The Hilary Silver Podcast - Uplevel in 2025

Episode Date: October 25, 2024

Episode 27: Uplevel in 2025   Ready to stop messing around and finally start making big moves in your life? In this episode, Hilary breaks down five power plays that are going to help you get exactly what you want—faster. She’s pulling back the curtain on the mindsets and strategies that have taken her from stuck to unstoppable. Hilary’s got the blueprint to get you where you want to go and in this episode she delivers with no fluff, just real results. Episode Highlights: Get clear or get stuck. If you don’t know what you want, how are you going to get it? Hilary explains why clarity is non-negotiable when it comes to manifesting your dreams. Remember, vagueness is the enemy of progress. Commit to growth or stay stagnant. Growth happens outside your comfort zone—period. Hilary shares a gutsy story about a client who overcame the fear of raising her prices and saw massive success. Get ready to feel inspired to stretch yourself. Upgrade your identity! If you want to level up, then you’ve got to become the kind of person who lives at that next level. Hilary breaks down why shifting your identity is the secret sauce to success.   Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Leveling up in 2025 [01:07] How to Compress Time and Achieve Goals Faster [02:21] Personal Story: Big Risks, Big Wins [02:55] Step 1: Get Clear on What You Want [03:26] Step 2: Commit to Growth, No Matter What [04:09] Overcome Fear, Invest in Yourself [05:24] Step 3: Transform Your Identity [06:06] Step 4: Find a Growth-Oriented Community [07:10] Step 5: Get Yourself a Mentor [08:54] Recap and What’s Coming Next   Takeaways: Your circle matters. No more lone wolf mentality. Surround yourself with people who are going places, because the right community will help you hit your goals faster. Hilary talks about how to find your people. Get a mentor, skip the struggle! Stop guessing and start growing. Hilary is all about mentorship and why investing in someone who’s been where you want to go is the fastest way to get there.   Hilary is about to bring you next-level transformation, and if you're ready to stop talking about it and actually build the life of your dreams—whether it's crushing it in your business, getting the body you want, or having the relationships you deserve—you need to get in on this. Hilary’s live programs and workshops kick off in January, and they’re designed to take you deep into the self-centered way of being that creates real, lasting change. She’s not just talking about it, she’s living proof of it—and she’s teaching it live. Want in? Head to www.hilarysilver.com/waitlist to be the first to know all the details. Get on the waitlist now for early access and lock in your spot to learn directly from Hilary. If you’re serious about leveling up in all areas of your life, don’t wait—this is where the shift happens.

2025 is just around the corner, and if you're thinking what you want your life to look like, what's next for you to grow yourself or accomplish certain goals and how you can level up, then this episode is for you. I'm going to share the five things you must do to level up in 2025 and what I've been working on that will help you compress time around achieving those results. And make sure to stay till the end because I do have a very special offer for you. Hi, it's Hillary. Welcome to the Hillary Silver Podcast. Thanks for tuning into the conversation today. If you haven't already, it would mean so much to me if you'd take a minute to just click that five-star rating on your podcast app, leave a review, and subscribe so you never miss one of my episodes. And if you're

enjoying this podcast, please consider sharing it with a friend because if you like it, they will probably like it too. I've been getting so many emails and DMs and inquiries asking if I'm still taking clients and asking, Hillary, how can I get coaching? How can I get access to you? How can I work with you? And the answer is that I very rarely take private clients anymore. And when I do, I'm not going to lie. It's pretty exclusive. It's a multiple five-figure investment per month. And I know that not many people are able to do that. So my team and I have been deep in creation mode to figure out how to be more accessible. And I'm so excited to share what we've come up with. And I think that you're really going to love it. And what I'm offering ties in with our conversation today. I mentioned

compressing time, and I want to make sure that you know what I mean, just in case it's not obvious. You might also have heard it before called collapsing time. It means the same thing. What that means is that you're hastening the time it takes to achieve your desired outcomes, to dramatically, almost magically get to your desired outcome faster than you ever thought possible. Like skipping over what would seem like a normal amount of time to get there, to exponentially catapult you forward, jumping over steps, leapfrogging through time. And I know for me, when I want something, I want it now. You may remember from a previous episode, once I figured out how I was getting in my own way,

my very first month with Ready for Love was a 53K month, not a 10K, 20K, 30, or even 40K month. It was a 53K month. And then I went to 100, skipped right over 300 and 400K, and hit the 500K a month mark. So you compress time when you self-select, when you opt in, sign up, take action, and make yourself and your desires a priority. So there are five things you must do to level up in 2025. And the first is to decide and get clear what it is that you want. I'm planning on doing an episode on my process for getting clear on what I really want soon, so stay tuned. I know it sounds basic, but sometimes we don't realize that what we are working towards is not really clear or we aren't 100% sure it's actually what we want. And that uncertainty really makes it impossible to manifest anything.

Next, commit to doing what it takes, even if it's scary or uncomfortable, because it will be. Expect it to be. Here's the thing. If it's not a little scary, then you're not pushing yourself enough. Safety is the enemy of growth. This includes being willing to learn things or consider things you've not been open to before, signing up for experiences you've not had before, investing in yourself at a higher level than you've ever done before. Only doing what is comfortable keeps you exactly where you are. If you keep doing what you've always done,

you'll keep getting what you've always gotten. One of my sales coaching clients came to me selling her services for $3,000. And for years, she was trying to have the courage to bump it up to 5K, but she was still having trouble selling at the 3K, so she just stayed stuck right where she was. At first, she objected to my fee and wasn't going to sign on with me because it was 10K for a two-hour private session. She said, no, I can't do that. I'm used to paying $1,000 an hour. But can you see that if you only do what you're used to doing, you'll stay exactly where you are? And I love telling the story because she did get over her fear and sign on for the session with me and immediately raised her price to the 5K and then signed on the next three people in a row that she spoke with later that week. So not only did she make her investment back and more,

what she learned with me will be with her forever into the future. Stretching yourself to do something new or different or scary is how we grow. Think about it. When you work out and you get sore, that is how you're building the muscle. And if you're not occasionally feeling the burn or getting sore, you're probably not pushing yourself enough and will just maintain your status quo. And hey, if you're in a good place, there's nothing wrong with maintaining the status quo, but right now we're talking about leveling up. So that is what will be required. It will be a stretch because what got you here to this point will not be what gets you to the next level.

To get to the next level, you have to step into the next level version of you, which leads me to the third thing. Make sure to focus not just on what you are doing to get there, but on who you are. Identity work is the gateway to your next level. It's the portal that you have to go through to get to your next level. This is why so much of the focus of my work with my business owner clients and entrepreneurs is still self-improvement. Personal growth is required for business growth. For more on this, you'll want to listen to my episode called Hard Work Won't Make You Rich. I'm putting the link in the pinned comments. Next, put yourself in the room where others are doing the same thing that you are. Find a community or

a group or a mastermind where everyone is also focusing on the kind of growth that you are. There is an energy about it. All that energy that each person brings creates a kind of vortex, a swirling together of everybody's energy. Being around other high vibe people is one powerful way to build your identity. For example, one of the reasons that Ready for Love is such a success for our clients is because we provide a space for hyper successful professional single women who are all dedicated to working on themselves, their identity, so they can become the high value woman capable of the loving and supportive relationships that they dream about. And they want the best for each other. And they talk openly about what's happening

in their process of working on themselves. They cheer for each other, celebrate each other, and they're all kind of glowing up together. Finally, find a mentor or a guide. This is hands down the best way to collapse time around achieving an outcome rather than going it alone. But it must be someone who is doing for themselves what it is that you seek to achieve for yourself. I have a very strong opinion about this, if you can't tell. I wouldn't hire a personal trainer who isn't in wicked great shape, or I would not work with a financial advisor who isn't already making themselves rich.

Choose someone whose philosophy and approach speaks to you, who teaches the things that you need to learn, and who has a proven track record and integrity. Just choose wisely because there's a lot of people out there, and you really want to make sure that you're picking the right person for you. But here's the thing. You have to be willing to invest for the best. Do not play small here because this is where people spend a lot of time and money to not get what they want because they're cheaping out on themselves. An example of this is using your EAP free counseling sessions from work or using your insurance for a therapist so you only have to pay

your co-pay rather than paying out of pocket for someone great. The really, really great experienced people know their worth and charge for it. You just have to be willing to do that for yourself. I have done that so many times for myself, even when it was scary, and it pulled me up to my next level just by raising my hand and saying, I want this for myself and opting in. Saying, yes, I want that. I want the best. By deciding that for yourself, you are already leveling up just in making that decision. It's always the best investment you can make, investing in yourself. It pays dividends the rest of your life. Even if you learn just one new thing that changes your life, you'll be using it forever. So these are the five things that are essential for leveling up and to

compress time or collapse time around getting to that ultimate goal that you're working on, whether it's a weight loss goal, a financial goal, a business goal, anything in your personal life. Starting in January, I will be hosting monthly programs and workshops. These are live experiences with me where we go much deeper into the content around exactly what you need to do to be self-centered and how to actually apply it in your life and to bring these concepts to life. So it's not just information, but actually creating transformation for you. There's a big difference between information and transformation. I plan to release the topics and details of three programs at a time. So very soon I'll be sharing January, February, and March. And if you're interested, you can sign

up for just one, you can sign up for two, or you can bundle them and get all three and become a member for the three months. And being a member has perks like discounted pricing to sign up for all three, getting replays where you wouldn't otherwise get them, and also being invited to our exclusive VIP sessions, which is really an interactive Q&A with me to get my eyes and my ears on your life, your relationships, your business. So even if you're just the slightest bit interested, I highly recommend that you get on my no obligation wait list because that puts you first in line when we are ready to open the doors and start taking enrollments. So the link is again in a pinned post and I'll also put it in the show notes and in the description. Thanks to all of you who took

my survey and shared the topics that you're most interested in learning about. If you haven't done that, please make sure to follow me on Instagram and then DM me. Tell me what you want to learn about in 2025. What kind of programs would excite you? Or you can just comment below. My team and I will be reading them, as we always do. And we'll make sure that we put all of that into the lineup as I'm creating my 2025. I'll see you soon.