The Interview - Ben Stiller on 'Severance,' Selling Out and Being Jewish Today [Re-Run]
Episode Date: October 11, 2025Ben Stiller’s documentary about his parents, “Stiller & Meara: Nothing Is Lost,” premieres on Apple TV+ later this month. In advance of that premiere, we are revisiting our January interview wit...h Stiller, in which the actor-director discussed the (then) long-awaited return of “Severance,” the comedies that made him a star and growing up with his famous parents.
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Hey, it's David. We'll be back with a new episode next week, but in the meantime, we're bringing
you a conversation that I had with Ben Stiller from this year. We talked about the latest season
of Severance, the show since won a bunch of Emmys, and we also talked about his relationship
with his parents, the comedians Jerry Stiller and Ann Mira. Ben has made a new documentary about
them called Stiller and Mirra Nothing is Lost, which will be in theaters and on Apple TV plus later
this month. Enjoy the conversation, and we'll see you next week with a new episode of
the interview.
From the New York Times, this is the interview.
I'm David Marquesie.
The long-awaited Emmy Award-winning series Severance
returns for its second season next week.
I've seen a bunch of the new episodes,
which have some real surprises in them,
and I can say that I'm very eager
to see other fans' reaction
to how the show has moved forward with its story.
By way of a reminder, that story is about a rebellious group of employees at the mysterious and probably malevolent Lumen Industries.
Those employees are office drones whose consciousness has been artificially separated between their work selves, also known as their innies, and their outies, their selves away from the office.
That sense of a defied itself is one to which Ben Stiller, who co-directed and co-executive produces the series, can probably relate.
It's actually one of the things that's most intriguing to me about him.
He's a hugely successful comedic actor from mainstream hits like Meet the Parents and Night at the Museum,
who's gradually stepped away from acting in favor of his first love, directing.
As a director, he's a much more subversive and distinctive stylist than his biggest acting roles might suggest.
Take, for example, more serious projects like his crime drama series, Escape at Danamora, as well as severance, of course,
and also his off-the-wall comedy satires like Cable Guy and Zoolander,
the latter of which he also starred in.
So I don't think I'm overreaching and suggesting that there is some any outy,
Severin-style tension, if you will, running through Stiller's own story.
As I found out while speaking with him at his Manhattan office,
that's something he was trying to make sense of, too.
Here's my conversation with Ben Stiller.
You know, I was thinking about severance and sort of where it fits in the arc of your career.
Are there specific things that working on comedy gave you the tools for when it comes to working on something like severance, which I would describe as maybe comedy adjacent?
And it's funny, because I just, you know, I don't categorize it specifically. And I think I find that stuff very funny. I mean, I think whenever anything is very specific, it's always funny. And I feel like the show sort of has its basis in the workplace comedy, like the office or office space or parks and rec. But where it goes off, I think this season we probably went to some like stranger places. But I felt like that,
It was also just part of what the show is.
The show has to continue on its journey
and can't just stay and doing the same thing.
But I love that stuff.
You think of the second season
is still in the vein of a workplace comedy?
The second season probably gets a little bit stranger than that.
Yeah.
But it is based in the idea that started the show, right?
That these people are in a workplace doing a job
that they don't understand, they don't know who they are
or what they're doing or why they're they.
And that to me has always been sort of the, you know, that's the sort of like the blueprint for the show.
You know, there were a couple news stories that came out about severance being a difficult production with delays and creative differences.
Was it a particularly difficult production?
And do you find that there is any link between how difficult something is to make and the uniqueness of that thing?
because severance is sort of a unique show,
and I wonder if it just is going to be trickier
than if you're doing like a traditional sitcom or something.
Yeah, I've never really believed that idea of like,
you know, you have to have friction or something on a set
or, you know, I've heard directors talk about that
to keep sort of tension on a set.
I think just the nature of making this show over the last,
I mean, it's five years now,
has been a learning experience and yeah sometimes you know creatively it's been the questions of like
which way do we go with it and i really believe that the show comes out of the the different
creative perspectives of the people who work on it and so yeah it's not always perfect um we went
through patches where there were difficulties but it's also i think it all came out of everybody
wanting something to be as good as it could be.
And I really believe that all those different points of view
ended up making the show what it is.
So, yeah, there was some stuff that happened,
but it wasn't a big deal.
Do you know how the series ends?
Do you have the arc all plotted out?
We have the end.
Yes.
Would it be a spoiler to tell me the ending?
Yes, of course.
you know the answer you know what you're working towards yes we definitely have an end i think we now
know exactly how many seasons which i won't say at this point um but uh yeah can you say something
enigmatic that seems like it reveals a clue to the ending um i mean in my mind the series has
always been about mark and you know his
his Indian is Audi, and what happens with his Indian and Saudi,
and what is the ultimate sort of destination for both of them?
I knew it.
Yeah.
So what you were saying, a beat before, about people being at work
and on some level sort of mystified about the fact that, you know,
things seem opaque, you don't really feel like you have control,
you don't know who's really making the decisions.
I was thinking that maybe Hollywood is like that in some ways.
It's not clear who's calling the shots or where the power really lies.
Did your work experience inform the show in any way?
Yeah, that's a good question.
I mean, I do think, you know, what you said is true that at a certain point,
there's always somebody making a decision who is not making it to your face or telling you
or you even know who that person is.
And it can be really, really frustrating.
I think in show business even probably more than, I mean, just from my own experience, the, you know, how something happens, why it happens, why someone gets rejected, why a decision is made, is never explained to the artist or the creative person.
Or if it is, it's usually not the truth.
You know, it's a cliche in Hollywood, but it's kind of true.
Everybody, you know, will say yes, and it doesn't mean yes, it means no.
or let me think about it or yeah great this was a great meeting and then like a day later yeah they're
passing more than ever honestly these days because it's very you know it's a very tough environment now
to get things made i think just with uh post the strike post-covid it's more expensive to make things
and i think the decision makers are you know trying to keep their jobs and trying to figure out
how to make things work for them which make means constriction and choices that are safer
You know, hearing you say that brings to mind, you know, sort of in the late 90s into the 2000s, sort of the, your bread and butter were these big Hollywood comedies.
And in a lot of those films you played, it was kind of a type, you know, like you were sort of a well-meaning, often outsider in some sense, who is made to suffer a bunch of indignities, but ultimately kind of comes out on top at the end.
Was there any part of you that felt like you understood why audiences responded to you in that role in particular?
Like what?
Was there any part of you're like, why do they want to see me yet?
Honestly, I have, yeah, I never, I had no.
I mean, it's funny because at the time, I remember like a moment in time when like people started having that reaction.
Like I would like open up a newspaper and be like, why is Ben Stiller in every movie?
like i like i remember opening up the la times and a guy like wrote he was actually a funny
a inside joke with ricky trevase for a long time because there was this writer who wrote like a letter
to god dear god stop putting ben stiller in comedies and it was like yeah but i wasn't think
i was just like i don't know i'm you know i'm here i'm doing it i i love doing what i do um but you know
it's only in retrospect more to look back and go oh yeah that was like wow there was like uh you know
a thing happening there that you know i was very fortunate to be a part of but i don't know what the zeitgeist
was or what you know and you can look at 2000s comedies now and go okay they were a specific kind of thing
a tone and there were a lot of great things in those comedies too that we don't have now but i don't know
if you can recreate that now but at the time i really wasn't analyzing it too much i was kind of just
trying to figure out how to navigate it.
You know, you did have this real string of big movies from like something about Mary
sort of like through the night at the museum.
Did you feel like because those movies were hitting, you kind of got swept up in something
that was sort of out of your control a little bit?
Like, what was your thinking about the work in that period?
It's not something when you're in it that you're in it that you,
are really able to analyze, you know, because it's happening.
And I sort of don't believe you when you want to say that,
because I suspect you were very strategic throughout your career
thinking about what was going to potentially work at different times.
But what do I know?
I don't think so, because I don't think I'm that smart.
Really.
I think I would make decisions based, like I remember very clearly,
night at the museum was a decision because I grew up near the Natural History Museum.
And I thought, oh, I love this.
Like, if I was a kid, I'd love this.
And it would be fun to do.
But then the Night of the Museum three decision is a little different, right?
Yeah, but it's also, you know, at that point, you know, you've got a team together.
And those were all fun to do.
I'm like, you know, I'm not going to not want to work with Robin Williams or, you know,
Sean Levy getting this group together.
But, you know, when I was in that period, I don't think I had the ability to kind of, like, hover over it and go, like, how am I looking at?
And a lot of actors and filmmakers do have that ability.
I just wasn't at that place.
So, you know, the only part of it that was sort of like nagging at me,
it was like, I like to do other kinds of movies as a filmmaker.
And I just never really stopped to make the time to do that.
I was directing a lot of those movies myself, directing myself in them.
And a lot of times getting movies made as a director because I was in them,
they say, well, if you would be in it, then we'll make.
make it. And also, I think it's just sort of like something that happened and you don't have
control over that. The tension between knowing that there were movies that you wanted to make
and then you also had opportunities to be in other movies. How alive was that tension for you
at the time? Like, do you remember experiences where you might have been thinking like,
oh, I want to make this, but this offer to do a long came polly or whatever the movie might
have been, I'm going to go with that one. Yeah, sure. And,
And, you know, that's a personal choice you make at the time.
I mean, I think fear is always a big thing as an actor, I think.
You know, I saw a Q&A with Jeremy Strong, that movie The Apprentice,
and somebody asked him, why did you want to do this role?
He said, fear.
And I totally identify with that because, you know,
fear is what drives you sometimes to go away from something
or sometimes to jump into something, depending on where you're at.
So what was a fear-driven decision?
I mean, I think so many decisions are based in, it's underneath, it's like whether or not the fear is going to push you away from something or you're going to jump off the cliff with it.
I had a chance to do Glenn Gary, Glen Ross on Broadway, probably around that long came poly time. I decided not to do that. I look back, oh, maybe it would have liked to have done that. But it's also just where I was at at the time.
And has what you're afraid of changed over time?
Yeah, I mean, I think as you get older, it changes everything in terms of, you know, what you look at as what's ahead of you in terms of the things you think you want to do, then really looking at, okay, well, I'm at this point of my life, I'm at this age. You have to think more about, well, do I really want to take this chance right now? How much do I care about what the, the quote-unquote bad result is? And I think as you get a lot of the,
older you for me it's like you care a little bit less about that if you want to do something
because you're like well what do what why am i letting this intangible thing which is like fear of
what it's fear of people saying i suck fear of people uh not going to see it or saying i mean what is that
that's still like and i've experienced that because i as you know i've had successes and failures and
um you know the day after something doesn't do well or if it you know gets bad reuse or people don't go
It's not like anything in your literal life has changed,
you know, your real life, your tangible life.
It's just how you feel, you know, you feel embarrassed.
You feel like I, you know, damn, I wasn't, you know, I wanted to be the winner.
But, you know, winning doesn't always happen.
Usually doesn't happen.
So, you know, how do you live with that?
And when you take the chance,
it's still important that you took the leap and you went for it.
And failure can be in not taking the chance.
And as you get older, I think,
that's something that you start to feel.
It's like, well, I just want to have this experience while I'm still here.
Just hearing you talk about your thinking in the context of the audience and also what you want to do,
I was just, in my mind, I remember how I did one of these interviews with Eddie Murphy.
And he said he only wants to do projects that he knows will work.
Like, he's not interested really in doing something that might be off-putting or aliening.
Like, if he's going to spend time on doing something, he wants to feel confident that it's going to work,
which doesn't quite sound like how you think about it.
Yeah, I mean, sometimes the audience has to sort of have time to...
I feel like this has happened to a bunch of movies I've done,
which is it takes the audience a few years to get it.
Like Zoolander or something like that.
You know, like Zoolander when it came out was not a big hit.
Because what a weird world, what a weird character.
But once they became acclimated to it, then, you know,
then it became something that they really, you know, liked.
Reality Bites was the first film you directed.
Yeah.
That's a film that really seemed to speak to Gen X both then
and still continues to speak to them.
Do you think that film is representative of any specific generational values that you hold?
I feel like the film is a timepiece of where we were,
at that moment in time
as put through
a kind of a pop culture lens
and it was written
by Helen Childress
who was taking her experience
and trying to
kind of encapsulate
the issues
that she was dealing with
I think I was coming to add
more as my character
honestly
you know the Michael character
who was the guy
kind of trying to commodify it
a little bit
and was outside of it a little bit
so in a way
I feel like
that's what the movie is
like Helen was Lelena and I was Michael, and we improvised a lot as she was rewriting the script
when we were working on it. So that was my experience of making that movie. I do feel like
generationally, though, the issues in that movie are kind of evergreen sort of issues.
Oh, I strongly disagree. Really? Yeah. Really. Well, why do you think they're evergreen?
Well, I just think it's that moment in time where you're having to figure out how to, if you have parents who've
supported you or whatever,
that you're having to cut the cord
and figure out
how to go out
into the world.
Yeah, yeah.
Find yourself.
Well,
I 100% agree with
that aspect of it.
The aspect of the film
that, to me,
feels very much like a time capsule
and representative of a specific
Gen X attitude that has basically
disappeared is the
anxiety about the possibility
of selling out.
And I think now
young creative people,
it's like maybe just because
they've realized it's so hard to actually
make a limit.
the concept of selling out is the total phantom that doesn't exist for people anymore.
Because it's almost like...
It's like anybody's going to give me money?
Of course I'll take it.
But I think a lot of that is because of how social media has changed,
how people can upload their lives to everyone directly, you know?
And I think...
No, what's the connection? I don't...
Just that she was making a little documentary on her video camera
that then she had to give to Michael to put on...
you know the MTV version of what that was and now you just go straight to the internet and I think
young people are expected to do that now and to create their own movie and get it out into the
world and I think it plays into what you're saying which is it's almost like if you're not
selling out you're not doing what you should be doing yeah and I feel that with my kids I see that
pressure on them when I see their friends and you know what they post and their their image of what
you know, they put out to the world and it's a, it's a responsibility. And if you don't do that,
you're not part of what's going on. So I feel like there's almost a pressure to have to do that.
And, you know, another project I think you wanted to make for a long time was an adaptation of what
makes Sammy Run. Yeah. Bud Schulberg novel. You tried for years to get that made. And I thought
this, so for people who don't know the book, it's a story about a Jewish character named Sammy Glick.
who's sort of a conniving, amoral striver in Hollywood
and his unquenchable thirst to succeed in that world.
And I thought that's an interesting movie
for a young, successful Jewish man in Hollywood
to want to make.
What was it about that book that resonated with you?
Well, I thought the story was kind of, you know,
it's this prototypical story of a guy that comes from nothing to do whatever it takes to get to
the top. And I think Bud Schulberg always saw it as kind of a metaphor for anybody who wants to get
to the top, that mindset of it doesn't matter, you just do whatever it takes. That's why I think
the novel resonates. I think there's always been a resistance to it. And I can understand why. For a long
time, I was very frustrated because I felt like, well, this story should be made. But, you know,
the flip side of it is that it can be looked at as you're shining a spotlight on a Jewish
character who is this self-hating Jew who is willing to do whatever. And, you know,
do you think that was the resistance to making it? I think, I mean, partly, I think so. I think
it's always been hard to make show business stories, you know, in Hollywood, because people in the
business feel like the outside world isn't interested in the inside baseball of it, though
I've always been attracted to those kinds of stories. And I do, you know, it's funny, I think
about it now, and I would love to see that story made. What I worry about is how people would
interpret it on the outside, you know, and that's as a Jewish person. Do you think there are
ways in which after October 7th being Jewish in Hollywood has been trickier to navigate, or have
things felt different? I think just being a Jewish person feels different. And I think it's an
environment that growing up, I grew up an incredibly sheltered Upper West Side environment. I never
experienced anti-Semitism. I heard about it, but I was, you know, never around it. So the reality of
that, to start feeling that now where other people have felt it their whole lives in other parts of
the world and, you know, in other parts of our country. And to see the spike and the rise in
anti-Semitic violence is, you know, something that I never thought I'd experience in my
lifetime and feeling what my kids are feeling, too, and how incredibly politicized it all is,
and how complicated it is, because with the social media universe and all of it, it's almost
impossible to really talk about it in a really level-headed sort of way where you can hear
other people's ideas because people are just kind of like shouting at each other on social
media. But the reality of it is really frightening. Yeah. But has any of that reality in any way
filtered into your working life? I don't know. I mean, I think it's also a choice of as a
creative person where you want to put your energy, you know. In terms of the business, I think there have
always been those misconceptions of like, you know, of what, of how, you know, Jews are involved in
Hollywood. And that's always been a thing. And a lot of that also is, I think, a result of the fact
that there were a lot of successful Jewish people who started the Hollywood movie industry.
And so it's sort of like folded in on itself. But the reality of that,
world now is so completely different. It's just, you know, the Jewish population is so small.
You know, it took me a long time to even realize that in my sheltered world, you know, what is it,
20 million Jews in the whole world or something like that. So the proportion of success, I mean,
it's a very tough thing to navigate. And I feel like right now in the world, there's just so much
hate and antipathy that's out there, and it's not limited to anti-Semitism. But that's something
Jewish people are feeling, but people are feeling it all over, too. I have no smooth segue to get
out of the anti-Semitism. I'm just going to take a hard left. I, you know, in my reading of your
career, around 2010, there's a real change happens. Starting 2010, you really did a lot fewer of
kind of like the big, broad comedies. And you started to do films like you did three Noah
Bomback movies, you did Secret Life of Walter Middy, Brad's status. And these are all movies that are
really about middle-aged guys working through the big questions. Was doing those films the
result of a conscious decision that you wanted to start doing a different kind of film and stop
doing what you had been doing before? Yeah, I think around that time I moved back to New York. I'd
been living in L.A. for 20 years, and we decided to move back here where I grew up, and I wanted to
try to spend more time at home. But also, it was, yeah, it was like a point where, for me, really,
where it like kind of changed
in terms of my outlook
was after Zoolander 2.
Oh.
It was the feeling of like,
oh, okay, this is what everybody wants this.
All right, I'm going to do it.
And I had fun doing it and then nobody wanted it.
And I was like, well, but you said you wanted it.
And really, was it that bad?
You know, that was where I really was like,
oh, I have to make a choice here
where like I'm not going to do that
if I want to do these other things
and wait for the right opportunity to come up
and not go off.
And, oh, if somebody's offering me, you know, Zoolander 3, then I'm going to go do that.
But Zoolander 2 gave me the gift of nobody offering me Zoolander 3 because nobody wanted it at that time.
So it was like, okay, here's some space.
I have to live with that feeling, the feeling of not winning.
And also, you know, my marriage wasn't in a great place.
And there's a lot going on that really, for me, kind of, I think I got a little bit clearer on,
on what I wanted and what my priorities were.
But I think 2010 was sort of like the beginning of that, moving out of L.A.
Yeah.
You mentioned your marriage was in a bad place,
and you and your wife, Christine Taylor, separated for a while and reconciled.
And I saw her talking on Drew Barrymore's talk show,
and she brought up the idea of sort of the separation,
reconciliation being the result of what she called adult growth spurts,
which I thought was a nice way of putting it.
What was your growth spurt during that time?
Well, when we separated, it was just, you know, having space to see what our relationship was, what my life felt like when we weren't in that relationship, how much I cared about my family, how much I loved our family unit.
I think we both, as she said, we both kind of took care of ourselves separately, and eventually, it was a, I don't know, it was like three or four years, really, that we weren't together, but we always were connected, and in my mind, I never didn't want us to be together. And I don't know where Christine was, you'd have to ask her, but COVID put us all together in the same house.
This is an act of God.
Yeah.
And it was almost like a year of living in the same house before we were actually together.
But I'm so grateful for it.
And not that many people I do come back together when they separate.
I mean, a lot of people do, I'm sure.
But there's nothing like that when you do come back because you really do have so much more of an appreciation for what you have because we know we could not have it, too.
Um, my understanding is you're working on a documentary about, uh, here are parents.
Yeah.
The, the, uh, Anne Mera, uh, Jerry Stiller, the comedy team, uh, people don't know that the
comedy team.
They certainly know that your dad played George Costanza's dad on, on Seinfeld.
And I, I was thinking about the fact you're working on a documentary about them.
And it sort of occurred to me that kind of outside of, uh, like a therapeutic setting,
there aren't a lot of opportunities for people.
to sort of in a structured way, sit and think about their parents.
So what has working on the documentary revealed to you about your understanding of your parents?
Well, I think it's really made me look at my own relationship to my parents more than anything.
Every time I want to make the movie about them, I'm realizing it's all kind of,
reflecting back on my own issues that I have with them and how much, you know, I mean,
you're right. Like, I feel so fortunate that I have all this footage of my parents and our
family from these Super 8 movies that my dad took and then I took and recordings my dad made
hours and hours and just talking into a tape machine. Talking, talking with my mother as they
were writing sketches or sometimes he just record us just because he wanted to have our
voices but I see my I see the world I grew up and I see my father I was just thinking about it
this morning just how much of I love my father but also that tension of like not wanting to be
my father but everybody loves my father and so like I would love to be loved as my father is
because he was a lovely person but then there's also the thing of like oh but I'm me and that was
something I was feeling since I was, you know, a teenager. And I, and I really, the conflict between
understanding that people had affection for your father and also you're not wanting to be your father,
but wanting people's affection? I think, no, I think it was more just wanting to individuate
from my father, wanting to be my own person, you know, like not being into their comedy and their
thing. I, you know, I wanted to be a serious director. And then when I discovered comedy, it was,
well, it wasn't like what they did. It was like, I like SCTV.
or Saturday Night Live, you know, and not until I was older, was I able to really just appreciate, you know, what they did.
But all the while, my parents were so supportive, especially my dad. My mom was a little bit of a tougher audience.
And I think my dad was very overprotective and concerned about the rejection in show business that you have to deal with.
Yeah, I don't know. I mean, it's a hard thing when you look up to a,
apparent so much in terms of just their like what their essence is like jerry's essence was so sweet
um that you know you look at i look at myself and go that you know am i am i that person you know
am i as as good as he was because i've and maybe that's a good thing to want to aspire to but i feel
like that's what he was are you i don't know i mean i try i try but you know also by the way he obviously
wasn't perfect, but he, you know, he wasn't one of those guys who was like, you know, win, win.
That wasn't his drive. His drive was just to kind of create and to try to protect his family
and to be loved because he came from a background of parents who were very poor and there was a lot
of fighting between his parents and depression. And he wasn't nurtured like that. But he didn't
go on to not nurture his children.
He went the opposite way.
He was so nurturing.
So, you know, that's what he was.
Wait, so you're sitting on a couch, so this is all appropriate.
I'm going to lie down now.
But that was your dad.
Your mom was a tougher critic?
She was.
She was, she was, you know, Irish Catholic, very funny.
I think I actually share more of my mom's sense of humor than my dad's.
She was a serious actor.
who then my dad drew into comedy,
who came up with the idea for them to do their comedy act,
to make money after they'd been married for five or six years in the 50s.
And I think she never loved comedy.
She was very good at it.
I think she was more naturally adapted it than my dad, actually.
My dad was funny, but his dream was to be Eddie Cantor or Jack Benny.
My mother was more of like a polished stage, you know, like at nightclub.
She really just knew how to work a crowd.
And she wrote plays.
And she wrote plays.
And she was more interested in writing and reading and acting in different kinds of things.
She, I think, always was like when she saw me doing comedy, she was like, oh, that's great.
But I liked, you know, I liked Greenberg or I like permanent midnight.
Yeah.
Yeah.
There's a New Yorker profile of you from around the time of Walter Middy.
And the writer mentioned that you had been developing a project.
I want to say it was called The Mirror
about a Hollywood success who
was worried he was a sellout and wanted to become
like a truth teller or something and kind of
the writer made hay of this is like a parallel
for you. But the little
tidbit in there is that your mom
vetoed the project? Yeah, right.
What was that about? Well,
in the idea the movie was, that's funny, I forgot about
that. My family had to play my family.
And also there was a psychiatrist
who sort of like
kicks off the whole thing. I think it gives my character a pill or something. But I wanted
Gene Wilder to play that guy. And I sent it to my mom and to Gene Wilder, and they both
nixed it. Gene Wilder, he's like, I think you're great, but I do not like this project. I thought
it was really good. My mother didn't want to go there. Now, that's very atypical of her because
when I was starting out, like audition tapes or I did an audition reel for Saturday Night Live,
where I had my parents in it, and they were in so many things that I did.
It was never a thing, but for some reason, that specific role, and maybe it was what, I don't know,
I wish I could ask her.
Just, you mentioned Saturday Night Live, you were on it sort of famously or infirmously
for about four episodes or something like that, because you kind of wanted to make short films
for them, and you could tell it wasn't going to work out.
But the thing that I'm curious about is, what is the conversation?
conversation like when you go into Lauren Michael's office and tell him, I'm leaving the show that like every young comedian in the country aspires to being on. What was his response? He was like, okay. That's my lord. Men's going to do what Ben's going to do. It wasn't great, but I knew that I couldn't do well there because I wasn't great at live performing. Like my mom,
Mom, like, would have been better on that show.
I got too nervous.
It wasn't, I didn't enjoy it, and I wanted to be making the short film.
So, like, in the moment, there were reasons why, and I had this opportunity to do this MTV show, and it had been a dream to be on Saturday Night Live.
But, like, looking back on it, I don't remember exactly how I had the, you know.
Fortitude, gumption.
I was going to say, yeah.
I know the word you're going to say.
The gumption.
Thank you very much to do that.
But for whatever reason, I followed that instinct.
Sorry to jump around, but I read your dad's memoir.
Yeah.
Oh, wow.
Married to laughter.
And there was a little segment in there that I wanted to read to you and have a question about it.
It's nothing weird.
This is supposed to be heartwarming and sort of whimsical here at the end.
He wrote, what words of wisdom can I give my children?
See past the hype and the glitz and ask yourself why you want to perform.
form. It may take years to arrive at the answers, but understanding the reasons will help you
to keep the dream alive and reach your goals. Do you feel like you understand your reasons for why you do
what you do? Hmm. That's interesting because I, when I hear that, I know that my dad knew why he
wanted to perform. That's a good question. Um, I think so. I mean, for me, I think it's about
trying to get closer to expressing my true self, trying to somehow make something that
feels truthful and real and maybe is just, yeah, more opening up myself in a way that's
closer to the bone and trying to have the sort of courage to kind of go, keep going for that.
For me, it's figuring it out is like just what life is about.
It's the big question.
Like, what are we here?
I haven't figured that out yet.
And I think as I continue to try to figure that out, while I'm still here, I feel like that's
what I want to try to make the work that I do about, too.
I probably should have brought this up when it's more thematically appropriate, but I
thought maybe it's a good place to end also.
But I love a movie you made mid-90s called Heavyweight's, which is about a lunatic named
Tony Perkis.
Perkins, yeah.
Played by you, who buys, you know, for a lack of better term, a fat camp.
Right.
And, you know.
This is a Disney movie, by the way.
A Disney movie.
They're not making this movie today.
Essentially tries to torture the kids into losing weight.
My sister and I used to watch the movie over and over again.
We had the VHS tape.
I still remember lines from it, which I'm not going to subject you to.
But, and then about 10 years later, Dodgeball, you did a character named White Goodman,
who's also the bad guy.
who's trying to sort of professionalize a dodgeball league.
Those are the, it's essentially the same character you transposed from one film into the other, right?
Sh, damn.
No, they're not.
Totally different.
One has blonde hair and one has really dark hair.
One has a mustache.
Even the voice is the same.
The voice is basically the same.
So it's not just me.
Thank you.
No, I mean, it was like, you know, like those are two.
like the most fun experiences
I've ever had on movies
playing those characters
and we did the reading for Dodgeball
Ross and Thurber had written the movie
and was directing it
and then I was like I don't know
like what voice I used to do
I don't have that many different voices
and I kind of just went into that voice
and it's like that's great
I was like well I kind of did that in headway
it's like oh it's all right whatever
and I honestly never thought
not that I was like trying to like pull one over
it's just like I never thought anybody
would really like you know
30 years later be
talking to me on the New York Times
about like
calling out heavyweights
and dodgeball. It just wasn't in my
frame of reference. Yeah.
So long term thinking.
If I could go back
but no, yeah, it was just sort of like
all right, I'll just go forward and do this
this one. Well, thank you very much for
taking all the time today. I appreciate it. Yeah, it's great talking to you
man. And you know we're
supposed to talk again. We do two.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, right. You do the little follow-up.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Great.
Please don't refer to it as the little follow-up.
Isn't it usually like a phone call or something?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, but I really think about it.
I'm sorry.
After the break, I called Ben back with a few more questions about how comedy has changed.
I think it was just like kind of a, I don't want to say a more innocent time 20 years ago because it wasn't that innocent.
but weirdly, kind of, it was.
Hi, Ben. How are you?
It's the follow-up, the little follow-up.
Just because you said little follow-up, I'm going to rake you over the coals.
Ben, I'm determined to elicit a nugget of severance information
that will make the obsessives on the internet go nutty.
So without giving too much away, there's an episode in the season,
in the upcoming season, where someone, and it's not clear who,
is walking and whistling a melody,
which I believe is the melody of Gordon Lightfoot's the wreck of the Edmund
Sterold. Is that correct?
I don't think that's a spoiler to say that.
Wait, but do you deny?
Do you deny that that song's lyrics
are perhaps a Rosetta Stone
for deciphering exactly what Severance and Lumen
are up to?
I'm not going to say anything,
and, you know, I want to leave all options open,
but also, no, I'm a Gordon Lightfoot fan.
I think it was incredible.
Oh, my God, yes. And I used
carefree highway at the end of Escape of DeNorah. Oh, yeah. And I will hopefully always be able to use
his music and movies because I think he's just one of the great artists of our time.
Let me shift gears. I was thinking about how when you came back to a certain kind of comedy
with Zoolander 2, the way you put it was, you know, that was an example of you thinking people
wanted something, you gave it to them, and then it turned out they didn't want it. And it made me
curious if, sort of despite Zoolander 2, if you have gotten or still get pitches for a new
Fokker's movie?
Yes.
The interesting thing, because it was, you know, came out a couple of years ago, I think,
that I was like the same age that De Niro was when we did the first movie and kind of like
what would have evolved in that, you know, that now that I, my character that Greg would
have kids who made me one of them getting married. So it kind of, you know, was an interesting
sort of mirror to the first movie.
But for me, I guess I look at it differently as a director than as an actor.
And if there was something that came together on Fockers that everybody liked, that was fun.
You know, I'm open to that.
But I think maybe for me as a director, it's my head is in a different place, you know,
probably even post-Sanamoire and severance and stuff.
Basically, are you saying sort of the stakes feel a little bit lower when you're just acting in it?
no it's just a well no it's just a different like a different creative experience for me i think
you know like it's um it's really more like my my personal interest as a filmmaker i think right now
is like kind of like i don't know like i think it's i think it's really hard to it's really hard
to make a comedy you know in a way like when i'm as a you know when you're directing uh i kind of
like the freedom also of not having to direct a comedy where you can any comedy that comes into
something that's a dramatic is usually welcome if the tone is clear but it's sort of like a bonus
you know and not an expectation and if I'm really being honest like that's that's part of it too
and I was thinking about how when we were talking about your comedies from the 2000s you said
there were a lot of great things in them that we don't have now and also that you don't know
if that can be recreated. But what don't we have now in comedy that we did have back then?
I think it's just the freedom, you know, the freedom to, like, not worry about how something
was going to get interpreted. And I just think it was sort of, in a weird way, was a more,
it was a freer time because there was less analysis given to, even to the people who were
making the comedy. I think it was just like kind of a, I don't want to say a more innocent time
20 years ago because it wasn't that innocent, but weirdly kind of it was, you know?
You know, I just was thinking about this lately in a different context and thinking about how
there's like this whole universe of comedy podcast now where people are saying whatever the
hell they want to say, seemingly with no regard for who's going to be upset about it or not.
I just wonder, is it your experience that, like, comedy feels trickier?
Well, I can only speak from my own, you know, my own experience, which is I, I definitely am aware
at that.
But again, I also never really thought about it that way back in the 2000s, too.
I don't think I was ever, I think I'm the same person.
I wasn't on that regard, like in terms of, you know, I wasn't as, I wasn't the guy who was going to go out there and, you know, say whatever.
And, like, I think I always had that self-awareness that probably just was, you know, part of who I am.
Let me try and, I'm trying to sort of wrap things up with a bit of a bow here.
But I saw somewhere that your ambition early on was to try to make movies as good as,
Albert Brooks's movies.
Have you lived up to that?
Oh, God, no.
I mean, he just basically, you know, like, created it all on his own.
And I think he had a persona that he, you know, developed.
And I think, I guess, you know, you could say Woody Allen did it too.
But for me, there was just something about the tone of his humor that is so, you
unique. So yeah, for me, the answer is no. I mean, I think I've been able to make some things that I feel
proud of, and I love being a movie director and actor and all that, but I feel like what he did
is unique and really has not ever been equaled. Do you have specific ambitions for what you do with
your career? Um, I mean, I really just want to keep on getting closer to like making something that
I feel as good as, you know, it can be
and that is as honest as it can be.
That to me is, you know, really satisfying.
Ben, thank you very much for taking all the time to talk with me.
I appreciate it.
Yeah, I've enjoyed it.
And this was a good follow-up.
I feel like it wasn't like a little whatever, you know.
Well, good luck with your little TV show.
My little thing.
Your little New York Times.
thing you got, Dave. Good for you.
That's Ben Stiller. The second season of Severance
airs January 17th on Apple TV Plus. This conversation was produced by
Wyatt Orm. It was edited by Annabelle Bacon, mixing by Sophia Landman.
Original music by Dan Powell, Diane Wong, and Marion Lazzano.
Photography by Phila Montgomery. Our senior booker is Priya Matthew and Seth Kelly
is our senior producer. Our executive producer is Allison Benedict. Special thanks to Rory Walsh,
Renan Morelli, Jeffrey Miranda, Nick Pittman, Maddie Masiello, Jake Silverstein, Paula Schumann, and Sam Dolnick.
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