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Episode Date: September 19, 2022

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guests back on the honeydew ladies and gentlemen please welcome kim congan welcome back wow thank you i'm so excited to be back well we had a really great fun episode listen i'm gonna say this before we even get into this if you haven't seen kim's first episode you got one of the clips went viral uh talking about uh was it an aunt and her nephew yeah who they caught uh having an affair yeah uh your mom and aunt the storm the storm through all of florida um great episode so thank you for being back. Yeah. Thank you for having me. You're welcome. Before we get into whatever we are going to talk about, plug all of it. Okay. Yeah. You guys can follow me on Twitter at Kimberly Congdon, on Instagram at Kim Congdon.

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It's free. And I will be at Skank Fest in Vegas October 15th through 17th. So make sure you get tickets for that if it's not already sold out. All right. So second episode here, we're sitting down talking about more because we really only, like you said, you went back and listened. We didn't get into too many stories. So I was surprised.

You're from Florida originally. Yes. And your mom is from where? Is she also Florida? My mom's Puerto Rican. She's from Puerto Rico, but she. Okay. She was born in Puerto Rico. Yeah. But when I was born, we came to she's from puerto rico but she okay she was born in puerto rico yeah but when i was born we came to florida gotcha yeah all right and what

was your dad's background again my dad is well his family is from kansas but his mom was part native american as well okay but she would always she she seems super native american for for a very white woman so i don't know a lot of turquoise and shit around the house. She just had all these black and white photos. Drink catchers everywhere. She took pictures of that Pocahontas cartoon and put them in black and white and put them in frames. She was like, these are our cousins. But yeah, my dad's white, essentially.

But he lived in Puerto Rico rico for a long time so he speaks like fluent spanish and is that where he met your mom yes okay so they came here together yeah so he came back and brought her yeah all right yeah he said it was the worst mistake of his life listen that's so funny you say that because you just made me think of it. I love that you just said that. My dad would drive me and my two brothers, and whenever we would pass by the church where he got married, he would be like, that is the worst. That's what he would say to me.

That's where I made the worst decision of my life. My dad's like, I took your mom here. Then her fucking sister came. Then her fucking mom came. Then her brother came. They all came, left fucking Puerto Rico because I brought them here. Does he have a southern accent? Yeah.

And he speaks fluent Spanish? Yeah. Does he have the southern accent when he speaks Spanish? No. All right. He speaks Spanish-Spanish. That's hilarious. He's a surfer.

I wouldn't say it's super southern, but it's... It's a draw. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's why I get told all the time. Yeah. Yeah, you sound like you're from North Carolina or something. I get it a draw. Yeah, yeah. That's why I get told all the time. Yeah. Yeah, you sound like you're from North Carolina or something. I get it a lot. Maryland's got an accent.

Maryland's a weird place for dialect. Yeah. And in general. You know, it's so funny that I'm bringing up these stories now because you don't realize when you're a kid that things are fucked up. Right. And you don't realize till you're an adult. So this is like a story that I was just telling a friend.

And then in the middle of it, I just started slowing down and being like realizing how weird it was. But my grandparents growing up, we would spend like a lot of the time in the summers when my mom would work at my grandparents house. And they lived at. Well, my grandma lived at this like apartment complex. like a lot of the time in the summers when my mom would work at my grandparents house and um they lived at well my grandma lived at this like apartment complex and there was also like other kids there that were um you know either visiting their parents or their grandparents and we would play with the neighborhood kids and there was this one guy i would okay so i would go and play with this girl i don't remember her name, but she was my age and then her little sister was my little sister's age.

So it was perfect. So we'd go over there. And it was really crazy that my mom would let me like into their house or into their apartment because their dad was like obviously very mentally ill. But we didn't realize it as kids. Like as kids, we thought that he was like cool.

We thought he was like. Wow, what was he like? He he was like he told us that he could read minds and that he um that like he heard voices and he always he was like like thinking back on it he was creepy as fuck he was huge he was bald he had glasses but he was always so nice to us and he was their dad and he was their dad and he loved them and he was like very sweet to them and they you know but he was very obviously disturbed he had all these like paintings and like pen scribble and they'd be like all these disturbed faces and then i remember at one point like who was the wife there was no wife they were visiting their dad oh he just is a visit this is a single dad weekend every other weekend they were going there for the weekend.

And then we would go play with them. And nothing bad ever happened. He was never inappropriate with us. And he was a very nice guy. But next door to him, we would all be playing outside. And when I would have to walk to his house, there would be this guy at the archway. And he was very disabled. Like on his stephen hawking's vibes chair yeah in a chair you know body shape of a dead ant like

you know what i mean it was like and as a kid i was like always very like i was a very sweet kid so i would try and like wave to him and how old are you at this time like seven eight i have to be nine eight to nine would be about the age and my sister no my sister was like four yeah so i'm about nine. And I would wave and he wouldn't wave back and I would feel bad and I'd run into my friend's house. And I remember the kids behind us who were like more bad, they were like teaching us how to cuss. They were like, don't wave to him.

He's a fucking pervert. And I was like, what? And then one day, the next day I'm coming and he has got his dick out. No. He's the same position. I don't even know how he got it out. It doesn't even look like. It's just out?

I can't even. I couldn't figure out how he got the zipper. I was like I was more shocked by the mechanics. Somebody came over and did it for him. She gets paid to help him be a pervert. A caregiver. Yeah no he just got his dick out and he's just staring at us.

And then like me and my sister ran. Is he just sitting there? He's just sitting there with his dick out. And he's kind of smiling. He's into this. This is like his thing. And so, yeah. And so, and yeah,

and this was like the beginning of the summer. This was like my first experience with it. So we ran and we told the kids and they're like, yeah, he does that. That's why we don't wave to him. That's what they said. And so for the we told the kids and they're like, yeah, he does that. That's why we don't wave to him. That's what they said. And so for the rest of the summer when we'd play outside,

he had on his wheelchair so he didn't get hit by cars. He had a red, a literal red flag. No. You see this motherfucker. He had a literal red flag. You see that red flag

coming down the street? Stay away from that motherfucker. You would just see cars because the apartment complex was like a really poor neighborhood. So it was behind like a Dollar General. And like it was like behind like this warehouse full of shit. Publics. Behind a public.

So it was like behind all this shit. And there was like a bunch of cars and stuff. But you'd see that little red flag come in and we'd go, Jerry! And we'd run. Yeah. It was so funny that the flag was red i didn't realize when i was a kid but you would see it waving in the wind that is hilarious yeah yeah i um we had a guy that we were warned about you know what i mean like he was like the weirdo and i think he had gotten in trouble or something and he worked for like the fire department we would go play bingo and shit

and they'd be like that guy right there that you know parents will tell you like and i just remember being in the bathroom one time and he came in and i'm peeing and he's next to me and i i'm finishing i gotta wash my hands and he goes make sure you wash your hands. And listen, I'm probably seventh, eighth grade. And I already wasn't a kid that took shit. You know what I mean? My mother was beating the fuck out of me. I didn't care. And this guy's like, make sure you wash your hands if you want to be my buddy.

And I turn around. I'm in there by myself. And I said, I don't want to be your buddy. I go, you touch kids. You said that? Yeah, and then I got the fuck out of there. No. Yeah, you touch kids, man.

Yep. Not even roasting the molester. We had a guy at – I had to go to – I was raised Catholic, so we had to go to confirmation. Okay. In order to go to confirmation, they make you do these classes and all. One of them was like a lock-in. I don't know if you've ever been to one of these fucking church lock-ins.

Yeah, it's like a sleepover. Yeah, all night long. They guilt you. They make you write every bad thing you've ever done on paper and burn it in front of everyone. It's sick. There's acoustic guitar circles over here and shit. People are secretly fingering each other. That's 100% what I was about to say.

There's definitely a finger corner going on. There's a finger corner in every church. Every church has one stinky finger, at least. The Our Lady of the Stinky Finger. Our lady of the stinky finger. Our father who art in heaven. Okay, cut that out. That's not getting cut out.

This fucking pastor comes up to us, youth pastor. Okay. And he just comes up to me and my buddy and he's like, this is better than staying home on a Saturday night and jerking off, isn't it? What? That's what he says.

And I'm telling you, we didn't look at each other or anything. I didn't know he was going to speak. He didn't know I was going to speak. And I'm just looking right at this dude and I go, no. And he says it at the same time. We're just both going, no.

And we were friends forever, dude. I'm are you coming up talking like that for man nah nah i've been told about you fuck those creepy dudes man dude church was weird church is a weird place growing up i remember i was there for the bagels and the bagels only we We didn't have bagels in my house. My mom wasn't like a bagel. It's not like Puerto Rican to have bagels, I guess. And I was like, I'm in it. I never had them until middle school when someone had them at their house. Church introduced me to, but untoasted bagels, which is a whole different story. I'll defend them.

Fresh, soft ones? Soft bagels with some cream cheese. Yeah, I'll take that all day. Underrated. Yeah, very. But yeah, church is creepy. Writing down your sins. I was like eight years old.

I'm like, I couldn't think of anything that I had done super wrong. So then I just started guilting myself all night being like, maybe I am mean to my mom. Yeah, and also to go into a booth and it's just this person on the other side that I'm not allowed to see. I'm just supposed to tell them the worst shit I've done. Fuck it. I want him to tell me the worst shit I've done. Fuck it. I want him to tell me the worst shit he's done. Tell me what you've done. Do you even have pants on over there, bro? Yeah, he's just jacking up.

You know a lot of them just jack off to sins. Not them jacking off to sin. I was speeding the other day. 85 and a 50. That's the kind of shit I would say. I curse a little bit. I just lie, you know.

I'm lying in my fucking. Or it's fun to go in there and just say really bad shit. I'm lying right now. Yeah. I've killed three people. Tell me more. Tell me about. Well, you said you used to tempt these. This is crazy to do that.

So, yeah. So, when. Well, yeah. There's something about being a kid in Florida. You get real bored. And I that. So, yeah. So when, well, yeah, there's something about being a kid in Florida. You get real bored. And I remember, well, this. Were you, like, I don't mean to interrupt because I'm going to get yelled at for it, but were you an outside, play outside a lot kid?

Yes. Okay. Yeah, obviously. You can only get in trouble if you play outside a lot. That's right. What are iPad kids doing? They're just fucking. Sitting inside.

Getting virtually molested on roadblocks yeah you're right they're getting it too over there um but yeah i was outside a lot like we like the same thing we knew the one guy's house to stay away from and that was the house that whenever we had friends over on our bikes would be like let's go throw rocks at that dude's window like all the kids were abusing the abuser in our neighborhood um but yeah me and my best friend she was um so bad when we were younger i was like the anxious one like i was always like no we're gonna get in trouble and she was like growing up my memory of is like me being like no we can't sneak out and her halfway out the window going if you want to be a loser just stay and me being

like all right i'm coming like just like the movies like it was just like that was that was her and um we would get on aol instant messenger aim and we would go into chat rooms and we would start talking to people and tell them like our real age like we'd be like we're 13 i remember at this point i think we were 12 doing this and we would tell tell men that we're 12. And then we'd tell them, we would give them an address to meet us. And we would go and like- Hold on. They're entertaining you back the whole time?

Yeah, we would talk to them sometimes for days. We would build relationships with some of these people. And you know they're an adult. We were the original Chris Hansen, sweetie. Yeah. And then we would give them an address to a park. You're catfishing pedophiles? Yeah.

You're fucking... Then we would give them an address to a park in the neighborhood where we lived. And we would go and hide and just watch them wait for us. They would? They would show up? No. A couple of times. Why wouldn't you tell your parents or the police?

Because we liked them just looking dumb, waiting for kids that had ghosted them. Yes. And then we would just laugh and go home and be like, let's go smoke a cigarette out of your mom's thing. Out of your mom's thing. Your mom's ashtray. I'm seeing a lot of scary headlines about inflation, rent increases, the coming recession. But there's good news. Inflation has changed real estate and there are new opportunities for first-time homebuyers.

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Dude. Listen, if I was walking to a park, were they unsuspecting? What? Would they be unsuspecting? No. I mean, one time it was like a nice looking Mexican guy. And then the second time it was like a little chubbier, like bearded. How old?

White dude. I would say probably. 20s, 30s? I thought they looked a lot older then, but I would say probably late 20s, early 30s. Knowing they're talking to 12 and 13 year old. And we would just laugh and watch them and literally just leave if my daughter

fucking told me she did that I'd be like my parents didn't even know they probably still don't know could you imagine could you imagine your kids doing that shit outside

I know one time her mom like we actually left the chat open and she saw that we were like yeah flirting she was like

reading it out it's nothing more awkward than someone's mom reading your sexual messages out loud while you're standing there and you're 12 and 13 you're gonna show them what with your breasts and this guy's coming too oh yeah she was always getting me in trouble she was always getting me in trouble she was like so crazy i remember the first time i smoked weed she was like she was already we lived in different towns we were like best friends when we were in third grade and then in fifth grade i moved but my our parents would see each other like every other weekend it was like an hour away or something and um so when i would go see her she was always like getting worse and worse. You know what I mean?

Like she was changing and I was kind of. Already knew the shit in that neighborhood. Yeah, she was getting finger blasted and, you know, she was like telling me all the details. Actually, I'm wondering if she should bleep her name out. Did you say it? I think I said it once. But yeah, she asked me if I wanted to smoke. And I was like, yeah, I want to try smoking weed.

So she's like, we're going to go smoke at my friend's house. I was like, cool. So nighttime comes. This is that window moment where I'm like, I'm scared. And she's like, come on. Don't be an idiot. So we're walking. We're probably 13.

And we're walking 2 a.m. in the middle of the street. We used to do that all the time. Sneak out of the house was the best. It was so fun. So fun to sneak out of the house. So fun. And my other walking 2 a.m. in the middle of the street. We used to do that all the time. Sneak out of the house was the best. It was so fun. So fun to sneak out of the house. So fun. And my other friends were different. Like I was sneaking out of the house at the time,

but like in my neighborhood, I had my friends, I'd have a bunch of boys come into my window, sneak me out and we'd all go like swimming and jump on a trampoline. And it was like very innocent. Like that was like my kind of thing. But her kind of thing was like, let's go smoke pot with these kids.

You know, let's go tempt pedophiles it was always like something crazy um so we go to these this house and we go in and it is like i didn't know i didn't realize it then but now i know it was like a trap house like there was because there was no i we went in a weird way and there was like no way out and everything was like, we go into this room and the guys that were there, there's like, it's me and her. And we go into this room and there's another girl that looks about our age. And all of these guys are like 18 or 19 and we're 13.

And we go into this room and they're like, it's like the whole house is so dirty. It's like a hoarder's house almost where there's just a trail to the room. And we're sitting and I'm like it's like the whole house is so dirty it's like a hoarder's house almost where there's just a trail to the room and we're sitting and I'm like sitting on this couch and they close the door and when and then they start locking it and there's like four or five locks on the door and they lock every single one of them and I'm like uh okay and then um they're definitely like adult older grown men and that girl's been there before you could tell she's comfortable as fuck she's smoking my friend's

smoking i smoke and are they they're all smoking and then they find out it's my first time getting high so then they're like all right let's get her know, like she's got to hit her first bull. And they end up being so nice and so fun. We ended up getting stoned with them. And like they smoked and then they're like, oh, and like I made it a thing. We got high and we watched some like live leak videos and some shit on. I think it was like before Worldstar. It was something else. I don't remember.

E-bombs world. Yeah, I remember. We were watching some of those and then they unlocked all 17 of their doors and let us leave but it was really weird thinking back that we were just fucking these young 13 year old girls hanging out with like 19 year old men yeah i mean i wouldn't be a junior or a freshman in college hanging out with some eighth graders no that's insane and getting them high yeah yeah that's the fucked up part i had a friend that um was in town with her sister who was 14 and we were smoking near her sister and i felt weird and she's like oh she smokes i don't let her when she's with me but it's fine i've already started educating my

daughter like the fentanyl shit that's going on right now i already started talking to stella about it i you know unfortunately a friend of mine's daughter passed away from it and she asked what happened to his daughter and I wasn't going to lie. So I've been teaching her about fentanyl and pills and stuff that you do get from the doctor can be deadly if you don't take it properly. And, you know, don't trust everything that comes from, you know, a pharmacy. And I've taught her about marijuana already. I tell her I smoke it. I tell her it's medicine. I tell her I smoke it I tell her it's medicine I tell her my doctor knows prescribes it he knows I use it and that's what that smells like

and don't ever smoke cigarettes you know I just I'm just being as real as I can with her because I feel like kids like you tell me how old were you again? I was 13. 13. I mean, that's five years from now. And that's going to fly by. And I feel like it's getting younger and younger with the older kids or their parents having these things. And you get a dirty Percocet or something and boom, you're fucking dead. So, yeah, it's a wild fucking. It's scary to think about all the things you might miss, all the lessons that you're not thinking. I'm like, oh, I didn't even tell you that.

I was telling Sarah the other day, I didn't know i was pulling a toast out of a toaster with a fork until i was 20 i swear i swear i've been swimming with electronics for years i'm telling you that is not a lie i swear i didn't know until like my college roommate was like, yes. And she was like, what are you doing? She like screamed. And I was like, she almost killed me, bitch. Grabbing you back. Yeah.

I was like, what? And she was like, you can't do that. You're going to get electrocuted. And I was like, I've been doing this for so long. Yeah, you're right. There are so many things. I have to teach her that. I've told her that already.

I already told her. My mom forgot that one. Electronics in the water is a fucking no-no. You know, don't ever put a plastic bag over your head. Don't ever get into an abandoned fridge or any kind of fridge. You're not getting out. Or dryers, washers and dryers, like that shit. You got to tell kids that shit.

You got to tell them. An abandoned fridge. You're just locked in. I'm sick. That's probably happened. People's children have gone missing in a fridge and they can't get out and no one can hear them and they just rot in a fridge. Suffocate. I'm sick over that.

That's sick. That's fucked up. Suffocate over that. Yeah. I mean, it's crazy the things that you survive when you're younger and you think about all the close calls you had and stuff too. Well, I just think too being 16, we weren't wearing seatbelts until they made it a law and then i like all right we'll put it on now i feel naked without it you know but before i don't remember putting the damn thing on when i was 16 i was just so like i didn't feel like i

could die when i was that young no one does yeah you're bulletproof yeah invincible i mean during the summer is me and i remember one summer me and my friend Andrea, we were probably 14 or 15. We just hopped on the back of two 50-year-old men's motorcycles who offered us a joyride. Where are you meeting all these gross older men? There's pedophiles everywhere. They're not lacking. These people are around. And when we're 14, we're not thinking that these guys want to fuck us

like we're still we we have boobs and we have like nice night like our bodies are developing now but we're still like mentally a little bit younger so we're like these old guys just want us to give us a ride because like the same way like my uncle would be like hop on you know what i mean like that's a weird to say uncle. I don't have a dad. That's why I know I do have a dad. But it is weird to use uncle

as an example. Uncle's such a pervy position, even if you're not a pervert. It just sounds like pervy in a story. But anyways, we would hop on their bikes,

go for joy rides, not give a fuck. I remember one time these dudes like hit on us and my friend andrea told them to leave us alone and they followed us in their truck and she just took her whole fucking big gulp and just threw it in the passenger seat window just soaked their entire car with like a fruit punch yeah we didn't give a fuck we didn't think anybody was gonna attack us and

nobody ever did really everyone let us off their bikes out of their rooms. I don't know how, but we got really lucky. I feel like. Have you ever had a near death experience? Yeah. I've had a couple moments where I'm like, that was really close. Me and my sister almost got in a really, really bad car accident once. And I actually don't even realize how there was like a car, like a race car in our hometown doing over 100. And I mean, came, I honestly feel like sometimes, you know, you hear those stories where it's like, maybe I did die. There was like moments where me and my sister still talk about it. And that was like years ago where like maybe in another universe we died

because neither of us understand how we didn't. But we made our right on a road where the speed limit's already pretty fast. But there's cars going this way and there's cars going this way. And we're making a right. So I only look this way because I don't need to look this way to make a right, you know. So I'm looking this way. No one's coming. And as I turn and we're already, the car's already turned, the car that's speeding doing like 100 is passing another car illegally.

Oh, so now he's in your lane where you're going. Now he's in my lane as soon as, and I wasn't there a second ago, which is why he was going to do it. So I turn and he's in my lane. And I mean, he just just it had to have been like a centimeter missed us and flipped into a ditch whoa he crashed yeah oh holy terribly yeah and they were both no they were both okay they went to my high school i recognize them they were both okay um and we were like our car didn't even get touched. They had to get towed and stuff. But they yeah, they got they were like in a ditch and everything. Damn.

Mm hmm. Now, you look right every time. What do you look right? I look right every time. I would. Every time. I would. Yep.

Every time because of that one moment. That's all it takes. Yeah. You can't trust people not to pass in an illegal lane. You just can't trust other people. That's why when I first see people going on the highway so fast, I'm like, it's fine if you're a good driver, but how do you trust these people not to just not use their turning signal?

Well, my dad told me that one time. I'm making a right and cars are coming this way and this car's got its blinker on, but he's been driving so long. He sees that it's not really slowing down. I'm a new driver. I see the blinker and I'm like, he's clearly making a right turn, but he doesn't really know. He doesn't have his, but he changed lanes, but he wasn't making a right.

That blinker's still on. So I'm about to enter out into his right-of-way, even though he has this blinker on. And my dad almost got T-boned. And my dad was like, never trust a blinker. Don't ever. Sometimes people. And then he would point out, look, that asshole's driving on the freeway right now. That blinker's been on for five minutes.

You know what I mean? So I was like, oh. And now I don't care if their blinker's on sit there i will always sit there i putt i'm not a fast driver i don't need speed i'm just right there you know i had a weird moment when i was driving one time this is i don't i like to get super like psychedelic and weird but i did have a moment i was driving in la very recently like three months ago where um i just like was going maybe 10 miles over the speed limit it was on melrose on my way back from the comedy store and then i just was like you need to slow down like to myself i was just like slow down

and i slowed down and then um a car ran the red the red light in the opposite lane like right before me damn or you would have been hit. And it was like, I don't know why I slowed down, but I was like, you need to slow down. And it was like right then. And I just saw the car come in. Will you tell me the story about your first boyfriend? Oh my gosh, yes. Yeah.

So I had my first boyfriend. He was. How old are you? This was in middle school. So this is an eighth grade seven maybe seventh grade seventh grade is when we met and we dated a little bit from seventh grade to eighth grade and he was like really sweet but he actually had like a really um he had like a really sad life like he was he would tell me when we were younger that like his his mom would abandon him and that you know they they would get locked in the garage for days without food like

really super horribly abusive and then he was living with his dad after being taken from his mom because she was like on drugs and he was a really really sweet kid he was super shy he was also incredibly talented like he was such a good basketball player like our entire town knew him for it everybody was like saying that he would be able to go into the nba and he was like i don't know how many points is a lot but i always in my head remember him saying that he scored he averaged like 30 something points a game that's a lot which is a lot which is a lot average yeah that's incredible yeah he was like really really good and that number makes sense right okay it's not like too far no okay because that's what i remember he's that good no he was so good and um yeah he just had

like the worst life but you know his his dad who I thought was like a really good man, but looking back on it now, he would lie to my mom when I was in seventh grade. And he would tell my mom, like I would go hang out with him Friday after school. And he would tell my mom, he would call my mom and say, oh yeah, I dropped her off at her friend's house

for a sleepover. Because I would tell my mom, oh, after I hang out at Jimmy's, his dad's gonna take me to Jessica's. I'm gonna stay there for the weekend. And I would just stay at Jimmy'smy's for the weekend really yeah and then his dad would lie for me why why do you think he did that because his son wanted me his girlfriend to stay the night and he was like i thought he was a really good parent but he was just like whatever

you guys want to do we can do kind of parent you know what i mean he was always really nice but um not really parenting no not really parenting at all um and so we dated for a little bit but then we you know it was like around that time that a bunch of our friends started like trying to drink and like you know that's like about that age where everyone's like trying to party for the first time and jimmy and lives in this tiny tiny fucking town about like 25 minutes away from me and it is like the meth area of florida it is like so gross like if you live there you're done if you don't leave you're done um and he just starts kind of changing and so i break up with him because he starts acting different, and he gets into some gang shit in that area,

which at this point, I didn't even realize that my town had gangs and stuff, but I guess it did, and him and his friend at this point are in and out of youth detention centers. Juvie. Juvie, and he's like dating like really shitty people he's dating some chick and then you're still in touch or you're just hearing about him no i completely cut like i was we're not really in touch at all i think i hung out with him like a year after that a couple times and he was my friend i tell my friend tyler i'm like jimmy was always really sweet and he's like yeah to you couple times. And he was, my friend, I tell my friend Tyler,

I'm like, Jimmy was always really sweet. And he's like, yeah, to you, he loved you, but he was a fucking monster. Like that's how he describes him. He's like, he was a crazy monster animal. And so he starts doing all these drugs and then he gets this girl pregnant and they have a baby. And you can tell they're both on like bad drugs.

Like the pictures are like, you can, you know when you see people's faces like sink over time? It starts like their eyes. He starts like looking like dead. And then his friend who we'd known for years, suddenly he gets arrested. He's in prison. I don't know what happens. I just, someone calls me. He's like, oh, Jimmy got arrested.

And the friend got his head cut off. What? Yes. Do you know how? They just found the head. No, they just found his head? They just found his head and nothing else. Who was he fucking with?

So they had robbed a local gang, I think. And I think that they had like robbed him of and i think it was so stupid i think they robbed him of um a roll of lotto tickets scratch offs that's what he got his literally lost his life and then i don't know what happened that put them to prison i don't know what gang it was i don't know any details but that's the story i heard yeah wow yeah yeah and so he's still in prison. Actually, I think he gets out. I think he might be out now.

I think I heard that he was getting out like this year. Jimmy? Mm-hmm. Has he ever tried to reach out to you? Mm-mm. I would, I know. No social media? No.

No jail correspondence? Mm-mm. No. I don't know if he would know where I am. Yeah. It's kind of hard to find people from jail, I think. Yeah, but not if they have internet. You're an easy Google.

That's true. Were you always Kim Congdon? Yeah. You're an easy one, then. Yeah. You know what's crazy? I still have his pajama pants, and I still wear them often. Nuh-uh.

Yes. How long has he been in prison? How long has he been in prison? How long has he been away? He got locked up when I was 20. So 11 years. You had his pants for 11 years. I had his pants for like 15 years. Yeah, they're really comfortable.

I'm going to give you a pair of night pants. Right when we're done there. So I can get rid of my prison pants. And get rid of these prison fucking pants. I like them. Not at this point. I've had him for so long and i also have like such a soft spot for who i know he could have been could have been you know what i mean like i saw him for like the sweet abused child he was before he got into drugs and i like to remember him that way so um but yeah it's a fucked up town it's a fucked up town there is incest rape robbery

gangs all in your town yeah fun fun stuff on every town yeah yeah there's crazy shit that happens in every town every fucking town there's some weird shit that goes down in my town like we were my parents were like always the well i'm sure this was not just my parents, my parents were always the, well, I'm sure this was not just my parents, but my parents were the parents that the police knew. Why? Because they would be fighting in a domestic violence way. Oh, no. I was like,

if you were a child that has teddy bears from the trunk of a cop car, sound off in the comments because your parents fight so hard they have to bring you a toy they got a stuffy fucking budget it does make you feel better i I'll tell you. I've seen them. I've seen them. My daughter's mom dated a cop, and he gave my daughter, it was like a little canine with a shirt on. It said, Elsa, no police, or whatever. I was like, honestly. He'll keep you safe.

It's like, Rover. My dad hit my mom. Rover's not helping. I'm supposed to use this to dab the blood? I put this on her forehead so his fist only hits her over. Oh, shit. That is too much. Yeah.

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They loved making a scene. Well, it was my mom and my stepdad. They loved making a scene, dude. They loved the cops coming over. I remember one time my mom got arrested when they were fighting one time. And I was like crying with my little stuffy. And I was like watching my mom in the backseat. And I just watched the bitch.

She just fucking kicks the back window off the cop car. Starts breaking it. You can start seeing the window. You mean the back back window? The back back window. You can see it start coming off. And I said the cop is like, she's can start seeing the window the back back window the back back window you can see it start coming off and i say the cop is like she's gonna break the window and they both run over to fucking and you're and then three hours later this bitch is calling it's cold in jail i said yeah bitch it's cold where the fuck are you kicking out a cop window

ask him to cover you with the stuff yeah i. Just on their little mouth. And I remember my stepdad was like, ask him for a blanket, babe. And I'm like, you guys are toxic. They were toxic. And so then she would get let out?

Yeah, and then she'd be out in three days and they'd fight the next month. No charges pressed, no nothing. No, they would like drop the charges on each other and always call.

You can't do that shit anymore. No, no, no. Now the city presses charges. Really? Yeah, because what happens is a lot of women are scared to speak up, so they don't want to press charges. So, like, I know for a fact Santa Monica does. So if you decide to not press charges, the city will.

So your mom would have been fucked back then. Who knows? Maybe she was. Who knows? I don't know. I didn't know the details then. You remember court? Yeah, I remember some court.

There's court for some stuff, for sure. What did they give you at court? I don't know. I just remember being in court. A little lollipop. A chocolate gavel. Oh, there's Kim. Hey, Kim.

They give you little play handcuffs. They got pictures of you from three, four years of your school. Getting big, girl. Keep coming back. Yeah, they loved to fucking fight, those two. And he would get arrested, too, sometimes? Yeah. I remember one time the cops came and she pointed out all his weed.

Nuh-uh. I remember he ran out of the house with it before the cops got there and was dumping in the woods. And she brought the cops over the woods. And was like, here it is. Nuh-uh. Yeah. Yeah. How long were they together?

They just got a divorce a couple years ago. But how many years are we talking? Since I was five and I'm 31. They're doing 26 years of that behavior. What made her finally stop? And you know what's crazy is they got a divorce, they got blocked, and I still think that they're. They hang out. I still think that they at least contact each other.

What made your mom finally say I'm getting a divorce? Or what it was him. I don't know. I wasn't there. That's not a conversation you have with your mom? No. Oh, you know what? I talked about it on the last podcast.

I think it was the last time they fought and he pushed her. Oh, he pushed her. He was like, he pushed her to the ground and he got arrested. Did he get arrested? I can't remember if he got arrested this time, but he pushed her and then he was like, I'm done. He's like, I can't push her. You know what I mean? He's like, I can't get arrested.

Yeah, you can't get arrested. And I think I said on the last podcast I was like she probably deserved it like she probably pushed she'll push you to the edge you know what I mean yeah she'll do it to where you're like bitch you need to be pushed do you ever fight with her like that has she ever been physical with you oh yeah I asked because dads and sons, we have that moment. And it's not the dads. It's the son that thinks he's big and bad enough to take dad. You know, what do you have? You ever have a moment like that with your mom?

My mom and my stepdad. I used to fight my stepdad regularly as a teenager. We would just fight. You'd punch and stuff? Yeah, he'd get in my face. I'd push him off. He'd push me and we'd start. He'd push you?

Yes. I couldn't imagine pushing a 14 year old girl right that's what i'm saying pushing my 14 year old son yeah but not my not my daughter i can never imagine putting hands on my daughter like that yeah i think i've maybe shoved my mom once or twice as a teenager but like she has fucking thrown vacuums at me. Vacuums. Somebody had to help her. Her worst story though,

she broke her leg one time and she was trying to like come after me and she was trying to, you know, throw shit at me. We were in a fight and I fucking took her crutches

and I threw them outside. She couldn't get to me. She was crawling and she's so dramatic. She was on the ground like, Term because if you know my mom she is drama she is like one of those people that like if if you push her like that like it's like she's very like everything's a thousand percent. She's a character. Yeah.

She seems like a character. She is a character. It's the storm. The storm. The storm's coming. The storm's a-brewing. The storm's a-brewing. She's wild.

What were your... You know, she found my stepdad in the ocean once. Huh? What do you mean? Yep. In the ocean? She found my stepdad in the ocean once. Huh? What do you mean? Yep. In the ocean? She found my stepdad in the ocean once. What do you mean found him in the ocean? He went on a fishing trip and left her a note instead of like talking to her and telling her.

And it fucking set her off. She thought he was, she was like, he's on the boat with women. No. Yeah. And she went and fucking called the Coast Guard. No. Was she on a boat with him? I don't.

And I've heard two different versions. And the version that I've heard that she was on the boat with them. My stepdad says that she came on the boat with them. My mom says that she was waiting by the deck on the dock for them. But still there. My stepdad says he was fishing and out of the fog comes a Coast Guard with my mom on it. Which is the funniest version of it. It is.

The fog split and she's up front. Yeah. You can see just a light that's circling, slowly a white light. That is crazy. Found the motherfucker in the ocean. She found him in the ocean fishing. a light that's circling slowly a white light that is crazy yeah found a motherfucker in the ocean in the ocean fishing she said

he left a note saying he was gonna be back at midnight it was 2am he wasn't back yet she was fucking pissed not worried not scared

for his life but she used worried as the excuse of course and then she told the coast guard they were missing they'd gone missing she'd lied about the time

so it was longer time and so she's coming at night too so yeah oh yeah she's coming at night too oh yeah just her curly hair flowing in the wind oh yeah his um his brother says one of the scariest things that ever happened is one time they were just hanging out in a room my stepdad and his brother and they were just talking and they were getting ready to go out and they were just having a normal conversation sort of pre-gaming before they went out and they're like where where's uh where's mary and they're like i don't know i don't know where she is and they're like oh well i guess

we'll just go out without her and then right then the closet door rips open she goes i'm here just listening to make sure that they weren't talking about her. You know what she did to my dad? That's what I want to say. Do you have any memories of them together? No, because they got divorced when I was five, and I think everything before that was kind of a blur. But my dad tells this story that he had this side hustle. This is such a fucked up story.

He had this side hustle. This is such a fucked up story. He had this side hustle where he was fishing for tropical fish. And he was selling them to like tropical fish aquariums or whatever. The people that sell tropical fish. And he had like a whole setup. He had built this whole thing. He had all this fish and this whole system. he said he probably had 15 20 grand in fish

in this room that he had just like he was about to sell and him and my mom got into a fight the storm did not the storm bleached no every tank killed them all she killed them all the fucking mass part of those fish man that is terrible fish aside she killed them all

she did she killed them all isn't that horrible just because she's mad at it listen if you're listening to this don't cancel me

it's not me I would never do that to a fish I have empathy I go to therapy. Jesus. Yeah. Yes.

Yeah, your mom. She's crazy. How do you set boundaries with her then? Like how do you keep contact yet enough distance that it doesn't drive you? It's always a work in progress. And we're currently working on it is she aware of who and how she is she is aware that i feel that she is that way okay she's just like what's up i'm fine

she's like what's wrong with you bitch she's like you're grumpy and I'm like you're abusive yeah yeah yeah so she is she's kind of aware it's a work in progress it is yeah it is a lot it is crazy because I started doing therapy like um probably five or six months ago like actual I actually I've been trying to do therapy for like the last 10 years but I've only up until this last therapist that I've been seeing for 6 months I've only been able to see therapists one time and then I don't want to see them again I would get like wildly embarrassed about sharing things and then just like block them

so I blocked like 9 or 10 therapists before this and then what about this one's working for you are you just ready? you want to hear it? my therapist also works with prisoners. And it's the only one I like.

So I'm like, there has to be something to that. Yeah, your mom's been locked up enough. It's got to be something. Yeah. So, yeah. So I'm starting to realize a lot of things. It's very crazy because it was very confusing. Me and my mom got along really well until I was about 16.

And I couldn't figure out why. And I think it is because I turned 17 and mentally she just has always been 16. And she still is. Yeah. She still acts a lot like a high school kid. Still, yes. High school drama. Always the never real drama.

It's always some dumb bullshit yeah yeah always and it's like and it actually it fucks you up because you grow up and you don't know how to deal with things like when i moved to la i didn't realize that hitting people was a big deal i was like yeah that's how you solve in my head legitimately i was like that's how you solve things how else would you? There was no other. There was not even like, I didn't even know there was other options. I'm going to punch you.

I was like, who talks? That's going to end this. I was like, that's gay. Who talks? And they're like, you can't say that either. You can't say that either. Tell me about Mr. T. I want to hear this story. Not Mr. T from the A-Team, but we're going to call this person Mr. T.

We're going to call this guy Mr. T. I was in high school. And my high school, they did some questionable things. Like when they were teaching us about like World War II, they had us go into the hallway of a building and suddenly it was transformed into a concentration camp and there was like these people and they were like this is not what i thought you're gonna say i thought you're gonna do like get on the wall put your head between your legs for the fuck

no it was like all they were like we go we go into a room and suddenly there's like a guy and he's like i want blue eyes and he's like drilling into a student who's acting and then we and then they're hurting us in a corner like i acting and then we and then they're hurting us in a corner like i was like whose idea was this they made us like really go through it and like hide in an attic it was nuts yes yes and they're like this is how anne frank felt this would never fly today i know that was an actual thing that happened in my high school if you went to my high school and you remember that sound off off in the comments. Because in case people think I'm making this up,

I want someone from my high school to confirm. That is nuts. Yeah. So my high school was a little crazy. They had some crazy moments. I had this teacher, this history teacher,

and this was in, I believe 10th grade is when I had him. He was my 10th grade teacher. I believe 10th or 11th grade. And he was my history teacher. And he was, I mean, the first day of school, I was like, this is the coolest teacher. You know, the first day of school, they're all introducing themselves. He's like, hi.

He comes in, strolls in the classroom. He goes, he's got eyes kind of like yours. He goes, my name's Mr. T. I teach this class. It's going to be this long. He goes, I want to say something right off the bat. You see this picture of my son? Look at his eyes.

You see how they're all small like that? I don't chew ever coming in here and saying, Mr. T, you're high. He was definitely high. And he was just trying to make this announcement up front. That I'm not high. That I'm going to look like this every day. Yeah, I'm coming in high. He was definitely high. And he was just trying to make this announcement up front. I'm not high. Then I'm going to look like this every day. I'm coming in. Yeah,

this is what I look. He was basically like, this is what I look like. None of you need to be reporting me. He was like, my son looks high. I look high. You have a problem with it.

Let me know. And we were like, cool. This guy's cool. He's making comments like, um, and, and he's getting comfortable.

So throughout the semester, he's, comments like, and he's getting comfortable. So throughout the semester, he's- How old is he? Early 40s. Okay. Late 30s, early 40s. And he- He's been teaching a while too at this school? I believe he had been teaching for five or six years at school.

And I think he was teaching at another school before that. And he got very comfortable throughout the semester. He would be the teacher that if you like talked out of place, like he would be mad at you, but he'd do it almost like in a roasty way. He made us hold books above our heads. And there was always like humiliation tactics is what he liked to use. I remember at one point he was like saying something the first day of class, he said, telling facts about himself. And he was like, I'm this, I'm from here. And he was like saying something the first day of class he said telling facts about himself and he was like i'm this i'm from here and he was like and the perfect type for a woman is right here yes that's what he said he put his thing he's like because the top of their head could be a cup holder and he said something weird like that and me and my friends were like huh and he was just always

making comments like like um this, she had ripped jeans on. And he was like, how did you get those holes in your knees? So he was always saying like little things like that. And then at one point he puts on this thing. Okay, and I've been trying to find this. So hopefully one of your fans can help me out. He put on this movie for us. He was like got kind of lazy mid-semester.

And he'd always tell us about the student he'd talk about his favorite student it was this girl he says that they were the closest friends ever and it was one of his most gifted talented students his mouse pad was a picture of him and her that's fucking yeah that's the craziest shit you've told me so far yeah and then in in in class he'd had students from the other hours the other periods during their free time they'd come in and give him a shoulder massage while he taught us. No one at the school was saying anything. No.

This was like allowed then. I don't know how to explain it. A lot of teachers like to get massaged. That's a thing. I've seen that a lot. And so he put on this fucking thing for us that was playing for like days in our classroom during like finals week. And it was like this soft core Renaissance porn. Like it was like,

I remember one of the scenes where like all these people were walking into an orgy and it said first serve first come as like the entrance sign. It was like a comedy. Yes. And it was like a soft core thing. And it was like just people fucking and like titties. And I remember like, he'd be like, if the principal comes in, we have to change it. And he was like just people fucking and like titties and i remember like he'd be like

if the principal comes in we have to change it and he was like putting on and we would just watch it every day he was just i think he was probably getting off to all of us watching porn in front of him um and yeah and then i on like i got a job at like the local bar in our town and so every like all the teachers from my high school would come there on the weekends the the police like I knew all the local police and I was the food runner but I would like bring out their beers and stuff and so like I was like friends with a lot of the adults so on the weekends I would go play poker with my teacher this guy Mr. T yeah so we would go and I would meet up with like the local police and my teacher and we'd all

like play poker. And then, yeah, at the end of the year, it came out that he was having a relationship with that student. He got fired. It was the next year. The mouse pad student. The mouse pad student came out and said that she had been abused and he had took the best years of her life, blah, blah, blah.

And what he did was wrong. And he, blah, blah, blah. And what he did was wrong. And he, blah, blah, blah. And then we, this is so bad because we were young. But this happened. You're looking at the camera. You're looking like, guys, please. Guys, please don't judge me for this because we didn't know. And he was just, to me, he was an awesome teacher who let us watch rated R movies,

who I played poker with on the weekends. He's seen me have a beer at a party. He's been cool. You know what I mean? And then he gets canceled. He gets fired. And this is the next year. And all of the students who had them previously

wore Team T t-shirts. Really? Yes, to support him. But it was all chicks. Because he was only nice to chicks. So there's all these high school hot chicks. Because he was only nice to chicks. So there was like all these high school hot chicks. It was like team t-shirts.

And we all got dressed up the night before to support him. So it was like all the slutty high schoolers being like, he did nothing wrong. We love him. And with a t-shirt on. Yes. Yeah. Man, but he never made a move at you. He never made a move at me, which is a little insulting.

I did play a lot of poker. I played a lot of poker. But he knew because I was, my boyfriend, he played poker at my boyfriend's parents' house. And everyone knew this? No, I don't think my boyfriend's parents knew how creepy he was. Because he just did it in the classroom. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

We had a shop teacher. Shop teacher. Metal shop, too. Okay. Mr. P, we'll call him. I feel like I could say his name, though, because he did get in trouble, but I'm not going to. Mr. P. And I remember the girls.

I guess girls, some of them start developing at least breast, seventh, going to, Mr. P. And I remember the girls, I guess girls, some of them start developing at least breast, seventh, eighth grade, whatever. And some girls did, and they would tell us like, this guy's looking down my shirt. And we were like, no, he's not. No, he's not. Like, yeah, he's looking down my shirt. And then we had friends, our age would have younger siblings, and they would go through middle school and have Mr. P's class and those girls would say the same thing. And then I met friends of friends

who 10 years, like this guy, definitely looked down girls' shirts. He's been looking at titties since NOM, yeah. Since NOM. So,

the guy ends up retiring. Okay. And he turns his laptop in. Okay. And doesn't erase the child porn on the school issued laptop and they fucking finally get the guy they got him finally got him and he was all those pictures not of the not of the girls he was watching whatever was on that computer was not of the students i believe it was of whatever's on the dark web out there and it's a school issued

laptop and this dumb ass didn't fucking clear it didn't wipe it and had been in fact looking at that shit and was looking down shop teachers are perverts our shop teacher got caught too he would go smoke weed with the guys the students our shop teacher yeah with some of the students he would go smoke weed with the students and then he got Our shop teacher, yeah. With some of the students, he would go smoke weed with the students and then he got fired for making out with a girl. Nah.

In the class. And I was offended because I didn't get, he didn't take me to smoke weed or make out with me. I couldn't even be one of the boys. He didn't know you at all. No, he just didn't get,

like neither of them. I was like, please. Yeah. Our softball teacher was dating a student, our female softball teacher. Wait, the Our softball teacher was dating a student. Our female softball teacher. Wait, the female softball teacher. Female softball teacher ended up having a relationship.

Was dating a boy or a girl? Got fired for dating a girl. Really? On the softball team, one of the students, yeah. Yep. And then when I was in high school, I had a huge crush on the soccer coach. Huge crush. And I wanted to bang him so bad. I was a virgin virgin but i wanted to bang him so bad how old was he he had to be like 24 23 too young to be in high

school you can't be 23 hanging out with 18 year olds and it was like my senior year and i had the biggest crush on him and um i remember one time he was standing in the gym and he had a coke and i asked him if i could have a sip of it and And he let me have a sip of his Coke. Like his straws. Yeah. I was like, he wants me. He wants me.

That's kind of sexual. You can't let an 18 year old who obviously has a crush on you have a sip of your drink. Did he know you had a crush? Yeah. He did. Yeah. That's weird, right?

How old were you when you lost your virginity? You said you were a virgin at 18, but you wanted to give it up to the soccer coach. you lost your virginity you said you were a virgin at 18 but you wanted to get up to the soccer coach I lost my virginity when I was 17 but that's when I first saw the soccer coach

who was the boy you was this a boyfriend or what was the situation it was a boyfriend I lost my virginity to a virgin I was very

virgin I was a virgin virgin too virgin virgin team virgin virgin very very un eventful eventful

it really I was like so it doesn't fit Team Virgin Virgin. Very, very uneventful. Eventful. It really, I was like, so it doesn't fit. I was like, fine. Did you finally do it? It took a while. I lost half of my virginity

in a Honda Accord and I said, we'll finish the other half later. Listen, this is, you're a lot of fun thank you for coming on here and and uh sharing these fucked up stories i needed not that this was light in any way but it's definitely a little bit of a more lighter episode i i fucking you're too much man i kind of want to meet your mom i really do does she ever come out for shows yeah i've banned her for a year but if she's good for one point i told her if she's good for one full year she can come back to shows she heckled me the last show at your own show just fucking being loud taking pictures where it's like you know the sound yeah. Flash. Kim, stand still. Yes. And I'm like, go sit down.

I'm screaming at her. I'm like, too much. So, but you'd love her. She's great. I want to see you two together. That's what I think would be funny. I have to do the video of when we caught the ant making out with her nephew. I'll send you that video.

Send me that. I want to see that. I got you. Promote everything you like again, please. Yeah. You guys follow me on Twitter at Kimberly Congdon, on Instagram at Kim Congdon. Check me out on twitch.tv slash Queen Cong 1. And make sure you check out my podcast, Broad Topics, T-O-P-I-X, and my other podcast, This

Bitch, anywhere that you find podcasts. They're really, really funny. Check them out on YouTube. Check out the clips on my Instagram. And I put all my show dates on my social media so and sickler thank you for having me you got it girl i love this show i love your fans everyone was so fucking nice last time yeah you got a really great response yeah they love you good sweet um as always ryan sickler.com ryan sickler on all social media we'll talk to y'all

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