The Edge Breakfast - ONLY FANS Big Feet or Big Meat

Episode Date: March 26, 2025

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is a podcast from Rover. Not your mum's podcast, unless she's into absolute filth, in which case, respect. This is Clint and Megan Dan's OnlyFans podcast, that is. Hello everybody, welcome along to the OnlyFans podcast with Megan, myself. Yeah, Daniel actually is at a staff meeting, not a staff meeting, it's actually like a business meeting, that business-wide meeting. Me and Clint have already been to it, and he thought he was going to get away with not going, and they've made him go to the special one. He's like, weirdly, one of these guys, he's a little bit of a rule breaker,
Starting point is 00:00:31 but eventually the law catches up with him, and he has to do it anyway. Like when he won't put in his annual leave for holidays, and then he thinks that they're just not going to dock his annual. I just this second got a message from him. I can't say a name, but somebody who's in the big meeting, the big boss said, Dan, what are you doing here? And he said,
Starting point is 00:00:48 I could have fucking missed it. Because he would have assumed that Dan's already been to one because they had one for radio announcers and so that's the one that Meg and I went to, but Dan missed that one so now he's part of... He should have said,
Starting point is 00:01:03 oh, if he thought quick enough he could have oh shit sorry I don't think I've got the wrong meeting today's dedication is going to Dana Bindov
Starting point is 00:01:12 Dana Dana maybe Dana Dana Bindov Dana Bindov Dana Bindov Dana Bindov how often does she get that
Starting point is 00:01:21 a fan of that show that had the redhead and the gay friend. Who's going to win it first? Okay, and... Who's going to win it? Will and Grace. Will and Grace, yes, yes.
Starting point is 00:01:33 Got it. Yes. I believe they might be a fan of Dan mostly because Dana's Facebook cover photo is, I don't pronounce theatre, I don't produce theatre, I am theatre, which is something that our Dan boy would, I don't pronounce theatre, I don't produce theatre, I am theatre, which is something that our Dan boy would, I imagine, say.
Starting point is 00:01:49 They also suggested lighting a scented candle instead of getting a colonoscopy when it comes to the fact that he can't shit at home. This is like a nice, easier option, cheaper as well. I think seeing everywhere on Instagram that lighting candles in the house is super bad for you. They've already had
Starting point is 00:02:03 a dedication. Have they? This is a double up. I see this is what happens when Dan's not here. He's quality control. Quality, oh bullshit. Every morning he normally asks me, hey, where's the documents so I can see if I've done them already. They aren't on the list. I actually just scrolled down and saw they had written in September,
Starting point is 00:02:19 thank you for the dedication. Oh no. Oh, that was a while ago. Yeah, September was a long time ago. Sorry about that to everybody else. And congratulations to Dana with your second one. I thought we were going to talk about Dan's foreskin in The OnlyFans. Oh, yeah, that's right. But I feel like I can't talk about it now he's not here
Starting point is 00:02:38 because he was freely talking about it before and about different foreskins and whatever. That's stressing him out. Are you talking about the Instagram video or that's just where the conversation started? Oh, no, I thought he was talking about his actual, hold on, producer Carl knows. No, I'm just trying to remember as well. I think he was saying that his foreskin was too small for his penis. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:02:56 And that sometimes, so it's like, it's almost like it traps the knob of his penis. And he had to do some stretching exercises. I don't know, we might have to get him to do a stretching exercise. He said that he even went to the doctor and the doctor said it wasn't too bad that he had to have a circumcision so it was just like... He did say, he was like, you know that when your penis gets bigger
Starting point is 00:03:16 and when he went bigger, he held out his hands and I reckon he probably held them about... Like a dog luncheon. Two of them. Like he was about to catch a Swiss ball. Yeah. It was crazy. Like he was about to catch a Swiss ball. It was crazy. And it was like, get out of it. Then we started talking because Dan has big feet. He's got size 13 feet and you know the myth
Starting point is 00:03:32 about big feet and big hands. Would you rather have big feet and a small peen or a large peen and small feet? Are you asking me or is that rhetorical? Because I'd have no opinion. I think I'd rather have big feet.
Starting point is 00:03:50 I don't think I have any really tiny feet. It's like, isn't that a bit weird? Like a dude with like size eight feet. Isn't that strange? I wouldn't even notice. My feet are size eight. Are you? Yeah, they're cute.
Starting point is 00:04:03 Honestly, and I'm such a genetic fuck-up. I've also got webbed toes. Do you want to see them? Huge dick, though. Wake up. It's unreal. And it's really good looking. Honestly, it's the only thing I've got going for me.
Starting point is 00:04:16 I'm short, bald, ginger. I've got webbed feet, and they're small, but I actually have a very good looking penis. And you know that's true because he's got a seriously hot wife. Oh, my God. And a really hot wife. And imagine if that is the best thing I've ever seen
Starting point is 00:04:26 and only one person ever gets to see it. I know, Drew. You're like, that's it. And he married young. God, you married young. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I had to.
Starting point is 00:04:34 Oh yeah, Drew. You were like, shit, shit, shit, shit, shit. No, no, oh my God. No, no, not my penis. My wee feet. Oh my God. I'll show you.
Starting point is 00:04:43 Sorry. Yeah, yeah. Bloody owies. I don't know. I'll show you Sorry Yeah Bloody hell I don't know But they are They're not They're not huge feet See how they're See how they're webbed
Starting point is 00:04:54 Like that Oh that is webbed Yeah that's a webbed toe He's got webbed toe I can't look at it It's making me feel funny It's making me feel a little weird That slit should go
Starting point is 00:05:02 Right the way down But it can't Yeah Wow that is weird So my toes are tiny Wow That slit should go right the way down but it can't. Wow, that is weird. So my toes are tiny. I know, but massive knob. Oh, that's crazy.
Starting point is 00:05:14 Hey, we gave a challenge because I feel bad talking about Dan's full skin if he's not here. Yeah, no, we can't do that. So we won't. Can I put my dick away now? Yeah, yeah. We set a challenge for the afternoon guys who were stuck in the Edge safe house and I thought it was such an easy
Starting point is 00:05:28 challenge. There's no way I can be the only one on this break. Can we practice? Can we try it? Do we have three balloons? No, but I've got a condom. Hang on. I need three though. There was a challenge that was set for the afternoon guys and they just had to keep three balloons each up in the air for 60 seconds and they all lasted less than five seconds
Starting point is 00:05:43 and it was like, oh maybe it was too hard I was like, I honestly don't think it was This is the worst quality of you This is your worst quality It was something we did for a fucking dumb challenge hours ago and you haven't been able to let go since that you were like, I reckon I could do it
Starting point is 00:05:59 I need to see someone do it so I realise that I didn't set them an impossible challenge But even if we did, it doesn't matter. No, because then it's their fault and not my fault. Thank you, Carl. That's so lowly. So lowly. I've only got two comments.
Starting point is 00:06:14 I want to know whose fault it was and I need my conscience to be acquitted of any sort of guilt that I stitched them up with an impossible task. Hang on. Oh, God. Slowly. Is there any part of you that has a moment right now and you go, actually, I will let it go? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:06:31 Yeah. No, we can't. You need three condoms, though. Meg, let's see how long you can keep these up for and hope it doesn't get made into a video. So we're playing keepy-uppy with a couple of condoms. Bubblegum flavoured. Yeah, I was going to say movie mouth.
Starting point is 00:06:50 All the things that Carl has to do for Clint's fucking... Jesus. Yeah, so Carl is actually blowing up. There's one. Can you throw it up and see if it is like a balloon, just the same? Yeah. Wow, that does the trick.
Starting point is 00:07:04 Oh, it's so soft. It's Wow, that does the trick. Oh. Thank you. Oh, it's so soft. It's so soft and sloopy. So soft. There was three in the pack. I'm actually wearing one. So he's like, he wouldn't know what it is.
Starting point is 00:07:16 He's like, dude, zip it off. Oh, man. Yeah. Okay. Well, wild cards doing, Matt. Yeah. What are you all doing?
Starting point is 00:07:23 So the podcast will just be a silent podcast of you holding up three balloons When will you be when will you be satisfied? I'm going to do it at the end so when the podcast is over and you leave and then for anyone who cares you can stay for 60 more seconds
Starting point is 00:07:40 So 60 seconds that's when you'll have your decision of like if I can do it It's far easier, it was as easy as I thought and they were just useless So 60 seconds That's when you'll have your decision of like If I can do it Yeah and I would have gone Okay it's far easier It was as easy as I thought And they were just useless Versus
Starting point is 00:07:51 Oh I really stitched the afternoon guys up With an impossible task But they do smell quite sweet Of keeping three balloons up in the air No Okay The difference as well with the condoms is They're kind of more of an oval shape
Starting point is 00:08:02 I wonder if that's going to affect how they fly Okay Wait But if you do this challenge and you fail it, will that satisfy you or will you go, but they didn't have condoms, they had balloons? No, because then I'll have the answer. So I'll go, yeah, that was harder. Okay, yeah. That was harder than I thought it should have been.
Starting point is 00:08:19 Even with condoms. Or it's just as easy as I thought it was and I'll know whether I'm to blame or they're to blame. Okay. It's so hard to tie them. Yeah, even if it's condoms, I feel like it's close enough. Okay, we can let go of that part. Why do you have three condoms at work?
Starting point is 00:08:32 Well, they came in like a, I don't know, it was like some pack we got given for Valentine's Day. Oh, okay. And I just took the condoms, but one of them is the Connie Connie, which we've mentioned on this podcast. Oh, the context condoms. So if you context something for people who wouldn't understand what was just being said because it's industry speak.
Starting point is 00:08:48 I'm actually giving context. You're actually doing it right now so you can win the Connie Connie. Yeah, thank you. But here's your other one. But then I'm going to need three because I'm only going to get two. Yeah, well try and do it with two. No, he's not going to let it go. I can definitely do it with two. Okay, I'll go into the office
Starting point is 00:09:04 and I'll say, does anyone have a condom? We've got boss Casey, do it. Okay, I'll go into the office and I'll say, does anyone have a condom? We've got boss Casey, boss Adrian. Okay, I'll go on. I'm just doing this. Of course I can. Do you reckon Phipps is going to have one in his wallet? No, I don't think anybody. I don't think, no, I definitely don't.
Starting point is 00:09:16 Go try one. Yeah, I don't even remember the last time I wore one of those things. I know because you gave me your leftovers and they were extra large and we had to of those things. I know because you gave me your leftovers and they were extra large and we had to give them back. I didn't mean, have you heard this story? I didn't mean to do it.
Starting point is 00:09:34 He gave Guy a bunch of hand-me-downs and also gave him all of his leftover condoms because he got a vasectomy and we got them and we looked at the bag and they were all size XXL, like XL. And Guy's like, fuck man, I can't even. I remember Guy going, to me and we got them and we looked at the bag and they're all size XXL and guys like
Starting point is 00:09:45 fuck man I can't even. I remember getting out of the car and going fuck you man what do you think I'm supposed to do with this? I don't know what happened was I was cleaning out my drawers with my clothes and stuff and then I cleaned out other drawers and I was like oh fuck condoms I don't need them anymore and I just so happened to like throw them in the same bag as I was emptying my drawers and then as I grabbed another couple pairs of shirts, I must have chucked them on top of the condoms,
Starting point is 00:10:08 and I completely forgot they were even in there. And then Guy thought I was rubbing it in his face. It's cute that he calls them condoms, because I've stayed at Clint's house, and I've been through his drawers and shit. I was like, why is there, you know those big black rubbish sacks? It's just a whole thing of those. I was like, what are these?
Starting point is 00:10:22 And he's like, yeah, yeah. I don't know if they just roll another one out. Hang on, I'm going to go find another one. Yeah, that was a long time ago. We know too much about each other. Shit do we want. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:10:39 Absolutely. How funny was it when I sent you a voice message the other day and I said, now Meg, before you start doing this and you were doing that exact thing. Wild. That was wild. Although, like, you must get better at giving people compliments because you did start it. He started a compliment like this, guys.
Starting point is 00:10:55 Okay, it's a voice message. Hey, Meg. Hey. Look, I just, I wanted to talk to you about something and I couldn't, I couldn't really do it to your face. I couldn't find myself. But I need to tell you. Oh, my God. I was literally, I was like, I've shit myself again.
Starting point is 00:11:18 Holy cow. And it's so funny because I went to press pause because I was having a panic attack, and I was going to yell out to my husband, Guy, can you come listen to this because I'm freaking out. And then I didn't pause. And he goes, don't pause. Clint carried on and goes, wait, don't pause that because I know it sounds bad. Don't get Guy to go and listen to it.
Starting point is 00:11:35 It's a good thing. And I was doing it as you said that. It was the weirdest thing. It was most like candid camera moment of like, how can he see me? God, it was weird. But yes, you do know me very well. But also, you know me so well to know that that was a terrible way to start the message. Like, just record it again.
Starting point is 00:11:56 True, but I was just like, one of those things, you know, where you're just like really thinking about something. And then as I caught myself in what I was doing, I was like, oh God, I already know how this is going to sound for me. She's going to pause it, get Guy to listen to it and then transcribe it into an email for her.
Starting point is 00:12:11 Oh, here we go. We have an actual balloon. Are you happy with two condoms and a balloon? Yes, yes, yes. Are you doing it over there? You need a small amount of space so maybe go with Carlos and move that chair. Or leave a chair as an obstacle because they had couches. Alright, so chair's Sean. Clint, you've got all three condches. Okay, so the chair would be like this one. All right, so chair's Sean.
Starting point is 00:12:26 Clint, you've got all three couches. Okay, so I'll bring you in. Clint, I'll be you. All right, so you've got to keep these three balloons up in the air for one minute. I have my timer. Let's have a look. 60 seconds. As long as they don't touch the couch or the ground or the desk,
Starting point is 00:12:43 then you get your clue. Are you ready? I'm ready. Time starts now. Now. By the way, they were out at this point. You're out. Yeah, because it touched the couch.
Starting point is 00:13:01 You're out. No, that was a desk chair. No, you're out. That was the couch. Was that it? Yeah. So I think you made 20 You're out. No, that was a desk chair. No, you're out. That was the couch. Was that it? Yeah. So I think you made 20 seconds. One more turn, please.
Starting point is 00:13:09 Okay, we didn't do that with them, but let's go. One more turn. No, don't move that away. They had couches and tables and people. What's that more? I'm sure you couldn't even see them on the live stream. I don't know where he was. Okay, here we go.
Starting point is 00:13:19 Three, two, one. Dan's missing out. Fucking hell. This is so great for an audio medium Isn't it Carl? Oh Alright You've done 10 seconds Okay
Starting point is 00:13:35 I'm doing it Dan For everyone that's listening at home He's He's still You've got 35 seconds to go My husband's about to walk in And see what's happening He's going dancing. You've got 35 seconds to go. My husband's about to walk in and see what's happening.
Starting point is 00:13:49 He's going to know straight away. The man won't give it up. He won't give it up. He won't give it up. 20 seconds to go. Oh, that's doable. Well, he's trying to prove, and those are condoms. Yes, guy.
Starting point is 00:14:01 Yeah, I thought so. The hardest part, I imagine, is when they bump into each other. 15, 14, 13, 12, 11, 10. Oh! No! He hit the head! You're out. But you got much closer.
Starting point is 00:14:17 Well done. Oh, Guy, he came in and distracted me with his good looks. So, you know, Guy, believe it or not, that incredible audio moment was for the podcast. We did that twice too. Oh, wow. Have you heard the news? No.
Starting point is 00:14:33 Where's Dan? Is it part of that? Are you? I haven't got headphones on. You just need to hear my voice. Are you ready? I'm breaking some news to you right now. Oh, no.
Starting point is 00:14:47 Has it got something to do with why my phone keeps going off? Yeah. Why? Liam Lawson's been dumped. Oh, man. Really? Yeah. Already?
Starting point is 00:14:54 Yeah. Is it Yuki Tsunoda? Yeah. Yeah. Yes. Oh, that's bullshit. Yeah. That's such bullshit. It was the Red Bull, not even Red Bull, if what, a Red Bull, like, global,
Starting point is 00:15:05 who apparently called, like, the head of, you know, the sales. What are they called? The people that pay shareholders of Red Bull that wanted to have gone. Oh, my God. Oh, that seems like a scapegoat. Yeah, it feels like someone else is. So it wasn't our call. It was the people who, you know, oh, that's bullshit.
Starting point is 00:15:21 It's such a marketing opportunity as well because they're going to get Yuki in. It's next week. It's such a marketing opportunity as well because they're going to get Yuki in. It's next week. It's his home track. Like a Japanese driver in the Red Bull team. I guess that makes sense. Liam will still be racing Formula 1, won't he? Because if Yuki comes out of his seat, he creates a gap for Liam.
Starting point is 00:15:36 You would think so. You would think that Liam, if he was good enough to be an F1 driver in Red Bull, then they would just essentially do the old switcheroo. And then they can keep him in the fold because they own both teams. You know what? I hope that if this happens, which obviously it is, I want everyone to see that Yuki will probably do no better in that car than Liam did.
Starting point is 00:16:00 But the thing now, I feel like Yuki's an advantage because if he comes in and doesn't do any better, they can't just keep changing. So I think they'll persist with Yuki longer than Liam got. I know, isn't that so annoying? Even though he'll be the same. He'll either be better, which is great, or he'll be the same or just as bad,
Starting point is 00:16:18 and they'll go, well, we can't change again. We're just going to have to persevere with him. If he's just as bad, all the people that have been calling Liam, Liam Slausonon which is the shittest nickname on the planet it doesn't even make sense
Starting point is 00:16:26 his name's not Liam Lawson yeah it's Lawson it's not anyway so I feel for Liam that sucks
Starting point is 00:16:34 it's the cursed Red Bull second seat because it's killed so many careers but I hope it won't be the end of his career it won't be the
Starting point is 00:16:42 end of his career but he's in a lucky position because he's young and because he's doing the old driver swap with Yuki, he can hopefully go to V-Carb and do well there because that car's looking pretty good for the season. So hopefully he just has a pretty solid season. He gets a season of F1 under his belt.
Starting point is 00:17:00 Is it unheard of that if somebody was to be let go at this point that they can, in even a couple of years' time, be on a different team again? Is it unheard of that if somebody was to be let go at this point that they can, in even a couple of years' time, be on a different team again? Like, is it unheard of? It's not unheard of. There's people who have left Formula One and have been away for a few years and come back. There's a guy currently, Nico Hulkenberg,
Starting point is 00:17:15 who was racing for Renault, and then he got let go, and he was gone for a few years, and now he's racing for Samba. Oh, that's good. It's kind of like radio then a little bit. It is. You know, like, you kind of are like, oh, they're back. Yeah, it's like even though it's pretty cutthroat, there are only so many people on the planet that can do it.
Starting point is 00:17:31 And yes, you've got all these young talents coming through F2 and F3, but at the same time, it's so much pressure. You're in the top 20 in the world. If he keeps like, I know this sounds like head down, bum up, doesn't let him affect it as much as he can. Exactly. He still keeps his focus and goes, oh well, let's go again, you know different sort of perspective. Do you know the crazy thing as well
Starting point is 00:17:48 like after watching Drive to Survive and seeing how well McLaren did last year, those guys Oscar Piastri and Lando Norris are like two drivers who are kind of middle of the pack no big deal, like whatever, they're good but had never won a podium had never won a race, all of a sudden
Starting point is 00:18:04 it's like your team gets its shit together and designs an incredible car that happens to be the fastest car on the grid. And then all of a sudden, you're the best driver in the world. And what it said to me is these drivers are all very similar, but if your car isn't and your car is exceptional, all of a sudden, you're in the front of the pack for the rest of that season. Well, yeah, it's 100% down to the car. Obviously, these drivers are very talented,
Starting point is 00:18:23 but if you look at qualifying times when it comes to, you know, where you place on the grid at the start of that second. Yeah, it's 100% down to the car. Obviously, these drivers are very talented, but if you look at qualifying times, when it comes to, you know, where you place on the grid at the start of the race, the difference between the first pole position and the 20th, it's all within, like, three seconds. Yeah. So, you know, they work in microseconds, like, microseconds and milliseconds,
Starting point is 00:18:39 whatever it's called. So, yeah, if you've got a bad car, but you're a good driver, like Max Verstappen, he's a world champion. And the Red Bull car's just not as good at the moment. And the thing is, cars can change halfway through the season. It was, I don't know if it was last season or the season before, Aston Martin was ripping it.
Starting point is 00:18:54 Fernando Alonso was on, like, three podiums. And then by the end of the season, fell off. Again, relating it back to radio, but kind of like when R&B or pop music or something is having a really big spike, it's all of a sudden like the biggest artists in the world potentially rap R&B. My FM, the station goes up and up and up,
Starting point is 00:19:12 even though they've always got great hosts, have great hosts, but it depends on kind of what's... You could be a really good songwriter and you could have a really terrible producer. And, you know, like you're really good at what you do, but then the people behind you aren't giving you the vessel to do so. So, right,
Starting point is 00:19:27 if the metaphor of the car, the fast car, being pop music and fucking Harry Styles dropping, like, a great album at the same time Taylor Swift's really red hot
Starting point is 00:19:36 and touring, then all of a sudden our show starts really rating and thriving and everyone's like, oh my God, what are Clint, Meg and Dan doing
Starting point is 00:19:42 at the moment? It's like, well, sometimes you are just helped by the cycle but in that same argument you can actually be disadvantaged by the music cycle and you're doing a great show but the music just isn't hitting We normally don't do as well in winter
Starting point is 00:19:55 because all the music that we play is pop happy summer kind of drinking party vibes and then for some reason in winter we don't do as well because people want to be depressed and listen to
Starting point is 00:20:07 Yeah we do get Is that why Dan's not here? He's off listening to a sad album because Liam's been dumped No it isn't Actually we should ask him tomorrow
Starting point is 00:20:15 what music were you listening to because remember when his cat was missing so he'd just drive around listening to Somewhere Over the Rainbow and I was like
Starting point is 00:20:22 why would you do that to yourself? Like it's already a sad enough situation. And then you've enhanced it with, like, really sad music. He's thinking about the Rainbow Bridge. Yeah. He was his cat. He did, yeah.
Starting point is 00:20:33 It was all part of the grieving process. Oh, that sucks for Liam Lawson. I hope he does get the seat and he gets Yuki's seat. And I hope Yuki fails. Sorry. Yeah, at the moment, to be fair, it is just a report, but it's one of those reports that's, like, everywhere. So you kind of go, okay, ituki fails. Sorry. Yeah, at the moment, to be fair, it is just a report, but it's one of those reports that's like everywhere. So you kind of go, okay, it's happening.
Starting point is 00:20:48 Yeah. How can you get a guy in the seat and then only give him two races? That's what we were saying. It was like giving you like a Monday and Tuesday as a new show when we started like, you know, two years and three months ago. And then we had like, you know, by Tuesday, they're having conversations on Wednesday going, hey guys, we don't know if we're going to continue with this.
Starting point is 00:21:05 We'd be like, what? Give us a second to find our fucking feet. I feel for him, man. He's in his early 20s and he's got, yeah, he's 23. And he's getting these people like demanding he lose his seat, telling him he sucks. Like it's very hard to find a positive comment. Do you know what I'd like to do actually?
Starting point is 00:21:22 Because getting hold of him is quite tricky. And I imagine with all this stuff, it'll get harder. Yeah, talk to his mum or dad about how do you equip your son. I mean, this is just in general in parenting, I think of this. Resilience, eh? Yeah, like at age 23, he's in the sport where it's not just about the racing. There's so much mental toughness that needs to come with it, and how do you teach your kid to not care what other people think
Starting point is 00:21:44 and really believe in yourself, especially when you've just had your job taken? Me and Guy have talked a lot about trying, the most important thing we want for our daughter is resilience because we know as much as we would like to protect her from everything in the world and the internet, we don't know what's going to be, it's resilience we have to teach her.
Starting point is 00:22:01 Yeah, totally. Because we can't protect her from bullies, we can't protect her from online forever, from the internet, from whatever career she goes into, from shitty boyfriends or girlfriends or whatever. People in workplaces, they isolate her, even just small things like that. Yeah, so it's the resilience that I think is the most important. But how do you teach that?
Starting point is 00:22:18 You just have to keep, I guess, seeing, showing, trying not to do things for them all the time. When they do fail, it's not that bad. It's a lesson. It's a stepping stone. One thing I watched on Instagram, which I thought was great, and I try to commit all this shit to memory
Starting point is 00:22:33 and maybe saying it out loud helps, but they had two groups of kids and they gave them like a puzzle that was relatively easy to do. And then they timed them to see how fast they could do it. And one half of the group of kids, they praised them for the result. Going, oh, my God, you're so intelligent.
Starting point is 00:22:49 You're so clever. Look, you smashed that. Then the other kids, they praised them for the effort. And, oh, my God, that's such a good effort. Well done. I really love how you tackled that. And didn't really give them, like, a time. Just did it, right?
Starting point is 00:23:01 As they got through the harder puzzles, as they got, like, medium and they're more and more difficult, it became harder for the kids to actually achieve it. The kids who were praised for the result wanted to go back to the easier puzzles and do them because that's where they got their praise. Whereas the people that were praised by effort, regardless of the result, they were still being praised for the harder puzzles. And what they said is kids who are praised for effort will push themselves
Starting point is 00:23:26 harder to achieve more because that's what's valued. Yeah, the effort's valued, not the result. Rather than the outcome and the result. And otherwise, yeah, because the thing is you're not going to win every time. You're just not. You're not going to be the best every time. And when you don't, you want to go back to the easy levels where you were being praised. When you're younger and you're playing rugby and you make it into
Starting point is 00:23:41 a couple of rep teams and your parents are just like, hey, well done, you made it into the team and then you go to high school and then you try and then you don't. You're like, ooh. And then you get really thrown by it. And you get disheartened and it stifles your growth. That was me, by the way. That was an example. That's why I came off the dome.
Starting point is 00:23:58 I was in a few rep teams when everyone was good at playing rugby because it was easy and then I went to high school and I was like, oh. And you're like, what? I was like, wait, everyone's so big. I'm so small. I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, when everyone was good at playing rugby because it was easy and then I went to high school and I was like, oh. You're like, what? I was like, wait, everyone's so big. I'm so small. 13 year old kids and they're like 90 kilos already. Isn't it funny? It's just such a small change in language but yeah, if you were told a lot
Starting point is 00:24:14 as a kid that, wow, I'm really impressed with how hard you've worked towards it and your effort that you've put in. I see how hard you've practiced to work towards this. How different that would be to like, you won, well done, you won or well done, you are the best. Maybe we apply this to Daisy with her potty training. Oh yeah, great effort, Kitty.
Starting point is 00:24:29 I talked about that on air this morning, about how she kissed the toilet seat too. Oh God. Meg came like running out of the toilet. Wait, wait, wait. She kissed the toilet. It's not the words I was expecting you to say. What do you mean? Why did you let that happen? We have stuffed that child with the poo monster.
Starting point is 00:24:46 You know, that's the crazy thing, though. Even just that example of praising result versus praising effort, you start going, oh, my God, these tiny little things can make such a huge difference. Holy shit, what have I done? And it's too late because the avalanche is coming, and you can't stop it once the avalanche is coming. You've got to stop it before it even starts.
Starting point is 00:25:04 I wonder that a lot where I'm like, that's why you have more than one kid, I guess. Right, second time you're like, right, I'm going to do that differently. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Okay. All right, that'll do us. Bye.
Starting point is 00:25:16 Yeah, we'll catch you next time, guys. Have a bloody good one. Cliff, Meg and Dan. Rover. Music, radio, podcasts.

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