The Jacqueline Monroe Show - 143- Sundaycast: ????????

Episode Date: January 26, 2021

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Hey guys, happy Sunday. It's episode 143. I'm going to ask you to bear with me on this episode. I'm a new mom and the energy levels might get questionable at certain points. So yeah, welcome back to the show. hey guys what's up it's Jacqueline hi welcome back to the show happy Sunday coming to you live on a Sunday night with my puppy chilling on my couch um look I'm gonna do my best to recall what I did today to form a podcast episode for you guys because like The last thing I want. Okay. First of all, first of all, uh, still not getting, still not getting any sleep. My Apple watch, I guess my average sleep time is like two and a half hours right now.

So yeah. Um, still not sleeping. So the last thing I want to do is show up on today's episode with a topic that I have to, um, like stick to the whole time or, or give you guys some like fun story that I have to remember the detail. Like I can't, I literally want to tell you guys bullet points and then clock out and like leave the show. Sorry. I do this seven days a week. This is probably, uh, I said, I think yesterday, the episode yesterday was the hardest one I've ever done. I think this might be a, this is starting to get, uh, sketchy cause I'm not sleeping. And, uh, anyway, so hi, welcome back to the show. Hope you're having a great Sunday. um let's get into it I I think what I will do is I'm gonna try to remember

fuck this is now the Jacqueline Monroe show is now how to raise a dog like this is how to how to raise a puppy podcast um like I should rebrand at this point I feel like all I'm gonna talk about for the next year is training a puppy and raising a dog so if you're not into this I'm sorry um but it's it's relevant it's current to my life that's basically what the show is it's like an audio diary so this is what's going on in my life right now um so I want to mention like tips and tricks I've learned so far with training and if I can even remember but like I'm literally reading my to-do list to you guys today let's start off with it's Sunday morning um we did not crate train we crate train I think my crate gets delivered uh tomorrow

so a whole okay okay so hi brain cells guys it literally got delivered today and I set it up that's how that's how effing tired I am I don't want to swear in front of my baby um so we're gonna crate train Sunday night tonight so my baby and I slept in on Sunday morning this morning and it's our last night together before he has to go to jail every night and it was great he likes to lay on my back and just like cuddle me which you know it's perfect there's no I can't I have no complaints you guys know the first two nights he shit in the bed five times each night uh explosive diarrhea thank god I had some protection pads and some shit down to like block the shit literally so um but yeah it's improving

I still am not getting any sleep anyway so we slept in Sunday morning and I just feel I still feel drunk of drunk of tiredness drunken okay I feel so tired I'm uh I feel drunk I am so tired I feel drunk there we go I woke up took care of his needs before mine and 30 minutes later I'm like where the fuck's my coffee I haven't even drank a coffee yet I hadn't taken care of myself yet so I was like because here's the thing I just feel like he needs so much attention and and care especially first thing in the morning I'm getting his breakfast ready I'm like you know taking him out I'm like doing all this stuff and then I'm like why am I outside letting this dog piss when I still I'm like in my pj I'm one of those people in the neighborhood with slippers like my

hair's all fucked up from sleeping I still have my retainer in it's bad so I need to figure out how to like wash my face brush my tea drink water make a coffee and like do that prior to him out going outside so anyways um fuck so anyways I have on my note here on my planner that I made coffee because I write that every day because it makes me happy Sunday we slept in I took him out he didn't go to the bathroom because he shit inside um yeah I didn't mention that so 5 a.m I hear a squirt noise and it's him shitting the bed again um I think it's gonna be a problem that I sleep so hard I think it's gonna be a problem that I literally could like what is the Chris's vacation line she couldn't hear a dump truck drive through a natural glycerin plant isn't it that

fucking line that old man aunt bethany can't hear yeah that's fucking me when i sleep i don't know what's happening so i don't i didn't really hear him move in the bed but he was smart now i have to give give it give him this another trigger warning this episode might have a lot of um talk in it again he goes on his on the on the p pads or whatever that i set set out on the bed And I only set one out and he used it. So I'm like proud of him for that. That's progress. Um, you know, the first time it was like, well, I didn't tell you guys, I wasn't really

honest. Um, I said he, I said I had protection layers down on my bed because look, I'd have a crate. I just want to snuggle with my new puppy. Okay. I know maybe the pros out there would be like, never sleep with your dog. Fuck it. Or when you're training them, I don't care. He should not, he should on my pillow.

He should on my pillow. he shit on my pillow, not the one next to me, my pillow. So, um, progress has been made last night. He shit on the pad. Well, this morning it was like fucking five in the morning. I didn't hear him again. You could drive a fucking dump truck. Why am I swearing now? You could drive, I'm so tired. You could drive a dump truck, their nitroglycerin plan. I want to hear it. Um, but anyways, this morning I took him out just to get him in the routine of waking up and going outside and he didn't go of course because he like I said he already shit so um I made coffee um I had so many chores to do today it's Sunday right so let me just like go

on my list here I had to get gas I had to do laundry I had to paint my nails do a bunch of emails I did that at like fucking 10 p.m um and a podcast which I'm doing now plan my week I had clean up so today was like yeah just typical weekend organize your life day um I decided to like deep clean the floors and you know all the surfaces where he'd been you know laying around and peeing on so guys it's been bad like I've been I've been I've been really discouraged with my potty training so far. Um, I don't think I'm hard, hard enough on him or he's too low. I, he's fucking retarded. So he doesn't understand what no means yet or scolding. He thinks it's fun. So, um, I know it can't be for saying retarded. I used to scold people speaking of, uh, scolding

people and scolding my dog I was I have a um uncle with a disability and my like all of my elementary school uh interactions were if I caught a kid at any age I'd be like the first grader talking to the eighth grader to tell him not to say retarded if I ever heard anyone say retarded I would go after them and I said and I would tell them that I have a retarded uncle and that's offensive that was me all of elementary school um so yeah I'm sorry for just throwing that word out there in regards to my dog and him not understanding that when he pisses on the rug it's not okay because he's retarded so um yeah I'm a bit discouraged I know it's gonna take a long time but I don't know I think I need to start using physical abuse this plane

get the belt out dude I'm so tired I'm starting to sound really negative um so yeah so I cleaned up like the surfaces you know I cleaned I had like dishes you know I just like did my Sunday chores then I went got gas uh and my neighbors were having I think they were having like a party today yeah it sounded like there was like music going and there's all this action midday like day drinking so I'm like great so I'm gonna get out of here get the puppy out of and um we headed up got uh we got the laundry done got gas uh I took him I took him on a walk I'm like by the beach and he I think he was in shock like I had his little harness on which he hates which we're working on because I'm making him wear it in the house so he gets used to it

and I get out of the car and I set him down to like walk we're I was gonna go like sit with him on the beach does that make sense I wasn't gonna like I don't know like I don't I feel like he's too he's still getting over his sickness I don't know I'm like paranoid of like letting him roam where all the other dogs are and there's like I don't know who knows if that's insane of me but I just want to hold him and sit there at the beach and you know wait for my laundry as you know I have a laundry service here I just like driving and do a laundry I don't know that's like a I feel like that's a quirky thing about I don't want to call myself quirky but if I had to say what's the weirdest thing I do I literally drive 20 minutes to do my laundry um and the reason for

that is it gets me out of out of the house it's a road trip I enjoy going up to this particular location and uh I don't like I don't like feeling fucking poor here in the city of the laundromats because they take quarters. They don't accept cards. So I go to this particular laundromat because it's the only one that'll accept my visa. I can swipe my card and start my laundry. I don't have to fucking collect quarters like a fucking homeless person. I'm so tired. So, um, where was I at? I took him out. Oh yeah. He was in shock because we took, we got out of the car and he wouldn't, he would, I want to let him like, I'm the one in control. Like I'm his master, but he didn't move an inch left right forward back nothing like when I just set him out on the

we were on the sidewalk on like the grass part by the beach he just sat there or just stood there and like I thought he was dead he was so stiff and just shocked about I don't know if it was about being outside I honestly think it might have been he smelled the ocean smelt he smelled the ocean and he was like this he got high or something from the salt in the air because we were that we were that close you know so um I ended up carrying him and walking with him like guys I think I'm going crazy because I have an exercise I'm so first of all I'm too tired I haven't exercised um in fact I tried to throw my yoga mat down today and he completely he attacked it scratched it you know it doesn't he doesn't understand like I gotta work on that

with him being mindful of my yoga practice and my space when I'm doing my sun salutations to like move my body because like it's been a rough first week guys I'm being honest um I think it's because I'm also just so over I'm drained of tiredness that like everything sucks um what else is on my list here I said I'm gonna read my to-do list and then get out of here basically I yeah I came home I did my nails I do it every Sunday I plan my week and my planner um I don't even remember did I just chill I'm sure I chilled I'm sure I like laid flat at some point um what did I you know when you like end the day and you're like I don't even know what I did today that is how I have to look at my itinerary my fucking planner here to remember

um this is a giant ass waste of your time please like honestly here's what I want to comment on that's wild to me and I do it too so like I'm not making like this is not a I'm not making fun of you or judging you this is literally just what it is now it's 2021 people tune in to other people's podcasts YouTube videos like whatever and listen to the most like 101 I'm alive I'm a human being it's Sunday I did my laundry I have a I have a new dog I did my dishes I cleaned my rugs like this is the most basic bitch conversation or like information ever to go through your ears right now and somehow you're still listening and it's I'm just commenting on how like wild that is to me because I know I do I love listening

to podcasts I feel like I know everyone that I listen to like really fucking well like sometimes better than family members because I listen to them so much so hi um you guys are on this on this journey with me I do it seven days a week I don't know um what's gonna happen to my health over the next week with my puppy but we're gonna find out and you're gonna listen and you're gonna know you're gonna we're gonna be in this together so um now I'm podcasting and then um oh yeah I did emails later and then yeah that's it so happy Sunday um I really wish I had more brain cells oh I was gonna talk about um my puppy tips and tricks uh, I have treats on me at all times, which is, it's been advised. I'm going through the,

um, what is it? McCann method. I'm doing the McCann method of dog training. Um, yeah, I have treats with me at all times. I need to start getting better at saying yes. Whenever he, like, for example, if he sits, which he's already doing, which is insane. I didn't understand how quickly they learn it was like I was in shock when he saw it for the first time and like he like got it like to watch him think in real time and do it for the first time was like watching my kid take their first step like it was like oh like how is this like it makes me love him even more like his little brain is here here I'll go back to what I said about the r-word and calling him in our chart um i'm so tacky and offensive today i'm sorry uh he's really not i mean the kid the

kid sits when i ask him to so that's fucking brilliant um but yeah i have treats on me so whenever he does what i want him to like for example sit i need to say instead of being like yay like i get all excited right i need to say yes like associate the obeying like him doing the action correctly with the word yes and then um you say yes and then you give them the treat and you have to make sure when you're feeding it to them they're still in the position that you want them in so for example if you want them to lay down if they stand up to eat the treat that's a that's bad you want them to stay laying down while they eat the treat um i'm trying to not say his name too repetitively right now because it becomes useless like they won't think it's

special to hear their name. So one of the, uh, tricks I've been doing or not, it's not even a trick. One of the training things I do with him is I'll go around my apartment and hide. Cause I don't have like someone else. Cause if I had another person to do this with, we'd stand on each side of the room and call his name and then he'd go back and forth and get a treat. So I'm doing is hiding. I'm like going in the kitchen, going in the bathroom, whatever. And I am calling his name and then he runs to me from like the opposite end of the house and then then I reward him for hearing his name and coming to me so there's all these little details I mean there I think you just have to have like I'm glad I have a ton of patience because I don't think I would

be like you really like I okay I I confessed shit I can am I losing my voice do I have COVID what's happening um so fucking um I literally went brain dead they left the chat the cells and brain are off the grid right now so I training him and do I want to pause this re-listen to it back and remember what I was going to say absolutely not so I'm training I have treats calling his name sit stand fuck I don't know maybe tune in tomorrow I'll probably remember I'm probably going to talk more about

training my dog tomorrow I mean that's about it guys happy Sunday oh shit I'm pissed I did I just let you guys hang there, I'm letting you hang, leaving you hanging, okay, let me, like, really visualize me training him what I was trying to tell you, so I'm calling his name in the other room, he runs to me, gets the treat, so we did that, I taught him how to sit, and I said yes, um, he, oh, I was gonna talk about funny things he does around the apartment, I think, like he likes pulling my shower curtain um he likes biting my sweatpants like he loves and like that's where I'm yelling at him because I don't want him to see people with loose clothes and like go and grab their fucking ankles and like bite their um clothes and like pull at him

so I'm cutting him off when he does that um but yeah he's a little or he likes to chew my furniture already so we're yelling yelling at him over that um oh fuck I'm like literally I blacked out I got the crate right I was like I forgot I got it today and I'm I like literally set it up put it in my room I'm not looking at it that's probably why I forgot out of sight out of mind so I put him in the crate or I let him get adjusted to the crate today after I set it up I let him just this is one of the things the McCann method advises when when you crate train you let them warm up to it first like you just have the door open you set it out you don't tell them to do anything and as soon as they get curious and go over to it you reward them so you give them a

treat and then once they like go all the way in then you give them a jackpot then give them like five treats and so then they're inside and it's a positive positive association like them being in the crate means food so I'll be feeding him in there from now on only like that's he'll probably only he'll I think for the first year of training I'll feed him in the crate um and then tonight we're gonna sleep he's gonna sleep in there for the first time and that's gonna be a shit show because he's bonded with me now for what like three or four nights sleeping and he's probably gonna cry and I'm probably gonna cave and take him out and literally fail at training but I don't know I feel like I'm gonna be I I'm so here I live here I'm not going anywhere I feel

like he's gonna be with me be with me all the time like I guess it's gonna be nice to have that uh training solid with him in the crate so when I do leave like I just plan on you know having a wild Friday night someday this year I don't know maybe it'll happen and I just realized like when that happens I need my dog to be in there in his den in a peaceful state and not crying his eyes out because he never goes in there like I have to force him to sit in there so probably all day tomorrow I'm gonna do that for like or do like an hour at a time feed him in there but yeah so today he um I didn't even tell the story he kind of warmed up to it went in I locked the door he started whimpering so that's fun um yeah so all right I think that's it for real happy Sunday

uh guys I've been doing this since September 4th if I know I got people that haven't missed an episode so thanks for hanging in there with me throughout all all of this I know I've thrown you a lot of curveballs I went on about buying a cat for a good month that is obviously not the outcome of my pet choice for myself you know turn into a fucking dog um I think I teased yeah like every week I'm gonna have an interview and I'm gonna interview people I'm like where are the interviews you know I don't know uh just selfishly okay let me be honest I I feel like I'm in the rhythm of this interviews are fun I did enjoy interviewing family when I was home um it's I I'd say I do it once a week right that makes sense in the other days the other six days would be me

doing basically what I'm doing now but I have a lot going on outside the podcast and it's not like I can't do it all and have interviews scheduled once a week like that seems doable but I'm really trying to figure out the new puppy my work stuff the podcast the um just the rhythm of it all because I've been the heat's been turned up in the new year with me and my life so I'm just really trying to get on on top of it and uh I'm gonna not even try to be like yeah I'm professional I'm a professional I'm a rock star I can do it all I can fucking reach out get people on my you know my show once a week have interviews lined up for the whole year like I'm just not I don't even like here's the thing about that I could try really hard and push myself um however

I don't want to I'm not in a hurry interviews will come you know I feel like that's what makes this enjoyable for me is there isn't this pressure to like put on some like exquisite show and like have a ton of interviews and people on and like cross what's it called pollinate with other podcasters like I'm just not even mentally I don't know I'm taking this slow it's just like fun I don't know I enjoy this I hope you guys are like in the solo format too all right I need to I need to be just I need to stop right now um I'm gonna try to sleep good tonight probably won't happen because he's gonna be in the crate I'll let you guys know tomorrow what happens and how we sleep tonight. So tune in tomorrow. Subscribe to the podcast if you

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