The Daily Signal - INTERVIEW | Fe Bencosme on Why ‘Race Does Not Exist’
Episode Date: November 1, 2022“Strictly speaking, race does not exist,” Fe Bencosme says. Bencosme, author of the new book “You Are Not Your Race: Embracing Our Shared Humanity in a Chaotic Age,” says she knows her writi...ngs on race will offend people, but the reality is “there's no black race, there's no white race, there's no yellow or red race. These are ideas that were literally created by some taxonomist a very long time ago.” Bencosme joins “The Daily Signal Podcast” to share her own story of struggling with the topic of race, and to explain why she thinks Americans have become so obsessed with it. Enjoy the show! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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This is the Daily Signal podcast for Tuesday, November 1st. I'm Virginia Allen.
Strictly speaking, race does not exist. That's what author Fay Ben-Cosme argues in her new book,
You Are Not Your Race, Embracing Our Shared Humanity in a Chaotic Age.
Ben Cosme joins me on the show today to discuss America's obsession with race, how it all started, and its implications on our society.
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Faye Benkosme is the author of the new book, You Are Not Your Race, Embracing Our Shared Humanity in a Chaotic Age. And she joins us now.
Fay, welcome to the show.
Thank you for having me, Virginia.
Well, you know, Faye, maybe in our society it's a comfort thing. I think it's maybe a part of our culture.
But we love putting people in categories in today's society. And, you know, this is certainly true when it comes to the topic.
of race, but you are pushing back on this narrative in your book. You Are Not Your Race. Let's begin with
your own story. How did your background play a role in you being compelled to write a book about
race? It just has a lot to do with me growing up between three cultures, really. My father's culture,
he was from the Dominican Republic.
My mother, she was from the U.S. Virgin Islands,
and then just being born in New York City and traversing those three geographical areas, so to speak,
and just seeing the differences in people, but still the similarities in people in people in all of these three places.
And, you know, I don't necessarily think of myself as biracial because a lot of people want to put people like myself in that box because, you know, my father is this Dominican or a Spanish-speaking person of European descent.
And then my mother, being of African descent, you know, there's this desire to put me in this biracial box, but I don't necessarily see myself that way.
So, yes, just being this person of these two, two diverse cultures and just recognizing that despite those differences, you know, I am just this one person is really what's behind this book.
Yes.
What was the message that you received as a little girl growing up in different cultures and having those kind of split backgrounds and your parents being from different places?
is what did you learn from your community, from the people around you about who you were,
your identity, and the topic of race, was it talked about?
It wasn't.
And, you know, it's interesting because as a little girl, the differences weren't pointed out.
The differences, no one made a big deal about them.
And I think it's really because no one really thought about them.
I don't know.
That may seem naive to a lot of people, but that is just the way it is.
it was it the way it was it was not pointed out and really it wasn't it wasn't until i came into being
an adult um that there seemed to be um you know this preoccupation with well you know why do you look
the way you do what where are you from who are you what what's going on here we need to know um and
in my head uh we need to know because we need to know how we should interact with you
you depending on where you're from.
Hmm.
That's so fascinating.
People want to know.
They kind of demand that answer, right?
Yes.
Yes.
And I think it is something that is, I don't know, that it's that's been instilled in us.
Really, when you think of it as children, you know, we just play with each other.
We're not paying attention to, you know, what this other person looks like or what they
sound like.
We just know that this is another person.
it's a playmate and, you know, let's all have fun and be together and play. And it's really only
until someone starts pointing out those differences to us that we start taking notice. And
that's when the trouble starts. And that's what we see, you know, happening in our education
system right now, beginning from a very, very young age, which is why one of the reasons why I decided
to just, you know, delve into this topic and write this book. It's because I see what's purposefully being
voiced it on to our children. And it's very, very scary. I was fascinated by the fact that you draw a very
clear distinction in the book between race, ethnicity, and nationality. Can you explain the
differences between those three? Well, I should say that, you know, when I started out writing this book,
One of the things that I wanted to do was bring a message of truth to the reader who may not
necessarily be aware of truth.
And when I say truth, I mean truth in the biblical sense, the Christ sense.
But I also knew that doing so, people oftentimes, you know, they're turned off to anything that, you know, delves too far into,
biblical sounding things and and and and the message is just shut off to them so i i try to
to do something that would i i guess maybe it's a little devious um not necessarily not necessarily
um you know be uh use bible discourse but you know sort of slip it in there but anyway maybe i
digress a little bit too much, but race, when we were created, if anyone turns to, you know,
the book of Genesis, it says right there that we were created as one human race. And it is from
that race that we have man and woman, more male and female. And the differences, these are
the ethnicities, the
nations that
were created
further along in our
creation story,
where, you know, quite
frankly, we got a little too big for our
bridges and we tried to
equate ourselves with
our creator and
that's where we saw the
creation of nations
and ethnicities.
And this is
where we are different in
in the languages that we speak and the customs that we hold and the traditions that we may
share among those different groups. But race as this thing that is black or white, there is
no such thing. I hope I answered your question without delving, getting too chaotic there.
Absolutely. I know that that's a big, that's a big conversation and a big.
topic, but something that you just said, you repeat in the book. And this might be one of the
most controversial statements in the book, but it's honestly what the whole book hinges on.
And you say our national obsession with race is essentially damaging when you consider that,
strictly speaking, race does not exist. That is a bold claim to make in this day and age.
What do you mean that race doesn't exist? It doesn't exist in the sense that we think it does,
that we believe it does, that we have been led to believe that it does. There is no classification.
There is no race gene. There's no, oh boy, and I know that I'm going to offend a lot of people.
I'm sorry there. There's no black race. There's no white race. There's no yellow or red race.
These are ideas that were literally created by, you know, some taxonomist a very long time ago.
It was a convenient way for, I guess, divvying up people and understanding people.
But in the sense that we think of race, no, it does not exist.
There is only the human race.
Period. End of sentence.
Yeah, full stop.
Chapter 3 of the book is titled, What Are We Teaching Our Children About Race?
And we know that there are books like Anti-Racist Baby by Ibram X. Kendi and A is for activist by Nagara.
And these are books that are in kids' libraries across America.
what effect do books like these in talking to kids about race?
What effect does that have on kids?
I would imagine that the effect it will have on children is really setting a worldview
that will force them to look at people around them in terms of these identities,
these definitions that were, again, you know, created by people really for nefarious purposes,
if we're really, to be honest. And then it impacts the way that they themselves will interact
with the world and oftentimes in very limiting ways. If I think of myself, if I had been told
at a very young age that because I was this,
then I could only do this or be this,
then I would not have done a number of things that I would have done.
I would have not taken the risks
or I would have not ventured out into the world the way that I did.
My parents were Caribbean immigrants, so to speak.
My mother, yes, she was from the U.S. Virgin.
islands, but still coming from, you know, these small islands to mainland United States. She's still
kind of an immigrant. And so were, so was my father. And they were, they were laborers.
They were eighth grade educated laborers. And really, I could have limited myself to being, I guess,
being nothing more than, I don't know, another laborer because of whatever it is that someone
said to me that I was supposed to be because of that. But no, I went out, I ventured into the
world. I did not allow myself to be limited to my community. I went on to to pursue an
education, the first in my family, to go on and achieve a college education and then a graduate
degree. I pursued a doctoral education. I didn't complete for reasons, you know, the reader can find
out in the book. But these are all, I don't know, I think these are all things that I just would not
have done if I had bought into a very self-limiting view of myself. And nor did I,
think that anyone, nor did I think that I was entitled to be given these things because of
the way I presented physically to the world. Well, and when you say that you didn't limit yourself
and when you went out into the world, you literally went out into the world. You talk about in the
book how you spent time actually in the Middle East and that how that actually played a huge
in shaping and forming your perspective on people and and the issue of race and ethnicity.
Share a little bit about how that time living in the Middle East helped to form your own views
and perspectives on this topic.
You know, it's fascinating when the media has such an influence on us.
And when the media tells us something is, we tend to accept that.
And this is especially the case when it comes to people and creating stereotypes and ideas about who people are because of where they come from.
So, you know, we have this image that the Middle East, for example, everybody looks the same way, everybody thinks the same way, everybody even dresses the same way.
And by that I mean, you know, all women are dressed in, in Abaya.
This is the black cloak or in some cases in some countries.
It's a blue cloak.
And that all women, you know, cover their hair in hijab.
A lot of women do, and they do it for personal reasons,
for reasons of modesty and for religious reasons as well.
and with very few exceptions.
There are some countries, I guess, compel women to do so,
but not all of Muslim or Arabic-speaking countries do.
But, you know, I was just fascinated traveling through that region
to come across people in all tones of skin colors and eye color.
and hair textures.
It was amazing.
It was almost earth-shattering,
earth-moving,
because, you know,
it was just not what I had seen
on TV and in movies.
I mean, there was
freckled-faced people
and red-haired people
and blonde people and blue-eyed people.
people and dark-skinned people and coarse-heared people. It was just a pulpery of every
skin eye, hair color that you could imagine. I love that. I'm certainly a huge proponent
of travel. I think that it does. It does do such wonders, something that nothing else can do
just to opening our eyes, our perspective to the broader world. And it breaks so many
of those stereotypes like you mentioned.
I want to take a minute and talk a little bit about history
because you do a great job of addressing this in the book.
And you write in Chapter 5, I think it's quite the profound statement.
You write, what we choose to remember as history does not change the past,
but where we choose to focus our gaze does change the present and future.
So what do we do with our history, with the parts that aren't
beautiful and that maybe even feel a little shameful?
Well, um, quite honestly, we, we have to embrace it.
It is a part of, of who we are.
And we, we recognize that, okay, yes, this, this, uh, not so beautiful part of, of, of, of our
history is, it's not something that we can, can bury.
It is what it is.
but we must embrace it, we must learn from it,
but more importantly, we cannot let it bury into our souls
and become this source of anger, this source of animosity.
Otherwise, I mean, what is it going to do to our souls?
It's going to just really hinder our souls,
to corrupt our souls, and it's going to
color the way we we interact with others and ultimately be of detriment to ourselves,
not to the other people, but to ourselves.
When you were writing the book and doing research for it and remembering your own story,
was there a section that you found maybe challenged your own views and perspectives
or was just challenging to write?
Oh my gosh. You know, I have friends from all walks of life, and I don't mean that just socially, economically, but, you know, just from all kinds of communities. And I know that there are, and this is African-American identifying communities and white-identifying communities. And I don't like to use those.
terms, which is why I'm hyphenating with the, you know, identifying. I know that people,
the people want to put themselves, or define themselves by certain categories, and that is their
right to do so. I wish we wouldn't do that, but that is what people want to do, and they have
every right to do so. And I know that some people, my friends included, are going to be offended by
this and and have been. I've already, I've already received feedback from some friends who
say that, you know, you're a little condescending in, in that one little passage where you
write about, um, my, I, I have a couple of girlfriends who were coming over to the house
one night and, you know, they encountered, uh, some people in the street who, who, uh, looked
different than they did. And, and they just, I thought that they, um, they, I thought that they,
without
anybody saying
anything to one another,
there was this assumption
that
you know,
these people are thinking
this about me and they're thinking
I don't belong here
simply on the basis of
how I look and
it led to this conversation and a
little, a little
fritter
of, you know,
why
would you think so no one said anything um this is this is all projection so so yes uh i've already
i was very concerned about my friends reading that and taking it the wrong way um and not not
seeing the help that i'm trying to offer the the healing that i'm trying to offer yeah yeah for
those who do choose to read the book,
You Are Not Your Race,
what is your hope for what they will walk away with?
I hope that they will walk away with
the understanding
of the truth of who we are.
We are one human race.
We are created in the image of our creator.
It says so right there in the beginning
of our creation story.
We are created in his image.
One humankind.
We are one human race.
And from that there was male and female.
And then it goes from there.
It does not say anything about, you know,
all these other color groups.
It does not.
And this is a truth that's being kept away from people.
Yeah.
The book is You Are Not Your Race, Embracing Our Shared Humanity in a Chaotic Age by Faye Bencosme.
It's out on November 1st.
Order your copy at Barnes & Noble.
And Faye, thank you.
We just really appreciate you coming on the show today to share about your work and your passion on this issue.
Thank you so much, Virginia, for giving me the opportunity to share this.
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