The Great Simplification with Nate Hagens - Terror Management Theory: How Existential Dread Has Shaped the World with Sheldon Solomon

Episode Date: October 29, 2025

Many of us wrestle with the unsettling truth that everyone – including ourselves and those we love – will one day die. Though this awareness is uncomfortable, research suggests that the human capa...city to contemplate death is a byproduct of consciousness itself. In fact, our efforts to cope with mortality are at the core of culture, religion, the desire for wealth, and even many of today's societal crises. How might a deeper understanding of our implicit reactions to mortality help us turn towards responses that are more supportive of our species and planet?  In this episode, Nate is joined by Sheldon Solomon, a psychologist and co-developer of Terror Management Theory, which posits that while all living beings strive to survive, humans are unique in knowing that death is unavoidable. Solomon explores some of our instinctual coping mechanisms, including clinging to existing cultural worldviews and activities that bolster our self-esteem, even when they may have negative consequences for those around us. He also explains how these defensive mechanisms manifest in modern society, influencing politics, consumerism, and religious beliefs.  Why does our fear of death drive materialism and the endless hunger for "more"? How do reminders of death impact our attitudes toward people with different political or religious beliefs? And lastly, could practices rooted in mindfulness, gratitude, and awe help us to more skillfully relate to death anxiety by strengthening our relationships, giving to our community, and reveling in the expansive magnificence of the universe in which we get to inhabit?  (Conversation recorded on September 25th, 2025)   About Sheldon Solomon: Sheldon Solomon is Professor of Psychology at Skidmore College. His research on the behavioral effects of the unique human awareness of death have been supported by the National Science Foundation and the Ernest Becker Foundation, and were featured in the award winning documentary film Flight from Death: The Quest for Immortality.  Sheldon is the co-author of the book In the Wake of 9/11: The Psychology of Terror and The Worm at the Core: On the Role of Death in Life. Additionally, he is an American Psychological Society Fellow, as well as a recipient of an American Psychological Association Presidential Citation (2007) and a Lifetime Career Award by the International Society for Self and Identity (2009).   Show Notes and More Watch this video episode on YouTube   Want to learn the broad overview of The Great Simplification in 30 minutes? Watch our Animated Movie.   ---   Support The Institute for the Study of Energy and Our Future Join our Substack newsletter Join our Hylo channel and connect with other listeners  

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Starting point is 00:00:00 We are marinating in death anxiety. If we're overwhelmed by reminders of death, if our cultural worldview is no longer convincing, if we're lacking in self-esteem, that instigates a host of defensive reactions to restore psychological equanimity. What we would today refer to as mindfulness, awe, gratitude, humility, those defenses dissolve,
Starting point is 00:00:29 as a result of these kinds of interventions. You're listening to the Great Simplification. I'm Nate Hagen's. On this show, we describe how energy, the economy, the environment, and human behavior all fit together and what it might mean for our future. By sharing insights from global thinkers, we hope to inform and inspire more humans
Starting point is 00:00:55 to play emergent roles in the coming great simplification. Today I'm pleased to be joined by social psychologist Sheldon Solomon to discuss terror management theory, which he co-developed alongside Jeff Greenberg and Tom Pizzinski. Sheldon is a professor of psychology at Skidmore College, where he studies how the uniquely human awareness of death affects our behavior at both the individual and collective levels. Sheldon is also the co-author of, in the wake of 9-11, the psychology of terror, as well as the worm at the core
Starting point is 00:01:37 on the role of death in life. In this long and oft-requested episode, Sheldon and I dive deep into his decades-long work, establishing how human awareness and the associated fear of death affects everything we do from our daily behaviors, from our desire for money to our religious beliefs
Starting point is 00:02:01 and our choice of politicians. And after speaking with Sheldon, it's clear to me that something akin to terror management is a central piece to understanding our human predicament. And as such, this episode is a must watch among our catalog in addition to the fact he's just a colorful, super articulate, interesting human being. If you are joining this podcast,
Starting point is 00:02:26 I invite you to subscribe to our social, Substack newsletter where you can read more of the system science underpinning the human predicament, and where my team and I increasingly will share written content and post special announcements related to the Great Simplification. You can find the link to subscribe in the show description. With that, please welcome Sheldon Solomon. This is a must watch. Sheldon Solomon, welcome to the program. Thank you, Nate. Great to be here. You probably don't know this, but believe it or not, you were one of the most requested guests that our viewers have asked me to highlight, so I'm glad that we had this opportunity to meet in person. Me too. Thank you. What I've been trying to unpack here on this show
Starting point is 00:03:14 is our current human predicament and how we got here. And you have developed a theory with some colleagues over the years called Terror Management Theory. Maybe we'd just start there. What is it and how did you get interested in developing it? I developed terror management theory in collaboration with my grad school buddies, Jeff Greenberg and Tom Pizzinski. We were young professors in the early 1980s, experimental social psychologist by trade, and we bumped into books by someone we had never heard of, a guy named Ernest Becker, who was a recently deceased cultural,
Starting point is 00:03:59 anthropologist. And in books like the birth and death of meaning, the denial of death, escape from evil, Becker's effort was an interdisciplinary attempt to delineate the motivational underpinnings of human behavior. English translation, you know, why do we do what we do? Here's my classic comic book summary. So Becker just started. with the relatively non-controversial Darwinian assumption that humans are like all living things and that were biologically predisposed to preserve ourselves, both to survive, as well as to continue reproducing over time. But then Becker following Darwin points out that there's a lot of different ways to adapt to our surroundings. And over billions of years, different forms of
Starting point is 00:04:59 life have accomplished this in different fashions. You know, the turtles got a shell. The eagle can fly and has great eyesight. And that raises the question of, well, what do we got going for us? Here Becker points out that we do got some physical stuff, upright bipedalism. You know, we got the thumbs that we can work with, stereoscopic, binocular vision. And yet, on the other hand, we are relatively pathetic. We're not all that big. We're not all that fast. We're not strong. Our teeth aren't sharp. Our senses aren't great. And so that raises the question. Why are we here? And Becker says we're here for two reasons. One is, is that we're Uber social creatures. As I tell my students at Skidmore, none of you would be alive past lunch if we had to survive on our own, just based on our own capacities. But thankfully,
Starting point is 00:05:59 we have the capacity to collaborate with each other at our best to construct a host of institutions that then facilitate our collective survival. That's great. And then Becker points out, let's not be arrogantly narcissistic about this, but we're also pretty smart. We've got the big forebrain that enables us to think abstractly and symbolically to the point where we can imagine stuff that doesn't even exist and then have the audacity and the manual dexterity to transform our dreams into reality. Again, all awesome that helps us explain why we've been so successful all over the planet. But Becker then shifts from Darwin to Kierkegaard, the Danish existential philosopher, because Kierkegaard said in the 1840s, we're so smart that we actually know that we're here.
Starting point is 00:06:54 Today we would call that self-awareness or self-consciousness. And Kierkegaard's point is that we take self-awareness for granted because that's our default cognitive construction. You wake up in the morning and you're like, I woke up. You're walking to work and you're like, well, here I am walking to work. Or even more than that, here I am walking to work, thinking about that I'm walking to work. In a little book called Fear and Trembling, Kierkegaard said, look, if you're smart enough to know that you're here, Rosebushes are here, they don't know it, raccoons are here, but they don't know it. We're here and we know it.
Starting point is 00:07:36 And he argued that that engenders two uniquely human emotions that he called awe and dread, respectively. Real quick, he's just like it's awesome to be alive and to know it. If you get to choose between being a person and a potted plant, I would hope that most of us would choose personhood. Not because we've accomplished anything in particular, just the spontaneous joy and exuberance that is manifested by the basic fact that we're here and appreciating being alive. But plants don't feel dread. There you go. That's exactly it, because Kierkegaard turns right around. He just points out that unless you're a child or mentally impaired, to know that you're here also entails the collateral recognition that like all living things, our lives are of finite duration. And we too will someday die. All right. So that's existential need to the groin number one. But then he keeps going. And he says not only will we all die, but we can die at any time for reasons that we can never anticipate.
Starting point is 00:08:48 or control. You know, to be silly for all we know, there's a comet that's made its way through the atmosphere and it's coming right down on the top of this building to vaporize us before I finish this sentence. I'm not going to look up. Me neither. There you go. And then finally, and then Becker just adds one more existential crisis. So you're going to die. It can happen at any time. And we're embodied animals, breathing pieces of defecating meat that are no more significant than lizards or potatoes. And what Becker argues is that if that's all you thought about, I'm going to die, I could die today, a talking sausage, that we would literally be debilitated with existential terror. We wouldn't be able to stand up in the morning with a degree of psychological equanimity. We'd be twitching blobs
Starting point is 00:09:46 a biological protoplasm, cowering under our beds, groping for sedatives, the size of sport utility vehicles. That's Woody Allen. But Becker then goes on to say that the way that human beings manage this potentially overwhelming existential terror is through the construction and maintenance of what he calls cultural worldviews. Not that we're aware that any of this has happened. So he defines culture as a humanly constructed set of beliefs that we share with folks around us
Starting point is 00:10:21 that hopes reduce death anxiety by giving us a sense that life has meaning and we have value. So when he talks about meaning, he's like, yo, every culture has an account of the origin of the universe. Every culture has a prescription for how we ought behave while we're here. every culture offers some hope of immortality, either literally or symbolically, and that without that, we would be in a continuous state of psychological despair or disillusionment. But then he says, well, thinking that life has meaning is a good start, necessary but not sufficient, because we also need to believe that we are valuable contributors to the, the meaningful universe to which we subscribe. And here's where sociology 101 comes in. We all inhabit
Starting point is 00:11:18 social roles in our culture. If you're a nurse, you're supposed to save lives. If you're a soldier, you're supposed to end them, you know, banker, take money, so on and so forth. And if we meet or exceed the standards of value associated with our roles, then we perceive ourselves as significant people in a meaningful world. And Becker calls that self-esteem. I'll tell you in a minute what we did, but what Becker says and what we converted into terror management theory is that, you know, like all creatures we want to survive, but we're smart enough to know that that basic biological imperative is doomed to fail. That creates potential, existential terror that we manage by subscribing to cultural worldviews. And whether we're aware of it or not,
Starting point is 00:12:15 we are highly motivated, and mostly we're not aware of this, to maintain confidence in our beliefs, as well as faith in our value in the context of them. And then finally, what Becker proposed was that if those basic mechanisms are threatened, if we're overwhelmed by reminders of death, if our cultural worldview is no longer compelling or convincing, if we're lacking in self-esteem, that that instigates a host of defensive reactions to restore psychological equanimity. So that's Becker. And actually, that's terror management theory also. Becker wrote like 10 or 12 books, and we found them so provocative that we reduced them to my last paragraph
Starting point is 00:13:13 in order to have a theory that would allow us to derive hypotheses that we could empirically assess. Again, English translation, Becker won a Pulitzer Prize for his book, The Denial of Death, but he couldn't even really get a job. Scholars at the time just said, that's interesting but highly speculative philosophical blathering for which there's no empirical evidence. Moreover, it's not possible to have any evidence because Becker was claiming following Freud that all of this is happening unconsciously. And so that's where Tom and Jeff and I come in, where young experimental psychologists, we went around when we read Becker talking to other folks.
Starting point is 00:14:02 And they all just walked out of the room. They said, that's nonsense. You need proof. And so that's what we've been doing for the last 40 years or so, first with each other and then with our students and now with scholars in a variety of disciplines around the world. And that's to generate a body of empirical evidence that will enable us to determine, at least from a traditional scientific vantage point, the of his core claim about the fundamental role of death in life. I have so many questions. Me too. Before we dive into TMT, terror management theory, have you ever heard of a guy named Agent Varky? He's a neuroscientist. So how does that dovetail?
Starting point is 00:14:52 So his theory, as I understand it, he's a friend of mine, is a mort, mortality over reality theory that at some point. in our evolutionary history, humans saw another human die and made the interpolation, oh my God, I'm going to die at some point. And that set in motion, this suppression of understanding reality and this denial impulse. And from that came a long list of homo sapiens conquering the world in some ways. What are your thoughts on that? And how does that relate to your thinking? Well, it relates to it in a magnificent fashion. We're not friends, but we go way back. book denial that he wrote with his deceased colleague Brower, is actually based on our work.
Starting point is 00:15:40 The first chapter of the book, their book, cites a connection between his ideas and our ideas. I wrote to him when I think he had something in science talking about this. And I was like, this is brilliant because you're providing with expert knowledge. a sophisticated evolutionary account of how the uniquely human awareness of death has literally altered the course of our evolutionary history. And the planets. And the planet. And I like their point.
Starting point is 00:16:20 I think it's rather magnificent when they claim that if we did not come up with, and when I say that, I don't mean consciously. but their point is that consciousness at its best is magnificently adaptive. You know, it allows us to review the past, anticipate the future, think about a variety of possible ways to do things, all of that good, but the unintentional byproduct of our vast intelligence via consciousness is the awareness of mortality. And their point is that consciousness could not have evolved without the simultaneous development of mechanisms that allow us to function day to day and moment to moment without death being on our mind. And that's why they call the book denial.
Starting point is 00:17:16 So how do other animals like Impala's or Elk, do they have awe and dread and do they have terror management? Yeah, see, good question. In fact, really good question because 40 or 45 years ago, when I first bumped into Becker's work, most folks would say that we're uniquely self-aware, we're uniquely concerned about mortality. I'm not sure that that's the case these days. I think recent work in animal cognition suggests a much wider range. of states of awareness. There's evidence that creatures like elephants and other, well, not other primates, and primates, they go through extraordinary grief when they lose significant others. But there's two points that folks argue that I find compelling that I'm going to go with for the
Starting point is 00:18:27 moment. Yeah, one is, is that I think creatures are very much aware of death when it's immediately impending. You know, the Impala, you know, in the jaws of a hungry lion probably realizes that things will not end all that well. But the impalas around it then soon go after eating grass a few minutes later. That's correct. They're impervious to the implications. for themselves. And then the other big thing is, and this is a Becker point that has been buttressed by clinical evidence, and that is that as far as we can tell, only humans are poignantly and profoundly aware of death, their own death, from a really early age, as young as two years of age, and are concerned about that.
Starting point is 00:19:27 even in situations where the likelihood of them dying is almost zero. So there's kind of a famous study, I think it was done in the 1940s or 50s, where they asked mothers of like five or six-year-old kids, they're like, hey, what would bother your kid more being sick and dying or doing poorly on a spelling test? And the moms would say, hey, they don't know what dying is, and they're not worried about that, but spelling. All right, but then they asked the five-year-old kids, and they were like, fuck spelling. I'm more concerned about remaining alive. And so I think that's the major distinction is that our profound sense of self-awareness, you know, mingled with our time-traveling capacities to anticipate.
Starting point is 00:20:26 the future in light of what we're now seeing. That gets back to the Varky point. We're seeing what happens to other people and inferring that that might someday happen to us. Yeah, I do think that that's really different. And then there's another philosopher whose name I can't remember, of course, who just points out that no other creature spends a considerable amount of their waking moments and in the entire history of the species not dying. You know, we're the only ones that bury the dead and create monuments to recognize them in perpetuity. We're the only form of life that since antiquity has been roaming around on the planet looking for the fountain. the youth, looking for the magic fruit that will keep us here forever. And so in that sense,
Starting point is 00:21:27 we're the only natural entity incapable, at least at this moment, of viewing death as the inevitable conclusion to being alive, which, as Darwin points out, should not be seen as a tragic catastrophe so much as each of us having, we get to carry the baton around the track alive for a lap, but then we got to pass it on. You mentioned earlier that we attach somehow to a cultural worldview that kind of throttles down the negative emotional reactions of this. couldn't we do that as individuals without the cultural worldview in human history? Why couldn't individual humans come up with their own psychological response to the fear of death? Yeah, I mean,
Starting point is 00:22:20 this is a compliment, like, awesome question. To be silly, you know, we'd be chugging rum out of a coconut with our Nobel Prize if we could answer it, right? But to be more precise, to a certain extent we all do develop idiosyncratic conceptions of the world around us. But most of us, just the word conscious means to know with, you know, con with, and I think Shus means to know or something. But the fact of the matter is, as Heidegger and Becker points out, none of us are aware of the moment in which we're born. And in Heidegger's land, language, we're tossed into our cultural surroundings. Actually, we fall into our cultural surroundings, where we're immediately embedded in and engaged with our culturally constructed conception of
Starting point is 00:23:22 reality. So, you know, we're learning about the Judeo-Christian tradition. We're learning about Christmas, but then everything that we see around us, the Christmas trees, the body, So we've got this vision of reality, the cultural worldview, that is fortified by our surroundings, which are constructed in ways that complement that. And so by the time we realize that we're here, we are already to a certain extent culturally constructed meat puppets, thinking that the way that we're told the world is, is the way that it actually is. But thereafter, Becker and others claim, each of us does have personal experiences
Starting point is 00:24:14 that usually end up with our own take on the culture that we've been socialized in. So how does this explain how TMT manifests historically, maybe in pre-aggressive? cultural times on the Paleolithic in medieval history and then today. How would it that manifest in a person's life? Yeah. The Becker point is that, and I think he uses this, he says, or his guy Otto Runk says, history is a succession of immortality ideologies. that if we step back and we look at the so-called cultural big bang, you know, at the time when Homo sapiens
Starting point is 00:25:09 originated, you know, it's the same time that ceremonial burials, jewelry, and art developed. And the claim is that when you have these ancient burials, where bodies have beads that would have taken thousands of hours to produce, what the Becker types argue is that you wouldn't spend so much time preparing a body for that kind of burial if you didn't have some sense that there was something happening next. All right, but by the time there's writing, right, the epic of Gilgamesh, which is the basis for Western civilization, the Judeo, the monotheistic religions, the Gilgamesh dude basically spent his life wandering around trying not to die. And so then the next point is, is that since there's been human records across all societies, you got the Chinese trying to die. not to die with the emperors burying themselves surrounded by all the terracotta soldiers.
Starting point is 00:26:28 We got the Egyptians in the pyramids set up with little canoes to paddle into the afterlife. And here we are fast forward, and we're cutting our heads off and freezing them and expecting to live in the universe in Mars and beyond. There you go. And of course, the richer technological oligarchs, they're not. waiting to freeze. They're trying to transfer themselves away from our bodies, you know, up to the Google Cloud or something along these lines. And so we are no different than the Chinese folks thousands of years ago or Ponce de Leon looking for the trees to keep us young. Yes. So what does this imply for our culture? Does terror management theory apply only to individuals, or does culture also perceive death, like the death of economic growth or the death of modernity? Is there a cultural awareness overlaid on top of your theory potentially? Yeah, I think, again, that's rather brilliant that what we've got, you know, is a dialectical interaction between the individual and the culture.
Starting point is 00:27:54 At the cultural level, yeah, all cultures, according to Guy Oswald Spangler, who wrote a book called The Decline of the West. He was like a Nietzsche guy. And he's like, look, all cultures essentially serve to help us. transcend death, but all cultures also have their own historical cycle. They are formed at some point, and then they have a magic stretch, ideally a long one, where a lot of the people, the majority of the people in the culture, subscribe to that conception of reality, and it provides a sense of meaning and value for enough of the constituents, and that's the stable time when life is good. But then when stuff starts to break down, maybe because of a historical event,
Starting point is 00:28:56 maybe because of a disruption that's political or economic, yeah, the culture becomes very much aware of it being endangered. and I think that's where we're finding ourselves now. Nietzsche said in the gay science, God is dead. And then I tell my students, read the rest of the paragraph because he goes on to say Christianity has become unbelievable. He's not being cynical. He's just like, wait a minute, we got the theory of evolution, we got the industrial revolution, we've got modernity where we can see that we're not the only culture in the world. we're not the sole repository of wisdom.
Starting point is 00:29:41 And Nietzsche said, the shit's going to hit the fan. It's going to take hundreds of years to step back and regroup. It's probably going to be ugly. But his optimistic conclusion is sometimes out of the smoldering heap of the rubble of cultural disintegration comes radical transformation that is better for. for all of us. So does terror management theory and the broader discourse that you're teaching and have been studying, does it explain religion? I forgot who said it, but the difference between an atheist and a Christian is a Christian doesn't believe in 2,99 gods, and an atheist just goes one
Starting point is 00:30:31 further. But if there are 3,000 cultural stories of a supreme being, it almost our, argues as religion is a cultural response to recognition of death because it keeps at least conceptually psychologically in our endocrine cascade and our hormones, it keeps life alive and suppresses that feeling. Absolutely. I think this is important. A few things. One is that, by the way, I'm not a scholar. I'm a dishwasher who read a few books. But my understanding is that the original Latin word for religion means to bind. And a dead French sociologist, Emil Dirkheim, he said, look, there was religion before there were gods.
Starting point is 00:31:24 It was existential apprehensions that we weren't quite aware of yet that kind of drew us together and that at our best, religion provides a common, means of connecting with our fellow humans that offers us a sense of encouragement, and I'm emphasizing the courage, and understanding that there are things that stand under us that give us a kind of a foundation for psychological equanimity. So that's one point that I think is important, and that is religion is central to human affairs. It has been. It has been. been here longer than just being a means of death transcendence or denial. But that's clearly the case today.
Starting point is 00:32:18 And I say that on empirical grounds because our research, the way that we study Backer's ideas is to remind people that they're going to die. And sometimes we do that in the lab. we just give them a piece of paper and say, write down your thoughts and feelings about dying. In control conditions, we ask people to write down their thoughts and feelings about something unpleasant but not fatal. You know, you're in a car accident and you lost a leg, need a root canal, but there's no anesthetic. You failed to test. So that's what we do sometimes. We remind people they're going to die. Other times we go outside of the lab, we stop some people
Starting point is 00:33:03 in front of a funeral parlor and other people 100 meters to either side. And our thought is if you're in front of a funeral parlor, death is on your mind, even if you don't know it. All right. And then back to the lab. We bring people in. We have them read stuff on a computer screen. And while they're doing that, we flash the word death for 28 milliseconds. It's so fast that you don't even know that death is on your mind. Well, anyway, when we do that, that religious people are become more religious. They become more confident in the existence of God and in the efficacy of prayer. And then there's another paradigm where we piss on people's beliefs. And so in an experiment, we didn't do this one. But if you show Christian fundamentalists, passages in the Bible that are logically inconsistent, that makes unconscious death thoughts come more readily to mind. And so it's on those grounds that we would argue that religion serves a death denying function. But let's be clear that that doesn't mean that that's all it does. But one more thing,
Starting point is 00:34:24 and that is that atheism is a religion also. With all due disrespect, to the people that claim that the religious people are diluted, but they have an undistorted conception of reality. That just happens not to be the case. When you remind an atheist that they're going to die, they become more convinced that there's no such thing as God. But even more, there's a, who I can't remember where the guy is now, or even his name, but did an experiment, no atheists in the foxholes, when atheists are reminded that they're going to die, they don't believe in God, they say, but if you measure religiosity unconsciously, they actually become more connected to things like supernatural and heaven.
Starting point is 00:35:24 So even atheists, we would argue, they're not seeing the world as it is. they have just embraced the cultural construction of reality that assumes that there is no deity. And my point is that atheism is just a superficial, unsubstantial, and without being fortified by a lot of other ethical and psychodynamic principles is a really thin rule to obtain and maintain a sense of self-esteem and psychological security more broadly defined. You know, I just am grateful that somehow I've arrived at this job. This is my job to meet fascinating people like you and talk about this,
Starting point is 00:36:11 like the tapestry of who we are as a species and what we're doing in the world. It's just fascinating. So the mutual friend we have, Dr. Sarah Wolf, was telling me about some terms that are underneath the body of work, mortality salience. and mortality prime priming. So I know you're a psychologist, not a neuroscientist, but when we get a mortality prime, first of all, define what that is.
Starting point is 00:36:39 And second of all, like, what physiologically happens to us? Yeah, awesome. Okay, so mortality prime or mortality salience, that's just the piece of jargon that we use for when we remind people that they're going to die. And our experiments were social psychologists. studying attitudes and behavior. And so at that level, what we think we have demonstrated, rather convincingly, is that when you're reminded that you're going to die, you cling more
Starting point is 00:37:10 tenaciously to your cultural worldview, you make efforts to enhance your own self-esteem, and you also fortify your relationships with significant others. All right, but now back to your question, though, and that is what are the neuroanatomical biochemical underpinnings of mortality salience? In my estimation, the most interesting and important work based on terror management theory today is not by us. You know, we're on the cusp of retirement. I'll see you next time in Florida on the shuffleboard court. But anyway, there's these Israeli neuroscientists who have demonstrated very convincingly that death reminders have a unique and common neural pathway, and that any kind of intervention that serves to
Starting point is 00:38:18 make us better able to manage existential anxieties without having malignant effects thereafter, they modify that neural pathway. We are now looking at the level of single neural responses to death reminders and finding that it is very peculiar and unique to death. So you said there were three things. The cultural, we link and lean into the cultural worldview. Lean into the culture. And then we boost self-esteem. Yep.
Starting point is 00:38:58 And then loved ones. Yeah, loved ones. But the cultural worldview, there's not just one, right? Yes. So we link to the one that we self-identify with. Absolutely. So it's like heading a turbo boost like you said earlier. Yeah, absolutely.
Starting point is 00:39:14 And this is critically important as we move forward. because it does suggest that if we want to think about modifications of human attitudes and behavior in light of Becker and Terror Management theory, that one way to proceed is to modify our humanly constructive cultural worldviews. So just to give some examples, we did an early experiment where we just want to. wanted to see if people who describe themselves as conservative or liberal, will they respond differently to death reminders? So anyway, the word liberal means tolerant and open-minded. And conservative means to preserve what currently exists. People who identify as conservative, this is not a pejorative judgment. It's just a declaration of fact. They're not a all that concerned about disparaging people who are different than themselves. But anyway, sure
Starting point is 00:40:23 enough, we reminded conservative and liberal participants that they're going to die. And then we asked them to make judgments of other individuals that varied in similarity to them. And what we found is that conservatives reminded of death. They liked conservatives more and liberals less. Liberals reminded that they're going to die, like everybody more, right? Because it's tolerant and open-minded. That's profound. It is profound. But the only thing that's profoundly disconcerting is that political orientation is largely a genetic inheritance. And so if your identical twins separated at birth, you know, one's reared in Germany during World War II and the other whatever in Hawaii. if one twin is liberal, the other is also likely to be. It's not 100%. But so my point with regard to that is that
Starting point is 00:41:22 we're not going to be able to just tweak somebody's political orientation. This is just to show that if you've got a different worldview, when you're reminded you're going to die, you're going to go in different directions. That has huge implications because you add that on to the algorithms and the polarization and the social media and it's when we get mortality prime which we get every day in the news today it's like a turbo boost putting us towards our tribe and against the other tribe yeah brilliant i really like how you put that uh to you know and again to be silly but you just said it we are marinating uh in death anxiety both conscious and unconscious. We've got the climate melting before our eyes, or rather just changing in a
Starting point is 00:42:20 radically uncertain way. But when it's changing in a radical way, especially a young person, can imagine in our mind the melting in their lifetime or whatever else they imagine. That's right. So we got that. We got, we're in the aftermath of the pandemic with the likelihood of another one. We're in the middle of global. economic instability. The degree of armed conflict is rather high. And I think this is particularly relevant for environmental issues, even if it doesn't seem that way, we're in the midst of a transformation around the world from democracy to fascism. It has happened before. It's happening now. But your theory explains why, maybe.
Starting point is 00:43:11 Precisely. So, and so we can go back and talk about all these things. Let's start with the fascism maybe because I can't think of anything more pressing right now. And this is not a political argument. You know, we can have that discussion another time. But, you know, we just had President Trump, I don't know if it was yesterday or the day before, you know, declaring. climate change to be a con. And it turns out, is it Eve, Darien Smith, do you know a book called Global Burning? It was written a year or two ago, and it's by an environmental scientist in California. And her point is that fascism and environmental catastrophe go together. The countries that are doing the best to adapt to environmental circumstances are functional democracies. And the ones that have no concern whatsoever for managing the climate are fascists. Now, let's remember Mussolini defined fascism. He said, let's call it corporatism, because what it really is, It's when immoral and corrupt politicians combined with immoral and corrupt business people whose sole goal is to maximize what is a fundamentally meaningless abstraction, and that's money, not that it doesn't have enormous power.
Starting point is 00:44:54 That is what is burning the planet. Right. So back to terror management theory. Becker said in his book, The Denial of Death, there's an entire chapter about Hitler. And Hitler was elected in the 1930s without Russian interference after saying that he was going to make Germany great again. And Becker follows a dead sociologist Max Weber. And it was Weber who coined the term charismatic leader. And he said in times of historical crisis, we tend, and when I say we, I mean all of us. Humans. Humans. We tend to be more prone to mindless adherents to ideological demagogues who often declare that they're divinely ordained to rid the world of evil. And Becker just adds to that that that's because of death anxiety. All right, how do we know that it's true? Well, that's where the experiments come in. I was in Manhattan on September.
Starting point is 00:45:59 11th, 2001, when the World Trade Center went down. And that's when George W. Bush was president. And the day before September 11th, he had the lowest approval rating in the history of American politics. Three weeks later, after he said, we are going to rid the world of evil, and that he thought God had chosen him to lead the country during this. difficult time, he had the highest approval rating of any American president, even among Democrats. So we're like, well, maybe Bush all of a sudden became an effective president, or maybe Americans saturated with death anxiety were groping for a psychological lifeboat in the form of a charismatic leader. Right. Sure enough, we did dozens of studies.
Starting point is 00:46:59 In control conditions, when we ask people to think about stuff but not dying, they didn't like George W. Bush and they didn't like his policies in Iraq. And they like John Kerry, who was running for president in 2004, a lot more than Bush. But if we reminded them they were going to die first, they like Bush a whole lot more than Kerry. All right, fast forward to 2015 when Donald Trump comes down the escalator, declaring only I can fix it and declaring that we've got to get rid of the negratness horde that is invading our country. Part of fascism is you've got to have a designated enemy that you define as the all-encompassing repository of evil. So anyway, we did the same thing. He's running against Hillary Clinton.
Starting point is 00:48:01 We do an experiment, sure enough. Our participants like Clinton more than Trump in a benign psychological condition. But they like Trump a lot more when death is on their minds. One more set of studies just while I'm remembering it. And that is that when Trump is doing his campaigning, it's almost always demonizing. immigrants or terrorists or mosques or Islam. So we did other studies where we just showed that if you remind Americans or if you ask them to think about a mosque being built in their neighborhood, that makes death thoughts come more readily to mind. If you ask Americans to think about
Starting point is 00:48:55 immigrants coming to their town, that makes death come more readily to mind. If you ask Americans to think about terrorists, that makes death come more readily to mind. And that in turn, increases support for Donald Trump. And so as Steve Bannon, his, you know, advisor and confidant points out, politics in our world, unfortunately, has nothing to do with facts, reason, debate between individuals that's respectful based on the reconciliation of differences. It's all about keeping fear and anger. We got to keep people engaged and enraged. And that's precisely what we're seeing every day. It's not an accident that every day the average American is barraged with emotionally charged disinformation in order to maintain a constant state of existential distress.
Starting point is 00:50:01 I now have so many questions. So you could argue, or people do argue, if you look at the stats, we're alive when the average human, and the average is definitely different than the median, is among the materially wealthiest in history. Yeah. But at the same time, we're, because of technology and because of the state of the world, we probably have more mortality primes in our daily life than people did during the dark ages or an ancestral hunter-gatherer times. Right?
Starting point is 00:50:39 That has huge implications. Yeah. Again, really important and very huge. And one more point. This is awesome that I think's worth slipping in. because it matters. And that's to be sure that while we talk about, you know, the psychology of death anxiety, that's important. You mentioned earlier, Nate, that we got to look at it simultaneously from a cultural as well as an individual perspective. And there's a guy named Peter Turchin. Have you ever heard of that?
Starting point is 00:51:13 He's been on my show. I love that guy. End times. Yeah. All right. And I wish that I could intersect with him because. I'll introduce you. Yeah, because I believe. that our work explains on the ground level. Better yet, you both had come on on a roundtable. Let's do it. The result of his, because his point is we need to understand the structural factors that create the psychological conditions that we now find ourselves in. And his argument, he wrote in like, I don't know, he would know better, but around 2010, he's like, America's going to collapse right around now.
Starting point is 00:51:49 And it was just based on an equation. He's not a political dude. He's just arguing that income inequality and what he calls elite overproduction is the single most important thing that we need to think about when societies are keeling over. Because he points out that there's always been really rich people and not rich people. people, but looking at a large body of evidence that I'm sure he talked about, he shows that if the rich are getting richer, but the poor are also benefiting, you know, the rising tide lifts all boats, that societies can be very stable and quite peaceful. But when problems arise, it is when the rich gets super rich and the poor either stay the same or get poorer. He calls that a miseration. And he's like, yeah, people are miserable, but I don't mean just psychologically. He says they get shorter and their
Starting point is 00:53:00 lifespan get shorter. And this is exactly what's happening to uneducated white men in the United States. They're tinier and they're living less. Really? Yep. And they're also angry and depressed. And it is
Starting point is 00:53:16 under these conditions, where we hit a psychological fork in the road. Remember, the Great Depression was the result of massive income inequality, but we went with FDR and the New Deal, it didn't have to go that way. Republicans have always loved fascists. They loved Hitler. Hitler had a picture of Henry Ford in his office. Charles Lindbergh flew to Germany and thought the Nazis were great. But that's not what happened. FDR came to office. The New Deal, as Turchin describes it, was essentially a decision made by the government in collaboration with the rich to redistribute materials in the form of progressive taxation and a social safety net. And that created the American dream,
Starting point is 00:54:13 at least for white people. Right. We had about 40 years where, Everyone was getting better. Well, that changed right around the time when Reagan was elected president. Rips the solar panels off the White House. He's like, what good is the moon if you can't buy or sell it? And so back to the point, and that is that we are now in like a hundred years ago, income inequality is increasing in an almost surreal way where like the top 10 richest people on Earth own half the planet. And so a lot of the misery that a lot of average people in Western industrial societies are experiencing is the result of this structural oppression that conservatives in power go to great lengths to try to deny. That's what the whole anti-Woke thing is about.
Starting point is 00:55:20 Because woke is basically the realization that some of our individual misery is the result of structural factors that are contributing to our being stressed and distressed. When we think about, well, how are we going to use these ideas to enhance the well-being of ourselves and humanity in general? I think we have to think about it simultaneously. What do we have to do at the structural level? And what do we have to do psychodynamically as individuals? Let me ask you this.
Starting point is 00:55:57 Is there a built-in expiration date in human history for periods of progressive ideals? Because once you reach a point, like right now there was a Pew study a few weeks ago that showed the highest disparity in history. 78% of conservatives think the country's on a right direction. Zero percent of liberals thought that the head in the right direction. So that 0% presumably is getting more mortality primes every day with their news feeds or their wider boundary awareness of the world. And that becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy because some percentage of that population peels off and changes their very, values and priorities. So is there like a time fuse cyclically in history underpinning this terror management concept? Well, if we're going to follow Turch, and then the answer would be yes.
Starting point is 00:57:01 He's like history is cyclical. Societies originate back to Spangler. They have their stable moments. And then they have the disintegration. I love how you just put it, because basically we're all spinning down into the existential toilet, but in different directions. So we've got the woke progressives becoming increasingly disenchanted, dissatisfied, disheased, put a hyphen between dis and ease. I said I wasn't going to be political, but I can't help it. Their distress and dis-ease is because they actually see what's happening. But at the same time, We've got the Republican universe accelerated by contemporary media technology. What's happening in the United States is the same thing as what Hitler did in terms of propaganda, same thing that Putin did in Russia.
Starting point is 00:58:11 but those guys did it before social media, which has really lobotomized us in significant ways because we no longer as a society have access to the same information. So we've got one group seeing a certain depiction of reality. And then we've got another group. very few Americans read newspapers. In fact, sadly, very few Americans read, and most of them get their news from these media platforms. And here there is a political asymmetry
Starting point is 00:58:54 because conservative media platforms, according to like Annenberg School of Communication in USC, you know, Fox News is like 80% lies or misinformation. Not so for the progressive end of things. They're about 20% of distortion. But back to your original point, yeah, we're each kind of just getting increasingly agitated as the death reminders keep swirling around us. So across all platforms, this podcast has around a quarter million followers. And boy, they get mortality primes watching this show. So I'm wondering if that has, has an impact on the generally pro-social listeners and viewers of this program. Yeah, I think it does. The good news, even though it might not be overtly pleasant, is people who subscribe to pro-social, pro-environmental worldviews become even more committed
Starting point is 00:59:58 to those principles when death is on their minds. That's Sarah. There you go. And that's where Sarah and her colleagues, they're trying to leverage. these ideas into ways to bring out the best in us. So that's right. That's a good point. So does awareness of terror management theory affect an individual's physiological response to terror management theory? Yeah, we've been wondering about that and hoping that some of the younger folks will take that up as an empirical question. Okay. Because, you know, it's, To frame that question a little more broadly, you know, it's like, well, all right, does the awareness of these ideas, could this put us psychodynamically in a position to be able to manage them better? And our hope is, yes, you know, what our research shows is that, yeah, when death is on our minds, when we're really not.
Starting point is 01:01:07 aware of it. It's really non-conscious death reminders that that inspire us to stick to our culture and strive to increase self-esteem and so on and so forth. But there's a counterpoint and that is that maybe these ideas can break us out of that cycle. You know, Camus, Albert Camus, said come to terms with death, thereafter, anything is possible. You know, you have Socrates saying to philosophize is to learn how to die. And our hope is that the terror management theory ideas broadly defined can get folks to just metaphorically, if not literally, step back and contemplate more deeply all of the world's religions and philosophy, talk about what we would today refer to as mindfulness as a way to overcome these automatic
Starting point is 01:02:20 defensive reactions in the service of death acceptance rather than denial. Have you done studies on that? Because a lot of the people I've had on the show are psychologist and I've been working with friends and going to seminars on meditation and self-care and equanimity and spaciousness and people that have those practices, I would speculate, are more immune to the mortality primes in front of a cemetery. And so if we have a cultural renaissance into these sort of practices, it makes us, it's almost like, you know, it's almost like, producing antibodies against this human, uh, instinctual drive. Yeah, you got it, Nate. You know, my first inclination, um, you know, because I'm like a guy and I grew up in New Jersey and we're like
Starting point is 01:03:13 experimentalists and my wife is a yoga instructor, my daughter. And they would talk about those things. And I'd be like, you know, that's just like woodstock, like nonsense. with Birkenstock-clad people saying, here's what we should do. But the great news is that younger researchers, both in the terror management theory area, and in positive psychology, have demonstrated that that's the case. And so, for example, mindfulness and meditation eliminate defensive reactions to death reminders. So does awe, humility, and gratitude. And that's like the tripod of the foundation of Aristotle's conception of flourishing. You know, awe is just the sense that the world is so big and
Starting point is 01:04:17 vast that it will always exceed our capacity to fully comprehend it. And while that could be perplexing, if not devastating, it turns out that under certain conditions, awe is awesome, in part because it gives us a sense of humility, which I always have to define for Americans because they see that as self-deprecation. Humility is just the awareness that we are in consequential specs of carbon-based dust born in a time in place, not of our children. choosing here for a brief amount of time after which we move on. That also can be psychologically debilitating except people that have a sense of connection with other people and the world around us, awe and humility bring out the best in us. I like the notion of cosmic connection.
Starting point is 01:05:21 The Otto Ronk dude said, look, if you're conscious, you're the temporal representation. representative of the primal cosmic force. I don't even know what that means, except he goes on to say, look, we're all alive. That means that we're directly descended from the first living thing. That makes us related and connected to connected with. Everything that's ever been alive is alive or will be alive. And so this feeling of awe and humility in the context of cosmic connection, also facilitates gratitude. And this is my point to Americans, is like, yo, if you slept in a bed last night and had a meal today,
Starting point is 01:06:07 there's a lot to be grateful for. No need for specialized training or, you know, particularly sophisticated practice. How about just the awareness that we are part of a world that has been kind and gracious to us? All right, so that's like awesome. All of those things, awe, gratitude, humility. They reduce or eliminate defensive reactions to death reminders. But here's the big news. The neuroanatomical people that I told you about in Israel, they have shown that that tweaks the neurons. So basically the pattern of brain activity that occurs when death is on our mind, that is in a defensive state, those defenses melt or dissolve as a result of these kinds of interventions. And one more thing, psychedelics and don't want to go hippie days, but Timothy Leary
Starting point is 01:07:12 set us back 50 years by moving hallucinogens into the hippie world because Stanislav Groff in the 1950s saw psychedelics as a gateway to existential maturity. And sure enough, even a single psychedelic experience from people that are not drug users and have never done it before has an enduring effect the same as awe, gratitude, and humility, and it operates on the same neural pathway. I find this very exciting that there now appears to be convergent evidence at all levels, attitudinal behavior, behavioral physiological, suggesting that the way that we manage death anxiety will ultimately determine, you know, whether we're going to bring the best or the worst out of us.
Starting point is 01:08:08 That's so fascinating. Is there a time decay element in the mortality prime? Like you did the cemetery example or you flash the 28 milliseconds death. But if you don't do that for six hours, are people back to their baseline? And if they get it every single day on CNN or Fox News or whatever, I mean, what do you have to say about that? Yeah, nothing yet except it's an extraordinarily important question. Without sounding defensive, when I talk about our work, I say, look, we spent 40 years basically just trying to establish that death matters. And in epistemological terms, do you know, the Coon guy, the structure of scientific revolutions.
Starting point is 01:08:55 You know, again, I don't want to sound pompous, but I think what we did is what Coon would call a paradigm shift. Because our work demonstrated that you can study existential matters experimentally. But Coon's point is, you know, maybe that inflates your head a bit. but the real work he called normal science, and that's after you've established something, now go do the real work, which is to figure out all of the parameters in the context of your basic point. So we've demonstrated that death reminders have an effect. Now the next step is how long, how much, under what circumstances? And as I say to my young students, yeah, now you need three PhDs to do this stuff. You know, you need one in neuroscience. You need another in existential psychology. And a third one in experimental methods. But luckily, that doesn't have to happen. But we need larger teams of interdisciplinary scientists willing to engage at these levels. That's why my connection with Sarah over the decades.
Starting point is 01:10:17 has been so interesting and I hope prosperous. So what else is, from a research curiosity perspective, like how could this be applied to the betterment of humanity in the biosphere, applying terror management theory in an interdisciplinary way? What other important research questions, even if they're speculative and out there, are you rolling around in your mind? really fine question. Most of them are the ones that you've already rolled out. Like, I'm finding the kind of mindfulness, uh, awe, humility and gratitude to be very important.
Starting point is 01:11:09 There's another group of folks. They, they have a word. I think their term is, experiential appreciation. And again, I hate that we have to use jargon to get ideas out there. But they're like, okay, I get it. We spend a lot of our time as sentient humans groping for a sense of meaning. But they're like, I don't know, if you have kids and you watch what they're up to, they're not in any pursuit of existential depictions of reality. We have a three-year-old granddaughter that we see every week, and she's just at her best, you know, when nothing bad is happening, just completely and exuberantly engaged with whatever she happens to be doing. And so these guys have done studies with adults showing that there are some people who are just generally pleased with whatever they're doing.
Starting point is 01:12:28 Like that's my goal. It's like, you know, I used to think that terror management theory has helped me come to terms with my anxieties. I've been disinclined to die since I was eight. My grandmother died that day. I'm sitting there mourning or loss. And I'm like, oh, wait a minute. That means my mom's going to get old someday. And I was like, oh, and then I's like, oh, wait a minute.
Starting point is 01:12:52 That means I'm going to get old someday. Well, anyway, I buried that one under the psychological bushes for a couple of decades until we found Becker. And then we've been doing this terror management stuff for 40 years. And people ask me, well, has this helped you come to terms with death? And I used to say yes, and then I'm like, wait a minute. No, in fact, this has been a 40-year intellectual distraction by devoting my attention to the production of scientific papers in order to establish the merits of these ideas, I have successfully avoided, for the most part, the really direct confrontation with mortality that I've only recently, well, let's say
Starting point is 01:13:41 since the pandemic have come to a hope better approximate. And my thought along those lines is, yeah, well, I'm proud of the work that we've done. And I like it if somebody said, oh, we read your book and we thought that was cool. But I also like it when it's a beautiful day and I get a face full of fresh air when I'm walking a dog around the block. And my goal is for those to be equally rewarding existentially and experientially. Let me ask you this. You mentioned your granddaughter. So you mentioned that terror management theory, when we get a mortality prime, it's like
Starting point is 01:14:25 pushing a turbo boost to be more tribal and all that. But what about for people that have children and grandchildren that get a mortality prime? Is it a double turbo boost? Because they're not only, they're thinking about their loved ones. Yes, double up on that. Excellent. There's studies by other researchers. Yeah, you remind young adults that they're going to die and you ask them how many kids do you want? Death reminders. They say they want more kids. They want them earlier. If you're primed by a death reminder, you want more kids and want them earlier? But that's not what we're seeing, though. Yeah, that's not what we're seeing now. So I have to correct this because this.
Starting point is 01:15:11 This was back in the day. Okay. Yeah, more kids earlier and more likely to name them after yourself. If not your name, a name starting with the same letter as your name. And so that suggests that part of the impetus for biological reproduction is a symbolic immortality. But that has changed, I would say, since the beginning of this millennium, where death reminders now. have the opposite effect, again, at least for people who are seeing the world as it is. Now, I don't know if there's any research, but you just gave me an idea for a great experiment, because as you know,
Starting point is 01:15:54 folks in the United States who subscribe to the right-wing ideology, I bet if you remind them a death, they'll say they want to have more kids, because that's what they're being encouraged to do, whereas I think people on the progressive end of things will say they want to have less kids. Whoa, I kind of believe that. I do too. Do the study, Sheldon. And when I do, you're the co-author. No, the idea is what matters.
Starting point is 01:16:23 I think that's important. So can you speculate if in a hypothetical world people exercised and meditated and did yoga and spent time in nature and understood reality and had what Bill Plotkin says reached ecological adulthood, and they were aware of reality. And they're what Mark Gaffney would say, they were post-tragic. And therefore, the terror management theory, which is a species-wide homo-sapiens phenomenon from the dawn of our species, or at least once we recognized, they died, I'm going to die. If we... We're in that space, all of humanity. What can you speculate as an expert psychologist on this?
Starting point is 01:17:14 What would be the behavioral, individual, and collective responses to that state? Yep, my hope would be that it would bring out the best in all of us. Again, what some folks point out is we're a very young species. You know, we're still in diapers metaphorically. The average mammal lives about a million years, so we're 30% through if we're the average. And what that means is that there's at least a possibility. We're not saying there's going to be a radical change in human nature, but the work so far, which suggests that there are these psychological states that allow us to be transformed from efforts to deny death to accept death do alter our bodies. basic stance towards life and each other. And yeah, the hope would be that there would be consequential benefits and that it would happen simultaneously at the individual as well as the
Starting point is 01:18:23 social level. And my view is, I don't see any one solution. I think we got to go bottom up and top down at the same time. So you mentioned the overlap with Peter Turchin's work and you mentioned kind of the strong man political, I'm afraid of death, so I want someone to manage you, but are there other behavioral aspects that emanate from this? For instance, we live in a consumerist culture and when we're stressed, we order something on Amazon to be delivered. Are there other aspects of being primed by mortality salience? Yeah. You know, again, And on the negative end of things, when death is on our mind, because we do live in a consumer culture, God is dead, but cash is king. You know, everything in nature is perishable. And therefore,
Starting point is 01:19:25 there's a limit to how much of it we want. It's like a John Locke point. He's like, hey, you might like apples, but after your 10th one, you're like, I've had enough. You might like pizza, but I've had enough. You know, anything, beer, sex, there's finite limits, but money, as an abstraction, we have an insatiable desire for. In my presentations and lectures, I call money the most intense supernormal stimuli of all. Yes. Could not agree more. I think it is a linchpin if we don't attend to the fact that money is a primary means of psychological security. We have an insatiable desire for it and that the unbridled pursuit of it will guarantee that the planet will dissolve. So I also see that, yeah, as one of our biggest
Starting point is 01:20:28 problems. And again, we know it from evidence. When people are reminded that they're going to die, they say they need more money to feel well to do. They spend more money on stuff that... Wait, when you're primed with you're going to die or any indirect cue that we get in the media, it triggers a desire for more money slash power slash security and comfort and all that. Absolutely. You say you want more money. You say you want to buy. more stuff, not a toaster, a Rolex, or a Porsche. You are willing to destroy natural environments in order to increase profits when we're reminded of death and just ask to draw a picture of money. We draw it bigger as money looms larger on our minds. Here's the unbelievable one.
Starting point is 01:21:23 the Polish psychologist working with my buddy, Tom, they did a really simple study. They gave some people some money, and they said, here, take this and count it. They gave other people some pieces of paper, and they said, here, take this and count it. Then you don't get to keep anything. They're like, give me the money back, give me the paper back, and then they measured death anxiety, just having money in our hands reduces death anxiety. And I think this is really important. So when death is on our minds, we become even more in terms of our insatiable desires for money and stuff. And so here we are in a world.
Starting point is 01:22:17 where, unfortunately, we really are. You know, we're surrounded by death reminders that are making us even more mindless devotees to the acquisition of stuff. And that may not end well. That's, I think, an important consideration. This is super fascinating. I'm shocked.
Starting point is 01:22:47 that it's taken this long for us to meet and talk. Me too. No, this cuts both ways because this is another Ernest Becker point that I do think is important. So he's writing the book, The Denial of Death in the 1970s, and he's like, you know what? Everyone's saying, I got to find more truth. And he's like, no, I think we have a lot of truth, but we need to connect it. We've got all of these different disciplines in their own silo. And if we were able to step back and collaborate and coordinate, what he argued is that we will find an intimate connection between these most prominent ideas.
Starting point is 01:23:37 And then and only then will we be able to do something about it. I do, without sounding all too political, I do like the argument. argument that's not like somebody's sitting in a chair someplace saying, let's keep things the way they are. But there is a natural structural tendency to want to maintain institutions in their current form. Yeah, and the best way to do that is the intellectual isolation and differences in academic disciplines that keep these kinds of conversations from happening. So in a moment, I'm going to ask you for advice to the listeners on how to deal with their own mortality and get to this post-tragic aware of TMT, but in a benign way.
Starting point is 01:24:24 But first, let me ask you as an expert on this, what would be some broad arc recommendations at the cultural and institutional level to better, I don't know, suppress. or muzzle or modulate this very human, like almost by the definition of who we are as humans, this is part and parcel of how we got here. Absolutely. So how do we incorporate this in a cultural evolution sort of way? Yeah, again, brilliant question.
Starting point is 01:25:00 One way that I think is important to proceed is to, for lack of a better word, work on modifying existing cultural worldviews to render them more pro-social and psychologically enhancing. So, for example, my buddy Tom and some of his colleagues have done an amazing study where they do what's called a common humanity prime. They just tell people, hey, you know what? People have more in common than we are different. And that has the advantage of being true, as you know, right? We are a really homogeneous species genetically, right? Every human's derived from a small clump in southeastern Africa, or at least that was the hypothesis at one point. Whether that's true or not, it is the case that, you know, an African in Africa and a European in Norway, they're still more genetically close than two monkeys sitting next to each other on a hill. And so it turns out that in an experiment, when you remind people of our common humanity, and then they're reminded of death, they no longer hate people. because they happen to be different. If we proceed a mortality prime with a pro-social prime, it's a little bit of an antidote?
Starting point is 01:26:43 Absolutely. What? That's awesome. Yeah, that is awesome. And this does not require that we just dispose of existing worldviews. In other words, I say this to, you know, again, the folks that I teach, I'm like, all right, well, who's read the story of Genesis? you know, in the Bible. It used to be everyone to raise their hand now, if I get a few, but no matter. But, you know, you read the story of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden.
Starting point is 01:27:19 If you subscribe to the Judeo-Christian tradition, we all are common humanity. In other words, to incorporate that notion into existing worldviews is quite feasible. Similar to, one conception of the Judeo-Christian tradition is kind of narcissistically anthropocentric. In other words, we're created in God's image. God made all of the things for us to dominate, right? He's like, you have dominion over all that swims, all that crawls, all that flies. And that's not a particularly great worldview for improving the world that we live in. I like Bob Marley, if you know what life is worth, you will live yours here on earth. But there are also aspects of Christianity. I like Sir Francis or no, Francis Assisi, not sir, but what was he?
Starting point is 01:28:23 Wasn't the Pope. But anyway, he was saint. Monk. Yeah, the monk. But he argued that we're not the dominant entity in the world. Rather, we're the stewards of the world. God has put us here not to dominate everyone and everything around us, but to curate. And those, those I think are shifts that if they could be peacefully executed could move us in a direction where enough of us subscribe to world views where death anxiety would make us do better things. Not only not do worse things, but to actually do better things. Those are two different statements. That's correct, because there are studies that show that when we're reminded of death,
Starting point is 01:29:13 we become more generous when we're asked to donate to charity, for example. So this is, I think, on those grounds, I think that's one important. direction is to think about the cultivation of world views that are more sustainable. So let me digress just a little bit, Sheldon. Before I flew here yesterday, I recorded what I call frankly, which is every Friday, most Fridays, I have my opinion on something in the world. And I integrated the last two podcast guests. We had an expert on psychopathy and then the human origins of surplus and everything. And so I had this concept that the median human is actually much better, much more pro-social than the mean.
Starting point is 01:30:08 Because the mean, which is the average, is influenced by 1% psychopaths. Like clinical psychopaths. And this isn't a modern thing. This has been through time. And so it actually was a depressing podcast, but it made me quite hopeful because, because this is not who we are. We're being primed and pulled by this economic system. And so the upshot is what's at stake is we are biologically, correctly defined as apex predators, as an aggregate species.
Starting point is 01:30:46 But as individuals, not necessarily. And what's at stake now is we could be an apex custodian. Yeah. Yeah, lovely. I second that, and I think you're right on. There's work that suggests, as you pointed out, the psychopaths are a tiny slither of humanity, and they are the ones most likely to become ideological demagogues that take over societies. ruin them. The point being that these these kinds of psychopaths, it is their death anxiety that's driving them. But what that suggests is that if there is a way to dislodge, to defund, disempower, the people that are in those positions, right, if we can replace Gangas Khan with Mahat McGondy or Putin with Jesus or fill in the blank, then we are in a position, I would hope,
Starting point is 01:32:05 to radically alter the direction of humanity. But here's the rub, right? Because we're in group, outgroup, and other evolutionary restraints that we tend to blame on an individual. But what you're saying is a demagogue in a leadership position, you mentioned some political figures, we tend to blame them. But your story, your research suggests that those are the natural outcome of our own individual aggregate human behavior. They're like, it's almost given our current non-ecological adulthood maturity as a species, electing those and letting those people
Starting point is 01:32:47 navigate to the top is kind of the default path. Yes, it is. For now. No, that's correct. You got it. It's a comorbid dependency between different death denying entities. But yes, you got it. That what we're seeing is not an aberration. It is a pattern of explicable phenomenon that I don't think can be explained without recourse to these ideas. but just to be sure that we understand each other. This is not to say that death anxiety explains everything. What it is to suggest is that if we don't consider it at all, we'll understand nothing. Yeah. So do you have any more at the cultural level speculation or advice directionally?
Starting point is 01:33:42 Yeah, I mean, again, maybe it sounds corny, but do you know the braiding sweetgrass book? Robin Wall Kimmerer. This is a great book. You know, here she is a Native American and a Ph.D. biologist talking about the possibility that we shift towards cultures of compassion and gratitude. And that we step back from what is quite unique to the Judeo-Christian tradition. And that's the linear sense of time where progress is inevitable. You know, that's what keeps us frenetically on the hamster wheel of life, rather than cultures that see the world as cycling and recycling and valuing people not so much for what they have, but rather what they give. Similarly, is it David Graber?
Starting point is 01:34:46 Do you know, is it the dawn of everything? I can't remember the other guy that he wrote that. David Wendgrove. Yeah, really awesome book because they provide historical examples. So, you know, we can have these talks and a lot of my more conservative entrepreneurial friends just say, look, that's nonsense. You might be able to do that in a small town, but there's no way that you can have a complex civilization that's hierarchy. structured that can operate in that fashion. But the dawn of everything provides examples of societies where they seem to be thriving. They're mostly matriarchal in nature, but historically there have been worlds, whereas Mary Poppins put it enough as good as a feast. And where the
Starting point is 01:35:47 procurement of self-esteem is not based on being better than those around you or having more than everybody, but rather just the joy of connection and communion. And so I do think there's a lot of things we can learn. And what about at the individual level? What advice do you have to the viewers of this show that are interested in coming to terms with their own mortality, partially for their own well-being, but partially as a contribution to a more pro-social future. Yeah. Well, back to the Camus. Come to terms with death or after anything is possible. And so at the risk of being annoying, it's like, do something. For some of us, that might literally mean throw your phone in the toilet and take a walk outside.
Starting point is 01:36:46 with both of your eyes in the same direction and see a tree for the first time that's not mediated by the screen. So there's a lot of evidence that just movement in nature is one way. We talked about psychedelics. We talked about mindfulness. There's another movement that has to do with just again, get away. I think the phone has damaged us to an amazing degree. When I see people at a restaurant, you know, four people at a restaurant, each looking at their phones. And then I'm eating with them.
Starting point is 01:37:27 And they're like, texting. And I'm like, who are you texting? Oh, I'm texting the person sitting across from me. And I'm like, this is why we are in a disassociated disconnected stupor. So there's some research. that suggests that just informal social acknowledgement. You know how sometimes you're like walking down the street and you see somebody and, you know, your eyes meet and you do that little. I know you know, we know.
Starting point is 01:37:56 That turns out to be psychologically uplifting almost as much as therapy. And so here's another direction. Again, it sounds silly, but it's like reestablished connections. with fellow human beings. The youth in the aftermath of the pandemic have been bunkered with their faces in their phones, and we've got to get out and restore our connection to humanity. We've got to re-engage with ceremonial rituals, not the superficial and senseless ones that most of us have suffered through in my world. But to remember that for most of human history, the best of us are in social and communal settings,
Starting point is 01:38:49 I think all of those things. And then back to the awe, humility, and gratitude, there's other folks. My daughter is a therapist, and she's big on the role of art, music, and dance that maybe we're overthinking these things. Maybe let's watch the little kids and remember that there was a time in our lives where just to be physically engaged with ourselves and the world around us had many existential benefits. So that'd be one thing I would tell folks is, hey, there are things that we can and should do. Another thing that I think is important is to note that we are indeed at a crossroads in terms of where we're at as a species,
Starting point is 01:39:51 but this is not the first time. You know, so I talk about these things and I'm like, wow, I get depressed as I hear myself saying. it. I'm like, oh, wow, I got to stop talking and run behind the grocery store and just start guzzling wool light or whatever. But then I'm like, but wait a minute, we've had existential crises before. You know, the, in the middle ages, the plague, that killed like half of the people in Europe, evidently. Yeah, but as long as we didn't understand why it was happening, there was nothing we can do to fix it. We thought it was because of evil spirits, but people kept dying.
Starting point is 01:40:35 But then we figured out that it was because of germs or bacteria, and that led to the development of modern medicine. And so by the same token, if we're able as individuals and as a group to step back and look at how malignant manifestations of death anxiety bring out the worst in us, you know, then maybe we can avoid Robert J. Lyft and a psycho historian. He died a week or two ago. But he's like, look, we may have the ignominious distinction of being the first form of life to be responsible for our own extinction. Yeah, but then again, maybe not. You know, back to the Nietzsche thing. Things may get pretty bad. All right, but back to Albert Camus
Starting point is 01:41:30 at the end of the plague, he said in times of pestilence, we learn that there is more to admire in mankind than to despise. And that's what gives me hope. And what I say to the youth, yeah, things are bad. And they have been bad in the past, and we have made our way out of it successfully. I don't think we're being overly delusional by abandoning that kind of motivated optimism. Let's do something. What do you care most about in the world, Sheldon? You know, when I think about that, what I usually say is just I care. I think that it persists a bit longer in.
Starting point is 01:42:24 some recognizable form, whether it's with humans or not, rather than just being polluted to the point where it's a petri dish of toxic pathology. Yeah, I'm pretty much with you there. Yeah. If you had a magic wand and there was no personal recourse to you or your reputation or anything. What is one thing you would do to change human and planetary futures for the better? Right now it would be, I've already mentioned this, it would be to defund and disempower the five or six people running Earth that are in positions of power that if inhabited by less destructive
Starting point is 01:43:16 people might make things better. But if we don't address, address the terror management theory underpinning the population, they will be replaced by equal. Yeah. You're absolutely right. So, okay, so now I got to back up and talk out of two sides of my face. And that would be to argue that, you know what? Yeah, I do think we've got to get rid of some of these psychopathic demagogues running Earth. But it's also incumbent upon us as individuals to become more existentially mature such that we can be competent citizens in a functional democracy. You know, if there is clear evidence that educated and literate people are generally, in terms of their attitudes and how they vote and behave, they're in favor of more pro-social,
Starting point is 01:44:15 egalitarian approaches to life. They're big fans at democracy. They understand that the primary value of education. That's why Thomas Jefferson started the University of Virginia. He knew that for democracy to work, you needed literate individuals capable of, you know, respectful disagreement. So that would be my plea 10 years ago. And actually, it remains the same today because the best way to depose. at least in America, for the moment, folks that are directing us in unfortunate ways would be through elections.
Starting point is 01:44:59 And so that's my thing to the Skimor students where I work is you should really read what the founding father said about democracy. the average American can't name the three branches of government or recognizes the necessity of the separation of powers in a functional democracy. So I think that would be good. So I'm clamoring for educated people devoted to democracy who are existentially mature enough by virtue of how they manage death anxiety. and maybe I'm being Disney-like, but my hope is that if there were enough people in that psychological quadrant, that there'd be a lot of spontaneous and coordinated efforts to move us in good
Starting point is 01:45:56 directions. Thank you for your time and wisdom and lifetime of research on this topic, which I'm fascinated by. We'll have you back to be continued, my friend. Yeah, thank you, sir. If you enjoyed or learned from this episode of The Great Simplification, please follow us on your favorite podcast platform. You can also visit ThegreatSimplification.com for references and show notes from today's conversation. And to connect with fellow listeners of this podcast, check out our Discord channel.
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