The Debrief - Halloween Horrors | The Debrief Podcast

Episode Date: October 28, 2025

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I've got a rebel soul I've got a rebel soul Welcome to the debrief with your co-host kiss me now And your co-host Katie Lee So we were just talking We were just talking on the day I'm so excited I'm glad you're excited

I think this is going to be played at your wedding No Yeah, okay. So what was the last thing that was sad? We've agreed on a place and time to meet. Okay. It will be where we live. Is it the... Yeah.

Brilliant, brilliant, brilliant. Yeah. Okay. At what time? 7.30? 7 o'clock. 7 o'clock. 7 o'clock.

I feel sick to my... It's squeaky bum times, guys. Squeaky bum times. Okay, so when was this decided today? Today. I'm so excited. I'm so excited. I'm excited. How do you feel? I'm so scared. No, Peach. I know. You're a sexy woman. Yeah. You need to own that.

Yeah. I'm literally like, oh, God. I'm so excited for you. I need to get drunk beforehand. I feel sick to my stomach. Like, actually, like right now feel like, you know, when you feel so nervous, you can't eat. I'm like, I feel like that. I felt like that all day. Pete. All week, even, being like, it's looming. I just, in the nicest way possible, want to get it over and done with. Once you do the first 15 minutes, you'll be found me. I know. I think that's it. It's the anticipation. But you need to have at least two really strong vodkas. Before you're going.

I can't. Oh, God. Because the mistake is don't get ready with a drink because you won't have any of it because you'll be focusing on getting ready. Yeah. Down a drink, a really strong drink, then get ready and have the drink as well.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. So you'll go and confident. sexy woman. Yeah. Not jittering terrified mouse. It will be. I'm so scared. Like, hello. Hello. Hello. Hello. Are you excited? Not right now. No. I'm talking. Are you at work tomorrow? Yeah. At least I've got the distraction. What time do you finish work for? Will you come back home before going? I will. And get ready here. Yeah. Oh, no. Actually, no, I can't talk about it anymore. I think I'm a panic attack. I literally think I have a panic attack. I will. I will be nearby. Yeah. So we still need a plan. Yeah. Plans ahead. Yeah. If no plan, then I'll be like,

she's in love. I'm like, oh, I'm so excited. I think I'll come drop by anyway. Okay. I don't anticipate on, I'm not saying I'm going to be half an hour. That sounds social. But I won't be forever. You have to at least stay till nine. Yeah, I'll do two out and then I'll go. Okay. Because I fear I'd need to go home. Who knows? You might be in love. Who? I'm a Pisces. It's happened. before, you know. Oh, my God, let me quickly tell you. So our friend was climbing Kilimanjaro. Yes.

Malt, Kilimanjaro. Yeah. Am I saying, right, Kilimanjaro? I feel like you're saying it like Monjaro like Osama. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I was like, Monjaro. I always thought it was Kiliman, Kiliman, Kiliman, Kiliman. Yeah. So she is walking Kilimanjaro, yeah.

Charity. Amazing. Anyway, loads of people were posing. about it today like yeah that was amazing so he sent her a message and I was like let's say this girl's name's Beth yeah

Beth Beth capital letters loads of exclamation it's like my mother yeah Beth Beth you probably won't get this right now because I'm sure you're at Kilimanjaro but I just wanted to say you're an inspiration

I'm so proud of you keep going you've got this wow wow wow with a selfie at work saying, babe, I'm at work. We were like, I was, we were dying. The whole day, the whole day I was laughing. No.

Because if we start, you probably won't. You probably won't receive this. Oh, no, it's on WhatsApp. Signals probably bad up there. You probably won't get this at the moment because you're at Kilimanjaro. But I just want to. Meanwhile, she's sat in fucking Soho. I'm so much.

I'm so legit about that I was actually like. You probably don't get this, but I just wanted to say, put my two-pit pen said. You're doing a good job. You've got this. Doing a good thing. Yeah.

When does she go then? January. Job. So it's a while away. It's a while away. Absolutely. Should we get it to mantras? Let's get into mantras.

Okay. My mantra for this week is I embrace each season. I love that. And by the seasons, I mean the weather. Yep. Okay. I was driving into work today. Have my tunes on.

And when I left, it was dark. Right. Pitch black. Right. And I know you leave before me, so it must be... Twilight Zone. Wind is held. It's midnight.

But I'm leaving it's pitch black and I'm like, oh my God, my God, my God, summer's gone. Now, everyone who knows me knows on the summer girl, so that's a really hard thing to lose. It is for you. Left, I said, oh. But I embraced their little things, got in the carpet, the heating on. Oh, delightful. And I left at seven today. got there at 7.20. 20 minutes, in and out.

Yeah. Tunes on. Easy breezy. Heating on. Yeah. Own time for me. Oh, really nice. I love that. So, because once I get past October and I'm November, I'm like, Firewax Night, Christmas, can't wait. Yeah. Is this, I'm, it's the low end of the year. It's like the February of the end of the year. Absolutely. Yes, I'm with you. Absolutely. So I embrace each season. Lovely. What is your mantra?

My mantra this week is emotions are welcome. Oh. I literally swear to fuck not to be like that bitch, but I'm like the one week I go on a date that my therapist can't. I couldn't see my therapist. I literally am like, why does everything happen the week? I can't see her. My life always kicks off.

This is the universe. There's a reason why. They're like, don't rely on others. I know. I've got to really pull myself out this hole. And they're like, trust your God. And also, when you talk to your therapist next week, you'll be like, do I have news for you?

You'll be like, what? What? It's escalated quickly. You'll be like, the fuck. It's a truthful zone. You'll be like, no, no, no, no, I did. But I, yeah, emotions are welcome. Yeah, I'm really trying to enjoy the process of feeling emotions and not push them away.

And also, I know I'm biased because you are my best friend. Yeah. that this is a universal comment right now. You are the best company. Oh, thank you. And that's not just coming from me. Thank you. Anyone who meets you,

she's like, she's great. Oh. You are great company. Thank you very much. That should be your mantra for tomorrow. I am good company. I am really good fun. I am really good.

Yes, you are. And the freaks love me. Yeah. He won't be a freak. If he's a freak, he'll love me. Yeah, he won't be a freak. He won't be a freak like you. And then you'll join together.

Way. But, you won't be a freak. But, you're a freak. But, you won't be a freak. But you are a great company. Thank you. So remind yourself of that. Yes.

Songs? My songs this week is you got me feeling by parcels. Have you heard it? No. Now, I reminded myself that I should like get ready to sing it. But now I've always forgotten. Can I play it on here even though my mic's on? Let's find out.

You got me feeling. You got me feeling. Here we go. Let's see if we can play this. We could not hear my song for this week but I swear to you you got me feeling and I will say because they're edgy

no gaps it's all one word you got me feeling no spaces you got me feeling parcels it's really good I was listening to it today was one of the ones I was listening to

in the car and I was like funky tunes vibes yeah right would you like to tell me yours yes I would tell me it's tried and true Well, I was working in the lab Late one night

We did the mesh It was a monster It was a graveyard It was a graveyard It's Monster Mash It's Monster Mash I actually saying that I don't know who it's by

Hold on Monster Monster Monster Mash Who is it by Mash Search Apple Music Bobby Boris.

Actually, I would say that's something that Halloween can do better. There aren't loads of Halloween songs. There aren't, no. Christmas loads. This is Bobby Boris, Pickett and the Crypt Kickers. Brilliant. Fantastic. On Christmas songs, you'll die.

What? So you know I love a vinyl. Absolutely. I need to stop accessing shopping late at night. Couldn't really see it that well. It heals everything. I know. It heals everything.

Couldn't sleep that well, so I went on my phone. Because I was like, maybe if I go on my phone, I'll get more tired. And then I saw an ad for a Charlie Brown Christmas, Snoopy. Stop it. Vinyl in Sparkly Green. It's arriving tomorrow. I literally was like, right in my basket. I also did order, which you might like, had to pre-order it, though.

so Olivia Rodriguez's Glastonbury set on vinyl is coloured in baby blue and like a dark blue. I love her. So that's her live glass and reset on vinyl, which I thought was a pretty cool thing to have. That's really cool. Tame and Parlor's new album on blue vinyl as well. Wow.

So I've got... Did you have a late night scroll? I was literally like... But honestly, the sparkly green... Snoopy Christmas vinyl. I can't fucking wait. I can't wait. But we're talking about Halloween.

So... So I'm glad you told me. Okay. A wrecker, recommendation. Guys, salad projects open right next to my work. Oh, I saw this on your story. I hate to say, I love Attis. Salad projects better.

Really? I'm obsessed with the salad project. It is so yummy. Salad project. It's really, really yummy. And the Caesar sauce is like a seafood. He's a Chipotle sauce, so it's got a bit of spice in it. It is actually sensational.

If I'm honest, I've never heard of it. I hate to admit it. I've already been three times. Oh, I love the green. It's so cute. It's very slick. Very clean in there. And it's giving Kim Khodash's house.

It's a brand new site that they've just opened. And that's the only site that has a matcher bar. So... Where are they? So we've got one in Victoria, one in Notty Hill, one in Bond Street. Yes. Anywhere near me? No, no.

It's all like central working locations. Just need to grab a salad on my 15 minutes. Got to go, got to go, got to catch a meeting. Pre-order, pre-order. Let me just grab. It's honestly sensational. So I'm like, if you're ever near a salad project, you're like, oh, is that a good, go in? Can you order online?

I would love to see what salads they have. Yeah, you can order online and then you can order pick up as well. Yeah, and they have these cute little cubbies that they put your pickup order and you just go, you literally just go collect it. Stop. How do you know it's yours, though? Like, does it have your name on? They put it in like a numbered thing. I'm sorry, but these sound amazing.

So good. The goats. So good. Onions, cherry tomatoes, roasted sweet potato, honey mustard chicken, goats, cheese, maple, walnuts. It's so yummy. What the ham. And they're completely gluten free. Me too, salmon.

All gluten free. They're mostly gluten free because my manager is celiac. So I went in and I said, are you guys like, because she can't even have like may contain. Like, it's got to be. and they were like we can make everything completely gluten-free and prepare it in the kitchen separately. Wow. I know, which is very hard to come by.

So I was like, points for you. As most places are like, we can do it gluten-free, but it will be cross-contamination. Yeah. They're like, no, we can go in the back and do it. It'll be cross-cammy. Cross-Tammy. Not the cross-town. No.

Right, should we crack up? Yes. Let's see you brew. So, if you got through the theme, we are talking all things Halloween, spooky, scary and feral. Now, this year's Halloween is a little bit different. It's very different. Because we'll be spending it watching Kit.

Do the treason show in Brighton. Sketch show, comedy. I'm about to have a giggle. I'm going to have a giggle in Brighton. I was like, brilliant. Brilliant. This will be brilliant. I can't wait.

Yeah, so usually Halloween's feral in our sotty outfits this year. It will be feral, but maybe not in a slutty outfit. Speak for yourself. Actually, yeah, yeah, how rude of me. Speak for yourself, I'll be there. You can still be dressed up. I'll be literally there having time of life in a course of crack out, yeah. Absolutely.

So, Halloween is a great time to dress up and let loose. However. What's the mean girls quote? It's the one time of year. Girls can dress up like a slut and. And it not be judged or something, yeah. Something like that. So.

Where was I? Sorry, Paige. Halloween is a great time to dress up. Yes. However, the Halloween hangover may not... Maybe the scariest thing, the morning after, than the actual night of Halloween. Scarier than the Gauls.

Scarier than the poltergeist living above your... We asked the debrief. Some of the worst Halloween night out experiences they had. Here is what they've had to say. Yes. Been there. I blacked out one Halloween very early on. year of living altogether.

Was that Dolly Parton one? No. It was when we went to Vauxhall and I started beefing Archie in the smoking air. I've got no recollection of it. That was a bad one. That was, because I remember I woke up the next day being like, hey guys. And you were all like, hey. And I was like, what?

And they were like, do you not remember last night? And I was like, worst thing you could possibly say to anyone after having a heavy night out. Do you not remember what you said? Last night. It's actually... I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. It makes your tummy turn.

It... Oh, squeaky bum time. I'm like, what do you mean? What do you mean? The seal rolls in its grove and you're like, Archie did it to me once as a joke and I was like, that's not funny. Never again.

That is not funny. Never again. Will she take the best for me? Never again. Okay, go on. So, fast one. One Halloween, I got too drunk and kept ripping people's masks off their face.

Oh. I love this because it's harmless, but fucking irritated. Really irritating. The ick I gave myself stopped me from drinking until Christmas. That's a long time. Honestly, Valid, I've had, I once got so drunk and embarrassed myself so wholeheartedly that after that I really did take it easy with drinking. For a long time.

For a good two months. I was like, I can't again. Can I let myself go? And I felt the reprimand. precautions of that evening as well so severely the next day that I was like no this this isn't going to be me again never again no or I'm a classy lady yeah got to be jimyo so for with my boyfriend on a night out he woke up so upset and apologetic but I was so drunk I forgot what we even argued about so had to pretend to still be annoyed yes I love that I imagine I'm so sorry

right yeah right right I don't know what's worse, though, because I'd be like, now I really want to know what you've said. Yeah. I really, really want to know what you've said. But then if I go, I've forgotten, it's like, so why are you pretending to be annoyed by then? Yeah, and then it's also like, why were you annoyed in the first place if you were just going to forget. Right, right, right, right. I see.

So, this is my favourite one. Short and sweet. Vomited into a pumpkin, not my finest hour. And someone would have gone to the effort to decorate that. Like, can't be it. Spills out. Everyone's like, what great special effects? Chan.

Chan, Chan, Chan, Chan, Chan. No, I would just, I would be so embarrassed. I've been that, not vomiting into a pumpkin, but having to vomit into a receptacle when nothing's around. Oh, we've all done it. Hey. Hey, it's all right. I'm going to find something.

I think I did it into a Tupper where. Oh. Yeah. sloshing in this tough way. I'm like, I'll just throw it. I'll just throw it out. That's the worst bit. I was like, bye-bye. See you later.

It is horrible. Not good. Okay, are you ready for dilemmas? Oh, I can't wait. Okay. Tell me. Hi, girls. So this Halloween, I was really looking forward to spending it with this guy that I've been

talking to. It's still fairly new, but we are exclusive, just not. boyfriend and girlfriend. So I would say you're dating. I would also agree. I wouldn't say, because if you're exclusive, your boyfriend and girlfriend. I agree. Boyfriend, girlfriend. Boil girlfriend. Libre my girlfriend.

So, if you know, you know, I'm American, so Halloween is a big deal for me every year. Halloween. Halloween. All Hallows Eve. No, Americans are bad shit with Halloween. I will attest. I, I, and that's when I dressed up as a giraffe because my neighbors were

Oh, we're American. And they were like, what are you going? I was like, a fairy. They were like, no, no. I was a vampire. They were like, you'll go as a giraffe. Fuck. So then I went as a giraffe and I believe she went as a cow.

Fuck. I will say like, after doing my masters and like a lot of the cohort was American, I didn't quite realize what a big deal Halloween was as it is for them. Like we had Halloween weekend. wow like Friday night Saturday night Sunday brunch wow and like the Americans had a different costume for every single like night stop it And it was to the point where I was like, oh my God. And it was a big thing. It was like big, big thing.

So I understand. Well, I don't actually. But yes, I can see what you're coming from. So Halloween's big deal for me every year. Maybe that's why it's annoyed me so much, potentially. I was thinking that we could all go out in a big group of mutual friends and have a great night at a club near us that was doing a themed Halloween night. Fantastic. However, when I brought up the idea, the guy, let's call him Ed, was really against the.

the idea saying he'd rather spend the night with the boys and see each other the following day. I don't know, girls, the whole thing just doesn't sit right with me. Should I bring it up again or should I just leave it? Listen, I think I've been friends with girls who are seeing guys in a mutual friend group and they, we do

like a go out with the girls, the boys go out, converge. Yeah. Come back together for a lovely mixed group. Absolutely. However, I, I don't. My toxic trait, though, is when boys' night, boys' night isn't girls' night. So I'm like...

No, boys' night, you're in vices. Boys' night, I'm one of the boys and I'm coming then. But still treat me like I'm a sexy woman. Don't treat me like a man. Don't treat me like a man, but I am one of the boys, but I'm still a girl. Yes, yeah, because at the end of the day, don't treat me with disrespect. Absolutely. Because I'm a girl.

Because I'm a girl. Because I'm a girl. Don't treat me like the boys. Boys night, because I'm one of the crew, but I'm a woman. But don't feed me the amount that you would be drinking. Like, I'm not drinking. I'm not drinking the amount you're drinking. I'm precious and dainty.

And you should be looking out for me. Absolutely. And my toxic trait is, Girls' Night, you're not how many. You're not actually fucking invited. I know what boys do. This is the thing that's hard because this is where it's different. It's the my boyfriend's obsessed with me.

He is. When other men aren't, I'm like, they're cheating on you, which they're probably not. Which they're probably not. Listener, but that was bad advice. Okay. But the thing is. But why do you want a boy's night?

You're not going to get dressed up with your boys, are you? Yeah. What, like pirates. Oh, so scary. Oh, what, like top gun. Oh, that's original. Original. Original.

I literally go as a couple with your girlfriend. That's one of the things women look forward to. I've now got a boyfriend. I can go as a couple. Yeah. for Halloween. We can go as ratatoo it, the mouse and the chef. We can do that for Halloween.

Ideal. That's the only thing girls think about when they get a boyfriend. I will say, do you know what's so funny? So infamously, I, third wheel, you're on Archie. And Archie was, we were like brainstorming Halloween costume ideas before we knew what we were doing. And Archie sent a picture to a group chat between the three of us. And it was Rapunzel. Flynn Ryder and Pascal.

Obviously, insinuating that I would be Pascal. Now, I was like, listen, guys, love you both so much. I can't do that. That is a step too far. Me in the green lizard costume with you and Arch as Disney Prince and Princess. And me is the lizard on the end. I'm like, I literally. It's just a slap in the foot.

I literally was like... Right. I was like, maybe back to the drawing board. Maybe you guys go with something, just the two of you. Yeah, I'm not going as Pascal. And I will not be going as Pascal. No. It's not happening.

Oh, so good. So, girl, I would say, I would say clock it mentally. Because I will say not to... I'm never, never, ever in the habit of supporting a man over a woman. in a relationship. However, I will say Halloween just isn't really a big thing here. For men. For men, like, for women, it's a fun night out.

Like, you're like, let's go out. But like, look, it's not Valentine's. It's not like, it's not valentines. And it's also not. It's not a romantic night out. No. I would say I'd be for Christmas more. Yeah.

Yeah. Like friend Christmas. Absolutely. If he's like, no, I want to see the boys on Christmas Eve. And you're like, can you come over to mine. We can meet my parents. Yeah. I'd leave that. I think the toxic trait that I'm like, he's cheating is bad because it's wrong.

I do agree with Katie. I think you need to let this one go. I think you need to let it slide. Don't forget it though. Don't forget it. And there is a point of me that's let down by, look, I'd be let down. I'm let down. What I would do if your relationship's strong enough, I would say that it's like, oh, that is a shame. Yeah, yeah. Don't be like, don't guilt him. Because then if he's going, I'm there because he's feeling guilty. Yeah. You don't, excuse me, you don't actually want to be here. You're just feeling guilty.

Yeah, exactly. That's the worst. Exactly. You don't want then him to be like pity you and then go and be miserable. No, no. And texting the boys group out. Sorry, boys, I couldn't. Yeah, because what you don't want is him to use it as leverage against the boys being like,

oh, going out of the missus, force me. No, no, no, no. You don't want to, you don't want to be like that. Then again, men also shouldn't be acting like that. That's ridiculous. Yes. I think you need to let. let this one slide

clock it say to him oh it is a shame like that did a little bit upset me like I thought it would be so nice but I do get if you want to spend time

with your friends and see how he comes from that but if he does it again and this is a thing if it's a habit if he does it again then you're like

that's when you can have a conversation but if this is the first time he's like oh actually I just planned something with the boys yeah unfortunately also manipulate the night out

literally just be once you're out of drinking you be like oh we're going to go over where are you guys go over like literally like manipulate the night out I don't think the boys are going to be like no don't let the girls come yeah no that would be ridiculous yeah that would be they'd be lucky to be in your presence so exactly yeah okay good luck darling good luck are we ready for X X X one

got to I'll ping pong you No, I ping pong you. Yeah, you do. So, first one is, I think I've said it before, last Halloween. When people ask for a trick, when they go trick or, trick or treat, trick, shut the fuck up. And also, the ones that say that, I don't actually think I'm going to say it on the whole cost. The ones that say that, I just, like, they think they're funny. Do you think you're funny?

All I'm going to say is they're over-compensating. Yeah. They're over-compensating. They're lacking in something. They're like, trick. I have to be really funny. Trick. Right.

And also, what am I going to tell you? A knock-knock joke? Or do you think I've just whipped out some fucking balls so I can jump into the splits? Juggle. Trick or trick. And also, who says trick or tree? No one's saying trick or tree. No.

Unless you're under the age of 10. No. But it still used to annoy me when I was younger. There was not a woman on my street that used to be like, trick. You think you're so fucking clever. You think you've reinvented the wheel, I haven't you? You think you're really?

I think we're nearly dressed as bloody bumblebees was stunned. They're like, you know, literally stopped being opera. Don't cry. But honestly, yeah, I can't do it. Right. Mine is when adults aggressively shame other adults are that adults are dressing up.

Why are you dressing up? You don't have kids. Oh, that's mean. That's not ruin the Halloween spirit. I'm like, that is redonculus. I'm like, why can't we like have fun as adults? Why can't we dress that up and have fun? Although I don't see myself as an adult.

Like, there's no idea, which I'm still a child. Yeah, no, definitely. It's my mother's birthday. And I texted her and I was like, you've given me the best childhood. And I'm just like, well, you're saying, I'm still in my childhood. Still there. I was like, because it was reflecting on it. I was like, I'm 23.

I was like, but I'm a child. No, literal child. Yeah, I'm still a child. It's what gets me when you and I'll talk about, like, engagement. I'm like, your children, relax. Yeah, yeah. Foot on the break, all right, missy? Foot on the fucking break.

You're underage. Steady. We're 15. Fucking marriage. I'm like, Jesus. But that really hates me out when people are like, why are they dressing up? Yeah. I'm like, let them live.

Relax. And people, when they say that, I'm like, you're just jealous that you have a partner that doesn't want to do it with you. Ooh. Tea. Like, ready? Yeah. It's going to be a blanket statement.

Okay. And obviously, hashtag not all men. Absolutely. Men who dress up. Men who dress up half-heartedly. Maybe I should caveat that. Like, who put like a little. Don't bother.

Literally put a cat ear on, right? I actually would respect you a lot more. If you were full-puss, committed, committed, went for it. Like cats If you Like her one piece on I'd be like wow

If If if you sat there Bandana on I'm a pirate It's boring And also It's boring But Halloween

Men are supposed to be funny Women are dress up sexy Yeah So men make me laugh I actually I dress up as that would really make me laugh If you can make me laugh With your costume hilarious

If you could go full puss with your costume green light. Better yet, if you just didn't dress up at all and were like, to be honest, like, I didn't know what to wear. I'm not icked out by that. I'm like, do you know your brand. But if you're not the type that dresses up and decides to put a little dot of eyeliner on your nose and put whiskers on, I'd urge you to think again. But if I'm having a Halloween party, Halloween. Halloween. And I invite loads of people, including men, I want you to go full purse. When we had... Like, don't turn up and be like, it's just not thing.

The great heartbreak of the Christmas icons party, I don't even want to talk about it, especially now that we're not doing it because we're doing New Year's, I don't want to talk about it. But everyone that came to us with the outfits they had were fully fucking committed.

Which is why I was really fucking sad that we didn't do it. We were all unwell. We got noravirus guys. We were like the grandparents from chocolate. We actually were all. It was actually in a weird way.

It was quite bleak, but it was also like Quite comforting than we were all in it together. We all had Nora virus. I had it like COVID in the sense of... You were the least bad. I didn't shit or vomit, whereas I know some people had double whammy. I didn't have that. Yeah, you didn't, but you had what?

Didn't you vomit? I was just vomiting constantly. You didn't, but Arch had double whammy. I can't remember if our other housemate had double whammy. I didn't vomit or shit myself. Yeah. I just felt like I had COVID in the sense of lifting my arm up. I was panting.

Yeah. It was a lot. Oh my God. It was a lot to go through. But annoyingly, that landed on the week we planned. And it irks me more because I really pushed for this theme. I know. But it was the first time the boys listened to me and went, fine.

And everyone got really excited for it. And it was my idea. This is why... I've got an elf on the shelf costume that's gathering dust. It's coloring dust. This is why I'm infuriated. Yeah. And I mean that when I say it.

that the men in our flat want to do black tie for New Year's. Why can't we do Christmas icons for New Year's? I don't even think I'm... I think the sentiment of doing black tie in your own fucking living room is far too much. In your own living room.

We're not all made in Chelsea. We don't have a camera crew here. We've got a lovely, lovely flat, but we do not have the gaff to warrant this. No, we've got a lovely flat, but we're not in salt ban. If your parents were like, we're doing a black tie New Year, I'd be like, listen, fine. Yeah, fair enough.

Fair enough. Fair enough. But they've got the gaffra. We're not sitting in our London flat in black tie. Let's go silly. Let's do. I still think come as your new year's resolution was a great theme. That's a good one.

I'm like, get creative. Yeah. Or like, I don't know. Just something fun. We could get brainstorming on that. Like, I think we could because I can't find anything. The one dress, the one dress I want, I cannot find a dupe for anywhere

And can I also say Who wants to wear Skimpy tight dress? Because that's the thing. After Christmas. After Christmas. With your belly hanging out. Who?

Who? Who? Who? Anyone? Anyone want to do black tie off fucking Christmas? Who wants to wear a tight dress? Not me. After stuff in the face.

I genuinely would rather we all do a pyjama party and come in jammies. I genuinely would. Jammees, jam, jamming jammies, because I'm like, I just disagree with it on such, such, I coil so much about it actually when I think about it too much. I think we need to like, corner them and be like, because actually, we forget, we've run the roost. We run the roost. We run the roost. I think we corner them. We run the roost and we're like, no.

We corner them and we make this thing. You, I search you out. That'll change his mind. Instantly. Instantly. I'll cry. I'll be there And then And then that's it We get our way Saying that I have found a nice dress But I don't know

It's one of those that looks really nice online I'm scared it's going to look tacky in person I get that Because it's like a diomonte dress Oh that's a risk And I'm like And it's expensive Okay

Bola All right picture I once got this skirt That I was going to wear for New Year's Eve again New Year's Yeah. When we were in Glasgow, the tackiest shit that ever arrived.

It's a real shame. And I, like, it was all over Pinterest and I was like, oh, I was like, this is the outfit. I want to wear. It came and I was like, am I a stripper? Literally, I just, I don't know. I just don't know. Also, like, are we wearing shoes?

I like to wear, like, I literally. I don't want to do it and not doing it. I don't want to do it. The thought of it is actually really already quite overwhelming. And I'm like, is it best. We can not do it. Yes. Go to someone else's house.

Sometimes I read. I do. I love hosting in the flat because I think it will be really fun. It's a nice flat to host. And I think having a house party for New Year's will be really fun. It will. But we're not doing black tie. Ready?

Questions? Oh my God. Sorry, guys. Sideline my rage. Okay. Okay. You're silly. And I'm deadly Sarah.

Yeah. So, Freddie. Yeah. Is fear? a necessary emotion for a healthy life and how does Halloween provide an acceptable outlet for that fear? Oh my Jesus Christ.

Does it? Does it not? I do think fear is relevant in life. Not that you should be shitting yourself every day. However, let's take this date I'm going on, for example. Yes, I am filled with fear. From top to bottom, full anxiety. Okay, too. Coursing through my veins.

However, I know that this fear is a good kind of fear Because I'm doing something that's pushing me out of my... Exactly. I'm doing something that's very out of my comfort zone. Lovely. And if I had it my way, the man of my dreams would knock on my bedroom door while I'm sat in my little jammies and go, I'd like to get with you.

I'm your person. And I'd be like, brilliant, hop in. Hoping, yeah. And then that's fine. I don't have to do any work at all. Yeah. Is the ideal scenario. But you know that that's not happening.

That's just how it's going to happen. So you have to face that fear. Yeah, I agree. Now, how Halloween plays into that, potentially the confidence gain from outfits makes you more confident in that arena. Yeah. So maybe I'm going to go with that angle.

But I also do think fear is a good thing. Oh, I do. A dry-in is a fun thing. Yeah. And it is a good thing because it keeps your wits about it. Mead you care. You need you care. If you scared, you care.

Absolutely. Yeah. Like, always my driving instructor would always be like, Kitty, you need to be more scared at the road. You're driving a lethal weapon. And I was like, Keith, you bang on. Keith. Because I was too laid back.

I was practically horizontal. So I was like, I need to be scared so that I'm safe. Exactly. Exactly. Right. Is that a question, please? My theory question is, would you rather have to wear your Halloween costume every single day in some capacity? Okay.

Or never be able to dress up for something ever again? For anything? Yeah. like we're doing a tarts and vickers party and you have to just come like to do a tarts and vickers don't because it genuinely that's top of my list and also i would love to see the men as the tarts and the women as the vickers slutty vicar please let me do it like me full dog collar down to the floor moo moo moo you have to wear it at some you don't have to wear it every day to like all day but you have to put it on for at least half an hour

oh i'll do that i'll do it but you can't like if i'm like oh we're going to do like a gaspy theme party for my birthday you can't dress up. Oh no, I'll wear the Halloween for a bit. Yeah. Yeah. Every day. Absolutely.

What would be your time of day? I'd be like a thing of it. Yeah. I'd be like, for the half now that I have to wear it, that's every day where I do meditation. Right. Or every day where I, do what I mean? Of course.

I'd make it a routine. So I'm like, it'd be fun. Yes. I love that. Yeah. All right. Right, guys. Guys.

Got to the end of the air. End of the air. Hope you have a fantastic. Ah, be lost time. Stay safe. Stay safe. Get your wits about you. Wits about you.

Live in fur. Living for. Bye. Bye.