The Debrief - Summer Lovin | The Debrief Podcast

Episode Date: August 5, 2024

Welcome back to The Debrief!In this weeks episode we are discussing all things SUMMER FLINGS!! We have had some amazing stories and responses from you guys, please keep them coming! If you want to email any dilemmas or stories please email [e-mail] or DM us @the.debriefpodcastHave an amazing week! Lots of Love,K+K x Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

how are we doing this monday sure i'm good i'm really good actually I feel like I've got a positive mind really good energy I feel like I'm so refreshed at the moment yeah I had an amazing time like a while ago for my birthday with all my friends yeah it just proved to me so much when you're so happy in your life within yourself within with other people with your family it does make you a nicer person which is obvious but you know what i mean yeah you know so i am really good how about you good i'm good i'm i'm ready to tackle my head on like a bull bull like a bull oh also have you ever seen the film this is so random but i just watched it the other night have you ever seen the film get out no but i've heard it's really good jordan peele with the guy it's like set they go to a house yes yes yes i don't know who he is but

yes yeah oh my god it's so good so i thriller isn't it it's putting like a thriller yeah it's a thriller you would love it actually i saw it like a few weeks ago but i've seen it before then but i couldn't remember don't you love oh yes? Oh, yes, yes, yes, yes. Actually, another one I'd say that's on kind of the same realm, different but thriller, Invisible Man. Oh. With Elizabeth Moss.

Is that the one from Handmaid's, Elizabeth Moss? I think so, yes. You have to see that film. Really? I am telling you. I am telling you. Actually, we should see it together.

Please. Bloody brilliant. I know. It's so exciting. So tell me your theme mantra this week. My mantra this week, although I'm starting to feel like you actually we should see it together please bloody brilliant i know it's so exciting so tell me your theme mention sweet my mantra this week although i'm starting to feel like it's kind of deja vu because i feel like i actually might have done this one before oh as long as it's not it's not deep it's not fine it's not fine i mine is be kind to yourself but i think i've had that before

well it's fine it's fine if you've had it before. Yes, I... It's just what you need. It needs reminding. You've been nasty, Katie. I've been... Oh, I've been so nasty. Nasty.

Nasty, nasty. Yeah, I'm like... Cut it. Cut it out. No one likes negative Nancy. Maybe that should be my mantra. No one likes negative Nancy. No one likes a negative Nancy.

So be a Debbie Downer. But keep a love of positive Polly. Be kind to yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be kind. Love that. Don't be a Debbie Downer. People love a positive Polly. Be kind to yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be kind. Love that. Keep it right here. Big time.

What's your mantra? Mine is, I'm surrounded by people who want the best for me. Oh, when you are. How nice is that though? That's lovely. You know, sometimes like literally our conversation before we started this. Yes. When you're talking about industry stuff or you're talking like about your career and you just feel a bit like do you want the best for me or are you

just trying to derail me about yes you know and there are some times in our creative industry like even phone calls it was even stuff today and you think yeah yeah some people are intent yeah then you have conversations with you know like people in the industry who are helping you or your friends. And they're all just like, yeah, it's so nice. I do have people around me that I trust. Because, yeah, and I feel like also on the side of like industry stuff as well. I'm like, everyone is so different. So everyone has their own USP.

Like, it's really like it doesn't cost anything to help someone else out completely and everyone i truly believe everyone if you want it if you work hard enough yes and if you put the f in everyone is marketable i don't talk about in our industry i can't talk any others because i don't know about it yeah but in our industry everyone is so when you know let's say i'm up as sally bowls yeah and someone says oh could you help me out with this for i don't know velma kelly yeah okay yes there is both both of like a musical theater role but completely different yeah you know you've got to be a really really good dancer darker hair like you know all that kind of stuff i just think why would you not help someone else

honestly kindness goes so far i think so and you will never ever be ruined by kindness like yes always reward you it does pay it forward yeah i saw this old woman walking up the street bless her and she was really slow like she was going really really slowly and i saw this young girl come up to her and said oh excuse me she was really young so excuse me can i help you and i was like so and she was on her own like the young girl and i was like wow oh that's so kind and the old woman did say no but like politely yeah i just was like the manners it's really nice right i love that so my song this week i heard it in a coffee shop and i was like this has got to be mine oh dancing in the dark can't start a fire can't start a fire

without a spark dancing in the dark great song dancing in the dark Springsteen so good you can't start a fire without a spark you're right there

you can't you actually can't though yes fucking move and actually if i was one of the earth air fire water what do you think i would be see an element because you are a water sign astrologically i am but weirdly i i would put you as fire do you know i what? I see myself as a fire. Yeah. I do not see you as a water because you're terrified of the sea. Really? What would you say I am? Maybe earth. Earth.

Yeah, earth. Archie would be air with the amount of air he's got in his arse. Yeah. Yeah. And then maybe the other one would be... Maybe he would be... I think he'd be earth.

Yeah. What do you think? You'd be water. I think I'd be water. But you don't you'd be water i think i'd be water but you don't like water but i i think i am a water sign and through and through yeah i've got the characteristics little thing whereas weirdly though i always thought you were a fire sign and you're a water sign i know right what are the fire signs sagittarius oh no oh my ex was a laborer Oh, my ex was a labourer.

It all makes sense. Fire and water. Fire and I take. Extinguish that flame. Exactly. Okay, so, oh, a recommendation, sorry. I haven't done my song. Oh, Katie!

Do you know what I think this podcast is about myself? I've been sat here. Waiting for me to ask you. It's on the tip of my tongue. Waiting for me to ask you. I'm so sorry, Katie. If you wouldn't mind, tell me a song. I feel the earth move under my feet. I feel the sky tumbling down, tumbling down.

Great song. I feel the earth move, Carole King, man. Great song. Carole, Carole, Carole. We've nailed the choices this week. We have, actually, because that makes... I feel the earth. I put it in my ears.

I think I'm in a fucking... I think I'm the main character of my fucking life. Just fucking bouncing down the street. As you should. Coming-of-age movie. Oh, I love that. That's brilliant. I love it.

So our recommendation this week is... It's tried and true, guys. I hate to say it. I'm sorry. Marks and Spencer's. Come on. Come on. Let's give it a bit of Marks and Spencer's love.

I've just got to admit it, okay? I think if I was a supermarket, I think I would be M&S. You would be M&S. And I'm not being funny. As a gluten-free woman, they do some great stuff. They treat me well. No, I'm telling you, there a gluten free woman they do some great stuff they treat me well no I'm telling you there's a Marks and Spencers

literally two seconds from my uni and when I'm in the depths of my rehearsals it is my oasis oh are we going to go to Marks and Spencers yes shall we

do you know what M&S is a sanctuary it really is a sanctuary for hope fulfilment and gratitude I'm almost emotional Kitty yes so am I

and do you know what they do really well Yum Nuts Yum Nuts they're like for hope, fulfilment and gratitude. I'm almost emotional, Kitty. Yes, so am I. And do you know what they do really well? Yum Nuts. Yum Nuts? They're like yum yum doughnuts. Oh, wow. Fuck me. I just love that they have,

they don't just have one dry sandwich like some people have. No. They have all these different wraps that gluten-free people can have. M&S, sponsor us, and I swear to you. And also, Percy I swear to you. And also, Percy Pig has no fans. I'm dead.

Big Percy Pig fan. Love Percy. Percy, the fizzy pig tails. I love all the iterations of the Percy family. Yeah, I love the little wiggly ones. I've got fluffy Percy Pig socks. Of course. That I like to wear to every audition as my good luck socks.

They're amazing. Because what I love is i'm like no one knows right now that i'm wearing fluffy percy it's my secret yeah they're here yeah i love it no one will ever know so mark suspensors shout out to you give me a discount please because i feel like i'm doing my time have you actually seen that mark and spencer have done a like a campaign with m&s and it's really fun oh you know mark right and spencer matthews and they've done a campaign with M&S and it's really fun. You know Mark Wright and Spencer Matthews. And they've done a whole photo shoot with it. And they call it M&S, Mark and Spencer because it is Mark and Spencer. And I'm like, isn't that amazing?

I love that. I was like, oh my God, what a great campaign. Right, Katie, tell me what we're talking about this week. Shall we? Let about this week. Shall we? Let's debrief. This week we were talking all about holiday romances. I love this topic. Come on, Mamma Mia.

Let's, I love a holiday romance. I haven't had one personally, no. But hey, hey, I love the idea of it. I love a holiday romance. Have you ever had a holiday romance you know what i have i have had a holiday we used to go to portugal quite a lot didn't you i did oh my god holiday romance that it wasn't deep but i did have a holiday romance yeah i've had quite a few but it's always been on holidays yeah i remember having one when i was really

really young with a friend i went to france with her oh and there was like this guy who also lived in the village yeah in his in her family's like place yeah they lived like in this french village and anyway there were these like boys and we were all you know hormones going wild yeah and you know little kiss little bits and i was like and i was young like it was the first time ever i was like oh my gosh and i remember just dreaming about him for ages. I wonder where he is now. And do you know where he is? In my DMs on the debrief. Yeah.

He's not. He's not. He's got no idea. But loved that. And then I had another summer romance. But they've never been deep. Like, I've never done. What's that?

Letters to Juliet. Like, I've never had a letters to Juliet. Or I've never had, like, a notebook. But it's been like a fling. But a little. Summer fling is so, because I feel like that adds into the fun of it because you're like,

I'm never going to see you again. Adios. Yeah. See ya. Yeah. Have you? Have you had a summer romance? You must have.

I haven't. Think of holidays. You must have had a little one that you're like, I'm going to see you again, Spire. No, I haven't. i've been too burnt i've been too bad like wow i've always wanted to go on my complexion i know i feel like the

only girls holiday i went on was to portugal like years ago and like it it was very wholesome it wasn't yeah you didn't go out did you didn't go out so i didn't really get and then when we went to portugal this time around like again like we didn't really go out so no like so right so basically we need to take you out again for some and get me out and get you out out so that you can have a summer so that i'll find someone and that when this question comes up again you can be like yeah have you or and then wait for everyone to ask you and you can be like actually i have yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah no no no you've got me i'll be burnt and shagged both instead of just one yes burns fulfilled not burned exactly exactly so we also asked the debrief if they have had a holiday romance. Yes. Summer romance. Summer breeze makes me feel fine. Lovely.

I love it. So we asked the debriefers, have you had a summer romance? And the results are in. Astounding. So the yes, of course I have. It was beautiful. Oh.

And the no is not a chance. Where do you find them? My camper. Love you guys. Follow us. Okay. What do you think? Yes, it was beautiful.

And no, where do you find them? I feel like it's got to be like 60. 60% have. 60% have. Yeah. And 40. See, if you said it the other way around, you would have been bang on the money. Bang on the money. 60% saying, yeah, I'm 40. See, if you said it the other way around, you would have been bang on the money.

Bang on the money. 60% said no. Which actually, do you know what? I actually think that's still quite low. No, sorry. I think that's quite high. In fact, 40% of people, 40% of our listeners are like, I remember the time.

Because I feel like like though in my opinion i haven't gone on a lot of like we've gone on like group trips but like i would class a holiday romance as someone you get with repeatedly over the holiday yeah i'm not saying you get to a club once no no that's not a holiday romance the holiday room that says is you're there for a few weeks or a week yeah see each other a few times. That's quite hard to maintain. Right? And also on a holiday, not being funny. I'm with my parents.

You're a different identity on a holiday, which means you can be whoever you are. You can wear those crocs out, hey? Yeah. You can whack it up in a messy barn and not be shitting yourself that you're going to see David from work. No, David's away. So you've got all this bajungas going on. Yeah, yeah.

Someone's like, be my bajunga. Loaded. Yeah. I mean, like, yeah, I just don't understand where people find them. I know a lot of people go on, like, an app, like, go on to, like, Tinder or Hinge. Ooh, on holiday. On holiday.

I didn't know people did that. That's quite cool. To message people and be like oh show me around oh that's quite good chatter blind yeah yeah i know maybe i'll try that next time write that down yeah write that down yes time yeah next time so we were looking and asked the debrief examples of the best places guys if you want a holiday romance we said where do you go yeah where are you finding them where do you go these Yeah, where are you finding them? Where do you go? These 40% of people. I'm like, all right, well, then where?

Where? And we have some answers for you. We do. So my first one is. Tell me. Paris. So cheesy, but I really did have my own city of love moment with the boy I met in Paris. We continued our romance after I returned and have been together for a year.

I'm going to cry. That's really sweet. Imagine meeting the love of your life. In Pahi. In Pahi. Pahi. City of love. It is the city of love.

And you're like, where did you meet Benjamin? In Pahi. In Pahi. Beautiful. Really wholesome. Yeah. Do you know what, though? If I was single, I'd go to Pahi looking around like, come on.

Come on now. Come on now. If it didn't, I'd go to Pahi looking around like, come on, come on now. And if it didn't, I'm delivered. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So a girl said to me, not gonna lie, girls, I don't know if I could call it romance, but I can definitely tell you I had a summer of lust and desire. Right? Descriptive.

Right? I was like, lust and desire, what a woman. She then, caps, all caps, I beef her. Oh, yes. Right? Lust and desire what a woman she then caps all caps ibiza right lust and desire love it for the last three years i've gone with my girls and it's a non negotiable always book ahead doesn't matter if you're in a relationship the same group of girls at the same time in the same month every year go on this Ibiza trip. Oh, I love it. Well, I've had the same man for the last three summers. Shut up! And every time we see each other,

we pick up like we never left. We go to the beach, we go on boat trips, we have dinner together, and we have marvellous sex. I love it. Then after the trip, we always kiss and say, till next year. I promise you girls, give it a go.

You'll find your summer hookup. Imagine being like, I'm so impressed. See you next year. I'd be so nervous. A year of not seeing this man. And then you go back and be like, hi. I get shy with Archie if I haven't seen him for a week. And he's like, hi, darling.

Hi, darling. A year. seen for a week and he's like hi darling my eye darling a year i'm sorry so we go to the beach gone boat trips together have dinner out that's so impressive and then be like see you next year i mean come on are you kidding she's nailed actually you've won a romance you've won you know she says it wasn't romance it was lost in design but i'm also kind of like darling quite remote you're not just shagging you just saying you're going to the beach boat trips dinner dates come on you've got a holiday contact you know though you'd fall in love i don't even know if it's summer i'm romances for you peach he'd fall in love and you'd be like maybe i should move to egypt maybe i should just fucking learn the language maybe I should set up shop. Yeah, genuinely. No, you're so right.

Right. I, so true. So I have Greece. Had my very own Mamma Mia moment last summer and had three holiday flings whilst in Santorini for a month. Three. This is incredible. I mean, yes.

You've got your Bill, your Harry and your Carmichael. Carmichael. Carmichael. Carmichael. I mean, that is delightful. Wow. And I'm all for the effort that these men are going through

to appease you. Right. I just, I really, I'm in just nothing but admiration and respect for you guys. Do you reckon men think the same? Like,

I'd love us to. Do you think they sit around at the pub going, it's time. Summer romance, boys. It's time for the summer romance. Do you think the same like i'd love us to do you think they sit around the pub game it's time summer romance boys it's time for the summer like shag a waggle rather than a summer i think they're more shag a waggle yeah i think so as well fucking morons idiots it fuck idiot you idiot okay so i've got one might be controversial, but best place for summer romance is going away with family friends. Listen to this. Oh. Listen to this.

You're going to love this. My family have a holiday home in Spain. Lovely. And my parents' family friends also have a holiday home within the same complex. So we go out every year at the same time together on a joint holiday. The family friends have two sons that I've become very close with. Because we spend every summer together. We never see each other any other time, but during the summer, we always do.

For the last two summers, I have slept with the younger brother who was my age, but no one knows. However, from yesterday. No. This girl has got a taste for an older man. I've now experienced both brothers and neither of them know. What a girl. Do you know what? I've won.

She's won. She's won. Snaps to you. Do you know what I'd love? I'd be like, you shagged you and you know what i because i'm telling you i'd be like you shagged you and you're obsessed with me now i've shagged the brother do you are you both sat at the table pin i want you and i'm that is literally the summer i turn pretty this is the summer i turn it is the summer i turn fucking pretty you're living my dream and the other one kissing booth one kissing booth i just that's so respectable and there's something so sexy i know someone who went on a

group trip and was shagging someone on the group trip and no one knew didn't tell anyone oh yes yes yes that was that that hot and you could not tell when they were together that's sexy they were they were literally couldn't tell them from Adam. They were so casual. If I was shagging someone on a group trip, I would walk into the room with them that I would go rouge. I'd be like, hi, good morning. Like, I have no chill. Katie's the worst blusher.

So he'd be like, can I get you a drink and you'd be like, I'd be like, why? I honestly, my face gives it away. And'm go so rouge you do rouge yeah i go so rouge i feel rouge now yeah just even talking about the hypothetical situation i'm like like it's coming please please uh yes brilliant i mean absolutely fantastic i mean i think it's i remember when arch and i started dating we had like a period of like just the two of us where we haven't come out into society as a couple. I hadn't debuted.

We hadn't done our debut. We weren't courting, you know. And we were like, I mean, it was probably plainly obvious to everyone, but we were like, no one knows. These fools. These fools, they've got no idea. Both written on all your hands

me hearing Archie leave every night me going into the room door slam door door door door door door so funny like no one knows hey okay yes brilliant let's crack on

so now we're going to go on to debrief die levels yes I have got such a good one for you i'm so excited it is incredible right i've just said to you the whole sorry you've just said to me the summer i'm pretty yeah wait till you hear this one i literally read it when this girl sent it in i was like it's gotta you've got to do it girl i was like i don't know what's gonna happen to you okay also she's so sweet listen to this. Hey, Kitty and Katie.

I've noticed when people write in, they never ask you how you both are. So how are you? Oh, my God. I'm going to cry. Girl. Withered. Shut up. I'm joking.

That's so true. Why don't I tell them? Listen. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Now she's like, okay, that's why people don't ask yeah so katie's with it and i'm doing good so and we're vibing yeah we're vibing yeah yeah that's what makes the good team this is sweet thank you for always helping your listeners with their dilemmas and giving such great advice well last week we did tell that was a lie so don't lie through her tea um i found myself they always do in a position that i need your help and i need to debrief with you girls so here we go

i've had the same summer romance six since i was 16 i'm now 25 oh Fuck! Oh, oh no. Are you in love? My family... That's almost a decade, sorry. No, that's long. 16 to 25. They are interesting years. They are. Like, that's a constant throughout a very tumultuous time of your life.

Oh, lovely. Tumultuous. Yes, it really is. Yeah. My family go to the same place every single year. And this year, I have a boyfriend. Shut up. First time ever, ever girls i'm being serious i've never had a boyfriend before oh my god i have two sisters who've brought their boyfriends for the last

seven years they're older than me yeah so a lot of the time i'd go off on my own sneak off and go meet my summer romance oh my god let's call him bill she put some brackets doing a mamma mia yes bill lives there so i know every time i go i will always see him yeah that's scary i think i was in oh this i think i was in love with him well yes you would be but you'd be waiting down every single year for summer you'd be like counting down the days yeah you'd literally get out of march and you're like and then it's in april then you're may then i'm here and it's time yeah it's time i i think i was in love with him but the distance never made it possible i was slightly stressed with bringing my boyfriend that he'd meet bill i never told my boyfriend i was about to ask i wonder if he knew okay okay we're halfway through so

okay anyways we arrived three days ago and with only five days to go i was thinking i can make it through without seeing him until i kissed my boyfriend on the head whilst he went for a nap in the afternoon and I went to pick up some groceries from the local store. I arrived and started picking up some stuff and putting it in my basket for dinner when all of a sudden I felt an arm around my waist.

No, no, no, not the waist. Oh, he doesn't know. I turned around, looked up and before I could even see i smelt him it was bill bill my heart dropped i was so excited to see him but in another way i felt really guilty that that i was excited yeah i explained the situation to him fast before he kissed me and he was devastated he looked me right in the eyes pulled me close to him and told me that he was undeniably in love with me i literally just got butterflies and

wants to give it a go and he can't wait anymore and distance can't be an excuse i was shocked i ran out of there so quickly as i was so flustered. I've got a boyfriend in the village right over there with the houses. And here I am being held by Bill. I am currently lying in my bed in the dark, writing this to you both as I can't get the situation off my mind. I keep replaying it in my head. What did he say? How did he look at me?

How do I feel? What should I do? Is Bill the one or is my boyfriend they both have positives and negatives but i don't know please help a girl in distress i actually feel a bit sick for you that's crazy right also i love when listeners write in and it's a story like this because i'm like i don't know i'm being honest i'm so get bell go get bell and again my gut reaction what maybe again we're doing tell tell the girl to lie i mean it there's a get your man all right there's a reason you keep like six six years longer not nine nine nine years

the only thing that stresses me out okay yeah why are you telling me now when i've just told you got a boyfriend that would stress me was i never good enough when i didn't have a boyfriend or now you're like i can't have this i want some more or was the time they spent away he was like this trip when i see her i've got to tell her oh you know i can't now. Now this is the devil's... Yeah, yeah. It's hard. That's really hard. That's really, really hard. Especially since you've brought the boyfriend on the trip.

It's not like you go to your local Tesco's. No. And then you're thinking, do you know what? I can sort my boyfriend out later. I'll just say, this is done. I wonder how long Big Bill... I wonder how big the distance is. I know, right?

She hasn't said. Is it like abroad or is it if it's with if it's within the uk i say go for it yeah but what happens if it's not well actually yeah if it's a broad like long distance relationships do like you kind of have been almost a long distance really i want to know more because i'm like nine years are you talking whilst you're away are you in contact then i wonder i i love love i say go for it i i'm sorry i think i think it's really hard that you've got five days left when your boyfriend is there how do we manage this case are we riding it out with the boyfriend i think you should tell your

boyfriend what's going on i couldn't sit on that for five days and i wouldn't expect you to especially if you're leaving five days and then you're like i didn't even get to see bill properly i wouldn't break up with your boyfriend like right now oh really it's like on the trip that's awkward oh okay so i see what you mean so tell bill oh sorry tell the boyfriend about bill yeah about what's just happened is that what you're saying yeah tell him about the situation be like look I haven't been completely honest with you. See how he reacts to that? Because if he gets a... Because he could do it for you. He could end it for you.

Because he could be like, fuck this then. And then he's like, fantastic, off he goes, get a flight, go for a show. But I feel like the fact now, the fact that you've written it in, shows that you kind of want this to happen.

You want it to happen. Because you would have been like i've got it i've got no no i've got a boyfriend and i'm not being funny when you said i was so excited to see him but i felt guilty guilt is because you want okay yes yes yeah i think you i think you need to pursue bill an absolute and bill wants a piece of you. He wants you. Oh, saying I'm undeniably in love with you. I'd die. I'd die. I don't think any man has ever told me that.

Oh, Casey. Actually, that was quite bleak. Yeah, that's Reese. That was quite bleak. No man has ever loved me. No man has ever told me I'm undeniably in love with you. It's the undeniably. That's crazy.

I can't hold it in anymore. That's Bridgerton. I love the Brid it in anymore. That's Bridgerton. I love the Bridgerton. The way the Bridgerton men speak to the Bridgerton woman, I'm like, I'm going to cry. Speak to me now. Because I can't hold it in anymore. My heart.

And it's not far enough. I love it. I love that show. I love it so much. So good. Right, should we go on to E? E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. right should we go on to eeks eeks okay so i've got one i've got one right let me ping pong you ready mine is yes when and it's hard because i feel like when people have holiday romances

on family holidays how are you doing that how are you doing that how do you get now you're with ma you're with ma and pa you're sneaking off for a little shagaroo right that's all or like when you obviously like if you're in a hotel resort how are you doing that i feel like that'll make it easier because you got your own room and you just yeah but like what if you're sharing oh my god like I never thought about sisters. Like if I'm with my sister. And I meet a guy down by the pool. I'm like, hi friend.

Fancy coming up to room 2102. And your sister's there. And she's like, finish setting. Cut your train. But could you just leave for a sec? Yeah, it's a bit feral. Because then also, then my sister would be like, well, I'm going to tell mum and dad about it.

Well, don't tell mum and dad. Yeah, and also... Imagine we're on this family holiday. Yeah, and also, even if you were like, well, you can't come to mine, but then you went to his, your sister would be like,

well, Katie was out for an hour last night. Katie disappeared for a while. Where did she go? Then imagine, sat over a fucking buffet, having to be like, oh, yes, well, I met someone and shagged them. That's awkward.

I love her. That's, like, that's awkward. The whole situation I find logistically quite challenging. So my respect goes out to people that do do it. Yeah. But I think I wouldn't pull it off and I would take myself out. Yeah, so bad. Yeah.

Okay. So mine was, again, I've kind of touched on this before, but this goes out to the girl who's talking about bell when you okay summer romance they could just be a fling but summer i turn pretty that was love okay and people going oh it's just a guy it's just a summer thing how do you know my own feelings how do you know and i'm talking about this girl right now i'm like she needs to get with bell okay because you cannot hold this in you've held it in for nine years yes no you can't do this you actually need to perceive this that's silly yeah and it's how people are like it's never gonna work how do

you know how do you know i'm so stubborn though if someone's like it's not gonna work i'm like let me let me show you let me show you how much i will make it work yeah exactly literally no i completely Yeah, exactly. Literally. No, I completely get you. So should we go on to questions? Questions? Questions. And this week you are... Serious. And I'm serious. Yeah, I am.

So tell me. My serious question is, do you think you can fall in love during a holiday romance? Because by nature they're short. They are short, yes. They're short. but let's think of love island okay yeah it's not just the name you know they're not using love like winging it around

i think personally in an intense environment like this it also depends on the individual yes it really depends on the individual i'm saying if you're going to budapest for three days yeah highly doubt you can fall in love with three days that's true if you've gone to the maldives for three weeks yeah like thailand thailand an intense environment where all you're doing is sunbathing kayaking going for nice dinners that it's such a a bubble of your own like fantasy you know it's not like you're going to go back home and all you're going to do for the day no one's going to work you're just going to be by the beach and go out for expensive dinners that's not real estate yeah so i think in that bubble someone could fall in love i think i think yeah i'm kind of in agreement because you also mostly with those things like

australia thailand you travel in groups yeah so you would fall in love in that group absolutely i would try my best yeah oh god I'd give it my biggest come on nothing better as well for him being like

I'm completely in love with you undeniably undeniably fuck so Bridgeton I'm sorry but the new season the way they talk to the women

it actually turns me on it's so sexy there's nothing sexier to me personally than romance I'm like what if you want to romance. I'm like, what? If you want to woo me, I'm like, woo away. Woo me.

I'm ready to be wooed. Please, yes. Okay, so my silly question, I'm going to put you in the shoes of the girl that wrote in about Bill, okay? Would you rather have your summer romance amid his undeniably emphatic love for you

in front of your family at a family dinner or with your boyfriend would you rather you haven't imagined you have your din-dins with your mum, your dad and your sisters your sisters like I'm talking about

Disney and your other sister's knitting or Nintendo Switch. Anyway, you're all sat there. Oh, lovely day, lovely. Yeah, ta-ra, ta-ra. Anyway, this boy comes up. Katie. And you're all like, what? He's like, I just can't hold it

in anymore. The way I feel about you is just killing me inside. I just think I'm in love with you. Or, you're with your boyfriend yeah then yeah boyfriend's across with you he's holding your hand yeah he's like looking in he's like just everything about you's perfect he's like i just you know i'm so lucky to be with here here with you and you're on my other half and here reaches and tucks your head behind your ear he just says

the way you look it just it makes me so feel so lucky oh my god anyway bill through the door katie thank god you're here he's panting no i've been looking for you everywhere turns around to to ben sorry i just have to say this you've always been on my mind and i can't stop thinking about you i'm in love with you katie leach casey rebecca mary leach be mine yeah right i've given you the full scene i would say i would say i would say i would say boyfriend really there's something there's something like that it's me out so viciously that if I was with my parents I'd love you so much

the time we have together I'd be like oh oh don't don't my dad would be like

what this is a bit more he'd be like alright alright my parents would they just be silent

would they just look at you yeah they wouldn't say anything you'd go so red You'd go so red. I'd go so red, I'd literally be mortified. My little sister would be like... She'd be like... Lucy would be like, Respectfully, we've got starters coming in a few minutes.

Would you mind just leaving? Could you take this outside? Yeah, she's so weird, you're so right. I'd be like, oh, this is really embarrassing. My boyfriend, I could be like, is more drama. I am so... My parents, she's so weird. You're so right. I'd be like, oh, this is really embarrassing. My boyfriend, I could be like, is more drama. I am so... My parents, I'd be embarrassed.

I'm 100% right. My boyfriend, I would have been like... Right. And also, it makes your boyfriend have to fight for you more because his parents just admit his love for you. Yeah.

So if he's not getting jealous, why are you not getting jealous? What are you going to do? This guy's just put everything on the line to be with Katie Rebecca Mary Leach. What are you going to do? Do something. So I'm with you, girl.

Yeah. I absolutely... yeah, 100%. I love the drama. Your parents would be like, oh, that's funny, she's lovely, isn't she? Whereas boyfriend. Boyfriend. There could be a fight. There could be a fight. For your honour. My boyfriend could turn around

and go, sorry, who the fuck are you? And then I'd be like, drop the mic. Drop her. I love this. Then he could be like, please calm down. I can't deny my feelings for this woman. And I'm like, drop the mic. Drop her. I love this. Then he could be like, please calm down. I can't deny my feelings for this woman. And I'm like... In between, I'm like, you're in a pub full of people. Sorry, guys.

Sorry. Hey, guys, should we take this outside? I would love that. I would love it so much. It's going to be the boyfriend. There'll be a duel. A duel. Oh, can you imagine?

For my honour. Got to be a duel. Yes. Come find me. Yes. Come find me. Yes. Come get me. Yeah. Best man wins.

They used to do, they're like the little duels. Jousting. Jousting, that was there. Yeah. Take the sword out. Be terrible at jousting. I'll fight you.

Wow. Isn't it? Yeah. That's just the way it used to be settled. I mean, how funny is that? It used to be like, fight you and they get a sword out. Now it's like,

took this out. Fist to cuffs. Took this out. Yeah. More than It used to be like, fight you and they get a sword out. Now it's like, took this out. Fist to cuff. Took this out. Yeah, more than that. Yeah, get your horse. Come on. Get your horse. Just like they used to do.

Get your helmet. Chivalry is not dead, guys. No. Come on. No. Fight for my honour. Come on. Fight for me.

Fight for me. I'd love that. Right, guys, we've come to the end of the episode. I know. Every time it flies by. Doesn't it? Do you know what?

Time flies by when you're do you know what time flies by when you're having fun and i've always said that always always guys take with you a summer romance and please carry that energy yeah if you've had any more manifest it if you've had any more summer romances you could be on the beach right now tanning and you could be listening thinking i've just had some romance last night. I need to tell the girls. Let us know. Yeah. Please tell me.

Katie and I are such. Remember, sucker for romance. We love romance. We do, don't we? Please. Everything about that. But we also love drama. So tell us all.

Every day. Every day of the week. Please. Right, guys. Love you so much. Have a great week. Have a great week. Bye.

Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye.