The Jamie Kern Lima Show - Success Leaves Clues! Incredible Women’s Stories & The Power of Yours w/ Norah O’Donnell Pt 2

Episode Date: February 24, 2026

Ger ready to get inspired to use your voice, believe you’re worthy of it, and ignite that passion and courage inside of you on your own heroes journey in your life right now! Get ready to add to you...r own toolbox of wisdom and insights from the stories of incredible hidden heroes who’ve changed the course of history! You know her from her iconic, history-making interviews on CBS and 60 minutes, to being one of only three women in our history to solo anchor the primetime evening network news! She’s interviewed every living president and TODAY, for the first time ever, She’s agreed to BE THE ONE getting Interviewed, that’s right, Norah has never before done a podcast or long-form sit-down interview where the tables are turned and she’s the one being asked the questions…and I am SO honored, excited and grateful that she’s here in person with you and me today for the incredible Part 2 of her first ever podcast interview! Over her decades-long, distinguished career, award-winning journalist Norah O’Donnell has also made it her mission to shed light on untold women’s stories. Now, in honor of America’s 250th birthday, she’s focusing that passion on the American heroines who helped change the course of history in her brand new book We the Women: The Hidden Heroes Who Shaped America! Norah has flown across the country to be here with you and me today in her first ever long-form sit down interview where she’s the one in the hot seat and I am so excited for part 2 of this conversation! And for this worldwide premier of Norah O’Donnell on the Jamie Kern Lima Show! ___ And whether you're joining me today for yourself or because someone that you love shared this episode with you, I want to welcome you to the Jamie Kern Lima Show podcast family. And remember this episode is not just for you and me. Please share it with every single person that you know because it can change their life too. Order Norah O'Donnell's new book, We the Women: The Hidden Heroes Who Shaped America ⁠here⁠. ____ Chapters: 0:00 Welcome to The Jamie Kern Lima Show 10:00 Don’t Confuse Real Journalism with Social Media 14:30 Journalism & Integrity 18:35 Freedom of the Press Is a Check On Power 26:50 Journalism Protects You & Is a Check on Power 32:30 The 1 Thing All Presidents Have in Common 1:01:20 The Power of Asking for What Your Worth 1:05:00 Women’s Stories That Could Change Yours! 1:11:20 Is The Country Ready For a Female President? It’s such an honor to share this podcast together with you. And please note: I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to Subscribe to the YouTube Channel Follow me here:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ —  Sign up for my inspirational newsletter for YOU at:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ jamiekernlima.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  —  Looking for my books on Amazon? Here they are!  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WORTHY⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Believe IT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Interviewing every single living president, sitting down intimately with them, is there any observations you've had that they maybe all have in common? Oh, Jamie, these are really good questions. A full sense of, it's like something you can almost smell. When you are prepping for an interview, let's take the recent one with Donald Trump.
Starting point is 00:00:23 How do you prep for that? The press is a check on power. Another journalist texted. texted me as soon as that interview aired on 60 minutes and said, Bravo, that's the toughest interview in the world. Welcome to the worldwide premiere of Nora O'Donnell in her first ever podcast interview. Coming up in this incredible Part 2 episode. How has a president saying fake news impacted journalists and impacted your experience?
Starting point is 00:01:00 You know her from her iconic history-making interviews on CBS and 60 Minutes. What are you doing as president to end the shutdown? To being one of only three women in our history to solo anchor at the Primetime Evening Network News. And today, for the first time ever, she's agreed to be the one getting interviewed. And I am so honored, excited, and truly so grateful that she is here in person with you and me today for her first. first ever podcast interview. Have you had a world leader that you've sat down with try to tell you what questions you can and can't ask or try to edit it afterwards?
Starting point is 00:01:43 I have not personally ever been in this situation. Have I felt pressure? Sure. But I've ever been in the situation where I had to compromise my integrity? No. And when and if that happens, I will speak publicly about it. So no one said you have to cut this out or edit that out? No.
Starting point is 00:02:04 That you interviewed. No. No. Never. I think there's a newer feeling out there. Or maybe it's a newer fear that the media is being censored now or edited. Mm-hmm. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:02:29 Not in my work. Do you believe the guardrails of democracy? of our Constitution will hold. The president deserves credit for shutting down the border. He ran on that. People elected him for that, and he's largely shut down the border. Now, the question I think for voters is this now an overreach? And will the president's party be voted out of Congress as a result?
Starting point is 00:02:56 Interviewing so many of the world's leaders, have you ever been scared in an interview? Yes. Have you ever sat across from someone and just knew they're lying through their teeth? Sure. Of course. I met with a senior man at CBS and he said to me, and I felt the blood like rush up my neck and I blurted out and said, do you ask men that question?
Starting point is 00:03:27 And I got in the car and I called my husband and I said, that guy is a jerk. And he was like, well, first of all, it's illegal for them to ask you that. you that. I said, I'm not taking the deal unless you pay me the same amount as the man on that show, because I knew he was the highest paid person on the show. And I said, we can't do that. I said, why not? And I said, well, because he's, you know, this person. I said, well, then I don't want the job. So I got paid the same. Will you ever run for office? You're hearing it here first. You're hearing it here first. You're hearing it here first. There needs to be more women in power, and there needs to be more women in political office.
Starting point is 00:04:11 The moment we're cynical and give up, the moment I stop asking tough questions or stop doing investigative work, then we're in trouble. CBS is a great organization made up of really strong journalists who work really, really hard. Do you ever feel any pressure to share your opinion or to give commentary or none at all? No, and I don't, I mean, I mean, sometimes I'm on podcast where people start asking. I don't know what you're talking about. I have no idea. And over her decades long distinguished career, award-winning journalist Nora O'Donnell has also made it her mission to shed light on untold women's stories. Now, in honor of America's 250th birthday, she's focusing that passion on American heroines who helped change the course of history.
Starting point is 00:04:59 In her brand new book, We the Women, the Hidden Heroes Who Shaped America, We the Women presents a fresh look at American history through the eyes of women, introducing us to inspiring patriots who demanded that the country live up to the promises made 250 years ago in the Declaration of Independence, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life. liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Since the signing of that document, Nora says the pressing question from women has been, why don't those unalienable rights apply to us? I have to say, when you get this book home and read it for yourself, it will ignite a strength and conviction in you that for me feels so exciting and so needed. I am such a believer that we can learn from and be inspired by and borrow courage from other people's stories.
Starting point is 00:05:59 Nora O'Donnell has flown across the country to be here with you and me today in her first ever long-form sit-down interview where she's the one in the hot seat and I am so excited for this conversation and for this worldwide premiere of Nora O'Donnell on the Jamie Kernelima show. And whether today you're listening for yourself or because someone you love shared this episode with you, I want to welcome you to the Jamie Kernelima Show podcast family. Thank you so much for being here. And can you take two seconds and hit the subscribe or follow button on the app you're listening or watching on?
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Starting point is 00:07:06 Oprah, how have you defied the odds? Her show is unlike any I've ever done. A revelation. When you listen, it feels like a hug. First Lady Michelle Obama. Jamie, you are going so deep. I have never had this in-depth conversation. I've actually never said that out loud to.
Starting point is 00:07:27 to anybody in an interview before. You know how to get there. Your brain and your spirit and your heart is like, wow, Melinda French Gates. When I look into Jamie's eyes, I feel like I am on some other cosmic level with her. Megan, Duchess of Sussex. I wasn't expecting that one.
Starting point is 00:07:49 I could see the light around her. She's infused with light. Maria Shriver. I never made that mistake again. Imagine overcoming self-doubt, learning to believe in yourself and trust yourself and know you are enough. Welcome to the Jamie Kern-Lima show. Jamie Kern-Lima is her name. Everybody needs Jamie Fern-Lema in their life.
Starting point is 00:08:12 Jamie Kern-Lima. Jamie, you're so inspiring. Jamie Kern-Lima. We have had a lot of leadership changes at CBS, and that has been challenging not only for for me, but I know for my colleagues. And I think with so many leadership changes, people are fearful about what the future means. And look, anything I can do, I will do,
Starting point is 00:08:43 because I am so, I think the role of the press is so incredibly important. Now, always. CBS is a great organization made up of really strong journalists who work really, really hard. We have some great programs. as you know. But for some reason, there seems to be a lot of attention on the leadership changes at CBS. And I, honestly, I try and focus on what I can focus on, which is my work.
Starting point is 00:09:15 And I don't mean to at all mean to, like, avoid your question. I'm not at all. I just have been, I've actually dealt with a lot of different leadership changes. And through it all, I've said I can only control what I can control, which is the work that we do and the quality of work that we have and the integrity our team has. And, you know, it's like blinders on, do the work head down. That's my motto. My dad always says, just keep plugging along. The quality of your work speaks for itself. Keep plugging along. Do you feel like journalism as a whole is under attack? Of course. Yes. Absolutely. And you know what? That's unfortunate. I think also, too, that there's people are confusing what is the media and what are journalists.
Starting point is 00:10:10 So, you know, a lot of people can be part of social media who are not, you know, who are, you know, doing opinion. Yes. Or other things. That's different than being a journalist, right, where we have very strict standards and practices that we certainly try and follow. you know where our reputation integrity lives on through different administrations through all sorts of different people so you know I think that people get confused about what the media is versus what a journalist like that I sort of the type of journalism that I do and that we do at CBS News so you know and the work that we should do should be we should try and carry it out in the way that builds the most trust and that's certainly what, you know, I try and do and work with people who feel the same way.
Starting point is 00:10:58 With just the fragmentation of information just everywhere, like you said, the fire hose coming at us. I mean, there's so many people now taking health advice or medical advice or this or that from people, they have no idea what they're talking about. They're just really good at talking about it. Yeah. You know, it's just everywhere and journalism, much like would you go, you know, if you have, you know, God forbid a health issue and you go to a doctor or a surgeon to handle it, you know, go to someone who's really great at talking about it on the internet and has an opinion about it, but has actually never done the thing that they're talking about. And to your point, you know, many years ago, long before I was an entrepreneur, I worked in television news and, you know,
Starting point is 00:11:33 one man band reported. And our standards, even at the small markets that I was in, I made it up to Portland, Oregon, which I guess that's a great market, a bigger market, but the standard were so high. If we got one fact wrong or if anyone said an opinion, I mean, it was a huge deal. There's a correction made or you could get fired. I mean, it was the standards of integrity, of excellence. They're so high when you're a journalist. And you have been in this position across multiple administrations. How has a president saying that everything is fake news impacted journalists and impacted your experience?
Starting point is 00:12:17 your experience. Well, look, I mean, again, because I've been involved in political journalism and covering White House's, the press always has somewhat of a contentious relationship with figures in power. That is true. Has it become more contentious? Yes. Is journalism under attack?
Starting point is 00:12:44 Yes. Is truth under attack? Yes. Is it my job still to try and show up and ask tough questions every day? Yes, and trying to continue to report the facts. Yes. And that's what I try and do. You know, I also think there is a role for journalists in this, too,
Starting point is 00:13:10 which is to make sure that we get the facts right too. And I see so many journalists out there every day doing the hard work to present the facts. And so whether it's through great research or fact checking or video evidence, you know, journalists are doing the work. And that's what makes, that's what makes freedom of the press a really important job. And I want, I do want people to trust and have trusted sources of the media. We're in the business of information, not affirmation. But that doesn't mean that can't exist. I mean, a newspaper has the hard news in the front and has opinion on the editorial page. And I read both and different newspapers have different editorial pages.
Starting point is 00:13:55 And I watch cable channels that tend more conservative and I watch cable channels that tend more liberal. I watch it all. I do. Because I'm listening all the time. I'm listening all the time to try and make sure that I ask the right questions of the people in power. The best thing I can do is that someone who's attacked the press or who doesn't trust the media or whatever says, you know, that was a really good interview or I learned something from your interview that I didn't know before. Have you had a world leader that you've sat down with try to tell you what questions you can and can't ask or try to edit it afterwards? So this is a good question and I think it will help clear up some misunderstanding. I think people think that we give somebody the questions in advance, which would be against
Starting point is 00:14:50 standards. And so we never do that. We never do that. Now, do people try an influence? Like, I mean, do the press people call up the producers and say, are you going to ask about this? Are you going to ask about that? You know, we say, well, we're going to ask whatever is in the news that day, you know?
Starting point is 00:15:06 But we certainly don't, you know, give questions in advance. But there's certainly, you know, both sides certainly try and influence that. But I've, me personally, no, except. I'll tell you a funny story. For 10 years, I had been trying to get the interview with Pope Francis. And I'm not joking, the night before, one of the producers involved, who had quit smoking, then picked up smoking back again because they've gotten a call from the Vatican saying, they're asking for us to give them the questions. And we said, we don't do that at CBS. And they said, well, then the interview's off.
Starting point is 00:15:42 Now, when you're in Rome, crews have come in from all over the world. it's a very expensive operation. So this producer started, you know, lit up a cigarette because, you know, and I said, you know what? Let me take care of this. And I met, went and met with that person and this Vatican official. And I had faith that I could fix it. And I meant a conviction that if I explained exactly what was, and I said, what's the issue? This is going to be great tomorrow. We're going to to talk about Pope Francis's legacy, you know, and I just had a nice conversation and interview was back on. So we never gave up our integrity. Yeah. And it never became really much of an issue. So that's just an effort of communication. But I have not personally ever been
Starting point is 00:16:39 in this situation. Have I felt pressure? Sure. But I've ever been in the situation where I had to compromise my integrity? No. and when and if that happens, I will speak publicly about it. So no one said you have to cut this out or edit that out. No. That you interviewed. No. No.
Starting point is 00:17:01 Never. I think there's a newer feeling out there. Or maybe it's a newer fear that the media is being censored now or edited. Yeah. Not in my work. I can't speak for everybody that's, you know, everybody that's doing a taped interview or a live interview or whatever it may be. But for me, I can speak about myself. And I have not been pressured to do that. While we have this opportunity, I would love Nora from, for you to speak your truth on the importance of the freedom of press. Because I think a lot of people are getting this confused now. And they think, oh, I'm a lot of, I'm all for freedom of speech, but oh, everything's fake news. And I think the average American is busy.
Starting point is 00:18:00 They're trying to afford their groceries right now and figure out, okay, do I pick between my insulin medication or my kids' activities? They're so busy that it's so easy to get lost in all the noise of going, yeah, okay, I'm for freedom of speech, but, oh, yeah, I hear things. The importance, can you explain from your perspective? and obviously there's so many stories and we, the women, that talk about the power of your voice, whether it's you listening or watching us right now at home, your voice, your story, but freedom of the press, why to the everyday American, is it so important we protect that?
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Starting point is 00:22:46 You can grab your free guide to stop overthinking and learn to trust yourself at jamie kurnlema.com slash resources or click the link in the show notes below. And now more of this incredible conversation together. Freedom of the press. Why to the everyday American is it so? so important we protect that. Well, the freedom of the press is enshrined in the Constitution. It's the First Amendment.
Starting point is 00:23:20 And the press is a check on power. And the way the Constitution was set up was the three branches of government, right, where Congress and the judiciary and the executive branch would be a check, right, on power. And then the Bill of Rights came, which, by the way, the secret muse of the Bill of Rights was a woman. By the way, Mercy, Otis Warren. This was anti-federalist, right? There shouldn't be so much protection in the federal government. So let's have a bill of rights that protects individual rights.
Starting point is 00:23:48 And the very first amendment includes freedom of the press so that we can be a check on the powerful, that we can help inform the electorate. And since the beginning of time in American abduction, there have been pamphleteers who were opinions on different sides, right? and the press has been threatened over time. Are we at a moment now where the press is, the freedom of the press is under attack? Absolutely. You don't need me to tell you that. That's clear. But is the press out there doing their job every day?
Starting point is 00:24:25 Yes. Are they fighting in court to make sure that they can still do that? Yes. So I'm incredibly hopeful. about that. You know, and, you know, in this particular administration in President Trump, White House press corps is still in there every day.
Starting point is 00:24:48 Are they getting pushback? Yes. Are they still in there shouting questions every day? Yeah, they are. Getting access and asking tough questions. Is there pushback from the administration? Sure. That's healthy.
Starting point is 00:25:05 Does it get uncomfortable at times? Yeah. Do the press get? threatened, yeah, that's bad. But it's hard. It's really hard for journalists. But I see a lot of journalists doing great work and trying to do it with integrity. And, you know, the work I'm trying to do is the toughest interviews in the world and that people, no matter what their political view will learn something from it and be able to respect it. Thank you for what you do.
Starting point is 00:25:46 It's an honor and a privilege. It really is. And it is an honor and a privilege. And I don't take it lightly. What you just said is so important. I have five families. I'm adopted. I think about, you know, I waitress to Denny's.
Starting point is 00:26:07 I think about all the people I've come in contact. with in my life. My family votes. They all vote very different. They all disagree on issues. And the thing I love most about it is I get to understand. I'm like, how in the world could you believe what you believe? And they'll tell me all about it. But I love it because I feel like I get a sense of understanding, like you said earlier, people that don't agree with what I agree on. And I think the message of the importance, which may seem so obvious to you, but so many people are inundated with information. It's been a whole long time since they've even been thinking about the Constitution or their rights. And, you know, the importance with everything going on in our
Starting point is 00:26:49 world right now of the reminder of the importance of the freedom of press being a check on power. And not by just my own viewpoint, constitutionally. Yes. Right? This was part of the founding of America. So that's not just my view. I mean, that is the freedom of the press is enshrined in the Constitution as a check on the powerful. and that's where we get information. Think about all the great investigative reporting that has been through time that has exposed abuse, whether it's in the Catholic Church, you know, which I grew up in, or whether it's government abuse of power, or whether it's stuff that's carried out war crimes over time
Starting point is 00:27:28 or U.S. involvement in wars overseas where blood and treasure is bent, or over how our veterans are treated. All that great investigative work or all the investigative work that our team has done about sexual abuse and assault in the military that women face, that led to real change in the U.S. military. So that work continues. When you are a check on power,
Starting point is 00:27:59 there comes a lot of pushback with that. It's not easy. Yeah, but I do think a lot of people watch the news, they do, and read the news and are interested in the news, and it helps inform them. And why? Because people care about what's happening in the world. Yeah. They care about their communities. They care about their own paychecks. And I think that's ultimately a good thing. And I hope that certainly, again, I can only speak for myself, is that I try in the roles that I've had, whether it was anchoring the morning show or anchoring the evening news or now my job that 60 minutes or the stories we do for Sunday morning is to report the news in the fairest way possible. Yeah. Without pulling any punches. Do you ever feel pressure now that some networks, I know there's the front of the paper, hard news, the back that's opinion. And do you feel like a lot of those lines have been blurred? And do you ever feel any pressure to share your opinion or to give comments?
Starting point is 00:29:04 or none at all. No. And I don't, I mean, I mean, sometimes I'm on podcast where people start asking. I don't know what you're talking about. I have no idea. No, because I really, I mean, honestly, I think a lot like you, Jamie, like I'm from a military family. I grew up in Texas.
Starting point is 00:29:24 My best friends live all over the country. Have voted lots of different ways. Yeah. I talk to so many people, you know, whether they're a business. owners. I travel the country so much. I travel the world. And so I really do, again, because listening is so important, I can really, I do honestly feel like I hear people. So it's not my job to have an opinion. It's my job to ask tough questions and maybe help lead people in a way that helps them explore their own beliefs or their own views. It's my job to help try and present
Starting point is 00:29:59 the facts as best as we can present them, information that exists. And I do believe in the power of facts. When you are prepping for an interview, let's take the recent one with Donald Trump. When you're prepping for an interview like that, how do you prep? How do you prep for that? It's a great question because as a friend of mine who's another journalist texted me as soon as that interview aired on 60 minutes and said, bravo, that's the toughest interview in the world. And I prep for an interview like that every day because I read three hard copies of newspapers. I'm constantly reading online. I'm talking to people, whether it's on Capitol Hill, Republicans, Democrats, talking to people all the time. So I'm prepping every day for the biggest interviews in the world. But we only had a 48
Starting point is 00:30:50 hours notice for that interview. I actually happened to be outside of Seattle when I got the call, can you be in Palm Beach in 48 hours for an interview on Halloween? So I have to have a reservoir of knowledge. And then there's an incredible team at 60 minutes and my team, and we get into a room and try and get to, you know, in a limited amount of time that you have, try and touch on what are the toughest issues of our time, the domestic ones, the foreign policy issues, and present them in a way that present them in a way that, provides information and facts, not assumption and bias. So I think if you were to look really closely at the way I ask a question too,
Starting point is 00:31:44 I think in particular the question that I asked about immigration tactics. You know, I asked in a way I said people are watching, you know, mothers being thrown to the ground, windows being punched through. Are you okay with those tactics? And the president said, yes, I am. But we showed the pictures of what people, you know, are seeing. I asked him if it was okay that, you know, families of veterans, landscapers and others were being roundup, people who were not necessarily criminals.
Starting point is 00:32:15 And that, you can watch that exchange. So as much as you can in a question, if you can present the facts. And that's, I think, a way to do an interview of that nature. In all of the interviews you've done, a couple of fun questions to ask. So you've interviewed every living president and I'm so curious because you know how earlier I was able to say like, oh, your eyes lit up when you talked about Gail or, you know, you just, it's in person is so special because you feel that person's heart. You feel if you trust them. And so interviewing every single living president, sitting down intimately with them, is there any observations you've had that they maybe all have in common or that there's something about them in a room that feels? like different or special or a through line or an observation. So curious about this. Oh, Jamie, these are really good questions.
Starting point is 00:33:12 You know, I think it takes a certain person to become President of United States. Campaigning for Presby United States is really hard. And I've been watching it since 2000 because my first, I covered a little bit of Bill Clinton. I was still, when I was at Georgetown, I went and was an intern and went to go see him in office and then covered the tail end of his presidency, but was really started covering, you know, George W. Bush in 2000,
Starting point is 00:33:40 and a lot of that contest and on since then watched a lot of these candidates on the road. It's the hardest job in the world being President of the United States. It's tough campaigning, and so it takes a certain person to run for President of the United States. What do they all have in common, a firm belief in themselves? Yeah. I think anybody that runs for president has a firm belief in themselves and their ideals and ideas. And do you feel that like that? Absolutely. In person.
Starting point is 00:34:14 A full sense of confidence and self-assuredness, unlike anything else in the world. Yeah. It's like something you can almost. smell. Wow. Yeah. That's interesting. You know, I don't watch a tennis sports, but you know when like basketball players are about to do the free throw and you almost like sense if they're going to miss it or not, it's sort of like the opposite of that, I would imagine. And that's not to say that only men have that. Yeah. Because another instance, other than candidates for president who succeed, and sometimes there are some candidates who run for president that instantly I can sense that it's not there. But Malala Yusufzai, you know, I wanted that interview with Malala Yusufzai, who is someone who I deeply admire,
Starting point is 00:35:10 who was nearly assassinated, speaking up for the rights for girls to have education in Pakistan, where to this day, half of the girls and women in Pakistan do not have the right to an education. There are 120 million girls across the world who do not have access to education, and Malala is a hero advocating on their behalf. I wanted that first. interview with her. Diane Sawyer gets the interview. I got the second interview. That's okay. I'm happy for Diane. But Malala, when I sat down with her, you know, and she's still a teenager, had been nearly assassinated. I got that sense of courage from her. It was like there was an aura around her. It was like a light. And I asked her at the time, because the Taliban still wanted to assassinate
Starting point is 00:35:54 her. And I said, are you still afraid? And she said, why should I be? afraid if someone is afraid of me. Oh, yeah. And that's like, wow. So it's not, is it the lack of fear? Is it the lack of, I don't know, it's incredible sense of bravery and courage, but Malala had it, has it, you know, and I think a lot of the, you know, major party nominees for president have this enormous sense of self. And that's why those of us in the press try and ask tough questions, because the presidency has enormous power. Yeah, has enormous power.
Starting point is 00:36:42 Do you believe that guardrails of democracy of our Constitution will hold? Yes, I do. Are they under threat? Yes. And, you know, I think that's why people, are following the news very closely and whether the guardrails still exist. But again, it's not only the three branches of government, which happened to be in one party's control right now, however, there are midterms coming up. And generally, the electorate, America, ends up putting a check
Starting point is 00:37:20 sometimes if they don't like the direction of whatever the presidency. That's actually one of the oldest things that we know as political reporters is a lot of times the president will come in, they'll get their party in power in Congress, and then by the midterm, guess what? The party gets voted out in Congress because they want to check on the presidency. Americans do like divided government. They vote for it. They do. But another check is the power of the press and information.
Starting point is 00:37:45 And the one interesting thing, too, we've seen is the numbers of participation at the polls actually going up. And I think that's a hopeful thing. It's more and more people get engaged. Do you worry about tactics like ICE preventing that? It's something to watch. I think a real, I don't know, you know, that in particular. You know, as a journalist, I am watching why President Trump is building the new largest law enforcement organization. That's ICE.
Starting point is 00:38:19 Yeah. To what means the borders, the president deserves credit for shutting down the border. He ran on that. People elected him for that. And he's largely shut down the border. Now, the question I think for voters is this now. an overreach. And will the president's party be voted out of Congress as a result? Will the government be shut down in a meaningful way because of that? And I think that's a real question.
Starting point is 00:38:51 Will you ever run for office? No, I have absolutely, why do you ask that? That's so interesting. I live in D.C. We don't really have, we have taxation without representation as our license plates not say yeah a Texas girl I am a Texas girl yeah I am a Texas girl yeah when I saw you give your Gracie speech yeah when you won the Gracie award this year I was like I just had this overwhelming feeling uh that you should run for office very strong feeling like sitting there in the audience I think I may have asked you that when I met you actually interesting because we met briefly yeah I just like a feeling look I don't you know my job is a journalist and to ask tough questions. I'm so interested, obviously, in all of the people that I cover and get to talk to
Starting point is 00:39:41 and interview. Do I love the American country? Yes. Do I love and respect people that are involved in public service? Yes. Yeah. And I hope that the way that I cover them shows that respect, because it's a really hard job and it's a really hard to run for office no matter what party you're in. And we should think about that too, because we want good people in public service. I do think we want more nurses, teachers, construction workers, baristas, business people, podcasters. You know, we want a representative democracy. And it's not, actually, because they're not enough women in office.
Starting point is 00:40:27 And so you'll hear, I don't express my personal views or opinions about anything, but one thing that I do believe is. We need to pause for a super brief break. And while we do, take a moment to share this episode with every single person that you know who this could inspire, because this conversation can truly be the words and inspiration they need to hear today to keep going,
Starting point is 00:40:48 to remember that they matter and to feel less alone and more enough, more connected, more inspired, and more worthy. Who you spend time around is so important as energy is contagious, and so is self-belief. And I'd love to hang out with you even more, especially if you could use an extra dose of inspiration, which is exactly why I've created my free weekly newsletter.
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Starting point is 00:44:47 office. And I think as you see as I get to end of the book, I talk about how both Republican women and Democratic women in Congress helped change the laws that affect our lives on a daily basis. If you have ever taken parental leave as a male or a female, that's because of a female member of Congress. If your daughter participates in sports with equal funding, Title IX, that's because of women in Congress. If you were able to get a credit card and open a bank account, which happened in the 70s, hello. That was the work of Republican and Democrat. Democratic women together.
Starting point is 00:45:25 I mean, can you imagine not being able to open up a mortgage, Jamie? Like not being able to open up a bank account? That's happened in the 70s. Like, hello. So what more, so I want people to believe in the power of their ideas, the power of their agency, to change the world for the better. Because the moment we're cynical and give up, the moment I stop asking tough questions or stop doing investigative work, then we're in trouble.
Starting point is 00:45:56 When the press stops doing their job, when, you know, the good ideological battles, and then we're in trouble. You are the kind of person we need to vote for. I'm serious. You look at your— And you run my campaign. You look at your career. And you have been inside power.
Starting point is 00:46:18 You've been inside the White House. You've been inside all of the rooms. you have decades of politicians on all sides turning to you because they trust you. And you do the right thing. You know, you do the right thing. And we need more of that. Oh, thank you. Well, I try to also assume that I don't know the answer. I think in everything that we look at and every person we meet and every person that we interview, we go into, and again, my whole team that I work with great group people. We go into an interview, we read their book, study what they've said,
Starting point is 00:46:55 and we don't ask something that assumes anything. Because as I tell my kids, because when you assume something that makes an out of you and me. So I do try and keep an open mind and listen, really. And I think the best leaders in any field are people that listen intently, try to compromise. Leading is not easy. You can't always please everybody, but they at least listen and make people feel heard, right?
Starting point is 00:47:29 You know, you talk a lot about the power of your team and the people around you, and I think that's just a side note. I think that's also something in we, the women, and you talk about some of the four-star women in the military across the different branches of the military, and you talk about how, for, various reasons, some of them aren't present now from firings and things like that. And I think,
Starting point is 00:47:54 I think on a side note, just off the top of my head, listening to you talk about the power of your team at CBS, I think is so important. I think that another risk in our country right now is you have people that have spent their entire careers across multiple administrations, Republican and Democrat, that have done phenomenal things for national security. And they're just out. And I think that my prayers they get back in somehow. That is my prayer. Well, one important note on that, because I think it's a really important point that you bring up. Remember that the federal government is made up of political appointees and non-political appointees.
Starting point is 00:48:36 Most people who serve in government are non-political, right? Which is that they've been across administrations. And you need those people for the continuity of government because they remember how things like the Social Security Administration works or the IRS. or Veterans Affairs, right? Because they've got that knowledge base. Then there's always a changeover that happens with political appointees. And so that's not, though, supposed to happen in the military, right?
Starting point is 00:49:02 The Secretary of Defense is a political appointee that serves as the civilian advisor to the president of the United States. But under that, the military is apolitical, is supposed to be apolitical. And those, you know, that's an oath to the Constitution that they serve and first and foremost. So there's always a political head at the Secretary of Defense level, but the military, those are non-political appointees. As a Catholic, being raised a Catholic, were you nervous interviewing Pope Francis?
Starting point is 00:49:38 Yes. And I don't normally get nervous on a lot of these interviews. but, you know, Pope Francis was pretty much the biggest interview in the world because never has the Holy Father given a long interview like that to an American journalist on camera. Pope Francis was also 87 years old, and we were doing the interview through translation, but he was so warm and so generous and so smart and took every question. And I asked him about sex abuse in the Catholic Church. I asked him about surrogacy because the Catholic Church does still not approve of surrogacy. And I said to him, I have many friends who have gone through cancer or other things and want to have a child through surrogacy.
Starting point is 00:50:22 Can you change your rules on that? He said, I hear you. I hear you. I asked him about women in the Catholic Church because I believe women are the backbone of the Catholic Church. There are hundreds of thousands of nuns who do a lot of the work in the Catholic Church in Catholic hospitals and schools. I mean, they're the front line of caregivers to the poor and needy across the world. He took my questions, but he said he's not going to allow the ordination of women. But that's okay because one of the things I think, too, as a member of the press, is asking the question itself is important, meaning they're hearing that that's on the concerns of people.
Starting point is 00:51:02 Yeah. And sometimes when you do get in power, you might surround yourself with a lot of like-minded people. so taking questions from the press is important because they can hear other things that perhaps they're not hearing. Now, that wasn't the case with Pope Francis, I'm sure, you know, but I wanted to make sure in the limited time that we had with him to talk about why he was such an extraordinary leader of the Catholic Church, but also should the Catholic Church change? And he took those questions. Have you ever, I mean, interviewing so many of the world's leaders, Have you ever been scared in an interview?
Starting point is 00:51:42 Yes. And not, you know, there are different degrees of being scared. I don't mean scared for like my own life, but scared to get it right. You know, I have two interviews with the crown prince of Saudi Arabia, Mohammed bin Salman. And when I interviewed him first, It was a groundbreaking interview because, of course, the Crown Prince talked about how Islam, there's nothing in the Quran that requires a woman to cover their face.
Starting point is 00:52:23 That was big news. If you've been certainly to the Middle East or other parts of South Asia, were to believe that the Quran says that women have to cover their face or shouldn't be allowed to drive or all these other things. So that made big news. Then he is accused of the murder of a Washington Post columnist, Jamal Khashoggi. I had then had the interview after that. where I went into his palace and asked him, first question, did you order the murder of Jamal Khashoggi?
Starting point is 00:52:51 First question. There were some people that said, you know, I think you should warm up the interview. Don't ask that as your first question. You know, you can't just go in there and just ask him that question. I said, no, I can. We're here in Saudi Arabia. I asked for the interview, and we're here.
Starting point is 00:53:06 I'm going to ask that question. And I'm glad I did because guess what? they released the transcript. And the interview was clean on my part. I always assume that, you know, whatever I say is going to be public. And that was the first, that was why I was there. And he is a powerful figure and should answer that question. And he answered it the way he answered it.
Starting point is 00:53:32 But it might have been one of the more interesting interviews in my lifetime. What does your body feel like when you asked that? actually power. The power of the ability to ask tough questions like that is pretty awesome. Did you have any fear when you asked it? I don't remember fear, no, because I had prepared. Did you pray before you went in? I think I did, yeah.
Starting point is 00:54:04 Yeah. Have you ever sat across from someone and just knew they're lying through their teeth? Sure. Of course. In fact, that happens more often than you might think. Yeah. And not just with people in power, politicians, with other people too. Yeah. Oh, yeah. People have different ways of kind of being fibbers. Yeah. Yeah. They can fib their own story. They can fib their record. You know, people are good at fibbing. Well, guess what journalists are good at? Research and facts. Yeah. And so we always go in making sure, look, you were allowed to say what you want to say, but I follow back up with facts or a follow-up,
Starting point is 00:54:41 I'm listening. Say, well, actually, this is actually our understanding of this issue. That's not, you know, what, and I put facts behind it. That's not what XYZ says, you know, in a clear way so that the viewer at home, it's not my view. It's what the facts are. Can I try and present that? As clearly as I can't. Do I always get it right?
Starting point is 00:54:59 No, but I'm trying to do the best job I can because at the end of the day, it's not about a confrontation. Yeah. It's about trying to bring information and help people learn something about really complex issues. Yes. War and peace. Government power. Mm-hmm. Do you feel like you can, do you get intuition that tells you someone's lying or like you can sense their body language? Not intuition. I hope it's built on just knowing the issue. Right. Yeah. On your research. Yeah. Have you ever left an interview and felt like this negative energy or like dark energy or like like you like Taylor Swift, you got to shake it off? Like something's just like, what is that?
Starting point is 00:55:41 Have you ever had that happen? Oh, gosh, I'm sure. But I mean, honestly, Jamie, I'm so focused on, and in fact, my producers have said this that, like, if I'm sitting waiting for someone, you know, I, like, apparently go into a major zone. Yeah. Yeah. And I don't, I want to be viewed as impartial. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:56:00 And I try my best to be both impartial, factual, full of integrity, trustful, bringing information to that interview, that that truly is my main focus, that a lot of times some of that other stuff swirls past. But I mean, I've met and interviewed a lot of people, so I've seen a lot. Oh, my goodness. So you're good at not letting it penetrate you, whatever their energy might be. I think I'm getting better at over time. Yeah. I've had it happen one time.
Starting point is 00:56:28 And this podcast is only a year old. One time I had it happened, great interview. I don't know that anyone would be able to tell this. But I left. I literally called my therapist. I'm like, I feel like I'm going to get sick. Like something was not, yeah, like I just, I don't know what happened nor. I don't know if it was like spiritual.
Starting point is 00:56:46 I don't know what it was. But it was just kind of like dark energy. I debated even release in the interview or not because I was like, I don't know what this is, but something doesn't feel right. And yeah. And, you know, my show, my hope is everyone listening to you. I already know this is already accomplished in this interview that they're going to just feel inspired and less alone and more enough. And especially excited to get we the women and read about all these other women's stories. but also hearing your story. Let me just say this. You don't tell a lot of your story in this book.
Starting point is 00:57:16 It just in this interview, like already learning about even more about who you are, about your integrity, about what you go into things with, about how serious you take things, about how you've talked about really freaking complicated, difficult, and delicate topics. And just seeing like your strength and your genius has been a gift that so many people listening are going to be so inspired by. But anyhow, no, I appreciate you saying that because it's, I don't want the press to be attacked. Yeah. Not personally or as a profession. So I don't talk about myself because I don't want to be the story. I want people to focus on the work and the subject. And I do, and this is part of the humility, I think I learned too from my parents, which is just it's not, it's not about you. It's about the
Starting point is 00:58:09 work. And I truly have tried to try to carry that out. I don't want people doubting me or the integrity of my work. I want people focused on the quality of the work. And that's not easy. I think it's like a fine line. When Robin Roberts sat here and talked about her, you know, being so scared to come out as being gay because she's also Christian and thought she would be shunned. And she, you know, I think I think her sharing, in my opinion, that her heart and her soul is so beautiful. And I don't think that bleeds over into her job as a journalist. You know, I think, or when Anderson Cooper talks about grief and I don't know him personally, but I think it's so beautiful.
Starting point is 00:58:59 I will just say my opinion to get to know also just like your personal views on integrity and that Jeff, your sweet husband, Jeff, leaves you love notes and how you, the morals and values you're instilling in your kids and how you, you know, always ask. There's a lot of times in my life I didn't ask. And I'm so, it's only really been maybe the last 20 years. I ask, I ask, I ask, I ask, I ask. And I just think that's so powerful. Like, and so many of us don't ask.
Starting point is 00:59:29 Like so many women listening right now, they don't ask for the raise. They don't ask for the promotion. They don't ask the guy they've had a crush on for 15 years now if he wants to be more than just friends or the girl. They don't ask. And there's just so many things by you sharing these parts of who you are that, you know, I think, in my opinion, they're not even anywhere near a journalistic line. They're more about like, oh, wow, here's a kick-ass woman that I can also be even more inspired by. I so appreciate you saying that because I think it's, I know it sounds hard to believe, but I truly, in writing this story and reading about this women, I do feel like I'm unlocking something.
Starting point is 01:00:08 Yeah. about the power of my own voice and the power of my own story. And I haven't told all my stories yet. I do have the title from my memoir. Do you? But I haven't written it yet. You're hearing it here first. You're hearing it here first. It's called every second counts because, I mean, I literally have not written this yet, but it's because literally at the end of the evening news, the show's only like 19 minutes long. It's 30 minutes, but then the commercials, but then at the end, we would try and squeeze in all this news. And then we'd come back for the last block and they'd be like, you have seven seconds to say goodbye.
Starting point is 01:00:46 And I'd be like, I can't do it in seven seconds. You have seven seconds. So in my mind, every second counts, which is a story about one, my professional career, but also your personal life. Yes. Thinking about your life. Every second counts can be anxiety producing. Yes. But I love that title.
Starting point is 01:01:03 So there's more to the story about the Pope interview that I've never told publicly, but that'll come next time. there. And there's stories of me, you know, and I'm happy to share this one with you now. You know, when I joined CBS News, I was asked to be the chief White House correspondent. And I wanted to be a 60 Minutes correspondent. And the head of 60 Minutes, the chairman at the time said, well, great, but we don't just make 60 minutes correspondence. But you can come be our chief White House correspondent. And you can pitch the time. stories and I said, great. Then I met with a senior man at CBS and I thought, oh, this is going well, he said to me, well, how are you going to be Chief White House correspondent with three kids at home? And I felt the blood like rush up my neck. You know when you get nervous and someone's
Starting point is 01:01:54 neck turns really red and I felt that and I blurt down. I said, do you ask men that question? And I got in the car and I called my husband and he said, how to go? And I said, that guy is a jerk. And he was like, oh, first of all, it's illegal for them to ask you that. Fast forward, I didn't let that person's doubt about me ever affect what I believed I could do. But people are all the time trying to put their doubt on top of you all the time. But you call your husband or call your friend and say, don't let that guy, you can handle it. You can have three kids at home. You can cover the White House.
Starting point is 01:02:28 You're okay. But when I was covering the White House, I was then asked to go become the anchor of the morning show with Gail King and Charlie Rose. And when they came to me and they said, we need an answer immediately. And I said, I don't have to give you an answer immediately. And they said, here's the deal. And I said, I'm not taking the deal unless you pay me the same amount as the man on that show. Because I knew he was the highest paid person on the show. And they said, we can't do that.
Starting point is 01:02:58 I said, why not? And I said, well, because he's, you know, this person. I said, well, then I don't want the job. So I got paid the same. Now, not all my negotiations go that way, but if you don't ask for what you want or know what you're worth at that particular moment, sometimes you're not always worth the same or equal, someone may be much more experienced or they do deserve the top job. So it doesn't always work. But in the times that you know that you are worth it, you have to ask for it. And sometimes you get it and sometimes you don't. Every once in a while it turns out okay.
Starting point is 01:03:49 Then there are lots of stories where it doesn't. That is amazing. Yeah. I can tell just, which by the way, let me just say this again, how tremendously honored and grateful I am that you're here, that you're having this conversation, you're allowing me to ask you questions. learning that you've never done a long form sit down interview where you're...
Starting point is 01:04:11 It's hard. It's hard for me to talk about myself. So thank you, Jamie. But I can tell there are also so many more things you shared, which is why I'm excited also for every second counts. But I want to talk about we, the women, because, you know, the hidden heroes who shaped America, I just... The best way I can describe, for me, the power of this book is I believe we can borrow each other's courage. I believe that when we think about how do I build a toolbox of things that give me strength, right?
Starting point is 01:04:42 Because, you know, you are blessed. I am blessed to have friends I can call or a husband I can call and can pour into me when I need to be reminded of who I am and all that. And I also think, though, not everyone has that. And also, even those of us that do have that, we can also pull from other women's stories and we can pull from their experiences and we can look back and go, Oh, that happened there. Oh, okay, this is not just me.
Starting point is 01:05:09 I'm going to press forward. I'm not going to let this hold me back. And I'm not going to let the fact that I feel like I don't fit in a room or belong in a room. Let me keep me from walking in that room. And there's just so many lessons in here that, you know, I wish I had heard earlier. I wish I had learned earlier. And I'm so excited for this book, We the Women. and I said this earlier, but I think it's the perfect gift for every girl, every woman,
Starting point is 01:05:41 every sister, every aunt, every grandma, every daughter, every neighbor's kid, like every teacher. It's just such a beautiful book. You can tell you poured three years into it with a whole team of incredible women like Julie Morris and so many others that poured into it with you. And I think it's such a gift. And you divide the book into second. And for the person listening or watching us right now, can you share what they should expect when they get this home and in your hope what this will do for them?
Starting point is 01:06:19 I hope that it inspires you and every reader. I hope that the stories of women sort of remind you of yourself or maybe someone in your family, You know, stories of sort of bravery, grit, determination, failure, rejection, being the first, right? Being denounced because you're the first in doing something. Dr. Mary Edwards-Walker is the first Army surgeon during the Civil War. I mean, she's the only woman in America to this day to have received the Medal of Honor. They tried to take it away from her and she refused to hand it back. But the other really interesting thing about being an army surgeon during the Civil War II,
Starting point is 01:07:05 she wore pants. She was one of the first women ever to be known to wear pants. And she said famously, I don't wear men's clothes. I wear my own clothes. So in every way, too, revolutionaries are different in a lot of ways. I mean, I think she wore pants because she was out on the battlefield as a surgeon, right? It didn't make sense to be wearing a skirt out there, too. but I hope people find inspiration in these stories of like just because you may feel doubted,
Starting point is 01:07:37 whether it's self-doubt or the doubt that other people try and place on you, that push through, whether it's the story in a book, a story in history, or a friend, family member, faith leader, find someone who is going to believe in you. we don't always have to believe in ourselves. Yes, that's important, but sometimes it helps to have someone believe in it with you. And I must say, Jamie, too, your book Worthy is so good. I mean, it has helped me. It helped me explore and explain the stories of these women in ways that I think are relatable to more people.
Starting point is 01:08:15 And I think as I wrote you too, when you wrote at the beginning of your book to imagine a world of women who feel worthy, If we woke up every day and women felt they were worthy, what would that world look like? D.D. Myers wrote a book, Why Women Should Rule the World many, many years ago. She was Bill Clinton's Press Secretary. And I always thought we should write a book, say, how to teach our girls how to rule the world. Because, yes, women should rule the world alongside men, too. Men and women should rule the world. Women are not ruling the world. They should. But I think the next question is how to teach our girls how to rule the world. And that's making them believe that they're worthy. It's making them see stories of other women in history who didn't have laws to support them, didn't have the same
Starting point is 01:09:16 educational rights, and yet somehow had so much grit and determination to try and change America and make it live up to the ideals in the Declaration of Independence. You know what I wonder? When you describe that feeling you had in person of every living U.S. president you felt of that they're just absolute belief, I wonder if you were in the room with some of these women in the past 2050 years, if you would feel that, that same sense. And I just wonder, how do we get every girl and woman to feel that, like unwavering belief in the, themselves? I think we're still a long way from there. Yeah. I think that in order for women to
Starting point is 01:10:03 get ahead, they have to get along. And so there's a lot of women's power and ambition that is held back by the current, you know, the current system. I'm not sure I'm fully explaining what that means. But in some ways, I think women are holding back their power. Themselves or from each other? No, I think it's being held back, you know, just the way we're taught. Yeah, to hold back our power and our expression. Yeah. But that has changed. And I note in the last chapter of my book, which I call my lifetime, the last 50 years, I mean, who was the highest grossing concert of all time? Taylor. I mean, talk about someone. I mean, talk about someone who is unabashedly powerful and is the poet of our generation.
Starting point is 01:10:58 You know? Look at the movie Barbie. Greta Gerwig and that incredible script and the message that it delivers. That was a blockbuster billion-dollar movie. So there's something there. Do you think with Michelle Obama recently, with everyone in the universe asking her, you know, if she's going to run for president, why hasn't she run for president? And she just finally, I think
Starting point is 01:11:24 it had it and said, you all are not ready for a woman in office. Do you think the country's ready for a woman to be president? I do. I do. And I think that as we have more and more women in elected office, well, that progress has not been steady. It's been slow. You know, Someday there will be, whether it's a female governor, a female member of the military, that they're going to run for president. We did just have two female party nominees, you know, in the last 10 years, Hillary Clinton and Kamala Harris. So I think we need more women in the Republican Party, more women in the Democratic Party, reaching for the highest and hardest glass ceiling to crack that.
Starting point is 01:12:20 And everyone should check how we cover women in power and the way we talk about them. Oh. Yeah. Yeah. And whether it's in business or in the media or in politics, I mean, I see the bias. I see the bias. Yeah. It's crazy.
Starting point is 01:12:46 You don't even want to know the conversations I get into with my five families when they start talking about a, female candidate's appearance or this or that. And I'm just like, you would never in a million years talk about the male candidate's appearance. Like when you're assessing, are they great for president? Like, it's just, it blows me away. Just the biased everywhere. Well, you know it as a businesswoman. I mean, a highly successful entrepreneur. We should all be in check and check our, the men we love in our lives, too. Women in our lives, too, who may have that same bias about women in power. that bias and be aware of it. But when women support women, great things happen. When men also support those women, you know, the world will change. You can do any podcast you choose to do.
Starting point is 01:13:37 You can do any interview in the world you choose to do. And you've interviewed everyone in the world. Why are you doing this podcast as your first ever long form podcast? Why are you here? Why did you say yes to this? Because I met you and I admire you. And you asked and I've seen the quality of your work. And I know what you're trying to do is change people for the better. And I'm all in on that.
Starting point is 01:14:13 100%. Like the emoji. Absolutely. 100%. I am in with everything you are doing about positivity. about being worthy, limiting self-doubt. I want women to realize their full potential. I'm lucky I get to work with some really powerful women.
Starting point is 01:14:37 And I see it less than younger women. I do think they don't have as much self-doubt maybe as my generation does. And I have teenage daughters, and, I mean, they are ready to take on the world. And that makes me really hopeful. But I admire you so much, Jamie, and the quality of your work is superb. And the fact that you've done the interviews that you've done with so many powerful people, especially women, and shedding light on whether it's their lives or menopause recently, that thing crushed it. Making our lives better. the health and wellness of women and our communities. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you so much. I'm glad I asked. I'm glad I asked you to come on. See, I asked. And I feel very honored. And I'm so grateful. And your work is incredible. And I want to say this, we the women, we the women, we are going to link to it. It's out everywhere books are sold. There's also the audiobook. I love doing both. I love the audiobook.
Starting point is 01:15:51 and the hard copy. Yes. Yeah, and I just taped the audiobook, and I mean, I made myself cry a number of times during it. Not made myself cry, I just cried. I mean, I put some of the stories. I'm just like, how. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:16:07 I have nothing to complain about in life. Like, women have had it tough. This book is a visceral experience. And I think if you're someone at home right now that just feels kind of like you're numb to everything or you're maybe just like want your hope ignited or you almost want to feel again. You know, I just think that so many of these stories, like you're saying, you're crying, recording the audiobook, but so many of them are just, you have a visceral experience with them. And also, I think that, I think that in my opinion, it is impossible to read We the Women
Starting point is 01:16:42 and not walk away, just inspired, inspired and also stronger. I felt stronger. Yeah. I felt stronger and like, okay, we've got this. Okay, we're going to go, we're going to make it through this. You know, we're going to come through this. We're going to come through it stronger. And we've got this.
Starting point is 01:17:01 And so I think I'm excited. I'm excited for everyone to get it in their hands and to get it home. And, you know, a friend of mine, John Maxwell said he always reads a book twice. And he said the first time he highlights it and the second time it highlights him. And I love that so much. And I think of that with this book because it'll be one of those books that, again, I was talking about having it on my coffee table, right? And you just want to pick it up whenever you just need a boost that day.
Starting point is 01:17:27 Or, you know, you're just like, okay, I'm going to stop scrolling Instagram and I need to feel alive again. Let me take five minutes and read, you know, about a woman in history who's really done incredible things under who's really defied the odds. Thank you. You know? Well, I brought my copy of Worthy, which you'll see not only do I highlight, there's highlight and underline and post-it notes. And then the Post-it notes have at the top of it, the topics. So you'll see, I use multiple forms of annotation on my books, yeah, so that I remember it, so that it like seeps in and stays with me.
Starting point is 01:18:01 Yes, yes. Nora O'Donnell, this is amazing. Thank you. Thank you for your time. Thank you for flying all the way here to the studio. This is a blessing and a gift to everyone who gets to experience this with you and me today. And I'm just, I'm excited for all the feedback, all the stories, all the stories we're going to share about we the women when they get at home because I feel like every one of us can
Starting point is 01:18:21 see parts of ourselves like you said earlier in these stories. And congratulations on an incredible book. Thank you so much, Jamie. And thank you to your incredible team. Thanks for all that you do. Thank you. Remember this episode's not just for you and me. Please share this with every single person you know because it can impact and change their life too. And if you love today's episode, please click the follow or subscribe button for the show on the app that you're listening to it on or watching it on. And if it added value to your life, if you could please give it a rating or review, I love a great five-star review. I would be so, so grateful. And again, share it with everyone you believe in.
Starting point is 01:19:01 Maybe it's another person in your life who could benefit from it or someone you know who's making a change in their career or marriage or health or just trying to get in touch with their story and the power that's inside of them. Share it with your community online who just might need the work. and tools and lessons in this episode today. You never know whose life you're meant to change today by sharing this episode. And thank you so much for joining me today. Before you go, I wanna share some words with you
Starting point is 01:19:27 that couldn't be more true. You right now, exactly as you are, are enough and fully worthy. You're worthy of your greatest hopes, your wildest dreams, and all the unconditional love in the world. And it is an honor to welcome you to each and every episode of the Jamie Carmelima Show. Here, I hope you'll come as you are and heal where you need. Blossom what you choose, journey toward your calling, and stay as long as you like because you belong here. You are worthy,
Starting point is 01:19:58 you are loved, you are love, and I love you. And I love you. And I cannot wait to join you on the next episode of the Jamie Kernelina Show. In life, you don't soar to the level of your hopes and dreams. You stay stuck at the level of your self-worth. When you build your self-worth, you change your entire life. And that's exactly why I wrote my new book, Worthy, how to believe you are enough and transform your life for you. If you have some self-doubt to destroy and a destiny to fulfill, worthy is for you.
Starting point is 01:20:35 In Worthy, you'll learn proven tools and simple steps that bring life-changing results, like how to get unstuck from the things hold. you back. Build unshakable self-love. Unlearn the lies that lead to self-doubt and embrace the truths that wake up worthiness. Overcome limiting beliefs and imposter syndrome. Achieve your hopes and dreams by believing you are worthy of them and so much more. Are you ready to unleash your greatness and step into the person you were born to be? Imagine a life with zero zero, self-doubt, an unshakable self-worth. Get your copy of Worthy, plus some amazing thank-you bonus gifts for you at worthybook.com
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