The Debrief - Trends: Triumphs and Tragedies

Episode Date: October 8, 2024

Welcome back to The Debrief! This week we are discussing all things TRENDY what works, what doesn’t and what we think will be the next big thing. As always email any debriefs and dilemmas to hello@t...hedebriefpodcast.co.uk or DM us @the.debriefpodcast Have an amazing week! Lots of love,K+K x Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 hello guys hi hi do asmr hey guys hi guys hey woman in the studio in the studio actually we're not that's a bare face lie we're in we're in what will be what we are it will be the ultimate debrief now i was thinking we recently had a housewarming party did not we did oh my god it was amazing and we bought this sign called putney pricks yeah because our group chat is called Putney Pricks and we thought it'd be iconic. Absolutely. Now, if we get a debrief sign, do we do TDP, the debrief podcast?
Starting point is 00:00:53 Ooh. Or do we do Let's Debrief? Let's Debrief. For sure. I think that's really cute. Let's Debrief is really cute. Let's Debrief. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:01:00 I love that. Love it. That'd be fantastic. It's amazing. Yeah. Pink. Amazing. Actually, talking of that whistling thing, there was a man on the tube today I love that love it that'd be fantastic it's amazing yeah pink amazing actually talking of that whistling thing
Starting point is 00:01:07 there was a man on the tube today that I was overhearing his conversation to his wife and he whistled during his conversation about six times he had a whistle he was like if we just go to the shops and we get food and no it annoyed Katie
Starting point is 00:01:19 I thought if Archie did that and he had his teeth out off he fucking pops like guinea pigs have those little whistles I was a guinea pig oh my god you were oh my goodness guys I had to take care of young
Starting point is 00:01:36 Kitty McNeil here well we all over indulged at the weekend had far too many drinks and I woke up and I couldn't remember how I got home. It was so funny. I have a very... Actually, I've got it right here.
Starting point is 00:01:49 I've got a very special straw for phonation when I warm up. Oh, phonation. It's got a large diameter, so you can really get your larynx nice and steady. They're very good, but it was good to feed you with. Yes. I was like... As your water had to stretch little guinea pig because it was it was like it was it was too good i love it it was too good
Starting point is 00:02:14 right shall we tell me what your mantra is this week my mantra this week is i'm sorry, I just couldn't yawn for a second. You yawn, girl. Okay. My mantra this week is, it's okay, you're okay. Oh, I love that. Yeah, yeah. It's okay, you're okay. You're okay. Let's say it. It's okay, you're okay.
Starting point is 00:02:39 Love it. Still love it. Why did you need that this week, Finch? I feel like I've been getting myself really stressed. I literally like my workload has reduced massively guys i am like coming out of uni and i'm like into the big wide world gotta be creator of my own destiny here yeah but weirdly the littlest thing i've got to do i'm like i get so stressed and i'm literally like why am i being so stressed this is literally fine it's literally fine. It's okay. Katie, God gives his hardest battles to the strongest warriors.
Starting point is 00:03:09 Absolutely. And that's me. Warrior Peach. I'm a guardian, actually. Yeah. Guardian of the galaxy. That's what you've got to think, Peach. And I like that you've done it this week.
Starting point is 00:03:18 But since going from full-time MA, it's pretty intense. But I don't think you should pressurise yourself for your day to be as intense as it was when you were doing a full-time ma yes pretty intense but i don't think you should pressurize yourself for your day to be as intense as it was when you were doing a full-time ma because when you're doing a full-time ma that is like busier than most it was busy busy maybe not chris jenna busy but busy never chris jenny chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris chris one before and it could be likely that i have fuck it i'm not being funny katie people in the world are living around here yeah as if they don't realize they're living in my world my time i'm thinking you actually think you're the main character my time correct it's me my kitty minute it's my time and not only my time but my time to win yeah my time to succeed yeah and my time to seize the day oh it is time to seize the day
Starting point is 00:04:28 would you like to know my song as well i would love to know your song my song this week is guess featuring b eilish guess the color of my underwear I love it. So good. Actually, I can play it. Oh, my God. I can play it for you. Actually, I would say Katie's rendition of that right there was actually very, very accurate.
Starting point is 00:04:55 You're going to love this, guys. I love it so much. It's in my gym playlist. I'm always... It's very sexy. Very sexy. I love it. It's so good.
Starting point is 00:05:14 And the best thing is, it's one of the boys we live with. It's like his favourite song. Yeah. Loves it. I'm like, of course, got to get on the Charli XCX. She is amazing.
Starting point is 00:05:23 Absolutely. Tell me what your song first week my song is you can't hurry love oh you just have to wait don't call me it's a game for giving i love that especially with the olivia dean cover she did it at new year's eve with jules holland last year. And it's been a sound on TikTok and I've been listening to the cover of it and I'm obsessed with it.
Starting point is 00:05:48 And it feels like winter. Every time I'm listening to it, it feels crisp and like wintry. Katie, would you like to say what we've done already? We have watched Gilmore Girls. Oh, wait, is it not? Is it not Gilmore Girls? because i feel like we're getting
Starting point is 00:06:08 we're not on the same wave like that i was gonna say harry potter because winter started but katie damn straight we're on the gilmore girls five guys season two and we probably started last week. It's been so good. I think we just need to get through Gilmore Girls in the autumn. And then it's autumn. Autumn. And then we can do Gossip Girl.
Starting point is 00:06:35 XOXO, bitches. XOXO. Do you know what I'd love to watch with you? Tell me. Christmas Liars. Oh my God, from the beginning. It's aged. Oh, that's such a good shout.
Starting point is 00:06:48 That's a fucking banger. That is such a good one. So good. Yeah. Yeah, okay, you ready for our record? Record, record, recommendation. Okay, so guys, for housewarming this week. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:07:03 I have to admit, I slayed. Oh, you did. I had a puffy leopard print top oh yeah and some shiny red pointed what did you call them rumpus still skin which was less what i was going for but i got what you meant i know shoes i love them and guess where they're from kate where are they from? Amazon. Oh, you've been getting some great stuff off Amazon recently. I'm telling you. So I'm on TikTok recently and I followed this girl who like is so fucking trendy. She's got like the bestest clothes, the nicest clothes.
Starting point is 00:07:36 Yeah. Half of them are from Amazon. And I'm like, I need the shit. So I would say get yourself to Amazon because it's so... Or also if you like type in fashion trends on amazon yeah so many great stuff come out yeah yeah there are so many and you can get everything off amazon you can honestly why go out when in covid everyone was on there amazon they were fucking on there i think if i was to own something i'd want to own amazon because it
Starting point is 00:07:59 like jeff it is actually quite iconic yeah to like own Amazon have everything. And they get pretty involved in other things. Like, they own shares of, like, film companies and stuff. Really? Yeah, Amazon are... Can you buy a phone off Amazon? Probably. Really? Yeah, probably.
Starting point is 00:08:15 Probably. If you think it, Amazon's got it. You know it. Right, shall we, Paige? Let's debrief. So tell me, Katie, this week, tell me what we're doing this week on the debrief yeah we are discussing all things trends what it means to be trendy couldn't say i would say you're quite trendy what you i i'm actually really, really flattered. I wouldn't say I'm that trendy. I think I... No, guys, speaking of trends.
Starting point is 00:08:52 So everyone's been doing the heatless curlers, right? Everyone's doing them. Yeah. And do you know what people just wrap up? They're amazing. Unload them. Beautiful, big, bouncy curls. So I'm like, I need to slice this.
Starting point is 00:09:07 I need to get in on this. Got myself your old heatless curlers. I thought, brilliant. Even to peach. Wrap it up. I looked like my milkmaid self. Went to bed, woke up this morning, sleep in beauty. Undid them.
Starting point is 00:09:20 Tell me why, guys. They only curled from my ear downwards like a poodle so straight and then the bottom was just bunched up i look like a fucking snoopy character i wonder whether you i've got to see what you did i'm telling you was your hair it was damp i've never done it with damp hair you ain't done it with dry hair i've only done it with trying that's even crazier to me but also me and my dyspraxia i couldn't figure out how to curl it i was sat there for ages i got confused i was so confused if we do another one i'll i'll help you thank you sorry you were back to telling me what we were doing this but we're talking about all things trends so as we're going into autumn yes i think this is the perfect time to discuss the trends we've seen this year
Starting point is 00:10:07 and predict what we think will be wintry trends yeah love that love that i feel like trends this year have actually been quite unpredictable yeah i feel like there's the ballet pumps coming back i thought they would never make an appearance the ballet pumps i'm not a fan i wasn't i didn't expect them what do you think about the shoes like the pointed shoes but big straps like what do you think about them yeah i don't mind i like i love a little pointed shoe a rumple stilt skin shoe yeah but my question to you is i'd love to know have you ever been victim to a trend now i was thinking of this like we think of the i 100p okay yeah okay um private yes so i think you know how quite at the moment and i think this was going to go into the winter the thing you said earlier with what winter trends yeah pop of color
Starting point is 00:11:02 of red i've really fallen for oh it's nice isn't it red yeah pop of red or pop shoes i'd love to get a red bag i've fallen definitely for that one yeah i feel like i slap on a boring outfit that's like all black and then if i've just got red lippy red nails red shoes i'm like to go boom i'm also really ashamed to say i did full trend to the crocs i'm no i'm a big i'm a big fan i actually don't own trend to the Crocs. I'm not a big, I'm a big fan. I actually don't own a pair of Crocs, which needs to change pretty soon. Because do you know what? I'm shocked.
Starting point is 00:11:31 I'm such a Croc. Like you would think I would own Crocs with the little gibbets in. Like you would think that. I feel like that's the vibe I give off. Is that what they call gibbets? Gibbets, yeah. Oh, I love that you know that they're called that. Yeah. Do you know what other Crocs you give is the fluffy ones i used to have a pair
Starting point is 00:11:49 of those fuck they were my because my school used to make us wear indoor shoes so we all had to wear slippers when we were inside and you do fluff and i had these like purple fluffy crocs yeah with hannah montana jibbit i can imagine you fluffy crocs and me the crocs with the heel. Yeah, little pink ones. Oh, with the little fat form. Honestly. Unfortunately, I was accustomed to, I was a victim of the croc trend. And don't get me wrong, I've still got my crocs. And they are hideous because they're yellow.
Starting point is 00:12:19 But they're so happy. Yellow is the color of happiness. That's why I love yellow. So I whack them on and go to Sainsbury's to get myself a sweet treat and i'm like voila they're the perfect sweet treat shoe perfect sweet treat because because you can also have your heel tucked in by its little strap or if you'd like them to like be free speed mode you can take the speed mode yeah you know it i've definitely actually go on tell me tell me i've definitely... Go on, tell me, tell me, tell me. I've definitely taken Archie's Crocs for a spin before to the shops and back.
Starting point is 00:12:49 Well, you couldn't take mine. No. The crocs wouldn't get in them. One thing, guys, that I think is the saddest thing on earth is that Kitty and I do not have the same size feet. Right. I have monster feet. I would wear your Uggs.
Starting point is 00:13:02 I would wear your black boots. I would also wear your uggs i would wear your black boots i would also wear your ugg slippers i've tried to wear your ugg slippers quite a few times but your feet are just so big that no they are monstrosities but they are monsters you know when you wear your mum's shoes and your toes are curled on the end because you're trying to hold on yeah i can't do this my feet are so weird that i almost need a prescription shoes did I ever tell you that? No. They're very narrow and flat. Nothing. So I almost need
Starting point is 00:13:30 prescription shoes. And don't you roll outwards? Yeah, I do. I swear, everyone rolls in in case she's like against the grain. My ankles are fucking like, please, stay.
Starting point is 00:13:41 I love it. And how about you? Have you been on any trends that you're like, oh God. Definitely. But a trend that I will still defend till the day I die, which I've not gone and no one, no one in my nearby vicinity likes them. Jorts guys.
Starting point is 00:13:55 I hate them. Jorts. I hate them so much. I love my jorts. I hate them. And I really, do you know what? I've got a huge amount of respect for you with the amount of shit you get from my friends.
Starting point is 00:14:04 And I still wear them guys. And you still wear them. so i am really proud of you i love jorts i think they are the perfect thing because and i'll tell you why in the summertime my thighs get really sweat like i'm like really like sweaty sweats right but if i went to a Lortz... No chafe. Cap me... No chafe. No chafe. Capped off of the knees. I just put them in. Sexy, cute little bandana top. Oh, God.
Starting point is 00:14:32 Effortlessly stylish. I see how it could be quite, like, cool. People still help them well. Like, I see, like, the Gigi Hadid. I see, like, I see them and I'm like, okay. But personally, for me, if I passed someone to Lortz and just walked on the street,. I see like, I see them and I'm like, okay. But personally for me, if I put on a jort and just walked on the street,
Starting point is 00:14:49 I'd be like, with the jorts. I'm also quite small. See, this is what my sister said because she said she's tried on jorts. Yeah. Because she's dinky.
Starting point is 00:14:57 Yeah. She's like, I just don't know if it works because my legs are already teeny. Yeah. See, I'm quite small so I'm therefore like,
Starting point is 00:15:04 it's going to take up most of my body. These bloody jewels. The jewels. I tell you of an awful trend I remember. Oh, yeah. Fashion trend. Do you remember those chokers? I really wanted a choker.
Starting point is 00:15:15 My sister had one. My sister was on such the choker trend. Oh, I love it. And I remember being like, I remember criticising it because I was slightly jealous of the choker. Oh, yeah. And then it went out of trend.
Starting point is 00:15:24 I was like, I never liked it, even though I was like, I never got around to getting one. There were the two, because do you remember the skater skirts? Oh, I was never a fan of a skater. Oh, I had a denim skater skirt from Fox. Fuck off. Fuck off. Or do you remember the moustache trend?
Starting point is 00:15:40 Oh, I'm going to embarrass myself. There was like an obsession, and i blame zoella for this of mustache jewelry like but oh yeah i had like mustache earrings why was that zoella because she's oh well she loved them mustaches like mustache like themed stuff and she'd be like oh my god cute little mustache like necklace everyone used to get everyone in my school had like these mustache necklaces and then they'd like and then you'd wear them and be like hey that was me what fantastic i loved it i tell you i tell you what a trend what trend i see when so i was looking back at like 90s trends yeah and i was looking all the way back i tell you what i can vouch like
Starting point is 00:16:26 on my life that i can say i hate yeah thin eyebrows and when i say thin eyebrows i mean the line like i was seeing some like sitcoms and i was like they've got no brows yeah that's coming from me but it's weird though because we've gone kind of the other way into like the laminated brows i would say i'm not a fan i hate the laminated brows i hate them i don't know why because i feel like it's something like the soapy brows yeah i feel like it'd be something that's right up my alley but actually my eyebrows are quite unruly are yours quite thick yeah oh they are they're really thick they are and i used to go through a phase where I'd get, like, my brows tinted and waxed and stuff. Really?
Starting point is 00:17:05 And I was, like, on a brow upkeep phase. Yeah. But recently, I feel like if they're brushed up, it's quite scary. I remember that girl who we went to Mountview with did the soapy brows, and I was just like, she also had dandruff in her eyebrows.
Starting point is 00:17:20 In her eyebrows? Yeah. Maybe it was, no, maybe it was the soap. Oh! Because if it dries it can be crusty oh yeah i've had that like i've tried the soap brows before but the gel dried really weirdly and it crystallized so it might have been that crusty dusty crusty dusty eyebrows been there been there done that so we asked the debrief we did what trends they loved this year yeah a series of polls
Starting point is 00:17:46 oh love a cheeky poll i love a poll love a poll and this is what they had to say so the first thing yeah is bows bows a bit of big trend i love a bow but i've got my christmas bows they're those big christmas chair ones I have for my Christmas soiree time yeah I love bows I love them I love like the little
Starting point is 00:18:10 bows and shoes I love the bow cardigan did you get that cherry cardigan no I didn't did you see though what I went back into
Starting point is 00:18:18 that store they have the same one but with bows on it knitted bows it's really cute Kitty you need to get that jumper I really need to get it for you I know it's really cute so you need to get that jumper i need to get it
Starting point is 00:18:26 for you i know it's cute and love bows do you like them i do i just don't think i suit them yeah fair like i think if i put a bow in my hair i'd be like i'd look like a little weird pulley bucket like in a on a dog when people put bows in the shih tzu yeah i think i'd look a bit peculiar yeah but there are some girls they just look so gorgeous like i love it your christmas bows are so cute christmas but like if i put a bow in i think people like what you do i'm gonna is it a i'm gonna based on our debrief listeners yeah i'm gonna say 80 i'm gonna go high i'm gonna say 80 said they love a bow yeah because i reckon our girlies are young on the trend yeah and i think 20 i'm gonna be like what the fuck am i correct i would say
Starting point is 00:19:12 67 said absolutely love these couldn't go a day without them they're so cute and 33 you'll never see me wearing anything with bows on this oh i Oh, I do feel like if you're... I feel like there's a very different... Like, if you're a Molly Mae vibe... Yes. ...you can wear a bow. Yeah. If you're like a Gigi Hadid...
Starting point is 00:19:33 Yes. ...you probably wouldn't wear a bow. It's interesting... Or Kendall Jenner. Because there was some really cute... I went into anthropology the other day. Did you see that? You know a friend that stayed over this weekend?
Starting point is 00:19:43 Yeah. Did you know that bodysuit she was wearing? It anthropology so nice i love anthropology so much it's so nice we just need a sugar daddy to honestly i already felt like a no honestly i i went in the other day and i already felt like i was treated like a criminal because i left some of the like the security tag on my eyelash like my mascara didn't get taken off so i walked into the store and started beeping and they were like what's in your bag and i was like i'm so sorry so then security were like staring me down oh i'm not stealing anything i just want to look at the pretty little things i look at the homework wait which one did you go to it was when i was in Edinburgh. Oh, I'm so jealous.
Starting point is 00:20:25 And there was this gorgeous skirt, like black satin skirt, with like white little bows all over them. And it was so cute. Oh, I love this. I need that. It was super cute. I love Anthropologie. So good.
Starting point is 00:20:36 Next one, which you'll love, leopard print. Oh, I love leopard print. So, leopard, yes, leopard print everything, or no, they can stay where they left it in the 2000s. Oh, controversial. But I can kind of get it. For example, I wore this poofy leopard print top on the weekend. And people will be divided, either love it or hate it.
Starting point is 00:21:03 Like I was like, God, I love this outfit. Other people could be like, oh, my God, you look like a mafia, like a part of the mafia, like wife club. And I was like, yeah, fair. But I'm going to say 90-10. It was, in fact, 50-15. No! No.
Starting point is 00:21:22 50-15. I'm always on the same page. I like leopard print. I'm always on the same page. I like leopard print. I'm not sure if leopard print likes me. It's your complexion. Do you know why? It's your hair.
Starting point is 00:21:31 Do you think? Your hair's too similar to that, like, dappled leopard print. Because I kind of want some, like, leopard print. I think jeans. Do you get the jaded ones because they're faded? Yes. Yeah. Not as, like, in your face because I think with this, I'm just too pale.
Starting point is 00:21:43 Tell you what would look great. Those leopard print jeans from Jaded. And that Abando red top you've got. Sexy. That would be cute. Sexy with that black leather jacket and black boots. That would be cute. I love leopard print.
Starting point is 00:21:56 I love that. Yeah. I think it's really nice. How about leopard print on the man? No. No, I don't. No. Personally, if Archie wore that that i think he looked like borat
Starting point is 00:22:05 what's it tell me tell me the next one is run clubs oh these have been on the rise i love a run club horrendous we need to go back to that run club that we did that was so much fun that was so good yeah these girls run we need to do that again um run club now i'm gonna think of my friendship group for a second yeah my friendship groups divided into people who love running yeah and people who hate it yes so therefore i'm gonna do 40 lovers 60 haters 40% lover, 60% hater. Fair. Okay, so 25% said, yes, I'm so glad I can run a week with my besties. And 75% know that is my idea of literal health. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:22:52 Yes. I'm always so on the fence because the problem is, tell me what the problem is. Dear listeners, is that Kissy McNeil's a speedy speederson. I'm doing my other half marathon, everyone. Katie, you're doing it with me yeah i'm gonna get you on that track we can catch it the whole way yeah well it was like we went on that run club and
Starting point is 00:23:13 you're like do you want to talk and i was like okay okay honestly i didn't know if you hated me for like 10 minutes oh my god hilarious and then i was like do you want to no it's just prolonged state of exercise i honestly like i just practice it affects you running not really i think i'd be pulling at straws if i was like and and i can't run could you believe that goodness it's like i saw i saw someone on tiktok had this fracture and they had to run with their same like when they moved their legs they did that arm and i was like oh my god that's so weird there's it's honestly i was like that must be so confusing for you i feel like there's yeah that would be pulling it i'm like no actually she gets it couldn't do it um but i think i would find it hard to go in a run
Starting point is 00:24:07 club with you guys because you're all so quick well jack and arch are very quick they're so quick when we went from running copenhagen oh yeah god we only did like a 7k i don't think we even did a 10 because it was so slippy yeah so we did a 7k and for about 3k genuinely yeah no maybe 4k i was like staying with them yeah and they were jogging and i was just like oh yeah i thought they were doing like a nice run yeah and don't get me wrong it was like quite fast on my end but i was like oh my god okay i can keep up with this and then on friend was like should we pick up the pace now like try go into a run and i was like i was like i have been running so then they went full pelt i was like oh my god i was just like bye guys honestly i was like mo farah and i'd be scared to run with
Starting point is 00:24:58 the boys because i feel like they mock my pace but you could run with me exactly exactly i'll be like come on pete because if i went for a run with the boys and you were away they'd be like they'd push you into the river they'd lead me to the swans now are we ready for debrief dilemma i'm i'm ready for a debrief dilemma and i'm gonna read you one read it to me ready okay so hey kitty and katie hey loving the pod and always save your episodes for my drive to work you both keep me laughing all the way there well i'm sure we do i love it sure we do i never doubt have're chuckling now so basically this is a great one i read this
Starting point is 00:25:46 my dd dd my debrief dilemma is that i absolutely hate my boyfriend's fashion sense ah that's tough i love everything about him girls just to be clear he's kind caring genuine ambitious attractive funny but has the worst fashion sense in the world interesting i'm talking skinny jeans super dry top and yeezys she wrote yuck yeah i've never been a fan of the yeezys i hated the yeezys i think they're really weird looking shoes and that's all the whole like fashion money thing because it's like, if someone saw those in
Starting point is 00:26:29 not a high like brand, they are the most disgusting things I've ever seen. Yes. Yeah. But just because it's like Kanye West brand, everyone's like, God, they're amazing. Oh, they're great. Yeah, I'm like, man. Have you seen the trend of the shoes that go into two, like a camel's toe? Oh my God, yes, I have. And I think they are wild. They are awful. The trotters. The trotters. They're wild. have you seen the trend of the shoes that go into two like a camel's toe oh my god yes i have and i
Starting point is 00:26:45 think they are wild they are awful the trotters the trotters they're wild people like sexy people are wearing them i saw um someone i know posted on their story wearing them and they're like someone you know now yeah who who fuck off and i was like the fuck i hate them she was like got the trotters out i'm like no i really hate them i can't get on i saw like a famous sexy person wearing them and i was like what are you doing anyway back to the story yeezy's yuck i love this i'm a molly may believer of fashion love that slick neutrals very classy yeah so true classic oh my Yes, just before we go any further. You know how like the last winter was very neutrals?
Starting point is 00:27:29 Yeah. I'm going to say bold colours. Like blues, greens. Like a really dark pop of blue. Yeah, I like that. Like a real electric blue. Love that. Big pops of green.
Starting point is 00:27:40 Yes. I don't think we're going to have neutrals this winter. Yeah, colourful. Watch this. Pioneer. Pioneer. Pioneer. yes i don't think we're gonna have neutrals this winter yeah colorful watch this okay i've tried to suggest we go on a shopping day but he says he likes his clothes i found myself cringing going out with him as i really don't like his outfit oh what does what do i do is this really bad with me should I love him and just ignore it? But I honestly don't think I can, girls.
Starting point is 00:28:06 It's given me the ick. I've been with him for three months and it's early doors, but I can't keep with this awful fashion sense. Harsh but true. Sorry. I feel like it's one of those things where, have you seen that trend on TikTok actually, where people are like, we want guys,
Starting point is 00:28:23 and they turn their boyfriends into a Zara boyfriend? I love that. I think give it more time and start kind of implementing and nurturing. Do you think? Yeah. Well, I'm like, also... So you don't think she can be upfront and be like,
Starting point is 00:28:37 what the fuck are you wearing? I say try and be like, take him shopping. But she said he goes, I like my clothes. Really? I'd persist. Really? Do you know that's been, there's actually not, that's never been a concern in my relationship,
Starting point is 00:28:56 which thank God. That's nice. Because in my ex-relationships, it has. Really? Like, what the fuck are you wearing? Yikes. I was like, you're like, today. I'm nervous that my boyfriend might have that
Starting point is 00:29:05 what your fashion sense yeah sometimes i feel like do you guys anyone else like bought their clothes yeah so but i actually we had we need to go on a shopping trip we do i was sat like at my fucking thingy looking at my stuff yeah i've got nothing nothing to wear yeah we need to go on a girl's shopping trip. And boom. We're actually doing a flat trip, aren't we? We're thinking still of where we're going to go. Yeah, I want to go. Why did we say we were going to go?
Starting point is 00:29:31 We were saying Croatia. Croatia, yeah. Well, I was saying, actually, that I wanted to do a wintery trip to the markets and then Archie mentioned that you guys might be going on a romantic getaway to go to the Christmas market. So it's like, oh, we're going to have a lovely time. But no, I am actually quite looking forward to going to Amsterdam
Starting point is 00:29:50 because you'll be lovely. Never been before or so. I've never been. I've never been. You can have a little edible. I can have an edible. Can't count. Yeah, have a smoke, though.
Starting point is 00:29:59 I don't like that. It's a step too far. I can't do that. But I would have an edible. Indulging too far but an edible yes yeah um back to this girl i think personally if you actually love him tell him yeah and if he actually loves you he'll take he'll take it now look you you shouldn't do it the way i would do it and i'd be like fucking worry yeah but just be, do you know what, Bill?
Starting point is 00:30:25 I think we should go on a shopping trip. You and me. Yeah. And I could pick something out for you that would be really fun. Yeah. And you could put something out for me. Now, he could pick something out for you that's disgusting. By all means, play the game.
Starting point is 00:30:37 Try it on. Say it doesn't fit. Yeah. Play the boobs card. Yeah. I couldn't get my boobs in it. Or, oh, it just didn't really fit properly. But what did yours look like? Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah blah yeah you should get it gaslight all the way you should get it
Starting point is 00:30:48 yeah see yeah and then you win then you win a life then you've got a funny sexy attractive loving boyfriend who's got great fashion sense and it's all down to you you can't actually if he's gonna be like the man of your dreams you can't ignore this no you can't if you if you really think this is it then i would say like work at it chisel away like michelangelo did at the sculpture what would you do if your boyfriend like we all loved him yeah like all your friends are like he is absolutely sensational like we love this boy god he's got bites of us themselves would you say something i would find it something something i would be like i'd love, I think the telling thing is here, you can always judge a man's dress sense.
Starting point is 00:31:30 How well he dresses in a suit, I think. Oh, why? If you can scrub up nicely to an event, you've got it in you. You've got good fashion sense. But there are some people, you see guys scrub up and I'm like, don't look like you scrubbed. Like we've gone to like black talent events before and some people look like a right, people, you see guys scrub up and I'm like, don't look like you scrub. Like we've gone to like black tie events before and some people look like a right, like, you know, like fucking shirt collar out. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:31:52 A bit scruffy buff. A bit scruff, scruffs. Yeah, yeah, you go. So I'm like, if you didn't like his fashion sense, I'd be like, whip your suit on. Let's see what you look like in a suit. And if you can look smart there, I said, well, then good. You can look smart in real life. You can look smart elsewhere. Yes. If you look smart in a suit and if you can look smart there i said well then good you can look smart in real life you can look smart elsewhere yes if you look smarter
Starting point is 00:32:07 in a suit you can look smart in any other aspect i think yeah absolutely appreciate it exactly right tell me yours mine is hi hi galleys hope you can help with this one i've just started sixth form at college and i'm really enjoying it oh best time of my life actually that's a lot but enjoyed my a-levels i've seemed to settle in and made a really solid group of friends which i'm super grateful for however more recently they keep making fun of the way i dress oh i enjoy wearing what's comfy to me and i don't really pay attention to current fashion trends however it's made me feel quite insecure i tried to politely tell them to stop and they seem to feel bad enough about making me upset however last night i checked my snapchat and saw that they all got together to
Starting point is 00:32:54 go out for dinner last night and i wasn't invited i'm worried now that i've stood my ground they don't want to be friends with me anymore i'm just not sure whether to bring it up again or just give them a bit of distance please help oh that's tough but then that also reminded me of do you remember when i went on a date and he was like what's your fashion sense and i said so gal i'm all about being comfy katie loves the comfy life i'm literally like you can't handle me at my lounge where you can never handle me but I think there's nothing wrong with being comfortable and also if that if I understand I think everyone thinks that's what's the most important at their time at that time of life which I completely get because I was the same however you are so much more than like what you were yeah and I think
Starting point is 00:33:42 it's hard when your friends are kind of wrapped up in what they're they're wearing and what's cool and what's not that they kind of take it out on you yeah i would say give them a bit of distance i would say like a true friend doesn't really care a true friend wouldn't disinvite you to a social engagement because they didn't like that you were wearing a fluffy jacket yeah like a true friend would be like you fucking legend yeah so i think personally at this really like tough time in life don't don't change yourself to fit in yeah try see what else is out there i'm not telling you to completely drop your friends but to just be like don't try to not let this thing bother you
Starting point is 00:34:24 or make you change yourself come back into school i'm not sure if you wear your own clothes or whatever yeah come back when you're all together in your normal stuff don't let them don't let them take away your own personality and just be like hi girls and don't act not bothered yeah and who knows you might create a whole new different friendship group who do like wearing confused shit yeah exactly so i think you need to give them a bit of distance and explore friendships elsewhere because real friends wouldn't take the piss yeah exactly i wouldn't be like what the fuck are you wearing no imagine imagine i'd be like chug on love i'd cry i cry i cry I cry. I cry. Yeah. Should we go to eggs?
Starting point is 00:35:08 Eggs! Okay, so I have got, I can remember one, but I don't know if I've got a second one. Oh, I've got one. Oh! I've got three. I've got three. Oh, my God, well, let me ping pong you.
Starting point is 00:35:19 Okay. First one, tooth gems. Who the fuck do you think you are putting a tooth gem on? I don't that katie i hate it with a passion because i understand like grills when people get like grills they're not my taste but i get why people get them because it's like mouth jewelry like it's actual diamonds in their teeth i didn't know that like they're fucking expensive really grills yeah so i feel like when people get like grills in their teeth because it's like mr money bags i respect it yeah well done respect the grind it actually makes me cringe as well because i know this sounds really cringy but like because we all do this but i'm like you have to get a gem and put it on your tooth and then you're like but there are places that like do them so you have'm like, you have to get a gem and put it on your tooth. And then you're like...
Starting point is 00:36:05 But there are places that do them, because you have to get your tooth quite dry. Oh, see, that mings me out. I don't know. Yeah, it mings me out. You ready? Mine is when people make a big song in a dance about the fact they're not following a specific trend.
Starting point is 00:36:21 Oh, for a reason. When they're a bit pick-me-about-it. Oh, I just couldn't do that. I just couldn't do that. I just like to wear what I want to wear following a specific trend oh for a reason when they're a bit pick me about it when i just i just couldn't do that i just like to like wear what i want to wear and like just kind of stick to i've got i know there's someone in my life who does exactly that like every single time i see them they're wearing something but not to be a bitch but i would never wear right and i'm like like and i try not to compliment because it sounds very disingenuine. Right.
Starting point is 00:36:48 And she's just like, yeah, I'm just really different to kind of the trends. And I'm just like... Yes, that's it. It's not the fact that she's wearing something different. It's the fact she's making a point of the fact that she's like, hmm. I just don't like to subscribe to, like, mainstream.
Starting point is 00:37:01 Yeah. I'm like, shut the front door. I'm like, let me have my Uggs. Yeah. Let me, let me go. And enjoy them them it's so always like oh yeah i like your args oh thank you i would never personally wear them because i don't really like to follow trends and you have really like that how did i ask you if you'd weather like yikes yeah my drag ready okay my next one is ripped jeans with gaping holes at the arse what is that about why like where the boutiques sit on your legs yeah there's like a rip well personally i'm just like
Starting point is 00:37:36 cut them into shorts cut what was a bit of like a sexy thing i know kat it's a bit of a statement i think it's vulgar i think it's press i think i'd rather see you in really small shorts yeah and have your bum out then yeah then why have a wasted pair of sweaty denim and then it's also cold freezing i always thought that i don't know i've ripped jeans that cut off at the knees, and I always found them quite chilly. The kneecaps. The kneecaps were always chilly. And my last one is bleached brows. Oh, you don't like those, do you? I'm afraid I really can't. I just think, I just think when you've got such lovely features, why would you take...
Starting point is 00:38:19 And it also makes your forehead look really big, because you've got, like, nothing here. Like, there was that model who did it and she's got beautiful brows and i was like why are you doing that it's always such a statement i always think it's something i would never do yeah i wouldn't it's one of those things that your standard joe blogs yeah wouldn't do it yeah supermodels do it and all of a sudden i'm like oh that's really dry right i did it my god lord help me just lord help yeah it'd be crazy it's like blue mascara i would love to wear blue mascara yeah but i don't know if i'd look like an absolute granny well someone i know
Starting point is 00:38:58 recently wore burgundy mascara and it looked lovely really looks really nice and i was like i feel like if i did that i would I would have had conjunctivitis again. Oh no, not again, guys. Not again. Not again. Not again. Actually, do you know what I needed to stop doing? What?
Starting point is 00:39:13 Is, at our housewarming, they were like, how was Edinburgh? I'm like, yeah, yeah, it was good. And they were like, how did you cut conjunctivitis? I'm like, yeah, it was really bad. And then I was like, do you want to see? Do you know you did, Anna? I was like, oh yeah, sure. I was sharing, do you want to see? Do you know you didn't? I was like, oh, yeah, sure. I was sharing with these people.
Starting point is 00:39:28 I'm like, I'm oversharing. The last thing you want to look at after my swarming is my infected eye so swollen shut. Oh, you're so good. I was like, oh, my God. I love the oversharing. Shall we go on to questions? Question.
Starting point is 00:39:46 Question. I'm silly. Oh. Oh, maybe I'm not. Oh, no, no, no. I am, I am, I am. Oh, you are. And you're serious.
Starting point is 00:39:58 Yeah, I'm serious. So hit me. Mine is, do you really think that friends matter in today's society? No, not at all. I do not think they matter in the slightest, in the sense of if my friends around me are wearing trends, if my friends around me are wearing trends or not wearing trends, it really does not affect me.
Starting point is 00:40:17 Yeah. However, I think, I just think trends are very good at making money quickly. Yeah. And also stripping back individuality. Yes. Because they're like, well, this is trendy. This is what you need to do. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:40:39 Before you know it, you buy this thing and it goes out of trend. Yeah, yeah. So I don't think they're very good in that aspect. However, I do think trends are good because they give you inspiration yes because a lot of trends i see and i'm like oh i really don't like that but i love that part of it yeah yeah yeah oh i don't love that outfit but i love that crop jacket that boxy look yes i think that you know i think they can be quite good as like a inspiration yes agree. Okay, Katie, would you rather have, like, really bad fashion sense, okay? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:41:09 So let's say you had your hair like you had it, like, a few hours ago in those colours. Oh, it was the barista, yeah. Yeah. You have, which clothes don't you like? I don't love, like, the law tracksuit. Okay, you've got a law tracksuit, okay? And you've got, like, a shirt velour tracksuits. Okay, you've got a velour tracksuit, okay? And you've got, like, a shirt with your tracksuits. Okay.
Starting point is 00:41:30 Okay? You've got awful fashion sense. It's awful. Yeah. And we all say it to you. We're like, Katie. Yeah. We're like, it's really bad.
Starting point is 00:41:37 But no matter how you try, how hard you try, it's just so bad. Right. Or your boyfriend has awful fashion sense you look fucking on point you come into the room before like bro katie looks sensational yeah we look at ben burned like could you casey needs so out then he looks a scruff he looks he's a lovely boy but he looks awful or god ben looks fair casey what are you doing oh that's tough and you find this tough i think i'd have to take boyfriend because i would like to take pride in my appearance oh i'd like to look good there's there's nothing worse and i've recently had this where like as i said i'm very bored of my wardrobe so
Starting point is 00:42:25 i'm really sad when i turn up to events and i feel like i'm just like i'm just not loving what i'm wearing right i hate that and i just feel like i'm like yeah and then i just don't feel you don't feel as i feel like when you feel like when you dress your best and you feel your best i'm like oh and you're really like taking pride in your appearance and you're like yeah i feel like i look great today completely that helps me whenever i feel like that 100 and you're really, like, taking pride in your appearance, and you're like, yeah, I feel like I look great today. Completely. That helps me whenever I feel like that. 100%. And do you know what was funny?
Starting point is 00:42:48 Like, on Friday, I planned my outfit because I knew I'd really like it. I was excited to put it on that evening. I was like, I can't wait to put it on. And there's no better feeling rather than going, I hate my clothes. So I completely get you. I get you. Let the scruff go to it, and you can slay. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:43:04 Right, guys, we've got to end the episode. We did it. We did it. We got it. Girl can say that sentence, but we got here. We got here in the end. We got here in the end. Hell yeah.
Starting point is 00:43:12 And guys, it's another great week. I know. We're all going to have the best week. I'm honestly manifesting it now. Enjoy your October. It's spooky season. Spooky season. I wonder what everyone's going dressed as.
Starting point is 00:43:24 Oh, we will. We should do a poll on that and see what... But don't tell anyone, Katie. No, I'm so excited. spooky season spooky season I wonder what everyone's going dressed as oh we should do a poll on that and see what but don't tell anyone Katie no I'm so excited Katie and I have got the most
Starting point is 00:43:30 sensational outfits it's gonna be amazing we're gonna be amazing it's gonna be so good right guys love you love you all have a great week
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