The Joe Rogan Experience - #2102 - Will Storr
Episode Date: February 14, 2024Will Storr is a former journalist and author. He is the author of several books, the most recent of which is "The Status Game: On Human Life and How to Play It." www.thescienceofstorytelling.com Learn... more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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CNN at one point in time, when Bourdain had a show on, they were doing some very interesting things.
They were trying to do shows, not just the news, right? So they had no reservations was the best one of them.
Where they had, you know, they just told Anthony Bourdain,
just be you and just do what you,
do your best version of your show.
And they really just get out of the way.
And it was fucking amazing.
Yeah, yeah, so they gotta have his way there
and be the best of himself.
They figured out how to do that, you know?
Kamal Bell had a really good show too.
Is that show still on?
What was that show called?
I'm sorry. I forget the name of these shows
but W. Kamal Bell was
Really good at being like calm. He's
Shades of United Shades of America really good at being calm like talking like KKK people
shades of America, really good at being calm, like talking to KKK people. And he's black, and he's a comic.
But he's just like a very nice guy.
He's a very nice guy, like a genuinely nice guy in real life.
And so when he's doing a show, even when he's confronted by the most ignorant racists, he
can have conversations with them.
And then, you know, they're like, well, you're not like the others.
You know?
Well, that's the best kind of journalism.
You know, you got to, you can properly immerse yourself in those worlds.
Yeah. And CNN did that for a while.
You know, they had that other show.
Was it radical with.
That one gentleman who.
Reza Aslan, is that his name?
That was another good show.
They did some interesting stuff.
They did like quite a few interesting shows where they were just shows.
It wasn't what it is now.
Which is this like bizarre version of news tick-tock.
Just grabbing you with everything that's going to terrify you every day.
And there's so much to terrify you about day and there's so much to terrify you from about today.
You know?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
They seem to have lost the art of stories heading in any way.
Yeah, it's very unfortunate.
So, ladies and gentlemen, we started this podcast after a long conversation about Anthony Bourdain,
but it felt like we were already rolling, so let's just roll into it.
I really enjoyed your intrigue andometry, and that's why I wanted to talk to you here.
Because it's just, I think your book is the status game.
That's right.
And I think what's really interesting about what you're
talking about mechanisms that make people understand
like behavior patterns.
In a way, instead of just accepting them, you know,
because I think a lot of people fall into accepting behavior patterns.
But what you're showing is like these status games that human beings play, they're sort
of wired into our being.
And we don't recognize them.
They can get hijacked by far right movements or far left movements or a lot of
different things can happen that can really screw your life up if you get hijacked by these just
normal mechanisms of human thinking. That's right. That's right. So I think the general
thesis is that humans want two things. They want connection into groups and then once they're in
the group they want status. So it's not enough to feel like we're a Christian.
We have to be a good Christian and that means following certain rules.
And that's what brains just want to do.
That brains don't really care about what's true.
Brains are always asking this question, who do I have to be
and what do I have to believe in order to earn connection and status? Yes, we're all vulnerable to this stuff. That's how people end up believing fucking crazy things because the brain's just
Believing what it has to believe. I've seen it with people that get what you call audience capture
Where their audience they find they get some love you can only if you're doing it politically you only do it once
It's a dangerous move. It's like changing genders like you can't go male to female
the backs of male again it's fucking too complicated right you got one shot if
you start out of liberal you're a lifelong liberal and then at 36 all of
a sudden you become like the most hardcore right-wing Republican like that
seems like I well what did you believe before? And what happened?
Did you take mushrooms?
Did you fall in your head?
Did something happen where you just radically changed
your ideology?
Or did you get captured by the idea of being accepted
with much more vigor by the other side?
Like, that's one thing that they really do enjoy
when someone bails on the other side. And then, again, you they really do enjoy when someone bails on the other side
and then again, you can only do it once,
but you get like really embraced.
That's right.
And the more you're embraced, the more you believe.
And yeah, I mean, there's this concept
that I write about, I call it active belief.
Like there are loads of beliefs that we have like
how long is the Mississippi River,
you know, what is coffee?
Like we don't argue about these beliefs, but there are certain categories of belief that
possess us.
And these are the beliefs that we form our identity around and they're the beliefs that
we plug our status into.
So you know, like if you're a Christian, it's like I believe Jesus died and then three days
later got up.
And as I said, you know, these beliefs are kind of dangerous
because they take us over.
It's not enough just to believe them, passively.
You have to act them out with your life.
And so these are the beliefs that drive things like
the satanic panic, cult movements, communism, Nazism.
These are beliefs that sort of possess people
and take them over.
It's like a parasite.
They're kind of scary things, but as I said,
you know, we're all vulnerable
to these kind of active beliefs.
I'm fascinated by cult documentaries.
And I was talking to my friend Todd,
we were talking about wow, wow country.
And we both said the same thing.
God, in the beginning it looked awesome.
In the beginning it looked very,
they were having so much fun.
And I think of myself at 21.
And I had no real, like,
confidence in my view of the world.
I had no, I was 21.
I was a young dummy.
I did not know, you know,
what was correct and what was incorrect.
I had a general sense.
My family was very left wing.
My parents were hippies in San Francisco,
so I had sort of an ideology attached to that.
But I had no idea how anything in the world worked.
And if I ran into the wrong yoga teacher.
No, but that's it. But that's how humans work, you know, with this tribal animal. And nobody
has any idea how the world works until they plug into a group. And the group has its stories
that it tells about how the world works. Every group has its model of what a hero is. And
this set of beliefs a hero has. And once we've plugged into that group, we orient ourselves towards becoming that person.
And you know, cults are interesting
because cults are like,
all human groups are kind of cults, but looser.
So every human group is a status game
in the sense that it's a group of people
who believe the same things
and there's sort of rules for being part of that group.
And the more
the better you become at following those rules and becoming its ideal of self, the higher you rise up that status game. The only difference between cult and a religion and a business and a political
group is just that it's much tighter. So the rules are much stricter, like there's a zillion rules,
like you know I've written before about what they called it. There was
the what was the cult that they cut them they castrated themselves. Yeah heavens gate. Heaven's
gate. That's right. Yeah and they had rules even about like how much toothpaste you're
allowed to put on your toothbrush they had a they had a rule about exactly how how scrambled
eggs were to be cooked and the rule was dry but not burnt.
So there was a rule about how much water you put in your bathtub.
Was the leader castrated as well?
No, he wasn't surprisingly enough.
Really?
Yeah, they were called tea and dough.
There it is, tea.
Just imagine you are so low in your life that you think that's the guy that has all the answers
Is that a tribal thing? This is what I've always assumed that that's just some holdover from when we were a part of groups of
150 people that needed a leader and
Generally that leader would be some old warlord. It's probably like 35
Like you know back then but, but they had gone through
a lot and was a strong leader, was someone that you admired as a leader.
And maybe in these tribal times, that's baked into our DNA.
And when someone comes along and speaks confidently, I am never confident.
I'm never confident about, if you're so confident about all these thoughts and about what life is about and where we're going and what awaits us
And if you follow these rules God, that's so confident. I'm not that confident. So I could get sucked in
Yeah, any human could get sucked in but is that what it's from is it from tribal times?
Yeah, yes and no so one of the really surprising things about tribes the tribes in which we evolved is that the idea of the big man is a
bit of a myth.
So they were kind of leaderless.
Leaders would bubble up by consensus when, say, we wanted to solve a particular problem
to do with hunting, then the best hunters would be deferred to.
What do you think?
So the big...
But at some point in time, they became leaders.
I mean, they've been leaders for so long.
When we settled down.
When was that?
Like agriculture days?
Yeah, it was about 11,000 years ago.
But don't you think that's enough to bake it into our DNA?
I don't know.
I think what is in our DNA is that idea of A stories.
So we're storytelling animals.
We think in stories.
Every tribe has its particular story about the world.
And so we're very good at channeling those stories.
And as I said, every story has its design of what is a hero,
and we try and become that kind of hero.
So that's that holdover from the tribal day.
But more fundamentally is, again, it's
that brain question of, who do I have to be?
What do I have to do?
Tell me what I have to do in order
to achieve connection and status.
And that's what a charismatic leader does.
It tells you this is what you've got to do.
These are the rules.
This is who you have to become.
And that's really seductive to us subconsciously because those two things of connection and
status are so incredibly important to us.
Yeah.
It's...
Is it something you think should be taught very early on?
It seems like this is information we should get to kids
as young as we can.
So they can recognize these patterns
that people fall into.
Absolutely.
I've always thought that there should be a lesson
in school about what is a human?
What is the basic operating system manual for a human?
And these are the mistakes that humans make. Because as I said, one of the sort of big ideas is that
we're not particularly interested in the truth.
The truth is it doesn't matter to human brains.
What matters is what do I have to believe in order to,
for people to like me and respect me?
Yeah.
Well, that's why religions, like even radical religions
are so intoxicating.
Like you have to be all in.
You're part of a very special group and you all love each other like brothers and sisters
because you're part of this group.
And you can come up with some radical ideas and get people to subscribe to that, especially
if you attach things like death for people who leave.
You know? Yeah, you know?
Yeah, yeah, that's right.
You're operating in some red line territory.
Like that's a wild group.
And the religions and the cults always do that thing
of offering amazing rewards.
But at some point in the future.
Bro, heaven, it's the best spot ever.
And the version of heaven differs
between how bad the place where you live sucks.
Yeah.
And it's like, I think there's like, there's like eight and a half billion people in the
world and the amount of, I think there's like 500 million atheists.
So that just shows you how many, just how wide we are to believe.
Basically any old shit we're told to believe as long as we feel like it's going to get
a status and secure connection into a supportive group
We were our memory during this suicide bomber days when that was something that was in the news all the time
They talked about 72 virgins and that these gentlemen thought that they were gonna get 72 virgins in heaven like that is so cultural
Yeah, like if you offered 72 virgins to a Christian, they'd be like what the fuck are you talking about?
I'm not fucking any virgins crazy psycho. How old are they? Like if you offered 72 Virgin to a Christian, they'd be like, what the fuck are you talking about?
I'm not fucking any Virgin, you crazy psycho.
How old are they?
What are you saying?
I'm not a pedophile, dude, I just like women.
What the fuck?
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, I'm not sure how,
I mean, I don't know if that 72 Virgin thing is true.
I think it's true.
There could be like 21 year old versions
that have been saved for this moment by the great one.
But I think that term is not for this moment by the great one.
But I think that term is not real.
I think the term 72 virgins is like saying, how many times have you lost your phone, a
fucking million?
It's like that kind of a, it's an exaggeration.
But I think the real promise there though, I mean the 72 virgins is yeah, but I think
the real promise for suicide bombers is again it's status.
If you sacrifice your life on behalf of the group's mission, you're a hero.
You're like a god.
And so that's the promise.
And again, I think it's a really good example of how human beings value status over their
lives.
I mean, that's how much we value status.
We're the only animal that kills ourself, which is just a weird thing in itself, that
an animal would voluntarily end its own life.
And very often the reason that people will kill themselves is because it's a sudden
drop in status or they feel completely isolated and alone.
So they're lacking in those essential kind of psychological resources to such an extent
that they, you know, end their own lives.
And that's how much we value these things.
And suicide bombers are another manifestation of that. Like if you're gonna consider me a hero,
and if Muhammad is gonna consider me a hero,
strap me up, brother.
You know, that's how much,
that's how crazy we become about these social rewards.
God, that is such an insane belief.
It's so insane.
And when the most evil thing
is when you hear about them talking kids into doing it. Yeah
You know
A young child, you know, you're getting a I mean, what is the youngest suicide bomber they've ever used?
I don't know
Just the idea that
You can buy into it so much that you're willing to let your children go do that
Yeah, but it's wild.
It's evil if you think it's this kind of calculating, kind of mathematical algorithm
of advantage, but they sincerely believe it.
They really believe it's true.
I mean, when I was a journalist, I've been meeting kind of crazy people,
including Nazis as part of my journalistic career.
That's one of the things that always strikes me
is that they really believe it, this crazy stuff.
So it's not evil in the sense that they're doing anything
calculating by talking their children
to being suicide bombers.
They think they're doing something heroic.
They think they're doing something amazing. As did the Nazis,
as did the communists.
As does the KKK. People, they can fall into belief structures and they don't necessarily
have to make sense. But if they find enough supportive people around them that also believe
that, then it becomes part of their tribe identity. Yeah. And it can get, it can be really stupid. We're fucking way more vulnerable than we like to believe. That's one of the things that
I was saying like when I watched those cult documentaries. Part of me is like, thank God,
I didn't run into those people. Thank God. They would have got me. And when they look at the
psychology of people that are vulnerable to falling into cults, it's very often people that have
struggled to fit into the status games of ordinary life.
The family hasn't worked, the job hasn't worked, the hobbies haven't worked.
So they've got no identity, they've got no tribe, so they're really vulnerable to these
cults, which, because what cults offer is absolute certainty.
If you cook your scrambled eggs this way, if you only put two inches of water in your bath,
you're gonna, you know, the UFOs will come down and they're gonna take you to the level
above. That's what they were offering to you though, the level above human.
Yeah, we're the Nikes though. Remember you have to wear the purple Nikes?
Yeah. But that's right. And there's this crazy memoir of one of the guys who was in this
group. He didn't cut his own balls off,
he left before the ball cutting.
But he was jealous, like he wanted to have his balls cut
and there was only one person that could have it done
at the beginning and they flipped a coin
and he was really annoyed that he lost the coin flip.
Oh my God.
But what was interesting about his memoir was he said
that people talk about brainwashing in cults
and people talk about how we were forced to follow these rules.
But we wanted to follow the rules.
Not following the rules would be like being a NASA astronaut and just not caring about
how the space shuttle works.
So they don't consider themselves brainwashed.
They consider themselves, well, they're just in a status game, like any other status game.
It's just a very, very strict one.
Right. Well, that's why, you know, one of the fascinating things about some cults is
that they use very bizarre language and that they all agree to it. They have like specific
terms that they say. Like, doesn't Scientologists, they'll call people, they have like an abbreviation
for someone who's like a hostile person. What is it that they do? Because I remember someone was explaining to
me, someone who left the church was explaining to me how like if someone would be hostile,
you have like a very specific way you describe them and that they all do it in the group.
And it's like...
Suppressive persons.
That's a suppressive person. Yes, you're a suppressive person.
Or potential trouble source. Dude, I ordered Dianetics in like 1994.
I had just moved to LA and I thought it was a self-help book.
I was like, alright, yeah, fucking look at, your brain's gonna explode.
You gotta get your shit together. Look at all these people that are succeeding on Dianetics.
You know, it's 26 or whatever it was.
So I ordered this book and they've never stopped sending me things.
I mean they fucking never stopped sending me things.
Was there ever a point when you thought,
hang on a minute, this is quite interesting.
No, no, once I realized it was Scientology,
I was like, oh, Dianetics is Scientology?
I was like, okay, but then part of me was like,
damn, a lot of these Scientologists
are doing really well in Hollywood.
Maybe that's a good cult to join.
Maybe if they just let me be me.
Cause it seems like that was part of it.
There was a big allure over how many successful people were following that religion.
I mean, some of the most successful actors.
Tom Cruise is one of the most successful actors of all time and he's literally the poster boy for that.
Yeah, that's right. Somebody was saying to me the other day that they thought that actors were particularly
susceptible to Scientology because they've got this weird, they don't really have an
identity actors.
They're always sort of slipping into everybody at different people's identities.
I thought that was interesting.
Especially if you're really good.
You're probably lose who the fuck you are.
Who am I?
Am I Rocky?
Am I the Mission Impossible guy?
Yeah, well, when they're walking around,
everybody treats them that way.
I'm sure they treat Stallone like he's Rocky.
Yeah, you've got to give respect to Tom Cruise, though,
because Tom Cruise is like 60 years old,
and he still does his own stunts,
including jumping a motorcycle off a cliff.
That's how much he believes in this stuff.
But that's why these groups are kind of functional as well. It's like I kind of have a weak
sympathy. I grew up in a very strict Catholic household with very strict
Catholic parents and I was very, I hated it, I was very rebellious as a
teenager and I guess in my twenties and thirties I was very very atheist and
you know hated religion.
But then I kind of did a lot of this research and when you're once you accept that what
humans need to be healthy psychologically and physically is connection and status, you
see that that's actually what religion provides people.
That's what religion provides my parents is that they're connected into community and
they feel important.
They feel they're good Catholics because my dad conducts the choir and this, that and the other.
And so that's invaluable.
That's what humans need to survive.
And in the current world, in the huge populations
in which we live, it's very hard to feel securely connected.
I mean, as you said at the moment,
the tribes in which we evolve were very small,
like 13 to 50 people.
So it was quite easy to feel securely connected. It was quite easy in that environment to feel
important, valued by other people. Probably it was not rare in the tribe to feel invaluable,
like you're needed, because everybody was needed. There wasn't many people around to
find the tubers and catch the rabbits or whatever. in this day and age and these huge groups in which we belong to it. It's much harder to feel
Relative status because you're competing with millions of people especially online. So and I think that's a source of a huge
amounts of sort of mid misery in the modern world a stress it's all about and I call it an identity anxiety
Yeah, I don't stress with we feel really unsatisfied with the amount of connection and I call it identity anxiety, identity stress.
We feel really unsatisfied with the amount of connection and status that we have because
we exited these fucking massive international tribes now.
I think there's another factor.
The other factor is I think because of the nature of commuting and public transportation
and of going to work all day and then, you know,
being under someone else's control most of the day and then commuting home, I think we're
conversation starved. I think the way human beings figure out what's the best way to behave
and what's the nicest way that we can all get along what what makes the most sense is when we talk the most yeah
And most of the day you can't really talk
Most of the day you can't sit down for a couple hours like this and just say why do we behave this way?
Why is there this weird pattern that is so strong?
It's so such a tightly cut groove that cutting your balls off and wearing purple sneakers becomes appealing
Yeah, it could fit right in there. Yeah, it seems to be this like a pathway for this
Yeah, and what and that's how humans communicate is you know, we sit down and we tell stories yeah, and and if we don't get to talk
Yeah, absolutely. We're very lucky. We get to talk. Yeah, but most people don't get to talk like this. Yeah, I don't have the time
Yeah, but most people don't get to talk like this. Yeah, I don't have the time. Yeah, and
That's to our huge cost. Yes, okay really because where do we get the stories from we get them from social media?
We get them from the news which is increasingly
Policized and
Hysterical yeah, and so we you know the outrage goes up like if you're a use car salesman and you talk to people you're bullshitting people all day
Long when do you ever turn the bullshit off? Do you know how to anymore? You probably become a use car salesman and you talk to people, you're bullshitting people all day long. When do you ever turn the bullshit off?
Do you know how to anymore?
You probably become a used car salesman forever.
Yeah.
Well, that's what we do.
I mean, that's a perfect example of how the status games work is that used car salesman
is a status game and it has this particular model of self which we kind of, the brain
identifies and turns us into.
By the way, I should just say there's a lot of very cool used car salesmen.
I don't want to pick on them.
It's just a joke.
It's like, it's a term, but you do know there's a difference between salespeople that are
just real friendly folks and then super-saly guys.
And those super-saly guys are like, how does that guy turn that off?
Like that's such a bullshit way to talk.
Yeah, John Paul Sartre wrote about this.
He called it bad faith.
And he was sitting in a cafe in Paris at one time.
And he was watching the waiter.
And he realized that the waiter was just behaving
like a waiter, like a classic Parisian waiter.
He's going, look at his movements.
And he was just really annoying.
John Paul Sartre, he called it, he's acting in bad faith.
He's doing the dance of the waiter.
That's not really who he is.
Right.
He's just being the waiter. And he said, there's the dance of the auctione, he's doing the dance of the waiter. That's not really who he is. Right. He's just being the waiter.
And he said, there's the dance of the auctioneer, there's the dance of the used car salesman.
And that's kind of what we do.
And the dance of the strip club DJ.
And the dance of the member of the cult.
You know, like...
Yeah, dance of the lead singer of a rock and roll band.
And that's what the brain does though.
It identifies, okay, what group am I in?
What does a hero look like?
I've got to turn myself into this person.
Yeah, that was a giant thing and standup
to the point where the punchline in Atlanta, Georgia
had a back green room and people would write on the walls
and someone wrote in big letters,
quit trying to be Hicks.
That's beautiful.
And when Jamie is toward the place, he's not this Jamie, Jamie that owns the club, tore
the place down, he swore he saved that for me.
I want that little piece of memorabilia.
Because it was just so, there were so many people that saw Hicks and were like, God he's
so profound, I want to be profound, but you don't have shit to say, you don't even read.
I know, I know.
Do we talk about Dennis Leary in this? There's no need to okay?
Yeah, there's no need to but yeah, okay. I've said enough about that okay, but yeah
there's there's just a lot of that there's a lot of
Posturing you know like yeah, it's not really how you feel
But you see how this is appealing and you see that there's a pattern
that seems to be successful and then you just mimic that pattern, mock that pattern.
Yeah. And that's why it's so incredible when someone comes along and does something in
that space that's new, but still works. That's like, for me, the definition of a genius, that
anybody can experiment, but most experiments go wrong. But if you experiment with the form
of stand-up or whatever, if everyone's doing Hicks and you come out with something new
and it works, that's incredible.
It's just people are so easily influenced when someone is really stunningly good.
There's a David Tell problem.
The David Tell problem is David Tell's so good that when you work with him all the time,
you start delivering your punchlines like him.
But they're not as good as his punchlines.
And you fucking sound like David Tell.
But it's not even, they're not like plagiarists.
They're just easily influenced people that are starting,
they're not good yet, you know what I mean?
And get susceptible to patterns.
Yeah, I don't even know if I would say
that it was easy influence, I think it's just normal.
That's how brains work.
You know, they mimic, they copy.
When guys work together all the time, I see they start making the same sort of similar
hand movements on stage. They start doing the same kind of things.
Well, just to say, if you read a book that you really love, the next day you'll turn
your computer on and you'll be writing in a slightly shit version of that style.
Well, that's what Hunter was telling me.
It's really annoying.
Like, he said he did. Didn't he write the great Gatsby over and over and over again
just to get a sense of the rhythm of the words? When he was learning how to write, I believe he did that. But I think he also
did the book of revelations, didn't he? Whoa! Yeah, which I thought was amazing, because you can really
sense that in his writing, this kind of apocalyptic madness. I'm sure I read that, a similar thing
about, I don't know if he rewrote the revelations or whether he used to read it over and over again,
but I'm sure I remember reading that about Hunter Thompson
I believe that for sure
Typed out the great Caspian farewell to arms word for word a
Method for learning how to write like the masters. Wow. That's that's someone dedicated commitment. Yeah, that's dedicated to it
He's another guy. It's like man. If you just like drank half as much, you'd probably still be around.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
I would have loved to have met him.
Y'all, he did amazing on this, yeah.
At the end, though, man, fuck.
I remember he did an episode of Conan O'Brien,
and you couldn't understand a word he was saying.
And it was so sad.
It's like when you watch an old boxer,
and they can't talk anymore.
It's kind of a similar feeling.
Because in the early days, when he was running for sheriff
of Pickin County in Colorado and Aspen, I mean he was on fire. He was amazing. He was like at the height of his verbal skill
He was young and vibrant and then to see him at the end where he could barely you couldn't understand what he was saying
vibrant and then to see him at the end where he could barrel you couldn't understand what he was saying. It's like everything was a slur. It was all
this weird like he had a bunch of health problems, hip replacements, you know,
before he killed himself but not much before. Yeah and the suicide
tragically almost becomes predictable in a way because again it's that he was he
had this status he was his incredible brain and he knows that he's he's down here now and that's intolerable for some of that to live
with that's the that's the tragedy of that yes you got to manage the biology
kids yeah you got to manage your biology and you've got to manage the decline I
mean yeah that I think when you when you've got as high as you know status
wise as he has is that level of genius.
And then you fit that decline.
It's a dangerous place to be.
It's also, it has to be just tied to the alcohol,
because the mind is still the same mind.
Like when 9-11 happened, he still wrote a brilliant piece
about 9-11.
Did you ever see that?
Johnny Depp narrated it in the movie.
And it was fucking great. He narrated a couple of these Hunter 2 it in the movie, and it was fucking great.
He narrated a couple of these Hunter two pieces in the movie,
and one of them was like how the 60s.
See if you can find that, Jamie.
When Johnny Depp does this, Hunter S. Thompson,
he narrates this story about the wave pulling back.
It's the wave of culture and it's so eloquently, brilliantly written and it's about the hope that he had in the 1960s
and how the 1970s came and it all pulled back. It's a brilliant piece.
It's brilliant. And it's just... This is it.
Strange memories on this note.
Not beautiful. And so accurate.
And when we think about the way our world changed four years ago,
I mean, it's kind of similar in a way, like,
what the fuck happened? Four years later,
like, what the fuck happened?
And I think with
us though there's hope that we'll eventually get to some place of
normalcy and and and some semblance of peace but what what happened in the
1960s is fucking bananas yeah I mean they they basically turned this
counterculture hippie love movement into Charles Manson and
the Manson family and fucking CIA was dosing people with LSD and they were doing anything
they can to stop the anti-war movement, anything they can to stop these hippies and made everything
illegal.
They made marijuana, well marijuana was already illegal, but all the Schedule I substances,
it's all the sweeping part of the 1970 Psychedelic act that was all about the civil rights movement was all about
Just arresting people for any kind of protests any anti-government
Anti-war let's find these hippies everything's illegal. Fuck you go to jail and they put water on it
They just put the fire out. I didn't the fire out. They put the fire out on
this psychedelic counterculture that was the 1960s and we paid for it artistically.
If you look at the 1980s, it's a fucking disaster. What happened in the 1980s? It's like these
people, all they have was cocaine. They're just doing cocaine and alcohol and the movies
are out of control.
Yeah. I mean, the 1980s, the other thing that changed was of course the economy in the 1980s
and that was for me, that's the big thing that changed.
Yes.
Like the economies of the West fell to bits in the 1970s, like before the 1970s.
Right, the gas crisis.
Yeah.
I think we forget about that.
They've ruined American automobiles.
Yeah, and then so Thatcher and Reagan came up with this neoliberalism idea of
increasing competition everywhere, getting rid of the big state, selling off and, you know,
privatizing all the national industries, going to war with the unions. And when I was doing my
research for my book, Selfie, I was sort of, because I was interested to know,
like if you change the rules of the status game,
do we change as a culture, as a bunch of people?
And it really does seem like that.
Like if you think about who were in the 1960s
versus who were in the 1980s,
you go from fuck the man to greed is good, you know.
Yeah.
You know, we like, and I found this really quite sinister interview
from 1981 with Margaret Thatcher,
where they're interviewing her about,
you know, what are your big plans?
And she said, she was going on about,
you know, in the last 30 years,
everything had been about the collectivism
and getting together and now that we're gonna get rid
of all that and increased competition.
And she said this thing, she said, the method is economic, but the object is to change the soul.
Which is a really like megalomaniac chains bond villain thing to say.
But she did do that, they did do that.
Like change the soul.
Yeah, like so, but by changing the rules of who we have to be in order to achieve success, they changed who we were.
Like we became, you know, as a people, Gordon Gekko, material girl, Madonna, Whitney Houston,
the greatest love of all is loving yourself.
Like we became, you know, this big, as you say, we went from pot to cocaine.
There was a really interesting study that they found in 1983, they were looking at changes
in birth names.
And for generations and generations,
babies have been called things like Alfred and John
and Barbara, all the traditional names.
But in 1983, suddenly we started naming our kids
weird names because we wanted our kids to stand out
and be a star.
And when you look at the changes in values
between like the 60s and the 80s and 90s,
suddenly money becomes a dominant value,
celebrity becomes a dominant value,
being good looking becomes a much more dominant value.
But there was a study about 20 years ago,
they asked 2,500 British under tens, what is the best thing
in the world? And these under tens, number one was being a celebrity, number two was
being good looking, number three was being rich. Like that's who we've become. And the
big change is the economy. Like we've become these kind of neoliberal profit obsessed celebrity
obsessed individualists.
What's number four?
I don't know what number four.
I want to know why.
Yeah.
I think because they're young though, right?
When you're young, that's what seems like everybody wants.
But not in the 60s and 70s.
Like when they did a similar study in the 60s,
I think it was 1965, it was less than half of people
thought being rich was an important thing in your life. now it's way over 75 percent. That's interesting
Yeah, I wonder how many of those people wanted to be famous before the invention of social media and reality shows
Well, I yeah, I know I wonder if there was a lesson an aspiration there was yeah
So all of that celebrity stuff comes out of the 80s and the 80s what defines the 80s is these big economic changes
Yeah, you know like in order to survive in the 80s. And the 80s, what defines the 80s is these big economic changes.
Yeah.
You know, like in order to survive in the 80s, you had to be like a radical individualist.
You had to be a get up and go profit motive, self-sustaining individualist, like a competitive
individual. Because before that, we had the big state, we had big social security cushions
we had in public housing. And they got rid of all of that.
I feel like there's a comfortable medium in there.
We're missing out on, like don't be competitive to the point where you're a fucking psychopath.
You're saying greed is good.
Don't be that guy.
But also don't be lazy and rely on the state to take care of you either.
Well, yeah, I think, I'm not sure if it was Tony Blair, but certainly I think it was Tony
Blair that talked about the idea of neoliberalism with cushions, which I love that idea where
because it's true that it kind of worked.
It was brutal in the 80s, but we're most of us are much wealthier now than we were in
the 80s.
Like it's kind of worked, but it's also created much more separation between the top and the bottom, much more
inequality. So the rich are much richer now and the poor are much poorer than they were
in the middle of the 20th century. So it's created a lot more unfairness as well. So
you do need those cushions, I think.
Well, it also becomes an insurmountable position too. Like when we say the rich get richer,
the poor aren't getting any richer. So that's
part of the problem. It's like there's no escape from severe poverty. Very few people
escape. And when you're in severe poverty, especially if you're in another country, like
when people look at this caravan of people coming in through South America, through Mexico,
I would do it too.
100%, 100%.
I'm not a terrorist.
I would hope that it wouldn't be a terrorist
in a different life, but 100% if I was living
in a place that sucked with dirt floors
and I found I could walk to America.
I'm like, I can get a job there, let's go.
You would do it, 100%.
It's natural.
Seems like a normal thing that people want to have a better
life. I think that we've just got to figure out why we have these parts of the world,
why we have these communities that are just never getting better and help them. It's just
super simple. You want the world to be a safer place? Take all these places and suck and give them economic security give them education and health care
Set up school systems that are really good. You're gonna change the whole atmosphere
You're gonna change everything provide job opportunities set up places where we should make how about here's a law
Here's a lot I should make
we should make, how about, here's a law, here's a law that should make.
You can't sell anything made by people
who make less than would be legal here.
Wouldn't that be an amazing law if we passed that?
If we just said, listen, we all know this is bullshit.
Okay, we all know that if you're buying an iPhone,
there's a lot going on that you wouldn't like to see.
There's a lot going on, from wouldn't like to see. There's a lot
going on from the mining of the cobalt to the people in the factories. I don't
want to see that. I want the shiny titanium thing. It's so pretty. You know,
you move it around your hand like, wow, that's amazing. That's what you want. You
don't want to know how the sausage is made. But if you really want to, I mean, if you
want to try to fix everything everywhere, say,
I'm not buying anything from anybody who doesn't get paid what you're supposed to get paid
here.
Yeah, but you got to account for the economies are different in parts of the world, aren't
they?
Okay, then let's balance it out for the economies in those places.
Yeah, yeah, I think that's a good rule.
Do they do that though?
They might actually, I mean, what is the economy?
If you're in Mexico, what, what are you
allowed to pay people in Mexico and how much does it go? Like let's say, let's pick a place,
Juarez, that's a kind of a border town, it's like, if you, if you have a own a factory
in Juarez, how much do you have to pay those people?
What is that? I don't, the economists have that Big Mac test where they look at how much a Big Mac costs
in each territory and from that they can work out the relative strength of each economy.
It's like, so the test would be you'd have to be able to buy X amount of Big Macs per
day with your daily wage. If you... You know, we just have this real weird desire to never stop making more.
Like, real weird desire to like maximize profit, expand, expand, make a big...
Nobody ever has a company and goes, we're good.
Just like leave it like this.
That's because status is relative.
Right. And so you're always insecure about your like you don't
Status is imaginary resource like only exists in our minds in the minds of other people
So you can't keep it you can't you can't put it in a box
So you're constantly having to make sure that it's still there. It's still there
You're constantly your state like Apple are measuring their status versus Google
and Samsung or whoever.
So there's that constant chippiness.
So you're always trying to ratchet up.
There was this really hilarious study they did
where they got a bunch of multiple millionaires
and billionaires and they asked them,
how much more money would you need to be perfectly happy?
And uniformly they said,
between two and three times more money. And it's like, you're not going to be perfectly happy, you
delusional. But that's the human brain. So we think, well, when I've achieved this thing,
I'll be perfectly happy. But of course, we're happy for about 10 seconds. Then we want the
next thing and the next thing and the next thing. And actually, like it is exhausting,
but it's also how we built civilization. It's also an incredible, amazing thing
that we're restless, we're never satisfied.
We want better and better and better and better.
Like it drives us forward.
Well, I was gonna say about the McDonald's thing.
It's also a function of being a part of a public company.
You have an obligation, you're shareholders,
to make more money.
Like the whole idea is let's make more money.
We have to make more money, let's make more money. Like hey, I'm looking at the money, it's not more. I like more money. Like the whole idea is let's make more money. We have to make more money, let's make more money.
Like hey, I'm looking at the money, it's not more.
I'd like more money.
That's the slight problem with it,
because you can measure your status in all kinds
of different ways, in any, you know,
there's infinite ways you can measure your status.
And money being just one of them,
but that's part of the problem with the public companies
is that money becomes the only important.
And it's not just money, it's short term profit.
Like it has to, every quarter has to go up and go up
and go up and go up.
So that's a sort of damaged incentive in a way.
How much different would the world be
if we made that illegal?
I'm not saying we should, I'm not saying we should.
But how much different would the world be
where all corporations have to be private?
All of them.
You just have to be a company. You can't just sell your stuff to people like whatever you are, what piece of
this and whatever you want to call it, stocks, call it whatever you want. You're
selling chunks of your company, right? No, you have to own it. You want to be in
business? You got to own your own company. Because there are two
ways that you can measure the status of your company, I guess, two main ways. One
is how much money it makes and the other is the quality of the product.
And what you see in today's world, of course, is the...
Stock price.
Yeah.
So quality tends to go down and down and down.
You've got shrinkflation.
So it's not just the quality.
It's what you're getting for your money goes down and down.
So it's kind of like fake.
It gives you the illusion of growth in the company.
We're making more money.
Yeah, because you're putting less berries in the yogurt.
That's why.
It's not a positive, productive growth.
It's a growth that comes from cutting
all the good stuff out of your product.
Also, you would eliminate all the Gordon Gekos
because that's not a business anymore.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
You can't just sell stock anymore.
Doesn't exist.
You can't do that anymore.
Own something, bitch.
Own a company, make a product and stop.
That's a fascinating thought.
Again, I'm not a supporter of this nor do I know anything about economics.
But I would imagine that that would be better if the companies had to be owned.
You have to own the fucking company.
Yeah.
But then everyone's pensions would be fucked because basically people's pensions are all in stocks,
aren't they?
Yeah.
We'd have a, it would be a, yeah,
I think we're in this now.
But, but, but, yeah.
Also this dirty thing where you can't buy stock
if you know things.
Yeah.
You know, like if I knew that some shit was about
to pop off and I bought a bunch of stock.
It must be so tempting, like if you know for a fact that tomorrow this stock is gonna be
up here.
Oh yeah, it's tempted the shit out of me.
I don't know whether I'd be able to not do it.
You have to not.
Yeah, I'm not that motivated by money that I would do that.
But it's just a natural desire people have for sure. Because we attach whatever we've attached our status to, we want more and more and more
of that thing.
And it doesn't matter how famous and rich we become.
It never ends.
It never ends.
It's a bottomless pit.
Yeah.
It's a game you can never win.
And I think it's designed to make human beings create aliens.
That's what I think.
This is my thought.
I think that is, I think this whole like competing with the Joneses keeping up with the Joneses
What is it? It always fuels?
Technology at the end of the day because that's the thing you buy like every year people buy phones and
Laptops if you're really ballin you buy a new laptop every couple years, you know and that is you're constantly looking for new processors new
years, you know, and that is you're constantly looking for new processors, new innovation, what is it, AR, how big is the battery, what's the battery, and it's constantly going in
this general direction of ever complex technology that interfaces with human beings and now
with AI. And it's going to be an artificial life form, and whether it's 10 years from
now or 20 years from now, or it's already happening in a fucking lab in Ohio. Yes
It might already be happening right now where they have an artificial life form and that's gonna be the new
dominant life form on earth. It'll be far smarter. It'll hopefully will coexist with it
Wait, it comes from yeah, and it comes from the tribe.
It comes from, well, it comes from before we were human.
We've been competing for status since before we were humans, since we were animals.
Well, we're still our animals, but since before we were human animals.
And in the tribes in which we evolved, the more status that you were, the more food you
got, the better food you got, the safer your sleeping sites, the greater your access to
your choice of mates.
So basically, the more status that you get in your group, everything gets better.
And wouldn't that motivate you to make the most complex thing a human being has ever
made?
100%!
An artificial human.
100%.
And it's not about the money or the bling or the...
Nope.
It's about, I want to be better than you and I want to be the best inventor of artificial
life form there is in the world, Yeah better than that dude and that person
And and and yeah, and then that's what motivates people. That's what pushes people to
Create amazing things. We have this distorted idea of what is like a fiercely competitive person
Hmm when we think of fiercely competitive people we only for whatever reason
Consider basketball players football players baseball players fighters
Athletes race car drivers.
We consider fiercely competitive people,
the people that are engaged in sports
and activities every day, but no, no,
there's fiercely competitive people
that are involved in business and government
and all sorts of other things.
And they're fucking psycho about this game
that they're playing, whatever it is.
Whether it's stocks and bonds or selling pharmaceutical drugs,
they're fucking psycho competitive about that.
And that psychonus is the status instinct.
It's like, I need the status.
Like I love, there was a great story that I found
for the status game about Steve Jobs
and like the true origin story of the iPhone.
I don't know if you've heard this,
the true origin story of the iPhone,
which is that Steve Jobs, his wife,
used to hold these barbecues in
where they lived, Silicon Valley, and one time he was at this barbeque and the husband
of one of her friends worked for Microsoft, and he's like rubbing Steve Jobs' face and
it's saying, oh, we've invented the future of computing, you're done, it's this pat
thing with a stylus, and apparently he really annoyed the fuck out of Steve Jobs.
So Monday morning, Jobs comes into Apple, furious swearing and going right we're going to prove
this prick wrong.
It's not Stylus, it's a finger.
He used a finger and from that barbecue came his rage and from the rage came the iPhone.
And that story was told by Steve Forstall who was intimately involved with all this
stuff and he said it was not good for Microsoft
that that guy went to that barbecue that day.
And he's absolutely right, but that's status.
Like, that, it was personal for Steve Jobs.
It was Microsoft telling Apple that they were fucked
and that they'd solved computing.
That's a perfect example.
Yeah, yeah.
Psycho competitive dude.
Absolutely. Who would have probably won bike races. Yeah. they'd solved computing. That's a perfect example of a psycho competitive dude
who would have probably won bike races.
Yeah.
But he's running apples.
Yeah, back in the day, like 20,000 years ago,
he'd have been the best warrior in the tribe,
like stabbing the shit out of everyone.
Yeah, for sure.
And that's the kind of upside of aggression in a way.
You know, it creates things.
It creates value in the world.
It certainly has created a lot of great things, right?
It certainly has created a lot of amazing inventions that enhance our lives, but it's
also, it's like, it's moving in this non-stop direction.
It always seems to me like we're a bunch of fucking buffalo being herded off a cliff.
Like, does anybody know where this cliff is?
But we just keep going with this stuff.
Like, I mean mean with all the
International chaos that's going in the world the conflicts the wars the Ukraine thing and the Israel Hamas thing it's like
Fuck man
How much longer? I mean that's a status thing too, right?
Ultimately, yeah, ultimately
I mean when you can get groups of people to go after other groups of people and be convinced that those people that you don't even fucking know
Are your problem? Mm-hmm the fact that that game is still being played in 2024
But it would never stop being played because we're storytelling animals and we tell stories about about status and and and
I think one of the sort of key things that the things that I kind of realized when I was doing the book was that
The conscious experience of life is a story, but the subconscious reality is this game. The brain's constantly
playing a game for status. And we've got all this insane subconscious technology that we use for
measuring our status versus other people that we're completely unaware of. Like there's one
about the tone of voice during conversation. They call it the paravirbal frequency band.
about the tone of voice during conversation. They call it the paravirbal frequency band.
And you can't hear it consciously, but it's a way of organizing status hierarchy when we meet people. And the person who's top sets the tone and everybody else matches to meet the tone.
And these psychologists studied a bunch of Larry King interviews, a bit like this one.
And they stripped out the paravirbal frequency band, and they could work out who he felt superior to,
versus who he felt inferior to. So he felt inferior to, I think it was Liz Taylor, and
superior to Dan Quayle. And there were particular interviews which were very irascible and didn't go very well.
And they were kind of, they weren't getting along.
And one of them was Dan Quayle.
And they found that those, they were just not matching.
So there's all this stuff going on beneath the hood
of consciousness, which is constantly organizing us
into kind of status games.
And so, you know, and it's that that causes
the hierarchies of life. That's the
reason why communism could never work, because, you know, they're trying to wipe out the effects
of status in society, but you can't wipe out the effects of status in society because it's
in our brains. You're going to an elevator with three other people, and you've already
figured out within seconds who's the highest status, you know Where you sit in the pecking order who's got the nice luggage who's getting out of the
The sweets floor at the top, you know, we can't help but do it and so that's
that
Constant work of the subconscious brain figuring out where we sit in the status hierarchy creates
Human life. Yeah, that's why Fidel Castro lived in a fucking mansion
Human life. Yeah, that's why Fidel Castro lived in a fucking mansion. Yeah
Yeah
Works one guy yeah, and a bunch of fucking people with guns tell you what the fuck you're gonna do Yeah, that's it. I mean it's the only way I mean you treat like a guard like you know the whole idea of communism
They wanted to create a kingdom of equality. They called it. Yeah, it's like come on
I mean the funny thing is when you talk to people about this and you just point out these just logical patterns of human behavior
It doesn't work. You can't just have equality of outcome. It doesn't exist
No, they will always just point to that it has hasn't been done right yet
Despite of the
Many how many thousands of people are in jail? Is it millions? Isn't that amazing that despite of the many,
how many thousands of people are in jail?
Is it millions?
How many millions of people are in jail?
Despite all that, despite all the crime and poverty
and chaos that somehow or another,
you're just gonna bring this all together.
If you just do it this way,
and everybody just divides the money up.
Who gets to tell people they gotta give their money up?
People with guns.
You take people's status away.
Years ago I went to Poland to do some reporting on,
like at the time, the big story in the UK
was all these Polish people coming to the UK
to do all this work.
And so, where's all the Polish people come from?
So I went to Poland to find out
where all the Polish people had come from.
And we went to this old steelworks, this old sort of sort of Stalin era steelworks, and
the Polish journalist who was my fixer said, oh, you know, I just mentioned casually how
the Poles are such hard workers.
And she was like, we're not hard workers, we're lazy.
I can't believe that you, Brits, think we're hard workers.
And she said, we've got this post-Soviet mindset.
So I said, well, what do you mean the post-Soviet mindset? And she said, well, when everyone's getting paid anyway,
you're not motivated to do any work. So in steelworks like this, nobody would do any work.
And if somebody came in running enthusiastic and ambitious, they'd be bullied to fuck until they
calmed down and stopped doing work. So that was how it worked. And there was a phrase like, you
can turn up for work or you can not turn up for work, you're still going to get work. So that was how it worked. And there was a phrase, like you can turn up for work
or you can not turn up for work.
You're still going to get paid.
So removing that stuff from human society
removes something that we need, which is individual status.
We're like, if you don't reward individual status,
you don't motivate people to contribute to work.
And that's partly why communism collapsed,
because it's incompatible with human nature.
Like capitalism is the only system that we've got
that is compatible with human nature.
It rewards the status instinct.
Yeah.
Yeah, it's really fascinating when you break it down that way,
because it kind of makes it undeniable.
Yeah.
It seems this pattern just constantly happens
over and over and over again.
But there's always people that
They play to the most charitable and the kindest people in the world
And they phrase things in a way that if you oppose this idea that it's somehow another you're cruel
Or that you're greedy or evil that there's something negative about you being competitive. And
it's essentially, I think the roots of it is kind of a cop out of people that have been
beaten in life.
Yeah.
You know, there's this thing that certain people do when it's, their things aren't going
well, they want the tank, anything that's going well, you know.
That's right. And I think there's a big misunderstanding about what that competitive instinct, what
that status instinct is.
And I found that with talking about the book, a lot of people just really don't like it.
This idea that I'm arguing that status is a human need that everybody has it.
They go, I'm not interested in status.
You are.
But you're definitely interested in the benefits of it.
Do you like iPhones?
Yeah, exactly. You're tired of getting an iPhone. Exactly. Yeah, do you like iPhones? Yeah
Tapping on their shit idea
But what all that status is technically is there is the reward that we get for being of value to the tribe
So back in the days that we evolved
There are three essential ways of earning status for human beings, aside from boring things like looks and height and whatever.
There's dominance games.
So this is the animalistic, you can force somebody to attend to you in status, either
physically or with social violence of the kind you see on social media.
There's virtue games.
So people compete to have a reputation of being very virtuous, so courageous, somebody
who knows the rules, follows the rules, believes the sacred beliefs.
So a religion is a virtue game.
The royal family weirdly is a virtue game because it's about being deference and knowing the rules.
And then there's success games, I call them, which is about competence,
about being a great hunter, a great honey finder, a great sorcerer.
And that's what defines the West.
That's what made the West what it is, is that we started playing six, like for millennia
we were mostly playing virtue games.
It was caste, kingdom, game of thrones kind of land.
And then starting with the Industrial Revolution we started playing success games.
So we started mostly like much more rewarding competence.
And so that competitive instinct is channeled into figuring out how to solve
problems, how to create wealth. And it's right that we reward that. We've evolved to reward
people who offer value to the human family. That's status. It's not a negative thing
in that sense. It's massively positive. And weirdly, capitalism is an economic system
that does the same thing.
It works with how status games work.
It works with how we've evolved to operate in human tribes.
That's why I love how you talk about this,
because you change the term in a lot of people's eyes,
as well, that listen to you.
Because status, for a lot of people,
is kind of a pejorative.
Yeah, it is, yeah.
Yeah, it's like a dick.
They think about condash use. Oh, you want status get that as yeah, yeah, yeah, you're just asshole.
Yeah, but it's just a natural human pattern that if we can recognize, we
can also like mitigate some of the problems that come with it.
Yeah. I mean, and that's what I mean, that's why I like talking about
communism because communism was the biggest experiment we've ever had in
eradicating status.
So Marx and Engels, their big idea was that status comes from private property, from private
ownership.
So you could have a house, and it's a perfectly functional house, and you're happy with it.
But then somebody builds a big palace next door, suddenly you feel shit.
So they said, you know, like communism could be signed up in one sentence, which is the
abolition of private property.
We'd get rid of that. We'd get rid of people being interested in status.
Everybody works together.
But it just didn't work.
Like there were some anthropologists, sociologists who entered the Soviet Union in the 50s,
and they found 10 distinct social classes in the Soviet Union.
All they did was they took the existing status game hierarchy with the wealthy at the top and the workers at the bottom,
and they flipped it. So the workers were at the top and the wealthy were the wealthy and former
wealthy really were at the bottom. And those former wealthy the bourgeoisie the children
of the bourgeoisie were absolutely discriminated against openly and horrifically. If you weren't
tortured and killed you were held back in every sense. And that's the thing about utopians.
Utopians utopians
Often talk about we're gonna get rid of the hierarchy, but they don't want to get rid of the hierarchy They just want a new hierarchy. Yeah, you at the top. Yeah every single time. Yeah
That's what got Brett Weinstein in trouble when he was
Teaching at Evergreen University. Do you remember this story? I do. Yeah, it was the same situation
Brett they they had had, it's like,
I think it was like a day of appreciation
for people of color.
Where people of color could stay home,
they still get paid, and you go,
wow, I wish Mike was here, he's very helpful.
Whatever it was.
And they decided one year to switch it
and make it so that white people can't come.
You cannot come.
And then, which is a very different sentiment.
Then you can stay home if you like,
and you still get paid.
But you can come, but if you wanna stay home,
you just get paid.
And everybody just chose to stay home.
It's nice, right?
And thank you for appreciating me.
That's not a negative, right?
If you have the money to do it,
and it doesn't fucking stop everything in its tracks,
sounds great, sounds great. Sounds like a nice liberal hippie thing to do
But the other one doesn't no the other one scares me because that's racist. Yeah, if you're saying white people can't be here like
Why not yeah, what did I do? Yeah, I didn't do anything like you're saying that white people shouldn't be allowed to be in a place
Where they work? Yeah, because you decide Because you decide they have to stay home.
Look, there's better ways of going about this.
It's terrible.
It's a bad idea.
The idea behind appreciating people is great.
But the idea about discriminating people in any way is bad.
Absolutely.
If you're saying why people have to stay home, that's bad.
But that also characterizes, I'm not saying that the kind of woke thing is the same as
communism, but it has echoes of it.
And it's the same flipping of the hierarchy.
So when I was doing my research into communism, there was this phrase that came up.
So the former bourgeoisie, wealthy business people and the children of them were called former people.
You were a former people.
Wow.
And that's how, you know, when you think about how, especially, you know, men, especially white men,
especially straight white men are treated at the moment.
Yeah, talk, preach, brother.
They're former, you know, they're made to feel
like former people.
Like there's a whole generation of guys
who've been raised in a culture where
they're being made to feel, you've had your turn,
sit down, shut up.
The future is not for you. The future is for people who don't look like you and think like you.
And so that former people really resonated with me.
It's like you straight white men, you're former people.
You're yesterday's people.
You're not the future.
You're not tomorrow.
So sit down and shut up.
I was watching an argument on Twitter where this man and this woman were going at it and
the man said something that was factually correct.
And the woman said, if you think that I'm going
to take information from a straight white man.
That was her comeback.
That was her comeback.
I'm not taking that information
coming from a straight white man.
Like the last thing we need right now
is straight white man speaking.
Whoa, don't speak.
Just listen. It's time to listen. That's my favorite. Just please be quiet and listen.
Like, hey, sometimes that's good advice. And sometimes you're just telling people you
want to talk.
Yeah, it's so ignorant. And I had a similar experience once. I used to teach a storytelling
course at The Guardian newspaper, Science of Storytelling.
And so it's like how to use psychology and neuroscience to make yourself a better storyteller.
So I'm talking about studies and this study and that study.
And then during a break, this woman came up to me and she worked for a major, she worked
for a major academic, like one of the biggest academic journals.
And she said to me, there's a problem with, I've got a problem with what you've been talking about. And it's that most of
what you're, most of these studies are by straight white men. And I was, so, like, okay,
and what's the point? And she, and she was saying, well, you can't really trust them
because they've got their own, you know, they've got their own, they're all evil. They're
all, their perception of the world is wrong. And I, you know, I felt actually a bit intimidated by that because I'm standing in the Guardian
with this woman telling me that, effectively, I guess I've been racist somehow or sexist
somehow.
So I just said to her, I'm not going to have this conversation with you.
Okay.
And she kind of went away.
But I just thought, but it was the fact that she worked for a major scientific publication.
She was telling me that because the work was done by straight white men,
it could not be trusted.
Like that's that's a Mississippi level, like Mississippi 1932 level racism.
It was absolutely a baffling kind of moment.
And she was a smart person.
She was clearly a smart person.
But again, that's the human brain.
It believes what it has to believe in order to make itself feel importance and valued.
I've got an amazing example of that that I just sent, Jamie.
I want you to see this headline.
Please make sure this headline is real first, because I have been duped before.
Someone sent me this on the Instagram.
And if it is true, praise the baby Jesus, because it's as good as the Babylon be it's so good it seems like satire it's so good oh I think I know
what it is oh please is it real is it the seat chef he's trying to no no no no
he's trying to he's trying to type with Carl I was a little buddy from 2017 yeah
but it's real right I mean I'm seeing other people talk about okay so just I was a little buddy. It's from 2017? Yeah.
But it's real, right?
I mean, I'm seeing other people talk about it.
Okay.
So just posted that.
Let's see the article.
Look at this.
Straight black men are the white people of black people.
That's South Park level.
That's South Park level.
That is amazing.
It feels counterintuitive to suggest that straight black men, as a whole, possess any
sort of privilege.
Oh my God.
Oh my God.
Oh my God.
This is the great irony of these people.
It's amazing.
You know, these kind of woe people talk about privilege.
There was a study that was done in the UK a few years ago.
It was the more in common report.
It's the biggest ever psychological study of Britain's social psychology, you know,
over 10,000 respondents.
And they were looking at the kind of these belief sets.
And they found there were seven distinct belief groups in the country. One of those belief groups, they called them progressive activists. And these are people
for whom the fight for social justice at the heart of their identity, they believe that how you get
on in life is about not about your talent and your hard work, but about your race and gender.
So we know who they're talking about. And so what was interesting about these people was,
talking about. Yeah. And so what was interesting about these people was it just astonished me.
First is that they are the richest of all the seven groups. So they had more people earning over 50,000 pounds per year as a family. And secondly, that they were the most highly educated
of all the seven groups. So these people that are constantly going on about privileged, if
they're the most privileged people in Britain, they're amongst the most privileged people in the world.
So that was the first thing.
The second thing which I thought was amazing was that they were six times more likely just
to make political comments on what was then called Twitter.
And they make more social media contributions than all of the rest of the groups combined.
Mason Howe Doesn't it make sense though?
Thomas Kuhn Completely, yeah.
Mason Howe They don't have any financial stress, right?
They probably feel real guilty, and if they're white, they feel super guilty.
And then they're young and you get status from being progressive and an activist.
And you don't have to be competitive in the workplace.
You're out here throwing paint on the Michelangeloes.
Yes, absolutely.
Yeah, so also the numbers, so in the UK, they make up 13% of the population.
In the US, they make up 8% of the population. So on social media, because they dominate social
media, they feel like sometimes the majority of the country, but their beliefs are actually really
marginal. Like one of these, I think it was you, Gav, asked people,
who do you think should be the next governor of the Bank of England, a man or a woman?
This is the kind of story that drives our media
into paroxysms, you know, like if it's a,
they hide another white man, oh, you know,
they get the shivers.
And this poll found that 5% of people
thought it should be a woman,
3% of people thought it should be a man.
Everybody else pretty much didn't give a shit. That's great. That's the reality.
That's good progress.
Yeah, most people think it doesn't matter.
That seems indicative of the general population that I come across.
Yeah, exactly. But because these people, these 13% or 8% in the U.S. are so highly educated
and so wealthy, they dominate the media, they dominate the gatekeeping positions in publishing companies
and TV companies.
So they really have the kind of commanding voice in our culture very often, but they're
a tiny minority of who we are.
But it really does behave like a religion in a lot of ways.
It really does.
And Mark Andreessen broke it down very eloquently
where he's explaining that it has all of the things
that a cult has.
It has the indoctrination, it has the excommunication,
we're ashamed, it kicked out of the group,
the disconnect from the group members.
It's got all those things to it.
And that's like a big part of it,
it's like worried about being shamed
and cast out of the group, which
is terrifying for people. So they're willing to say and believe things that aren't that
logical, just if they can stay in the group.
Yeah, absolutely. It's natural.
We believe what we have to believe in order to earn status in our groups, and that's true
for these people, it's just true for anyone else and yeah, and I agree with the cult thing
But but I would just add that all all human groups have cult elements. They have special languages. They have rules
Hierarchies and rewards and punishments. It's just that cults are the tightest possible form of human group
I learned that when I started doing martial arts because one of the things that was really interesting about the martial arts world
Is it's very cult like yeah, especially in when I did it in the 80s, the early 80s when I started, they were the masters.
You bow to them. You bow when you enter the...
I was so committed to this that I had this girlfriend when I was in high school.
And I had the keys to the gym because I would work out there anytime I wanted.
I taught classes there and stuff.
And she wanted to have sex in
The and I couldn't do it. I wouldn't do it. She was so hot. I wouldn't do it
I was like I can't do it here. Like yeah, this is not this can happen here at like 17. I was so horny
It's so stupid. Yeah, but I was like, uh-uh we can't do it here. Yeah, I guess the power of the state is it was like
Like like now I've been like where
Yeah, I guess the power of the state is it was like like like now I've been like aware
Like but back then I was that was a religious place for me. I didn't think about it that way at the time
I just knew what the rules were. Yeah, and I was not violating those rules in any way
There's no way. Yeah, you know But that's uh, there was a lot of weird stuff where like some of the masters would date some of the uh women it was it got her a weird got real weird yeah real cultie I don't
doubt it I was very culty because these you know you adore this person who is
commanding the group and getting everybody to march like to the bark of
his voice and everyone's doing he just commands all this attention and respect
so it was there's the gym respect So it was a there's
The gym I went to was a very good place where it was very little that shenanigans going on
But there was a bunch of them where it was like it was a big thing
Where like you hear that about like yoga places too like the yoga guru guys start banging people's wives
It's just like
There was a place that I bought out here that was owned by a cult I
There was a place that I bought out here that was owned by a cult. I bought a place for my comedy club and I didn't wind up completing the deal.
I got out of it because there was some problems with the property and then I bought the place
that I bought on Sixth Street.
But before it, I bought this place called the One World Theater and the One World Theater
was created by this guy.
His name was Jaime Gomez and he was a gay porn star and a hypnotist.
And he started a cult.
He started a cult in West Hollywood.
There's a documentary about it called Holy Hell.
And then they moved out to Austin
and he had his followers build him this theater
so that he could dance in front of them.
And that was the place that I bought.
So he could dance in front of them.
Dance in front of them.
He put on performances and danced in front of them.
Just the followers. And he had in front of them. He put on performances and dance for them just the followers
And he had a gang of them and he had a gang of them in
LA in West Hollywood and then when the cult awareness networks are going after people he took off
He thought they were on to him because the parents like where's my fucking kid?
So then he moves to Austin and builds this one world theater. So my friend Ron White tells me about the theater
He's like because I tell him I'm looking for a comedy club location. He goes you should get that theater. So my friend Ron White tells me about the theater. He's like, because I tell him I'm looking
for a comedy club location.
He goes, you should get that theater, it's amazing.
So Ron White's my hero, so I'm like,
all right, I'll get that theater.
And as I'm like in the middle of the purchasing it,
my friend Adam calls me and goes,
did you watch the documentary on that cult?
I was like, oh no, how bad is it?
Oh dude, it's bad. You got to watch it.
It's crazy.
And it's these people that just get sucked into believing that this guy can give them
enlightenment and connect them to God by touching their head.
That's status.
Yeah.
And the thing is, man, even after this guy got exposed and, you know, he was hypnotizing
the men and having sex with them, it's crazy shit, right? But even after he got exposed, the people that went through the experience
of having this guy touch their head, when it was called the knowing, it was built up
for days and weeks and some people were denied the knowing they could never get it and other
people today is your day and they couldn't believe it and they would sit there on their
knees and this guy would touch their head and they would be an ecstasy
And it looked real and they talked about it even after they like this guy's a fraud
He's a he's crazy. He was this he was that it was a manipulative and a liar, but that moment
I felt like I was connected to God. Yeah. Yeah, like he did something to me
And I felt I felt the world change forever
God that mind is a powerful thing. It's crazy how it works.
So what stopped you buying that theater then?
There was a problem with the property.
It wasn't because you left.
No, no, there was just some issues,
and we couldn't negotiate it.
And I was like, this is.
And then I was like, you know what,
it would probably be better to be in the city, city,
like where people walk.
You know, just make it more convenient for folks too.
Because people are used to going to Sixth Street, and then I found that place and I got the
places there.
But the cult, the cult, it was a real problem because a lot of people think I'm already
running a cult.
That would have been a real problem.
I feel like how he bought a cult building.
But also, for me, it was the real problem was, I don't necessarily know if I believe in energy,
but I'm not energy, you know, I believe in energy.
But I mean like that energy gets left in a space.
That like my stepdad went to Gettysburg
and he said you can feel the sadness.
And he's not like a spiritual fucking Ouija board type dude.
He's a very rational architect
And he's like you feel the sadness because it's like you feel it you feel how many people
Died here. Yeah, I get that feeling when I'm in Berlin like like Berlin people go on about how great Berlin is
But there's always get this immense sense of heaviness when I've spent some time in Berlin
Like that you think that's cuz you know or do you think it's in the air?
I don't know because I'm not expecting to feel that way.
Right.
But I don't know.
I mean, who knows?
I mean, certainly, it's striking when you walk around Berlin, you still see all the sort
of shrapnel marks in the sides of buildings are still there.
It's kind of, that's quite confronting.
That's why I was thinking, I don't necessarily know if I want that building.
Yeah. Because that building was built by people don't necessarily know if I want that building. Yeah
Because that building was built by people got juked by a con man. Yeah
Yeah, he's fucking
shenanigans them into building him a theater and even if there's no point no one or one percent chance He's just yeah a lot of shit happened
I mean this one one of the guys left he sent this mass email this guy's been abusing me for fucking years that the whole thing is nuts like they
flew the guy to Hawaii and he started a new cult out there it's in the
documentary to go visit him in Hawaii but it's just so fascinating people just
fall into these patterns it's just a natural thing that we have to be aware of. I think that's why it's
so important the way you say it and the way you talk about these things and the way you
lay it out, it makes it so much more palatable to a lot of people. They're looking to go,
oh, these are all just patterns that people play.
Yeah. We believe what we have to believe in order to...
Yeah.
I think one of the things that... one of the things in history that the status
researchers really made me understand is the rise of the Nazis, that like growing up in
the UK is always this question, how could it have happened?
How could this technologically advanced sophisticated country descend into Nazism?
And once you understand the role the status plays, it becomes completely, for me it's crystal
clear, like before the First World me, it's crystal clear.
Like, before the First World War, Germany was just absolutely killing it.
They were the most successful country in continental Europe.
They were like, had, you know, massive, like the Apple and Google of the day, it's BASF,
Siemens, huge companies. They were producing a third of the world's potatoes.
You know, like quality of life had rocketed in the early part
of the 19th century.
And then the first one all happened,
and they just assumed we're going to kill it,
because we were amazing.
And of course, they didn't kill it.
They lost.
And so that's humiliating in itself,
and humiliation being the loss of status.
And then there was the Treaty of Versailles, which was savage.
They had to give up a land.
They had to give up their military. they had to give up their military,
they had to pay the equivalent of hundreds of billions of dollars in reparations.
When all that triggered hyperinflation, their economy collapsed,
we took their industrial heartlands off them.
So it was humiliation upon humiliation.
Then Hitler comes along.
And so this is the thing that we were never talked about Hitler in schools,
which is probably still a bit, I don't know, it's going to trigger people, but,
but, but, but it's the truth.
Hitler was an incredibly successful leader of Germany for the time when he was
in charge.
The first thing which was a surprise to me was that when you see those black and
white films of Hitler spitting and shouting and
ranting, you assume that he's talking about the Jews all the time.
Have you seen how they've translated into English now with AI?
They're going through it.
His voice?
Yeah.
In Hitler's voice.
I haven't seen that.
I saw that going on Twitter.
Yeah, it's fascinating.
Because of AI, one of the things that they can do now, like that they can do even with
podcasts.
So this podcast, when Spotify runs its AI
through it, they'll be able to translate you into perfect Spanish in your voice.
Wow.
And they have this technology now. I know they could do it in German, Spanish, and I think
French, and of course English and back and forth. So they could do that with Hitler.
For correctness, whether you believe that I have been given it. That's amazing. Wow. See, he's talking about
That's not so much scary. Yeah, it does. The voice hasn't really got the attitude
Fucking accent boy. There's something about German.
When you hear him yelling, you're like instinctively.
I think it's burned into us.
Yeah.
But he's not, during the 30s, he wasn't ranting about the Jews.
Because everybody was anti-Semitic in that period in history.
But the medieval classes, they didn't
want to see the Jews being attacked and killed.
It didn't play well.
So he suppressed all of that stuff. And all that ranting, most of it he's talking about, I'm going to restore
Germany's status. I'm going to create this Third Reich, this Thousand Year Kingdom,
and that's what convinced people to support him. And he did, like some of the statistics are quite
extraordinary. When the Nazi party came in, a third of the population were unemployed, and by 1939 they
had full employment.
Between 1932 and 1939, GDP went up 81%.
So he was doing the thing of restoring Germany's status.
And when you see that footage of people going completely mad, that's when he's reversing
the humiliations of Versailles.
So he took back the industrial heartland by force and nobody stood in his way. They went mad.
He took Austria. Nobody stood in his way. So it was all about the restoration of status.
That explains the rise of Hitler. And they did it like there was some mad stuff in the research like women would get swastika tattoos,
they would do the Hitler salute at points of orgasm.
Whoa.
Yeah, yeah.
Whoa, that's kinda hot.
Yeah.
There was a butcher that was making swastika sausages.
People would even name their female children after Hitler.
People with tuberculosis would stare for hours
at pictures of Hitler because they thought they would make them better. So again,
that's another example of that status. That's how mad people go for status. He
was taken away from them and he didn't just promise to restore it. For a while,
he did restore it. So that's why they loved him. It wasn't to do with the, you
know, with really anything else.
When do you think meth came into the picture?
Oh, yeah.
Because somewhere along the line,
the Hitler story is not complete
unless you realize Hitler was a meth head.
Yeah, and wasn't his army on amphetamines?
Everybody was on amphetamines.
That's how they talk to kamikazes who's doing that.
Yeah.
Yeah, that's not a natural pattern of behavior
for grown men.
No.
No. Flying planes in the boats. You gotta be fucking
But Hitler was a full-on
Method yeah, and there's video of him at the Olympics in 1936 just straight up tweakin. Have you ever seen that video?
Yeah, I have yeah, it's nuts. Yeah, if you see that video that is that's a guy like
It's not he's not just doing that once yeah I'm gonna
go to the Olympics my first time trying that was a method you know that's it
blitz that while other drugs are banned and discouraged methamphetamine was
touted as a miracle product when it first appeared on the market in the late
1930s I bet it was a miracle indeed the little pill was the perfect Nazi drug Germany awake the Nazis had commanded energized
Energizing and confidence boosting methamphetamine played into the third Reich's obsession with physical and mental superiority
See superior in sharp contrast to drugs such as heroin or alcohol methamphetamines were not about escapist pleasure
Rather they were taken for hyper alertness and vigilance, Aryans were the embodiment of human perfection
and Nazi ideology could now even aspire to be superhuman and such
superhumans can be turned into super soldiers. That's it superhuman so it's
the same as the cult that was promising we're going to take you to a
level above human it's always the promise of these mad people that we're going to take you to a level above human. It's always the promise of these mad people that we're gonna get you
We're gonna give you so much status that we're gonna essentially become superhuman
It's what the communists thought as well that the average human their intelligence would become so much that everybody would be a genius
That's what they really believed the communism would lead to like the promise of these lunatics is always
Insane amounts of status and religions too. That's what heaven is,
isn't it? It's heaven is and it's also hope to people who have none. Yeah, but if you go along with
this and there's much more people that have none than have some and have a lot. Yeah, you know,
those people are the problem. Let's go get them. Yeah, the reason why I'm so sad. Yeah, but you
don't understand that's just a trap. It's just a giant trap. It's a massive trap. Yeah, but it's so
understand that's just a trap. It's just a giant trap. It's a massive trap.
But it's so wild that most people don't address it that way. They just get even really brilliant
people I know just get locked into these ideologically captured echo chambers.
Yeah. And when there's a story that our status has been unfairly squashed and it's these people's
fault, that's when it's dangerous. And of course you had that with the Nazis.
They blame the Jews for everything.
But you also get that in certain, in this day and age,
I mean, you know, like,
men get blamed for a lot in this day and age,
white people get blamed for a lot in this day and age.
And that's why I get to be,
I'm not saying it's anywhere near as dangerous as that,
of course, but it's the same psychological kind of patterns repeating again and again and again.
We've been unfairly deprived of status and it's their fault.
And that's really dangerous, those kinds of stories.
It is, but I feel like it's just an overcorrection and I feel like it's the wave washes this
way and the wave washes that way.
And if you look at the wave of what black people are to face in this country, it's by every definition,
it's far worse.
Absolutely, of course.
Far, far, far worse than anything
that white privileged people are experiencing today.
Obviously, yeah, yeah.
It's also a clear indication that an imbalance,
which was always there, still exists in so many
of these places where people have the most despair and people have done nothing to fix it
And those places that a lot of them that have the most despair
It's directly connected to slavery. Yeah, you can follow it to that poverty. That's where it came from
Yeah, like you it's generations later, but they never recovered and you don't do anything about it. Yeah, like that's that
When in the in the face of they just last night
in the middle of the night passed some new but Ukraine bill mm-hmm like in the middle
of the night I know that they passed some bill it's like how much is it Jamie 95 billion
Wow plenty of money wow that's a lot of money yeah imagine what they could have done with
the money that they've already pumped in Ukraine, just in the inner cities of this country.
Imagine.
Imagine if there was, we said there's a war on crime and poverty and despair.
This is our new war.
Instead of a war on drugs, instead of a war on foreign countries, you know, questionable
origins of how this conflict started, what about a war on things that suck about America?
Yeah.
Yeah. That's what, I mean, that's what happened in America in the 1920s.
There was the New Deal, the Social Security Gap, the GI Bill.
They pumped loads of money into fixing America after the Great Depression and it worked.
There was a whole era in America, they called it the Great Compression because it was a
compression between the gap between the rich and the poor.
That was the era in which an ordinary American person without a college degree could
have a house and a car and a vacation every year and a wife at home raising the children.
Yeah, that's how it can work without socialism.
Everybody rise up.
Not fucking take all the money away from the successful people.
You could rise up too, but we have to figure out a way to fix these problems that have existed forever in this country
Yeah, they get no attention. Yeah. Yeah, this at a certain point like one of my favorite stories of this layer this year
was when G. Jean pain came to San Francisco because when
San Francisco has this horrible homeless problem. It's really bad where they have tents everywhere
But when he came they cleaned everything they took everybody away
They don't know what nobody said nothing
They put up fences where they so they couldn't put the tents there anymore
They put up fences in front of these buildings with the they would camp out
They just took them all away, and then when GG ping came through it was all beautiful
Amazing isn't it? It's literally sounds like what we would say China would do
Yeah, we would make if we were gonna we were gonna make fun of a foreign country that we were in dispute with we would say China would do yeah when we would make if we were gonna
We were gonna make fun of a foreign country that we were in dispute with we would say yeah
I'm we sent our leaders there. You know what they did they fucking got rid of all the protesters they everybody was protest
They killed the protesters they they took all the homeless people away all the bums in the street urchins
Totalitarian
It's just...
But the people that live there are so in that cult.
They're so in that leftist cult
that they're never gonna go,
hey, this is not working.
Yes.
Yeah.
Does it matter how many fucking needles
you have to jump over,
how much human shit's in the street?
They'll keep voting the same way.
Yeah, because they have to believe
what they have to believe in order for their peers to give them that.
Your thoughts on this, the way you describe it is the only way that makes sense. It must be a
status game that you can't get out of otherwise they would have gotten out of it. It's counterintuitive
to success and the evolution of the community.
It's counterintuitive to it.
I mean, one of my favorite ones is the satanic panic
was an insane status game thing.
And so that began in the early 80s.
And essentially what you're doing is you're saying
to a bunch of therapists and family counselors
that you can be like an incredible hero because America is full of these Satanists running
kindergarten and they're secretly abusing your children and we need to go and hunt them
out.
And so because that belief gives them status, they all decide to believe it.
And the same with the police.
The police think they were on the
hunt for the, you know, these all-
They also put memories in the children's heads and had those children come back and
change their stories.
That's right. I mean, and some of the stories that came out that were believed, it was like
children were saying they had their eyelids stapled shut. There was one kid that said
that she got flushed down a toilet into a secret underground abuse chamber. Somebody said, and then it
began with this book, Pasda's, Michelle remembers.
Michelle remembers the discredited 1980s book written by Canadian psychiatrist Lawrence
Pasda.
This one that began it all. She said that she had devil horns and a tail surgically attached to her body. And he married her.
Yeah, said an eventual wife. I bet she was hot. The crazy ones
like that. I bet she was fun. That's what happened. He bought
into it. He's like, yeah, baby. Yeah, he said at first I thought
she was making it up, but then I thought it was true. And according
to her story, there was an 81 day satanic ritual where Jesus and the Archangel Gabriel turned up and conveniently removed
all the scars of her abuse. There was nothing left.
Oh, that's convenient. I bet she was hot.
But the amazing thing about the satanic panic was that I think it was like there was 190
arrests, 83 people went to prison. One person went to prison solely on the basis
of the testimony of a three-year-old child.
Oh my God.
So this one couple that owned a daycare
spent 22 years in prison.
And there was never, obviously,
never any physical evidence.
There was no tigers or sharks or, you know,
scars in the eyelids, where they stand with them shut.
But people were offered status for believing this bullshit.
So they believed it.
And therapists, police officers, lawyers, judges, Oprah was big on it,
Al DiRivero was big on it, journalists were big on it.
Everybody believed, even though there was no evidence.
Like one of the great guiding slogans of the Satanic Planet people was believe
children, which has amazing echoes, doesn't it?
It does.
That's what it says.
It does.
So you had to believe the children,
and they had this statistic that only two in every
thousand children make this stuff up,
so you have to believe them.
So they didn't even have badges, believe children,
they had the believe children organization.
Fathered about dungeons and all those.
What?
Can you show me a photo of the woman? Yeah, I want to see if she's hot
And I bet it goes back to what you're talking about too though
Because I think status in his relationship with his woman. Yeah allowed him to believe some nonsense
I'd also the $300,000 advance. He got free so much for my theory
Damn it. I hate when I'm wrong
But that's not fun, you know, he was likely to though for him. That's probably as good as he gets
Right you gotta judge it on a curve
That's older bro, no one looks great when they get old that's not fair that's not fair you son of a bitch
But this is are older pictures.
She's a young woman here.
These pictures are old.
What is a when she's a young woman?
The one up there in the corner.
Is that when they first arrested her?
Yeah, these are from the 80s.
These are from like the 80s or whatever this started.
But whatever I was just looking at, like this NPR brought up says QAnon revives the satanic
panic. But who is this woman?
Maybe that's her now. I don't know
the problem is some people are crazy and they will make up stories and
Then there's people that are just trapped in these witch hunts like the like the McCarthyism of the the 50s
Everyone's a communist. Yeah, I mean Oppenheimer got roped into that shit
Yeah, there's there's so many people that were being accused of being communists. If you went to one meeting,
like what's this all about?
Well, that's it. People call those moral panics, but I don't think they are moral panics. They're
status gold rush. So the status on offer of finding Satanists was massive. The government
pumped tens of millions of dollars into these organizations. They became famous. There was one person who interviewed children who got paid hundreds of thousands of dollars for
it. And they're kids. So when they're saying, I got flushed down a toilet, I got a forced
to kill baby tigers, it's clearly stuff that four year olds are inventing. But it was taken
to be serious and people went to prison for years on the basis of this testimony. And
so that's another thing that changed my thinking.
It's the idea of moral panics.
I think often moral panics are actually just these status
frenzies, status kind of gold rush movements where there's
so much status and offer for believing this nonsense that
people helplessly, because that's how we're wired, start to
believe it.
Boy, social media doesn't do us any favors with that.
Does it?
God, the ability to just tweet out something the moment something hits the news or whatever and you're hot to believe it. Boy, social media doesn't do us any favors with that. Does it?
The ability to just tweet out something the moment something hits the news or whatever
and your hot take on it.
How many fucking people have lost their careers?
Yeah.
Because of a hot take.
Yeah.
Yeah, exactly.
I mean, that's the thing.
I was talking about those different kinds of status, virtue status, success status.
Virtue status is the easiest status to get.
Success is hard.
You've got to become competent.
You've got to become good at something. Virtue is easy, especially on to get. Success is hard. You've got to become competent. You've got to become good at something.
Virtue is easy, especially on social media.
It's always.
So that's why it becomes addictive.
People just make themselves feel good,
get these little hits of feel good.
But it's also indicative of who you are.
Because no one is really competent at something
is engaging in that all day long.
Like that thing is usually by people that don't feel like they're getting the attention
they deserve and then they'll go after whatever the fuck it is that's going to elevate them,
whatever it is, whatever cause there is, it's du jour.
Yes.
You have to fucking, that you get to either yell at people or yell with people.
Yeah, and I think for me it's interesting, I don't know whether this is true or not,
but one of my sort of pet theories is that the rise
of all this social justice activism online happens
after the financial crisis.
So in 2008, it begins with the Occupy movement
and you can sort of draw a straight line
through Occupy to what's going on today.
And I think there's a sense amongst millennials
and Gen Zs, partly a real truth sense that the success games
that we were playing in the 80s, 90s, and the 2000s
are over now, the game is fixed for millennials and Gen Zs.
Life is harder in lots of real ways.
They can't get on the property ladder.
They've got massive student debt.
They're underemployed.
So what do you do if you can't play the success games
that we, Gen X, has played in the 90s?
Well, you play virtue games instead.
So, you know, we have to get our status from somewhere. So, if success is hard, we're going
to do more virtue. So, I think that's at least part of the explanation for what's happened
since, you know, that's what the financial crisis was, is, you know, the story that we
were left with, because these people were unpunished, that the game is fixed, it's dangerous, it's not working anymore.
So there's a lot of anger comes out of that.
Yeah. It's just so unfortunate how easy it is to engage in this behavior and how few
guidelines there are to like other than your work and some other people have talked about
it, but it's like the way you're saying it and the way you're saying it in your book and the way you set it on trigonometry,
it allows people to have like a look at the wiring under the board. Like, oh, this is what the problem
is. And I would hope that people that are engaged in that realize like what a psychological capture
that shit is. It's so weird for you because you get,
I've had friends that have had like real problems
with like engaging with people on Twitter,
like they'll post a hot take and then someone
will post back and they'll be like walking on the street
and they can't even walk five steps before they're checking.
They wanna check their likes and check their things.
See who's responding and then respond
to the person who's responding and fuck you and fuck this
and everybody's trying to zing on everybody
and it's not good.
It's not good in any way, shape or form.
It never turns out well.
There's never one of those.
You go, I feel good about that.
That was really good.
I definitely won that one.
Not just that, but I feel like
we got some good accomplished.
No, most of those are not that.
Most of those are hostile, weird,
unnatural ways of communicating. You're just communicating through text with strangers. It's so unnatural.
That's what social media is. It's they've taken the status games of life and put them
in your phone. In the 90s, there was all this, from Wired Magazine and people, all this digital utopias, and I thought that when
we were all online, it was gonna create
this hierarchy-free utopia.
But of course that's not what happens.
When you connect billions of people together,
they play status games, that's what they do.
And those three games of dominance,
virtue, and success, that's social media.
You know, we're pushing each other around,
we're virtue signaling, and we're showing off
about our success. That's what we're doing, and that's why, you know, that's why each other around with virtue signaling and we're showing off about our success. Yeah, that's what we're doing and that's why
You know, that's why social media is so addictive because every time you make a contribution to social media
You're like pulling the wheel of that slot machine and give me no status goes up or it goes down
And that's why they're doing this because it's it's compulsive because if we're gambling with a resource that is incredibly important to us
Yeah, and you can do so with a resource that is incredibly important to us. Yeah.
And you can do so in a way that never existed before.
Like if you're some guy who's shredded and you just do broken curls on Instagram all
day, you'll get a lot of people to pay attention to you.
Yeah, absolutely.
You just have workouts where you shirt off.
You'll get a lot of followers.
If you're a woman in your underwear, rolling around on sheets and stuff, you get
a lot of followers for doing not much else.
And that's the sort of the halting thing when I realized that actually, you know, status
is a resource that we need. If we don't get enough status, we get mentally ill and we
get physically ill too. So being low status is bad for us physically. And a lot of people
have more status in their phones than they do in their actual real life. You know, they're going to their ordinary job in their ordinary town, but on this platform,
they're really someone they've got a bunch of followers.
So that shows you how, you know, why social media is so powerful.
It's like it's been globally successful in every culture social media is caught on because
it's offering something that humans fundamentally
value enormously and need to survive, which is status.
It's a new way of harvesting this incredibly valuable resource that we value more than
gold.
Mason Klee When you say that people get physically ill
from it, what happens to people when they don't get status physically?
David Kline It's the same as, I think it's quite well
known that loneliness is bad for us, but loneliness
is connection, status is the same.
So there was a bunch of really interesting experiments done in the UK in the British
Civil Service, which is a massive organization, hugely stratified.
And this guy, Dr. Michael Marmot and his team went in there to, and they found that your
place in the hierarchy predicted your health outcomes.
And this wasn't to do with how healthy you were
in other respects or it wasn't to do with your diet,
you know, where they controlled for all of that stuff.
Literally the person one down from the very top
had slightly worse health outcomes
from the person at the very top.
And they were really significant.
So for middle-aged people,
the people at the bottom of the hierarchy
had four times the risk of death
and the people at the top of the hierarchy. And then other academics went into the lab and they did an
experiment with monkeys, I think baboons, and they gave these monkeys these delicious diets of
like pizza and ice cream. They basically made them really unhealthy. So filled them with
athelosciotic plaque and tried to work out who got sick and who didn't get sick as a result of
their terrible diets. And it was, it was the monkeys at the bottom of the hierarchy got sick, more reliably than the monkeys at the top.
Even on the same terrible diet.
Yeah, and crucially they then somehow changed the hierarchy and the health outcomes changed in lockstep.
So the monkey that was at the top.
How did they change the hierarchy? I don't know.
They did that.
I want to know, because that seems like.
I probably don't want to know.
It's probably really horrific.
Where with monkeys?
Yeah.
How do you pull that off?
Yeah.
So it is.
It's the status hierarchy.
And it's for the same reason as loneliness,
when the brain registers that we're lacking in the resource
of status, it puts us into that stress state of raises inflammation,
lowers antiviral response,
and we're not designed to be in that state
for long periods of time.
That's a response that's designed for being,
being chased or attacked, it's supposed to be like this.
And so chronic inflammation is really bad for us,
it makes us more vulnerable to cancer, Alzheimer's,
all kinds of horrific issues.
So that's why lacking in status is bad for our physical health, cancer, Alzheimer's, all kinds of horrific issues.
So that's why lacking in status is bad for our physical health.
It's the same reasons why loneliness is bad for our physical health.
And then how's it play a role in what gets diagnosed as depression then?
Oh, status is massive for depression.
A sudden drop in status is a red flag for suicidal ideation when we suddenly drop in
status.
So anxiety, depression, self-harm is all tied to feeling sort of low in status.
In my spare time, I volunteered back in the UK for like a crisis hotline.
People phone it, particularly when they're suicidal.
Oh man, what a great thing for someone who's suddenly got a hold of you.
That's a cool conversation. suicidal. Oh man, what a great thing if someone's who suddenly get a hold of you.
That's a cool conversation. You know, some people they'd be droning on and on, you're like, bro, you're not inspiring. Help me out. Well, what I found is that the people who are suicidal
would call me. There's generally three reasons why people get suicidal in my experience on the
phone. The first one is chronic pain, obviously. Second one is people struggle with recent bereavement,
people become suicidal when somebody they love
or a pet they love has gone.
But by far the most common reason people phone
when I've spoken to a suicidal is to do with their,
now I call it identity failure,
that they're severely lacking in connection or status,
usually both, and not only are they lacking, they're stuck, they're trapped, they feel like there's nothing I can do,
my life is so fucked, there's no way I can ever meet anybody, there's no way I can ever feel statusful in the world.
And so yeah, it's a massive red flag for...
You know, that's a huge reason why humans choose to end their lives,
because they feel
like I'm severely lacking in connection and status.
This is such an important thing to talk about, because this is never discussed when people
talk about depression.
All they ever want to tell you is that it's a chemical problem, it's not your fault.
That's all they ever want to tell you.
They don't want to tell you that the quality of your life affects the way you feel
Mm-hmm
And if you're doing what you want to do and you have good friends you having fun times and you're a good person
You're nice to people and they're nice back
They like being around you because you're fun then your life is better, but that's connection status is also really you know
It's a root in that. Yeah, it's a big part of that and all of that contributes to this thing that we call depression
Absolutely, yeah, and no one wants to say that
They want to say get on this. Come on man. We got something for you, buddy. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, it's crazy
It seems so obvious it seems so obvious
It does but you can't bring it up. No, it's almost like it's a verboten topic
Like you can't say well, how much of it is like what you're doing with your life? Yeah
Does that factor in at all how much of it is like what you're doing with your life? Yeah. Does that factor in at all? How much of it is like kind of friends you're
right? What kind of relationship you are? I mean one of the things I do because of my
knowing about status when I'm on the phone with these people is I always make the point of
at the end of the call trying to build them up a bit. You know, I tell them,
and I mean it sincerely that the fact that they've phoned in this
what is probably the worst night of their life
Is heroic that they're courageous that most most people don't suffer like you're suffering and you know so
So what you're you know like these and it always it always goes down well they always go oh my god
Wow, you know no one's ever said that stuff to me before like it's like a
You know it's magic the effect it has on the phones when When you just give people a bit of, I think you're an impressive person, I think you're
kind, I think you're smart or whatever it is that I feel they are on the phones.
There was a case recently in the UK, a teacher, a head teacher killed herself when her school
was inspected by the government inspectors and it went down from outstanding to inadequate, you know, and she killed herself and they found her journals
from like the day before she did that and she said in the journal, the words inadequate keep
flashing before my eyes. So that's horrific, it was a big scandal about, oh, you know,
are these judgments, can we really reduce a judgment of the quality of the school to one word?
But that was an example of somebody, you know, her problem was that she was really proud
of the school she was running.
It was an outstanding school.
And suddenly it went to inadequate.
And the pain of that sudden loss of status was too much for this poor woman to act with.
Was it an accurate statement or was
Was it I don't know school doing poorly for some reason or was it just a cunty person? I hope that that's the question. That's the problem with cuntiness, right?
Yeah, we kind of tolerate that kind of communication with people and we look in we watch from aside like oh
You know, but there's something to that that is you really are pumping out negativity.
It does have an actual effect on human beings on the other end as much as you like to pretend
it's some sort of a sterile professional act that you're doing.
You're pumping out shitty things.
You're doing it for status, right?
And when you take someone's status away, like they took her status away, I feel like it
is like an act of social violence.
Like our identity
is of massive importance to us. And so when someone takes that away, that's why acts of
actual physical violence, why they often happen, is when someone is disrespectful to somebody
else. And the act of physical violence doesn't only restore that status back to its sort of
set point. It turns that humiliation into a sense of pride. You know,
you know, so that's why violence is so tempting. It's why if you have the capacity for violence,
it's often used because it can transform that sense of humiliation into a sense of pride.
It turns a negative status into a positive status. And yes.
The key is to have enough faith that you don't care.
Yeah. Yes, the key is to have enough faith that you don't care. Yeah, you have to have enough where you don't mind some little
Breach of your status. You're like, oh really?
Some in disrespect you you don't have to prove to them
Because you have to understand what game you're playing most people don't with the consequences of violence or grave
Like you do not want to engage in this
This pattern of behavior that people have locked into their brain.
Most of the time we don't use it. You know, the vast majority of human history, they used it a lot.
That again is carved into your brain. You must resist.
You know, in any way. And most sort of violent acts, it sort of
concentrates in young men
who are lower on the socioeconomic scale. So then there are people who are more aggressive
by nature physically, because they're built for that,
but the socioeconomic stuff.
They feel slighted.
Yeah, but their sense of status is much more fragile,
because they haven't got some great job.
They haven't got a college education.
And so they're much more worried about, insecure about their sense of status.
So when you take it away from them, it's kind of much more challenging.
That's a real danger of the status game of telling those people that someone's done
this to you and that those people should not be heard from.
Those people, the reason why you're in the situation that you're in. And you're empowering people to hate someone specifically because of the
way they look. No matter what you think, the justification for that, it's the exact same
thing in every culture when that happens. It's just racism.
Yeah, absolutely.
It's all it is. And you're getting trapped into it because of what you're talking about,
because it's a status game
And you can you could dominate someone by calling them out
Because of their privilege and you could stop a conversation in its tracks. Yeah and become completely illogical
Just by deciding I'm not listening to a white man. Yes
Yeah, that's absolutely right. It's interesting true. It's interesting because it's the oldest trick in the book.
It's been around for so long.
We would think that we would learn.
But there's something about us where we don't see the exact same thing if it's not Nazis
with swastikas.
We don't see it coming.
Well, I think, again, it's that story setting in brain.
We're playing a status game, but our conscious experience of life is a story
and it's fiction and the story always wants to make us heroic, so we're virtuous.
And I think that makes...
People's hatreds are invisible to them. So you could say to somebody, and I have said to somebody
relatively recently,
you know, I think you hate men. You've got a problem with men.
You're always saying this about men and that about men. Like, it's not very nice.
And then she said to me, well, you don't understand the problems I've had in my life
with men. I've been abused. I've been this and the other, all of which is true. But so
that's her brain telling herself a heroic, virtuous story that justifies her hatred of
this class of human beings. And that's true for everybody. That's true
for people who hate women. That's also true for misogynists. That's true for, you know,
white people who hate black people. That's true for everybody's hatred is dressed up
in a virtuous story. And I think that's right. As soon as you start identifying a class of
human being and saying, these people are low status, these people are the source of my
problems, that's when you know that's happening to you. And at some point,
it happens to all of us, it's human nature. We are xenophobic by design. Our groups, our
status games, we feel we're wired to feel they're superior because they're our source
of status. So this stuff is incredibly tempting. Like, you know, like, you know,
we've all fallen for this stuff in our, if we're honest, in our past. And I think it's
just really important to be on the lookout for it. And to be conscious of the fact that
our brains are really good at turning our hatred into a virtue. They're really good
at telling us, no, you're right, you're right. These people are the problem. And you're animus towards them is actually a good thing. It's heroic.
Boy, what a weird fucking programming that we have.
Yeah. But it's pure tribalism.
Yeah. It's just, it's so bizarre to see how baked in that is. And even with really well-intentioned,
highly educated people, they just get sucked into it.
Well, especially, you probably know about the studies
that show that intelligence is no inoculation to this stuff.
So being more intelligent doesn't make you any better
at finding reasons why your story is about the world of false.
But it does make you better at finding reasons why they're true
So really smart people can give you ten reasons why they're justified in their hatred of this that and the other
Where somebody that's smart kind of give you like three or four so so so so so intelligence is no inoculation to this stuff
And if anything it makes it makes it kind of worse. I mean what one of my
Stories that I wrote in one of my books
called The Heretics was I was hanging out with this guy,
David Irving, do you know David Irving?
No.
So David Irving was a really well-respected historian
of the Second World War.
And he just decided one day that Hitler was actually,
in his words, a friend of the Jews.
And yeah, that's what he said.
And he had no idea the Holocaust had happened
and it was all done by his subordinates.
Yeah, yeah, he's been to prison for his anti-Semitic beliefs.
But he was really respected.
Like the reason we know about Dresden,
the fire bombing of Dresden,
was because of his scholarship.
I think even in slaughterhouse five,
he's mentioned positively.
And so he's completely excommunicated now
from the historical,
you know, establishment. He believes this stuff so passionately that he was kind of
offered the opportunity to withdraw his opinions in an Austrian court. Isn't it his 70s this
was? And he refused and went to prison in his 70s. And so what I did was in my book,
there's the heretics, it's called
The Unpersuadables in the US,
it was about why people believe crazy things
and the stories that we tell.
And I wanted to hang out with him
because he's an incredibly intelligent man
who has this fucking mat beliefs about the world.
And so what I did was in order to make money at the time
He was selling these tours of
Holocaust sites so you could pay two and a half grand and go for a week with him on these tour and he would give you the real
In inverted commas history of what actually happened in these places. Where was he getting this information from supposedly well? I mean he was
From the archives. I mean it was his own scholarship, but he was doing that thing that you know, he was finding his own
from the archives. I mean, it was his own scholarship, but he was doing that thing that, you know, he was finding his own interpretations of this scholarship.
And what did he say about like the trenches filled with bodies?
Oh, well, I mean, he went through a period of outright Holocaust denial, which he then kind
of repented. And the reason that he's flirtation with outright Holocaust denial was,
based on this study, this guy, this guy,
he took a chip out of the wall of one of the gas chambers and had it analyzed.
And he said-
Is this the doctor death thing?
I don't think so.
There's a documentary on this guy, Dr. Death.
It might be.
He was a guy who made execution equipment in the United States and he got roped up with
this Holocaust denial group and they sent him to Auschwitz to examine. and he said that it didn't show any of the signs of gas.
No.
The one that got hervig was that this person said, well, the amount of toxins in this concrete
isn't even enough to kill a cockroach.
But what he didn't understand was that cockroaches are really unbelievably good at surviving
and it's much easier to kill a human than a cockroach.
Well, not only that, that stuff subsides into the atmosphere.
We looked at it the other day.
That stuff subsides into the atmosphere very quickly.
Like if you use it in a room and then open up the doors, it would go into the atmosphere
very quickly.
Okay.
Yeah.
So anyway, but I mean, to be fair to Irving, because he did admit that he'd made a mistake
there, but he's still a deeply, deeply anti-Semitic man.
I mean, when I was talking to him.
So he was from the beginning,
and then that flavored his Holocaust denial?
Well, it was weird.
What I got from him was that he actually was somebody
that is very pro-British Empire.
And I think he liked Hitler.
Like his family, his history goes back to, he's all very embedded inritish Empire. And I think he liked Hitler. Like his family's, his history goes
back to, you know, he's all very embedded in the British Empire. And he blamed Hitler.
He liked Hitler because Hitler was modelling the Third Reich on the British Empire. And
we had to kind of relinquish empire to pay for the Second World War or something. So
that was my sense. But more interesting than Irving with the people that, because the people that were on the tour were actual
proper Nazis, like they had proper Nazi tactics.
Jesus.
Like full on. And I was undercover, so I had to pretend that I was also like them.
It was kind of a scary week. But one of the most...
Did you get to talk to any of them?
All of them. I was hanging out. I was on holiday with them. I was on a coach with
them and Jamie went, yeah.
What are he like? They're so weird.
So they're all men.
I mean, I write about this in the book.
I hesitate to say it, but I do write about it.
They were quite nice.
So, so, so, so.
You're so British.
So this is the weird thing.
So what happened was I interviewed David Irving on day one and you know at the time I was
a Guardian journalist I couldn't hide my disdain for him and I kind of fucked up.
I let it be known through my line of questioning that I felt he was a racist lunatic so he
kind of walked off and I was kind of panicking because I was thinking I've not got enough
material for my book I need to interview him again and I was going to panicking because I was thinking, I've not got enough material for my book. I need to interview him again. And I was talking to the Nazis about freaking
out. And then the person organizing the tour, I kept hassling, saying, I need to speak to
David again. I need to speak to David again. And she said to me, oh, you know, you might
not know this, but that all the boys have got together. And in your lectures at the
end of the day, they're all asking questions, asking David questions that they think are
going to be useful and helpful for your book because they think you've been really badly treated.
I just thought, that's so nice of them.
I know.
But that's the thing.
And that's what I write about in the book.
It's like the idea that these are monsters.
That's storytelling.
They're just blokes who've made a mistake about the world.
And what was most interesting about that was that the majority of those men had
parents that had fought for the Nazis in the Second World War. So there was one guy
on the last night of the trip, they were going to have the showing of the film Downfall,
the super, did you have the film Downfall?
No.
It's a German film, it's incredible. It's a super realistic account of the last seven
days of Hitler's life in the Hitler bunker. It's an incredible, incredible film.
It's all set in the bunker.
And so Irving was going to show downfall and give his alternative take on what was really going on.
And one of these guys couldn't watch downfall because his dad was in the bunker with Hitler
and he found it too upsetting.
And that was a big light bulb moment for me.
So my takeaway from that was that these David Irving aside,
these guys had all been brought up by parents who were proper Nazis.
And obviously Nazis are sitting in for evil.
And they couldn't cope with the fact that their dads,
probably mums perhaps as well, were evil.
So they'd said they'd kind of gone on this lifelong mission
to convince themselves that the Holocaust
was this kind of fabrication
and that none of it actually happened.
So the stories that in Brain Kicks in,
they couldn't allow themselves to believe
this horrific thing about their parents
who they adored and looked up to.
And probably their parents had filled their head
with some of this stuff too, you know.
Knowing what you know about our desire for status and how that's just impossible to remove
from the human mind and the human society, do you think that we could have like a warning
guidebook for human beings?
The same way the Constitution is sort of a warning guidebook to establish a republic.
Like, let's make some real clear checks and balances and let's make sure that the senators The same way the Constitution is sort of a warning guidebook to establish a republic.
Let's make some real clear checks and balances and let's make sure that the senators and
the congress people and all this stuff gets in place and judicial branch and they planned
it out to make sure that one person couldn't just kind of take over and run it.
It feels like we should have guidelines specifically that we teach people at an early age, to recognize
that and call it out when you see it.
And go, no, no, no, no, no, no.
This is not, you know, I know what you're doing.
Like, you're hijacking this for your own good.
And we know when people do it, we can't say it.
Because if they attach themselves to a virtuous cause, what are you criticizing?
Blank, you know?
Like, what are you? A Nazi, a or racist or transphobe? Whatever it is. It's like, we should be able to see
those outside of the merits of the ideas that we're discussing. So whatever we're discussing,
whatever it is, it's some sort of public social issue that everybody's debating we should be able to discuss it outside of
This status trap. Yeah, where if you yell this everybody goes yeah, are you that should be childlike?
Yeah, we should like shun people to do that and teach people at a fucking really early age not to do it
It's hard to learn because there's no precedent. It's not like there's like
You know a hundred years of history on how to use the internet property. Nobody knows
Yeah, they're just doing it because it seems like a thing to do that makes you feel good
Give you a little shitty dopamine spike and so they just dive in but if we could
Explain to people when they're very young when they're impressionable
These are patterns that human beings fall into and this is why they do these things that you think they're being mean or
they're being bullies. This is why. These are all the patterns. And so the kids could
get it in their head and maybe they could stop doing it while they're doing it at a
young age and learn better patterns. And then as they get older, just sort of like have
a much more rational way of interfacing with people.
Yeah, I think so. I think we should be taught this stuff.
I mean, one of the things that I took away from this
was that you get this idea about fascism and totalitarians.
How that happens is that these evil people,
you come marching in and forcing everybody
to believe certain things.
When you look at, say, the rise of the Nazis,
fascist totalitarians, they don't go in
and force you to do anything.
They tell you stories that you want to hear.
They flatter you into, you know, that's what the Nazis did.
They told the Germans, you're right, they're wrong,
we're gonna get you what you deserve
and we're gonna take it out on these people that,
who's fault it is.
So this fascist government,
this horrific episode in our history,
it didn't begin with force.
It began with telling people stories,
stories that they wanted to hear,
simplistic stories about status, about you're wrong,
it's their fault, we're gonna,
I'm gonna give you what, you know,
we're gonna make Germany great again.
And, you know, people love that stuff.
I mean,
the other thing that I think is that people sort of need to hear at the moment, I suppose, is about
you can't take the status away from a group of people and expect no pushback. So that, you know,
that that's why Trump got voted in, because since the 60s, the left have stopped caring about
the white working class and poverty and started caring much more about minorities and women,
for lots of very good reasons, obviously.
But when you ignore a group and they feel disparaged and the real working wages for
the white working class in America has fallen since the 60s, their quality of life has plummeted.
They're going to react.
It's the same way that I feel that we're treating young men at the moment.
You can't raise a generation of young men in an environment where you take all their
status away and not expect them to react.
So people worry about, oh my God, Andrew Tate, how are people flocking to these men that,
I don't know anything about Andrew Tate, but say he is a misogynist, how could it be that
the young men are flocking to this individual? It's because you're calling them names, you're removing their status.
So you can't, the left need to understand, you can't disparage and dismiss and insult
these entire categories of people.
And I speak as a lifelong left-wing person.
You can't do that and not expect some pushback.
My friend Duncan said that about the pandemic when the people on the left were attacking
all the people on the right.
He said, dude, this is going to lead to a totalitarian right wing government.
He goes, watch what this happens.
Yeah.
Watch what happens.
Because all these people on the left are going crazy.
It's like, and I saw the riots and shutting down the streets.
He was like, oh, this is going lead to a totalitarian right-wing government
because it's gonna be the opposite reaction to this.
Yeah, yeah, exactly.
So the harder one hits, the harder the response,
and then the harder they hit back,
and it ratchets up.
Till civil war.
The rhetoric, the rhetoric ratchets up, doesn't it?
I mean, that's what happens.
It's, it is potentially dangerous.
It's potentially very dangerous,
and it's not dangerous right here yet potentially very dangerous, and it's not
Dangerous right here yet right now, but it is and if you're in Gaza It certainly is if you're in Ukraine
It certainly is and other parts of the world where they convince people that these people are the bad people
We're good people and go get them
Whoo, and then there's the reality of bad people. Yes, what do you do about them?
I mean you can't just ignore the fact that there's terrorists out there
Yeah, like you got to look at all of it. Yeah, the whole thing is fucking nuts
And if we can recognize patterns and how people fall into patterns, I think we can have less nuts
Just like this has to be established like at a young age
Yeah, you got to get it into it's hard for people once they've become set in their ways and especially if they're like
politically active or
Socially active online and they're really kind of addicted to it
That's really where they get their jollies from if you just tell them right now
You got to cut that out like what am I gonna do for 10 hours a day? That's literally what I do
you know, that's one of my
Things that I've always gone back and forth in my head about is universal basic income
One part of me is always like, you know what,
if people just had enough money for food and shelter, then they could go do what they want to do.
They could chase their dreams and pursue their dreams. The other part is me is like, yeah,
but then they're not going to have any incentive to do anything. They're going to have their food
taken care of, they're going to have their shelter taken care of, and they're just going to fucking,
there's going to be a certain percentage of people that are never going to get their ass going.
We're going to miss wasted potential of people who could have pulled their life together and become something really special by overcoming these bizarre
obstacles that lead you to success in any given field.
But if all of a sudden you have all your food taken care of and your shelter taken care
of and you just want to sit there and you're okay. But you see- Like you have no, there's a certain amount of people that need a little something to
get them going.
Yeah.
And a lot of like really ambitious people came from poverty.
Yeah.
And it's because when they were young, they didn't have shit and then they figured out
that there's, you got to work harder and you got to go after things.
But I think we all have different personalities and people are going to respond to poverty
in different ways and some people have a particular personality where they're wired more for the pursuit of
status where they're going to go, fuck this.
It's not, you know.
Right.
A certain percentage are going to go for it.
They're going to use it and they're going to chase their dreams.
Yeah.
And my argument as a lefty is that a lot of that is genetic and can't be helped.
So.
Really?
Yeah.
Genetic?
Yeah.
How so? So, you know, ballpark figure, 50% of who we are is genetic. So we all have
different personality types. And so if you're extrovert, that's a good thing in our neoliberal
market economy because you're sociable, you're ambitious. If you're low in agreeableness,
that's also a good thing in our particular environment because you're competitive. But if you're not those things,
and if you have a low IQ,
and if you are, then you are,
you are gonna struggle massively to compete
in the world today.
So my argument is that those people deserve some help.
Those people deserve a social safety net
because there's no such thing as a pure meritocracy
because we don't, human brains don't roll off
the production line at Foxconn.
We're all wired differently with different talents.
And the fact is some people have low IQs.
Some people have personalities which are antisocial,
which mean that they can't get on in human groups.
They lose their temper.
And we can try and help those people,
but you can't completely rewire those people. Like it's impossible, for example, to turn an extrovert
into an introvert because of, you know, because a lot of that is genetic. Like we're born
with these semi-finished brains. So genes aren't fates, but they do set us in a certain
direction. And most of the rest of that kind of creation of self happens when we're young in the first 20 years of life
And it's mostly sort of episodes of life over which we have no control
So by the summer in our 20s early 20s, we're kind of who we are
There's not much that's going to change us in a dramatic sense apart from serious trauma
so
So I think that's why we you know that idea of neoliberalism with cushions, I think
there are categories of people that are always going to need our help through no fault of
their own because they're just not equipped biologically to deal with this hyper-competitive
world that we're all born into these days.
What percentage of people that do have the potential to break out of that won't because
of a social assistance net
that's a little bit too comfortable.
Well, I think-
Is there a percentage that we're gonna lose?
I don't know, but I think what we need to have is,
I mean, I think that's why education is so important
because a good school system will find those
incredible, talented people.
Like my father was from a family of bricklayers
going back generations and he had a scholarship to Oxford University. You
know, you yeah a great school system discovers those people and motivates
them and tells them you could have incredible stuff if you just do a bit
of work. You've got an excellent mind and an excellent personality and I
think that's the job of the school system is to find those people and give them the
very best education they can possibly have.
And again, that's a welfare kind of social safety net tax, sort of slightly bigger tax
thing.
That certainly is.
But the idea of just straight money and housing, that's what I'm talking about.
Straight money and housing is a different kind of social safety net.
And I think that there's a real good argument for what you're saying that some people are just, they just don't have the tools.
But then there's also a good argument that some people have never been given the opportunity to excel in a thing that they're
interested in because they never really found a thing they're interested in. It's just getting, there's some people that like, led very unspectacular lives,
and then they found this one thing,
and they got really good at that one thing
and became a superstar at it.
And they'll tell you, you know, I was 28 years old,
I was just kind of fucking around one day with my friends,
and then I really got into it.
And then I started changing, and then next thing you know,
like this guy's like a famous person in the field,
or whatever it is, that happens. That does happen. But it probably happens less if you have everything taken care of.
So there's a bunch of things going on. There's people that are kind of hopeless, unfortunately,
and maybe that is a genetic thing. Maybe at least some of them, it is a genetic thing.
But there's also people that are uninterested
and maybe uninspired and maybe they just,
maybe it's not as simple as them going to school.
It's just maybe like seeing someone around you
that lives life in a way that you admire.
Someone who's like, I wanna be like that guy.
Or I wanna be like her.
Like what is that?
And how do you get that to people?
Because that's a big factor.
That's a giant factor in who you become as an adult human being like who you exposed to as a child?
Absolutely. Yeah, so there's a really great academic. He may even be on this. I don't know could Joseph Henrich
He's done lots of work in how we operating groups and he's done this research that shows
That those people that we kind of glom onto, especially when
we're young, but we never stop doing it, there are various cues in our environment that we
subconsciously seek out to mimic people. One of them is similarity. So we identify people
who are a bit like us. They're men are more likely to glom onto men, women, women, that
kind of thing. And then there's other various cues. There's like skill cues.
So if we see somebody's really competent at something,
we'll start to mimic them and copy them.
There's success cues.
So the symbols of success, so the fast car
or in the tribal context, the necklace of teeth.
And then the other one is prestige cues. So if we see lots of other people
attending to one person, we'll also attend to them. And then the psychologists call this the
Paris Hilton effect, where the more people look at somebody, the more people look at them, and
it just goes into this runaway thing, and you get some Paris Hilton who's got no apparently
skill for anything, who becomes globally famous. So the brain's always looking for these people to identify and then copy, and the logic is
that these people are high status.
They've worked at how to earn status in the game that we're playing, and so by copying
them, we too will learn and rise in status.
So I guess that's just a
long-winded way of saying that role models are really important and I
think that's why we see, you know, the government always worries about issues of
street gangs in socioeconomic low, you know, in poor places.
Jihadist groups in those places and the reason we have street gangs and
jihadist groups isn't because boys will be boys and they're naughty, they're
criminals, they're monsters.
They're naughty.
It's because they need status.
And so if you're a young man growing up
in a horrible estate in South London
and you're 14 years old and you want status
and you've got a choice,
they're gonna work in the supermarket,
it's stuck in shelves,
I'm gonna become a drug dealer and drive a Ferrari.
What are you gonna choose?
So that's what society needs to figure out.
It's kind of what you were saying is that we need to give young people, especially in
lower socioeconomic groups, more opportunities to earn status.
I mean, that's one of the things that being middle class is you get all those opportunities
to earn status.
You get an education, you go to college, you can choose all these careers, but poorer
people just don't have those opportunities.
And so I think you're right. I think lives are wasted.
Human value is wasted because those opportunities just aren't made for young people.
You ever listen to Gangstar?
No.
Gangstar has a song about it called Just To Get A Rep.
Oh, really?
Yeah.
It's all about people doing things, just to get a reputation.
Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah. There was a guy in the 70s who went to this, it was Nigerian Africa.
And there used to be this like a run by the Royals, aristocratic rulers.
And then these jihadists came in and just got rid of them all.
And he was curious, this guy, his name is Baskam, I think, Jerome Baskam.
Why is it that Islam is really popular in this place?
Because it should be hated because they've swept away everybody's status games, the existing
status games they were playing.
So he went in and he met two former descendants of the royalty.
And one of them was a peanut seller and he was miserable and he was
kind of stooped and depressed and struggled in his marriage and was bitter because he used to be
this big man and now he was nothing. And the other guy had gone into the Islamic, the Muslim,
the status game of Islam and he learned the Quran by the age of 16, which is very prestigious.
So he was killed.
Yeah, and he said he was killing it. So he was proud, he had multiple wives, he was happy.
So he wasn't wealthy, but he was happy. So he said, you know, that's why Islam was popular
in that place. It's because it was offering a new and functional status game. So when
you've got nothing, you find a game to play
if you wanna be successful in your own mind
and in your own health.
And so that's how Islam became so popular
and successful there.
And that's how religions become popular generally.
They offer people who have not much else
reliable parts of the status.
Yeah, that's why I try to squash them as quick as they can in this country when new
ones pop up.
Yeah.
Thus, we go, you know.
Yeah.
And thus, so many of them.
Well, that's what happens under communism and Nazism, one of the first things they do
is they get rid of all the other rival status games.
Like, big one in the Soviet Union was the Christians.
They would torture and kill them. Yeah, because it was... And it's still in the Soviet Union was the Christians, you know, they would torture and kill them
Yeah, yeah, because it was and it's still in China today
Yeah, it's um They see religions of rival status game and you can't have that in a big totalitarian state
Yeah
The beaker one's crazy one right because it's hard to get information about what exactly is going on. What are they making these people do?
Yeah.
It's such a strange subject in that it's so pivotal.
It's so crucial to understanding how human beings behave and what we do.
But yet it's so rarely addressed.
Yeah.
Instead, they look at all the symptoms.
Yeah.
Everybody looks at all the side effects.
But they're not looking at the actual pattern that people seem to just naturally fall into.
Yeah, I was amazed when I wrote the book that nobody had written it before because it just
seems so fundamental. And I think part of the thing is that people are in denial about their own
interest in status. I think we've evolved to hide it from ourselves.
And so people insist that they're not interested in status, but you are. Like it's in your
wiring, everybody is like, nobody wants to be called an asshole at all. And that's because
it's a removal of your status.
Yeah, it's like that thing, the I don't care thing. Of course you care. Everybody cares.
It's nonsense. And you get self-help guru saying you don't care thing. Of course you care. Everybody cares. It's nonsense.
And you get self-help guru saying you shouldn't care what other people think about you, but
it's like you're always going to care.
It's nonsense.
It's nonsense talk.
We're designed to care very deeply because other people give us our status.
And also, why would you not want to care?
Because that's a psychopath.
Exactly.
That's the problem.
Yeah. The other thing they say is that how do we get out of the status game?
And it's like the same thing.
It's like, why would you want to?
Because status is your reward for offering value to other people.
So why would you not want to offer value to other people?
That's like the definition of a loser.
Right.
If you stop caring that other people think you're a valuable person,
then you really are those people that you were talking about that just have no get up and go.
Then you're the unabomber.
Exactly.
Yeah.
The unabomber really didn't like people.
No, but he was another one.
He was another guy that, you know, the roots of the unabomber is fascinating that he went
to Harvard University and had those experiments.
And that was an exercise in humiliation.
Yeah.
So it was the LSD studies and part of what they did when they dose them up with LSD and they would do humiliating things to him and
berate him and they were doing it as an experiment.
They were trying to see what they could do to him and how he would react and the fact they were using LSD while they were doing this is so nuts.
Yeah, they got him to, they said it was a kind of experiment and the first thing to do was he had to write down in great detail
all of his secrets, all of his hopes and dreams, like his most personal important things.
And then he was sat in a desk like this with lights shining in his face and all these people
were just mocking him, mocking him, mocking him, tearing him to bits.
So absolutely humiliated him.
And then what happened?
You know the story of his childhood too?? You know, the story of his childhood too?
I don't know the story of his childhood.
When he was a baby, he was very ill.
And so they brought him to an infirmary.
And he wasn't allowed to have any contact with his parents for like months.
So for like several months while he was a child,
I don't remember exactly how long, but it was horrifically long.
He didn't get human touch
Which you know, they didn't understand back then I guess that that's crucial to the development of a human being without it You're literally a baby will go mad
Hmm and so then when he was older one of the things his brother talked about because his brother was the one who read the
Manifesto and recognized his brother's. Because it wasn't just a manifesto.
It was the specific way that he was talking about things and the way his understanding
of technology and it was his brother.
His brother had this like crazy anti-technology philosophy a long fucking time ago.
But he was saying that like if he made an advance on a girl and the girl rejected him,
he would be horrific and angry and write letters and
just berate her.
It was crazy where he had to go, I mean, what the fuck are you doing?
So he knew his brother was just broken.
He was always broken.
So to take that guy and dose him up with LSD and humiliate him, like they made a fucking
monster.
Yeah.
And who did he attack?
Like the UN in Unibom or his universities. He took his, you know, it was revenge
on the intellectual class who were kind of creating
this world he hated.
It's like, obviously, about Elliot Rogers,
the spree killer, you know, he felt rejected again
and again and again by the pretty girls of the world.
So his brain told him this horrifically misogynist story
that girls, women were the responsible for all the evils in the world and decided to go out and, you know, kill
a bunch of them.
That's what the brain does.
It tells us these stories that the people who are responsible for my lack of status
are evil and they must be destroyed.
It's a horrible pattern.
It's a horrible pattern that people get into.
And again, not really that commonly discussed.
It's only discussed the actions themselves, not the root cause of it.
But how do you get a guy like that Elliot Rogers guy?
How do you fix that?
How do you stop that from happening?
Well, he left behind, I think it's 80,000 word autobiography called My Twisted Life.
Did somebody publish it?
He put it on the internet before he did his killing.
Wow.
He's killed six people.
And it's an incredible read.
Like, I'm not joking.
Really?
Like, yeah, it's horrific, but he's brutally honest about himself.
Like, you know, his life was absolutely miserable.
And so what I found was really interesting was that he
always starting in adolescence he felt where he was bullied relentlessly at school and he
was desperate for a girlfriend. He was just weird around people in general. But he was
kind of holding it together because he was obsessed with World of Warcraft. So he would
play World of Warcraft obsessively. He got a lot of status in that he got to the highest level, which apparently is a very rare thing
to do. And then what happens is that he's just got these two or three friends that he
plays World of Warcraft with at the Internet Cafe. And then he finds out one day that they
are actually playing without him in secret because they don't want to play with him
anymore. And that breaks him. That's the thing that breaks him. So he goes
from just being a casual, you know, very unpleasant misogynist to somebody who is mentally ill.
He starts talking about how...
Is that definitive though? Because what did they say the reason why they stopped hanging
out with him for? He might have been insane already.
Well, he was certainly...
He certainly wasn't normal. But in his memoir, he goes from being a, yeah, definitely a weirdo,
like without a doubt.
But then he starts telling a story where actually he's this kind of god-like character that
has a special insight in the world.
And the special insight is that all the evil in the world is because women choose jocks
to procreate with and not
superior people like him.
So what he's going to do is take over the world and abolish sex because sex is at the
root of all evil.
And he's going to allow certain women to procreate under certain conditions, but only for the
continuation of the species.
And so this, he goes from just being a misogynist and an outcast to somebody who's mentally ill well call me cynical
But I don't think people not playing world of Warcraft with you can do that. I have a feeling
Yeah, he might have already been out of his fucking mind. Yeah, he was just me
Well, yes, he was definitely getting that way
But if for me it was interesting that he's his only remaining source of status
For me it was interesting that his only remaining source of status was taken away from him and it was that day when he has this revelation.
So maybe it's a coincidence.
I bet he was already out of his fucking mind.
There's no way that just does it to you.
No, no.
I'm not saying he went from black to white.
The status.
Yeah.
The straw.
He went from being a horrible, awkward misogynist to somebody who was having these fantasies
of abolishing sex and that he was a god.
Like that's a kind of difference.
Yeah, it was the edge.
It pushed him over the edge.
Yeah, that's what I think.
And there's a lot of people out there that are just on the edge.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So that's what I think it's healthy to have lots of different status games.
You know, I think the healthiest people have multiple sources of status
Yeah, you were talking about that in the trigonometry podcast like have more than one thing that you're interested in that way all of your
Emotional self-worth is not invested in one particular thing that you do. Yes, that's a hedge really good advice. Yeah, I
Try follow that advice good. Yeah, I like to keep I I tell comedians too, you should have things you're interested in
other than comedy. Have something that you really love that's fun to do.
Yeah.
Something you engage, not just something you watch, but something you do.
That's why I joined this, volunteered for this crisis line, because it's like the only thing I do is write.
If this is taken away from me.
Right, right, right.
It's, it's, yeah.
That's interesting.
Yeah, but also there's like something really powerful about helping somebody. You's, it's, yeah. That's interesting. Yeah, but also there's like something really powerful
about helping somebody.
You know, it's almost selfish.
You know what I mean?
It is though, it is like, definitely.
I mean that in the best possible way.
Yeah.
I don't really think it's selfish,
I think it's wonderful.
But I think it's kind of selfish in that when I do
really nice things, it feels good too.
But that's, again, that's the status game.
It's like we are wired to, when we offer, earn that kind of virtue based status, we
are wired to feel good about ourselves.
That's healthy, that's normal, it's good.
The fact that humans automatically reward each other and ourselves when we give to others
is probably the most wonderful thing about our species.
It's like an incredible thing that we do.
So it's nothing to be, I don't think it's anything to be ashamed of, that people feel
good about doing good things.
That's how it's ought to be.
That's part of the reason why we do good things, we're wired to give back to the tribe.
Yeah.
And the only thing that stops more of it is people that are in severe despair and then
they get real selfish because they have to.
They're looking out for themselves.
That's one of the major problems with not addressing all the horrible spots in a country.
It's like you're just going to have more people in despair, less people that engage in this
status game in an enjoyable way, in a beneficial way.
Yeah, that's right.
Yeah. Yeah. And that's, uh, that's one of those things that like crosses
both ideological boundaries. Kind of, and this is where I think we have a real problem is that
so many people just subscribe to whatever one side believes because of this status game.
And they don't take any consider like, why am I touching this idea? What does it have to do
with the other ones that I like? Yeah. Like, why are they all lumped in together?
How come if I believe this, I also have to believe in that? Because that's what it is.
If you tell me that you don't believe in climate change, I can guarantee you how you're going
to vote.
Yeah, that's right. I mean, that's it. Like in the UK, somebody that thinks that there
should be more public money spent on
buses.
I can guarantee how you're going to vote.
But also, we're more likely to be on the Palestinian side of the Middle East in conflict.
100%.
Buses, Middle East.
Yeah.
Nothing to do with each other.
Yeah.
But they...
How do you feel about guns, sir?
Yeah.
Do you believe in the Second Amendment?
Because I fucking do.
And then I know how you're voting.
That's it.
I mean, I've got this kind of idea that not always. Once you're
past the age of 45 or even 40 if all of your beliefs line up with left or right
then that something's gone wrong with your life. Like by the time you're 45
you should be smart enough to have figured out that they've got some stuff
right and they've got some stuff right and you should have decided for yourself
which is which. Yes. That's and so when I meet somebody that's my age and they've got some stuff right and you should have decided for yourself which is which. Yes.
And so when I meet somebody that's my age and they're just giving this sort of list
of talking points from left or right, I just think, oh, God, you're 16.
You're a 16-year-old.
That's weird, right?
It's weird how some people will argue about something and then when you just calmly and
rationally ask him like why
do you believe this? Like what's what do you know about the studies that were
involved in this? Like what do you know about the origin of this? Like you can
say it in the most peaceful way and just talk just like that and they'll get
hostile. Yeah. Because they don't have that information. Yeah. They just know
that you must be some sort of a bad person. Yeah. If you're not following the
narrative. Yeah. Like come on we all know what's going on.
We all know, what do you want?
Trump to win?
Everybody knows.
Everybody knows.
It's well known that.
I think it anger with you.
Are you stupid?
Are you stupid?
You really believe this?
Like, I just want to know why you believe it.
I didn't say what I believe.
People can't engage like that.
Very few people can like stand outside their ideas.
And one of the things that I always try to tell as many people will listen, one of the things that
benefited me tremendously is when I stopped being attached to my ideas. I don't believe
in my ideas. I do in the sense that these are some ideas that I have and I wonder if
this is right. But if it's not right, I'm not attached to it. Like I can go, oh, I used to think that,
but now I know this.
And that doesn't diminish your worth.
And, but what does diminish your worth,
is if you fucking cling to that other stupid thing,
even after you know it's not real, that's just dumb.
Like you're not your ideas.
You're just a human being that's interfacing
with a fucking shitload of information.
And most of it, you're only going to have a peripheral understanding of.
Ask most people, how's the sewage system work?
You know it's so important to use it every day.
How does it function without electricity?
I flush, it comes back.
What the fuck's going on?
Most people have zero idea, but it's like a critical part of their day.
That's it. And that's the thing about active beliefs. It's the beliefs that become part of our identity. They're the dangerous ones right because that those are the ones that
are that are status generators for us status is our status depends on this idea that
About biological women or about who about white versus black men versus women and then once once you're in that space
You can't trust your own thoughts
because your brain isn't thinking what's true your brain is thinking how can I defend this
belief how can I defend this belief because this belief is me I am this belief this is my
my status game is based on this belief yeah and it's a really dangerous trap that everyone can
fall into all of us that's why cults are so terrifying to me they're not terrifying to me
because I look at these people oh they, they're so stupid, you know,
these fucking dummies are gonna ruin the world.
No, I'm terrified because that could have been me.
That 100%, I think it could be anybody.
And I think we are naive to think that we're not subject
to the same kind of capture
that many, many people have gotten into.
Whether it's communism or whether it's socialism
or whether it's Nazism or one of these crazy
fucking cults where people cut their balls off and wear the purple sneakers, you could
get sucked into it.
Maybe not you.
Maybe you are at a certain level of your life where you have enough sophistication and understanding
and you're good at reading people and you can recognize bullshit.
But maybe you have enough for that, but maybe the next one will get you. Maybe there's one that's a little bit better, and you know, it's kind of a church, but it's
a rock and roll kind of thing.
And you know, the...
One of the good...
You know?
So, a thought experiment that I like is this idea that the kind of shows that your irrational
beliefs are invisible to you.
So when you think about the people that are close to you, like, you can...
You know, each one of those people, what they're wrong about, like this person, don't get them talking
about that. No, this person's mad about that. And then the further you go out from your
social circles, the more wrong and mad and crazy people will get to you, get to the
bull cut in cold than the communists. So that just leaves you in the middle, the island,
a perfect island of absolute rationality. So you go, hang on a minute, that can't be
right. So I'm not Jesus. Like I must be wrong about some stuff. How convenient. But when you go looking for what
you're wrong about and you can't cheat by going stuff that you don't care about, like
what ideas are really important to you? Well, I'm not wrong about that. I'm not wrong about
that. I'm not wrong about that. So you can't see it. You feel like Jesus. You feel like
I'm the most correct person literally in the world.
You know logically you can't be, but you can't see, you can't find what you're wrong about. Especially if you're rationalizing everything that you do and every idea that you have as being the correct idea.
Which is why it's so dangerous. Your value, your worth should not be entirely your ideas.
That's crazy.
Terrible strategy.
Because you could be hanging on to a bad idea.
And then you have to cling on to it and defend it.
You can't say, oh, that idea was bad.
Because that's you, you're bad.
That's what's stupid about it.
It doesn't have to be that way.
You can just think of them as ideas.
It doesn't mean you.
But if you irrationally defend an idea,
then it is you. Well, as irrationally defend an idea, then it is you.
Yeah. Well, as soon as that becomes an active belief, a belief that you're acting out in
the world, that's causing your behavior, that you're trying to spread to other people
and convince other people it's true, then you're already on a slippery slope because
you're already feeling irrationally about that.
I've seen it happen to brilliant people. I really have. And it's so weird to watch.
It's like you lost them. They got bit by a vampire. Yeah, I did a lot for writing about that. Remember the the skeptics remember when they were big
Yeah, those guys are great
But but it always struck me that they were also irrational about certain things. Yeah, and when I was doing my reporting
That they're big kind of moral panic kind of status frenzy was homeopathy. They're obsessed with homeopathy. Like, and they were like, because homeopathy is just empty pills and it's ridiculous and
do the, do the.
Um, so, but I just thought this is weird because we know the placebo effects works.
It's a real thing.
So surely homeopathy is just very elaborate placebo theater.
It works as a placebo.
So it still works.
So I put this to, um, a guy who was a big famous atheist.
He presented a sort of very famous podcast at the time and I said, what about that?
That it's like it's a placebo effect. So it's surely it's a valuable thing homeopathy. And he
said, no, no, no, no, no, that's not right. The data is on this. We know about this. He said,
what we know is the placebo is only psychological, not physiological. The data isn't on this. We know about this. He said, um, what we know is, um,
the placebo is only psychological, not physiological. So people think they're getting better, but they're not getting better.
But it's like, hang on a minute. If the perception of pain has decreased, then the pain is decreased.
Like if the perception of your depression has decreased, then the depression has decreased.
Right, but that measure like Advil doesn't work.
Yeah, exactly. So it's like this guy who was incredibly smart
and incredibly well-known in the skeptic community
had managed to convince himself that the placebo effect
was this fake thing that didn't really work
because it was only psychological,
just so to give him permission to sort of shit on homeopathy.
But does the placebo effect work
in terms of curing diseases?
No, nothing.
Things like pain and...
Zero?
I don't think so.
Pain and depression, things that are...
Yeah, so it doesn't cure cancer, can't shrink a tumor.
But it does work with pain and depression, that's fascinating.
Yeah, that's fascinating.
Yeah, I mean, there were well-known studies that show
that when you buy a brand, I always buy brand name painkillers because it has greater placebo than the cheap supermarket-owned brand.
Even when you know it's the placebo, it still works more.
So that extra few bucks that you're spending on the brand name painkillers is worth it.
Well, isn't there just a problem calling yourself a skeptic?
Because why don't it just be a thinker?
Yeah.
Why are you specifically looking at things and it's
cynical, you know
There's a lot of things that are real. Yeah, what do you do when you stumble across something?
It's real well, I used to be skeptical, but this turns out to be legit. Well, it's like you're just looking at everything hoping
It's not legit because that's where you get your value in your
Exactly
bullshit in that where you get your value in your status. Exactly. He's status from calling bullshit.
In that book I ended up meeting,
you know, you must have said James Randy,
he was their big God, you know.
And he was a very strange individual.
And part of the interview, I challenged him a lot
on a lot of the things that he'd claimed in his life.
And he ended up admitting to me that he was he'd lied and been dishonest about
his achievements in the past. Oh no. Yeah. What achievements? Well achievements and also
lied a lot about the things he'd said about you know he had this million dollar challenge.
Yes. Yeah so his whole thing was like is it easy thing to do if you prove anything that's supernatural or
woo-woo, he used to call it, you get a million dollars. And the fact that nobody had ever
got this a million dollars was his proof that none of this could exist. But there is story
after story after story after story of people applying for this million dollar challenge,
him backing out at the last minute for spurious reasons and then attacking that person in
public. So they happened again and again and again.
I think the worst instance of that was this Greek, again, homeopathy person who'd spent
something like half a million euros setting up a study in a hospital to test, properly
test whether this homeopathy worked.
And just on the eve of it happening, he insisted that it all had to start again and a pilot
study had to be made. And then blamed the other guy for pulling out.
So I came to him with basically a binder full of this stuff
and he eventually admitted,
you know, I have been dishonest, I have been untrue.
But one of the amazing things about that was that
I asked him at the end of the interview
after he'd admitted, yes, I've lied about this stuff.
I said, have you ever changed your mind about anything? And he was in his 80s at the time, I think. He couldn't
tell me a single thing that he had ever changed his mind about. That is not a critical thinker.
That's a stubborn asshole. Yeah. And on that note, hey man, thank you very much for being here.
It was a lot of fun. I really enjoyed it. And like I said, I enjoyed your interview on trigonometry and I recommend everybody go
It's great podcast anyway
So thank you very much and thank you for the book and thank you for being able to like lay this out and still like I said
Digestible way. Thank you Joe. I already appreciate you having me on. It's been amazing. I enjoyed it. Thank you. Alright, bye everybody.