The Dan Le Batard Show with Stugotz - South Beach Sessions - Nancy Lieberman

Episode Date: July 3, 2025

“I go, ‘No, Mr. Muhammad, I'm the greatest of all times.’” Nancy Lieberman is a legend. She’s conquered basically every court, in women’s and men’s basketball, from playing to coaching ...in the WNBA, NBA, and BIG3. Now, when women’s basketball has reached new heights, Nancy looks back on how far the game has come… and how brightly the stars of the current day – Angel Reese, Caitlin Clark, A’ja Wilson, and more – shine when the spotlight is finally put on them. Nancy also speaks about her unthinkable path from an impoverished upbringing, finding her confidence and community at Rucker Park as a teenager, to befriending her idol… Muhammad Ali, who served as a guiding light over the course of her life and career. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:01:30 feel like a trailblazer while you were trailblazing or does that come afterwards? That is way after, you know, you play sports because you're having fun, you're with your friends, and it gets you out of the house. So you could never think you're gonna be an Olympian. You could never think you're gonna maybe change the world or be a pioneer, a trailblazer. And when it's all over and you can exhale and you look back and go maybe I did something right. So I mean it just makes you feel good that maybe you set the plate for people coming behind you. You've written several books, but I don't know that people necessarily know
Starting point is 00:02:08 how difficult it was or how it started. So let's go back to Brooklyn and the very earliest stages of you grabbing a basketball. What was your life like before that happened? Well, I always loved sports, but I had a very dysfunctional family. A lot of people do, but my father left when I was eight, and I was just miserable. We had, there were days we had no heat, we had no electricity, we had no food.
Starting point is 00:02:36 My grandparents would come from Brooklyn to put food in the house. And I was really tired of people saying that I was stupid and dumb and never gonna make anything of myself. I was getting in fistfights every day. I didn't have conflict resolution at eight, nine, ten years old. And I was playing football, baseball, and last basketball, but baseball was my best sport. But even back then, there was no clinical reason for me to want to play. I was always in the schoolyard, you know, playing in the hood and playing at the projects or at, you know, PS 104.
Starting point is 00:03:15 But the amount of people, you know, just saying things to me instead of just letting me be, I didn't understand it at such a young age. And my parents, my mother didn't know. I mean, I'd run away, I would hide. I just felt like I was by myself. I would think that it'd be lonely and you'd feel like an outsider almost all of the time. I felt comfortable on a ball field. I felt loved, like if we were
Starting point is 00:03:46 playing and the guys would say we'll take her, it was almost like you say you love me or you were saying we appreciate you. Because when I got home my grandmother would say act like a girl, walk like a girl, and then I'd be on the court and they go play like a boy. So the dichotomy of that within you know two or three hours and trying to understand what I was supposed to be doing. So it but at the end of the day sports made me happy and it filled me with joy so I stayed with that. Was there a lot of love in the dysfunctional household or a lot that felt like love?
Starting point is 00:04:27 There was a lot of fighting that I can remember. And I don't think my grandparents really understood. My brother, he was a very high level student in school. I was barely making the grade. But I just felt like I couldn't understand why I was always being attacked, you know, verbally attacked for what I was doing. And I wasn't carjacking you, I wasn't in a gang,
Starting point is 00:04:55 I wasn't stealing. I was just playing a sport that made me happy. But with boys. Boys, always with boys. They toughened me up. And for me, the best part was when I started going up to Harlem and going to Rooker Park. And that was like the next level of competition. And we had the park across the street from my house in Far Rockaway in Bayswater.
Starting point is 00:05:22 And I can remember taking money out of my mom's wallet, like $2, I think they call it stealing. And I would take the train, the A train from Far Rockaway, change in Manhattan and take the E train to 155th up in the Bronx. Do you even have a basketball that you can afford under your arm or are you just taking the bus? Like this is a pilgrimage to the
Starting point is 00:05:45 place, a sanctuary where you feel safest. Yes, and so I'm 12 years old and I'm on this train but I would wear a jacket and I put t-shirts in the jacket so I look menacing on the train and I would glare at people, like do it to them before they do it to you. Like maybe they thought I was crazy, which is debatable. And I had a ball, a little rubber basketball, and I'd walk into Rucker Park. That's crazy. And these guys are like little redheaded, you know, girl. And I'd be in the park and the guys would go, little girl, are you lost?
Starting point is 00:06:23 And I'd say, are you? No, I ain't lost. I was all New York, how I talked, before ESPN made me go to Elocution School, so I could be articulate for your show. And the guy goes, you know where you are? I said, yeah, this is Rucker Park. And I said, is your name Rucker?
Starting point is 00:06:44 And the kid goes, no. I said, good, it ain't your park. And I need to get good, so if you could help me, like I really appreciate, and it defied all barriers, right? Respect is respect is respect. And I was not afraid, and the guys love that. And so they would let me play, and the great part is like Gary, Ronald and Donald would ride the train back with me to Far Rockaway,
Starting point is 00:07:11 make sure I got home. And my mom, I come in with these three black guys. And she's like, where were you? You weren't at the park. I said, yeah, I went to Rucker Park in Harlem. And she says, Nancy, do you not know how dangerous it is? And I said, yeah, I went to Rucker Park in Harlem, and she says, Nancy, do you not know how dangerous it is? And I said, yeah, I know, but I wasn't gonna hurt anybody,
Starting point is 00:07:30 I just wanted to play basketball. And these are my friends, and Mom, they're hungry, could you make some food for them? And she would make some spaghetti, they'd get on the train and go right back to Harlem. Fist fights every day, though? Every day, every day. I mean, my mom was like, Nancy you can't beat up the world. I said but they just make me feel so bad about myself.
Starting point is 00:07:52 Somebody say something nice to me instead of what's wrong with your daughter. And like I said I got tired of hearing you're stupid, you're dumb, you're never gonna make anything of yourself. Miss Liebman, why don't you take her to a psychologist? What is the nature of the fist fighting? Take me through what you think is happening there and where a child's rage and understanding is of getting into fights every day. My rage was within my home. The fact that I didn't have a dad and I, my mom was a good person but she didn't understand, you know, she was a woman from the 40s and 50s. Girls don't play sports. I'm sure she was more embarrassed that I was always in
Starting point is 00:08:39 the park with black kids and guys and those are, those are my friends. But I didn't get any validation in my home. It's just I was always wrong. And so I took it out on other people. You know if somebody looked at me wrong, if somebody said something to me, it was on. And not proud of it, but we all had stuff in our childhood. Why weren't you afraid? I didn't have the will with all at that point to be afraid. I was fighting for my life. I didn't know if I was going to kill you.
Starting point is 00:09:20 I didn't know if I was going to kill me at that stage. What was going on with your mom? Were you talking back to her? What was the relationship like? My mom was just trying to survive. You know, I mean, she would sit there and wait for alimony texts that never came. She was hoping that our phones weren't tapped.
Starting point is 00:09:37 We was hoping, you know, she had so much going on and trying to, you know, take care of two children, relying on her parents to help us, sleeping till noon, just probably going out at night. And she was just trying to survive herself. And she certainly didn't understand me. And it just, there was so much going on in the house. I would keep my jacket down by the front door,
Starting point is 00:10:08 because at any point Cliff and I would get into it, and I'd grab my jacket and run out the front door. Cliff. My brother. Forgive me for not knowing that. He's two years older than me. And so, tell me what else was going on in the house though. What are the details that you remember when you sort of glided past no food, no electricity, no debt? It was just support, you know, my brother was more of like, you know, a mama's boy. If my mom and I were getting into arguments, you know, he was always there to stick up
Starting point is 00:10:42 for her. I mean, I can remember him like, like I'm thinking picking up a chair and like, breaking it over me. And I was like, I'm done. Never nobody's gonna ever do that to me again. I love my mom, but I don't want my mom's life. You know, she was one husband away from poverty. And even at 12 or 13, I'm like, I don't want to live like this. I have to be different. And I have to kind of carve out my own path. And sports is what fueled me, my confidence, my self-esteem, my belief system, even though I was broken.
Starting point is 00:11:22 And I think the epiphany of my life was one day I came in and I'm looking at the TV and there's this guy and he says, I'm the greatest of all times. I beat Joe Frazier like a beat George Foreman, like a beat Sonny Liston back in 1964. I'm too pretty not to be the champion of the world. I am the greatest of all times. I walked into the kitchen and I stood at you know kind of at the threshold and I went I'm gonna be the greatest of all times and my mother goes why are you talking like that? I don't know but I'm gonna knock you out and she says I am your mother. I
Starting point is 00:12:04 Said okay. I'm gonna knock him out. She says, him's your brother. I said, you better get used to me. I'm gonna be famous. I'm gonna be the greatest of all times. And I ran in my room and cried. So Ali is teaching you, Muhammad Ali is teaching you the idea of bravado, of spoken confidence, of being allowed to say the things that you think. Yes and I fell in love with this man instantaneously and you know back in the day it was you go to the library or you watch him on Wide World of Sports with Howard Cosell. I was mesmerized by him. So he didn't know that he was changing the life of this little redheaded Jewish kid from Queens,
Starting point is 00:12:52 who was a little girl. So I started getting serious about sports. I was playing in little leagues. And then there was in the Long Island Press, there was USA playing Russia exhibition game, 1974. So we all hopped in a car, went to Queens College, tried out. It was almost like America had talent. There was four different areas across the country.
Starting point is 00:13:21 They pinned a number on you. There was 250 girls at Queens College and I was 15 years old. And at the end of the day, they kept making cuts, cuts, cuts, and then posting them on the wall. My number was on there. And at the end of the day,
Starting point is 00:13:42 I was one of the 10 kids, girls. They were sending to a three day mini camp in Albuquerque, New Mexico. I come home and I'm like, Mom, Mom, Mom, you're not gonna believe this, but I just made this tryout at Queens College, do 250 girls, they ain't nothing wrong with me. Like everybody says, there's something wrong with me. There's nothing wrong with me. If they are, there's something wrong with all of us. And I said, and she goes, Nancy, I can't afford to put food on the table.
Starting point is 00:14:12 How am I going to fly you to Albuquerque? So my assistant principal at Faraqua High School, she took a can of corn, you can't make this stuff up, took the label off, cleaned it out, put a label on it. It says we're endeavoring to raise $300 to send Nancy to the USA Triouts. This can went door to door. They raised enough money for me and my coach Larry Morse to go to Albuquerque. I go to the three-day camp, and there's 40 of us who tried out from all over the country. At the end of three days I was one of 10 to go into the training camp with the Pat Summits, the Ann Myers, the Lucy Harris,
Starting point is 00:14:55 this future Hall of Famers. It was amazing. I could not believe how good these women were I could not believe how good these women were. And I had my ribs broken on the end of the second day. And the coach and the team manager, they're driving me to the airport. And Alberta Cox, the coach of the team, she turns around. She goes, now honey, you work hard on your game because we're going to need you in 1980. And I looked at her and I said, like, coach, you know, like I'm from New York and like I'm not that smart or nothing, but I know 76 comes before 80 and I'm going to be on that 76 team. So I like you're going to have to get used to me.
Starting point is 00:15:40 And I left. She fueled everything. We don't need you to 1980. It was just another person telling me the Nancy Camp moments of what I can't do. Somebody, just somebody tell me what I can do. Well, you didn't have a lot of support and belief, right? Where was the support and belief coming from?
Starting point is 00:16:01 Muhammad Ali. Far away. And that inner belief. So I end up making the Olympic team. The Pan Am team in 75, I was 16 years old, I was a junior in high school. Then I try out for the Olympic team, I make the Olympic team, I'm 17,
Starting point is 00:16:19 so the youngest Olympian ever, male or female. And I'm thinking, I can't believe I'm here. Well, you've gotten deaf to telling your parts of the story that take me to Ali, but you didn't answer my question about the details you remember about no money, no food, no electricity, no father before you get to Ali. Like that life and on top of that you're saying that people are telling you you're strange or you're you're you're something's wrong with you you're broken worse than worse than strange what what's the matter with her she wants to play with the boys all the time like that was the chief
Starting point is 00:16:58 weirdness right? Yes but that was that was my my happy space because, again, the guys in the park treated me with kindness. They accepted me. The guys in Harlem at Rucker treated me with kindness and respect, and they loved the fact that I was not afraid of them. And so all this, like the guys at Rucker, they were checking in on me all the time. We're talking landline, okay? That took energy and effort. Well, you're the only woman out there. You're the only girl out there. You're going the loneliest path.
Starting point is 00:17:41 But they protected me. I needed to be... even as a successful male, and I say this all the time to my NBA guys that I've coached, any of the athletes that I'm around, you're just... you guys are just little boys and you want to be loved and cared for instead of told you didn't do this, you didn't do this, you didn't... I'm like didn't do that. I'm like they're baby boys. They're giving you generational wealth. They're giving you things you never thought you would have. Just support them. That's that I tell my friends. That's why you're divorced. You don't support the people who are trying to help you. So I might not have known that in my teens, but what I did know when I
Starting point is 00:18:26 was in this cluster of athletes, even at USA basketball, because I was so young, all the coaches were there. I was the only high school player there, so everybody was kissing my ass because they wanted me to come to their school. So I construed that as love. It's pretty crappy. It felt good though. At that time it did. So then you know I make the Olympic team then I had a hundred scholarship offers. So because I was always an underdog I looked at everybody I looked at UCLA I looked at Cal State Fullerton Delta State and I'm like who's the team with the worst record? Old Dominion. Nobody has ever heard of them. They're like me. So
Starting point is 00:19:12 I go to Old Dominion because I wanted to kind of put my thumbprint and hope. It's amazing in four years. We go 23 and 9. We go 30 and 4. Why were you getting so, why were you getting dumb though? Why were you getting, you're not good enough? Where was that coming from? Because my brother was the A student. He was going to be a doctor. He was going to go to Queens College. He was, you know, mathematically. And you're just a hooper and not only that, you're a girl playing with the boys and so your own family thinks you're strange. Yes because I'm I'm getting D's and C-minuses because I
Starting point is 00:19:54 don't want to do this. This makes me happy. I'm the one going to the park at six in the morning to shoot. You know I don't know about I didn't know about mental health or anxiety or depression because I don't think I had that even though I was hurt because that ball was my oxygen. That baseball, that mitt, I can remember my first mitt. I can remember falling in love like with Bobby Mercer. I remember Bobby Mercer. I remember Bobby Mercer.
Starting point is 00:20:25 I'm surprised to hear you say you were better at baseball than you were at basketball. Far better. I could have played on the Far Rock Way baseball team, but we had softball. I could have played baseball in college, but Old Dominion didn't have softball or anything. And basketball was my scholarship.
Starting point is 00:20:45 I had to get out of my hood. I had to be something. The Ali stuff was always in the back of my head. I had to be something. And when we won the NIT, when we won back-to-back national championships, I asked for two things at Old Dominion. I asked for number 10 because of Wal Fraser, and I asked to play in Madison Square Garden.
Starting point is 00:21:12 Four years we played in New York, I said, please let me go home, because my guys in the park have no money, but they're going to come to the game. Because they beat the crap out of me to toughen me up for all these experiences. It was tough love. They were my parents. You know, and again, my mom... Rucker Park in Harlem were your parents? They were my parents.
Starting point is 00:21:36 Was your parents? Was your mom and dad? That's nuts. It's... yes. So... It doesn't even make sense, though. The idea of a 12, there can't be another story like that. A 12 year old girl taking the train,
Starting point is 00:21:50 a 12 year old white girl taking the train to the most legendary outdoor park that there has ever been in the history of New York. Yes, but like I would rather have people not say they love me. I'd rather have people be loyal to me because dogs are loyal and my dogs in Rucker Park were loyal and protected me. When I did you know a couple years ago Kevin Durant 35 Ventures you know with Rich Kleiman they did Point Gods.
Starting point is 00:22:25 Yeah, they did the documentary series. The doc, and I was one of the 15 or 16 in that documentary, which was an honor. And they said, where do you want to shoot your episode? I said, Center Court at Rutger Park. And I go to Rutger at this point in my life, where everybody's like, eh, you meant to do that. And they're yelling from the projects, fire, yo, fire.
Starting point is 00:22:50 And I'm like, come on, come down. People were coming down and hugging me and the production crew is like, you know these people? I'm like, this is my family. You think they're strangers? They're my family. And the love and the kindness and the protection, I could go into Harlem at three in the morning,
Starting point is 00:23:11 right now, today, and people will protect me. And the most important thing is I'm not afraid. What am I, Jeremy? I'm a back to back Stanley Cup champion, that's what I am. That's right, we all are. Do I play for the Panthers? Do you play for the Panthers? No, but we're champs.
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Starting point is 00:23:39 to celebrate a championship outside of cheersing with Miller Lite. I was at Elbow Room the other day with the players. I saw Sam Reinhardt signing jerseys with a Miller Lite in hand. No lie. 100% Miller Lite in hand. Jerseys being thrown up to him. You can confirm that? I can confirm it.
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Starting point is 00:24:40 Wisconsin, 96 calories and 3.2 carbs per 12 ounces. Messi, Holland, Kane and more are all taking part and you can watch every match for free on Dazon starting on June 14th and Running until July 13th sign up now at Dazon.com slash FIFA. That's D-A-Z-N dot-com slash FIFA I'm gonna ask you again What literal hunger felt like as a child because I'm trying to figure out how you became who you became And I think it has to start with something that is extraordinarily willful and so coming from nothing as you've said looked like felt like what? I felt like I was hiding my pain. I didn't want people to know my pain. I didn't want people to know how I felt. Like I would never put my feet up because I had holes in my sneakers. They'd make fun of how I dressed, you know, if it
Starting point is 00:25:54 was checkers and polka dots, I didn't have any sense of style or whatever, or red hair and freckles and blue eyes when people like redheads are not you know mainstream. So there was always something. So I was hiding that we were so poor because everybody was so nice to me in the parks because of my basketball, my athletic ability. I'm gonna take you forward. I built a dream court for Billy Crystal in Long Beach, New York, maybe eight, nine years ago, after Hurricane Sandy. And I had all, like my high school people come
Starting point is 00:26:36 and be with me from Far Rockaway. And I had a chance to tell Stephanie Conrad, a friend of mine, one of the few girls that I was close to, every day at PS 104, Stephanie lived that way and I lived this way. And she would say, come to the house and have lunch. And I was like, okay. And her mom would make these tuna fish sandwiches and cut them up.
Starting point is 00:26:58 And I would be like, thank you, Mrs. Conrad. I appreciate it, Mrs. Conrad. Do you have more potato chips, Mrs. Conrad. I appreciate it, Mrs. Conrad. Do you have more potato chips Mrs. Conrad?" And she was like, she's so hungry. And I never said anything until that day in Long Beach, New York, Billy, his wife, and I was like, Stephanie, I wanted to thank you. Like, at this point in my life, I could look her in the eye and say, this is who I was, this is what you did for me, and I'm grateful for that. And she started bawling.
Starting point is 00:27:33 She was just like... She didn't know you were hungry? She knew I was hungry. Like hungry, not just hungry for the day, but just walking around the world hungry. And, you know, people were so nice, you know, if you're not going to eat. And you know people were so nice you know if you're not gonna eat that and you know even remember like hostess Twinkies and all the ding-dongs and all that if you're not gonna eat it I'll eat it.
Starting point is 00:27:55 Is this how you became tough though like it obviously basketball has something to do with it but where are the places where you can say no that's what made me strong those are the things that made me who I am. I don't know if I can define strong, but I can define what was acceptable to me and what was not acceptable to me. And I knew I am not going to live this life. This is not how I'm going to live. I don't know how I'm going to get from here to here. But I think sports is going to do this for me. And as one thing, you know, playing in the Olympics in high school, or then getting a college scholarship, player of the year in college basketball,
Starting point is 00:28:38 and then, you know, like the, you know, the Dick Schaap's taking me under his wing and coming to Old Dominion and making sure that he had tabs on me. I'd come home, he'd say, you're gonna come, we're gonna, this is what we're gonna do. Jeremy Schaap, right on this knee at lunch, a year old, two years old. Dick was very instrumental in just making sure that I was protected, or learning. And he would introduce me to so many people, he's like, you need to do this, and you need to come to this event. And again, I don't have, I can't tell you why. Like, I want to do a book that says how do you know dot dot dot? How'd you know Dick Schaap? How do you know Muhammad Ali? How are you friends with Kevin Costner?
Starting point is 00:29:30 How are you friends with Warren Buffett? How are you friends with Ice Cube? I Don't have a clinical reason. I don't even know how I'm here with you And I'm a fan of what you've done and what you've done with Poppy and to make me laugh or just just how you were with your family was very impactful to me and I get a chance to tell you this in real time like right now. The people that you mentioned though so many of the men that you mentioned are obviously gravitating toward a place where commonalities exist on the chasing of excellence.
Starting point is 00:30:07 Like they're, they have at least some sort of Dick Schaap, when you're talking about Dick Schaap, he's got some knowledge of what it's taken to be you, the difficulties, the impediments, the obstacles, just he's got this much knowledge, but he's got such knowledge. So I imagine that that's a place where you connect with all of these people as respect. I hope so, and I think so. And you know, some of the people that got to know me, and he got to know me because he interviewed me so many times, he was down at Old Dominion so many times, and I think he got to see probably that I was hiding behind being Nancy Lieberman and I would never really open up as
Starting point is 00:30:46 You and I are talking this conversation would have not happened story protects you though I can imagine that you've developed some armor over the years and had to in order of to tell the story in a way that is palatable inspirational But not too vulnerable because there must have been a whole lot of garbage inside of the dysfunction. Yes, you're spot on. So we win the national championship. I'm player of the year in college basketball.
Starting point is 00:31:16 I'm asked to come December of 79. This is the turning point for me. Come to the New York Stock Exchange to do an appearance for the Olympic Committee, a fundraiser. Gives me a chance to go home, be with my mom, one of my best friends growing up. Going up the escalator and I look at the guy and I go, yo, who's the other athlete? You know, kind of that bravado. Who's the other athlete with me? And he says, yeah, we're going in the green room. Green room. I said, well, who's the other athlete? And we get to the top, he goes, oh, yeah,
Starting point is 00:31:46 it's you and Muhammad Ali. And I'm like, he's here? Muhammad Ali is here? I'm like 21 years old. And the door opened, no joke. And it was like that Oprah, huh? And the glove, and he's, I was hyperventilating. So on the 76 Olympic team, there was, you know,
Starting point is 00:32:08 Sugar Ray, Leonard, there were all these different boxers. And I loved boxing. And Howard Davis, who won a gold medal, and he was from Queens, and I saw Howard. And I beeline to Howard, and my mother goes up to Ali and puts her arms around and goes Mr. Mohammed I'm Rene Lieberman from Queens and my daughter my daughter is the greatest of all times and Ali looks at her and I'll show you the picture I have it in my phone and he goes listen I there's only one greatest
Starting point is 00:32:42 of all times and it's me and my mom mom goes, yeah, no, I know you're good, but my daughter, so he gives me this. It's like you and I right here. And I'm like looking down and I'm telling you, I couldn't breathe. And he goes, your mom says you're good. And I go, no, Mr. Muhammad, I'm the greatest of all times. And Mr. Ali, like I beat people up all the time,
Starting point is 00:33:06 like every day, and he looked at me, and he says, I'm gonna ask you to stop hitting people. I said, yeah, but they irritate me, and they bother me. He says, I'm gonna ask you to stop hitting people. I'm like, you hit people. He goes, I get paid to hit people. Interestingly, he's taking my information in like you are. And when it was all said and done, he says, can you come back to the plaza where he was staying? And we went up in his suite and we were there for four hours. He's teaching me about racism.
Starting point is 00:33:45 He's teaching me about what hurts black America, the color of their skin or people who are not by and large white. And he taught me about philanthropy and he looks at me and he goes, Nancy, you're gonna shake up the world. You're gonna change the world. And I'm like, I have a game on Tuesday. I'm not understanding what he's saying to me.
Starting point is 00:34:11 And then he says, God made you special. And then the thing that connected me for Ali for 37 years was my answer. You know God too? That is so cool. What is he like? Have you spent time with him? And he looked at my mother and goes, I'm gonna need your land number. I'm gonna need your physical address because I'm not letting her out there without me. And he would call me in college. He would check in on me.
Starting point is 00:34:40 He was trying to come see me play, but the security was so difficult. Every step of my life, he was there and he would just check in on me. And I couldn't believe it. And the things he taught me, he taught me to respect everybody but fear nobody. He says you're going to encounter some hard times. Humility is confidence, arrogance is not. And I'd go float like a butterfly, sting like a bee. It ain't bragging if you're good. You know and I would, we had this fun kind of back and forth with each other as I got older. And I came out of retirement like three times. I'd sit at the house with him and I'm like, you know I've come out of retirement more
Starting point is 00:35:33 than you. And he'd give me the lip. Oh, but wait a minute. You came out of retirement at 50? You came out of retirement because you wanted your son to watch you play at 39 and then the other time it's just hard to let go? What was the age of the other time that you came out of retirement? Well I basically retired after the WBL, the first women's league, folded.
Starting point is 00:35:58 There was no league for me to play in. And then I got asked to play in the USBL, you know, six years later, which is the men's league equivalent, let's say to the G League, then at 39, then at 50. And I would always just joke with him. And but he give me that lip and I'm like, stop it, stop the lip thing. Lonnie, he's doing it again to me. And we would just, he would just laugh with me and he was just always there. He came to my first game when I was coaching in the NBA
Starting point is 00:36:34 when we played the Phoenix Suns. When you say that you were getting into fights all the time, it sounded like you just described that you were often winning them as well. It's not like you were good with the fights, like you were good at fighting? I was, I was. I practiced on my brother.
Starting point is 00:36:52 And you know, Ollie, you know, the jab. And I became a little bit of a smart ass because we'd fight and I'm like, it's red. You might wanna get a tissue. There's a lot of red here too. I was surviving with my mouth and then trying to just let people know that you're not gonna be able to do that to me
Starting point is 00:37:18 or to hurt me. When did you come by your mother's support? When did it arrive? If at all? I think my mom, you know, after playing in the Olympics and then all the media and I think, you know, if Dick were alive he'd tell you, he'd ask her a question about me and she'd say, oh I'm so proud of her. You know, she scored two touchdowns. He goes, she didn't play football. Well, you know, she scored. It baskets.
Starting point is 00:37:51 And he was actually helping my mother. And I think she had to figure out, Ma, come to a game. See what I do. And, you know, don't tell me you shouldn't be doing that. Girls don't play sports. This is what the neighbors are saying. I don't care what the neighbors are saying.
Starting point is 00:38:11 So, you know, I developed my mamba mentality of this is who I am, this is what I am, this is what I'm going to do. I don't care what you say about me because this is my ticket out. This is, you know, I became my mother's mother and because she had nothing like she's trying to survive and sports was my vehicle. Well, you became your mother's mother more literally at the end. You had to leave a job with the Sacramento Kings to take care of her. You were the first female assistant coach in the NBA. Second.
Starting point is 00:38:53 Becky was the year before me. Okay, forgive me. The second. You were in a job that you were enjoying? Or was it okay? Loved it. Vlad A. Divac was my GM and Peja Stojakovic. I loved it. You know, I was doing what I loved. I loved being around Rondo and I loved being around DeMarcus and Rudy and
Starting point is 00:39:13 you know, Seth Curry and Nick Collison, Marco Bellinelli. It was really, it was good stuff for me. It gave me a chance to get to that next level, see what that next level was about. We were a little dysfunctional with George Karl, to be quite honest, in Sacramento. And my mom got sick and I went into Vlad A's office and I said, sir, I feel responsible for women's basketball and what comes up behind us. And you know, it's just, Jackie Robinson comes into Major League Baseball, it's historic. If Larry Doby doesn't come after him, it's a tragedy. If Becky gets hired, it's historic. If Nancy doesn't get hired, it's a tragedy.
Starting point is 00:40:07 It could be Nancy, it could be Sue, it could be anybody. But we can't have one-offs for the optics. Growth is growth, and we have to be given opportunity and chance. Oh, so you didn't want to quit. You couldn't, like, it hurt you to quit anything. Because I felt responsibility, and I'm not a quitter But you know in life you say you know it's it's God and family and job And then you're in it and it's money and money and status and family and God and And I think people get that twisted when so much is being thrown at you. And now I'm not poor Nancy. By that time I'm rich Nancy.
Starting point is 00:40:50 And now what's changed are my priorities in line. And you know sometimes you have to check your own motives of what you're doing and I needed to be with my mom. She's in Florida. She's sick, She's getting older. She's in her 80s. She's probably 88, 89. And she has nobody. So I said, Vlade, and he goes, it was great. Nancy, you go to your mother. You, Peja, Peja, come here. Come here. Peja. Peja walks in. He goes, Nancy, it's what Vlade said. You go to your mother, you have no regrets.
Starting point is 00:41:27 And I'm like, okay. And then he goes, I give you two-year extension. I go, I don't want a two-year extension for something I'm not doing. I don't wanna take anything from somebody. I have to earn what, that's how I, my belief system. Vlade is the best. I love that man because he took the pressure off me.
Starting point is 00:41:50 So I'm with her. My mother goes, you're never with me. I go, I have 189 nights at the Marriott in Delray Beach. What are you saying? I'm not with you. You know, the Jewish guilt. You can't win. And I'm like, I'm leaving. I don't live here, but I'm here as much as I can be here. So I'm at home this 2018. You know, I step away after summer league in 2017 and I'm watching the NCAA tournament,
Starting point is 00:42:26 flipping back and forth on the men's and watching straight out of Compton. My phone rings, it's restricted. I'm like, I'm not answering it. And then I'm like, wait, you're a girl, you're curious, right, Fomong? Oh, you might be missing an opportunity there of some sort. So I'm like, go right back to being New York.
Starting point is 00:42:45 I go, yo, who's this? And he goes, yo, it's Ice Cube. I'm like, yo, do I call you Mr. Cube, Mr. Ice? What do I call you? He calls call me Cube. He goes, Nancy, I'm in a room with people who primarily look like me. And I'm a man of equality and I said, sir,
Starting point is 00:43:08 he said, we would like for you to coach in the big three. I know about your mom, it's three months, it's two days a week, we'll schedule a game in Florida so you can see mom. He said, you'll be the first female head coach in a men's professional league. I was like, well, that's great. I said, sir, are you checking a box?
Starting point is 00:43:31 Don't you hate when people do that to you? And he says, no, I think you can win. And I said, well, I really actually wanted to hear that. And he goes, and tell your agent agent you'll be the highest paid coach in the league you'll make what Julius is making what Michael Cooper Gary Payton Rick Barry Rick Mahorn George Gervin I'm like the highest paid equality and he was yes I don't know about you but I had never heard that before well you know this is what you're gonna
Starting point is 00:44:05 get paid but he does the same description and he's making this. Well if you want to be here this is what you're gonna get paid. So then you're like I need to get my foot in the door do I push back to me you know those are the life's choices and this guy is saying you don't have to even worry about that. Seven years later, I'm working for a black owned business. I'm working with someone who celebrates me, doesn't tolerate me. And one of the really cool moments of my life
Starting point is 00:44:37 was when we won the championship in 2018 at Barclay Center, there's 17,000, it's sold out, the confetti's coming down, and we're on that podium that we've seen so many times. And here's Cube handing me the championship trophy. And I just looked at him and I said, thank you. Thank you for the opportunity. You don't know how good somebody can be
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Starting point is 00:45:39 to Black culture as fluently as you do, given your upbringing as a white Jewish girl. Like there would be no access to that in a meaningful way and yet it seems like your safest space. It seems like your most fluent and comfortable space. It is 100% comfortability for me because I get a chance to be a good leader of men even though I coached in the W and I loved it would do it again, coached in the NBA, but I thrive in in that environment. I'm Big Mike on the blind side. I have protective instincts and I don't like to see underserved or minorities being treated poorly and I'm strong enough and
Starting point is 00:46:32 Clearly, you know have done this For so many years. I'm that person and I won't let I will not let people hurt other people To the best of my ability. Two things can happen. You can hire me, you can fire me. But in my locker room, you can have your children run around the locker room. You can have your wife, your granny, your sister, your brother, your significant other. Thirty minutes before the game, I'm firm but fair. Out. Don't be calling the locker room telling your
Starting point is 00:47:06 husband's your tickets aren't good enough. He has a job to do. This is his job. Handle your business. Let us handle out our business. These guys this is maybe a soft landing to retirement. Maybe these kids never saw what their daddy did for a living. Maybe these kids were not even born. But he has given you generational wealth. And I want them to see what their dad did. They're good men. I am the first one to say that the myth that black, Latino, any of these different athletes, they're not good fathers. They are hella great fathers and they love their kids and they love their family. And I get so tired of hearing, well, you know, that they got 10 kids and I'm like, cut the crap already. What generation are you talking about? So that's when Nancy,
Starting point is 00:48:08 fist up Nancy, I don't like when people do that to my guys or other guys in the league for that matter because this is still my family and then I get to coach my son in this family environment and we have more, we got more, you know, black kids coming into my home wherever I have lived. And I look at my neighbors and I'm like, this is my family. You treat them with respect. Don't do any of that, you know, behind shady stuff. This is my family. These are good people. So I'm very, very protective. You couldn't have dreamt, you couldn't have even dreamt this from what it is that you
Starting point is 00:48:50 were, like even your wildest imagination couldn't have looked like what we're presently blossoming into. What's happened in the last three years is supersonic. I mean, you know, Caitlin is a dear friend of mine. I remember when Lisa Bluter during COVID called me and said, hey, can you zoom with my team? I got a player here. I think you'll like her. You know, she kind of plays like your style and whatnot. And Paige got injured.
Starting point is 00:49:19 The year before, Paige won the Nancy Lehman Poincare to the Year Award and she got hurt a couple times, and then the ascension of Kaitlyn. So I got to know her through these Zooms every October, and then she played in the championship game in Dallas three years ago. And I remember being on the phone with her, and I said, Kaitlyn, I don't know when we're gonna meet, and she had already won the award a couple times. I Caitlin, I don't know when we're gonna meet.
Starting point is 00:49:45 And she had already won the award a couple times. I said, I don't know when we're gonna meet, I don't know how we're gonna meet. But when we meet, it's gonna be powerful. I'm sitting in the corner, like here's the little locker room, like the corridor to get to the locker room. And she finished it doing her ESPN. They're getting ready for the championship game against LSU.
Starting point is 00:50:08 They had beaten South Carolina. And she's walking and she's got all this security around her. And we looked at each other. We hugged like we were hostages, long lost friends. It was so powerful. And she goes, you're coming in the locker room and I go, no I don't have a pass and she has my hand she goes, I'm your pass and I'm walking with her like this is not my time this is her time and Lisa says please talk to the team and I go in the locker room and I'm like I'm just so
Starting point is 00:50:44 proud of you guys this building is full the ratings are gonna be bananas thank you thank you for what you're doing for women's sports I was an unpaid pioneer y'all with NILs your paid pioneers and I'm super happy for you. Thanks for just, you know, kind of moving the needle. And we've had so many of these moments where, you know, I've got a chance, you know, she's nice, she'll text me, she goes, my goat. I go, stop calling me a farm animal. And, you know, I'm goofy with her, like I'm goofy with you.
Starting point is 00:51:22 Your need for protection though, did it affect or damage or end your relationship with Cheryl Swoops that you were protecting or defending Caitlin Clark? It's a great question. I was very protective of Cheryl throughout her career, very very close. Took her, went with her to her first ESPYs in 93 after they won the national championship. And I'm on the treadmill that morning and she's trending on all different stations and it pops up and I'm listening to it and I'm like, wow. So I picked up the phone and I called her.
Starting point is 00:51:59 Now she disputes this, but I did screenshot to let her know the call happened. And I said, hey, I'm calling as your friend, as your sister. She's not 25 years old. She's not a 50-year senior, and she doesn't take 40 shots a game. I said, your numbers are wrong. And she goes, I can, you know, so she said to me, look, I can have my own opinion. I go, absolutely. You can have your opinion, but just get your numbers right. You know, they're going to fact check you and you can
Starting point is 00:52:37 play it off. You can me a Copa. You can, you know, I was wrong and just take it on you and you're the hero of the story. But she dug in and then we got into it and I don't want to get into it with anybody, but it became so much larger than life. And I, I, I would do this for Angel Reese, who I love. I would do this for Asia Wilson, who doesn't need me. But we, our generation, we have to celebrate this generation. Oh, but I think that you probably feel more deeply than most the idea of people pushing on you a lack of belief or a lack of support or as if it's not hard enough already without putting more obstacles in front of you.
Starting point is 00:53:32 So I'm gathering that you're probably doing some of your own, you know, roots on your path stuff there. No, you would have liked for and you did have people who protected you. Yes, but you know the thing is if if we don't stick up for this generation Who are we? I mean it's happened for forever in men's sports had a little kids today know who at Baybrooth or Mickey Mantle or Willie Mays or Hank Aaron because people share the history or what it like I told you I was a Bobby Mercer fan people are blown away that I was so in love with Bobby Mercer I could emulate his stance you know how it is when you're a kid and I stuck up for
Starting point is 00:54:17 Cheryl swoops in 93 you know I mean it's so important for us to understand this. There's no place for jealousy in our sport. We're trying to get to the next level. MJ, when he came into the NBA in 84, and the arenas, even though Magic and Bird were a great rivalry, MJ, they were still playing in half empty arenas in some places. MJ was filling them up. Who were they putting on national TV? Michael Jordan. Who was changing the salary structure? Who is changing endorsements for young athletes, expressively black athletes? When Tiger
Starting point is 00:55:00 Woods came to the PGA, the ratings went up, the attendance went up, the purses went up. Why would people get mad at the cash cow? There's 14, 15 millionaires in the WNBA right now. Everybody's getting a bite at the financial apple. It's a great place to be. Let's pull together for each other and not make this a racist thing. Not pit each other against each other. You don't have to like everybody. There's people you work with that you don't like. There's people I work with that I don't like. But in the name of being successful together, you do what you have to, especially when we're moving the needle at a very crucial time for us.
Starting point is 00:55:50 And so, and then you know the thing with Stephen A, he calls me in the middle of the night, hey, can you come on the show and can you talk about this? And I just said the truth. I said what I feel. And Nancy lied. Now you're going to make me show a screenshot, which I don't want feel and Nancy lied. Now you're gonna make me show a screenshot which I don't wanna do? Please.
Starting point is 00:56:08 In terms of things that have surprised you as you've seen the WNBA grow, a two year, $10 million contract offer for Caitlin Clark from the big three. The WNBA as we speak here has just announced expansion. You're watching just record ratings all over the place. What are the one or two things that you've seen that you can say, I could have never dreamt this in my wildest
Starting point is 00:56:33 imagination from where my beginnings were? That's a great question. Just the overall economic success. It's one thing to play basketball. We are in the business of sports. It's a multi-trillion dollar business. And as I tell people all the time, you know, women players today do have season tickets for the Liberty or for the Storm or for the aces, we should. Why should men purchase tickets to see us play if we don't, and it's changed our life economically? So I couldn't have seen the Taylor Swift effect financially, but I'm really excited about where it's going. You could have bought a WNBA team 10 years ago, 12 years ago for you know, fact check me, but you know, 8 million, 10 million, I don't know, you know, I'm sure the legal call and give me the right numbers. But now they're estimating it at 280 million. I think the Liberty I saw something about a month ago they got in evaluation of four hundred fifty million
Starting point is 00:57:47 it's a real business is not a mom and pop organization and i'm very thankful to david stern and i used to say it when i was coaching the league every player in the league's and coach should write a letter to david stern and say thank you i i i'm like put on my little tomb gratitude gratitude it's just as thank you for taking us from here I'm like, put on my little tomb gratitude.
Starting point is 00:58:05 Gratitude. It's just a thank you for taking us from here to here. It happened. Darrell Bock What can you tell us about the details of how little money you were making while you were busy pioneering? Mary Riefer 50 grand was my first salary in the WNBA. It was crazy. There was the 50, there was, I made 40,000. There was the 40,000, 50,000. We were the elite players and then I think it was like in the 20s and it was amazing that first year. Like I didn't know Abner
Starting point is 00:58:40 Doubleday and I didn't know Abe Saffrastein who started you know Major League Baseball and the NBA but how many people can say they played the first year of the W and you might or might know this but in 1984 I met home in Dallas and David Stern calls me he says can you come to New York I'd like to talk to you so I go up and he closes the door and I said, why'd you close the door? And he says, they'll fire me if they hear this conversation. He said, Nancy, before I'm done being commissioner of the NBA, there will be a WNBA. I was like, what? He says, my only hope is that you'll still be around to play in it.
Starting point is 00:59:25 And when you're 25 years old, you're like, David, I'm gonna be around to play. Fast forward to 1997. I'm 39. The morning of the game in Phoenix against Charlotte, David Stern calls me in my apartment in Phoenix. I'm like, hi. and he was visibly emotional. His voice was shaking. And I have said, hi, he says,
Starting point is 00:59:53 I didn't know if you were gonna get here. He goes, I'm just so proud of you. I said, typical me. I go, I told you I was gonna be here. Why did you not think I was gonna be here? And you know, we just started to laugh and everybody owes him and Adam Silver a really, and now you know, Kathy Engelbert, our commissioner, we owe them a great debt, you know, gratitude. What is the biggest difference would you say? Obviously it's financial, but if you look back to you roughing it versus how they have it
Starting point is 01:00:28 today what are the biggest differences? They don't have to fight to get respect. We're respected everywhere. I walk in airports, I walk in malls and people are like oh my gosh I saw the game last night. I did the game, you know, Paige Caitlin game Friday night on ion in Dallas, you know, Caitlin couldn't play because she had pulled her groin. There was over almost 21,000 people in the building, celebrities everywhere, watching the game and I'm sitting there and I, I, I have it on video. I took a video and I'm like, this is amazing. I'm thinking God is good. These gals get to play in this building.
Starting point is 01:01:16 The enormous national exposure. They know your name and they know your game. And for that, they know your name and they know your game. And for that, there's a two-year-old that none of us know. And because of what you're doing as a pioneer and a trailblazer, Kaitlyn, you're a trailblazer, Paige, Asia, Stewie, all the great players in this league. Nancy. Like I said, I was in, thank you, an unpaid pioneer. They're paid pioneers and there's a two-year-old who in 20 years is going to be making 10-15 million a year just playing, not endorsements. We are advancing this thing on a whole other level and you should be so proud of it. Are you though? Do you allow yourself to absorb that you're at least in part responsible for all these things that you're looking out over with awe and
Starting point is 01:02:16 gratitude? You're not off to the side of it. You're at ground zero. I might have been, and I was at ground zero, but when I went back before the game towards the locker rooms, I always make sure that I'm extending myself to today's players. You're not going to accept the pride that I'm asking you to have, are you? You're going to deflect it. No. You're going to push it away. I'm, I'm, I clearly know who I am. I understand my place in history, but it's also important to me, everybody has their
Starting point is 01:02:51 own why, but to go back and talk to Sophie Cunningham and to talk to Aliyah Boston and to talk to Lexi Hall. And when I went there, their PR person said, we want to introduce you to Nancy Lieberman. And Sophie Cunningham goes, everybody knows her. And I hugged him. I was like, that's really nice of you. Because life is about choices, right? Up, down, left, right, duality.
Starting point is 01:03:20 Maybe they don't know, but it's okay. But now we do know. And if there's anything you need, if there's anything you need, Asia, I'm here, or Angel, or Paige, or really anybody. I would assume that there are an assortment of women who have had the same experience with you that you've had with Muhammad Ali that you would be
Starting point is 01:03:48 that for a young person who might not know what their promise is might a young person who might not have love or support in the home but needs to find it on television. You know, it's funny you say that. Let me just, I don't wanna lose that thought, but you know, Hitch, the movie, which I love funny movies, you don't know where you're going if you don't know where you came from.
Starting point is 01:04:18 I'm part of where they came from. So I think the W is doing a good job of bridging us, pioneers, to today's enormous talent. For 20 years, I've had people want to do my life story. And it was like, no, no, no. I wasn't ready. Had I done it, I would have missed coaching in the WNBA. I would have missed coaching in the G League, coaching in the NBA, coaching now. I would have missed this day in Miami with you getting a chance to properly meet. meet and it's like we we met and we didn't know each other but we felt like we knew each other and that's a powerful moment and I love those moments so now
Starting point is 01:05:14 I'm getting ready to do my life story and I'm not sure if my life story is over but damn I'm gonna be 67 years old, I got a Medicare card. I'm gonna take everybody else's Social Security from you before you get a bite at that. Tomorrow is her birthday, happy birthday to a pioneer, a trailblazer. It is an honor to spend this time with you. Your story is a riveting one. Thank you for spending this time with us. Thank you for having me. And tell Poppy I say hi. I will pass along your regards and he will say, as he does with many American athletes, who the hell is that?
Starting point is 01:05:51 It is no disrespect of you. It's just a shining symbol to how proud he is of his ignorance. Thank you, Nancy. Thank you so much. What am I Jeremy? I'm a back to back Stanley Cup champion. That's what I am. That's right. We all are.
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