The Jacqueline Monroe Show - 190- Saturdaycast: Q&A #22

Episode Date: March 15, 2021

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What's up, guys? It's episode 190. Welcome back to the show! hey what's up it's Jacqueline welcome back to the show Oh, Q&A number 22. Wow. I want to jump right into it. But first, please hit that subscribe button. I'm here seven days a week. This is my audio diary. I get on here every day and talk it out, talk about my life, talk about what's going on, whatever. And every Saturday, Saturday, every Saturday I do a Q&A. So here we go. Number 22, 22 weeks of this. Wow. Okay. um sorry I'm flustered I'm refraining from telling you guys the truth right now about the fact that it's not Saturday and it's Monday but I feel like a professional podcaster someone

in the in the industry would be like you just don't need to say that you just need to like play it cool uh you don't need to be too honest and too real with your audience about the fact that your mom visited this weekend instead of recording your podcast on Saturday you waited till Monday morning because you wanted to have the most time with her or you want to enjoy your time with her and not be caught up on a microphone talking about people's questions so you know what that's what's happening am I did I fail at podcasting every day now do I officially did I officially fail or is this I'm making up for I'm do I'm still completing 365 episodes this year or whatever I'm doing it every day and okay I need to just again shouldn't have I should not

have brought that up but now you know it's it's Monday it's not Saturday I do a Q&A every Saturday whatever hit that subscribe button I told you guys I can't lie I will not my brand is I will not lie to you I will not I'm trying to take you into my world and be real and yeah my mom visited me and this is what it is so um you'll still have a you'll still have seven episodes from last week no matter what happens it's gonna be in your inbox just you know me I go hard I'm the David Goggins podcasting at this point I'm doing an episode 70s just whatever all right and also head over to patreon now I gotta plug my patreon after that shit patreon.com slash tjms to support the show and get access to the behind the scenes content. I post extra videos. I post photos. I

post, I do shout outs every Friday. I do phone calls. It's like a, my little corner of the internet that's got a secret lock on it that you have to pay to play to enter the room and enjoy. So, um, patreon.com slash TJMS. All right. Let's just get to the first question. um first question here I have a whole list by the way you guys I didn't have a poll on Saturday again this is information I don't need to volunteer and say but I've been neglecting people's questions because I get so many that I have to like pick and choose so these are just like rolled over so you might have asked this and been waiting on it and now here you go um first question. Uh, what are you like your Zodiac sign? Oh Jesus. Am I like my Zodiac sign? I'm a cancer.

Is that that Jack Harlow song? So got a question. Are you a cancer? Yeah. It's something like that. Tyler hero. Is that the song? Got a question. Are you? Yeah. I'm a cancer. I'm a crab. Whatever that means um I know about my zodiac sign I don't really okay I'll be honest I'll be honest I mentally am not like in deep with believing zodiac stuff in astrology like I'm not I'm not sold I've never yeah I I think it's an interesting thing when there's a lot of coincidences about people's behaviors and their mannerisms and whatever the fuck um within the same zodiac sign like there's something about that that's interesting to me but as far as I know I'm a cancer I'm a rising whatever you're I'm a cancer but my rising sign is Leo so I'm I'm off the top

of my head because I don't know much about it like a cancer is like a I like to I'm a home body I need to like nurture something and take care of something I guess I am a water sign so I'm really intuitive and in tune with my emotions I I I move through life with feeling instead of thinking I get more of a feeling side of things uh or I lean towards whatever the feeling shit um I don't know because like every sign I feel like if you're a Gemini if you're a Pisces if you're a you know Aquarius uh Libra whatever every I feel like every sign's like oh they're super moody and super feisty and they have this trait but I don't know I feel like I'm pretty um the only thing I identify with is like oh yeah I am totally a homebody I love like taking care of the home there's some bullshit

about cancers liking soft things like soft blankets and that's true for me like cozy blankets I don't know I like cooking a lot and I guess that's a cancer thing um should I just read but then the rising leo means I'm like what people see me as is this like extroverted want to be heard in scene. No shit. I have a podcast seven days a week. I'm like, like rising Leo. Let me just put that in. That's how you guys probably perceive me. That's what shows. That's how I come across to people. Leo rising are bright and shiny, dramatic and everything up big. Okay, excuse me. Leo rising are bright and shiny, dramatic and do everything up big. Leo as a rising sign could be called fortunate. When at your best, you're confident, generous, and attractive to others

because of your warmth. With Leo rising, you've got the radiance of the sun. I guess it's a sun sign. Oh, Leo's planetary ruler at your front door. Yeah. Like that's how I, that's what I lead with. But then cancer, I think cancer moon, do you guys even, are you like rolling your eyes right now? Like why is she actually answering this question this deep? Cancer, uh, zodiac sign. Let me just read like the bullet points here. It looks like the sign looks like 69 sideways. It literally looks like, just look at the cancer sign. If you Google it, characteristics of cancer, Zodiac sign. Uh, I don't like this. I see the word clingy here. Not true. Self-pitying, not anymore.

oversensitive not anymore self-absorbed absolutely moody not really like I know I get all opinionated and I pop off but I think I'm I don't know if it's maturity I just feel like I don't identify with any of this shit but I feel like every sign says moody clingy I'm dependable caring adaptable responsive loyal yeah loyal for sure I don't get how people aren't loyal am I like I don't get it to be honest like the whole cheating and not being loyal thing and I just my brain goes if I'm dating you or whatever talking to you well talking is like you know how talking is dating or it's like it's like oh you're my I'm hooking up with you but it's like we're not we're not exclusive we're not a couple it's just like we're talking but that means you're like okay you know

what I mean but I like how um anyways what I'm saying is even in that stage I'm like I'm loyal Like I just, I'm not a, I, my brain shifts to like, it's you and only you until this implodes and doesn't work anymore. I have one focus. I'm on you. I don't have a wandering eye or whatever. So, but I know I'm, I'm one person. That's just my, it's just my way of being, but you know, there's so many, I don't know. All right. What else is, sorry. It's 10 minutes to answer one question. Are you like your zodiac sign, Jacqueline? Well, let me go into depth here on Google and see if I am. What is the personality of a cancer? Cancer personality is loyal, protective, intuitive, and caring. I agree with all that. On the bad side, cancers are overly

sensitive, moody, and vindictive. Oh, fuck. Anyways, so yeah, I feel like I am, and I totally think that Leo makes sense and I have I feel like the perfect balance of like I'm I retreat and I like to be in my home it's like a crab I'm like a little in my shell and I'm quiet and calm and I just want to like cook and sit in the house and like wear fuzzy socks and like whatever I can't like I'm and I want to like cry or something I don't cry a lot actually I really I'm not I don't do that cancer crying thing but on the other hand how I portray myself and like how I come across is that Leo rising sign which is like I'm bright and bold and uppity and or not uppity like you know upbeat and fun and you know I want to be like on on display like I want to put on a show and

okay so there you go that makes sense for me to be honest like it clicks it tracks fuck Jacqueline go to the next question Jesus Christ okay quick answer for this one how tall are you I'm five six um have you ever liked someone your friend was dating Jesus um have I ever liked someone my this is the next question have I ever liked someone my friend was dating no to be honest like I'm always if if anything like I okay like let's say we're all dating someone I'm dating the hottest one to me so I have no interest in their guys but then none of my friends are we don't have the same taste like in my life I've never had the same taste in guys as my friends it's just it's never been that way and I don't know whatever I feel

like that that would be like if my friend was dating someone I really liked that'd be really I don't know I feel like that's common though I don't know but no I can't say yes to that I my friends always said oh your type is hot as fuck you always go for the unattainable they're just so hot and like what the hell how do you even think that's possible to date how do you even go for them how are you even how do you even think that's an option or a possibility these guys that you date are like hot as fuck I don't know I guess like here's what I'll say about their my friends type is like there's I don't know I like that I just am more attracted to like the big ass alpha dude macho men who are total I mean not to call them I don't like to use

the word fuck boy anymore like it's that was I'm thinking of college and shit like they're like the football player the quarterback the fucking frat dude that's like you know it's just that that's my type or whatever. But my friends would be like, I like the, um, I like the environmental science major who writes for the school newspaper, you know, it's a different vibe. And so, yeah. Anyways, next question. What is a weird thing you love? Next question. What is a weird thing I love? um shit let me take a drink of water I feel like okay I was just talking about guys I kind of want to like think about dating right now like a thing I like in relationships

or like what's a weird thing I love that other people think is gross or gross maybe okay I know I love when like I'm waiting for my man or whatever and there's like that giddy anticipation like I'm gonna see them we're gonna hang out or like or I love when my man's in the shower and I'm just like waiting I'm just sitting there like all excited I'm waiting and they're showering I don't know is that weird that's just something that's like a specific thing came to my head I get all excited I mean do you guys relate to that do you under do you have you ever felt like that you're like oh I just can't wait for them to come here Jimmy's playing with a squeaker toy right now my puppy um next question what is the 17th pick in your phone

oh shit I have a new iPhone so this will be easy to scroll up my old phone I was like I don't know, like 20,000 pictures or some shit, some shit, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, it's a picture of Jimmy on my laptop, when the, I'm not bullshitting this, like, because I know I'm a millennial, and every millennial is fucking obsessed with Elon Musk, and whatever, but it's literally him putting his paw on my laptop, watching the Rogan-Elon episode, I think I posted a picture of that on my Instagram, so whatever, but yeah, that's my 17th pick. I know it sounds like I'm tired, and I kind of am, but you know what? Muscling through it. Got to show up. Got to do seven days a week. It's my brain. It's obsessed with podcasting. I can't

stop. Um, next question. What's your spirit animal? Animal. How did I just say that? What's your spirit animal? Um, I'm starting to see myself in my dog, but I don't know if it's like a golden retriever. Cause I don't know. I think that's kind of, I feel like a spirit animal is like, I'm a wolf. I'm a lion. I'm a cheetah. I'm a, you know, I love eagles. I don't know if that's my spirit animal though. Cause it's like, it represents like freedom and just like America. I don't know. I like orca whales. They're very majestic. Let me, is there examples of spirit animals I can't think of this off the top of my head on a Monday morning um okay where's let me go to google are you guys is this kind of boring spirit animal dot info oh it's a freaking quick

this is a quiz okay okay so what's my spirit animal quiz this better be quick I don't got time for nonsense here. Okay. First question. Let's just do this. Um, what's my spirit? Okay. What's my spirit animal? Oh, seven questions. Okay. What's your favorite natural element? Easy water. So there's air, earth, fire, space, wood, or water, water, a hundred percent. Continue. Next question. Six more. I feel at peace with myself most of the time. very accurate fairly accurate somewhat accurate very inaccurate I'm not peace ah no fuck yeah I'm very accurate it's that I'm very at peace with myself now I like how I'm just like comparing my podcast self with like past me as like I'm enlightened

bitch I have figured my life out I like myself now everything's good everything's Gucci I've talked it out now for 190 days in a row. I'm at peace, bitch. So yeah, I'm going to say very accurate. And I'm just making that my mantra. Like I'm saying all this positive shit and it's, it's helping like solidify that I'm okay. And that I actually am, I'm not my 2020 mess depressed self. Shit. All right. Next question. I tend to be more down to earth than head in the clouds. Yeah. Very accurate. dude i'm the girl next door i'm america's sweetheart i'm down to earth as shit

how humble was that uh next question i find it easy to approach others very accurate jesus christ i frequently do things without a specific schedule or plan um fairly accurate i like a plan but i'm also very like intuitive with like how i do shit my day to day, my weekends, whatever. Um, the typical ordinary way feels like a betrayal of myself. Whoa. The typical ordinary way feels like a betrayal of myself. What the fuck? If I do something ordinary. Yeah, actually kind of, because like, I don't like society is all construct. It's all construct. It's all make believe it's all made up. I don't like once you know that it's hard to be a citizen because you're just like I feel like this is not is this even

what the question is the ordinary way feels wrong or feels like stupid um let me just say fairly accurate I don't really get it I just made some bullshit up in my head I restuffed Jimmy's squeaker toy because he took all the stuffing out of it and now he's just like back in action I should just buy him a new toy but you know what I'm a single mom okay COVID-19 is still upon us this economy is on on eggshells okay I don't know what's coming so a bitch is watching her finances and so should you in fact I posted a quote on my Instagram this morning it's a good one about wealth I don't know how this even relates to the Q&A wealth is what you don't see spending money to show people how much money you have is the fastest way to have

less money yeah it's not about how much you make it's about how much you spend bitch gary b 2018 ballpark estimate of that quote but yeah it's true like just don't don't spend your money on bullshit like five new dog toys for my puppy he's gonna destroy him like what's the point of that just restuff it i got a sewing needle just sew it back up next question i frequently come up i'm figuring out my spirit animal right now I know I'm getting off topic but dude I sound so tired guys I'll be honest now I know I told you this isn't Saturday it's Monday and I'm you know backtracking here to make up for the lost days of episodes but I had to wake up my mom got up at four to go to the airport so I'm fucking tired I frequently come up with ideas or solutions out

of nowhere very accurate daydreamer just always in my head thinking about shit the more useful I am to others the happier I am oh very accurate I um okay I think I've told you guys a story of like how I okay what I don't want to go on a tangent right now but like my favorite thing to do is like I I'm or not favorite but just like my default setting is just accommodating people helping them you know getting all their shit together like packing them a lunch like making them breakfast making them coffee grabbing a coffee for them like whatever it is like I'm talking relationships and like I guess co-workers anything like I'm always trying to help people out and so I I'll exhaust myself for other people before I help myself and that's been a journey

of learning how to um tone it down take it tone scale it back make sure I'm good before I help put on my Jacqueline put on your gas mask or whatever your oxygen mask before you help other people set some boundaries you know so but I'd say that's very accurate I don't care no matter how I love feeling useful for people like to people you know what and then that directly makes me feel better about myself and that has to do with a self-worth issue where I find my self-worth through my acts of service or whatever like I don't know because I they they are super grateful and gracious and complimentary and like thank you so much oh my god you are so helpful oh Jacqueline you're the best oh my god Jacqueline you're the best and so then I'm like yeah the more

I work for other people and help them the better I feel about myself and that makes me whatever we're learning we're growing next question I spend a lot of time observing before I act a hundred percent I'm always observing that's my literal like my 24-7 is just scanning and judging and thinking and processing and going fuck this shit stupid dumb I've been negative lately and I did watch the Grammys last night I think I'm going to make that Sunday's episode aka Monday's round two podcasting episode because my mom was with me this weekend and I didn't record on Saturday and Sunday, but I got some thoughts about the Grammys that I think I'm going to share with, uh, you guys on the next episode after this one. Um, but yeah, I'm always like,

I'm scanning, I'm observing and I'm judging or I'm like, not, or not necessarily judging. Well, you know, I am, but I'm like, I'm in my head. I'm like, if I see, I don't know if I'm like out in public people watching or whatever if I see people walk by my apartment I go like for example my neighbor who walks the dog man bun neighbor I've like invented a story about his life that is abs it's absolute bullshit it's just in my head but like that's what my brain does it like see something and just tries to make sense of it and then I'll just I don't know it's I I don't know uh I'm like I don't know okay next question or whatever I like to be impressive to others fuck yeah i'd like to be impressive or i don't need to be like what's i like to

yeah it's fun to feel like the shit it's fun to be like oh wow she did that she's the shit that's impressive wow because then i feel like if you if you like being impressive it like makes you work harder in life and like strive and like do better and like grow a little bit get a little bit better each day and you have like because if you but then no fuck that because then I know that the root of this is like you need other people's approval that's all about approval right I like to be impressive to others because I I value their opinion or I appreciate their positive I don't know I'm overthinking this shit I like to though I think it's good like hey I did a good job thanks for whatever next question I'm always looking for new things to experience

somewhat inaccurate to be honest not all I'm not adventure I'm not an adventure bitch I'm just not I'm not an adventure bitch I'm not a hiking bitch uh explorer and I'm not a van life bitch I'm not a let's go to a new thing a new place I've never been to before I can't wait to whisk away I'm just not. I'm not spontaneous. I'm spontaneous, but I'm not like seeking. I like a basic, boring routine life. And then every now and then I get a little, a little like itch to go somewhere, do something new. And that's when I do it. But my lifestyle isn't built around like new things, new experiences, new, new, new, new all the time. Like I just doesn't, it doesn't drive me forward. It just kind of overwhelms me I'm like I'm good I like a simple life I just do whatever next question oh

my god this is like a okay remember how I said it's a seven question quiz it's like each section has a few questions with the whatever I'm almost done then I'll figure out my spirit animal Jesus okay I live a fast-paced existence um fairly accurate I'll say that not very fairly next one how would you rather spend your free time I'd rather go outdoors and walk or hike in a park nearby I'd rather build something or engage in a creative activity like arts and crafts I'd rather play video video games or watch a movie at home I'd rather get together with my friends and have fun going out yeah I'm just clicking that because I'm deprived of that shit right now going out all going out with friends fuck reading my favorite book absolutely not

so I'm just gonna go with a friend's one because of course I'm not trying to like go on an outdoor hike and like I love guys it's not that I don't like going outdoors on hikes I love that shit I'm just not like oh my gosh like I need to road trip or I need to go and fly somewhere and I need to go and try this new restaurant and go I just don't think like that so I'm gonna say go out with friends. Almost done. Almost done. I require lots of alone time to recharge. I require, is that the introvert thing? I'm going to say fairly. I don't need too much. I mean, I, I am a, I'm a homebody introvert, but I'm also, I'm an introverted. Everyone's like, I'm an introverted extrovert. It's not original. That's not unique. That's not quirky. That's not

cool everyone is you're one or the other I would call myself an introvert I'm not energized by people I'm energized by uh whatever I don't know how that goes but but I can't it's not that I'm not an extrovert like I am but I'm whatever I hate shit like this I think I got a question about my personality type too fuck it's just one of those episodes I seek out the secret of the universe. Next question. I think about it. I'm going to say it's fairly accurate. Dude, what animal am I going to get? Oh, it wants me to sign up for an email list. The fuck? Oh, it's going to send me, it's going to email me my results. Oh, I'll ignore to see my results. Here we go. I'm a turtle. Bitch, I'm a turtle. What it means to be the turtle. The turtle is my

result from my spirit animal quiz. The turtle totem wisdom teaches us about walking our path in peace and sticking to it with determination and serenity. Slow moving on earth, yet also incredibly fast and agile in water. Those who, I'm a swimmer. I'm a good swimmer. Those who have the turtle as a totem or spirit animal may be encouraged to take a break in their busy lives and look around or within themselves for more grounded long lasting solutions wow so guys my spirit animal is a turtle my ex-boyfriend used to call me turtle he used to call me squirt like the turtle he used to think i think of me as the turtle in finding nemo the little turtle fin noggin dude that little one he was cute that's cute I'm a turtle oh

me with my plastic straws in my cupboard oh turtle oh sipping plastic straws every single day because I don't understand why we decided to just stop using plastic straws like what the fuck you can't go to Starbucks and use it like it's just I'm I'm upset I'm really upset about it and I just think that why did we go after straws of all things like I get it plastic bags but like straws come on I need a straw and so I bought you guys know go go to the episode called plastic is self-care and listen to it if you want to know an explanation of why I'm a I'm a plastic straw user so and cup it's a whole thing um next question who's the last person you texted Jesus okay um well that would be my mom because

she's she left me a a ring in my bathroom and my retainer holder I have this crystal retainer holder because okay this is like random but I'm like obsessed with finding like fancy containers and shit for things that are simple like I wear a retainer every single night I don't want to have a plastic retainer thing on my like the ugly one the dentist gives you on my counter so I found this crystal glass like beautiful little dish to put my retainer in and so anyways when I dropped my mom off the airport I came home and I saw that she left me a little ring in the it has it's a heart it has a heart on it it's a ring she left that in the retainer holder. It's like a joke or just like to surprise me. So I texted, I showed her,

I texted her a picture of that and that's my last text I did. Um, next question, go to fast food order, go to fast food order. My mom and I went to In-N-Out last night. Actually, I just get a protein style double double when I go there, but that's just In-N-Out. Um, I feel like I don't eat fast food a lot. Like, you know, but I don't really like, okay. I'm thinking like I go to Chick-fil-A, you know, I go do that spicy chicken sandwich thing with the waffle fries. Like I'll do that. Uh, and I don't eat McDonald's hamburgers or I just like, I eat McDonald's. Don't get me wrong. I'll have a breakfast thing. I feel like the only time I eat fast food is like breakfast McDonald's on a road trip it's like a specific situation where we're all like you know pulling

over the side to McDonald's taking a piss break and then we need some food so I grab a breakfast I get like an egg mcmuffin or some shit but like I mean chicken nuggets I don't know what do I get them I mean like when I go to In-N-Out they get a protein style double double that's my go-to with the chili peppers or whatever those things are and I just get plain fries and I don't really like the fries but I still eat them because it's like you got to have them with the burger but um I wish I had a more interesting answer where do I like where's a fast food place that I would go to like as a kid we had Dairy Queen that was like the that Dairy Queen was like the or Wendy's I don't know we kind of like went I went to all of them growing up Burger King

whatever um a whopper like growing up we get whoppers my grandpa would get us whoppers it was really good i like those but it's been a minute other than in and out i don't really go to fast food um oh god next question have you ever shit um okay next question have you ever been walked in on uh like having sex like walked i'm guessing that's what they mean and honestly no so uh quick answer no never happened um have i been overheard probably but i wouldn't know that but anyways i want to move on because whatever um how mortifying though or like just awkward but i don't know whatever

uh when did you find out santa wasn't real next question i was uh i think i was in sixth grade I honestly think I was like a sixth grader yeah because I remember one day my sister was in the kitchen with my parents talking for a while at her house and around I think this is around Christmas time actually interestingly and they're having a conversation for a while and I know my sister like as I walked in the room was just kind of looking at me like she knew something I didn't know. And she had this like evil look on her face. Like you just wait, but you're going to find out Santa isn't real right now. And all I remember is my parents

were like, Jacqueline, do you really think reindeer can fly? Do you really think they can fly? And I literally was like plugging my ears. Don't. And I didn't know, like there weren't kids really talking at school about Santa isn't real. Like I had, I didn't, I hadn't really thought about it I didn't really like even doubt it or wonder I just assumed you know it was real and every Christmas when Santa came I always I always made a comment like yep I heard him I would listen all night long like I listened for noise and bells or whatever so anyways I was pretending not to hear that I was like I don't want to hear I don't want to hear it and I like got out of the kitchen and I met that year I thought Santa was real like I didn't think

anything of it I think the next Christmas after it my mom and my sister I think we were just like all sitting in my bedroom and we started talking about it and it was such a mind fuck and I remember being so like was that sixth grade yeah so fifth grade I tried to not they tried to tell me and then sixth grade is when I finally was like oh damn but I was convinced for so long I I feel like that's really old. Oh, but anyways, next question. This, this podcast is literally, literally like, um, you're like, Hey Jacqueline, how was your weekend with your mom? And then like my energy is just like a phone call. Like I'm just saying hi, but I'm answering questions. It's just so like one note, low energy. Um, next question. I think I'll just make this the last

one. What is your Myers-Briggs? This is that personality test thing everyone does. You have to do it for a lot of like places you work. I'm a protagonist. I think I'm an ENFJ. Yeah, I'm an ENFJ. So I'm a, yeah, here, I'll read about it. Here we go. ENFJ, I think that means intro extroverted what does the enfj stand for let me look that up first extroversion intuition feeling judgment okay which is i think this is me i've done this multiple times and i always get enfj so i feel like it's pretty i guess and i think personality test i think all this is dumb but you know i've had to do it before and i think a lot of people do so whatever so an overview of the enfj personality type enfj also known as the giver or protagonist personality

is one of the 16 different personality types identified by the myers-briggs type indicator which is the quiz people take some other types are known by the acronyms esfj enfp infp okay whatever people with enfj personality type are often described described as warm outgoing loyal and sensitive i agree with that with myself of all the personality types the enfj is often perceived as being the strongest people person i agree with that they are capable of forging friendships with all personality types even with more introverted or reticent reticent individuals i haven't really read that word before i'm insecure because of their ability to sense what others feel and affect how people behave

they do have the ability to influence and even manipulate others uh evil laugh this is balanced by their strong value system and desire to help other people be the best they can be enfj is the opposite of the istp personality type psychologist david kearsey suggests that approximately two percent to five percent of all people have the enfj personality how the hell what the hell not to flex on you hoes but like i'm a i'm a rare bitch according to this psychologist Dave Kiersey suggests approximately two percent to five percent of all people have the ENFJ that's a rare one is it rare because like there's 16 personality types and only two percent to five percent have this one well cool I mean there's only one people there's only one

well not one but there's usually in a group of new people there's like that one person that's the ENFJ they're like the the crowd chummer they're like the people person just going around like you know that's I feel like I'm always that role I'm always that like bouncing around connecting people shooting I don't know like I get people I I lube people up with my charm I'm just like yo and then I lube you up ENFJ characteristics ENFJ are strong extroverts and enjoy spending time with other people me saying I am a homebody and I'm an introvert five minutes ago but I feel like here's the thing about my extrovert extrovertedness I guess it's like when I'm in those settings where there's a shit ton of people and activity and action

I'm extremely extroverted like I'm very on and like I'm out there and I feel like that's a Leo that's why I say when I say I'm a cancer rising Leo it's like I have the two polar opposite um energies with me like i have my moon cancer my son leo and it's like they're on they're next to each other on the zodiac sign because july is cancer august is like leo and so whatever and then i i i'm like am i two-faced i'm like i like can be both i have both of those ways of being strongly like they are strongly the cancer and strongly the leo okay whatever apparently i i don't know according to the descriptions of those signs like that's what i would say um enfjs have great people skills and are often described as more okay i just read this

enfjs have a tendency to be too hard on themselves blaming themselves for things when things go wrong and not giving themselves enough credit when things go right yeah i suck giving myself enough credit I don't know how to give myself enough credit like I don't know how to be proud of myself or like oh wow I did that that's amazing that's I'm never satisfied I'm always like oh that wasn't good enough oh I can do better it's not that big of a deal compared to this it's not that big of a deal or I'm not a very good cheerleader with myself like I'm I think it's because I have that thing where I'm like I hate looking or I hate seeming like I don't ever like if I ever feel like I come across like oh I'm the shit look at me I'm so cool that's why one of my

biggest fears like I just don't want people to think of me like that and I don't I don't I'm just always like cutting myself down 10 notches before I always like make light of every good situation or like good thing that happens to me I'm like oh well yeah I guess that's I I don't know people like shower me with compliments and praise and be like oh good job that's so amazing oh my god like the Forbes thing like that's kind of a big deal I'm like I don't really know how to feel I'm just like oh yeah that is but also I get like I get kind of frozen like I don't how do I what do I do here you know but anyways so because of this it is important that people with this personality type regularly set aside time some time to attend to their own

needs yeah that's my new journey i guess nfjs are good at bringing consensus among diverse people fuck yeah for this reason they can be outstanding leaders and bring enthusiasm to a group that can be motivating and inspirational one common myth about the protagonist personality type is that they are always sociable while they love people they do need time alone and other or in order to assimilate and organize their thoughts okay that's that just that just explained the whole cancer leo bullshit so strengths outgoing and warm empathetic wide social circle encouraging organized affectionate persuasive weaknesses approval approval seeking not anymore overly sensitive not more indecisive picked picked a podcast seven

days a week not indecisive anymore i just made a decision i talked to you guys all about how my new my new my new wave of how I do shit is I just pick I go on Netflix and I just pick I said I want to do a podcast seven days a week I just did it I don't waver I just do it so these aren't weaknesses anymore Jesus Christ this episode self-sacrificing um I don't get that oh I'll sacrifice yeah yeah yeah I do put my put myself behind other people to help them like I'll help you before I help myself that whole thing rigid and uncompromising yeah I'm kind of stubborn like that well rigid and uncompromising no not uncompromising I don't know about uncompromising like I have rigid opinions bitch like I think one thing and

I'm like, that's my opinion. It's I've, I've hard set opinions that are mine that are specific that I, that I just, I just have them. And I'm not going to be convinced like, Oh, don't have that opinion. That's a dumb opinion. You shouldn't think like that. No, it's my opinion. I can have it. And it's set in stone. It's, you know, I'm, I'm like, I'm like an old person. Just like, you can't tell me. So that's how I am. Okay. And you guys hear it every day on the show. Like I'll come up some asinine opinion about parking lots and then that's what it is you just know my okay uh so anyways there's that but then uncompromising as a weakness is like not true because i'm all about meeting in the middle compromising so both parties can you know whatever if we're like trying

to pick a restaurant to go to i'm so easygoing i'm literally the person who's like i don't care because i don't ever want to be that person where someone doesn't like where we went because i'm the one who picked it I'm the one who made us go here I always I feel like shit when everyone's kind of disappointed I'm the one that we we all ended up at this shitty restaurant because I made the decision I don't like to I don't like to be that person because I feel terrible I want people to be happy I want people to be like this is a good you know this is good so whatever and then the last two weaknesses are overprotective true and manipulative am I manipulative how can I manipulate you right now. Is this, I don't know, manipulative? Is that a strength or a weakness? Why is that

a weakness? Now I'm getting in my head about being manipulative. I don't think I'm manipulative. I think everyone has, it's not like I have, what's it called, an alternative motive with shit all the time where I'm like asking favor in return for it. Like, I don't really think i do that i don't know i feel like shit that i'm even i just don't like to think i'm in it the fact that i'm having trouble with this might mean i'm manipulative should i look up definitions or like characterized by unscrupulous control of a situation or person she was sly selfish and manipulative psychological manipulation is a type of social influence that aims to change the behavior or perception of the of others through indirect deceptive or unhanded tactics underhanded

tactics by advancing the interests of the manipulator often at others and others expense such as such methods could be considered no i'm not devious and exploitative so i want something and so i'm going to make someone else do something in order for me to get it like what I'm trying to think like I literally don't have a lot of dramatics in my life where I need to manipulate people and like like I'm a it's it's not like that you guys are all like well you took so much time on that maybe you're having doubts because you are a manipulator well whatever um cognitive functions this is like a big explanation for telling you my personality need to type my Myers-Briggs to answer the final question is ENFJ personal relationships ENFJs

value other people highly and are warm nurturing and supportive and personal relationships facts at times they can be very wrapped up in other people's problems no I hate I don't care not that I don't care it makes you sound like a maniac I my whole thing about being wrapped up in other people's problems is I'm a good listener like I will sit and listen to you dump all your problems on me and everything and a lot of the times I'm sitting there going you're making small things into big things you're thinking this these things are what it was what's the phrase you're like making your life a living hell being caught up I'm worried about things that don't matter a lot of the times when people tell me their problems

and their drama and everything I'm just like a lot of this is rooted in you're putting meaning and you're there's so much weight you're telling these stories about what's going on and you're attaching so much meaning and weight to it where it's making you upset when if you didn't put so much meaning and like meaning behind it and and make it such a i don't know like but i guess everyone's human and we all react to things differently but i think a lot of times people are just over they're caught up on small stuff that's bullshit and so a lot of the times what was the thing i'm reading why am i saying this i'm not i don't like to be wrapped up in other people's problems where i'm getting all upset too and i'm like well i do like i'll be

like, fuck him, fuck her, fuck, you know, I'll go off, I'll pop off. But I'm not, it doesn't turn into like, I'm, I'm now harboring or like holding on to their life issues. I'm mostly like the listener with the advice if they want it. I never just offer it unsolicited. I'm always like, look, you know, can I offer this up? Can I say this? Or do you want to hear what I have to think about this you know because for the most part people just tell you their problems they just need to dump it they just need to get it off their chest and that's for me I love listening to that shit it's it makes my life entertaining so like my mom was with me this week and we were we were just shooting the shit and she had a lot to say and I was like this is fun family drama which isn't

like there's there's not my family is amazing there's no drama but just like little things next part of personal relationships enfjs are altruistic and interested in helping others which can sometimes come off as a bit overbearing despite this they are usually very well liked and people appreciate their genuine concern and care yeah like i've had that issue like hosting parties like dinner parties and shit where or even any event where i will set up everything cook everything clean everything I'm never sitting down to eat with people I'm always like making sure people's drinks are filled and like I'm running around like a chick with my head cut off with my fucking apron on this is what I watch my mom do my mom loves hosting parties and doing

this stuff but I feel like I um don't like it's overbearing in the way that I feel like people would be like dude relax like you don't have to go that hard you know you can chill with us like you can calm down I don't know if it's overbearing but it's like too much energy for it's just I don't know I need to like learn how to enjoy myself at the same time as parents ENFJs are nurturing and warm dude I'm just nurturing and warm that's what all this is saying I'm just nurturing it that's me I feel it um they are directly involved in their children's lives although they can sometimes be quite strict and even rigid at times yeah i was i was parented with strict parents so i feel like i'm gonna just pass that along this country's getting too soft

america's getting too soft no one gets hard knocks anymore parents are too easy going everyone's i don't know too much hand sanitizer is being used that's that's america's getting too soft because fucking hands all these germaphobes now because of covid all these kids being phobic and cry babies about shit I was eating dirt I was literally putting dirt in my mouth as a kid testing it out wondering like you know what it's like to be a cow in the pasture eating grass I'd like do the same thing I get on all fours and I'd chew grass and I'd eat dog food I'd I was curious I'd be like whoa what's this but I feel like kids now are they know too much they're like no that's E. coli

that's bacteria that's dirt that's dirty that's not okay but I honestly attribute with the fact that I never get sick knock on wood ever like I barely ever ever ever get sick because of my how much shit I ingested as a child literal shit

have you guys ever okay I was gonna be like have you ever tasted your own shit as a kid I did have you ever eaten your own vomit I did what else did I do that's weird I don't think I've ever tasted my own pee but I definitely tasted my own shit as a child I had to know yeah I had to know I had to know okay here's a career path ENFJs I'm literally turning this Saturday Q&A into a ENFJ Myers-Briggs test analysis of who I am I don't or like just I'm like explaining all

these things whatever I'll do the final one ENFJs are ENFJs ENFJs often do best in careers where they get to help other people and spend a great deal of time interacting with others because of their strong communication organizational skills ENFJs can make great leaders and managers yeah I okay here's what I'll say about career stuff I'm at my best in front of people and when I'm like managing people I like to be the one that's like you do this you do that like directing like I'm in charge I'm telling other people what to do like that's where I thrive I'm I just feel like I don't know I like to um interact with people as a job instead of like I have a task from the manager and now I'm like you know putting along on my computer doing something or whatever

it's like I'm the one who's like walking around the office like you know obviously I have my shit too but it's because when I was uh I was uh my first job out of college I had interns I was in charge of all these international students from all over the world like uh you know would do internships and I would be in charge of like there was like you know let's just say 15 each semester and like I would I would be their mentor advisor manager whatever you want to call it and like have meetings with them and like go over their different projects and we would do we'd plan events in the town that I that college was in and we would you know what what it was like uh we do presentations and speeches and we would do every Friday we had a presentation in the

international center and um I would like help everyone with that I would teach them photoshop marketing. Uh, anyway, so I was, I liked that job because like a lot of it was me just having conversations with all these other people that, I don't know, I was like the leader and it felt like, cause they came to me and were like, Hey boss. It was crazy. Cause we were kind of the same age. They were a little younger. A lot of them were like freshmen, sophomores, but it was just like weird. But I love, I feel like I'm the best in that environment when I'm like the woman in charge a little bit, or just, like, I have, I get to, I don't know, talk to a lot of people, and then I also be, like, I like to be, like, the front woman, like, I don't need to be the boss, I don't,

I don't, I don't need to be the CEO, CFO, CEO, I don't need to be any of that CEO stuff, but I need to be, like, the, I like to be the, what do you call it, the right-hand woman, I'm the right-hand woman. I love being in that position. I'm always around, always there. I'm meeting and greeting. I'm with the, with the crew, but I'm not, I don't know, running shit necessarily. Okay. I think that's enough. There's so much here. Parenting, relationships, popular careers, human resources manager, social worker, psychologist, teacher, sales rep yeah anyways all right this is Q&A number 22 coming to an end you know I did it hey I did it whoo um I don't know if this is this seems like a train wreck

now like Jesus Jacqueline like you're having to make up for lost time because you didn't do it this weekend because your mom was here but I mean I still I'm still getting it done no matter what uh, I'm finishing the marathon. I'm going out strong. I'm doing seven days a week for a year and we'll see what happens after that. But, uh, I had fun. I, I got some, you know, I got, I got this pot. I, I feel like every time I podcast, I'm like, whoa, now I just brushed up on my personality type. Whoa. I just thought about, um, what else did I talk about today? I honestly can't even remember. Let me look at my list of like questions. The Zodiac sign. I talked about that Santa Claus. Um, a weird thing. I love dating spirit animal. Oh

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and then you know but I generally think like whoa at this point with how long a lot of you have followed me like since college snapchat days and shit I just want to say like your family no so this is the cheesiest ending your family I care about you but I don't know it's been a rough year kind of it's been weird and i just think that you know we got to spread the love and make sure everyone's doing okay check in you know this is me checking in on your health and your mental health right now are you okay please dm me if you ever need to talk um or just like whatever i'll even call you you don't have to be a patreon i'll even if you're desperate i will sit and I'll talk to you I'll help you just I'll be I'll listen I'll listen to you and I'll sit

there and judge you the whole time and think wow you're hung up on small stuff that doesn't matter and then I'll ask you if you want advice and then you'll say yes and then you'll hate me and then we'll never talk again but at least you got to vent and I'll be that person to to uh I'll be the ear the ear for you too okay Jesus end the episode Jacqueline end the episode all right guys love you lots you get the point have a great day and I will talk to you tomorrow bye