The Daily - The Tragic Death and Enduring Legacy of Rob Reiner

Episode Date: December 17, 2025

Rob Reiner, the classic film director, and his wife, Michele Singer Reiner, were killed on Sunday at their home in the Brentwood neighborhood of Los Angeles. On Tuesday, prosecutors charged the couple’s son, Nick, with first-degree murder.Julia Jacobs, an arts and culture reporter for The New York Times, explains what we have learned about the deaths, and Wesley Morris, a critic at The Times, discusses why many of Rob Reiner’s films are so beloved.Guest:Julia Jacobs, who reports on culture and the arts for The New York Times.Wesley Morris, a critic at The New York Times who writes about art and popular culture.Background reading: Rob Reiner, the actor who went on to direct classic films, died at 78.Nick Reiner was formally charged on Tuesday with murdering his parents.Photo: Universal/Getty ImagesFor more information on today’s episode, visit nytimes.com/thedaily. Transcripts of each episode will be made available by the next workday.  Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app.

From New York Times, I'm Michael Bobarrow. This is the Daily. On Tuesday, prosecutors investigating the death of Rob and Michelle Reiner said they planned to charge the couple's son, Nick, with first-degree murder. Today, Julia Jacobs, on what we're learning about the death of a Hollywood legend, and West Wesley Morris, on why so many of Reiner's films, are among the most beloved movies ever made. It's Wednesday, December 17th. Julie, I appreciate you coming in today.

Thanks for having me. I just want to say at the outset, perhaps this is obvious, but the death of Rob Reiner and his wife, Michelle, is a very gruesome and tragic situation, and we do not want to linger on it for a long time in this conversation. In fact, I hope we don't have to linger on it much at all. But I do think we should briefly talk about what we know at this point about what actually happened. You're right. It's an absolute tragedy, and there are a lot of questions. right now. But what we do know is that on Sunday, the authorities were called to Rob Reiner's home in Brentwood, a neighborhood in Los Angeles. And the first information that came out was that there were two deceased individuals inside. And they listed the ages, but not initially the

identities, but the ages matched up roughly with those of Rob Reiner, the Hollywood director, and his wife, Michelle Singer-Riner, who is a photographer and a producer. And later that night, on Sunday night, their son, Nick, was arrested. And eventually, police said they were investigating his role in their deaths. Right, which was a shocking piece of information. Yes. And then on Tuesday, prosecutors announced that they intended to charge Nick Reiner with two counts of first-degree murder. Right, making very official this genuinely horrible scenario in which,

which a child had killed both of his parents. Correct. And the son, Nick Reiner, had a long documented history of drug addiction. And, you know, that story had been out there for years. He had struggled since he was a teenager. He had been in and out of rehab. He had gone through bouts of homelessness when he didn't want to be in the rehab that his parents wanted him to be in. But he eventually made his way back home and started living in his parents' guesthouse. And what I'm told is they had a very tight-knit, warm household. They spent a lot of time together. And in fact, on Saturday night, some of my colleagues were told that Rob Reiner and Nick Reiner were at the house of Conan O'Brien for a Christmas party.

The night before. The night before. And that, you know, one person told my colleague that Rob Reiner said something. something about his son's behavior, something to the effect of, you can't act this way. And this was the night before Rob and his wife, Michelle, were found stabbed to death, allegedly by Nick. And what we all had to reckon with thereafter was that this huge force in Hollywood, this enormously successful and influential director and producer who himself had quite famously escaped the shadow of his overall. father, had, allegedly, as you said, been killed by his own son. And I wonder if you can

tell us that story of Reiner and how he became what he became. So after the news of Rob Reiner's tragic death, everyone automatically started reliving his career. And something that he talked about a lot is his father, Carl Reiner. He was a giant of 20th century television. He helped define the medium of television comedy. He was a performer, a writer, director. He created the Dick Van Dyke Show, one of the most celebrated comedies of all time. He won nine Emmys and directed many movies. He worked as a close collaborator with Steve Martin. And throughout Rob's long career in Hollywood, He could actually be quite candid about how overwhelming it could be to live in the shadow of his father. How did you talk about it?

He talked about feeling misunderstood as a child once he was quoted as saying it was frightening to be compared to him. And he tells this story about how a friend of his father, Norman Lear, another giant of television, pointed out to call Reiner that, You know, his son, Rob, was quite funny, but Carl Reiner was surprised, like, my son, funny. I think he's quite quiet and sullen. And in Rob's later years, he would tell that story a lot as an example of how he just felt like his father didn't get him. Didn't know him. Right. But he wanted to be like his father, just like his father, and he didn't shy away from that either.

He told another story that when his father at one point in Carl, encouraged him to differentiate himself. He suggested, you know, what other name would you want to take on? What would you want to change your name to? And Rob said, what if I changed it to Carl? And so he embraced this desire to be like his father. He was a teenager on the set of the Dick Van Dyke Show, learning everything he could about entertainment.

And, you know, eventually he got into theater. He struck out on his own. And his first major television role, he was cast. passed by Norman Lear, his father's friend. And this was for the sitcom... From Television City in Hollywood. All in the family. Boy, the way Glenn Miller played.

Songs that made the hit parade. It was a defining television show of the 1970s for the way it put generational conflict on display. This was a time when, you know, members of the silent generation, like the show's patriarch, Archie Bunker, were really grappling with the youth counterculture that stemmed from the 1960s and the anti-war movement.

And Rob Reiner's character was this guy named Michael Stivik. He was a leftist, a pacifist, hippie, and he was really the avatar for that younger generation. Anything interesting in the paper? Yeah, 200 arrested at Vietnam Day Peace demonstration. 200. They should have thrown a whole bunch of them in the can. Well, I think they just don't like the idea of a memorandum. fighting an illegal and immoral war.

Well, if they don't like it, they can lump it. Take it down the road and dump it. And a lot of the show's comedy came from this back and forth between Archie Bunker, the conservative father-in-law to Mike Stivik, who he calls. You are a meathead. Meathead, right. A meathead, dead from the neck of.

And even though they weren't, you know, father and son by blood, this was a show with a strong undercurrent of this familial narrative. And the two would fight over politics, over Michael's lack of a job that Archie would deem respectable. That's all you care about, Archie, is what you got and how you can keep it. Oh, well, you'd care about it too, Sonny, boy, if you had anything. It wasn't living on for me without a pot to peel a potato. And yet there's also this deep undercurrent of love between them.

Right, there are moments of real connection. And the scene that comes to mind immediately is one where they're stuck together in a storage room full of alcohol. And, you know, both of them are drunk and talking about their fathers. Did you ever think that possibly your father just might be wrong? I'm wrong, my old man, don't be stupid. My own man, I mean, tell you about him, he was never wrong about nothing. Yes, he was, Arch. I?

My old man used to call people the same things as your old man. But I always knew he was wrong. So was your old man. No, he was. Yes, he was. Your father was wrong. Your father was wrong. It's this moment where Archie Bunker kind of, whether he wants to or not,

unloads a lot about his own childhood. Father who made you, wrong, your father, the breadwinner of the house there, a man who goes out, I'm bust his butt to keep a root over your head, I close on your back, you call your father wrong. Hey, hey, your father. Father.

Archie Bunker has this conviction that he shares with Michael Spivick that a father cannot be wrong. And yet he explains all that his father did to him as a child. My father had a hand on him now. I'll tell you, he busted that hand once, and he busted on me to teach me to do good. My father, he shoved me in the closet for seven hours, teach me to do good. Of course, he loved me. He loved me.

And yet, there's still this nagging conviction that a father can't be wrong. You tell you something. You're supposed to love your father? Because your father loves you. How can any man that loves you? And as Archie Bunker is telling this story, the reaction of Michael, it seems to dawn on him why his father-in-law is like this, why he's so harsh on him, why their relationship can be so at odds, because he doesn't always act like his father-in-law is always right. And at the end of the scene, you know, as Archie Bunker lies down and falls asleep, there's this really tender moment. where Michael gets up and puts the blanket over him,

almost in a fatherly way. Right. The son-in-law, Reiner, becomes, in a sense, the father, the parent of a suddenly, quite openly wounded, although not self-aware, of his wounds, Archie Bunker. It's a really tender moment, and in this comedy it really stands out as a moment of real substance. This was a huge breakout role for Reiner.

He won two Emmys, and he spent really the second half of his 20s and into his 30s on this show. But he had this nagging feeling that he wanted to do more. He wanted to direct. And so after All in the Family ended, he became a prolific film director. And his first major feature film was This Is Spinal Tap in 1984. Your first drummer was John Stumpy Peeps. Great, great, tall, blonde geek with glasses. Good drummer.

Great look, good drummer, yeah. What happened to him? He died. He died in a bizarre gardening accident some years back. And for those who don't know that movie, it's quite specific. Yes, it's this satire about a hapless British metal band that really helped define the form of mockumentary. This is a top to what we use on stage, but it's very, very special.

because if you can see, the numbers all go to 11. Look, right across the board, 11, 11, 11, 11. And most of these, amps go up to 10. Exactly. And Reiner's in this movie. He doesn't just direct it. Right, he's in it as kind of the straight man. Why don't you just make 10 louder and make 10 be the top number and make that a little louder?

These go to 11. And this release really started the spectacular eight years of cinema for Reiner, where he leapfrogged from genre to genre and really became a force in Hollywood. You had the coming-of-age drama Stand By Me. Swede! You had the fantasy adventure film, the Princess Bride. Hello! My name is Inigo Mantoya.

You killed my father. You had the psychological thriller, misery. You dirty bird, how could you? The courtroom drama, a few good men. You want answers? I think I'm entitled. You want answers. I want the truth. You can't handle the truth.

And of course, the rom-com, probably his most famous movie of all, when Harry met Sally. I know. But I would be proud? But I would be proud. Two partake. Two parts of your pecan bye. Of your pecan pie. Pecan pie.

Pecan pie. Pecan bye. Pecan bye. Right. And these movies are not just memorable. They literally become part of pop culture, part of our vernacular. There is a quote from each and every one of the movies you just mentioned that either one of us could recite back to each other.

Including, and this is from Spinal Tap, it's such a fine line between stupid and clever or from a few good men you can't handle the truth I can't handle the truth and what's fascinating about this string of movies

is that Reiner would often tap into his own personal experiences in making them I think he said that's what kept him honest as a filmmaker and one example of that is stand by me

which is based on a novella by Stephen King it's not the secret knock And it's about four preteen boys who have this adventure. So what are you pissing and moaning about, Vernal? You guys want to go see a dead body? Trying to find this dead body. And along the way, they're revealing the story of who each of them are.

Right. And when it comes to the protagonist, this 12-year-old aspiring writer, he has this devastating scene where he breaks down in front of his friend. Why do you have to die, Chris? Why did Denny have to die? Why? His brother, his beloved older brother, had just died, and he was expressing how he felt like his father wishes that he was the one who died. He hates me.

He doesn't hate you. He hates me. No, he just doesn't know you. He hates me. And his friend is. sitting there trying to console him in the best way he can, you know, as a kid. And Reiner would say that that is how he felt as a little boy. You're going to be a great writer something, Gordy.

You might even write about us guys if you ever get hard up for material. He felt like the character Gordy talking to his friend. Right, and he felt like his father didn't know him. And of course, Reiner's personal life ends up figuring into the point. plot of when Harry met Sally. Right. Reiner had the idea for when Harry met Sally after he divorced his first wife, and he was back in the dating pool.

And actually in the making of that movie, he was introduced to his wife, Michelle. And the way he tells it, he actually changed the ending of the movie after meeting, Michelle. He changed it so that the two protagonists end up together. Right. And it's actually kind of unfathomable that that movie would end. any other way than it did with Harry and Sally in that famous scene telling each other, that they love each other and that they will be together.

Absolutely. It's film history. And over the years, Reiner's success goes beyond even directing. He starts this production company, Castle Rock, that ends up creating some classic movies. And Seinfeld. Exactly. It actually produced one of the most successful comedy series in history, Seinfeld. Pretty full circle for a guy who stars in one of the great sitcoms. of his era. Right. And he also has this vibrant political life. He gets really involved in the fight for gay marriage. He actually spearheads a ballot measure revolving around early education

in California. He becomes this really multifaceted figure that is known for more than just his filmmaking. Right. And he becomes a thorn in the side of President Trump. Absolutely. I mean, Reiner was against Trump from the beginning, became a vocal critic over the years, and in one of his final interviews in recent months, warned that Trump was leading the country into autocracy. And this was all thrown into sharp relief after his death when Trump suggested that his death had to do with Reiner's own opposition to him. Right, which is a pretty wildly unsubstantiated, I dare say, reckless claim. And I think that Julia brings us back to Reiner's relationship with his son, which we started with. And I know that the two father and son end up working on a film together. Right. As everyone sifts through what there is on the Internet about the relationship between

Nick and his parents, what keeps coming to the four are these interviews that he did with his father when they were making this movie together. Right. And just remind us about this movie. It's called Being Charlie, and it's actually loosely based on their own relationship, focused on a son who is battling a drug addiction and a father who's an actor turned politician. And the idea from this movie came from Nick Reiner when he was in rehab. You know, throughout his teenage years, he said he was in treatment.

roughly 18 different times. Wow. And in one of those rehab facilities, he meets a friend who he starts working on a script with, and they're pulling from their experiences with drug addiction. Now, eventually, Rob Reiner embraces the idea of making this script into a full-lane film, and that becomes being Charlie, which is directed by Rob Reiner. Mm-hmm. There was clearly a deep conflict between Nick and his parents over how to approach his own addiction recovery,

and those themes really shine through in the movie. There's this line where the father in the movie is talking to his son, who's battling drug addiction, and the father says, all I could tell myself was, I'd rather have you alive and hating me than dead on the streets. Wow. And so during this round of interviews,

Rob and Nick are talking about how this movie affected their relationship. And how did it affect it? We didn't do it to be cathartic, but it turned out that that's what happened. Rob said it made him understand his son a lot more and that he hoped it made him a better father. And that brought us closer together. And Nick said...

We didn't bond a lot as a kid. Like, he really liked baseball. I like basketball. And he could watch that with my brother, baseball. Even though he and his father didn't bond a lot as a kid, it better helped him understand his dad. It made me feel closer to him. And in those interviews, it's clear that, you know,

Nick and his parents, had worked very hard to keep him sober. But Nick also talked later about relapsing after the movie came out. After this healing exercise of making a movie with his dad. Right. There was a podcast where he talks about having a heart attack on a plane from cocaine use

and ending up in the hospital. And there's another time he talks about being on cocaine and completely wrecking his parents' guest house, which he lived in, where he punches the television, punches a lamp, you know, and the whole place ends up in shambles. So in these interviews, it's clear that the whole family was striving for sobriety, for Nick, and some lasting stability in terms of the family relationship.

Right. But it never came. Well, Julia, thank you very much. We appreciate it. Thanks for having me. After the break, Wesley Morris on why Rob Reiner's movies are so beloved. We'll be right back. Wesley, thank you for making time for us. Of course. I mean, I'm sad that it has to be under these circumstances.

It's a really sad circumstance. our colleague Julia Jacobs just walked us through. It's a really tragic end to a remarkable career. And the reason we've asked you to come in the studio is because we wanted a critic's assessment of the career and the work of Rob Reiner. You are the Times chief critic. You're also, and I know this from First Nand Experience,

a genuine film buff. So in that context, what is the significance in your mind of Ryan? and the films that he directed. What kind of a filmmaker was he in your mind? He was the sort of director who was really interested in pleasing people, right? He wanted to make movies that made people happy. Even when they were, like, dark movies,

he was looking for a way to find the pleasure centers that we as moviegoers needed met when we went to a movie theater. Or, you know, because a lot of the times with Reiner, you would be watching these movies at home over and over and over again. And because they somehow made their way onto your TV screen at home over and over and over.

Oh, yeah, whether you went to a video store and pulled one of those movies off the shelf or it was just on cable all the time. The thing about them that is so wonderful is also the thing that made Rob Reiner kind of, um, he wasn't a critic's director, right? In a lot of ways, you go back and read the reviews of his movies,

and it would always be, the charge would be the movies didn't go far enough. They didn't go deep enough. They weren't getting into, like, the nitty-gritty of human relationships in the way that they probably could have. Right. In fact, I went through this exercise within the last 24 hours, and it should be humbling to the film critics of the world. You go back and look at the reviews of something.

like Stand By Me. Sure. I just wish I could go someplace when nobody knows me. In the Times. Too much, saccharin. Sure. But that's not the experience of a young Michael Barbar

watching Stand By Me and finding it to be a complete revelation of what Brotherhood, Fraternity, and youthful adventure might look like. I mean, I think the thing about Rob Reiner that's important to make the distinction between

is a question of what the greatest movies are and what your favorite movies are. He makes your favorites. That man has made your favorite movie. He's made one of your favorite movies and everybody's got one. He's made two of my favorite movies

and like, you know, when Harry met Sally, I mean, come on. There was a, couple things with Rob Reiner that makes this outpouring of grief over his death important. His peak as a director was at a time when the movies were interested in just simple things, brought to life by a good script and a couple of stars. These are not values the movies have anymore.

These are bygone aspects of American movie making. And he embodied, he was one of the. principal embodiment his movies were of that era. For me, when Harry met Sally, was great because it had these two people that I kind of knew, Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal. Rob Reiner made them movie stars. This movie made them movie stars. It's kind of hard to imagine that they weren't movie stars before that, but somehow.

Yeah, you'd seen them in things before. And, you know, Billy Crystal was a well-known comic, and Meg Ryan was somebody who'd been in other movies as like a supporting character. And you also had in Harry Met Sally this great script by Nura Ephron. Nora Ephron, William Goldman, Aaron Sorkin, they wrote the great Rob Reiner movies. And he knew what to do with a good screenplay and good actors. And part of the pleasure of watching them all congeal just come together and and, you know, transmogrify into this, like, amazing experience of just feeling, right?

I mean, you watch The Princess Bride, and it's all exuberance. You watch when Harry Met Sally, and it's just whatever you believe about people getting together and, like, spending time with each other and communicating. It's amazing. You look like a normal person, but actually, you are the angel of death. Are you going to marry him? We have only known each other. each other for a month, and besides, neither one of us is looking to get married right now.

I'm getting married. You are? Mm-hmm. You are. Just some great talking. Well, you're getting on your own to what I deeply would love for you to do. Okay. Which is to take us into one scene of a Reiner directed film.

And at this point, I have to believe, because of what you've already said, that that scene is going to be coming from when Harry met Sally. Sure. And there's a lot of scenes in that movie. I think when Harry met Sally, to me, it's the peak of all his priorities as a filmmaker, the human part, the love part. And obviously, if you're going to boil this movie down to one scene, it's the diner scene, right? It's the deli scene. Meg Ryan, Sally, and Billy Crystal, who's Harry, these people have been friends now for a few years. and they are very familiar with the cadences of each other's dating and sex lives.

They go to have lunch one day, and they proceed to talk about Harry's latest disappointment romantically. It's not working out. It's not working out, and she's gone, and he has moved on. So what do you do with these women? You just get up out of bed and leave? Sure. Well, explain to me how you do it. What do you say?

Just have an early meeting, early haircut, early squash game. You don't play squash. They don't know that. They just met me. That's disgusting. I know I feel terrible. And she's like, well, you probably wouldn't know that a woman's never been satisfied by you. Hey, I don't feel great about this, but I don't hear anyone complaining.

Of course not. You're out the door too fast. I think they have an okay time. How do you know? I mean, how do I know I know? And he's like, I think I would know because I was there. I created the satisfaction. Because they...

Yes, because they... How do you know that they're really? What are you saying that they fake orgasm? And she's like, Meg Ryan, Sally, says, well... Why? Most women at one time or another have faked it. I'm telling you that most women at some point in their lives have faked it. Well, they haven't faked it with me. How do you know?

Because I know. And he's like, no, they have. That's insane. Right. That's right. I forgot. You're a man. What was that supposed to me?

Nothing. It's just that all men are sure it never happened to them and most women at one time or another have done it, so you do the math. You don't think that I could tell a difference? No. Get out of you.

So a cut to Meg Ryan. Her eyes go, oh, okay. There's like a twinkle, like a little mischievous twinkle. She's telling us. She's telegraphing to us what she's about. about to do. And she kind of half smiles, and she proceeds to start her orgasm. Oh. Oh. Oh. Are you okay? And she does not break. And this is a really difficult thing to do, both directing and editing wise, because you have to, there's a rhythm that has to be maintained here.

Oh, God. Oh, God. But you also have to establish that she is staying in this orgasm, and he is going to suffer through the discomfort of watching her perform it. Oh, yeah, right there. And that all of this, we should just remind the listener, revolves around the consumption of a very average-looking sandwich. That's, we got to talk about the sandwich because it's just a pile of meat.

But there's a cut to Harry and his increasing awareness that what is happening is happening and he is about to lose this, this argument. But Billy Crystal is performing increasing mortification at the fact. It's interesting because it's simultaneously him losing this argument and him being embarrassed by this spectacle that she's created. And there are so many looks. on his face of just like, oh, my God. She's, oh, my God, oh, my God.

And he's like, oh, my God. And so there's this tension. There's this, like, physics between his mortification and her ecstasy. And an important thing happens at about the 30th second in this scene. Wow, you really do this one. Well, of the orgasm part of the scene. The scene goes, like, three minutes long. It's this.

The camera's on Meg Ryan. mid fake orgasm and a man turns around behind her and he is wearing a Yankees cap and he is completely deadpan but looking in her direction and it's just the two of them in this shot and you realize oh my God

you as a viewer realizes they're not going to do the thing that a television show would do this is the Rob Reiner going to the movies part this is Nora Ephron knowing how the world works we're not going to pretend that this is a closed environment and these people are just here to make you think you're in a diner

people are going to hear this orgasm. Lots of people. Because it could have ended just like that. It could have ended the minute that guy in the Yankees cap turns around. Even before that,

Billy Crystal was selling the comedy in this bit as much as Meg Ryan is. You could have just ended it right there. That scene could have ended and she would just like, I rest my case. But instead, this scene goes on for like another 30 seconds.

Yeah, it's deeply uncomfortable. No, Michael, no. It's not uncomfortable at all. It's hilarious. Hilariously uncomfortable. And the thing that makes it hilarious is us. The people watching this woman fake this orgasm. They don't know she's faking it.

They don't know what's going on. This sandwich must be real good. This pile of meat must be doing something to this woman. Every subsequent shot during this sequence, we've established how Meg Ryan is going to perform her fake orgasm. We understand that Billy Crystal is mortified. But now we spend the rest of this sequence, most of the rest of it, watching everybody else in the deli react.

Oh, yes. Like, not even react. They're just watching her do this. And it's an amazing sight because some people are concerned, Some people are like, you know, it's New York. So this is also one of the great New York movies, right? So it's New York and people are like, oh, it's orgasm day, I guess, from the deli. Okay, great.

Fantastic. And she reaches her climax. Yes, yes. Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, God. She picks up her fork, she stabs her salad or whatever it is that's on that plate. She takes a bite. And we go from shot, reverse shot, cutaway, cutaway, cut away, cutaway, to a, like I would say in a master shot of the two of them facing each other in the booth.

And you can see in the background two women also having a meal, looking at Meg Ryan and the famous line. Because the scene could have ended. Right, right. When she picks up the fork, we're done, we're done. This scene is already killed. But he goes for it. We're done. And this woman

says to the waiter You know the line I'll have what she's having I'll have what she's having Yeah it's one of the most memorable lines in all of cinema It never gets old You can watch that once a week

And still pee your pants Because That's how joyful it is It's just how joyful it is Also it's so New York I just. By the way, that's his mom who says it. Oh, yeah. Estelle Reiner is the person who delivers the line. Perfection. Perfection. But also, the thing that kills is not just the line. It's the look of like, I guess I'll have to have what she's having. Like, her face is like, it's not, she does not

look delighted. She looks kind of disgusted and repulsed, but it's like, I just need to see what this is all about. It's as funny as it is because Rob Reiner keeps going, right? And he understands there's still another joke in there somewhere. I want to get all the jokes out. So I want to pause for just a moment and talk about how you, how we, should juxtapose all of the hilarity and joy that you just described that defines these films. How we're supposed to hold that in one hand and the brutality and the awfulness of how his life ends in the other?

The terrible thing about this death, a terrible thing about it, in terms of the millions of people who never met didn't know Rob Reiner but whose lives were touched by his work, is that the work was about the, opposite of how he died. And yet, you know, the very moving aspect of this grisly tragedy is, I mean, from all reports, you know, the Reiner's were determined to, like, help their son, right? The ethos of the family life is the ethos of the filmmaking. You know, sometimes to the movie's detriment because the movies didn't want to go to really do.

dark places. The movies weren't about the real darknesses, right? The real difficulties. They were about the attempt to believe in our better natures, our better selves. And that is what is so shocking about his death. But, you know, I was, you know, as one, as at least I do, when great, or important people die in popular culture. You were often tasked with eulogizing them in print. Yeah, and so you go back and you look and see how things went for them in real time or how they've been memorialized before their death, how their work is considered. And I've found, you know, one of the great tomes, one of the great movie projects ever. Yeah, you're holding a very, very thick book.

It's David Thompson's Biographical Dictionary of Film. It's right here. I've got a new biographical dictionary of film. So Miriam Webster's of Movies written by one man, David Thompson. And his Rob Reiner entry is kind of amazing because he's a little more dismissive of the wonderful movies. He gets it, but he doesn't really. They're not for him, apparently.

But here's what he says in his dismount and it's deep. As a director, Rob Reiner, he seemed more struck or polexed by the notion that niceness could save the world. It is a petty thought but one that stifles so many human and so realities. And so his work turns to pie in the sky with good and bad all too clearly labeled. He's carried along by a fundamental decency and a sense of scenes that play. But his films are predictable from their first moments and they begin to establish a weird, dumb orthodoxy, that if we're good to our kids, everything will be okay. This is not true. Life is more interesting.

Wow I mean Rob Reiner was very alive when that was written and I think terribly prescient I think the thing that made him

lovable Rob Reiner as a human being the reason he was so beloved by so many different people was that he really believed in the fundamental goodness of people

no matter what you know it's an impossible situation for a parent to turn your back on a child and in the end he did not and he didn't because you know those movies were this man for better and for worse

but ultimately for better because they were about our better selves this was a man who believed in life he believed in people and the movies stand as a testament to that belief as far as I'm concerned And when it clicked, and for like, I'd say 10 years, this man was humming,

it really, really, really made people happy the work that he made. And it's just that, you know, there's the family tragedy part, and then there is the happy guy part. He just seemed like such a joyful, like he was a big bear of a man. And you just, he seemed like either he was going to hug you or you. You could hug him. Completely. And he would be okay with that.

His movies were like that, too, for the most part. They're always there to hug you. And if you want to hug them back, feel free. Because they're on HBO right now. And Netflix on Amazon. Wesley, thank you very, very much. Appreciate it. Michael, you're welcome.

And I'm sorry that. I'm sorry that I have to be here to do it. We'll be right back. On Tuesday, President Trump expanded the U.S. travel ban to cover five more countries and added partial bans on 15 additional countries. The bans, which began in June, started with countries including Afghanistan, Myanmar, and Haiti. The newly banned countries include Mali, Niger, South Sudan, and Syria. Palestinians are also now banned.

Those affected by the bans cannot immigrate to or enter the United States. Trump has described the banned countries as, quote, third world and declared that their citizens pose a threat to Americans. And the Australian government said that the gunmen who carried out the mass shooting at a Jewish celebration over the weekend were motivated by ISIS. Police said that they found two homemade is left. state flags in the car that the suspects, a father and son, had driven to the site of the massacre. Today's episode was produced by Michael Simon Johnson, Muge Sadie, and Luke Vanderplug.

It was edited by Brendan Klingenberg and Michael Benoit. Contains music by Diane Wong and Dan Powell, and was engineered by Alyssa Moxley. That's it for the Daily. I'm Michael Robar. See you tomorrow.