The Debrief - Tis The Cuffing Season

Episode Date: November 20, 2023

Welcome back to The Debrief girlies! We are in a brand new studio for this weeks episode where we discuss Cuffing Season and answer your dilemmas! x As always email us with any debriefs or dilemmas to: [e-mail] or DM us @the.debriefpodcast We hope you have a fab week! Kitty and Katie x Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hiya! Guys, look at us right now. Do we sound different? Do we look different? We're in a new studio. New bloody studio! Oh my god, I'm so excited. I've been so excited all day.

Yeah, I'm like a kid at day yeah i'm like a kid at christmas i'm like a kid i've been i've been walking around with a bloody smile on my face because i'm just like i can't wait cheesy grin i can't wait and then when i saw you through the door i was like there she is the music was pumping she was ready i was vibing she vibing i was vibing vibes are bloody high we've got space abundance i know casey's got a whole bloody sofa to us i might have a nap like halfway through yep she can it's got bloody snuggle blankets next to her i'm gonna bring my slippers next time i do quite like actually that with the camera they can't see lower down so we honestly just could have our fluffy socks in oh i'll have my moosey pajama

bottoms on oh you absolutely should never know no you'd never know would you never they'd never bloody know no debriefers happy Monday happy Monday happy Monday my loves how are we all doing I thought you were asking me I was like well actually to be honest well how are you doing peach don't I'm actually high vibing are you I'm how are you doing I'm actually really good I'm this is just the pinnacle I'm just like I'm actually high vibing are you I'm how are you doing I'm actually really good I'm this is just the pinnacle I'm just like I'm so excited I know honestly I can't wait for it and I feel like you're in The Apprentice right now and you're kind of auditioning and I'm just here like yeah tell me your idea I feel like I'm a little chair diary of a CEO I think I'm like the shit right now so do I I think I'm big shot sofa yeah i love the sofa right shall we let's mantra let's just let's get into it i'm starting to get like microphone shy like i did in the

beginning i'm like oh actually when i was on the way here i thought to myself is katie gonna shut herself again like i'm gonna sit down i'm like oh my god hi hey hey i was like oh not again hey it happens to the best of us beach hey it happens to the best of us stage fright right let's bloody mantra yeah tell me your mantra my mantra is i've been feeling lucky i've been seeing 11 11s everywhere i actually bought my lunch pricey came to 11 pounds and 11 pounds oh my god what'd you buy into waitrose that's what caught me out well if you went to waitrose you're a mug had to get my grenade protein bar didn't i i'm not being funny 11 pound for waitrose for a lunch it's actually pretty good well i got like chicken skewers well the problem is is that i the problem is is that i get a lot that's the issue

here she's not just getting one snack bar My mantra is everything works in my favor. Love it. Love it. It does. And is that because of just the 11.11 this week? Yeah. I'm like, of course everything's working in my favor and I'm seeing it everywhere I go. Oh my gosh.

That's so exciting. My lunch was meant to be 11 pounds and 11 pence. Of course it was. Yes. You would have shat yourself though if it was like 111 point 11 i would have been like that's not meant for me that's everything's not working out in my favor no not right now not right now so my mantra is i am getting to where i want to be i trust the process and i enjoy the journey oh yeah come on now honestly don't underestimate me round of applause and this is why i'm saying

it because i just feel like in your 20s i mean we're talking about it so much but in your 20s you have so many things you want to achieve and i feel there's so much pressure on yourself i need to do this i need to do this i need to do this and anyway the other day i made a list of all the things that i've achieved just this year and i was like holy fucking shit girl yeah come on girl i was like do you know what you are getting to where you want to be yes you trust the process and you're enjoying the journey because you have to actually trust the universe that if you don't get something that there's a reason behind it because something better's coming yes or you know you just were not supposed to go near that 100 so living my best life over here yeah you are yeah thriving in 20s telly tubbies shining oh i am i am smiling oh absolutely

right song song now peach update the debriefers are you better enough to sing your song to us this week oh my god i am oh my god guys what what a bleed i went gray i went puce i went great yeah and oh my god guys i've got glandular fever oh i have we're just still around we're just we genuinely have infectious i know but it's not because i've been like on a night out like doing a bender i don't i genuinely don't know how i've got it because sometimes you can get it in fruit nah no sometimes you can't get it in fruit talking at you i know i read it in fruit i read that somewhere okay i read that once uh you can definitely get it through which is why i don't have it and which you never will that's why you will never get it you'll never get it

okay tell me a song can you sing it to us my song is um Okay, tell me a song. Can you sing it to us? My song is... Oh, what a tune. This is Alive by Amy MacDonald. What a tune. What a tune. And again, main character, I'm just walking wherever I go.

And I'm like, yeah. It is actually such a tune that you could do. You could put in your ears when you're running, when you're on the bus, when you're anywhere. Watch it. Now, my song is a bit to do with the pod this week. It's switching our positions for you, baby. Yeah, Positions, Ariana Grande.

Really, really good. Really, really good. Okay, debriefers. The recommendation for this week is the bricklayer's arms in putney it's this teeny little cute pub it's actually really really cute it's absolutely teeny side note you can't order food there but you can bring food in which is quite exciting like we went to go get pizza and then we could bring it there i was having m&ms yeah yeah not like i don't think i could bring it there i was having m&ms yeah yeah

not like i don't think i'd ever be told off for having m&ms in another pub no i know what you mean but it felt a bit cheeky but you could have it all out on the table everyone was kind of bringing i saw there was a um group across from us that all had like takeaway chinese i mean it was great going to town it's really cute it feels like a really locals pub yes um it feels more of a wintry pub that's why it's our recommendation for this week yeah yeah um but i'm not being funny guys i would kind of avoid the pub quiz we never saw the end of the pub quiz we went because we were like i want a pub quiz on a sunday just be really wholesome and nice no it went on for literally four hours four hours when you do a pub quiz you expect a

good 45 minutes max it was ridiculous it was ridiculous it was ridiculous genuinely like we went we went to go get more food and came back and they hadn't even started like the third out of the seventh section honestly we were so bored we went to go get dessert and we got sweets and chocolate we like oh come on i was like it was so funny though we were sat there and then we're all just like we're all just chit-chatting and then they're like the guy's like right we'll start the quiz up again in maybe another 15 minutes at this point it'd already been like 20 minutes and then kit was just like right well guys i'm going home yeah yeah it was like honestly i'd had enough i was like i'm not being funny i've sat

through this bullshit i was like i'm going home off i thought i literally stood enough i was like i'm not being funny i've sat through this bullshit i was like i'm going home off i literally stood up i was like right love you guys i usually try to kind of coordinate with katie be like right girl i'm going i know i literally i'm going home but it was so obvious because everyone was sat there so i was just like fuck it i'm going honestly i was and i was so jealous because then i had to stay because then i didn't want to be like well i'll leave with you like you need me yeah i'm like oh you need me to you don't have keys oh i'll come with you i'll come with you yeah did leave about half an hour after though it was nice because arch was like yeah we'll go soon i'm like yes okay good good so overall brick layers but don't do the fucking quiz unless you want to age about 10 years let's stay brave okay right so we're quickly first time in a new studio how are you feeling i'm scared i'm nervous i'm excited how do you deal with

change because this is a big change how do you feel i usually i think i deal with change like four weeks after it's happened you know i mean it takes me a while to get settled yeah yeah so I'm literally like as soon as we have our like final like time in the studio I'll be like oh yeah yes yeah and then then I'll be too late and then I'll be bloody over and then it'll be too late and late I always feel I do quite like change I always find it quite exciting yes but and especially when it's something like this like when it's career and when you're looking forward to it and when it's development in your career it's always so exciting but i'm just on such high vibes i'm so excited i know this is just such an elevated version of what we've been doing like it's great it's absolutely brilliant okay we're gonna get into the bulk of it because my loves

we've got so much to get through today so guys it's bloody cuffing season it's cuffing season thank you thank you it is cuffing season it is so cuffing season is when single people actively search for short-term romantic partners to spend their colder months with yeah it's typically from october to march yeah interesting cuffing season as a single gal yeah do you kind of empathize with It's typically from October to March. Yeah. Interesting. Coughing season. As a single gal, do you kind of empathize with this? Oh my God, of course. Who doesn't want a wintry blanket of a man to keep you warm in the winter months?

A nice little chest to snuggle into. Yeah, someone just keep, because it's like a little radiator just to cuddle up to. Yeah. And especially in winter, because i personally find winter such a romantic time of year it is because the lights are on it's cozy there are fire yeah everything's elevated in in the wintry season you know everything's more romantic yeah it just walks along the river ah orgasm it's nice and chilly you just so chilly it's like when you have a little hot choccy and you're keeping your hands warm oh he puts his coat around you in the summer i'd be like get off don't be putting your arm around me and making up the back of my neck hot okay so i wanted you

were going to tell me why cuffing season happens yes tell me i was looking into this yeah tell me psychologist now i didn't do psychology a level but i'm gonna give you my best take okay love it love it woman called lily sabir oh nice okay she told love honey yeah love love honey girls gotta do what you gotta do that it's a social pressure to be in relationships for the holidays that's why it's such a common phenomena that's why how interesting because everyone wants to be kind of grouped up i almost think of it and this isn't what she said i'm kind of pulling it like penguins you know like penguins have to right they have to mate up right i say i see in the winter they're like a little,

they waddle around and they have a good time. You just want to find your little penguin, don't you? I feel like this lily woman has hit the nail on the head here. Yeah. Because everything in winter,

you need someone to do it with, I feel. You're bang on. Do you know what I mean? You are bang on. Ice skating for one, not a fucking job. Winter one for one.

Winter one for one. Christmas markets for one not a fucking job for one now i'm christmas markets for one like nah now i props to anyone who does that by themselves yeah absolutely i'm not saying you're an absolute freak if you do do it on your own i'm just saying because i oh my god i ate in wagon mamas by myself once and i thought i was i was terrified the entire time and i was on a communal bench like oh wow that wasn't that was that wasn't revolutionary no no so taking yourself on a date as fun as it is it's fucking scary and also i feel that you want to fill your time in winter from the colder months they define it from october to march so within that time you've got halloween you've got bonfire you've got christmas you've

got new year's you've got valentine's so for all you've got five six events coming up and you're thinking i don't want to show my own i want someone to spend that with and as well it doesn't help i want someone on my arm in places like winter wonderland yeah ice skating yeah you're surrounded by couples i can imagine if i went by myself i would leave a very depressed woman and i don't think the movies help all the bloody christmas movies are like the holiday love actually it's all couples no one's single in the holiday no genuinely so cuffing season for girls out there and we've got some cracking stories oh my god stories i completely get it i also wanted to say it's the lack of sunlight colder temperatures as well and the

tendency to hibernate can lead us to want more human interaction and contact so as we're not outside triggering triggering our vitamin d levels which can lead to dip in our moods so we try to elevate our moods by seeing people more and being having so i know it's katie's gonna cry that's just really nice katie's actually gonna cry that was me about to buy a sunlight lamp all i just need to do is go out and see more people katie just needs to get on the day to nap sometimes honestly it does make sense though because when it goes when it goes dark about half three you know one's wanting to be going out it's my favorite time of year is when i come back and archie's baking gingerbread you know you know it's it

you know for some reason like he just becomes a machine he just churns out cooking mama batch after batch of gingerbread and honestly it just fills the flat oh but it smells so good doesn't it honestly when you just it's right when you see more people that you love and you care about you just feel your heart feels very full and it's very wholesome yeah winter in general is a very wholesome thing yeah it is and you only do wholesome things with couples and and it's so everything seems to be magical decorating the tree and going to see the music everything seems magical and you think oh i'd love to share this with someone you know and for some people that's friends and that's great and if you do on your own as well that's an amazing thing but for cuffing season we're referencing

cuffing season here you can understand why people like shit yeah shit get me someone where i'm sat right now yeah yeah well how i need a new year's kiss kato that's already that's that's a conversation that's already been started that needs to brew that needs to be i'm telling you and i'm telling you guys something that's really exciting is we have an episode that comes out on New Year's Day. We'll see. We'll see, hey. We'll see.

We'll see if she's hit the nail on the head. I also have never been introduced to the phenomenon that is having a New Year's kiss. Oh, okay. Like until last year. Okay, dang. When I was told that it was no other option. Oh my God, it's essential. To have a new year's kiss absolutely essential just i remember actually i was out clubbing with a friend

we got locked in the toilets on new year's uh eve and we were waiting waiting waiting and we were panicking about the countdown and we already met these two guys so we kind of thought banging right there's my new year's kiss yeah got locked in the toilets i'm like oh my god they think they're gonna think we abandoned them so we come out we run out thankfully i see my guys i'm like perfect the countdown is literally happening so i'm like great it's literally five four i see him at three and i'm like yes three grabbing to my friend she can't find the other friend so she's like fuck it she grabs a man and she's like kiss me

and pulls him down I feel like this is going to be me on New Year's Eve no no no we'll have it prepped since nine we'll be like look look look look look so pressure for cuffing season out of ten.

Ten's literally like, I'm showing myself. Like I am, I am literally cuffing season deranged right now. I would give it a seven. I'm at a seven. Where I'm kind of like, do you know what would be lovely? Yeah. A hug. I can give you a hug if you eat that it's different it's because Katie doesn't have physical touch honestly it's different I know I know it is I know it is but actually fuck you

because my hugs are great my hugs are great no but i know you know what would be great is a hug surely you just want someone like the exactly like me but male come on yeah yeah you want to be able to be with someone who's funny well to be honest he giggles oh yeah funny yeah yeah they go no you gotta be funny but yeah maybe you've got a lot of routines and i think okay fair so sans the routines oh yeah get rid of the routines but i'm saying oh personality yeah yeah yeah yeah okay so you're feeling social pressure out of 10 well i was thinking with this whole vitamin d stuff i was actually thinking that i'll tell you what how old am i now 21 years ago my mum got plenty of vitamin d in the cuffing

season because i yeah because you were born in i was born in october i was no i was conceived in october and i was born in july oh my god so i'm a cuffing season baby i've never thought about i am a cuffing season baby well i'm technically a cuffing season baby because i was born in july oh my god so i'm a cuffing season baby i've never thought about i am a cuffing season baby well i'm technically a cuffing season baby because i was born in february you're born in february okay did you ever feel them when you were single a pressure to be in a relationship because i find winter like i don't think i felt pressured to be in a relationship but i did feel the need and desire to be with someone. So I wasn't like, shit, I need a boyfriend.

I really need to be with someone. I need to have a boyfriend. But I thought, I do want someone to give me a text and be like, do you want to come over? Yeah. I want someone to want me. Because let's face it, during cuffing season, we're wearing baggy clothes. We're all snuggled up.

We want someone to snuggle up with us as well and be like, you are just beautiful. And be like, and be like yeah yeah yeah what else are you gonna do i didn't feel pressure yet i know some girls do yes oh like one of my friends recently said to me oh my gosh there's so much pressure i'm finding it so hard you know everyone's organizing these things and literally i don't have a boyfriend so i can't go and i'm like fuck that of course you can go yes you know just go with a girl group but i do understand do you think people are horny during cuffing season well yeah yeah because all you're consuming is romance yeah and i'm i'm pisces i'm romantic i'm a daydreamer yeah yeah um i find anything romantic the bridge we walk over to get to work oh my god romantic any any fairy lights any christmas lights any romantic frantic sinatra

ella fitzgerald any slow jams i'm literally like this is so romantic i could cry like this is amazing i also feel like you're inside yeah what else are you gonna be doing yes yes of course snuggled up in bed you're you're under your little covers and you're under your little blanket oh god no god no god no your poor boy's head is gonna have a sweaty bum i literally because i have a heated blanket that's under the sheet and i have heated blankets there's a throw as well so it's coming from both sides i love it both sides boom attack okay i'm gonna tell you something really interesting yeah so we've we've just given the girls perspective on why we might be hornier yeah i'm gonna give you the boys

perspective okay oh oh okay the fall season increases libido in both men and women but especially men oh early winter is when men's testosterone levels and speed count associated with sex drive are the highest so i'm telling you ladies shoot the shot this is a good thing though shoot the shot shoot the shot i would think i would think surely now this you know i'm always generalizing here but i think surely men in general will be hornier during the summer because we're in skimpy clothes like yeah you know you're on the beach everyone's got the tits out yeah but actually actually we have a friend we have a friend and we were talking about turn-ons then we were like what's your biggest turn-on and he's like oh i don't know i don't know and

we're like no think what's your biggest turn-on but we both did say it has to be non-sexual it can't be sexual yeah he said a girl in a knitted jumper. So it clearly is the thing. It clearly is the thing. Maybe it's the kind of... So do you like men in beanies? No. No. How about a snood?

A snood would kind of be iconic. Would a snood get you going? I just don't really vibe with hats in general. Would you ever have sex with just a snood on? No. You would, you would, you would. But to me, if I was seeing someone and they made me like a hot chocolate and came in and he was like, and he was like, oh, I've got your favorite holiday film up.

The fairy lights are on. Here's a hot choccy. Oh. My panties would be on the floor. There's just something so wholesome it's so true like the other night arch and i had a really so obviously guys got glandular fever i'm sick um arch and i always do date night but he was like if the thing he'd organized was active well hey no it wasn't like that oh my god did he tell you what it was no don't tell me because we're gonna do it another time what is it bad is it bad it's bad i pissed myself it's bad is it bad it's bad i can't believe you so he's like we can't do this because you feel unwell

so bless him we got a wagamamas and we like hot chocolates and watch films together and just snuggled and i was like take me now for goodness sake take me now i was like come on the cuffing season is even great to just get naked because it's cold so you can get in the sheets and just be naked in the summer i'm telling you everything's sweaty on me and you're just like you want to kind of snuggle up to them yeah body on body trying to keep each other warm oh i love it do you know what i can't relate to that you know what i'm gonna i'm gonna be a little devil on your shoulder yeah i've actually recently i don't know if it's you i've been speaking to i said to someone on my

course i was like who was i talking to about pajamas and they were like you've had quite a few conversations about pajamas in the past few days i really want matching pajamas i actually thought i actually thought we should get matching and get the boys matching as well and we'll do a photo a flat matching christmas for our flat christmas i think we should matching jammies jim jams do you know what girls it wouldn't ick me out if my boyfriend got us matching jim jams and we put them on or it wouldn't ick me out if my boyfriend got us matching gym jams and we put them on or it wouldn't bother me actually that's a question for the debrief would it ick you out if you were seeing someone that came out in like full head like gym jams

like i feel like if you're in a relationship it's quite cute you know if you know them for a long time but if you're literally two months in there they're like in the matching tartan set you'd be like come on why do boys always have like tartan it's always tartan like tartan joggers or tartan gym jams striped striped i'm like what is this about those ones that our friend has oh they're so bad it's like a bloody christmas cake i'm like what is this honestly okay so girlies um for the debrief this week we asked the debriefers what are decisions you've made during cuffing season that you kind of regret but you blame it on cuffing season questionable yeah so one girl wrote in and she says fuck cuffing season she says every single year i have gotten back with one of my exes

it's so real it's she says i'm 26 i have six exes and every single year i've gotten back with one of them on rotation no no not you she's like not you we'll go to this one like i haven't had three in a while yeah so we'll do three no we'll do three she says i usually like to see which one is free and if they are not i go to the next one i try not to mix it up so if i've seen one in march i won't see them again until next october she's just she genuinely said only cuffing season man i'm like do you know what i feel there's a kind of she she's she's kind of hit the nail on the head yeah that during that cuffing season she knows her hormones are going wild so she's like well at least i'm just gonna get with people that i know aren't forever yeah at least i can just come back to yeah because if

she was doing this with someone that she genuinely had feelings for then i'm like but then i'm like do these boys know like surely they do surely but i don't think they'd have an issue no they couldn't yeah high libido high libido in the yes the cold months maybe they're thinking maybe they're thinking the exact same probably maybe they're like're like, oh, like, bless her, it's cuffing season. Reduce, reuse, recycle. Absolutely. Like, why not? I think it's so good that she said that.

No, but it's so... 26, she's had six exes. It's so real. I was literally chatting to someone recently. We were talking and she was like, she was like, oh, you know, i messaged my ex and fuck i'm like really nervous but she was trying to like initiate getting back with the next and i was like and i was kind of because of cuffing season because of well she was it was it was late it's

cold she was like i want to go to someone else's bed tonight oh my gosh i love her so she was messaging her ex and was like please like can i come over blah blah blah and i said oh but why like why why not you know try and find someone single here or yeah she was like she's like because i know it'll be a good shack oh and i thought that's real that's fair and to be fair she knows that there's not if it's an ex you don't have to put that much effort in it's almost like they know you they they know they're attracted to you. You know, you're attracted to them. So you don't have to be chatting up and like wasting alcohol.

You literally just be like, bang. And I'll be like, yeah. Oh yeah. Yeah. Green light. Oh yeah.

It's time. Thumbs up emoji. Yeah. Boom. I love it. Okay. Tell me one of your stories. Someone wrote him.

Yeah. And said that coffee season. Yeah. Makes your stories. Someone wrote him. Yeah. And said that cuffing season makes them want to make a husband out of their male best friend. Fuck off. Oh, now that's tricky. That's a whole fucking, not even a can of worms.

I've been there, guys. I did it with Arch. I did it with Arch. So this girl blames cuffing season that every cuffing season's come around. She starts to see her male best friend a's come around she starts to see her male best friend a bit differently to see her male best friend a bit different what do you think that's not even a can of worms that's that's a bucket of worms yeah that's a whole kind of thing like

that's a topic in itself isn't it because but i i can see how she's blaming on cuffing season because for her she's like easy he knows me i know him oh two people who know each other so so well who get on let's just get it on and let's be honest we've we've already had this conversation where we've agreed that i don't personally think men and women can truly be friendly if you're both single yeah so something's going on so it's something because the guy in question is single yeah that was sad so i'm like well if you're doing all these things oh i'll invite my male best friend to winter wonderland oh the lights are shining we're all grabbing hot chocolates oh he's keeping me warm he's checking in on me of course you would be in love yes if she does

just want it for cuffing season that's great but then if she starts to develop feelings that's when it gets a bit no problem the problem is because the only trajectory that goes on yeah is they go in for cuffing season yes they become fuck buddies yeah friends with bennies then what happens with friends with bennies one always catches always always fucking catches friendship ruined yeah you just gotta stay strong because let's face it with with the fact that the men's libido is higher in cuffing season in these colder months yeah doesn't particularly mean that the romance is higher it could just be no one a bit of a rumpdy numpty humpdy numpty sat on the wall

you know and then and then be on their fine way you know off they go what are you gonna what advice are you gonna give the scarf for the cuffing season because i'm like i would say stay strong don't don't and it's horrible but you can't because either you're gonna shag what if it's awful you know what i mean because that's the stakes it's like yes it does he mean enough to you that you have a good few shags up until February, March? But then what happens?

And then are you like, oh, I'm not really bothered anymore. You can't go... Your friendship. You can't go back to being friends. I firmly think, I have the philosophy that you can shag a friend once.

Yeah. And I think you could bounce back. Are you coming on to me? Twice, you're in a relationship yeah you're betrothed all right twice it's game over i do feel like if you make it a routine that's when it starts to get a bit iffy that's when it's murky that's when it becomes a big old gray area yeah i would be i would be careful well it's with with cracking on to your best friend in cuffing season so how do you feel yeah given that your situation yeah was yeah you were very very very yeah good friends yes before you got together yeah the risk of that because I feel like that's all that would

be holding this girl back yeah because he was my was my, Arch was my male best friend. Because it's high risk, high reward. Yeah. Yeah. It could all, it could go terribly or it could go phenomenally. That's a really good point. So it's like, what, were you like, this is really risky? Yes. Because this guy is like my bestie.

Oh my God, 100%. I remember like sitting in, I'll never forget it sitting in regent's park with my mom yeah being like i cannot live without this man in my life and i was like and i'm so scared to fully go for it and he's like absolutely not and i was just like oh my god so scared so it is a massive risk a massive risk however i look back and i think oh my god i'm so glad with everything that happened and also our journey i loved being friends but also being like you know like you fancy me you you you want to follow me so girls i can't tell you distinctly to not do it during cuffing season but be wary that you need to put it out in your mind is it cuffing season

or do you love him okay it's the two it's just cuffing season if you're just a bit horny you know go elsewhere the little grape needs a tickle that's fine but let's let's find somewhere just go somewhere else to find because you could potentially lose the whole fruit bowl that was so funny you could you could that was so profound yeah you could lose the whole fruit bowl you could you'll never see a banana again or not at least the banana the banana that you want we asked the debrief listeners this week some questions about our cuffing season antics yes so boys get listening because they'll be chomping at the bit um so cuffing season you're hornier yeah so we we are talking about positions

this is where my song comes from okay so girls do you feel pressure to go on top during sex what do you think what do you think there's one so the two options first one is yes 100% the second one is absolutely not I'm a pillow princess I would what do you think i i feel like it would be yes 100 what more yeah that is in they they would feel pressure okay that's my final answer okay so i'm gonna be telling you that more is no i'm a pillow princess 57 said no i'm a pillow princess good on you girls and that was katie and all her other fake accounts she's literally like come on come on and 43 said yes 100 i was surprised about this actually that's quite tight though but i i was reassured because because i i've um had the experience with loads of my girlfriends who

were like oh i have so much pressure to go on top. I hate it. I hate it. Whereas on here, the girls were like, no, I'm chilling at the bottom. You can do so much more. I mean, they're all like, Katie's the disciple. Katie is literally... Nothing worse. I'll lead that revolution. Yeah, she'll lead it.

I'll lead it. So obviously you don't feel pressure to go on top. No. Have you? Have you ever? Yeah. But I also feel like there's so much more you can be doing that's more fun okay yeah yeah um how about on a night how about like a one-night stand would you with

the one-night stand no not a chance no no you're not catching me i think it's interesting because so many women you hear talk about that and they say it's so empowering really empowering i am like no it's more it's more i don't want to do it because i'm fucking terrified i'm panicking now yeah i'm panicking well i did think it was good that the girl said not i know i don't feel pressured i was like good like more girls are like no i don't feel pressured but i will if i want i'm like great yeah because i love it i'm like absolutely love it yeah but i'm i never feel pressure but yeah interesting one girlies okay peach tell me the next one so we then asked what do you think are the most overrated oh positions okay so in the categories yeah we have doggy, missionary, cowgirl and spooning.

It's got to be doggy. It was doggy. Yeah, it's got to be. But I don't necessarily, well. Would you agree? I would say cowgirl's the most overrated. I'm leading the revolution. Okay, yeah, maybe.

But I feel like so many guys are like oh doggy's got to be the best doggy is the best i think it i think it is overrated to an extent okay but i think it's mainly because it's more like a go-to i feel like because missionary was a second to that yeah i'm like that's more of a go-to yeah so i feel like people would find it more overrated because they're doing it more i wouldn't be like if i look at me i'm so british like thanks yeah she's so prudent if i was in that position i wouldn't be like Yeah, you wouldn't be annoyed by it. I wouldn't be annoyed. Like, oh,

not this one. Not like you'd be on top. You'd be living. She would have, she'd be living. I'd have a vein in my forehead. Yeah, vein in forehead.

I'd be fucking. Face bloody red. Yeah. Personally, I think it's overrated. It's great. Like, I enjoy it,

but I'm like, it's so overrated. People bang on about it and I'm like, like, it's fine, but it's too much. Not worth the hype.

No, not worth the hype yeah and the next one you know what it is girls the most underrated position yeah um same positions so doggy missionary spooning and cowgirl what do you think is the most underrated let me say this is a whopping 61 61 said this yeah i'm gonna i'm really conflicted between because everyone's like oh missionary is actually really underrated but spooning i'm gonna go with spooning it's missionary oh there's bloody missionary but i i see what you what you mean and where you come from. But I bloody, like missionary. People always say.

But I also feel mission's very kind of relationship-y because you can also kind of hold each other. You're looking at each other. Yeah, yeah. You know, you're in the moment. Like, it is a go-to, you know, if you're just like, fuck it, let's just do it. Yeah. But I think it's severely underrated.

Yeah. Because people say missionary's like vanilla. Well, this is- It's not fucking vanilla. This is the thing. I think people think, oh, it's boring.rated yeah people say missionary is like vanilla well this is fucking vanilla this is the thing i think people think oh it's boring yeah so it's not done right my loves what was second was it spooning spooning i would assume was second yeah yeah which i thought was interesting as well and i mean spooning is it's pretty bloody brilliant yeah love it love it yeah morning spoon oh cracking crack great start today monday mantra in my pocket off i go i love it

when you beg it off someone why are you doing that are you doing that so i've got like the best example so i was in a drama class and um the teacher's like talking about this and blah blah blah and we're all kind of nodding and just like agreeing and it's fine and then the person does their thing and they're literally like the the teacher intervenes and says tries to give some feedback and they're like oh my god like that is now 10 times better now you've said that you're so well this is why they pay you the big bucks and i'm like oh my god i'm like i could vomit on you oh brown nose i was like oh my god i was like you've lit not even on the nose on the face i was like you are stripped down from

in that butt crack i'm like why are you brown nosing them there's nothing worse because i feel like people can tell but i hate it when like it works yeah when you see it working you're like oh honestly honestly and and some of them lap it up like oh i love it and i'm just like it's so fake it genuinely gives me the ick like if i saw someone i was friends with or in a relationship with doing that i'm like oh just chill be yourself yourself be yourself are you ready yeah love that mine is it's more of a beef oh it's a beefy ick it's the beef because i'm beef because i got on the tube yeah true i want the chip busy bustling oh commuting time i was stood in like the middle bit where they have the little rail that the hanging thing that you can hold on to yeah holding on i'm like bobbing away

packed busy i am not one of those girlies that have the balance that i cannot hold on to anything on the tube no because i will no i can't i can't i can't not with our bloody ankles as well no i'll be crowd surfing no no no it's ridiculous ridiculous like monkey bars monkey bars it's not happening monkey bars yeah because i had my coffee in one hand i didn't have my foot like my phone was in my pocket and i feel my phone buzz so when we stop at the next station i take out my pocket and i just check and i'm like okay turn my phone off put it back in look up some fucker had taken your joke he reached over me and then held on to the little hat like the hanging thing i thought so what am i gonna hold on to now just hold on to his waist i'll give him behind i'm like scuffing season yeah i'm like please i'm honestly so then i'm

like spending the rest of the journey like icking myself out oh my god subway surface it was subway surface oh no that's so embarrassing i literally didn't have a handle on it that's so embarrassing for you that is my ick the man and then myself yes it's really multifaceted really honestly i just can't right okay my ick as well yeah so it was a bit of a cheeky bitch but i was on the train the other day on the tube and um i'm not being funny i have my big bloody knee high black boots on i like five inches high probably not like one inch but i've got weak ankles so i was like oh finally got to the station i was like panting anyway i see one available spot check around if there's anyone vulnerable that

needs a seat more nah fair game all about my age boom i was like running for this seat anyway gets the seat there's probably a girl about an inch away from me he was going to take the seat as well i sit my bachikis down it's cut through i'm like these bachikis got here first my love yeah when i tell you she death stares me the whole journey. I was on that train for about 30 minutes as well. Absolute lie, I was about 10. She was death staring me the whole time. And then I icked myself out

because then I tried to like make a friend. So I was smiling like. And I was like, oh God, I was scared for my life. Horrendous. I think I've spoken about it before it is the tube olympics it is tube olympics you have to dive on instinct you've got to be selfish as well you've got to be selfish 100 but you've also got to be selfless and help the people if you're sitting in a priority seat guys all right like yes katie's speaking i always feel

like a terrible human being when i'm not in a priority seat, but someone will offer up their seat to someone. And I'm like, Oh, I was just about, I was like, yeah, no, no,

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no, no, no, no, no, no, no This is silly. Okay. So, Katie, you're going first, my love. I'm serious. Mine is, it's so funny. And I'm actually a bit fuming because we're on the same wavelength. Because you've already kind of spoken about this.

I'm so sorry. What is your biggest non-sexual turn on? Right. I've got a few. Oh. First. Yeah. So, well, definitely in there's got to be cologne.

Oh, my God god if you're smelling oh my god just take me now treat me like a renaissance woman i'm like oh honestly you throw me on a bed yeah love a cologne i'm like oh god it winds me up oh this is really this is really cringe but being respectful to my family if they're really good with my family and friends i'm so turned on if they're literally like i remember at my 21st my aunt or great aunt but she likes to be fried as armed and archie got went inside my house to go get her and brought her out and had his arm around her like helping her through oh my god i'm like you're such a gentleman i'm just like it's so it's such a gent when my when arch when we were in copenhagen recently how arch looks after my mom

like are you all right i mean like you coming i'm just like oh god i love it yes i love it so i think like respect manners that chivalry is a huge tic-tac for me and cologne chivalry and cologne any day romance romance romance how about you i would have to say scent like cologne oh my god yeah so when you just walk and yeah oh my god waft i also oh actually i've got another one i'm so sorry man in a suit man in a suit man in a suit archie came here the other day in a suit and i was just oh my god it's niagara falls no no seriously though it's genuine it's genuine turmoil in a turmoil it's in a turmoil okay anytime a man in my vicinity is wearing a suit it's horrendous it's good time i'm like it's too much it's too much it does a lot and it's nice okay we're gonna go on to my silly yeah we also asked the debrief this as well oh my god amazing

so so we'll see how your answer compares to them okay for the rest of your life yeah you can only have one type of sex you can only give and you can only receive yes one type of sex okay which one are you picking oral or penetrative you can only pick like so so if you pick penetrative? You can only pick light. So if you pick penetrative, you can never go down on you ever, ever, ever, ever, ever. And say if you do oral, you can never, ever, ever, ever, ever let the matchstick go in the hula hoop. What?

What are you on today? Matchstick go in the hula hoop, never. What would you pick? that's not a question that's a hard hard question it is i would have to say i'm gonna really balls it up it's actually quite hard to say it is hard question um because girls get pleasure to do different things two people i know one girl said to me i can only have an orgasm through penetrative and another girl said to me i can only have an orgasm through penetrative and another girl said to me i can only have an orgasm through oral so i feel like i feel like i would have to say i actually don't think i can say penetrative it's hard isn't it penetrative i would have to say that well the debriefs agreeing with you gal yeah 58 58 agree with you and 42 say

oral because you can do other bits yeah yeah yeah true but i i'd be sad to see her go yeah i'd be sad to see that'd be really sad and i'm gonna have to agree with you my girl okay my loves that's it oh my god oh my god i hope you have loved the studio because we have we've absolutely loved it and hope you have a cracking Monday the best one yet yeah and let cuffing season

just sit there with you alright reflect on it a bit reflect and don't get with your male best friend girls come on don't do it

no just do what the other girls do don't do it but go back to every single act just yeah go back to your roster yeah review the roster yeah okay completely old and new faces review it yeah Just do what the other girls did. Don't do it, but... Go back to every single ad. Just, yeah. Go back to your roster. Yeah.

Review the roster, okay? Completely. Old and new faces, review it. Yeah. Alright? I love you guys. Have a great Monday. Have a great Monday.

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