The Daily - The Sunday Read: ‘Do Our Dogs Have Something to Tell the World?’
Episode Date: January 26, 2025As soon as Camille Bromley got Ellie, a black-eyed, bat-eared German shepherd puppy, she trained her to be a good dog. And so she was. Two years on, Ms. Bromley started to think she was a little too o...bedient. Ellie was hesitant, whining when she was unsure of herself, in a way that clashed with her big muscles and pointy canines.The solution, maybe, was buttons. Around this time, Ms. Bromley started to see dogs on social media seeming to express their desires by the most absurdly simple, low-tech means possible: stepping on multicolored plastic buttons on the floor, each disc emitting a word when the dog pressed it. Ms. Bromley scrolled through videos on her phone of dogs pawing FOOD and MORE and NOW, sometimes in that order. Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
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Hi, my name is Camille Bromley and I'm a contributor to the New York Times magazine.
Back in the summer of 2020, like many people, I had a lot of time on my hands.
So I decided to adopt a pandemic puppy, a German Shepherd I named Ellie.
I'd fostered cats for many years, so I'd always thought of myself as a cat person.
But as soon as I got Ellie, I thought, this is way, way better.
Ellie is a smart dog.
I could teach her a new command or a new trick in about 15 seconds.
But even though she was really good at training, all of our communication was always one way.
It was me to her, right?
So I started thinking, well, what does she want to tell me?
Scientists generally believe that only humans have language.
There are a few exceptions,
like dolphins and whales, for example.
There were some famous studies back in the 70s
that involved humans talking with animals.
You might remember Coco,
a gorilla who was taught sign language.
Many scientists were critical of the work done with Coco
because they said that having one animal
being trained extensively in a lab setting
didn't prove much.
While it may have looked like Coco
was signing some remarkable things,
it's also possible her signs were random,
or that it was all wishful thinking on the part of her human trainers.
After the 70s, animal language experiments, like the one with Coco, were mostly abandoned.
But now scientists know that when it comes to communicating with humans,
dogs actually have a significant edge on gorillas.
Dogs have always needed us for food and safety.
They've had to become really, really good at understanding us for evolutionary survival.
Humans on the other hand, we find ourselves reading all sorts of our own preferences and
behaviors onto our dogs, like thinking they like to
be hugged, they don't like rainy weather, or that yeah, they want to eat that birthday
cake.
Being the overindulgent American dog owner that I am, for this week's Sunday Read,
I wished for a way for my dog to express herself to me.
To do that, I asked scientists what's possible, and I went to see the dog owners who said
they'd actually cracked the code of human-dog communication.
So here's everything that I found out in my article, read by Gabra Zachman.
Our audio producer today is Tali Abacases. Our music was written and
performed by Erin Esposito. Thanks for listening.
As soon as I got Ellie, my black-eyed, bat-eared German Shepherd puppy, I trained
her to be a good dog. And so she was. When I spoke, she listened.
She kept her barks quiet and her teeth clean.
Two years on, I started to think she was a little too obedient.
There was something pitiful about the way that even unleashed in the park, she would
stop at a fork in the path and look to me to point the way.
In the house, she would pause behind a half-closed door instead of pushing through.
She was hesitant, whining when she was unsure of herself in a way that clashed with her
big muscles and pointy canines.
One day, when the cat in our local bodega poked its head out of the store, Ellie squealed
like a child.
Her training, I saw, had come at the cost of something precious.
Her independence, certainly. but also something more intrinsic,
something like her animality.
Ellie's dad, my partner, Jesse, agreed.
I think she needs more self-confidence, he said.
The solution, maybe, was buttons.
Around this time, I started to see dogs on social media seeming to express their desires
by the most absurdly simple, low-tech means possible,
stepping on multicolored plastic buttons on the floor,
each disc emitting a word when the dog pressed it.
I scrolled through videos on my phone
of dogs pawing food and more, and now,
sometimes in that order.
The most famous was Bunny, a lanky sheepadoodle in Tacoma,
Washington, with 8.6 million TikTok followers, a vocabulary of 105 buttons,
and a diagnosis of generalized anxiety disorder.
Bunny's online store sold a starter pack of six buttons for $65.
Through the buttons, Bunny reported her experience of the world.
She said, look, cat.
She was frequently concerned.
She seemed to have restless dreams about a stranger animal.
A favorite topic of conversation was poop, as in poop play.
Bunny was advanced in her use of the buttons, a star student.
But there was also an endless video stream of other dogs, also cats, pigs,
horses, and cows, making equally clever and entertaining statements.
I would open the apps and see a mini Aussie doodle with a taste for
dirt demanding to go outside for a snack.
A French cat being denied a treat and complaining with apparent disdain,
pas content.
These pets weren't just standing by to serve their human owners.
They were companions with voices of their own.
I looked over at Ellie lying in the far corner of the room.
Her eyes were dark, her feelings mysterious.
What was buried inside that impenetrable dog skull?
If I could teach her to use these buttons, she would tell me, or so I imagined.
Ellie's first word I decided would be outside.
Outside was one of the recommended first words in the informal pedagogy of
dog button learning, created by a speech language pathologist named Christina Hunger.
In 2018, when Hunger was raising her blue-heeler, catahoula puppy, Stella,
she noticed that Stella was progressing through the early stages of communication,
much as the young toddlers she worked with did.
Hunger taught children to speak by tapping icons on a tablet.
She wondered, could Stella learn words through a similar method?
To test this hypothesis, Hunger bought a set of recordable buttons that,
when pressed, would play back her voice saying simple words, outside, water,
play, and fastened them to a board on the floor.
Every time she talked to Stella, she pressed the corresponding button.
About a month later, Stella caught on,
pressing outside to use the bathroom in the yard
and play to request playtime.
After a few months, she pressed water,
when Christina was watering plants.
Stella was narrating what she saw, Hunger thought.
Hunger expanded Stella's board,
adding emotions like mad and social words like bye.
When Stella started putting multiple words together,
Hunger wasn't too surprised.
Dogs are about as smart as a two and a half year old human,
and Hunger knew that toddlers of that age
typically composed sentences of two or three words.
After a year, Stella was saying,
bed later and want outside now.
One day, the end of daylight saving time
delayed Stella's mealtime.
She asked for food and hunger told her to wait.
In protest, she stomped over to her buttons
and pressed, love you, no.
Hunger's blog of Stella's progress went viral
and other dog owners started experimenting with the buttons.
Those accounts themselves went viral.
A movement grew.
The dogs who used the buttons had some things in common.
First, their owners spent a lot of time with them,
talking to them, looking at them,
pressing buttons with them.
Second, these owners were often women
with no children in the house.
As for the dogs themselves, many had bossy personalities.
They had things they needed you to know.
A pit bull named Tilda pressed sound twice every time her owner joined a weekly game
of Dungeons & Dragons.
Should I wear headphones?
The owner wondered.
A golden retriever named Cash pressed worried when his owner turned on the stove to cook
dinner because he wasn't a fan of all the sizzling and popping.
When we actually can hear firsthand how an animal is experiencing the world, it profoundly
changes how we treat them and how we view them, Hunger told me.
Both my husband and I really view Stella as an equal part of our family.
Her opinion matters. Her feelings family. Her opinion matters.
Her feelings matter.
Her thoughts matter.
Of all the dogs I saw online, Bunny, the Sheepadoodle,
had the strongest opinions and the biggest feelings.
She hated feet.
She hated water.
She hated birds.
She was known for her outspoken nature and philosophical musings.
I dog, she remarked.
Dog, why?
Scrolling through her videos, I paused on an exchange between Bunny and
her owner, Alexis Devine.
Mad, Bunny said, and looked at Devine.
Why are you mad, Devine asked.
Ouch, Bunny said.
Where is your ouch, Devine asked.
Bunny pressed stranger and pawed the side of her head.
In your ear, Divine asked.
Where stranger?
Bunny appeared to reflect.
Paw, she said, and came over to Divine.
She held out her shaggy left paw, and the video cuts to Divine holding a fox tail
thorn that she explains was stuck between her toes.
Now, people online are unkind.
Bunny's posts incite fervent ridicule as much as they inspire and amaze.
Detractors accuse the videos of being faked, selectively edited, cherry picked.
The more scientifically minded skeptics bring up Clever Hans,
the horse whose owner toured Germany at the turn of the 20th century to prove he
could do mathematical calculations and ended up showing that animals can be very
good at picking up on unconscious cues.
Everyone knows that while dogs recognize human words,
they are not supposed to be able to use words themselves.
But for the pet owners, pressing buttons with dogs is not so different from communicating with a small child.
As Devine says, what's not to believe?
Since at least the Victorian age,
when we first began inviting birds, cats, and dogs
into our homes en masse to live alongside us,
people have endeavored to talk to their pets.
Charles Darwin, a lifelong dog owner, drew on observations of his own dogs to develop
some of his ideas about the natural world.
Darwin was modern science's first great believer in animal minds.
He thought that animals, especially primates and some other mammals, had many of the same
emotions and mental abilities as humans, only
to a different degree.
Primates, he wrote in The Descent of Man, feel jealousy, suspicion, emulation, gratitude,
and magnanimity.
They practice deceit and are revengeful.
They are sometimes susceptible to ridicule and even have a sense of humor.
Darwin's ideas inspired many Victorians to wonder whether their pets might be
taught human languages and vice versa,
setting off a long period of preposterous at-home experiments.
Darwin's neighbor, John Lubeck,
was among the first Victorian naturalists to perform language experiments on an animal.
He taught a terrier puppy named Van how to associate cards imprinted with words
like bone or tea with the objects they named.
To ask for a bone, Van would select the card and bring it to Lubbock in his mouth.
Around the time of Lubbock's experiments with Van, a New York publisher produced
a phonetic dictionary of some 600 cat sounds compiled by a Frenchman named
Alphonse-Leon Grimaldi.
The transcriptions included everyday vocabulary,
lei for milk,
pitley bowl for mouse meat,
meow for hear,
as well as complex concepts like zulaim for millionaire.
In India, meanwhile, the explorer and writer Sir Richard Burton
brought 40 monkeys of various
species into his house and gave each a name, including one he referred to as his wife,
who wore pearl earrings and dined at his side in a highchair. Burton recorded about 60 monkey
sounds that he claimed to be able to understand and speak.
In London, a 20-year-old Alexander Graham Bell tried out some of his lifelong
language experiments on the family terrier, Trove. He would shape Trove's lips with
his hands while prompting her to growl, producing sentences like,
How are you, grandmama?
By the 1960s, researchers understood how naively anthropomorphic those Victorian exercises
had been. But communication experiments with animals still promised to settle a great linguistic debate.
Did language belong to humans alone? Or did non-humans also have some capacity for it?
As a challenge to Noam Chomsky's assertion that such a thing was impossible,
a baby chimp was christened Nim Chimpsky and sent to live with a human family in Manhattan to learn sign language.
Novel and ambitious experiments with primates, dolphins, and
parrots proliferated, many of them documenting animals following specific
cues and using words and phrases to communicate with their human trainers.
Some of these studies had serious flaws in their methodology, however, and
in many cases, their treatment of the animals would be considered unethical
today.
Project NIM, the flagship study of this era,
enlisted a rotating cast of student volunteers to train NIM in American
sign language, all while young NIM was disruptively shuttled among homes and
caregivers.
Eventually, the lapses in these studies began to overshadow the findings. all while young Nim was disruptively shuttled among homes and caregivers.
Eventually, the lapses in these studies began to overshadow the findings.
In 1980, a New York Academy of Science conference was held with the mocking
purpose of declaring animal language endeavors a failure and the scientists' frauds.
The excitement and funding flamed out as spectacularly as it began.
Nim finished his life in a cage at an animal refuge.
Animal language studies acquired an unshakable odor of malfeasance and
scientific malpractice.
In 2019, Federico Rossano, an associate professor of cognitive science at
the University of California San Diego, got an email from a colleague suggesting someone they might invite to give a talk to the department.
In it was a news article about Christina Hunger and Stella.
Mixed feelings about this, Rossano replied, attaching a book chapter he used in his classes
titled, What Did We Learn From the Ape Language Studies? The answer, not a lot.
What did we learn from the ape language studies? The answer, not a lot.
But by the following summer,
the pandemic had halted Rosano's research
on how chimps communicate to share food
and how human children make requests.
Leo Trottier, a former cognitive science PhD student at UCSD
who left the program to found a company
that makes game consoles for dogs
and recently started the fluent pet recordable button brand
with Divine, reached out to pitch a study about the buttons.
He said he knew of more than a thousand pet owners
who would be willing to participate.
Despite his initial hesitation,
Rossano saw that this was a unique opportunity
to circumvent COVID restrictions
and conduct a citizen science study
from the participants' homes.
Because the study would not rely on a single animal
trained by researchers in a lab,
but rather on thousands of animals living their normal lives,
it was less likely to suffer from the problems and ethical lapses
that afflicted past animal language studies.
The field of animal behavior, also known as ethology,
had itself transformed since 1980,
when the term animal cognition was barely used.
It is now known that primates, despite being our closest genetic relatives, are not all
that good at understanding humans, while dogs and cats get us more easily.
Research suggests that dogs, which have co-evolved with humans
over the past 18,000 to 32,000 years,
might in fact be the ideal species
with which to study two-way communication.
They were the first domesticated animals,
and very likely the first that listened to us talk.
When dogs hear human speech,
their brains light up with interest.
They look where we point.
They recognize our facial expressions.
They mirror our anxiety.
In the buttons, Rossano saw an opportunity to learn what else they could do.
But he was cautious.
I did not want to destroy my academic career, to be very honest," he told me.
The study that Rossano and his team began in 2020 is the largest animal communication
study ever tried, with 10,000 dogs and cats in almost 50 countries around the world.
It has proved hugely popular with the public, and much less so with other scientists.
When I talked with Rossano in July, he had a beleaguered air.
His second paper on the buttons was about to come out, but
the path to publication had been slow and onerous.
For the past two years, his papers were consistently
rejected or not even considered for review. It felt like gatekeeping. Earlier that day,
another scientist asked him, are you the person responsible for my wife wasting my time with clips
of dogs? He was looking forward to going dark for three weeks in Kenya, where he would follow a
troop of about 150 baboons on foot across the savanna to observe their collective decision making.
Rosano reminded me that he had started at a place of skepticism.
I definitely have a lot of issues with the social media part of this thing,
he said.
But there are right now several thousand people who are doing this to their pets,
and I think we should try to take it seriously.
Is this good? Is it bad? people who are doing this to their pets, and I think we should try to take it seriously.
Is this good? Is it bad? What would it tell us about these animals' minds?
The data that Rossano collects is entirely independent of any social media posts. I don't
even have TikTok, he told me. He screens for the clever Hans effect by using double-blind
testing and controls for unintentional cherry picking on the part of pet owners by setting up cameras running 24-7 in some homes and
sending in his own researchers into other homes a few times a year.
He has found that the dogs, on average, recognize certain common words and
press certain two-word phrases non-randomly without only mimicking their
owners' presses.
This indicates that the dogs aren't just mindlessly slamming buttons.
But the tests do not yet show that dogs are doing anything scientists didn't
already know they could do.
More than a decade ago, studies with two border collies named Rico and
Chaser demonstrated that some dogs can learn a remarkable number of words,
more than 1,000 in the case of Chaser, who also understood semantic instructions like, to ball, take
frisbee. Hungarian studies involving so-called gifted word learner dogs have
found a few dozen dogs from around the world who can learn the names of
hundreds of objects even without training and can remember these words
years later.
These are remarkable feats of cognition, but they mostly rely on the familiar mechanisms of associative learning first established a century ago by scientists
like Ivan Pavlov.
Press a button, get a reward.
The primary claim of the button users, that dogs are producing original
combinations of buttons they haven't been trained to press to communicate something they couldn't otherwise
say, is entirely different.
When a dog named Parker on TikTok sees an ambulance and presses squeaker, then car,
she appears to be using words in a way that's closer to how humans do.
Multi-word phrases like Parker's are creative,
spontaneous, and flexible expressions of language,
a quality that the linguist Charles Hockett
called productivity.
Productivity is thought to be unique to human language.
It's what the most famous animal language studies
appeared to show non-human minds were capable of.
Anecdotally documenting, for example, that Washoe, a chimp,
signed water bird to refer to a swan.
That Coco the gorilla signed finger bracelet to mean a ring.
And that the orangutan Chantek called himself orangutan person
to differentiate himself from ordinary non-signing orangutans.
Herbert Terrace, who led the NIMH study,
is now a critic of such anecdotes.
His latest book is titled,
"'Why Chimpanzees Can't Learn Language and Only Humans Can'."
He maintains that the animals in these studies
were merely signing things in random sequence
in the hopes of a reward.
None of the animals got anywhere close
to full grammatical sentences.
The longest sequence Nim ever signed after years of confinement and
training was give orange me, give eat orange me,
eat orange, give me eat orange, give me you.
That, Terris said, is not language.
But not all scientists share Terris's skepticism.
We don't know if it's real.
We don't know if it's stupid unless we test it, says Irene Pepperberg, a research professor
at Boston University.
Pepperberg, now sometimes called the mother of avian cognition, is well known in the field
for her 30-year-long communication study with Alex, an African gray parrot.
Pepperberg demonstrated that Alex asked questions,
performed simple addition,
and, in a few instances, coined neologisms.
Partly because of Pepperberg's work,
parrots are now widely recognized
to have an intelligence roughly comparable
to that of a five-year-old human child.
Of Rosano's study, she said, I'd like to see data.
I'd like to see what the animals are capable of.
All these studies that we're doing in terms of looking at other animals'
abilities, it's opening up a world to us.
Rossano's next research questions will look at multiple word phrases,
the ability to talk about things that aren't present, and emotions. He plans to take biometric measurements to determine whether a dog is
physiologically calm when it presses happy and stressed when it presses worried.
When it presses ball, does it mean one specific ball or
any object in the abstract category of spherical toys?
In the distant future, he imagines the possibility of testing episodic memory.
Does your dog remember the time you took them camping?
Rossano's most advanced inquiries will rely on the top performing dogs in his study,
the genius dogs, dogs like Bunny and Parker.
Most dogs, like most humans, are just mediocre.
Out of 10,000 dogs, Rossano estimates, about 65 use more than 100 buttons.
The median is nine.
Ellie was turning out to be an average dog, button-wise.
Her technique was basic, but effective.
In the afternoon, she would rouse herself from a nap
and smash play over and over until I got up from my computer.
She went through a period of insisting
on more food after dinner. I assumed she was being greedy until I got up from my computer. She went through a period of insisting on more food
after dinner.
I assumed she was being greedy until I finally weighed her
and found she'd lost six pounds.
We moved apartments and she started pressing outside,
a button she rarely used before.
I realized she wanted to sit on the stoop,
a feature of our new place.
During a thunderstorm late one night,
Ellie got up nervously whining,
and paced the living room.
She pressed each button in turn, again and again,
unleashing a chaotic babble of tinny button words.
She was frantically trying to tell us,
what?
It was intolerable.
Jessie got up and threw the buttons under the table.
Rossano sent me a list of his colleagues in dog cognition research and where they
fell on a spectrum from thinks we are okay to hates buttons. On the hates buttons end is Alexandra Horowitz,
the head of a dog cognition lab at Barnard College.
And probably the most publicly known scientific voice on the subject of dogs.
In the first chaotic weeks after adopting Ellie, I read her best selling book,
Inside of a Dog, in which she warns against assumptions like thinking your dog's
kisses mean he loves you.
I called Horowitz and described my experiments with Ellie.
To me, that's not great, Horowitz said.
Dogs already do so much to accommodate our lives.
They're on our schedule.
They have to ask us if they want to urinate.
They socialize on our schedule.
They walk where we want to walk on a leash.
Ostensibly the interest in having dogs
is that they're another species.
There's something unknown about them, and that's wonderful.
Why do we lean into forcing them to wear clothes
and speak our language?
I told Horowitz that Cash, the golden retriever,
repeatedly pressed backyard water
until his owner figured out that he might be asking
to swim in the river behind the house.
When Cash was let outside, he ran right to the water.
"'It's not scientific,' Harwit said.
"'It's possible,' she went on,
"'that the dog was requesting to swim.
"'Equally possible, though,
"'was that the dog pressed some buttons
"'and then, unrelatedly, was happy to swim.
"'Neither possibility could be proved false.'
"'If the button said, rocket moon,
"'and the dog pushed rocket moon,
most people would say, no, no, that's insane.
My dog is not wishing they could take a rocket to the moon, Horowitz said.
Within the dog button community, Horowitz is regarded as a killjoy.
Another dog researcher in the same camp is Clive Winn,
a behavioral scientist at Arizona State University.
Winn's theory about why dogs occasionally seem to express
complex and creative phrases is that they get
the most enthusiastic reception from their owners
when they press a lot of different buttons,
and that the owners pay attention
only when these sequences make sense.
As a gesture of goodwill,
Devine sent Winn a button as a gift for his dog.
Wyn recorded, my name is Zephos into the button, and
he taught Zephos to press it.
So she said with my voice, my name is Zephos, Wyn told me.
She enjoyed it, and we enjoyed it.
I think it's all good clean fun, but
I don't think we learn anything about dogs by doing it.
For Wynn, the buttons are not only entirely superfluous
to the communication humans and dogs already have,
but also potentially a distraction
from their natural barks and howls,
their tail wags and tucks.
I actually think that having dogs press buttons
runs the risk of obscuring dogs' voices in
the sense of dogs' expressions of themselves," Wynn said.
Rossano disagrees with this notion.
It doesn't mean that they lose their first language, he said.
They're still dogs.
They still do their thing, and they still bark at people, and they still scratch the
door, and they still try to get toys.
It's just that in addition, they have another way to communicate.
And sometimes they choose that way to communicate, which I think is interesting to study.
Pet owners will tell you that their dogs love them unrequitedly, that they feel guilty,
that they make jokes.
According to the science, though, dogs don't necessarily do any of these things.
They may whine when you leave the house,
but separation anxiety isn't the same as missing you.
They can tell when a human is sad,
but scientifically speaking, that doesn't mean they care.
What's undeniable though, is the emotional connection
that humans feel with our pets.
Maybe our language-loving brain needs that bond
to manifest in words in order to feel real.
Julianne Kaminski, a comparative psychologist
who led the RICO study,
shared one of her more recent findings with me.
"'Dogs have a muscle around their eyes
for the sole purpose of making big, sad puppy dog faces.
Wolves do not have this muscle.'
This eyebrow movement most likely has no meaning
for the dogs,' Kaminski told me movement most likely has no meaning for the dogs,
Kaminsky told me.
But it may have meaning for humans.
It makes us want to take care of the poor things.
When humans and dogs look each other in the eye,
each species produces oxytocin,
the same hormone that bonds mothers to their children.
Kaminsky believes that dogs have evolved into creatures
we treat like our own children, and that the buttons feed
into this impulse.
It's this trap we are falling into, she said.
We evolutionarily created this niche for infants
that we now have designed this other species to fit right
into.
People can't help themselves.
They see the dog pressing the I love you button,
and they're like,
we're having a conversation.
In August, I drove up an unpaved road about three hours east of Tacoma to visit Alexis
Devine and Bunny.
Devine and Leo Trottier have sold more than two million buttons.
Earlier this year, she moved into a stylish two story cabin on a 55 acre
property to give her dogs a life with more agency.
It was fire season, and the hills around the cabin were covered in
parched yellow brush, and elk moved on the opposite slope.
Mount Rainier, wreathed in snow, loomed in the distance.
As soon as I parked, Otter and Tenrec, Divine's second and
third dogs, bounded to the car.
Divine kept Bunny on a leash, hanging back a safe distance.
Since moving to the cabin, Bunny's chronic anxiety and
gastrointestinal issues had calmed.
She was less fearful.
Upon seeing wildfire smoke around the cabin earlier that year,
she pressed fire, but not concerned.
Her temper was better.
She'd been playing with Otter rather than going, ugh, about him.
About Tanrek, a tiny papillon who looked less like a dog than some kind of plushy
gremlin, she was mostly confused.
She thinks he's a cat.
She's said that several times, Divine said.
Divine got Bunny as an eight week old puppy.
I wanted a different complexity of relationship you can only get with
a dog, she said.
She chose a sheepadoodle because she wanted a smart and
active dog, one that could offer a real connection.
At the time, she had a successful career as a wearable art designer.
When the pandemic began, her fashion shows were canceled.
More time for Bunny.
She was my next big project, Divine said.
I knew before I brought her home that I wanted to teach her to talk.
Divine spent those months making jewelry at the coffee table in her living room.
Bunny and the buttons spread out right in front of her.
She demonstrated the buttons constantly to her new puppy,
and Bunny pressed the buttons spontaneously all day long.
There was this need for her to feel like she had some control
over her environment, Divine said,
and I believe that the buttons were a way for her to do that.
She could ask me what was going on outside.
She could hear a sound and then express an emotion about it.
She could request specific places she wanted to go.
This is all hindsight, but she was telling me all along how I could help her be in
a better frame of mind.
The first words, outside, ball, mom, dad, were easy.
As Bunny's vocabulary grew,
Divine modeled more abstract concepts, like yesterday,
by narrating that Bunny had, the previous day, go see friend.
A months long period when Divine was getting tattoos done was an opportunity for
Mom, ouch.
Bunny picked it up easily.
One day she pressed ouch, ouch, ear, help.
And Divine understood that she had an earache
and flushed her ear with medication.
Through her social accounts,
Divine met other dog owners teaching their dogs
to use buttons.
And a couple dozen now gather in person every year.
Bunny had changed Divine's life entirely.
Divine picked up a new career and moved house.
She got an autism diagnosis.
She started to question the entire logic of pet ownership.
It's just not cool, man, that we have these captive animals,
Divine said.
Like, it's weird.
Animal ownership is a very strange thing to me now.
In our conversations, Divine didn't evangelize for the buttons.
She believed that they were a good way to understand her dogs, and
that they allowed her dogs to advocate for themselves.
My overarching goal is for that dynamic to exist with or without buttons, she said.
In the past several months, Bunny had been using the buttons less, Divine said.
She was more relaxed, less needy.
She didn't need to speak out so much.
Whether or not Bunny was a genius dog, she carried a remarkable presence.
Her shaggy head followed me around the cabin.
Her eyes were a soulful, piercing hazel that seemed to see me exactly.
Her enormous paws flopped around when she walked.
She sat next to me on the floor of the cabin, watching, while I drank a seltzer.
I asked if I could talk to Bunny with the buttons.
We went over to the board and Alexis stood by the buttons.
Bunny sat and looked up at her expectantly.
Divine switched into a button voice that I recognized from her videos.
You want talk?
She said to Bunny.
You want talk, friend?
Hi, Bunny, I pressed and
waited as Tenrec trampled the mat, releasing a cascade of words.
Bunny, you want talk, new friend?
Divine said.
You want talk?
She pressed want, talk, hmm?
In emphatic staccato.
Bunny looked at her.
What do you want to say?
Do you want to say hi?
Pause.
New friend, love you.
She pressed friend, pause.
Do you want talk?
Bunny pawed at Divine.
Yes, Bunny pressed.
Yes, what? Divine said.
Hi, Bunny. I pressed. I, friend.
How about small talk? Divine said. She pressed small talk.
Remember when I said friend come later? Small talk, Divine said. She pressed small talk.
Remember when I said friend come later?
Now friend is here.
Bunny seemed to recognize something was expected of her.
She pawed at Divine.
Bubba, I know it's hard, but could you use your words for a moment, please?
Divine said.
Bunny came over and licked my face.
We tried some more, but Bunny didn't want to talk to me. She just wanted to nap.
I didn't mind. The cabin was peaceful, with the late afternoon sun streaming in through the windows.
It was more pleasant to sit there with a dog in the loose quiet, without buttons going off.
I sat with Bunny while she dozed and threw a ball for a bit with Otter and Tenrec. When I got in the car to leave, the three dogs lined up on the porch and watched me
drive off.
The next day I got a message from Divine. divine wrote. And Bunny said, Bye, stranger friend.