The Home Service Expert Podcast - The Art of Customer Service: Building a Culture-First Business with Rob Anderson

Episode Date: March 2, 2026

In this conversation, Rob Anderson shares his insights on the importance of company culture, customer service, and effective recruitment strategies in the home services industry. He emphasizes the nee...d for businesses to focus on making customers happy and creating a positive work environment for employees. Rob discusses the significance of data-driven decisions, the impact of partnerships, and the challenges posed by private equity. He also highlights the importance of leadership development, emotional intelligence, and the art of storytelling in building relationships with clients and partners. Ultimately, Rob encourages a forward-looking mindset and the continuous pursuit of personal and professional growth. 00:00 The Importance of Culture in Business  05:52 Recruitment and Retention Strategies 08:55 Defining and Measuring Company Culture 15:01 Navigating the Challenges of Home Services 18:04 The Role of Partnerships in Business Growth 20:57 Giving Back to the Community 23:50 The Impact of Private Equity on Business 26:58 Leadership Development and Emotional Intelligence 30:07 The Art of Storytelling in Business 33:00 Building Relationships with Clients and Partners 35:57 The Future of Business and Personal Growth

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Culture to me is the thing to focus on. I don't think there's anything more important in business than spending your time on culture. Welcome to the Home Service Expert, where each week Tommy chats with world-class entrepreneurs and experts in various fields, like marketing, sales, hiring, and leadership, to find out what's really behind their success in business. Now, your host, The Home Service Millionaire, Tommy Mello. Before we get started, I wanted to share two important things. with you. First, I want you to implement what you learned today. To do that, you'll have to take a lot of notes, but I also want you to fully concentrate on the interview. So I ask the team to take notes for you. Just text, note, N-O-T-E-S, to 888-526-1299. That's 888-526-1299, and you'll receive a link to download the notes from today's
Starting point is 00:00:54 episode. Also, if you haven't got your copy of my newest book, Elevate, please go check. check it out. I'll share with you how I attracted and developed a winning team that helped me build a $200 million company in 22 states. Just go to elevate and win.com for slash podcast to get your copy. Now let's go back into the interview. All right, guys, welcome back to the Home Service X expert today. I got an awesome guest, close friend now. Rob Anderson got recommended through Brigham, Brigham Dickinson, and he said this guy is the best home improvement man on the planet. He's based out of Utah, 35 plus years in the home service space and home improvement, known for culture first leadership, built a water treatment company from 11 employees to a million
Starting point is 00:01:40 in revenue into 230 employees on the first exit, 650 employees and several hundreds of millions in revenue on the second exit, became the largest independent water treatment company in the United States. Rob Anderson expanded organically into full service plumbing, HVAC, and electrical. secured Costco Home Depot and Lowe's Partnerships, 31 Costco locations across three states, 63 Home Depot's, and multiple lows. Successfully pivoted growth model after telemarketing regulations entered a core channel. I know all about these stories, and I've heard so many at the house.
Starting point is 00:02:17 Rob, how are you doing today? I'm doing good, Tommy. Thanks for having me. I know you don't do these very often, so I'm glad you made it. No, I'm happy to be here, though. It's fun to be with you. So tell me, listen, let the audience get to know you a little bit. What got you into water treatment?
Starting point is 00:02:35 What got you into home improvement? And what are you excited about today? Well, I fell into water treatment by accident, actually, fell into home services by accident and worked hard at it for 35 years and sold my business and retired. And what's exciting to me is I'm getting dragged. back in and having more fun than ever, honestly. You know, I think that there's a lot of people out there that have tried to get into Costco and they've tried the Home Depot.
Starting point is 00:03:13 They've tried the lows. And I know your story, but you guys made that Uber successful. That was a really big lead channel for you. What makes those channels successful? Well, first of all, you have to have a mindset of over-the-top customer service because the most important thing that a retailer wants, and I mean a retailer at every level, from the buyer to the warehouse manager to the person at the front desk who has to deal with their customer, you have to be over-the-top in how you treat a customer and make them happy. In fact, your job actually has to become making your customer happy. There is no other job when you're dealing with retail. So let's go over when you walk in a home, how you ask, I guess the happy talk.
Starting point is 00:04:10 Well, yeah, I mean, look, our job and every person's job in our company is to make our customer happy. That's our job. my job was to make our employees happy. And, you know, so everything we did was, was about that and was directed toward measuring that. And we started every appointment with the same words, and that is Mr. Mello, you know, I'm Rob with superior water and air. I'm here to do X, but before I get started, I just need you to know what my job is. My job today is to make sure you're happy when I leave. So I'm going to ask a favor before we start.
Starting point is 00:04:57 Okay. I'm going to do my job in this way, this way, this way. I just need you to tell me when I'm done if you're happy or not. And if you're not, I'll make sure I make it right or I'll keep working until you are. Fair enough. Fair enough. And that just sets everything up. Now, what are some of the things you've heard at the end of the call,
Starting point is 00:05:18 possibly when the client was not completely satisfied or happy? Well, it didn't happen very often, but when, because, you know, when you start with a commitment, it's just like the commitments you make in life. You don't want to let your customer down when you've committed to your customer that that's your job, right out of the shoot, right? It's not somebody else telling them you're going to do it. It's you. And so, but when they aren't happy, you know,
Starting point is 00:05:48 we gave the employees a lot of runway to do what they needed to do, whether it was walk the dog, do the dishes, mow the lawn, it didn't matter, you know. Now, if it was outside of something that they could do, then they would pick up the phone and they would call me or they would call their manager and we would get on our horse and get out there and make sure that customer was happy right then. So you had very little turnover. You know, we hired 62 brand new guys went through our training last month. And right now, we're at a 35% turnover in the first year.
Starting point is 00:06:30 I talked to Ken Goodrich. I've talked to a lot of people hiring, you know, whether it's 30, 40, 50 guys a month. And I'll tell you, when you step into a garage and it's 20 below or you step into a garage, it's 145 degrees because the heat's trapped and it's 122 out. Some people just say this is not for me. I mean, yeah. What do you look for in a person when you hire them to make sure they're not going to turn over? What are some of the attributes? How do you recruit so well?
Starting point is 00:06:59 Because I think turnover is a good thing unless you're really good at recruiting. Well, you have to, I mean, recruiting becomes, you know, an art, right? It's more than a science. It's an art. And, you know, I think it's important that you get to know people. I think it's important that you pay attention to what people tell you because they will tell you who they are if you ask the right questions. You know, and I think it's important that you define culture. I think one of the biggest mistakes that companies make today in every business is they say culture is important, right?
Starting point is 00:07:41 But culture is a strange word. It's like the word satisfaction. If you asked a million people what the definition of culture was in their business, you would get a million different answers. Just like if I said, what is the definition of satisfaction? Now, everybody has a different definition. My definition is satisfaction is an excuse to do less than my best, right? So we don't use the word satisfaction. We use the word happiness or wowing people.
Starting point is 00:08:12 You know, it's, so culture is the same way. And, you know, with culture, you want it to be simple. So we defined it very simply. If you ask anybody in our business, the culture of our business was we are a group of people that do our best for each other and for our customer. And everybody knew it. It was simple. It can be measured. And it's what makes all the difference because if you educate people on what,
Starting point is 00:08:42 your culture is to start, then you can start to identify if they're a good fit. And I would ask the question, one of the most fascinating questions I ask when I interview anyone, especially leadership, is how do I know, Tommy, if I'm getting your best? How am I going to know six months from now if I'm getting your best? Because that's our culture. I expect your best. how am I going to know? What is, in your mind, one of the best answers you've ever received for that question? Give me an example of the best answer. Give me an example of not great.
Starting point is 00:09:24 Well, when somebody says, look, I'm going to be the best salesperson you've ever had, something like that, right? Or somebody says, you know, if you hire me, I'll bring 20 guys with me. or I'll bring our customer base over to you or, you know, I run from people like that. If somebody says to me, look, you will know by your metrics and your KPIs, you'll know by whether I'm improving every week or not, you'll be able to see it. Now, you know, I have a saying on the back of my business card, I've had it for 35 years. And it's my favorite saying, it's what we know always trumps what we don't know. Now, that's the reason why you measure, right?
Starting point is 00:10:25 That's the reason you have KPIs is so that you can know what somebody's best is up to that point. Now, that becomes the expectation. I don't, we don't allow for anything less than that because that's our culture. You know, we do our best. but the thing that's interesting about that is you do your best in different directions, right? Because you have to do your best not just for your customer, but for each other. Right. And so you want to measure that.
Starting point is 00:10:51 And, you know, my best, it's fascinating, you know, what happens when you're committed to doing your best. Reality is I don't do it. You know, I just don't. There's days. There's every day I don't do my best at something. And so what's important is. is spending the time to identify that and then recommit, make it right if I need to, and then figure out how to get people to do what we need them to do. And, you know, because you can
Starting point is 00:11:26 pay people to do anything you want them to do, Tommy, right? You can pay them, you can pay someone to do anything, but you can't pay anybody to want to do something. And so I would spend my time thinking about our people, what can I do to help them want to do what we need them to do? And that is to give us their best. Now, sometimes their best isn't enough and they aren't a good fit, like you said. But, you know, there's three reasons people don't get something done. They're either a can't, a won't, or a don't know how. If they're a can't, you have to identify that right out of the shoot. If somebody can't handle 120 degrees in a garage, you've got to, you've got to, to know that right now.
Starting point is 00:12:12 You ask somebody to go run a 40-yard dash and they have one leg, they're a can't, right? So they just don't fit the need. If you have a won't, you've got to find out why they won't, because they'll become a cancer really fast. And so, but what's interesting about the won'ts is usually they're standing on a principle. And if you can find what principle they're standing on and help them wade through that, they become disciples. Okay.
Starting point is 00:12:40 And then the don't know hows are easy. You have probably the best training program for don't know howls in the industry. I think that's your secret sauce, honestly. So don't know hows. You just got to spend your time training, training, training, and help them know how, give them the tools. I was just on a call with 20 guys that are in the HSF. And I was showing them all the data that we have, like when it comes to conversion rate.
Starting point is 00:13:07 We have a great profile that we send to our clients. We have a picture of our family. We tell them why we love working for the company, why we love garage drawers, what our pastimes are, our pets, what we're looking forward to in the future. And then the next thing is we offer coffee on the way. And we'll stop at Starbucks. Could I grab you something on the way, Mr. Anderson?
Starting point is 00:13:25 And then we don't ring the doorbell. We knock the door. We play with the dog. Then we measure the time it takes to start the first estimate, that we build rapport. If you're starting the first estimate within seven minutes, you don't really get to know the client. You didn't really ask them real right questions.
Starting point is 00:13:40 And everyone's asking me, how do you use the data to actually get results? And I said it's the feedback loop. And I said there's priorities. First thing I care about is conversion rate. I mean, you're not getting reviews without converting the client. So there's a couple of things that go into conversion rate. I just went over some of them. And the next thing is, did you offer a new door?
Starting point is 00:14:00 If it's an old door, and a lot of guys don't, it's a belief system. They won't because they're better at service. So I got to change their belief system to say it's the right thing for the client to give them the option to choose. And the next thing is, are you selling our trademark parts, which are the top of the line? But a lot of people say, I got all this data. And we track. We've got all these KPIs, but they don't know where to start. How would you tell somebody to get a priority level?
Starting point is 00:14:27 Or what do you do with all the data? What's your answer? Well, first of all, if we're in a house and a customer has a, need or a want and we leave that house and didn't take care of it, did we do our best? So I don't ever ask, did you sell something? I'm asking, did you do your best? Okay. And if we didn't take care of that customer, I mean, if that customer had a need and we didn't take care of it, then we didn't leave them happy. No. And that's your job. Your job is to make your customer happy. your job isn't to sell.
Starting point is 00:15:05 Your job isn't to think while you're in the house how much you're going to make in commission. Your job is to do everything in your power to make that customer happy before you leave. And if they have a need, someone's going to make them happy. And if it's not us, then why are we in business? Why are we even here? So every KPI that we had was driven around a customer being happy. Now, believe it or not, that sells. every sales number every you know the conversion rate from you know we had a we had a system called
Starting point is 00:15:42 ladsai leads appointments demo sales installs and from the beginning of the chain from the lead to the end of an install there was a drop-off rate at every point and you would measure we would measure the drop-off rate and try to narrow that drop-off rate all the way through that chain and man, it just, it just was like magic measuring that. And every employee has a little, you know, had a different problem in that chain. And so you have to focus on each and every individual employee. So that's how we use the data. We expected a lot of our people we did because that's our culture.
Starting point is 00:16:25 Yeah, it's interesting. I talk a lot about the call center or the contact center. and I added a KPI to kind of, that became an outlier for us is the cancellation rate, that we don't even show up to the house. It gets canceled. And that has to do with you've got a need. You're stuck in your garage. You need to get this fixed.
Starting point is 00:16:48 You've got options. You need to get out. So, you know, now I take my booking rate minus my cancellation rate per CSR. And that's probably the hardest thing for a demand-driven business is capacity planning. I'd imagine in water, and you can tell me if I'm wrong, but nobody says, if I don't get really clean water in this house this week, we are screwed. Actually, it's a little different than you think. In home services, you know, there's push through business and there's pull through business. Pull through business is HVAC.
Starting point is 00:17:20 It's 100 degrees outside. Air conditioner goes down. Garage doors. You're stuck in your garage. You've got to have help, right? plumbing, your water heater is leaking, you need help right now. Water treatment's more of a push through, meaning people don't really realize yet that they need good water in their house. And they don't realize to the extent. So, you know, most people think, well, gosh, you know,
Starting point is 00:17:47 I'll just go to Costco and buy a Britta and I'm great. So it has to be pushed through because there's an education process that takes place in a house. So tracking those conversion rates get really important because everybody needs to understand that we are a push-through business in water treatment. Going back, you know, I'm just curious. Water is super important, and I had no idea. So I started looking at the stats and the health stats and just the skin's your largest organism and how bad the water can be. Are you happy you landed in water? Because I know we've talked about it's more difficult than the man-driven business.
Starting point is 00:18:35 Yes. Well, you know, I am happy that I landed. I've had some extremely fulfilling experiences. I would say in, I guess it would have been 2000. three, we were a telemarketing driven business. We had 35 or 36 telemarketers calling out at any given time. We had a pretty good conversion rate. We were doing a lot of things right. We were one of the larger independent water treatment companies in the country at the time. And then the telemarketing laws changed. And we, you know, we were out of business. I mean, I went home one,
Starting point is 00:19:22 night. I told my wife tomorrow morning, I've got to go lock the business up and I'm done. But guess what happened? The next morning the sun came out. And I got in my car and I got mad. I got pissed. I'm like, you know, we're going to figure this thing out. And it was fascinating. It was about that time the EPA had come out with a report that 97% of the, you know, the schools in Washington, D.C. had led traces in the drinking water that the kids were drinking. 97%. The EPA had identified it because they had a problem.
Starting point is 00:20:09 The kids in Washington, D.C. at the time, were testing lower than any children in the country. So we started to think, gosh, do we have that problem in Utah? And we did. We started to, you know, test drinking water in the schools in Utah, especially the older schools that had, you know, lead traces in the, in the faucets or in the pipes. And we wanted to do something about it. And so we came up with a program called Safe Water for Utah Kids where we donated water filtration and installed it free to the state to the schools where we filtered every drinking found in 700. 162 schools in the state of Utah. Wow.
Starting point is 00:20:53 And that experience changed our lives. That's a lot. I mean, 762 you said? It cost us over a million dollars to do the original install to put filters in every single drinking fountain. We had to learn how to work with the school superintendents and all of the service guys in the districts. It was a lot of work.
Starting point is 00:21:22 but it put us on the map because in 2003, I had to reinvent myself. We had to start advertising more conventionally and finding other ways. You know, this is before we learned how to, you know, deal with online and Google and all that stuff, right? And so I went to the television. First of all, I started traveling around the country to find. the guys that knew how to market. I'd pick up the phone. I'd talk to suppliers and say, who are the best water companies in the United States? And I'd pick up the phone. I'd call him and say, you don't know me, but can I come see you? And I would tell them what we had done.
Starting point is 00:22:10 They'd share what they had done. And I learned. And I learned from a guy named Tom Gersner, Anderson Water Systems in Rochester, New York. This is a performance TV, right? And he taught me, how to buy advertising on a cost per lead basis. And no one had ever done that in our market. So I came back with his system, his program that he taught me. I found a station. It was the CBS station that was willing to go with us. And the president of the station at the time says, well, you know, why should I do this with you?
Starting point is 00:22:45 And I said, well, because I want to donate filters to the schools. He says, that's the coolest thing I ever heard. What's stopping you from doing? and I said, well, I need to meet the governor. He said, no problem. He had me in the governor's office in two days. Wow. I was sitting.
Starting point is 00:23:01 I had a meeting with the governor and the lieutenant governor, and three days later, I was in front of all the superintendents who get together once a year to meet. And, yeah, they cleared the first 30 minutes of that meeting for me. And then they were lining up to be the first district. You know, they all wanted to be the first to do it. He then gave me his lead anchor and created a PSA program and did a PSA spot. And, you know, the only other PSA that they ran was baby your baby.
Starting point is 00:23:38 So you had Safe Water for Utah kids and baby your baby, and you had the lead anchor. And then that just led, I mean, that sent us on a whole path to being who we are today. You know what's really interesting about that, as I always say, success leaves clues, and don't be afraid of rejection. And if you want to figure out how to be the best at Angie's List, look throughout the country at HVAC plumbing, electrical, roofing, water treatment. Find out who has 9,000 reviews on Angie's List, and call them up and say, I want to fly out there and learn from you. I'll buy you lunch. I'll buy you dinner. I'll pay you for your time.
Starting point is 00:24:12 I'm not getting into your industry. So I advise you could do your same industry on the opposite side of the country and just, get on a flight, but there's nothing that hasn't been already done. Don't reinvent the will. Just be curious and ask for help. I love that. And I love your story. I love how you did that, right? And the way you help other companies just is fascinating to me. It's why so many people attract to you. It's so hard when a guy tells me I'm at $5 million to go back to that, you know, because I was million in 2014, 2013. And it's not that I don't put myself in their shoes. It's just, it's so hard
Starting point is 00:24:57 to go back over a decade and to think I don't have the resources nor the people nor the money to grow. The first thing I tell them is, are you measuring anything? Like, do you have any stats? Do you believe your numbers? Do you understand your balance sheeted income statement? Do you see your labor cost and your cost of goods? Do you see, do you know how to read that stuff? Because that illiteracy will stop you from knowing what to prioritize. That's right. But, but, you know, but, you know, But now there's, I think, the missing piece, and tell me what you think about this, because this is kind of the epiphany I've made in the last few months, is by not having a great CFO and an FPNA team to do the analysis of what the data is and get the data.
Starting point is 00:25:34 And actually, like, I get my numbers on the first from last month and on the fifth, it's exact. Most people say close out by the 10th or the 15th. When I started learning what that data meant and asking questions and learning about what departments are responsible for what, it changed my life. and I feel like most companies have a good bookkeeper. That's not really that good. It's like a part-time bookkeeper. 100%.
Starting point is 00:25:56 Yeah. And the financial literacy with the KPIs is like the fundamental of business. We bit the bullet and hired a CFO at about 10 million in revenue. You know, with what we were paying them, we probably, well, looking back, I couldn't afford them, but looking forward, I couldn't afford not to have them. Right. Because if I wouldn't have had that data, we would have never gotten to 30. We would have never gotten to 150.
Starting point is 00:26:26 You know, we just would have never been able to continue to grow. And so I agree 100%. I think the financial information, the KPIs into the nitty gritty, right, are so important. People just, they don't grow because they can't. They don't have that extra money to spend to market. like you and I did. When the economy went bad in 2008 and 9 and 10, we doubled down and we spent a lot more, right, than anybody else.
Starting point is 00:27:01 We captured market share. And honestly, I didn't really make a lot of money in those three years. I didn't really care. I just wanted the market share. I knew what was happening in the economy, and I knew I would come out on the other end. And because I had the infrastructure, I knew we'd make money as soon as the economy turned.
Starting point is 00:27:19 and we did. And then that's what made our company enticing, I believe, to sell when I exited and retired. That's a great topic. You hear these horror stories about private equity, capital ventures, the VCs, that you hear hedge funds. And the sediment out there all over social media, and for the vast majority of home service owners, home improvement owners is they're evil, they're bad, they're not good, but they're coming no matter what. They make mistakes.
Starting point is 00:27:55 There's different varieties of P.E. There's great ones. There's not so great ones. There's unsophisticated ones. There's ones that really will back you up. What is your overall, what would you tell somebody that just thinks negatively, pure negative about private equity?
Starting point is 00:28:09 Well, I was watching a good, friend of mine here in this in in in Phoenix uh Paul Kelly I was watching I I had a front row seat really um he helped me a lot in my business over the years um and I watched what he was doing um originally with uh uh the Flint group and then with the ranch group and and you know he was the master of course but I also watched the other groups that were rolling up on the east coast through the south and up the west nobody had done it in the the Intermountain West in Colorado, Utah, Idaho, that area had been untouched. And I could see it was coming. So I decided to be the first, create the first platform. We rolled 11 companies into our
Starting point is 00:28:58 platform in the first 12 months. It was fast and furious and a lot of fun, actually, because I knew the companies that I wanted to partner with, and we captured a ton of market share. What I would say is we probably weren't as prepared, you know, I mean, I had never done it. Looking back, I think I would do things a little bit different for sure. But whether you sell or not, you have to have your company prepared to sell. Right. Bill to sell. You have to have it prepared to sell. If it's not, then you're just making excuses and justifying doing less than your best. Well, listen, Paul was in here recently, and I will say he's doing this thing right now. called Raising Goats.
Starting point is 00:29:46 And he's not building this for anything else, but he goes, we could turn people into goats, the greatest of all time. And he goes, I know how to do it. And he goes, this isn't a forever class. I'm only going to do a couple of them. And it's not a network where you sign up and it's forever. And he consults you. You come in for three days and you learn this massive amount of information.
Starting point is 00:30:06 I told him, Paul, I want to see what you guys do. I want to bring a few guys to it. And I think, I don't make any money from this. I will just tell you, if anybody gets an opportunity to invest in this program he's putting out there and to work under Paul, it's not going to happen forever. It's going to be probably the next year that he's done. It's his way of giving back. So if you're interested in raising goats, look up raising goats and go to Paul Kelly. I'm a big fan of Paul's.
Starting point is 00:30:32 I think he's very intentional, like you said, and he's a hell of an operator. I mean, I think he went through five turns, four or five. Paul's done something that probably will never be done again. And so, yeah, Goad is a good term for Paul. But also, he's a great teacher. I think it would be well worth anyone's time to go sit through that class for sure. You know, you said you did, what, 12 or 13 acquisitions, was it? We did 11 in the first 12 months.
Starting point is 00:31:10 and and then we slowed down to integrate. You know, we got a little bit out over our skis that way, but, you know, but it was a lot of fun. I mean, you know, we partnered with a group that were really good at acquisitions and, you know, at the time my mindset was the same as 2008, 9 and 10, right? I wanted to capture market share. but yeah no it was fun it just was a lot of work and and you know and I would do it again I would do some things differently but I would certainly do it again I it changed my life it put me in a position to do some things that I've always wanted to do and and I'm really grateful for that so the timing was was special we we started we went right at the beginning of 20
Starting point is 00:32:06 2020, right, when COVID was just starting. Yep. And you've mentioned to me that you've really learned how to get the deals done. There's a lot of people that can drum up a lot of opportunities, but never get to the finish line and acquisition. What do you think the key ingredients are to get to the finish line? Wow. Well, there's a lot of key ingredients. You know, the companies that I wanted to partner with, first of all, were all good cultures.
Starting point is 00:32:40 they were all good men with good teams and you know and so I think having people be a good fit for your organization and making sure that when you go out that you're a good fit for whatever organization you sell to or join because like I say culture to me is the thing to focus on I don't think there's anything more important in business than spending your time on culture. And I think if you get your culture right and people have a chance to come look under the hood and your numbers are in line and you have that kind of culture, you're going to command several more multiples and have the pick of where you decide to go. One of the things I've realized, people have fried. They worked on their business, sometimes 30 years. You got to show up, have dinner, learn about them, ask the right questions, take notes,
Starting point is 00:33:42 and find out what's important to them because sometimes it's not, it always, money plays a key role in them. But what's going to happen? What's the future? Are you dreaming big? What's going to happen with my people? You know, what does this mean for me? There's a lot of questions. What do you find where some of the most important questions you would get?
Starting point is 00:33:59 You know, I think if you can show that there are no skeletons buried, right? If you can show somebody that's looking at your business, you know, because when you're doing the due process and you're making the reps and warranties on your business, you better dot the eyes and cross the T's and you better show them everything. Because if you don't, it's going to cost you in the back end. Well, if you have nothing to hide and everything's out in the open because that's your culture, you know, I would say that's the first thing you take care of. Make sure that you don't have customers that are unhappy. You don't have, you know, an environment where you have employees that are wanting to sue you, things like that, you know.
Starting point is 00:34:47 So we would work on our culture nonstop. We, in 2000, we started teaching Freud's theory of self-deception. to our employees. You know, it's the problem of having a problem that you cause, but you don't realize that you have the problem, let alone you caused it. Therefore, you don't want to be part of the solution. It's not my problem.
Starting point is 00:35:11 It's everyone else's, right? And so we would literally spend a day every year with our people teaching and discussing what their motives are. What are their true motives and how do you find out what they are? you know because it eliminated collusion it eliminated siloing it eliminated selfishness and focused we allowed people to focus on results and so when you're result oriented and not me oriented um magical things can happen i could tell you i could tell you a thousand stories that where people did things that i could have never dreamed they would have done I couldn't have asked them to do it.
Starting point is 00:35:57 They just did it. And when you have that kind of stuff happening, when you have a group of people that are united in the same cause, you're unstoppable. It's hard to do as you grow. One thing you're known for was taking the time to really get to know the people, the families, their lives, what motivated them. And it's a little bit easier to do when it's a team of 20 versus 230.
Starting point is 00:36:23 How do you do that? And I know you got to teach other leaders to do it, but right now we're at 1,300 at A1, and I miss those days. I still, this morning, two birthdays, sent a video. I know every birthday, every anniversary. It's texted me by my EA and to make a video, and soon I'll be sending a handwritten card and their kids. But that's still, I want to do more than that. And I find myself, and I'm really good with managing time, but I find you say you work on culture all the time with 1,300 people plus wife, plus kids, starts to get. tough. I'll never forget the first time I met you, Tommy. The thing I fell in love with was when,
Starting point is 00:37:01 you know, I asked you about that and you started telling me all of the different things you do to let your people know you care. You know, it's fascinating. I never, I always had a cooler full of drinks in the back of my truck and a box full of food and snacks. And every day, if I I was in a certain part of town, I would call dispatch and say, who's installing in Draper today? Are they still there? Who is it? Send me the address. And I would just stop the address.
Starting point is 00:37:39 I'd open the back of my truck. I'd walk up to the door and ask for my guys to come out and they'd see me and they'd be shocked. Like, what are you doing here? And I'd say, hey, come on out here for a minute. And I'd load them up with drinks and food and put my arm around them. ask them how their family was doing. And, you know, it's fascinating. I never asked, if they weren't parked right on the street and had their cones out, right,
Starting point is 00:38:05 or if they weren't in uniform because it was 110 degrees in the attic and they were in a grubby t-shirt they shouldn't have been in. I never said anything. I just told them I loved them. Yep. Told them I was grateful for them. And by the way, the next day when everybody's loading their trucks up, what do you think they're talking about? Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:38:28 Yeah, those little things matter. I think you've got to have an intentional plan to do things. And it's harder to do as you grow. And that's why leadership seems to be so important. I was on a podcast with our other CEO of Service Titan and one of the co-founders. And he said, he thinks that companies stop growing as the bandwidth of the leadership. And the bandwidth of the leadership will never grow unless you teach leadership. And I think private equity struggles with it.
Starting point is 00:39:01 There's not enough natural-born leaders. And I don't know if that's really a thing, but it happens in school. And it happens when you become the captain of the team. And I always look for athletes because a lot of times you practice 10 days a week to play one game. You did two a days. And they worked really hard to become great at one thing. going to teach them to do the same mental fortitude to be good at this. But I'm just interested in leadership is, there's a lot into leadership.
Starting point is 00:39:30 It's leading from up front. It's asking questions. It's really building a culture. But how did you grow leaders? I looked for emotional intelligence first. I think emotional intelligence would tell me a lot about, somebody, you know, if I had somebody that, you know, wasn't hothead and they didn't fire off at the hip and they knew how to treat people and they were charismatic and they, you know, they were drivers, you know,
Starting point is 00:40:04 I mean, nothing, what was it, Emerson, Ralph Aldo Emerson said nothing good ever happened without enthusiasm, right? So I'm looking for enthusiasm and, and, um, but, but at the same time, my job, right, to scale, my job became to build leaders for sure. And so we would spend a lot of time on that. They actually took ownership of the culture because the culture was defined. And the definition was, we're a group of people that do our best for each other and our customer. Well, we constantly wanted to know what your best is as a leader, too. And one of the the things we would do or one of the secrets we had was leaders would report down. We literally designed meetings around leadership different. So, you know, most meetings you go to,
Starting point is 00:41:02 whose meeting is it? It's the leader's meeting, right? And you sit in, it's boring and they report all the numbers. We decided, look, let's rewire this. A meeting should start with the result in mind. So the leader's job is to define the result of the meeting and then make sure, everybody comes prepared and then watch the magic happen, not dictate and talk down and tell and let people hide in your, you know, arrogance, you know. So that's where I, you know, again, I can't express enough all the solutions, everything to leadership, to poor sales, to poor productivity, to customer complaints, we would just look to culture to solve everything.
Starting point is 00:41:53 I tried to solve every problem through culture. Yeah, I mean, a lot of people talk about millennials, Gen X, Gen Z. There are different people that need different things. And it's not just the money. I thought the money was so important. You look at Maslow's hierarchy of needs, but the money is only, it's only matters to when it's not enough.
Starting point is 00:42:18 And then after that, it becomes other things. How do I identify some of those other things? Because not everybody's cut out of the same cloth. Well, first of all, that's the right question, right? Because it has to start with we all count the same. I mean, I'm a person, they're a person, and we have to see each other as people. And, you know, it's fascinating when we would, we would teach this idea that all of us have thoughts that we should do something at any given time for each other.
Starting point is 00:43:00 And we betray those thoughts and don't do it. And then the second we do that, we start to justify not doing it. And then that leads us down a rabbit hole of living in a world of justification. Well, if we can expose that, then it opens up the freedom to say, I'm sorry, I'm going to re-up. I need to make this right. And, man, you know, helping people do that, it's so funny how we don't see each other at work. I can come in and I can blame you for not helping me. I can blame you for all the mistakes you made to make my life rough.
Starting point is 00:43:38 And I'm never even thinking about or considering that I didn't do my best to help you, right? And so that's one of the reasons we had such low turnover because, As leaders, we realized we had a deep obligation to really know our people and really be responsible. You know, we couldn't just take a shortcut and say, oh, we're going to do the easy thing and that's to let them go and hire someone else, right? And then let's just hide behind the fact that we didn't do our best. Yep.
Starting point is 00:44:10 You know, the reality is if we had a problem, we started with us. How are we the problem? and how can I help things go right moving forward and how can I re-engineer this thing so we have a better chance for success and those are really the questions and and if you get your mindset in an outward position where you're thinking about a result for people rather than an inward position where I'm thinking only about people in terms of what they can do for me if I get the mindset, right, then that question you just answered becomes the question every day. And we find an answer to it in every situation for every individual person. It just happens. It isn't overwhelming.
Starting point is 00:44:55 It's just the opposite. It actually solves more problems that take your time up in a day and empower people and to develop into flipping professional people that you never saw. you know I'm sure you've had people that surprised you right that you're like oh my gosh I didn't even want to hire that person and then they turn out to be one of your biggest rock stars oh yeah yeah I had a I had a guy that threw bags on an airplane for United and he wanted to come sell for us and he'd never sold anything and I'm like you there's no way he says look just hire me to do anything hire me to to replace filters I'll just I'll prove to you what I can do I just don't want to throw bags on a plane and I'd want to be in your business because, you know,
Starting point is 00:45:46 he had been a customer of ours and knew how we treated him and he turned out to be like one of the best salespeople I've ever had. And I would have never hired him. Yeah, no, it's definitely interesting looking at people. I do find that the blue collar industry is very tough for private equity because they come in and they talk almost like, like doctors. And, you know, usually they got a Rolex. They're wearing loafer as they dress a certain way. And sometimes they miss the fact that maybe that wasn't around when the kid grew up. Maybe they had a bad relation. Maybe they didn't learn about money in school. Maybe they didn't even graduate 10th grade. And I think that's so hard because I haven't seen that mentality of sitting on a high
Starting point is 00:46:33 horse walking into a business work. Never. There's a saying in private Don't go native. Don't go native. Don't go native. If you ever hear that from a private equity run, when somebody says don't go native, what they're saying is don't get close to the people, don't know them, don't care about them, right? And that's really what private equity, that's where they get their bad rap. Yeah. Because they, you know, they're not in the business of people.
Starting point is 00:47:06 They're not in the business of serving. they're in the business of making money at all costs and they have lots of different ways of doing it. So if you hear someone say don't go native, run. Private equity is not easy to work for. I will say there's a lot of expectations. And I think people miss this fact that they report to teachers unions
Starting point is 00:47:28 and the police officers and the firefighters and people are investing their life savings in this hoping that they made the right call by purchasing your business. Those meetings they said, are harder than the ones we have to sit on. And I always try to put myself the EQ side in me, he says, but Ken Goodrich called me up and he said,
Starting point is 00:47:46 I want you to learn everything these guys. I want you to have them over to your house, spend the night, ask them a million questions, learn what they know, because you'll be unstoppable. Have you learned what they go through and how they mathematically engineer these deals? But one thing I'm very nervous about that I see things go wrong is when they take too much debt, where you're just making debt payments and that kind of stifens growth.
Starting point is 00:48:07 It does. And then the second you slow down, they pull the cash out and they start cutting costs and then it's the kiss of death. You know, the other thing you do, you fly their flag. Right. And that's probably the biggest mistake I think you can make when you sell your business is it's not your business anymore. Right. Okay. You think it is. You want it to be. Your identity's tied into it. But if you don't learn right out of the shoot to fly their flag, You're making a big mistake. Yes. Right? And it's not going to be long before you're not there. I think that's so right. And, you know, I talked to my buddy Lance about this. And a lot of people think they're going to come sell to another business or sell to private equity or sell to whoever it is.
Starting point is 00:48:57 And hey, I just got all this money. Now I get to take the kids to school every day. I get to take Fridays off. The fact is, I knew the day I did that, that I was going to have to work harder. It doesn't mean I can't manipulate my schedule enough to still have time for family and do the things I want. But it's definitely, I didn't think now I get to take a break. And as the next opportunity arises, I'm like, I will say that I see Tommy 3.0. Right now I'm Tommy 2.0.
Starting point is 00:49:22 Tommy 3.0 is way more of a culture. Like, I'm still doing, I'm still the CMO of the business today. I'm still do, and I will still do to forever all the orientation. I'll still be making the calls. I'll still be telling people how great they are. I will call people up, not out. But I'm going to start hanging out with the endorsements. I've learned this one recently.
Starting point is 00:49:46 You know, you've done radio and stuff. So I just had these guys over, the biggest endorsers on the radio in Phoenix. And these guys are calling me every day. They're going to the waste management open. Like we're setting this up. And they'll talk about us all day on the radio. And I'm not doing this maliciously.
Starting point is 00:50:03 I really like these guys, John Jay and Rich. They're cool guys. And I mean, they are like awesome to hang out with. And it was just crazy how much we have in common. And so, but you can't do that if you're working in the business all day. You can't do that. I find it fascinating, Tommy. You know, again, you can pay somebody to do anything you want them to do.
Starting point is 00:50:22 You can't pay them to want to do it. You are hanging out with people that want you to be successful. When you have people that want to do things for you, they're going to go above and beyond, just like you do. you know, if you want your employees to be happy, you're going to do things that other managers don't. You're going to become the preferred employer because of that. And so you've got to really think hard about what it is you want to do, right? Because it, that's culture, man, doing our best. One of the most interesting parts of your story is how you ended up working for Costco. It's a huge partnership. Can you walk us through that and how that
Starting point is 00:51:02 kind of that that relationship started well so in 2008 2007 2008 the economy started to turn a little bit I could actually see what was happening I was listening to some people that were actually forecasting the downfall of the the mortgage industry and the housing crisis right and so I was a little bit nervous about our business I was, you know, I'm always looking for new lead sources. And so we decided to start an HVAC company and hadn't been doing it for too long when I heard a little rumor that Costco was thinking about getting into HVAC. And so I went home that day I heard the rumor.
Starting point is 00:52:01 I told my wife, honey, I bought a ticket one way to Seattle. tomorrow. I don't know when I'll be back, but I'm going to go see if I can get in front of Costco. Now, you know, I worked in retail. When I was 24, I was running one of the largest grocery stores in Southern California. I had 350 employees and a 50 plus million dollar budget, right, at 24. I knew I knew how these people think. I knew. I knew how these people think. I knew. if I could get in front of them, that I could help them and they could help me. So I just, I went up. I met a guy named Craig Williamson with MM comfort systems.
Starting point is 00:52:44 He was the first kiosk there in Issaquah. Didn't want to come out at first and see me, but I just sat in his lobby until he gave up, basically. And he says, okay, I got 10 minutes. Well, two and a half hours later, we're in the coffee shop down the corner. We're great friends. And he's just an amazing guy to this day. I love him. And he picks up the phone and calls Kathy Hargerson, who is the buyer at Costco and says,
Starting point is 00:53:09 Kathy, can I send this guy over to see you? I've got someone you need to meet. She says, well, can he come now? I've got 15 minutes. So I get there. I run over there, 15 minute meeting. Three hours later, we're walking across the street and she's showing me her kiosk. And she had an assistant buyer named Chris Hendricks, who's over all the travel for Costco now. he's got a big job for Costco. But so I just get to know these guys. I get back on the plane. I'm thinking, okay, well, maybe they'll think of me.
Starting point is 00:53:44 You know, I mean, I took my shot. I got off the plane and my phone had been blown up by the employee, by my rep at Lennox who was like, what the heck are you doing? What's going on? Well, they had called him and said, look, we want these guys to, to be our test pilot for HVAC. Wow. And, you know, what had happened while I was on the airplane is she started calling these warehouse managers.
Starting point is 00:54:14 And what nobody knew is I knew all the warehouse managers. I had relationships with every one of them because we had an office drinking water company and we did their water heaters and we did their water treatment in all the warehouses. Yep. And so I had gone in there and made friends with these guys not knowing that I would ever do business with them. that's just who we are, again, making customers happy, right? And every one of those managers said, do it. So Kathy says, that's who we want.
Starting point is 00:54:46 So we went from being a nobody to the market leader in HVAC overnight. Now, it was hard, hardest thing I've ever done in my life. But one of the most fulfilling things, and it really put us on the map and made us who we are, you know. We ended up in 32 Costco's and 63 Home Depot by the time we were done and a bunch of lows. And it wasn't long before they asked us to do water treatment and water heaters and homestand-by generators and on and on. And their plumbing service. And we had a whole, we built our whole business out on that. And we scaled it out.
Starting point is 00:55:29 We made sure our pricing was right so that we could make money. and our employees could, and it was awesome. The rest is history. Home Depot lows Costco. I've heard, you know what's really, really cool. I don't think I've shared this story yet. I don't know who we serviced, but it was some high up at Home Depot. Now, they've got to deal with Clope, which is a manufacturer.
Starting point is 00:55:55 And all the Home Depot's are good. They're filled up. And we offered coffee. We offered them everything. We made them happy. Played with their dog. And Luke R.C.O. got a call two weeks ago of one of the higher-ups at Home Depot and said, we don't, we want to build a special program with you guys.
Starting point is 00:56:12 We're not looking for the cheapest. You guys have the best experience. You guys, the profile on the way, you guys did everything right. We want to build a program around you guys. So we didn't even look for this. We didn't ask for it. Also, a home warranty company reached out. And they said they're the largest home warranty company in the nation.
Starting point is 00:56:30 And they're working a program out with us because they've heard. heard the good things about us. And that's just, it's divine, I think. It's like you could do the right thing. You train the right way. You build steps and you inspect what you expect what you expect in the culture. And great things find you. I'm excited because I'm like, this is the first time in the history of the 20 years I've been doing this, that people are actually doing outreach to us. And that's like a different thing that I've never experienced before. But as far as Home Depot lows and Costco, are they all created equal? If you had to pick one, I've heard Costco's the way to go. Actually, they all have their strengths, and I'm not saying that to be political.
Starting point is 00:57:06 I'm saying that because I love the people that are in their programs. See, you know, those buyers can be brutal until you become their friend, and then they want you to be successful. So they work with you, and they tell you, look, you need to do this, and then you have the advantage on everybody. You know, my dad taught me basically two things that I remember from my dad. when I was little my dad said look if you want to make $20 an hour son you've got to be worth a hundred dollars an hour while you're making five okay and the set and so I always looked at
Starting point is 00:57:46 that with Costco and home people how do we how are we worth that you know and and so we would just I mean we we we would do things like you know we we still we would handwrite thank you cards for every store manager. We hand-wrote thank-you cards for every customer. When we left a house, the installer would have a thank-you card. He'd write a little personal note. He'd turn it in.
Starting point is 00:58:16 The dispatcher would write a personal note with her name that she touched him. It would go to the salesperson. It would then go to the manager. And we had four or five people that wrote a thank-you card. And so, you know, the other thing he taught me is look, the definition of opportunism is to work your ass off so that when opportunity comes your way, you can first recognize it and second take an advantage of it. And I've just learned
Starting point is 00:58:43 that when you work your butt off like you have Tommy, those opportunities come your way. Yeah. You know? And it's, you can call it divine if you want. I think it's just opportunism. Yeah. I mean, there's a lot of different philosophies. But if you're, If you do the right thing, it's amazing. I always said, when you help enough people, what is it? You could have anything you want in life if you help enough people get what they want. Then you'll never want for anything.
Starting point is 00:59:13 And then you'll never want for anything, he said. I've been thinking a lot about different things lately. And what I really appreciate that you do is how many golf courses? Well, no, I'm going to say that to the end. I'm going to say that to the end. That's almost at the end. I want to talk about one more thing. I think this is fascinating.
Starting point is 00:59:34 Anyway, dollars. Yeah. So let's talk about. Anyway. I love this if you want to just a quick lesson on anyway dollars. Look, I think the biggest thing that we do in home services is we help customers recognize and come to conclusions that are going to make their life better. that's what we do. We just make their life better.
Starting point is 01:00:03 And using anyway dollars, it just gets it done quicker and more efficiently, meaning, look, you're going to spend the money anyway. You might as well do it this. You know, you're going to spend the money eventually anyway. You might as well do this. And, I mean, look, right now I'm helping my son open a, golf improvement business. It's a simulator business with a gym and a recovery center. And, and, you know, the anyway dollars there are, look, every golfer is going to get injured. And you're
Starting point is 01:00:40 going to spend the money anyway on physical therapy and, you know, recovery and all of that stuff. So why not join our program and we'll run you through the Titleist Performance Institute? We'll get you an exercise program that helps you prevent injury. And then you can also have all the sports Sports box AI technology in our in our simulators and help you with your golf swing and have a better experience. And then, you know, so you're using anyway dollars there. I mean, there are anyway dollars everywhere if you think about it. And the more you can use anyway dollars, the better a customer is going to feel when they
Starting point is 01:01:18 buy what you're selling. Yeah, it's genius. I love that concept. So how many of the world premier golf courses, what are those calls? Aldigan? Well, you have the top 100 in the U.S. and top 100 in the world. And how many of you golfed? Which one are you going after? You're going after the U.S. first or the world? Well, I'm in the middle of both. U.S. is really my first goal, and I'm probably at around 70. I golfed 74 different golf courses last year, and I don't think I'm going to hit that pace again because I'm committed to working more this year. Some turkey got me back in, pulled me, sucked me back into business, and so I'll be working
Starting point is 01:02:13 a little bit this year. You know, Bob Pearson, I heard a lot of great things about him. You know, he went through a lot during the military or whatnot. But I heard you got to try out. You bring your wife or your fiancé and you go there for a weekend. And then they kind of size you up and decide if you should join or not. But I know you know some people there. I know several people there.
Starting point is 01:02:32 I think there's only 123 members, if I was told correctly. I don't. I'm not sure. I don't think it's very many. Yeah, that's not a lot. You can get out there. It's almost all open. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:02:42 It's a great experience. But again, he is defined culture. and experience and service like I've never had. I mean, I've never been, I mean, I've been to a lot of places and I've never been to anywhere better that has it down like he does. That is crazy. That place is amazing. There was this member that he had, and the member was very, very wealthy.
Starting point is 01:03:08 And he's being rude to the server, and he was talking loud and cussing. And Bob heard it and says, go tell that member to be quiet. And he goes, I paid a million dollars to be at this course. I'm going to do whatever I want. Bob walked over there and said, get out of my club. I'm wearing you all your money back today. And the guy's never allowed back. Is it not put up with?
Starting point is 01:03:30 Is you treat people with respect no matter who they are? You know, I played a golf course in California. And it was fascinating. The member told me, and it was Bel Air Country Club, And the member, you know, he had just built, he was in charge of the committee that built their brand new clubhouse. And he gave us a tour of the clubhouse. And the way he treated everyone on that staff was unbelievable. He knew who they were.
Starting point is 01:04:02 He knew their name. He knew their families. He introduced us. He walked us through the kitchen. We got to meet everybody in that place. And he was just so proud of it. And when we sat down for lunch, I said to him, I said, skip, I. said, what the heck? And he said, you know what? He smiled and he says, you know, we send all the
Starting point is 01:04:27 A-holes to the country club down the street. I won't name the name. But he says, look, at Bel Air, we treat every employee better than any member. Now, think about the culture. You know what really gets me excited about that is I can't wait to go and just study other industries, especially hospitality, the best restaurants and how they train their people and how they recruit their people. What's the number one hotel for hospitality? Not the W. The Ritz, Ritz-Carlton, is I heard that they look for people that actually genuinely say what they mean. It would say, Rob, how's your day going today? You know, I'm really curious what I could do to help you. And it's just like, they're not just, hey, how are you doing? It's like, I'm going to make your day better. What's one thing I
Starting point is 01:05:23 could do today to make your stay here better? Yeah, well, you do that with your service guys. When you stand up in front of them and say, look, I want you to do this. I'm going to teach you how to do it, but I want you to do it for good. You know, I mean, you hammer that home and it's the same thing, right? it's the same thing. You know, we had an opportunity last week where the guys got on a whiteboard anonymously. I stayed in the room. I wasn't really paying attention.
Starting point is 01:05:50 I just wanted to keep it anonymous. And they wrote down some of the things we need to work on as leaders. And I got up at the end of the meeting and I said, guys, I don't care if you sell doors. I don't really care what happens. I just want to do the right thing for the client. I used to be a technician.
Starting point is 01:06:04 We weren't good at selling doors when I started. But I don't feel like it's the right thing for the client to not get the option. And I don't expect you guys to have the highest sales. And I know it's a competitive environment, but all I'm asking you to do is do the right thing because fixing an old door for $3,000 is going to have a problem in three years. I don't think is the right thing.
Starting point is 01:06:23 It's not what I would be doing for my mom. That's right. And I want you to just ask, what would you be doing for your mom, minus the pricing because the pricing you don't make. I understand that. But if you just do what's right and give people the options, they'll decide what's right for them.
Starting point is 01:06:37 And you'd be surprised on how many clients when you just ask them the question and give them the options, they'll pick what's good for them and their family. That's right. I love this conversation. I just got a couple of close-out questions. If someone wants to reach out to you, what's the best way to do that?
Starting point is 01:06:55 Well, probably email H2O-Rob1 at gmail.com. H-2-O-Rob1. And is there any books that, it could be fiction, could be any book you want, but this will really change your life, maybe a couple? Leadership and self-deception by the Arbinger Institute,
Starting point is 01:07:17 consortium of scholars based on material that Terry Warner, he was a philosopher who reproved Freud's theory of self-deception in the 60s, and he's basically changed the world of philosophy, I believe. But I would say that changed my life. that was so dramatic that I can still remember the night that I read it, it was like somebody opened the curtains and I could see out the window for the first time. And I remember sitting there like till two in the morning, because I couldn't stop reading it. And I went to bed that night and I just looked at my wife different. Just she's asleep. I just sat there and looked at her.
Starting point is 01:08:04 And I just whispered, I'm so sorry. Now, she immediately sat. up in bed and said, all right, what'd you do now? But I said, never mind, honey, go to sleep. But, you know, two weeks later, we were out to dinner, and she's like, okay, what's going on? And I said, what do you mean? And she says, you're the guy I married all of a sudden again. What is going on? So I would tell you, leadership and self-deception changed my life.
Starting point is 01:08:36 Yeah, it gives me goosebumps. That's a great story. You know, I'll just say one more thing is like, how powerful are stories? It's the only way to share life, in my opinion. It's the only way to know who people are and to let people know who you are. I love stories, man. I love it. I hired a guy, this is about a year and a half ago that just went to our training program.
Starting point is 01:09:01 He's world renowned for telling stories, and he taught our team how to tell stories. For me, I always learned how to tell jokes. So the details of jokes are what make the jokes. So stories are so important to add details. And almost talk as if you want to describe something as if the other person were there. And Ed Milet, have you ever heard of Ed Milet? I haven't. Ed Milet is a very wealthy man.
Starting point is 01:09:23 He's a coach. I started working with him. And he goes, Tommy, he goes, one of the things I want you to do that I needed a lot of work on is learn how to frame. So one of the things I'll do is say, guys, I really want you to pay attention to this. you're here because of this next five minutes. And then at the end of it is when he goes, remember when I told you to focus for that five minutes? Now, this is why that's important.
Starting point is 01:09:43 So bringing things in comedians do it. Yep. And I love learning these things because it's impossible. It's not impossible to study speaking or how you communicate. But if somebody else that's a pro, they can identify things. So, like, he worked under Tony Robbins. And Tony Robbins is the best ever at framing. Like, he sets up.
Starting point is 01:10:03 He has you change your eyes. identity, and that's the most important thing, is you've got to change your identity to accept the change that's going to happen in your life in a positive way. Well, you know, the thing I loved, since you asked me about that, the thing I loved about leadership and self-deception the most was, you know, in life, there's basically three philosophies, you know, that I don't have any choice in life. I just, the world dictates to me, my situation and what happens to me. And then there's a second philosophy that says, well, I do have a choice. I can, choose how to respond to what people do to me and what life throws at me, right? And then,
Starting point is 01:10:41 but what leadership and self-deception does is it teaches this idea that there's a third philosophy, I have a choice. I have a choice to see whether the people that are affecting me are people or objects. So I literally can choose my environment, not just respond to it. And once you realize that and the power of that, you know, it, it just, it, it just, it, it, it just, it. It's just, it's crazy. Then you asked about the other book, the only other, you know, I do like HBR stuff. I like reading the Harvard HBR stuff. I think that they put out some brilliant material.
Starting point is 01:11:19 I love it. Finally close us out, whatever you want to, whatever you want to close us out with one final thought. You know, what I've learned in my retirement is don't ever retire. That's the final thought is, is. is, you know, to look forward and to think about what's in front of you and to get up this morning and think two things. I mean, the only reason I should look back is to say, where did I not do my best so that I can recommit to do my best today. And what does my best look like today? And then, you know, you always talk about visualizing and writing it down and committing to your people.
Starting point is 01:12:02 and I just can't believe in that more. I just think looking forward and saying, what is my best today? And so I don't know, I mean, I'm almost 60 years old. I think I'm more excited about helping people build their business. And I just, I'm more excited about things today than I have been maybe in my whole life. And I thought I would just be playing golf.
Starting point is 01:12:26 But I did realize you can't play too much golf. It is possible. That's interesting. Well, hey, I really appreciate you doing this. I know you don't do a lot of this. I learned a lot. I got a lot of notes. And we'll do it again soon.
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