The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast - 159. Irreversible Damage? | Abigail Shrier
Episode Date: March 21, 2021This episode was recorded on 01/06/21Abigail Shrier and I discuss identity, gender dysphoria, the increased rate of gender transitioning procedures among young female adolescents, details of these pro...cedures, de-transitioning, her personal experiences with writing her book “Irreversible Damage”, and more.Abigail Shrier is a frequent contributor to the Wall Street Journal and author of Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters. Abigail used her experience as a journalist to interview a wide variety of experts on the explosion in the number of young women self-diagnosing and taking steps to physically transition to male using hormones and surgery.Find more of Abigail Shrier on Twitter @AbigailShrierPurchase Abigail’s book here: https://www.amazon.com/Irreversible-Damage-Transgender-Seducing-Daughters/dp/1684510317/
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Abigail and dad discuss identity gender dysphoria the increased rate of gender transitioning procedures among young female adolescents
Details of these procedures
Detransitioning her personal experiences while writing her book irreversible damage and more
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Today I'm speaking with Ms. Abigail Shryer,
who is a writer for the Wall Street Journal,
and the author of a recent book,
which was named by the economist as one of the notable books of 2020,
irreversible damage,
the transgender craze seducing our daughters. Thanks for agreeing to talk to me today.
Thank you so much for having me on. So why did you write the book?
I wrote the book because a woman wrote to me. I had written a piece for the Wall Street Journal
on a trench-ender pronoun laws that we have
in New York and California now that
assign criminal and civil penalties
for failing to use someone's preferred pronoun.
I pointed out that these laws are
straightforwardly unconstitutional in the United States.
A reader wrote to me, she read this, and she said,
maybe I'll take up my issue, but I'm a mom.
My daughter had no symptoms of gender dysphoria throughout,
you know, her growing up.
But gender dysphoria being the severe discomfort
and one's biological sex, but she went off to college,
she had a lot of mental health problems,
and she went off to college, and with a group of girlfriends,
they all decided they were transgender, and she started a lot of mental health problems. And she went off to college and with a group of girlfriends, they all decided they were transgender.
And she started a course of testosterone.
And I've had this problem.
They're now an epidemic of these young girls
who are in a lot of very real pain,
deciding that gender must be their problem
and very quickly obtaining hormones and surgeries.
And she told me that no journalist would take it up.
She had written to many journalists. And I tried to find her an investigative journalist
who would write about this or at least investigate it. And when I was unable to find one, I
finally three months later, I got back in touch with her. I said, all right, I'll look
into it.
Okay. So, well, I can tell you that I have had some trepidation about even conducting this interview.
Yeah, well, it's because this is such a, it's exactly the sort of issue that you can get pilloried for.
And I've had a fair bit of that over the last number of years. I mean, I was very unhappy with
the Canadian government's language law, provision, Bill C-16. And my comments about that caused a whole sequence of chain reactions.
I suppose that changed my life completely.
I was concerned at that time that the movement, let's say the political movement,
the political ideology that I saw as driving the language legislation,
Bill C. 16, would manifest itself in psychological trouble for many people.
And so I'd read this book called The Discovery of the Unconscious by Henri Elmberget, and
he talked about psychological contagions
and documented them going back hundreds of years as a matter of fact,
and I was aware that such things occurred,
and it struck me as highly likely that confusion about gender identity
on the ideological end and categorical front would translate itself
into confusion about gender among adolescents in particular,
who were just starting to catalyze their gender identity.
And so you claim in the book that this is a epidemic.
And one of the things I'm wondering about is,
what are, what relevant stats do you have at your disposal?
And why language like that? Well, I actually asked a bunch of you know, I interviewed I connected nearly 200 interviews
for the book and I actually asked a lot of scientists once I had some numbers.
What do you call this?
What is it when you have we have a hundred year diagnostic history of gender dysphoria
and it always afflicted boys and men.
And now for the very first time in the last decade, there has been a giant surge in a different
population claiming to be gender dysfork.
It has shifted from onset in young boys and to teenage girls with no childhood history
and it's shifted from men to women. So I ask them
when you have a demographic jump and all of a sudden they are as these teenage girls now the
leading demographics. So these are girls who as a population experienced virtually no gender
dysphoria throughout history suddenly being the leading demographic. I would ask them, what do
you call that? Is there a scientific term for this? And they would always say, yes, epidemic. I see, I see. Okay. So in your, in your
Wikipedia page, which, well, I read it this morning and it struck me as a place where a battleground
was likely taking place occurring. In the book, it says in the book, Shryer accuses social media
of playing a driving role in girls' decisions to identify as transgender transgender, it says, in the book, Schreier accuses social media of playing a driving role,
girls' decisions to identify as transgender, transgender, excuse me, based on the unproven
and contentious hypothesis of rapid onset gender dysphoria.
She advocates for withholding gender-affirming medical care for transgender youth, a fringe
position not currently supported by most reputable medical organizations. And one of the things you do document in the book is the rapid move by organizations
like the American Psychological Association and the American Psychiatric Association to
change the wording that they've used surrounding the discussion on gender identity.
Correct?
Yes, that's right. on gender identity. Correct?
Yes, that's right.
They've, I mean, they have changed the wording,
but the bigger change, of course,
is that they've gone to an affirmative care standard,
which means that they no longer apply any medical judgment.
They simply surrender all judgment and agree with
or affirm the patient's self-diagnosis.
Right. And along with that goes, and this is part of what made me
nervous about talking to you, and I still probably am, is that as a medical practitioner or as a
psychotherapist, psychotherapists are now bound as far as I've been able to determine by examining
the law to adopt precisely this gender-affirming position. And I believe that that's the case in Ontario.
So I don't do adolescent therapy.
But if I had a young adult, say, 18 or older, come to me, who was expressing confusion
about their gender identity, let's say, or was gingerly testing the waters to determine if perhaps they were transgender.
I believe that I'm required by law to adopt a position that would affirm that.
Fundamentally. That's right. Yes, a sort of damnically, it hangs over professionals' heads now.
And what it says is, you must agree with the patient's
self-diagnosis, put another way, it suggests that you should begin with the conclusion.
Your conclusion must be that this person has gender dysphoria.
And then you can go along from there and start prescribing treatments.
That's not how medicine or any other area of therapy is practiced.
You don't begin with the conclusion. You investigate it.
Now, you brought up my Wikipedia entry.
Oh, sorry.
You know, that, go ahead.
I mean, obviously, the number of lies that have been put into that.
I didn't start the Wikipedia entry.
Others did.
And there's been, you know, back and forth fights with activists and so forth to rewrite it.
But, of course, I don't, you know, advocate any, I mean, it's not true. I
mean, so much of what has been said is not true. First of all, the affirmative care
standards, that's, that's the problem. And I don't, I don't advocate a particular method
of treating transgender people. I don't even advocate a method of treating transgender
teenagers. All I'm pointing out in the book is that there
seems to be a sudden rise in these teenage girls who are subject to peer influence and
social media influence deciding their transgender and there are no medical safeguards for these
girls. There's no means right now and no one determining whether they actually have the correct
diagnosis before proceeding to treatment. That's it. Right. So I guess the catch 22 here is that if the statement, most reputable medical organizations
affirm or put forward an affirmative care requirement, then any position that
questions that are objects to it is in some sense by definition fringe.
Well, it's, yes, I'm not saying at all that your position is a fringe position.
It's a matter, I don't see how that can be avoided under the current circumstances
because their laws and guidelines are written as if this is a fate to complete, right?
That we understand
transgenderism completely and gender dysphoria and that
all the answers are already in. And I don't think that's true for any psychiatric diagnosis.
Yes, I would just say that it is friends in so far or it appears French because all the doctors who disagree and there are many and they're speaking up all the time are silenced.
They are told that they could lose their license if they don't immediately affirm the adolescent
no matter what her other mental health problems are and immediately go along with facilitating
her transition.
Right.
You talk about the former, about the occurrences at the Mental Health Institute at Cam H in Toronto.
Yes, that's right. I mean, you had, you know, Ken Zucker, you know, the truly a giant
and in the field of gender dysphoria, who actually oversaw the authoring of the definition of
gender dysphoria, he was fired. Right. So let's talk about Ken Zucker for a moment or two.
So, as you said, he occupied a very prestigious position
in the world of transgender treatment,
and I think was universally regarded as the most outstanding
and most objective scientist working in this field.
I've spoken to him about it on some occasions,
not publicly ever,
and he struck me as a dedicated clinician and researcher, and he advocates, advocated for,
and still advocates for as far as I know, weight and sea treatment method based on the
presupposition that most children with gender dysphoria, who are, who events and interest in transforming their
body to that of the other sex should be encouraged to wait because if a waiting technique, it's not
a technique, even I suppose, if waiting is with sufficient patients, most of the children who manifest these Concerns desist. I think it's 70 to 80% of them a certain percentage fairly high come to the conclusion that they're gay and
It's perhaps the case that that's driving some of their early gender dysphoria confusion about their identity and
Zucker was fired from cam H and also pilloried in a variety of
newspapers and other publications as a consequence of what was essentially his mainstream stance.
Now, I believe, and I haven't followed this up recently, but I believe that he was engaged in
the number of court battles with the publications that had gone after him. And I believe that he won his legal cases.
He did.
They had to apologize.
And he and they settled with him.
I mean, they really wronged him.
Yes, definitely.
You've seen what, I mean, that's what happens when professionals speak out on this issue.
And of course, when I say speak out, all they're expressing is concern that there is an
overdiagnosis here.
You're seeing young teenage girls
who do not seem to have typical gender dysphoria,
none the last be immediately fast track towards transition.
Mm-hmm.
So I'd ask you a little bit earlier about numbers.
Do you have any sense of how prevalent this is?
And also, I'm interested in,
and I'm sure the listeners, watchers, would be as well
rate of increase. Sure. So in America it's a little harder to look at to come up with these
numbers, although I'll tell you the numbers that I do know, okay? It's harder because we don't have
centralized medical care like they do in Britain. In Britain where they have centralized medical care,
they can tell you that the number of young women
being referred for gender treatment
has exploded over 4,000% in the last decade.
Okay?
In America, we don't have centralized medical care
and you don't even need a diagnosis of gender dysphoria
to start treatment.
You can start a course of testosterone
without ever having received a diagnosis of gender
dysphoria.
So, they're a little harder to come by, but here's what I can tell you.
In 2018, 2% of high school students said they were transgender, so that's two and a hundred
kids.
That's an enormous increase over what was historically the rate of gender dysphoria in the population,
which was 0.01%.
So, one in 10,000 people went from roughly one in 10,000 people to 200 high school students.
We also know that between 2016 and 2017, the number of females requesting gendered surgery
in the United States quadrupled. So we know these are the exploding rates.
And then of course, I've interviewed many therapists
and Lisa Littman at Brown University did her survey.
And when you talk to therapists,
when you talk to parents, you get the same thing over and over.
And that is that the leading demographic
asking for gender transition is teenage girls.
Teenage girls with no childhood history of gender dysphoria.
Now, here's a contentious issue.
So, generally speaking, or the story of long-term gender dysphoria to be coherent, a girl would
have to claim that she'd always known that she was in the wrong body, that she was a boy,
and that that had been the wrong body, that she was a boy, and that that
had been the case ever since early childhood. So maybe she'd be speaking as a teenager.
Now you make the claim in your book that girls who go online who are searching for information
about transgender identity often encounter coaches who tell them to falsify their personal
narrative and to claim that they've always been gender
dysphoric despite the fact that that's not the case. Is that a reasonable summary of what you found?
Yes. Yes. Yes. So you can see that it's a complete diagnostic mess from a therapist's perspective
because and even from a conceptual perspective,
because the people who are on the other side of the argument than you, let's say,
are going to claim that the reason that these rates have skyrocketed to the point
where they're out now is because there were always that many people who had gender dysphoria
or who were transgender, but the weight of public opinion was held so strongly against them that they had to stay in the closet
essentially and were unable to adopt their true identity and
the claim is going to be made as well that you're radically exaggerating the
proportion of people who are putting themselves forward for transgender
transition procedures, let's say, who have been coached.
Right.
Okay, so let me respond to a few of those things.
First of all, I don't think that's right.
I mean, I agree with you that that's what they would say, but here's, I thought about
that, clearly, because, and here's what I would say's right. I think I agree with you that that's what they would say. But here's, I thought about that claim.
And here's what I would say in response.
If this were just as they say, a natural reversion,
now that there's greater societal acceptance
of transgender people, that they would say,
oh, you would expect to see a natural reversion
to what we're seeing now, which they might claim
is a normal base rate
of transgender identification in the population.
The problem with that is number one,
we're only seeing this sudden spike among teenage girls.
Where are the women in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s
who were denied the opportunity
to come out as transgender?
They should be coming out too, but they're not. It's the other thing that you might conclude is that if the people, if the bulk of the
proportion of people who were claiming a transgender identity in the past were male,
then release of the social structures on identification should have produced an explosion in males. It's not easy to figure out why there is an explosion in females. Okay, so that
leads us to another extremely troublesome topic, which is why the explosion in teenage females.
Now you do attempt to explain that in your book, and so maybe you could outline for the listeners
exactly what your conclusions were.
Sure.
Teenagers, teenage girls are famous for this, for falling for every hysteria, right?
We know that the way young women and their psychologists who've done wonderful work in
this area, Amanda Rose is one of the University of Missouri who I interviewed.
The teenage girls tend to spread these psychic epidemics because they are very,
their modes of friendship involve co-rumination taking on their friends' pain.
They like to rehash their own pain and they like to take on their friends' pain
and they are even willing to suspend reality in order to sort of get on the team of their friend.
So what if I'm being a real son of a bitch in this interview
to some degree because I've been trying to think up
all the objections I possibly could to your perspective
because it's so contentious.
And so I'm gonna put forward things that I'm thinking
about that are critiques.
And it's not that I'm believing them,
but they need to be brought forward.
So, a skeptic might say that you are relying on stereo types
of feminine behavior in adolescence
to justify your claim that it's girls
that are susceptible to a kind of hysteria
and that that's an outdated
that's an outdated and sexist, I suppose, hypothesis.
No, I'm not relying on stereotypes at all.
I'm relying on evidence.
If you look at the anorexia, it afflicts one population.
If you look at bulimia, it afflicticks one population and it grows and it spreads among
friend groups just as this does. It's young women encouraging them each other in self-harm.
And if you look at cutting, same thing. And we know, clinicians have known for years that you cannot
house anorexics together in a hospital ward without being very careful because they will encourage
each other to lose more and more weight. We know that women can get into this.
Right, and you see that online with regards to anorexia, right, with the pro-analysites
and the pro-belimia sites.
Right, it wasn't men who came up with inspiration.
Now, I inspiration, right, inspiration to lose more and more weight.
It was young women.
Now, of course, men get involved in all kinds of, you know, bad behavior and encourage
each other and all kinds of bad behavior and encourage each other
in all kinds of bad behavior.
But this kind of socially spread, self-harm has proven over and over to be endemic to young
women.
Well, you can't group anti-social males together when they're teenagers because they get
worse.
So that's well known.
And in fact, if you take anti social
boys and you put them with pro social boys, the pro social boys become more
anti social, the anti social boys don't get better. And that was discovered
back in the 1930s in the summer veil study, the the detrimental consequences of
of grouping anti social boys together. It was the very large scale study that was designed to,
in principle, to reduce the risk of children boys at risk for developing criminal behavior
and alcoholism and so forth was one of the first longitudinal studies. It was a complete failure
in that the treatment group who were subject to all sorts of benevolent, at least in principle,
benevolent interventions
did much worse than the control group.
And after much painstaking analysis and heart-rending doubt, the studies authors concluded that housing
the children together in the summer camps they had put out for them to get them out of
the inner city was actually the cause of their increased pathology and adulthood.
So it does happen among males.
Now, Tumblr is also something that you discuss
as a new mode of perhaps a new medium of social contagion.
And as far as I'm, as far as I know,
that's also a social media forum
that's essentially female dominated.
Is that correct?
I believe it is still, but though I have not, you know, up to date on the latest, you know,
of who looks at Tumblr, but it always has been, yes, predominantly female.
Right. So, all right, here's another question.
What made you convince that you were qualified to do this?
Because if I was a critic again, I guess that's the next place that I would attack, right?
Because you're not a mental health professional.
And so, it might be asked, well, what right do you have to investigate this?
Even that might be one question, but then also to draw conclusions.
Well, as I'm sure you saw,
if you, you know, when you read my book,
I didn't draw any medical conclusions.
That is, I relied entirely on experts,
and I do believe it is a journalist's job
to look into medical phenomena,
including epidemics and so forth, and investigate them and
rely on the medical judgment of experts. And that is precisely what I have done.
This isn't my, you know, all I did was investigate a phenomenon with neither a
particular hypothesis in mind, but just being willing to listen to a lot of
experts, and it was their testimony and their explanation
that I put into the book.
Do you think that it's,
do you think that you were even handed
in your selection of experts?
I mean, because one of the ways
that you can buy us an outcome, obviously,
if you have a political agenda,
you can buy us an outcome by selecting experts
that testify in one direction.
And of course, the transgender activists and perhaps the medical and psychological and
psych...
Medical and psychological associations themselves might regard people like Ken Zucker
as experts who, you know, would appeal to someone of more conservative sensibilities,
perhaps... would appeal to someone of more conservative sensibilities, perhaps?
Well, sorry, I'm not, I think what you're saying is, did I buy a sit by only looking at certain kind of experts in socialized states? No, I didn't. If you read the book, I interviewed experts
of all persuasions, but, but, but more importantly, there are literally thousands, I believe, certainly hundreds of books celebrating immediate medical transition for teenagers.
There is precisely one book that did an investigation of the risks and benefits and concerns that might be had around the medicalization of teenage girls.
That's it, one book.
And the question is, so do all these experts have a voice?
Of course, I don't claim to have done
and conducted my own scientific study.
All I did was show a willingness to speak to the experts
who are very, very concerned about what's going on here.
Okay, so let's dig even the layer deeper, I suppose, is
why the claim that you just made, for example, that there is a very large literature supporting the
idea of medical transition and a very small literature criticizing it is striking. I don't understand it. What's going on? Like what's driving this?
Why is it that the medical associations and the psychological associations have rushed so
precipitously into gender identity affirmation when the cost of it when it's taken to its logical conclusion is
extraordinarily invasive surgical modification which carries
substantive risk and which I think it's of which I think it's fair to say has
disputable benefits
What why is this happening?
Well, there are a number of reasons it's happening, but if you're asking why
more medical, you know, more doctors and therapists aren't speaking out,
I think the answer is because if even Jordan Peterson is
concerned about having this interview with me and
Peterson is concerned about having this interview with me and with all of your courage and all the stances you've taken. Imagine what far less courageous doctors are willing to say.
It still strikes me, it still strikes me as remarkable that this change is occurred over such a
short period of time. I mean, one of the things you do in the book,
and maybe you can talk about this,
is document the nature of the treatment,
the medical treatment for gender dysphoria,
when the treatment is gender transition.
So you talk about the use of testosterone,
and its subsidy on university campuses.
And then you talk about the more invasive surgical transformations,
double mastectomies, fellowplasty, and which is the creation of a new penis,
if you use that word loosely.
if you use that word loosely, these are very,
these are not minor procedures, including the use of testosterone.
And it's remarkable to me, given that,
how fast these guidelines for treatment have changed.
Well, I think you're right,
the medical, the activists have been very aggressive
and very effective here
in the medical accrediting institutions,
but I think that all of,
at root of all of these changes
is a series of polite lies
that we were, that we swallowed,
unfortunately, in the public sphere.
So in the last week, for instance,
the California Insurance Commissioner has said that for the purposes of insurance
in California, that breast surgery, top surgery, double mastectomy
on healthy breasts for even teenage girls needs to be regarded
no longer as cosmetic, but something that
corrects abnormal structures.
Because if you've accepted the lie
that a young woman who says she's a boy truly is a boy, then healthy breasts become abnormal structures.
This is the corruption of language, so you must remove them regardless of her age.
Yeah, well, language tends to be associated with action. And it was the corruption of language that I objected to, you know, four years ago, because
it has consequences.
Now, you know, you made the strongest statement so far, I would say, that you made in our
interview, which is the lie that an adolescent girl who thinks she is a boy, truly is a boy.
And I suppose it's language like that that gets you in trouble to the degree that you get
into trouble
Because that's a pretty strong statement
the gender theorists who are driving this
movement, I would say
Put forth the proposition that
First of all that an individual always knows
First of all, that an individual always knows what gender they are, even if that changes from day to day.
There isn't an authority outside the individual themselves that can opine on gender identity.
That's part of the philosophy that drives the gender affirmation movement, I would say.
Correct?
Right, that's part of the philosophy, but unfortunately there's no biological or empirical
or means of verifying that.
We have no means to say of establishing that a girl who believes she is a boy is truly
a boy.
Well, it's more of a definition than anything else, right?
It's a place to start.
It's an axiom.
The axiom is that the only person who can offer an informed opinion about their gender
is the person themselves, no medical professionals, no parents, no loved ones, no one else, only
the individual.
And that's even the case if it changes from day to day or hour to hour.
Right, exactly.
Okay.
We begin with the conclusion.
Okay. And then, then the other claim, and this is the one that I have difficulty with
logically, is that a girl who thinks she is a boy is in fact a boy trapped in a girl's body, which seems
to me and that that's been the case ever since birth.
And it seems to me that this is a form of the biological essentialism that the gender
theorists typically decry, proposing as they typically do that gender is a social
construct. Now, it isn't obvious to me how gender can be a social construct and be something
immutable from birth that's only known to an individual themselves, which sounds a lot
more like a biological explanation to me. So. Right. Right. I mean, I interviewed affirmative therapists.
And I would say to them, and they would say, well, some kids are gender fluid.
And I would say to them, well, then how can you recommend
or, you know, top surgery on a young woman who's who may be turned out to be
gender fluid, meaning she decides, at some point, she isn't, she was wrong, she isn't a boy, she's a girl.
And, you know, this response was essentially,
well, only she can know her truth.
I mean, we are, we are, this is not medicine any longer,
it's closer to witchcraft.
So,
let me, let me, let me start at the beginning and outline the hypotheses of the book.
So over the last five years, there's been a tremendous transformation in the language
and the conceptualization that's been applied by medical associations in relationship
to gender.
And gender is defined as something that's a personal choice, essentially, and that personal
choice has been extended to the domain of physiological transformation.
And medical professionals have been required, are now required, to exceed to any requests
for physiological transformation on the part of their clients or patients as a consequence
of the mandates of their professional organizations.
And the consequence of that has been a shift in the transgender phenomenon
from a tiny percentage of primarily males to a one in 50 percentage
of primarily adolescent females, many of whom are undergoing the full physiological or many of whom are
undergoing at least part of the physiological transformation process. That sums it up
essentially, I believe.
I'm not sure I totally followed that, but I think so.
Okay. Well, I probably should have asked you this at the beginning of the interview, but the
basic, I was trying to outline the basic argument that you were making.
Right.
The basic argument that I'm making is that girls are, is that a lot, a large population
of teenage girls who probably do not have gender dysphoria.
They certainly have an atypical form of gender dysphoria, are able
to quickly obtain hormones and surgeries.
They are very much, you know, they're acting under social media influence and peer influence.
We have numbers on that.
Certainly not my studies, but others have done studies on this.
And they're acting under the influence of peer influence and social media influence. They are quickly obtaining hormones and surgeries, and there is virtually
no medical oversight of this process. That's the thesis of the book.
Right. And so the alternating hypotheses are either that there's been an explosion in
transgender identifying individuals because the social structures have been taken off the diagnosis
or that this is a form of psychological contagion.
Right, I don't think it's the former. I started to explain why. One of the reasons I said,
as you would expect, you know, a large rise in transgender identification across populations,
it wouldn't just be teenage girls.
You would see women in their 40s, 50s and 60s.
You would see more men coming out of transgender in comparable rates.
But not only that, you're seeing among this population, we know that rates of suicide
and depression are rising as social acceptance of gender dysphoria is going up.
But we would have predicted that those things going down
with social acceptance.
Instead, it seems to be coincident and comorbid
with teenage girls' mental health crisis,
in which we're seeing very, very high rates of anxiety and depression.
I have to think about, I have to think for a minute here.
I want to go back to why this is happening. So there's been a political arguably. No, I won't stay say that.
There's been a transformation in the way that transgender identity is conceptualized and treated
in the last five years.
What's motivating the people who have been behind this transformation?
What's in it for them?
Well, I think that there are, you know, people who are, there are a number of things.
There is a strong ideological and financial commitments and incentives for certain people to insist that that that
transition on demand regardless of age, context, or other mental health problems
be always immediately facilitated. Right. Well, it seems like that's it's
nest that becomes necessary to prove something. It seems to me and that's what I'm
I know that's what I'm trying to get at is that
It's necessary to set up the medical systems so that
gender dysphoric
transgender identifying teenagers have access to the full
arsenal of medical transformation and
That helps demonstrate that some other axiom is true. What is that?
Is it the axiom that gender is in fact socially constructed?
Do you see what I mean?
You said there's an ideological reason.
What I'm going to do is to specify that reason.
I'd like to understand that reason.
I don't know that there is a larger sociological
or ideological goal.
I think they are ideologically motivated.
So in other words, they have these commitments,
but I don't think that they're trying to prove something,
you know, except in the way that I suppose
that they are, that they are saviors of some kind.
You know, look, they are saviors of some kind.
Well, that would be, that would be something to, that would be motivating to prove.
I mean, if you notice the doctors who are pushing this
very often that we, we're certainly seeing in the United
States is a young generation of doctors and therapists
who are activists first and doctors or therapists second.
We're seeing this across society in all kinds of, you know, professions.
Their ideological commitments proceed their professional investigation.
They begin with their conclusions.
Yeah, well, the ideological commitment is that this is what I can't wrap my head around it because the ideological commitment
if it's that gender is socially malleable or a social construct which seems to be
that seems to be a fundamental axiom that drives this kind of ideology. I can't see how that can live
side-by-side by side the proposition that the girl who's trapped in a boy's body has an
immutably male identity. Well, I think a lot of them, yeah, a lot of them just
insist on the immutability. The problem is we know that's not true. Well,
except that they also insist on gender fluidity. Right, but they also
insist on gender to fluidity. I mean, I could, I could, I could answer your
question this way. What is non-binary? Because right now in the in the United States and throughout the West, certainly true in Canada,
you can get your breasts removed. Not if you say your transgender. You don't even have to say your
transgender. But if a young woman 16 or up says she is non-binary, that's enough to allow her without
a therapist note to get her breasts removed. Now, we how do we know that a non-binary person has no breasts? I know that a man has no woman's breasts. How do
we know that a non-binary person has no breasts? Well, that's a very good illustration,
I would say, of the mystery that I'm trying to nail down is that your claim is that
down is that your claim is that breasts or no breasts, it's all the same to the non-binary identity. But that isn't the way it plays out. The way it plays out is that there's the
breast removal proceeds forth with. And so that's not, I don't understand that.
That's not I don't I don't understand that
Well, there are no diagnostic markers at all or evidence of a non-binary
Identity except the say so of the mission. Well part of part of it's a matter of definition Now one of the things that you do in your book. I thought this was quite interesting is
Make the claim that
when gender theory is taught in schools
make the claim that when gender theory is taught in schools,
the classic binary genders are presented in a very stereotyped manner, very stereotyped,
very unidimensional stereotyped manner.
And then any personal deviation from that stereotype
is regarded as evidence for a non-binary identity.
And so that's a matter of definition, in some sense, right?
Because you could say that the only genuine genders,
and this would be the redefinition of the word gender, in some sense,
the only binary genders are the stereotypes.
And if you are deviant from those stereotypes on any of the multiple dimensions
along which they're defined, then you are in fact another gender. You can set up a definitional
structure in that way and have it be coherent. The question is, what are the consequences of that?
So the consequences is a lot of confusion for young people trying to sort these things
at who they are out at a time when that's typically done in adolescence. I mean, the problem
is saying these things. Can you distinguish that from freedom? You know, because if I was going to
take the perspective that was opposite to that, I would say, no, no, what you're doing by
the perspective that was opposite to that, I would say, no, no, what you're doing by
deconstructing the concept of gender itself is allowing adolescence, much more freedom and exploration of their identities during a critical period than would otherwise be the case.
Now, I would temperamentally tend to side with the confusion hypothesis. I think it's a catastrophe to confuse adolescence with regards to their gender
identity, just when they're attempting to catalyze that identity, right? At the same time
that hormonal transformations are at their peak and they're undergoing a profound transformation
in self to offer them a plethora, an infinite plethora of ways to be, none of which have been tested in some sense in the world, seems to me a recipe for disaster.
But...
Does it look like freedom? No, it doesn't look like freedom. And I'll tell you why because these girls are miserable.
Just look at the number of young women on YouTube who are brought their transitions already.
They adopt behaviors after deciding online on some social media site that their true identity
is non-binary.
Oh no wait, it's too spirit.
Now I'm a too spirit.
Oh no wait, I'm a gender.
Once they go through these, they lead lives.
I mean, if you talk to them, talk to their parents, they are, when I, I wouldn't, if these young women were flourishing, I wouldn't have written the book.
That's, that's not a sad story. They're flourishing, but instead they're cutting off their parents. They're dropping at school. They have no meaningful employment. They all, all their friends are only transgender. They hate all cis people. You see patterns that are desperately unhealthy.
Well, it seems to me, you know, and maybe this is a consequence of not taking the idea of
a social role with sufficient seriousness is that there's a lot more to identity than
your personal feeling. Identity is something that's negotiated in the social
community, and an identity is actually a tool that you use to adapt, so that if you have an
identity that functions, we could say, you manage to find a long-term stable mate, you manage to have
children at some point in your life. You manage to have
gainful employment so that you can support yourself and maybe in a meaningful and productive
manner. You are able to use your own time outside of work and social obligations in a manner
that's meaningful to you. You regulate your use of drugs and alcohol so that you don't
fall by the wayside in that manner.
So what it means is that an identity is partly who you think you are, but it's also partly
the manner in which you interact with other people.
And if that identity is going to be useful, let's say, if that identity is going to be
valid, it has to provide you with a mode of being in the world. And part of the problem
with this multiplication of gender identities is that it's not obvious how you can manifest them
in the world without transforming the entire world, which isn't going to happen in your lifetime.
And so that's, and maybe that touches on to some degree touches on what it is that's driving this,
is that it's some deep desire for a radical social transformation so that anything goes.
And some, what would you call, it's pushing, look, everybody feels to some degree the restrictive
nature of social rules.
You know, I just said that you have to adopt an identity so that you can get by
in the world, but that doesn't mean that there isn't a fair bit of your individuality that squashed
and crushed as you adopt that identity and become in some way like everybody else. And maybe this
is a rebellion, at least in part against that notion of having to become like everyone else. The unfortunate reality is that if you don't, there's no place for you.
I think that's right.
The young women who, you know, these are overwhelmingly, I'm looking at Lisa Litman's study.
You know, the number of women were, and I've seen, you know, my own interviews, these
women are overwhelmingly white, middle and upper middle class, and they have no victim status.
They have no easy victim status, and they need one. They need one to get by socially. They aren't a minority in any sense, but this is the one status they can choose. See, they can't always choose to be gay, you know,
but they can choose to be trans. No one knows better than they do who their gender is, is the saying
goes. So no one can question them the moment they say they're too spirit or trans.
Well, then another theme, I would say, that emerges from your book is the
just from your book is the increasing social in acceptability among adolescents of what would have been more normative gender identities. These girls, the generation that you're describing,
it was also characterized according to the research that you did in your book and research that's been put forward elsewhere by a
dearth of intimate relationships.
And so it also seems to be right.
One of the things you pointed out was I think it was I don't remember if you talked about 16 year old girls or 18 year old girls, but
If you talked about 16 year old girls or 18 year old girls, but in the year and a half preceding being asked the question, half of them hadn't had anything that resembled
any aspect of an intimate couple's relationship.
That seems to be a radical transformation.
So is it also partly that the more traditional gender roles aren't working?
No, I don't know that they aren't working. I don't know that they've ever explored them.
Look, these are young, very sheltered young girls.
These are the generation that grew up with helicopter parents.
And they have barely ever had a kiss.
They've never held hands.
They spend all their time on their phone.
They don't know their own bodies and their own desires, and they haven't experienced romantic relationships with each other.
So they don't know who they are, they don't know what they want, and then instead they turn
to the internet to answer all their questions. What do you suppose has happened? I mean, I
thought that the statistic that you put forward about the lack of intimate relationship.
Because those were population-based statistics if I remember correctly, right? You weren't looking
at a small minority of teenage girls who were on the road to transition. This was that generation.
Why aren't these teenagers dating and interacting with members of the opposite sex,
like they were only 15 years ago or 20 years ago? What's failed? Like, do you see this as a
consequence of technological transformation? There are many, many, many things at play. One,
they're with mom all the time. These kids report being with mom. They don't
get a driver's license until much later. They don't spend time with each other. They're
with mom all the time. Even they talk to her all day. They text her all, you know, in
a constant basis. So they don't have freedom to be alone with each other. And then when
they are alone with each other rather than being intimate and sharing things and exploring each other in you know even just in a verbal way or in any way they're on their phones. So that's it play.
There's also pornography. I mean we've seen you know there've been studies at show where there's
statistics at show that young men are experiencing erectile dysfunction. Young men, men under 30.
At rates we've never seen before because of online porn. So basically the one thing that biology evolved
that men were evolved to be able to do,
social media or online porn content
has made it hard for them to do,
difficult for them to achieve.
We've never seen these kinds of rewiring
of human sexuality that's going on
because people aren't spending time with
each other in person. These young people are spending time online alone.
Yeah, okay. So part of you do see at least part of this transformation is being driven by
the phone, by the constant, by the constant, constant electronic tethering, let's say.
And part of that tethering is to the parent. And part of that tethering is to the parent.
And part of that tethering is to friends, but it's mediated by electronic communication.
It's not direct one-on-one interaction. And maybe that's the case with the boys.
Yes, but the images that girls see online are just as frightening because they're seeing
violent porn at very, very young ages. Women being choked within an inch of their life.
This is what young girls think sex looks like
with the opposite, you know, with the man
and they're terrified of it.
It doesn't look anything forward to instead.
It looks like something to run away from.
Well, it's never presented with regards to pornography.
Sexuality is never represented as part of an intimate relationship,
right? It's its own thing, sex. It's not an integrated part of a loving relationship,
which is what it should be under optimal circumstances. You don't see that. That doesn't attract widespread, impulsive viewing.
Right, but it's also violent.
And that's the, and you're right.
There's always been this porn that exists in Playboy
and whatever divorced from intimate relationships, fine.
But what young girls at age 11,
younger are seeing are, is a violent, violent porn.
That's what they know of sex. And they're seeing it at a very young age and it's terrifying.
Okay, so let me ask you about that. I mean, how confident are you in that proposition? I mean, you're we're trying to determine why it is that there's a generation of young women who are much less likely to engage in dating intimate relationships of the classic teenage style.
And it's not like anybody knows the answer to this because it's such a new phenomenon.
And so are these tentative hypotheses that you're putting forward or do you have some,
how solid are you in your belief that these are the fact
that you've like correctly identified the factors
that are driving this?
Well, the core thing I look at in the book
is what's going on with why is there this epidemic,
the sudden explosion, and what
are the risks and benefits, and what are these girls thriving?
Are they doing well and should we be concerned and why?
Now part of this observation was to look at the culture and what was going on in the
culture and observe the fact that young women are having sex and intimate relationships at
much lower rates.
That is not my research that was done by G.
There are a number of people who have been doing this.
Kate Julian had a wonderful article in the Atlantic
and which she interviewed many psychologists about this.
But it's been something that many psychologists have observed and studied.
And very unexpected, very unexpected development.
Right.
Right.
It's not exactly what you'd predicted all.
When all the social constraints, or many of the social constraints, have been removed
from every possible form of sexual behavior, the consequence of that has been a precipitous
decline in sexual behavior among adolescents.
And I guess we didn't talk at all about what the role of the boys might be in this. Like our girls not dating, let's say, and engaging in intimate relationships when they're teenagers
because of something that's changed with them or have the boys stopped asking.
You know, that's a good question about whether, so I didn't, what I was trying to say is I didn't
look into specifically or investigate why there's this sudden drop in sexual activity or even intimate relationship
activity among teenagers. So there are things I can surmise from looking at the culture
and writing about the culture as I do, but do I have studies on this? No, I don't know,
I don't have a real answer that I've come across yet.
Well, the pornography questions and open one, right?
Because that's a form of easily accessible gratification
with endless novelty that's never been, you know,
it's possible for a young man to see more beautiful nude women
in one afternoon than any human being that ever lived before 1950
would have seen in his entire life.
Right.
And if such a variety, I mean, that's a thing.
Right.
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no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I don't just think it there's evidence for this, but it's one of the drivers for the proliferation of multiple forms of pornography is that novelties a driver of sexual arousal and so there's an arms race online that consists of a combination of sexual imagery and novelty and that would drive the production of
image and novelty and that would drive the production of
violent videos for example or
Anything that's different right is is going to add an edge a novelty edge especially to a hardened pornography user
Harden is probably the wrong word there by the way
Right in the problem with this of course is not that there's so much pornography I mean online, but of course that we're also seeing men be less inclined to have
engage in intimate relationships, less than able to even perform. I mean, these, you know,
because of it, I mean, it's the rewiring of young people so that they're so incompatible
for each other. That's the real sort of disturbing part.
If these young people in this applies to this young,
you know, group of women who suddenly decide
they're transgender, if they were forming families
and living good lives, that's a success story,
but that's not the story that I found in my book.
Right, unless you define success as being allowed
to pursue whatever
fragmentary identity occupies their consciousness at any given
time.
And you can define it that way.
I mean, you're using, and I would use as well.
I would say more conservative criteria for what constitutes
a good life.
You know, as a clinician, I listed as a clinician, it struck me that you can assess someone's
mental health with some degree of accuracy by looking at the success of their embeddedness
within their social community.
And that's why I outline markers of a good life like gainful and meaningful employment and education to the extent of your intelligence
and the ability to form an intimate long-term relationship and children and all these things that
seem to make up the bedrock of life. But again, to some degree, that's a matter of definition.
Right? You could object to all of that and say, well, no, that's a very 1950s or 1970s way of looking at the world.
And that's long gone. And now what we're trying to do is facilitate people's the broadest possible range of choices among people so that we have a world that's much more diverse in its in its expression of identity. It's a very difficult argument to contend with.
I think it's deeply wrong.
I think it's too confusing for people.
But I mean, except that a lot of these young women, they're mental health after the
trans-identification deteriorated.
So they're not able to function.
Look, I have interviewed many transgender adults who are flourishing.
They're leading good lives. They're in, they're gainfully employed. They are happy. They're
socially connected. That is, that is not a problem story. The reason that these young girls
are, are, are the subject of my book is because they're not flourishing. They're not doing
well. They're not connected to friends and family. They're not staying in school.
Do you do you think and I don't know the literature on this and I guess it's partly because it's so soon
after the phenomeny merged itself. Do you know the literature on the relationship between mental health and
movement through the transitioning process.
It's tricky, because you point out in your book that if you're an anxious teenage girl,
or maybe even an anxious teenage guy, and you're given testosterone, at least in the short
term, that can do wonders for your anxiety.
And so whether or not mental health improves might depend very much on when you measure it.
So if your anxious and your identity is chaotic and you take testosterone, the immediate
consequence of that is that you're going to be much less anxious at least.
And why wouldn't you think immediately that that's evidence that there was something astray
with your identity that this magic hormone fixed, you know, time frame is a killer problem when you're trying to assess mental
health.
So, what studies are, or what data are you looking at when you generate the proposition that
going down the medical transition road isn't producing the positive outcome that it's
hypothetically designed to produce.
Well, first of all, I only say that it's not producing that outcome
for these teenage girls who I believe are misdiagnosing.
Okay?
So I don't make a claim about transgender adults
who went through therapy,
arrived at this decision as mature adults,
and are living a life as a transgender person.
I never make a claim that that wasn't a good
or the right move for them.
Well, I don't know, I don't think that there is
a reliable literature on the long-term outcome
of gender transition surgery, even in those cases.
I think you're...
So, and the phenomena we're discussing
is much newer than that.
So the data,
aren't it? It's very difficult for the data to be in yet. So, I'm wondering, again,
why you concluded that it's not working? Well, there are a number of reasons. First of all,
you know, obviously I used Lisa Litman's study, which was the jumping off point for my book,
Brown University Public Health
Researcher, who looked into this. You're also seeing clinicians report the same across
the Western world that they're seeing a sudden spike of gender dysphoria that seems to
be peer-motivated or claimed gender dysphoria that seems to be peer-motivated and social
media-motivated. It's not an problem, and it doesn't look like traditional gender dysphoria.
You're also seeing numbers of detransitioners explode on YouTube.
If you go to YouTube week to week, the number of detransitioners, and you're right about
the timeline, by the way, of course, that's always going to be relevant.
Testosterone does deliver a high, as you said,
and it does suppress anxiety.
So some women who self-medicate it with it
feel great after they've started a course of testosterone.
But very often, if you listen to these transition
or accounts, I've listened to many, many of them,
they will report that then after that spike,
their anxiety and depression came right back.
And there's a woman I recently listened to
called Waffling Willow, and she goes by on YouTube,
who did a 12-part series on my book.
I never met her.
I didn't know about her until she did this,
but she's a D-transitioner,
did a 12-part session on my book,
in which she said, yes,
this was totally her experience as a teenager
to transition very quickly. And at first she felt great on this testosterone. And then she realized that
and then she had basically a crash in which all of them other mental health issues that
she had returned.
Yeah, well, that's a good example of the difficulty in doing longitudinal mental health outcome
studies, especially in an uncontrolled environment.
There are clinical studies are notoriously difficult to conduct, and the timeframe problem
devils, be devils them.
And this is a particularly nasty situation, given that testosterone produces that initial high.
So you can cherry pick your data to some degree.
If you look early in the transition process, you might well see an improvement.
And then you can argue about what's contributing to that, you know, whether it's just the
pharmacological effect of the testosterone, or if it is actually proof that the gender identity
confusion in question was real.
There's also, of course, the Tavistock report out of the gender clinic, the largest gender
clinic in the United Kingdom, which showed that there was no mental health improvement,
no improvement in suicidal ideation for young women who have been started on puberty blockers and then cross-exhmormones. So
we aren't seeing the improvement that was supposedly claimed as the rationale for starting young people on these treatments. I wonder, I'm going to go back to something that we talked about
earlier when we're trying to pin down what the motivation for this ideology might be. Like the notion that your identity is yours alone to determine
strikes me as it's a profound it's profoundly narcissistic. It seems to me to be predicated on
the idea that you have the right to be master of your own, master of your own domain, master
of your own, your outcome, regardless of people around you. You're the only person that has
to be taken into account. So that would go along with the, um, the express claim that
you're the only person that can determine what your identity is.
It seems to me to be a very infantile and narcissistic wish that that might be the case.
You know that you could decide who you were and that the world would be forced to bend
around your will.
And I can understand that again, as I said, because everybody fights a battle against society
molding them and destroying their individuality while they're socialized.
It's a, there's something there that's valid to rebel against.
But generally speaking, as you mature, you start to understand that you have to negotiate
your way through the world with other people and that the benefits of being acceptable to other people outweigh the costs to your own narcissistic self-determination.
And it's the desire to not have to contend with that compromise that drives, I believe,
that drives the insistence that you are the only person that can determine your identity.
That's right. I think that the activists in this movement have a lot more in common.
With say the black lives matter movement and others such.
You know so called woke movements then they do with adult transgender people when I talk to interview you know you know, agent or adults, they don't insist that they were
always girls or always boys.
They don't ask you to suspend reality.
They say, look, I had gender dysphoria from the time I was a child.
You know, I struggled with it for many years as an adult.
I went through therapy and I realized this was the way to, you know, calm my gender dysphoria.
And this is how I'm most comfortable presenting.
That's not imposing anything on the world, really.
But the group of insistent activists,
many of whom are not transgender themselves,
but insist that we suspend reality
that medical professionals agree with them.
Yes, you were always a girl or you were always a boy.
This kind of stuff, This is an aggressive ideological movement
that really has nothing to do with gender dysphoria, per se.
Yeah, well, I've been trying to put my finger on while I was reading your book as well. What it is
that's the driving factor. And, you know, if you look at this broad philosophical streams,
like those that emerge from the writings of Rousseau that claim that human beings as individuals are essentially good and pristine in their
fundamental nature and that culture, it's culture that corrupts them.
And it's a very one-sided view.
You can take the Hobbesian perspective, which is exactly the opposite and say that, well,
people are self-interested, narcissistic, and malevolent, and it's only society that makes
them good.
And I would say a balanced viewpoint emerges if you integrate both of those views, even though
they're paradoxical to some degree. You pay for your socialization and you benefit, and you
sacrifice something of value, but you also gain. And that's what you decide if you're mature.
you decide if you're mature, if you stay locked in the notion that social pressure in and of itself is the perverting force that destroys your soul and your psyche, then you're going
to be motivated to push as hard as you can to justify your claims that your identity
is something that you yourself determine and that no one has any right to interfere with that,
whatsoever. And maybe if you have to sacrifice people in order to justify that claim,
that's okay because the claim is important enough to you so that those sacrifices are warranted.
No, I got a sense of horror in some sense from reading your book, especially when you started
to describe the surgery.
And so maybe we could walk through that a little bit.
Let's say that you do decide to walk down the gender transition road as an adolescent
female.
You can look forward to a high that's generated by testosterone, and maybe that's something
short-term and positive, but what else can you look forward to?
Well, I suppose the next... What can you look forward to? Well, I suppose the next, what can you look forward to?
I'm being...
I'm being...
...if a seashell. Gotcha.
Yes.
Well, the testosterone delivers that, but it also comes with risks.
I don't know if you want me to talk about those.
Yes, and also the experience you talk about voice deepening and hair
development and all of right walk through it. What walk through what happens to
a person if they if they go down this road? For the in the first few months on
testosterone at 10 to 40 times what a young woman's body would normally
experience. Her voice will change and masculine eyes. That does not seem to go
away. You know her she will her facial features will change. masculinize, that does not seem to go away. You know, her facial features will change, they will round, her shoulders will broaden,
and it will redistribute fat.
So if she's concerned about her fat, all of a sudden, in the places women develop fat,
belly, and thighs, all of a sudden, wow, she's lost weight, and she can develop more muscle.
The problem is that a lot of these changes are permanent, the masculinization
of the facial features and whatnot, and also that comes with very big risk of cardiac arrest
and cardiac risk seems to be much, much higher than a woman with normal experience, even more
than a man would normally experience, it seems. And you also discuss the effects on fertility and sexual
factor.
Right.
So there was a vaginal atrophy.
And uterine atrophy occur.
There can be quite painful.
And so in some cases, making intercourse
impossible if there's enough atrophy, it's quite painful.
And because of the increased
risk of endometrial cancer, doctors typically recommend at five years on testosterone
and prophylactic hysterectomy. So even assuming that the testosterone doesn't impact her fertility
which it may, the hysterectomy certainly will make that impossible. So, you know, those
are some of the risks of testosterone, but the biggest risk of all,
of course, is that we have no idea all the long-term effects of what testosterone at 10 to 40
times, what her body would normally happen, will do to her.
Right, and that's a long-term course of treatment.
Right, because she can't go off it.
Because if she goes off it at any point, she will go back,
some of her changes will revert. She'll go back to an in-between male and female look.
So, once you start, you become a permanent medical patient, and we just don't know,
you know, we don't have enough evidence of what will happen, you know, to these patient population.
All the problems they will incur in the long term. Then, of course, there's double mastectomy, which is the only cosmetic surgery or considered
cosmetic surgery I'm aware of that you show up without a mental health professionals' note.
Even as a minor, you can have your breasts removed.
It destroys biological function.
Obviously, it destroys all capacity for breast feeding,
as well as erotic function very often.
And yet, you know, it's interesting.
And you outlined some of the potential side effects
of that as well.
I believe monthly engagement of breast tissue and leaks
and that sort of thing as a consequence of only partial removal
of the breast tissue. I got that right.
Right.
And whether the testosterone is enough, I mean, you know, if you go off testosterone,
your breasts may refill with milk even after they've been removed.
You may have some drainage problems.
I mean, drainage is another side effect that often happens.
Very often women are unhappy with the look.
They want a second surgery to repair the look of it.
And why are they unhappy with the look, they want a second surgery to repair the look of it. And why are they unhappy with the look? Because they're chasing an asymptote. They're running after
a horizon. The final look of being a man, which they never, which is always a little bit out of reach.
I mean, I, some of the people I interviewed for the book are forensic anthropologists, because I
wanted to know about skeletons.
What, you know, are there skeletal differences between men and women?
And it turns out there are, even the sloping of the forehead won't be quite right.
They'll be smaller.
They'll have smaller hands.
They'll have differently-shaped palvices.
No matter what other, you know, surgeries they get, they're actually their femurs will
attach differently for a woman than they do for a man.
Right, and that accounts for the difference in gate.
And there's a difference in angle of the forearm connection to the forearm as well.
Because of the difference in hip to waist ratio.
All these subtle differences between men and women.
It's hard enough for a man to be an ideal man, much less a woman, to be transformed into
an ideal man, much less a woman, to be transformed into an ideal man.
And if you're an individual who has some questions about
the acceptability of your physical appearance,
then you can imagine that it's quite likely
that that's going to be maintained
as you make the transition to another gender.
Right.
And there's something else I asked one of the doctors
about because I started looking at many pictures of the young women who had received a double mastectomy.
And I noticed something.
I said, wait a second, look at their hips.
They have women's hips which become even more obvious once they've had their breasts removed.
So the doctor said to me, that's right, there's another surgery they can get if they're
concerned that their hips are protruding too much. So you see that this is not an easy fix and yet it's being doled out quite casually.
Right. And by casually, you mean that there's no screening in place essentially to stop women from
beginning this transformation process. And that also, you point out that so many medical health insurance schemes,
like those provided by universities, now cover the testosterone, certainly,
but also the medical procedures themselves to reduce their costs to a point
where they're much more accessible than they would be otherwise.
That's right. I talked to a woman a week or two ago whose daughter
suddenly decided she was trans at university. She was at a very top
American university and at university she not only started a course of test
australian but she was able to get her breasts removed. Yes well that would be
rather shocking news for any parent to contend with.
So let me shift gears for a minute if you wouldn't mind.
What has been the personal consequence for you of writing this book?
I mean, I can't imagine hitting a more active hornet's nest.
So is it okay that you wrote it?
Do you regret writing it? And what's happened personally to you because you've written it?
You know, it's been something of a journey.
You know, when I started this project, it was so, you know, once I started, I was just
in a sort of a constant state of shock and revelation.
And I couldn't really believe this was happening.
And it would struck me, the more I investigated,
it struck me as such obvious madness
that there would be no oversight and no guardians
or gatekeepers in place that I just kept thinking
at the end of this, everyone's gonna be shocked.
And this will become a safer procedure,
or everyone will have to agree.
I didn't write the book for religious people.
I didn't write the book for conservatives.
I just wrote it for common sense people
who were interested in the number of teenage girls
suddenly coming out of transgender.
And I was, I couldn't, I mean, the number,
I can't even tell you how many parents have called me, since the book came out, while the book was coming out, telling me that 20, 30, 40% of their, you know, whatever, very high, 15, 20, 30% of their daughter, seventh grade class suddenly decided they were transgender.
Sometimes at girls schools, their boys weren't even relevant, it was at girl's school, or at least they weren't around. So on the one hand, and then of course, in England,
the high court came out.
And it came out with a decision that effectively
verified everything I had to say in the book.
They said that was the case of the detransitioning girl.
I mean, I thought five years ago, I thought more, I thought this
will all come to an end when these adolescents hit adulthood and start to bring the lawyers
into play for everything that was done for them, let's say, when they were teenagers. And
that high court case, do you want to just outline that briefly?
For people.
A young woman named Kira Bell brought a case against the,
she brought a claim against the Tavisdoch gender clinic in England,
in which she said, I was started on these treatments, hormone treatments.
I was sure I was transgender.
I had, I started, you know, I had never had a childhood history of gender dysphoria, but as a teenager
it was very uncomfortable in my body. I decided I was transgender and at 16 I was started
on a course of puberty blockers and then cross sex hormones. She eventually went on to
have her breasts removed. She realized as a young woman in her 20s that she had gone
down the wrong path that none of this had made her
any happier and that she wasn't supposed to be transgender. She was a lesbian. And that was all.
And she had no and she was very upset that nobody had stopped her. Nobody had exercised any judgment.
It had been a celebration only zone from the moment, even from medical professionals and therapists from the moment
She decides she was transgender and the court looked at this population of teenage girls and was horrified
And if you read the decision, you know as I have and written about it
It's it's it just came out in in December
Right, right. No, this is new. They said that it's it basically, you know young people under 16 should not be allowed to be
giving informed consent. They can't give meaningful consent to doing away with their future fertility,
their children. And there's in no sense is this informed consent for a possibility of a sexual
life, because in many cases they made this madely dissexual dysfunction.
They can't foreclose sexual life, healthy adult sexual life,
and fertility as minor, if you have any.
Well, you know, how many 19-year-old women who claim to not
want children have children in the upcoming decade?
I don't know the statistics, but I do know that a very large number of 19-year-old women
that I knew when I was 19 had decided that they weren't going to have children, and all
of the ones that I knew either eventually had children or were very unhappy that they
didn't, you know, by the time they had hit their mid-30s.
And so... that's right.
I mean, I don't know.
We don't know that much about our future selves.
And the question is, under what circumstances we should be allowed to sacrifice them, you know,
so that that's right.
And that's the problem.
It's not that these girls are having these feelings, but that our adults are immediately
supplying the irreversible treatments
without any medical judgment or differential diagnosis.
Well, you also, this is part of what's horrifying about your book. We didn't talk about some of
the other surgical complications, for example, with regards to fellowplasty, which we might want to
dive into just briefly, because I wasn't aware of the mechanics of that particular
operation, let's say. And it's enough to give you pause, I would say, in any case.
Well, let's do that now. Why don't you talk about shallow plastic and discreet that?
Sure, it begins with the desliving of the forearm. They have to remove the fat and muscle
from around the forearm. That's what's used as the shaft of the knee of the forearm.
How much is removed? Oh gosh, many inches. If you see young women videos, you can go online
and see views of women who've had their forearms desleaved. It's a long stretch of the forearm
in order to get enough skin to form the kneeofalus. Then they have to transfer a peripheral artery
and nerves to that area. They have to graft it, obviously. It's extremely difficult work.
Future surgeries are needed if you need it to be able to, first of all, just making it able to
First of all, just making it able to have a urine stream without infection is extraordinarily difficult.
Often, complications include urine that sprays rather than streams.
It's extremely difficult to achieve.
And then, of course, having it hardened at all requires a further surgery.
And it's very difficult to do. And what does the surgery entail for that? Is that inflatables?
Yes, that's right. There's some sort of inflatable thing put into what would be
like the sort of the testicle. I mean the scrotum, the manufactured scrotum.
So to make it inflatable, it's very hard to get it hard, it's very difficult to get it hard enough to penetrate for sex.
And if you do get penetration, what's the pleasure?
That, are they able to get the same amount of sexual or the, you know,
achieve orgasm? Actually, that, it depends on, I don't know how often
they're able to achieve any kind of sexual orgasm, but I do know that, it depends on, I don't know how often they're able to achieve any kind of sexual orgasm,
but I do know that, you know, if they start out, if their puberty is blocked by, you know,
early on, and then they go to cross-sex hormones, and then they have these operations, sexual dysfunction,
and inability to ever achieve orgasm is becomes much more likely because they never finished
their all the Tanner stages involved in,
you know, making a young person be able to eventually achieve orgasm.
So there are a lot of problems.
But the biggest problem with this surgery,
I'm told, you know, I've interviewed a lot of surgeons
and I'm told that surgeons who do this very well and
are very skilled at this and very highly trained in this can do a pretty impressive
fellowplasty.
But the problem, of course, is these are big money makers for hospitals.
There's a lot of pressure to do this surgery and I keep hearing from surgeons that the
people who are doing these surgeries are very often not qualified.
They're not qualified to transfer peripheral nerves.
Each of these microsurgeries involves a different separate fellowship
and they haven't done those because the hospitals are so desperate
to make this extra money that they're not putting the safe,
they're not applying the traditional safeguards that they normally would.
Well, it doesn't take much imagination for someone who's undergone surgery
or have witnessed someone who's undergone surgery or have
have witnessed someone under who underwent surgery to imagine just exactly how
complicated and difficult this is, especially to bring about anything
approximating success. So we didn't finish our discussion of the impact on you
personally. So you said that you were continually shocked. So it was, I imagine,
somewhat demanding psychologically to do the research that was necessary to write the book.
But then there's also the consequence of publishing it and the
notoriety or unpopularity that that might have produced.
might have produced. Right, so I suppose, you know, I suppose I would fall into disagreeable as my personality, you know, category that I learned from you. In the
sense that, you know, I'm not someone who, you know, things lies really bother me.
They just bother me on a moral, intuitional level.
So I really sort of wrote this,
not looking to make friends,
but just because gosh, the truth seemed obvious,
and it was fairly horrifying,
and it didn't affect me personally,
or my family personally.
So if it had, I think I would have had trouble writing it.
I don't think I would have been able to,
women whose and fathers, mothers and fathers who have watched their daughters go through
this are absolutely devastated.
And it's not something I would have been able to do if this had been a personal issue.
But I wrote the book.
I thought it was a very fair treatment.
Makes you wonder too when you're doing a analysis of the outcomes of surgery, if you take into account the effects of that
on the immediate family members,
if that's a valid scientific question.
You know what I mean?
Like you could say, look, the only person
who's ever affected by a surgery
is the person upon whom the surgery is performed,
and perhaps that's the case,
and perhaps that's a reasonable perspective,
but we are embedded in familial structures.
And if a surgical procedure makes person A temporarily happy or even maybe happy over the
long run, but devastates five other people, it seems to me that it's at least worth asking
the question of whether that should be taken into account, especially when
you're talking about teenagers.
Right.
I don't think it's that it devastates the parents because they can't stand the thought
of having a transgender son or daughter.
In fact, they were overwhelmingly politically progressive and supported and they were
big at it, considered themselves allies long before gay rights was possible,
you know, sorry, gay marriage was possible in America.
So legal in America.
So it wasn't that, it's they were so miserable and so devastated because they thought their
daughters were so miserable and likely to, and regretting this already or likely didn't
regret it because they saw the lives of their daughters were leading.
So I think while I was writing the book, I just thought this is so obviously true.
You know, everything, there's everything in the book is true.
Nobody has pointed to a single factual error and the book has been under a tremendous amount
of fire now for six months. So you know how have you understood that?
stood that. So I think that the hardest thing about the fire in a certain sense is all the
to be honest, you know, is all the polite people out there who who won't even, you know, who are willing to to say, oh, you know, you're effectively effectively, well, you wrote that provocative book.
As if they almost don't seem not to know
that it's a journalist job to go out and investigate
phenomena, especially cultural ones,
that seem to be real.
I didn't go looking for trouble.
Trouble is all around us in America today.
I mean, I mentioned the, you know, states are
lowering the age of medical consent across the country so that so that kids can get all
kinds of surgeries. I mean, an organ, the age of medical consent is 15. So a 15 year old
in Oregon can get her breasts removed without her parents permission. Now, you don't need
to be a religious person to find that disturbing or alarming. You don't need to be conservative
for sure, but just a thinking person who says, gosh, that seems really young. I know I had a lot
of crazy ideas at 15. You know, I'm glad no one would have given me that option.
Who do you want to read your book? Oh, you know, it...
Oh, you know, and I mean, and the books for anyone to read, but I suppose parents, parents, have been very helped by it.
Or they felt, you know, they felt it was very useful.
Clinicians have told me it's very useful in just helping them sort of develop a, you know,
sense that they're not completely insane when they think this is a whole lot of kids suddenly deciding they're transgender out of the blue.
This can't be right. There's no oversight, you know, feeling that they're not alone.
But, you know, I'm happy for people who are affirmative therapists to read the book. I mean, I'm happy for anyone to read the book.
You know, unlike those who have called for my book to be banned and burned,
I'm not in favor of those things.
I would be happy for anyone to read it,
and of course, I would never want another book banned or burned.
And so you remain pleased with your decision to write it?
The truth is, I'm not sure I could have done anything else.
I mean, once I was aware of what was going on, I wrote an article about it for the Wall
Street Journal, and it's got a huge amount of traction.
I mean, people were writing to me across the country, even across the West to say, yes,
this is going on in their daughter's school.
Yes, let me tell you my story.
I mean, I'm sure there are people who could have walked away from that, but I'm not one
of them. I thought, gosh, there there are people who could have walked away from that, but I'm not one of them.
I thought, gosh, there's something worth investigating here.
And how could I just walk away from that and not look into it?
Well, you know, I think that's probably a reasonable place for us to end.
What do you think? Do you have anything else that you'd like to say?
Oh, um, no, I just, uh, thank you very much for having me on and, uh, and, um, you know,
big admirer of yours and I really appreciate the opportunity to talk about. Well, um,
I'm pleased that you were willing to discuss your book. And I'm hoping that many people will read it and think about what it, and think about it.
There's lots to think about the transgender surgery being part of that, but by no means the
necessarily the largest part. So thank you very much.
Can I just say one more thing? Yes. Say one last thing. Look, the lies have to stop somewhere.
I could have walked away from this. I'm not saying it's been fun and I'm not saying it's been easy since the book came out. There have been plenty of times when I thought, I really don't know if I chose the right path here,
but I have to tell you something.
The lies have to stop somewhere, don't they?
I mean, they're just, we're right now,
we're living through a blizzard of them.
And at some point, someone has to say,
a few of us who are just willing to need to say enough,
we have to subject this to
the same medical scrutiny. And this is a skepticism that we would subject anything else to any
other medical phenomenon. Yes, well, terrible as objecting to the lies might be, I suspect
that it's not as terrible as the consequences of letting them flourish unchallenged.
I mean, I think that's right. I mean, a lot of young women are getting badly hurt. And at some point, somebody has to be willing to say something. Yeah, well, I, I hope, I hope that your book helps.
That would be, that would be what anyone who is thinking clearly would hope... Thank you. That would be what anyone who was thinking clearly would hope.
Thank you.
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