The Debrief - Am I Being Too Picky?… | The Debrief Podcast

Episode Date: July 14, 2025

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Welcome to the D-Brew! Co-host Kitty McNeil. And your co-host Katie Leach. Take it away girl, it's Katie Leach in the house. Dun-du-dun-du-dun-du-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun-dun Dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun be a joke. Well clearly, Sherlock. Well, excuse me, the fact that you're questioning the integrity of Casey's arse is quite frankly disgusting. It's quite frankly rude and disgusting. And demoralizing, I'm gonna say. Honestly. My god, on this topic, what do you think about Sabrina Carpenter? Album cover. I don't have an issue with it. Do you not? I think it's very on brand for her.

Yeah, okay. But I like, a lot of people have said just watch her like post the full shot of it and it's actually like her in the suit holding her own. That'd be good. I don't know. I've seen- Now that would be a good twist. I've seen a lot of discourse about it.

Yeah, I have. Personally, I'm like, this is so her brand. Yeah. It scares me how quickly like celebs or famous people can get cancelled or like start getting trolled. It's like one minute you love them the next you hate them. Yeah. It's like, and I feel like, especially nowadays, there's such a fine line with humor. Oh, massively. Between humor and then offensive. It's like that's offensive. That's what comedians say all the time. The day and age we're in now, being a comedian is so tough because there's so much you can't

joke about. The thing is though, everyone's like, she's not family friendly. Her whole short and sweet tour was her doing a different sex position every night, which I was fucking here for. I thought it was hilarious, but they're like, oh, it's not appealing to kids. I'm like, well, I don't think she's ever appealed to kids in her like new age of things. You know? And also, why does she need to appeal to children? Exactly. Not everyone's appealing to children. No, it's not a CVBC.

So I'm like, Sabrina, if you're listening. Which she is. Keep going, girl. We back you. Tell you what, I have a little bit of a why is the Sydney Sweeney soap. Why? What is that? So she did this advert for men about like body wash and it's very, very sensual.

She's talking like, you naughty boy. She says it in real life. She's like, if you're a dirty boy. Stop! Really? Yeah. Then she's now sold the bath that she, supposedly, the bath that she was in. She's now done a collab and agreed with that and selling that soap bath water that she's in. And the soap has a hole in the middle. So men are like buying these soaps and the girlfriend's like why? Like it's disgusting. I don't get it Katie, I don't get it. That's a bit wild.

I don't get it. That's a bit wild. Isn't it? Should we mantra? Yeah, let's mantra. Okay, so my mantra for this week is I let life show me magic in unexpected places. Magic. I got the magic in me. Guys we watched Pitch Perfect. Yeah. Such a good film. Honestly like if I was in the American like collegiate system, I would have been in that fucking choir.

Eat that up. Eat that up. Also, I love the second film. I don't care what anyone says about it. I need to read what I I love the second film. I don't care what anyone says about it. I love the second film. I've only seen the second film once, whereas the original Pitch Perfect I've seen at least 20 times. I was obsessed with it. But the second one, they go around the world, don't

they? Yeah. Around the world, around the world. What's your mantra for this week, little peachy? My mantra this week is I have calm strength and quiet confidence. Ooh! Love that. Yeah. I love that. Yeah.

I love it. Big time. Just staying calm, floating like a little duck, quietly confident. Just in the background like, don't stress about me. Don't mind me. Don't mind me because I'm actually living perfectly. Just doing my thing. Doing my thing. Don't stress about me. Don't mind me. Don't mind me because I'm actually living perfectly. Just doing my thing. Doing my thing.

Don't stress about me. Exactly. And my song for this ring is... And battles at banner. Oh my god, I love that. It's not the original. It's... Seven Rings.

Yes, thank you. Ariana Grande. Thanks very much. I was worried that you were going to think it was a few of my favourite things. Julie Andrews. Absolutely. Now I could tell by your tone you were thinking Ariana. What she's like, I like, is it that one?

I see it. I like it. I want it. I got it. I want it. I got it. I want it. It's so good.

Lovely. I love that. And I think it's vibes that every woman should go into a relationship with. I see it. I see it. I like it. I want it. And I got it. Yeah. Say like it'd be every day life. I see it. Okay. Yeah, yeah, you get it. You get it. Oh, I want it. I got it. That was exceptional. If you did a self-tune that you would have got the job. I'm waiting for a panto that needs that. Oh, I loved it. I liked it. Right, tell me your song for this week. My song, funnily enough, given our topic of conversation earlier. Manchild! Is it stupid? Or is it slow? Maybe it's useless. Oh, it just itches my brain. I've been fucking loving it. It is a really good song and all the TikToks are popping off with Manchild at the moment.

We need to get on our TikTok. I've seen guys, Kitty McNeil's been like grinding on the TikTok. I've posted my mother's TikTok today, which got 250,000 views. No, it didn't. Yeah. Talk about Bonnie Bloom. Yeah. Oh my God. People are like, I love this woman. This woman's an icon. So my mum's like texting on the family

group chat like, guys, have you seen it? It's gone up to 150,000. Oh my God, you've gone viral. Everyone thinks she sounds like Carol Vorderman though. Hilarious. Which my mum's like, never saw that coming. I was like, mum you're iconic. Oh my god. And then people were commenting like, I love this woman. And mum's like, you know what mum has? Quiet confidence. Quiet confidence. Because I like text her on it, like mum you've got so many fans. She's like, it's just so funny what people find interesting. I was like, quiet confident mum. She'll be. I was quite confident. She'll be sat in the orange tree swiping like she'll be refreshing.

She's like, oh, no bother. No bother. I literally like I'm obsessed with Eileen getting the recognition. I'm like, come on girl, pop off. Oh my God. It's your time. It's your time, queen. We love it. Yeah.

Recommendation. This week is secret lives of Mormon wives. Hold me back, hold me back, hold me back. I binged season one and season two within, I think, two weeks. Easy. Best thing I've ever watched. If you like reality television, get yourself on Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. It's so good. And I can't tell you how many spins. I started off liking this character. Then I'm like, she's the best.

I never finished it. And then I swore over it. I'm like love. Whitney I knew was a controversial character. I tell you who's fucking lovely is Macy. She deserves a shout out. Macy's lovely. And I'm so happy that her and Michaela, who are besties, are having babies at the same time. And the babies are girls. They're going to be best friends. The exact same time. If that happened to you and me and we both having girls, oh my God.

They're going to be best friends. And they found out on TikTok because they both had cupcakes. And then bit into each other's cupcakes. I just got goosebumps. Shut up. Right. That's so cute. Oh my God. Right, should we get on to the topic? and then bit into each other's cupcakes and they were both taken. I just got goosebumps. Shut up. That's so cute. Right, shall we get on to the topic? Okay, let's do the embrace. Thank you, Kasey. Yeah. So today we've had a lot of listeners writing lately with the same burning question, am I being

too picky? Am I? Am I being too pekeh? Something I ask myself daily in the mirror. Down the barrel of the camera of my life. Completely. Now, this question can be about dating, friendships, jobs, or just the little things that make you go ick. Yeah. Okay. This topic has officially become a hot girl dilemma. And today we're diving all the way in. This situation is going to be full on debrief session. Now I've got a dilemma for you. Are you ready? Yeah. Hey gallies, girly pops, quick debrief here. Would love to get your opinion. My mum thinks I'm being ridiculous. Now, even before we start that hits me hard. Because I'm thinking if Mummy

Pops said to me, TikTok famous, if she was like to me, I would take that to heart. But then again, my mum told me I was being ridiculous. I'd be like, you just are saying this because I said I want a nose piercer. Completely. Completely. There's different varying levels. Yeah, completely. Yeah, got you. But really wondered what you both thought. I've been seeing a guy for a few months. He's respectful, kind, has a stable job, doesn't play games, but I feel zero spark. Like literally watching paint dry might be spicier. Am I being too picky that I want butterflies constantly? Or is it just rom com brain and completely unrealistic? I've had quite a pass of choosing red flags. However, the sex was fantastic.

I see. And there was always a bit of a spark, toxic or not. Well, of course. So I'm wondering if I'm self-sabotaging. Oh. But it's so dull. I pretended to be tired so we didn't have sex. Then I used my vibrator in the morning.

For context, guys. I'm 21. You can't be cheating on your boyfriend with your vibrator. That's the end of the dilemma. She's like, I'm 21. I'm 21. Full stop. Do you like so?

Oh, I'm sorry. In my opinion, okay, run for the hills. Run for the hills. You're 21 exactly. This is when you should be picking. You're 21 full stop. You're not 41. No.

No hate on the 41 year olds, okay. But you're 21. But I'm saying you've got your life ahead of you. Why do you need to be picking now? Why do you need to be with someone that he's like trying to finger you and you think, I'd rather not. I'd rather not. I'd rather not. I'd rather go to bed and literally not have you touch me at all. I mean that's severe and then you lie to him being like I'm tired and then you use little vibey in

the morning which is fine darling. But at 21 your world should be rocked. I'm sorry. No compromise. Don't think you're too beat up. Guys, I've been rewatching Desperate Housewives. So good. And I watched the episode where Brie gets eaten out for the first time. Stop it. And then she goes to the hospital because she's like something something very overwhelming has happened to me and the doctor was like, you've had an orgasm. I mean, quality TV show.

Absolutely quality. But don't wait till you breathe. Don't wait till you breathe and also find your awesome. And you know, Yep. Yeah. And I'm sorry, I think I took it too. I was too premature with the mummy comment. Now mummy wants the best for you. Okay. And the reason why she's saying you're ridiculous is because she wants wealth, prosperity, health, happiness, a home, a warm soup for you. Now the idea of a warm soup on a Friday night is depressing for you. You'd rather

shove that warm soup where the sun don't shine and go out in a miniskirt and get partying. So she wants good future prospects for you. However, you will get that. But you're going to get that with the love of your life that you don't have to pretend to be tired with. So I'm telling you, you're not too picky one for the hills. I don't think you're being too picky at all. I think you need to skidaddle because I will also stand on business. Yeah, but there is a thing, such a thing as too nice. I do. Yes. And I don't think that's me self sabotaging.

No, I think you can be on paper delightful. Wow. There was someone I met exactly like this. Sensational. Didn't want to rip their clothes off. Oh, it's such a shame. And it's like, oh, this is and you can acknowledge, oh, this is a real shame. It is a shame.

This is, oh, you know, but you can't force that. You cannot say. And I really, really would not put yourself through shagging this guy if you feel no sexual chemistry because that's horrendous. No, and then you get yourself deeper and then you've got into five years and you think, fuck, do I get married to this guy? No, no, no. No, no. 21, this is the time to leave. Yeah, go, go, go. Right, and you think you fuck do I get married to this guy? No, no, no. No. No. No. No. No. No. No.

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No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No Good. I left really empowered and knew that I would never let myself end up in a position like that again. Oh, proud of you. But now I'm looking for jobs and finding myself perhaps

too cautious. I don't know. I'm finding very little reasons not to apply for these jobs. Needing to take two tubes being one of the examples. Hilarious. Silly I know. Hilarious. I just want to make sure the job I'm going into is right, but my housemates have said that they think I'm being too picky. What do you think? Any advice would be appreciated. Two tubes, I back up. I back it. I'm like, I get it. You just want to sit down, okay? But what I'm saying is that the reason you didn't like your work was because of the environment, the toxic environment. If you love, if you are fulfilled with the, and you love the people that, doing two tubes won't

be any bother whatsoever. It just will not irritate you. So don't get me wrong, if we're South West London, if we had a job in Canary Wharf, I would seriously consider that. I'd be like, that's going to take me ages. But if it's the difference between, I think most commuters in London is about 45 minutes. Oh yeah, easy. Maybe an hour. So if you're like, let's say over 20 minutes, I'd be like, you are being okay. But if you're being like, oh, it's over an hour and a half, no, I would also be like, I'd sway away from that. I think to be honest, you just need to make a list of what is really important to you because of course you won't know the people there until you're interviewed,

until you get a vibe. And also maybe have a look online, see all their LinkedIn's, like what's the kind of vibe? Like, will I get along with these people? Or also look into the job role, what are the benefits? That might help? If you look more into the job role and the benefits are like to do with like healthcare or to do with like good gym memberships and then you're like, oh, or certain schemes and you're like, oh, this sounds really, really good. Or if you're there for a certain amount of time, you get this promotion. Well, that could really help with my rent or I'm saving up. Like have a look into it or at least make a list of what's really important to you. If you are like, commute is so important to me because I'm a massive gym galet, I like

to go to the gym before work and I like to go for a run after work and I'm doing an hour and a half, no, don't do that then. You need a half an hour commute. You need something that you could run potentially or you could walk. So I think you need to make a list of what is actually important to you. Exactly. Build your routine and the job around the life you want. Yeah, completely. You know, like if it suits you and aligns with you. Reservations in any job are normal. Oh yeah, completely.

Like there are going to be pros and cons to both. Yeah. And especially if you're coming from a place where you didn't feel good. We had a shit time. And you had a shit time, of course you're going to be more cautious. And you've got to be so oversensitive about everything. But don't let that manifest into itself. You almost leave the past in the past and look forward to the future and don't focus

on my new details. You kind of do need, write all that down, rip it all up, throw it in the bin and be like, right, we're starting a new. But also, if you're in the financial position, and I know not a lot of people are, to take a little bit of time, do it. Just take a bit, don't rush into it if you can do it financially and that is a rarity. But if you can't be like maybe you'll come back to mom and dad's for a bit. And you're like, oh, I've got a few months, maybe like three or four months. Don't rush into it. Yeah, absolutely.

I've got another one. Give it to me. Kitty and Katie, all very formal. Thanks for always getting me through Mondays with your silliness. Thank you. Silly. Okay, so I'm going straight into the deep roof. I went on a fast date with this guy I met on Hinge. He was honestly so fucking hot.

Brilliant. Love that. And equally really sweet. Nice. God. He held the door open. Stop it. Complimented my nails.

She already is not Daz. Stop it. Complimented my nails. She worries not dares. Stop it. That's crazy. Didn't make any weird comments about my salad order. And honestly, a unicorn so far. That is lovely. Do you know what I get what she means with the salad order? Or like, I think guys can sometimes pick up on things and you're like, no.

Being like, oh, going for the skinny option. And then it's like, so you think I eat like I eat like a bummer then I think that's all being like, Oh, you're really healthy. Gunners like, Well, no, I just felt like that today. I think time men like especially on a date, someone made a comment about what I was eating. I know. No, I saw this tick tock about girls saying she went on a first date and a guy like mentioned what she was eating. And it wasn't even like, God look at that portion. But then just, she said it made me feel really shit because I was like, why you now, she was like, she said, it made me think like,

well, cause I think she had something quite healthy and she was like, she said, she was quite honest, she was like, I'm not naturally healthy. I just felt really nervous on the day. So I didn't feel like I could eat a big portion. So I was like, Oh, I'll get something small. And she was like, but I went home and had a big bowl of pasta. And she was like, so now I feel like I can't really be myself with you. So I was like, yeah, I get what you mean. Anyway, so we were vibing and I really felt something was there. He was asking real questions, not just, so what do you do, Sav? Lovely.

I was thinking, wow, finally someone emotionally available who I also want to shag. Delightfully. Then, oh my God, this is hilarious. I've just read ahead. Then the waitress comes. Yeah. I order a glass of wine and he orders, wait for it, a glass of milk with his pasta. Not even water on the side. She offered. He said, no, just the milk. Just sadistic.

I'm so sorry. Like a toddler with a lasagna craving. I thought he was joking and I laughed. He looked at me, deadly fucking serious. I thought he was joking and I laughed. He looked at me, deadly fucking serious. The glass came and he sipped it. It was completely normal. I tried to stay present in the conversation, but anytime he drank I just couldn't stop

looking at the glass. Something in my soul detached in the moment. I couldn't stop picturing him at home drinking milk with a Sunday lunch whilst watching rugby in socks with holes. I told my friends expecting validation, but instead they were like, you need therapy. It's a drink, not a felony. So now I'm spiralling. Am I too picky? I know milk isn't a character flaw, but for me it is. No, I don't blame you. I mean it was instant and irreversible. He is so hot, but the moment he had that glass

of milk, he was unbred. Yeah. Oh my God. He has reached out and wants to see me again and take me on a date, but I don't know, is it okay to cut someone off over a beverage choice or am I just looking for an excuse because I'm scared of something actually work? Here's the thing. We're standing out friends.

I would say maybe go on the second date. Right. But I'm not invalidating the fact that getting a fucking glass of milk is actually crazy. Why are you doing that? I can't remember, but you know the story. I don't know if I've said it on the pod before, I used to walk to school with someone. And we'd go into Sainsbury's every morning to get like our meal deal for lunch or whatever or snack. And one time he went and bought a huge four pint, four pint jug of milk, opened it up and just started chugging on it.

That is disgusting. I personally can't drink milk straight and I don't, I honestly have never, I hate it. I hate it. Can I tell you something really strange? So a few weeks ago, I kept having dreams that I was pregnant and then I never ever ever in my life will have a glass of milk and I was craving a glass of milk and I kept being like- In your dream? No, in real life. So then, and also my period was like-

Oh my God. I was like, am I fucking pregnant now? And I wasn't. So it's a boring story. But there we go. There we go. Oh my God. But I, the glass of milk would really set me back because let me and I can play devil's advocate. Okay. Because daddy McNeil at the university wasn't a drinker because he was training for his sport. Yeah. So he would go on nights out and he would go to the pub and he'd have a glass of milk. When he told me this, I thought it was highly ickable. I was like, mother, how did you go that? And he's nine years younger than you, a literal child. Yeah.

I was like, wow. I was like, just get his fucking... Dummy. What are they called? Pussy. What are they called? Cheese balls. Yeah.

What are they called? Baby bell. Just get your baby bell out And off you go. So is it health reasons? Is he like, Oh my god, I'm sorry. Yeah, no, no. If you're calcium deficient, there are other ways to go about this than tanning milk at a restaurant. Take a fucking supplement. Yeah. The thing for me though, is that it's so fucking old to me that the fact he's doing it on a date, this must be his normal life. He must do this every single day because it's like me ordering an elderflower and you're like, an elderflower? And I'm like, what's like me ordering an elderflower and you're like an elderflower. And I'm like, yeah, what's wrong with that? But then yeah, maybe to play devil's advocate. This is someone who's very secure in themselves. They're not worried about you getting the egg. He's like, yeah, I'm gonna order my fucking glass of milk and you're gonna love that. So I say give him a sec. But I yeah, I yeah, I say give him a second chance. But take into a

wine bar. See what there's no fucking milk option. Take him to a wine bar. Be like, I really want to take you to this wine bar because then you won't get the egg. He's hot. He compliments you. He likes your nails. He's sexy. Fantastic. Little men in the world are like this. Let's cling on to them honey bunny. After maybe a few months, you can be like, hey. Then you can joke about it. You can be like, After maybe a few months, you can be like, hey, then you can joke about it. You can be like, quit the milk. Okay. Milk's do- Milk ban.

Have the milk in private. Have the milk in private? Not out. Okay. Let's not do this. Could be a joke. Yeah. I think give him a chance.

I think give him a chance. But I understand- And tell us, but I completely back you. I understand why, because if this were me and this happened to me, I probably would take a lot of convincing to see him again. If you told me this, I'd be like, he's a serial killer. The only way I'd see him again is if he told me it was a genuine medical issue. I almost like don't draw attention to it, just don't do it ever again.

No imagine like- It's kind of worse, he's like, sorry about the milk. Why are you bringing it up? He literally pours the milk out, he's like, Oh, you must be wondering more. Stop it now. I'd be like, you bake it 10 times worse. Yeah, I couldn't deal with that. Oh my god. No, no, no, no. Right, let's go to X. Okay, I've got one.

I've got one. Yeah. Thank you, darling. Okay, I've got one. I've got one. Yeah. Okay, I cannot stand when I'm eating something or eating something or whoever's eating something and someone else in the room doesn't like what you're eating and they go, Oh my God, we just honestly, honestly, no seriously, I just don't know how you can eat that. Archie with tuna. Shut up. Shut up. Yeah, it's so... Yeah, it is archie with tuna. I fucking love my tuna. And I'm like, yum, yum, yum, getting my tongue. He hates tuna.

And he's like, come on. I just can't deal with that. And I'm just like, well, no, you've put me off. Like, well, now I'm eating it. So now what? I literally don't understand. It makes me so angry. No, because the same thing goes. Yeah, I just think it's... I can't. I think it's... Yeah. Why are you kicking my face? You're my tuna.

No. If you don't like the tuna, great, but just shut up. Just shut up. It's the theatrics of life. I don't do it when people eat mashed potatoes, while you eat mash. That's also true. Yeah. I just get on with it. If you like mash, you're a feral, but fine. But enjoy it. But enjoy it. Why you eat mash? That's also true. Yeah. I just get on with it. If you like mash, you're a feral, but fine. But enjoy it. Enjoy it. Sure. You mash, you're a feral. Yeah. Fine. Ready? Yep. Mine is when you tell someone, don't be so, why are you being so picky? Don't be so picky. Oh, busy body. Don't infallidate. Yeah, get your nose out of it. My life. There

have been so many occasions where I'm like, oh, I don't know. I'm not body. Don't invalidate. Yeah, get your nose out of it. There have been so many occasions where I'm like, oh, I don't know, I'm not sure. Don't be so picky. I feel like you're being picky now. I think especially with men, like when it comes to dating, I think that's quite personal. Yeah. Like if someone's like, oh, I'm just not interested in that, don't be picky. It makes you feel like you don't have any options. So you should. Yeah. It's like, shut up. I've been told so many times in romantic scenarios being like, oh, well, you can't be don't be picky I'm like you saying I can't afford to be picky. What are you trying to say? Yeah, it's like that is just I just it runs the other wrong way so I completely agree with you

And I'm also like why and if I am being picky so what? Yeah Am I not allowed to not find someone that I I really like? Do I have to just be completely fucking no standards at all? Yeah. I'm like, oh sorry, yeah, I'll just let this guy walk all over me, sure. Yes. It also gives the vibes that, well it doesn't matter to me so it shouldn't matter to you. Yeah. It's like, why can't it matter?

Yeah. No, no, no, no. Questions? Questions. I'm a deadly bloody serious, Petra. And I am silly. Right, so my question is for you. Is it too picky to refuse to share food on the first day?

No. You're asking the wrong person, though. Because I hate sharing food. I hate it. Tapas is my worst nightmare. I hate it. If I'm getting tapas, I'm getting four plates for myself. Like no one's, oh, well, shall we order loads of appetizers and just pick? No, actually. No, no, get your mitts off it, especially when it's gluten free. Especially, there's that. And also I think free, especially that. And also I think people, I'm a very type A person. So you're underestimating the fact that I've already downloaded the PDF of the menu to my phone and picked what I'm having

for my starter main dessert. If you are then- That's exactly what I was about to say. If you were then saying, oh, let's just share. No, because I've personally decided what I'm having about five hours ago. Yeah. So I completely back that on top of that, when you've been thinking about it all day, I look forward to it every single minute of today, I've starved myself. Oh, because I've thought, do you know what? I want to stuff it. Yeah, I want to stuff my it's in no way healthy or beneficial, but fuck it. Yeah, I'm not gonna have breakfast. It's in no way healthy or beneficial, but fuck it. Yeah.

I'm not gonna have breakfast, lunch, dinner, nothing. I'm gonna stuff myself. So I'm extra hungry for my great meal. Yeah, I'm extra hungry. And then they say, should we share? No. No, I'm not sharing. Or I can think it all day about my sweet popcorn, a bag of sweet popcorn. Oh yeah. It's the same spree. Sit down on the sofa, Archie, let's come on a bit.

No, no. It makes me, Katie, it makes me so angry. It's actually- Like I'm like, no, I literally have this. Oh, you can have one of my twisters. I don't want one of your fucking twisters. When was it the other week? We were like, I was quite drunk and I ordered some McDonald's and the boys were like, can I have a chip? In what world do you think that's an okay thing to say whilst I'm drunk tucking into my McDonald's? How dare you ask for a chip

or a fucking nugget? I couldget? You should have got your own. Completely. Dry your eyes. Go to bed hungry. I'm not doing it. It's like that when that person took some of your takeaway and then went, I was like, you don't know right now. You have now got a death threat from Katie. You've unleashed the base. You've unleashed the base. You've unleashed the base.

I was like, Katie, you will be like, kill ya. I'll kill ya. Yeah. I'm like, number one op. I actually can't deal with it. Also, on a weird, you know, what's it called? The Mandela effect. When you think it's one thing. I can't remember what the definition is. But it's like a phenomenon where you have got it in your head. There's something is one thing and it's actually never been there. And that happened to me yesterday when I was watching you talking about your popcorn. I thought my whole life it's butterskitt. Butterskitt popcorn. It's butter kissed. Stop it. It's butter kissed. I've thought my entire life it is butterskitt popcorn. Stop it. It's Butterkiss. I've thought my entire life is butterskip popcorn. Stop it.

And I'm like, and I literally swear, I don't know if I'm being enabled, but I've always been like, oh, should we get some like butterskip popcorn? And everyone's like, yeah. So what? Why now? And it was this advert before Love Island. It was like, Butterkiss? The fuck? You were like, stop it. You're messing with me. My world had been rocked. You're messing with my head. My life had been locked. You're messing with my head. My life had been turned upside down. Keep it polite. Terrifying.

Okay, my question to you is, would you rather have everyone make a decision for you because you can't choose or be the one to make a decision for everyone else? No, people can make decisions for me. No, no. You don't like, yeah. No. You don't want to be PM. No, no, make decisions for me. No, no. You don't like, yeah. No. You don't want to be PM. No, no, no.

I'm happy to live in my world where Archie makes me dinner and just tells me what we're eating. Yeah, sure. There's nothing that makes me more angry and genuinely hormonally, irrationally sad than when he says, what do you want for dinner? I could cry. I take it so personally because I think the last thing I like to do is be in a shop, a shop, like a shop for food. It makes me so angry. Someone says, could you just pick up an onion? I don't know where they are. I don't cook. I've got no idea where I'm

going. So now I have to walk down eight aisles. Because you don't know where everything is. I don't know where, I don't know where spices are. So now I'm looking, then I have to go back. It's not there. It's going to have to ask someone, go back. And now it's just making me think of doing that as well as now trying to do. No, I am happy for people to make decisions. Yeah. And I just do it. And I, yeah, I'll have to.

I might moan about them. The problem is, is that I'd happily go with the flow, but I also would like to gently just do it. And I'm yeah, I might moan about them. Problem is, is that I'd happily go with the flow. But I also would like to gently steer in which direction the flow is going. But like, yeah, that's the one that steers that ship. Yeah, but like, in case it all goes wrong, like someone else, hey, take the fall for that. Yeah. Yeah, I said that's why Archie's captain and your co-captain. I always say, And then I'm completely on deck with my

tits out, just like no idea where I'm going. Sunglasses on. Completely. Like if you said to me like we're going somewhere tomorrow. Yeah. Oh god I'm gonna give a flying fuck. When did we, guys I went to the airport once with Keir and I literally was like, and sometimes I'm like fucking city mapper in here. You are really good. I. We're going to get wicks. Yeah, it's got the train to Clapham. We just connected Clapham. We probably got to like our trip, our airplanes at this time, we got to go back, back, back, back. Okay, so we should probably get up at this time, leave at this time. Absolutely. And then I didn't realize until we were on the train to get with I don't think you had any recollection, any knowledge of how we got that. I've got no idea, Katie. Seriously. And I'm like, we're walking through the airport and I'm thinking, okay, sign for check-ins here. And you're like, la la la.

Oh, completely in my head. And then you're like, oh, that's good. We've arrived at the check-in. I said, yeah, I know. Katie's got beads of sweat. Yeah. Yeah. I know. So I'm aware. Does that irritate you though? Or does it? It's not necessarily because you don't ask. Thank you. You don't ask questions. It would annoy me if you were like, where are we going? What are we doing? I'm like, look it up. But you don't ask. You just sit there like a dog staring out the window just like, I'm completely happy. You're like, just happy to be there. I'm so happy when you're like, we're off. I think Katie, if you're having a girls and we have to be somewhere at a certain time. I'll happily leave that to us. You'll be like, Kit, we need to leave at about 7.30. Absolutely fine. I'll be ready to go.

Tell me when and where I'll be going. I'm not correcting you. That's what fucks you off. We know someone who like, wants Katie to take the reins and they're like, are you sure you know where you're going? That's what I... Do you actually know where you're going? Are you sure? I think it'd be quicker to get the district like, are you sure? Really? That's what I hate more. That would irritate you. At least I'm just happy. No, you're happy you don't say a thing. You're literally a dream to travel with.

I'd struggle traveling with Archie more because he'd be like, I've heard going this route is slightly quicker. We've had arguments before about which way is quickest to get home. Stop it. I'm literally like, I'm telling you now, it's this way. He's like, I've timed it. It's quicker. Oh my God, that's so him. Stop it. And I'm literally like, I'm telling you now, it's this way. He's like, I've timed it, it's quicker. And I'm like, I literally. Oh my God, that is so him. I stop it. So I struggle with two project managers at odds. There we go then.

That's why we're the dream team. Dream team. Dream team. Right guys, we've got to the end of the app. End of the app. Hope you have a fun, have a good one guys. Yeah, we love you. Stay safe out there.

We love you, don't be too picky, unless you date her. Unless you date her, be picky, have standards. Okay have standards girls. Yeah. Cue more. Cue more. Right we love you. Love you. See ya. Bye. I've got a rebel soul I've got a rebel soul