting point is 00:32:27 I say a little prayer by Need a Freelon? Am I saying that right? Yep, but Simmons alone. Okay. Conqueror by Estelle, don't stop believing by Journey and Motown Philly by Boys to Men. I love you. Okay.
Starting point is 00:32:45 In one non-academic sentence, what does this say about you? Leadership is about dancing when no one's looking. Ooh. Ooh. What a gift both of y'all are to the world, to this book. I'm never going to say again, this is my pledge to y'all. I'm never going to say people, planet, profit, without saying preparedness. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:33:11 Then I will reference where I got that from. Awesome. Yeah, because it's so good. It's so smart. And it dovetails so powerfully with just what I know about courage and vulnerability and showing up and doing hard things, which is why good leadership is so rare, right? It's just, it's so good. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:33:32 It complements all the great work you've done and thank you. Yeah, it's just wonderful. Thank y'all for being on Dare to Lead and thank you for the book. Yeah, I'm grateful. We're grateful. We're grateful, too. Thank you, Bray. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:33:44 Thank you. God, I feel so lucky to be able to have conversations like this. Did you learn a lot, Barrett? I did. Anything stick with you? She's consulting her 5,000 pages. of notes in her. I love what Lynn said at the end that leadership is about dancing when no one is looking.
Starting point is 00:34:10 I mean, those two pieces of advice, leadership is about dancing when no one's looking, and also what Erica said about managing your energy first and then other people. I mean, wow. Yeah. I got to learn how to manage my energy. Same. I thought you were going to say you do. That was a look on your face.
Starting point is 00:34:31 I'm glad y'all are here. If you want to find a copy of the prepared leader emerge from any crisis, more resilient than before, wherever, you know, get that wherever you like to buy books. It's such a fast, digestible, easy to metabolize, hard to put into practice, but easy to understand.
Starting point is 00:34:49 Book of knowledge and wisdom, I love it. You can go to our episode pages on briney brown.com to find links to more information about Erica and Lynn, where they work, their work, Wharton, Simmons, it'll all be there along with transcripts. Thank you for being back with us on the Darede Lead podcast and stay awkward, brave and kind.
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