The Joe Rogan Experience - #2388 - Lionel Richie
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Pleasure to meet you, sir.
It's about time.
Thank you very much for being here.
This is an honor.
It's same here, man.
Same here.
How does a person like you
fit your life into a book
because you
your career
is so wide
and so long
you've had so many experiences
from the Commodores
in the 70s
the 70s still
rocking
70s
70s
so Joe let me tell you something
it really accounts for
I'll tell you the joke of the book first
okay I'm probably the only guy in the world
that had a book
had a book with probably
a thousand pages in it. I turned
a thousand pages in it. They said
what the hell is this?
War in peace.
I've war in peace. And I said
and I've got some more stories. I've got
some more stories. And so for the first time
in the history of Harper's probably they said
Mr. Richie, no more stories.
We don't need any more stories. In fact, can we take
some of the stories out?
So the answer to your question, we can't
fit all of my life story in a book.
But we just had to find
the ones that were actually, you know, humorous in certain cases, educational in certain cases, because it's wide.
It's big and that.
But I enjoyed the process of kind of looking back.
Because if you understand me, I have the Italian race car driver's theory.
What's behind me doesn't count.
What's in front of me.
That's a very good way of looking at life.
So what this book made me do was actually turn around and look behind me.
and I tell you what I discovered
I discovered Lionel Richie
because up to this point
I had never really gone into the depths
of how I got here
I just remember
because you want to forget
You just kept going. Just kept going
Look, keep going straight
You tripped over that, I don't remember
You tripped over that, I don't remember
What's next?
Yeah
And you try to kind of
You know, it's like playing football
You got hit really badly on that last play
But you go back to the huddle
Right
You know what I'm saying?
Right.
Are you hurt?
You won't know until tonight after you get off the field, and they'll tell you you broke your arm.
You know what I'm saying?
But it's really don't stop moving forward.
And that's really what this whole thing was.
This exercise in this book was really for me to actually go, hmm, I can't believe I did.
Did you learn anything about yourself from going back and just recalling all these stories and putting them to paper?
Did I learn?
Did I learn?
Absolutely.
It's, if you had said to me when I first started, my life, you know, my dad used to always have this line over and over again.
You know, a great fighter is not determined by how many punches he can throw.
It's how many punches he can take.
And I realized that I could take punches.
I'm the most unlikely person to take a punch because I'm not that guy.
If I can talk my way out of it, I will.
But if you understand life itself, number one, that's difficult.
And then if you start thinking about the music business, the entertainment business, it's an impossibility.
You're going to get punched every day of your life.
And what's that punch?
No, no, no, no, no, that's the punch.
Now, can you get up off the floor and come back?
Can you get a bad review and come back?
Can they not like you and you come back?
Can you find that that's a humorous thing instead of a tragic thing?
can you come back?
Can you lose friends along the way?
Can you come back?
So you don't really realize, you know,
this is a business, if you look at it,
think about how many people we've lost.
When I started writing this book,
I started thinking to myself,
where's Luther?
Where's Michael?
I want to tell you more stories about Prince.
But it's not fair
because in certain cases,
I want him to be here to laugh with a joke too.
You follow me?
And so then you start realizing, damn, this is lucky.
This is really blessed time now because I'm in rare survival air, if you will.
I'm still here at 200 years old talking about my career.
But I'm telling the story.
Someone else is not telling it for me.
That's important.
That's important.
Right, because so many times when someone passes and then you get this sort of cobbled together version of their life
without their own unique personal perspective, you mean?
miss a lot. You miss a lot. And especially things that people thought were terrifying or tragic.
If you talk to the person themselves, that was a learning experience. So you keep thinking,
oh my God, what did you do when that happened? And you go, no, no, no, no, no. I needed that.
Because I wouldn't have been to the next person if I had not experienced that. Because it's like trying to go, you know, to scrimmage before a big game.
you're with your team
well they hit harder
from the other team
so you got to practice hard
well the only way to get into
the music business
you got to be on the field
practice is not
in the equation
right you got to get out
on the field and it's nasty
and it's not designed
for you to survive
and I try to say this
to the kids on American Idol
I said listen I love you
you got a great personality
but you better hope like hell
you have a sense of humor.
Because if you don't, it's going to eat up alive.
Did you develop this mentality along the way,
or was this something that you just uniquely had?
This is my character.
If you understand something,
and I tell this joke all the time,
I was too small to play football,
too short to play basketball.
Baseball was a projectile
coming in me at 300 miles an hour.
I'm not standing in front of that thing.
And the only thing I could play was tennis.
So you understand, walking around on a tennis court in the middle of the civil rights movement, you have to develop a sense of humor.
Otherwise, you're going to die.
And so I found also, again, it's funny what your father will say to you back in, you wonder, how did he get through all of his life?
Because they went through the struggle of life.
And he said, if you lose your sense of humor,
they got you.
And I always remembered the fact that if you can find something funny out of this experience,
take that ha-ha to the next day.
And so I kind of use that as my mantra, basically, that, okay, where am I?
I'm at the Grammys.
Okay.
What am I complaining about?
I'm complaining about I don't like my seat.
What did they just say?
I won.
Who cares?
You know what I'm saying?
Or you're just at the Grammys.
You know how many people don't get to come to the Grammys?
Just on the invitation.
And so you have to go back and look at this as far as, is it really that serious?
Or, you know, you have to kind of put things in perspective.
And so, you know, the first half of my career was just a matter of how do I get there?
the second half of my career
is can I please try to enjoy a little bit of it
and that's where I am right now
because you know it's the song stuck around
more importantly
I'm still here which is the blessing
you're still here and you look great
I'll take that as a compliment you really do
you look very healthy
well considering
looking at you across the table from me
I think I left my muscles
back in the hotel room
but you know
it's all about
two and a half hour show
a night for the last
50 years
that's my
golf game
training
because you've got to be ready
for two and a half hours
and I don't care what you think
you're the greatest guy in the world
I'll put you on that stage
and give you 50,000 people
and you
after running with a night
or all night long sing a slow song
I dare you
and do it
Since 1970, like, what was the Commodore, 72?
Did you guys start?
Well, let me tell you, we started in 68 on the university campus.
We were students.
It started out as a group called The Mystics, and we were the talent show.
We didn't realize that we were the joke of the seniors, of the juniors.
But they have a freshman talent show every year, and we wanted to be the band to be the freshman talent show.
We came out on stage and killed it.
and it was a guy, another group there called the Jays,
which was the seniors.
They had been there for the last four years,
and they were the biggest group on campus.
They were about to break up.
And a guy named Michael Gilbert gave us a phone call and said,
I want to put a group together,
and I was looking at you four guys.
Would you like to come and join this band over here?
The answer is that was the beginning of the Commodores.
And how old were you at the time?
19 years old.
Wow.
Thank you very much.
Wow.
19 years old and we're going to take over the world, Joe.
You know what I mean?
In other words, you know, there's James Brown, there's Marvin, and there's the Commodores.
You know how that works, you know.
And what I love about that period of time, we could be, you know, all right, all wrong, but we were all together.
It didn't make any difference.
So we experienced every possible, imaginable part of growing up together.
I didn't grow up with brothers.
I had one sister.
So these became, forget the band.
These were five brothers.
And we were in every disaster you could probably think about.
And we laughed our way in and out of every, today we'd all be in jail.
I can make that statement.
I mean, but back then, it was the best.
And at 19 years of age, you're just starting to become a man.
And then you're thrust into superstardom in a crazy time in human history.
It was, well, first of all, we didn't really get into recording until 71, 72.
We were just the biggest, largest, most dynamic band in our heads across the South.
and until we were the opening act for the Jackson 5,
their first tour they went out on,
we were the opening act for them.
That was our first look at,
holy crap, this is huge.
And then I'm an economics major, an accounting minor,
and all of a sudden I kept thinking,
I don't know what this business is,
but I think I want to be in it.
Because you have to understand something.
When you play tennis, what's the number one thing you will never hear ever a girl screaming?
That's not going to happen.
Football, basketball, you hear them all day long.
I was going to be an Episcopal priest thinking that's my avenue.
And I'm on stage one night at the Jackson Show, and all of a sudden, some girl said, sing it, baby.
And I said, call the minister back on the phone.
I said, I don't think I'm going to be priest material.
I just want you to understand.
You have to know at that point.
You have to identify your lane.
You know, I had never heard that Joe in my life.
Of course.
You know what I'm saying?
How many people ever get to hear sing it, baby?
21 years old, right?
I got an emotion.
Thank you very much.
And from that point on, it was just a matter of riding this wave of we finished that Jackson
tour.
We ended up in Motown, Hollywood Bowl.
Motown saw us there.
Suzanne DePas was, of course, the one who put the V. Jackson's together and all that.
She knew us from our manager, Cape Cod and Martha's Vineyard Island.
Next thing we know, we're recording.
Wow.
Hallelujah.
And then you're off to the races.
We're off to the races.
Off to the races.
Joe. And I tell you, you know, looking at this book, it's a question, I survived or how I survived. But the question to me was, I survived. Because it's not, it's, I mean, I can tell your stories. Well, they're in the book, but I'm just saying there are moments when you just look around and go, thank God for just being naive.
Young, stupid, didn't have any idea of what the heck you were doing, but what a great adventure.
I'm in a subway, 4 o'clock in the morning, my saxophone, and I had this little secret thing that no one knew.
I had this seethe, sheath, sheath, sheath around my neck, didn't know it had a secret compartment.
Of course, everybody in Harlem knew it was a secret compartment.
I had all my money in that, and I'm walking around going, no way.
knows I have my money in there, right, which is everybody knew my money in there.
I would walk up and down the subway.
No one would touch us.
No one.
I don't know.
It has to be a sense of divine guidance or big Frank Lucas just told everybody don't touch us.
One or the other, but I mean it was just one of those moments in time where, you know,
I've had some people say to me, you were in Harlem at four o'clock in the morning in the subway
alone? I said, yeah. With a saxophone. With a saxophone. God bless you, kid.
Wow. God bless you.
It must seem almost surreal looking back because you've had such an incredible life, such an
incredible career. It almost, I mean, I can't imagine what it feels like just reminiscing
and going through the stories and just looking at the actual facts of what you did.
I'm glad I'm doing the book now because otherwise I would be, let's say, when I got to about 98, 99, because I'm planning on a full life, right?
There's an old man at the barbershop still telling lies about his life when he was growing up, you know, because it has to be a lie.
You know, and, you know, there was one title I was joking around with, which is you're not going to believe this shit.
That would be a great title.
That would be the title, you know, and I was thinking that might be the way to go.
And then, of course, I kept thinking, no, but from a philosophical point of view, that's not going to fly right.
Okay, we'll pull that back.
But the point is, it's almost not believable.
I mean, when you start calling off names, it's almost like name dropping.
And you start thinking about who mentored you, who gave you the advice, who was there for you exactly the right time.
who came in, who left right on time.
You know what I'm saying?
There are moments that happen that if I tried to script this thing,
if I try to put it down as a complete play,
chapter by chapter, you know, act by act,
you couldn't make this up.
I mean, it just, it reads like a book.
Or like a crazy movie.
Like if your life was a movie, I'd be like,
that seems a little unrealistic.
Yeah, yeah.
Too many good things happen to that way.
Yeah, yeah, to the point where somebody says, I remember a couple of my friends,
why am I drawing a blank, Rick James, Rick James had a great line for me.
Every time he saw me, I say, Rick, how you doing?
I hate you.
And that means I love you, but I hate you, I hate you, man.
And, of course, I get it, you know, because things along.
the way become almost charmed right you know it's like okay um did I go out and
called Dick Clark and say I wanted to host the American Music Awards no no he called
us and said Lionel forget that guy in New York look at that guy in New York you're
doing it you're doing it I mean forget that guy now whoever that guy was the gift
was handed to me.
And now I spent the next two or three weeks
trying to convince Mr. Clark
that I don't have any training
in how to be a host.
And that's when he would come to me and say,
you school boys are all the same.
You think you need a diploma
before you think you know something.
You know, these lines that come out of
this whole story,
you know, that's not orchestrated.
That's not scripted.
It came from the other side back this way.
Yeah.
Do you feel charmed?
Yes.
Do you feel like for whatever reason?
The word I'll use is blessed.
It's one of those things where my grandmother said something to me a while back.
I just finished endless love.
And I went back to Tuskegee.
And I'm walking around in the house pacing.
back and forth. She says, what on earth
are you doing? And I said, I'm trying to figure out my next
move. And she said, did you come to school
to join the Commodore? She said, no, no, I met
them on the campus. She said, did you plan on being a writer?
No, no, no, no, I found out I was a writer.
She said, did you plan on being a lead singer?
No, no, no, I found out when I joined the group that...
She said, why don't you just get a good night's sleep
and wait for God to give you the next.
Wow.
And that's how I started my career.
That's an incredible woman.
That's incredible perspective.
Quit trying to figure this out.
Did you figure it out before?
No.
Then just relax.
Chill out.
Can you read and write music?
No.
Okay.
Chill out.
That's so hard to tell a young person, though, and have them absorb it.
Because especially someone going through what you're going through.
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seltzer n t malt alcohol orange county california yeah it's um um i try to tell the kids on
american idol you know sometimes you have to look at failure as a great sign uh if they
had told the commodores on the first time we audition you got it
Ready to go.
The answer is we weren't ready to go.
It took no and no and no and signing at Atlantic, no.
Signing at Philly International, no.
But we're the greatest band ever.
You're right.
What they say to us, you sound just like the temptations.
You sound just like Sly and the Family Stone.
What do you sound like?
Wow.
what do we sound like?
I don't know.
So the only way we have to find out is we have to start not imitating somebody else.
Now comes the thing of, well, what do we sound like?
Right.
And I didn't know.
I didn't know how to write.
So I, how do you write?
Follow me?
And then you get to Motown.
I'm signed to Motown.
I don't know how to read or write music.
What the hell am I doing here with this band?
I'm not the lead singer.
I sing some cover songs.
And then you walk down the hall and there's Marvin.
So I decided I'm going to interview Marvin.
Excuse me, Marvin.
What music conservatory did you graduate from?
And he said, what the hell is that?
I said, well, I mean, how do you write your music?
He said, no, no, no, little brother.
Can you hum?
Yeah, he says, all that you can't play with three fingers,
humming into a tape recorder.
and then you go down the hall again
that's smoky
and there's Barry Gordy who built Motown
excuse me Mr. Gordy
what university did you graduate from
he said I was at a car plant
what are you talking about
everything that I grew up with
on the campus of Tuskegee as a kid
I grew up on the university campus
that's academia
did not apply in the world of hustle
you understand
Yeah.
So I'm now meeting the guys and ladies who found their hustle.
They had a Ph.D. in hustle.
They had a Ph.D. in hustle.
And I am telling you, Joe, from that moment on, I was let out of the box.
Somebody let me out of the cage.
Because in academia, there's a logical reason why you know what you know because you studied it.
Right.
But I was that kid that was sitting in the class going,
Mr. Ritchie, Mr. Ritchie,
would you like to join the rest of the class?
I was daydreaming.
Right.
I found at Motown, the whole damn company was tapping on the table.
I found out in New York City,
the whole town is tapping on the table and dancing, right?
And so from that point on,
I joined this creative source, force,
fraternity sorority of crazy out-of-control people
that gave me permission to dare to listen to myself.
That must have been so exciting to learn that.
The structure that you learned in academia,
like, no, these wizards, these wizards of music,
these masters of giving people emotion and power and energy.
I mean, I get chills in and talking to you.
watching Marvin record.
And you keep thinking he walked in with a paper
and he had written these lyrics.
No, man, he is scatting at the microphone.
Really?
Oh, save the baby.
You know.
I'm thinking, I said, what am I watching?
Wow.
And then he said, bring the microphone over to the couch.
He's on the couch, singing in the couch in the control room.
What am I watching?
What's happening?
In other words, it was just so organic and so, you know,
because you think about the orchestra and they're there and the...
No, man, this is inside of a wonderful dream of watching creativity just explode
with no doors, no windows, no walls.
And he was making this up in real time.
Wow.
You're talking about freestyle.
My man was freestyling coming up with some of the greatest lyrics ever on life's planet.
And I kept thinking, okay, so then they go back and put that in my little hamper.
So did he have an idea of where he was going with these songs?
I think he had a feeling about the idea.
But did he know the exact words?
You know, it's like when you close your eyes and you're in it.
Yeah.
But see, I didn't understand how to be in it.
You know, I kept thinking, well, let me put it this way.
I was trying to think.
So you, because of the academic background.
You're trying to logically, there's a logical reason why you're about to say what you're going to say.
Right.
Instead of just saying, okay, just turn on the mic.
Yeah.
You know what I'm saying?
Just turn on the mic, man.
I got it.
You know, to this day, I have a thing that I do that still wears out my management.
and I have to do a speech or something.
And they said, okay, can you give me the speech
so we can put it on the teleprompter?
And I said, I don't have a speech to give you.
Lionel, we need the speech to put on the teleprompter
so you'll know what to say.
I don't know what I'm going to say.
What do you mean you don't know what to say?
I said, no, I won't know what I'm going to say
until I get there.
And I walk out on stage.
I said, now how long do you want
the speech. They said, we have five minutes. I'll give you five minutes worth of speech.
They just have to trust you. Wow. That's how I do it. And you learn from watching the
greats. The greats. And there must have been such an unique shift in perspective and how you view
the world and how you approach things, to see people, to know that your daydreaming was actually
just talent trying to burst free. Exactly. And they knew how to just test. And they knew how to just
take that talent and just be unharnessed?
It was to the point where I was actually trained.
This is Grandma Foster, A.M. Foster.
She quoted my grandfather in Bookerty, Washington's house.
That's where she came from at Tuskegee.
My grandfather, they knew Booker T.
She knew George Washington Carver.
In my home in Tuskegee, Alabama, there's a crocheted piece from Mr. Carver, Dr. Carver.
My dear Mrs. Foster, congratulations on your wedding.
Wow.
That's a crocheted piece.
The deed to my house has the Washington family's name on the deed to my house.
It was given to me, not to me, to my grandmother and grandfather by the Washington family, Booker T.
So now, when you have all that background,
it's kind of one of those things where where do you go with this thing, you know?
Right.
And so, you know, my upbringing was pretty amazing
where it had structure, had structure.
And now here I am over in this other side where, wait a minute,
you mean I don't have to remember anything, I can make up something.
Whoa.
And allow the universe to just give you.
You, whoa.
I can just make up something.
But what do you want to make up?
I don't know.
So then it's a word that we learned called
receiving.
I'm just receiving.
So now where does receiving come from?
Receiving comes from the silence.
It's not the noise.
It's in the silence.
Right.
So here I am between one and six.
six in the morning and everyone thinks what's Lionel doing he's just kind of sitting in there
what's he doing nothing but let me hear let me let me let you in on a little sound that's
terrifying to most people you ready for this you hear that Joe silence right now if you can hear
out of the silence comes the, you're receiving that from the other side.
It is a receiving, isn't it?
Yeah, when you, you know, sometimes you just have to just blank it out.
Some people call it meditation.
Some people have all kind of names for it.
I just love to listen to silence.
By the way, there's only 12 notes, Joe.
It's not 145 notes.
It's only 12 notes.
So everything that has ever happened that you've ever heard on any radio, it's only 12 notes.
So how do you turn 12 notes into something that sounds new, different?
That's amazing to me.
Yeah, it is amazing.
And so in the silence, and all you have to do is learn how to figure out what are the four chords?
Because if you've got four or five chords, you can write a whole album.
But it's the melody that goes on top that you have to be able to hear.
And so once I learned that Marvin and Smokey and, you know, Michael Quincy and, you know, these are Hendricks.
I just saw the poster coming in, you know, they all made careers.
Not only careers, they had their unique sound out of 12 notes.
Think about that.
Now, if you think it's hard enough to get a hit record, how do you become unique unto yourself with the,
12 notes. That is one of the geniuses of Hendrix, is that you could tell Hendrix with like
in three seconds. He didn't have to come in singing. No. No. You just heard a little bit of guitar.
Do, do, do, do, do, do. Yeah. Do do. Done. Dun. Do do. Do do. You go like, oh, that's
you can hum it. You can hum it. Yeah, right. The six was nine. That's Hendricks. Like,
there's a sound that he was able to make. And there's very few people that figure out how to do
that. I did, I did not understand that.
The blessing was not in having a hit record.
The blessing was in having unique sound.
Okay, Stevie sounds like Stevie.
Smoky sounds like Smoky.
You know what I'm saying?
And so when you start thinking about, okay,
now, by the way, you can't rehearse that.
That's either your gift or you can't say,
well, I'm going to work on my sound.
No, no, it's a real thing.
That's why when we do American Idol,
I tell them over and over again.
I'm not looking for singers.
I'm looking for stylist.
What's going to make me close my eyes and remember you?
I don't want to see you.
Can I identify you by your voice?
That's a career.
Mm.
Mm.
Do you have conversations with people that don't know how to receive?
And do you try to, like, when you're talking to a young artist,
and maybe they're a little bit too technical?
or maybe they're a little bit too constrained.
Do you have conversations with them about, what do you say to them?
Yeah, I do.
And I can see their frustration, you know.
Lionel, I can't believe.
It's amazing how you went to that augmented seventh with a diminished line
with a raised 18th, with a 45.
And I'm sitting there going, I can't read music.
And he goes, and the way you did that modulation from body, da-da-da-da-da.
And I said, I can't read music.
And he kept saying, and the way you turned that focal around
and came back down to that augmented seventh over and raised ninth,
and I kept saying, I can't read music.
So I try to tell them, listen, forget the notes.
Can the crowd sing your song?
If they can't sing your song,
dazzling them with notes is not going to get it.
That's the first thing.
That's for the guys who can read and write
and do the full Juilliard and Berkeley and killer.
That's for them.
Now, for the kids who are just brilliant,
by the way, and they know their music,
but they don't know how to receive.
My answer now is,
now that you know the technical,
forget it.
Now, tell me what you're feeling.
Now play that.
And instead of playing 15 chords,
play one
and hum as much as you can
holding that one chord
and then when you get tired of putting
everything in that one chord
that's the second chord coming up
you follow me
because what happens as musicians
they want to go
we are the
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don't stop playing
bang we are the world
bang we are just keep holding that goes
bang we are the ones
to make a brighter day
let's not get me
bang there's a
bang
now you change
you follow me
because if you confuse me
and you dazzle the world
with all of your musicianship
you just miss the melody
that the whole world can sing
you miss the purity
you missed the purity
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Wow.
Did they get it when you try to tell it to you?
Or is it one of those things like, you're going to have to live more?
You're going to have to live more.
Remember now, when Marvin said to me,
he was giving me the words of wisdom.
When Norman Whitfield, who wrote Cloud 9 and all this, you know,
just amazing temptation songs.
Doon do do do do do cloud nine
be what you want to be
Doon do you don't need no responsibility
Everybody come in now
He's playing one note
He's playing one note
Wow
Okay they hadn't changed yet
He wrote the whole first verse
Okay, ball of confusion
He's still on one note
Wow.
Okay.
It takes time to understand what that master just told you.
Right.
You follow me?
Yeah.
And then once you understand the simplicity is the secret.
Mmm.
The simplicity is the secret.
It's like when you go to a restaurant and they put too much sauce on the steak.
I couldn't have given you a better answer.
You know, like you didn't have to do that.
Just give me some chicken.
Yeah.
Give me fried chicken.
Yeah.
Give me baked chicken.
Give me smothered chicken.
Give me smothered chicken.
Don't, don't get to you.
You don't have to get crazy.
Right.
And at the end, just give me an apple pie.
Just give me a keyloid pie.
Just, just, you know what I'm saying?
Give me a lima marion.
Give me pumpkin pie.
You don't have to get crazy.
Don't get, we have a deconstructed.
And I go, just put it together.
Put the whole thing together and give it to me.
You know, that's always.
Sometimes with some music, well, it's one of the things you can't connect to.
It's like it's overcomplicated.
And you hear some music and it's like, God, there's so much going on.
And then you hear some music.
some acoustic version of a song.
You're like, oh, my God.
That's it.
Oh, my God.
Yeah.
You just hear the pick scratching across the strings.
Like, oh, my God.
Mr. Gordy, I've known him enough now where I can say Barry.
But he's clearly Mr. Gordy, you know.
Clearly.
He taught me the greatest line ever.
I went to him, and I met him in the hallway.
and he would never, ever say, oh, congratulations, you got a hit record.
That's not what he would say.
He'd always say, oh, Marman's got a hit.
Marlins got a smash coming out.
I'll go, Mr. Gorda, I just will let you know I have a number one record.
That's nice. Marman's got one coming out.
It's going to be a smash.
And then, what do you have next?
What do you have next?
And then I said, okay, well, I got a hit record.
He says, I said, let me go out to the car and get a tape.
I want you to hear it.
No, no, no.
You got a hit record, hum it to me.
Wow.
Hum it to me.
If you need to play music, you've got a nice tune.
There's your tempo.
Now, hum it to me.
Wow.
Now, that means the crowd is going to sing along every note with you.
You don't have to wait to the hook.
They'll sing the verse with you.
What is that pressure like?
I would love to tell you was it pressure.
No?
No, I would tell you that there's an old expression
that a jazz musician said to me years ago,
you either understand or you don't.
You can either hear it or you don't.
That's all it is.
In other words, and my line is,
if you can hear me tapping on the table,
and all you hear
is me tapping on the table
you're not a songwriter.
But if you hear me tap on the table
and you start...
And you hear a song.
Yeah.
You're a songwriter.
Class dismissed.
We don't have to waste any more time.
It is a bizarre thing
that creativity, which is one of the most important things
in our society, cannot be taught.
No, no.
Very bizarre.
I mean, you meet
brand new person every day. I meet crowds of people. You meet one-on-one people every day. That's difficult.
That's difficult. And to know something about them and wanting to find out more. And how does your
personality work with that other person? That's a skill. But that's not even a skill. That's not
something you practice. That's something you had in you from way down deep. It's just the more
you do it you got better and better at being
that person
that's exactly correct you follow me yeah so
if I said you right now how did you study that joke
you go yeah just
turn on the mic
well I'll tell you I got I just got very
fortunate that a job existed
that didn't exist before which is
podcasting where you get to talk to interesting
people there you go and luckily
for me I don't have
anybody telling me who to have on
so I just go through I have like a
line of emails every day and I'm
I'm like, ooh, Lionel Richie, fuck yeah.
I said, fuck yeah, that one.
Okay, I put down, I put down, fuck yeah,
line of Richard.
But there's a bunch like that, like, ooh, I'd like to talk to him.
There's some guy who's an astronomer.
Oh, yeah, bring him on.
Let me see some of his stuff.
Then I'll go watch some videos, listen to him, give lectures.
I'm like, all right.
But to me, it's just, I'm just very fortunate that this is just how my personality is.
I'm just curious about how people think.
Well, I mean, again, it's one of those things out of your natural curiosity.
That's you.
Yeah.
Follow me?
Well, out of my natural ADD, ADHD, hypersensitive, whatever they used when I was growing up, I found it all serves me well because it all came out in songwriting.
It does serve you well, which is so important for people to hear.
Everybody wants to diagnose everybody and medicate them.
I had for sure ADHD when I was a kid.
Oh, please.
I think everybody that I know that's talented and creative has ADHD, whatever that means.
I tell all the parents.
Leave them alone.
Leave me alone.
Leave me alone.
No, there's two types of kids, and I keep trying to tell them.
There's academics.
They're great.
You want them to remember.
They can remember.
They can recite.
They do numbers.
And then there's the creatives.
Okay.
The last thing you want to do is put a creative kid in a room full of academics.
The grades are not going to be great.
Right.
And you're going to worry them to death.
Yep.
Put them in a creative school where they're not.
nurtured into their, yes, they're going to work on math, and yes, they'll work on their science,
but don't make that the priority. No one to this day has ever asked to see my college degree.
No one to this day has ever asked me to see my high school diploma. You understand? Right. So was I
an A student, B student, C student, B, C student, babes. I mean, I was right there on the borderline of
disaster. But I was just happy to be there. Right. But, but
the point was it's not important right what did you end up being who did you end up discovering
how comfortable are you with yourself by the time you get out of elementary school going in
high school you're so inundated and let me tell you what's wrong with uh lionel lionel has a problem
with and if you listen to that crap by the time you go into college it's not happening right now here's the
joke. They told my
family, my mom and dad,
ah, truthfully, Lion is not
college material. I mean, in other words, he's
to be creative. You know who they forgot to tell?
Me.
The best
thing they ever did. They didn't
tell me about that conversation.
Which means, it was okay.
I didn't use that as my crutch.
Don't tell
somebody they have a handicap. Just leave
me alone. Just let them figure out what they actually
like to do. Because it's not a handicap.
In other words, I learned years ago, a race car driver, he sees 200 miles an hour as, can I get this to go any faster?
Magic Johnson, the basketball goal looks like the size of the inside of a building.
That's how big it is in his head.
To me and you, it's a little tiny thing at the other end of the court.
You follow me?
Yeah.
Okay, so my point is, everybody has a unique brain and how they see things.
quit trying to put everybody in this one little box.
If we can set up education where let those to see it in freestyle,
has a freestyle moment.
We'll get more out of kids.
We'll get more out of people if you just quit trying to condemn them
and let them flourish in their lane, if you will.
And that's the special part.
Yes, okay, reading and writing, you got it.
That's important.
And now with AI coming and all this stuff,
You don't have to do that anymore, but I'm just saying there's some basics you have to have.
But then after that, I think we're crippling our kids because we're giving them too many gattas in a world that's constantly changing.
Yes, especially now.
Especially now.
But if your child is a creative, the problem is that is such a gamble.
Say, if your child wants to be a lawyer, you go, okay, you go to law school, get your degree, pass the bar, get work for a firm, you're a lawyer.
There's a path.
Right.
You want to be a singer like, oh, Christ.
My recommendation, get the law degree and then try to be a singer.
Have a backup plan?
I mean, all the words, in my case, I didn't have a backup plan.
I mean, luckily, my freshman year, I found that thing and, I mean, how did it work?
That's why I said to you.
Is it divine guidance?
It's divine guidance.
I didn't have a plan B.
but I'm sure that would have been one
if it was time for that to come into play
if I told you how many lawyers now
excuse me how many
lawyers started out as singers
they wanted to be in a band
if I told you how many people that are now on Wall Street
what do they do on the weekends
they have a band you follow me
oh yeah there's a lot of that and so
as time goes on okay so you're not the lead singer
but you're the lawyer in the record company
or you're the manager
or you're the agent you follow him saying that 99 million jobs under the word
entertainment right it's just that maybe you weren't going to be the star right
of the show but you're in the show that's easy for Lionel Richie to say though
if you're that lawyer the wishes he was a star it's a real problem I know and trust me I
run into those guys who hate me they were oh yeah Lionel Richie oh yeah right
no I I get it of course I get it and and
And I understand it's, and by the way, I mean, what I like about the book is everyone, just to let you know, it sounds like, you know, I won, I won.
No, it was a struggle.
I'm the shyest guy in the world.
It was painful.
Joe, walking out on that stage, I said it was a freshman talent show.
The curtains open.
I went off with the curtains.
The only reason that I was on that stage,
I didn't grow up with the guys in the mystics.
They didn't know that Lionel Richie from Tuskegee, Alabama,
was the shyest kid in town.
They didn't know that.
These are guys that I didn't grow up with.
So they said, hey, man, you brought your horn?
Yeah.
You want to be in a band?
Now you're talking to a kid who goes,
okay, we're going to do a baseball team.
What was the answer?
Okay.
We'll take Lionel.
Okay, let's do a basketball game.
Okay, all right, we'll take Lionel.
Let's play football.
Okay, we'll take Lionel.
These guys came along and said,
Hey, you got your horn?
Yeah, yeah.
Want to be in our band?
Yeah, right?
Right.
Bingo.
You mean you don't know about me?
You don't have to be defined by other people's ideas.
years of you. That's exactly right.
So they said, and they said, okay, here's
the part. Can you play the saxophone?
Yeah, man, I played the... I didn't tell them I brought the horn
to school to learn how to play it.
But I could play by ear.
I could play by ear.
So, unless
we're reading music,
I sound like I know what I'm talking about.
Right. So
it became one of those things. And by the time I got
in the Commodores,
I didn't tell anybody.
I'm the greatest horn holder that ever lived.
Are you kidding?
So just keep that secret and keep on going.
But what I'm saying to you, just think about this for a moment.
I mean, it didn't start out with confidence.
It came out with a sooner or later.
They're going to know I'm an imposter.
And slowly but surely, who worked the hardest?
Me.
Because sooner or later, they're going to find out.
You got to catch up.
That I got to catch up.
So every time we had some time off, I'm interviewing Marvin.
I'm interviewing, you name it, anybody.
Tell me what you did to get the way you're going.
Then I found out nobody went to school to know.
To know what they know.
Holy crap.
Now we're on to something really serious.
Because then I had some aha moments.
And so if I can't play it, I can hum it.
But most of the time I could just play it.
Okay, I can play this.
and as you learn
you grow quickly
you have to learn quickly now
because we just signed the contract
and said we're now on Motown records
I got to do a fast track here
but
it happened in real time
at any moment they could have called
up and said
we're going to cut the group down
to the most significant people
in the group
Rich you're out
oh shit
so I can make sure
let me make sure I get this
I'm working harder than anybody
have you ever seen before in your life.
And so that's how it's a whole life of insecurity.
It wasn't secure.
And then you get your first song, you go, okay, okay.
That was lucky.
Okay.
Then the guy said, hey, kid, you got any more of those songs?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I got another one.
You go home and look at the guy in the mirror and go,
you got any more songs because I'm talking to myself.
And that's when you realize, okay,
out of fear, I got to come up with another song.
So everyone keeps thinking there's this confident guy walking and I got another song for you.
I got to tell you how many times I walked on stage, Joe, and had a panic attack.
Right in the middle of the show, I'm having a massive panic attack.
Really?
Because I'm supposed to look like I got this.
Wow.
When actually, I don't.
But eventually you did.
Well, that's what happened to Barbara Streisand.
That's what happened to, I mean, once you realize as you start interviewing people,
the people who are scared to death on stage,
and then they realize, as time went on, they got used to it.
But I realized the thing that scares you to death is the thing you have to keep going forward on.
That's my dad's line again.
Yeah.
What's the similarity between a hero and a coward?
One step forward and one step back.
No matter how much it scares me, step forward.
Yeah.
And so each time, I was not going to say I'm not going on stage.
I go on stage and I'm going to sweat for two hours and try to fake my ass off.
And now it's like second nature now, but at the time, give me a break.
That's so important for young people to hear that a guy like you would panic.
Are you kidding me?
Oh, my God, man.
Have you ever met the president before in life?
No.
Have you ever been on stage in front of 100,000 people?
No.
Have you ever been in a club with four people in the room looking at you going, what you're going to do?
No.
I mean, listen, I mean, it's, that's why when I see these kids on American Idol, I don't know how they do that.
I came in with five other guys going.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
Right.
They're singing acapella.
Yeah.
To me and Carrie and Luke, are you kidding.
And 20 million people watching and a billion, 200 million live impressions.
Get the freak out of here.
So I'm just saying for me to be this authority, if you will, I can relate to every one of their heartbeats on that stage.
I know what they're fearing.
That's why when I get around artists,
you don't try to blow them away with your importance.
First of all, do you need a hug first?
What do you need?
Let me talk to you for a minute.
Because you need to, let me talk you down.
Because you're expecting too much out of us.
You follow me?
Yes.
Because we're all students of scared to death.
Yeah.
If you're not, you're in the wrong business.
That's exactly right.
And by the way, the book is not about how I won.
It's how I got, not to the peaks, how I survived the valleys.
The valleys of insecurity is it, man.
How do you get up and go, you're going to host the American Music Awards?
Dick wants you to do that.
Okay.
Was that a big, scary one for you?
Because you brought that up a couple of times.
That one bothered you a lot?
Everything scared me.
I know you're not expecting this interview, but I'm pleased.
Everything scared me.
You have to understand.
Lionel, we're going to do a instrumental for a movie.
It's called In This Love.
I'm only doing Kenny's album.
I'm only doing the Commodore's album.
But because it's Franco Zeparelli and John P.
and everybody. I'm thinking, okay, I can do an instrumental, right? Then halfway through the thing
they said, well, we're going to shoot a scene where we just need the lady to sing a first verse
to the person in the scene. Can you write a first verse? Yeah, yeah. My love, there's only you
in my life. The only thing that's right. My first love, you're every breath that I take,
every step I make. Thank you. Okay, got it. Is that it? Yeah, right. No. Lionel, we've
decided now to make this a duet. And we're going to get done.
Diana Ross to sing the lady's part.
Who do you recommend to sing the guy's part?
Are you out of your mind?
It's me.
What are you talking about?
You're like, I'm not going to recommend somebody else.
Are they beating around the bush?
I think they were.
They have to be.
I think they were backing me in because I told them I don't have time.
Right.
So they baited me by saying, you know,
it's going to be an instrumental.
But by the time I got there, I'm thinking, okay, now here's the problem.
Diane is in New York.
I'm in L.A.
I'm doing two albums, Commodores and Kenny Rogers.
I'm not going to New York, and she can't come to L.A.
Where are we going to meet?
Tahoe.
Tahoe.
We go to Tahoe, but what even Tahoe?
Reno.
She's playing Reno.
So at the end of my Commodore night, 10 to 6, Kenny Ross.
Six to 10, Lionel Richie, and then 10 to 4 in the morning, I got to get on a plane, fly to Tahoe and put Diana Ross on Endless Love.
Wow.
Now, what you don't know when you're that part of your life, that you could die from having creativity, too much creative.
It was, I mean, it was so exciting, but at the same time, I'd never written a duet.
ever. So my first duet in life was with Diana Ross. Do you think I was nervous? Do you think I was nervous? Do you think I was nervous? You think I was nervous? I mean, I just kept praying God for God says, don't let me pass out in front of Ms. Ross. Oh my God. So what I'm just saying to you, the title of the book could be scared to death. I got titles, man, you know, because it's not
it's the first time of everything.
I've never done this before.
And so just imagine being put into a situation
throughout my entire career.
Wow.
Where, you know, step forward, Lionel,
step forward, step forward, step forward, step forward.
Can you all hear my heart beating?
No, okay, good, good.
Step forward, step forward.
That's what it's been.
Wow.
Like I said, that's so important for young people to hear
Because I think they see someone with such a career and so much success
They go, well, that guy's just probably crazy confident
And always has been and just talented, kissed by God
No, no, no, no.
I tell people every day what this book did for me
I discovered Lionel Ritchie.
I'm the Italian raceguard driver.
Yeah.
I never looked behind me.
I never paid attention.
And then all of a sudden this book,
made me turn around and look behind me it's interesting because if you want to get things done
in life you kind of have to be the italian race car driver but if you want to get this thing done in
life write a book about your life yeah that requires that introspective thinking yeah and that
recollection and that recognition of like oh my god like what did i go through i mean what was that
i mean you think about it you know let's i mean you think yes i got the hit record at the same time my
father was dying. Now, those two don't go together. Right. You follow me? Yeah. I'm in the world
tour of my life. It's the dancing on the ceiling tour. It's, I'm going to establish me around
the world. It's the all night long dancing on the ceiling tour. My father's dying. Oh, God.
You follow what I'm saying? I mean, so it's, okay, so now, how's day?
doing? Well, he's doing okay. How's mom doing? Okay, mom, mom, okay. Should I come home?
Well, she's okay. She's okay. But, I mean, she's okay. But I can cancel the door and come home.
Okay, but I mean, but how's she doing? My sister's there. Mom's doing fine. She's doing great.
But you don't realize she's in the decline, but you keep trying to balance this. What do I do?
Yeah.
You know, and so it's all happening while it's happening.
And so it's, you know, how do you kind of compartmentalize the show, the writing, and real-life family?
You know, is it the reunion?
We're having the reunion.
Okay.
You know, it's the class reunion.
It's the family reunion.
Have you ever been to the family reunion?
No.
Didn't make the family union.
Why?
Because when you're in the Commodores,
when you really have your shows,
it's Christmas, New Year's,
all the holidays, all summer.
So if you happen to have
any kind of reunion during those times,
you're not going to make it.
So it's the sacrifices.
How many barn fries did I make during college?
None.
Pep rallies.
No.
Basketball tournaments.
None.
but I'm the Commodores.
We're the Commodores.
You follow me?
Yeah.
So I always tell people what comes with success are the sacrifices.
And even after you make the sacrifices, it's not guaranteed that you're going to win.
And at your highest of highs, like the all-night long days, you're dealing with your father died.
Exactly.
So people would just see.
All they're seeing is you and thousands of people screaming and cheering when you're all.
on stage all over the world, sold out shows, but you're dealing with your father dying.
Yeah, you're dealing with moments.
You're trying to pretend like you're not seeing it.
You know, there's a moment when you go home and your parents age right in front of you.
You never noticed it before.
He wasn't dying yet, but you could see the decline until dancing on the ceiling.
You'll see a little bit more of the decline.
You follow what I'm saying?
And then finally, you realize,
holy shit, this is not going to be good at all.
But you keep pretending like it's not happening,
if you know what I mean.
You kind of put that in that little compartment.
He's getting older, but he's okay.
He's okay.
He's okay.
He's okay.
The answer is, well, he's not.
And then from that,
you think that everything else in your life is okay.
Is the marriage okay?
No, it's not okay.
Nothing's okay.
Why?
because all priorities are going towards this new thing
you've never experienced before called
Frickin hit record going solo.
I'm leaving the Commodores.
I'm leaving the Commodores.
These are the only five guys I've ever trusted in my life.
So everyone keeps thinking, yeah, you went solo.
No, no, no, no, guys.
What was that word that comes with that?
Scared. Fear.
Yeah.
So everyone keeps thinking, and then I decided to go solo.
Oh, shit.
Who are you talking to?
I'm leaving the Commodores, too.
It's crazy.
Come on, man.
Crazy.
The Commodores is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity,
and for you to say, I'm going to do it on my own.
No, no.
That's not the way it was.
I'm not leaving you guys.
What are you talking about?
Even the Caledars is crazy.
I mean, you almost can't.
You can't do it.
But what was happening behind the scenes?
That's the story.
What was happening behind the scenes was, and I understood.
I understood.
But still, I didn't want to accept it.
It's the guys.
Yeah.
Okay.
The article read, and then Lionel Richie sat down to the piano
and started playing his classic hits.
Review.
What's the guy like the Commodore?
What's the guy like Lionel Richie doing
in a funk band like the Commodores?
Joe, try to go back to rehearsal after that review.
Oh, God.
You got it?
Yeah.
Or now we've done Endless Love.
Now we've done Lady with Kenny Rogers.
Tell us, Lionel, how you started the group.
Oh, no.
I didn't start the group.
Oh, no.
you walk into a group interview and they knock glide over and they knock whack over
the trumpet player Tommy and Lionel tell us about the band so what I tried to do was
come later by coming later oh you think you're big enough now where you don't have
to be in the group well if I don't if I'm on time they'll disrespect you right I
got the feeling I got their angst yeah you follow me and this is a different time
in the world. See, today, you could elevate those folks through social media and bring them up with you.
Of course, of course. Yeah. That's the beauty of today. If you're working with talented people
and they're not getting shine, you go, hey, this is, this guy's great. Everybody go see them.
Check it out. And then all of a sudden, boom. And now they get the love and the recognition.
But back then, everybody was on their own. It was a dog eat dog world and it was controlled by
gangsters. I rest my case. The answer was, I realized one very important thing.
throw the word degree
out of your vocabulary
the music business
a degree
a degree in music a degree in business
a degree in what
no no man this was street
degree right
street psychology too what did the guy tell me
he said I'll tell you the
best course I ever took in life
and this is a true story
he said you know you schoolboys
are funny man he says
you all learn how to account for the money.
He says, we count the money.
And I said, okay, so what does that mean?
He says, somebody's got to teach you how to steal.
Oh, God.
No, no, no, no.
Best lesson I ever took in my whole life.
Because once you learn how to steal the money,
you know how to stop people from steal that.
Yeah.
There's so many stories of bad deals.
I mean, I was reading an excerpt from this book
I don't know if it's true.
It's a guy that thinks that Hendricks was killed rather than he died.
And he thinks that what was going on was that Hendricks was leaving his management.
And his management had him locked up in some crazy contract.
They were stealing money from him.
And they thought that he'd be more valuable dead since they owned the records.
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
And that's, this is like you coming from the 70s.
in the professional business from the 70s on dealing with that was the business back then yeah i mean
yeah look at phil specter the guys in jail now for shooting a woman in the mouth in his house
these were yeah gangsters uh yeah i mean the the answer is there is a um one moment when i looked into
my mom and dad's face
and I said
hey
they just stole
$363,000 from me
and my mother said
you leave those people alone and come home
and I go no no no
mom mom it only cost me
$362,000 to learn that lesson
it's never going to happen again
and I was so excited about it she looked at me and said
my son's crazy
That is a crazy response
But the answer is
You can lose millions
You can lose billions
Sure
Okay
So if it only took me
362,000
I got off light man
You understand me?
For sure
But it's
And not only that
Can you keep your
Can you keep your life?
I mean just think about it
You know
When you go to the box office
Everybody had a gun
Now here's the beautiful part about it
Because I knew that later
Nobody's going to shoot anybody.
It's just if you, how naive were you?
If you were naive and a little schoolboy, you could get shot and killed.
But as you started learning who the gangsters are, that was just an intimidating factor.
But you had to be, once you knew them, then they go, come on, I'll just cover us a little bit, you know.
That's even more disconcerting.
They become normal.
That's what gets weird.
That's what gets weird.
When you're around normalized gangsters.
That's exactly right.
And then your mother starts meeting them on their way to Miami.
They would drive.
And they stopped by Tuskegee to see the schoolboys.
And here's a guy dead of homecoming season in a full head-toe mink hat, mink coat.
Pink El Dorado.
Driving across the campus and you go to your instructors.
Yeah, this is my friend, you know, Tall Paul.
I've got all kinds of names for them.
We had, oh, my God, we had, we had names.
You can't, you can't make this up.
Yeah.
You know, and how do you introduce them to the president of the university?
The answer is, you don't, right?
You don't do it.
You don't.
God.
What was it like navigating that world?
It was, Joe, one of the most exciting things ever.
Why?
I never experienced anything like this before.
Right.
I mean, I mean, listen.
Who does?
Listen, you mean, wait, see, see, we played gangster.
They weren't playing gangster.
Right.
You follow me?
Right.
So we are with the gangsters.
Right.
And it just became so another world where what the guys say, in our world, it's not how long you live.
is how well you live while you're living
now that's a profound statement from him
that's I don't want to know anything
about that but you have to listen
right
they don't plan on living a long life
but they plan on living well while they're here
so it's nothing to say when you go back to New York
for the next summer whatever happened to so and so
yeah he got shot in December
normal that's normal that's normal
he's leaving town or they're
leaving town.
Right.
And so as time went on, it became a short-term view of a very long-term problem that has always been
normalized because a part of legal is illegal or desirables and undesirables.
That's just a part of the city.
Right.
And here's what you'll find out.
most important thing. The desirables know the undesirables. You go back saying, you go, wait,
you two know each other. What? Right. You know, but that's what happens in this world of cities,
in this world of culture. You know, everybody has that, what's that line I used to use all the time?
Who are you really? Right, right. And until it is revealed later, in the music business, we see all.
Backstage is all.
Front row is all.
You follow me?
So you just have to understand it's probably one of the greatest education in the world
because everybody backstage is who they are, not who they say they are.
Right, right.
That's got to be bizarre seeing like captains of industry mingling with gangsters.
Heads of enormous record companies.
Hi, Phil, hi Bill, hi John, hi David.
And by the way, it's okay.
But remember now, we're a street business.
Right.
We're a street business.
And is it a street business because gangsters always controlled a certain percentage of what's going on in the streets and cities?
Or is it a street business because you don't really need an education to do it?
You do it on instinct and everyone needs it because it's really like what you produce is like a drug.
You know, I can listen to one of your old songs.
And it just puts me in a state of mind like, oh, bingo.
Man, it does something to you physically.
So they're in the drug business too.
Bingo.
They're in the cash business.
They're in a live entertainment and nightclub business.
Let's talk.
Vegas.
Right.
Founded.
Was a Harvard grad, the founder of Vegas?
No.
Okay.
So what I'm saying to you, the problem that happened with all of these businesses we now have,
they legitimized it
they messed the whole thing up
right did the movie business start out
with wonderful PhD guys from
no no it started from
the street
yeah you follow me yeah
and so what we are trying to do now is we've tried to
legitimize all of this
homogenize we want to do the whole thing
the answer is no no man we messed the whole thing up
because what it was is
the fascination of hey Lionel
Can I put my name on your album?
Why?
I've got to move some stuff around.
But the answer is I couldn't do it because I don't want to get in trouble from the, you know,
you're kind of trying to dodge these guys.
But the point is it's real.
So I care what?
I won't put a business like that together.
What I'll do is start the business.
Hey, what a great way to do that.
But the only thing wrong with that is, as time goes on, someone asks a very difficult question.
I like to see the books
That's a tough one
Go deal with that one
So you follow where we're coming from
So I
For us, for me
As they used to call us in Harlem
The School Boys
You know, for the school boys
This was fantasy land
Right
Are you kidding me
I mean we didn't think we're going to die
This was like the best course
We ever took in the world
From the originals
Right
Right
This is not some hearsay
And they are
adopted us as the school boys.
That's so wild.
That must have been just an insane experience as a young man going to that.
Oh, God, you have no idea.
You have no...
You have, Joe, you have no idea.
And then, you know, I mean, the days of Small's Paradise.
I mean, this is the club of clubs in Harlem.
the days of
studio 54
Michael Jackson's
21st birthday
give me a break
I mean
and back then
what I loved about private clubs
was the reason it was private
is because
if you can't keep a secret
if you weren't in the building
you can't find out what's happening in the building
now everybody's got a phone
and everybody can't wait
take a picture or rat on somebody.
So you can't have a private club anymore because everybody's going to tell what they saw
inside.
Exactly.
But back then, once they let you in those doors, first of all, it was a privilege that
they thought that much about you to let you in.
And then once you got in, it was, you were in the club, man.
Wow.
God, it must have been so exciting.
and to be surrounded by so many extraordinary people at that time.
What was it like watching Michael Jackson explode?
You know, I talk about him and I talk about Elvis a lot
in that if you look at it as a study of fame,
that there's a certain level of fame that you achieve
that's completely and wholly unmanageable.
And it's like the Elvis level,
and I think he was like the first guy to really reach that level.
And then it was Michael Jackson who went to a completely,
different place. Michael Jackson, he's even
surpassed that, which seems
more insane. And look at that
photograph. That's a, that's
Studio 54 on Michael's
21st birthday.
Wow. Wow. Yeah.
Wow. And the mustache
was thicker than ever, man.
It dripped down.
You all know, I had the little hook up on the side.
Come on, man.
You know,
because he never had a
normal moment. No. He was famous
when he was a little boy.
I remember when ABC, what was, was, what was, what, would they broadcast?
That was, uh, was it, was Ed Sullivan?
Was that?
Then they first, when they first hit.
Yes.
You see the Ed Solomon or Dick Clark.
I think it was Ed Solomon when they blew up, blew up.
But I remember him singing ABCs when he was just a boy.
And I was like, my God, he is so talented.
Like, like, exploding in talent.
exploding in charisma
like I'd never seen before
you'd seen so many artists
and so many people that were
maybe maybe it was because of the youth too
it's like he's so free
he was so free
it's so so much
charisma and talent
it was just insane like look at this
give me some of this I mean I mean come on
listen you can't play any of
no no but but but watch him jump out front
if he does
when you see the scene where he comes out front
I didn't know the clip
but if he ever spins around one time
and you'll see
something that looks so simple to do
he got that from Jackie Wilson
I said where did you get that from
he said I and L that's Jackie Wilson
but if you see him spin
and come back to dead center
now this is when he was
just getting his wings to flap
Wow.
How old is he here?
He's got to be 12.
Wow.
12, 11, 12.
And of course, at this time, it was just ridiculous because he knew what he was doing.
He knew exactly.
I mean, this is the oldest soul you've ever met in your life.
Really?
I couldn't tell you.
And then they walk off stage and turn into 12-year-olds.
This kid turned up to itching powder.
in your afro or see how you stand out front and say how he points to you now shake
a baby i know what he's singing right now wow right okay yeah yeah be yeah be uh crazy
he was so crazy and if you see him with that
I mean, I'll be honest with you.
I mean, we forgot sometimes that this is going to happen.
Because when you're backstage or in the hotel room, that's a kid.
Right.
That's a kid.
Then as time went on, things happened where you could see it getting weird.
For example, I'd go down the hall and I'd say, where's Mike?
And they said he's in the room.
Okay.
And meanwhile, what became normal was,
watch out, be careful, the girls are coming.
Watch out, be careful. Stay in the room. The girls are coming.
Now, if you understand the Commodores,
Jermaine was a bass player. He hooked up with the bass player of the Commodores, Ronald.
The drummer, Clyde. Follow me? The lead singer, me.
So Michael and I bonded at 12, 13, because of the lead singer.
So I went down to check him out.
And I'd say, where's Michael?
He's in the room.
I go in the room.
Hey, Mike, where are you?
Okay.
Where is he?
He's hiding in the bathroom.
The girls are out there.
I said, girls are, wait a minute.
There's no girls out there.
They sealed off the floor.
Come go with me.
Now, they got mad at me because I'd walk out in the hall and go, come go with me.
I said, you see the girls out there?
Oh, I thought they were in the hall, I, and now.
Okay, so in other words, watch out, be careful.
but they're protecting the golden goose, ladies gentlemen.
You follow me?
But the golden goose needs play period time.
He needs play time.
Right.
He's still a kid.
He's a kid.
And so...
You're freaking them out.
Germain, Tito.
Listen, they go on dates, guys.
They hang.
They, you know, Michael can't hang downstairs.
Wow.
Right?
And so as time went on, you could see the slow shutdown of trying to protect an incredibly
talented person.
But at the same time, he got special treatment.
And so what I tried to do, every chance I could was, hey, man, come and get you in the car.
Come over here.
Let's get it together.
You know, hang, hang, hang.
You know, and so, you know, we went through that period of time where we don't stay together long because once we, the Commodos took off, we didn't have that everyday time anymore.
Right.
You follow me.
But every once in a while we get together, and, you know, there's a little rumor that's out right now that I, I, I, I,
I want to clean up right quick.
They said, in Lionel's book, Lionel called Michael Smelly.
Didn't like the way he smelled.
I said, no, that's not what that.
So let me clean this up.
Okay, okay.
So imagine sending your clothes out anywhere and you get half of your clothes back.
The other half of your clothes are souvenirs.
You follow me?
So what he would do is if he had a pair of jeans, right?
He'd wear the jeans until they tried to run away from him.
him.
People were stealing his clothes?
Steeming his clothes, right?
Oh, my God.
Or he'd walk in the house some days,
and I'm looking down at his feet, and I go,
Michael, your shoes are flopping on your feet.
The two sizes is too large for you.
I know, Lionel, the guy we were in someplace,
he gave me a pair of shoes,
and I told him, thank you very much.
I said, but Michael, you could have gotten the shoes
in the right size.
I know, but I didn't want him.
Harrison. So he's walking around with two sizes too large. You understand me? So he'll come by the
house. We wore the same size, right? By the time he became that teenager. So I said, go in the
closet and get a pair of jeans. So literally he'd change clothes. And by the way, he left the clothes
on the floor in the room and walked away from him. In other words, he'd wear him until he got
another pair. And so we call him, Quincy called him, okay, he was smelly.
And so his nickname was, for the insiders, was Smelly.
Follow me?
So when I said it in the book, everybody goes, oh, my God, Lionel called Michael Jackson Smelly.
And I go, no, that's not it.
That's his name.
That was his name.
I revealed that.
That's hilarious.
But it's so hilarious that people were just stealing his clothes.
Oh, man, please.
The poor guy.
The kid when he was 12, 13, 14, 14, sent underwear.
out, it doesn't come back.
T-shirt out, no t-shirt back.
Sox out, no socks back.
So what he basically had was a new pair of underwear.
Every time he put a pair of underwear on, it was new.
Wow.
Yeah, because it's just not going to happen.
It's coming back from a watch.
I wonder how many Michael Jackson's underwear is out there on eBay or something?
Can I tell you?
I stole it in the 70s.
That's an admission.
I stole it.
That's number one.
But by the way, very valuable.
Probably.
Very valuable.
Probably crazy value.
You know what?
I would love to put that out there, say, no prosecution needed.
Right.
It was not going to happen because you reveal yourself.
So, because that's got to be the, I would have that frame right away.
It's just so bananas that that was just ubiquitous.
They would just steal his clothes.
But it just makes sense.
Totally.
What I was saying is about the Elvis thing applies to him plus is that there's no roadmap for that.
There's no roadmap for navigating that level of fame, you know.
And even you as an adult, as a grown man, you know, when your peak of fame had to have been so surreal that it's hard to not lose who you are.
Most people lose who they are.
If you say, oh, she went crazy.
Bitch, you would go crazy too.
God damn right.
You know what the fuck you're talking about.
Damn right.
You've never been a superstar in front of the whole world or judging everything you do.
And then that thing came along called the phone.
At least if they did see you, they caught you in that place.
Yeah.
But they only saw you.
But now they're looking at you everywhere.
So the press is everybody.
Just imagine that.
Yeah.
Okay.
So, I mean, in my case, I got used to it.
I got to admit.
I mean, of course, you think something happened.
Oh, did I do it?
Did I, did I?
Oh, no worry.
Somebody was probably messing with it before you.
They pop out all the time.
I live with that sound.
All the time.
No, but what happens with me was we went from, you could actually be, you could actually sneak.
I like that word.
Sneak around.
Sneak means you can look out.
Do you see anybody you know?
If you don't see anybody you know, you can sneak.
And then something happens one day.
You walk in a room.
You came in through the back door.
You sit at a table in the back door.
The band starts playing three times a lady.
Oh, my God.
And then everybody turns around and says,
Hi, Lionel.
Oh, no.
Okay.
Okay, all right.
And you thought you were just sneaking your ass off.
You ain't sneaking nothing.
Right.
You're trying to sneak around and get some dinner.
It ain't not happening.
Nope.
And then the next thing that happens, which is you want to have a nice anniversary dinner
right anniversary dinner is the best dinner ever romantic place
and three ladies walk over to him say hi Lionel how are you we want to tell you we love you
and you want to tell you but great that's great and then your wife says who are those ladies
I don't know I never met them before I know but they seem so familiar
what oh okay wait this is not good because now the romance
Romantic session just turned into, but now I've never experienced this before.
Remember now, this is new.
This is not, I know now not to go to the romantic place.
You go someplace where you can have a great time.
But the point was back then, this is first time happening.
Right.
And you're trying to be like all your other friends.
You take your wife out or you take your girlfriend out or you go to dinner and you have a...
No, no, no, man.
It becomes now everybody's watching you and they can't wait to come over and say, can I have an autograph?
Right.
And now they come up and say, can we have a picture?
right and so it becomes
very weird
this is very weird
yeah
you have to plan where you go
plan where you go
and more importantly
be fully dressed
before you leave
don't do something stupid
right
but I mean
I don't want
I love it
no it's not a complaint
it's just detailing a unique
aspect of your life
I've got a famous person
I tell people all the time
and this is a truth
I hope you like people
I hope you like people
because if you don't
you're not going to like fame
right okay
they keep thinking they're going to be famous
and rich and no no
do you like people
right because they're going to be
in your face and in your business
with an opinion
all the time
yeah
now you want to go to recital
with your kid
and it's your kid's piano recital
I hope you like being famous
because while your kid is playing the recital,
the parents are going to be asking you for your autograph.
Not the kids, the parents.
Yeah.
I made the mistake and decided I'll go to SeaWorld with my kid
and I'll go by myself on the parents' bus.
You know who protected me on the whole trip?
The kids, my kid, Miles said,
okay, we got to protect my dad.
Because the parents are coming.
and everybody at SeaWorld
showed up and there's Lionel Richie
at SeaWorld with his kid
so I had four little kids
surround me and go I said guys I'm with them
we're with the school
but I mean it becomes
holy crap what the hell's going on
and it's annoying for them too
of course it is
but you can't have that moment
with your kids
and it's and it's a big
deal because at that time
ABC NBC NBC
CBS, and a new station just came out called CNN.
Other than that, to see you, to have a sighting was like...
Different.
Come on, man.
Yeah, no one, I couldn't imagine what it was like being famous when there's only
four channels in the radio.
The Olympics, 2.5, 2.6 billion people watching live.
live. Wow. So I went from Lionel Richie to Lionel Richie all night long. The end of my name
became All Night Long. Lionel Richie all night long. Hey, there's Lionel Richie all that long.
Every country in the world, I became Lionel Richie all that long. Wow. What was that
like performing in front of that many humans? What was that feeling like? Was it different
done a regular performance?
Joe, it felt like a regular performance.
But I had never in my life had
the world watching.
So I rehearsed it.
We did it, not realizing
it was the world, literally
the world watching.
And go back and look at that little podium.
What was supposed to happen at the beginning of this
was Ronald Reagan was supposed to come out and greet had his speech.
I know I speak on behalf of everyone in America and the entire world, how proud we are of
these fine athletes.
That was his speech, right?
Because that night there were death threats.
They had, you know, they decided it's too risky to have him on the field.
Lionel, would you give the speech on behalf of all of America and the United.
entire world. Stop me where I am. Oh my God. So before I started singing, I had to make my speech.
I know how proud we are here in America and around the world of these fine athletes.
And now we're going to sing all night long. But I had to give this thing. And I told him, I said, that was the proud moment after I came off.
stage. Before I went on stage was, well, Mr. Reagan's word about his life, what about mine?
What's going to happen here? You know, but it was so overwhelmingly that you're talking about
energy and adrenaline and you can't beat 2.6 billion people live. And you think Super Bowl
was something special? I'll tell you what this was.
There was not another channel covering anything.
The whole world was watching this.
That's hard for people to imagine in this day of content.
Exactly right.
That will never happen again.
Unless it's the aliens are landing Monday at 8 a.m.
Exactly correct.
That's the one where the aliens landed.
Oh, that fake UFO.
Right.
And by the way, that's what happened.
That was the opening.
But what you don't see there, that was the open.
That's very good, man.
I hadn't seen this clip.
What was happening with that was, just before it started, they sealed off the airspace.
And I remember looking out, there were four helicopters facing out.
And the problem was, you couldn't hear them, Joe.
And I kept thinking, I'm looking at helicopters.
And they said, I said, what's that right there?
And they said, they sealed off the airspace.
nothing's coming in to this place
one two three four
you couldn't hear the helicopters that were
holding up the flying saucer? I couldn't
hear a thing
how's that possible? I don't know
that's what's scary that's what I'm saying
to don't listen you understand what I'm
saying and the answer to me was okay
I mean
you understand me at this point
this is 1984 yeah and how
Howard K. Smith, remember the sports announcer, I think, was it, was it Howard K. Smith?
Howard K. Smith? No, Howard. He was with, Howard K. Smith. No, he was with a wide world of sports.
Oh, okay. And he kept saying, this is going to be an amazing night for you. And I said, yeah, okay, not knowing what this was going to be. And there was a kid that was backstage. And he said, oh, my God, this is going to be the biggest night ever. You know what that kid was?
Cuba Gooding Jr.
Wow.
He was one of the dancers.
Wow.
And from that moment on,
I kept thinking, what's going to happen?
I said, here's what I want you to do.
They're not looking at me.
Your parents are looking for you.
So get a signal.
Give them something where you wave your hand
so they'll know that that's you.
But the truth of that was that was one of those
interesting moments in time
where the world was watching
and it was no other way to happen
I woke up the next morning
drove down the street
I could be five cars back
from the traffic light
and somebody passed it would go
hey Lionel Richie all night long
it's Lionel Richie all night long
it's Lionel Richie all night long
oh God what just happened
Did you get your windows tinted?
I got everything tinted
I was wearing tents
what you're talking about
That might be the biggest audience anyone has ever performed forever, if you think about it.
Without dying, of course.
I mean, yeah.
I mean, it's, I don't know what that was, but it freaked me out because I went from slightly invisible to fully visible.
anywhere my friend got married i kept saying to him you don't want me at your wedding he said no no
you have to come to the wedding i said you don't want me at your wedding here's what happened i decided
to go his there he is walking down the aisle there he is saying i do and there he is walking out
with his lovely bride every other picture after that is his mother-in-law with me his family with me
it's no longer in their wedding
right
every picture was me
in his wedding book
and I said
you don't want me at your funeral
nobody's gonna ever know you left
it's not gonna happen
what was that like for you
like psychologically
that giant shift
was that hard to manage
pain in the ass
for the first couple of
10 years
you know
you gotta get used to this
I mean, you know, and also you have to understand it becomes an annoyance to your friends.
Hey, Lionel, let's go down to the bar and get a drink.
Very simple.
That's like, you've been doing that for the whole life.
Right.
Now, you go down to the bar, the bar turns around.
Yeah.
No.
So now your friends become security officers.
Right.
You follow me?
Yeah.
Okay, this is not cool.
Right.
You know, and so it becomes a little bit of a hassle.
So if you want to have your friends, you either have to bring them up to your hotel.
thing or you bring them over to the house right there's no hanging out right you know it's not
going to happen that way and again it's you get used to it over time uh did fuck with you psychologically
hell yeah are you kidding me man i mean because a person relies on the perspective that they get
from interacting with people if the majority of your interactions are bizarre and then finally one
day you say okay you walk into the room
prepare to talk to the room.
Right.
Just accept that this is what it is.
Muhammad Ali said it correctly.
We had lunch one afternoon in New York,
and it's time for it to be over.
And as we were having lunch,
there are people coming up to the glass looking in,
oh, there's Muhammad, there's Muhammad, there's Milan.
There's Milamette, there's Milam, okay.
It's time for us to go.
And my security had me, and I'm ready to go.
I said, where's your security?
Muhammad, he said, I don't need any security.
I said, well, you mean you don't need security?
I said, there's tons of people out there.
He said, no, no, no, no, no, no, they'll take care of me.
And he walks out the door, and everybody was going, get back, get back, get back.
It's Muhammad.
In other words, you neutralize the room.
You can either make it a frenzy.
Yeah.
Or you can, that's what Michael, God bless him.
He couldn't get that in his head.
But he couldn't, even if he tried to do that.
his whole persona was the frenzy.
Yes.
He has to have the frenzy.
Otherwise, that's not Michael.
Right.
You know, so I just kind of got to the point where you go into that Zen mode and how do I get across the airport?
It's only one way.
You got to walk across the airport.
The difference in you and Michael, though, was like you had a normal life for a long time and then became an artist.
I knew how to navigate it.
You got a slow drip in the initial days.
He had the explosion.
The explosion that he got was like, like I said.
I said unlike anything anybody had ever seen before.
I can't imagine how he could diffuse a crowd.
It's not impossible.
They would just swarm him.
Never was going to happen.
No.
Never.
The thing about Muhammad Ali, too,
who's like one of the rare people that was loved by almost all humans.
Absolutely.
Especially after everyone realized he was right about the Vietnam War.
Of course.
And then he returns three years later.
And then, you know, he makes his way to the title again.
Again.
And then he was.
so loved. He was so loved. And a beautiful person. I mean, what I, and again, trauma. I mean,
when you see him out in public, he was Mr. Showbiz, but he was carrying a lot. He was carrying
his belief. He was carrying his growth, losing the family, gaining another family, still being the
icon I mean think about that
you know is he going to win is it going to lose with me
I just got to sing all night long
again right with him he's got to win
again and he knows
he's starting to get brain damage
there we go there we know yeah so
there's no offense or butts out no no by the time he gets
past Frazier in the first fight
and then
Foreman just the Foreman fight alone
Ernie Shaver every every hit
every hit and then later in his
career gets sad yeah yeah it's just
like there's very few people that
transcend whatever sport they are
and become, like, one of the
key features of culture.
Yeah. He was magical.
Magical. But
for me, he was the hero.
Yeah. Because this is a guy
who found
his freedom.
When you can walk out
and go, I'm going to speak
my truth, and I don't care.
Now, this is back in the days when Hoover
was Hoover and the, you know,
the investigations were the investigations. That's
It's heavy, man.
I mean, this is not, this is life and death situations, and for him to accept his role as the educator
and also the beacon of hope, you know, when I got that in my book, when that man came
up to me and said, you must survive because you're our beacon of hope.
Wow.
There's a moment in time when you realize there is a responsibility here.
And whether you wanted to be the teacher or not,
there are folks looking at you besides the folks in Tuskegee.
Yeah, and you've got something to share
and that something is very valuable.
When someone can hear wise words from someone they love and respect,
it'll shift your perspective in life.
And that's such a gift that you could give people.
But it doesn't come.
I keep trying to tell people every day.
It doesn't come with the word flawless.
Of course.
It comes with flaws.
How did you learn that?
You put your foot in the shit.
I mean, you understand how do you know that?
And the only way to know it, the only way to understand it,
you know, what you don't want to do is have someone described to you life
because they read it.
I want to know about life that you lived it.
Now, that's the person I'm taking my advice for them.
Oh, 100%.
Yeah.
Yeah, like someone teaching you music that's never written a song.
That's crazy.
Exactly.
Lester Rick Rubin.
Unless they're Rick Rubin.
And by the way, by the way, you said, that's a strange brother boy.
That's a dude out there.
I mean, I got chills when you called his name.
No, man.
And can hear.
He's the real deal.
That's the real deal.
I so love him.
He's the real deal.
That's a real.
That's a real.
That's a real eccentric.
It's a real accent.
I went to Rick's house one day and I said, oh, man, this is going to be great.
He's out by the beach.
You walked in.
And I said, he said, sit right over there.
Rick is only one beanbag chair on the floor.
That's it.
That's the whole living room.
Where's the living room?
Or there's the terrace all of his bedroom.
Great.
He has the doors.
The doors open off onto his terrace.
Yeah.
They forgot to put the terrace out there.
So open windows.
I said
There's no terrorist
I think that's what he wants
That's exactly what he wants
He wants things off
Ah but I love him
You're right
He's such a genius
I love him
I love him to death
Oh god
He sends me the wackiest facts too
When he ain't gonna change
He goes down rabbit holes
Woo
He's awesome
But there's people like him
Right
That just have some special gift
Of they just hear things
But that's the point
That's the point.
In life, in life, if you have a chance to be around someone that's authentic into themselves,
at the same time, they're receiving.
It's not just songwriting.
There are people who are receiving messages, and you go, do me a favor.
Just sit down and tell me the story.
Well, authors all talk about that.
I love, I love.
I mean, for example, every time I go to Atlanta, Georgia, who's backstage?
Greatest fan
Greatest mentor ever
Andy Young
Okay
Did he see it
He saw it all
Did he miss anything
Nothing
And he sits back there
I've sometimes
It's been 15, 20 minutes
late to go on stage
Why?
Keep talking
Keep talking Andy
You follow me?
Yeah
He's just spewing
The message
And again
The answer becomes
Hmm
how do you feel about where we are now?
I'm optimistic.
Wow.
That's really heavy.
You know what I'm saying?
And so I just sit as a student,
and that's what happens in life.
If you have a chance,
who comes backstage to my shows?
Everybody.
And they sit there, and I have a chance to find out,
hmm.
Now, they say you're this person.
And the answer is, no, they're not.
everybody has a front
and a back
especially a public narrative
you understand
if you don't know them personally
you don't know them personally
and so with me
I have found the greatest parts
in the world of this whole story
is that they come as fans
everybody
and that's the part
that really makes me feel
really great about traveling around
the world
because it it gives
remember now
I know the world
of the world
A lot of people know Detroit
or they know America
but they don't know Europe
or they don't know Asia
or they
Joe I'm 200 years old
I scratched on everything
but the point is it's
when I come home to write a song
I don't write a song based on
is it going to be a song that can identify
to America only
I write a song that the world will understand
Because you've been to the world.
I've been to the world.
Yeah.
So when I came home to write all night long, everybody looked at me like,
you out of your freaking mind is freaking calypso.
There ain't no calypso music on the radio.
I said there's a thing called World Beat.
That's why every gangster, every politician,
every schoolteacher, everybody, when you go on vacation, what are you here?
It's called the World Beat.
So when I play the world beat
On anything
You automatically feel familiar
Right
But now try to play that in the middle of funk
Try to play that
Yo
What is Lylel doing
But the point is
You know
When you travel the world
And you come back home
And you put a song out
It's going to resonate
To the world
And as time goes on
It will resonate to America
but I do from the world back in certain cases.
Oh, yeah.
Just based on your life experiences.
Yeah.
No, that's amazing.
Yeah.
But it's like a lot of great artists have done that.
Of course.
Broke out and where people are like, what are you doing?
Exactly.
Why are you doing something that's different than something that's been insanely successful?
Exactly.
Why would you mess with the formula?
Lionel Richard story.
Lionel Richard crossed over and can't get black.
Oh.
You got me?
Oh, okay.
So, in other words, wait a minute, wait a minute, three times a lady, yo, that's a waltz, little brother.
Right, what's you doing, man?
You're copping out?
And the answer is, no, no, no, I'm not coping out, you know.
But my answer was very clear if Mozart were black.
Would he be Mozart?
No, because he wouldn't be funky enough.
And you wouldn't have played him.
Also, why would anybody challenge authenticity?
If someone has an authentic idea,
it's who they are at this moment.
This idea that you're supposed to stay in this box.
Well, know what that's called now?
What?
An algorithm.
Okay, yeah.
Yeah, it's basically the same thing.
Everyone keeps thinking, oh man, it's gonna take over.
No, it won't.
And hopefully if you're smart enough
and get out of the way of this regurgitating over and over
again the same goddamn song and go over here it's got to be somebody that goes I want to say
this right and and no AI can tell you that right it's going to what's that word touch people
yeah you got to have something that touches someone yes it can rhyme all day long right but does it
touch you right that's coming from something else that's going to be the new thing and we've got
to allow a place where the new thing can come through.
Yes.
Because otherwise it will become, it gets to be a hum.
Right.
And that's when you hear, we only play 98 beats a minute.
Well, you know what happens on the fifth song?
You turn the channel.
First song.
Second song.
Third song.
Fourth song.
Turn the channel.
It's formula.
Because you want to hear something that goes,
that's the trick.
Change up the ear.
But someone said,
let's just keep it all the same.
So now I have to ask the question.
This is the business people, right?
Yes.
These are people who don't write songs.
Right, of course.
I mean, that's like going to a concert.
And the first song is,
and the second song is,
and the third song, you go,
where are we going to eat?
Right.
Okay.
If something's got to switch up,
the lights have to change.
Something has to happen.
Otherwise, it becomes monotonous.
Thank you.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That struggle between the creatives and the money people always exists.
I'm telling you, it used to be wonderful because the creative people were the guys who owned the labels.
Right.
When did it switch?
When they started consolidating all the things.
In other words, they started buying up Motown, and then they bought up A&M, and then they bought up Mercury, and then they bought up polygram.
Now you've got this big, giant.
Giant. Okay, so it's Warner Brothers, Sony, Universal. We got them all. And then the independence and then that da-da-da. And then it became one big, just a machine. One big indigestion.
Yeah. A bunch of people who just want to make money and they don't make music.
Yeah. And then the one of the guy says, I know how to sell, I know how to sell records live. I sold 18 billion hamburgers.
Before I came here.
What the frick are you talking about?
I'm a businessman, Lyle.
You think it's complicated?
Now, can you give me your album in the third quarter?
Oh, God.
And I'm going, I normally give my album when I finish it.
Now, what are you talking about?
Third quarter means what?
Oh, no.
Can we have it in the first quarter?
If we can have it in the first quarter, it'll be fine.
Did you see, was this a slow thing, or did it just become overwhelming at a certain point in time?
Like, when did they get to consolidate?
The most irritating part of it was
you start an album
and by the time you finish the album
they sold the company
and the people who started the album with you
are no longer there
so that's a new group of people
that's receiving the album
that has no idea that you've been working on the album
in the first place
and then what label that they put that on?
Okay, they put Motown over on Mercury
and then they put Motown Mercury
over on Polador
door, then they put, now you're sitting there going, okay, guys, who do I belong to?
Who do I belong to?
Oh, no, no, no.
It went, it went, it went so sideways that, you know, and then as we slowly get further, further
down the road of lack of communication, half the time you go to another company, they didn't
know what the hell have you done.
you know they go okay now
you know I've got a hip hop
group that love I got a writer
they can write with you Lionel
who you're talking to
I mean you know I'm saying I mean
we got a writer that can write with you
I don't need a writer to write with me what are you talking about
I don't I got my own
that's like having somebody say I got a guy
that can help Stevie
it's just imagine
at that stage of your career
someone coming along and telling you how to do it
yeah yeah because they're
A&R people from the last label.
God. And so you get up there and you go
and by the way, whatever person
they tell you they want you to write with
that's the single.
Oh, God. So you go, okay, just
hold on for a minute. Everybody
take a step back.
The worst thing I ever heard in life one time
was the guy said, I've got
a surprise for Stevie.
He turned in his album and
I forgot in the artist's name and I can't think of it.
I got them to remix
his album. Oh, Jesus Christ.
Joe, you never heard from Stevie again for 10 years.
Wow.
I mean, come on.
First of all, if you know Stevie, every,
okay, he knows where that is.
Yeah.
And you remixed it before you put out the original.
Oh.
And just imagine the gall to think you could do it better than Stevie Wonder.
But that's what I'm saying.
When you bring in non-creative people who are doing cocaine.
I didn't want to say that, but the answer is a lot of it, a lot of blow.
They're doing cocaine, so they have some really unnecessary confidence.
Right.
And again, you have to understand something.
They know.
They know because why do they know?
Because they said so.
And what I've learned is there are two types of artists, creative artist, and created artists.
Okay, and these people are specialized in creating artist.
But if you happen to be talking to a creative artist,
shut the fuck up.
Yeah, shut the fuck up.
Yeah, shut the fuck up.
Yeah, could you imagine a group of those people
and Prince brings them head and says, this is my song.
They're like, are you out of your fucking mind?
And by the way, they did.
They did.
And you know what he said?
Fuck you.
But you know what I'm saying?
Like that's one of those songs
Where you're just like
It's so great
It's so authentic
And so insane
And nobody had heard anything like that before
That's what I'm saying
Yeah
A Madonna
Madonna for the Pepsi commercial
You know what she gave him
For the Pepsi commercial
Like a prayer
Right
You know right
Black man on the cross
With Madonna
That's the commercial
She gave him
Right
And they said
This is disastrous
I said, it's Madonna.
What were you thinking you were going to get?
What did you think you were going to get?
Just giving them a real name.
But I mean, you see what I'm saying?
But yet, was the record successful?
Hell of yet.
Huge.
That's what I'm saying.
Massive.
Get out of the way.
Yeah, get out of the way.
Bob Dylan, get out of the way.
Yeah.
But people can't figure that out if they're not creative people.
They really genuinely think that they know better.
But they want control.
Yes.
And the answer to it is,
I would rather have a company full of out-of-control artist
than a bunch of controlled pencil pushers and accountants
they know nothing about people and what they like
or what could titillate their sensibilities.
Yes.
Okay.
It's got to be somebody who knows how to, well,
are they going to be in clubs all night?
No.
But we are.
Are they going to travel around the world to festivals and everything?
No, they're not going to be there.
But we are.
Right.
So wouldn't you trust us when we come back home and say, okay, I got the shit.
It's just they think they know better and they have the money and they have the power and they want to keep control.
And one of the things that they really do enjoy controlling is controlling people that can do things that they can't do.
Ah, very true.
Yeah.
And by the way, they know.
Yeah.
And they'll come up to you.
And what they call is giving you advice.
You know what it's called to me.
Insulting.
Right.
Yeah.
It's insulting.
Giving you advice is just so crazy.
Someone who doesn't do it,
giving you advice on how to do it.
You want to hear how that sounds?
Lionel, if I were you,
and you know what I say back,
quiet it to myself?
But you're not.
But you're not.
But you're not.
If I were you, if you were me,
you would be listening to you going,
what is this fucking idiot saying?
If I came back to you, Mr.
You know, and I'd say,
hey, if I were you, I would do this with the company.
And you're looking at me and go,
kids, you don't know what you're talking about.
And that's the right answer.
Right.
But if you're talking to an artist,
by the way,
we could run the company
if you let us.
Yeah.
But the point is,
it's too late.
Everybody knows everything now.
And so that's the point.
It's called the Peter principle.
Everyone elevates themselves
to their level of incompetence.
And now that you are who you are,
you've now null and board yourself
and the industry,
whatever it is we're into,
you've done it.
done cooked. So my point now is we've got a world now of specialist that knows nothing
about the actual doing it. Right. It's a world. That is crazy. And they have so much power
and control over artists. And they have been successful in creating an artist. But not even artists.
Everybody. I mean, in other words, they have people who have never been in a successful marriage
longer than 12 weeks
giving you advice on marriage
I'm thinking about this
you know if I were you
I do this my answer is
if you ever want to find out about
anything don't ask
anybody young ask
old people they've been
through the blitz of World War II
they've been through the depression
they've been through the crisis
don't ask anybody young
why because if it comes on the phone
you don't know anything
thing. If you want some real good advice, when I got to Motown, who did I ask first?
Marvin. Right. You think he knows? He knows. Crazy as he can be, but it doesn't matter.
Right. He was the creative killer. Who did I ask about record business? Barry. Amit Erdogan.
Yeah. Come on, guys. These guys were the most incredible people on the planet. And so what I'm saying to you is,
right now we're taking advice from people who just graduated from nothing right what are you coming from
so that's where I only I just find it very interesting that before I ask the question of anything
I go how did you do it first and you said well this is my first time doing it thank you I'll
talk to you later it's just bizarre that the the industry needs
needs people like that.
It's just a bad setup.
It's a bad set.
It's like it doesn't maximize
creative output.
It gets in the way.
Well, let me tell you.
We're so far down the road now
because what happens now
is it all became legitimate
when I say that.
Not that I was a nice
fan of gangsters,
but it's something
rewarding about giving someone a chance to play.
Here's some money, go play.
Now, what's going to happen is he's either going to win or you're going to lose.
But if you win, you might get a group called the Beatles.
If you win, you might get a group out of San Francisco called Slying the Stones.
If you win, you might get a group called the Temptations.
If you win, you might get Diana Ross.
If you win, you might get a Taylor Swift.
You know what I'm saying?
In other words, just let the artist go.
Right.
Let them go.
And that goes with everything.
You know, there's people who, like I said, in school,
they're incredible academically.
They can recite to you everything that's ever happened
and will give you every, you know, backup to that.
now that we have chat GPT
and it's not so much the same
but the point is
and then there are those that go
I wrote a poem
I'm lucky to hear it
or I read a book
I want you to hear about it
I have an idea about
going to Mars
what
I mean you know
you just I mean
the first thing is
before you become a genius
you have to take
the responsibility
of being an absolute idiot to everybody around you.
An idiot is when you came up with your first idea.
Lionel, where do you hear all your songs from?
I hear them from the other side.
Lionel's an idiot.
Where did I say that?
On a university campus.
Now, when the world finally becomes attuned to your frequency,
oh my God, you hear the word genius.
The answer is, no, I'm still the idiot
suggested it from the beginning.
Well, I think if you said that today, though, don't you think more people would be inclined to listen to you saying the songs, the ideas come from the other side?
But now, yes.
Yeah, now.
But now, yes.
Because I can explain to them because why.
They trust me now.
But even if they didn't know you now, I think that idea is more acceptable.
Well, yes.
Now, yes.
You're right.
Because now we've opened that channel up now to where people can talk like that.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah, definitely.
Yeah.
But back then, 1970, 69, 68, talking like that means Lionel is on either LSD or some kind of tab.
He's on some kind of tab, yeah.
But he's definitely not in his right mind.
Yeah, or he's mentally unwell.
And that just aids in his brilliance, but he's crazy.
He's a genius maniac.
Yeah.
But he won't be here long.
Right.
That's like Kanye West.
Yeah, we'll get.
Genius.
We'll get him to rehab as soon as possible.
Right, right.
Yeah.
I mean, that's what they were doing a lot of Kanye's career, just trying to manage his insanity that also led to this insane creative output.
Yeah, I mean, I'll be honest with you.
Richard Pryor, I use this as my perfect example.
I mean, I would just wait for his next, what's coming out of his mouth.
Right.
And then one day he sobered up and couldn't get funny.
And I kept thinking, what just happened?
Well, he went to rehab.
Well, yeah, I know, but where's the, where's your edge?
Yeah.
And so, you know, some, there's a word for it.
There's a phrase for it where you learn your craft under the influence of.
And if you happen to not know how you got there off of the influence, that when you finally get off of it, you don't know how to get back to it unless you go back on it.
even if you do it's a different place mm-hmm like my one of my favorite examples of
this is Stephen King I love perfect early Stephen King if you listen I mean if you
read rather the shining Tommy knockers I mean misery Koojo pet cemetery but this
was cocaine snort and beer drinking out of his fucking mind like he he wrote
entire books it doesn't remember
anything about writing up.
To be in their presence
is one of the most
incredible things you'll ever see
and hear and experience in your life.
Again, I got to the point
where if I was just allowed in the room,
remember now, I mean, I was allowed
in the room
when Marvin
and Stevie's
and, God, I can even
Did you grasp that historically at the time, like what that meant?
I couldn't breathe.
Did I grasp it?
I couldn't breathe.
Wow.
I mean, do you know what this was?
This was the gift of life.
I mean, that's Barry Gordy.
Right.
You know what Barry Gordy was back in the day?
God, he existed on the moon somewhere.
You know, Holland Doja and Holland.
These are, you know, this is all, they're in the moon.
Aretha Franklin and Armid Erdogan and King Curtis and this is the moon people, man.
Sammy Davis Jr., Sidney Poitia, he's a moon people.
And to have them sit in a room, not in a seminar, in their living room, saying, you know what, let me tell you a story about,
Now there's one part of me going
Mm-hmm, mm-hmm
And then there's another part of me going
Holy shit, I'm sitting here listening to a freaking
Barry God here, Sidney Porte.
You follow me?
Yeah.
How did I get in that room?
So another title was going to be was fly on the wall
but I just didn't want to be a fly.
But the point is, I mean, I had the opportunity
one-on-one, not
in a TED talk, but one-on-one with some of the greatest people of our time.
How well did you know Richard Pryor?
Oh, my God, man. Richard was wonderful. I mean, well, I mean, Paul Mooney, Richard Pryor,
and... I knew Mooney real well. I mean, this is, again, totally out of his mind.
Totally funny. But more importantly, totally.
totally in charge.
I mean, he knew his,
I saw his frustration because
they were trying to deal with him
commercially. They discovered
that maybe he might be able to be on network
television. Wrong answer.
You know, but
he was so
gifted
in presenting
the street struggle
and you laughed about it.
Miss Rudolph was
Ms. Rudolph, man. I mean,
When he said, Ms. Rudolph, everybody knew what you're talking about.
You know, or, you know, they put me in jail for shooting my car.
I mean, you know, but to know him off camera, to know him off the stage, you know, what I found a lot about my comedian, forensics, you know, there's a, to make things funny, you have to take dark things and make.
and make them funny
but they stay most of the time in darkness
and Richard was in darkness a lot of time
a lot of time of his life
yeah that was surprising to people
you know when you see a guy that's so funny
and so loved you see assume his life must be amazing
but he was struggling all the time
I mean he later revealed that you know
the story from uh... Jojo dancer your life is calling
which is like loosely based around his life
he accidentally caught on fire
but in real life he sent himself on fire
of course he did
yeah yeah I mean
the book
the book that I just finished
it's the struggle
everyone keeps saying what did you start off in the rural South
forget the rule South
I was struggling with myself
which is what everybody
struggles with
so the answer is
it's not that I made it
it's this who was I struggling with you're struggling with yourself and all of us are struggling with
ourselves yeah that's what made the book to me so meaningful because people are walked back to me
go Lionel I felt the same way now you know what that's called in my business a hit record
when you write a song and everybody comes back to you and says man I was feeling the same way
you got a hit record yeah well when you can write in a book vulnerability where you can write in
a book fear where you can write in a book I'm not sure
I wasn't sure I was scared
They go
How could you be scared
And do all that
And the answer is step forward
Yeah
Step forward
Scared to death
We're all scared to death
Are you kidding me?
You know we don't know what we're doing from day to day
It's just we work it out
Yeah
But it's not where we
All this confidence in crap
No no no no
And as time goes on you kind of develop a little
Okay
And it's called filling out your skin as time goes on.
You get a little bit more confident in the fact that I kind of know what I'm doing.
Becoming a professional.
There you go.
But for the beginning stages of your life, what the hell you're doing?
Yeah.
Come on.
Yeah, you can't.
Yeah, but it's just very valuable for people to hear that from someone that's very successful.
People just look at a guy like you and go, well, he's just Lana Richie.
I mean, it's just it is what it is.
You know what I mean?
Must be nice.
I know.
That's how they look at it.
I know.
They don't think of, oh, that's a bizarre path that a human being took to superstardom.
Right.
It's a strange.
And at any one point in the life, I could have turned around and said, I quit.
Yeah.
And that's very valuable for people to hear as well.
And people will, in the fact that you're so honest and you're so open about things, it helps so much because when people read that, they'll think of themselves.
And the moments where they've struggled, the moments where they've been unsure of themselves are not sure what to do or wanted to quit and didn't.
And it's like, this is universal.
It's universal.
And the difference between, you know, Lionel Richie and Sandy Smith out there who's listening
to this is that Sandy Smith hasn't started taking her first steps.
And that if she keeps going down that line, she could be her.
You know, it's just keep going.
There's talent, there's gifts of God, there's all sorts of things.
But one of those things that they all have in common, if you know of them, they kept going.
Yeah.
Like Jimmy Hendricks clearly obviously was a godly gift.
Absolutely.
Gifted, just gifted, something special.
Also, worked like a motherfucker.
Like the work, the work ethic was insane.
Has to be.
Yeah.
Think about how many records Nas wrote.
They were releasing records for years after his death, years after his death.
Because he never left the studio.
Of course.
It just worked.
Of course.
That's how you get that good.
But that's how you get there.
You see Biggie on the streets in Brooklyn when he was 17 years old.
You're like, oh, okay, with sheets of paper.
rapping with perfect flow at 17.
You're like, okay.
I get it.
You just go.
Or you get around major corporate leaders and you say to myself,
oh, my God, you built this company.
I said, I was bankrupt 12 times.
You know what I'm saying?
Oh, you were?
All you remember was the smash.
Yeah.
But you don't remember, oh, what are you talking about?
You know, in other words, how many times can you take no?
How many times can you take rejection?
Right.
How many times can you go, I quit?
and then you wake up to the next morning and go,
I got another idea.
Yeah.
Because the world is designed to make you go away.
Right.
It's very simple.
Right.
Don't get psyched out.
I tell the kids on American Idol,
don't get psyched out.
Just because this person can hit every note perfectly
and you have this cracky voice.
But I can't remember this perfect voice.
But I can remember your cracky voice.
That means you've got personality.
this is a great karaoke singer over you
right perfect notes don't work versus something authentic
that really resonates with you there we go
there we go yeah I want to know what your
little quirk is what's that what's that thing
yeah you know Cardi B is Cardi B for a reason
right do you follow what I'm saying now there's a lot of folks that came
along right Cardi B is car I mean I'm just using her as a
right one example but the wonderful thing about is
she came with a personality she came with a
thing yeah you know yeah and to me that's the quality i'm looking for not only in the music
business but in life okay so you're rich okay so but who are you right what's your what's your
thing what's your who are you do i like being around you do i like being around you are you tell me
what you what is it yeah otherwise you just rich okay yeah and you got stuff okay but who are you
Yeah.
Right.
You have a shitty foundation in your house.
Exactly.
Right.
You have a beautiful house on a shitty foundation.
Oh, you got no taste at all.
Yeah.
There's a lot of no taste.
Well, listen, Lionel, it's been a real honor having you on here, man, and a real pleasure.
And I really enjoy talking to you, man.
It's fascinating conversation.
And I really applaud your honesty and your insight into your life.
It's amazing.
It's really awesome.
Well, I got to be honest with you.
There's an old expression that goes.
sometimes you don't want to meet the person
because they may not be what you thought they were.
You know, you're exactly who I thought.
Oh, thank you.
Yeah.
No, I mean, because, you know,
you've mastered this personality
where you can sit down and talk to just about everybody.
And on the days when you struggle
with trying to make a communication with somebody
and it doesn't work out, I go,
I understand why it didn't work out
because, you know, sometimes you have a block
right in front of you go,
just have to deal with the block.
Yeah.
But I've enjoyed this, man.
This is a lot of fun, a lot of fun.
Thank you.
And best of luck with everything, and you've already had best of luck.
No, no, no.
No, the book.
Come on.
Truly, Lano Ritchie out now.
Did you do the audio version?
We did the, I did not do the auto version.
Oh, somebody else did it?
I did, I swear to you, I did not do it.
How?
Boy, you know what it was.
If you know Lionel Richie, okay, let me tell you something.
for the time it took me to write this book
two and a half years
okay so let me just
let me be honest with you you don't want me to read this book because I'd go
I don't want to put that in guys can I change that one line
you follow me so I keep creating I keep
creating and so it's just one of those things
the dude who read it at least sound a little like you oh no wait wait
I'm drawing a blank why am I drawing
drawing a blank
Blair Underwood
Blair Underwood
Okay
Blair Underwood
I love
We first of all
We kind of
Had kids in common
Our kids were the same school
So when I say we had kids in common
No we didn't have the same thing
No no
But we had kids at the same time
And so we met back then
But what I love about him is
He understands
The
I call it the middle class approach
To
To my life
In other words, he understood the fact that did we grow up in the rural South, did we struggle?
No, no, it's not that kind of struggle.
We had a struggle of understanding our identity and how to take that forward as artist.
And he understood the humor.
I love his voice because it's not so identifiable that if it was a Morgan Friedman,
I'm just giving that as a perfect example, and I love Morgan.
But it's too identifiable.
I want somebody who can tell a joke and it sounds like Lionel.
Right, right, right.
You know, he had that quality.
And so when I said, no, no, I want you.
We hit it off.
Well, his voice, you'll hear it.
Understand.
You'll understand.
Well, thank you, Lionel.
Thank you again.
And best of luck again with everything.
We appreciate it.
Thanks, you.
It was awesome.
Nice.
Bye, everybody.
Thank you.
