The Dr. Hyman Show - The Daily Practice That Will Change Your Life And Improve Your Health
Episode Date: July 22, 2022This episode is brought to you by Athletic Greens and Paleovalley. If there was something you could do every day to boost your focus and productivity, feel energized, reduce stress, sleep better, main...tain a positive outlook, and support whole-body health, wouldn’t you do it? It’s for all these reasons, and more, that meditation is a foundational pillar to good health. In today’s episode, I talk with Daniel Goleman, Emily Fletcher, and Dr. Joe Dispenza about how meditation changes lives by reducing stress, creating resilience, and improving emotional intelligence.  Daniel Goleman is best known for his worldwide bestseller Emotional Intelligence and most recently coauthored the book Altered Traits: Science Reveals How Meditation Changes Your Mind, Brain, and Body. Goleman has been ranked among the 25 most influential business leaders by several business publications including Time and the Wall Street Journal. Apart from his writing on emotional intelligence, Goleman has written books on topics including self-deception, creativity, transparency, meditation, social and emotional learning, eco-literacy, and the ecological crisis.  Emily Fletcher is the founder of Ziva, the creator of The Ziva Technique, and a leading expert in meditation for high performers. She is also the author of Stress Less, Accomplish More.  Dr. Joe Dispenza’s passion can be found at the intersection of the latest findings from the fields of neuroscience, epigenetics, and quantum physics to explore the science behind spontaneous remissions. He uses that knowledge to teach people how to heal their bodies of health conditions, make significant changes in their lives, and evolve their consciousness. Since 2010, he has partnered with scientists and universities to perform extensive research on the effects that meditation has on the brain and body. He and his team have also studied gene expression, protein regulation, immune response, neurotransmitter changes, telomere length, and variations in bioactive cellular metabolic particles in novice and advanced meditators.  This episode is brought to you by Athletic Greens and Paleovalley. AG1 contains 75 high-quality vitamins, minerals, whole-food sourced superfoods, probiotics, and adaptogens to support your entire body. Right now when you purchase AG1 from Athletic Greens, you will receive 10 FREE travel packs with your first purchase by visiting athleticgreens.com/hyman. Paleovalley is offering my listeners 15% off their entire first order. Just go to paleovalley.com/hyman to check out all their clean Paleo products and take advantage of this deal. Full-length episodes of these interviews can be found here: Daniel Goleman Emily Fletcher Dr. Joe Dispenza
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Meditation changes you in beneficial ways,
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this week's episode of The Doctor's Pharmacy. Hi, this is Lauren Feehan, one of the producers of The Doctor's Pharmacy podcast. Meditation is a potent tool with incredible
health benefits and is accessible to everyone. It also increases self-awareness, improves empathy,
reduces fear, boosts logic, and enhances relationship management. Meditation can also
make us more emotionally intelligent and therefore more successful in all areas of life.
In today's episode, we feature three conversations from the doctor's pharmacy on how meditation changes the brain to reduce stress and make us more resilient.
Dr. Hyman speaks with Daniel Goldman on the impact of meditation on emotional intelligence and empathy,
with Emily Fletcher on how meditation reduces our stress levels,
and with Dr. Joe Dispenza on why meditation is the first step to changing our biology.
Let's dive in.
It's very clear from the data that meditation, which is basically an exercise in attention,
helps you help strengthen the circuitry for paying attention.
And then...
Wait, wait, wait.
I just want to emphasize what you just said there because
strengthen the circuitry for attention. And then... Wait, wait, wait. I just want to emphasize what you just said there, because strengthen the circuitry for attention. So in other words, your brain is like a muscle
that if you exercise in the right way, you can train it to be better at things.
It's called neuroplasticity. And science now tells us that the more you practice
and work out a brain circuit like a muscle, the stronger the
connections get, the better it works. So the basic move in meditation, say mindfulness,
very popular these days. Mindfulness starts with watching your breath. You put your mind on your
breath, you watch the inhalation, the exhalation, and you know what? Your mind's going to wander.
Wanders 50% of the time, Harvard research tells us. And you notice it wandered and you know what? Your mind's going to wander. Wanders 50% of the time, Harvard research tells
us. And you notice it wandered and you bring it back. That's the rep. The basic rep is noticing
that it wandered and bringing it back. It's just like going to the gym. Every time you lift a
weight, you make that muscle that much stronger. Every time you notice your mind wandered and you
bring it back, you make the circuitry for paying attention that much stronger.
That's right. So that is a powerful idea that you can actually train your brain like you can train your muscles. You can condition your brain like you can condition your body.
And this is one of the big differences I saw with the psychology that I knew at the time,
was that nobody thought you could change the brain. It was just a given. You worked
within those parameters. You took the limits that you had as how you will always be. And these
Eastern psychologists said, hey, no, this is just a starting point. But if you practice,
it's interesting, they call meditation practice. Practice. Because you're practicing. Yeah. You're getting used to
making your mind more flexible, more focused, more calm. The bonus is if you do loving kindness
meditation, it works out a different set of circuits, like working out different muscles.
Yeah. And it makes the mammalian caretaking circuitry, which is a parent's love for a child, stronger. So people
who do that kind of meditation actually become kinder. They actually are more generous, more
altruistic. So it depends what you do as it does when you go to the gym. Whatever you work out is
what you can improve. And same with meditation. Whatever kind of meditation you do, that's where
the benefits will be. Yeah. And it's interesting because most people are like, oh, meditation is a waste of time. What
am I doing? I'm just sitting there staring at my navel. But it actually has this powerful effect
on so many different aspects of life. You wrote this book, Altered Traits, where you actually
talk about how it changes who you are in a positive way.
Exactly. So the naive notion that working out mentally is a waste of time just
doesn't understand what the benefits are. Like I said, you get more calm, you get more clear and
focused, you get kinder, calm, clear, kind. That's actually a better human being. Happier.
It's all about well-being, Mark. Yeah. I mean, it's true. I studied Buddhism when I was in college.
I went to these 10-day Zen meditation retreats.
You'd come out of there feeling you just took LSD.
Everything was crystal clear.
It was just everything just seemed magic and beautiful.
And then I kind of went through having medical school and becoming a parent, and I kind of
fell off it.
And a number of years ago, I picked it back up again in a way that is really profoundly impacted me.
And I noticed that I don't get upset or triggered or angry.
Well, there was one time my wife said I got angry.
That was when we checked in a hotel.
We were first kind of getting together and there were two double beds.
And I was super tired and i lost it but other than that i don't think i was meditating that much
than i was but i was like it was sort of over the limit but i usually notice that i i'm not
triggered even by stressful events that's another thing that the changes are subtle all of a sudden
you notice i'm not getting angry well you have to notice sudden you notice I'm not getting angry. Well, you have to notice
harder to notice you're not getting angry. But things that would trigger you in the past don't
trigger you as much or as often or as strongly, or if they do, you recover more quickly. Which is
the technical definition of resilience is how long it takes you to recover from peak of arousal
to getting back to calm.
And the studies that we looked at in Altered Traits make it very clear this happens.
And there's a dose-response relationship.
The more you do it, the stronger the benefits.
Yeah, what is interesting is in your book, you looked at different kinds of meditators. So there's the beginners.
And there's a lot of benefit you get from just doing it.
We were surprised right away.
Like the first 10 hours of practice,
you get benefits that are measurable.
You don't have to be in a cave for nine years, right?
No.
And the benefits accrue very fast.
But then there's the kind of Olympic meditators, right?
The guys have been meditating literally nine years in a cave
every day, all day.
And you put those people in brain scans and you look at their brain waves and you found some
amazing stuff. Their brains are different in good ways. One of them is interesting. I really like
something called the gamma wave. We all get gamma, like when you have a great idea or when you
picture very vividly, like biting into a peach and it's so crunchy and the smell and the sound and the taste.
When that comes together, you get a gamma for about a quarter second.
These yogis-
That's why I eat peaches a lot.
These yogis have gamma all the time.
Unbelievable.
It's never been seen before.
A couple of remarkable things about them. Another is I was in the lab when the first yogi
was run. And for statistical analytic reasons, this is in an fMRI. An MRI is like a human cigar
case. You just put in this giant magnet that whirs around you. Some people are so frightened of the
MRI, they have to go in a practice MRI to get ready for the MRI. Oh, it's scary. I meditate when I go there because I don't
freak out. So this first guy, yogi who goes in, and these yogis were flown over one by one.
So the first one goes in and they say, okay, we want you to do four different kinds of meditation
and do the meditation for 60 seconds. Then you'll hear a buzzer, then nothing
for 30, and then 60 again, and then buzzer, nothing 30, like four times for each meditation.
I don't know about you, but if you or anyone listening to this meditates, it's like,
it takes my mind a little while to settle down, but these yogis could do it instantly.
Wow.
And the readout showed that each of those four
meditations, there was visualization, concentration, open presence, whatever it was,
they could do it immediately. And there was a unique profile for each. So in other words,
their brains are really flexible and they have them under just unbelievable mastery.
And then there are things like...
And structurally they're different too, right?
What happens, this is really encouraging for someone in my age group,
the brain ages more slowly the more you meditate.
And there was this one of the 14 yogis who was like this superstar.
Like when he did compassion, his circuits for happiness, interestingly, talk about well-being, activated like 700% to 800%.
700% to 800% has never been seen.
It's not thought to be possible.
Like somebody lifting 2,000 pounds of weights, right?
But think about this.
The moment he thought of being compassionate, he got happy.
Yeah.
Like, big time.
Right.
Well, that's an interesting point, because what we know is that altruism, and in a sense,
that's compassion.
Yes, it is.
Triggers the same pleasure centers in the brain as heroin or cocaine.
And it's much safer.
It's a little trick.
So the Dalai Lama has always said the first person to benefit from compassion is the one who feels it.
Yes, that's right.
That's very well put.
Yeah, it's so true.
And what's fascinating is, I was listening to Michael Pollan, who's going to be on our podcast,
talk about the effect of psychedelic drugs and the research going on around how they affect the brain.
Yes.
And he says they suppress something called the default mode network, which is this new area of the brain that was recently discovered that seems to be where the ego lives, where the sense of separation from- Our thoughts of ourself, my worries, what's wrong in my relationships, all of that is default.
It's the I, the little I of the little self, which is all about the threat to the ego,
which is protective and defensive and fearful. And it's what we want to protect and control
things with. And when that area gets suppressed with psychedelics,
it allows you to feel one with the world
and connection to everybody and love.
And your little self gives way to the big self.
And the same thing happens with meditation.
Well, there's a difference.
It's a very big difference.
We call our book Altered Traits, not Altered States.
Yeah.
Because Michael is talking about
an altered state. The minute that drug leaves your body, I'm sorry, the self comes back.
So meditation changes the brain in a lasting way. That's the altered trait. And it's a very
important difference. And that's what causes suffering, right? According to the Buddhist
philosophy, suffering is your attachment to things
being a certain way, which is usually driven by your ego. Yes. And liking or disliking this or
that, and worrying about this thing and that person and all of that. The ego is the source
of suffering. And that's one thing that we found is that the part of the brain where the ego lives, so to speak, gets smaller.
It reduces in meditators, in yogis, in long-term meditators.
That's fascinating.
So was there any other wisdom that came out of that Altered Traits book
and things that people should really know?
Well, I think the bottom line is that meditation changes you in beneficial ways.
And the very best kind of meditation is the one you will do.
I don't recommend any brand.
It's whatever you can stick with.
Because they all seem to have the same general benefits.
And you don't have to be in a meditation hall in the Himalayas, you know, wearing a maroon robe.
On the subway.
Don't do it while you're driving, please.
Yeah.
But if you're a passenger, you're free to do it.
You can do it anywhere that you can put aside everything else.
Yeah.
And make a space for yourself, which in itself is a luxury these days.
A time and a place where you're just there for yourself.
I've even meditated in a lecture sometimes.
I'm like, that's boring.
I just close my eyes.
Wherever you can do it.
I put on my Bose headphones on the plane.
Nobody's going to bother you.
That's the only thing.
It has to be,
because you don't want to have to pay attention
to other stuff.
That's the point.
Yeah.
And just to touch back on what we said,
you don't have to be an Olympic meditator to get the benefits. We know even in people who are
beginners who have done it for weeks or days actually start to see benefit. And it seems to
improve the immune system, increase stem cells, increase brain connections, increase neurogenesis,
which is new brain cells.
It helps to regulate inflammation in the body.
It's pretty extraordinary.
And it's free.
And it's free.
Meditation is medicine, just like food is medicine.
I think it's so powerful.
Now, you also, you know, aside from all this work you've done in meditation, it's sort
of, you came out all this work around emotional intelligence
through understanding some of these concepts.
And the emotional intelligence work was a pretty new idea at the time.
Well, you know, emotional intelligence actually was not my idea.
Everybody thinks it was.
Oh, I thought it was.
No, Peter Salovey, who's now the president of Yale,
wrote an article in a very obscure journal called Emotional Intelligence. I was a science
journalist at the New York Times. Oh, so you wrote about it. I just made it famous because
that journal doesn't exist anymore. It would have gone into oblivion if I hadn't rescued it. But I
thought, what a great idea, how counterintuitive. It's an oxymoron. You don't put emotions together with intelligence,
but actually it's about being intelligent about emotion.
So I think the fact that I had immersed myself in meditation
and in an Eastern framework made me more open to seeing
that this could be a very powerful idea.
I particularly argued that we should be teaching kids the skills of emotion.
The skills are fourfold.
Self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, and relationship skills.
These are the life skills.
And empathy is kind of like compassion, right?
Empathy is the root of compassion.
There are three kinds of empathy.
This is important to understand.
There's cognitive empathy.
I know how you think.
I know the terms you put things in. I know how you think. I know the terms you
put things in. I know your mental models. Makes me a very good communicator with you.
I know how to put things so you'll understand it. However, the second kind is emotional
empathy. I feel what you feel. These are operated, they operate in different parts of the brain.
The third kind I think is the most important it's called empathic concern
and it uses same circuits as mammalian caretaking it's a parent's love for a child
and this means not only do i know how you think and how you feel i care about you because you
can use the first two for manipulation yeah there's a a book now saying you know empathy is
uh there's a dark side to empathy. That is the dark side,
that you can use your ability to understand how the other person is thinking and feeling
to make them do what you want if you don't have the third kind. The third kind is the inoculation.
If you care about them, if you're concerned, you're not going to do that. You're going to
become compassionate, basically.
That's incredible.
So what does it actually mean when you say someone's emotionally intelligent?
How do you break that down?
I would say that they have strengths in all four of those areas,
that they're self-aware, they know what they're feeling,
they know why they're feeling it.
Maybe they've done some therapy work, for example.
They've looked deeply in their patterns.
My wife, Tara Bennett-Golman, wrote a wonderful book,
Emotional Alchemy, about the emotional patterns that are very common that come up,
particularly in close relationships,
the triggers like fear of abandonment,
emotional deprivation, whatever it may be,
and how mindfulness can help you begin to shift that so they don't get you so upset all the time. Anyway, the first one is
self-awareness. The second is self-reliance. Which meditation helps.
Meditation is self-awareness. Think about it. And then meditation helps you with the other aspects, which are managing your emotions, particularly the upsetting ones.
You don't want to squelch your passions and pleasures, but it's the ones that trigger you that you want to get a handle on.
And also being adaptable, being able to flow with changing demands, being able to achieve your goals. Turns out that achieving goals means that you are able to activate what it will feel
like and look like when you get there.
That keeps you going despite setbacks and obstacles.
Turns out the same part of the brain gets stronger with meditation.
So those are the self-mastery parts of emotional intelligence. Then there's
empathy and relationship. Empathy is tuning into the other person. People never tell us in words
what they feel. They tell us in tone of voice, facial expression, all kinds of other ways. Can
you pick it up or not? And then what do you do with it? Can you use that in a good way? Can you
use it to benefit? Can you work well with that other person, for example?
In school, it means can you get along with other kids?
Can you settle arguments without having a fight?
Can you work things out?
So it's very important.
So I argued every kid should have this education.
Why should we only give?
Particularly, it turns out that when businesses do studies themselves
of what makes someone outstanding, it's emotional that when businesses do studies themselves of what makes someone
outstanding, it's emotional intelligence.
It's not IQ.
IQ gets you in the door.
You need an IQ about a standard deviation greater than the norm, about 114, 115, to
get an advanced degree.
But then you get a job with other engineers or accountants.
They all have that. So there's
what's called a floor effect. It doesn't matter. It's not going to make you outstanding.
What makes you different is that you can manage yourself well. You can achieve your goals. You're
not getting triggered all the time. You empathize with other people. You can work well on a team.
So if you look at what businesses want, it's emotional intelligence. So why aren't we teaching this to kids in schools? This is what's going to help them be better
spouses, better parents, better community citizens, and also not only better workers,
probably leaders. Yeah, right. So you do teach leaders how to do this, right?
Oh yeah. The Harvard Business Review has had me write several articles on leadership and emotional intelligence.
In fact, the first one I wrote, what's it called? What Makes a Leader, was their most
requested reprint ever in quite a long time. It may be number two now, but it came out years and
years ago. Wow, that's amazing. And what did you say about that? What I said was that think of the leaders you love
and the leaders you hate that you've known.
The best boss and worst boss.
And if you list the characteristics of the best boss,
you ask anybody, any group,
they'll come up with emotional intelligence.
And the worst boss is someone who lacks it.
You don't want to work for someone who doesn't have emotional intelligence.
No, and make your life miserable.
You don't want to quit that job.
Meditation, which is, as I teach at Ziva,
is different than what most people have experienced.
That's actually inducing very deep healing rest in the body,
rest that's about five times deeper than sleep.
And when you do that, when you de-excite your nervous system,
you create order, and it allows that lifetime of accumulated stresses from your past to start to come up and
out. Whereas meditation is all about getting rid of your stress from the past. And in that,
we're actually inducing rest that's about five times deeper than sleep. And when you do that,
when you use the meditation tools, you de-excite the nervous system. When you de-excite something,
you create order. When you create orderexcite something, you create order.
When you create order in your cells, it allows for that stress, that backlog of accumulated stresses that we all have in our cellular, now we know epigenetic memory, we allow that stuff
to come up and out. And it's that accumulation of stress in our brain and bodies that makes us
stupid, sick, and slow. It doesn't sound fun. Stupid, sick, and slow. That's not how I want
to go through life. No, stress makes you stupid. We're making t-shirts, actually.
Stress makes you stupid.
It actually also makes you demented.
It's one of the causes of dementia.
Stress hormones, cortisol, actually shrink the memory center in the brain.
Another reason to get your bones in the chair.
And so then the third piece that you mentioned, which is manifesting,
which is more of like the visualization or prayer,
I would define manifesting as consciously creating a life you love it's getting intentional about what you want your life to look
like and while that might sound simple because it is I'm always fascinated by
how infrequently people are doing that how infrequently people stop to really
ask well how much money do I want to make or what's my dream vacation look
like or what's my dream partner look like instead we just complain about our current circumstances instead of getting intentional.
So that's really the trifecta of Ziva, mindfulness, meditation, and manifesting.
But there's mindfulness meditation.
Yes.
So people can get confused. What's the difference?
Yes. So I would define mindfulness, like the technique wise is where we are directing our
focus. So if you're doing a guided meditation of any kind,
I'm putting that in the mindfulness camp
because by definition, you are directing your focus.
And in mindfulness, a smaller part of the brain lights up,
but very, very bright,
which is different than Ziva meditation
because the whole brain lights up, but not as bright
because it's almost, one is about focusing
and the other is about surrender.
One is about coming back to your body
and it's a bit of a shorter leash.
Mindfulness is actually derived of styles of meditation
that were originally designed for monks.
Thousands of years ago.
And so it's a little bit more austere.
It's a little bit more disciplined.
It's a shorter leash.
You know, come back, come back to the breath,
come back to the work, come back, come back.
Whereas in Ziva, there's a much longer leash.
I call it the lazy man's meditation
because you're allowed to have thoughts. You're allowed to drift into that sleepy feeling you're allowed to you know let the
technique go and come back to it yeah well yes your wife has outed you out i can't tell if i'm
actually sleeping or if i'm meditating in some deep state of consciousness but it's fun and if
you look if your life's getting better then who cares yeah so
there have been very different techniques you mentioned mindfulness
which is bringing awareness back to the breath the present moment there's
mantra based meditations there's visualizations and they've all been
developed to help raise consciousness they were never developed to really help
you deal with your boss or your wife or work or
bad situations or too much social media.
And they all have different roles and purposes.
Why is it that you sort of picked this mantra-based ancient style of meditation?
Well, to be very honest, the meditation portion of Ziva, that was the first style I ever found.
And it was so profound. I mean, it cured my insomnia on the first day and like i said i didn't get sick for
eight and a half years and and i always prided myself on being a seeker you know i read every
self-help book i went to all the therapists and i was always seeking seeking seeking and it almost
became a part of my identity and then when i found meditation i was like oh i'm not a seeker anymore i'm a listener i found it
i'm a finder it's right here it's inside of me and and that's sort of an esoteric explanation
but what's happening neurochemically is within 30 to 45 seconds of starting your brain and body
start flooding with dopamine and serotonin which are bliss chemicals and so we stop looking
externally for our fulfillment and we start to be able to access it internally.
So binge on mantras instead of binging on munchies and cookies.
Yeah, exactly.
Exactly.
Yeah.
And so that was, it was the meditation portion that really changed my life.
But then when I looked around, I saw there were so many ex-meditators, right?
The world is filled with ex-meditators.
Every time I speak at a conference or go to a corporation.
I was one.
Yeah, you were one, right i mean i would i was younger i would be in
10 day meditation retreats meditating 12 hours a day and you know loving it but yeah but then we
all get busy right so like every talk i give i i say all right i want everyone to raise their hand
if you've ever tried meditation and it's 2018 so almost every hand goes up and then i say all right
how many of you guys have a daily practice that you do no matter what and about 90 of those hands go down yeah and that's
why i wrote this book i want to bridge that gap it makes me sad stress stress less accomplish more
right like stress is making us stupid and it makes me sad that a lot of people start and quit
based on either misinformation or doing a technique that wasn't originally designed for
them one that was designed for monks,
so they feel like they're failing
because they're trying to clear their minds
and then they can't.
And none of us will do anything for very long
that we feel like we're failing at.
Yeah, you have to be in a meditation retreat for eight days
till you get 10 seconds of nothing.
Exactly, but this, it's like within 30 to 45 seconds,
you're like, ooh, this is different and it feels nice and then your whole life gets better.
Because it's designed to make you better at life, it's not designed to remove you
from life. So that's very interesting. So these techniques often were developed by
traditions like Tibetan Buddhism and other Buddhist traditions to help people
achieve a state of awakening. They weren't designed to help you cope with
stress, they weren't designed to help you cope with stress. They
weren't designed to make you happier. They were designed to actually train your brain
into different states of consciousness that allow you to access places that most of us can't access.
And you're saying there's a different approach that can actually take you
to a similar place, but it's sort of a more sort of
tricky route where you get to kind of bypass some of that being in a cave for nine years,
and you can actually be in your life. And like you say, meditation isn't about...
Getting good at meditation.
Getting good at meditation, it's about getting good at life.
That's right. And so you know that delicious feeling for anyone who's ever taken a yoga class
when you lie down at the end
and you have that delicious shavasana?
What the Ziva does is that it fast tracks
that hour-long yoga class.
It allows you to get into that delicious headspace
of the shavasana right off the bat.
And that is valuable if you have a busy life
because you might not have time to go
and take an hour and a half yoga class.
You might not have time to go to a 10-day silent retreat,
but you need to handle your stress
because if you're not managing your stress, it's managing you.
And as you've said on this podcast before,
stress is related to 95% of all disease.
And so it's not just, I think we have to reframe meditation as,
oh, well, that's a luxury thing.
It's like a pedicure for my brain that I'll get around to when I have more time.
It's like, no, we have to reframe this
as the single most important piece
of mental hygiene
that we need to be practicing every day.
One of my missions at Ziva is to make it.
It's like mental floss.
It's mental floss.
I want to make it as rude
to leave your house without meditating
as it would be to leave your house
without brushing your teeth.
It's like, that's gross.
You need to handle that.
Yeah.
And as Mama Marianne said,
she said, we need to be more disciplined.
We need to take care. We need to strengthen our fortitude when it comes to these
spiritual practices. Yeah. I mean, I always thought of it as a nice to have. You got to eat right.
You got to exercise, right? You got to sleep. Those are non-negotiable for creating health but I recently come to believe that meditation
the training of the mind is also non-negotiable hmm well when people say
to me one of those pillars of health that you you can't replace with another
technique I certainly agree and when people say to me well I don't have time
to meditate like you guys this is your brain we're talking about it's
responsible for printing every single cell in your body and making every
single decision in your life so what else are you doing with your time well I
don't have time not to meditate now and I don't know that many people who are
busier than I am I don't know anyone busy and yet it is it is something that
I look forward to that without which I start to feel not well like i i notice the level of agitation
or fatigue or mental strain and i use my brain a lot i feel like it's like taking my brain to a car
wash it's the most amazing thing like i've been working all day in meetings did more podcasts
i'm like you before you came over i was like i'm gonna go sit and meditate and i could have like
you know i could have taken a nap.
But my wife laughs because I can lay down and I can't take a nap.
I can lay there for an hour.
I mean, I sit down and meditate.
And sometimes within five minutes, I'll be napitating if I really need to.
And it's just fantastic.
And I wake up and I feel more connected to myself, more connected to the people around
me, more present.
And I think that's part of the problem with life today is that we are in a state of constant
activity, motion, and we can't easily stop and just be present and appreciate those things
that are so important.
It's the small little things, right?
It's the taste of a cup of tea.
It's feeling your partner touching you on your skin it's watching the light or the leaves or
stupid sound of your son's laughter yeah you have a little baby and and so we we often miss those
things which are the actual beautiful things that make up life and make it amazing and we can miss
them and i feel like i've missed often years just by being in the doing and not in the being and actually beautiful things that make up life and make it amazing. And we can miss them.
And I feel like I've missed often years just by being in the doing and not in the being.
And it allows, paradoxically, by being in the being,
allows you to be more actually in the doing.
It's like this weird thing.
And that's why your book, Stress Less, Accomplish More,
is also about meditation for extraordinary performance. So let's talk about that.
Because I never would have thought that meditation would help performance,
but it clearly does.
I mean, we've seen sports teams do it.
We see CEOs do it.
We see business leaders having their employees do it.
I mean, we've got a guy like Mark Bertolini at Adena,
who is the CEO of one of the biggest insurance companies,
who's super into meditation, yoga, teaches his employees to it.
Yeah, they said that it saved them $3,000 per employee per year after they did that.
I think it was actually mindfulness training.
And that it's saving their employees about three hours or giving their employees three hours of additional productivity time per week.
Yeah.
So I think that actually these two points are very linked,
how meditation could increase your performance and this just spending your whole life doing and
not being. And this is something I call the I'll be happy when syndrome. Yeah. You know,
I'll be happy when I graduate. I'll be happy when I get a job. I'll be happy when I go on vacation.
I'll be happy when I can get some Wi-Fi and answer my work emails. I'll be happy when I get married. I'll be happy when I get divorced. I'll be happy when I have a kid. I'll
be happy when this kid takes an effing nap. You know, it's just, we just think.
It's like a Mad Magazine thing. I'll be happy when.
Yeah. And our little, our happiness becomes this carrot that just gets further and further and
further away and then we die. And that's only sad if you never realize that your fulfillment was
always inside of you
and every spiritual text has been teaching this since the beginning of time what you seek
is in you we have it painted on our wall at ziva and and i think that that's fine to understand as
an intellectual concept but it's much much more powerful to be able to experience that viscerally
tangibly every day twice a day and that in no uncertain terms is what this practice does because
when you start to realize that your fulfillment is inside of you and you start to realize you
actually can access it in a self-sufficient sustainable way you start to be able to
deliver that fulfillment to your life to your family to your job instead of seeking fulfillment
in those places so you actually transition from being neediness, looking to be fulfilled, like which is an addiction, really, and you turn into fulfillment,
looking for need. And I see this in you so much, you're always helping, you're always healing,
you're always contributing, you're writing books, you're starting clinics, you're starting
movements, you're looking at politics of how we can change food. And that's not, you may have been
doing that from a place of ego at one point in your life,
but you're not doing that now. You're doing this from a place of how can I give, how can I up-level?
And I find that the paradoxical thing that happens is that when you get your ego out of the way and
you're not looking for validation in your work, you get the validation that you want.
Yeah. And you know, one of the beautiful side effect is that so many of us are not able to distinguish
between our thoughts and who we are.
We kind of conflate them.
So it's like this one-dimensional way of being which doesn't separate you from this
crazy inner dialogue that we have that says all kinds of stupid things we all
have had at times when we believe the stupid thoughts in our head even if they're not true
we make up our own reality and it's a it's a way of exercising your brain in a way to to refocus your
um your your life on the things that are true and matter. It helps you create that separation.
It's like slowing things down in slow motion
so you can actually see the craziness of your mind
and not listen to it.
So it's really powerful.
Like when things happen to me or difficult things,
I can have a reaction or an emotion
or I can have a negative thought like I'm going to die
or this is never going to be good.
And then I can kind of go, wait a minute, that's just a thought.
It's not true.
It's not me.
It's just a stupid thought, and I can pass it by.
That's very hard to do unless you practice.
And that's why they call it practice.
I mean, you can say, well, I want to lift 100 pounds over my head in a dumbbell.
Well, if you haven't practiced, you're not going to be able to do it.
But if you practice, you can actually do it.
And that's a very powerful thing.
So you get to sort of not conflate, you know, the thought that drives the feeling,
that drives the action.
It's like breaks it all down.
Meditation is not just to meditate and then get up and return back to the same person,
flipping people off on the freeway and judging your partner.
That's going back to the old self.
Meditation is to prime the brain and body into a new state of being, right?
And then maintain that modified state of mind and body your entire day.
You got to be able to practice it with your eyes open,
that no condition, no circumstance in your environment,
no person, no thing, no craving in the body, no wrong choice.
You got to be able to sustain that state. And if you can get ready, because there's going to be
changes in your outer world, that's the law. So when we started studying people that were
healing in this work that were diagnosed, a lot of them with immune mediated conditions, Mark.
Like autoimmune diseases.
Yeah. Autoimmune diseases from cancer to rheumatoid to everything in between.
They noticed that when they started doing the meditations,
they started their wellbeing came back,
but their blood values and their markers never changed.
And it occurred to them, my God, I have a great meditation.
I feel amazing.
But then when I get up i return back to
the same worrying person now i gotta step it up i gotta make the changes with my eyes open and when
they started doing it with their eyes open that's when we started seeing the blood values and
everything changing so in our retreats you can sit as it and get really good at it but then
there's four types of meditation.
There's a seated, there's a standing, there's a walking, and there's a laying down. And so
if you're going to become that person you want to become, you better be able to practice doing
it with your eyes open. So we teach people, 1,000, 1,500 people on a beach or in a park.
It's really cool to watch. Everybody get that, open their hearts, get in that elevated state and move into
a new state of being. And then let's open our eyes. And now let's practice walking with our
eyes open as that person, no different than rehearsing for a play or rehearsing and becoming
that person. And if you do it enough times and a person understands that if they could really,
if I, how would I walk if I could heal my body in an hour who am I gonna leave behind here and who am I gonna walk as
and a lot of people just hit it and when they do you see dramatic changes in
their health because they're actually embodying the energy of their future so
we practice seating sitting and we practice standing and walking practice
laying down we practice it all ways, we practice laying down. We practice
it all ways because we want the person to become that very person in one week. And if they do,
our research shows there's dramatic, dramatic biological markers that change, not small amounts,
like thousands. What are you seeing? What are you seeing? Wow. Oh, my God. Just everything from methylated DNA to changes in cytokines, the changes in immune markers to suppression of ATP and cancer cells to downregulating genes for Alzheimer's.
And we just see dramatic changes in people's biology.
And you mentioned gene expression changes too.
Can you talk about genes?
Because, you know, we don't really think about our thoughts changing our genes, right?
Yeah.
So, I mean, again, I mean, I'd like to simplify it for the average person, for us regular people.
And it's really simple.
I mean, your body's a protein producing machine.
And muscle cells make muscle proteins.
They're called actin and myosin.
Skin cells make skin proteins.
They're called collagen and elastin.
Stomach cells make stomach proteins.
They're called enzymes.
And every cell in your body except red blood cells makes proteins.
And proteins are responsible for structure, holding it together, and functioning physiology, how we work.
It's messengers, right?
But in order for a cell to make a protein, a gene has to be regulated.
So they used to say genes create disease.
Well, you know this.
Less than 1% of the people on the planet are born with a genetic health condition.
Everything else is lifestyle.
It's behavior.
It's stress.
So then is it possible then that if they say now genes don't create disease, it's the environment that signals the gene that creates disease.
Take two identical twins.
Yeah.
You watch one age looks, you know, dies at 54. The other one
lives to 83. They don't even look like the same person, share the same genome. Well, the environment
was signaling the gene expression to make certain proteins. And the person develops a different
condition because it's the environment that does that. But here's the problem. But if the environment
signals the gene, the outer environment of the cell is the inner environment of the body.
And what is that? That's the emotions or chemical, physical and emotional balance that we have to maintain.
So if a person's just constantly living in fear. fear, and even if the environment is wonderful and they're on vacation and they keep remembering
an event or anticipating a future and they're bringing up the emotion of anxiety and fear,
it makes sense then that the person's signaling the gene outside of the outer environment because
they're making the emotion in their inner environment, then there's no difference. And so if that happens, the constant effect by the hormones
of stress downregulate genes and create disease. And if you can turn on that stress response just
by thinking about your problems, then your thoughts are literally going to make you sick.
Yeah.
So if your thoughts can make you sick, can your thoughts make you well?
And you cannot begin to see changes in a person's health until they stop regulating the same genes the same way
and they start up-regulating new genes and down-regulating old genes.
And if they do that, they start producing different enzymes and different chemicals and different hormones,
and their body begins to scale in a different direction.
How is it different from other forms of meditation or practice that people are doing?
Gosh, to be really honest, Mark, I don't even know what anybody else is doing. We're so immersed in
the stuff that we're doing. Basically, what I am, I'm a pragmatist. You want to talk about
quantum superimposition. To me, if it has no effect on my life, I'm not interested. But if it hasn't,
if there's a practical application, I'm, I'm interested in the practical application. So
we look at, we've, I was going to say, we have over 13,000 brain scans. Now we look at real
time brain scans. I'm looking at your brain in a one hour, an hour and 10 minute meditation. At certain moments, I'm watching what you're doing, if you can actually change your brain waves, and if you can sustain those changes, and can you do it again and make it a habit? Can you make it a skill? Can you repeat it enough times that you can do it more automatically. So I'm watching the words, we're watching the words that I'm saying. I'm not studying any tradition, any ancient scriptures.
I think that the moment you start talking religion or tradition or scriptures or spirituality,
you're going to divide an audience. I think science creates community. And so what we do
is we look, we've actually created, when you see a person move into love or gratitude,
and you see what that does to the brain in an instant, it informs the brain to be creative.
When you see that, and you see this dance between the two, and you turn around and you look at that
person, and they got this big smile on their face, they're so in love with the moment. They don't want it to end. And there's very strong biological changes. So we're looking at scans of hearts and brains.
We're looking at collective scans of people just to see if we can demystify the process.
I don't want to shut an audience off with a word. I want to create new words that are science-based.
So the meditations
that we teach all have meaning behind what we're doing because we've studied the scans and studied
the effects. And it has certain intentions of why we're doing it, whether we want to signal new
dreams, whether we want to create more brain coherence, more heart coherence. We want to
create coherence between the brain and the heart. I mean, what is it that we want to do? So we have
different meditations for different intentions, really.
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