The Daily - The Intertwined Legacies of Gloria Steinem and Dolly Parton

Episode Date: September 4, 2026

Gloria Steinem, the feminist icon and co-founder of Ms. magazine, died on Wednesday at her home in Manhattan. Her death came as many were still grieving the loss of another iconic woman: Dolly Parton.On paper, the connections between the two women seem superficial, but for the Times Magazine writer Susan Dominus, the relationship between their lives and impact is inescapable.Guest: Susan Dominus, a staff writer at The New York Times Magazine.Letty Cottin Pogrebin, a writer and pioneer of the feminist movement who was part of the team that founded Ms. magazine with Gloria Steinem.Background reading: In “9 to 5,” Dolly Parton put a friendly face on feminism.Gloria Steinem, the personification of the women’s movement, died at 92.Photo: Robin Platzer/Getty Images For more information on today’s episode, visit nytimes.com/thedaily. Transcripts of each episode will be made available by the next workday. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

From the New York Times, I'm Michael Bobarrow. This is The Daily. Hi, this is Rachel Abrams from the New York Times. Hi, Rachel. Thank you for making time to speak with us. I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you. Big one. Big one. On Thursday morning, hours after the death of the feminist icon, Gloria Steinem,

we reached out to one of her long time friends and colleagues, Letty Cotton-Pogriban. How did you first hear about the news of Gloria's passing? Robin called me at 6.44 a.m. And I was scared to take the call. And then it was Gloria. And, you know, I thought it might be, God forbid, someone in my family. Then I realized she was my family. She was your family.

Yeah. She was. Gloria has been in my life for 55 years. So I met her in 1971 at the, the founding conference of the National Women's Political Caucus. And we ended up talking until 3 in the morning. She was interested in everyone. She thought every woman's life was a novel, a story.

You know, she saw women's lives in all the complexity of women's lives. She didn't see us as any one thing. And she knew somewhere in every woman there was the tragedy, comedy, and meaning. Word of Steinem's death came as many Americans were still grieving the loss of another iconic woman,

Dolly Parton. Dolly Parton passed away today. She's such an exceptional singer. Beautiful voice. To me, she was kind of like a guiding light. She's kind of like our matriarch, our country's queen in a sense. And she just has always been good and just

embodies good, reflects good, to people, and I think that that's so important. On paper, the connections between these two women seem faint and superficial. But for my colleague, Times Magazine writer Susan Domino's, the relationship between their lives and their impact was inescapable. It's Friday, September 4th. Hey, Sue. Hi, Michael.

I think it's fair to say it's been a tough week and a half. I think it's fair to say it's been pretty emotional for a lot of people. Yeah. Well, tell me how you have been thinking about these back-to-back deaths of these two hugely important women, Dolly Parton, and Gloria Steinem. Well, to start, I have to say that the timing of their deaths so close together has really been, I think, something that's made me reflect on the way they were influential, almost as a duo. in my life and for probably a lot of other women around my age or maybe a little bit older or a little bit younger. But, you know, I came of age in the 70s. And in a way, I almost can't remember a time

when I didn't know who Gloria Steinem was. You know, she represented feminism with a capital F and she was fighting for a world in which women could fully express themselves and be their most powerful selves, but was also advocating for the world to change too. She was fighting for structural change, for political change, for legal change. And in a lot of cases, achieving it.

Yeah, and that is definitely, I think, the side of feminism that we deflect to most often when we think about it. But the other side of feminism is the women who weren't claiming that label of feminism, but we're nonetheless out there in acting and living the promise of what feminism was trying to offer to women, which is to say, financial independence, total control of your life, an unapologetic inhabiting of who it was that you wanted to be and insisting on that kind of woman's right to be strong and to be fearless. And that was Dali Parton, who, by the way, often danced around the word feminism

and even often tried to avoid it. And frankly, I don't think she's necessarily the first person people think of when they think of feminism. Right. But the fact of their dying so close to each other has really made me realize that feminism needed both of those representations of what women could do. It needed the person who was the explicit organizer and the rallier and the articulator of what these specific values were, but it also needed that person who was just embodying it and embodying it with so much joy and so much power.

Well, talk Sue about the two very different lives and two very different approaches of these women and how you yourself experience them in your own life. And because she died just within the past 24 hours or so, let's start with Gloria Steinem and how she comes into your consciousness. So I've only recently thought a little bit about the fact that I was born on September 1, 1970, which was just a few days after one of these big inflection points

in the feminist movement. When there was this huge women's strike and 50,000 women marched on 15,000. Avenue and closed it down. The main amount, of course, is equal rights. Equal rights to have a job, to have respect, to not be viewed as a piece of meat. And I grew up with the rise of feminism, which is to say the omnipresence of Gloria Steinem. I would not have admitted my own inequality, even though I had been refused apartments by landlords who would not rent to women.

She was everywhere. I no longer accept society's judgment. that my group is second class. And she was somebody who I remember kind of in the background of my entire experience of growing up in the 70s as a kid in a household with tons of magazines lying around. And what exactly was she saying?

And in particular, what was she saying about feminism and women? So she really entered feminism through journalism. Her big first breakout piece of journalism was famously she went undercover as a playboy bunny and revealed that this job that people from the outside thought was maybe kind of glamorous and fun was actually grueling. It was humiliating. The women there were exposed to all kinds of harassment. They were required to take these invasive gynecological exams. You know, they were

underpaid. They worked long hours. And it was a piece of stunt journalism in a way. And it got her a lot of attention. But she didn't really become active as a feminist, per se, until the late 60s when she was reporting on a group of women who were openly discussing their abortions. And she ended up writing a piece for New York Magazine about the Women's Liberation Movement. From there, I think, public speaking invitations started flowing in. And all of this ultimately leads to her co-founding, what became Ms. Magazine. which was an incredible manifesto for women of the time, and was immediately a huge hit.

It started because there were just a great many women writers and editors who didn't feel that they were working on magazines that they read and that they had the opportunity to really be honest about their own experiences in a magazine. It was the first magazine run entirely by women, and unlike other women's magazines, it was leaning into, controversial subjects. You know, how to get equal pay legally speaking or extra legally, how to take the license away from the television station that's discriminating against women, how to start a child care center, how to get into medical school. You know, it's very strong on how to articles with the

simple assumption that this is possible. It also, I think, really encouraged other women's magazines ultimately to cover those topics too. So it was a juggernaut that changed the face. of pop cultural media consumption for women. Eventually, of course, though, she leaps from journalism into this much more formal advocacy and organizing and into politics. Very quickly, yeah.

I mean, obviously she was really an important messenger through the media, but she was also an organizer. We are the women that our parents warned us about. We have got here a revolution. She was fighting for the ERA. She was here not only for the Equal Rights Amendment, but in the names of all the women in this country who struggle with two jobs when men have won. She was helping to found the National Women's Political Caucus.

She was very active in union organizing. This inhuman system of exploitation will change, but only if we force it to change. And she was basically someone who stood for equality in the workplace, women's control of their reproductive rights, an end to all kinds of double standards and a real shift in what home life ideally would look like. Well, as Steinem and those around her are coming at this question of women's equality and liberation from all these different angles,

what were you and those around you making of the message? If I'm really honest, I think in some ways it was an uncomfortable time for many people, maybe even including a little suburban kid. You know, I think feminism in general, the feminism I associated with Steinem, had this image that was a little bit harsh, maybe, you know, the songs. Even if you just think about the anthems, it was like,

I am woman, hear me roar, you know, or was Aretha Franklin, God bless her, demanding respect, or it was later, like, I will survive. All these things that are really important, but we're a little bit maybe intimidating for a kid. And I kind of associated feminism, maybe because of more conservative messages that were also being filtered through. I associated it with why that mom around the corner, you know, walked out on her family. Or I associated it with why my favorite summer camp counselor made fun of me for reading 17 magazine

because it was all about how to look cute for boys or, you know, how to sew things from leftover dish rags. They just thought it was the silliest thing in the world. And for me that... Basically, your... counselor would have said, Sue, that is not feminist enough. You should be ashamed of yourself. Yeah, and pretty much did. It's just that I was growing up one way, and the world was quickly changing, and I think a lot of people were grappling with that. Well, how does your view of this all, and of Gloria Steinem, change over time? Certainly with time, I came to have a huge appreciation

for the work that she did and the possibilities that she made available for women like me. You know, my first job in the workforce was in 1992. I was working at Glamour Magazine. And that magazine at the time was aggressively covering reproductive rights and women's health and sexual harassment. None of that would have been possible without the success of Ms. Magazine. And I had a female boss's boss there, Ruth Whitney, a woman who had tremendous authority. I mean, I remember women running down the hallway applying lips. if they got called to her office, that was the kind of command that she had. And it left a huge

impression on me. And again, I think those kinds of responsibilities and jobs are something that the feminist movement, which Gloria Steinem was hugely influential in leading, made possible. And just a few years later, I would end up working at New York Magazine, where Gloria Steinem got her start. And I had the tremendous opportunity to interview her for an oral history. And not only did I thank her, but it's the only time in my life I've ever asked anybody I've interviewed for a signature. And she actually inscribed for my then four-month-old niece a copy of Free to Be You and Me, which was this tremendous feminist anthem book that we all loved at the time. And her inscription to my niece read, to Emily, who will continue the revolution for all of us,

exclamation point. So my gratitude for Gloria Steinem, I would say, was kind of a ongoing process, you know, that took a little bit of time for me to mature and really embrace. But when I think about the real lightning bolt feminist moment that I had, it was actually in 1980. And the person at the center of it was not Gloria Steinem. It was Dolly Parton. We'll be right back. So, Sue, tell us about this moment, which you mentioned just before the break, of feminist discovery for you that involves Dolly Parton. It's 1980, and I'm 10 years old, my sister is 11 years old.

Somebody drops us up at the movie theater, and we sat down to watch the movie 9 to 5, which starred Dolly Parton, Jane Fonda, and Lily Tomlin. We laughed for two straight hours. It might be one of my happiest memories with my sister even. And we absolutely fell in love with Dolly Parton. I think it's possible that we had a vague idea of who she was, but we were New York kids. We didn't listen to country music. So it was our first real encounter with her.

And she was this absolutely beautiful, beautiful, beaming, uncomplaining, action-oriented woman who wouldn't take anything. And we were just riveted. Do you remember any of the scenes that stuck with you? Yeah, actually, you know, Dolly Parton, she's a secretary who's been harassed by her boss. Doral Lee, I'm serious. Don't you understand I am crazy about you? You're all I ever think about. Mr. Hart, I've told you before I'm a married woman. And I'm a married man.

That's what makes it so perfect. But I also remember being struck by the injustices, which is his kind of pathetic objectification of her and his pathetic protestations of being in love. Just what exactly are you driving at? Well, it's very simple. You come over to my house tonight, and I'll just forget the whole thing.

You are disgusting. Is that a no? Those kind of classic sexual harassment moments that so many women continue, frankly, to be subject to and turned out to be something that, you know, was part of the work lives of so many of my friends and me. And actually, you know, the movie has these crazy fantasy sequences that now seem completely cuckoo pants.

Morning. Hold it. Just hold it right there. Something wrong? No, no, nothing's wrong. I just want to check your bud. Turn around for a second. Oh. Oh, you got a nice. nice ass frame. But you know you ought to get your pants cut a little tighter. You need to bring

them up just a little in the crotch. I mean, you got a nice package. You might as well show it off. She's a secretary who's been harassed by her boss. And she kind of turns the tables on him and objectifies him and comments on his body and has him twirl around for her. And it's a very funny scene. She's very charming in it. And it just made us laugh and laugh. But at the time, it's a was just seeing these really smart, funny, chic women who are not taking it anymore. We could only find something on it. Maybe we could trade off. Blackmail. All that sounds good. What could we get on him? A sex scandal. Take a picture of him in bed with a prostitute.

Oh, who'd care? Yeah, Hart would just buy up the copies and send him out his Christmas cards. And there is no tenant of... feminism in the workplace that they don't touch on in that movie. It's equal pay, it's child care, it's the right to work free of sexual harassment, it's the right to be expected to get promotions and not have to bring somebody coffee and to be rewarded for the work that you've done and not see a man get credit for it. It's very explicit. I mean, you know, I now know that it was actually based on an actual feminist organizing group for clerical workers called nine to five. And it had a real

mission to it, but it was cloaked in this joyful comedic, you know, masterpiece of its time that was extremely well done and turned out to be an enormous hit. And when you think back to watching 9 to 5, what do you think it was, in particular, about Parton that gripped you? Well, I think feminism in generally was unfairly portrayed as sort of doer, you know, and even though Gloria Steinem, of course, herself was quite conventionally. beautiful. There was still this stereotype of like the angry feminist. And Dolly Parton in this movie was angry. She was mad as hell, but she was also kind of delightful and charming and had a lightness

and even a sparkliness to her and obviously was hyper feminine. And so that juxtaposition of her values with a look and an aura and a sort of southern charm that we didn't associate with feminism. There was just something very enticing about all of those things wrapped up in this tiny blonde package. It's striking to me that you called this a kind of like lightning bolt feminist moment for yourself because it's sparked by a woman who, as you said, at the beginning of our conversation, doesn't call herself a feminist.

You know, I think, yes, that's true. And I think that that was part of the power of the movie, not just for me as a dumb 10-year-old, but for so many women who, you know, if you ask them, do you believe in equality, they would say, yes, I do. And if you ask them, do you believe in fairness? And do you believe you should get credit for your work?

They would all say yes. But for complicated cultural reasons, felt alienated from the capital F feminist capital M movement or from the women's liberation movement. and kind of for some of the reasons that even I as a little kid felt sort of threatened by it, you know. And so the movie was able to bring into the fold a lot of people who just wanted to see women get treated the way they deserved to be treated. And of course, that's all that feminism ever wanted. But there was something just really enveloping about the message that everybody could get behind in that movie.

Did you think of this performance and of the movie itself, as feminist at the time? I don't know if I would have even stopped to reflect on that, but it's certainly aligned with, you know, what I knew to be feminist ideals. As for Dolly herself, I think it really was only with time that I understood the feminist person behind that feminist role, you know?

What do you mean? Well, she did record songs that were ahead of their time in speaking about things, for example, like unwed pregnancy and a song called Down from Dover. that many radio stations refused to play. I know this dress I'm wearing and doesn't hide the secret I have tried concealing. And, you know, she would go on, for example, to start something called Dollywood. There are places that hold a special meaning in your life.

Which was a really bold move for a woman to take that kind of ownership of her brand and name something after herself like that. You know, we know that women are perceived as less likable than men are when they ask for raises, right? Like, women aren't supposed to be patting themselves on the back or drawing attention to themselves and their glory.

Of course, she was doing that to bring business and job opportunities to the community in which she was raised. That was the motivation. It wasn't about self-glorification. But I think it was a modeling of power that is very, very, very, rare in female business history. And she was a tremendous business woman who really kept control

and fought for control of her own creative output in a way that no doubt paved the way for people like Taylor Swift, who, you know, have inspired so many young women with her fierceness and the way that she conducts herself as a businesswoman. So what you came to understand is that the woman who played that character in 9 to 5 battling a chauvinist boss and a toxic male culture was a woman who, through song and through her business, modeled what a woman could be in practice, and what that could be was a bona fide business mogul. Yeah, think about it in many ways.

She was executing the vision of what feminists wanted women to be able to do. And on behalf of myself and the Internal Revenue Service, I'd like to thank Whitney for making my song such an enormous hit. She had control over her finances and over her business. You know, I look like a woman, but I think like a man. And in this world of business, that has helped me a lot. Because by the time they think that I don't know what's going on, and I don't got the money and gone.

She dressed the way she wanted to dress. I love being flashy. I love kind of showing the parts of me that I've become famous for. I try to do it in as good a taste as I can. She wasn't going to let anybody tell her what she had to look. like. And, you know, even the fact that she was child-free and was not being questioned as being, you know, less than a woman, that too was something that Gloria Steinem wanted for women, that they could make that choice and not be judged for it. All of these things made her somebody

who was living the feminist ideals in practice. Well, that makes me wonder. What if anything did Gloria Steinem have to say about Dolly Parton? Or, I guess, the other way around? Did they see themselves as peers and in the fight together? You know, that's a great question. You know, Dali Parton went really far out of her way in interviews leading up to 9 to 5 to say that this was absolutely not a movie

about structural sexism or, you know, workplace injustice. This was not a feminist movie. It was just a funny movie about this one guy and his three wacky secretaries. And I think what was happening there, you know, you could look at it cynically and say, oh, this is a woman who was terrified of losing her audience in the South. But I think that you have to interpret this decision through the lens of who we know her to be,

which was this unbelievable philanthropist and visionary and champion of literacy. And she was by then a very unifying figure. which, you know, just look at how the country has come together to grieve her loss, just as we have Gloria Steinem's loss. But I think she recognized that there were other people who could claim the mantle of feminism and do that work, but that only Dolly Parton could champion women's rights and their right to be equals in every way without labeling herself

and that she could rally people around the cause and be more effective in it, if she didn't take on any kind of a label. Did Gloria Steinem ever say anything about that? What did she think about that subtler approach? Well, in 1987, Ms. Magazine includes Dolly Parton as one of its Women of the Year, and no one other than Gloria Steinem herself actually writes this tribute to Dolly Parton. And you have to remember, back in 1987, Dolly Parton was, you know, in some circles,

as much a punchline as she was an icon. And here's Gloria Steinem recognizing the work that she undoubtedly did do for the cause, whether she would own it in that language of feminism or not. What does Steinem write in this tribute to Parton? She starts like this. People who haven't listened to Dolly Parton or feminism may be surprised to learn that they go together. And she goes on to say

that if you don't understand that, you're missing something. Here's what she says. If feminism means each of us finding our unique power and helping other women do the same, Dolly Parton certainly has done both. So Steinem is saying, quite formally, that, yes, Dolly Parton may reject the label feminist.

And you might not think of her as a feminist, but I am here to say, as the embodiment of feminism, as its patron saint, that she is a feminist figure, and she's done the work, and she's walked the walk. Yeah, that she has that power. That's the word that I think really sticks out for me.

This episode is about the way you've experienced these two women, but the way I've experienced their death is that I don't think anyone could have ever, imagined that they would both die so close to each other, and I don't think any of us really understood that either was even close to death. You know, it's funny because when I did interview Gloria Steinem, she actually spoke a little bit about what she imagined

for the end of her life. Here's what she said. In my old age, really old age, since I'm going to live past 100, I hope, I would love to have a diner. A little diner with blue gingham curtains by the side of the road, because diners are the most democratic places. And she goes on to talk about how everybody goes to diners.

Truck drivers, people from the neighborhood, they're cheerful, they're cozy. She says, they're truly populist places. And when I think about that diner, I can just imagine who's playing on the jukebox. It's Dolly. Well, Sue. Thank you so much. We appreciate it. It's really been my pleasure. Thank you for having me. You can hear and read more from reporters like Sue Domino's in the New York Times app.

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