The Debrief - Year Of The Hot Girl Summer

Episode Date: May 27, 2024

Welcome back to The Debrief! This week we are delving into the phenomenon of “HOT GIRL SUMMER”We hear all your highlights and horrors of hot girl summers gone by & delve into your debrief dilemmas along the way! As always email us: [e-mail] or DM us @the.debriefpodcast for any dilemmas and questions! Have a fabulous week! Lots of love,K+K xx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

welcome to the day rave hiya how you feeling oh i'm feeling delightful how are you feeling this gorgeous morning i'm feeling really good i'm feeling really good. I'm feeling really good. I've had a nice day. Yeah. I've had a really nice day and I'm like exciting week. Lots of things happening. Yes. Yeah.

So I'm like I've got a lovely week planned so I'm very very happy. Gorgeous. But I do feel like the weather needs to pick up a bit because now it's shitting it down. Oh it's taking the piss now

isn't it? It was hot. It was hot for a sec. It was hot for a sec. And then Katie was burnt guys. I burnt. Of. I burnt. Of course I burnt.

So Katie went home with me for the weekend. We had a fabulous... Oh, quick shout out. Dad, happy birthday. Well done. That was lovely. I know it's gone. It's been and gone, but love ya.

Oh, we had a great time. But we all sat outside and I'm like, no need for sun cream. Boom. I turned to Peach. Oh my God. Red. Yeah. Red. Yeah. to peach. Oh, my God. Red. Yeah.

Red. Yeah. No. Pink. That's worse. It's more humbling, actually. Not red. Pink.

It's when you press the skin. Oh, come on. It rebounds. No, that's crazy. Cray cray. And I had sun cream on, which is even worse. It is kind of worse. It's like, oh, I'm so embarrassed. I'm like, oh, which is even worse. It is kind of worse. Even worse.

I'm so embarrassed. I'm like, oh, you. I'm so embarrassed. Well, no, I could never live in the Caribbean now. Fuck. Do you know what I would love to do? Yeah. Is do those, what are they called?

Like history, your family trait. Yes, yeah. Where you see what percentage you are of each thing. Yes. So it's like you're a percentage yes i would love to know if i've got family in ireland because i think i must look at the you must i must a beautiful what you call it english rose complexion i must there's got to be some irish blood in me somewhere not so you don't know from your parents at all? My dad, no.

Interesting. On my dad's side, no. Where does Leach come from, that name? Leach. I actually don't know. I think it is actually a northern thing. Is it? It is like a, well,

did I tell you my parents think we're related to that guy, Archie Leach? What's his name? Yes. He's a big, big film star. You're not convinced, is that? And he's like, he's one of us. He's one of us.

He's one of us. Darling, yeah. Honestly. Because McNeil is fair and square Scottish. Yeah. Yeah. Ooh. Yeah.

Got me a little kilt on. But then you've got the Australian blood in you. And I got me Australian blood in me. Yeah. What's the little hat called? The Scottish hat. Affairs. No.

Oh. No, no, no, no, no. They have a tartan. It's almost like a tartan little. Beret. Beret with a red bubble in the middle. Oh, I know what you mean, but I don't know what it's called. I'll get you one for your birthday.

Put on the little doggies. Yeah, please do. Please do. My mum's just texted me. Hello, mother. Hello. Right. Are you ready?

I'm ready ready what's your mantra for this week my mantra is i am committing one percent extra every day to be a better version of me lovely lovely lovely lovely love that there's a gradual rise only one percent one percent and now what's this to do with i do need to be a better person because i keep saying i i actually was listening to our new year's resolution thing and i was thinking about the goals i set at the beginning of the new year and i was like do i have more color on my plate no my god when katie was home with me my mum made a feast i'm telling you this girl gets slabs a bit of chicken down, slaps a bit of lamb.

I had the salad. Did you? Yeah, it was yummy. Did you? Yeah, I did. You didn't look at the social, you didn't, did you? I did. Did you? I did. Oh, I didn't think you did. It was yummy. You didn't have the tomatoes. But I didn't, I don't have the tomatoes. Cucumber? I don't mind cucumber, but it has to be amongst something

else. Like, you won't catch me dipping cucumber into hummus. Oh, okay, that would be feral for you you that would be a bit too far in my opinion okay so it's on the new year's vibe yeah you want to so i was looking and then i was like all you have to do i was chatting to my mom being like oh i just want to do so much and she was like just do one little thing lovely and then that affects big change yes it does so i'm gonna i'm gonna roll it right back one percent a little bit extra every day and then it feels manageable love it yeah what's your mantra my mantra this week is i didn't chase i was right yeah yeah yeah yeah i don't chase i i don't chase yeah now mentally physically i am driven, but chasing and driving, very different things.

Yes, yes. Chasing is almost... Lack. Lack. Lack mindset. Yes, yes, yes. But I attract as I've got that energy. I've got this mindset.

So therefore it's coming for me. I've got it. Hey, you want it, I've got it. You want it, I've got it. I've got it. Yeah, exactly, Peach. Exactly. I see it. I like it. I got it. Hey, you want it, I've got it. You want it, I've got it. I've got it. Yeah, exactly, Peach. Exactly. I see it.

I like it. I want it. I've got it. I can't wait to watch Wicked. I cried. I saw the trailer and I was like... Peach said, guys, we went for a house viewing today. Oh my God.

Oh my God. It is gorgeous. It's such a nice house. We left and we were both like raving about it it was only the girls that did the viewing we were saying moguls real estate moguls and so we were like yeah putting it off there yeah i was shitting myself though i was like oh my god and then we left and i was like oh wasn't that great and katie's like when we watch a film and they're the first time in the living room i'll cry i was like i'll definitely cry rich i'll cry i was like why she's like i just emotional i'll cry i think i was even getting

emotional thinking about it were you yeah i was like fuck my life this is gonna be sensational it will be yeah sensational it made me sob times are changing peach times are changing can't wait to see wicked yeah me too so my song this week is so what we get drunk so what we smoke we we're just having fun we don't care who sees and then the bit living young and wild and free and i chose young wild and free snoop dogg featuring bruno mars yeah i did young wild and free because it's all kind of the topic today yeah let's talk about yes you know on it my song this week is ballet performance it is i've got low time moon so bright shaking my hips from the left to the right

cinderella cinderella cinderella by remy wolf love it yes what a great name and remy remy wolf Cinderella. Cinderella. Cinderella by Remy Wolfe. Love it. Yes. What a great name. And Remy Wolfe. Remy Wolfe. Great name. And I've been loving that.

So, recommendation. Recommendation this week is Ollie's in Parsons Green. Now, have you been? No. It's really good. Green. Now, have you been? No. It's really good. Is that why you went for dinner? Yeah, I have been three times now. Have you?

I went with Archie's family. I've been, I've went with just my mum and I. And then last week I went with my dad, Archie, and a few of our friends for dinner. And it's so nice. It's really, really nice. The food quality, I would say, is really good. Is it? It looks great is it it looks great my dad had to start it and poor thing we all ate it halloumi fries and i'm telling you it was the best halloumi fries i've ever had in my life

really i go feral for a halloumi fry it had this gorgeous sauce on the top and i was actually salivating yeah it was it was so good so guys i would say would say for London, it's like a generous price. It's not too bad. Yeah, yeah. So I'd say give it a wee go. Get yourself. Oh, boring you, am I? I know.

Get yourself down there. Right, tell me about this week. Come on, what are we doing? Okay, are you ready? I'm ready. Let's debrief. Thank you. just spat on them we are talking all things hot girl summer so weather but what what about what about what i've been running today the weather the weather's been getting hotter i've've seen the Aperol's being poured. Katie's got burn.

I've been burned. I've had my first PIMS. So as soon as I get burned and you have your first PIMS, summertime. We've been in the hot tub. We're in summertime. So it's time for Hot Girl Summer. It's time.

That's all this is. So let's start by defining the term Hot Girl Summer. Because I feel like everyone's like, oh yeah, no guys guys this is what it is okay okay tell me it describes a carefree and confident attitude embraced by women encouraging them to have fun be self-assured and prioritize their own happiness during the summer season love it which i love would you say you've had a hot girl summer okay so i reflect on this yeah i feel now you can laugh at this but i feel i've every summer's a hot girl summer i felt i'm like look i'm not calling myself hot girl but i'm saying every summer it comes out oh well yeah there's a girl about yeah with the definition of a carefree confident attitude embraced by women

yeah love womanhood i'm a yes lover for the girls encouraging encouraging them to have fun self-assured and prioritize their own happiness i'm telling you i love a hot girl summer i feel like i have the last years i think hot girl summer the whole like theory of it yes is related to being single yes so i think it's quite interesting to me people are i think i've got a hot girl summer the whole like theory of it yes is related to being single yes so i think it's quite interesting to me people are i think i've got a hot girl summer and i'm gonna really shit yeah yeah i also feel and i reflect that when i was single i had a lot of hot girl summers i'm gonna shout out here to chess my very close friend yeah we had so many hot girl summers in Portugal getting up to the most awful stuff together having the best time getting properly sunburned yeah always coming back with awful sunburned stories of who did you get with oh yeah all that kind of stuff but giant hickeys that's a little

inside joke there but all that kind of stuff and I always always think, oh, that was living young, well and free. Yeah. We just had so much fun. We went for quite a few years and we just had the best time. The whole experience was based around tanning, chatting shit, having drinks,

gossiping, and clubbing. And I remember then just feeling so, and it's that kind of freedom of, you know, you get to do your own thing while you're on holiday. It was just so much fun. So I always think about

that was definitely a hot girl summer era when I was single. But now I'm in a relationship, I'm thinking, so I've got a trip planned for my birthday this year. Obviously you're coming. And it's the eighth of it and it's four girls and four boys. And I feel like, I'm'm not being funny that's kind of hot girl summer i'm like there's nothing

more exciting to me than being with my girls like having a lovely cold drink maybe g and t pims just be sat outside you know near the beach we're going to devon you know it was just gonna be so good and i'm so excited to you know be hot girl just going to be so good. And I'm so excited to, you know, be hot girls somewhere together, getting the best photo, getting the girl photo, getting the sexy photo. You know, that's a part of hot girls.

I mean, you have to prioritize getting the booty or the boobie photo, depending on what your assets are. Get the blue cheekies out. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Cause most people will get your bum out.

If you've got a fantastic bum, but if you've got boobs, you show them off the day. Show it all off. So I feel that's my experience. I feel like I always feel so hot girl summer, having so much fun when I'm with my girl group. Yes.

And I'm doing that this year for my birthday, so I'm like, bring it on, bitches. Bring it on. How about you? Do you think you've had a hot girl summer? Hot girl summer. Flushed. Flushed woman summer. burnt girl summer burnt flushed flushed

woman summer I've never been on like I went on a girls trip yeah once and we

were very tame like we didn't go out clubbing it was like very like wholesome girl trip okay didn't go out

didn't get with any guys like just sussing the girlies and I I wouldn't actually say like we've been we've done trips as a group that have been feral yeah but that's not been in the summertime oh okay because i would say

barcelona i'd be like hot girl summer that was fun love that really fun i would say i have the attitude of hot girl summer do i have the conviction no so your mindset's like i'd love a hot girl summer then you're like i like, want to slag it up. Someone says hello, I'm like, stay back. But do you know who will help slag it up for you? Oh, yeah. She'll help. She'll be great.

She'll be great. She'll be on it. It'll be brilliant. She'll be like, come on! Peer pressure. It works, guys. It works. Don't let the side down.

No, you can't. No, no, no. That would be foolish. But picture in the best years of your life. Exactly. You're in your 20s. You've got to embrace it. You've got to embrace it.

And I'm saying, we all have to skinny dip when we're in Devon. We all have to. Come on, this is hot girl summer, guys. It's hot girl summer. Hot girl summer. It's time. We need to get our tits out

and just enjoy the sun. Yeah. I'm so excited. Hundy pee. Hundy pees. So we asked a debrief on how to have the best hot girl summer yeah so a few of girls wrote in yeah i shouldn't say girls i'm not sure if you know whoever you are some people wrote in and someone

said um embrace your body girls i hate all this summer body ready bullshit everybody is beautiful and if you treat it kindly with the right food and exercise then it doesn't matter what number I hate all this summer body ready bullshit. Everybody is beautiful. And if you treat it kindly with the right food and exercise, then it doesn't matter what number it says on your trousers. All girls are ready to show off what their mama gave them. How great is that? I love that. Do you know what?

When she said that hot girl summer, I thought, yes, because I always feel summer body ready is so like demoralizing to what you already have. 100%. I'm like, why are you already slagging off what you've got? Yeah. You know, rather than like work with what you've got and show what you've got and, you know, enjoy what you've got. So I love how she was just like, embrace your bodies. Hot girl summer.

Let's love our bodies, girls. I love that. I really like that. I think if you feel more confident about your body, then you're going to have a better summer. Exactly. Yes. 100%. So one that made me laugh was wear SPF.

Yeah. And I'll tell you that for free. Yes. Wear SPF, guys. Yeah. Yeah. Not only to stay youthful forever, face and neck and hands. Where is the age first peach, face and neck and hands.

Where is the age first, Peach? Face, neck and hands. Hands. I say this all the time to the boys. You've got to put SPF. I'm like, I will know your age if you've got a wrinkly gullet. I'm like... I'll take one look at that gullet.

I'll know your age. I'm like, you've got to love yourself. Let me tell you a quick story, all right, to keep in context of how good SPF is. mother yes grew up in australia so she was you know in that hot summer heat and well all year round it was always hot now she recently went to get her skin checked because they're getting i'm boring you again i'm sorry i'm I already do it. She went to go get her skin checked, as you do, you know, getting your moles checked,

all of that. They said, your skin's fantastic. What have you been doing? She says, SPF all my life. She says, they've got nothing.

She says, you've smashed it. And she wins. She wins. I'm telling you, ladies, gentlemen, SPF.

SPF. And you'll feel like that bitch as well. You will feel like Hot Girl Summer vibes because you're like, oh, me? Oh, who me? Just got my SPF. SPF. And you'll feel like that bitch as well. You will feel like hot girl summer vibes because you're like, oh, me? Oh, who, me? Just got my SPF on. Also, have you seen the SPF contour? I hate to divert. Oh, when people put a certain bit and it will tan.

Have you ever done this? Well, no. It'll be wrecked. It will go the opposite way in my favour. Okay. Yeah, people do like SPF tan. So they'll do like in certain areas so they get a slight contour like on their nose.

Clever. God, people are so clever. Clever. Okay, someone else said, prep your wardrobe. I always find I've hidden my summer clothes away and when it comes to it, I buy loads of stuff that I probs didn't need.

Have a deep dive through your wardrobe of summer outfits and plan accordingly my clothes away and when it comes to it i buy loads of stuff that i probably didn't need have a deep dive through your wardrobe of summer outfits and plan accordingly so that you look hot to trot without much effort because you have an idea of different outfits you can wear p.s i make notes which outfits i really like and write them down oh my god yes this is a bit amazing yeah this is let me tell you let me tell. In my notes, I have photos of myself in certain outfits. Oh my God, yeah. And next to them, I have what top, what trousers, what shoes, what jacket, what accessories would go with this.

Now when I'm thinking, what do I wear today? Boom. Scroll through the photo. I can see. Yeah, curated outfits. Curated. And you know what's even bougie? I've made a sticker photo. I can see. Yeah. Curated outfits. Curated. And you know what's even bougier? I've made a sticker,

so I've got no outline. You win. Thank you. You win. Thank you. You win. Slightly embarrassing. I'd be so embarrassed

if someone found that. All of all your outfits. No, I'd actually be like, I'd be like. It's so clever though. No, I remember before we went to copenhagen all of us sat down and we're like okay well what are we gonna wear like day one i actually saw a tiktok of a woman recently who says that when you go on holiday you wear costumes like you wear whatever you want because you're another character and no one knows you in this city so you can dress however the fuck you want oh I love that so you put your costume on

you put your costume on yeah so it's the time to try out new things when you're like you tried out your jorts didn't you and Portugal loved them

yeah that's your character try it out they're coming back bye bye guys I guys

I'm all for the jorts no they are coming back they are they are coming back what did Archie say your little white legs yes he goes your little white did Archie say? Your little white legs. Yes, he goes, your little white legs are going to shine.

Oh, your little white legs looking there when you were like, fantastic. Absolutely brilliant. They went down a trade. Yeah, I love them. Someone else said, yeah, hot girl walks. Oh, love that.

Again, of course, a hot girl walk. Enjoy the sunshine. Coffee in hand. Or if you're a kitty, match it in a hot girl walk. Enjoy the sunshine. Coffee in hand, or if you're a kitty, match it in hand. Iced. Do your best iced impression. Oh, I didn't expect that.

Not fantastic, not fantastic. Okay. What's your best iced impression? It's hard, isn't it? Yeah, now we're on the spot. Yeah, nervous. Okay. What's your best impression? Yeah, it's hard, isn't it? Yeah, now we're on the spot. Yeah, nervous. Wait. Okay. You're so funny.

Fantastic. You did a dog. And I was like. Oh, I was like oh it's so funny i love it yeah matcha in hand ice coffee in hand or a crispy diet go crispy diet and chat shit and off you go not even chat shit headphones in yeah and the sun shining and you see you see all the sexy men and they're all going to think you're so mysterious. They are. They are.

On your hot girl walk. Yeah. They're going to be like, wow, she's fit. Yeah. Just out on my, oh, just me out on my walk. Just me.

No, just me having fun. Just getting steps in. Yeah. Yeah. Thank you. Yeah. Exactly. Exactly.

Have you got any more? Yeah. Someone said, if there is ever, I loved this. This so resonated with me. I was like, oh,

if there is ever a time to spend time with your girls it's now organize something to meet up with your closest girlfriends doesn't have to be abroad or expensive but make it time for them because that serotonin you'll get from spending time with them you'll will refuel your soul confidence and womanhood oh that is so nice i thought the same that is gorgeous loved it love it i had one more which is mindset is everything it's so true it's so that's with life romanticize your life yeah do it yeah properly do it if you want to have a hot girl summer oh girl you can oh girl you can don't think oh my god like i, I'm not one of those girls.

Yeah, you are. Yeah, you are. Yeah, you are. I'm going to turn up looking hot, shy. Oh! Yeah, yeah. And people will be like, who's that mysterious girl? Yeah.

They'll be like, mysterious girl. I want to get close to you. Come on, mother, buddy. Yeah. Yeah, you know it. Exactly. Mindset. Mindset is everything. Mindset. Believe you are the hot girl. You know. Yeah, you know it. Exactly. Mindset. Mindset is everything.

Mindset. Believe you are the hot girl that you are. Yeah. Don't start comparing yourself to others. No. Again, the whole body thing. Don't.

Yeah, yeah. Who cares what she's wearing? Who cares what her body fits in and what your body doesn't fit in? Yeah. Doesn't matter. You're a different person.

Yes. Oh my God. I actually saw a TikTok video recently of like this woman at a gym. Yeah. And she kind of played like like everyone but she watched a woman doing weights and then like in her head was like oh my god like she's doing the weights the weights it was so scary i wish i could never do that and then the woman doing the weights was looking at her being like oh my god i wish i could wear shorts the gym had your um shorts are so cute and it's, everyone has their hang-ups. Their thing.

Yeah. Everyone has their own thing. Yeah, I see what you mean. Yeah, I just thought it was really interesting. Yeah, so don't lose... Don't compare yourself. No, don't compare yourself. Have that mindset of, I've got this and I'm going to get it.

Exactly. So, we asked people from the debrief to write in any fun experiences they've had during Hot Girl Summer. And here is what they wrote. Yes. Oh, some people are hilarious. OMG, girls. Hilarious story. I love this question.

The year of 2018. Oh. Cast your mind back. Oh. I had just graduated uni from Cambridge. Cast your mind back. Oh. I had just graduated uni from Cambridge.

And after working my arse off and having a lack of social life and friends, I was determined to have the greatest hot girl summer of my frigging life. Fair. Fair. My frigging life. No friends. Love her. I ended up going absolutely wild. One night, I booked to go to an Airbnb in Portugal with my friend.

What happens in Portugal? Yeah. Where are we? Portugal and friend. I was renting a room in a couple's house. Oh, I've done that before. One night I got back to the Airbnb after a heavy night out, brought two guys back with me. Oh my God.

And went upstairs. Oh! We started fooling around and getting steamy when all of a sudden we hear this huge snore and realise we are in the landlord's bed having a threesome. No! Needless to say, he kicked us out and I got a bad review on Airbnb.

Oh! Can you imagine? Oh, my God! Can you imagine? Oh, God. Can you imagine? Oh my God, I think I'd cry. They must have been absolutely trollied to have not noticed him and just started. And he's snoring.

Oh my God, and the shock. Can you imagine him waking up? He wakes up and sees three semi-naked people. He'd either be like, it's my lucky day, or he'd be like, I'm going to do an alpege. Oh, boring. Yes, yes yes it's an empathy thing it's an empathy it's an empathy thing hi girls have to admit i'm a hot girl summer failure first week into the butte weather i bagged myself an apparel and a boyfriend however it was a firm cheerleader for my friends wanting to slag it up. Love it.

Yes. See, that's me. Cough yourself up. That's me. Cough yourself to the man and what are you going to do? Cheerlead. Cheerlead.

I'm the biggest cheerleader for my friends. If you want to slag it up, I'll be your fan. Yeah. If you want to slag it up, go get a tan. Yes. Slag it up. There's nothing more fun. There's nothing more fun. No, truly. Than knowing. Go get a tan. Yes. Slug it up.

There's nothing more fun. There's nothing more fun. No, truly. Than knowing you'll get a cuddle, but try to get your friends a cuddle as well. Yes. High risk kind of reward. Exactly.

Thank you. So I love that. One girl said, last year in hot girl summer, I lost my virginity. I was 19. I was determined to have a good time. Yeah. And let the shackles of the pressure of lost my virginity. I was 19 and was determined to have a good time and let the shackles of the pressure of losing my virginity be gone.

Tell them. Love how she's writing. Yeah. I was on holiday with my girls at one of my friend's family houses in Cornwall. I met this guy at one of the festivals that I was going to there. He invited us all back to his house as we had a group of friends that could come as well. Oh, brilliant.

For a little party. Oh, less stressful then. Now, let me tell you. His parents had a 10-bedroom mansion on the beachfront with a yacht. Fuck off, Jackpot! Later that night, I lost my virginity on a yacht while drinking Moet in Cornwall.

I would say a job well done. You win. You win. Can you imagine being like, gotta let this flower go. Gotta let the flower go. And all of a sudden, the flower doesn't just land in the puddle. You land in fucking Buckingham Palace. Buckingham Palace.

You win. That's such a great virginity story. And he's like, do you want to come for a party? You go back to the 10 bedroom mansion house. And she's like, how about a yacht? Then she's like,

yeah, get on the yacht. Boom. Comfy bed. Memory friend mattress. Shagged. Then the moe pops. Pops. Pop cherry.

Pop cherry. Pop moe. Yes. Fantastic. Is it slightly different for your virginity, Peach? Oh, yes. Fantastic. Is it slightly different from your virginity, Peach? Well, yes. Is it?

I thought you were on a yacht. Top of the Empire State Building. You know it. I was in Buckingham Palace. Only class for beach. Mine was a super yacht. Oh, you know it. Yeah, it was.

It was bigger. It's that. Oh, no, mine was even bigger. No, no, no, mine was bigger. Oh, a yacht. Oh, a boat. Oh, is that it? Mine was a mega yacht. I was on a super where. Yeah, it was. It was bigger. It's that. Oh, no, mine was even bigger. No, no, no, mine was bigger. Oh, a yacht. Oh, a boat. Oh, is that it? Mine was a mega yacht.

I was on a super yacht. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's got to happen. Captain Lee was there. Fantastic. I love it. Okay, so now I am a retired hot summer girly. I can now say that I cannot go back to a certain club in London

as I kissed two best friends, which caused a huge fight on the dance floor and I got escorted out. Chaos! Chaos! Chaos! You know when you get banned from a club? This is what I always think. Like getting banned. The only club you're banned from is that one in Liverpool.

I don't think I've been banned. You were banned, my love. They were like, she can't ever come back. Huh? Yeah. Yeah. No. And you were banned my love they were like she can't ever come back yeah yeah no and you were just like no they don't know what they're saying i was like hey kid let's debrief tomorrow so right now right now you're in trouble yeah oh that's a shame so you've only been bad for one i don't even know i don't remember that but you don't remember but. But you don't remember, so it doesn't count. But this is what I thought. When people are like, you're banned, I'm like, how do you know? Do they mark it?

Yeah. Do you still have my ID that you scanned? And you say I'm banned? And you're like, red cross. Or are you just like, off visuals? Because I'm like, you won't remember this. Because maybe it's more for like regulars of that. Like, for example, like the club near us, if they banned me,

they'd probably remember like if I went up. Yeah. They'd be like, you're banned. So they might not remember you in Liverpool. No. Fingers crossed. Because you're like... Fingers crossed, yeah.

Imagine though, she won't be humiliating if you did. And we went. And you gave them your ID and they're like, Red Cross. You can't remember. I'll be like... Do you remember last time?

I'll be like, oh no. 25th of Feb last year? I think not. Oh, Jesus. Oh, Red Cross. You're like, you can't be lying. Do you remember last time? I'd be like, oh, no. 25th of Feb last year. I think not. Oh, Jesus. Oh, so funny. Jesus. So one girl said, hot girl summer I think I took slightly too far.

Ended up having a fuck it mindset and telling myself to never say no to anything. So I ended up getting both nipples pierced. Oh. Having sex with one of my parents' friends. Getting a tattoo on my lower back that says cheeky. Oh. And dyeing my hair blue.

Out of all this, the hair was the biggest mistake. Girls, I was a natural brunette. Love it. Oh my God. And she would have had to bleach it to go blue. Yeah. Fuck. Fuck.

Let's not skip over this. Parents' best friend. Yeah, let's not skip over the best friends. Let's not skip over. She did a Richard. She did a Monica with a Richard. She did. She experienced the elder man. Now, let me tell you.

Let me tell you. Can you imagine your dad? Oh, my God. You shagging it up with one of your dad's friends. Imagine your dad's face. What would they say? Oh, my God. I think he'd be mortified. What would you do? What would you say? Literally, what, I think you'd be mortified.

What would you do? What would you say? I literally, what do you say to that? I couldn't, I couldn't. No, no, simply not. I'd have to hide. That's crazy. Yeah.

Imagine your dad being, Ian? Well, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that Oliver? Yeah. Ian? Yeah. Are you sure? Ian. Ian. You're seeing Ian? Yes. Oh my god. Ian and I are in love actually. We're seeing each other. Oh. That's scary. Absolutely not. Let's go on to debrief dilemmas and this is all things

Hot Girl Summer. Love it. So, hi girliesies first time emailer please keep me anonymous of course so basically me and a group of girlfriends want to go on a girl's holiday to ibiza all wanting to have a fun and feral time oh my god i am so with you i want to do a girl's trip to ibiza oh my god i'm wifed up but i don't care i want to go people like you can't go in a relationship. Watch me. You can. I'm going. I'm getting all dressed up. I'm getting a nice spray tan

before I go. You, me, the girls, we've got to go to Ibiza. We've got to go. We have to. It'll be so much fun. Because we're not going to go in our 40s. I mean, we could. We could. We could. But this is the time. This is the time to go. It's the prime time. Yeah, let's discuss it.

So all of us are single and ready to live our best life at all the beach clubs and we're super excited. However, as the trip has been approaching, I can't help but feel super anxious about the upcoming trip and I'm really worried after all the hype that I won't actually get with anyone. I know it sounds super silly, but we've kind of planned this trip to get with people

and now I'm feeling a really strange pressure to do it and I'm worried about ruining the trip or being seen as boring. Please help. I hope this doesn't sound too silly. Thanks, girls. Aww. Oh, my heart warms for you, my little duckling.

I don't know how old she is, but she sounds young. Yeah. And she sounds like out of exams party season. Yeah, yeah. You know, I had a trip booked to go to Zante and then COVID hit, so I couldn't go. And that was, as she said, a trip to purely get with people. Yeah, yeah.

So I'm sure she's like, oh, so she sounds young. Oh, bless. Darling, these are your friends. Yeah. Okay okay they won't judge you they're not gonna judge you and at the end of the day if you want to get involved as well yeah if you want to have fun and you know live young wild and free yeah yeah then you will to say to yourself in your mindset i'm gonna have fun i'm gonna meet new people I'm going to see where the night takes me. Yeah. You know,

don't feel pressure that you're boring. Yes. Yeah, no. Because these are your friends. There's a reason you're on the trip and they want to spend time with you. You're still going to have

such a good time and when guys approach you, which they will, it can be even funnier when they're trying hard and if you don't want to get with them, don't get with them. And then they'll be like,

oh my God, did you see that guy that was trying so hard to get with you? That was hilarious. Exactly then they'll be like oh my god did you see that guy that was trying so hard to get with you that was hilarious exactly like there's entertainment everywhere on these trips don't only do what you want to do exactly don't do it because you feel pressured thinking oh no well everyone else has got with someone and i haven't and it's the second night who cares exactly what time yeah you know you don't lower your standards just to please other people yes and that's not

going to help your self-confidence and your self-worth so go on the trip with the mindset of i'm gonna have a great time yes i'm gonna spend time with my friends we're gonna have so much fun together if i get with someone great if i don't great i'm still going to have fun and as you said you're going partying you're going to have loads of fun and i'd be for clubs yeah so most likely in these ib for clubs yeah so most likely in these ib for clubs are single people who want to yeah with people anyway yeah so we know for a fact that people are going to approach you yeah whether you want them or not that's completely you exactly i mean that you're boring no you know you hold the power you hold the power

you you've got this girl you have got this yeah oh that's such like a i feel it's so relatable yeah i know a bit oh i don't want people to think i'm being frigid or yes yeah frigid yeah it's always used to school when it was like don't be frigid don't be frigid oh oh it's awful isn't it don't be frigid. Don't be frigid. It's such a horrible word. Horrible word. That feels like such a... Oh, I know. Love that.

You've got this. You've got this. Take it. And enjoy yourself. Enjoy it. Yeah. You've got this. We're proud of you.

Lovely. Love you, girl. Ix of the week. Yeah. My Ix of the week is... Tell me. Oh, tell me oh wait you have ping pong me oh my god of course you ready lovely my ick of the week is when people don't wear sun cream i actually know it does it it kind of icks me out because i'm like, do you think you're above the sun? Oh! Do you think you're above the solar system? That big old thing in the sky? Yeah.

No. Yeah. You're not. You're not, my friend. You're not. Okay? How about, so you say when people don't rest, sun cream gives you a nick. How about if people are wearing that Factor 15?

Yeah, they're wearing sun cream. They rest, sun cream gives you an ick. How about if people are wearing that Factor 15? Yeah, they're wearing sun cream. They're wearing sun cream. Yeah. No, I'd be foolish to assume everyone would be on Factor 50 with me. Like you. However, I wish they did a bigger Factor. Well, maybe you put Factor 50 on twice and you're on Factor 100. Is that how I'd like it if it worked like that?

I don't know if it does work like that. You can always try. That would be good for me. You could always try, couldn't you? I'd be one of those kids on holiday with the fucking stripes it was always it was always the case did you get burned when you were a child yeah oh mega oh all the time actually probably less because my parents are very diligent in applying spf on me i'm less diligent yeah because i'm i have the toxic trait where i think i'll turn burn every time but

i'm like this time could be different this could be the time i brought i will be bronze if you put spf sun cream on though will you still get a glow or will you still be red no i just go freckly or red yeah you were very freckly when he came back from portugal freckles freckles freckles all right i've got one. Yeah. Okay. Something that aches me out is when people judge what you're drinking. Like, because it's summer.

That's not a summer drink. And it's like, oh, sorry. You've done me there. Do you know what? Let me chuck that out. I'll get a new drink. I remember this happened to me last year, actually. And it was in a night out environment.

Yeah. And as we know on a night out, you always get baby Guinness because you need a shot. Yeah. And the best shot around is baby Guinness. Now, we're all around. We're about to go for a baby Guinness shot. And someone goes, oh, God, that's not a summer drink.

Oh, let me just get my fucking refund then. Oh, you're right there. Yeah, sorry, I'm an idiot. I'm an absolute idiot. I'm not. What constitutes a summer drink? You know what I mean? Even more irritating is I kind of get them.

Like, some things aren't a summer drink. But I can have an upper roll at winter. Oh, no, you're not doing that. Can't do a Pimms in winter. No, you're not doing that. And also, you're not sat in a beer garden having a Guinness. Surely not. No, surely not.

So I kind of get what they mean, but I'm like, don't say it. We're all thinking it, but don't say it. Okay. Don't say it. What am I going to have a shot of? Yeah. Except a baby Guinness. Thank you, Paige.

Thank you. Yeah. Goodness. It does piss me off. Yeah, good. Let me live my life in a happy way. Exactly. Exactly. Questions? Questions? Questions.

Questions. This week you are silly and I'm serious. I'm taking it serious this week, Katie. Head on. We're not pissing around, okay? Because sometimes you have a tendency to. Yeah, I veer off track. I do. You're very excited.

I know. So do you think, okay, a hot girl summer is more enjoyable being single or in a relationship? Remember the fundamentals of hot girl summer. Remember what you said earlier which was carefree confident attitude encouraging to have fun be self-assured and prioritize happiness remember that what do you think my gut instinct tells me that it would be that you're single yeah because you've got more options and it's not just

a night out it's like a night out and i could get a shag i could get with someone this could who knows where the night may go yeah i mean you people yeah however and that's carefree and that's confident and that's all embodied yeah however with the right partner you can feel empowered, confident carefree and still go home with a guaranteed shack and summer romance summer romance

there's nothing better than a summer romance sunsets there's nothing better it genuinely makes my a bit a bit yeah yeah There's nothing better. It genuinely makes my... A bit... You know when you're like... A bit giddy. Yeah, yeah.

You have to do it again. You know when you're just a bit like, oh, genuinely, I'm like... I'm like a summer romance. I'm like, oh, I'm shy. A bit giddy. A bit giddy. Do you ever see in Friends

where Joey goes to Rachel or something like, how you doing? And Rachel's like, it doesn't work. And then she does it to Phoebe. No, Phoebe goes, that doesn't work. And then he does it to Phoebe. It's how you do it. And Phoebe goes, yes.

And she loves that. I'm like, that's a summer romance for me. That's how giddy I feel. Very smitten kitten. Yeah. Yes. Do you know what I can't wait to see? Is you doing a hot girl summer with a boyfriend?

Actually, I'll be excited to see you with a boyfriend in general. For sure. Need to get to that point. Need to get to that point. Yeah. Yeah. Working on it. Yeah, we're working on it.

So your final answer is single. Single. Single pringle. Okay. Yes. Tell me yours. My silly question is, would you rather it rain every day of summer or snow every day of winter?

Now, winter is December, January, February, isn't it? Yeah. I'm taking the snow. I'm taking the snow. Are you? I'm taking the snow. Are you? I couldn't deal with that. No. What I love about summer is, and I'm sorry, snow. I'm taking the snow. Are you? I'm taking the snow. Are you? I couldn't deal with it.

No. What I love about summer is, and I'm sorry, summer in London, elite. Yeah. Absolutely elite. It's great. Bear gardens. Everyone's got their stylish outfits on. Sunny's are out.

Yeah. Everyone's sat outside. You can start chatting to people you don't know. You've got a lovely drink in your hand. You go for long walks. You go to different parts. I'm taking the... Yeah. I can't have rain every single day in the summer that's when i come alive katie is in the summer in the summertime yeah yeah i can imagine yeah and you know what i love the snow do you i do love snow yes you just don't like the cold i don't like the cold i do

not but like dreary like wet cold winter like not nice snow you're like dreary, like wet, cold, winter, like not nice. Snow, you're like... Snow's magical. And also, what am I, Peach? A romantic. What is snow? What is snow? Romantic.

So therefore, I'm like, I'll get shy again. I'll get shy. Because I'll be like, oh my God, it's back. And I kind of love that because I'm just like, what could we do? Snow angels. What else could we do? Snowmen. I'm just like what could we do? Snow angels. What else could we do? Snowmen. I'm just like

snowball fight. Yeah. I'm like come on bring it on. I'll never forget when it snowed that night when we had our flat Christmas and it was magical.

It was magical. I loved it. It was so good. Oh beautiful. What would you take? I think I would take Snow in Winter. Would you? It's also more on brand.

You'd have it for your birthday. Oh, no, you wouldn't. Sorry. Yeah. I think... Oh, okay. You wouldn't. No, no, no.

We could say so. You would. Have you ever seen the fake snow? Yes. Oh, my God. I love it. And again, I think it is romantic romantic would it get boring in like january yeah yeah would it get yeah potentially yeah but fun fun winter outfits oh you know it there's

kind of nothing better though because this is what i feel when people so obviously you guys know that i was born in australia you know Yep. Love it. Love all that stuff. People say to me, like, why did your parents ever move? And I'm like, although I love Australia, I'm glad they did because they don't get it like we do. I was like, we get it all.

We get the autumn. We get the summer. And you will never see someone so excited for the summer as a Brit. Oh, we love it. Any excuse to get in a fucking beer garden with a... Yeah. Sun comes out, or for an Aperol, it seems. What's going to get in a fucking beer garden with that. Yeah. Sun comes out,

or for an Aperol, it seems. What's going to be your hot girl summer drink? Well, it's funny you say this, because I'm actually not going to be drinking this summer. I know. Will that affect the hot girl summer? Never, because.

Never? Never? Never? Do it again. Never. Because it'll either be like i think mocktails everyone's forget everyone's sleeping on mocktails yeah yeah it's not quite an apparel if it were my it'll be an apparel will it be the whole summer yeah i'm gonna put myself like on a one drink

limit i'm sorry but like i can't't. So you won't get blackout? I won't be barred from any more clubs this summer, unfortunately. That was the highlight of two years ago. Yeah, it was sensational, actually. Sensational, yeah. But no, I think ideally... Oh no, do you know what's the worst thing about that? Is you're going to see me piss tipsy.

Oh, yeah. Because when you're tipsy, it doesn't matter because we're tipsy together. Yeah, but... But you're going to be me piss tipsy like because when you're tipsy it doesn't matter because we're tipsy together yeah but you're gonna be like tipsy woo tipsy too yeah yeah i'll be tipsy on my own i know so i'm literally but if it were it's an apple i would have that in jason's my veins you know i would drink that's that is your go to i love it so much. And also people who say they don't like it, grow up. I hate them. Grow up. Bitter.

Mature your taste buds. Mature them. Mature. I would like to like them, but they're bitter. I feel like that, the same as that with martinis. I can't do martinis.

Do you know what's the worst alcohol out there? Do you know? Gin. Nope. Vermouth. Vermouth. I you know what's the worst alcohol out there? Do you know? Gin. No. Vermouth. Vermouth. I didn't realise vermouth was alcohol. It makes, even the word reminds me of how it tastes.

And it makes me like, like slightly. Like a. Yeah. Oh, it's made me eyes water. I hate vermouth to a fashion. Really? So that's not a hot girl drink. What's your hot girl drink?

Do you know what I love? Is a, I love, are you going to be gonna be like so boring but i love a mojito i love a what's the one moscow mule the ginger oh my oh my god love a moscow mule for the for the summertime yeah bit of ginger in that oh love it love it love it love a gin and tonic. Love a vodka lime sodes. Love it all. Oh, elderflower cordial. And you're there. Elderflower cordial.

A pimsy. Pims. I love a pimsy. A pimsy. Pims is my go-to in the summer. It's got to be. Do you know what I really like as well for being in Portugal? Sangria.

Really? I've never tried it. Yeah, I really like sangria. Is it like mulled wine, but like cold? Yeah. The one I had had a cinnamon stick in it. Oh, how odd. And like loads of fruit. Is that a little bit weird for the summer? I found it very refreshing.

Really? So it didn't remind you of Christmas? No, because it was cold. I see, I see. I'd be like, bleh. If I had that at Christmas, I'd be like, what's this? The summertime? Yeah, yeah, yeah. No one's taking you for a mug, are they? Hot, hot. I remember when I had that mulled wine at the fireworks. Oh. Little hot mulled that mulled wine at the fireworks. Oh.

A little hot mulled wine. See, I love the fireworks. I love the fireworks. Right, guys, before we get off topic anymore. I know. Enjoy your hot girl summer because it's the start now. It is the start. It's June, bitch.

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