The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast - 464. The Devouring Mother, War, & Human Aggression | J. D. Haltigan
Episode Date: July 15, 2024Dr. Jordan Peterson sits down with researcher J. D. Haltigan. They discuss his soft cancellation, evolutionary psychopathology, the devouring mother, and the dissociation of atrocity from guilt. J. D.... Haltigan is a researcher in the fields of developmental and evolutionary psychopathology, measurement science, and psychiatric nosology. He has an h-index of 34 and nearly 5,000 citations.  - Links - For J. D. Haltigan: On X https://x.com/jdhaltigan?lang=en Website https://www.jdhaltigan.com/ Substack https://substack.com/@jdhaltiganÂ
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Hello everybody, I'm speaking today with Dr. J.D. Hultigan. Dr. Hultigan is a developmental
psychologist with a real interest in psychopathology,
the study of mental illness
and the manner in which it develops
in relationship to such things
as early childhood experience.
And so he's also quite a pronounced
and courageous voice on social media,
which is really where I first came across him.
There are a lot of crazy things going on
in the psychological community at the moment.
And so Haltigan is one of the few voices
in the psychological community
that are properly expressing dismay
at the state of the culture and of the profession.
And so I've been following him,
watching what he's doing and appreciating it
and learning more about his story.
You know, he's a pretty good researcher,
certainly good enough to,
good enough so that he should have
at minimum a decent academic job
and maybe good enough so that he should have an excellent one,
but instead he's working at a deli
because he decided he'd rather have his conscience
than his position.
And that's, you know, impressive.
So I thought I'd reach out to him and have a chat.
And I know my wife has done the same
on her podcast platform, that's Tammy Peterson.
And so join us.
Hello, Dr. Haltigan. Thanks for joining me today.
Very pleasure to meet you, Jordan, here on our call.
And it was a very pleasure to see you here in Pittsburgh
and great to meet you as well here.
Let's start by talking about who you are and what you do.
Just why don't we walk,
why don't you walk everybody through your,
well, let's go into your graduate education., why don't you walk everybody through your, well let's go
into your graduate education, we'll start there and walk people through. And so they
get a sense of what you do, but also what position you're in at the moment and why.
Sure. So my academic trajectory was, my graduate academic trajectory started really after I
did some residential treatment work in upstate New York here in the States.
And then I did my PhD in developmental psych
at the University of Miami in Florida.
And I was really interested in that time
in attachment theory and the advisor I worked with there
was doing some early stage autism work.
So I kind of looked at attachment
in the context of early risk for autism.
And then subsequent to Miami, I did a couple of post-docs, one of which at the context of early risk for autism. And then subsequent to Miami, I did a couple of
post-docs, one of which at the University of Illinois was with an advisor who was fairly
prominent in the attachment literature. And I trained on things like, you know, measures that
are kind of conventional for the attachment developmental tradition, like the adult attachment
interview and the strain situation. I can discuss those later.
But I did that and then I kind of kept doing post-docs
and trying to find the tenure track position
in academia and psychology.
And it was just so difficult.
Ended up going to the University of Ottawa
to do another post-doc.
And that's when kind of things sort of transitioned.
I was there for two years to talk
taught some courses and at the end of the day was recruited down to the Center for Addiction to
Mental Health in Toronto which I'm sure you're familiar with and that's where I got my appointment
at U of T in psychiatry and was there from about 2016 to 2023 and that appointment ended and that
was kind of right around the time 2016-2023
when things were getting a little woke in the Academy and you know I was getting increasingly uncomfortable with some of the research and
how it was being conducted and what we were able to say about mental health and early development and came back to
Pittsburgh which is where I'm here today and really trying to stay involved in academia
in any way that I can and get through this period of
what I consider to be woke insanity,
for lack of a better term, and working some odd,
you know, odd-end jobs, blue collar jobs
at a local deli to kind of make it
while continuing to write about some of this stuff
and to use my platform to speak about some of these issues
like the gender stuff and other things
that I've researched in my career.
Okay, good.
Well, that's great grist for the mill.
So why don't we start by having you explain to everybody,
well, two things.
Why don't you tell them what developmental psychology is,
broadly speaking, who the masters are in the field
and what attracted
you to it, and then zoom in a little bit more particularly on attachment theory.
Sure. So developmental psychology is more or less a study of development across the lifespan from
the cradle to the grave, which was one of the earlier terms that John Bowlby, the sort of
originator of attachment theory, came up with. So across birth to death. And we look at how individuals develop, how they develop their cognitive skills, how they develop their emotional capacities.
In particular, you know, the earliest stages of life and infancy, how the
relationship with parents impacts that, the development of language, the development of, you know,
theory of mind
for example and other other things and some of the earlier stuff that happens
in adolescence the crisis of identity is another big one and then in aging which
is not really my focus I was always early infancy to to middle childhood but
in aging you study the similar things the
decline of mental faculties emotional capacities in old age and so forth I
guess some of the big names that listeners might be aware of in terms of
developmental psych would be Piaget maybe Bowlby a little bit less so but if
they're if they're interested in developmental psych Bowlby would be a
name that would come up.
Certainly some of the old school theorists
played a role in developmental psych as well.
I mean, the tradition of Freud and so forth
definitely played a role in some of that.
But I would say Piaget, Vygotsky is another one,
the Russian psychologist who studied language acquisition
and how that impacted emotional development
and cognitive mastery of the environment
and the child's ability to learn.
So those would be some of the people
that I would associate or would think
that some people might recognize
as developmental psychologists.
Yeah, so Freud, I mean, Freud at least attempted taxonomy
and a classification of developmental stages.
And, you know, I think he actually made
some pretty good contributions to our understanding
of parental relationships insofar
as they impact psychopathology.
I mean, my sense, especially in modern times,
I'd like your take on this,
is that Freud's specification of the Oedipal complex
was a major step forward in identification of,
well, much of the pathology
that characterizes the modern world.
I mean, it's a variant of really what Freud
was pointing to in a rather oblique way
because he tended to sexualize everything.
Freud was very convinced
that the fundamental motivating factor in human beings
could be construed in a relatively unitary manner
and that sex occupied that place,
although he also was concerned
with the impulse towards death.
But Freud certainly pointed out that the instinct
that mothers have to love and care for their infants
was also something that if it went wrong
could pose a remarkably pervasive danger
to those same infants.
And the psychoanalysts, for example,
posited that the good mother necessarily fails.
And so, and that stemmed from the Freudian tradition,
the idea that the mother was in this uncomfortable position
of having to make a transition
from the indefinite amount of care
that has to be poured into a newborn
who's completely helpless helpless to the facilitation
of the relative autonomy that a toddler requires and then obviously older children and adolescents.
And Freud pointed out, highlighted, let's say, the fact that a mother who extended her
concern for the infant past its due date could then pose a major threat to the developing psyche.
And I think he got that right.
And then of course, Jung and his followers followed that up,
especially Eric Neumann with their descriptions
of the symbolism and mythology associated
with the devouring mother.
And I can't help but see in the pathologization
of the current administrative environment,
let's say, particularly in universities
and also in the K through 12 system,
all the hallmarks of a maternal instinct
go on absolutely stark raving mad
so that everything becomes an infant.
And if it isn't an infant, then it's likely a predator.
And that's a bad situation to be in
if you're either the infant or the predator
and you actually happen to be neither.
So any comments about that?
Like part of the reason I wanted to talk to you, I think,
is because I've been following you on Twitter
for a long time and you're one of the very few psychologists.
Yeah, they can probably be listed on one hand
who's willing to make a case
for the developmental psychopathology
that's associated with the current culture war.
And so I'm kind of wondering how you construe that
and then we'll get back to some of these
more fundamental developmental theorists. Yeah, I'm glad you brought up Freud and how he kind of, you know, some of his contributions
because I see Freud's work as mostly a cultural psychologist.
I think Freud, like you said, he sexualized everything.
People have dismissed him out of hand because of that and kind of in some ways, rightfully
so if you're a psychological scientist, but from a cultural perspective, when you're looking at what's happening now in our culture, he was really indeed onto
something.
And you mentioned the good enough mother, and that's kind of where I departed and where
attachment theory departs a little bit from Freud.
The object relation school like Winnicott, Donald Woods, Winnicott, who was the famous
British psychoanalyst, and then Bowlby following from him.
They kind of broke away from Freud.
In fact, Bowlby was excluded from the British Psychoanalytic Society because he focused
on the environment, what was actually happening in the world and to the infant rather than
in some fantasy world.
And really, Winnicott's notion of the good enough mother was that she would fail or the
good enough caregiver would fail.
In other words, they wouldn't suffocate the infant
or try to be too perfect.
And so that's kind of a critical concept
that is really happening.
And as I see it in the world today,
this sort of overprotectiveness or suffocation
of children's ability,
because children have to grow up and develop and master,
cognitively master the environment.
And so if you constantly shield them
from any challenges or impingements,
as Winnicott might say on the environment,
you're necessarily gonna restrict their ability
to adapt to that.
Well, we should point out too,
what that failure of adaptation means is that,
so a child who's intimidated by a novel situation
will turn, a young child will turn to their caregiver,
their mother or father or substitute
to regulate their anxiety when a challenges confronts them
that their emotions indicate might be too large to master.
And so what the good enough parent does is replace
that need for dependency on an external source
with competence and skill on behalf of the child.
Now the problem with that, and I think Freud
and certainly the Jungians as well got this right
is that for a mother whose status
and sense of moral superiority depends on that relationship
with her child, maybe her emotional dependency is there too.
The fact of that child's dawning competence
actually poses a threat to her psychological integrity.
And that, I think, becomes particularly relevant when we're discussing, let's say, mothers
with cluster B psychopathology, who are very, very immature and narcissistic themselves, like toddlers, let's say,
and who are unable in consequence to attend to the child
without putting their own emotional,
personal emotional needs first and foremost,
need for status, need for love, need for security,
need for belonging, all those sorts of things.
That shouldn't be there twisting
and de-menting the child's pathway forward.
And so that also gives, I guess, gives us a route
into discussing developmental psychopathology
and the relationship.
I've read, for example, that up to 50% of mothers
whose children progress with trans surgery, for example,
have some variant of the cluster B personality disorders?
Yes, and I think cluster B personality disorders
in the attachment literature would track
what we call preoccupation
with the attachment relationship.
In other words, there's sort of some inability
of in this case, you
know, typically the mother to extract herself from whatever she was dealing with in her
own, you know, early childhood or around those sorts of relationships with her own parental
figures. And this preoccupation is a constant focus, a hyper-focus, a hyper-affective focus on aspects of the relationship.
And so what happens is that they regulate, the parent regulates their own sense of satisfaction
or affirmation through their child.
And so it's kind of exactly what you're suggesting is that the child is basically placed in the
position, a reverse position of providing the sort of emotional
satisfaction for the parent that the parent would otherwise sort of seek to establish in the child
a sense of competence, a sense of direction in the world. And so it's kind of an inverted,
what we call role reverse relationship. And that's very toxic for a child who has to,
in other words, to adapt to the environment,
develop his own sense of mastery and competence. But when it's inverted like that, the caregiver,
in most cases the mother, will place that burden on the child. And so that's kind of where you see
that inversion. Of course, that leads to all sorts of psychopathology in the child. Certainly,
influences it
in terms of a weak identity structure,
inability to regulate their own emotions,
and the child's constant focus on pleasing the caregiver
or the mother at the risk of, if they don't,
they're gonna lose that source of caregiving
that protects them and is their source
of parental love and authority.
Right, well, they face the additional problem,
those children that the parent, let's say,
most often in this case, the mother,
Cluster B fathers tend to be absent.
So Cluster B mothers tend to be present.
And so we should outline for our viewers and listeners
what Cluster B consists of.
So that's a grouping of statistically
and symptomatically related pathologies of personality
that include histrionic.
And so that's kind of the modern variant
of the Freudian hysteric who's very dramatic
and over-emotional, narcissistic.
And so people with narcissistic. And so narcissistic people
with narcissistic personality disorder
are always attempting to garner
unearned social status and attention.
Psychopathic, which is callous and unfeeling,
very, very self-centered, very present focused and anti-social and that's more associated
with criminality per se.
That particular variant is more common among men, especially in its more violent forms.
As I said, those sorts of fathers tend to be absent.
So now part of the problem, if you're a child
and you have a mother with cluster B psychopathology
is that not only are you called upon to attend
to her unmet emotional needs constantly,
but there is actually no way of meeting those needs.
I mean, treating cluster B people is notoriously difficult
and stressful for even a very practiced therapist
who's only around some of the time.
For a child, it's filling a pit that is so deep
that a lifetime of work would not be sufficient
to fill it to the brim.
So let's, why don't you tell us a little bit about how,
let's tie that into attachment theory
and how that develops.
We can focus a bit on the multigenerational transmission
of familial emotional pathology.
Well, yeah, I think it's important to consider
that multigenerational transmission from both
the sort of biological and the social perspectives.
And that means that there will be some inherent dispositions on the part of caregivers to
be, you know, we all have our own baseline levels of emotional regulation, but the actual
social relationship of early childhood is critical to sort of fine tune or to calibrate the ability to emotionally regulate.
So we all have a baseline of the ability
to regulate our emotions and so forth,
but it's really that early caregiving relationship
that kind of fine tunes or calibrates it.
And if that fails, what you end up having
is a complete failure and inability to regulate emotions.
And that's kind of what we see in some of the cluster B histrionic preoccupied discourse
or personality disorders.
And so when that continues generationally, it basically perpetuates itself and propagates
itself from parent to child and child to the next generation. So I think it's important for listeners to understand
that if there's a failure to regulate
or to sort of scaffold the infant and child
in developing their own regulations,
that's gonna persist until there is some corrective course
or it won't, there won't be any corrective course.
And I think that's kind of what we're seeing now
is that a lot of these failures have sort of aggregated
in the culture and you're seeing that play out
as sort of a more of a macro social level.
So let's, I'm gonna walk you through
a very brief description of a,
let's call it a summary of proper infant development
and then I'll like you to comment on that
and flesh it out or offer criticisms if you will.
So you could imagine this neurologically and practically.
So an infant comes into the world
with a few primary emotions which develop across time,
a few primary motivations and a few wired up motor skills,
skills for action and perception.
So a very early, very young child, an infant,
can focus his eyes or her eyes on the face of the mother
at about the distance from breast to mother's face.
The sucking reflex, it's not precisely reflex
because it's more sophisticated than that.
The child's mouth and tongue are quite developed
when the child's born.
So you can imagine an animal like a deer or a moose,
something like that.
Very soon after they're born,
they can stand up and walk or even run.
Human infants can't, but we do come equipped into the world
with some hard wiring and our lips and our tongues
work pretty well.
And so we can latch onto a nipple say,
and it's partly also why very young children
put things in their mouth because the motor
and sensory apparatus of the tongue and lips are there.
The child sort of develops from that outward,
it develops from the center outward.
The basic emotional structure
is positive and negative emotion,
but it works on a very, very short-term basis,
and it's very focused on the immediate needs of the child.
And so, and those emotions are very intense
and all-consuming. And they can, the negative emotions are very intense and all consuming.
And they can, the negative emotions can include pain.
It's there at the beginning.
Anger, that's there very early.
Fear, that develops about when the child starts to become,
to be able to move.
And on the positive emotional side,
well, interest, excitement, enthusiasm,
certainly the capacity for love,
those are all there.
What the parent and the social environment is trying to do
with that panoply of motivations and emotions
is to further the skill development,
but also help the child learn to integrate its emotions
in a playful manner with the family
and then a broader social community
and to facilitate that movement from egocentricity
to thoroughly engaged social play.
And rough and tumble play helps with that.
And so does the more subtle forms of play
that a mother might engage in.
And hopefully that gets to the point
whereby the age of about three,
a child that would otherwise be egocentric
and hyper-emotional is now able to take the stance
of another person and start to develop the ability
to play and to engage in turn-taking reciprocal friendships.
And then those friendships scaffold further development
from the age of four onward.
And the best evidence that I had come across
and I haven't reviewed this literature for a long time
was that there was something like a critical stage
of development for play between the ages of two and four such that if a more aggressive and emotional child
wasn't socialized into proper play behavior by the age of four, it was very difficult for them
to establish friendships and they tended to fall further and further behind and to be isolated and alienated and sometimes criminal
for the rest of their lives.
So anyways, that's my memory of the developmental literature
in a nutshell.
And so elaborate on that, criticize that,
tell me what you think about that as a model.
I think as a model,
that's kind of a broad generalized overview
that's pretty on point.
I would say our sort of understanding of critical points of time is still fluid.
We're still looking at that in the literature.
But I'm glad you brought up sort of the basic instincts and drives because I was just discussing
this the other day on another show that the best sort of analogy or best sort of understanding
to give your listeners would be there's a
paradigm in infant research called the face-to-face still face paradigm.
And basically what that is, is it illustrates everything you just said with remarkable clarity.
Basically the paradigm is this, it's a well-known paradigm in developmental tradition.
Usually an infant and a mother is brought into the lab or in some cases, it's father
too.
I don't want to emphasize the mother, or in some cases, his father too. I don't wanna emphasize the mother,
but in most cases, that is true.
And you place the infant in a car seat
and in front of the mother or the caregiver,
and you have them looking at each other.
They're separated by maybe a little bit of space.
And the paradigm is this,
you have three minutes of free play
where the mother usually engages facially
and communicatively with the infant.
Then you have a two-minute period where the mother sits back kind of like I'm doing now and maintains a completely
still face. And then you have a follow-up three-minute period where they resume interaction.
And one of the best replicated effects in all of infant literature is during that still face when the parent cuts off that social communication, those facial gestures, the
infant's negative affect just rockets up.
And I've seen this in the lab myself, crying, squirming in the car seat, and so forth.
And then typically we call that the still face effect.
And then the reunion, once there's a rapprochement
and the mother engages typically,
or the caregiver engages back
with this emotional communication, gestures,
like you said, sort of social play,
the infant is still highly negative in effect,
but there's sort of a deadening of that
sort of towards a more positive, affective tone.
Typically by the end of that three minutes,
there's some sort of reintegration.
And that little encapsulated eight minute sequence
right there illustrates in sort of a tight way
what's happening all across infancy and childhood.
And so what we can see from that procedure
is that if there's inability of sort of the reunion effect,
if there's still consistent negativity,
you kind of get a window into how that socialization
process is maybe going.
And so during the reunion, what we typically see
is that the caregiver will work to reengage,
you know, to lessen the negative affect in the infant.
And so that's kind of the basic sort of analogy to use
even in later development is what the idea is,
the parent is scaffolding in many ways
that regulation of emotion.
And as the child ages, that includes things like
letting the child explore the environment.
What if the child is out and playing on the street,
has a fall, they're injured, how does that process
of seeking comfort work out?
And how does the parent regulate sort of the need
for autonomy from a need for closeness
and some sort of protection as the child grows?
Right, well, and we should point out too
that this is a very tricky business in the real world
for parents to negotiate,
not least because children vary widely
in their intrinsic levels of negative emotion.
And so there are children who are by temperament,
they're much more likely to become upset,
but also once upset are much more difficult to soothe.
And so how in the lab do you separate out
or can you at all the competence of the parent
in reestablishing that relationship
and the intrinsic sensitivity or trait neuroticism
of the child who's involved?
Well, that's kind of what gets down to the heart
of the methodology about some of this work
that's been so degraded with the current insanity that we're living through in the academy. So we have these gold standard measures that measure
infant temperament, which is essentially personality and infant. And we have measures that we have,
you know, coded observational protocols to look at how sensitive, for example, the parent is being
towards the child in a free play setting or the still face.
How much do they look?
How much do they engage?
And you can code all of that.
And then you can look at that
in a multivariable analytic framework.
So that's one way to do that.
But what you point out with sort of the basic
instinctual drives, as well as the sort of social influence
is crucial because now there's sort of a hyper focus on the only reason
that, for example, an infant or a child could become
screwed up in a way or maladjusted is from social influences.
There's never a proper accounting of the role
that temperament does play.
Some children are much more difficult to soothe.
And that's why Winnicott and others beyond him
Emphasized that the parents role is not to be perfect
They got to do the best they can to to manage those different levels of baseline negative
affectivity and other sort of intrinsic characteristics of their child, but there's become a
Constant hyper focus in today's culture about this idea of perfection and the perfect child
or the perfect environment.
And I think that has led to a lot of the sort of
the notion of the suffocation or the devouring mother
that is actually, you know,
enicimal to healthy development.
You might say as a rule of thumb
that the combined influence of the mother and father
should be about as positive and about as negative
as the typical potentially social interaction
that a child's likely to have in the world, right?
So you can think of parents as caregivers,
but as the child matures,
the parents should also become proxies for the
actual social world that the child's most likely to encounter.
So one of the reasons that disciplinary strategies are necessary with regards to the fostering
of infant and toddler development is that parents obviously have to prepare their children to behave in
the real world.
And that means that the child has to learn to integrate their emotions into a framework
of behavior and attention that other people find attractive and inviting.
And that the, see, when I worked in the developmental field, which was back in then,
mostly in the nineties, mid nineties to say mid 2000s,
or the first decade of the 2000s,
I was struck and hurt in some ways by the fact that
the destiny of children who aren't well socialized
between that age of two and four is pretty damn dismal.
And it really struck home for me,
the necessity of parents to do everything they could
to encourage another instinct in their children,
which is that instinct towards mastery and integration.
You know, we talked about the instinctual basis
of negative emotion and positive emotion,
but there's also an instinct
towards integration, which is probably associated with the transfer of behavioral control from the
more primordial and immediate emotional systems to the more distal and social systems that are
mediated by the cortex, which takes a lot more socialization, so to speak, to program.
And so the reason that parents need to regulate the emotions of their children is, first of all,
so their children won't be suffering as a consequence of the domination of their negative
emotion, but also so that other people can appreciate or even stand having their children around so they'll play with them and educate them.
And so if you're at the beck and call
of your infant constantly,
and you're doing that in part
because you can't tolerate any distress
on the part of the infant,
or you're covertly rewarding the infant's infantile behavior
so that he or she won't leave, you're covertly rewarding the infant's infantile behavior
so that he or she won't leave, then you're absolutely devastating there.
You're destroying the possibility
that they're going to be able to have friends
and thrive in the world.
And so why do you think,
do you think there's any evidence that that
developmental process has been interfered with at a societal level now?
Well, that's right. What you said is right. It's completely a fair description of sort of this
process of impulse control development and so forth. And I think, you know, there's a lot of
work that has been done regarding sort of broad based trends and sort of helicopter
parenting or parental over involvement.
And I think that's exactly what's happening, at least at some sort of generalized level
in the larger culture.
If there's an inability for the child to engage the environment because they're constantly
dependent on the parent for whatever reason, either to fulfill the parent because they're constantly dependent on the parent for whatever
reason either to fulfill the parent's needs of their own emotional satisfaction or to
fulfill the child's need who's never told you need to explore the environment, which
you see as an inability to regulate the impulses.
And that ends up in down the road a complete failure.
And that's kind of what
you see in the phenotype of some of this cluster B stuff we're seeing play out on
the tent cities and these campus protests, for example. Even in 2020,
with a lot of the rioting, it's just sort of this completely emotionally
dysregulated behavior. And that's downstream from the millennial generation being raised in sort of this different
way than was 30, 40 years ago where the child went out, they explored, a lot of sort of
commentators have noted, you went and played it on the street till it got dark and you
came home.
That isn't happening anymore.
And so what is the sort of effect or can we sort of quantify in some way what that's doing?
I think there's definitely evidence for this playing out.
There's definitely evidence for an influence
of some of this overprotection.
But in terms of, and this is one of the things
that the ideologues in the academy will do,
is they want you to sort of mechanistically find grain,
measure this, and make the case for it in sort of a mechanistic way.
And that's sort of the challenge that someone like me is faced with.
We can see with our own eyes these trends playing out.
But then how do we frame it in an academic methodological way to make the case?
And I think we are at that point, but there has to be room in the academy to investigate these questions.
They can't be censored.
They can't be allowed to be not asked.
And so grant money needs to be funded
for those types of things.
But I definitely think there's evidence
for these types of large trends that we're seeing.
I mean, we see them with our own eyes.
And so it's undeniable in the sense that
you can look at something that's happening earlier
and you can see something that's happening now
and you can make the link,
but the challenge is really formalizing that
in some sort of methodology.
Right, yeah, well, Jonathan Haidt and Greg Lukianoff
have been struggling with that.
Abigail Shrier is another one.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So let me offer some sociological explanations
for this dysregulation,
because I'm always inclined to,
well, you have to give the devil is due.
And as you said,
if you're going to consider multiple variables,
you consider sociological and economic variables
along with psychological variables.
So tell me what you think about these contributors.
So while now we have older parents, often old enough so that under normal human conditions,
they would have been grandparents.
And so older parents are more conservative and they also tend to be richer
and they have far fewer children.
So they have all their eggs in one basket, so to speak.
Plus they're more conservative
and they can also provide for their children
in a way that makes saying no to their wants
dependent on the decision of the parent
rather than the restrictions of their economic circumstances.
So those are three big changes, right?
So now let's say the typical mother is 30,
let's say the, and because she's 30,
likely to be in more positive economic circumstances
and therefore able to respond to the child's demands
with the provision of material wealth.
Then we also have the fact that
there's far fewer children in each family.
And so that means each child doesn't have to contend
in what's likely a beneficial way,
at least under some circumstances,
with a multiplicity of siblings
with whom they have to share the attention and resources
and learn how to get along with, right,
in that intense cooperative and competitive environment
that characterizes a sibling relationship.
And then we also have the additional problem
of single parents or parents with multiple relationships
who've had disrupted familial relationships themselves.
Then we have the problem as well
that there just aren't as many children out on the street.
There aren't mothers watching them all the time
like there were when there were neighborhoods
full of children.
And so, and then, so that's, that's in some sense
independent of the psychological variables
that we've been describing.
So what does the current literature in relationship to developmental psychopathology have to say about those longer term sociological transformations?
Well, I think that's an excellent question. It isn't really being asked in the developmental psychology literature, at least to the extent that I've seen it recently,
the developmental psychology literature tends to be heavily focused on sort of a mechanistic
investigation of things in infancy or childhood with less of a focus on those broad-based
trends that you just mentioned.
I think that's one area that needs to be improved in the literature.
Obviously, single parenting has been studied,
but the role of what you're noting,
these more broad-based secular trends, for example,
of older parenting, fewer children,
to my knowledge, at least,
at least in terms of the literature scope
that I have looked at recently,
those types of questions aren't being asked,
because in part, I think,
the answers is not what the ideologues
in the academy want to hear, that there is sort of evidence for some of the things that
they don't want said.
The role of younger parents and single parenting and older parents has to be all looked at
with sort of an equipoise that is not really happening right now in developmental psych. And that's one of the limitations of developmental psych is it's so fine-grained and focused on some
of these more fine-tuned interactions like I mentioned to you with the face-to-face still face,
and they miss the forest by focusing exclusively on the trees. And so I think we need to get back to some of these bigger questions that are asking,
why do we see a generation growing up in the way they are
with sort of an undeniable, I guess,
less of an ability to regulate their emotions
than previous generations?
How much of that is due to actual three things, really?
How much of it is due to their inborn temperament?
How much of it is due to being differences
in how they were reared?
But also how much of it is due to differences
in the larger cultural milieu
and how that's influencing their decisions,
perhaps consciously to regulate
or not regulate their emotions.
Okay, so we can add some additional variables there
that need to be considered.
So, Height, Jonathan Height has been making a strong case
for the danger of, let's call it-
Social media.
Well, yeah, but we can expand that a bit
because it's, I've talked to some of the leaders,
let's say, of the social media networks
about Height's concerns.
And they made some very interesting points
is it's social media to some degree
and the intense competitiveness, abstraction
and backbiting that characterize those realms.
But the thing is, it isn't obvious at all
that children and adolescents are spending the bulk
of their time on social media per se.
Depends on how you define it.
So they're also texting instead of interacting face
to face, for example.
And then they're also exposing themselves
to other content online like pornography.
But then there's something more fundamental, I think,
that's often missed, which is that,
see, when we had little kids back in the 90s,
my wife and I were the youngest parents we knew
with the oldest kids, even though we weren't that young,
we didn't start having kids till we were in our late 20s.
Now, one of the things that would happen
was that we would take our kids over to other houses
that had children.
And when we got there,
the parents would put on a television show
for the kids to watch,
which I was never happy with
because what should have happened
was the kids were thrown into the basement, so to speak,
and with nothing to do so that they had to play.
And so they could watch TV.
And of course they were quiet
if they were doing that,
but they weren't inventing their own dramas.
They weren't interacting face to face in a manner
that made them come up with the creative conceptualizations
that characterized dramatic play,
like playing house, for example,
that lay the bloody groundwork
for future adult relationships.
Now, and that was TV, that had nothing on screens
because everyone was concerned
about the detrimental effect of TV back then,
but my God, now, you know, screens are absolutely everywhere.
So the screens have content,
but they also interfere with child's play.
And so I'd like your opinion about that.
And also one other thing that I've been thinking about. Let me tell me what you think about this. You know, I watch all these strange
identity issues that are emerging in adolescence and even on university campuses in early adulthood,
this preoccupation with sexual identity, with gender identity, and also the variant forms of even more imaginative play that are associated with that,
like the furry culture, for example, and the anime culture.
And what I see there is delayed dramatic play, right?
So I'm wondering if what's happening to some of these kids
is that they get away from this oppressive family
environment where they're never allowed any freedom.
They burst out at say the age of 17 or 18,
and then they have to frenetically engage
in a dramatic search for identity
because they didn't do it when they were like three,
which is when it really needs to happen.
We radically underestimate the significance
of dramatic play.
Then we have dramatic play on the part of rebellious
adolescents constantly, you know, as they protest in the streets. That's right, 100%. You know, I've
spoken with Jonathan Haidt and others and I've really been kind of engaged in the discourse about
the role of social media, you know, and how that plays into the development of emotional regulation.
You're right. How do we define that? But I think your point about, you know, and how that plays into the development of emotional regulation. You're right.
How do we define that?
But I think your point about, you know, it's basically more broadly than just whether they're
on TikTok or whether they're on Facebook or whether they're, you know, on Snapchat.
It's looking at a screen rather than at another face.
And you see that wherever you go.
I mean, even when I do work in a supermarket deli now
on a part-time basis, customers will come in,
they'll be looking at their phone,
or I'll be trying to look at my phone.
And it's a completely different world and landscape
that we're now in that has sort of taken away
the normal face-to-face, communicative,
rough-and-tumble play where you're actually physically
looking at somebody rather than at a screen or your
your attention is not constantly looking at a screen. So it's much more broader.
And I think the other point too, you said, well it's not just social media. You're right.
It's social media combined with an increasing secularism that has basically, we've lost all sense of moral constraints.
So when there's no sort of,
when there's sort of a weakening of all, you know,
traditional classical religions,
and there's no orienting structure,
you get thrown into the social media world
where you can basically create anything,
that gives rise to what we see as this complete inability
to form, you know, an identity in early childhood.
Now they're on the screens where there's just basically a consumer market for identities,
whether that's identities as furries, whether it's an identity as gender identity, or even, like you say,
I mean, it's a complete role-playing world now that's happening on social media.
And one of the individuals who's done a lot of great work on this is Catherine D., who's
default friend on Twitter.
She's looked at some of this, and I think we're missing to a certain extent, and all
the discourse around the role of social media on mental health, and the ability to establish
a strong identity
is the fact that we're now moving into a different era
where we're actually living online rather than in the world.
And that's why I've been constantly stressing the need
for athletics-based programs or environmental programs
where children are in nature to get away from this sort of movement to a world that's completely imaginary online.
Because that leads to all sorts of limitless ability to establish identities that while they may exist in this creative realm, when you get back into the real world, they're useless.
They're dysfunctional really.
And that's sort of what we see.
Well, they're also not subject, as far as I can tell,
they're also not subject to the constraints
that are characteristic of the real world.
Like one of the things I've been very concerned about,
I'd like your thoughts on this is,
I think it was, what's the boxer's name, Mike Tyson,
who so famously said the problem with the virtual world is that it's made all of you all too
comfortable with never getting punched when you deserve it. Now that's a bad paraphrase, but he did
actually say that. And I think there's something about that that's actually very interesting and very correct.
You know, one of the, I don't know how many comments I've looked at online, but it's tens
of thousands, you know, and I've started to develop something like a troll taxonomy. And,
you know, there is a culture online they call lulz culture. that's laugh out loud or I did it for the lulz and it's
basically a culture of sadists and psychopaths and this is actually quite well documented in
the relevant research literature because there has been ongoing research into the personality
structure of provocative trolls and they're dark tetrad types. So they'd fit into the cluster B psychopathology.
They are narcissistic.
So they want unearned attention.
They're Machiavellian.
So they use their language as a tool to manipulate
rather than to communicate.
They're psychopathic,
which means they're predatory parasites.
And that wasn't good enough as it turned out
because that was the dark triad.
They had to add sadistic to that.
And that's where the lulz element really comes into play
because the sadist takes positive delight
in the suffering of others.
And that's really the nature of lulz culture.
And it can thrive online because, well,
people say things online all the time
that would get them an immediate slap in the real world,
like a morally required immediate slap.
And so they say things that now,
and the reason that concerns me,
see, my sense is that we know that the base rate
of psychopathy across cultures is about 4%,
which isn't that high. But we also know that there were
historical epochs in which the cluster B personality types probably got the upper hand. And I would
suspect that happened in the French Revolution. I think it probably happened in the Russian
Revolution. Probably happened during the rise of the Nazis in National Socialist Germany.
in National Socialist Germany, you don't need that many people to be disinhibited
in their psychopathology before your culture
might be in grave danger.
And that's particularly true if they can organize,
which they can really do online.
And so I'm very concerned that the incentive structure
online facilitates dark tetrad behavior. concerned that the incentive structure online
facilitates dark tetrad behavior.
Now there's more evidence too, right?
Because here's another problem.
25% or thereabouts of online content is pornographic.
So basically criminal, right?
It's basically prostitution facilitated by electronic pimps.
So that's not good.
And then a tremendous amount of online activity
is outright criminal, right?
I mean, older people are just being scammed
on like an unbelievably constant basis.
And so it might be that 50% of online activity
is in the psychopathic, ant-social and cluster B realm.
It's very, very difficult to regulate.
And my suspicions are, is that spilling over
in really a really counterproductive manner
into the actual flesh and blood world.
And so, you know, I'm curious about your thoughts
about that because one of the things that's odd
about you on Twitter in a good way is that you are constantly drawing
people's attention to the relationship
between cluster B psychopathology
and online and political behavior.
And so what do you think about that as a hypothesis
with regard to the pathological incentive structure
of the virtual world, right?
Maybe it's a non-playable degenerating game.
It could be.
Well, I think in a lot of ways that's exactly why.
I know you're familiar with the paper that I wrote on this.
Social media is an incubator of all this cluster B type of stuff because on social media you
have this indirect communicative language based amplification of all these traits,
whereas male aggression in the real world, it doesn't scale.
You have an encounter, there's something said, somebody gets punched in the face, and that's it.
What you have is, on social media, indirect aggression, and you have all these traits and antagonism and histrionic behavior
that just basically gets amplified
and emotionally resonates and resonates and resonates
and blooms out and it builds and builds and builds.
And one of the best examples of that
is what we saw with Hamas.
I mean, they filmed all their atrocities
as they were going into Israel.
And that was one of the most interesting
in a morbid way kind of aspects of that incursion
was it was just filmed.
They were basically in fact doing it for the laws, regardless of whether you think on how
much atrocities or what was the exact specific atrocities that were committed.
They were filming them on GoPro for exactly that reason and to amplify that.
And so, you know know that is one way for
a perfect example of how this is all spoured out of control and I will I will
say for myself you know others have written about the cluster B stuff in
terms of political ideology and how that's played out before um you know the
famous Lobos that Lobos Oresky is one of them and others so But I just see it so clearly because when you look
at the traits and you look at what's happening online,
it's a perfect incubator for all these just to continue
to amplify and amplify and amplify without any mechanism
that limits it and it just spills out.
And then what happens is you have an event
like October 7th, or you have an event like what you're seeing on these campus tent cities.
All that's mediated and amplified online and then it gets played out with all this
petulance and romper room behavior on campuses. Yeah okay so let's dig into that two ways.
So the first thing I'd like to point out, and you can comment on this if you would,
is that, you know, you mentioned that male aggression doesn't scale well and it doesn't
work that well in the real world, and that's definitely the case. I mean, one of the things
that my daughter was often perplexed about when she was growing up in our household with our brother is the difference in response pattern
to aggression between boys and between girls.
So my son and his teenage friends
would not that infrequently have an altercation,
sometimes it might even come to brief blows,
but, and that would end it.
And that would often not only not stop a friendship,
but strengthen it.
Partly because they knew where they stood with each other.
Now this didn't happen that often,
but the threat of it happening was always there.
Now with the girls, by contrast,
they could backbite and gossip and screech and moan
and bitch and kill each other virtually online.
And there was no limit to it.
And it was very difficult to limit at all.
It's definitely the case that female style
anti-social behavior is unbelievably difficult to regulate.
Now, having said that, I'm not blaming the females
for online pathological behavior,
although there's certainly the female equivalent of that
in places like TikTok.
But what I do see happening is that the histrionic,
narcissistic and borderline, the men who have those traits
can get away with that kind of female type antisocial behavior online,
that gossiping and backbiting and reputation savaging
and outright Machiavellian deception
with absolutely no consequences or even worse,
with a certain level of perverse reward
because attention is brought to it
and maybe even amplified by the social media companies.
So that's not good to say the least.
Now, let's add one more thing to that
that people need to understand.
So, you know, the conflict between Hamas, let's say,
and the people of Israel,
and the rest of the bloody world for that matter,
can be construed as a political
or as a religious or economic battle.
But you put your finger on something
that's absolutely vital.
So the cluster B types, the psychopaths
and the narcissists and the Machiavellians,
they're unbelievably good at using proclamations
of victimization to justify their aggression
and also to camouflage what they're doing
with a moral story.
And so like when I think of violent religious fundamentalists,
I don't actually generally think of the religion itself
as a motivation, even though it can be.
I think of the psychopathic, power-striving,
narcissistic Machiavellian adopting the cloak
of the religious, that's what the Pharisees do
in the gospels, by the way,
and they're Christ's biggest enemy.
They adopt the camouflage of moral virtue,
religious, economic, or social,
and then they pretend to be the good guys,
while in fact they're ravening,
what did Christ call them?
The ravening graves that would devour even the ancestors
that they claim to worship.
And so I think that as a culture,
we're radically underestimating the perverse consequences
of the intermingling of the cluster B psychopathologies
with the hypothetically religious,
political and economic, right?
We're making them primary when in fact,
the pathology, the cluster B pathology
is probably the primary problem.
So maybe when you see people involved in sectarian violence,
the first thing you should ask yourself is,
well, is that sectarian violence
or is that just an excuse for the cane-like narcissists
to get the upper hand?
So what do you think about that?
I think that's exactly right.
I see the world from that lens of looking at psychopathology
as opposed to the background religion itself,
clearly there's definitely historical religious conflicts that motivate some of this.
But I see it much more from the perspective of how does this culture give rise to these
macro-social, what I consider, contagions of these cluster B traits.
You mentioned lying and
you know moral virtue and I think one of the things that I just made this point a couple of days ago with regards to what's happening here in the States and sort of the lies that the mainstream media have told about Joe Biden is that
There's lying that most corrupt politicians will do
Many people lie there's white lies and so forth. And then there's lying but moralizing
that lie. And moralizing that lie, in my view, is much more worse and psychopathic than just some
lie that you beat some kid on the street the other day and it never happened. And you see that's the
strategy that they use. They lie, but they moralize it. They're the oppressed. They're the victims. So that gives them the currency to then create and engage in all sorts of atrocities or behaviors that somehow are socially acceptable.
And you mentioned too the sort of male instantiation of these cluster B traits.
And that's something I saw during COVID online too. A lot of the female scholars that I was, you know,
collaborating with at one point,
or that kind of grew to new who were doing COVID work
or pushing for the elimination of mask mandates
or saying that lockdowns were harmful,
they were getting attacked by these male, narcissistic,
you know, what I would consider trolls on Twitter who had
credential degrees but they were constantly bullying these female nurses,
doctors, and so forth in the most trollish way. And so that that sort of
manifestation was something that was very glaring. That would have never played
out in the real world. It was only made possible by the sort of milieu of the
social environment of the internet and social media. And it was something that really bothered
me. And so there's this idea that you moralize that, you know, a few people might be harmed
by lockdowns, but the majority of the population won't be. And it's the majority of the population
that were in fact harmed.
Yeah, so hey, so when you watched the Hamas atrocities and you said that what you saw first and foremost was the pathology case, so I want to delve into that a little bit, eh? Because one of the things that's really struck me about the peculiar times that we're in
is the dissociation of atrocity from guilt.
So one of the things that you had to give the Nazis
credit for, so to speak, is that they were guilty
about their crimes and they tried to hide them.
And one of the things that I see at the moment
that's so unbelievably pathological
that I can hardly get my head around it
is that the butchery on the trans side, for example,
is trumpeted as a moral virtue, right?
There's no attempt to hide what's going on.
In fact, it's brought forward
as something that's positive.
Now that's associated in a way with what you saw
with regard to the Hamas massacres
is that this is actually being reveled in.
Again, we're going to talk about this independent
of the hypothetical reasons for the cause.
I mean, people, you just think about it, man.
The sadistic types want to claim victimization
because they're also predatory parasites.
And if you're a victim,
then other people have to kowtow to you
and take care of you.
And we know that half of criminal lifestyle
is parasitical lifestyle, right?
There's the rule breaking and the actual crime,
but the other part, that's the predation.
But the other part of it is
living off the work of other people
in an insanely unconscious manner
and coming up with a story to justify it.
You know, that the successful
are just thieves themselves, for example,
or that nobody really works to get what they deserve.
There's no really such thing as merit.
There's only power.
And so since everyone's a thief,
there's no reason not to get in there
and get some of your own, you know?
And so you watched the tapes
with the eye of a psychopathologist.
And so what do you think you saw?
Well, what I saw was the valorization
of sadistic behavior,
and not just sexually sadistic behavior,
but the killing and mass slaughter of people.
It was sort of meant, it was meant to be propagated
on the screen for that exact reason,
to be seen as something to be glamorized.
And I think in part, they sort of wanted to valorize it
as somehow, in a way, it was allowable for some sort of wanted to valorize it as somehow,
in a way it was allowable for some sort of oppression that they had experienced at the hands of,
Israeli occupation or the situation in Gaza.
But you can also see that, like you say,
in the trans movement, online, Reddit, TikTok,
there's a glamorization about this stuff that is sort of so widely
discrepant from what is actually happening in the actual perpetration of, in the case
of the trans stuff, the mangling and the confusion of children and other negative effects that
this leads to, that it's almost something that they're trying to create
an environment where it's seen as heroic
to engage in these behaviors when in fact,
it's just the opposite.
And that's made possible by the social media landscape
where you can click like and you can get all the retweets
and shares or create these echo chambers.
But it's a parasitic lifestyle, which is exactly what
Herbie Kleckle, who really was sort of behind the original construct of psychopathy,
that's exactly what he identified, this parasitic lifestyle.
And they moralize that type of behavior as virtuous.
It's like virtuous victimhoodhood and it's very toxic.
Virtuous victimhood valorizing sadism.
You mentioned lying. There's lying and then there's lying that there's moralization of the lie.
And I see the latter, moralization of the lie is much, much worse.
And we see that just recently, I'm sure you're aware of we had a debate here in the States,
Biden and Trump.
It's obvious that Biden is cognitively really struggling.
And we all knew this for many years.
But the mainstream media constantly
moralized this lie that it was somehow unfair to criticize
Biden for that or to acknowledge that.
That's much worse, in view than, you know,
Trump just shooting off some ridiculous remark
that's clearly a lie, but it's not,
he's not moralizing that lie.
He's not saying you're a bad person because you, you know,
you basically observe with your own eyes
what we've all known about Biden for four years.
And so I see the latter as much more psychopathic,
parasitic, and toxic to a culture than the former.
So, okay, so I'm gonna tell you a frightening story
and you tell me what you think about it.
This is, maybe this is too pessimistic,
but I'm still working that out.
To what degree do we have moral instincts, let's say,
that are in keeping with the self-sacrificing ethos
of a complex civilization?
How much of that is part and parcel
of our inborn conscience?
Cleckley, of course, defined the psychopaths
as someone without a conscience
or with a very underdeveloped conscience.
So I read two books in quick succession.
One of them was a book by the Dutch primatologist who unfortunately is recently deceased, Franz
de Waal, one of his books on chimpanzee behavior.
I don't remember which one because I read a number of his books, but he detailed out
the phenomenon of chimpanzee war, essentially.
And this was first discovered, I believe, by Jane Goodall, who was pretty flipped upside
down by the revelation, as she should have been, because, of course, the sociological
types in the lefties
and the cultural constructionists like to think
that the human proclivity for warfare
is a consequence of corrupt social structure.
A theory which is shot to hell
by the fact that chimpanzees go to war,
which indicates that it's much more an inherent part
of our primate nature than anyone wants to think.
So what happens with the chimps is
that the juveniles in particular will go on parties around the borders of their territory,
let's say. They have a fairly acute sense of territory. And if they come across chimpanzees
from another troop and they outnumber them, because they have a rudimentary sense of amount anyways, they can't count but they have a sense of amount, they'll attack them sometimes with juvenile
females accompanying them and they tear them to shreds, right? So what seems to be the case is that
the case is that in the absence of a social hierarchy
that limits aggression. So if a male gets too aggressive in a troop,
the rest of the troop gets upset
and generally the alpha male will step into quallet
or the rest of the troop will.
So you can think about the troop's level
of negative emotion as an inhibitory function, has an inhibitory function.
It clamps down on male aggression,
which might otherwise have no limit.
Okay, so why would I say no limit?
Well, because when you look at the chimpanzees go to war,
when they're attacking a troop member
that has no social standing,
which would be a member of another troop,
there's no limit to what they'll do.
Now chimpanzees are capable of hunting.
They hunt 40 pound colobus monkeys
and they'll eat them alive while they're screaming.
So it isn't obvious that the distress of another primate
has much inhibitory force.
And so they'll use their jaws to castrate the other chimpanzees, for example, and literally
tear their skin off.
And they're very, very powerful.
They're very, very strong, about six times as strong as the typical adult male.
So look the hell out if you're attacked by a chimpanzee.
Okay.
So the hypothesis there would be our closest primate
relatives have no inhibition whatsoever on their capacity for aggression once they're outside the
confines of a well-constituted social hierarchy. Okay, so soon after that I read The Rape of Nanking
which is a book about as brutal as any book you might ever come across, and it details the magnitude of Japanese atrocity in the city of Nanking just prior to World War II.
And there isn't... you'd have to be one pathological person indeed to imagine, even in the wildest extremes of your most vicious fantasies, anything worse than what happened in Nanking.
You could take the worst possible chimpanzee troop
and equip them with a much more sadistic imagination
and let, send and set them free to do anything
they could possibly imagine.
And that's what happened in Nanking.
And so then I started thinking, oh my God,
does that actually mean that there's no limit
on human aggression outside of like social hierarchy?
Essentially, because there were a lot of normal
Japanese soldiers that were involved in this.
It was certainly contagious.
Now, undoubtedly it was led by the bloody psychopathic
sadistic types and it was certainly the case
that the Japanese government had instilled in their troops
a sense of ethnic superiority with regard to the Chinese
and dehumanization of the Chinese.
But that in itself isn't enough to account
for this stunning sadistic brutality.
And so, that would indicate that,
well, what does it indicate?
It indicates that that psychopathic and sadistic tendency might be a lot more transmissible than we think at the at minimum
Yeah, I think the the abolition of
Hierarchies has led to worse
hierarchies in almost every
situation and historical circumstance we can think of.
Hierarchies are an ingrained part of human behavior.
And when you try to replace them with some other utopian scheme where there is no hierarchy
or dominance hierarchy, what you end up with is what you just described.
And I think that's really what the tyranny of structuralist-ness is all about.
When there is no hierarchy or guiding set of principles to create a hierarchy, you just have
complete structuralist-ness. And to think about it, that's what you see in all this cluster B
behavior. It's completely dysregulated. There's no structure to any of their behavior.
And that's really what's at the heart of,
I think, the cultural malaise that we're living through
is that all of these ideologues want to abolish structure
or categories, whether that's categories in mental health,
diagnostic classifications, law in society.
And you see this with some of the LGBTQ T plus 3,000 hundred world things,
they want to abolish any type of constraint.
And as Reef, one of the cultural commentators, Philip Reef, who is no longer with us,
once you have a culture in which man is allowed to express anything, you have a culture in crisis. You have no constraints on the ability of anybody to live any pathology they want or
do anything they want.
There's nothing, no hierarchy, no containment at all to some of the underlying tyrannical
behavior that can be given rise to when you have a lack of structure or containment.
So you have a culture in crisis right now because
they're trying to abolish all structure, all containment, all hierarchy, and that's just a
recipe for cultural disintegration. All right, so okay, so on that note, let's turn to the more
particularly personal. So I sat on a lot of university hiring committees at Harvard and at the University of Toronto,
and I've evaluated a lot of CVs and your CV is good.
It might be very good.
You have an age index of 34,
which means that you have 34 papers
with more than 34 citations.
And so that's at minimum respectable
and a citation count of about 5,000.
And for those of you listening,
scientific productivity and merit is quantified,
not least by observing how many other scientists
cite someone's work,
that is referred to it in their own writing,
in their own research.
Now it's not a perfect measure
because you can be cited for being hyper-popular in a sense,
or you can be cited for publishing an erroneous paper
that people are required to refer to.
But by and large,
citation count is actually a good predictor
of future productivity.
It's about the best predictor we have actually
that in pure number of papers.
And so number of well-cited papers is also a good indicator.
So on purely objective grounds, you're a contender, let's say,
and you can obviously speak and you can obviously think,
and you're very interested in research.
And so we might ask ourselves,
why aren't you employed in the academy?
And so do you want to tell that story?
And you were at the University of Toronto in the psychiatry department.
Tell everyone what happened and how things ended up for you and why, as far as you're
concerned.
I think there's a number of different things that I've thought.
Obviously I have no specific answers to why I'm not in the academy.
I have a number of different takes on why that may be, but a couple of different things.
A lot of my early work was in attachment, and that's a very nuanced field of research
that has its own people in the academy that do that kind of work and so forth and so on. Another reason is that I'm very strident in what I believe and what I say and what I feel.
And if you're a white male, and especially in psychology, and you're strident,
and you tend to be a little bit more outspoken, that's seen as being too disagreeable.
Once you get on faculty interviews, of which I've been on many, it becomes a personality
contest.
And I think in retrospect, I've been told things like I don't smile enough on faculty
interviews or other outlandish things that have nothing to do with my merit.
I'm sure that there's been faculty interviews or job market searches where I've given talks
that haven't been great as other talks.
So you never know the real reason why you don't end up
in the academy or you end up not staying in it.
As far as sort of where I'm at now,
when I was at the University of Toronto
and working at the medical hospital that I was there,
it was during that period of time
where things were getting very woke,
especially around the gender stuff.
I was working with people who, you know, they claim to be scientists who are rigorous,
and you have they, them, and their bios, and that to me was just outlandish.
I mean, how can you be at a medical research hospital
purporting an ideology that is totally disconnected from what we know about human sexual development?
So, I spoke out about that. totally disconnected from what we know about human sexual development.
So I spoke out about that.
I spoke out about things on acts like land acknowledgments and how they were just absolutely
ridiculous.
And they were being forced on people.
And I think that didn't make things sort of go well for me.
I have to say though that others have been canceled way worse than I was.
I don't have a typical cancellation story.
You have an invisible cancellation story.
And I actually think in some ways that's worse.
Look, one of the reasons I stopped working
at the University of Toronto was because,
while graduate students were interested in working with me,
but the whole point of having a graduate research student
fundamentally, if they're really research oriented,
is so that they can go off and have their own research lab
and pursue an academic career.
And I knew with 100% certainty
that any of the Caucasian males that worked with me,
or perhaps any females for that matter,
would be so tainted by their mere association with me
that the probability that they would ever get an interview
even let alone a job was essentially zero.
And so how in the world can I offer a person a position
even if they're interested in working with me
on those grounds?
And I know perfectly well that a fair bit of that is racial.
So if you're Caucasian,
you're much less likely to get an interview
at the same degree of merit.
100, that's 100% true.
And it's also true when it comes to gender.
So you're much less likely to get an interview
if you're male.
And so I also didn't want to partake in that anymore.
It's like, go to hell, you sons of bitches.
If that's what you want, you think I need you.
You've got another thing coming.
And so I don't know.
You know, I read recently
that 94% of the 300,000 jobs that were
94% of the 300,000 jobs that were distributed
in the aftermath of George Floyd's death went to non-white males, non-white non-males.
Right, sorry, I'm still not getting that right.
If you were white and male,
you didn't get one of those jobs, put it that
way. Right. And so that's inexcusable in my way of looking at things because I also know,
because I've done extensive work in psychometrics that we can assess merit, especially in the
scientific realm, with a fair degree of accuracy. And the best way to do that, as we already
discussed, is by just looking at publication record back before the whole goddamn publication system
has also become corrupt beyond comprehension.
So, you know, you say you didn't get canceled that hard,
which means you escaped without overt reputational damage
that was made public, but you don't have a bloody job.
And so that doesn't seem so minor to me,
given that you have a stellar academic record,
that you're obviously someone who's genuinely interested
in research and those people aren't that common.
And so where are you working now?
So I would see myself as having a soft cancellation.
What I've done is I've come back,
I've tried to build my social media platform
and prior to me leaving Toronto, I had numerous students reach out to me that wanted research, you
know, mentorship and so forth.
And those students came to me via the normal channels that you would when you're sort of
a professor at an institution.
And I got so many emails, I didn't know what to do with them all.
So I said, look, the more high merit ones that I saw, I could see from their CV know, I got so many emails. I didn't know what to do with them Also, I said look the the more high merit ones that I saw I could see from their CVs
I said, you know
if you're interested in getting some experience and you want to do it on an involuntary
Basis and just kind of work with me offline and you know through some of the projects that I have ongoing
Feel free to do so many took me up on that offer
I had them write sub stack pieces and tried to improve their writing skills in that way.
And some still do kind of engage with me.
We're doing a meta-analysis that I had started.
But as far as my current work,
it's kind of hard because you have to have
some sort of income.
So I've kind of take a part-time job at a deli,
cut some meat.
I see the working class culture.
I'm sort of in there, but it's very difficult
in the sense that to go from the sort of intellectual world
to the blue collar world, it is a dramatic change.
And you can't be as dialed into all the sort of
rapid pace intellectual stuff that's going on now.
And so that's really what I'm finding
challenging and difficult, but it is my love of research
that has kept me in this.
My students have kept me in this,
the ones that reach out to me via Twitter, via email,
or who have just seen what I've said on Twitter
and email me independently saying,
we thank you so much for speaking out.
Because a lot of the younger students,
whether they're undergraduates or early graduate students,
they don't have any,
either they don't have the temperament to speak out
or they don't have any, either they don't have the temperament to speak out or they don't feel that they can and giving them a voice has been hugely influential for me.
And so I guess right now I'm in sort of this transitional state where I am slated to do
some online teaching in the fall at my alma mater, the University of Miami, teaching some
stats there.
And that's, you know, I feel very empowered to do that
and continuing to work with my students.
But otherwise, it's just speaking out and trying to build your independent platform.
Another thing that I had happen is that through my substack writing,
a Pacific legal team picked up a case on my behalf.
We sued the University of Santa Cruz for their DEI statement requirement,
which all professors typically have to submit now as part of their job applications.
And that's still in the mix.
It's now with the judge.
There was a motion to dismiss, but that case is one that we filed sort of saying that,
look, DEI statements are a form of compelled speech.
And you're seeing now a lot of pushback on the DEI statements.
And so I'm hoping that my case,
you know, whether the case is dismissed or not, we'll continue to work against it,
but that's been hugely influential to me to see some of the legal stuff that goes on behind the scenes and how badly
there is sort of this reverse discrimination in DEI statements, which
are nothing more than political litmus tests, and they filter out if you're not on board with social
justice or equity or any of that stuff, forget it. So for me, that was just pointless. Why apply when
I have to submit stuff that I don't believe in? And I'm not someone who, you know, that would sit
well with me. So I want to sleep well at night. And sleeping well at night means staying true to who you are and what you believe.
And I'd rather do that and work at a deli
than have a position where people around me
are saying outlandish things
or they're sort of walking the walk
and they don't believe any of the stuff
that they've said socially.
Well, it's death for scientists because look,
well, okay, two things.
First of all, you know, I've seen very little evidence
in our discussion so far that you're particularly strident.
I've seen plenty of evidence that you're trying
to do your research and you're trying to go
where it takes you and that you are doing that
in a manner that's more overtly conservative
than the manner that might
characterize the demented progressives and the outright bloody cowardly liars that aggregate in
the psychology field at the moment. So there's that. So strident, like I don't see any evidence of
that at all in your comportment. You know, I've interviewed lots of people, like 500 people for YouTube alone.
And so, and I've sat on many, you know,
juridical committees trying to evaluate potential candidates
and there isn't a single bit of behavior
that you manifested today
that I would put in the strident camp.
In fact, when you're discussing
not only your research preoccupations and your beliefs,
but what's happened in your own personal life,
you're remarkably reserved and careful
in your choice of words.
So that's just rubbish.
It seems to me much more that, you know,
you ran into the trouble that you ran into
because you wouldn't go along with the lies.
And that's one of the things we should point out
to people who are watching and listening
is that that's the death of the scientific enterprise, right?
Because the only thing that makes science true
is the truth-seeking behavior on the part of scientists.
You can falsify your data at every level
in its recording, in its statistical analysis,
in its presentation at conferences,
in its publication in papers,
in your public discussions of it,
you can lie nonstop at all of those levels.
If you're incompetent or all you're doing
is pushing your career forward
because there's no objective truth
and you're not oriented right to the bloody core
of your soul for truth,
you're definitely not a scientist.
Because it's actually hard to be a scientist and it rubs against the grain, you know?
I mean, I had students who lost two years' work
because we wouldn't publish a paper
that they weren't able to replicate.
You know, there's a rule in my lab
is you don't get to publish your study,
even if it works, unless you can replicate it.
And so it would have been much easier on the students
and certainly better for me even if it works, unless you can replicate it. And so it would have been much easier on the students
and certainly better for me
in that narrow sense of career provision
if I would have just let my students publish
the first paper that they had positive results with.
But that's not acceptable because it pollutes the literature.
And if you believe in truth, you don't wanna do that.
If you don't wanna pursue a goddamn lie
for the rest of your life too,
because you've been such an idiot as a graduate student,
you allowed yourself to get deluded into believing
that you found something when you didn't.
So I despair of the Academy putting itself back together
on the research side.
I mean, again, that's pretty damn pessimistic,
but I don't see an alternative to it at the moment.
So it's not surprising you're on the outs.
I really have become much more pessimistic as well.
And even some of the students that work with me now
on an independent basis, I mean, you know,
I teach them a lot of skills that are relentless
in terms of, you know, when you do a meta analysis,
you have to do a complete literature review that's very detailed and systematic and they're
learning those skills, but it's a very aggressive and relentless pace
and they're learning how to do good research. There's no
immediate payoff, but that's really how the Academy is being degraded now with a
lot of what's happening is there's no attention to detail, there's no scientific rigor, and it's just anything goes.
And even when there is scientific rigor in the sense of appropriate methodology,
it's being wandered around ideologies where you might do a study.
There's a recent thread I did on Twitter where there's sort of a study on scales of identity dysfunction. And of course what you find in these scales is that there
is a structure of identity dysfunction that's associated with all this negative
mental health stuff, but when it comes to gender identity the authors in the
discussion talk about how well we can't evaluate these associations in this, you
know, in the gender diverse population because they're not cis normative. And so that's sort of a soft normalization
of psychopathology in my view.
It's not true scientific research.
They see what they see in terms of the statistics
and then they try to write it off
by defining a population as somehow deserving
of less scrutiny or different scrutiny.
And that's really, to me, even if you want to take that view,
you have to be, you know, have to demonstrate equal poise
about what you're doing, and they don't do that.
I think that word, cis, is a curse.
I hated that word when it first popped up.
I knew exactly what those goddamn lefties were up to
with that progressive radicals were up to
with the misuse of language in that regard.
I was just going to say, sis, it's basically the elimination of structure.
It's basically defining sort of a normative and trying to eliminate any sort of hierarchy
or any sort of structure to what we've understood in the natural world for a long time.
And that gets back to what we were earlier talking about.
It's complete abolition of structure,
the complete abolition of any definition of normativity.
And when you do that at scale, you have a culture in crisis.
So, Eric, I've got a horrible,
one final horrible hypothesis for you.
So you tell me what you think about this.
So you know that if you're marginal,
you're likely to occupy a lower rung socioeconomically
and your existence in some fundamental sense
is much more likely to be tenuous.
So if you occupy a lower rung in a hierarchy,
you're more likely to develop cardiovascular disease
and you're more likely to be unemployed
and you're more likely to be mentally ill
and you're more likely to have an alcohol and drug problem.
Of course, there's a bi-directional causal relationship.
So you can imagine a structure with something
at the center and then rungs circles,
concentric circles of marginalization radiating outward
from that center.
Okay, so now imagine this.
You couldn't think of the world as thesis and antithesis, right?
There are things and they're opposites, but that's not right.
There are things and a plurality of opposites.
Now imagine you try to make the marginalized central,
which is the big postmodern push.
Let's bring the margin to the center.
Well, that's fine, except the margin is a plurality.
So now you're hypothesizing
that you can make a plurality a unity, which you can't.
And that's why the LGBTQ, et cetera,
mob continues to expand its nomenclature
because there's no limit to the plurality.
There's literally no limit to the plurality.
Okay, so what does that imply?
Well, let's say you bring the marginal to the center, but now that doesn't center all the marginal because the marginal is an infinite plurality. And so what that means is that
when you bring the marginal to the center, you just get a new margin.
But that new margin is even more marginal. So let's say that's the addition of T to LGB.
Okay, now the question is, when you bring the even more
marginal to the center, who do you destroy?
Do you destroy the center or do you destroy
the previously marginal?
And the answer to that seems to me, given the vulnerability of the marginal,
is that when you bring the fringe of the fringe in,
you destroy the fringe, not the center.
And I don't see a way out of that,
because if the fringe are already compromised
because of the multiple forms of stress
and the even more fringe come in.
Like at some point, as you go out into the fringe,
you're past the fringe, you're into the bloody monstrous.
This is what happened to the Scottish prime minister
when she decided that all men who said they were women
were women and so then made political moves to allow,
you know, psychopathic rapists to claim that they were women and so then made political moves to allow, you know, psychopathic rapists to claim that they were women and to go into women's prisons. The naivety of these people or their
malevolence is really without bounds. It's like you have no idea what you're encouraging. And this is
one of the advantages or disadvantages of being a psychopathologist. Like I've seen and studied some of the worst forms
of human behavior and I have some real sense
of just exactly what'll happen
if you destroy all hierarchical structure.
You know, and you saw this after the Russian Revolution
and the French Revolution,
all the useful idiots lose their heads first.
So there's a warning to those who want to extend
the alphabet brigade
beyond any reasonable limit. It's like, will you wait till you get to the real
monsters boys and girls and you're damn close now. They'll come out under their
rocks and you wish you'd never been born. That's exactly right and I've spoken out
about pluralism on X as well. You're seeing that pluralism language in
developmental psych
mythology is somehow lauded. Pluralism is being described as the new wave of,
you know, you have pluralism as methodology, but you have pluralism and
integrating lived experience into our understanding of mental illness. And what ends up happening,
and I've said this in these exact words, is unmitigated pluralism is ideographic insanity. It's just you have
a thousand, my thousand, my truths and there's no truth. It just it spirals
completely out of control and that's exactly the language that is being used
in developmental psychopathology right now. Pluralism. That's lauded but that's
going to lead to completely,
at the end of the day,
that's gonna lead to no psychopathology at all.
Everybody's gonna be living their own psychopathology,
their own idiosyncrasy,
and you won't be allowed to categorize them
as somehow disordered or somehow non-normative.
And so Christopher Lash,
one of our great cultural commentators of all time, he basically pointed this out.
It's a pluralist utopia and it never works.
And so you reach a threshold where you have so many plurals and it's just insanity.
I mean we see this now even on social media. The plurals movement is this sort of the idea that you have all these plurals that assume
multiple identities online,
and it's just complete nonsense, but it's being given a patina of credibility by this lunacy in
the academy where I don't know if they're doing it intentionally, and some pluralism might be good
if you're like a methodologist and you want to have different methodologies to sort of test
something out, but that's not what they mean. It's much more of an ideological political project.
All right, sir, look,
I think we should probably close with that.
So I'd like to keep in touch.
I'm obviously following you assiduously on Twitter,
because as I said, you're one of the few voices
in the psychological community that's willing to,
Jesus, to point out the obvious.
I'm so appalled by my colleagues.
I'm so ashamed, especially of the psychopathologists,
because they should know better.
And the developmental psychologists too,
they know perfectly well that what's being foisted on
is in terms of gender affirming care
and the rewriting of the rules around
the classification of psychopathology.
They know perfectly well.
And the whole notion that we should do anything
other than wait in the case of kids with gender dysphoria
who are primarily depressed and anxious
and victims of their pathological parenting.
We all know that.
All psychologists with their salt know that,
bloody bunch of silent cowards.
And so, you know, so you're working at a deli,
at least you've got your tongue and that's attached.
That's the thing that's attached directly to your soul.
So, you know, good on you as far as I'm concerned.
And I hope that you keep scrapping away.
My suspicions are that things will turn around for you
quite dramatically when they do turn around.
And at least in 20 years,
you're not gonna have to be sitting there thinking,
geez, you remember when all those young girls
were getting their breasts cut off and I was fully for it,
or too damn cowardly to say anything about it?
It's like, at least you had enough of a spine and a spirit
to put your money where your mouth is.
And so, you know, that's very rare in today's world.
And so I salute you for it.
Seriously, good work.
Certainly you're one of the ones
that has really compelled everybody to speak out more.
And I certainly have been influenced
by a lot of your speaking out.
But yeah, I mean, that's what allows me to sleep at night.
I don't, I'm not gonna sit back and watch this unfold and not be able to speak out about it.
And I'll have to deal with whatever challenges.
And I don't mean to imply that I have extensive challenges.
Certainly, there's people that have many more.
But it is hard not to be part of the research, not to be part of the milieu.
But I don't see any other way.
I don't see any other way except to continue to speak out
and build your platform and hope for things to turn around.
All right, sir.
So for everybody watching and listening,
I'm gonna continue my conversation with Dr. Haldigan
on the daily wire side of things.
I'm not exactly sure what we'll delve into there.
Probably I'd like to find out a little bit more
about the students that he still has
and how he's managing to continue his,
developing his social media network
and what he thinks about the return of amateur scientists.
You know, when the scientific endeavor emerged mostly
or much of it in Great Britain,
a lot of the founders of the disciplines we have now
were amateur scientists who actually did scientific work on their own.
And, you know, for a while,
the universities were capable of protecting the eccentrics
who had that kind of drive for knowledge.
And that was their damn job.
That was the job of the secretaries and the administrators
instead of hoisting their idiot opinions
on the faculty members who are trying to pursue truth.
And so maybe we'll see a return to something like that.
You know what?
Independent science.
That means we'll have to do something
about the way science is published,
but that doesn't seem like an insurmountable obstacle to me.
So anyways, we'll talk about that more
on the daily wire side of things.
Thank you very much, Dr. Hultgenen,
to everybody watching, listening, the film crew here in, up in the wilds of things. Thank you very much, Dr. Hultgenand, to everybody watching, listening, the film crew here
in, up in the wilds of Ontario.
Appreciate your work today too.
Thank you, sir.
Thank you.
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