The Dr. Hyman Show - The 3 Biggest Myths About Emotional Eating with Marc David
Episode Date: February 1, 2023This episode is brought to you by Rupa Health, Cozy Earth, Paleovalley, and Mitopure. Many of us turn to food to cope with feelings, then we beat ourselves up. Personally, I’m guilty of turning to f...ood when I’m exhausted and then feeling bad about not making great choices or eating when I wasn’t truly hungry. But what we don’t realize is that emotional eating is natural and inborn, and it’s not a matter of having too little willpower. The healing process means getting unstuck from negative patterns, reframing our inner dialogue, and acknowledging the different parts of us and what they’re each asking for. Feeling guilty and disempowered isn’t doing us any good. Today I’m excited to sit down with a leading expert in the field of emotional eating and a good friend, Marc David. Marc David, M.A., is the bestselling author of the books, Nourishing Wisdom: A Mind Body Approach to Nutrition and Well-Being and The Slow Down Diet: Eating for Pleasure, Energy, and Weight Loss, a frequent speaker and consultant, and host of the celebrated Psychology of Eating Podcast. Marc is also the Founder of The Institute for the Psychology of Eating, the world’s only health coaching program devoted to teaching the principles of Dynamic Eating Psychology and Mind Body Nutrition. This episode is brought to you by Rupa Health, Cozy Earth, Paleovalley, and Mitopure. Rupa Health is a place where Functional Medicine practitioners can access more than 2,000 specialty lab tests from over 20 labs like DUTCH, Vibrant America, Genova, and Great Plains. You can check out a free, live demo with a Q&A or create an account at RupaHealth.com. Right now, get 40% off your Cozy Earth sheets. Just head over to cozyearth.com and use code MARK40. Paleovalley is offering my listeners 15% off their entire first order. Just go to paleovalley.com/hyman to check out all their clean Paleo products and take advantage of this deal. Get 10% off Mitopure at timelinenutrition.com/drhyman and use code DRHYMAN10 at checkout. Here are more details from our interview (audio version / Apple Subscriber version): Is emotional eating the same thing as having an eating disorder? (5:45 / 3:12) The three biggest myths about emotional eating (6:34 / 4:00) Breaking the pattern of emotional eating (9:39 / 7:00) Emotional eating and the rebel and child archetypes (19:05 / 16:25) The relationship between the biology of food and psychology of eating (25:46 / 20:46) Learning how to eat vs. how not to eat (32:55 / 24:50)  The relationship between trauma and emotional eating (34:34 / 29:50) Reframing beliefs around food and eating (42:09 / 35:10) The importance of practicing self-compassion (45:51 / 40:50) The Emotional Eating Breakthrough Program (58:07 / 53:05)  Learn more about The Emotional Eating Breakthrough Program.
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And if you've ever experienced emotional eating, which I'm sure many of you never have, right? Then this is the podcast for you because
it's with, I think, the world's expert on the topic of the psychology of eating. We often talk
about what to eat, but we don't often talk about why we eat or what's in the way of our eating
well. And we have as our guest today, an extraordinary man, a very good friend of mine, Mark David, who's a best-selling author of
a book called Nourishing Wisdom, A Mind-Body Approach to Nutrition and Well-Being, as well
as The Slow Down Diet, which I could learn a lot from, Eating for Pleasure, Energy, and Weight Loss.
He's a speaker and consultant. He's the host of the Celebrated Psychology of Eating podcast. He's
also the founder of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating, the world's only
health coaching program that's devoted to teaching the principles of dynamic eating
psychology and mind-body nutrition.
He has students in over 100 countries.
The Institute champions an uplifting, inclusive approach to food and the body that honors each of our individual ways of
being, our psychology, our physiology, and sees that eating challenges us in a way that
can help be a doorway to personal growth and to waking up. So welcome, Mark.
Mark, thanks for having me. Good to be in conversation with you, my friend.
No, I just want to give people a heads up about what we're going to talk about because
I think the topic of emotional eating is a huge one.
We're going to talk about the three biggest myths about emotional eating.
And you're going to explore what it is emotional eating, where it comes from, why it's so problematic
for so many people, and some tips on how to work with our emotional eating issues. Now, many of us are
faced with often turning to food when we're anxious or stressed or depressed or nervous
or bored or confused. And we kind of can beat ourselves up about what we just ate or what we
should have eaten. Like, you know, I flew back on the plane ride from Europe a couple of days ago,
and I was like, I just ate the crappy plane food, Europe a couple of days ago and I was like,
I just ate the crappy plane food, but I didn't feel good and I didn't have anything to eat.
I was hungry.
And, you know, I just like, I think we can often get ourselves in a negative cycle about what we're eating.
So the good news is it's not about willpower or self-control or it's about learning how
to get unstuck from negative patterns of eating and emotional eating and be free.
So I'm excited you are on the podcast.
I've known you for, I don't know, almost 30 years now.
And we've been doing this work for a long time.
And I think the topic of emotional eating is pretty hot right now.
So is emotional eating, just a high-level question,
is emotional eating the same thing as having an eating disorder?
Because I know I emotionally eat, but I don't think I have an eating disorder.
No, not at all.
Really, an eating disorder is an extreme eating challenge that generally requires some kind of clinical intervention.
Anorexia, bulimia, extreme obesity, morbid obesity, emotional eating, and you've alluded
to this already, is something every single human being on planet Earth will do at some point
during their day or their week or their month, i.e., I feel a little bad, I feel a little down,
I feel a little lonely, I feel a little stressed, I feel a little lonely. I feel a little stressed anxious So I turn to food. So there's something very human and humanizing about emotional eating
Yeah, and so so what are the three biggest myths you talk about these three myths
What are they and then we'll talk about each one of them and how we can navigate them
you know first myth is that
People think, if I
emotionally eat, there's something wrong with me. That's number one. So if something is intrinsically
wrong with me, this is a problem. And we're going to bust that one in a moment. Myth number two is
that, hey, if I emotionally eat, that means I need willpower to control it. So more of this
magical substance called willpower. We're going
to bust that one as well. Myth number three, well, if I emotionally eat, it means I must sabotage
myself. Somewhere in there, there's this secret agent who's just out to get me. And we're also
going to handle that one as well. Okay. So let's talk about myth one and the idea that if you
emotionally eat, something's wrong with you. I mean, right? Because a lot of people just beat themselves up when they don't actually eat well and they beat themselves over the head with negative inner dialogue and self-talk. And it's really counterproductive and it's actually not necessary. So that's, that's the majority of people that I've ever met who emotionally eat.
So here's the thing I'm going to say right off the bat, that emotional eating it's natural and
it's inborn. If you're a parent, if you've ever been around a tiny infant, you observe that infant
and one moment they're crying or screaming. And the next moment there's mama to give them bottle
or breast. And that infant goes from crying and screaming and upset to relaxed and mellow and happy.
And it all happens in virtually an instant.
So we have ingrained in our DNA, not just from your own memories of this lifetime, but
from every human who's come before you.
We have this imprint, this memory called feel bad, eat food, feel better,
and it works. And there's nothing inherently wrong with that. It's normal and natural.
You go for a holiday dinner. A holiday is celebrational. That's emotional eating. I don't
know. You go out on a date. Date has its own emotional flavor to it. That's emotional eating. And yeah, you know,
you come home from a bad day, a bad experience, and you know deep in your cells, if I eat something,
especially if it's something I like, I'm going to feel good. Food gives us virtually an instant
pleasure chemistry release. If you think about it, what's the opposite of emotional eating? Would it be
unemotional eating? We're emotional beings, right? And so I think we really need to get that
this is something that it's natural, that it's inborn, and it really makes us beautifully human.
And of course, it becomes problematic when eating is our only emotional
regulation strategy. Yeah. And so what, like, what do we do with that? What do we, how do we sort of
deal with the pattern of emotional eating? Well, you know, here's the thing. When we are
constantly going towards emotional eating, it's asking us a question and it's asking us on a certain level, what else?
What else can you do?
What else can I do to regulate, to manage, to be with my emotions other than food?
Because food, it's the infant strategy that we've learned.
It's the one that we know.
It's ingrained in our DNA. So in order to change a habit, think of habit as automatic. Emotional
eating is this automatic, unconscious habit that does itself. You don't have to wake up. People
don't wake up in the morning and say, I really need to try to emotionally eat today. It does itself.
So in order to change an unwanted, unconscious, automatic habit, we need to introduce consciousness.
Consciousness meaning awareness.
Awareness meaning presence.
Meaning that witness part of me that notices, oh, I'm about to emotionally eat.
Huh.
What else can I do?
Yeah. And I'll have people write a list, you know, write,
just write an inventory of everything in life that makes you feel good other than food,
persons, places, things, thoughts, experiences, exercise, music, watching a goofy video. I don't
know. And there's your menu of options. if emotional eating sort of has its grips on you.
Yeah. I don't know if I learned it from you or not. It was a lecture maybe a Kenya ranch gave
decades ago. It was like, you know, when you're about to open the fridge, you go,
you know, what am I feeling and what do I need? You know, as a barometer, like, what am I feeling?
I feel depressed. What do I need? A hug. You know, I'm angry.
What do I need?
I need to tell someone what's going on.
I don't necessarily need food, right?
Like, I think a lot of the times we have these feelings and emotions that we don't act on
through a more productive channel, such as actually expressing that emotion, and it gets
sublimated into food.
And so, you know, I always tell my patients, you know, put a piece
of paper on their fridge that says, what am I feeling? What do I need? You know, before you
open the fridge or the cabinet and start stuffing your face with ice cream or whatever it is,
you know, maybe I'm lonely. I need to call a friend. You know, maybe I'm tired.
Bingo.
I mean, my biggest emotional eating thing is when I'm tired. You know, if I'm tired,
I'll just kind of want more sugar or carbs or whatever to keep my energy up if I have to function or work. And that's terrible.
It's a terrible strategy. I should probably just take a nap or cancel a meeting or do whatever,
you know, but I don't do that. Yeah. You know, part of, part of that one for you, that's,
that's really a reframing because I'm the same way. I think tired equals bad. I should have
limitless energy to do whatever I want when I want to do it.
So if I'm feeling tired, yes, what do I have to do?
Do I drink tea?
Do I drink caffeine?
Do I go for something sweet?
And there's that moment of consciousness.
Oh, wait a second.
I've been going at it all day and all week.
I am tired.
I am part of the human race.
So I need to relax and all week. I am tired. I am part of the human race. So I need to relax and be tired.
And so there's that moment of consciousness. There's a moment of awareness that is
where the game changes. So the first bit is basically there's something wrong with you,
but it's really not true. There's nothing wrong with you. You're just having some experience that
you're managing with food that isn't about some character flaw or lack of willpower. It just points to the fact that you need to think about your life a little bit more
carefully and what you actually need in that moment and not automatically fill some amorphous
need with food. Right. Because if I think I am emotionally eating means there's something wrong
with me, what I'm missing is that food is actually my solution.
It's not the problem.
People think, oh, I'm emotionally eating.
Emotional eating equals problem.
No, food is your solution.
The problem is I have emotions that I feel uncomfortable.
I don't know how to manage.
Food is my solution.
I feel better.
So let's just come up with better solutions.
And at the same time, we're reframing. You don't. I feel better. So let's just come up with better solutions. And at the same time,
we're reframing. You don't, I don't, we don't have a problem. There's nothing wrong with me because
what happens when you think there's something wrong with you is we go into, I'm broken.
There's something defective about me. And if I feel broken and defective, there's a part of my consciousness where I'm not going to feel good about myself.
And I become susceptible to all kinds of nonsense strategies and approaches and beliefs that are going to give me some quick fix.
So feeling broken often has us going through life, not being the real me because I'm broken.
So let's talk about myth two, willpower,
and why willpower is not an effective way to deal with emotional eating.
You know, I've never seen anybody be successful with this strategy
to overcome emotional eating.
It's like telling an alcoholic, well, you're an alcoholic, don't drink alcohol or
a heroin addict. Well, just don't take the heroin or a gambler. Just don't gamble.
It's a more nuanced conversation. Also think about it. Willpower is a noun. It's a thing.
It's this sort of mythical substance. Where do you, where do you get it from? So I think emotionally, yeah, yeah, it's a mythical substance.
It's like this holy grail that people think, well, if only I had more, then I can just eat what I don't want to eat.
I can just refrain from eating food and then I won't be an emotional eater and I'm not going to gain weight.
And in fact, I'll lose weight.
But really, we don't need more willpower. We need more nuanced. We need a higher perspective.
And what I'm going to say is instead of looking for more willpower, let's look to how is emotional
eating a great teacher for me? So if I'm going to really embrace this challenge, how is emotional eating
asking me to grow? And asking that question assumes that you and I, we grow through challenge.
We grow through our relationships, our past hurts, our abuses. You had a difficult upbringing,
or I have physical ailments, or my loved one died, or I had crappy parenting.
Whatever it is for people,
we can grow through those challenges. And then so, so, so we're here to grow through challenge.
I'm going to suggest that emotional eating is such a challenge. And let's ask a powerful question.
So if I'm emotional eating, how is that asking me? And it's going to be different for each one of us.
How is it asking me to grow as a person?
You know, for some people, it might be asking us to, I should examine my diet.
I should examine what I'm eating because certain nutritional strategies will influence my emotional eating.
It might ask us to look at how am I doing relationship?
Am I having a voice?
Am I suppressing myself? Am I expressing myself? Do I have a purpose in life? Do I have pleasure?
Do I have connection? Do I have intimacy? Am I being true to myself? If I'm not doing
some of those, what will I do? I'm going to feel uncomfortable if I'm not expressing myself, if I'm not being the real me, if I'm not showing up in relationship, or if I'm longing for love but not reaching out for it. So what do we do? Turn to food. That'll make me feel better. Once again, it's the solution. It's actually not the problem. So that's really helpful, Mark. What about the myth three that if I emotionally eat, it means I sabotage myself?
Can you kind of unpack that sort of that relation between emotional eating and self-sabotage?
I love when people say that because we're always mystified.
Like people will say, I know what I'm supposed to eat.
I know what I'm supposed to do.
I just don't do it.
And I sabotage myself. will say, I know what I'm supposed to eat. I know what I'm supposed to do. I just don't do it.
And I sabotage myself. So let's get a little more nuanced about that and take a dive in there.
You know, some of the great psychological thinkers, Carl Jung, Joseph Campbell,
they talked about the archetypes. And the archetypes, another word for archetypes,
are voices or personas, different aspects of us.
You know, normally we think I'm a person, I'm me.
So, yeah, I am me and you're you.
And that's how we distinguish ourselves. But the me that you think you are is actually a crowd.
So there's the me that's a father.
That's an archetype or a persona.
There's a me that's a son.
There's the me that's a partner, that's an archetype or a persona. There's a me that's a son.
There's the me that's a partner to my fiance.
There's the me that's a teacher.
So when I'm with students, I'm in a teaching role.
When I'm with a client, I'm in a counseling role.
When I'm playing tennis, I'm in a competitor archetype.
You can be in the lover archetype.
You could be in the scientist or the nerd.
There's literally thousands of them. So they're different voices, different personas. So oftentimes what's happening when people say, I know what I'm supposed to eat. I know what I'm supposed to do.
I just can't do it. I sabotage myself. What's really happening is there's a voice, an archetype
that's stepping in and it's unconsciously driving the show.
As an example, a lot of people have in them the rebel archetype.
The rebel archetype is the part of you and I that is like Gandhi was a rebel.
Martin Luther King was a rebel. Mother Teresa was a, she was a rebel.
It's going against a lot of the grain.
It's going against what society says, finding a better way and having
the courage to say no and to resist. But the rebel can also be a rebel without a good cause. The
rebel can be a little immature. So a lot of times when the rebel in us takes over, it's as if we're
saying, nobody tells me what to do, not even me. And the adult in us steps out. The health champion in me steps aside,
and the rebel takes over. And I'm rebelling against whoever I'm rebelling against my doctor,
my nutrition is my dietician, my own inner voice. I'm rebelling against whatever society
is telling me to do. Yeah. How do you handle it?
Well, part of it is is starting to notice the different voices that's operating inside you.
So it's actually doing a little bit of an inventory on what are the voices that might possibly be stepping in.
And once we start to learn about them and notice them, just another brief example, the child.
You know, we often think of the inner child.
So we all have a child in us.
The child is
beautiful child and you and me it's innocent it's sweet it's loving it's open it's carefree
uh you know and the child could also be a brat and the child also wants immediate gratification
the child wants what it wants when it wants it and a lot of times people who are gripped with emotional eating,
they have been dieting since they've been young, or they were bullied for being chubby,
or they were told by somebody in their environment, my mother, my father, my sister, my friends,
whoever it was, my teachers, that your body's not acceptable as it is. You have to go on a diet. And all of a sudden, that innocence in us is
crushed because we have guilt and shame about our body. And at some point, the child in us just
wants to scream, I just want to eat whatever I want. I want to eat the shit. Yeah, yeah.
And so as we begin, so so in answer to your question, how do I deal, how do we work with that?
We start to notice when that voice steps in.
So you have to be aware because those voices are stepping in beneath our awareness.
We're just not present to it.
So we feel like we're blindsided, something's sabotaging me.
Well, it's sabotaging you because your witness consciousness or the
adult in you or the king and queen in you is just not paying attention. So, oh, I'm on a diet right
now because this is what's going to help me feel better. When I don't eat so much sugar, I have my
energy. I don't have brain fog. I start to drop weight. And so, okay, I'm going to stick to my
low sugar or my no sugar diet. And then all
of a sudden I find myself opening up the refrigerator and like, I just wanted some ice
cream. And it's helpful to know, oh, okay, that's the child in me. What does a child need? Generally,
a child needs love and attention. And a child also needs guidelines. You know, you can't let a child needs love and attention, and a child also needs guidelines.
You can't let a child run the show.
You can't let them run the kitchen.
Chances are they'll just eat breakfast cereal all day.
So it becomes a conversation with yourself.
It becomes a negotiation.
What else can I give that child such that I can appease it?
And how can I breathe in my adult, my king, my inner queen to be present and make the choice?
So it's a practice. Yeah. And it's really important to learn the skills to really understand the origins of your thinking around what you're eating. Because it's often not
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But also, eating in certain ways can drive feelings that are problematic for us, right?
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Absolutely. Food influences mood. Our mood influences our food, i.e. what food we eat
and how we digest and assimilate and calorie burn it. You know, I think at the most basic,
simple level, and you just mentioned this, if I eat poor quality food, if I eat junk food, I'm driven to eat more.
Now, a part of that, a big part of that is poor quality food tends to be low in nutrient density.
And head brain and gut brain, the brain in your belly, the enteric nervous system,
those two brains are constantly scanning a meal. And they're scanning the nutritional profile of the meal.
And body wants good nutrition.
That's what it wants. And when you feed a body food that is bulky, it seems like there's a lot of caloric value here, but it's lacking in the right micronutrition or macronutrition.
Brain isn't always smart enough to say, hey, you know, you need more vitamins and minerals.
You need more essential fatty acids.
The brain just generally will scream hungry. It wants us to look for more food because we're not
getting what we need. We're not meeting a nutritional requirement. That to me is the
wisdom of the body. For sure, so many of the junk foods that you and I are exposed to are designed,
unfortunately, to addict us to them. They have the right crunch profile. They have the right
flavor and sweet and salty profile to capture us. They have the right combination of sweet and fat.
There are certain 50-50 combinations of sweet and fat that'll easily get us hooked.
So and then once we're hooked, you feel bad about yourself because you think you're a
willpower weakling.
But what's actually happening, it's your biology that's driving you to eat more.
But if I think I'm a willpower weakling, I'm going to go down the rabbit hole of I'm a
victim, woe is me.
And we get disempowered. and then we just feel stuck.
Yeah, it's so true.
I mean, I think Kevin Hall did an interesting study where he basically let people eat as much as they wanted or whatever was in front of them.
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dense whole food as much as they wanted. And the people who were given the ultra processed food
ate 500 calories more a day because they weren't getting the nutrition they wanted, the nutrient
density. And it's like looking for love in all the wrong places. And it actually, there's medical conditions around this. One of them is called pica,
where little kids eat dirt in order to get iron because they're iron deficient. So, I mean,
you know, our biology is smarter than we are and we're going to keep eating and eating.
But if we keep eating things that have no nutrient density, we're just going to overeat. And then
we're going to get this vicious cycle. And then those foods are addictive. And then we gain weight and then we feel worse.
And we actually drive hormonal patterns that cause us to eat more. And so you've kind of got,
you end up with this kind of mishmash of biology and psychology that is just sort of a disaster.
And you have to really elegantly embrace both of, both of those pillars. Here's another thing. So many people have been taught
that, well, in order for you to lose weight, you have to go low fat. And there's a lot of people
that still believe that. A lot of people are on low fat weight loss diets. And low fat or low
and essential fats, we call them essential for a reason. So your listeners know my body needs this.
But a lot of people don't understand that.
They don't get that.
They're listening to old science.
So they're eating low fat.
And you show me a person who's eating low fat, who's then becoming fat deficient.
And I'll show you a person who will be binge eating and emotional eating and overeating
and thinking that there's something wrong with them because they can't control their
appetite.
No, what's actually happening is you should be on your hands and knees thanking your
body because it's brilliant and it's letting you know you have a nutritional deficiency.
The challenge also is that a lot of times if we're fat deficient or if we're protein deficient,
brain isn't always smart enough to have you crave fat. Sometimes you could be fat
deficient and you'll just crave sugar or you'll crave carbs. Or a lot of people will be fat
deficient and they'll crave poor quality fats. They'll want to go for the fried foods because
that's sort of what their body knows. And that's what their body wisdom is unfortunately driving
them towards. But the point is, it's easy to be low fat.
You're driven to emotionally eat. And that drivenness is real. You feel it. And you feel,
my God, I got to eat. I got to have this. Because the body is in a little bit of a desperate place.
It knows that it needs this nutrient so you can have a functioning brain and a functioning hormonal system.
So there's a little bit of an urgency there.
And that urgency feels like something's wrong with me.
Yeah, it's so true because, you know, a lot of people don't realize this, but if you're obese, you're very likely to be nutrient deficient.
You have excess fat, but you have low nutrients in your system.
And I see this over and over again. I had a patient at Cleveland Clinic, it was shocking.
You know, I call them functional medicine virgins where they, you know, there's a lot of the
patients I see, you know, really tried everything, try to be healthy, eat well. This was just someone
who came into our program who really had never even heard of a vegetable, basically. And they were fairly educated,
but they just didn't understand anything about nutrition.
And they grew up eating junk food in their family,
and that's what they ate.
And she was, you know, massively overweight.
Her BMI was like 43.
And she had diabetes, heart failure, you know,
kidneys failing, liver failing.
It was quite amazing.
And when I did her testing,
I was so shocked to see, like,
the level of nutritional dysfunction in her system, you know, deficiencies of zinc and B vitamins, magnesium deficiency, omega-3 fats.
Her omega-6 to 3 fat ratio was 20 to 1, which is just ridiculously dangerous.
And you should be like 1 to 1 or 2 to 1.
I mean, it was horrible.
And I was like, wow, she's so overweight, but she's so
malnourished at the same time. Fascinating. Fascinating what the body does. Yeah. You know,
and so many people, so many people, when they approach dieting is we, we will generally go to
the golden, the seeming golden rule of dieting, which is to eat less and exercise
more, which works when it works. But there's a lot of people who are dieting and they're going
so low calorie that what will happen is they're going too low calorie and they're eating and
they're not getting enough nutrient density. So what happens if I'm going low calorie or I'm
skipping meals? You show me a
person who's so many dieters, what I see them doing because they believe food is the bad guy.
So let me try to not eat breakfast. So they have a small breakfast, maybe they have a cup of coffee
and then they'll have a tiny lunch. They'll have a salad with a nonfat salad dressing.
And then it is predictable that by three or four o'clock, they're going to be binge eating.
Why? Because they're starving and they think they have a willpower problem. Once again,
they think I'm an emotional eater. Something's wrong with me. I can't control myself. It's
actually no, you need to learn how to become an eater. And diets are teaching people how not to
eat. And most people need to learn how to eat. Like what are the right foods for me to
eat, the right way for me to eat them, the right mental emotional state for me to eat that food.
That's where the action is. Yeah, it's true. And I think, you know, I want to sort of dip into this
because it's a complicated web of reasons why we don't have a healthy relationship to food.
Some of it can be biological, as we just
talked about, where the quality of the food we're eating in America is driving our behavior,
not our emotional problems. But at the same time, there's a whole set of psychological reasons
and trauma that drives overeating or poor quality eating. And I think that's not talked about
enough. And I,
you know, one of the questions that I have on my medical questionnaire is, have you ever experienced
abuse or trauma or, you know, sort of a vague kind of teaser question. And it's just remarkable how
many people have been victims of abuse as children. And we know now through the ACE questionnaire,
which is a questionnaire that we have all our patients fill out at adverse childhood events. It's highly correlated with cardiometabolic disease, diabetes, autoimmune
diseases, early death. I mean, it's just, it's striking how powerful it is in obesity for sure.
And so it's like I said before, it's not what's, what are you eating, but what's eating you.
And I think the question I have for you is what does the science and psychology tell us about
dysfunctional eating and how connected it is to early childhood trauma, whether it's sexual abuse or emotional abuse or other things that are happening?
Well, so much research on weight loss resistance and past history of trauma or sexual abuse.
So, so much research on digestive disorders and past history of trauma and sexual abuse. So much research on digestive disorders and past history of trauma and sexual abuse.
And let's just take the word trauma for a moment and break it down in a real simple way.
Trauma is undigested life experience. Trauma is a stress response that has never had the
opportunity to resolve itself.
So I might have a stressful event. Somebody steals my parking space that I was going to take.
I yell and scream in my car. And then five minutes later, I get over it, hopefully. So that stress,
it gets resolved. Now, oftentimes what happens is, particularly when we're young, we experience life events that the child's mind cannot handle.
A child's mind does not know how to process sexual abuse.
A child's mind does not know how to process, you know, death of a parent.
A child's mind doesn't know how to process intense violence that it was subject to or saw.
So children are good observers, but very poor interpreters.
So what often happens is the stress that we experience stays in the body.
It lives in the body.
It doesn't resolve itself.
And when stress lives in the body as unresolved,
it will invariably show up as unwanted symptom and or unwanted behaviors.
So if I have unresolved stress in my system, hey, what gives me temporary relief?
Food.
I'm going to want to turn to food because it makes me feel better.
It works in the moment, but it never touches.
It doesn't give us the deep enough relaxation response that the past trauma requires to unwind.
It doesn't give us what that past trauma needs to resolve itself.
It's just a very temporary, fleeting little drug that we put over it.
You know, there's a correlation oftentimes with, you know, some of the biggest animals in nature are the ones that
are most protected. You know, yeah, you can say the lion is the king of the jungle, but it's kind
of the elephant. You know, nobody messes with the elephants. They're really big. You don't like to
mess with the rhinoceros. They're really big. So oftentimes when we experience a trauma, particularly a sexual trauma at a young age, we will respond by having a
big body. And it's what body wisdom, it's what the body wisdom of a child knows to do, because some
part of that child knows that if I get really big, and if I gain weight, I'm not a sexual target.
I am safe. I'm big and I'm safe. Big equals safe. And big also equals not a sexual target. I am safe. I'm big and I'm safe. Big equals safe. And big also equals not a sexual
target. So some part of us knows that. And hopefully at some point when we become an adult
and we have opportunities to understand better and have more wisdom and find the help that we need,
then we can begin to unwind the trauma because it's an undigested experience. It just
needs to be processed. That's a very interesting way of talking about an undigested experience.
You know, I remember you talking to me, you know, when I was going through my divorce and you were
talking about, you know, we need to be able to metabolize our experience. And if we don't
metabolize them, they eat at us literally, or we eat at it.
And I think that's such a brilliant frame of how to think about the way we are in relation to the
traumas and emotions that we all go through in life. And how do we not sabotage ourselves? And
how do we kind of get free a little bit? Because what you're talking about essentially through
your Institute for the Psychology of Eating, through your coaching programs, and through your
incredible online course you've offered to everybody, not just coaches,
called the Emotionally Eating Breakthrough. You know, you offer a roadmap of how to work through
these things in a way that destigmatizes it and allows people to get free from things that they
didn't even realize they were prisoners of. Yeah, I love creating programs that work.
You know, so often we're running around in circles and we're doing the same strategies.
You know, people try to resist food and they try to not eat and they try to use willpower.
And eventually that becomes so uncomfortable that you turn to food to manage the discomfort that you have about the fact that
you turn to food. So it becomes an endless cycle. So there's all kinds of ways to really reframe
and practices to do that help us really transform our emotional relationship with food. And that also helps us begin the process of very
sort of more naturally finding our natural weight. You know, a lot of people are wishing for
weight loss. And oftentimes before we lose weight, we have to sort of gain some life. We have to
embrace our own life and just kind of get to a deeper place of what's happening.
You know, it's so much of it as people think, well, you know, when I reach my ideal target weight, then I'm going to be happy.
Then I'm going to be the real me.
Then I'll be fabulous.
I'm going to be confident.
I'm going to be sexy.
I'll be doing all these things.
And when I ask my weight loss clients, OK, write down a list of who you're going to be when you lose weight. There's only two things that they can't do now. The only thing they can't do now is fit into their skinny clothes and feel like they're just light and bouncy. Otherwise, you can start being more confident now. You could be the real you now. You could be more outgoing now. You could be dating if you're not in a relationship. You can feel more sexy now. But if I'm putting that off into the future, then I'm basically proclaiming I am going to be unhappy now,
which then leads us to do all these unhappy strategies to lose weight so we can feel good
about ourselves. And we're self-attacking along the way. I hate my body. My body's no good.
My body will, I will only accept myself when I lose weight.
So the question is, how could a journey, how could a weight loss journey that's filled
with self-attack or self-hate possibly lead to a destination of I'm happy?
Doesn't work.
The journey is always going to inform the destination.
It's so true.
It's so true. It's so true.
I mean, I think, you know, I would love to sort of talk about how we help people to reframe
some of these beliefs around food and eating and how we can kind of change those because
it seems very tough to do for people.
I mean, we can understand the high level psychology of this.
We can understand it comes from our trauma.
We can understand that if we eat nutrient poor food, we're going to overeat and we can understand that it comes from our trauma. We can understand that if we eat nutrient-poor food, we're going to overeat.
And we can understand that it's not our fault.
But how do we really, really shift those beliefs and around eating, around food and eating that are driving us into this?
That's a great question.
Really, really important.
I think the first thing to do is to identify the beliefs that need to be changed. The beliefs that are so
powerful, the toxic beliefs that are so powerful that they're holding us back. Example, so many
people are walking around with the toxic dietary belief that food is my enemy. Why is food my
enemy? I'm trying to lose weight. How did this weight get here? It must have been
food. So if the weight is the enemy, the fat on my body is an enemy because if I'm fat,
then I'm not going to be healthy and people won't love me and I won't be sexy and fabulous like the
movies and the songs say I should be. So we conclude that food is the enemy. So that's where
restriction and diet consciousness comes from. Now, food is the enemy. So that's where restriction and diet consciousness comes from.
Now, food is the enemy.
Think about it for a second.
What does the brain do when it senses enemy?
When the brain senses enemy, it goes into a stress response.
And the stress response, it's a graded response.
There's mild, medium, intense stress.
But if I'm walking around day in and day out throughout the course of my life, because I
learned as a young child, food is your enemy. You're too chubby. You're not acceptable until
you lose weight. Then if food is my enemy, I'm in a constant stress response. So I'm elevating my
insulin, my cortisol, those two hormones for so many people can signal the fat storage, inhibit
muscle building. Stress response deregulates our appetite. So if you
want your most natural appetite regulation, you got to be a relaxed human. You got to be in
parasympathetic nervous system dominance. If you're in a stress state, your appetite regulation is
completely skewed. So people will get in a stress state just by the false belief. Food is my enemy. That stress
state is impacting their physiology and impacts your digestion. If you're eating food in a stress
state, you'll be doing some degree of nutrient excretion. So you could be eating the healthiest
food in the universe, but if you're not under the optimum state of digestion and assimilation,
which is the relaxation response, you're not
getting the full value from that meal. So we have to notice, do I have this belief that food is my
enemy? Because a lot of people do. As soon as they get hungry, by extension, appetite is their enemy.
And that's like saying breathing is my enemy.
That's like saying peeing is my enemy.
Like, no, you've got to do it.
There's no way around this.
So we have to notice that, and then we have to,
and it becomes a practice.
It's a personal practice.
It's a transformational practice.
You can call it a spiritual practice where you have to align yourself with how you're created, with how life made you, with how biology works.
You're an eater.
Food is good.
You might as well make friends with it.
So it becomes a practice to make friends with food.
It becomes a daily affirmation.
It becomes catching yourself when you notice you're repeating the mantra, food is my enemy.
That's great.
It's such great advice.
Let's talk about this idea of self-compassion and not beating ourselves up.
And how do we break these patterns of emotional eating that keep us stuck?
Can you talk about that?
Yes. You know, self-compassion is a very much needed nutrient in the whole nutritional conversation because what happens so much is that in the universe of weight loss, in the universe of emotional eating and overeating and binge eating, what people will tend to do is to self-attack. They will be embodying the archetype of the
perfectionist. Like, I got to be perfect. I've got to look perfect. I got to wait perfect. I
got to eat perfect. And as soon as we're not perfect, the abuser in us comes in and beats
us up for not being perfect. So always around the corner from our perfectionism
tends to be self-abuse. You show me a perfectionist who's eating really well and
exercising really well, and I'll show you a person who at some point is going to be hating themselves
and abusing themselves with their thoughts or their own words. So self-compassion is a practice. Like what I'll often tell people is think about it.
If your child has baby fat, are you going to tell your child,
I'm not going to love you until you have six-pack abs and buns of steel,
and you'll be unacceptable to me until you lose all your baby fat?
Like, no, no, you wouldn't say that to a child.
You wouldn't say to your best friend, oh, you emotionally't say that to a child. You wouldn't say to your
best friend, oh, you emotionally ate today. I hate you. I'm not going to talk to you.
I'm going to punish you. I'm like, no, you wouldn't isolate them. So you have to start
treating yourself the way you would treat a loved one, the way you would treat your child,
the way you treat your best friend. And that becomes a practice. There's a part of us that thinks that beating myself up
is noble. And we absorb that viral behavior from the world. And it just doesn't work.
No, it's true. And it's true not just for eating too. I mean, true for everything. If we actually
said out loud everything we say to ourselves, or we said it to a friend or anybody else, you know, it would be terrifying, right?
We actually reveal our inner dialogue to ourselves.
It can be such a powerful tool for healing.
I did that work and I spent a lot of time literally every day writing down all the stupid shit my head said.
And I was like, whoa. And then I began to call in a higher state of
witness and awareness and consciousness in my higher self, which sometimes is hard to find.
But it ultimately gave me so much freedom and allowed me to learn so much about myself
and stop having this. I mean, literally, if you wrote it down and then you said it to a friend,
I mean, you say, like, you know, they would probably hit you in the head, you know, what are you talking about? Right.
One of my great memories in life, when I first started studying yoga, my yoga teacher, I don't
know, I must've been 19 years old. And the teacher said, you know, as we're doing all these postures,
he said, yoga is the study of, it's the practice of harnessing your mind.
And I thought, huh?
And he started saying, just empty your mind.
Don't look around the room.
Don't compare yourself to other people.
Don't criticize your own body.
Just get present in the posture.
And I realized how hard that was for me.
Because I was doing
everything he said I should be doing. I was comparing myself. I was criticizing myself.
I was thinking, oh, man, I'm tight here and I can't do this and I can't do that. She's better.
He's better. And I think to your point, part of life, you know, is in eating as in life, we are learning how to harness the mind and regulate our emotions.
And oftentimes our mind has all these beliefs about food and the body that make us crazy.
And our emotions have us do unwanted behaviors like reach for food that end up making us crazy or cause us to gain weight or cause us to feel just as heavy and dense.
And it all goes back to we're being human beings. And it's kind of what you've been taught since
you were a child. You know, don't hit. That's regulating your emotions. You know, yeah,
you can scream and cry and complain, but after a while you got to stop. And there's certain things
you don't say to people. You got to be respectful. So we're learning at a young age, here's how you
be as a human so you can be your best self. And yet we don't always learn the more advanced course.
You know, a lot of times we just end up needing to go take a workshop or go read
some good books or do whatever it is that we need to do to really turbocharge our own personal
growth. So all for the purpose of being your best self, having the life that you say you want to
have begins with starting to look at the contents of my mind and just harnessing it, getting it on a leash.
Yeah, getting it on a leash.
It is like training your brain.
We talk about exercise and we don't talk about training our brain and our thoughts.
And we are so undisciplined when it comes to our mind and our thoughts. So I think a lot of the psychology of eating is starting to become aware of it. And then starting to learn how to become more in charge rather than having our thoughts run our
lives. We actually can run our thoughts. And that's a very novel idea to many people, but it
actually is the key to happiness and freedom and forget about weight loss, just having a great life.
So it's really so important. I'm waiting to talk about the archetypes you talk
about in your work, the rebel, the good girl, the artist. Can you talk a little bit about that? You
mentioned the rebel briefly, but talk about how working with those archetypes helps inform how
you work with people. You know, think of the archetypes, the voices, the personalities inside us, it's kind of like our committee. And if you want to have
a good life, it's good to be in good stead with your committee. It's good to deploy your committee
in a way that works for you. So yeah, we have the voice of the child in us that wants what it wants
when it wants it. I have the voice of the rebel in me that just like, don't tell me what to eat. I don't like food restriction. And if I let the rebel take over, if I let the child take over and
sit at the head of the table and make the food choices, then I'm, I, the adult in me, the king
in me, I'm not going to get where I want to go when it comes to my health, when it, when it,
when it comes to being my best self. You know, one of the other archetypes that often shows up in our relationship with food is the hedonist.
And in the positive, the hedonist is the part of us that loves food, that loves pleasure, that loves life.
Like, this is great. Let's eat this. This is so good.
And so many of us were so afraid of food.
Food is my enemy, that we have no pleasure from food.
And we are built to receive pleasure from food.
And if you're eating, but you're not getting pleasure because you're eating and thinking, oh, my God, food is my enemy.
You're in a stress response, stress and cortisol.
The main stress hormone literally blunts our pleasure receptors. So if you're eating your favorite
chocolate cake, and while you're eating it, you're stressed because you're saying, I shouldn't be
eating this. It's fattening. It's bad for me. This is no good. I'm going to stop. I'm going to eat
like 10 chocolate cakes and I'll never stop. Then you actually can't get the pleasure you're seeking.
And then you're going to be more hungry. And then you're going to think once again,
oh, I'm a willpower weakling. But what's really happening is your body's hungering for pleasure. So there's a part
of the hedonist that knows we need pleasure. There's another part of the hedonist that also
understands or that, you know, hedonists can go overboard. And sometimes, you know, so many of my
clients, students over the years, their hedonist archetype is very strong. Like I just want pleasure.
I don't want to be denied. Hey, you know, I'm going to die someday anyway. I might as well eat whatever I want. And I think, okay, that's kind of reasonable, but don't complain to me
when that's not working for you, if that's truly your choice. So with the hedonist in me, I have to negotiate with it because I love pasta.
I absolutely love pasta.
And yeah, I'll eat gluten-free pasta, but every once in a while, I have to have the real deal.
But if I have too much, then I'm in a food coma.
I forget.
Somebody once said the problem with Italian food is like seven days later, you're hungry again.
So it's learning to dialogue with those voices.
You know, there's another voice in us.
I'll often call it the all or nothing eater.
And there's a lot of us who have an all or nothing mentality
when it comes to diet. Either I am following my diet perfectly, I'm eating perfectly paleo,
or I'm eating perfectly vegan, or perfectly sugar free, or I'm jumping to the opposite extreme,
and I'm letting it all go. And I meet a lot of these people. And it's not only a way that they'll do diet, but it's oftentimes
a way that they do other parts of their life. And it becomes a lesson in how do you find balance?
So instead of saying, well, I can only eat perfect, I'm all in or I'm all out, like,
no, let's build in a little pleasure into the system. Let's build in
a little forbidden foods because you know you're going to go to the opposite extreme anyway.
So if we can do 90% healthy and 10% maybe not so healthy, that's better than all or nothing.
So once again, we're using the archetypes, the voices within us to negotiate.
And always, always, always the most aspirational archetype that I'm looking to help my clients invoke, especially if you're, you know, 35, 40 and up, is the king or queen in you.
The king or queen is the voice in you that is royal, that's regal, that's dignified,
that sits on your throne and you know who you are.
And yeah, your weight might not be perfect, but a good queen, that sits on your throne, and you know who you are. And yeah,
your weight might not be perfect, but a good queen doesn't sit on her throne and say to her subjects,
do I need to lose five pounds? Will it make all of you love me more? Will you follow me if I can fit into a different dress? I'm like, no, you don't want to follow that queen. So a queen respects herself. She knows who she is
and she manages her queendom. A good king manages his kingdom. So that's the voice we're looking to
invoke when we're making our food choices. Or if you like, you can call it the adult in you.
Or you can call it your higher self. You're a health champion. I got a health champion in me who just
loves health. Health is so much fun. And a health champion is just a great cheerleader.
The health champion in me can get a little obsessed sometimes and drive me crazy.
But when it's not driving me crazy, it just helps me feel good so it's learning to
it's less about fighting the child or fighting the rebel because that's what we try to do
it's giving the other voices more of a say
and letting them step to the forefront because then there's no fight
you know this is just such such revolutionary, you know, because so much of
the narrative around nutrition is about what to eat, what not to eat, what's good for you,
what's bad for you.
And it's definitely the world I live in for sure.
But, you know, your work is just such a breath of fresh air in terms of helping people understand
the other aspects of eating, which is not just the science of nutrition, but the psychology of eating. And you really have created this remarkable
program called the Emotional Eating Breakthrough. I want you to tell people what it is
and what they're going to learn from it and why it's so valuable for them.
Thanks for asking, Mark. So the Emotional Eating Breakthrough program, it's a 10-week
online transformational experience,
and it's essentially designed to help people find freedom with food, because that's what so many of
us are looking for. Just let me feel free with food. So there are people who emotionally eat,
stress eat, overeat, binge eat, and people who are looking to lose weight but need help when it comes
to managing my unwanted eating habits. So I'm essentially guiding participants
through really a true mind, body, heart, and soul approach. I like to combine the best of psychology
and science and personal development. So essentially through videos, notes, journaling,
specialized practices, you get the wisdom and the information you need
to essentially let go of emotional eating and find a new relationship with food, find a new
relationship with your body. It's a holistic approach to finding your natural appetite and
your natural weight, but without the fight and without the struggle. And, you know, really the benefit of the program
is that when you find freedom with food, it allows you to do the most important thing,
which is living your best life. Like, like, like who do we want to be when we grow up? Who do we
want to be when we have that ideal body or when I'm following my ideal diet. And part of that is learning how to become that person now.
And part of it is learning how to harness our eating psychology
so it's working for us and not against us.
And once that happens, we're more available,
more available for intimacy, for connection, for relationship,
for doing our purpose, for giving our gifts, for having more
energy. So that's the goodies that you come away with from the program. So good. So how do people
learn more about it? Where do they go? You can go to psychologyofeating.com. We have a page to go to.
I don't know if we're going to be able to drop a link into the show notes. So we'll have
a link for that, I presume, where people can go right to our page that lets you know about the
emotional eating breakthrough and you can learn all about it and hear me talk and write and chat
more so you can make a decision that works for you. Great. I think the link is learn.psychologyofeating.com, right?
That's our website, yes.
Yeah, that's great.
So I'm very excited about this course
and how you can help people
to shift in ways that
are often in the way of them
choosing to live a life
that's fully aligned with who they are,
what they want and what matters.
And I think, you know, so many people just struggle with this aspect of eating and they don't know how to
connect the dots. They don't, they know it's something that's not right. And it's not just
about eating more broccoli. It's something else going on here that's in their way. And I think
that's such a powerful gift you've given the world through your books and through your Institute for
Psychology of Eating and through this amazing new course that I'd encourage everybody to sign up for the emotional eating breakthrough. It's a, it's a bargain. Uh, and I, I thank you so much
for creating it and giving it as a gift to the world. Mark. Mark, thanks for your generous words.
Thanks for the kind words and always so good to hang out and talk with you. That's so great. Um,
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Just a reminder that this podcast is for educational purposes only.
This podcast is not a substitute for professional care by a doctor or other qualified medical
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professional advice or services.
If you're looking for help in your journey, seek out a qualified medical practitioner. If you're looking for a functional
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It's important that you have someone in your corner who's trained, who's a licensed healthcare
practitioner, and can help you make changes, especially when it comes to your health.