The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast - Myth & Reality: General Stanley McChrystal

Episode Date: March 31, 2019

I had the opportunity to speak recently with General Stanley McChrystal, retired four-star general, former Commander of the International Security Assistance Force and Commander, US Forces, Afghanista...n. Since 2010, he has taught courses in international relations at Yale University as a Senior Fellow of the University's Jackson Institute for Global Affairs. General McChrystal is also the the bestselling author of Leaders: Myth and Reality

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the second episode of Season 2 of the Jordan Me Peterson Podcast. My name is Michaela Peterson and I've been working with my dad for the last year. We've decided to do this podcast as a joint project because we thought it might be something fun and meaningful to do together. For this episode, we're presenting Dad's discussion with General Stanley McChrystal on leadership. They talked in some detail about McChrystal's new book, Leaders, Myths and Reality.
Starting point is 00:00:29 Why did you want to talk to General McChrystal? Well, there were a variety of reasons. I mean, first of all, he's an impressive person. He's done a lot of things in his life. You don't get to be a four-star general without putting a tremendous amount of time and energy and skill into it. And so it's always interesting to talk to people whose skill domain, knowledge domain is way outside mine. And then I was also interested in his take on leadership, because leadership is something I'm interested in as a psychologist,
Starting point is 00:00:57 and the leadership literature is an absolute mess. We don't really know how to define it. There's all sorts of different kinds of leadership. We know that intelligence has something to do with it, and conscientiousness often because leaders need to be reliable, but there's all sorts of other personality traits that seem to be associated with leadership that are relevant in different situations. So it doesn't look like there is any such thing necessarily as generic leadership. Extraversion? No, not necessarily. I mean, because you can have a visionary leader who's very high in openness, who's not particularly extroverted. You know, and then it would depend on who they had
Starting point is 00:01:30 around them, you know, to help them communicate their message. We need some extroverts around. Well, the extroverts are good to communicate. Yeah. But there's lots of different styles and types of leadership. And so I was interested to find out what he had to say about that and also about his personal experience, molding young men in the military and his idea is about what might be done to help young people mature today. And so we discussed all of that. That was all very interesting. When we come back, dad's conversation with General StanleyChrystal. Dad is going to be debating Slava Gisek April 19th at 730 PM EST in Toronto. Take it sold out at the Sony Center incredibly fast, so we're offering a live stream for the first time.
Starting point is 00:02:17 Hopefully it'll go well. We figured people who weren't in Toronto would want a chance to see the debate, plus a lot of Gisek fans are European, obviously. The debate's called happiness, Marxism versus capitalism and should be extremely interesting. Tickets will be sold at JordanB Peterson.com starting April 1st. Sign up on his blog for his mailing list at JordanB Peterson.com and you'll be notified when tickets are available. Hi everyone, I'm pleased today, very pleased to have the opportunity, the privilege to speak with General Stanley McChrystal. General McChrystal retired in July 2010 as a Forest
Starting point is 00:02:57 Star General. After over 34 years of service in the U.S. Army, his final assignment was as the commander of NATO's International Security Assistance Force and all U.S. Army. His final assignment was as the commander of NATO's International Security Assistance Force and all U.S. forces in Afghanistan. He had previously served as the director of the Joint Staff and almost five years in command of the Joint Special Operations Command. Since 2010, he has taught courses in international relations at Yale University as a senior fellow of the University's Jackson Institute for Global Affairs. He's the best-selling author of his most recent book, Leaders, Myth and Reality. And today, we're going to talk about, while the book and about leadership in general,
Starting point is 00:03:37 we're going to talk about the development of young people and what's necessary to help young people make the difficult transition from, let's say, unstructured adolescence into responsible maturity. We're going to talk about the geopolitical landscape that faces the U.S. and the West over the next 10 years, something approximating that. And we're also going to talk about General Macrystal's future plans and ambitions. And so welcome to the YouTube channel and the podcast. It's a, as I said, it's a real privilege to be able to talk to you. It's my honor, thank you. So let's start by talking about your newest book, Leaders, Myth and Reality. And that's published by Sentinel, an imprint of Penguin Random House. When did it come out? It came out in late October 2018.
Starting point is 00:04:27 And how's it been received? It's been received very well. It's a pretty deep book. So people have sort of got to put their arms around it before they understand it, but it's been very successful. Now you profiled a number of leaders in that book, I believe 13, is that correct? That's correct. We used a model that Plutarch had used for parallel lives where he did the Greeks and Romans. We didn't do 48 like he did. We picked 13 people, a pretty diverse group.
Starting point is 00:04:56 We had Margaret Thatcher, the UK Prime Minister, Martin Luther, the Protestant Reformation, Harriet Tubman. We tried to get a different group so that people thought about leadership not in a political or military or single sense. So, okay, let's start. I mean, I'm relatively familiar with the psychological research on leadership, which I think is generally
Starting point is 00:05:19 quite a mess. And I think the reason for that is that it isn't obvious that leadership is a homogenous category. There's many different ways of leading, but I would also say that there's probably some commonalities. Like it seems to me, for example, that one of the primary attributes of a leader who's worth his or her salt, let's say, is the ability to instill and also deserve trust among the people that they work with. But I'd be interested in what you've derived from all your experience, including the experience of writing this book.
Starting point is 00:05:54 What do you have to say about leadership? What have you learned? I think the biggest thing we learned is that for most of our lives, when I had been taught it by people, when I had the chance to practice it and try to learn it myself, is that we really didn't understand the essence of leadership. We had simplified it. And in the book, the way we outline that is we'd simplified it through these mythologies. We thought of leaders as a checklist of traits or behaviors that they do. And that's that there's a generically good leader model.
Starting point is 00:06:24 Or the idea that the leader is the person, the man or woman who comes and is responsible for success or failure of the organization. And finally, that we as followers or participants, you might say, that we demand our leaders to be effective and successful. And all three of those are absolute myths. What we found is leadership is intensely contextual. There's no such thing as a generically good leader. You pick a person up who's very successful in corporation agent from somewhere else.
Starting point is 00:06:52 Their chances of being successful are actually much lower than if someone inside the organization's promoted. We found that leaders are not the reason organizations succeed or fail in many cases. And we also, we as followers, we elect, select, follow, support leaders, who often cases, seriously fail or take us in the wrong place because leadership
Starting point is 00:07:15 is actually our conclusion. It's not a thing that the leader possesses that they direct on followers and solve problems. It's almost like an emergent property from the interaction between leaders followers and the always unique contextual factors of the moment. And so it's this very complex interaction that we try to simplify
Starting point is 00:07:38 because we try to get our minds around it. Well, it seemed to me, tell me what you think about this. Is the people that I've seen operate as effective leaders in different contexts. The first thing that characterizes them is that they tend to do a tremendous amount of work to try to understand the organization that they're in fact leading and from the bottom up. So they tend to know the organization inside out and backwards. And then they do a tremendous amount of listening and aggregating, you know, because if you go into an organization and you discuss the structure and the challenges of the organization with the
Starting point is 00:08:16 people who are actually in the trenches, especially near the bottom, I would say, they'll tell you how the organization works and then you can aggregate and synthesize and reflect back. And that seems to be associated with your idea of that reciprocal relationship between the leadership and the people who are hypothetically following. That's exactly right. We found out that leaders who think they have figured it out and then they get put on a new program and they try to run that play again, almost always end up with frustration. And it's really what you described, I would also use the word humility because you come
Starting point is 00:08:51 in and you don't think you have a solution. Instead, what you do is you listen, you show some empathy to understand why people do what they do. Because then you can divine the right kind of leadership for that situation because it's always different. You know, there's a research showing what makes a physician an effective diagnostician. And one of the markers is the number of words that the patient speaks compared to the number of words the physician speaks in the first 15 minutes of their interaction.
Starting point is 00:09:22 And the more words the patient speaks, the higher the diagnostic accuracy of the physician. And I really like that idea of humility. You have to walk into a complex situation knowing that you don't know anything, including what the problems are. And then if you have the possibility of listening, if you have the opportunity to listen, and people trust you, that which is a real crucial issue,
Starting point is 00:09:43 and something that's maybe central to leadership, that people will actually tell you what the problems are and what's actually going on, and that seems to be a prerequisite for solving them, right? You actually have to know what the problems are. I think that's exactly right. When I took over in Afghanistan in 2009, I'd been in Afghanistan a lot before, but now I was in charge, and the first thing I did was this listening tour And it was essential because you have to start with the assumption that they are rational actors that they do things a certain way for Reason when you see it from afar. You say they're corrupt or they're this or that when you get up close if you were in their shoes
Starting point is 00:10:22 The reality is you probably would do it very similar to the way they do. And so it's a certain amount of just showing respect to go and listen and understand, okay, why are we doing it this way? There may be a better way and you may be able to help. But if you walk in with a bag of solutions, I think they're almost always wrong. And as you say, it's hard to build trust. Yeah, well, the problem with walking in with a bag of solutions is that you have the steering
Starting point is 00:10:45 wheel, but it's not connected to any of the mechanism. That's exactly right. You can have, I tell young people I work with now, having the right answer in the room is no longer the secret. You can get the right answer often on the internet, but the reality is it's getting the people in the room to accept the right answer and implement it. Yeah, so okay, so that's the next thing that seems absolutely crucial is that so if you listen and gather information that enables you to lay out the problem set
Starting point is 00:11:16 and then to start to formulate possible solutions, then the next issue is to create what would you say formulate those solutions in a manner that encourages and motivates people to be on board with them instead of resisting them at the multiple levels of the organization. Because that's a big problem too. I've seen this many times in organizations where the leaders will command a particular direction. And then the implementation of that is resisted at every single hierarchical strata of the organization and What you get is the appearance of compliance with none of the reality
Starting point is 00:11:51 That's exactly right. I found it special operating forces you had big Experience personalities and I found it it would be better to say we have this problem How would you solve it? And if they were anywhere close to what I thought was a workable solution, I would accept their solution because it was theirs. They owned it. They would then implement it with a completely different level than if I had told them, here's exactly what I want you
Starting point is 00:12:16 to do, this, this, this. And the reality is often they had a much better sense of it than I did. Yeah, well, there's a psychological truism there too. Like if you're a clinician, one of the things that clinicians have learned over the last 100 years is that the probability that a client will follow your advice is quite low, but the probability that they will follow
Starting point is 00:12:38 their own advice if they formulated themselves is quite high. And so partly what you're doing is encouraging and enticing people into formulating a problem statement and then also determining how it is that they would go about implementing the solution. I think that's right. Now that sense of ownership, responsibility is so key. Yeah, okay, and that's another thing is that and that's a matter of, is that if someone comes up with a solution to a problem themselves, and then they implement it themselves, then they also have all of
Starting point is 00:13:11 the psychological and practical advantages of having done the problem formulation and the solution, right? Then they get to, you said ownership, they get to identify with the success and the failure of that particular enterprise, and that, what would you say? I hate to use the word empowers because I think that word is being badly corrupted, but it's not a bad choice of words to characterize that situation. That's right. I describe it to people sometimes. They said, if you go to your boss and you say, boss, we can do A or B, and the boss says,
Starting point is 00:13:43 do A, do it this way, you go out, and then if A does it work, you tend to your boss and you say, boss, we can do A or B and the boss says, do A, do it this way. You go out and then if A does it work, you tend to go home that night and tell your spouse, well, boss had a bad day, just made a bad call. Yeah, right. But if the boss looks at you and says, use your best judgment and then tell me what you did, you go out to your team and you say, we really got to get this right. Yeah, well, it also develops your team across time. The more you can delegate that responsibility down, I mean, one of the, I think, useful rules of thumb for managerial types is that when you go into an
Starting point is 00:14:10 organization, you should strive to make yourself redundant because you should be able to distribute everything that you're, and I don't mean to offload it or to, or to avoid the responsibility, but if you're running the organization properly, then you should be Putting people in place who can who can do everything that it is that you Hypothetically need to do that also means that if you if you disappear suddenly if you leave Then the organization can keep moving forward without you seamlessly That's exactly right someone once said the most effective leaders the group tends to say at the end We did it all ourselves right right right right right, well, the group tends to say at the end, we did it all ourselves. Right, right, right, right,
Starting point is 00:14:47 and then they can step away. So, okay, so let's walk through the book a little bit. You talked about all 13 people. Why did you pick them and what did you learn and what do you reveal about each of them? We don't have to go through all 13, but. Sure, but. We did six genres we of them. We don't have to go through all 13, but we did six genres. We called them.
Starting point is 00:15:06 One was zealots and we picked Maximilian Roebe's Pierre of the French Revolution and Abumus Abbas Akawi who I fought for my cat in Iraq. We picked geniuses, Albert Einstein, Linter Bernstein. We picked power brokers. We were going to use politicians, but we used boss Tweed and Margaret Thatcher. We used reformers, Martin Luther of the Protestant Reformation and Dr. Martin Luther King. And what we were trying to do was get diversity in sex, gender, nationality, and whatnot, so that we would get a wider thought process on this. We didn't want to follow sort of a tight, people expect a military person to write about military people. We have 13 because obviously six pairs doesn't equal 13 because General Robert E. Lee had
Starting point is 00:15:52 been my hero going up. I'd gone to Washington Lee High School, I grew up near his home, so he had been the example of the perfect leader in my youth. And then as I get older and after Charlottesville particularly in the spring of 2017, you know, I did a lot of thinking about it. And the reality is I came to the conclusion I had to write about Robert E Lee because he'd been so important to me, but I now had this conflicted relationship with him. In many ways, he was the near perfect exemplar of leadership, but in In many ways, he was the near perfect exemplar of leadership. But in a very fundamental way, the fact that he betrayed his country
Starting point is 00:16:29 and he did it for the cause of slavery, you can't overlook. And so I tried to take that one on because for me, it was a complex personal thing. And I came to the conclusion, I still admire so much about him. But I now don't think of him as a mythological hero. I think of him as a human being, just like you or I flawed. But if you can look at each of these leaders that way, get them off their pedestal, but yet don't automatically put them in a ditch and say they're value-less because Abu Musab was our carry who my force killed and I was happy we did, I'll be honest, I admired his leadership skills. So what about him?
Starting point is 00:17:12 What was it about him that you felt was compelling? Well, he came up in a tough background from an industrial town in Jordan, very little education. He went, became a jihadist in Afghanistan when that was popular. Then he got thrown in prison back in Jordan for five years. And during that period, what he did was he became really pious, really disciplined, really focused.
Starting point is 00:17:38 And he didn't have the advantages other people do, but he found if he was more committed than other people, if he was more fanatical about the cause, that people would follow him. And so his zealotry became sort of this white, hot burning flame that people were attracted to. But he was genuine. And so when he came into a rock and we fought against him
Starting point is 00:17:59 for two and a half years, here's a guy who was charismatic, he was completely focused on his cause, I disagree with this cause, but the reality is, maybe in his position I would have believed it as well, and who's to say I'm right and he's wrong. And his ability to motivate people and to live the values that he decided to adopt is pretty impressive. And the frightening part about it was many of the people who
Starting point is 00:18:25 followed him didn't share his level of fanaticism but because he was so overtly competent, confident because he was so overtly committed because he was willing to walk the walk, people followed him anyway and that's that really says a lot more about us as followers than it does about him as a leader. Well, it also indicates part of the non-verbal element of deciding who constitutes a competent leader. We definitely associate confidence and the ability to keep negative emotion under control with the ability to lead, because we're looking for people who have a direction, that's the first thing, because we need a direction. But then we're also looking for people who can
Starting point is 00:19:07 maintain control over anxiety in particular, because that indicates that they're stable in their orientation in the world. And that's attractive. If you don't have time to do a detailed analysis of their ethos, the nonverbal cues of confidence and direction are a decent pointer to someone who's competent, even though they're not infellable pointers. That's exactly right. In combat what you find as young leaders, young lieutenant, young sergeants, the first thing that happens when the first round fires is all the young soldiers look to you.
Starting point is 00:19:42 They look to see how you're going to because they wanna know how they should react. You know, young children do the same thing with their mothers. So if, for example, if a baby, the young child, three years older, so is in a room, let's say, with their mother and a mouse runs across the room and they've never seen the mouse. The first thing they'll do is they'll look at the mouse
Starting point is 00:19:59 because it tracks their tension and then they'll look at their mother and they read off her face what the mouse means. And if she's up on the chair screaming, then of course the child is going to be terrified. So they call that referencing. And so it's very interesting to see that replicated on the battlefield. So it's an instant search for a model for emulation. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:20:21 Okay, so what other people that you wrote about really struck you in a particular way that's interesting to talk about? Well, very interesting. Harriet Tubman was unlikely. She was a middle-aged African-American slave who escaped. And she's not educated, but she goes back in the decade before the Civil War, back into the slave control part of the South to bring out about 80 other slaves to freedom. She does it 13 times, anytime during which if she had been captured she would have been either executed or re-inslaived. And we have a tough time in our frame of reference understanding just what that would have meant. And she became this leader not because she was well educated or she was powerful. She never had a position, but she became a moral leader. And so as
Starting point is 00:21:10 as a consequence of that she was powerful for the abolition and then after the Civil War for pushing rights to include female rights. But she everything else about her wouldn't have fallen into the sort of standard leadership. If you'd had a leadership course and put her in there she wouldn't have fallen into the sort of standard leadership. If you had a leadership course and put her in there, she wouldn't have jumped out. The person that came out as the best leader, and people asked me this question, I admired Abu Musaib al-Sakawi, although I didn't admire his values, was Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. And it was funny because I grew up, my family's from the south, and my mother was very,
Starting point is 00:21:43 very liberal and focused on the civil rights movement. But the thing that's interesting about him is I'd grown up admiring Dr. King for his beliefs for his cause. But in reality, if you were trying to start a company now and you needed a CEO of the 13 people we profile, Dr. King is the guy. He was adaptable. he was humble, he constantly changed his tactics, he stayed focused on the overall goal, but one week he would compromise on the march across the Edmund Pettisbridge and Selma, the next week he
Starting point is 00:22:16 would get himself put in jail to push something. That flexibility, that ability to pull together this disparate group that was the civil rights movement actually is the most impressive leadership performance of any of the 13 people we profile. Okay, so what do you think gave him that ability? He was obviously, it seems, operating under a set of principles, let's say. But, and he could be inflexible in some situations, inflexible in the others. Is there a goal, a transcendent goal, for example, that you think that was driving him, that he had well articulated and formulated?
Starting point is 00:22:58 What kept him integrated and flexible at the same time? Yeah, that's a great question. I think it starts and we're gonna talk about this later was how he was developed. He grew up the son of a preacher. He had a good education. He got a PhD and at 26 years old, he is the pastor of a church in Montgomery, Alabama
Starting point is 00:23:15 when the bus boycott starts and he's put in charge. Sort of very young age, he starts with a good set of values from his family. A good solid education. The letter from a Birmingham jail written later is this extraordinary performance where he pulls from all the education he had. So he had a foundation that gave him confidence
Starting point is 00:23:36 in his beliefs. He knew that the direction they were going was ultimately right, and from his other studies, he believed could make progress, could succeed. And how did he how did he conceive of that direction? Like you said he had he had his PhD so he was educated. He was obviously pursuing a set of principles that were deeply associated with the civil rights movement and I suppose that's manifested to some degree in his speech his dream speech. And I think so.
Starting point is 00:24:06 Yeah, I think a couple of things. I think he starts with a child in the South, grew up in Atlanta. So he starts with that, but then is he interacts with other civil rights leaders who have been involved in the movement much longer than he has. They've got the scars to prove it. They've also got the political infighting
Starting point is 00:24:23 that sort of limits their ability. He steps in younger without that sort of tarnish on him. He can step above that. He takes a leadership role where he points at the far position on the on the ridge line. He says, that's where we must go. We must use nonviolence to do that. We must try to unify our cause. And so I think that combination of very solid mooring to values, and I think the education helped in that, a good family, but then also this idea that he would interact and listen to people. He was constantly adjusting based upon what other civil rights leaders were pushing and
Starting point is 00:25:01 pulling and on. So I think he had a tremendous amount of mental adaptability without ever giving away the objective. Okay, so one of the things that I thought through recently, I spent a fair bit of time studying the sermon on the mountain. It's sort of relevant to Luther King because of course of his Christian faith. So I think it's a relevant segue. The advice, maybe you could call it leadership advice, from the sermon on the mount, is to keep your eye on the prize, right? So the first injunction is to love God with all your heart and all your soul. And so that's
Starting point is 00:25:42 to lift your eyes up above the horizon and to focus on some transcendent goal, right? The some to maintain a relationship with what you regard as of the highest value or divine. And so that's the first thing is to set your sights properly. And then the next thing is to concentrate on the day, right, because the troubles of the day are sufficient. It's, and, but what that does is it gives you two, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, moment to moment transformation. And it's interesting that that particular sermon uses the day as the proper unit of measure, right? It's, it's, well, I know where I'm going, but I now I have to figure out how I'm going to implement that in the here and now and make whatever course corrections are necessary. You know, it's interesting. I teach a piece by Admiral James Stockdale and my course at Yale, and it is the world of
Starting point is 00:26:46 e-pictetus. What he does is he describes his time in the Hanoi Hilton, and he describes different prisoners and how they responded to the inhumane treatment of torture. The issue of a day is because they had to go through that experience literally one day at a time. They could go and they could be tortured, and they would be broken. When you are tortured, you will break, you will talk. And then what happens is you lose your self respect because you think that, okay, I'm not worthy
Starting point is 00:27:13 because I didn't do name rank and serial number. And but what he found was by being connected to strong values, the eye on the prize. And his prize was loyalty to his nation, loyalty to his faith, loyalty to himself. He kept his eye on that. And every day he would almost, you could call it recharge his movies. Return to that. That's right.
Starting point is 00:27:36 I've got to go back and keep an eye on it. And it won't always be easy. And I think Dr. King did that. I think that leaders who are leading or taking themselves through a very difficult journey, it I think that leaders who are leading or taking themselves through a very difficult journey, it's keeping that because there are disappointments, there were failures, there were frustrations along the way.
Starting point is 00:27:53 Okay, so that's interesting. So I hadn't thought about it quite that way before. So you're going to have trouble as you implement your plans and there's gonna be failures and disappointments and there's also gonna be like moral and personal failings on your part, right? And you talked about breaking under torture, which is of course exactly what you'd expect. And so your sense was that one of the
Starting point is 00:28:17 your senses that one of the advantages to being associated with these higher order principles is that you can draw on them as a source of strength. It's a well to which you can return, which is a good psychological trope. So maybe that's a good segue into the other, the next thing I wanted to talk to you about. We'll return to your book as well, but it seems to me that there's somewhat of a crisis of maturity, let's say, among young people today. And I'm not blaming them for this. I think it's a consequence of technological transformation and immense cultural confusion.
Starting point is 00:28:53 But I'd like to talk to you about what you've seen as necessary to help immature young people mature and become responsible citizens and what all that means, like why that's advantageous, why it's necessary and how it can be done and why we're not doing a particularly good job of it as far as I can tell. Yeah, I feel very strongly about this, so thanks for bringing it up. I think if we talk about advantages, if we look at your eye and we get to a certain point in life, we can get feelings superior. We say, well, we've been successful because we worked hard or whatever. We started on third base and thought we hit a triple.
Starting point is 00:29:36 And we did because I had two parents that I admired who loved me and they put structure. I was one of six kids. And there was structure, and I didn't like all of it at the time, but the reality is they didn't talk about values, they demonstrated values, they forced us to live within a certain left and right limit we would call it, and maybe at the time I wouldn't have just on my own come up with that, but they did that. The education I received also gave me a pretty solid set of foundation stones that I could stand on.
Starting point is 00:30:11 I think what has happened is we've weakened those. We've weakened the family in America. We've weakened some of the things we ask or demand young people to do or give them the opportunity to be a part of certain structured things that I think helped. You know, it was funny. I entered the army in the 1970s. I came out of West Point and the army was still struggling after post Vietnam. And some of the best senior sergeants, non-commissioned officers I've worked with, sergeants major,
Starting point is 00:30:40 had come from these really terrible backgrounds. I mean, single family or no parents and no opportunity, but they'd come into the army and the army had put in front of them a set of values, pretty admirable values. And they'd looked at that and they'd said, okay, I accept that. And they embraced them. And in some ways, they embraced them better than the officer corps, a climatic college, as he was a little more nuanced and thought through.
Starting point is 00:31:05 These guys and gals just literally said, okay, that's right, that's wrong. And when you were serving with them, it was amazing. Sometimes we'd be hand-ranging over what we should do. And one of these people would look at you and go, hey, there's a right and wrong here. What are we talking about? And they were always right.
Starting point is 00:31:23 And so when it comes back, I think we owe young people the experience. We learn, I think we learn through experience. We don't learn through civics class on government works. We don't, we learn through things we do. And so if we can give young people the opportunity to be part of a team where they've got to subordinate some of their uniqueness, they've got to subordinate some of their uniqueness. They've got a sometimes shut up in row because that's how society, all of us have got to spend part of our time doing that. They have to respect other people. They have to live by a set of values that gives everybody else their opportunities succeed as well. Then I think what you do is
Starting point is 00:32:04 you create an opportunity for them to learn. I call it citizenship, but learn the way to fit in that that gives them a much greater opportunity to be successful. Yeah, okay, so that's see that that that's real interesting to me because one of the things I learned when I was reading Friedrich Nietzsche in particular, he was a great critic of Christianity, but also a great admirer of the Catholic Church. And one of the things he said about Catholicism was that over the centuries of its unfolding, that it required all of its practitioners to adopt a particular disciplined ethos and to explain the world within the confines of a single coherent system and then also to
Starting point is 00:32:46 act that out. And so Nietzsche was very interested in the development of, let's call it, full individuality. But he also knew that the path way to individuality was through the riggers of a disciplinary structure. And I think this is something our society hasn't discussed well because it's it's useful for us as people who believe in individual sovereignty to concentrate on individual uniqueness, but it's it's naive of us to fail to understand that part of that unique individuality is developed as a consequence of subordination to some disciplinary structure. Right? Before you can become full-fledged, you have to become something and it might be something narrow, right? You have to pick a path of some sort and commit to it. Whatever that path is,
Starting point is 00:33:37 and I've been telling young people, especially in my lectures, that if they're lost, they need to commit to something, even if they don't know what that optimal something should be. And they have to lose themselves in it to some degree. And that seems to go against that individualist ethos, but it's actually a precursor to it. You know, you say that. It strikes a personal chord with me. I entered the army at age 17, and I still full my underwear and my drawers,
Starting point is 00:34:05 even though there's probably no great reason for that. But many of the things they taught me gave me a personal discipline that kept me remembering who I am. And when I left the service, there was a fair amount of, you know, notoriety about the Rolling Stone article and whatnot. It was a personal failure.
Starting point is 00:34:22 But what I had was I had a sense of who I was and I kept doing many of the things that I had done before because it reassured me that some of the good habits that I had, some of the good values I believed in. I don't suddenly throw those away because they helped define me. The thing that I'm involved with now is the service year alliance and that's a movement to give every young American a year of civilian national service experience paid. And so it's not limited to upper middle class families who can support their child with a gap year.
Starting point is 00:34:54 But it's to get people a year in health care, education, conservation, whatever they want to do as part of a team, hopefully working with people not from their zip code. And they've got to supportordinate themselves to a bigger cause. They may not love what they're doing But I would argue that a decade or two decades later. They'll go. Yeah, that was good for me That's that opportunity to be engaged in a disciplinary process. Yes, sir Mm-hmm, and you know, we tend to think of of disciplinary processes as only composed of limitations. And so, as antithetical to an optimal freedom, but it is much more appropriate to consider them as preconditions to the kind of self-mastery that enables you to have some freedom.
Starting point is 00:35:37 Okay, so that sounds like a variant of the Peace Corps idea to some degree. And so, where is that plan in terms of implementation? Yeah. The Peace Corps is part of it. It's a subset of it. An America or city year, all the different things you probably have to teach for America. They're all part of this. And the idea is the service year alliance, we are now pushing to get legislation to increase the the Serve America Act, which went in in 1997. So there are programs in the United States for about 200,000 young people a year now, not counting the military, but we have four million young people in
Starting point is 00:36:13 every cohort. So the reality is we've got to expand this so that every young person possible gets that opportunity to do a year, that experience before college or if they're not going in college before they go You know, we've had some good political support our strongest political supporter John McCain Unfortunately past last year. We are working the hill every it's a non-political Cause so we try and to work both sides and let people come together and consensus, but people have been distracted so we we still got a Lot of work, but you say it's at the point already where it's been implemented It is being implemented for about 200,000 young people a year. Yes Yes, yes, sir, and they they vote at three times the rate of people who don't have a year of service later in their lives
Starting point is 00:37:00 Oh, yeah, so that's okay. So how do young people go about applying for this now and finding out about it? The easiest way is to get on the Service Year Alliance website. Cisco Corporation paid for and created a great platform. So young people and their parents can go on. They can literally shop for the kind of experience it would be good for them. They can connect with people who are doing or have done that experience. Parents can get comfortable that their young person will be safe and whatnot and so we can match opportunities with desires. Okay, so so one of the things I should do is get get the URL for that so that I can put it in the video description so that people have a quick length. I would love to send that to you. Yeah, well if you can send me whatever URLs would be useful to put in the video description to allow people to further investigate the sorts of things that we're talking about. Absolutely.
Starting point is 00:37:50 So, you know, we've been working on this program, and maybe this is a discussion we could have offline, but I'll bring it up quickly. I have this program called Future Authoring that helps people, young people, but people of any age really develop a vision for the future and then to derive an implementable plan for that. And so the idea is for them, first of all, to decide what the values that they wish to serve are. And we talk to them about thinking about their family and about their community and about their employment choices and their education and their self-care mentally and physically and their productive use of time outside of work. And then ask people to contemplate what their life could be like three to five years down
Starting point is 00:38:32 the road in the future, so that they build themselves a vision of who they could be and what their life could be. Then we have them write the reverse, which is, well, what would your life be like if you let everything disintegrate around you because your bad habits took up the upper hand? And then we have them write out an implementable plan. We've got good data from three different educational institutes and fairly high numbers showing that just spending even as little as an hour on that increases the probability that kids will stay in university by 35%.
Starting point is 00:39:05 And so it'd be interesting to think about, it might be interesting to have a conversation about how that might be integrated with this youth development program because people need to take the time to articulate out something like a vision for their life. Exactly. They need to believe it's attainable. Yes. Exactly. And they need to believe it's attainable. Yes, or they might even just have to believe that even failing in the service of a noble goal constitutes a form of success that's much more desirable than merely doing nothing and staying nihilistic.
Starting point is 00:39:38 That's right. I had my course at Yale one year right there, obituary. Uh-huh. And and they're 20 to 30 years old. And I said, right, your obituary. And they're 20 to 30 years old, and I said, right, you're obituary, be honest, but also be ambitious. Right, and so how did they respond to that? They were pretty ambitious, but it was interesting because then we said, walk back, okay, here's what you wanted to have done.
Starting point is 00:39:59 Are you on the road to doing that? What's it gonna demand for me? Are you willing to make a trade-offs or whatever, depending upon what they were trying to do? And it was exactly. It was thoughtful. Yeah, well, that's the same sort of thing that we thought about this in some sense
Starting point is 00:40:11 as a modified business plan, right? Because there's also evidence, for example, that this is a really interesting line of research. There's evidence, and it's very relevant to leadership. So imagine that you had two cohorts of people within your organizational structure, and you wanted to increase their productivity and jobs satisfaction. And let's say you had three. One cohort you just left to their own devices. The second cohort you asked to formulate a vision for how they were going to be better employees and to write that down. And the third cohort, you said, no, formulate a vision and plan for how you would have a more a richer and more engaging in productive life.
Starting point is 00:40:54 So make a life plan. And then you set those cohorts head to head and look at productivity over a one year period. What you find is, and the studies now have, the cumulative studies are of more than 25,000 people. You get a 10% productivity increment in the group that you have develop a personal vision, and no improvement whatsoever in the group that only specifies corporate goals. You know, it makes so much sense, and the young people I work with today, they spend more time talking about the sort
Starting point is 00:41:25 of whole life idea. And so the idea that they can put all those pieces together and be intentional about it, that's the term I try to use. You're going to get where you try to go or you're going to get close to there, but if you don't try to get somewhere, it's going to be luck. Yeah, well, the probability that you're going to hit a target that you don't specify or aim at is extremely low.
Starting point is 00:41:47 And, you know, the funny thing too is it's not just a target. It's like sending an anti-missile missile upwards because the target moves. That's the thing. You think, well, what should I do with my life? And the answer is, well, I don't exactly know because it's so complicated and it changes. It's like, yeah, but that doesn't mean you can sit on your laurels. What it means is that you should aim at something and move forward and as you move forward, you can adjust your aim. And as you move forward, you learn what you need to adjust your aim.
Starting point is 00:42:14 So it doesn't really matter if your initial plan is 100% accurate. It's not going to be, but you need that vision. And so, yeah, I love that. That's one of the great things that we found in the book for we, we profile Coco Chanel. And she was at orphanage, a young age in rural France. And she comes up and she's opportunistic. But she's always looking forward. She's looking for opportunity.
Starting point is 00:42:36 She's acting on that. There was no, there was no set path for her life. There was no predictability that she would be successful. But she was constantly adapting to what happened and being pretty aggressively opportunistic. Yeah, well, so that's that interesting paradox of both having a vision and being able to move and being able to dance on your feet when necessary. You need to be allied with the proper higher order principles, which is, you know, that's
Starting point is 00:43:01 what the civics classes and humanities in the universities were supposed to help instill in people was that ability to develop an affinity with large-scale principles. And not the same thing with religious education for that matter, which is, which is, I suppose, one of the things that was motivating for Luther King, because he was educated but also had his feet well planted on a firm religious foundation. So when without that it's very difficult for people to have the moral fortitude to move forward. We also found that reinforcements are very important.
Starting point is 00:43:40 Certain things like the Catholic Church or like the military where every day you do certain things. In the Montgomery bus boycott of 1955 to 1956, you had 382 days when the African-American population of Montgomery, Alabama, is trying to force integration of public transportation and to do that, they boycott the buses, which meant that every day African Americans had to walk to work or carpool. So every day they had to take an act that reaffirmed their commitment to the boycott. And it wasn't just once a month, oh yeah, I still support it. You had to do it every day. And what they found is psychologically that strengthened their commitment to it. Yeah, right. Well, that's a continual process of evident sacrifices, right?
Starting point is 00:44:24 You need to make sacrifices in order to move ahead. Well, that's a continual process of evident sacrifices. You need to make sacrifices in order to move ahead. And that does, in fact, foster your commitment. Because if something's worth doing, it means it's worth giving up other things for. Which is really, it's almost like the definition of worth doing, right? Because you can't do everything at the same time. And so that's part of the development of the sacrificial motif that emerges so early in human interactions with divinity or with higher order purpose. You have to make the
Starting point is 00:44:54 right sacrifices. And if the end is worth attaining, if the end is worth pursuing, then the sacrifices are worth making. And there's a nobility that goes along with making that sacrifice to and a discipline. Now, now, you've seen young people inducted into the Armed Forces over a very long period of time. And what characterological transformations for better or worse do you see as attendant upon that process? And what, and of that, what's necessary? Because having kids do this year of services, it's kind of got that, it's got a bit of a military feel to it, right? You pull them out of their families,
Starting point is 00:45:33 you put them in a foreign situation, or in a strange situation for them. There's a disciplinary routine that's associated with it. What have you observed as the consequence of that personally and among the people that you've observed? Sure. Let me start at a point down and I'll back it to it. When a soldier's wounded on the battlefield and they were evacuated to a first aid station and then up to the chain,
Starting point is 00:46:00 as soon as they're able, the first thing they ask about is their comrades. How are their comrades doing? And they desperately want to ask about is their comrades. How are their comrades doing? And they desperately want to be back with their comrades, even though they wounded because what's happened is they formed this family atmosphere, this commitment, this sense of I'm a member of this team and that membership is very, very important to them. And as they get further away, in one of the reasons why wounded veterans have a tough time is they come back and although we're nice to them in the US, we've broken the umbilical cord with their family.
Starting point is 00:46:31 And unless they've got a strong family based back in the US, which takes them, and even then it can be challenging. And so what the military does is when you first come in, they call it soldierization, they cut your hair, they change your clothes, they make you go by a rank in a name, they change a lot of over behaviors because they know that you force behavior or change and attitudinal change comes after that. You start to believe cognitive dissonance kicks in.
Starting point is 00:46:57 And so you start to think of yourself as a soldier. And as you start to think of yourself as a soldier or a marine or whatever, you start to adopt those values. You start to say, well, soldiers don't do this, or soldiers do do this. I don't put my hands in my pockets. I don't, you know, whatever it is. And you start to identify with those behaviors and values, and they become very, very important to you.
Starting point is 00:47:20 And so what the military is able to do is pull you into that. Now they've got to show a purpose to it. I mean, at the very beginning, you know, people go, well why do I have to have my hair cut? The military's got to show a purpose to it, but as they do and the purposes of discipline and cleanliness and all the different kinds of things become evident, then people begin to believe in them
Starting point is 00:47:42 and they begin to self-identify with those values. One of the hardest things for someone to leave in the military is to stop self-identifying as a soldier. You know, you say, well, who are you? I'm a soldier. And that's comforting. It's reaffirming.
Starting point is 00:48:01 And so, and it's not just what people think of you, it's how you think of yourself. And so, yeah, so you have it, well, you have an identity that's personal, and then you share that with people that you've gone through difficult and demanding experiences with. And so, it broadens, it develops you as an individual, but broadens out your commitment past you to those who are immediately around you, and then at a more abstract those who are immediately around you and then at a more abstract level to the military structure and then the political structure itself. So it means your in-sconced, your identity is in-sconced in multiple levels at the same time.
Starting point is 00:48:36 And that's very reassuring and also very purposeful. I mean, people absolutely need this, you know. I've been thinking that part of the problem that we have with regards to purposeless right now is it's partly a consequence of over emphasis on the individual and partly a consequence I would say of lack of discipline because the optimized individual is working in a way that's useful for him or her, but also for their family and for the community all simultaneously. And so you can build in the idea of social obligation and citizenship into the idea of optimal individuality. And I don't think that we've articulated that
Starting point is 00:49:17 particularly well with our concentration on atomized individuality. I think we've actually made it much much worse than it should be because we focus on the rights of the citizen for example but we don't really talk about the responsibilities. Yes, yes that's exactly it. You know I'll tell you something that's really interesting. So I've gone and talked it to about 115 cities over the last year to about 250,000 people and every time every single time I talk about the relationship between responsibility and meaning, as opposed to the relationship between rights and meaning,
Starting point is 00:49:53 because we've had lots of conversation about rights. Every time I talk about the relationship between responsibility and meaning, the audience is fall dead silent. Because that's something that we haven't articulated well over the last 50 years. And I think young people in particular are really dying on the vine because of it. Because most of the meaning that you're going to get into your life is a consequence of
Starting point is 00:50:15 taking on responsibility. You take a great sense of self-worth. When someone says thank you for serving, thank you for doing something selfless, whatever it is for society, there's this tremendous sense of reinforcement for the person. So, we don't do it just for the good for society, we do it because it makes us feel better. And young people who never get that opportunity, they never get thankful what they do because they've never been asked to do anything. Well, I think it's very difficult to see yourself as useful to yourself if you don't see yourself
Starting point is 00:50:47 as first as useful to other people because that's the validation of that sense of utility and worth. Yeah, and that's when we start getting into metrics like money or other things, which are sort of false metrics of success. Okay, so let's ask another question here. So, all right, so you're working hard on this.
Starting point is 00:51:06 What did you call it again? This is- I'm sorry, it's a service year alliance. Service year alliance, okay. And hopefully that's going to be a bipartisan push. And it's something that's a kin in some sense to a short apprenticeship. And you're hoping to expand that
Starting point is 00:51:22 so that that's available to young people in general. To every young person in America, we'd like to have that realistic opportunity to do a year of paid service. What do you see as the challenges associated with expanding that? And because a year isn't very long either, right? It's something that has to be set up really quickly for people and they have to be pushed into it and or put into it and yeah and get off the ground very rapidly. So what are the challenges that stand in your way with regards to developing and expanding this
Starting point is 00:51:53 program? The programs that have been good so far, Peace Corps, City Year, America, Teach for America, I have all learned through experience, they've got to have a training program at the beginning, they've got to have a training program at the beginning They've got to have a very structured system to make sure that the quality of what people do is a value because if you put people out there and it's waste of time Right So they've learned that you can't just throw something together and then call young people forward and do that even if you were to have funding So that's sort of step one. You've got to create the opportunities in a disciplined way. I think a common experience at the beginning of three or four weeks for every young person to go through some kind of thing where they before they go out to their specific service
Starting point is 00:52:34 would be very valuable. And I think they'd all talk about it later in life. Remember when we went to Kansas and we all went through this orientation training. They'd laugh about it. But that's logistics. That's right. That would be a challenge. The biggest thing that's surprising is the demand among young people for this program is huge. In fact, it's about 10 times greater than the number of opportunities we have. The hold-up is our generation, my generation. For some reason, we either won't fund it, we won't work on it because my generation to be honest that a good percentage of us didn't serve a smaller
Starting point is 00:53:12 percentage did. So at the dinner table they don't talk about when they served in the peace school, when they did this. I mean some families do, but it's not common. And the professional military is actually weakened a little bit because it tends to be a smaller group. So we don't have that tradition where my uncle, my aunt, my grandfather, grandmother, all did that. And so we've got to help bring it back. Well, so it's really interesting that you've got ten times the applicants because that's
Starting point is 00:53:39 that implies an applicant pool of about two million, which is already about half the population that you are hoping to serve. I don't think we will have a bit of problem with applicants, because I think that will even go up as at the lunch table if they start talking about where are you going to serve, or as employers say, where did you do your year of national service when you apply? And if you've got this dead silence, or if a young person is running for Congress, up on a stage and says I should be and someone says well, where did you serve? And if there's dead silence then other ambitious young people are going to go up. I got to think about that and that may be yeah, you know whatever it takes so okay So what's the evidence that programs like
Starting point is 00:54:22 Peace Corps for example or Teach for America evidence that programs like Peace Corps, for example, are Teach for America. What's the evidence that those programs are all actually having their desired impact? Because like one of the rules for social science investigators is if they're canny and intelligent is never assume that your stupid intervention is going to have the positive results that you assume right? Or that you are hoping for. You have to measure that. And so when you look at people who've gone through the Peace Corps or Teach for America or similar programs, what's the evidence that the programs are actually
Starting point is 00:54:52 producing the results that are hopeful? Yeah, it's a great question. And the first thing is, we do a lot of studies on this, but you have to understand what it is you're trying to get out of it. If you say Teach for America is to make education in America better right now, there's an argument that says, no, bringing people in for two years of teaching
Starting point is 00:55:11 isn't professional teachers, so they're not as good. I would disagree, but there's an argument. If you say conservation, building trails, or health care, we can hire people to do it, and it's cheaper. I would argue that's not what we're looking for. What we're looking for in this program is alumni. We're looking for people who come out of the Peace Corps or out of the Teach for America experience. Teach for America alumni tend to go into education at an extraordinary rate, as you know, getting
Starting point is 00:55:43 into Teach for America is harder than getting into Yale University. You know, in terms of, oh, it's a small program, it's very elite. And that's not a bad thing, but it means not many people are getting the opportunity to do it. And yet, that's not a cohort that would automatically be involved in education later in life, and yet they are. That experience seems to bring them to it. I mentioned earlier in our discussion that
Starting point is 00:56:07 people who have done a year of service vote at three times the rate of people who have not. They volunteer at higher rate. So it's the real measure and getting the right metric for this as hard as how do you measure better citizens? Yeah, well, that's you put your finger on something of absolutely crucial importance there, is that if you're going to do an outcome study, you have to make sure you get your metrics right. And that's a deadly difficult thing, because the question is, well, what is it that you're trying to produce? And, you know, what's implied in the way that you formulated your answers is that you're
Starting point is 00:56:38 trying to produce citizens. Exactly. Yeah. And, you know, it's so interesting because generally the way that we can screw people in our society now isn't as citizens, but as something approximating consumers. That's the most common adjective. You know, consumer confidence or what is the consumer thinking now or how is the consumer responding to the latest economic news and it's a terrible
Starting point is 00:57:00 replacement for the idea of citizen. Because citizen is the foundation of the state and someone who's bearing responsibility for the state rather than someone who's merely living off the benefits of the state. That's it. If you think the state is just a covenant between a bunch of people to be a state, to be a nation, whatever, and the responsibilities of mutual security or raising barns or volunteer fire departments, which used to be so critical, have weakened a bit as we professionalized a lot of things. And I think that if people feel that responsibility, I sometimes talk about marriage.
Starting point is 00:57:42 I'm not an expert in marriage. I've been married all of once for 42 years, but if you go back to the age of, out on the frontier, a man and a woman get married and they have a family, they need each other. You know, every relationship goes up and down, you know, you go through a parish when you're deeply in love and periods when you're irritated. But if there's a sinew that binds you, it's a combined responsibility for the children or the farm. You can't survive alone. I think that helps keep you focused during more difficult periods.
Starting point is 00:58:14 Well, that covenant idea is exactly right, I think, is that I was talking to a divinity professor at Cambridge University, and we were talking about, this is sort of relevant, I suppose, to the discussion of Martin Luther King too, we're talking about the Exodus narrative, which of course was used as a, as a, what would you call it? A metaphorical re-statement of the problem of the slaves in the United States. And so, the Exodus narrative is often read as escape from tyranny into freedom, something like that. But it's not, hey, it's escape from involuntary covenant, that's the tyranny, into something approximating a voluntary covenant, which is what's arranged with Yahweh in the desert. So there's no chaos and directionlessness, that's portrayed as the desert and the solution to that is to enter into a new covenant. And that covenant is something like a long-term promise.
Starting point is 00:59:11 And that's also what you see in marriage. And the advantage to that is that the disadvantage is that it constrains you. And so that's why people think about this as burdensome duty, but the advantage is that it gives you direction and and shelters you from excess uncertainty and doubt. And the commitment that goes along with marriage is is something that should be regarded as aspirational. It's right. Look, we know this is going to be difficult. And we know that this is limiting your possibilities, like limiting your possibilities of mate choice down to one person. But you commit yourself to it and in that commitment and that adoption of that covenantal arrangement, that's where you find the meaning that's associated with responsibility. We're not doing a good job of communicating those ideas.
Starting point is 01:00:02 No, because we tend to think too much of responsibility as only limiting it. Yes. As you put it, we had a, when I was in the Ranger Regiment, we had this Creed, Sixth Standard Creed, and one line says, I'll never leave a fallen Comrade to fall into the hands of the enemy. And every day we recited this Creed, and every Ranger is promising no matter what it costs them, I eat a go out in a bullet strep streak to pick up a fallen comrade, even the cost of their life, they're going to do it. And you think about the power of that.
Starting point is 01:00:33 I'm going to give up my life for someone without worrying about it, without thinking about it. I'm just going to do it. And then you turn it around and you say every day, 22 other Rangers are making a commitment to do that for me. And then you go, wow, the power of that. I got 2,200 people who have promised to do that for me. Now the value of that shared responsibility becomes pretty important. You know, when I've talked to conservatives, you know, about what they have to offer
Starting point is 01:01:03 to young people. And in my life, at least, it's the first time I've really seen a situation where conservatives have something to sell to young people that's sellable. And I really do think it is the issue. It is the idea of responsibility. And it's also that that's where young people, that's where young people, all people, discover their possibility and their capability is by taking on a heavy load, all people, discover their possibility and their capability is by taking on a heavy load,
Starting point is 01:01:28 the heavier the better, in so far as you could manage it, because that's what forces self-revelation. It's not, it's not naval gazing and it's not looking inside in a contemplative manner, although that sort of thing can be useful. It's trying to pick up something heavy and worthwhile and seeing how you can manage that and stagger forth under the load.
Starting point is 01:01:49 That's how you discover who you are. And that's worth discovering because there's a lot more to you than you think. Yeah, I used to have a technique that I just sort of stumbled upon when I was leading people. You'd be in a room and you'd look at somebody and they'd be a tough task and you'd say, Jordan, can you handle that? And then you don't even really wait for their response, you just say, I know you got it, I got it. Even if they don't think they got it, they go holy smoke.
Starting point is 01:02:16 The confidence you've shown in them and you didn't do 20 questions, can you do this or you sure you just go, I trust you, do it. It's amazing the effect it has on them. And'll yeah, that's that is some that's there's faith in that right I have faith that you can pull through to do this. It's like extending your hand in trust So you know if you're a young really young person you trust people because you're naive and then you get burned And you get betrayed and you get cynical and you think well, I shouldn't trust people But that's no good because then you can't trust people and you can't work with them.
Starting point is 01:02:47 And so then maybe you go beyond that cynicism and you start to extend trust as a, as a manifestation of courage. It's like, I'm going to interact with you. I'm going to give you an opportunity or responsibility. And I'm going to trust that the best in you is going to respond to that. And then that's an invitation for that part of the person to come forward. And it really works. And I do think that that's a key element of leadership is to take the risk of
Starting point is 01:03:14 manifesting that trust. Absolutely. It takes a little courage, but it is the most important thing, I think. Yeah, well, it seems that way because it calls forth, if there's some best to be called forth from a person, that's the right way to do it. Yeah, there usually is. There are a few people who test that hypothesis, but for the most part, there is. Yeah, that's right. So that's right. In a bulk, in a vast majority of situations, there isn't a more effective, there isn't a more effective process.
Starting point is 01:03:45 Okay, so what needs to be done strategically in your estimation in order for people to get behind the youth service programs that you're attempting to foster? Yeah, I think we need some high profile people talking about it in just the way our conversation has been. The idea that citizenship in America is sacred. It defines the successor figure of any state, whether the citizens live up to it and the sense of responsibility to that. And it's going to take people with profile to do that because young people, again, they
Starting point is 01:04:19 look to people with more experience and how they should react to that. We also need to build in reinforcements for that. If people do seers of service, they should get preferential admission to universities or to jobs. They should be education benefits for that. That should be part of the process of recognized accreditation for competence and service. Yeah, and then recognition. We thank veterans for their service.
Starting point is 01:04:43 We ought to thank everyone who does some kind of service and do it pretty publicly. Do it in a way that, hey, board the airplane first. When you're waiting at the gate, those people who are doing national service, you get on first. You get some status along with your responsibility, which isn't the same as having privilege. That's right. Exactly. It's a deserved reward, and that's how you segregate it from unearned privilege.
Starting point is 01:05:08 You ever see how somebody responds who never gets that kind of status, never gets that kind of recognition? They beam. Right. Yeah, yeah, definitely. Well, that's a fundamental human motivation, and I do think it's also... The fundamental human motivation is to respond extraordinarily positively to the granting of status when it feels like you've earned it.
Starting point is 01:05:32 Though all those things have to be there, because otherwise it's false and makes you cynical. And that's why when President Obama, a few years ago, said, we'd like to make community college free for everybody, my wife and our watching TV and she finished the sentence, she says, as soon as you finish your year of service, because when you've done something, right, right, right, then you feel like you deserve it. Then it's yeah, otherwise you're likely to throw it away too, just because because you feel like you don't deserve it, right? It's a moral burden to gain a gift that you haven't deserved. That's right. Yeah. So okay, so look, we're running up on 10 o'clock.
Starting point is 01:06:07 And there was a couple more questions I wanted to ask you. So we should decide if we want to continue, how much longer do you want to keep talking to me? Or how much longer can you? We can. Could we do 10 more minutes? Okay, let's do that. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:06:19 I would like to ask you, for your opinions, about the fundamental, this is a terrible topic for 10 minutes, but when you look forward now five years into the future, what do you see as the fundamental challenges that are going to be facing the U.S. and the West? What's your take on the geopolitical situation, broadly speaking? Where should we be awake? Yeah, I think we should be awake to the rise of authoritarianism. And what we saw arise in the 1930s, and then we saw the Cold War, and we saw this belief that we were moving toward liberal democracy.
Starting point is 01:06:59 And there was a lot of data that says we were. Now we're not. And if you look around the world, elections in various places, because not all dictators sees power, many are elected to power, we're seeing a real move to that. And I think there are lots of reasons for it. As societies get under pressure, people sort of band tribally, sometimes it's nationalism, sometimes it's racial. Leaders populist grab that. And social media, which I thought, if you'd asked me this question 20 years ago, I said
Starting point is 01:07:32 that I'd have said that the information technology would improve democracy, it would allow fresh air and light to get on things. It actually hasn't done that. It has allowed people to utilize them, to create this rise about theratinism. And to me, that's very frightening because of the authoritarian countries have a tendency to take zigzins, eggs, and of course, historically, they go to war much more than other people. So I think the near term, the next decade and a half, maybe two decades, that's what we're going to have to worry about. And it's going to make the world more dangerous, militarily.
Starting point is 01:08:14 It's also going to pull at some of these things that we built for the global economy, because the global economy is so connected now. We can't unconnect it. And so that's going to create some strange dynamics. We're going to have this connected economies, but yet we're going to have the rise of these nations with people pulling in strange directions. We are going to have to figure out where we as a nation fit, where our values fit, what we are going to trump it in the world, what we are going to represent in the world. If we don't do that, I what we are going to trump it in the world, what we are going to represent in
Starting point is 01:08:45 the world. If we don't do that, I think we are going to run into real challenges. Yeah, well, you know, we can tangle this back into the discussion we already had, too, because it seems to me I've thought about authoritarian structures for a very long period of time, and it seems to me that the most effective defense against the rise of authoritarian structures is to make stronger and stronger individuals. And I think that's the great secret of the West, at least to some degree, is that our states have been powerful because they function well. But the reason that they're powerful is because we have done a good job of emphasizing the
Starting point is 01:09:19 autonomy and sovereignty and responsibility in rights of the individuals. And I think the more that we can do that, which is why it's so interesting to me to hear about youth development programs, for example, that you're championing, is the more responsible individuals we have in the world, not only in the West, that greater the possibility that we'll be able to resist authoritarian tendencies and also to resist them let's say socio politically and militarily as well because we'll be up for the challenge that'd be the hope anyways. Well as we know talk of Elrote
Starting point is 01:09:54 You know if you're not an educated popular selector at the democracy's not gonna work Right, which is why you need to make citizens and not consumers Exactly Okay, okay, so all right. So you're concerned about the rise of authoritarianism and then what about your ambitions? What's on your purview for the next, let's say, three to five years? What do you want to do and what do you see happening with yourself? Yeah, I'm 64 years old.
Starting point is 01:10:23 So what I do now is I have this this organization we created, my crystal group got about a hundred people now and we work with organizations to be better. I really like that. I like developing the young people in our organization. I like working with clients to make their organizations function better. That's sort of the personal level. On a broader level, I really want to get a national conversational leadership started. I don't see myself, you know, going into elected office or appointed office or anything like that. But I would like to foster a national
Starting point is 01:10:57 conversation where people talk about like what we've just talked about. And people don't scream at each other, but people ask difficult questions of each other. And what am I doing? Leaders' myth and reality was an attempt to start that. If we can foster that, then I think that that would be a contribution. I would take, I mean, part of this is selfish. I would take great pride from being part
Starting point is 01:11:22 of forcing that conversation. Okay. Okay. Yeah, well, if there's anything that I could do to facilitate that, I'd be more than happy to participate because it's exactly aligned with what I think I'm doing with my lecture series and my books and so on. I know you are. So, and I do think it's of absolutely crucial importance to work on that sense of, well, reinstallation of community meaning and a re-instantiation of fundamental values. It's very important and people are crying out for it in a mass manner. So, all right, all right. So, all right, well, so your book is leaders, myth and reality.
Starting point is 01:12:08 It's published by Sentinel. That's an offshoot of Penguin Random House, a subordinate company from Penguin Random House. You're going to send me the URL so that people can make contact with the organizations that you've described. Is there anything that you would like to ask the viewers or listeners to do that would support you when you're endeavor to move the youth citizenship programs forward?
Starting point is 01:12:36 Yeah. Apart from becoming aware of them. That's the first one. I think this is going to have to be demand. We are going to have to first help create opportunities for this, but second we're going to have to demand them. If teachers in schools aren't talking about this, if employers aren't asking people if they've done a year
Starting point is 01:12:54 of servicing, giving value to that, if universities aren't giving credit for the fact that you've done this, because this is pretty important. Life experience you would bring to a university. And then finding of our politicians, ask them why don't we have this, because our politicians will respond to what we ask for. Okay. You know, I, I think that's key.
Starting point is 01:13:15 Right, right. And so, well, so that's a marketing campaign, to some degree, marketing and communication campaign. So. That's great. All right. Well, look, it was a great pleasure and privilege speaking with you and I'd encourage people who are watching and listening to pick up your book leaders myth and reality and to start
Starting point is 01:13:35 What thinking about and participating in this conversation to start thinking about the sort of future that we want to craft collectively and individually so that we can do things properly over the next 10 years and keep things oriented in the manner that thoughtful and wise people might want them to be oriented. Thanks very much for agreeing to speak with me and I hope we get a chance to talk again in the future. I look forward to it. I really appreciate you having me on and I really enjoyed hearing your thoughts. Good to see you. Thank you sir. Bye bye. Take care. Consider picking up General
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