The Debrief - Help! I Got With My Besties Dad?! | The Debrief Podcast

Episode Date: January 1, 2024

Help! I Got With My Besties Dad?! | The Debrief Podcast HAPPY NEW YEAR DEBRIEFERSWelcome back to The Debrief, in this episode we are cover all things New Years from our own resolutions to your NYE mishaps and so much more!As always don't forget to email us at [e-mail] or DM us @the.debriefpodcastHere's to an amazing 2024!Lots of love,Kitty and Katie x Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

🎵 🎵 I got a rebel soul 🎵 🎵 Yeah, I got a rebel soul 🎵 🎵 I got a rebel soul 🎵 Happy New Year! Happy New Year! It's 2024! 🎵

Party poppers have gone off. Party poppers is the countdown. 3, 2, two, one. Happy New Year. Firework. Get your tits out. Wiggle. Wiggle, ladies.

Like you've never wiggled before. Wiggle them, wiggle them, wiggle them. Yeah, yeah. It's fucking New Year's. 2020 fucking four, bitches. Party poppers on your nipples. Boom! Oh my God.

Katie, it's 2024. How are you feeling? Do you know what? Feeling fresh. Oh my God. Feeling funky. Funky fresh. It's so exciting that we get to do an episode the first day of 2024.

I know. So you all better be listening oh they'll all be listening you'll be listening they'll wake up on 2024 and think shit let me get to spotify then they'll see our little muggins like 2024's upon us my friends who would have thought it who would have bleed and thought and guys it's an even year and you know what me and kitty always say we do personally better on even years even years even numbers are just the best so the fact is 2024 i'm like four cracking number even yeah yeah i love an even even year i love there's a good vibe there's a year. There's a good vibe. There's a good vibe. There's a good vibe. Saying that, I did love 2017. Wow.

I did love 2017. Okay. And I also did like 2019, but I think, do you know why? I think that's tied in with me finishing my exams. I see. I did my GCSEs summer of 2017. Well, what did I do? A-levels, 2019.

2018. Even number. 2020. Didn't have to do my exams. What am I telling your lucky numbers? Jammy. Jammy bloody dodger. Oh, honestly.

Okay, shall we crack into it? Shall we go? Go, go, go. Go, go, go, go, go. Give me a mantra. Okay, my mantra for 2024 is 2024 will be my best year yet. Yeah.

Woohoo! Oh yeah. Yeah. Oh-hoo! Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. I'm just so excited. I'm like, Mantra, 2024 will be my best year yet. Yeah, well. Because you know what? I'm walking into this year with a positive mind,

a positive body, and a positive soul. Oh! The full kit and kaboom. The full kit, the deathly hallows of a positive mindset. I tell you that. Change it, change it. No, I'm not. You got all three.

Yeah, I'm not scrimping around here. I'm thinking, come on. 2024, I'm really excited. And in all honesty, a new year means new opportunities. It means new mindsets. It means new goals. Yeah. And I'm just so ready for it.

Like, don't get me wrong. I've loved 2023, but I've got a feeling about this year. I've got a feeling that this year will be really great. And I'm putting it out to the universe. So that means if I'm putting it out there, it's gonna bloody happen. Of course it's gonna bloody happen.

Absolutely. What are you giving me for 2024? On a very similar vein, I am ready to receive whatever the universe has planned for me. Lovely. Throw it at me, bitch. Throw it at me.

Throw it at me. I'm ready to receive. I'm bloody ready. I'm ready. Because actually, you're like stronger than you've ever been. Your mindset is stronger than it's ever been. Stronger.

I feel like I'm going into 2024 as my most confident self. Oh, that's so exciting. I feel so excited. Yeah. Yeah, you do. I'm the number one fan of my life. You've got to pay. You've got to pay. I'm the number one watcher of Kitty McNeil.

Oh. I tune in every night. I tune in. I'm like, oh, get that bitch on. I'm like, I'm telling on I'm like I'm telling ya okay so my song just kind of like a quirky one but it's got good vibes

it's New Year's Day Bon Jovi yeah and I'm saying listen to this on New Year's Day because the lyrics are great it's like full of opportunity let's have it come at me I just thought

I was looking at a few new year's songs i was thinking what am i thinking what am i thinking yeah and then i had a look at this one and i just felt yeah like he's like things are coming let's get ourselves ready and new year's upon us i'm like yeah get that on dance around in your pjs and here we bloody go here we bloody go. Here we bloody go. What is your song, my love? Again, on a very similar vein, my song, and don't laugh, is Auld Lang Syne. But... Auld what?

Auld Lang Syne. What's that? Should auld acquaintance be forgot? But, you know, Slade do that Christmas song. Yeah. they did this they did old lang syne as well but it's so it's got a bit more of like a rocky feel and it's got a bit more of like a feral feral bit where they're like should hold a quakers babe and it just kind of makes you want to jump around okay cool okay cool so so maybe my song could be at the start and yours is like at the party at the party

like when it hits fucking midnight you're like it gets booming it gets boom boom booming yeah i love that new year i love that song anyway i think that's a cracking song and you've got to go into the new year with such an aura about you high vibes like. Like, what is in my head? My head is like, I'm a champion. I can bring anything to the table. Oh, yeah. Okay. Are we ready? Let's do the recommendations.

Oh, yeah. Recommendations. Did you see I did something a little bit different there? It was a bit of push and boost there. I was like, whoa. Push and boost. I'm loving it.

So tell me what the recommendation is our recommendation the first one of 2024 first one of 2024 is oran moore in glasgow lovely little venue yeah actually i'm making it sound shite yeah no great fucking venue yeah we recently just did our um new years we've spent new years in glas We have. And we had the most cracking time. We had a brilliant time. I like to think I kind of look Scottish. Fucking freezing. And I think my...

Is it a beard? The beard! That's a violation. My face! That is a violation. That's a violation. That's bad vibes on new year's day no it's my fair complexion did i ever tell you i was like to archer i was like oh i've got you know these eyelash brushes yeah i was like oh i've got an eyelash brush i was like you should

use it for your mustache he was like oh do you i said i'll fucking take you out i was like don't tell you and he was like pissing himself i was like you come out you think you're slick you think you think you're slick don't you think you're bloody slick yeah i was livid kate it was absolutely livid sorry anyway you think you're scott Scottish. I think I'm Scottish. I think it's... My Scottish accent is actually pretty good. Love it. I think it's pretty good. Yeah.

And I think everyone's going to be like, who's that Scottish girl? Yeah. I think it's my ginger hair. I think it's my fair complexion. And they're like, English rose? No.

No. Scottish rose? No. Scottish beast? Yes. Beast! We need to... Okay, why did you do that as a recommendation? Oh, what is it?

Because at the moment the listeners are like, these girls are blabbering on and we don't even know what the recommendation is. Yeah, we have sidetracked. It's a lovely venue. We had our New Year's, like our actual ringing in the New Year's there. So it's like a big kind of like club vibe.

Yeah. But not a club because we'll get onto it later about celebrating New Year's. But not sure a club vibe's the right thing. Yeah, it's like a good kind of street vibe loads of parties um in scotland in glasgow big street party lots of people lots of lights lots of fun lots of drinks and it's ticketed as well so you're not like so it won't get too busy no it shouldn't it shouldn't actually but really really good vibes great music and then they also have the separate venue that you can enter and go dance if you feel so inclined happy

new year happy new year happy new year i love it fucking hell so 2024 i'm gonna tell you something really exciting tell me so peach and i are sat in the studio right now telling all of you mugs yeah that 2024 is going to be phenomenal because it's an even number yeah now you can take it or leave it all right my friends you can however this is factual as well so numerologists say yeah that the year 2024 will push us to uncover and pursue our deepest desires oh interesting how do you feel about that that excites me i know because i feel like deepest desires could be sexual but i also feel like deepest desires could be romantic or even like feel like deepest desires could be romantic or even like career based yeah you know because maybe i mean let's say two years ago three years ago we

didn't know we wanted to do a podcast yeah you know yeah so like our deepest desires could be career paths it could be like your journey in life yeah but i'm like 2024 is your year to uncover what you really need and what you really want i love that i'm like yeah just watch me i'm really excited i've got such a good feeling about this yeah me too what does that make you think though like the whole uncovering your deepest desires i think it's so interesting because i almost think that that's something that's going to be revealed to me yeah you know through things happening yes yes yes like i i can see something happening in me going oh my god i never expected that to happen

and kind of falling into something that I've always thought about but never would have the opportunity or do something like that. So I always love how life works. Me too. Mysterious ways. Mysterious ways.

I mean, there's so many things this year that I think we've both done that like, oh my God, if you said at the beginning of the year we'd done that, I'd be like, what? You're joking you're joking you're joshing you're having a laugh but you know what i saw this great thing on tiktok because of course we get all sources from tiktok yeah now there was two slopes okay and there was a magnetic ball yeah and there were two slopes and one slope that was decreasing okay just decreasing And the little metal ball was going down. The magnetic little ball was going down the slope.

The other slope had dips in it. So it would go up, then down, then up, then down, then up, then down. Guess which ball ended first? Is it the slow one? The fucking up and down slope. That ball ended first. It got momentum when it went down then it went up then momentum and it ended first at the end of the slope that magnetic ball and i know

it's so simple but i thought that shows you that if you go through ups and downs you get further in life oh absolutely because otherwise how are you going to learn how are you going to you know yeah be able to get your armor on as you said earlier you are ready for things to come at you two years ago you wouldn't have been because you haven't experienced those things that have made you a harder nut to crack yes you know yes 100 so i'm gonna tell you as well that there's a biblical meaning for the number 2024 as well so 2024 has a biblical meaning and it symbolizes partnerships communication and trust so whether you're more scientific like numerologist yeah or religious based i feel like 2024 is full of different possibilities oh my god i love i know really

interesting that that number represents trust, commitment. Yes. You know? And that definitely, again, can be reflected in relationships. You're thinking, Oh, Katie's gonna get washed up.

I'm this, and I tell myself every year, but this is the, yeah. No, because it's 2024. Numerologists have said that you're ready to pursue your deepest desires. And I've already had conversations with my future hubby yeah she has she has she knows who he is oh we all know who he is i've got you in mind sir yeah buckle in buckle bloody in for 2024 my friend

okay okay yeah new year yeah the big one the new year's resolution new year's resolution yeah do you know what i'm a big fan of the new year's resolution new year's resolution hard bloody hitting yeah do you know what i'm a big fan of the new year's resolution everyone has room to grow you know apart from me because i'm perfect yes but everyone has room to grow so i'm like why not try change why not be able or not even change we don't want to use that word but grow try something new develop you know yes a hundred 100 do you new year's resolution i always i always new year's resolution and i always write myself like a list of things that i'm gonna leave in the year oh i love that i'm gonna do that it's so much fun do

that um but i love a new year's resolution as well as a mood board. Oh, lovely. That's so lovely. I always make a mood board and I always set it as my phone widget so I can always see it. Is that what it is? I can always see it. I wonder what those collages were that you make. Yeah. Oh, my God.

So I can always just keep it in my mind's eye. That's what I'm after. That's what I want. That's what's, you know, my goal for this year. Okay. I absolutely love the fact that you make a list of things you want to leave behind i've never done that but i think i might do it this year it's really good but how um how refreshing and then it makes room for then the resolutions that i write yeah because i reflect oh yeah you're a reflector oh i've been

reflecting don't take the piss around here i think i I've already got my New Year's resolutions. I'm kind of workshopping them at the moment. Yeah, yeah, workshopping it. Seeing what's actually achievable. Like, what's realistic? You need them to be realistic. Yeah, you do. Yeah, you do, completely. I'm not going to say I'm going to climb Mount Everest.

No, or like give up chocolate. That's just... That's silly. That's not on the cards. Let me tell you, New Year's resolutions have been around for 4,000 years. 4,000 years. 4,000 years. Doesn't seem right. Seems like I've invented them.

Yeah, I know, I know. Talking up my ass again. And since the ancient Babylonians, is that how you say it? Oh my God. Yes, I know. So they were the first to make New Year's pledges and the first to hold celebrations in honour of the New Year. Oh, wow.

So, I mean, if they can bloody do it 4,000 years ago, we can bloody do it. Yeah. And I think it's really important to be like, so much has changed, but so much hasn't. And that's people want to improve themselves, improve their self-growth and all of that kind of stuff. And it's so, so important. Yes. So in the spirit of the new year we thought we're not just gonna tell you our resolutions no no you know we're here on the debrief we mix it up a bit

we're quirky we're different we're gonna get like other girls we're alternative alternative right we're gonna do the extremely edgy thing and just give each other a New Year's resolution. I know. So I personally have two for you. Okay. But. Shit. Yeah. I have one. I have one.

I've got a lot of self-learning to do, but I've got two. But one is something I want you to do, which I know you can do. Okay. But I feel like you'd be a bit scared, but I know you can do it. So my first one to you is, I'd like you to run a marathon. Oh, God. I was like you'd be a bit scared, but I know you can do it. So my first one to you is,

I'd like you to run a marathon. Oh God, I was like, oh God. I know you've got it in you. Oh God. You've got it in you. Oh God, I'm scared. I think you should do it. I'm going to do another one in February.

Yeah. The Hampton Court one. Amazing. So maybe, maybe I've got it in me. I'm just so scared. You've got it in you. I think I saw how our friends did it and they're both really fit

and how it took it out of them. And that scared me. I was like, ah! It is a long way. It's a long way. It's a long way. I need to get your bloody mum on it. I'll be like, Jane, teach me.

Teach me the ways of the world. Do you know what we should do is, well, my mum's running the London Marathon. Oh my gosh. This year, April. Okay. So we can go see her and then you can get really motivated. When I went to go see the boys in Barcelona,

I was like, I could do that. Yeah. You get so motivated watching people do it. You really do. That's so exciting. So we'll go do that. You get extra motivated. Then you'll sign up for one.

Then you can't back out. It's so true. When you sign up for it, you can't. up for one, then you can't back out. Yeah. It's so true. When you sign up for it, you can't. It's done now. I can't back down. Yeah. I can't.

Yeah, I got it. Okay. So that, run a marathon. Okay. That's your challenge. Okay. And then my other,

my actual resolution to you is to be kind to yourself, sweet darling. Oh. And I said, slow down. Oh. You sweet darling. Oh. And I said, slow down. Oh. You crazy child.

Okay, elaborate. Yeah, tell me. I think you are one of the most generous ladies. I'm going to cry. I think you're so generous. You lend yourself to other people so easily. You're always there for people at the drop of a hat. Oh.

But. Oh, God. Oh, God. I'm going to cry. Oh, my God. On the new year. easily you're always there for people at the drop of a hat oh but even oh i'm gonna cry oh my god on the new year when it comes to matters of yourself yeah i feel like you you're not as there for yourself as you would be for your friends and your family you are everyone's biggest supporter and you are the first person I would go to with any issue and I know you're there and you give me 110 I want you to give yourself 110 oh darling when you're feeling upset or anything and I also want you to not feel guilty for even if you're unwell or or you just are having a bad day and want to take a step back, not feel guilty for taking time to yourself.

Oh, God, you know me so well. You know me so well. And I think this is why we as well said we should do it for each other. Look, it's a really healthy thing when you have someone in your life that knows you so well but also loves you for it, so sees those things that maybe you do need to improve on, not faults, but maybe things you do need to improve on. And I definitely agree with you i do find it

hard to to slow down sometimes i'm like i should be doing more i should be doing more yeah and as well i think i'm such like obsessed with you no i just i love catered to pieces that if you need anything i'm like oh my god let's sort it let's sort it let's sort it when sometimes then i can feel angry when i'm like i'm upset and i'm like why haven't i, let's sort it, let's sort it, let's sort it. When sometimes then I can feel angry when I'm like, I'm upset. And I'm like, why haven't I sorted it? You know, I should have sorted that because I can. So I think that's a really good one. And I will take that into a new year with a kind of cap on, all right?

A kind of sombrero. A little sombrero. Okay, let me tell you yours. Oh, goodness. So yours is kind of in the similar region but let's have a look okay so i wrote for you your new year's resolution is to focus on your own self-love i need you to make yourself and your own feelings a priority speak your mind and be brave you've got this girl oh i love that for me this is where it's come from

this year i've seen like a massive breakthrough with you yeah just in the woman you are like there are a few things that you've done that i would have never not because i underestimated you but just because i i genuinely didn't know you could do that yeah standing up for yourself and being present for yourself yeah and you are a people pleaser yes and you you I can often see you go oh don't worry that's fine and I know because I know you and I'll be like that was unfair she did not want to do that or she would have preferred to do something yeah yeah so for I think yours is to be like if you want to do something that's for you that's not selfish yes you know yeah that's just knowing your own self-worth and being like no actually i'm not going to do that

because that's not what i want to do yeah um and you have stood up for yourself this last year and i was like you know what go girl like i'll say snaps for katie yeah i was like you go and i want you to take that in the new year and be like, I'm not a nasty person. Yes. I'm not a mean. I'm just, I know my own self-worth and I know that I have a voice and I'm allowed to speak. Yeah.

So take that, girl. Thanks, girl. I'm taking it. I'm riding off into the fucking sunset. Yeah, boom. And to get a shag. Yeah. And to be a weapon this year and to be a slag right be the absolute weaponizer yeah weapon in the sheets okay before we move on as well

yeah um we have also written our own um little new year's resolutions we've got if you can hit asmr yeah yeah and we've got our little notes here of our own um new year's resolutions yes which we're going to give to each other yes let me pass the flag thank you very much darling we're not going to read them out now guys so you're going to be in a year of absolute. Talk about delayed gratification. What did those notes say? We're going to read them out in 12 months time. Yes. To each other and see how we feel about them.

So we're now going to read some of our listeners resolutions. Yes. And play relate or disassociate. Okay. So I've got a few here. Some are really funny. I'm like, oh God, girls, you're so great. Others, I'm just like, okay, let's discuss. Okay. And so I've got a few here. Some are really funny. I'm like, oh God, girls, you're so great. Others, I'm just like, okay, let's discuss.

Okay. So I'm going to read you a few and relate or disassociate. Okay. Okay. First one. Don't just get my news from TikTok. Oh, relate. Relate.

I was like, girl, I get you. Do you know what? Like, I hate to say it and i'm really outing myself here i deleted the news app because i was losing like phone storage like i don't follow the news like i don't god i have no idea what is going on in the world but i would literally go to tiktok and be like what's tiktok saying yeah that's silly and do you know what is so interesting because when she said that i'll be like talking to someone and be like yeah i saw this thing the other day and i'm like on tiktok on tiktok tiktok is easy on an hour you know i'm like oh that would be fun

so defo relate be less annoying at parties i was like this girl's just got so much self-awareness she's like yeah i like this yeah i'm do you know what i'm not gonna pipe myself up here but i'm gonna disassociate i'm think i think i'm crying no no you're you're a hoot what are you gonna say do you know what i'm gonna i won't relate to maybe not annoying i don't think i don't think i'm a news like i like I'm annoying at parties, but I also think I can get quite awkward. So mine would probably be not be awkward. Like, cause I think sometimes when I speak to people,

I do have, I have a bit of a defrosting time. Yes, she does. And I'm kind of like, hello. She opens the door like, hey.

Kids in the room shuts the door. Kids introduces me and I'm like, hi. Hi. And I'm like, bigging her in the dorm room shuts the door. Kids, he introduces me and I'm like, hi! Hi! And I'm like, bigging her up like, this girl's a hoot. Oh, she's fucking hilarious. I'm like, good morrow! I'm like, say something, Craig J.

Okay, so I see what you mean. Let me give you another one. Spend more time with my parents. I thought that was sweet. That's lovely. Relate, love my parents. Relate, relate, relate. Love you guys.

Love you guys. That was like, so cute.. Relate. Love my parents. Relate, relate, relate. Love you guys. Love you guys. That was like so cute. Honestly. Let me have another one. Oh my God, this one. I will get my tattoo of my ex removed. I was like, do you know what that is? Cleansing.

Oh. That's cleansing of the new year. Get that gone, girl. Get that bloody gone. Get that gone. I texted and was like, was it initials or was it a face? Because I feel like initials. If it was a face.

A face is literally like staring you. Imagine you literally go to the shower. Boom. He's on your ass. Fuck. Like that's so scary. You can't ignore that. Shaving your pits.

Boom. There he is. Watching you. It's literally if you catch yourself in the mirror. Initials. What is that? Initials not bothered. And also you can like tattoo over it if you catch yourself in the mirror, initials. What is that? Initials, not bothered. And also, you can, like, tattoo over it.

You could cover up faces harder to cover up. Really harder to cover up. And you know what it was. You're like, that used to be his face, because it would be reasonably big. Whereas initials, it's a little love heart now. Oh, yeah, you can fix that. You'll forget about that.

You can fix that. But, oh, my God. Yeah, get that gone, girl. Get that gone. Have you got any for me i do tell me a few so one again make more time for friends which relate like definitely relate absolutely another was which is a big relate from me budget better yeah relate to me as well relate but there's something i i need it's pat lunches it's lunch lunch is my fucking issue yeah okay i

because katie like where katie's unionist is the gales there's a gales literally next door like fucking it's fine fucking it's fine i could literally get a sausage roll and a cookie and it's 10 quid not even a coffee bad that's really expensive it's terrible so i'm if you do it for five days there's 50 quid gone. Oh, yeah. I've heard that the Monzo, it's a lot better if you put the money into pots, like you make little pots.

Yeah. So I think I'm going to try that. Try and make the little money pots. Yeah. Yeah. Another, which again, big relate. Create a cleaning schedule. Oh, Katie needs one. Katie needs one.

Katie needs one. Katie needs one. Do you know the other day we were literally at home and Archie's like, have you seen a stare at Katie's room? I was like. cleaning schedule oh katie needs one katie needs one katie needs one katie needs one she's like have you seen a stare katie's room i was like yeah it's no it's it's dire like i actually like i but does it not stress you out no i'm stressed okay no i i went to sleep last night like i was like if i just shut my eyes it'll go away like i literally i like it's i i'm stressed i've just had a few late nights this week and i've just been i've thrown caution to the wind um oh darling literally if my because i'm like how does she do it because it's literally one bit of my bed

is not right like tucked in the right place or my pillow's like not being like karate chopped in the middle yeah i'm like i'm like oh my god i'm sweating it's stressful it is really stressful i'm like but it takes 21 days to build a habit yeah yeah exactly you got time another one find a new hobby oh nice which i thought that's really nice what you're thinking if you've got any ideas relate relate i will relate to that but i wonder what my hobby could be because i'm very terrible. I'm not crafty. Yeah, I know what you mean. But hobby could also just be the running thing that you said. Yeah, doing more running, like doing park runs.

Well, someone said, I will go to the gym every month, which I relate because we're quite gym girls anyway. I like a gym. But I'm like, do you know what? That's a realistic New Year's resolution. Yeah. You know, I'm not saying like, you you know one day and that's nothing but if you try say come on come on i've got really busy work life but at least one day a week or every month come on let's get it in that's achievable you know that's brilliant that's really really

good and it makes you want to do it more when you can achieve it yeah yeah it's hard it's harder like you said if i'm like i'm gonna go to the gym six times a week for two hours yeah it's unrealistic and then you feel like you're failing. So you just stop. Yes, yes, yes. Like it's so easily done. Yeah. So easily done.

I've got another one. This girl goes, do more yoga. So it justifies me wearing yoga pants all the time. Relate. Fact. Now. Relate. Although I do need to do yoga.

It's just expensive now. I don't. Maybe I'm just too highly strung. I don't have the zen for yoga. Yeah. I don't have the zen. Maybe Pilates. Let's do Pilates.

I love Pilates. No, I'm a Pilates princess. Yeah, I love a Pilates class. You need to join my gym. I'm actually going to call her out. She's such a snake. She's not in my gym. And it's literally across the road.

I know. It's a brand new, it's a newer gym. You left me, bitch. It's true. That gym is stinky. It's a brand new, like it's a newer gym. You left me, bitch. You left me. It's true. That gym is stinky. It's all fresh now. It's stinky.

It's stinky and busy. Stop being stinky when you left. But I will say, my new gym has Pilates classes. Jealous. And your gym doesn't have Pilates. Bring me. Well, if you joined.

Bring me. I'll be the next outside on the window like i'm like don't let her in she's from the stinky gym she's from the stinky gym girl yeah okay let me see what else i've got um oh i will try something new every month i think that was the same like the hobby thing. Relate to that. I think it's nice. That's realistic. It doesn't need to be new as in, oh, go bloody bungee jumping or something.

But it could be try new food or, I don't know, go to a Pilates class, something like that. One thing that I've got, which I actually had down as an achievable New Year's resolution, tell me, is cook more. Okay. But in the sense of I would like to cook more than one like type of meal.

I have the same thing for dinner. Yes, you do. Every single evening. And it is the easy, it's a chicken quesadilla, guys. She has a wrap, puts chicken in it, cheese, two folds in. She's like, boom! Literally a bit of barbecue sauce, no veggies. I really, like, I have no excuse now.

Like, I turned 23 this year. I can't, I can't. Oh my God. I can't just have chicken quesadillas for all of 2020. Like, I need to broaden my horizons. Turkey quesadillas, maybe. Turkey, maybe throw a bit of spinach in like she's like not barbecued tomato tomato sauce maybe like someone said um get a boyfriend

relate to your girl relate i thought that was sweet i thought that was really sweet yeah i'm with you i'm right there with you katie's got the bloody boyfriend flag she's like yeah you're leading you're leading the truth everyone keeps saying do you know what i've got do you know i've got self-love to focus on so do you know what it's in the back of my mind it's in the back of my mind but also like when you when you love yourself more other people will as well i think because you're yeah when like it's a matter of respect yeah yeah i do a lot of um i would completely agree where i feel like i don't often respect myself first i respect myself second yes 100 you do people can see that yeah yeah whereas if you're like that girl knows her worth yeah

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Yeah. Yeah. personal life relationships and you can be like i'm panicking be like oh my god stress where whereas if you just take a breath and be like okay there's a plan yeah it's fine okay i loved the relate disassociate honestly so my favorite thing about new year's resolutions personally is the ones that come like on new year's day from when you've made a mockery of yourself on New Year's Day. Yeah, it's so true. You know, when you wake up and you're like, never drink again. Never drink again. So we did a poll on the debrief to ask if you are a fresh-faced frilly on the day of New Year's Day.

Yeah. Or if you are a hanging Hilda. Oh, yeah. If you're hanging out your arse. So are you a fresh-faced fanny or are you a hanging Hilda? I'm a hanging Hilda. If you're hanging out your arse. So are you a fresh-faced fanny or are you a hanging Hilda? I'm a hanging Hilda. Yeah, I'm usually a hanging Hilda as well.

You've got to be. You've got to be a hanging Hilda. You've got to be. We talk about New Year's Day and fresh starts. Right, second of Jan, okay? Like, second of Jan. New Year's Day, we're like, lovely. Let's all sit down talk about our

ideas okay yeah we'll we'll regroup we'll action those on the second of january what's that say recoup recoup recoup um and i searched up that new year's eve is rated as the day of the year when most people drink like Oh, yeah. It's the biggest day for drinking in the whole year. So tell us the results of the poll. We asked the poll. Yeah. Fresh face Fanny.

Fresh face Fanny's, 33%. Oh my gosh. Okay, that's more than I thought. Go on, Fanny's. And 67% said... Hanging Hilders. Hanging Hilders. Hanging Hilders were drinking. Hanging Hilders. H hanging hilders hanging hilds i get you so we're right there with you girlies yeah i get you but i'm

like when you go i mean we're literally just about to talk about this but like when you're out with your friends with your family having a great time oh you're gonna have a few bevvies and also when we go to New Year's events, the drinks are cheaper. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. They're cheaper. Because they do deals and stuff.

Because they want you to drink more. They want you to come. They want you to drink their booze. That was my biggest fear, actually, about Scotland in general. Blanket statement. But our flatmate has always said, like, you guys will die.

Yeah, I know. So I'm quite glad I'm still standing. I know. I'm still standing i know i'm still standing yeah love it so let's talk go in no go out or stay in for new years go out go out but sometimes sometimes like to the people that stay in i feel you yeah sometimes i do wish the ones that stay and i'm like wow you're just so secure in who you are like wow like you've got your life together I remember I spent one like New Year's

in with my family like and it was pandemic time so there wasn't much to do anyway okay so we were sat there we played board games

it hit literally hit midnight the final bell of Big Ben went bong right goodnight guys goodnight everyone see you in the morning you're like play crudo and i was like oh this is actually quite wholesome i got to bed at like

midnight and i was like whoa wow okay last last new year's i think we literally like feral oh that was feral feral actually i'm. That was disgusting. I'm 100% going out. I'm going out. It's a vibe. Unless I have like a house party. That's what I was going to say, yeah. Because if I had a house party, then I'd love it. Stay in, have a load of friends around, a few drinks. I feel like that's something we'll do like mid to late 20s. That's my ideal new year's.

Do you know what I mean? The amount of stress we've had on what we were going to wear. Oh, don't. The amount of fucking stress. I'm telling you, what's the biggest stress? What are you going to wear or who are you going to kiss? Oh, God. Right, no. what we were gonna wear oh the amount of fucking stress i'm telling you what's the biggest stress what you're gonna wear or who you're gonna kiss oh god right no okay let's talk let's talk let's talk let's talk new year's eve kiss right yes okay let's talk may may i just say okay i had

never heard what of the new year's kiss thing what until i literally went out on new year's with you and arch last year what and also guys you're thinking yeah go out with a couple on new year's eve so the the pressure to kiss someone was high was high i mean you did didn't you you did in the end yeah i did yeah yeah right so let me tell you. So Daniel Kompura, he's a PhD and professor who teaches folklore, said the kiss on New Year's Eve is part of English and German folklore, which indicates, this is in quotation,

indicates whoever a person is with at midnight shows what type of luck they will have for the rest of the year oh well that made a lot of sense so then i asked the debriefing was like look yeah let's talk new year's eve kisses okay we go to the new year with the humbling of a new year's kiss oh yeah the flame of a new year's kiss yes so i was like listeners tell me some New Year's kiss stories, okay? And I was just like, because I love it. I absolutely love it.

Oh, it is nice. Oh, my God. I love it. Like, when I was single, I was like, need to have a New Year's kiss. I need to like it. I love that for you. Like, don't get me wrong. It bit me in the ass.

Oh. One year, I got with this guy on New Year's Eve. And, like, we were chatting all night got on really well he was like good looking and we were like oh my gosh this is great yeah like made such an effort buying drinks all night yeah all of that anyway had a couple of kisses before the New Year's kiss you had big dog over here and then New Year's Eve hit the countdown we had a great smooch anyway got back to school this was when i was 17 or 18 17 i think got back to school anyway i went to a big boarding school so there was lots of people in my year

yeah and this girl literally came up to me and was like uh do you know who this guy is show me a photo of him i was like yeah and she was like that's my boyfriend i was like and bearing in mind this guy did not go to the same school of us we were in a different city so it was like it was completely like rogue and i was like ah back me in the earth by me in the air like oh yeah sorry about that yeah yeah yeah that's not your fault that's i know i know it's completely as well completely as well okay let's debrief for the debrief let's debrief let's talk new year. Let's debrief. Let's talk New Year's Eve kisses. So, hi girlies.

Happy New Year. Loving the pod. Oh, good girl. So, my friend was having a New Year's Eve house party. Oh, nice. That's the dream. And I began the night at a fairly standard level of New Year's Eve messiness. As you do.

Good woman. As we all should. Because you have to start drinking earlier at New Year's. Yeah, of course you do. You can't be the boring one. No, you have to be slaughtered by midnight. So, get do. Good woman, as we all should. Because you have to start drinking earlier in New Year's. Yeah, of course you do. You can't be the boring one. No, you have to be slaughtered by midnight, so get cracking. Yeah. So I've been getting with a guy and sleeping with him for around a year on and off.

Okay. And he was at this party, so they're all getting. Oh my God, how exciting. Oh, that's like a guaranteed New Year's kiss then. I know. So she's super excited the guy's there they're getting on and off at one point though he left to have a happy new year's eve phone call with a girl he'd been seeing oh so it seems like they're a bit rocky on and off though oh okay

seems like a friends with benny's vibe okay is the vibe i'm getting so they're getting he leaves has this phone call she's like what the fuck this is relatable me being a mug happily continued getting with him when he came back good woman easily done easily done so the party began to wind down and we'd earlier seen an empty spare bedroom where we could slip off for our shag oh my god this is so exciting so at this point they hadn't had their new year's kiss okay she said girls i was slaughtered okay so she said she needed the loo break the seal yeah dangerous game so she would meet him in the room oh i love the code yeah so she went into the room a few minutes later and starts um kissing him on the neck like they start kind of like it's getting like pretty

intense it's getting steamy when suddenly he turns around and reveals himself to be my friend's dad Who had been kicked out of his mum's room because he was being too annoying when they both got home earlier drunk. I fled the room and was too traumatised to tell anyone until almost a year later. I am shocked. I'm actually shocked. Oh my god, she went into the wrong fucking room! I am shocked. I am shocked. I'm actually shocked. Oh my god, she went into the wrong fucking room. I am shocked. I am shocked. Can you, can you imagine? This would be me.

I can see myself doing this. What the hell? So it seems that it was really dark. What the hell? So she just sees. But why is he doing that? She just sees someone like lying down on the bed. Oh shit.

Oh shit. Yeah. Oh shit. Oh, so he didn't make the moves on her no no no she just saw a man in a bed and she was like it's go time that's so embarrassing Like, literally, giving it a little smoochy smooch. Oh, my God. And it was. That is the worst story.

Oh, my God. Thank you so much for that. Imagine, honestly, because it makes, like, imagine. The trauma. Please let me know if you then did go shag this guy. Like, or were you just like, I've got to go. Yeah, please tell us. Were you like, right, let me go to my next mission.

Did you go to the guy you actually had the intentions to shag? Or did you just leave? She just snuggled with the dad all night. Yeah. Oh my God, this story. X! X of 2023. X of 2023.

We're going to reflect on 2023. Let's give a few Xs, okay? Yeah. I've got two. How many have you got? I've got one. Okay, we're going to reflect on 2023. Let's give a few icks, okay? Yeah. I've got two. How many have you got? I've got one. Okay. My first ick of 2023 was Fred on I'm a Celebrity.

I'm not being funny. Let's just debrief on this. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. The shade that man gave to Josie on the cooking. Guys, if you have not seen it, go have a little watch. It's pretty poor. I thought it was rather poor and then when he was slightly rude to sam being like go play with your toys let the men do it like the athletic ones yeah i was like that's rude man to man like that

that's rude it's rude don't belittle a man don't belittle any women there's no need to man but like yes he's a cook so so I completely appreciate that. However, we're not on MasterChef. We're in bloody jungle. We're in the jungle. So I was just like, do you know what ick that? Absolutely.

And it's such a shame because I really liked him before. I really liked him before, yeah. My ick is very specific to New Year's. Okay, tell me, tell me, tell me. So recently, I... Guys, I've been getting laser on my legs. Oh my, oh my.

Goodbye. But you have to get them done every six weeks. So when I last had the appointment, my next appointment is actually in a few days. Oh, exciting. But when I booked it, it was like end of November. Okay. And she was like, okay, well, see you next year.

Oh, exciting. No, I get so violently icked out by people. You know, when you see family members on new year's or like or like at christmas and they're like see you next year like i'll see you in two weeks like i will see you in two weeks like it's not next like it is next year or when you go to bed or like when i went to bed with my family on news and see you next year you see me tomorrow like there's something about it i just i just get so icked out by oh see you next year no tomorrow all right tomorrow i'm gonna say it every year see you next year see you next year why are you doing that why are you doing that

i love it all right okay okay it for me is blonde eyebrows now i'm not saying blonde eyebrows bleached eyebrows you know how people are bleaching their eyebrows at the moment for me i'm like not a vibe i would be scared to do it myself yeah like i saw what's the name do it olivia neil she did it yeah don't do that girl what if it singed your eyebrows off i know that's what would scare me so i'm just kind of like it let's leave that girl what if it singed your eyebrows off i know that's what would scare me so i'm just kind of like ick let's leave that in the past it's why are you bleaching your eyebrows especially when people have like gorgeous eyebrows that was definitely a trend anymore i'm like your eyebrows are so gorgeous like yeah leave them be my friend let it be girl

let it be girl okay let's go on to questions. Okay, questions. And the first question of 2024 is, Peach, tell me. Serious, it's a serious question. Serious. Would you rather relive 2023 or see all the events right now that will happen in 2024? No, relive 2023 relive 2023 i'm someone who loves um surprises yes and i don't like to i like to manifest i like to um manifest and do my mantras so i can like put good vibes out however i don't want to see what's coming

because I feel that again is like preempting it. Yeah. Whereas there's so many things that are going to happen. Yeah. And 2023 was such a great year in the sense of so much was achieved. Yeah. And I'm really proud of what I overcame.

I'm really proud of what I achieved. Yeah. And what I did and the moves that I'm making. So I'm just like, let's do it again, girl. Let's do it again. I don't want to say, it's coming, it's coming to me, but I don't want to say it. Yeah.

What do you think? See, I'm also, but I'm one of the people that reads up to spoil the plot for myself. She does. You know what I mean? That's the most annoying thing I actually find about you. It's when literally I'll watch like a series with Katie and Katie will be like, I've read it. And I'm like, like what the only thing i haven't done it for was when we watched from

good i resisted i told you so much i resisted so heavily on that don't so part of me would i would love to have like a little glimpse oh if someone maybe made like a trailer of 2024 like highs and lows so i could be like why am I sobbing like that? You know what I mean? But then also like... That stressed me out though. I'd almost like to see a trailer of little snippets, almost like That's So Raven.

That's So Raven. Get a little vision. The eyes go. I'm like, yeah, get a little vision. I can see what's happening, but I don't know why and the context of it. And then I can just live it and be like, oh, my God, that was the moment. Okay. So silly question.

Yes. It's all to do with the New Year's kiss. Okay. Would you rather. Yes. Be chatting to someone the whole night. Yeah. Someone who's completely your vibe.

Yeah. Probably been chatting for like two and a half hours. Brilliant. He's been in your friendship group. Wow. Like, oh, my God, he's great. Yeah. Now, this guy is the exact replica of your type

if you had to make him in a test tube. Yeah. Like he's the exact replica. He's tall, he's tanned, he's fit, he's gorgeous. However, you kiss him and it's the most repulsive kiss you've ever had in your life. No. It's slobbery.

It's disgusting. Or you haven't chatted to any guy online yeah you've been with your friends you've been with me you've been with arch you've been with the rest of them having a fabulous time but you are like the foreboding future's coming like there's no kiss around and you're like shit shit shit shit there's no one in your vibe like there's no one you're you're vibing with not your type and you and you're like, ah, like stressing. Anyway, the countdown goes, three, two, one, you turn around, there's someone who's the exact opposite of your type.

He is literally the exact opposite. Everything you'd want is not there. However, you kiss him, it's the most sensational kiss you've ever had. You're like, oh my gosh, that was incredible. And you're like, what would you do? What are you pecking? What are you pecking?

What are you pecking? Yeah. That's really hard. That's really, really hard. Do you know what? What? I'd take the latter. Oh my God, how exciting.

Because I think I would literally wake up on, if I went for the first option, I'd wake up on New Year's Day being like, I can't believe I spent all my fucking evening talking to that guy who was literally gorgeous, but oh my God, it was shit. And I'd feel really underwhelmed. Oh, okay.

Whereas I'd rather be like, oh my God, I had literally the best time with my friends, oh my God, and then I panicked and saw that guy and like, God, he really wasn't my type. But fuck, that was a good kiss. Oh, okay, I see. And then you start the New Year's on a bit of a win. I see your thought process.

Okay, I get you. I'd rather it be like a last minute fine, like, you know what, let's just, here's another thing to be like, oh, happy New Year. And then I get pleasantly surprised. Yeah, and you're like, oh my God. Then I i know myself i'd already be planning me and this man's wedding if i spoke to the first guy yeah i'd literally be like oh my god love of my life can't wait to show him to my parents yeah and then it'd be a shit kiss i thought there's no if you can't kiss well it's just not

it's not gonna work it's just not gonna work okay i see great answer what would you do i'm betrothed katie i'm betrothed those questions i can't answer no but i completely get your vibe i get why because then you have a fun time with your friends yes and then you can just be like oh i had this case but it was actually amazing yeah rather than be like it was pretty shit you know yeah and then it would feel like a pie like you put all that effort into one guy and it's a shit kiss and you're like oh waste of an email yeah yeah exactly okay debriefers

happy new year it's 2024 lucky number it's even let's urologists have said it the bible said it let's get it girls

we've said it come on girls let's get it we've got it we love you so much we love you can't wait to see you next week see you next week

have a great new year Have a great New Year's. Have a great time. Bye. Bye.